1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to beat your Happy Hour. I'm 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 1: Joe and I'm Serena, and we are here with none 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: other than the happy newlyweds Gary and Trisa. Welcome to 4 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: happy Hour and congratulations. 5 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 2: Thank you so thank you very much. It's good to 6 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 2: see you both. Good. 7 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 3: It's good to see you guys. We're so happy for you. 8 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 3: The wedding looked amazing. 9 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 4: We're so excited to chat with you about all the things, 10 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 4: and we were so sad we weren't able to make it. 11 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 4: But I know you're going to fill us in and 12 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 4: answer all of our burning questions and our listeners burning questions. 13 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 2: Were so sad as you weren't there too, and we'll 14 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:38,279 Speaker 2: do the best we can. 15 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:45,279 Speaker 1: We were always asked for Gary. 16 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 4: We weren't able to be there because we both had 17 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 4: trips that were pre planned that were a conflict in scheduling. 18 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 4: But the night of the wedding, we were flying out 19 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 4: early the next morning. But the night of your wedding, 20 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 4: we were at a hockey game which was gifted to 21 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 4: Joe and I for Christmas, and I was literally like 22 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,880 Speaker 4: following along as we're watching the hockey. 23 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 3: Game with the wedding. 24 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, look at her dress, look 25 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 4: at the flowers, look at all of this. 26 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 3: I was there in spirit. 27 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:14,119 Speaker 5: That's great? 28 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: All right, Serena, Where should we get started? All right? 29 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: So you guys, you have you know, you fall in 30 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: love on television. You have this this engagement on TV 31 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: first Golden Bachelor, first season, everything so extravagant and wonderful, 32 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: and you guys look great. What made you want to 33 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: get married immediately? 34 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 2: Wow? So there's a number of factors, I guess, But 35 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 2: you know, the first one is when you look at 36 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 2: someone you know it's right, and you're seventy two, you 37 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 2: realize that, you know, waiting a month or a couple 38 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 2: of months could possibly be a large percentage of the 39 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: remaining day you have on earth. And so if you're sure. 40 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: That's Gary, Gary, it don't be so bleak. You have 41 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: a lot of time. 42 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 2: It's like you kind of want to get to it 43 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:11,119 Speaker 2: if it's right. 44 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 4: Well, I know you said that you planned a wedding 45 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 4: in what like two days your first marriage. 46 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 5: Was actually and that's actually true. I mean it was 47 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 5: my mom who did it, and I don't even know 48 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 5: how she got photographers and flowers and a cake and 49 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 5: a church. We actually did get married in a church, 50 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 5: but then the reception was in our basement, so I 51 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 5: don't know how she did that, but. 52 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's amazing. So a month felt like a lifetime 53 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 4: for you, were like, oh. 54 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 5: My gosh, so much luxury of times. That great? Yeah, 55 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 5: Christmas time too. 56 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 4: And then you have both been married before, you both 57 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 4: had weddings before. Was there anything going into this wedding 58 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 4: that you were like, I want to do this differently 59 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 4: or I loved this last time that you kind of 60 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 4: brought into the planning process. 61 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 5: Well, so totally different. That we had every single member 62 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 5: of our family and the wedding, so that was really 63 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 5: such an extravagance to be able to happen. I really 64 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 5: miss seeing my grandsons come down and the girls come down, 65 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 5: you know, I missed and granddaughters. I would have loved 66 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 5: to have seen that. To have every single member of 67 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 5: our family part of it was really the most important. 68 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 2: Part to me, And I think that for at least 69 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 2: for me, and I think for both of us, time 70 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 2: slowed down during this ceremony and during this process, Whereas 71 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 2: when we were both in our very early twenties when 72 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 2: we first got married, things were a lot more frantic. 73 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 2: Just like Teresa said, you know that two days to 74 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 2: put together wedding, and this time, you know, I was 75 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 2: able to savor every moment leading up to it, and 76 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 2: I really enjoyed all those moments. 77 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 3: That's amazing. 78 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, because I guess the first time, I mean, we 79 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 4: just went through it so we can relate to the 80 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 4: first time is so high, Tich and so over. Do 81 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 4: you feel like you had a sense of like, I 82 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 4: know what I'm getting myself into, I know what the 83 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 4: day is going to be, Like I can really just 84 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 4: take in all of these moments. 85 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 5: Yeah. And I really was able to just completely forget 86 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 5: that this was televised. I really just I said, I'm 87 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 5: just going to be in the moment. I was really overwhelmed. 88 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 5: And I walked out and I saw these beautiful faces 89 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 5: and people and all the love and support, and that 90 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 5: just filled me up. And I really was I think 91 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 5: you were too able to just totally just forget the 92 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 5: fact that we were on TV and we just lived 93 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 5: in a moment. Yeah. 94 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 2: Not only that, but once I walked down the aisle 95 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 2: and I turned around and I saw Teresa, I think 96 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 2: the only people that I really was aware of was 97 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 2: her and all of our family members. The entire audience 98 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 2: just kind of became just a mass because I only 99 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 2: wanted to focus on those people. So that's really quite 100 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 2: a difference from the first time around. 101 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 5: Yeah, the thing is he wanted to see one at 102 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 5: that moment where he saw me, but we had that 103 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 5: moment earlier in the day. 104 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 3: Oh, you did have a first look. 105 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 5: We did have a first look. 106 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh that's nice. 107 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 4: Did you guys say you wanted to have the first look? 108 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 4: Because I know that was a big conversation between Joe 109 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 4: and I. But if we were going to do first 110 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 4: look at the aisle or first look in. 111 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 5: Private, I think Gary really wanted to see the first 112 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 5: look in the aisle. But then, you know, it made 113 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 5: more sentence to do it. 114 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, because otherwise we'd have been taking up reception time 115 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 2: with photos. That was a hell of a good reception. 116 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 2: Let's face it, I didn't want to listen, don't. 117 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 4: It looked very That was kind of our logic as 118 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:41,919 Speaker 4: well when we did the first look. It just really 119 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 4: worked so that we didn't have to miss any of 120 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 4: the wedding, which is obviously so fun. 121 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: Before before the Golden Bachelor came to existence. Did either 122 00:05:55,080 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: of you ever imagine having another huge way reception? Again? 123 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 5: No, no, not at all at all. This is a 124 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 5: complete surprise. This is crazy. 125 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: Okay. So so then going to the reception or just 126 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 1: like wedding day or week of wedding, was there any 127 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: moment where you're just like, this is so surreal, Like like, oh. 128 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 5: Gosh, there were so many, so many of them. They 129 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 5: were also surreal like. And when I was in my 130 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 5: room and then I was completely ready, I walked next 131 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 5: door to see my daughter, his daughters, his granddaughters, and 132 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 5: it was like, Wow, is this really happening? Is this crazy? 