WEBVTT - Congrats........ ( Jay Barnett Interview) 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:03.040 Get it out for some reason that the solid holding 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:06.960 down the base rage. Let me add to take the 0:00:07.080 --> 0:00:09.880 breakfast club. Everyone just kept telling the prop. One word, 0:00:09.960 --> 0:00:11.600 what did you describe the breakast club would be blott 0:00:11.800 --> 0:00:15.400 impacting the coature. People watch the breakfast Club for like 0:00:15.520 --> 0:00:18.160 news and really be tuned in. Man, I don't even 0:00:18.160 --> 0:00:20.080 know what to call the breakfast club. It's like brunch 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:24.840 nb ye and cholovgne. Wake that ass up, get out 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:27.800 of bed and listen to the breakfast Club. I'm waking. 0:00:32.920 --> 0:00:35.680 Good morning usc yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:37.320 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:37.400 --> 0:00:39.120 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:40.960 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:44.360 yo yo yo yo yo. Good morning Angela yee, Good 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:51.600 morning Davy the guy piece to the plane in this Thursday, Man, 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:54.360 this Thursday had a great ride in this morning? Manh 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:58.080 what you was doing? You know? Sometimes you know, yelling? 0:00:58.160 --> 0:00:59.880 I don't know, I'm excited, I'm having a good day. 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.320 You know, good morning, I should say so. You know, 0:01:02.360 --> 0:01:04.120 as a kid, my mom used to clean the house 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.080 every Sunday, right, I don't know if I don't know 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.560 if that it didn't help I clean my room. But 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:10.240 she used to clean the house every Sunday. I helped. 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:12.119 She would clean the house every Sunday and she would 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:16.120 play music throughout the whole house all Sunday and in 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:18.199 that feeling. So this morning I threw on some Teddy 0:01:18.240 --> 0:01:23.959 Pendergrass out and man, who turn off the lights? Turn 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:26.520 them off? Not? Why was your mama playing that while 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:28.200 she was cleaning up? She was playing everything because at 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:30.360 the time the radio station nine point seven Kiss or 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:34.520 one of the older stations music. So it's it's so good, 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:38.720 I play sign it's so good, all good. But I 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:40.840 just want to sad. Yes, I think that's really fun 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:42.760 to play music like I do that too when I 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:46.400 clean the house. You gotta put together a nice little playlist, 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:48.000 and I gotta I do that with my kids too. 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:50.560 But of course I'm playing like you know, the New Editions, 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:54.760 the Mary J. Blige. So basically you're in a child 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:57.480 who was pleased. Yeah, man, it was a good ride. 0:01:57.520 --> 0:01:59.040 I mean when we pulled up, you know, we have 0:01:59.080 --> 0:02:03.560 a couple of I would just say associates downstairs to 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:07.680 make security guards. I'm a grown ass man, Yes, security guards. 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:10.480 A couple of scuds downstairs, So what I pulled out 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:11.519 that when I jumped out the card, it was like, 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:13.480 you must be in love. I'm like, yes, I'm in 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:15.360 love and I feel good this morning. That's crazy. You 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:17.480 pulled up playing Teddy Pendergrass, turned off the lights and 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:21.000 looked at security dead in AI this morning. By the way, 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:24.639 did y'all ever watch the Teddy Pendergrass documentary? No, I 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:28.920 tell you you got to watch that. It's amazing documentary. 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:31.080 Yeah I see that, Yeah, yeah, yeah, this he's act good. 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:32.600 What I like about it is that he did a 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:35.920 lot of audio recordings and that they were able to 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:38.920 use those in the documentary like somebody first hand telling 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:40.840 their story, and it was just really dope. It was 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:43.919 on showtime, right. Yeah. He got an amazing, amazing story 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:46.120 when you even here, just how he got in the business, 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:48.560 and then it was like a little a lot of 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:53.280 drama with his career. But so talented. He's very handsome too. 