WEBVTT - Season 4 El Final - Llegaron Los Holidays 

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Honey Germy. My parents are Dominican. I was born

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<v Speaker 1>and raised in New York City. I love speakers and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a body positive advocate.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Carolina Bermudez soy Nikata wins it. But I was

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<v Speaker 2>born and raised in Ohio. I'm a wife, a mama,

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<v Speaker 2>and a worker bee.

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<v Speaker 3>This is life in Spanglish.

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<v Speaker 1>The time has arrived, Carolina. We don't put in a

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<v Speaker 1>full season of life in Spanglish. Can you believe this?

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<v Speaker 2>No? You know what, I it's hard to believe. When

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<v Speaker 2>we were talking about it this morning, I sat back

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<v Speaker 2>and then I went back to our page on the

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<v Speaker 2>iHeart app, and I was like, we really did that,

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<v Speaker 2>Like this is really the end of the season. It

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<v Speaker 2>just flew by, seriously.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so like just on point that it's like

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<v Speaker 1>the fall right September, the holidays are creeping up on us,

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<v Speaker 1>and here we are. Life in Spanglish is coming to

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<v Speaker 1>an end for twenty twenty three.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, I'm not ready for this to any

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<v Speaker 2>You know that I'm not ready for the holidays, because

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<v Speaker 2>why would I be? There are so many coming up. Actually,

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<v Speaker 2>funny enough, this past weekend I said to Mark, I go.

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<v Speaker 2>You better decide what you want to be for Halloween.

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<v Speaker 2>It happens every year, this poor man. No, And actually

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even like Halloween. I feel like I've talked

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<v Speaker 2>about it before on this podcast. I don't get into Halloween.

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<v Speaker 2>The only reason why I play along is because it

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<v Speaker 2>gives Mark Grossman so much joy, and he likes to

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<v Speaker 2>find the most ridiculous costume and I have to go

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<v Speaker 2>along with it. So like one year he I do

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<v Speaker 2>like to go Matchine because that girl.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pressure because he gets to pick and then you

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<v Speaker 1>have to figure it out, and then.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to figure it out. Like last year he

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<v Speaker 2>was a Pineapple and he wore a giant pineapple like

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<v Speaker 2>cost So, yeah, well not being you, and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know why. He's like, it's just ridiculous. So I dressed up.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to Amazon. By the way, I thank God

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<v Speaker 2>for Amazon, and this is not an ad for them.

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<v Speaker 2>Because we were so late to the game. I had

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<v Speaker 2>to go to every Spirit Halloween store in the Tri

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<v Speaker 2>state area to find him a freaking pineapple, to the

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<v Speaker 2>point where I was even calling costume shops in New

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<v Speaker 2>York City asking them, do you have a pineapple costume?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? No, no, no, my man, if you decide you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a pineapple, you don't have to find Yoshit too.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, right well. I ended up finding him a

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<v Speaker 2>costume like in Riverhead, okay, and it was like the

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<v Speaker 2>last one, the island, the and a long island. I

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<v Speaker 2>traveled near him far and then I went on Amazon

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, okay, what can I be? Like

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<v Speaker 2>a pineapple? I thought, like, am I am? I like SpongeBob?

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<v Speaker 2>Am I the squirrel from SpongeBob? And then I ended

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<v Speaker 2>up being a pineapple princess like from It's called Princess Power.

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<v Speaker 2>So I like modeled the pineapple princess and I put

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<v Speaker 2>together like but that's what I'm saying. The pressure. So

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<v Speaker 2>I said to him last weekend, you better figure out

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<v Speaker 2>what you want to be for Halloween so that I

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<v Speaker 2>am not scrambling the week before because we always go

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<v Speaker 2>to this party and he has not decided yet, Like

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<v Speaker 2>what do you and noone do?

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, Karline, I need to give our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>a Dominican translation to what you said to Mark Abdi?

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<v Speaker 2>What what she said exactly? That is the tea, exactly

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<v Speaker 2>what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>We used to dress up. But why do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel like this episode, Caroline, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>this episode we could take it as tips holidays because

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<v Speaker 1>pasa Halloween. So I think let's do that. Let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>give everybody, you know, tips. I'm preparing for the holidays.

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<v Speaker 1>What do we have five holidays coming up? That's a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So we got Halloween right, and then we have Honkah,

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<v Speaker 2>which is my you know, we celebrate Honukah. I will

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<v Speaker 2>tell you. I'll get into that after. But we have Honukkah,

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<v Speaker 2>we have Christmas, New Year's. What am I missing?

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<v Speaker 4>And come on, Caroline, Oh my gosh, yeah, I've had it.

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<v Speaker 2>These kids get an I said, forget it. You know

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<v Speaker 2>what the Three can on Christmas?

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<v Speaker 1>They get it, all the three.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But Halloween. Let's tackle Halloween, Carolina. So you guys dress up.

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<v Speaker 1>We used to dress up, but not anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what it is. I feel like this

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<v Speaker 2>year it's going to be so typical, and I really

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<v Speaker 2>really want people to think outside the box because we

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<v Speaker 2>are going to see so many Ken and Barbie's. It's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be.

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<v Speaker 1>Not Kenn Barbie. It's gonna be a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>There's totally and all the little girls are gonna want

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<v Speaker 2>to be Barbie. So I feel like that. For me,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like a hard no. But I just told him,

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<v Speaker 2>I said, look, I'll do whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>That'll be cute. That would be cute, and you already

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<v Speaker 1>got Ken anyway, so why not.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, he won't do it. It's not ridiculous enough.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you.

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<v Speaker 1>He likes to be silly.

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<v Speaker 2>He likes to be silly. He was too Ken Sam

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<v Speaker 2>from Fruit Loops and his beak kept hitting people in

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<v Speaker 2>the head. It was so large, it was so ridiculous,

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<v Speaker 2>and I ended up being Tony the Tiger from frost Flakes.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cute. I like that. I like that. I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>We like to think of like all of these, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just outrageous different things. I'm trying to think of another year.

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<v Speaker 2>What were we? Oh, we were both ballerinas one year.

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<v Speaker 2>He loves a good blow up costume.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh those are obnoxious as hell, Carolina, don't tell me,

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<v Speaker 1>And shit.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate it. I hate them. No. What he was what?

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<v Speaker 2>He was a giant animal of some sort one time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but that's what I'm saying. Like, whenever he shows up

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<v Speaker 2>at the party, he wants to be the one that

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<v Speaker 2>people are cracking up and being like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe he wore that. So yeah, Halloween it's

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<v Speaker 2>still on hold for me. But we need to get

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<v Speaker 2>that wrapped up immediately, because I do not want that

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<v Speaker 2>stress or that pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Because I was looking at an article and like

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<v Speaker 1>celebrity stylists were predicting already what the Halloween costumes are

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<v Speaker 1>going to be in, Barbie was number one for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>followed by Wednesday Atoms. Big shout out Naala, our digital

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<v Speaker 1>content producer. I don't know why. Anytime I think Wednesday Adams,

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<v Speaker 1>I think of her.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you really? Oh my gosh, Now I'm never gonna

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<v Speaker 2>unsee it. Nala. We need to do a side by side.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah for real. Now she looks like her. But this

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<v Speaker 1>girl Carolina to talk about. Oh you gotta watch Wednesday Adams.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember this is like when she first started last

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<v Speaker 1>October and I'm watching this show. I'm like, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>kill this girl. I just watched it. I just wasted

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<v Speaker 1>like three episodes. This is for kids. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>turns it off.