133 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 5: So yeah, I think it was completely surreal. 134 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 2: I think the moment for me was when we were 135 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 2: all getting dressed and all the grandsons were in the 136 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: room with me, and I was helping tie ties for them, 137 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 2: and I was helping tie shoes and all of that, 138 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 2: like all of a sudden have hit me. I have 139 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 2: six new grandsons coming into my life, and all of 140 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: a sudden, I'm helping them tie neckties that I'd never 141 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 2: in my entire life done before. That moment was sort 142 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 2: of a surreal moment. 143 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 3: Wow, that's really special. 144 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 4: I feel like it's such a symbol a great way 145 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 4: to end your love story because I feel like The 146 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 4: Golden Bachelor has really shown people that you can find 147 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 4: love and live life to the fullest and grow and 148 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 4: learn at any age in life. Like, there's just no 149 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 4: limit to that. And I feel like having this big 150 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 4: wedding and celebrating your love in the same way that 151 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 4: people are when they're thirty or fifty or whatever age like, 152 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 4: there's no there's no age limit to celebrating love. 153 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 3: To make it, yeah, to make it making it special. 154 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, those messages we want to keep alive. We want 155 00:07:56,160 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 2: to constantly talk about having hope and keeping your options 156 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 2: alive and being confident about yourself whether you're sixty or 157 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 2: seventy or or even older. So activities that we are 158 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 2: thinking about doing in the future. That is a theme 159 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 2: that we want to constantly reinforce because it's been heard 160 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 2: so much and I think it's really changed lives. 161 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: I also think it's really healthy for your grandchildren to 162 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: be a part of this experience because it is so 163 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: positive and has such a it's such a great outlook 164 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,319 Speaker 1: just on life. So for them, I really think it's 165 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:33,319 Speaker 1: going to be beneficial. 166 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 5: That's really nicely. Thank you, I said to Henry, Because 167 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 5: he likes to say things like whatever you feel like. 168 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 5: I said, Henry, this is live, and say whatever you want. 169 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 5: He did his job and he went. 170 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 3: Up there and he did it so good, so. 171 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: Good, all right, so oh, go ahead, go ahead. 172 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 5: There's one point they had told my grandsons to go 173 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 5: left in the aisle and then all of a sudden 174 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 5: there are flowers. Say they had to leap over the flower. 175 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 4: Oh my god, the flowers. The flowers were beautiful. Did 176 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 4: you guys know what everything was going to look like? 177 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 3: Nor was it like a surprise. 178 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 5: It was beyond beyond, beyond my waves expectations. I think 179 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 5: I just put out an Instagram poster and said, you know, 180 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 5: I told I spoke with Mindy and I said how 181 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 5: much I love flowers. But wow, wow, did you do it? 182 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 5: It was so incredible? Yeah? 183 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, were you did you know? 184 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 4: Were you familiar with her work at all before you 185 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 4: got the chance to work with her on this wedding, 186 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 4: I'd say. 187 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 5: My daughter was, and she did. 188 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 4: Yes, Yeah, she did Sarah Wills's wedding really yeah, which 189 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 4: was also a beautiful her like the design of her 190 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 4: weddings is believable. 191 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 5: Believe she's so sweet and yet she doesn't impose anything 192 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 5: that she wants. It's like totally listening to and it's 193 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 5: all what you want. 194 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 2: There was a time or two when we would question 195 00:09:56,440 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 2: and she had such a diplomatic way of saying, you guys, 196 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:05,199 Speaker 2: trust me, you will like this, and it was like yep, 197 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:09,719 Speaker 2: lo and behold. When the final product was there, it 198 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 2: was it was spectacular. 199 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,679 Speaker 1: What do you guys think is the biggest biggest difference 200 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: in a wedding reception today from before when you first 201 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: got married. Is there any money? Money as money? 202 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,239 Speaker 2: It's like a whole big business. 203 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, the wedding industry is raking it in. 204 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:36,320 Speaker 5: Yeah that's true, that's true. 205 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 2: But but I guess, seriously, the scope of things. You know, 206 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 2: I remember the reception I had with Tony was in 207 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 2: the church basement. Everyone carried in a hot dish that 208 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 2: was our food, you know, for the wedding. And I 209 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 2: don't even remember if we had music. So now you know, 210 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 2: when you look at the productions and not just don't, 211 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 2: but you know everyone's productions and the music and the 212 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 2: staging and everything is huge. 213 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 5: Also, we didn't write our own vows. In that day, 214 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 5: like in the seventies, you didn't. It was just the 215 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 5: traditional do you take this man to be your husband? 216 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 5: That's it. So then that developed over the years where 217 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 5: you would say, write your own vows, So I think 218 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:25,319 Speaker 5: that was different. 219 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so interesting. I didn't know that, you know that. 220 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: I think I feel like I did know that just 221 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: based off of I just feel like older movies like 222 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: you never heard anyone. 223 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, revow my parents didn't write their own Yeah. 224 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, that developed. 225 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 3: So and when did it did? 226 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 4: What was the conversation like when you guys did talk 227 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 4: about if you were going to write your own vows 228 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 4: or not? 229 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, we were. 230 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 2: We both agreed to that one hundred percent. There wasn't 231 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 2: much of a conversation at all. We both looked at 232 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 2: each other and said, yeah, we're writing our own vals. Yes, 233 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 2: and we didn't talk about it any further. So, literally, 234 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 2: the moments at the platform when we exchanged those files 235 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 2: were the very first moments that either of us heard 236 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:07,959 Speaker 2: from the ever about it. 237 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 5: It took a while to write them, I'm sure you know, 238 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 5: and I really was committed to the fact that I 239 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 5: wanted to just say it and not have to read it. 240 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 5: And just moments before I was I was reading it. 241 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 5: I was saying, it's my daughter, and I didn't get 242 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 5: it right. I kept not getting it right. Then I 243 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 5: finally said it and I go, yeah, and I want 244 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 5: to have fun with you for the rest of our days. 245 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 5: I said, which could be another hour, and she said, 246 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 5: I'll leave it in. 247 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 3: I said, you're making like last minute edits right before 248 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 3: you are. 249 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 5: I said the word dead. 250 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: What was it? 251 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 3: She said the word dead. 252 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 5: Because Susan said, where do you think you'll be in 253 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 5: ten years? And I went deadly kidding it was a joke. 254 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 5: We're going to be the one to over one hundred 255 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 5: and twenty, right. 256 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 3: You were going to outlive us all. 257 00:12:56,160 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 4: How so you mentioned Susan she was your which was 258 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 4: so amazing and special. 259 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 3: How did you guys make that decision? 