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Uh, hi, hi, what is your name? 19 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 2: Uh? My name is Vincenzo. 20 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:16,479 Speaker 1: Vincendo Vincenzo. Is that your real name? 21 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? 22 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: What is what? 23 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 4: What is that? 24 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: I've never heard that name. 25 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: It's like a play on Uh, it's like a play 26 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 2: on the name. 27 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: You know, this is your real name? You never heard 28 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: n No, it's my name. All right, I'm gonna call 29 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 1: you uh v v What is it you wanted to 30 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: talk about? 31 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 2: Sho? Okay? All right, well I have an actual I 32 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 2: feel like this is a lot easier now that I'm 33 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 2: like speaking to you. Okay, I have an actual thing 34 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 2: that uh I wanted to talk to you about. So 35 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 2: the job that I work at, I'm not allowed to 36 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 2: discuss things that go on with the patients normally, but 37 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 2: I think I am I don't know, am I I 38 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 2: can see? Yeah? Yeah right, that's kind of like the situation, right, Okay, 39 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 2: all you had. 40 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 1: To do was tell me. Now I'm like thinking about 41 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: it. If I'm being offensive by asking you if Vintendo is 42 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: a real name. You kind of gas sled me into that. 43 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:37,239 Speaker 1: But that's okay. The uh well, and you don't have 44 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: to again, you don't have to tell me anything you 45 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: don't want to tell me. 46 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 2: But no, I need I need to. 47 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 1: I need to tell you did what what's the job? 48 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 4: All right? 49 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: So essentially I exercise with old people. 50 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: You what adult people? 51 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 2: I exercise with old people? 52 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: Okay, m. 53 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 2: Okay, and sometimes the sessions can last like an hour 54 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: an hour and a half. And at this one particular 55 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 2: office I worked at, it's kind of like one patient 56 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 2: in at a time, so it's very much one on 57 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 2: one time. Now I spent like three sessions with this 58 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 2: one lady, and I've grown very fond of her. She's 59 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 2: ninety two. She has dementia, and she's like an absolute 60 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 2: like bad out of hell. Like she shows up to 61 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 2: the office and goes home with like ubers and keVs, 62 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 2: and she barely knows how to use her phone. It's nuts. 63 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 2: So one of like the last times I was working 64 00:03:53,640 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 2: with her last week, we get to talk and I'm 65 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 2: walking her out to her car and I made a 66 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 2: silly joke about Willy Wonka and she basically says, Oh, 67 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 2: I know Willy Wonka. That's Johnny Depp. Do you know 68 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 2: who Johnny Depp is. I was like, yeah, I do. 69 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 2: So she goes, I have something to show you, but 70 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 2: you can't tell anybody. So she goes ahead and she 71 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 2: shows me and it's like a conversation between her and 72 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 2: Johnny Depp, and like the face on the content on 73 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 2: the contact is like like a head like a headshot 74 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 2: of Johnny Depp, and it was it's like the texts 75 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 2: were like, good morning, beautiful, this is Johnny Depp. What 76 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 2: are you doing this fun Monday morning? It was just 77 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:54,239 Speaker 2: like the most ridiculous text between her and Johnny Depp. 78 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 2: And I was just like totally flabbergasted. And she's like, look, 79 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 2: he's go that he's going to send people. He's gonna 80 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,679 Speaker 2: send like a car to take me to a jet, 81 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 2: take me to Johnny Depp. And I was like, this 82 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 2: lady's literally going to get stolen, fucking whatever, this fake 83 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 2: Johnny Depp. He's going to like actually give her to 84 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 2: the upper lumpus, like for real. And so I was 85 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 2: trying to like be nice to her and say, you know, 86 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,919 Speaker 2: maybe it's not Johnny Depp after all, Maybe it's just 87 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 2: some somebody that you don't know on the internet. And 88 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 2: she was like, no, no, no, no, this is Johnny Depp. 89 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: I'm positive of it. She says, there is one thing 90 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 2: I'm concerned. 91 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: About, though. 92 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 2: I hear that he's beaten his woman before, and I 93 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:47,359 Speaker 2: just don't want him to do that to me, Like 94 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 2: what the fuck. So turns out she has some kids. 95 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 2: I told the people that I work with, and everybody 96 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 2: was kind of like, it's not our position do anything 97 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: about that. So I want to ask you what do 98 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 2: I do? 99 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 1: Okay, first of all, that that's a wild story. 100 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 2: It's true story. It is really it's been weighing on me. 101 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: It's been like it's been like fifteen days now maybe, 102 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 2: and I know what we think about it. And she 103 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 2: hasn't shown up last week or the week before. Oh Jesus, 104 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 2: And I've been calling you since like the day. 105 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 1: I didn't want to put Yeah, I'm fucking I'm fucking 106 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 1: with you. Oh my god, that's so wild. Wow. Okay, 107 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: here's the funny thing for I. For a second when 108 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: you said that, when she was talking about she knows 109 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 1: Johnny Depp, like I thought, I'm like, oh shit, you 110 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: met a woman who knows Johnny Depp. 111 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 2: That's what I thought for for a second too. And 112 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: then the contact picture on top of it was just 113 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 2: so ridiculous. It was so funny. Oh my top. Yeah, 114 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 2: this little lady, she got abducted. 115 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 3: I don't know what to do. 116 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: So do you Okay, so you think you said this, 117 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: You were like, you said that this violates HIPAA in 118 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:36,679 Speaker 1: some way, right. 119 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 2: Well, I know, I don't think so because you just 120 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 2: like can't use like specific like thinks. 121 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: You're allowed to that. I think you should tell somebody 122 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: because you. 123 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: I brought this up to like three four people. 124 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: Who who did you bring it up to? 125 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 2: Like perceptionist higher ups? And I was like, do I 126 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 2: take it upon myself to like go into her like 127 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 2: I don't know, we find people who are like owning 128 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 2: this or attached to this, Lady. 129 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: What did your higher up say when you told them 130 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 1: about this? 131 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 2: They were kind of like, Oh, that's crazy. Well, hopefully 132 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 2: that doesn't happen. 