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<v Speaker 2>I am here for it. Nala, you need to dress

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<v Speaker 2>up as Wednesday Adams as Halloween and we'll do like

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<v Speaker 2>a side by side. I feel like, Honey, just did

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<v Speaker 2>you a favor, because now you don't even have to

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<v Speaker 2>think about anything.

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<v Speaker 1>There you go, I always deliver. Another one was the

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<v Speaker 1>Little Mermaid. They feel like a lot of especially with

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<v Speaker 1>our black girls.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, yes, because this.

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<v Speaker 1>Will be amazing. All of our black little girls can

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<v Speaker 1>be out here, you know, being the Little Mermaid confidently

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<v Speaker 1>and owning it.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that, Honey, I completely forgot and that's a

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<v Speaker 2>good thing too. It's like you start to remember all

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<v Speaker 2>of these things that happen in pop culture over the

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<v Speaker 2>year when you start thinking about like a costume for yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>and you like pick up on the things that maybe

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<v Speaker 2>people forgot about. Do you know who wears the most

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<v Speaker 2>insane Halloween costumes?

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<v Speaker 1>The Queen of Halloween, Heidi Clume takes a carey you

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<v Speaker 1>go level boom. Don't nobody do it biggot than Heidi.

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<v Speaker 2>And she doesn't do like the typical cutesy princess sexy.

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<v Speaker 2>She was a freaking worm last year and a disgusting

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<v Speaker 2>worm at that. Like she gets prosthetics. I mean she goes,

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<v Speaker 2>she tops herself.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like every year she tops.

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<v Speaker 2>Herself, definitely, so she has one to watch. I would

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<v Speaker 2>love for her to give a hint, but every year

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<v Speaker 2>it's the most guarded secret. She never wants anybody to

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<v Speaker 2>know what she's gonna be. But definitely, I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>keeping an eye on Heidiklume. Were there any other ideas

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<v Speaker 2>that we can share with people, because I have no

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<v Speaker 2>clue what I'm gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>Bridgerton, They said Bridgeton and Queen Charlotte are going to

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<v Speaker 1>be two shows that people are going to be dressing

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<v Speaker 1>up as this year.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, those two, so you gotta get the tatas out.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I get that. I don't know where we're

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<v Speaker 1>getting these dresses. But I feel like another big one

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<v Speaker 1>here in New York is going to be Ice Spice,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, and I want to do it. Girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I just got to locate the right curly wig, because

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<v Speaker 1>you can't have the wrong curly wig.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you can't be out there looking like Ronald McDonald. No,

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta do her right, you can't, like, you gotta

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<v Speaker 2>find the perfect ice Spice wig, which I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you like people can accomplish it, But I would love

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<v Speaker 2>to see you pull this look off. Well, I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to keep you guys posted. I'll let you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do, and I will post it on my

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<v Speaker 2>social media. I'm at the real Carolina, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>can follow I am Honey German to see what she

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<v Speaker 2>does for Halloween. But we got to get into like,

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<v Speaker 2>see Halloween. To me, it's not that it isn't a

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<v Speaker 2>real holiday. It said, I don't get pumped for it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm just kind of like, Okay, it's there.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't get canceled, Carolina, be easy on the Halloween situation,

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<v Speaker 1>because these people are I was in Disney a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks ago and they had like Disney Halloween Nights. Girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I was shook. It was I was just people watching.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even want.

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<v Speaker 2>To do anything. No, that's an event.

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<v Speaker 1>These Disney adults are sick wid apparently. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do they work here? Are they patrons?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What is happening?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait? And they look at you crazy. If you show

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<v Speaker 2>up just in your jeans and your sneakers, They're like

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<v Speaker 2>what what that was me?

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<v Speaker 3>Gird?

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<v Speaker 2>That was me?

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<v Speaker 1>I have bike the shorts on in some ones? That

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<v Speaker 1>was it? That's all? Yeah, getting And then I looked

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<v Speaker 1>to my right, and there's Jasmine and Aladdin on a

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<v Speaker 1>ride with me. Then I looked to my left. Pirates

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<v Speaker 1>of the Caribbean is to my red. I'm like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>what is happening? These are regular humans?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And also the fact that they take the time

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<v Speaker 2>to pack these things. You know me and we've talked

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<v Speaker 2>about it before in this season. How much of a

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<v Speaker 2>packer I am imagine having to like pack your costume

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<v Speaker 2>to go to Disney to wear it one night to

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<v Speaker 2>only like, no, it's too much for me. So no,

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<v Speaker 2>for me, I'm really not the person that goes all

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<v Speaker 2>out for Halloween. But I can appreciate the people who do.

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<v Speaker 1>I love them. They could do it because I ensure

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<v Speaker 1>as how I ain't gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 2>No. Well, now, when we come back, we got to

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<v Speaker 2>get into like what I was saying is like these

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<v Speaker 2>are like the real holidays to me, like Thanksgiving is

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<v Speaker 2>where it all kicks in, and I want to know

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<v Speaker 2>some of your traditions. Money. When we get back from

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<v Speaker 2>the brig, got you. I can't believe I forgot it.

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<v Speaker 2>The namosci la Paul, we have to talk about Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you guys typically do do have you ever

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<v Speaker 2>hosted a Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 1>Honey, Yeah, I've done Thanksgiving before. You know, when I

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<v Speaker 1>first moved in, when noon, I was like, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>an adult. Now I'm gonna do Thanksgiving. Girl. I used

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<v Speaker 1>to tell like his mom, like I got Thanksgiving. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>thinking back on it, I'm like, the fuck was I thinking?

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<v Speaker 2>What were you thinking? No, I do not want to

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<v Speaker 2>ever have to host a Thanksgiving again. It is so stressful.

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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, I'll have you all know I

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<v Speaker 2>have two ovens, I have a warming I have a

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<v Speaker 2>warming drawer, I have a full range.

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<v Speaker 1>This is how heavy you do it up. Talk to me, Carolina.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm saying the choreography and the timing that has

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<v Speaker 2>to go into making the perfect things giving meal is ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I had to sit out the night before and

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<v Speaker 2>be like, Okay, I'm gonna well, let's talk about like

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<v Speaker 2>the preparation. First of all, just going even writing the list,

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<v Speaker 2>you always forget something. I don't care how meticulous you are,

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<v Speaker 2>how diligent you are, You're gonna forget something from the store,

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<v Speaker 2>the shaved almonds for the cranberry. You're gonna forget that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, Like, there's always something that

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<v Speaker 2>you forget. So I'm the type of person that I'm like, Mark,

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<v Speaker 2>go pick this up for me, Mark, I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>enough green beans. We have more people coming, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like it the pressure for me is what

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<v Speaker 2>really gets.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, especially with the latinos. You know, we gotta go

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<v Speaker 1>to Terre, Supermacalia, Key Food, Yeah, Walmart, then m Ok, yeah, Weagmans,

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<v Speaker 1>like we just we pick from everywhere. So that's even

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<v Speaker 1>another layer of stress just the shopping alone.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, because you can't get certain ingredients at certain stores,

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<v Speaker 2>like for example, my mom who lives in Miami, she

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<v Speaker 2>goes to Sadano's for certain things. But then it's like

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<v Speaker 2>you go to public, so you know, you're spending that cash.