260 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 5: It's easy. It was such an easy decision. We wanted 261 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 5: that so badly from the very beginning. Really, we were 262 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 5: dying to tell her, and we thought that we'd be 263 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 5: able to at least be on a zoom call and 264 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 5: tell her. But they wait for a long long time. Yes, 265 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 5: it was unanimous. We wouldn't. 266 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 2: I mean, I remember the night that we were talking 267 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 2: and I was a little apprehensive of bringing Susan up 268 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 2: to her, knowing that it was a previous contestant. And 269 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 2: I'm not even sure how it happened, but she may 270 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 2: have said Susan just about the same time I did 271 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 2: when we started talking about an officient. So you know, 272 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 2: there's been a lot of those moments with us that 273 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 2: we've pretty much been in agreement, you know, without even 274 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 2: much discussion, which has really helped a lot. 275 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 5: And she far extended our expectations. I mean, how great 276 00:13:55,920 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 5: was she. She's so she looked so beautiful, dress so 277 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 5: appropriately and like really made it just made it so great. 278 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 279 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: And then how about having all the other alum Bachelor Bachelor, 280 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:14,719 Speaker 1: the Golden Bachelor women at the wedding. How special was 281 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: that for you guys? 282 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 5: Absolutely spectacular. We would have wanted every single yeah, right there. Yes, 283 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 5: we were all about it. I mean, there is lots 284 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 5: of love amongst all of us and camaraderie, and you know, 285 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 5: it's an experience that that's just so special to the 286 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 5: people who were in the experience, and we love every 287 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 5: single one of them. I talked to them all the time. 288 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 2: I go back to the very first night when everyone 289 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 2: got out of the limo and we had a cocktail 290 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 2: party before anyone had to go home. It was one 291 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 2: of the most joyous moments I had in the entire 292 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 2: season because you could just feel the mutual respect and 293 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 2: the support and the love for each other. And when 294 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 2: you are together with those women now, whether it's at 295 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 2: our wedding or any other event, I have that feeling again. 296 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 2: They're just you know, we have a bond now that 297 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 2: you know it will never it will never be dismantled. 298 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 2: It's gorgeous, it's wonderful. 299 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 3: That's amazing. 300 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, the show really does bond you in such a 301 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 4: special and unique way, and I think even more so 302 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 4: with you guys being the first ever goal to a 303 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 4: bachelor season. We speak of the other women, How was 304 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 4: the bachelor party? 305 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 3: Chreesa, Oh my gosh. 306 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 5: All right, so everything at the taeschelor party was a 307 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 5: surprise to me. Okay, it was all surprised. It's just 308 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 5: a nervous as everybody else. But then you know, and 309 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 5: I know that when I have to tell them, okay, 310 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 5: we're going to do a boudoir shoot, they kind of 311 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 5: you know, Ellen was like oh no, and this one 312 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 5: was like, oh I don't think so. And then they 313 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 5: really embraced it, got into it and looked so gorgeous. 314 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 5: I mean, these girls look so amazing, like one after another. 315 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 5: So and we had so much fun, Like at the 316 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 5: end there we're just like kind of fun and then 317 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 5: they will. 318 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 2: So yeah, Joe, I got a question for you. You know, 319 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 2: like for guys, it's sort of an unwritten rule. You know, look, 320 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 2: but don't. 321 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 5: Touch right, You're right. 322 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 2: There was a lot of touching. 323 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 5: Watching. 324 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, this is this is like they were 325 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 2: playing the piano up and down. Those guys ass cooperative. 326 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 1: Well that's what I was gonna say, Gary, what are 327 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: you You didn't have a bachelor party? Correct? 328 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 2: I did not? 329 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: Well see now I now I almost feel like, you know, 330 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 1: your friend should do a little something, maybe just like 331 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 1: a little weekend getaway where you know, you get to go. 332 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 2: We'll take our golf clubs to legitimize the trip. Yeah, 333 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 2: it'll look like we're going to play. 334 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. Wow, wow, I see things have really changed. The 335 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:18,479 Speaker 3: dynamic hair has really changed. 336 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 1: Okay, when you when when both of you first got married, 337 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 1: did you have bachelorette and bachelor parties? 338 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 2: I didn't know, and I did okay, and it was. 339 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 2: I think I still have the headache. My children were 340 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 2: born with a headache because of that bat or Bachelor. 341 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 1: Okay, what'd you do? What did you do? 342 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:45,719 Speaker 2: Us? I remember we watched the sun come up. There 343 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 2: was a lot of drinking. We went to a strip 344 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:54,119 Speaker 2: bar early on. You know, there's the night. I remember 345 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 2: there was a small restaurant that was in Davenport, Iowa. 346 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 2: Was sort of I'm sorry, Iowa. It was kind of 347 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 2: iconic for watching the sun come up on a hangover, 348 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: and you got certain food that was supposed to help 349 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:11,239 Speaker 2: you with the It didn't work, and I think I 350 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:15,919 Speaker 2: was sick for two days. So when we party, I 351 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,200 Speaker 2: was fine not having one. 352 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:20,440 Speaker 3: So now you guys are even. You each had one. 353 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 3: Gary's had a bach party and Teresa's had a party. 354 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 2: I'm sure if you want to call it that, I 355 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 2: mean mine was from fifty years ago. Fifty five years ago. 356 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 5: It's very louvish. Mine was so much fun. It's so 357 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 5: much fun. We should be there. 358 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 3: Oh good, I wish I was there too. It did. 359 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 3: It did look like a good time. 360 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 4: Okay, Gary, we have to ask you what did you 361 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:45,399 Speaker 4: think of the photos of Teresa during her Boodoor photo shoot. 362 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 2: There is a photo of her standing in a double 363 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 2: door and looking down and her legs are crossed at 364 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 2: her ankles. That is just absolutely breathtaking. And I was 365 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 2: fortunate enough to have that gifted to me shortly before 366 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 2: the before the wedding, and honest to gosh, I now 367 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 2: have it in, you know, in a really nice private 368 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 2: spot in my closet at home, where I see it 369 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:16,719 Speaker 2: every single day. It is just such a gorgeous It 370 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 2: captures her spirit, not just physically but emotionally and her 371 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: attitude about things. It is. It is an awesome picture, 372 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 2: thank you. 373 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 5: It is not anymore. 374 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:32,359 Speaker 4: I didn't keep it in that closet all you want, Gary, 375 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 4: but the photo is out there. 376 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:37,959 Speaker 2: I guess that's a good point. It's just that, you know, 377 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 2: I kind of want to see it every day, you know, 378 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 2: in this particular spot. 379 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,359 Speaker 5: I honestly thought it was only for him. I didn't 380 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 5: know what ever be shown by me anywhere, so that 381 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 5: was surprising to me. 382 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 3: It's amazing. It's amazing. The photos are beautiful. You should 383 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 3: share them absolutely, thank you. 384 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:03,160 Speaker 1: Wait, so we mentioned the golden at her women Susan, 385 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 1: but Gary standing up there and marrying Teresa. Was there 386 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,640 Speaker 1: a moment where you kind of just like looked at 387 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 1: it all and just like, did it feel your journey 388 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 1: feel complete? Like you really start like this all came 389 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:23,359 Speaker 1: out of nowhere. It's a brand new show. You start 390 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: and you actually you finished the way you wanted to 391 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 1: with this beautiful woman, Like did that talk about that? 392 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:38,119 Speaker 6: I think the the end of it for me, so 393 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 6: to speak, was in Costa Rica when I asked Teresa 394 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 6: to marry me. Because it was at that moment that 395 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 6: I didn't care about timing or anything else. I was 396 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:54,360 Speaker 6: literally one thousand percent convinced that she was the right 397 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:58,439 Speaker 6: woman for me, and I really knew at that point 398 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 6: that we would get married. I did know that it 399 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 6: would be so quickly. I didn't even really think of 400 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 6: a timeline. 