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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: This is you're hearing this on Christmas Eve, but for us,

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Speaker 3: it's not Christmas even it.

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Speaker 4: Is not I am I'm gonna I'm gonna predict what

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Speaker 4: I'm doing right now and I'm gonna be learning the guitar,

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Speaker 4: manifesting my twenty twenty one, picking my word and sitting

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Speaker 4: on my couch. That's what I'll be doing right now.

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Speaker 3: Learning guitar is funny, so funny, because you have to

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Speaker 3: be ready for our return episode, where you will have

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Speaker 3: learned a few chords.

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Speaker 4: You know what I do have to say, I have

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Speaker 4: watched the YouTube videos since our last podcast, and I

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Speaker 4: think it's gonna be a little bit more challenging than

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Speaker 4: I had expected.

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Speaker 3: Like mostly guarantee that that's the case. And you're gonna

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Speaker 3: be like, ouch, this hurts.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, your fingertips are really gonna hurt.

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm telling you those things are delicate. You need

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Speaker 3: a callous build on this. So yeah, I will be

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Speaker 3: because I leave for my road trip on the twenty first,

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Speaker 3: and so I should be arriving into Louisiana around the

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Speaker 3: twenty around this time Christmas Eve. So you're gonna be tired,

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Speaker 3: so or I'll be like fresh off of an adventure

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Speaker 3: and I'm just like happy to be out of the car,

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Speaker 3: ready to see my family.

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Speaker 4: Could go either way, I'm gonna go tired. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: text you this day and ask where your heads at.

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Speaker 3: Well, anyways, it's kind of happy Merry Christmas Eve and

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Speaker 3: to all a good night.

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Speaker 4: But are you guys Mark, are you guys staying in La.

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Speaker 1: We have rented an Airbnb cabin in the snow. We're

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Speaker 1: a little concerned because short term rentals in California are

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Speaker 1: not allowed right now, oh unless it's for essential workers only,

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Speaker 1: that sort of thing. And I don't really understand that

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Speaker 1: because that seems safe to me. But I think that's

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Speaker 1: just an effort to keep people from going anywhere for

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Speaker 1: any reason, right because it's just the four of us

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Speaker 1: and we're just going to be in a house together,

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Speaker 1: so it's not like we're going to be interacting and

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Speaker 1: mingling or having a party anyway. We've been in touch

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Speaker 1: with the homeowner many times, and the person says, no,

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Speaker 1: everything's fine, everything is great, no need to cancel.

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Speaker 5: We're good.

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Speaker 1: So, as far as I know right now, that's where

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Speaker 1: we're going to be, in a cabin in the snow,

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Speaker 1: the four of us. But it's very possible that we'll

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Speaker 1: get canceled and we'll be at home, right.

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Speaker 4: It's very a fifty to fifty at this point. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: so flash forward on this day. I'll check in with you.

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Speaker 5: So good, I'll look forward to that.

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Speaker 6: I'd like to point out and Mark, I don't know

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Speaker 6: if you guys have seen in the La County like

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Speaker 6: lockdown order, if you read the fine print, podcasters are

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Speaker 6: in fact essential workers.

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Speaker 5: Is that right?

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Speaker 2: That is right, buddy.

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Speaker 4: Somebody said that to me the other day because I

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Speaker 4: was looking to Long Story Short is having their roof redone,

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Speaker 4: and this is like a neighbor for people that don't

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Speaker 4: live in Los Angeles. I can literally put my hand

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Speaker 4: they are. And so they start work really early in

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Speaker 4: the morning and they're banging and they're yelling, and it's

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Speaker 4: it's not the peace, you know, quite peaceful. So I

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Speaker 4: trying to find somewhere, but everything said you had to

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Speaker 4: be an essential worker. So I said, Becca, yeah, your

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Speaker 4: apartment when when they're working on the roof next door.

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Speaker 4: So cheers to that.

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Speaker 2: Cheers to Bend an Essential Worker podcast and getting the

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Speaker 2: good news out. Wait, I'm I'm east. What are you

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Speaker 2: doing for Christmas?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 6: The last couple of Christmases, I'm My family's in northern California,

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Speaker 4: Know, it was just nice that you're not like I

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Speaker 2: We were like, my family's like why are My family's

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, you guys, we're in a pandemic. I'm

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Speaker 3: It'd be like I said, it'd be one thing if

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Speaker 2: We're doing a road trip. It's gonna be awesome.

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Speaker 3: We'll see how I feel on the return trip. But

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Speaker 2: The road trip.

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Speaker 1: Road trips are great because not only you know, you

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Speaker 1: Oh, when you're a kid, you couldn't do any of

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Speaker 3: and Taylor Slops's nineteen eighty nine album had just come out.

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Speaker 4: Just you and these producers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and like we just like lived.

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Speaker 3: I literally lived life like a week because I had

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Speaker 2: I don't have any entertainment. And I got a Walkman.

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Speaker 4: That's the wait. You know what's fun? That makes me

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Speaker 2: They really got familiar with Lakita.

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Speaker 3: Let's just say they will have many memories at Lakina.

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Speaker 3: Also before we start our highs and lows, because this

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Speaker 3: So I nannied for this family in San Diego like

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Speaker 2: He's turning sixteen, and I was like, oh, he's sixteen. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Like what I know the people when you like nanny

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Speaker 4: Just eligible. I don't know if that's the right way.

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Speaker 5: But my kids' lives have been very well documented.

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Speaker 5: It's suddenly they're old. And that was just yesterday.

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Speaker 3: They were like that, yeah, and now they're making silly

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Speaker 5: That's right.

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Speaker 3: So this episode is basically to recap the highs and

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Speaker 4: And I think we're going to stick to the two

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Speaker 4: piece Personal and Professional, and we're gonna be songs. The

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Speaker 4: other two piece, which are Pandemic and politics.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I think we can all agree that a low

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Speaker 5: Yeah, those are in both regards.

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Speaker 4: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: All right, Great, I'm really excited to start this, and

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Speaker 3: All right, we are back with the highs and lows

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean the live shows were I think

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Speaker 3: I will say our virtual events, especially the first one,

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Speaker 4: Accidentally, it a low for me because it just creates

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Speaker 2: All right, Easton?

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Speaker 6: Uh so we are we doing like multiple round because

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean I'm just saying, like what comes

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Speaker 3: Do you so you you discovered that you actually really

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Speaker 6: We knew that before, but there's these moments where we're

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Speaker 4: So uh, I do think there is there is something

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Speaker 2: Mark. We lost you for a second, but you're back.

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Speaker 4: That was twenty twenty. Yeah, that was.

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Speaker 4: That is so wild. That is so wild this year,

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Speaker 3: I would say that the Gray's Anatomy set visit was

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Speaker 5: Jealous.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna put that on my resume. I should put

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Speaker 3: I'm looking at the videos of was on set. We

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Speaker 5: I'm here, yes, all right?

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Speaker 2: Could we get a high from me?

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Speaker 4: Please?

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Speaker 5: My Internet is a low. And you know what's frustrating

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Speaker 1: Wear you down, like I'm not gonna call them again

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Speaker 5: I'm just gonna deal with it and that and that,

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Speaker 5: AnyWho, what are we doing?