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<v Speaker 2>So she tries to go to the other stores that

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<v Speaker 2>are yeah and that that are selling like the ingredients

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<v Speaker 2>that we need, you know, for whatever it is that

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<v Speaker 2>she wants to make. Oh wait, and by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>don't even get me started on the nakatemalas. My mom

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<v Speaker 2>used to make us prepare for nakatemalas that we would

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<v Speaker 2>make these to freeze them for Christmas for Thanksgiving. So

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<v Speaker 2>when we're sitting there chopping and our little fingers are

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<v Speaker 2>so tired because we chopped all the carrots, all the

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<v Speaker 2>celery for the recalo.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom calls well, call us, but that's the equivalent

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<v Speaker 1>of the pastillas and the Puerto Ricans and dominicanmates. Tamala

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of like the same concept.

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<v Speaker 2>Right yeah, well yeah, naktamalas. They're made with like a banana,

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<v Speaker 2>a banana leaf and the masa chan cho.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta make it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, it is. It is a production. The thing is,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just so delicious when you're having it. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>like the guys don't sit there and stuff that tamalas.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all the girls. But I feel like that's what's

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<v Speaker 2>the beautiful part about it.

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<v Speaker 1>My mother in law still makes balls from scratch. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>go girl, do your thing. I love yours, Yes girl,

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<v Speaker 1>because go off girl, Yeah, do your thing, because guess

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<v Speaker 1>who's not gonna be guayando juga yami all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's like seven different starchy vegetables that we put

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<v Speaker 1>in hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah no, and we do a massa. But like my mom,

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<v Speaker 2>I've tried a million times to get her to tell

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<v Speaker 2>me her recipe. Do you know that I even recorded

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<v Speaker 2>her okay. I uploaded it to YouTube and I unlisted

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<v Speaker 2>it and I put it on private because I want

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<v Speaker 2>to be able to watch her make it. My mom

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<v Speaker 2>cannot give you the recipe on how to make anakatamal.

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<v Speaker 2>She just can't do it. Like I've sat there and

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<v Speaker 2>I've tried to, like, Mom, you got to measure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, no, it's it's me the Carolina a yuca

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<v Speaker 1>dam Like. It's just I feel her because I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cook the same way. I don't have recipes, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't follow measurements. I just do my thing and boila.

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<v Speaker 2>What I love is my mom goes eh, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>what is a the hoogle? Mom? You know, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Carolina talun Chin. Ain't no measurements, girl, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she'll say and then she'll go in and

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<v Speaker 2>she'll go wait and she'll grab like a massive handful.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, mom, Mom, that's not what it is though,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. So like yeah, for Thanksgiving, we typically go

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<v Speaker 2>to Miami and it's a beautiful thing because my mom

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<v Speaker 2>had always said, like I know she has six kids,

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<v Speaker 2>and she said, I know, when you guys start your

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<v Speaker 2>own families, Christmas is so special and you want to

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<v Speaker 2>share that with you know, your families and your kids.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to see them and the joy that they have,

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<v Speaker 2>like when Santa comes and everything. She's like, but will

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<v Speaker 2>you all just give me Thanksgiving? And she's like, and

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<v Speaker 2>I know you're gonna have to rotate one year at

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<v Speaker 2>your in laws one year with me, But whenever we can,

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<v Speaker 2>we go to our moms for thanks I go every year,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because Mark's mom is in Florida and we

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<v Speaker 2>invite her. So I'm oh, that's prepper lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm dope. It works out really nicely for you. Plus,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you have your turkey and your little bikini.

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<v Speaker 2>If mom allows for it, you think I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>showing off this this I know no, So like it is,

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<v Speaker 2>it ends up being like a nice little vacation for us,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're forming those memories and those traditions for our kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I see my my sons when we go down

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<v Speaker 2>to Miami and the morning of Thanksgiving. Uh, you know

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<v Speaker 2>when it's like the music is on, there's footfall on,

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<v Speaker 2>they're they're going in and out. The kids are in

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<v Speaker 2>the pool, you know, the the are hanging out with

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<v Speaker 2>the boys outside. We're all inside prepping and helping my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>And okay, like my sister Elizabeth, I do have to

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<v Speaker 2>give her credit. She is amazing in the kitchen. She's

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<v Speaker 2>got two instant pots going. We have bokitas, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like we're putting out little appetizers for everybody as the

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<v Speaker 2>day goes on. So it's such a It gives me

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<v Speaker 2>such a warm feeling because I know that my kids

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<v Speaker 2>are gonna remember, wow, like we used to go to

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<v Speaker 2>wheat this house, you know, like when they're older, and

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully they'll like continue with those traditions.

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<v Speaker 1>And so how do you blend like your your I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>your Jewish traditions with your Latino traditions When it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to let's say Thanksgiving, do you make certain plates that

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<v Speaker 1>Mark grew up eating?

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<v Speaker 2>No, not necessarily, you know. And that's the thing that

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I have it so much easier than

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<v Speaker 2>other people because like, look, like I said, his mom

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't really cook, and we invite her every year. We

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<v Speaker 2>say I am plato, you know what I mean, Like

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<v Speaker 2>she can come in atienna sulugar like she has her chair,

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<v Speaker 2>and my mom loves to cook and to do like

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<v Speaker 2>a feast, so we I never really got any recipes

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<v Speaker 2>like from my mother in law, but I mean the

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<v Speaker 2>fact that she's there and my kids get to see

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<v Speaker 2>both of their grandma because you know, my husband's father

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<v Speaker 2>passed away a long time ago, but they get to

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<v Speaker 2>see both of their grandma's in the same space, which I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think, Yeah, that is the reason I ask is because

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<v Speaker 1>my sister, you know, her husband is white, and when

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<v Speaker 1>we go for Thanksgiving, this woman has, you know, all

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<v Speaker 1>of the dishes he grew up with. I'm talking fresh

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<v Speaker 1>cranberry sauce, wowing bean espabo a girl, it is a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the reason I ask you, because she'd be cooking

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<v Speaker 1>for like three days bless No.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, my mom does a good mix though, like

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<v Speaker 2>I will say, you know, we have like I mentioned riccalo,

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<v Speaker 2>but she'll also have like asparagus with hollandaise sauce, and

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<v Speaker 2>she'll make like a mashed potato pro you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>because we rice with everything. My father has to have rice,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's like a you know, it's like bab exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>and then also like h and salada for the people

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<v Speaker 2>who don't really love to eat the searchy things. But

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<v Speaker 2>then we have like my sister will make like sweet

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<v Speaker 2>potato casse roles, so we we really do. We cook

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<v Speaker 2>it up. And I, of course, you know, I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>there to help. I chop, I do, and I watch.

