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Speaker 1: Talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 1: tuning in for a new episode that we talked back

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Speaker 1: and show dedicated to you niggers and knees, holes and

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Speaker 1: everybody else in between. What's up girl? Gobble gobble, gobbl y'all,

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Speaker 1: every thanksgiving this tam Man. I love y'all, y'all for

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Speaker 1: jointing to another episode. I couldn't think it should have

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Speaker 1: say like a gobblbla gobl what about y'all? What's going on? Nothing?

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Speaker 1: How you doing? Oh? Well, you know I've been in

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Speaker 1: a honeycomb hide out all fing weekend, bitch and rejuvenated.

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Speaker 1: I feel young today, like the fucking body is stretched

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Speaker 1: and ready to conquer the world. When I FaceTime you

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Speaker 1: on Saturday, you are you were smiling so big. Who

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Speaker 1: mother like a daddy for Chicago. I believe it too.

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Speaker 1: l Now. Whoever you was with, Yeah, whoever you was with,

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Speaker 1: I made this little thing. What's uh dates? So if

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Speaker 1: he want, the medal and peanut butter. It tastes like

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Speaker 1: that sounds cute and fun. It was nice. That has

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Speaker 1: been a whole this weekend. Let's just be clear, okay,

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Speaker 1: was a good time. It was a good show. It's

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Speaker 1: Was it nice? Did you see some good faces? Oh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was really really nice. It was a beautiful of it.

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Speaker 1: It was so like, oh it was hosted by Patreon.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Patreon. Um, it was really black of it.

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Speaker 1: Everybody looked so nice. Um. I ran into uh quay

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Speaker 1: at blame it on Quay on Instagram. Y'all know who

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Speaker 1: that is. He was a lot of fun. He said

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Speaker 1: y'all stay tuned for that. That's gonna be a lot

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Speaker 1: of fun. It's gonna be Yeah, it's gonna be Really

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Speaker 1: that sounds like a good time. I hung out with

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Speaker 1: a look after everything was over. We went to Katana

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Speaker 1: then after that and you know, I went to see uh,

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Speaker 1: one of my old friends, see how he was doing.

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Speaker 1: Just hang out real quick. His house was beautiful. A

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Speaker 1: j oh my god, beautiful house. Yeah real quick? That

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Speaker 1: no you laughing. I adn't do nothing. It was just

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Speaker 1: like literally just catch up, hang out a little bit

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Speaker 1: and then I left. Okay, girl, shut up. Yeah. What

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Speaker 1: we got going on this weekend? Stupid and the net news. UM.

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Speaker 1: One thing I want to talk about how they tried

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Speaker 1: It was pretty disgusting. So I don't know if you

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Speaker 1: So allegedly, y'all ABC's executives, we're re evaluating their decision

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Speaker 1: and having a convicted domestic abuser paid tribute to an

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Speaker 1: alleged child molester. Current reports claim this is nasty, This

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Speaker 1: they are no Michael Jackson, Michaelson, who was never convicted

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Speaker 1: I know they extorted some money out of Michael Jackson

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Speaker 1: you know Chris Brown, they're calling him the alleged abuse

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Speaker 1: does he have to pay for that situation. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to think of any Is there anything

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Speaker 1: for Afrobeats. He won the Afrobeats Award. Kendrick Lamar just

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Speaker 1: it ain't probably living the same way, the same life exactly,

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Speaker 1: not the same for everybody, right, Some people have um holidays.

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Speaker 1: They really don't have that much family. You're not around people.

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Speaker 1: and that'd be it. You might go to my daddy

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Speaker 1: You know, love and hate is like a thin line, Okay,

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Speaker 1: and I'll fight aunt. I've been waiting my whole life

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Speaker 1: some kids. But religion, keep that. Let's listen, especially on Christmas.

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Speaker 1: All of my fucking atheists. Let's let them people how

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Speaker 1: see that judge till Monday. Damn. Like that turkey and

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Speaker 1: It's called soft Peter, Yeah, Google, all right, it's eliminade

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Speaker 1: So what can you say to avoid the conversation? All right,

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Speaker 1: I'm yeah married. M hmm. On that shirt show got

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Speaker 1: Did you listen to We Talked Back Today? You really

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm gonna go over here. I'll be right back, Mary.

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Speaker 1: a minimum, especially if you know you become argumentative or

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Speaker 1: Don't get too drunk around the family, so I'm not

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Speaker 1: Number six, Get active. It's difficult to be drawn into

422
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Speaker 1: the argument when you're engrossed in an activity that requires concentration,

423
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 1: physical activity, or laugh. So play a game, go for

424
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: a walk on the beach or around your mama's neighborhood,

425
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 1: or watch a funny holiday movie. All that stuff will

426
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: keep you from getting into an argument. So one thing,

427
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 1: I want to see um on Netflix this Thursday or

428
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: Wednesday it is, but it's the show on Netflix called Wednesday.