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:55.840 I actually saw him performed once, but that's when he 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:58.359 was in the wheelchair. That happened to be in Atlantic 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:02.440 City and women were still throwing their panties on the stage. Really, yeah, 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:04.280 he has he has a lot of records. Man, I 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:06.359 had a great drive in this morning. Just oh man, 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:08.120 it was beautiful. Okay, all right, well let's get the 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:10.600 show cracker. Who's joining us this morning. Oh man, my man, 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:15.239 King Jay Barnett Kings Jay Barnett is a psychiatrist therapist 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:19.040 who specializes in black men's mental health. He's got an 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:22.280 initiative with Roger P. Hinson and Tracy J that he's launching, 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:24.120 so he'll be here to talk about it. And he's 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:26.880 a form an NFL player, right, he's a ball player. 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:28.360 I don't know if he was in the NFL. Definitely 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:31.520 form a ball player though. Okay, all right, so we'll 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:32.639 kick it with him in a little bit. And we 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:34.360 got front page news. What're were talking about? Well, I 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:36.640 hate to bring the mood down, but there was a 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:40.880 mass shooting in San Jose yesterday and we'll discuss what 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:45.800 happened because the victims all knew the person who killed them. 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:50.040 Nine victims, damn it. Man. Yeah, all right, we'll get 0:03:50.080 --> 0:03:53.960 into that next. It's the Breakfast Club Morning morning. Everybody 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:57.360 is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the Gad. We are 0:03:57.400 --> 0:04:01.440 to Breakfast Club. Let's getting some front page news now. 0:04:01.520 --> 0:04:04.120 Last night NBA playoffs. The Jazz beat the Grizzlies one 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:06.360 forty one, one twenty nine to seventy six. Is beat 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:10.440 the Wizards one twenty ninety five. Russell Westbrook got injured 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:13.280 as he was walking out. Somebody through I guess popcorn 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:14.800 on him as he was walking out. And I don't 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:21.320 think that's what I heard him though, No, that'scorn as 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:24.480 he was walking might do popcorn on him. No, he 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:27.600 got injured and as he was walking out somebody threw 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:29.960 popcorn on him and he was trying to get up 0:04:30.000 --> 0:04:32.279 in them stands to throw that dude all over the 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:34.920 place and dropping the clues bonds for the New York Knicks. 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:36.200 Damn it. I was about to say that the New 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:40.000 York Knicks beat the Hawks one on one ninety two. 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:44.120 This is a very interesting series, I think partly because 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:46.479 it's the Knicks, but also because Trey Young is talking 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:48.760 so much. Issue So in the end of this game, 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:50.480 Trey Young was like, we're going to the A. I 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:53.400 see y'all in the A. I see y'all in the afastball. 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:55.640 But they don't talk like that, no more like it's 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:59.719 usually great game. No, now they're back to talking, and 0:04:59.720 --> 0:05:03.000 I love the playoff basketball, and it is what it 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:04.960 is is playoff basketball. Like you said, I love it. 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:07.920 Now come on with the sad news, all right, Well, 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:11.480 this happened in San Jose. There were nine victims. It 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:14.200 was a mass shooting. They have all been identified and 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:16.159 they will be honored tonight at an event at the 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:19.640 San Jose City Hall Plaza. But the victims were at 0:05:19.640 --> 0:05:23.200 the Valley Transportation Authority. It's a public transit service. It 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.520 operates the bus and light rail services in the Santa 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:28.560 Clara Valley. It employees about two thousand workers. And they 0:05:28.600 --> 0:05:30.799 said one thing that is clear, according to the mayor, 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.599 is that the victims and all the colleagues knew the shooter. Well, 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:36.920 the shooting started and there were several nine one one 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:40.200 calls that reported shots fired at the VTA Control Center 0:05:40.560 --> 0:05:43.880 as employees from the midnight shift and the day shift overlapped. 