401 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:09,879 Speaker 2: But but that was when I felt like I had 402 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:14,399 Speaker 2: the final chapter, the final sentence of the final chapter written. 403 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 2: The wedding was sort of the danium wa So I 404 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,160 Speaker 2: guess that's kind of the best way I would describe it. 405 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: And then Teresa, how about you? Did you would you 406 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 1: kind of like look at everyone like him, Yeah, I'm 407 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: the best, I'm the weather. 408 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:35,360 Speaker 4: Guess that is what Joe would do that is Joe 409 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 4: would be like, hey, everyone, I got it, and I'm 410 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 4: walking down the aisle. 411 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 3: I got I fell in love. 412 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:48,160 Speaker 5: There's all spectacular women. Yeah. No, I never felt like. 413 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: No, no, but was it Did you feel like this 414 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 1: full circle it was for your personal journey? 415 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,679 Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, for my personal journey. Yes, I did feel that, 416 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 5: and I felt it at the same time at that 417 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 5: podium when because we didn't know how long it was 418 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 5: going to be before we get married or where, and 419 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,159 Speaker 5: that this was going to happen. This wasn't even in 420 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 5: our minds at that time. Yeah, I can say that 421 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 5: like it was for me, it was spectacular. I really 422 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 5: felt like it was just. 423 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I've said it a few times over through 424 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 2: the season. Teresa makes me calm. And when I got 425 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 2: down on one knee and she said yes with such 426 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:32,439 Speaker 2: excitement that she would marry me, that was the moment 427 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 2: of calm for me. So anything beyond that was just well, Okay, 428 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 2: the wedding was pretty awesome. 429 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 4: So yeah, Teresa, you looked so beautiful walking down the aisle. 430 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,440 Speaker 4: You had two looks, right, you had your ceremony looking 431 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 4: in your reception. Look, how did you choose? Like I 432 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 4: felt so overwhelmed when I went dress shopping. What was 433 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 4: your dress shopping process? 434 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,920 Speaker 5: I was completely overwhelmed, and think, I know all these 435 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 5: women there to help me. So I looked at all 436 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,359 Speaker 5: these dresses. There's so many there, and I go, okay, 437 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 5: you guys, just pick out your favorite dress and each 438 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 5: there were six of them, So they picked up six, 439 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,159 Speaker 5: and then I picked out three, and then I went 440 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 5: upstairs and then I tried them on, and I honestly 441 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 5: liked the first dress a lot, but it was kind 442 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 5: of see through. So I was convinced now that that 443 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 5: couldn't be. I said, oh, two were gay. So then 444 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,120 Speaker 5: when I walked down the stairs and they all went 445 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 5: nuts over this dress, I so, okay, I guess this 446 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,719 Speaker 5: is the one. I guess this is it? Yeah, how 447 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 5: about you? 448 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 2: Was it? 449 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 5: You? 450 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 2: Wait? 451 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 3: So you said, all the women picked and then you 452 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 3: picked three. Which who you picked? The one that you chose? 453 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 5: Oh oh, oh my gosh. I think it was close 454 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 5: to the one that Susan picked. I think she picked 455 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 5: the first one that you see me walking to, and 456 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 5: this this one I might have chosen. And it looked 457 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,919 Speaker 5: just like that one, except it wasn't see through, and 458 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 5: it wasn't think yeah, so yeah, I'm gonna say, Susan 459 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 5: kind of said I picked that. 460 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:56,600 Speaker 3: She's like. 461 00:23:58,760 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 5: That one. 462 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then what about your second dress? I loved 463 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,640 Speaker 3: your second look. Oh my gosh, thank you so much. 464 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 5: I liked it so much. It was beautiful. It was 465 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 5: really by carry the stylist, I mean, he chose it 466 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 5: and looked, you know, found many several dresses for me, 467 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 5: and I said, oh, this is the one. It's just gorgeous. 468 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 5: It's so comfortable, it's you know, it's funky, it looks 469 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,639 Speaker 5: it looks so cool. So and finally got addressed to 470 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 5: see through in the bottom. So yeah, I loved I 471 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 5: loved both of them. I couldn't. Yeah, I was. They 472 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 5: were both appropriate for what they were doing. Totally, thank you, Joe. 473 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 2: I'm noticing that during this conversation you're kind of quiet, 474 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 2: and Serena's face just gets smilier and smilier. It's like 475 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 2: we're maybe mutually we're not we're not dressed guys. 476 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I want to hear more about you. 477 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,120 Speaker 3: I don't want to talk about your wedding. I want 478 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 3: to hear more. 479 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: About I want to hear more about Gary's first bachelor party. Okay, 480 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,199 Speaker 1: we're going to get We're going to get more. We're 481 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 1: going to get more into the reception. We have a 482 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,159 Speaker 1: lot of bachelor alum that was at the wedding, so 483 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,880 Speaker 1: many more questions. And just before we get into more 484 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 1: of the reception, you guys have been married for a week. 485 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 1: How has it been after all the commotion and the 486 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,920 Speaker 1: chaos and the partying and the excitement. 487 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 5: It's been really good. So Gary had to go back 488 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,199 Speaker 5: home to get his dog and to straighten out a 489 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 5: few things and go to visit his dad again. And 490 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 5: then he just actually just drove here so you can time. 491 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, drove yesterday, so it's about a ten hour drive. 492 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 5: Yeah. 493 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:35,359 Speaker 2: So Dakota, my golden Doodle, and I loaded up the 494 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 2: pickup truck and tools and pickleball equipment and clothes and 495 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 2: dog stuff and everything, and we had our little drive 496 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 2: across the country and arrived here last night just in 497 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 2: time for a gloriously good dinner. Oh, thank you, it's great. 498 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 1: What was it? What'd you make? What'd you make? 499 00:25:58,920 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 2: Yeah? 500 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,159 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I made salmon, but not just salmon. I 501 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 5: did a base of chicken broth with kadalini beans and spinach, 502 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:08,880 Speaker 5: and put the salmon on top of it, and then 503 00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 5: did risted cauliflower and risted potatoes. 504 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,160 Speaker 3: On Instagram. 505 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 5: We did. Yeah, so that's. 506 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 3: Last time you guys were here. 507 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 4: You were talking about how Teresa is like super healthy 508 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 4: in terms of her diet. Gary has been rubbing off 509 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 4: on you and I'll have you been rubbing off on 510 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 4: each other? 511 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:28,479 Speaker 3: Like maybe Teresa's a little more. 512 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 2: I'm trying really hard, but you know, like I ate 513 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 2: the dinner last night. It was very healthy, and all 514 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 2: I could think about was what I wanted for dessert. 