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Speaker 5: Still?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You know, Friday Night Movie Night with the kids was

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Speaker 4: just of many things I've done interviews, right, Like we

444
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Speaker 4: interview people on the podcast No.

445
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Speaker 2: Are you about to say?

446
00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,639
Speaker 4: Harry? Yeah? So I go to New York to do

447
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 4: this Harry Styles I Heart Radio album release party, and

448
00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 4: I'm like kind of nervous. I've never met him before,

449
00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 4: and he kind of has you know, he's a Harry Styles.

450
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 4: He's this cool thing with the vibe and so you

451
00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,119
Speaker 4: don't really know. I don't know if I'm going to

452
00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 4: get this like really intense interview, if he's going to

453
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:53,800
Speaker 4: be cool, if he's going to be you know what

454
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 4: I mean, Like I kind of was really nervous going

455
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,199
Speaker 4: into it. And I met him right before we were

456
00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,919
Speaker 4: about to do this and he could not have been cooler.

457
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 4: Was like, can I get you anything to drect? I

458
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:06,480
Speaker 4: went up to his dressing room. He was like, can

459
00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:07,920
Speaker 4: I get you anything to drink? Blah blah blah, And

460
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:11,439
Speaker 4: I was like, no, I am kind of nervous. And

461
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,359
Speaker 4: then the interview we did it and he was so nice,

462
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 4: was just talking my ear off, like was giving me

463
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 4: all the answers that I could possibly even want and more.

464
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,240
Speaker 4: I told him about one of my favorite songs on

465
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Speaker 4: the album and just how much it really meant to me.

466
00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,160
Speaker 4: He then put it in. He added the song into

467
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Speaker 4: his sets. So he was only supposed to perform four songs,

468
00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 4: he did five because he said I have to perform

469
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 4: this this, you know, like, oh, he didn't dedicate it

470
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Speaker 4: to me, but it felt that way. So the iHeart

471
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:42,919
Speaker 4: team was like freaking out because they were like, oh

472
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 4: my god, we got another song from him. This is

473
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:48,520
Speaker 4: so like awesome, you know. And then the top the

474
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Speaker 4: Cherry On the Sunday that night, I get a phone

475
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Speaker 4: call and it is Harry Styles himself wanting to say

476
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Speaker 4: thank you for a great interview. Thank you for being

477
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Speaker 4: a fan. I really enjoy your questions. I could have

478
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,119
Speaker 4: talked to you for so much longer. I appreciate you, uh,

479
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:07,919
Speaker 4: I appreciate the way you appreciate my music and that

480
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,159
Speaker 4: you really like He was like really, just like happy

481
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:12,960
Speaker 4: that I was like a fan, I guess, and just

482
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,159
Speaker 4: said you're welcome to come to any of my shows

483
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Speaker 4: on tour. Thank you so much, have a good night,

484
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,399
Speaker 4: and I was just blown away. I've never had any

485
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 4: artist ever do that.

486
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Speaker 2: I have always respected the fact that Harry Styles is

487
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 2: like a very beautiful, talented man, but here lately I

488
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 2: looked over at Hink the other day watching his jingle

489
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 2: Ball performance and I said, I cannot believe that Tanya

490
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Speaker 2: sat right next to him and had a full length

491
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Speaker 2: interview and conversation and then he called her after and

492
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 2: said thank you. And the fact I didn't know that

493
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Speaker 2: he asked you to come up and get a drink

494
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Speaker 2: and you denied, like what, No, he even asked me

495
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Speaker 2: for a drink, he said, he came up and said,

496
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Speaker 2: do you want to I'm sorry.

497
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Speaker 4: Before the interview, yea yea, yeah, yeah, yeah, I thought

498
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Speaker 4: you meant after I was like, no, no, there was

499
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Speaker 4: no funny business after.

500
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Speaker 2: But before I imagine still.

501
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 4: There was lots of lots of funny business before. No,

502
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 4: I know, and and honestly like, I'll never forget it,

503
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 4: and I'm like I will be his fan like forever

504
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 4: and not just like a fan. But the funny thing

505
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 4: is is before he performed that song that he added

506
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 4: in because it was my favorite, he kind of like

507
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 4: looked over at me and gave me this like look.

508
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 4: And Samantha, our morning show producer that lives in New York,

509
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,679
Speaker 4: was like videotaping everything, so she got it on camera.

510
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,160
Speaker 4: Red Star saw it and was like, I don't really

511
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 4: love that look.

512
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Speaker 3: Yeah, no one's gonna like their girlfriend having Harry Styles

513
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 3: look at them with I know, like.

514
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Speaker 4: First of all, it just was nothing flirty happened between

515
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 4: Harry Styles and I, but I kind of love that

516
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:47,879
Speaker 4: he was like, I don't love that look.

517
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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'll know that was a high

518
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 2: for me. For you honestly, that was that was pretty good.

519
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Speaker 5: And I get it too.

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Speaker 1: You know, these these guys, these you know, musicians do

521
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 1: a million of these interviews and I think the answer

522
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 1: the same questions over and over and over again, and

523
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,679
Speaker 1: all of the interviewers, you know, some are better than others.

524
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: But you took the time. You listened to the whole album.

525
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 1: I'm guessing at least ten times, because you love to

526
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 1: do the repeat thing, so you really knew what you

527
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 1: were talking about. No other interview is going to listen

528
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 1: to the album over and over again. They might listen

529
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Speaker 1: to it once, but typically I think they'd listen to

530
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: a few tracks and they'd read his Wikipedia page and

531
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Speaker 1: they feel like they're good. You know, were you really

532
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,400
Speaker 1: put the effort in, and I think you really appreciated that.

533
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Speaker 4: I really put the effort. And I even sang back

534
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Speaker 4: a little bit of my favorite lyric and he was

535
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 4: dying laughing like he was like, I'm sorry, and then

536
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 4: he like finished, he finished singing it for me because

537
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 4: it was just too painful to listen to.

538
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:47,639
Speaker 2: But let me help you.

539
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,360
Speaker 1: You're also putting the effort in, not out of obligation

540
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: or duty, but because a bit out of passion, and

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Speaker 1: that I think really comes through.

542
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Speaker 4: Thank you, Mark Well. That was Harry Styles. If you

543
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 4: ever want to come on scrubbing in, the door is

544
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:02,679
Speaker 4: always open.

545
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 2: I don't want him to come in until we can

546
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 2: do it in person.

547
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 4: I agree, Save it, yeah, save it.

548
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, let's put that.

549
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Speaker 4: I'm gonna put him on our twenty twenty one vision

550
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:14,919
Speaker 4: board for the podcast.

551
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Speaker 3: I mine do it for Yeah yeah podcast Personal Cute.

552
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Speaker 5: You know like that.

553
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Speaker 4: Have you read those I mean, obviously you've read those

554
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 4: stories that are just kind of out there about him.

555
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 4: How he like, I don't know, his car broke down

556
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:31,400
Speaker 4: on a street and he went it someone's fish, yeah,

557
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:32,919
Speaker 4: and like the guy was like, oh my gosh, my

558
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 4: daughter's obsessed with you, but she's not here right now,

559
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 4: and so he like fed her fish and like wrote

560
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,880
Speaker 4: her a letter. And it's just like that is who

561
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,879
Speaker 4: he is. He's just so nice and just genuine and

562
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 4: super super humble, like he doesn't realize his Harry styles.