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<v Speaker 1>Rolina be the soux chef and ship. I know who

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<v Speaker 1>you are. You're Bella. Okay, you get you know what.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually I was about to be offended, but no, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what, Bella and I have our space and we

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<v Speaker 2>we're essential workers.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well yeah, they'd be like you people look parched.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's pop up and let's get this party going.

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<v Speaker 2>The mimosas are flowing, okay, And I will not let

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<v Speaker 2>anybody I hydrate everyone. I will say that if that

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<v Speaker 2>cup is getting low, your girl is gonna fill it up.

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<v Speaker 2>So there you go.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew it, our tender sou chef, all of it.

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<v Speaker 2>I I am not afraid. But no, you know you

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<v Speaker 2>did mention how do I blend like the Jewish cultures

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<v Speaker 2>and traditions with you know, Thanksgiving? But we do celebrate

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<v Speaker 2>both Hanukah and Christmas, and it does get interesting, so

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<v Speaker 2>we can get into that after this. Well, now, honey,

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<v Speaker 2>you were talking about Thanksgiving and how you spend it

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<v Speaker 2>like your sister sounds like she puts out an amazing spread.

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<v Speaker 1>Bless her soul. My sister is like Mother Teresa of

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<v Speaker 1>our family. And you know what I you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I hate about the holidays. She tries to get dressed up,

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<v Speaker 1>but then she starts sweating, and then her hair becomes

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<v Speaker 1>a mess. And I want her to one time just

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<v Speaker 1>look gorgeous and sit in the living room and let

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<v Speaker 1>me and Bella and my mom take over the kitchen,

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<v Speaker 1>because yes, she does the most.

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<v Speaker 2>Could you imagine? I don't think that she would have

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<v Speaker 2>the ability somebody like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll have a nervous breakdown, Caroline. I'll have to put

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<v Speaker 1>it on a straight jacket to sit in the couch.

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<v Speaker 2>Even just watching you guys, I feel like would be

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<v Speaker 2>a challenge for her. So I don't think she would

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<v Speaker 2>enjoy it as much. Truthfully, I don't think that she

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<v Speaker 2>would be able to like sit there and allow you

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<v Speaker 2>guys to do that for her, because there are certain

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<v Speaker 2>types of people, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>God bless her soul. I'll be there for Thanksgiving, girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, listen, as long as she's cooking, I am there.

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<v Speaker 2>So then what do you guys do for Christmas? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you and noony, like have your own separate thing or

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<v Speaker 2>like do you guys go and get together with your sisters?

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<v Speaker 2>Like how does that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we always either go to his mom or go

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<v Speaker 1>to my older sister, Like for the last year we

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<v Speaker 1>were in Florida, we went to my mom's. Last Thanksgiving

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<v Speaker 1>we did in Miami. But we travel wherever the most

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<v Speaker 1>amount of people are. That's what we try to do

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<v Speaker 1>because since we don't have kids and it's just to

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<v Speaker 1>two of us. I'm not making I'm not making up

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<v Speaker 1>a need. I'm not making a whole turkey. I'm mnsa

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<v Speaker 1>spend the block. I'm gonna see what a food is

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<v Speaker 1>at Carolina, and I'm gonna bring whatever they tell me

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<v Speaker 1>to bring. People love my potato salad. I'll bring the

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<v Speaker 1>potato salad. I'll bring as many bottles of wine as

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<v Speaker 1>you want. I'll bring all the dessert you want. But girl, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we gonna crash the older women's houses.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because they know what's up and that's what we

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<v Speaker 2>need to follow. But then the thing is is one

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<v Speaker 2>day we are going to be the older women and

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<v Speaker 2>people are going to expect this from us. And I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to see you at shop, right, picking up

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<v Speaker 2>a turkey, you know, the week of Christmas or Thanksgiving,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and trying to figure it out. So we

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<v Speaker 2>got to start like slowly beginning to to you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like put these things on. Like for example, so for well,

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<v Speaker 2>Russia Shana was last week, but Russia Shana mark I said, Mark,

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<v Speaker 2>I go, so what do I need to do? And

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, oh, we need a brisket, we need a noodle.

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<v Speaker 1>Google how long ago is this that you asked this question?

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<v Speaker 2>Like how when we first started dating? When we first

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<v Speaker 2>started dating, because like he we were both still single,

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<v Speaker 2>well no, not single, but we were both still kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like just dating, you know, and I wanted to know, like,

0:21:54.720 --> 0:21:56.440
<v Speaker 2>how does one celebrate this stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>She said, put me on because listen to me, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to show up all confused, and shit, I do

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<v Speaker 1>not want to do that.

0:22:03.960 --> 0:22:05.920
<v Speaker 2>I needed to go to the source, you know, because

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<v Speaker 2>it's like you've been living this life hello, you know,

0:22:08.680 --> 0:22:10.760
<v Speaker 2>this is just my first exposure to it. So over

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<v Speaker 2>the years now we've been together, gosh, fifteen years, I've

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<v Speaker 2>learned how to make a really good noodle coogle, you know,

0:22:16.480 --> 0:22:21.240
<v Speaker 2>I've learned how to make explain that you don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what noodle coogle is. It's kind of like a dessert.

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<v Speaker 2>It depends on how you make it. Like some people

0:22:25.359 --> 0:22:27.680
<v Speaker 2>make it really sweet. Some people make it with like

0:22:27.760 --> 0:22:32.520
<v Speaker 2>cottage she's. It's basically like a casserole and it's sweet. Yeah,

0:22:32.760 --> 0:22:36.920
<v Speaker 2>and it's so good. It has noodles, eggs. Some people

0:22:36.960 --> 0:22:39.639
<v Speaker 2>put cottage sheees in it. Some people put sour cream.

0:22:40.080 --> 0:22:42.359
<v Speaker 2>Some people put raisins in it, like you can, you

0:22:42.440 --> 0:22:45.440
<v Speaker 2>can really like hush it up, you know, like, and

0:22:45.480 --> 0:22:49.040
<v Speaker 2>I've tried different recipes, but now the most rewarding thing

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<v Speaker 2>for me is when we are celebrating the Jewish holidays

0:22:52.720 --> 0:22:54.440
<v Speaker 2>and the boys look at me and they're like, Mommy,

0:22:54.920 --> 0:22:59.240
<v Speaker 2>this is the best brisket ever. I'm like, oh my gosh,

0:22:59.400 --> 0:23:02.840
<v Speaker 2>you know, because then they're gonna one day be like, mom,

0:23:02.960 --> 0:23:04.879
<v Speaker 2>I need to come home for Russiashana, or I need

0:23:04.960 --> 0:23:07.440
<v Speaker 2>to come home for won't pass Over. Not really, but

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't I wouldn't make a brisket for Passover,

0:23:10.160 --> 0:23:13.360
<v Speaker 2>but you know, just for those certain holidays that they

0:23:13.640 --> 0:23:16.399
<v Speaker 2>will remember like that was my mom's cooking, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>so they're.