515 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 2: So I was able to get past dessert. But this morning, 516 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,159 Speaker 2: as soon as Teresa went to work, I went out 517 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,679 Speaker 2: in my car and got a box of or a 518 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 2: bag of the snacks that you get at the airport 519 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 2: with the little Eminem's and nuts and raisins. Oh yeah, yeah. 520 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:56,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, I said, last night, what do you want in 521 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:58,640 Speaker 5: the house. You didn't tell me that. 522 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 3: He's like, I want junk food, Teresa. 523 00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 2: It's a process. You know, I'm gonna get there, but 524 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:08,640 Speaker 2: it'll just take a little time. 525 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,880 Speaker 5: And I said, and he said he wants bagels. I said, 526 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,399 Speaker 5: if I go to this store, it's just like storeboard bagels. 527 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 5: You've got to get authentic New Jersey bagels. And he didn't. Wait, 528 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 5: but you know, maybe tomorrow you can get a really 529 00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 5: good bagel. Yeah. 530 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 1: If you're going to have like a if you're gonna 531 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 1: have a cheat dinner, you want to go get some 532 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 1: junk food. What are you doing? Like cheeseburger pizza. 533 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:36,360 Speaker 2: Pizza pizza Detroit style pizza, the big, big, chewy crust pizza. 534 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, and does not agree with that. 535 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,400 Speaker 5: But you said you love that pizza that we've got 536 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,400 Speaker 5: New Jersey. 537 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I will say on the board block during 538 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,200 Speaker 2: the season, I had a piece of New Jersey pizza 539 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 2: that was really good. 540 00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:57,959 Speaker 3: It doesn't surprise me. 541 00:27:58,480 --> 00:27:59,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, what's yours? 542 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 5: Only sheet I have is if there's really great tear 543 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 5: massou at a restaurant, I will eat Tearmaszoo. So that's 544 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:11,640 Speaker 5: about it. Yeah, but you know he can eat whatever 545 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:15,040 Speaker 5: he wants. It's great. You know, it's always you're happy. 546 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,919 Speaker 4: So what is the plan now? Because you're both in 547 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 4: New Jersey currently with the dog, with all the clothes, 548 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 4: with the tools, with the pick the wall stuff. Last 549 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,880 Speaker 4: time we talked to you, you were looking in Charleston. 550 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 4: Is that still kind of the plan? 551 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:32,680 Speaker 5: We're still going to look there. Yeah, absolutely, Yeah, Well 552 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 5: we're going to consider New Jersey, but it's probably going 553 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 5: to be outside of Charleston, like so, yes, that's the plan. 554 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 5: So the plan is that we're going to plan that. 555 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 5: We're going to sit down and plan. And all of 556 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,120 Speaker 5: a sudden, my wheels started spinning about the trip to 557 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:50,479 Speaker 5: Italy like that, finally, you know, I'm not having to 558 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 5: think about the wedding or Christmas or work. I am 559 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 5: still thinking about work, but now I can actually plan it, 560 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 5: and I'm so excited about it, Like, you know, that's 561 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 5: what we're thinking to go in May or June when 562 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 5: the weather's really nice. So that's our yeah, and. 563 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 3: Then that ye, will that be your official honeymoon? We 564 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 3: did it our honeymoon as well. 565 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 5: Yes, I know, I know, I know. So we have 566 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 5: to know what you liked and you would you want 567 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 5: more of? What would you want less of? Where do 568 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 5: we go? And I'm thinking I've already been Roman above. 569 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 5: We're thinking Roman below, and you know, and and maybe 570 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 5: being in the luxury hotels, but then mixing it up 571 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 5: with being with you know, right in the economy with 572 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 5: people and you know, trying to get the field for 573 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 5: the people because I'm full Italian. 574 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 1: Have you have you been to the Amalfi Coast. 575 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 5: I've only been to Capri Capri, but not no one, 576 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 5: and that's high on our list for this trip. Yeah, 577 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 5: that's where we're going. 578 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 3: It's really pretty. 579 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 5: And so you planned the weather the trip. 580 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 1: Did I'm a planner, So I did plan. I did 581 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 1: plan our honeymoon. So if you guys, you guys need 582 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 1: my help, I don't charge yet. I wouldn't charge you 583 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 1: guys start charging, but any of our listeners, I am 584 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 1: starting a new business honeymoon. 585 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 2: Joe the market maker for traveling. 586 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, you would be a great honeymoon. 587 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 1: I would be. I don't know if that's if that's 588 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 1: a thing. If that's a role, there we go. 589 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 4: Susan can officiate weddings and you can plan everyone's honeymoons. 590 00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 4: You guys could go into business together and Wells. Wells 591 00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:32,560 Speaker 4: can also officiate weddings. 592 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:36,040 Speaker 1: Wow wow yeah have you guys. Have you guys had 593 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 1: a chance to watch the special back? Did you watch 594 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 1: it back? 595 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, we I did fully, he did fully, and 596 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 5: then we started last night watching it together. Yeah, we 597 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 5: wanted to watch it together. I kept saying, Oh, wow, 598 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 5: Cathy's really good. Wow, that's really good staring a great job, 599 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 5: look at that. But then and wow, and all of 600 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 5: them were so all the women were so so so 601 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 5: beautiful and Jack Charity was so good. I mean, they 602 00:30:59,200 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 5: had such present. 603 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,479 Speaker 2: It's fun to watch the background too, and see all 604 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 2: of your friends enjoying themselves and you know, the guests 605 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:11,480 Speaker 2: that you've invited. That was that was really that was 606 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 2: a lot of fun. 607 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, just kept saying, oh, look, I kept saying, look 608 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 5: at the background, look at who's there. 609 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 1: What were your what were your thoughts on Branden and 610 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: Christina getting engaged? 611 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, so they called you, they didn't call you. 612 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 1: Okay, I've heard. 613 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 2: A couple of comments like, oh geez, that was inappropriate 614 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 2: and you know, why steal the thunder and you know, 615 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 2: the spotlight from the wedding and you know, Britain called 616 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,520 Speaker 2: and he was very sincere and earnest about his request. 617 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 2: And he goes and I've talked to you know, I 618 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 2: consider him a pretty good friend, and I've talked to 619 00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 2: some of the kids and and so forth, and he 620 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 2: was really earnest about the question. And I said, hold on, 621 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 2: let me call Teresa, and I said yes, and so 622 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,719 Speaker 2: I buzzed him back quick and I said, yeah, go 623 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:13,520 Speaker 2: for it, you know what. 624 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,520 Speaker 5: And they didn't interfere with that wedding that happened before 625 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 5: we were there, so that's true. 626 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 3: It'd be different they like stood up in the middle 627 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 3: of your ceremony. 628 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,880 Speaker 5: Completely different. But then we watched it. I was just 629 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 5: so cute. Oh my god, it was really cute watching 630 00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 5: So that was great. Live and let live and the 631 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,920 Speaker 5: more the merrier, and it's fine, yeah, yeah. 632 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: And it's it's not like people are going to stop 633 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: celebrating you guys all just because like these two guys. 634 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 1: It only just it's only just like a it's just extra. 635 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,200 Speaker 1: It's just an added layer. You know. 636 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 5: It looks like an awards show. 637 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,000 Speaker 3: It's it. The way they set it up. 638 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, red carpet, all the guests would come by 639 00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 2: little brief interview pictures. It was really well thought out, 640 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 2: well put together production. 