563
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 4: You know, that's kind of celebrity, that's kind Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to go to I'm going to go to

565
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 3: a low, which because I do think it's it's like

566
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 3: like we have to acknowledge, you know, the highs and

567
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 3: the lows. We have to acknowledge the lows, my low,

568
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 3: but there's a high that goes with it. So I

569
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 3: felt like there was this year for me was like

570
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,439
Speaker 3: the biggest year of growth that I've ever had personally,

571
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Speaker 3: and I think a lot of people can probably attest

572
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 3: to that. But from learning about like during the Black

573
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Speaker 3: Lives Matter and learning so much about that that I

574
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:28,919
Speaker 3: was ignorant too, and it was it was hard and

575
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 3: uncomfortable because it was like it felt like it was

576
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 3: obviously something we should already know about. But I felt

577
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,919
Speaker 3: like there was so much growth in that. But it

578
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 3: also brought a lot of difficult conversations with friends and

579
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 3: family members that contributed to some really low moments for me.

580
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 3: But the result of what could come after, which which

581
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 3: is growth, was like it made it all. Even though

582
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 3: it was like low point it there's like a light

583
00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 3: at the end of the tunnel of like se seeing

584
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 3: it the relationships and the conversations come out on the

585
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 3: other side.

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Speaker 4: I have to say I've been like, I've been really

587
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 4: proud of you this year because I think that and

588
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,159
Speaker 4: I'm not I don't want to say it wasn't just

589
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 4: I think the Black Lives Matter movement helped push you

590
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 4: to have those conversations, but these are conversations and issues

591
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 4: that you've been having for many years now, and so

592
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 4: I think that you finally like kind of got the

593
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 4: you know, the whatever it is to have these conversations

594
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 4: and they're hard and they're uncomfortable and it's weird, and

595
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 4: I'm just like really proud of you because I know,

596
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 4: you know, you're not a person you don't like confrontation,

597
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 4: and so you know, you sweep things under the rug.

598
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 4: And I feel like this year, you really you pulled

599
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 4: that rug up and you started sweeping that dirt around.

600
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 4: You know.

601
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 5: Yeah.

602
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 3: It was also you know, as a first year, I

603
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 3: ever even like considered going to therapy and went to

604
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 3: therapy and learned so much about myself and just the

605
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 3: learning the simplicity of that it's okay to have an

606
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 3: opinion and that it's okay to have different opinions in

607
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 3: different beliefs than how you were raised or what the

608
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 3: people close to you think, and you can still love

609
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 3: each other and have these difficult conversations and come out

610
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,719
Speaker 3: on the other side just understanding each other more. And

611
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 3: I never knew that how important it was because I

612
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 3: always have run away from confrontation and conflicts. So while

613
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 3: those were some of the I mean, I would say

614
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,119
Speaker 3: some of the lowest moments of my life up to

615
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 3: my thirty two years. It was also this necessary year

616
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,959
Speaker 3: for me of like, what I have had that growth

617
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 3: without these lows, And the answer is no. So I

618
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 3: look at twenty twenty with this, like my initial thought

619
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 3: was like, oh, twenty twenty was the worst, but it

620
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 3: was also really good for me and healthy, and I

621
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 3: don't know if I would have ever gone through the

622
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 3: steps of becoming a better human and learning about myself

623
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 3: more if it hadn't been these situations, right.

624
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: I got a DM recently on one of these platforms

625
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 1: from a scrubber who mentioned that I, you know, I said,

626
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 1: I'm a liberal and she I'm the person she always

627
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: disagrees with on the show, and that sort of thing.

628
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 1: And to Becca's point, I really do believe that these

629
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: terms like liberal, conservative, Republican, Democrat, blue.

630
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 5: Red, all that stuff, they really do serve to divide us.

631
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: And I really believe that we all as a nation

632
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: agree on so much more than we disagree on. But

633
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: in divisive times like this, it becomes you know, Trump's

634
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 1: the antichrist and Biden the antichrist, and whoever wins half

635
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: the country is going to They're all moving to Canada

636
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: and they're going to burn the whole country down, and

637
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: it's the end of America as we know.

638
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 5: It, and it just gets so crazy.

639
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 1: But I really believe that if I and that woman

640
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: who DMed me, if we sat down, I bet we'd

641
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: agree on so many more things than she might think.

642
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 5: I really think that, and I think that's true of everybody.

643
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 4: I think so too.

644
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 2: I agree. I think there's been so much more division

645
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 2: and people the whole the whole issue and obviously weren't

646
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 2: going to get into the two piece, but they were.

647
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 2: They bring them, but they it's like we have to

648
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 2: acknowledge what it was.

649
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 3: And I do agree Mark that the division sometimes felt

650
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 3: so unnecessary if we could just have conversations with each other,

651
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 3: and it was it was. I hope that moving forward

652
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 3: we can do that more with each other.

653
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 4: I think that something that twenty twenty alone, that it

654
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 4: brought to me was I've kind of been this person

655
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 4: just my whole life. I have been unabashedly myself. It's

656
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 4: been embarrassing. I say things out you probably shouldn't stay

657
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 4: in public like I've just always been that way. And

658
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 4: twenty twenty I feel like made me a little fearful

659
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 4: to things I say or how to act or what

660
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 4: to do. And I hate that. I hate that it

661
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 4: put that in me because I've always been the opposite.

662
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 4: And so that was a big low because I felt

663
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 4: very paralyzed for a period of time and and honestly

664
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 4: took I started seeing a therapist. It took that to

665
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 4: kind of break through that and just kind of get

666
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 4: kind of the old me back, you know, like I

667
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 4: want to be fearless. That's how want to live my life.

668
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 4: I want to just be me. And there was a

669
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 4: good chunk of time this year that I just wasn't myself.

670
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 4: And I think it was necessary, I guess in a way,

671
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 4: because I didn't grow through it, and it got me

672
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 4: to a place. I do think therapy has been really

673
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 4: good for me, just in many other ways, but it

674
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 4: like helped me kind of reverse this almost damage that

675
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 4: was done to my personality in a weird way, you

676
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 4: know what I mean. Yeah, So that's my low that

677
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 4: turned into a high turned.

678
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: And that's the lesson I think for you, especially Tanya,

679
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,719
Speaker 1: of this year you started to hesitate before you were

680
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: your undabashed itself and their repercussions from that. This podcast

681
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: was kind of lost for a little bit we weren't

682
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: really sure what we were doing for a little bit.

683
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: We got some negative reviews for a little bit, didn't

684
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 1: win that award for a little bit.

685
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 5: You know, the lesson is you got to be you.

686
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 5: That you've gotten this far doing that, you got.