0:23:17.240 --> 0:23:21.440
<v Speaker 1>Gonna be like, mom, I need the apple noodle Koogle

0:23:21.520 --> 0:23:23.720
<v Speaker 1>recipe for my new girlfriend. I'm trying to put onto

0:23:23.760 --> 0:23:26.399
<v Speaker 1>your recipes. Yes, Caroline a wapper, it will happen.

0:23:26.440 --> 0:23:28.840
<v Speaker 2>One hundred percent, and I will. I'm generous. I am

0:23:28.960 --> 0:23:31.639
<v Speaker 2>not petty like that. Like there's an apple honey snack

0:23:31.760 --> 0:23:34.520
<v Speaker 2>cake like cause for Russia, for Russia, Sshana, you have

0:23:34.640 --> 0:23:36.520
<v Speaker 2>to dip the apples in the honey. That's the one

0:23:36.520 --> 0:23:37.840
<v Speaker 2>where you dip the apples in the honey. And so

0:23:38.200 --> 0:23:40.200
<v Speaker 2>sometimes you can make like a different cake or something.

0:23:40.240 --> 0:23:42.680
<v Speaker 2>And by the way, I am by no means a

0:23:42.760 --> 0:23:44.840
<v Speaker 2>Jewish authority. I'm just telling you how we do it

0:23:44.920 --> 0:23:47.560
<v Speaker 2>in our house. And we're interfaith, so you know, some

0:23:47.640 --> 0:23:50.160
<v Speaker 2>of the things that we do may be more relaxed

0:23:50.560 --> 0:23:54.680
<v Speaker 2>or different from people who fully observe Judaism. But I

0:23:54.840 --> 0:23:56.920
<v Speaker 2>just think it's like a beautiful thing to expose the

0:23:57.040 --> 0:24:00.359
<v Speaker 2>kids to both religions and to the high Holy days,

0:24:00.480 --> 0:24:03.800
<v Speaker 2>you know, so we give everything its importance.

0:24:04.119 --> 0:24:06.960
<v Speaker 1>And so much tradition, you know, just the meaning behind

0:24:07.040 --> 0:24:08.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, dipping the slice of apple and the honey

0:24:09.000 --> 0:24:12.680
<v Speaker 1>and just them knowing that it's it's it's refreshing.

0:24:12.800 --> 0:24:13.240
<v Speaker 2>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not letting tradition and customs die down.

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<v Speaker 2>No, definitely not. And I think that they are going

0:24:19.440 --> 0:24:22.800
<v Speaker 2>to grow up remembering and like they don't appreciate it now,

0:24:23.080 --> 0:24:25.400
<v Speaker 2>they don't see it now, but I think eventually, when

0:24:25.440 --> 0:24:27.600
<v Speaker 2>they are older, they'll be like, wow, like how did

0:24:27.680 --> 0:24:29.280
<v Speaker 2>they do that? You know what I mean? Because it

0:24:29.320 --> 0:24:33.200
<v Speaker 2>isn't easy, Like there are times where Hanukah overlaps with Christmas.

0:24:33.520 --> 0:24:34.119
<v Speaker 2>I've seen that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, how do what's going on in these interfaate families?

0:24:37.080 --> 0:24:38.880
<v Speaker 1>Are you just partying for like two weeks straight?

0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:42.560
<v Speaker 2>What's going on here partying? No? I am exhausted, I

0:24:42.640 --> 0:24:45.639
<v Speaker 2>am dragging myself. I am clawing my way to the

0:24:45.760 --> 0:24:48.560
<v Speaker 2>finish line. Honey, I'm telling you like I did tell

0:24:48.640 --> 0:24:52.640
<v Speaker 2>my husband. I said, look like we because we celebrate

0:24:52.800 --> 0:24:57.800
<v Speaker 2>both and it's such a materialistic holiday. I said to him.

0:24:57.800 --> 0:24:59.720
<v Speaker 2>I was like, we need to like figure out a

0:24:59.760 --> 0:25:02.400
<v Speaker 2>place and for Hanukkah and Christmas as like the kids

0:25:02.440 --> 0:25:04.639
<v Speaker 2>get older, right like when they're younger, you can give

0:25:04.680 --> 0:25:07.080
<v Speaker 2>them toys and things like that. So like for example,

0:25:07.119 --> 0:25:10.320
<v Speaker 2>for Hankah, like we'll give them for one night, We'll

0:25:10.359 --> 0:25:13.280
<v Speaker 2>give them a book that they've really wanted. It doesn't

0:25:13.320 --> 0:25:17.600
<v Speaker 2>have to be like an extravagant gift, you know, another

0:25:18.000 --> 0:25:20.760
<v Speaker 2>another night wet. Like we gave them soccer balls last year.

0:25:20.840 --> 0:25:22.720
<v Speaker 2>You know, they're really into soccer. We give them their

0:25:22.720 --> 0:25:25.560
<v Speaker 2>own designated soccer balls, you know, like and what what

0:25:25.640 --> 0:25:28.000
<v Speaker 2>does a soccer ball cause? Like fifteen twenty bucks you know,

0:25:28.119 --> 0:25:30.119
<v Speaker 2>depending on where you get it. So we want to

0:25:30.160 --> 0:25:33.440
<v Speaker 2>make it more Yes, they do receive something each night,

0:25:33.560 --> 0:25:35.919
<v Speaker 2>but we try to be more thoughtful about it, like.

0:25:37.960 --> 0:25:40.040
<v Speaker 1>So you get to talk about it for like it's

0:25:40.119 --> 0:25:44.960
<v Speaker 1>eight days, right, so then yes, nights, then you get

0:25:44.960 --> 0:25:46.639
<v Speaker 1>to talk about it like this is the meaning behind

0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:49.639
<v Speaker 1>this gift. This is not just a bunch of stuff,

0:25:49.720 --> 0:25:51.560
<v Speaker 1>like you open all this up and then there's no

0:25:51.640 --> 0:25:53.000
<v Speaker 1>meaning behind it. That's good.

0:25:53.000 --> 0:25:55.200
<v Speaker 2>I like that, right, Or like we see things that

0:25:55.320 --> 0:25:57.840
<v Speaker 2>they need and we say like, okay, you know tonight,

0:25:59.440 --> 0:26:02.720
<v Speaker 2>for example, Noah's tennis rackets was like beaten up, you know,

0:26:02.800 --> 0:26:04.760
<v Speaker 2>and they take tennis lessons and so it's not like

0:26:04.880 --> 0:26:07.120
<v Speaker 2>we're just buying them things to buy it for them,

0:26:07.400 --> 0:26:09.520
<v Speaker 2>and I think that that's like the important part. Or

0:26:09.600 --> 0:26:13.240
<v Speaker 2>like things that they can wear that are you know,

0:26:13.400 --> 0:26:15.879
<v Speaker 2>for their school, like to show their school spirit and

0:26:15.920 --> 0:26:18.200
<v Speaker 2>stuff like that, you know, because I just I have

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:21.320
<v Speaker 2>a real hard time because I didn't I didn't get

0:26:21.359 --> 0:26:23.199
<v Speaker 2>as much. Like my parents think that I was spoiled,

0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:25.800
<v Speaker 2>but like in my mind, I always recognize that, like

0:26:26.080 --> 0:26:28.080
<v Speaker 2>there were kids in my class that would come laced

0:26:28.280 --> 0:26:30.760
<v Speaker 2>out the next like two weeks, they would get all

0:26:30.920 --> 0:26:32.879
<v Speaker 2>new shit, you know, And so it's like I just

0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:35.720
<v Speaker 2>want my kids to appreciate what they have, and I

0:26:35.800 --> 0:26:38.240
<v Speaker 2>want them to recognize that like this is not the

0:26:38.320 --> 0:26:41.359
<v Speaker 2>way that most people like that, this is not their life,

0:26:41.480 --> 0:26:43.480
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. So I don't know. We

0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:46.240
<v Speaker 2>tried to do our best and and really truly, like

0:26:46.359 --> 0:26:49.359
<v Speaker 2>for Christmas and Hanukkah, we try to give an experience.