133 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: They probably deal with so much like crazy like old 134 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:50,680 Speaker 1: person dementia stuff that they're like, we can't we can't 135 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: save everyone, or they probably have a mentality like that 136 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: where they're just like like I'm sure they've all like 137 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 1: been in some situation like this before war where they're 138 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: all like, yeah, that just sounds like a crazy old 139 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 1: person thing, like yeah, whatever, you know, like it's not 140 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 1: a big deal to them. It's so wild. So the 141 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:18,439 Speaker 1: so the texts were saying, do you tell me? Tell 142 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,719 Speaker 1: me exactly? So what did these texts say? Did they do? 143 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 1: They say, like we're going to pick you up in 144 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:25,959 Speaker 1: a car and ship like. 145 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 2: That, So she was like really trying to show off 146 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 2: after a certain point, and she's like scrolling through the 147 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 2: whole thing. So when it stopped, she like reversed it, 148 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 2: so like she went all the way up to the 149 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 2: beginning of the messages, and genuinely, it didn't seem like 150 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,959 Speaker 2: they were talking for long. It seems like maybe they 151 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 2: had but two days three days worth of conversation in there, 152 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 2: and like some of like the earlier stuff was just 153 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 2: like good morning, beautiful, like what are you up to 154 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 2: right now, beautiful? It was just like really repetitive, like 155 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 2: cringey shit with like punctuation, so like periods and question 156 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 2: marks and stuff. And then like she would send back 157 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 2: like daisy emojis and whatnot. And then as she's like 158 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,959 Speaker 2: going back to like the more recent stuff, you can 159 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:25,959 Speaker 2: tell that there's like a longer texts on on Johnny 160 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 2: Depp's part, because I think he was really trying to 161 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 2: see all the deal here, and there was something about 162 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 2: like an offer to be flown somewhere, but I didn't 163 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 2: see a lot of like the context. I did see though, 164 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 2: that like one of the more recent things was talking 165 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 2: about a flight on his end. 166 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 1: Okay, here's another thing. Well, okay, the fact that you 167 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: said she stopped showing up is concerning. But I. 168 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 2: But this this woman, this was this one was thinking 169 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,199 Speaker 2: about this before even the thing. 170 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:08,479 Speaker 1: This woman is ninety two years old and has dimensioned 171 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 1: could I don't like, can she get in a how 172 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: does she can she go places without people? Can she 173 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: like physically mentally, like even get to the airport and 174 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:26,719 Speaker 1: go on a flight and follow because she's like all 175 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 1: the instructions that you need to do that, like the 176 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 1: the the action of going to the airport, going through 177 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: airport security, booking a flight, doing all that shit. It's 178 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 1: kind of a like she can you do all of 179 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: that without some without needing help from somebody who says, hey, 180 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: why are you going to uh Taiwan? And when she 181 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 1: says Johnny jet that like can she even get that far? 182 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 3: God, I don't know. 183 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 2: I don't know. But just like the fact that, I mean, 184 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 2: what do you even do with like a ninety two 185 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 2: year old? That's another thing I was thinking about. I'm 186 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 2: sure that there's a market for weird shit, buth And 187 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 2: like the thing is is like the two kids, Like 188 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 2: from what I've gathered, supposedly just kind of like we're 189 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 2: around and then we're less around, and then we'ren't around 190 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 2: at all. So even if they were like give us 191 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: one hundred grand or your mom gets it, they might 192 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: be like kids, Grandma's not showing up a Thanksgiving. 193 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, this was just like. 194 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 2: The most like that thing, And I can't stop thinking 195 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 2: about it. 196 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:51,719 Speaker 1: So you told the higher up. The reception is told 197 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: a bunch of people, and nobody said. 198 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: It was like it was. It was received in like 199 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 2: more of like a kind of like a silly funny 200 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 2: like did you hear about this? 201 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 1: The problem is that it is the problem is that 202 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:11,239 Speaker 1: it is like pretty funny. 203 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:12,599 Speaker 2: It is kind of hysterical. 204 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 1: It's pretty funny. But I'm I'm comforted by the idea 205 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 1: that I don't I don't think she this woman can 206 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: get into an airplane by herself. I don't think she 207 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: can do all those things that you need to do 208 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: to be able to get into an airplane that's especially 209 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,720 Speaker 1: like an airplane that like somebody. 210 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 2: Else is because then they. 211 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 1: Have to like get like if if she's getting flown out, 212 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:38,559 Speaker 1: then she has to like get find a way to 213 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: sign into a thing to get money from somebody and 214 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: then book a whatever. It's just too much stuff for 215 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 1: a then need two year old woman with dementia to 216 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: figure out without somebody stepping in. 217 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 2: God, I don't know. I mean, if they're driving to 218 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:58,079 Speaker 2: her house, can it just end right? 219 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: There was their plan. It was their plan for her 220 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 1: to drive, for somebody to drive to her house. 221 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 2: I can't. I cannot say like I saw like anything, 222 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 2: but I did see it. 223 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: Like do you do you think about calling the police? 224 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 2: Oh God, or like. 225 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 1: Like a human trafficking line or something like that. 226 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 2: Jesus Christ, I mean, did. 227 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 1: You say about any other like Johnny Depp? Guys, Johnny Depp? 228 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it's just like such a it's such 229 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 2: a name. It's like, I don't think that there's gonna 230 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 2: be like a repeat Johnny Steeler. 231 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I don't, I'm gonna do this. 232 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 1: Let's open the We're gonna open the chat for questions. Okay, 233 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm as out of loss about this as 234 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: you are. 235 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 2: But then that's the thing, right, Like I guess it 236 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 2: kind of supersedes. But then it's like also her personal trust, 237 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 2: like one of the first thing she said to me, 238 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 2: was like, now you can't. Now, you can't tell anybody 239 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 2: about this, and so like I thought about it for 240 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 2: like four minutes, and I was like, Nah, this is 241 00:15:08,480 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 2: fucked up. I gotta tell. 242 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: Someone, all right, I gotta say this. There's a there's 243 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 1: a user in the chat. Yeah, and their username is 244 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 1: creepy underscore guy And he said, is she hot? And 245 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: you don't have to answer that? Oh okay. Multiple people 246 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: are saying that, but that we don't we don't need that, 247 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: all right. A lot of people are saying this, a 248 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 1: lot of okay, a lot of people are saying this, 249 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: and this is, and this is, and this is and 250 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: by the way, by the way, I agree with this. 251 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: I agree with what a lot of people are saying 252 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: in the chat. 253 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 2: She looked like the old Rose from the Titanic. 