687
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 4: To It's not it's not even like about being it

688
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 4: is about being me. But it's also like I have

689
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,479
Speaker 4: this drive in me that like I like to I

690
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 4: like to have goals and I like to push things forward,

691
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 4: and I like to challenge people and I want us

692
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 4: to be better and do better. And I feel like

693
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 4: I lost a little bit of that motivation in a

694
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 4: weird way too, you know what I mean, Like I

695
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 4: was just kind of going through the motions instead of

696
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 4: being proactive, which is how I like to be. I

697
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 4: like to be proactive instead of reactive. And I felt

698
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 4: like I was just being like passive and I was like,

699
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 4: who is this girl? I literally like looked at myself

700
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 4: in the mirror and I was like who are you?

701
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 4: And how to write it down?

702
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 2: Yeah?

703
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 3: I mean I think that that was I feel like

704
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 3: a lesson for everyone this year was kind of getting

705
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 3: back to who we are and being able to and

706
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 3: we've talked about this still in the podcast so recently,

707
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 3: as like hear the hear what people say. Take it

708
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 3: if it's negative and it's bringing you down, take it

709
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 3: as a grain of salt as an opinion. And I

710
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 3: just had my first therapy session just last week and

711
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 3: she was like, you really carry people's opinions, like it

712
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 3: really can weigh you down. And I was like, you

713
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:31,479
Speaker 3: have no idea how much it weighs me down, like

714
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 3: just one single person's opinion. So that's something I'm working on,

715
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 3: which it took some time.

716
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 4: I got there too, but I used to not give

717
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 4: two cruds to cry like you think I'm looney Okay,

718
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 4: I love being in this looney bin, like you know,

719
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 4: I like my rainbows and butterflies over here. Thank you.

720
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 3: So yeah, I feel like we can talk about what

721
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 3: our what we're looking forward to in twenty twenty one,

722
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 3: what do we want for the podcast, what do we

723
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 3: want for our personal lives. I know that we've all

724
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 3: acknowledged there was the time together with the people we

725
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 3: love was such a valuable part of this last year

726
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 3: because we would have never.

727
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 2: Ever gotten it.

728
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 3: Like Easton said, it made us all slow down, We grew,

729
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 3: we learned, there were so many fun moments at the

730
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,439
Speaker 3: beginning of the year, even during sprinkled in here and there,

731
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 3: But it's like, what's next year look like for us?

732
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 4: I know, you know, I also too, I put on

733
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 4: my high list that like I'd never worked the Oscars before,

734
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 4: and I actually got to work the carpet this year,

735
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,479
Speaker 4: and I'm like, I forget about those things that were

736
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 4: you know, like that was a big dream I had wanted,

737
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 4: you know, like it was always I just never got

738
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 4: that carpet and so this was like a really big

739
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 4: win for me. And like literally in the same month,

740
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 4: on the flip side, I was working on my book

741
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 4: proposal and that just went to like I was too

742
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 4: safe for non Christian publishers, and then I was too

743
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 4: racy for Christian publishers, and that really gutted me. And

744
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 4: it like broke my heart because it's just like that's

745
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 4: literally like me, it's like I'm handing myself over and

746
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 4: then you're getting these words back about yourself. And it

747
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 4: was interesting because I was talking to my mentor about

748
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,800
Speaker 4: it and he was like, Tanya, he always has a

749
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 4: way of changing the like perspective for me, and he

750
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 4: goes Tanya the best people in this industry are people

751
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 4: that don't fit into a box. And I was like, bingo,

752
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 4: good advice. I don't fit into you know. It's like

753
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 4: I probably am to say four non.

754
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,280
Speaker 1: Christian parishes, and that's your whole career is not fitting

755
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: into a box.

756
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I was like, you're right, I don't fit.

757
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 4: I was like, I don't know why I made it

758
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 4: like I would call back and I was crying so hard.

759
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 4: I took it so it was it really hit me

760
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,839
Speaker 4: so hard. And then I was like, you know what,

761
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 4: that's it's it's a different way. I have to do

762
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 4: it a different way. Maybe it's not their traditional way

763
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 4: I do a book like I don't know, and that'll

764
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 4: maybe hit me in twenty twenty one. But it was

765
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 4: like such a heartbreak. And then after I talked to him,

766
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 4: it was just like, Okay, I need to change my

767
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 4: perspective and like, think outside the box.

768
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:12,800
Speaker 2: You think Harry Styles likes a girl who's in a box?

769
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:14,720
Speaker 2: Who it's in a box?

770
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 5: No?

771
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:17,840
Speaker 2: No he doesn't.

772
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 4: No he don't.

773
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,360
Speaker 2: So you sorried about to say something.

774
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 6: No, I'm just enjoying theationation.

775
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 4: All right, Wait, can you open this? Can you open this.

776
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 2: It doesn't need it.

777
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we'll get that up and we're gonna pop

778
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:38,839
Speaker 3: another bottle champagne and many ones.

779
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 4: There are many ones. Don't worry.

780
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 2: Yes, way, we're fine. We're fine. We will be back

781
00:36:44,280 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 2: with our goals for twenty twenty one. All right, we're back.

782
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 2: Tanya had one more high from twenty twenty that she

783
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 2: wanted to remind us about.

784
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 4: I feel like we missed the biggest high of this

785
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 4: podcast of twenty twenty, and that was the Sabrina Carpenter

786
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 4: interview a Lah Spicy Margs in Palm Springs.

787
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, like sometimes someone else's high isn't necessarily your own high.

788
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 2: It's like for me.

789
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 3: Although that episode was like fantastic and the content was

790
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 3: you know, the sacrificial person I am letting that be

791
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 3: released was great, I still have like get chills down

792
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 3: my spine thinking about Euston's wife allisand and Red Star

793
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 3: rushing behind trying to help me survive basically, and the

794
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:56,760
Speaker 3: fact that Sabrina Carpenter never acknowledged.

795
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 4: I have to say, like the back the behind the

796
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 4: scenes of that whole weekend was like it was so

797
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 4: nice because this was like the first time that Red

798
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 4: Star was like around really the second time he was

799
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 4: around like my work family, but like really like out

800
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 4: in the wild, you know, because we were like on

801
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 4: a trip out.

802
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 2: Yeah. It was our first trip really for any of us.

803
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, And so he's like watching the podcast and everything

804
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 4: go down and helping Becca like throw up to throw

805
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 4: up in a trash can and like getting everybody coffee,

806
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:27,839
Speaker 4: and like, I don't know, it was just like that

807
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 4: was like so heartwarming, and then the whole Sabrina Carpenter

808
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 4: interview and then I remember, because I was pretty drunk too.

809
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 3: We all i mean, minus Easton and Allison. Like I

810
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 3: was thinking this morning about Danielle's in the chat.

811
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,320
Speaker 2: She goes, we're in the car, that we're.

812
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 3: In the pool, I mean, and we had already been

813
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 3: drinking for a minute and we'd go get in the pool.

814
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 3: She's like basically tell me how much she loves me,

815
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 3: and like she's like, Becca, you're just so raund.

816
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 4: Because he fully convinced Red Star that she was like

817
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 4: the responsible one of the group. He was like, you

818
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 4: guys are so lucky to have Danielle because she is

819
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 4: just so buttoned up making sure that you guys are

820
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,720
Speaker 4: on time. For your stuff and like so fun still,

821
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 4: like he was so impressed by Danielle, and I was

822
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 4: just like, are you on glue this chick?