641 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:07,720 Speaker 5: We were sad we weren't part of that. You weren't 642 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,239 Speaker 5: part of any of it, and we're said about that, 643 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 5: but I would have loved to have seen have been 644 00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 5: there with all of that. But you got more of 645 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 5: it than I did. 646 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, were there any bachelor bachelor alum that you guys 647 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 1: got to meet that you were excited to meet or 648 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:24,760 Speaker 1: that you just yet happy to see again. 649 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,000 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I think. 650 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 2: Well. One of the interesting things is I got to 651 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 2: play pickleball with Trista the next day, did you Yes? 652 00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 2: And that was great fun. Her daughter was with her. 653 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 2: We had the whole we had both families together. We 654 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 2: runted a couple of courts and everybody was having a 655 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 2: great time playing pickleball. Anna was there, you know, one 656 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 2: of the early season you know bachelorettes. Trista showed up. 657 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:56,480 Speaker 2: She's a pretty good player, and uh so that was 658 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 2: that was fun. 659 00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:02,719 Speaker 5: Yeah. I was excited about Desiree and Jade and Kitlin 660 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:06,960 Speaker 5: to see her again. And Molly because well I used 661 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 5: to watch that my husband and these are these are 662 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 5: the seasons that I watched. And Ben Higgins. It was 663 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:17,839 Speaker 5: very exciting. Yeah, kept looking for you guys, where are they? 664 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 3: We should have let you know we weren't coming. Would 665 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:22,840 Speaker 3: R s v P properly? 666 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: No, I would have played Gary the next day and pickle. 667 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:34,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, going to go back. Ashley and Jared I never 668 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,400 Speaker 5: got to meet. I believe they were there, but I 669 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 5: never get to meet them. 670 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,320 Speaker 1: They were ye there they were. 671 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:49,959 Speaker 2: A little you guys, you turn in your turn. 672 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 5: I can tell you what my highlights. 673 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:55,240 Speaker 1: Were actually, love to hear your highlights. 674 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, I would say that his daughter's speaking and then 675 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 5: my daughter's thing just was I know that and I 676 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 5: read comments, Oh it shouldn't have been done then, but 677 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 5: it was amazing for us to hear that. And they 678 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 5: they really spoke from the heart, so that was amazing. 679 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 5: And to see Henry come down and to see all 680 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 5: the beautiful, incredible people they are just to be really, 681 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 5: like I said before, surrounded by such positive, loving people 682 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,840 Speaker 5: and then the flowers, Wow, wow wow. And the band. 683 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 5: Did you hear about the band whoa like this was? 684 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 5: Oh my god, it was. I don't I'm kind of 685 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 5: say the name of the band. They were JB Project. 686 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 5: They were phenomenal. No one stopped dancing every day, it 687 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 5: was just non the entire night. So and they were 688 00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:49,360 Speaker 5: there were entertainers beyond just being musicians. They were dancing. 689 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 5: They were just incredible. 690 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,440 Speaker 2: And you did miss the moments when when we were 691 00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:58,240 Speaker 2: taken up on stage with the band so you could 692 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 2: watch the spotlight and two people of our age trying 693 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:06,840 Speaker 2: to keep up with the younger bachelors and bachelorets. Y. 694 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 5: I would get to a point where I was too tired, 695 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 5: you know, I had to sit down, and I go 696 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 5: walk across the dance floor and some young thirty year 697 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 5: old and stop me and go and I go, okay, 698 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 5: keep dancing. I think I might die really on the 699 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 5: dance floor right now. 700 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:24,919 Speaker 2: But something that I thought was a highlight for the wedding, 701 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 2: and it's sort of in the background, but we both 702 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 2: made such good friends with some of the crew during 703 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:36,400 Speaker 2: that season that, you know, after we put together our 704 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 2: invitation list, we insisted that there were you know a 705 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 2: number of those people attend the wedding as our guests, 706 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 2: not as working people, because we were treated so extremely 707 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:57,319 Speaker 2: well and courteously and respectfully through that entire season that 708 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,240 Speaker 2: it would have been criminal to not have them there 709 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:01,279 Speaker 2: as our guest. 710 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 5: Yeah. 711 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 2: There, you know, Steve and Bradford and I mean my 712 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 2: list could go on and on, but they were great. 713 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:13,520 Speaker 1: Was there anyone that anyone that's part of your life 714 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,319 Speaker 1: that you really wanted to be at the wedding that 715 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: just couldn't make it. 716 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:21,400 Speaker 5: Maybe my relatives from Italy and my dad. 717 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 2: I had it set up for my dad to be there, 718 00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:28,360 Speaker 2: and he had to check with his cardiologist, and the 719 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:32,839 Speaker 2: cardiologist said, absolutely, no way, you can't. You can't fly. 720 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:37,480 Speaker 2: So I set it up to have an exact, nearly 721 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 2: as possible duplicate of the wedding cake in Fort Wayne, Indiana. 722 00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:44,360 Speaker 2: I found a baker, my daughter helped me, Angie, and 723 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,880 Speaker 2: so we had a wedding cake made and delivered to 724 00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:50,960 Speaker 2: him on wedding night. So he had a watch party 725 00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:54,359 Speaker 2: like he has had in the past, and he has 726 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 2: told me afterwards that's as drunk as he's ever gotten 727 00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 2: in the last twenty five years. 728 00:37:59,200 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 3: Really. 729 00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:00,439 Speaker 5: Yeah. 730 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,480 Speaker 2: He was drinking Irish whiskey and champagne back and forth, 731 00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,319 Speaker 2: and so, you know, I was really happy that he 732 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 2: enjoyed it the best he could, but he was real 733 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:11,920 Speaker 2: disappointed he couldn't go. 734 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I would say, my mom and dad are 735 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,560 Speaker 5: not around anymore. The boy would I love for them 736 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,640 Speaker 5: to have been there. They would have just loved it 737 00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:19,120 Speaker 5: so much. 738 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really special. 739 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 4: I'm I guess that's the perk of having a live 740 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 4: televised weddings. 741 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:28,200 Speaker 3: You know, for sure he was getting to watch the. 742 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 4: Whole thing from home and celebrate with you guys, even 743 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:33,879 Speaker 4: though he wasn't able to be there. Was it so 744 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 4: surreal having like the people that work on the show, 745 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:42,359 Speaker 4: your for more contestants, Bachelor alumni, and then also your 746 00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 4: family and friends all in one room. I mean, that's 747 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 4: a lot of different groups of people all together celebrating 748 00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 4: you insane. 749 00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 5: You know. 750 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,359 Speaker 2: I just kept looking around at that group and it'd 751 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 2: be one familiar face after another, and I'm going, who 752 00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 2: am I to be associating with celebrities like this? You know, 753 00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 2: It's like, you know, I'm just a guy from Indiana. 754 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,560 Speaker 2: Then all of a sudden got swept into this and 755 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 2: I know all these people now, But that part was 756 00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:15,239 Speaker 2: really it was almost overwhelming when you look at all 757 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 2: the happy faces. 758 00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, you're right, Serena. Though, to have all of these 759 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,919 Speaker 5: people in the same room that just and they were 760 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 5: so they were starstar too, like our friends and family. 761 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,759 Speaker 5: They wanted to meet all these other women and they're 762 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:31,879 Speaker 5: so excited about it, and yeah, and meeting my grandsons. 