0:26:49.480 --> 0:26:52.560
<v Speaker 2>So one year we took the kids to a Knicks game,

0:26:53.200 --> 0:26:55.320
<v Speaker 2>and that right there, that's the reason why we did

0:26:55.400 --> 0:26:59.120
<v Speaker 2>all of these little gifts, right like I got ash

0:26:59.160 --> 0:27:01.040
<v Speaker 2>for a pack of poke on cards and know, a

0:27:01.119 --> 0:27:02.720
<v Speaker 2>pack of like basketball trading cards.

0:27:02.760 --> 0:27:05.119
<v Speaker 1>Because so that's why they probably loved it, and they

0:27:05.200 --> 0:27:08.120
<v Speaker 1>probably loved it. It's just more about the tradition itself

0:27:08.240 --> 0:27:10.399
<v Speaker 1>than the materialistic things, and.

0:27:10.520 --> 0:27:13.040
<v Speaker 2>The experience is what we all look forward to because

0:27:13.080 --> 0:27:15.200
<v Speaker 2>it's something that we can do together, like whether it's

0:27:15.240 --> 0:27:17.840
<v Speaker 2>a show like an artist that they're obsessed with, or

0:27:18.080 --> 0:27:20.120
<v Speaker 2>if it's like like I said, like a NIX game

0:27:20.320 --> 0:27:22.480
<v Speaker 2>or something that we can look forward to, you know,

0:27:22.760 --> 0:27:26.879
<v Speaker 2>that's what we try to like base our presence on

0:27:27.040 --> 0:27:29.600
<v Speaker 2>so that they have more meaning to them, you know.

0:27:30.359 --> 0:27:33.680
<v Speaker 1>And it definitely makes sense because to me, my life experiences,

0:27:33.720 --> 0:27:36.840
<v Speaker 1>the places I've traveled, the concerts I've seen, have much

0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:39.480
<v Speaker 1>more meaning than any piece of clothing or shoes or

0:27:39.520 --> 0:27:41.800
<v Speaker 1>anything like that that can all go into trash. I'll

0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:45.120
<v Speaker 1>exchange every material thing for every experience that I have lived.

0:27:45.280 --> 0:27:46.320
<v Speaker 1>So I understand you.

0:27:46.960 --> 0:27:49.440
<v Speaker 2>They're not gonna they don't even know where those Pokemon

0:27:49.560 --> 0:27:52.280
<v Speaker 2>cards are in the last year, I mean real talk,

0:27:52.400 --> 0:27:54.920
<v Speaker 2>they probably at traded them with their friends. And that's

0:27:54.960 --> 0:27:57.200
<v Speaker 2>the whole point. It's like they'll forget all of the

0:27:57.440 --> 0:28:01.080
<v Speaker 2>other things, but they'll definitely remember that time that we

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:04.479
<v Speaker 2>went to see the Denver Nuggets, you know, and they

0:28:04.520 --> 0:28:07.840
<v Speaker 2>were playing the Knicks and where we sat and what

0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:13.439
<v Speaker 2>the actually Asher remembers the score and that's so crazy

0:28:13.520 --> 0:28:15.560
<v Speaker 2>to me because he was so little, you know, and

0:28:15.680 --> 0:28:18.720
<v Speaker 2>they remember who came out like So those are like

0:28:18.840 --> 0:28:22.560
<v Speaker 2>the special parts of mixing the two religions that that

0:28:22.760 --> 0:28:24.160
<v Speaker 2>I really truly appreciate.

0:28:24.960 --> 0:28:27.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm here for it. And I've got good news for you, Carolina.

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:29.840
<v Speaker 1>There's going to be some separation this year between Hanukkah

0:28:29.840 --> 0:28:31.520
<v Speaker 1>and Christmas. You're going to get like a break. I

0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:33.159
<v Speaker 1>think like a two week break in between, like a

0:28:33.200 --> 0:28:33.800
<v Speaker 1>ten day break.

0:28:34.040 --> 0:28:37.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh, thank you, sweet Jesus. Oh my gosh, yes, I just.

0:28:37.680 --> 0:28:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Made your day right now. I said, let me look

0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:41.480
<v Speaker 1>at these days and make sure my Carolina is not

0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:43.200
<v Speaker 1>going to be dead by New Year's.

0:28:42.960 --> 0:28:46.080
<v Speaker 2>Eve, I'm telling you. And New Year's Oh my gosh,

0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 2>I am always crying on New Year's. Mark said, He's like,

0:28:50.880 --> 0:28:53.520
<v Speaker 2>I want to see you not cry one New Year's

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:56.840
<v Speaker 2>Eve and I said, you're happy tears of joy?

0:28:57.240 --> 0:28:59.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, good, I'm I'm like, what is happening in this

0:28:59.760 --> 0:29:00.960
<v Speaker 1>howl on your years?

0:29:01.120 --> 0:29:04.320
<v Speaker 2>No, I always look forward to like actually last year

0:29:04.360 --> 0:29:06.040
<v Speaker 2>we went to d R. We went to the DR

0:29:06.120 --> 0:29:07.560
<v Speaker 2>and I looked at him and I was just like like, what,

0:29:07.840 --> 0:29:09.600
<v Speaker 2>like thank you, you know what I mean, Like we

0:29:09.680 --> 0:29:12.040
<v Speaker 2>get another year together and our family, like we were

0:29:12.080 --> 0:29:14.800
<v Speaker 2>all together. So the traditions for us, But like what

0:29:14.880 --> 0:29:16.400
<v Speaker 2>about you, do you guys plan a trip or do

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:19.840
<v Speaker 2>anything for like New Year or like Christmas to market.

0:29:20.840 --> 0:29:24.440
<v Speaker 1>Well, let's go back. Last year, we spent the whole

0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:26.280
<v Speaker 1>month of December in Miami. We did a lot of

0:29:26.360 --> 0:29:28.600
<v Speaker 1>dope stuff. You know, we spent a lot of time together.

0:29:28.920 --> 0:29:30.680
<v Speaker 1>We were just it was a different type of vibe.