823
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 3: And then Easton comes over we're in the pool, like

824
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,760
Speaker 3: wasted east It comes he's like a mirage, like standing

825
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 3: over me is like blurr, and he's like, are we

826
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 3: doing still doing the.

827
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:27,879
Speaker 2: Podcast at five?

828
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 3: And I was like huh And Danielle's like, oh yeah,

829
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 3: we have to do the podcast at five, and I

830
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,879
Speaker 3: was like okay, So I don't remember the walk from

831
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 3: the pool to the room, and then Tana answers button

832
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 3: naked and we're just like, are you this is not

833
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:47,320
Speaker 3: gonna go out. It went exactly how it should have gone,

834
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 3: butt naked.

835
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 4: I did not know what time it was. I was

836
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 4: not expecting company in my room. I had no idea

837
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 4: what time it was. So I throw this dress on,

838
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 4: we do the interview, and all I remember is like

839
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 4: Becca is out called. Everybody's helping her. And then I

840
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 4: just remember seeing Mark, just Mark's face on the computer

841
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 4: screen and I was just like I couldn't even it

842
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 4: was like I couldn't even get words out, Like I

843
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:10,800
Speaker 4: was just like so embarrassed because I was just because

844
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 4: also Mark doesn't drink, so he was probably watching all

845
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 4: this unfold me like what idiots. Yeah, but for some

846
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 4: reason I felt like Easton was like Easton like saw

847
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 4: all the debauchery right right, yeah, and you were just

848
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 4: like what is happening? So I just remember seeing you,

849
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 4: and I like I felt like I just like closed

850
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 4: the laptop like I was like, I didn't want to

851
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 4: say anything to Mark. I was just like.

852
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,479
Speaker 3: I just remember briefly seeing Mark and being like hey Mark,

853
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 3: and then like that's my last memory of that. And

854
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 3: then Sabrina's comes into the room and Tanya's not there yet,

855
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 3: and I'm.

856
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 2: Like, hi, Tanya. We're still like it was just the

857
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 2: most unprofessional of all time.

858
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 1: And Becky reminds us of the text that I got

859
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 1: from Danielle because I was trying to figure out are

860
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: we going to finish this show or what's going on?

861
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 1: Because it was pretty clear that Becca was having a

862
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: very difficult time, and the text from Danielle poisoning. Yeah,

863
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 1: the text from Danielle said, there's a situation with Becca.

864
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 5: We're trying to figure out.

865
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 4: What happened, trying to figure out.

866
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 2: It couldn't have been the twelve spicy marks.

867
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 4: This is back to like, this is back to when

868
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 4: I was like in good, good, like normal Tanya, when

869
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 4: I was still feeling my normal self, and I was like,

870
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be proactive. We came here to do a podcast.

871
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 4: I'm gonna get per some some gatorade and whatever you needed.

872
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 4: I was like, let's get some food in her. And

873
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:45,240
Speaker 4: I was like, we are going to pound this out tonight.

874
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 4: We're gonna get this podcast done. We're gonna do a rehash.

875
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 4: It's gonna be super great. I had to like a rally.

876
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 4: Danielle passed out in the bed, but I was like

877
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 4: making sure John got her up and Easton was coherent,

878
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 4: so I just had him on standby and I was

879
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 4: just like having Red Star ten to Becca and just

880
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,400
Speaker 4: make sure that we got her good because I was like,

881
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 4: we're gonna do this tonight.

882
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:07,799
Speaker 3: Like and ordered pizza Hut and a gatorade and then

883
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 3: Red Star comes out. We're like so drunk on the

884
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 3: lounge chairs. He's like, no piece that. I was like, yeah,

885
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 3: go for it, eat that. Yeah, gott any despair.

886
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:19,959
Speaker 2: Yeah.

887
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 6: There's a thread in the Facebook group recently that was like,

888
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,399
Speaker 6: what's something you've done that. You're one hundred percent sure

889
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 6: no one else in this group has done And I

890
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 6: really wanted Alison to say I've held Becketilli's hair while

891
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:33,800
Speaker 6: she vomited, but she couldn't bring herself to do it.

892
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 3: I would have had a lot of respect if she

893
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 3: went that bold to just call me out like that. Also,

894
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,320
Speaker 3: it wasn't a trash can, it was an ice bucket.

895
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was really having to focus and aim.

896
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 4: I love seeing everybody just like walk and the zoom

897
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 4: just in the background of tend to back on Red

898
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,800
Speaker 4: Stars wearing his like Tanya shirt, like with my face

899
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 4: all over it.

900
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was fun.

901
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,439
Speaker 3: I hope for more of the less a little less

902
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 3: of me being that intoxicated, but.

903
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:04,959
Speaker 2: More of those types of chaotic Even our.

904
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 4: Scrubber Alyssa that sent us those beautiful posters to all

905
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 4: of us, She included a bunch of other things with

906
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 4: the poster, but on this she sent this, and she said,

907
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 4: the best thirty seconds of the podcast ever. And it's

908
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 4: literally just like the split book. Oh my god, the

909
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 4: moment we're going down, Rebecca goes down in the video.

910
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 4: That's amazing see it.

911
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 2: But it's pretty gross.

912
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 4: It's so funny because it's literally just like Becca's in

913
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 4: the frame in the beginning and then boom, boom boom.

914
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 4: You keep going and she's just like bomb. It's so funny.

915
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 3: It was like she sent so many thoughtful, creative things

916
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 3: in that to a us again because she's a bump.

917
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:46,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fun.

918
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:50,399
Speaker 4: That's a high. We have to do that again. Yeah,

919
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 4: not maybe necessarily, like.

920
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 2: Just like that or just like that. Okay, maybe you

921
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 2: can take the take the lead on that one.

922
00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 4: Then maybe we can make we can make mold wine. Okay, yeah,

923
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 4: no guests. I think I think Song's guest is the

924
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:14,720
Speaker 4: is the move just so our professional our professionalism harm. Yeah, Okay,

925
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,280
Speaker 4: we should get to Brenda Carpenter back on this show.

926
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:19,359
Speaker 3: And ask her, like what she thought. I would love

927
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 3: to know what she thought or she even remembers. She

928
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 3: might be like, what, Mark, you had some rapid fire

929
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 3: questions we were gonna do for twenty twenty.

930
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I thought were gonna day dream.

931
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 3: No, no, we're gonna day dream, but we're gonna do rapid

932
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 3: fire like favorite show, favorite show best. Also two highs

933
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 3: for me. Taylor Swift's album drops, So that's.

934
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: A big one, but two hie just around. The best

935
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 1: TV show you saw? You've discovered You've banded in twenty twenty?

936
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,839
Speaker 4: Go Yeah, Shit's creek.

937
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 6: I'm gonna go little fires everywhere, the sopranos, Oh look

938
00:44:56,640 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 6: at you?

939
00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:58,719
Speaker 2: What about you?

940
00:44:58,719 --> 00:44:58,919
Speaker 4: Mark?

941
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 1: I discovered Better Call Sault this year, and man, I

942
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 1: don't know why I waited so long to start that show,

943
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 1: but it was bliss.

944
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 5: I loved it.