254 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: What's the old Rose? 255 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 2: Like the older version of Rose? Okay, she looked like 256 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 2: the old old version of Rose. 257 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: People are saying that it's a money scam. There's no 258 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 1: human in physical danger. You asked what would they want 259 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 1: with a ninety two year old woman, and the answer 260 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 1: is most likely money, which, don't get me wrong, sucks. 261 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: But I don't think she's gonna I don't think. I 262 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: don't think she's gonna get on a plane. She'll make 263 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 1: it her bank account wiped. But I mean, what does 264 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 1: she need money for? She's ninety two years old. 265 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 2: God damn, I think I'll feel a lot better. 266 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: Wait, oh wait, wait back again. I have an idea. 267 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 2: Tell me. 268 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: You've some you go comb through. You're gonna have to 269 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 1: break a few rules for this. Here's what you do. 270 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 1: You comb through the records of the hospital. No, you 271 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 1: comb through the records of the fitness place. You find 272 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 1: her phone number, You text her, and you say, what's 273 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 1: her name? What's her name? 274 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 2: Rose? 275 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: You say, Hey, Rose, I know you don't recognize this number, 276 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 1: but this is Amber heard. Whatever you do, under no circumstances, 277 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 1: should you get on a plane to visit my ex 278 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 1: husband Johnny Depp? And that'll convince her. 279 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 2: Okay, that does break a funerals. 280 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: That's what you gotta do. 281 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 2: I love you. 282 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 1: I love you too. Man. Is there anything else you 283 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 1: want to say to the people of the computer before 284 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:32,159 Speaker 1: we go? 285 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 2: Yes, you all scare me. 286 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:36,640 Speaker 1: Have a good night? 287 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 5: Is better? 288 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 2: Brother? 289 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 1: How all? 290 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 4: From Artemis? 291 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:43,439 Speaker 1: Hello? 292 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 4: Am I actually on air? 293 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? Who is this? 294 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 6: This is Artemis? 295 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 1: Artemis. How old are you, Artemis? 296 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:54,639 Speaker 4: I'm twenty four. 297 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 6: I can't believe that was the story. 298 00:17:57,000 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 1: How's life, Artemis? 299 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 6: Life has been not too bad. I can't complain too much. 300 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: That's not true. Complain give me something everyone. Everyone who 301 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 1: says that is lying. There's always something to complain about. 302 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: That's my motto in life. I'm very unhappy. Give me something, 303 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 1: give me something to complain about. 304 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 6: I can complain about my ex boyfriend like people. 305 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 1: Okay, actually, you know what. I wanted to ask you 306 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:28,919 Speaker 1: this before we do any of that, because I was 307 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 1: mainly just trying to be funny. Is there anything in 308 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:36,439 Speaker 1: particular you wanted to call in to talk about? 309 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 4: Uh? Kind of the situation I'm in right now with him? 310 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:43,719 Speaker 1: I just needed Okay, all right, the ex boyfriend is 311 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 1: the Okay, all right, what's up? 312 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:51,120 Speaker 4: To give you some background? We met in our twenties 313 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 4: because we worked. 314 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 6: The same job. 315 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 4: And after it's say about a few months, we started 316 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 4: talking and then we started dating. Okay, so fast forward 317 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 4: about six months, two years, we move in together. 318 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 6: Things are going great, things are. 319 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 4: Going nice, and then he happens to go through my 320 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 4: phone and see these old text messages that we're saying, like, 321 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 4: because I was having second thoughts about being with him 322 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 4: for a second, but I talked it out and I 323 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:31,399 Speaker 4: told my friend. I was like, you know what I'm 324 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 4: going to say. But for some reason this really made 325 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 4: him mad. 326 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:37,159 Speaker 2: All right? 327 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: So these were old texts that he found between you 328 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 1: and your friend where you were talking about how you 329 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 1: weren't sure if you wanted to continue being with him. Yes, okay? 330 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 1: And why was he looking through your phone? 331 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:51,360 Speaker 4: I have no idea. I didn't know he was doing 332 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 4: it because I was driving, so I wasn't really looking 333 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 4: at him. 334 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 1: All right, MM, was there anything in that? I mean, 335 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 1: first of all, I don't he should. I don't think 336 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 1: he should have been looking through your phone. I don't 337 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 1: know how you feel about that or if that upset 338 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: you at all. 339 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,919 Speaker 4: It did, because I mean, I don't have anything to 340 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 4: hide the war. Are you like going through my individual 341 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 4: messages looking for things? 342 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? 343 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 1: I don't think I think that's the I don't. 344 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 4: I don't. 345 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:27,639 Speaker 1: I don't think that's very good. But was there I mean, 346 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 1: I guess aside from that, was there anything in particular, 347 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 1: that any quotes in particular that that he saw that 348 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 1: he was upset? By. 349 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 4: Honestly, all I really said was I kind of want to. 350 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 6: Or I asked should I break up with. 351 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 4: Him to pursue something with someone else? 352 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 6: And they were like, do you really like him? 353 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 4: And I was like, yes, I do like him a lot. 354 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 4: And so they said, well, don't ruin it, just stay 355 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 4: with him, and I was like, okay, so I don't. 356 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:05,440 Speaker 1: Do okay, but this is your ex boyfriend. So how 357 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 1: recently did this happen? 358 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 6: That was when we were first together? 359 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 4: All right? 360 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 1: So you guys, this has been all on and off, 361 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 1: on and off situation going on? 362 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 6: All right? 363 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,360 Speaker 1: And when how recently has how? For how long has 364 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: this recent off been off? 365 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,920 Speaker 4: The West broke up for the final time, like in 366 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 4: a ma. 367 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 1: Al right, it's been a while. It's been like three months? 368 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. 369 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:39,640 Speaker 1: Why are you guys? Are you guys in contact at all? 370 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:42,479 Speaker 4: No? 371 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 1: See, I have talked to him since May yea, all right, 372 00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 1: So what's the what are the contemplations in your head? 373 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 1: Is it like I'm debating if I'm going to talk 374 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 1: textas person? I'm what what what specifically in this is 375 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 1: giving you problems? Is it the moving on? Is it 376 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 1: the should I move on? 377 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 4: It's more like I I have moved on. I have 378 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 4: no feelings for him. Okay, but we are going to 379 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:18,400 Speaker 4: be attached to each other for at least eighteen years? 