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:47.560 There were multiple law enforcement agencies and fire department personnel 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:51.200 who responded. They have identified the gunmen. Sam Cassidy is 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:54.680 his name, according to a law enforcement source, and according 0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:57.760 to his ex girlfriend, she said she dated him for 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:00.720 approximately one year. It was an on and off again relationship. 0:06:00.760 --> 0:06:03.760 After about six months they met on match dot Com 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:05.839 and they saw each other about once a week, and 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:08.400 she said he asked her to marry him, even though 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:11.320 he complained that they weren't having enough sex. She refused, 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:13.480 and she said he did not take it well. He 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:16.880 also had mood swings that were exacerbated when he consumed 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:19.920 large quantities of alcohol. She also said that he had 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:23.560 bipolar disorder. According to the ex girlfriend she did not 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:26.280 want to be identified, she said several times during the 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:29.719 relationship he became intoxicated and raged and forced himself on 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:33.680 her sexually. His ex wife, Cecilia Elmes, said that he 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:36.680 resented his work. They were married for about ten years 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:38.920 and then they filed for divorce in two thousand and five. 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:41.440 She's not been in touch with him for about thirteen years, 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:43.800 but she said he often spoke angrily about his co 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:47.279 workers and bosses, and at times directed his anger at her. 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:49.560 When the two of them were married, he resented what 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:52.159 he saw his unfair work assignments and would rant about 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:55.400 his job when he got home. So he did take 0:06:55.440 --> 0:07:00.440 his own life once the police were called and yeah, 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:03.120 it's a terrible crime scene. Six of the victims remained 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:07.040 in the building as the crime scene was processed. One 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.440 of the victims, the ninth one, actually made it to 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:13.720 the hospital and then he died. Lord Have Mercy, all 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:17.080 hurt was a lot of hurt, a lot of pains. Now. Yeah, 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:19.040 so there's a lot to this, and we will keep 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:21.440 you updated, but we want to definitely make sure we 0:07:21.480 --> 0:07:24.560 give our condolences to the families, to the friends, to 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:27.840 everybody that has suffered from this a loss from this 0:07:27.960 --> 0:07:31.960 mass shooting. Again, the gunman has been identified as Sam Cassidy. 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:35.040 Why does it seem like mass shootings are so quiet nowadays? 0:07:35.560 --> 0:07:37.400 There's been a lot of them. This what I'm saying, 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:39.360 Like I wondered the last time a mass shooting has 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:42.520 been like a major headline that dominated the news cycle. 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:45.200 It's just like this, it's just another story. Now, that's 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.040 not the way it should be. We start getting up. 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:48.800 I mean, we're numb to a lot of things in America. 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:52.920 But Lord Have Mercy. Yeah, you know the deputies where 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.320 they're really quickly at the scene of this crime. They're 0:07:55.400 --> 0:08:00.760 actually right next door to the VTA, so it pretty quickly. 