763 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:35,960 Speaker 5: It was amazing. I wish. 764 00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 1: I don't think there's anyone in the country that doesn't 765 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:40,359 Speaker 1: know the Golden Couples. So you guys might have been 766 00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 1: the crities the room. 767 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:46,879 Speaker 2: That hasn't hit home yet. 768 00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:51,440 Speaker 1: So who was the drunkest. Who was the drunkest person 769 00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 1: at the reception? 770 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:53,600 Speaker 5: Who was the drunkest I don't know. 771 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 4: That means there's probably you. 772 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:00,600 Speaker 5: I guess it was the person I was having the 773 00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:04,279 Speaker 5: best time, I know, and I know somebody was on 774 00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 5: Braden's Was it Wells? 775 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:07,319 Speaker 2: It was Wells on. 776 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:09,560 Speaker 3: Product? 777 00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 2: It was well that sounds about right. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 778 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,840 Speaker 2: that was pretty That was in the last fifteen or 779 00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,759 Speaker 2: twenty minutes before the end of the band, and I 780 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 2: turned around and looked and and there was Wells on 781 00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:23,680 Speaker 2: Braiden's shoulders. 782 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,560 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that is so fun. 783 00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:32,040 Speaker 1: And it was yeah, no, no, no, go ahead, Teresa. 784 00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:35,080 Speaker 5: No no, it was It's non stop dancing. It just 785 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:36,880 Speaker 5: I don't think there was a slow dance plate. 786 00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 3: I was going to say, what did you guys do 787 00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,279 Speaker 3: for your first dance? Did you have a first dance? Yeah? 788 00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:44,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, So my favorite is Dan Morrison. So I don't 789 00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:48,120 Speaker 5: know if you've ever heard this song someone like you? Yeah, 790 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,799 Speaker 5: of course, oh you know that one, okay, and then 791 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 5: we changed that into sure Thing by Miguel which that's so. 792 00:40:59,200 --> 00:40:59,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. 793 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,359 Speaker 5: We actually we did have a choreographed dance we did. 794 00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,520 Speaker 5: We were not com in it that we could pull 795 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,799 Speaker 5: it off. We wanted to do it, but oh what 796 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 5: if we missed the whole thing up because we didn't 797 00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 5: have enough time to really practice it. 798 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:12,560 Speaker 3: That's so fun if. 799 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, my dad, for our father daughter dance, wanted to 800 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 4: like he was like nervous about it, so he wanted 801 00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,520 Speaker 4: to kind of choreograph it a little bit, like not 802 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,280 Speaker 4: anything fancy, just like where he was stepping and stuff. 803 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,640 Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, okay. But by the time 804 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 4: it came like we both had a few drinks, I 805 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:30,359 Speaker 4: was like, we're not. 806 00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:32,479 Speaker 3: Going to remember this. Let's just have fun. 807 00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:36,000 Speaker 4: It's fine, Like we're not going to remember the dance, 808 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,720 Speaker 4: like we're not going to remember any of the steps. 809 00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:41,239 Speaker 3: Like, let's just he was like, okay, yeah, sounds good exactly. 810 00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:43,239 Speaker 2: I was really fired up about it though, because the 811 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,839 Speaker 2: last ninety seconds of our dance was a little boo thing. 812 00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:48,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, it was cool. It was really cool. 813 00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, we were almost there. You know, another couple of 814 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 2: times together, we would have had time to rehearse it enough, 815 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 2: but we would have done it. 816 00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 5: You make me feel so young, was the song, right, 817 00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:01,759 Speaker 5: was it? Yeah? It was. It started out you make 818 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,560 Speaker 5: me Feel So young, Frank Sinatra, sort of like a 819 00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,000 Speaker 5: walled sort of thing, and he was picked me up. 820 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 5: It was so great. This ever worked out, lots of stins, 821 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:14,040 Speaker 5: lots of twirls, tilting in, Oh my god, pushing me back. Oh, 822 00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:14,680 Speaker 5: it was great. 823 00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:18,319 Speaker 4: You guys should you guys should film that. You guy 824 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:21,279 Speaker 4: should film that and posted. People would love to see that. 825 00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 2: I think Islands in the Stream for us was pushing 826 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,240 Speaker 2: me a little bit, so that was impromptu. 827 00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, we should try to try to do. 828 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,919 Speaker 1: Anything happened after the reception. Was there an after party after? 829 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:35,239 Speaker 5: Yeah? 830 00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:36,480 Speaker 3: How did you close out the night? 831 00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:37,759 Speaker 1: Oh? 832 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 2: Ye? 833 00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,080 Speaker 1: And food? Did you have night food? 834 00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:45,560 Speaker 2: You know? It was the most unglamorous, unspectacular way to 835 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:49,360 Speaker 2: end the wedding night. I trudged to my suite, grabbed 836 00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,919 Speaker 2: enough clothes to start the next morning. By the time 837 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 2: I got to her suite, she was already under the covers. Yeah, 838 00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,319 Speaker 2: we gave it all we had. It was kind of 839 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,839 Speaker 2: like game time, and when the final buzzer went off, 840 00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,160 Speaker 2: we were sacking. We were done. 841 00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,040 Speaker 5: We were for such a long time. 842 00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:09,759 Speaker 3: So what time did you guys go to bed? 843 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:13,880 Speaker 5: At it was like kind of midnight, right, No, we 844 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:17,759 Speaker 5: left at midnight, so that's really late for a seven 845 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:18,160 Speaker 5: year old. 846 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well and when did you start? I bet 847 00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,560 Speaker 1: you started. When'd you start your day? I'm assuming like 848 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:23,120 Speaker 1: eight am? 849 00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:27,680 Speaker 5: Right, we were started eight on our feet all day? 850 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,560 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, no, I think we went to bed at 851 00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:31,319 Speaker 3: like one am. Two. 852 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, we were, we were. I remember just being by 853 00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,120 Speaker 1: the end of it because you're just you're you're on 854 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,920 Speaker 1: all socially drained, like by the end of the. 855 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 4: Day, emotionally burnt out. 856 00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 2: And it was it wasn't just the one day, it 857 00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:49,400 Speaker 2: was like the several days before. By the time, you know, 858 00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:52,879 Speaker 2: we got to the resorts and you know, literally everybody 859 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,759 Speaker 2: on that resort I think knew who we were. So 860 00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:59,600 Speaker 2: it was constantly stopping the photos and you know, a 861 00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 2: chat and some people want to chat a little bit longer, 862 00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:06,040 Speaker 2: and so it's like three days or four days in a. 863 00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 5: Row of being on Yeah, exactly what Joe said, socially draining, 864 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,680 Speaker 5: Like great, we love to meet everybody, but yeah. 865 00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:17,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I remember when we were in Charleston for our wedding, 866 00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,480 Speaker 4: I was always running late and I was like, why 867 00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,440 Speaker 4: does this keep happening to me. And it was because 868 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:22,759 Speaker 4: I would be like, Okay, it's going to take me, 869 00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,760 Speaker 4: you know, ten minutes to get to this lunch spot, 870 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,120 Speaker 4: but then you run into everyone and then it takes 871 00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 4: you twenty five minutes to get there because you're saying 872 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:35,920 Speaker 4: exactly right, yeah, ten minutes becomes an hour, Yeah, exactly. 873 00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,280 Speaker 2: And you may not have noticed, but Trees, it tends 874 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:43,000 Speaker 2: to be a little chatty, so she's happy to engage people. 