380 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:22,640 Speaker 1: Oh man? 381 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,439 Speaker 4: Yeah? 382 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: Is have have the eighteen years begun? 383 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 4: They begin in December? 384 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 1: Oh man? 385 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:37,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the bad part. 386 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. All right. Well was 387 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 1: it an accident? 388 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 4: It was not PLM, but it was not. 389 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 6: What's the word unexpected? 390 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 1: Does that mean we were having a bunch of raw 391 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: sex and we're like fuck it. If anything happens, it happens. 392 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 1: And then it happened. 393 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 3: Yeah? 394 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: Okay, all right? And how long? How December? So you've 395 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: been pregnant for how long? 396 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 6: I will actually be six months on Wednesday? 397 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 1: Wow? Okay? And like, look, by the way, you can 398 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 1: talk to me about as much or as little of 399 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:36,679 Speaker 1: this as you want to. But at the beginning of this, 400 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 1: where you were you like off the bat, like I'm 401 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna go through with this. I'm gonna keep. 402 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 4: It, yeah, because I've always thought that, I'm like, if 403 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 4: I do ever end up with a kid, I'm gonna 404 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 4: keep it because the thought of giving it away would 405 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 4: break my heart. 406 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, and uh, what about him? What's the conversation with him? 407 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:00,439 Speaker 1: Look like, is he want to be in in the 408 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 1: life of the of the kid or is he is 409 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 1: he what's his deal? 410 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 4: His deal is that he hates me apparently on the 411 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 4: devil and you know, we just don't talk. He told 412 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 4: me not to talk to him, so I was like, Okay, 413 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 4: don't hear people. Don't hear a word? 414 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 1: Brothers Okay, So he doesn't want to be in the 415 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 1: kid's life at all. 416 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:27,119 Speaker 4: He has actually threatened for full custody because I'm quote 417 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 4: unquote mentally insane. 418 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:34,199 Speaker 1: So he has threatened you for full custody. Has he 419 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 1: like reached out to you via a lawyer in the 420 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:42,960 Speaker 1: past three months? No, Okay, do you predict that he will? 421 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 1: Has he had has he shown any interest of like, like, 422 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,880 Speaker 1: is he gonna pop up in December and just be like, hey, 423 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 1: what's up? Like, what's what's his what's his deal? 424 00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:00,639 Speaker 6: Thankfully he lives two states away, so. 425 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 4: Very unlikely. 426 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:13,120 Speaker 1: Mm hm. Has he like and he hasn't reached out 427 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 1: to you at all to be like, hey, here's the 428 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 1: what's the plan with the baby? Like or showing any 429 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 1: sign that he's gonna do anything to try to be 430 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 1: in the in the in the life of the baby. 431 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 4: No, because myself and others that talk to have all 432 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 4: said that if he does try to go for custody, 433 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:39,400 Speaker 4: it will be just to make me upset, because outside 434 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 4: of that, I don't see why. 435 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 1: Yeah mmmm mmmm well look, I don't know how any 436 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: of that ship works. I'm not a lawyer. But all right, 437 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,200 Speaker 1: so I mean, look, aside from your relationship with him, 438 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 1: how are you feeling about having this kid? Do you feel? 439 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: Are you excited about it? Are you are you scared 440 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 1: about it? What's what's your feeling about that? 441 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 4: Definitely nervous sighted I've always wanted to be a mom. 442 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 4: I have no dream job, but I like raising a 443 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 4: tiny person to see what kind of person they've become. 444 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,920 Speaker 1: You've always wanted You've always wanted to be a mom, 445 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 1: So this has been a thing you've you've wanted for 446 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 1: a bit. 447 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, but with him specifically. 448 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 1: No, But it's happened, all right, So I guess that 449 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,399 Speaker 1: explains the whole Like we're going to do it, rob 450 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: and whatever happens happens, because you were like, all right, 451 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: if it happens, it would be something I wanted anyway, Well, 452 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:37,400 Speaker 1: it was. 453 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:44,399 Speaker 4: That and before like all that happened, we hadn't talked 454 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,199 Speaker 4: for a while, and then he randomly started talking to 455 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,640 Speaker 4: me again and he was like, yo, you know, come 456 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,880 Speaker 4: move down here, come be here with me. I can 457 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 4: take care of you. 458 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 6: La la la la la. So I believed him. 459 00:26:55,920 --> 00:27:00,159 Speaker 4: He's like, I've changed, I've turned a new belief. So 460 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 4: I thought, you know, want not give him a you know, 461 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,399 Speaker 4: and that leak was still the same at the end 462 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 4: of the day. 463 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: Well, oh man, so I said, you're gonna have a kid. 464 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,639 Speaker 4: Mm hmm. It's very eye opening. 465 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 1: That's cool. That's good that you that's good that you 466 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 1: wanted it, you know, because I mean it sounds like 467 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 1: it's not. It didn't just spring up on you like, oh, 468 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:32,880 Speaker 1: I'm trying this kid. This kid is going to ruin 469 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 1: my I'm trying to become a social media influencer doing 470 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 1: uh uh Roy Rogers muck bangs, and here's this child 471 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,719 Speaker 1: coming along to ruin my subscriber growth. This is what 472 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 1: you wanted to do. 473 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 6: Yes, this is what I wanted. 474 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I stay together, by the way, I just 475 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 1: want someone. I want just this is side note. If 476 00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 1: anyone does want to do the Roy Rogers muck Bank channel. 477 00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,560 Speaker 1: You can do that idea. I'm not going to do it. 478 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:02,080 Speaker 1: That's a a you open source idea for anyone listening 479 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:10,159 Speaker 1: to this to take and roll with. All Right, So 480 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: are you are you? You don't? You seem prepared. You 481 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: seem prepared. I'm not worried about you. You seem you 482 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 1: seem prepared. 483 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've kind of thought this through for a long time. 484 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:33,679 Speaker 1: Okay, so it's just the I get all right, so 485 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,919 Speaker 1: in this whole situation, in this whole situation, tell me, 486 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,640 Speaker 1: because there's a lot of moving parts, and you see 487 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 1: and look in the moving parts that I would if 488 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 1: I was in your situation be the most worried about. 489 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: You seem pretty levelheaded and calm and and maybe the 490 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 1: answer to this question is is nothing, but like what 491 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 1: parts of the situation of the situation are bothering you? 492 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 4: Not knowing if he will actually try for custody or. 493 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 6: Not, and just. 494 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 4: The way things ended in general. 