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:04.520 All right, Well that is your front page news, all right, 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:07.040 get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:08.800 one on five one. If you need to vent hit 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:10.920 us up right now, phone lines to wide open. It's 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:16.760 the Breakfast Club the morning, the Breakfast Club. Wake up, 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:20.280 wake up. Wait y'all fast you're time to get it 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:23.960 off your chest because you're mad or blast. We want 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:28.280 to hear from you on the breakfast Black. Hello, who's this? Hey? 0:08:28.320 --> 0:08:33.480 How's it going? Man? It's all ye hey, every yeah, 0:08:33.559 --> 0:08:36.720 y'all got that game too, man. Wait, y'all come to it, lad, 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:38.600 I hope to come down. You don't got all the 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:42.320 backs that I love when people from cities. Just think 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:44.640 everybody from the city going down somewhere to watch a game. 0:08:45.480 --> 0:08:47.360 Can I hope you come down like you got it 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:53.440 on TV Bro travel I do be traveling man. But now, 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:56.439 I mean it's a great series. It's it's great energy. 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:59.040 I know somebody, I think Charlemagne said if somebody said 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:01.160 when the knicks in the plane at she just feels different, 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:03.920 And it definitely does. The energy is like no other. Yeah, 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:06.520 y'all try to write us off at the beginning. I've 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:10.440 been here, Stephen, they all week long. Y'all only won 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:12.240 one game and y'all gonna lose the next couple. So 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:16.040 it's over for y'all. I don't know about that. Y'all 0:09:16.040 --> 0:09:18.080 have a good morning. I have a good morning, brom 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:22.880 hung up on you all right pretty much? Hello? Who's this? Jonathan? 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:25.599 Jonathan was up getting off your chest? Hey, I'm just 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:28.400 trying to show my wife up. So she had a 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:31.840 business here in business doing Charleston, South Carolina, and once 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:34.760 the pandemic, it kind of all crumbled down and then 0:09:34.800 --> 0:09:37.800 we need to move in because I out of the military, uh, 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:40.400 until we moved up to Charlotte. So then she started 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:43.040 up her own business herself and just add wine boards 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:47.280 or Instagram. She makes herculary boards. She has classes and everything, 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:51.520 so y'all could check it out. Love and that's cute. 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:55.040 I like that. Just add wine. That's nice wine. So 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:58.960 the business's name is just add wine but the uh, 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:02.520 the agram, it's just at wine boards because she makes 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:04.839 the shark boutery boards. All right. I like that. That's 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:08.120 a cute business. All right, brother, Y appreciate you a 0:10:08.559 --> 0:10:11.680 goo man. Hello, who's this? Good morning? Good morning to 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:13.600 the breakfast club. How y'ere doing? That's for the kareem? 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:17.520 Good morning, get it off your chest. Calling from South Georgia. Man, 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:19.960 I just you all know about two days ago was 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:24.760 the anniversary of George Floyd's you know death, correct, And 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:27.559 you know, we just look at all of the killings 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:29.560 that's going on, man, and we just talk about mass shooting. 0:10:29.600 --> 0:10:32.160 That's that's sad too. But look at that they signed 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:34.679 into a law they I believe believe it was the 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:37.920 Asian Hate Climb Bill. Yes, sir, but we've been here 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:41.080 to lungless as black folks have been getting killed, killed, killed, 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:44.200 and nothing. So I don't know if you know, Charmaine 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:46.719 may notice that. And South Georgia they're buying up a 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:48.959 lot of land, especially a lart of these sisters that 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:51.120 get gated communities and stuff, because we're trying to send 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:53.559 our sons and daughters killed. You know, I've been hearing 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:56.120 about that. So it's two sisters in Georgia bought up 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:59.560 a a big plot of land, right right right. But 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:02.040 it's it's it's not just in Jordan. I was starting 0:11:02.080 --> 0:11:04.480 all over, man. So you gotta check this out. It's 0:11:04.480 --> 0:11:06.800 called the one hundred Acres Project dot com. You'll gotta 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:08.720 check it out. And one last thing before I go, 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:12.280 could y'all please have sister doctor Ava Muhammad on your show. 