429
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: It's actually like Wednesday from the Adams Family. It's like

430
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 1: a movie coming out about her. I want to see that.

431
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 1: So that's a good thing. Everybody can sit down and watch.

432
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,439
Speaker 1: But the kids too because it looks like yeah, and

433
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 1: it's you know, rady g So the kids can watch

434
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:40,679
Speaker 1: and maybe y'all can avoid talking as much. So to

435
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: avoid any altercations, let's talking as much as much as possible. Right.

436
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 1: Number seven, Practice gratitude. Now you don't need to just

437
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: do this for the holidays. You just need to do

438
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 1: this in your life. Take time out and think about

439
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,120
Speaker 1: all you have to be grateful for your delicious meal

440
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 1: or warm home, own good health, a sunny day, friendship,

441
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: and family gathering. Anxiety can be disminaged by focusing on

442
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: the things we enjoy and we value. So that's important, Yeah,

443
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 1: very important. If you've got a group of people at

444
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: the house, just go around to people that make you

445
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:19,680
Speaker 1: happy and try to avoid the ones that don't right,

446
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 1: and just you know, think about all the things that

447
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: you are blessed with in that day. M hmm, not

448
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: all the bullshit, you know, even this year. Like maybe

449
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,640
Speaker 1: if you if you are always have problems with your

450
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 1: family a year and maybe you can go over to

451
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 1: a friend's house and their family this year instead. I'll

452
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 1: switch it up, right, because you don't have to be

453
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 1: around your family. You can go somewhere else if you

454
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: want to. Friends become family. You know what, they probably

455
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 1: ain't gonna sunk with you. They're not gonna harass a

456
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 1: friends friends, right you kid, Well, you never know somebody

457
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 1: aren't married at their house and be like you ain't

458
00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: got no family, Well, where's your family at? Baby? You

459
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: know they might be there, so you might not even

460
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: avoid the bullshit. Number eight, practice tolerance. We all do

461
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 1: things that irritate other people and we probably aren't aware

462
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 1: of it. Try to be tolerant of others quirks and

463
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: irritating behaviors and don't take them personally, and nothing else.

464
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,239
Speaker 1: Remember you only have to tolerate the irritation for a

465
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: little while. So let me tell y'all. Last year, I

466
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 1: was cooking with my family and I had my niece

467
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: in the kitchen because she just want to TikTok and

468
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: be on Instagram and don't want to help. So I

469
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: was like, she nineteen. I was like, get your button

470
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 1: this kitchen. You need to learn how to cook, like,

471
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: learn how to cook these meals. I was like, how

472
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: are you gonna get a man? You can't cook that,

473
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: and she was like, well, you know how to cook everything?

474
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: Where yo? Man? It who? Baby? I almost took my

475
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: forearm across the whole county just ruled Thanksgiving, knocked everything

476
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: on the ground. I had to grab my glass of

477
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: perseco and walk outside, and as I got I got

478
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: a face out. This bitch walking down the street maddest

479
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: hell visually because her niece. I told her, goddamn truth,

480
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: you know how to cook all this ship? Well, y'all, man,

481
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 1: it beat your ass, But I bet you won't bother

482
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: her again this year about that ship. You see what

483
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 1: I mean, She's gonna be right back in and catch

484
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 1: you with me learning the fuck. Listen, that baby said

485
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: these things can be outsourced. I don't got to know

486
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 1: how to cook, baby, I really, y'all, I really had

487
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: to walk up out the house with my little I

488
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,479
Speaker 1: feeled up my glass. I said, excuse me, everybody, and

489
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: never mind that I am, like, you need to know

490
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: how to cook for yourself? Come on, yeah, but you

491
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: know you want to be able to, like my nieces,

492
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: provide nurse for your family. She's twenty five and she

493
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: doesn't cook, like you ought to know how to cook

494
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 1: some stuff for yourself. Yeah, just nothing else. You can't

495
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: eat goddamn chicken fingers all a goddamn time, grown woman.

496
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: I mean, you could, but it wouldn't be a good idea.

497
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: But I'll be I'll be in here to eat like

498
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: I could cook. But sometimes cooking for just myself seems

499
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: like a hassle when I can just outsource it, like

500
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: you said. So sometimes I'll be in here like eating

501
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: like real childish, Like I'll come home for work and

502
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: eat a bullet hardy food. I'll put me too glyzzies

503
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: in the air fly fire, not that glyzzie. I would

504
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: eat me too glyzzies for dinner. Mystery meat, What the

505
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: is it? I had dog delicious niece, m M girl

506
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 1: and I would roll it up in a piece of bread.