945
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 1: Anybody who wants to delve into that world of breaking

946
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: Bad and Better Call Sault, it is a fun world

947
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: to go to. All Right, Best movie you saw in

948
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: twenty twenty. I have a hard time with this one.

949
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: Did we see any movies? We must have at home?

950
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:21,879
Speaker 1: Watched a movie or two?

951
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 6: I have an answer if no one else says, go ahead,

952
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 6: The Vast of Night. It is on Amazon Prime. It's

953
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 6: an original movie. It takes place in the fifties. It's

954
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,280
Speaker 6: about this weird signal coming through on a radio station.

955
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 6: I saw it at the drive in. It was the

956
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 6: most fun I've had in a movie in a really

957
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 6: long time. It's super cute and really fun.

958
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 5: That sounds good.

959
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 6: It's a really good movie.

960
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna say and this just shows you where

961
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 4: I'm at and how many movies I watched. I'm gonna

962
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 4: say back to the Future.

963
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but very pleased with that.

964
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you didn't like Back to the Future exactly.

965
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 6: Wow, this is my low point for twenty twenty at

966
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 6: this moment, right, yeah, East.

967
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 2: And went up and then down my movies.

968
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 4: My movie watching was subpar.

969
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say, I'm going to predict that Wonder Woman,

970
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 3: which comes out Christmas Day, will be my favorite.

971
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 4: Wonder Woman got pushed it back again?

972
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 2: It did?

973
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 6: I don't think so.

974
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 2: Tim Out on HBO Max.

975
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:19,280
Speaker 5: She's right, Yeah, that's true.

976
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 2: I just have a good feeling. I'm gonna love it.

977
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 5: I don't know. I watched a movie called District Nine

978
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 5: on Netflix. I thought that was really good. But Aliens

979
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 5: South Africa? Uh yeah. Anybody read any books?

980
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:37,319
Speaker 1: What's the best book of twenty twenty? Oh here comes

981
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:38,760
Speaker 1: the self help book? Time you're read.

982
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:39,439
Speaker 2: Calling in the one?

983
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 4: No that was? That was that was not this year?

984
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 2: Okay?

985
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 4: It was called uh code Dependent no more.

986
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you talked about that a lot. Oh my gosh.

987
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 4: I mean when I tell you that light bulbs went off,

988
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 4: I mean I think it's a book that's geared towards

989
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 4: people who are in a relationship with an alcoholic or

990
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 4: somebody that has like some sort of substance abuse. I

991
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 4: think that's what it is, but there are so many parallels.

992
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 4: That doesn't need to be why you read it, because

993
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 4: that's not you know, that's not where I'm at, and

994
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:16,280
Speaker 4: I found it to be wildly lightning.

995
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 3: I read one book this year, and it was White Fragility,

996
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 3: which was amazing and very very helpful in my learning

997
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 3: and growing experience.

998
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 6: I'm trying to get back into reading. But I also

999
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 6: read one book this year. It's called a Generation X

1000
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,799
Speaker 6: by Douglas Copeland, and it's about these young people out

1001
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 6: in Palm Springs and they're trying to figure out their

1002
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 6: lives and it's very funny.

1003
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 1: I'm almost done with it, but it's so good I'm

1004
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,399
Speaker 1: ready to put it on my Best of the Year list.

1005
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: It's called an Absolutely Remarkable Thing by Hank Green and

1006
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:49,839
Speaker 1: you should all go read that book. And I used

1007
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:51,839
Speaker 1: to do a feature on Facebook. We called it book Mark,

1008
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 1: and I would hardly recommend this one. An absolutely remarkable thing.

1009
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 1: It's really really good.

1010
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,319
Speaker 2: I forgot I read Untamed by Glennon Doyle and it

1011
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 2: was literally one of the most life changing. So I

1012
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,280
Speaker 2: would say the two.

1013
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 3: Oh you would love it really, yes, Untamed and White Fragility.

1014
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 3: I feel proud that I'm not proud that I only

1015
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 3: read two books, but I'm proud that those are the

1016
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 3: two I read.

1017
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 4: I didn't read many Moore, I read White Fragility, I

1018
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 4: read A Codependent no More, I read Boundaries, and I

1019
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 4: read the Lady Gang book. Act like Lady.

1020
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 1: That was good album of the year. And you cannot

1021
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: say it's a tie. You can only choose one album

1022
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:36,879
Speaker 1: from twenty to twenty.

1023
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 4: Oh that's dark.

1024
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 2: That's darker for Tawny than it is for me.

1025
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have my answer. Oh du Lipa, Oh you

1026
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 4: can't beat perfection, and that album's perfection. Yeah, don't even

1027
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:56,320
Speaker 4: try to argue Taylor Swift.

1028
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 2: I'm bringing on Taylor Swift folklore.

1029
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:01,320
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's not even it's not even comparable.

1030
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 3: I haven't even listened to Duly Paz some like the

1031
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 3: ones that I've heard are amazing, but I'm not listened

1032
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:06,479
Speaker 3: to the album.

1033
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 4: Well that's the thing. The ones that aren't even singles

1034
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 4: are the best ones on the album, which is crazy.

1035
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 2: I do trust you, but I'm gonna stick with Folklore.

1036
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 6: My favorite by a band called Draine. They're a punk

1037
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 6: band from Santa Cruz, California. They had now them called

1038
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 6: California Cursed. I've listened that thing ten thousand times. It's

1039
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 6: my favorite album of the year.

1040
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 2: I love it.

1041
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 6: California Cursed.

1042
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 1: All right, Well, Becca choosing Taylor's with his predictable, so

1043
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm going predictable as well. Springsteen's new album is fantastic,

1044
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 1: and by the way, I didn't like the last one.

1045
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 1: I don't just always love everything. The new one he

1046
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 1: has Outletter to You is really great. But also my

1047
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:43,759
Speaker 1: daughter turned me onto AJR this year and I'm impressed.

1048
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,319
Speaker 1: They are really really great, So if you're looking for

1049
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 1: more contemporary music, AJR is great.

1050
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 4: Also, I forgot that Five Seconds of Summer dropped their

1051
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:54,919
Speaker 4: album early in the year, and that album is really

1052
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 4: yeah Calm, it's really good too, So just if you

1053
00:49:58,480 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 4: want to dabble, then.

1054
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 6: You might Cyrus Rips too. I love that album so much.

1055
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,919
Speaker 6: Plastic Arts, I really really liked that album.

1056
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 4: I can't can't get Yeah.

1057
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 2: I'm with Tania on this. There's a few good ones,

1058
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 2: like few great ones, but as a whole.

1059
00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 4: Let us not forget that the Queen herself, Ariana Grande,

1060
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 4: dropped an album this year as well.

1061
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 2: She had a great album. The thing is is that

1062
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 2: I I kind of agree that there's tons of great

1063
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 2: albums that were released in tons of great music during

1064
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 2: a time wasn't really but I mean, like for the

1065
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:37,879
Speaker 2: situation that we're in, but Folklore stood out to me

1066
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 2: as the star and it brought It was like such

1067
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:42,720
Speaker 2: a high moment that it came to such a surprise

1068
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 2: and it was like in the middle of just devastation

1069
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 2: and it was like.