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:14.240 I would love she could speak on that too, So 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:18.400 check that out, man, absolutely, Sister Ava, get it off 0:11:18.440 --> 0:11:21.200 your chests. Eight hundred five eight five one O five one. 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:22.800 If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:30.959 the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Did your 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:32.800 time to get it off your chests? Whether you're man 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:35.320 or blast, So we better have the same minute. We 0:11:35.400 --> 0:11:37.920 want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello, 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:41.560 who's this Manuell? We're going on Manuell? What up? Getting 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:43.960 off your chests? Bro? Yes, sir, First, I want to 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:46.079 give Shara man and his flowers. Man, you took the 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:48.720 high road. A lot of people wouldn't do it for you. 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:50.400 You know a lot of people do what your time. 0:11:51.000 --> 0:11:53.319 I want to give a shout out to my wife, Rebecca. 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:56.280 I'm calling from sister Daddy and I hear a lot 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:58.400 of people spitting. Man. I just want to give a 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:01.599 cup pard all right, God, brother, I like Illuminati, but 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:05.839 my mind God gotten. The ungodliness is not guard you watching? 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:11.760 I never went in the hiding pe ad living with you? Bro? 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:14.240 You got an echo on your phone? Is ad living 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:17.480 with you? Bro? Oh? No, you wan't speak I don't 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:22.360 know why. That's the reason why you won't try again. Okay, Illuminati, Gay, 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:25.560 the ungodli does not guiding you guys watching Cody. I 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:34.800 never went in to hi. Yeah, yeah, no, I can't 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:38.319 hear you, bro. Every time you wrap somebody singing behind 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:40.160 you and it's your phone. But we tried. Brother. You 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:44.439 have a good weekend though. Good morning Illuminati if you 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:48.440 got it? Ungodly? Why people like the Illuminati with godly? Hello? 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:53.200 Who's this glove? De glove? What up getting off your chests? 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:56.600 Broy This is glove from Orlando, NY. At this point, 0:12:56.679 --> 0:13:00.839 they thank you. One morning I had to come early 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:03.960 to the station from jackson Enter Orlando to open up 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:05.839 to build them for you think you can do the show, 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:08.240 and I just wanted to say thank you. You motivated 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:11.240 me to stay radio, and two years later I just 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:14.360 wanted to say thank you. Man. I read, all right, well, 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:16.760 congratulations what station you're on the state. You're on our 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:19.560 station in Orlando station and want to vote five with 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:23.120 the strong? Oh yeah station to be strong. Shout to 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:26.640 the strong, Yes, sir, I moved to Jacksonville to all 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:29.360 Man nighted on through right now we just just stay 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:31.080 with it. It ain't it ain't easy. I was. I 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:33.920 was actually talking. I think to us Charlemagne about this yesterday. 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:36.640 This is, this is it's so enjoyable. That's the reason 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:39.080 why we do the overnights and the part times and 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:41.800 the weekends and do all the small jobs to get to, 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:43.680 you know, the place where we want to be. So 0:13:43.760 --> 0:13:46.080 continue with. It ain't gonna be an easy ride, but 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:50.160 it's gonna be an enjoyable one. Bro, that sounded so crazy. 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:53.880 That's so it's so crazy? Hello, who's this furguson? All right? 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:56.280 Get it off a chus bro. I was on dialam 0:13:56.400 --> 0:14:00.120 for seven year them now I am opens with Aunt Dilan. 