507
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 1: You don't even have to be a hot dog, but

508
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: it'll be like a regular piece of bread. I'll take

509
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: a slice of cheese and split it in half and

510
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: put it on one piece, like if I make two,

511
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: so the one slice of cheese will do right for both. Yeah?

512
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: Does that really true? Good to you catch up in mustard? Yeah,

513
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: I'll be sucking them up. And I thought some sweet

514
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: potator fries in the air, frair both dinner. Dinner is served.

515
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: I enjoy cooking, so I can't like I like nice

516
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: tasty food. I cannot just cook me some bullshit. I'll

517
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: do cereal for dinner, but before I like cook some

518
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: regular bread and a fucking glyzzie. You are I can't do.

519
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: You know what's another ghetto thing that I will I

520
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: won't say ghetto, but like I will make cheese toads.

521
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: I would like get the crack and then butter bread

522
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: and put it in the oven. Oh my god, now

523
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: that right there, Like that's a good struggle me. Okay,

524
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 1: even if you do like I like to grow mind

525
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: on the stove. I'll make like honey butter and put

526
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: on my bread grill it with my cheese, and I

527
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: love it with honey barbecue. Lads, that's a meal. It's good.

528
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: M that's a that's a little quick bullshit meal though,

529
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: mm hmm. But I would make that all right, So

530
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: I'm nice, says bring a happy reminder. So looking at

531
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: a favorite photograph, of funny text from a friend, or

532
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: anything else that makes you smile can go a long

533
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: way toward relieving stress when things get too stressful. Planning

534
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: to sneak away and take a break. That sounds like

535
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 1: a little walk with the cousins right there, right, go

536
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: smoke with your cousin right as read where y'all going

537
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: to the stuff? Who are going back? We be the

538
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: car pool for the weed. Heeads at the Thanksgiving dinner.

539
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 1: Thank got my my dad's So everybody out the in

540
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: the back hi drunk? Right? M h No, my mama

541
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 1: don't participate in nothing. No alcohol, No, we know nothing.

542
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: So I had to keep it cute and act like

543
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: I'm not doing drugs. Shame, I'll be faking. But oh,

544
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 1: let me go out here and take this call. Come

545
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,959
Speaker 1: back in that calm and regularly and nothing bothering. Aw,

546
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: she'd be knowing, She'll say, man, all right, Number ten,

547
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: take a deep breath or five. This is a good tip.

548
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: Can't physically leave a stressful situation, you can always focus

549
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: on your breathing. Take five slow deep breaths, focusing on

550
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: breathing in and out. Even this short break can have

551
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 1: a powerful effect on stress and anxiety. So when you mad,

552
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 1: just take some deep breath shall and just remind yourself

553
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: that it's just for today. Yeah, and this last part says,

554
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: keep in mind that you and only change yourself. You

555
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,479
Speaker 1: can't change what your difficult relatives are going to do.

556
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: Don't waste your energy trying to change others and accept

557
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 1: that you can only control your own actions and thoughts.

558
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: That's the most important part of y'all. This ten uh

559
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 1: this uh. This list comes from script start org and

560
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 1: I think that's a pretty solid list on how to

561
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 1: deal with those um not so fun relatives. But I

562
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: think the first one is going in with setting your

563
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 1: intentions on like having a good time Like that should

564
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: alleviate all of ship, I feel like right, And if

565
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: you can't do that, don't go. I wanna go. If

566
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: you come in here with negative energy, if you know

567
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: you're showing up with that just don't go yea, yeah,

568
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 1: because you're gonna ruin it for everybody. You're gonna be

569
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 1: the motherfucking problem, right every year, m like big big Mama,

570
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:09,479
Speaker 1: How here comes Tommy talk about smallpox blanket the holiday. Hey,

571
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm a j this Indigenous People's Day. Yeah, because I

572
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 1: think I think most black people have like removed like

573
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:23,839
Speaker 1: the the original meaning behind these holidays now is just

574
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: like it's tradition at this point, it's just this time

575
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 1: of year, this is what we do, right, So I

576
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 1: want to like for my family when I create my family,

577
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 1: I want to like start my own traditions that could

578
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: be passed down to the generations. Yeah, so I'll do

579
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 1: my own type of Christmas thing where we get do

580
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: gift givings, um, whatever time. It won't have to be quinside,

581
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 1: could be something for my family exactly. So this year,

582
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 1: on these days, this is what my family does. You

583
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So well, the kids, it's they

584
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 1: won't feel left out when Christmas ship come around because

585
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: maybe they got there Christmas in June for my birthday.