1070
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:48,359
Speaker 4: Oh wait, did you guys see the theory that there's

1071
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 4: a third album that that's like a part of a

1072
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 4: trilogy and that.

1073
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 2: You told us all sweet that it's debunked.

1074
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:58,319
Speaker 4: Okay, it was debunked, But her excuse the debunking was

1075
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 4: her saying that like it was an act. Yeah, and

1076
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:04,840
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm sorry, you're not Taylor Swift and accidentally

1077
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 4: put the word wood veil in your Folklore album cover.

1078
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 4: You just don't do that. Yeah, so I have a

1079
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:12,920
Speaker 4: new theory.

1080
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 5: Okay, this seems like attention to detail was kind of

1081
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 5: her thing exactly.

1082
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that she does have a third album come,

1083
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 4: a third album ready to go, And I think she

1084
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 4: did name it Woodvale, and I think she did put

1085
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 4: it in that Folklore album artwork, but it wasn't finished

1086
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 4: at the time, and she wrote another banger that she

1087
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 4: wants to name it something different. So now she's pretending

1088
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,399
Speaker 4: that that was just done by mistake because she wants

1089
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 4: to name it something different.

1090
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:40,799
Speaker 6: Do you think she told Kimmel to ask about that

1091
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 6: so that she could bring it up and generate buzz?

1092
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 4: No, I don't think so.

1093
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 5: Who knows will tell?

1094
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:51,439
Speaker 3: Regardless, we got two from her this year. If there's

1095
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 3: a third, then God bless us all. If we wait

1096
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 3: for another one for like a few months or whatever,

1097
00:51:57,239 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 3: or if she just releases all of her re recorded

1098
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,320
Speaker 3: us happy, I'm happy.

1099
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 4: I stay for sure a third one coming. When she

1100
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 4: had the Cardigans for Folklore, she released three Cardigans, three

1101
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:16,799
Speaker 4: different colors. She did evermore in the third one. Yeah,

1102
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 4: and then there's three stars on the patches in the arm.

1103
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 4: Three stars. The trilogy has to be. I just think

1104
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 4: she probably changed the name.

1105
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 2: Well ready for.

1106
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 1: It, all right, we're running out of time. Santa is

1107
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:31,319
Speaker 1: going to be coming down the chimney any minute. Now,

1108
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 1: let's talk about twenty twenty one.

1109
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 4: I'm excited to hug people again.

1110
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, they might.

1111
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 2: Be scared during twenty twenty one two, but I agree

1112
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 2: I do miss that. I am ready to. My goal

1113
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 2: for twenty twenty one is to really.

1114
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 3: Like grow in like business and come up with ideas

1115
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 3: of what I want to do long term and make

1116
00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 3: the podcast like the best it's ever been. And I

1117
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 3: would like to travel, even though I'm like terrified to

1118
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 3: travel now, but even if it's just like driving and

1119
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 3: seeing new places, that's just something that I really miss

1120
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 3: this year, even though I got to go to a

1121
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 3: few places I like want to, I learned to appreciate

1122
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 3: that a lot more.

1123
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 2: So I'm hoping hoping that's what that happens next year.

1124
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 5: Okay.

1125
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 6: I do an a workshow every year called the East's.

1126
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:31,840
Speaker 6: In twenty nineteen, I did a very small group of

1127
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 6: my friends. I did at the Art Theater in Burbank

1128
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 6: and it was a big success and I had enough

1129
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,799
Speaker 6: interest from people. I was in the works for twenty

1130
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 6: twenty to do a real show with an audience at

1131
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 6: a real venue, and I was like it was coming together.

1132
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,760
Speaker 6: And obviously it's not going to happen. So in twenty

1133
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:55,760
Speaker 6: twenty one, I'm hoping, with that vaccine coursing through my veins,

1134
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 6: that I can do the East's live with a real

1135
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:01,720
Speaker 6: audience at a at a performance venue.

1136
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 5: So that's my goal.

1137
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,839
Speaker 1: Fifty three weeks from today, I'm hoping that you'll be

1138
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: at Staples Center the East the.

1139
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 2: Award well or a full circle moment at the Roxy

1140
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:11,879
Speaker 2: or the.

1141
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:13,879
Speaker 6: Mineral Via Veterans Hall or you know the.

1142
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:15,879
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that kind of thing.

1143
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's my goal. Yeah, you know. It's It's funny

1144
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 4: because like, I'm such a like obviously, I make my

1145
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 4: vision boards every year, and I like I am a

1146
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 4: goal oriented person, and I almost feel like this year

1147
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 4: taught me to like not be tied so much to

1148
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 4: the goals and be tied more to the passion, to

1149
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:37,919
Speaker 4: the everyday passion, you know what I mean.

1150
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 2: I saw this TikTok that reminded me of you, because

1151
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 2: this girl said, you are not we are not made.

1152
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 3: To be busy or doing something or accomplishing goals twenty

1153
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 3: four to seven in our life. And it made me

1154
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 3: think of how you've always been such a goal oriented

1155
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:56,959
Speaker 3: person and how you've you've especially before twenty twenty tied

1156
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 3: so much of your success to how much you were

1157
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 3: doing in a day, And I thought I'll send it

1158
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 3: to you because I favored it. But I thought it

1159
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:05,799
Speaker 3: was really good advice of like we're not made to

1160
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 3: like run on that yeah level.

1161
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:11,840
Speaker 4: I used to My apartment used to be literally a closet.

1162
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 4: I would come home, I would sleep, I would go

1163
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 4: do my thing, come home, shower, change, go about do

1164
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 4: my thing, come home, shower, sleep, shower, go go go

1165
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 4: go come shower change. Like that was like my life.

1166
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,279
Speaker 4: Like it was just I was just going and I

1167
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 4: loved it. It wasn't I'm not complaining, like I loved it.

1168
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 4: But I've never I'm like, I my rent never been

1169
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 4: happier to pay it. I'm like, here you go to

1170
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 4: take my money because I'm spending so much time here now,

1171
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 4: you know, I mean my head, I've never felt like

1172
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 4: you know, and rent in La is ridiculous. But I'm like,

1173
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 4: all right, I really live here, you know, Like I

1174
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 4: live here, I work here, I breathe here. Yes, uh

1175
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 4: so yeah, it's definitely taught me that. So as I

1176
00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 4: make my vision board, it's gonna be less focused on

1177
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 4: on tangible things and more on feelings.

1178
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 2: I like that mark.

1179
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 1: I mean it's travel in a big way. We're going

1180
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 1: to Wisconsin next summer, even if we have to drive.

1181
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 1: We've already got plans over Labor Day weekend to go

1182
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 1: to Florida to honor my wife's grandmother who passed away

1183
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: over quarantine, not of COVID, but it was still an

1184
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:22,359
Speaker 1: unpleasant last few days for her, so we couldn't really

1185
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 1: do much to honor her. Then we're going to honor

1186
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 1: her over Labor Day twenty twenty one in Florida with

1187
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 1: a big group of us going. It's exciting back to

1188
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: Wisconsin for Christmas, and who knows what other place will

1189
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 1: be traveling to because traveling will be a thing again.

1190
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:36,600
Speaker 1: And I want to go to a baseball game and

1191
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 1: all of the things we took advantage before I can't

1192
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 1: wait to do again. I'm not looking forward to going

1193
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: back to the office. That's not something I'm looking forward to.