495 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, do you have a job, yes, Okay, what 496 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 1: do you do? 497 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 3: I'm aista cool? 498 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 1: Okay. I was gonna say, you should talk to a 499 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 1: lawyer about this. You should talk you should you should 500 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 1: talk to a lawyer. They're they're gonna be the ones that, 501 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 1: uh have you thought? Have you done anything like that? 502 00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 1: If you have, you googled it? 503 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, googled it. 504 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 1: Okay, what did Google say? I'm the worst advice gecko 505 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 1: in the world telling people to google stuff. 506 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 4: I actually went to Reddit and someone read it told 507 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 4: me I need to look at my state laws. So 508 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 4: I did, and it says, because we are unwed, I 509 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 4: have full custody and a. 510 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 6: Few of his suggestions. 511 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 4: To do so that way, he has to go through 512 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 4: some steps in order to actually try to fight for 513 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 4: said custody. 514 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 1: What can I see you? What state? You're in? 515 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 4: Indiana? 516 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 1: Indiana? All right, So in Indiana, if you're not married, Uh, 517 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 1: you you just have full custody of a kid. Yes, man, 518 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 1: all right, that's pretty cool. I mean, I don't know, dude, 519 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 1: if I were like, I don't know how the law works, 520 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 1: but if I were a judge and it was like 521 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 1: and it was like, you hung, you were chilling with 522 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: this guy this baby for nine months and he didn't 523 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 1: make any anything of any stuff, any any anything of 524 00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:00,000 Speaker 1: any and you're just chilling with the baby. And then 525 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 1: when the baby pops out, how's he gonna just. 526 00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:12,480 Speaker 4: Show up, you know, yeah, because I'm not going out 527 00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 4: of my way to contact him because, like I said, 528 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 4: he told me to stop talking to him, So I 529 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 4: don't know what he wants me to do when the 530 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 4: kid is born, Like it's at that point it's somewhat 531 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 4: my responsibility to alert him that the baby is born, 532 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 4: tell me not to talk to you. 533 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I mean, he knows, he knows 534 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 1: your he he knows you're pregnant. Mm hmm, I mean 535 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 1: if he, dude, I don't know, I don't. I mean, 536 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,000 Speaker 1: you obviously you're obligated to tell him that you're pregnant, 537 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 1: but like sending him a reminder email when the baby 538 00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: is born, it's like he fucking knows, you know. I 539 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 1: don't know. 540 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 4: If my first few appointments. 541 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, dude, you gotta talk to a lawyer 542 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 1: about this. But I don't know if the if all right, 543 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 1: I'm not even I'm not even joking. I think if 544 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 1: Reddit says you're good, like I wouldn't take that as 545 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 1: gospel that you're good, but you're that means you're you're 546 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 1: that means you're like probably good. 547 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I'm really hoping so like, I'm gonna 548 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 4: definitely if I need a lawyer if he decides to 549 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 4: try anything, which I really don't think he will, but 550 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 4: there's always an off chance he might. 551 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 1: He's not a therapy Pico fan, is he? 552 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 4: Uh No? I that all right? 553 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 1: Cool because that it'll be a it's been an interesting 554 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 1: podcast for somebody to find out they have a son. 555 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know what the baby will be at. 556 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 1: What does that mean? You don't know what the baby 557 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 1: will be? 558 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm trying to keep a surprise for myself and 559 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 4: wait till like we have a little baby party. 560 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 1: Oh Like, if it's a boy or a girl? Mm hmm, 561 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 1: that's cool. Do you have a do which one? Do 562 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:28,239 Speaker 1: you hope it is? 563 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 4: I'm hoping for my own sanity a girl because I 564 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 4: just would know how to raise her better than a boy, 565 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 4: because I don't know when they get to a certain point, 566 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 4: how to like guide him through life with his man troubles. 567 00:33:51,800 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, life to ask but mm hm, that's so 568 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: that's my only advice to you. Well, yeah, I don't 569 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 1: think my mom ever walked in on me jerking off. 570 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:18,200 Speaker 1: Actually she might have once, but it was I was 571 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,239 Speaker 1: like I was I was just kind of I had 572 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 1: already like kind of ended and I was just kind 573 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: of sitting there, so it wasn't as bad. It's like 574 00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:30,480 Speaker 1: if it had happened while I was doing it. So 575 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 1: I and I say that story to say that boy 576 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 1: or girl, you'll be fine. You seem like you have 577 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 1: a level head, you seem like a smart person. I'm glad. 578 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 1: I'm glad that you're fulfilling a dream of yours. And 579 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 1: you know, also sounds like you got you got good 580 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:56,839 Speaker 1: family around you too, So I think you'll be good. 581 00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:58,799 Speaker 1: Do you think you'll be good? 582 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:02,319 Speaker 6: I think so. Yeah. 583 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 4: I feel like I'm like mentally and emotionally prepared for this. 584 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: That is more than most folks could say. I hope 585 00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:18,640 Speaker 1: you understand that what is your what is your name again? 586 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:21,160 Speaker 6: Artemis? 587 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 1: Artemis Artemiss? Is there any is there? Well? I guess 588 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:31,319 Speaker 1: is there anything else I can I can do for you? 589 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:34,880 Speaker 1: Or that you wanted to say or talk about or 590 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,200 Speaker 1: anything or anything at all before we go? 591 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:48,000 Speaker 4: I guess I could say that if someone promises you. 592 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,120 Speaker 6: That they will take care of you and love you. 593 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 4: And do all sorts of things for you, make sure 594 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:57,400 Speaker 4: their actions back it up. 595 00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 6: I know people hear us all the time. 596 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:01,800 Speaker 4: Actions speak louder than words. 597 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,279 Speaker 6: That's extremely true. And don't trust. 598 00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 4: People that use therapy words out a context or wrongly. 599 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:15,799 Speaker 1: I mean, Artemis, good luck to you and have a 600 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:16,279 Speaker 1: the rest of the. 601 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 4: Night you too, well, thank you. 602 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:28,720 Speaker 1: That's what I love about Amazon Prime. They promised today shipping, 603 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,120 Speaker 1: they deliver it. They didn't even pay me to say that. 604 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 1: That's just what I thought about from that context. Paul 605 00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 1: from Hello, Hi, Hi, what's your name? Eclipse? What's up? 606 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:48,920 Speaker 1: How's it going? 607 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:51,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? 