0:29:31.040 --> 0:29:36.080
<v Speaker 1>Usually we're with family, bad navidad betto. I'm Annuevo Cattolina

0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:40.160
<v Speaker 1>my birthday December thirty. First, I know it already, No

0:29:40.440 --> 0:29:44.000
<v Speaker 1>vibes know it. The vibes have got to be on

0:29:44.400 --> 0:29:48.120
<v Speaker 1>point no matter where I'm at. I just like to relax.

0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:50.640
<v Speaker 1>On New Year's Eve. I end up going out at

0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:52.960
<v Speaker 1>the end of the night because it's weird. Then I'm like, oh,

0:29:53.120 --> 0:29:56.400
<v Speaker 1>it's my birthday too, and I didn't do anything. And

0:29:56.520 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 1>then I put the pressure on it and even find

0:29:58.440 --> 0:30:01.320
<v Speaker 1>me a club. We actually went to Club eleven with

0:30:01.480 --> 0:30:04.120
<v Speaker 1>Cardian Offset last year for New Year's Eve. It was

0:30:04.160 --> 0:30:05.800
<v Speaker 1>a crazy New Year's Eve to say the least.

0:30:06.200 --> 0:30:08.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. Well, you know what, there are probably

0:30:08.640 --> 0:30:11.239
<v Speaker 2>people who are wondering right now, like or maybe there

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:13.840
<v Speaker 2>are traditions that have been lost in your family. You know,

0:30:14.640 --> 0:30:17.240
<v Speaker 2>I think it's so important for us to just try

0:30:17.280 --> 0:30:21.120
<v Speaker 2>to think back and and remember, like the happy times

0:30:21.120 --> 0:30:23.680
<v Speaker 2>of your childhood. Yeah, give me some, give me some ideas.

0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:26.760
<v Speaker 1>They're you know, they're Latinos. We have a lot of

0:30:26.840 --> 0:30:31.440
<v Speaker 1>like very curious like New Year's Eve traditions, like the

0:30:31.560 --> 0:30:34.600
<v Speaker 1>twelve grapes as the clock strikes midnight. You know, a

0:30:34.640 --> 0:30:38.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of Spanish speaking countries, like Ula Espana, they make

0:30:38.200 --> 0:30:41.480
<v Speaker 1>sure that they sitcom uwas for good luck of each

0:30:41.600 --> 0:30:44.360
<v Speaker 1>month of the next year. That's a good one. Another

0:30:44.440 --> 0:30:49.000
<v Speaker 1>one is los pantis. You got to pick the right underwear.

0:30:49.440 --> 0:30:52.520
<v Speaker 1>In many Latin American countries, the underwear you wear on

0:30:52.680 --> 0:30:56.120
<v Speaker 1>New Year's Eve has a big impact on how your

0:30:56.240 --> 0:31:02.560
<v Speaker 1>year ahead is going to be. Yes, Mario, right, it's

0:31:02.560 --> 0:31:04.600
<v Speaker 1>supposed to bring good luck and good fortune in the

0:31:04.680 --> 0:31:12.200
<v Speaker 1>new year, edible or otherwise, those are worn for luck

0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:13.680
<v Speaker 1>and love. So see touquio marito.

0:31:13.720 --> 0:31:25.120
<v Speaker 3>Par okayay right now now.

0:31:25.320 --> 0:31:27.320
<v Speaker 1>Our one thing you do not want to do on

0:31:27.400 --> 0:31:32.200
<v Speaker 1>New Year's Eve is pontos pantis negro because try bad luck.

0:31:32.640 --> 0:31:36.880
<v Speaker 1>So no so pantico Mario. If you want good luck,

0:31:39.280 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 1>let me write a no caro. I'm not gonna make

0:31:40.640 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 1>sure to check my panties on New year'st it.

0:31:42.720 --> 0:31:43.720
<v Speaker 2>I am all about it.

0:31:44.080 --> 0:31:45.160
<v Speaker 1>We got to tell Bella, we got.

0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:52.840
<v Speaker 2>Somebody's gotta lock that up. And yeah, I will say

0:31:52.960 --> 0:31:55.760
<v Speaker 2>the grapes we do every single year. I remember the

0:31:55.800 --> 0:31:58.520
<v Speaker 2>people that would used to leave the luggage outside are

0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:01.160
<v Speaker 2>Cuban friends. They would uggage it would run around the

0:32:01.200 --> 0:32:02.720
<v Speaker 2>house with the luggage.

0:32:02.600 --> 0:32:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Walk me in a circle too with a suitcase like

0:32:04.720 --> 0:32:07.240
<v Speaker 1>you if it's too cold and you're still trying to travel,

0:32:09.520 --> 0:32:10.640
<v Speaker 1>and right inside the house.

0:32:10.480 --> 0:32:13.440
<v Speaker 2>You can do that absolutely. But no, you know, I

0:32:13.480 --> 0:32:16.040
<v Speaker 2>feel like these traditions and these things are so important

0:32:16.080 --> 0:32:19.440
<v Speaker 2>to keep alive in our families. And you know, even

0:32:19.520 --> 0:32:22.360
<v Speaker 2>if there's twelve of them in your family, right, even

0:32:22.440 --> 0:32:25.400
<v Speaker 2>if you just do two, even if there's two of

0:32:25.440 --> 0:32:27.560
<v Speaker 2>them that every year the kids can look forward to.

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:30.680
<v Speaker 2>This has nothing to do with any of the holidays.

0:32:30.760 --> 0:32:32.880
<v Speaker 2>But I'll tell you something that I have done since

0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:37.320
<v Speaker 2>the kids were little. On Noah's first birthday, I got

0:32:37.400 --> 0:32:41.080
<v Speaker 2>him a crown. Okay, and it's like it's had to

0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:43.280
<v Speaker 2>be from party City. But it wasn't like a flimsy

0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:46.840
<v Speaker 2>paper crown. It was like a gold crown with like

0:32:46.960 --> 0:32:49.680
<v Speaker 2>the little string or whatever. On his first birthday, he

0:32:49.800 --> 0:32:52.760
<v Speaker 2>wore the crown. On his second birthday, he wore the

0:32:52.800 --> 0:32:56.720
<v Speaker 2>crown because Astra wasn't here. Yet every year on their

0:32:56.880 --> 0:33:01.560
<v Speaker 2>birthday they have worn this crown and it is not

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<v Speaker 2>anything that I spent a ton time.

0:33:03.640 --> 0:33:04.520
<v Speaker 1>I love this.

0:33:05.160 --> 0:33:08.400
<v Speaker 2>It is ever and I play las Manya Anthas and

0:33:08.560 --> 0:33:11.920
<v Speaker 2>now they know every single birthday they're like, oh, here

0:33:12.040 --> 0:33:14.640
<v Speaker 2>comes mommy, you know, and they've got to wear the crown.

0:33:14.640 --> 0:33:18.479
<v Speaker 2>I said, you guys are gonna wear this crown twenty

0:33:18.680 --> 0:33:20.959
<v Speaker 2>eighty years old. I don't care how old you are.

0:33:21.120 --> 0:33:21.840
<v Speaker 1>This is amazing.