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And then it 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.000 had a little description at only twenty two years old, 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:13.480 treys here is stinning and at a lumen alarming fast pace, 0:16:13.600 --> 0:16:16.720 and he has a ball spot forming on the crowd. 0:16:15.720 --> 0:16:19.920 Love it, Trey is ball. You gotta find every man's thumb. 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:23.480 Screw you know what I'm saying, finding chanting that that's right? 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:25.840 Get what we ain't playing ball in front of millions 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:29.360 of people, right and camera, jain on up. That is funny, 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:31.640 all right, get it off your chest. Eight hundred five 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:34.240 eight five one five one Now we got rumors on 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:36.120 the way. Yes, it's a Fisher. Will tell you who 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:38.960 is taking over for Ellen de generous show. All right, 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:41.080 we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:49.600 the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, 0:16:49.680 --> 0:16:53.160 Charlemagne the guy We are to Breakfast Club us morning. 0:16:53.160 --> 0:16:55.320 And also want to say happy belated birthday to Lauren Hill. 0:16:55.400 --> 0:16:58.400 Yesterday was her birthday. She's a legend. Today is a 0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:00.480 born day too, then because she'll probably sell a couple 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:02.080 of days later, right, we still I would think so 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:05.119 mix off with Lauren yesterday chose Yeah, But let's get 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:11.320 to the rooms. Let's talk the new host to Ellen's team. 0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:14.840 This is the Ruble Report with Angela Yean on the 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:19.560 Breakfast Club. Well, what's gonna happen when Ellen leaves in 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:22.879 twenty twenty two? The Kelly Clarkson Show is now going 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:26.400 to take over that slot. So NBC has carried Ellen 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:29.480 and major markets across the nation. Kelly Clockson Show currently 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:33.080 airs across the country on two hundred stations. Now it's 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:35.920 going to be built as daytimes headliner and leading time 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:38.040 slots next year. Yeah, because I'm sure they got to 0:17:38.080 --> 0:17:41.520 build another property now, right. They can't put somebody in 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:43.000 Ellen and say this is the new host to Ellen. 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:45.960 They got Ellen shows gone right, Yeah, And they've been 0:17:45.960 --> 0:17:49.200 trying to build up Kelly Colockson Show. It's been doing well. 0:17:49.240 --> 0:17:50.679 They said they kind of had a little bit of 0:17:50.680 --> 0:17:52.720 a lag, but they're trying to work on building it 0:17:52.800 --> 0:17:55.920 back up. So yes, I want to see Hattish in 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:58.000 the daytime. Tiffany I want to see Tiffany Hattish in 0:17:58.119 --> 0:18:02.560 Zouri Hall in Daytime TV. If tiff do she want 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:04.439 to do it. Yeah, Tiffany has a lot of respect. 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:09.000 She will have to stop all that. I don't know 0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:11.719 what she wants to do that all right now, another 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:14.600 person who is not confirmed to do anything as bow Wow. 0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:18.480 He said he's not entertaining versus until he sees contracts. Now. 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:20.639 Previously it seemed like it was going to be a 0:18:20.680 --> 0:18:24.640 bow Wow and Soldier Boy match up. Remember this PLA, 0:18:25.280 --> 0:18:28.159 it's gonna be bigger than light Bro, Like, I'm happy 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:31.200 to celebrate with you. Me and you make so much sense. Brother, 0:18:31.280 --> 0:18:33.679 We've toured, We've been on tour together. Me and you 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:37.080 got a whole mixtape together on tour right now. We're 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:40.640 on tour right now. And on top of that edge, 0:18:41.119 --> 0:18:43.320 you got a hot new record out the day before 0:18:43.359 --> 0:18:47.000 we do verses. Could my movie come out? Drop on 0:18:47.000 --> 0:18:49.800 a clues bos for Shaddon Morson. I like the way 0:18:49.840 --> 0:18:53.359 you negotiate, King Shot is his name, shot Shot. I 0:18:53.400 --> 0:18:55.520 would like the way you negotiate. I know what this is. 0:18:55.560 --> 0:18:58.119 They announced it, but shadd didn't sign no contract. I 0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:02.320 don't think nobody announced it. But then yeah, I think 0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:06.160 I appreciated. I think he like retweeted something. I'm official. 