608 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,240 Speaker 1: It is wow? 609 00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,240 Speaker 5: Oh my god, Oh my god. I had a feelure 610 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:58,319 Speaker 5: again in I'm like cleaning a house right now, and 611 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:00,600 Speaker 5: I don't know if I should fee the phone, but 612 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 5: but I got you on my shoulder, so I think 613 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:02,919 Speaker 5: it should be good. 614 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 1: Or is your cleaning a house like for somebody else? 615 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,359 Speaker 5: Yes, but they're not home right now. 616 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,719 Speaker 1: Okay, what is that your Is that your job? 617 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,799 Speaker 5: It's like a little side husholes thing try to make 618 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 5: more money because I don't like working a real job. 619 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 5: So like I spend a lot of energy trying not 620 00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 5: to work a real job by working doing lots of 621 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:27,239 Speaker 5: random things. 622 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:30,719 Speaker 1: I like that. I like that approach a lot. That's 623 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:34,160 Speaker 1: that's uh, that's a good approach, right, because you don't 624 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 1: want to have to get like a nine to five, Like, uh, 625 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 1: you know, you're committed for the rest of your life 626 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 1: to this amount of hours being in this place at 627 00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:47,879 Speaker 1: this what you're you know, taking taking gigs, that's all. 628 00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,919 Speaker 1: That's I like that way of the way of doing things. 629 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 4: Yeah. 630 00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 5: I actually just got a real job that only worked 631 00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:55,960 Speaker 5: out like two days a week. It's the first time 632 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 5: in my life. I'm like twenty six. I finally got 633 00:37:58,480 --> 00:37:59,280 Speaker 5: a job at a cafe. 634 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:00,720 Speaker 1: Cool. 635 00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:01,400 Speaker 4: Cool? 636 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 1: What uh? What? What? What kinds of odd jobs do 637 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,920 Speaker 1: you do? Just like cleaning and do your uber drive 638 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:10,759 Speaker 1: or anything like that. 639 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,759 Speaker 5: I yeah, cleaning, I do some like random art commissioned stuff. Okay, 640 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:20,399 Speaker 5: I am the person who gave you the like being 641 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,320 Speaker 5: John Alkovic kick picture. 642 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:27,120 Speaker 1: Oh I know exactly who you are. 643 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 6: Yeah from Vancouver. 644 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. 645 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:34,560 Speaker 5: That was an amazing show. 646 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 6: Everyone go to Aisle show if thanks man. 647 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 1: That was that was one of my favorite. That was 648 00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,320 Speaker 1: one of my favorite ones. Man, Vancouver. That was cool. 649 00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,120 Speaker 1: I felt like that was one of those where I 650 00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 1: got off the stage I was like, oh that actually 651 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:53,919 Speaker 1: that that went pretty well. That was fun. Hell yeah, Well, 652 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:57,720 Speaker 1: uh dude, is there anything in particular that you wanted 653 00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 1: to talk about? It's okay if not, we can keep 654 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 1: we can talking about how Vancouver show topics. 655 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, the Vancouver Vancouver show. 656 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,359 Speaker 1: What yeah, give it. You can whatever whatever you want. Man. 657 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:16,879 Speaker 4: So I don't know. 658 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,640 Speaker 5: I think I'm just confused in life in general, Like 659 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:22,160 Speaker 5: a lot of people are that call into the show. 660 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:27,280 Speaker 5: So she was like, like, for with you, for example, 661 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,720 Speaker 5: like you just choose something and then all of a sudden, 662 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:31,719 Speaker 5: the ball can get rolling, and then you're like, in 663 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,840 Speaker 5: it's super deep because I'm like afraid to fully commit 664 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:36,799 Speaker 5: to something you don't know where it's going to go. 665 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 1: Well are you if you are you talking about with me, 666 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,319 Speaker 1: Like I chose this gecko thing and now it's it's 667 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:43,280 Speaker 1: the ball is rolling. 668 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like you're just doing random stuff on Reddit and 669 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 5: then I just like took off and now this is 670 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 5: like your thing and everyone's like, don't ever stop while. 671 00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 1: Well, so, well, you know, this is actually is interesting 672 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,239 Speaker 1: that you bring this up because I've been thinking about 673 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:04,919 Speaker 1: this a lot. Is I didn't really chew. I didn't 674 00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:07,200 Speaker 1: really there was no thing in my mind of like 675 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 1: I'm going to become therapy Gecko and I'm going to 676 00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,440 Speaker 1: dedicate my life to it. It wasn't like that at I was, 677 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:18,600 Speaker 1: like you said, trying different things, and then this started working. 678 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 1: The reason I do this right now is because not 679 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:29,280 Speaker 1: the reason I just I like that. Okay. So the 680 00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:33,240 Speaker 1: first like video I posted of this like instantly got 681 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 1: like two million views, and I think the first the 682 00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 1: one of the first live streams ever did this went 683 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 1: to the front page of Reddit. And if that, if 684 00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:47,280 Speaker 1: it didn't, if something didn't happen immediately, that made me go, oh, okay, 685 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:50,200 Speaker 1: this isn't the most stupid idea in the world. I 686 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 1: wouldn't have done it. I don't think therapy Gecko was 687 00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 1: one of those ideas I would have tried. I would 688 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:58,040 Speaker 1: have just gone at for years and been like, one 689 00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,000 Speaker 1: day it's gonna catch on, you know. I would have 690 00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:04,680 Speaker 1: done I would have done I'm I like doing stuff. 691 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 1: I like tinkering around and and trying to do different things. 692 00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:14,160 Speaker 1: Uh so I would have done something. But it wasn't 693 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:15,839 Speaker 1: like a choice kind of like what you're I mean, 694 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:18,560 Speaker 1: kind of what we're talking about. Yeah, it's just doing meantapising. 695 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:22,760 Speaker 1: And now the gecko has become an umbrella upon which 696 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:26,440 Speaker 1: I can now fuck around and do different different things. 697 00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,440 Speaker 1: It's just I'm I do them as a gecko now. 698 00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:36,360 Speaker 1: So what are you trying to? What are you afraid 699 00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 1: of choosing? 700 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:42,160 Speaker 4: Well? 701 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 5: I guess gosh, I don't know. It just seems like 702 00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 5: people get sucked into doing jobs. So I love doing 703 00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:54,960 Speaker 5: these littler things so they have no responsibilities attached or timelines. 704 00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 1: What would you do? What would you do? I mean, 705 00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:03,560 Speaker 1: you're an artist. You gave me that that cool John 706 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:07,319 Speaker 1: Malkovich gecko piece? Or do you do you? Is that 707 00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:09,479 Speaker 1: something you want to do as a career of some kind? 708 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,680 Speaker 5: What's funny was doing? I don't know if you have 709 00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 5: done any like music or art stuff before. As soon 710 00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:19,440 Speaker 5: as you start to put too much importance on it, 711 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 5: it kind of sucks the fun out of it. So 712 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,480 Speaker 5: I've been trying to figure out, like if I just 713 00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:29,879 Speaker 5: need to figure out like exactly will be super fun 714 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,920 Speaker 5: for me for art, or if there's like a really 715 00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:36,960 Speaker 5: important purpose attached to it, because then that'll maybe give 716 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:37,359 Speaker 5: me some. 717 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:37,839 Speaker 6: Sort of drive. 