0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:25.240
<v Speaker 2>I love the crown. And now it's so funny because

0:33:25.240 --> 0:33:27.840
<v Speaker 2>they're only they're ten and eight years old, but they

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:30.800
<v Speaker 2>have the expectation where's the crown? Mom They get it,

0:33:30.960 --> 0:33:32.480
<v Speaker 2>you know. And so I said to them, I said,

0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:35.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, one day you're gonna want your babies to

0:33:35.680 --> 0:33:37.640
<v Speaker 2>have a crown. I said, because this is you're my

0:33:37.720 --> 0:33:40.719
<v Speaker 2>little kings, you know. And I picture some of them

0:33:40.800 --> 0:33:43.320
<v Speaker 2>with it every single year. So it's something that I

0:33:43.360 --> 0:33:45.720
<v Speaker 2>look forward to and I just know that it's like

0:33:45.960 --> 0:33:47.560
<v Speaker 2>left that impression on them. You know.

0:33:48.440 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 1>I love this. I need to see pictures of the

0:33:50.360 --> 0:33:51.160
<v Speaker 1>boys in the crown.

0:33:51.240 --> 0:33:53.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I will send it to you, because girl,

0:33:53.080 --> 0:33:53.680
<v Speaker 2>by the time.

0:33:53.600 --> 0:33:56.040
<v Speaker 1>You are twenty. We're gonna have a whole sequence, and

0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:57.840
<v Speaker 1>then we're going to pass the crown down to the

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:01.280
<v Speaker 1>boys for their boys. That's so I love this, Carolina.

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<v Speaker 1>I love tradition, and we have a tradition too. When

0:34:05.080 --> 0:34:09.520
<v Speaker 1>it comes to Ananovo in la casa Mia, I kill Pia.

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:12.440
<v Speaker 1>We got to clean the whole house. Listen, we cannot

0:34:12.680 --> 0:34:14.600
<v Speaker 1>let the new year come in with a dirty house,

0:34:14.920 --> 0:34:19.000
<v Speaker 1>solim Pia, I get compra floor de blanca, I get

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:22.520
<v Speaker 1>pred Bela. We gotta get out with the old, in

0:34:22.640 --> 0:34:25.920
<v Speaker 1>with the new. Any bad juju, any bad vibes. We

0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:27.800
<v Speaker 1>got to get rid of it. And me and Bella

0:34:27.920 --> 0:34:30.800
<v Speaker 1>go to the Botanica and we buy a white candle.

0:34:31.760 --> 0:34:33.880
<v Speaker 1>We get this little thing that's called al camfort and

0:34:33.920 --> 0:34:38.640
<v Speaker 1>we put it in water ona pa to malo salga,

0:34:38.920 --> 0:34:41.879
<v Speaker 1>and we buy white roses. And that's how we make

0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:45.319
<v Speaker 1>sure we bring in the new year gasa Limpia, oh

0:34:45.400 --> 0:34:51.480
<v Speaker 1>yea casalympia, panti rojo, because we're gonna have us a

0:34:51.520 --> 0:34:54.560
<v Speaker 1>good twenty twenty four. Carolina, I am manifesting it right now.

0:34:55.040 --> 0:34:57.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh we sure are? You know that's right. But also

0:34:57.480 --> 0:34:59.760
<v Speaker 2>I love the purity of it. I love that everything

0:34:59.840 --> 0:35:03.319
<v Speaker 2>is white, everything is clean. There's something that can Yeah,

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:07.040
<v Speaker 2>there's no noise saying pasalo. You know, it's like you've

0:35:07.080 --> 0:35:09.440
<v Speaker 2>got to make sure that you set yourself up for

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:11.399
<v Speaker 2>greatness every year. And you know there are some people

0:35:11.440 --> 0:35:13.239
<v Speaker 2>who will say, oh, that's ridiculous, but you know what,

0:35:13.360 --> 0:35:15.839
<v Speaker 2>we believe. You believe and that's all you need.

0:35:16.320 --> 0:35:19.719
<v Speaker 1>That is all you need. Look for New Year's they

0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:22.239
<v Speaker 1>write money around the house and it's believed to bring

0:35:22.320 --> 0:35:23.160
<v Speaker 1>them prosperity.

0:35:24.239 --> 0:35:26.440
<v Speaker 2>I love that. Well, you know what, let us know

0:35:26.600 --> 0:35:30.400
<v Speaker 2>your traditions. Put them on our Instagram at l Spanglish

0:35:30.480 --> 0:35:32.960
<v Speaker 2>because we want to know. Listen, the more the merrier,

0:35:33.040 --> 0:35:34.040
<v Speaker 2>I'll try it all.

0:35:34.320 --> 0:35:37.960
<v Speaker 1>Me too, girl. Listen, if it's a positivity, prosperity and

0:35:38.040 --> 0:35:40.200
<v Speaker 1>a better year, we're down for it.

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:43.880
<v Speaker 2>We're totally here for it. And we are so so

0:35:44.120 --> 0:35:47.200
<v Speaker 2>appreciative that you guys have been writing with us this

0:35:47.360 --> 0:35:49.840
<v Speaker 2>season and that you've allowed us to keep you company.

0:35:50.360 --> 0:35:52.760
<v Speaker 2>Thank you so so much for listening to another season

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:53.759
<v Speaker 2>of life in Spanglish.

0:35:54.960 --> 0:35:58.160
<v Speaker 1>We love you, man. It's been a dope, dope season.

0:35:58.280 --> 0:36:00.640
<v Speaker 1>We've learned so much from our listeners, and I hope

0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:02.800
<v Speaker 1>that they've learned a lot from us too, Carolina, because

0:36:02.880 --> 0:36:05.840
<v Speaker 1>we do this with the hope of connecting, you know,

0:36:05.960 --> 0:36:09.080
<v Speaker 1>projecting relatability and letting people know that we're all the

0:36:09.160 --> 0:36:11.440
<v Speaker 1>same people. We just have different jobs, we live in

0:36:11.480 --> 0:36:18.920
<v Speaker 1>different homes. But at finalehinte, I love that.

0:36:21.239 --> 0:36:23.839
<v Speaker 2>You know, and we want to send you guys all

0:36:24.000 --> 0:36:26.720
<v Speaker 2>of our love and positivity for the new year ahead.

0:36:27.040 --> 0:36:29.239
<v Speaker 2>And hopefully if you guys have missed other seasons, you

0:36:29.280 --> 0:36:32.600
<v Speaker 2>can go back and listen on the free iHeartRadio app

0:36:32.719 --> 0:36:35.480
<v Speaker 2>or wherever you get your podcasts. Don't forget to follow me.

0:36:35.560 --> 0:36:37.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm at the real Carolina, and we can always keep

0:36:37.800 --> 0:36:38.759
<v Speaker 2>the conversation going.

0:36:39.280 --> 0:36:41.040
<v Speaker 1>That's a fact. Hit me on the Gram. I am

0:36:41.120 --> 0:36:43.719
<v Speaker 1>Honey German and Honey German on all the other platforms

0:36:43.719 --> 0:36:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I've been getting into TikTok. So let's connect on there now.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do it, guys, and have a great year, everybody.

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