875 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:47,600 Speaker 5: Right. But the next morning was so great. We were 876 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:51,719 Speaker 5: having breakfast with everyone, so that was greating me played pickleball, 877 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,880 Speaker 5: and then some of our family went on hikes, so 878 00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 5: we had a lot of fun. The next thing. We 879 00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 5: had to have that energy for. 880 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 1: That, so you warn't hungover it, you warn't hungover at 881 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 1: all for the next day. 882 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:03,279 Speaker 5: Yeah. 883 00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:07,840 Speaker 2: I think I had one one gear beer and that 884 00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:09,279 Speaker 2: was it. 885 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:14,240 Speaker 4: Is that the orange juice of vodka cranberry and vodka Vodcat. 886 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 5: I remember, I remember I'm was the one who gave 887 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 5: him this first drink and I had heard I think 888 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:21,360 Speaker 5: maybe it was your podcast where he said he liked 889 00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:23,279 Speaker 5: cranberry vodka, and when I saw the orange, I got, 890 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,200 Speaker 5: what's going on this isn't your drink, but it was 891 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,000 Speaker 5: his teeth that he couldn't stain them. 892 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:32,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, the cranberry gets your lips a little red, right right? 893 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,239 Speaker 4: Everyone be like Gary's making up with everyone with red 894 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 4: lipstick today? 895 00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:40,759 Speaker 5: Reallyberry? Yeah, you know I was able to, like when 896 00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 5: we got everybody's fussing around us and testing around me, 897 00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:47,600 Speaker 5: and I was just really like, Okay, it's fine. I 898 00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:51,040 Speaker 5: just really just lived in that moment, like I said before, 899 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:54,160 Speaker 5: and just enjoyed it. I was I'm so grateful that 900 00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,799 Speaker 5: we were able to do that, to really enjoy that. 901 00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 1: Moment before we let you go, Are you guys going 902 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:00,440 Speaker 1: to be watching Joey's season? 903 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:05,560 Speaker 5: Yes? Absolutely? Wait him, absolutely, we have to watch Joey's 904 00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,239 Speaker 5: season together. We love him so much and can't wait. 905 00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 5: It looks so good. 906 00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,000 Speaker 1: And what advice did you give him? 907 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:12,640 Speaker 2: Any advice? 908 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,359 Speaker 1: And if you didn't, what advice would you give him? 909 00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 5: Oh, just go with your heart and be in the moment, 910 00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:23,160 Speaker 5: be open to everything. But he's done it already, and 911 00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,800 Speaker 5: so I'm sure he's chosen this most wonderful person. 912 00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:30,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's seen it from the other side, so now 913 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,799 Speaker 2: he's seeing it from the lead side. And I think 914 00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:37,879 Speaker 2: Joey is a pretty sharp guy, so you know, any 915 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 2: advice we would give him might lead him astray. So 916 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:43,879 Speaker 2: I think he's going to be just fine on his own. 917 00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:44,479 Speaker 1: Yeah. 918 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 2: You know, a guy that can pull off a pink 919 00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:49,640 Speaker 2: suit like he can, he's got it going on. 920 00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,399 Speaker 5: Now he has to keep his secret for a long, long, 921 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:58,080 Speaker 5: long time. Yeah, this will bond us, this experience, you know, 922 00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,160 Speaker 5: more so to watch Joey's. 923 00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:01,600 Speaker 2: You know. 924 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:04,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that'll be nice because it'll be like the first season. 925 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:08,040 Speaker 4: You guys are watching after your journey's over, so it'll 926 00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,880 Speaker 4: be kind of like a sentimental little viewing party at 927 00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:12,640 Speaker 4: your host every night. 928 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,399 Speaker 3: Joe I the first season I watched back. 929 00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,680 Speaker 4: Actually I got anxiety watching the night one episode because 930 00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,440 Speaker 4: you put yourself in their shoes, and I was so 931 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:23,520 Speaker 4: nervous when I did that. 932 00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 3: But it's fun to kind of be able to be like, oh, 933 00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:29,000 Speaker 3: like I remember when I did that night. 934 00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm sure, Yeah, I can't wait to see it. 935 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:36,759 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I have something for you guys, if you're 936 00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:42,160 Speaker 1: able to get to Florence. There's an ice cream shop 937 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:48,719 Speaker 1: called Vivoli, and they have a vanilla custard espresso drink. 938 00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:49,719 Speaker 3: It's like an Agato. 939 00:47:53,719 --> 00:48:01,840 Speaker 1: This is the best thing in the world. That is 940 00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 1: the shop to go to. That That is my wedding 941 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,080 Speaker 1: gift from you guys. 942 00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:11,120 Speaker 5: Is that little bit of did you say bully beat? 943 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:13,880 Speaker 1: So it's b I D. 944 00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:15,920 Speaker 2: L I. 945 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,720 Speaker 1: It has like a purple neon sign. 946 00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:23,200 Speaker 3: So great, that's wonderful, Joe, three of them? 947 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:27,040 Speaker 5: Oh God like around, that's a great serena. 948 00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,319 Speaker 2: Did you notice when he said it's the best thing 949 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,040 Speaker 2: in the world, he looked at you as if he 950 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:32,360 Speaker 2: was racing for a blow. 951 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:36,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, because we both know that that tops me. He 952 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:38,319 Speaker 3: would choose any day. 953 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,120 Speaker 1: But you're not. You're not a thing, You're a person, 954 00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:43,320 Speaker 1: you know, person? 955 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 5: Yeah? 956 00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:45,839 Speaker 2: Good? 957 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:46,279 Speaker 5: Say good? 958 00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:46,560 Speaker 3: Safe? 959 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,080 Speaker 5: So are you looking forward to another aunt? Ask you 960 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:54,520 Speaker 5: another vacation that's not Italy. Do you have anything that 961 00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 5: you're planning? 962 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:59,080 Speaker 1: Maybe we want to try to do an Asia trip 963 00:48:59,200 --> 00:48:59,520 Speaker 1: this year. 964 00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,200 Speaker 4: Oh wow, Joe's fair place has ever been is Japan. 965 00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:08,319 Speaker 4: I've never been to Asia at all, so we thought 966 00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:11,200 Speaker 4: that could be fine. We did Spain two years ago, 967 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,360 Speaker 4: in Italy last year, so we thought maybe change it 968 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:14,240 Speaker 4: up from Europe. 969 00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 2: Have you been to Australia? 970 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,560 Speaker 5: No, no, no, me neither. 971 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:21,759 Speaker 3: That would be a good one. 972 00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:24,680 Speaker 5: Too many states in the United States we haven't been 973 00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:26,480 Speaker 5: to that. We've got to go to a lot of places. 974 00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:27,040 Speaker 2: I know. 975 00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:28,040 Speaker 1: It just gets so hard. 976 00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:30,160 Speaker 3: There's so many places. It's so hard to choose. 977 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:30,440 Speaker 2: Now. 978 00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,279 Speaker 5: I know it's going to be fun. 979 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:37,799 Speaker 3: Well, Ye'll be good, all. 980 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:41,080 Speaker 4: Right, Gary and Teresa. Thank you so much for joining us. 981 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:44,719 Speaker 4: We are so happy for you both. The craziness is done. 982 00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:48,640 Speaker 4: You can breathe and just enjoy newlywed life, which is 983 00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:53,000 Speaker 4: an amazing feeling. And we wish you the best in 984 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,759 Speaker 4: life and planning your honeymoon and the move and all 985 00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 4: the things coming your way. 986 00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:02,120 Speaker 1: Much Yeah, thank you guys so much for just coming 987 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:05,520 Speaker 1: on the podcast so many times and sharing your story 988 00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:07,480 Speaker 1: with us. And we're so happy for you guys. And 989 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:11,720 Speaker 1: I really hope you drinking affigato in Florence. 990 00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, based on that, we'll have to chase it down. 991 00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:17,000 Speaker 2: Thank you. 992 00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:18,799 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much. 993 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,359 Speaker 2: Thank you always fun. 994 00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 1: Thank you and uh for our listeners. We love you guys. 995 00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:26,439 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for tuning in and make sure 996 00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,239 Speaker 1: you stay tuned the Happy Hour. Every week we have 997 00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:33,800 Speaker 1: exclusive interviews and we'll be recapping Joey season of the 998 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,919 Speaker 1: Bachelor because that's coming up pretty damn soon. 999 00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:40,000 Speaker 3: That's it, Thanks for listening. 1000 00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:40,359 Speaker 1: Bye,