718 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 5: I have very little drive to work or do stuff 719 00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:41,040 Speaker 5: at all. 720 00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel that I feel that, well, you work 721 00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:54,479 Speaker 1: just enough that you can, like not you how how 722 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,520 Speaker 1: how much time does it take for you to like 723 00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:58,640 Speaker 1: pay rent and eat food? 724 00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:00,839 Speaker 4: Not too much. 725 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,440 Speaker 5: I'm pretty lucky. I'm in like a really janky, weird 726 00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:08,239 Speaker 5: house where everything is broken, but it's really cool. 727 00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 1: Okay, I like them, but I like that idea. I 728 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,879 Speaker 1: like that idea. I like the idea of getting your 729 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:17,439 Speaker 1: expenses to however little they can be without. 730 00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,520 Speaker 6: You know, yeah, it's great. 731 00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:23,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then just working like a little bit of 732 00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:25,960 Speaker 1: like some random job like cleaning someone's house or doing 733 00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,640 Speaker 1: boob or something like that, just to like cover all 734 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 1: that stuff. And then you have just like and now 735 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:32,040 Speaker 1: you just have a bunch of free time. 736 00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:33,960 Speaker 2: M hmm. 737 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 1: It's great. 738 00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,080 Speaker 5: It's a great which is amazing. I feel like I 739 00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:38,480 Speaker 5: have a lot of freedom. 740 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:39,600 Speaker 1: That's fantastic. 741 00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,200 Speaker 5: I have a lot of time, But I also don't 742 00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:42,920 Speaker 5: have a lot of money, so I also don't have 743 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 5: a lot of Freedom's so weird, paired. 744 00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 1: Off, M Okay, what do you want to do? Well, 745 00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:50,080 Speaker 1: let's get into that. What do you want to do 746 00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,879 Speaker 1: with your freedom that you cannot afford to do. 747 00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:54,919 Speaker 4: Well? 748 00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,600 Speaker 5: Travel for one. Okay, So I do really appreciate the 749 00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,359 Speaker 5: place that I'm at like Fritish Columbia is so big 750 00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:03,800 Speaker 5: that can spend a lot of time traveling. 751 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 1: And what's your what's your dream destination if you could 752 00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,359 Speaker 1: go anywhere in the world, where would you go? 753 00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,719 Speaker 5: I don't know nothing. Maybe first time I want to 754 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:15,360 Speaker 5: go to Cuba. 755 00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:20,239 Speaker 1: Southeast Asia, Southeast Southeast Asia, all right, I mean how 756 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:21,880 Speaker 1: much does it cut? How much is how much is 757 00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:24,360 Speaker 1: a flight from Vancouver to Thailand? 758 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,960 Speaker 5: I truly have like around zero dollars all the time. 759 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,880 Speaker 5: But it's it's like it's weird. It's like a weird massickest, 760 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:34,200 Speaker 5: Like I like, it's like kind of fun trying to 761 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:38,680 Speaker 5: navigate life, like having very little money. 762 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 1: Right, No, I understand, Like, like I really want a poutine, 763 00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 1: but I couldn't afford poutine. 764 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 5: So I went to the community fridge when there happened 765 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,759 Speaker 5: to be a half open bag of frozen fries and 766 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:57,000 Speaker 5: the Boston Bravy and am W and I put some 767 00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:58,360 Speaker 5: of my own cheese on there, and I made my 768 00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,719 Speaker 5: own poutine. I felt just like so really good about that. 769 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,840 Speaker 1: You should you should because and the reason you should 770 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:08,720 Speaker 1: feel good about it is because you're you don't need, 771 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:14,879 Speaker 1: like you know, there's there's guys out there who have 772 00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:18,360 Speaker 1: like a million, they have like two whatever, ten million dollars. 773 00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:24,799 Speaker 1: If they had zero dollars, they'd be fucked. But there's 774 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:29,720 Speaker 1: nothing really you can't get like so fucked that you 775 00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:33,600 Speaker 1: can't figure something out. You know, there's like a truck. 776 00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:39,239 Speaker 1: There's a strong sense of like independence in there to 777 00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:39,880 Speaker 1: be proud of. 778 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 4: Is that? 779 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:44,279 Speaker 1: Is that what you feel like a sense of independence? 780 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:49,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, there's also like I know that like if I 781 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,040 Speaker 5: had like a hundred times more money, then I'm not 782 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:53,239 Speaker 5: going to be a hundred times happier. It could be 783 00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:58,959 Speaker 5: a very little incentive to try to gain more by working. Yeah, yeah, 784 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,040 Speaker 5: spending your days doing stuff you don't like doing. 785 00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,439 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, dude, ship if you can get over 786 00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 1: to Thailands, I don't know how long you're planning to 787 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:11,759 Speaker 1: stay there for, but uh, there's a there's I've I've 788 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:13,600 Speaker 1: talked about this all on here a lot, and I 789 00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:15,400 Speaker 1: think about it just in my personal life. Like you 790 00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:20,560 Speaker 1: can just find some remote gig or find some like 791 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,800 Speaker 1: work away gig in Thailand, and then you got to 792 00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:25,600 Speaker 1: find a way to you know, save up the flight 793 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,960 Speaker 1: to get there, which will probably cost you know whatever, 794 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 1: seven hundred dollars. 795 00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,719 Speaker 5: It's a lot more doable, and I think I just 796 00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:32,759 Speaker 5: got to get up with the hunts of. 797 00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:36,960 Speaker 1: Well that's the that's the thing is is have you 798 00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,239 Speaker 1: have you like priced it out at all? 799 00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 6: No? 800 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:45,200 Speaker 5: I really I really like, like I've been really enjoying 801 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,680 Speaker 5: just establishing myself in Vancouver also like just you know, 802 00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:51,880 Speaker 5: getting friends and like you to be a part of 803 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:53,600 Speaker 5: communities and stuff. 804 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,880 Speaker 1: Cool. Good. 805 00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:58,600 Speaker 5: So at the same time, it's like I don't want 806 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 5: to leave yet, but it's definitely in like I have 807 00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,000 Speaker 5: it in the back of my mind. It's like something 808 00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:02,560 Speaker 5: I gotta do. 809 00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,520 Speaker 1: Well, what else? What else is bothering you? 810 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:17,400 Speaker 5: H Oh, I don't know what is bothering me? I 811 00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 5: guess I just am continually bothered by like not being 812 00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:21,879 Speaker 5: in the present moment all the time. 813 00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,799 Speaker 1: You sound pretty in the present moment. You were you 814 00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:30,760 Speaker 1: were talking about how you wanna you wanna establish yourself 815 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,879 Speaker 1: with Vancouver and you're going to things and hanging out 816 00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:36,400 Speaker 1: with people and you're enjoying that. That sounds pretty present. 817 00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:39,600 Speaker 5: I'm on like the path of it. But you know how, 818 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:41,799 Speaker 5: there's like a feeling of like just being kind of 819 00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:45,000 Speaker 5: unsettled because you're like thinking about the future of past 820 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,480 Speaker 5: too much when like I don't know, like even just 821 00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,719 Speaker 5: like right now, there's like beautiful views right now, and 822 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,160 Speaker 5: I'm trying to be grateful just to be able to 823 00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:57,520 Speaker 5: see out this window. Yeah that I'm cleaning, it'd be great. 824 00:47:58,960 --> 00:47:59,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 825 00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, but yeah, all the time, I got stuck into 826 00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,760 Speaker 5: worrying about stuff, and I guess. 