1194
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:46,840
Speaker 1: But the rest of normalcy I can't wait for.

1195
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, going to a bar, yeah, I just I can't

1196
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:53,879
Speaker 3: want to go to a concert again. I can't wait too.

1197
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 3: I want to buy a house this next year. I

1198
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 3: have a lot of goals. What are you looking at

1199
00:56:59,200 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 3: me like that?

1200
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 4: In Nashville?

1201
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 2: I don't know where, but I would like to buy

1202
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 2: a house.

1203
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 3: Oh shoot, the look I'm getting. Do you see the

1204
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:11,560
Speaker 3: look I'm getting?

1205
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:15,400
Speaker 4: Quite a look, because that's where you were looking.

1206
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 2: I was thinking about it. If you moved to Nashville,

1207
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 2: you'll come visit.

1208
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 4: We're done.

1209
00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 5: Wow.

1210
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:29,440
Speaker 4: Wow, it's an ultimatum. I don't want to know.

1211
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 3: You're not supposed to be doing ultimatums with people that

1212
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 3: you love anymore.

1213
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 4: That is true. Yeah, reach it beca. I gave an

1214
00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 4: ultimatum a few months ago and really regretted that. However,

1215
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 4: I do think, like remember in the beginning of the pandemic,

1216
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 4: when we're doing the podcast Separate, it just wasn't the same.

1217
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 4: If we have to do like you and I have

1218
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 4: to be through Zoom, it's just not the same.

1219
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 2: I know.

1220
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 3: But that's nothing to worry about. I just would like

1221
00:57:53,080 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 3: to buy a house, So if I find one here, great,

1222
00:57:55,640 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not opposed to that.

1223
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: What if Becka bought a house in southern California but

1224
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 1: not in like La proper, That's fine, okay.

1225
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 3: I do like I love like the Newport area, it's

1226
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 3: so cute down there. My sister lives down there and

1227
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 3: I always go and it's just like they're right by

1228
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 3: the beach. It's just that easy way of life.

1229
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like in a perfect world, do I like her

1230
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 4: being down the street for me? Yes?

1231
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 2: Well, in a.

1232
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 3: Perfect world she loved being literally next door? Yeah, right

1233
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 3: next door. But that didn't you know?

1234
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 4: So the how many blocks are between us?

1235
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 6: Now?

1236
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 4: Five?

1237
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 2: You would know?

1238
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 5: You probably, yeah, how many steps?

1239
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 4: The five blocks? But it's about it's a little less

1240
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:39,600
Speaker 4: than a mile. It's it's I don't It's fine.

1241
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 2: It's fine, Sable.

1242
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 4: You were in a different city, I could deal. It's fine.

1243
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:49,479
Speaker 4: Nashville hard. No, So a flight away is not by away,

1244
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 4: is no?

1245
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 2: Okay? All right, Well I'll definitely take that into consideration

1246
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 2: because my life is all about what pleases Tanya and

1247
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 2: makes Tanya's life best.

1248
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 4: Thank you so much. You know the podcast is a team.

1249
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 2: No, I agree. I do agree. Maybe you can move

1250
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 2: to Nashville with me if you're that committed. That's how

1251
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 2: it works.

1252
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 4: Here's the problem.

1253
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 5: My other jobs are now getting tense.

1254
00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 2: Now they're virtual.

1255
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 1: Hold on, this is getting tense. The year end show, Christmas, Yeah, I'm.

1256
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 2: Sorry, huh Christmas about love marry Christmas?

1257
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 4: And I just took it to a dark place.

1258
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:29,200
Speaker 2: I wasn't trying to. I think she brought me.

1259
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: Becka said I would like to buy a house in

1260
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 1: twenty twenty, and Tanya, you took it to a very

1261
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 1: dark place.

1262
00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 3: Thank you, Mark, because I would like to say I

1263
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 3: normally would be the one to go to the dark side,

1264
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 3: but she took it there today.

1265
00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 2: So she has her wide eyes on right now.

1266
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:47,920
Speaker 4: Don't you guys see like beck and I when we

1267
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 4: have kids.

1268
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 5: Liked, you're not that you're not going to have children together.

1269
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:59,440
Speaker 2: What do you mean we're not raising children together.

1270
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 4: Our kids are gonna be friends right right now? Okay,

1271
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:08,479
Speaker 4: So when when we have our own children and they're

1272
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 4: gonna be friends? And then they're like, Aunt Becca gives

1273
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 4: us oreos? Can you have oreos? And I'm gonna be like,

1274
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 4: you don't like the vegan paleo nutter butters that mommy's making?

1275
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:20,520
Speaker 2: Oh well, so bad for them.

1276
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:24,840
Speaker 4: Excuse me, Well, we'll.

1277
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:26,800
Speaker 2: Get to that next year. We'll talk about that next.

1278
01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say that can't happen if you're in Nashville.

1279
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:31,640
Speaker 3: Oh, I see, Well, neither of us are pregnant or

1280
01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 3: going in that directioning time soon, So let me just

1281
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 3: buy a house before we talk about kids. Thank you

1282
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 3: all for an amazing year. Thank you for sticking with

1283
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 3: us and being supportive of the podcast and listening and

1284
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,920
Speaker 3: interacting with us. We are so appreciative as always, but

1285
01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 3: I think even more so this year. Appreciate y'all, and

1286
01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 3: I appreciate all of you who make this podcast happen.

1287
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 3: Mark Easton, Tanya and Yell, Riley Becky.

1288
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 2: It is a team effort. Amy, who is.

1289
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 3: Our matriarch on the podcast, who started it, we're so

1290
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 3: appreciative of.

1291
01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 4: By the way she reads, she reads.

1292
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 2: The transcript, you know, it's very Amy fashion.

1293
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:21,360
Speaker 4: It's probably the same speed of reading versus listening. Yeah,

1294
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 4: I would think either way.

1295
01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:26,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, we love you, We love you, and I hope

1296
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 3: this year is full of so much joy and love

1297
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,960
Speaker 3: and everything you want it to be. I hope we

1298
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 3: can all be even kinder to each other this next

1299
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:40,959
Speaker 3: year and appreciate our time with each other more.

1300
01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:42,440
Speaker 2: We love you all.

1301
01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:48,560
Speaker 3: Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and New Year. Happy New Year,

1302
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 3: and we'll be back in twenty twenty one. However, there

1303
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 3: will be a bonus episode with Easton and Mark ringing

1304
01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 3: all in for the news.

1305
01:01:58,520 --> 01:02:02,640
Speaker 4: Will be the last, the last episode, ma'am, possibly the

1306
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 4: no because let me come back in January. I'm gonna

1307
01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have the gift of song.

1308
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 2: That's right of instruments.

1309
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 5: Monday, the Market Eastern episode.

1310
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:15,840
Speaker 1: Please let us know if you have ideas for that

1311
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 1: show or questions you want us to answer or address.

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Speaker 1: We'd love to talk to you, Yes, we'd love to

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Speaker 1: talk to you.

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Speaker 2: We love you all, and to all, a good night,

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Speaker 2: to all, a good night,