586
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. So yeah, I want to do like

587
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: like that for my family, don't we don't you don't

588
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: have to do these current man made holidays. You don't

589
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: have to creat your own ship. Well, well, let's you know,

590
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 1: closing out this list, tell everybody what you're thankful for,

591
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:31,720
Speaker 1: Oh number one, I am thankful for you, hey, Fred

592
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 1: Thus whatever. I'm grateful for my family. I'm grateful to

593
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 1: be in good health. I'm grateful for this year. I'm

594
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: grateful for next year. It's gonna be little. I'm just

595
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 1: I feel really good right now, so that's good. I

596
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 1: love all that. I'm grateful for these buddles, that's what

597
00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: they're coming to mail. I'm grateful for these Black Friday sales.

598
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 1: I'm grateful for your two friends. I'm very grateful to

599
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 1: have you in my life. You're one of my favorite

600
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: people in the world. I couldn't imagine doing this with

601
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: anybody else, Like I couldn't think of a soul that

602
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 1: I would rather be doing this show with. So I'm

603
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 1: grateful for the show. I'm grateful for the listeners y'all

604
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 1: be telling me, y'all love me back, and my d

605
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 1: m s and ship. That ship really sometimes I'll be

606
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: going through it and that love really be helping me.

607
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:30,439
Speaker 1: So I do appreciate you'all for extending that love back

608
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: to me. Um. I'm grateful for my family. I'm blessed

609
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 1: to have a very close family. UM, and I'm just

610
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: grateful to have them in my life and always, you know,

611
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: let me know that they're proud of me and they

612
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: love me despite all my flaws because I could be

613
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:49,839
Speaker 1: hard to deal with sometimes. I know that. Um. I'm

614
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: grateful for my future husband. I ain't at him, yeah,

615
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 1: but I'm speaking to I'm manifesting you, baby. I'm grateful

616
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: for you. My niece ain't gonna be able to talk

617
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: about me next Thanksgiving. We have a man, God willing, UM.

618
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: And I'm and I'm grateful for good health. You know,

619
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:19,720
Speaker 1: I have multiple scorrosis and I blessed to be healthy

620
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:24,400
Speaker 1: despite that. So I'm grateful for that. And I'm just

621
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:29,320
Speaker 1: grateful to be able to laugh and love every day. Yes, Amen,

622
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 1: doesn't that feel good? We should have like a damn

623
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 1: gratitude segment because I don't think people actually say allowed

624
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 1: a lot what they are actually grateful for. A lot

625
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: of times you focus on the grgative ship that's going

626
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 1: on in your life. When you focus on those positive things,

627
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: it just helped more positive ship manifests right when you

628
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 1: got an attitude, I'm gonna I'm gonna say, like, let's

629
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: just a gratitude. Let's let's say what we're grateful for.

630
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: What you're mean as all, y'all, we hope you all

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Speaker 1: enjoy your Thanksgiving. Okay, we don't want to see them places.

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Speaker 1: Like Tam said before, listen, everybody got the same slop.

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Speaker 1: Especially that ship. Looks like your grandma is not the

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Speaker 1: best cook. Just no, I am, I said, want to God,

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Speaker 1: I'd be challenging niggas like I know I cook better

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Speaker 1: in your mama and your grandmama. That's why everybody be

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Speaker 1: having them ugly asks places, because everybody's think they're the

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Speaker 1: best cook. I don't. First of all, I don't like

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Speaker 1: places where the foods are touching each other. Me either,

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Speaker 1: Me either. I don't like my food touching. Yeah, like

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see that. Don't make my plate,

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Speaker 1: I got it, And I don't nobody want to see

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Speaker 1: your chickling plate. Bitch, keep that to yourself, and they

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Speaker 1: love chiless. I will not eat that ship no more.

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Speaker 1: And Thanksgiving is not the time to be experimenting. Just

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Speaker 1: make the macaroni and cheese. How you usually do a bit?

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Speaker 1: Don't add sugar to the macaroni and cheese this year, right,

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Speaker 1: keep it simple, keeping regular, keep it what your My

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Speaker 1: sister made the meccan cheese and she got the evaporated milk,

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Speaker 1: but she accidentally got the sweet and uh and didn't

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Speaker 1: realize that she got condensed milk. Yeah, yeah, and it

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Speaker 1: was sweet and baby, we was about to jump her

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Speaker 1: in there. It was like, put your fences up, bit,

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Speaker 1: you know it ain't nobody else macaroni like that is asked.

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Speaker 1: But can dense milk looks way different from yes, like

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Speaker 1: it's thick, it's coming out like, it comes out different.

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Speaker 1: It looks it looks sugary and sweet. How you messed

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Speaker 1: that up? So? How you messed that up? Put your

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