827 00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:05,360 Speaker 6: That bothers me. 828 00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:09,880 Speaker 1: Dude, I met this guy I was there was a 829 00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:15,600 Speaker 1: dude who was like, Oh, there's a guy who I 830 00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:18,480 Speaker 1: work at the air at the counter at the airport, 831 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:20,600 Speaker 1: and I was checking my bag in with him, and 832 00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:22,719 Speaker 1: I was like, how are you doing? And he looked 833 00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,560 Speaker 1: at me, and it was like seven o'clock in the morning, 834 00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:29,680 Speaker 1: Like this guy woke up at four am. And he 835 00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,920 Speaker 1: looked at me and very genuinely said, I'm doing fantastic. 836 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,640 Speaker 1: How are you doing? And I was like, do you actually? 837 00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:37,160 Speaker 1: And just in a way where I was like, oh, 838 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 1: this guy, this is not like a customer service and 839 00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,600 Speaker 1: this guy, I could just feel that he meant it 840 00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:43,520 Speaker 1: when he said it, and so I asked her. I 841 00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 1: was like, do you really do you really mean that? 842 00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:47,479 Speaker 1: You look like you mean that, and we he didn't flinch. 843 00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:49,840 Speaker 1: He was like, yes, absolutely, there's something to be grateful 844 00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,239 Speaker 1: for every day. I'm just grateful to be here. And 845 00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:55,880 Speaker 1: I was like, damn, this guy, this guy, and this 846 00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,600 Speaker 1: guy is and this guy is like in this guy 847 00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:01,919 Speaker 1: woke up at four o'clock in the morning to go 848 00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:08,279 Speaker 1: get screamed at by hundreds of people every day at 849 00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:14,000 Speaker 1: the airport and he's he's doing great, you know. And 850 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,280 Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, man, this this guy is something. 851 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,239 Speaker 1: What this guy's got something? What is it? What is 852 00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:23,120 Speaker 1: you know? How do I access that? Some people I 853 00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:26,120 Speaker 1: think are born with more of that than others. You know. 854 00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,360 Speaker 5: No, I've been working on it pretty hard, like throughout 855 00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:32,319 Speaker 5: the pandemic. I started listening to during like the very 856 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:37,879 Speaker 5: beginning back in that living with my parents, and yeah, 857 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:39,160 Speaker 5: just like the main thing I was working on, I 858 00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,760 Speaker 5: was just trying to be happy or at least contend 859 00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:45,040 Speaker 5: or whatever, like not fiending so much. 860 00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:47,400 Speaker 4: Things. 861 00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I did an exercise. I was a journal today, 862 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:59,439 Speaker 1: just trying to you know, think about like, uh, sort 863 00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:02,240 Speaker 1: of reassess that's my perspective on my own life instead 864 00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:05,040 Speaker 1: of getting upset about it. It's a helpful thing to do. 865 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:09,680 Speaker 5: Indeed, Yeah, I find journaling is really hard. To keep 866 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,800 Speaker 5: up with or just like any habit it's very difficult. 867 00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:16,600 Speaker 1: Vancouver's got nice trees. 868 00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:19,719 Speaker 5: Oh, it is very nice here. 869 00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:21,680 Speaker 1: That's what you say when you when you run out 870 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 1: of conversation topics. But no, I shouldn't have even said that, 871 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:29,520 Speaker 1: because you you it actually ended up being a conversation topic. 872 00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,680 Speaker 5: I can tell you about where I came from before Vancouver, 873 00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:35,759 Speaker 5: because it's just on a trip that I'm like living here, 874 00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,879 Speaker 5: like I can't believe that I have stayed in the. 875 00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:38,600 Speaker 1: City for so long. 876 00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:44,480 Speaker 5: Sure, yeah, so I came from a town of like 877 00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:50,440 Speaker 5: four hundred people and there was no self service, and 878 00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:54,160 Speaker 5: we didn't have Wi Fi or a toilet or there 879 00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,480 Speaker 5: was no police there. Like it was just truly in 880 00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:59,160 Speaker 5: the middle of nowhere and just kind of self governing 881 00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:02,560 Speaker 5: and insane, kind of like Charlotte Park Boys but hippy 882 00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:04,319 Speaker 5: mm hmmmm. 883 00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:08,319 Speaker 1: And now you're in the big and now the big 884 00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,200 Speaker 1: city of Vancouver. 885 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:11,760 Speaker 5: Now I'm in the big city, and it's weird because 886 00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,160 Speaker 5: some of my friends are living in this kind of 887 00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:18,160 Speaker 5: like commune situation and they just don't pay any money 888 00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,480 Speaker 5: and they're having a great time, and I just am 889 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,560 Speaker 5: always wondering, like what the heck am I doing out here? 890 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:24,719 Speaker 1: What Dad? Are you doing out here? You just your 891 00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:27,279 Speaker 1: friends are in a commune that sounds like you're That 892 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:30,160 Speaker 1: sounds like you're a kind of thing that sounds that 893 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,560 Speaker 1: sounds up. I've only known you for fifteen minutes, but 894 00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:34,160 Speaker 1: that sounds extremely up your alley. 895 00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:37,120 Speaker 5: Oh it's it sounds amazing. But you know, I have 896 00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:38,560 Speaker 5: to get out of it, like I grew up there 897 00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:43,400 Speaker 5: my entire life. Oh okay, yeah, and they're missing the 898 00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:45,120 Speaker 5: arts scene. So I'm trying to figure out if I 899 00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,160 Speaker 5: should go out there and just like start something. 900 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 1: Why don't you, hey, hey, why don't you just start 901 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,720 Speaker 1: a commune? Someone's got to start it. Why just start 902 00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,000 Speaker 1: the city Vancouver commune. 903 00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:00,840 Speaker 5: That was amazing. I thought about making a weird underground society. 904 00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:03,279 Speaker 1: I don't know how you. I don't know how you 905 00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:06,360 Speaker 1: start a commune because you have to find a place 906 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,040 Speaker 1: to live that's free. 907 00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:10,120 Speaker 2: Hee. 908 00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:14,440 Speaker 1: Oh you know what you can do? Watch a b oh. 909 00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,960 Speaker 1: I guess, I guess. I guess. If you get like, 910 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:26,080 Speaker 1: if you get like four hundred thousand people to give 911 00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:31,320 Speaker 1: you one dollar, you can buy a plot of land 912 00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:35,480 Speaker 1: and all of them can take turns living on it. 913 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:39,440 Speaker 1: Like a like a like a timeshare commune that's not 914 00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:40,600 Speaker 1: like before? 915 00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:42,600 Speaker 5: What's the math on that? Like you don't be able 916 00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:45,240 Speaker 5: to live there like once every few years? 917 00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:50,640 Speaker 1: Screw math? Math is uh, we we do we don't. 918 00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,160 Speaker 1: We don't abandon our families to join communes to do 919 00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:58,280 Speaker 1: math eclipse. You said your name was yeah the clips? 920 00:52:58,360 --> 00:52:59,400 Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the 921 00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:00,719 Speaker 1: people the compute here before we go? 922 00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:04,239 Speaker 5: Thanks you guys all for listening and being a part 923 00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,279 Speaker 5: of the gek team, and I hope you guys all 924 00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,840 Speaker 5: enjoy your life you as well. 925 00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:18,719 Speaker 1: Good luck with with with eating food and living in 926 00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:19,200 Speaker 1: a place. 927 00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:23,600 Speaker 5: Thank you so much. Have a good night. 928 00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:27,080 Speaker 1: Hey folks, I'm about to play a clip from this 929 00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 1: month's bonus episode. 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