0:19:07.320 --> 0:19:09.440 But they but they, but they, but they felt out 0:19:09.440 --> 0:19:11.439 the energy. They threw something out there to see if 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:13.879 people would respond to it, and people absolutely did. So 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:16.920 he's gonna get top dollar all right. Now, it looks 0:19:16.960 --> 0:19:20.840 like Jay Cole is done playing basketball. His contract is up, 0:19:21.280 --> 0:19:24.640 according to Mark Spears on ESPN, source confirms rapper Jay 0:19:24.680 --> 0:19:27.879 Coole of the Rwanda Patriots BBC has completed his contractual 0:19:27.920 --> 0:19:31.280 obligation to the Basketball Africa League and has departed from 0:19:31.320 --> 0:19:35.080 Rwanda due to a family obligation. A source said Jacole 0:19:35.080 --> 0:19:37.879 had five points, three assists and five rebounds in three games. Well, 0:19:37.880 --> 0:19:39.760 I feel like he quit at halftime. He did five 0:19:39.840 --> 0:19:42.400 day contract. I'm just gonna play for five games. Five games. 0:19:42.400 --> 0:19:44.000 That's it. Didn't out coming back, I mean it, but 0:19:44.119 --> 0:19:46.240 a lot of publicity definitely did. It. Was grateful the 0:19:46.320 --> 0:19:48.000 rollout of the album, by the way it was, and 0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:49.800 it's probably something he always wanted to do on his 0:19:49.840 --> 0:19:51.880 bucket list. But he does have a new album out 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:53.840 that's doing really well and a lot of other things 0:19:53.880 --> 0:19:56.240 going on. So Jay Cole has had the best album 0:19:56.320 --> 0:19:58.680 rollout I've seen in a long, long, long, long long time, 0:19:59.240 --> 0:20:00.720 and it was all f a gust on things that 0:20:00.760 --> 0:20:04.320 he loves music and basketball. All right, now, Akin's car. 0:20:04.440 --> 0:20:07.000 Remember we talked about how it was stolen and then 0:20:07.040 --> 0:20:09.000 he did get it back. Well, they do have the 0:20:09.119 --> 0:20:13.760 nine one one cars, so disrespectful ahead, Why how are 0:20:13.800 --> 0:20:15.680 you doing? Yeah, I was just carjacked at the gas 0:20:15.680 --> 0:20:18.760 station for my range Rover the gas stashing. Um, it's 0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:24.280 seven sixty one uh Na's market, not a three D 0:20:24.320 --> 0:20:26.320 in the city of Atlanta. And what's the name of 0:20:26.359 --> 0:20:28.800 the gas sashion? I'm sorry, man, this is not the gases. 0:20:28.960 --> 0:20:30.800 This is what my card is actually parked to rap 0:20:30.840 --> 0:20:33.600 the track on it? Gas? Thank you? What car have 0:20:33.720 --> 0:20:36.600 you made a police for? Yeah, the police and on 0:20:36.680 --> 0:20:38.000 their way. But they've been on their way for a 0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:40.960 whole hour. And you said you were carjack yes, ma'am 0:20:41.280 --> 0:20:44.399 at gunpoint. No, it wasn't at gunpoint. I was literally 0:20:44.440 --> 0:20:46.560 getting gas and they just jumped in the car. And 0:20:46.600 --> 0:20:50.320 that's not a card jack. Don't tell me it's not 0:20:50.440 --> 0:20:53.880 a carjack. So what what was it? Because a little 0:20:53.880 --> 0:20:55.800 gun Well, y'all cut the best part. When they can't 0:20:55.800 --> 0:20:58.360 told her, I want him locked up, don't let him out. 0:20:58.720 --> 0:21:02.080 Play the best part, like a car used to steal car? 0:21:02.240 --> 0:21:03.879 What are he going to do for he did that? 0:21:04.080 --> 0:21:07.639 He knows, Yeah, don't tell me. Would have car jacking? 0:21:08.440 --> 0:21:13.000 So what is it a car kidnapping? They no, it's 0:21:13.040 --> 0:21:16.120 not carjackings. Like get at the car stealing your cars. 0:21:16.119 --> 0:21:18.240 When you're getting you turn around and the car's gone, 0:21:18.280 --> 0:21:20.720 put it to you like this. If um, it's bad 0:21:20.720 --> 0:21:23.960 that I noticed. If you get robbed at gunpoint, the 0:21:23.960 --> 0:21:26.600 police will do whatever it takes to get that car back. 0:21:26.960 --> 0:21:28.920 If it's just a stolen car and it's a high 0:21:28.920 --> 0:21:30.840 speed chase, the police will let the car go at 0:21:30.880 --> 0:21:32.680 times because they don't want to hurt any pedestrians. But 0:21:32.720 --> 0:21:35.040 if it's a gun involved, they'll do whatever it takes 0:21:35.040 --> 0:21:37.399 to stop that vehicle. Damn. I don't know how I 0:21:37.480 --> 0:21:42.119 know all this because right because he's that's right, was 0:21:42.160 --> 0:21:44.639 part of an auto theft ring. He knows. He's like, 0:21:45.840 --> 0:21:47.600 he's like, I got a track on the car. He's like, sir, 0:21:47.640 --> 0:21:48.960 where are you at right now? He was like, it's 0:21:48.960 --> 0:21:51.320 been an hour with gas station? Is that I know? 0:21:51.320 --> 0:21:53.520 He was like, but he was still he kept his composure. Yes, ma'am. 0:21:53.560 --> 0:21:55.720 Thank you man. He was very polite and he's a 0:21:55.800 --> 0:21:57.320 nice guy. But it's just funny how she was like, 0:21:57.440 --> 0:22:03.680 that's not a carjacking. S. What's the official the stolen car? Okaka? Yeah? 0:22:03.720 --> 0:22:06.280 All right, well that is your room of reports. Oh 0:22:06.320 --> 0:22:08.760 my goodness. All right, front page news. We'll be talking about. Yes, 0:22:08.800 --> 0:22:11.080 remember we were telling you about getting this vaccine and 0:22:11.080 --> 0:22:13.120 how you could come up on some cash. Yes, well 0:22:13.119 --> 0:22:15.800 we'll tell you about some of these winners already. All right, 0:22:15.800 --> 0:22:17.760 we'll get into it next. It's the Breakfast Club. God morning, 0:22:18.119 --> 0:22:22.840 So Breakfast Club, your morning's will never be the same. Hey, 0:22:22.880 --> 0:22:26.160 it's Angela Yee. By using brands like Dove and Helmets, 0:22:26.160 --> 0:22:29.399 you're supporting Unilever and the everyday good they do, like 0:22:29.560 --> 0:22:32.520 donating more than twenty five million dollars worth of everyday 0:22:32.560 --> 0:22:35.760 products and services to groups like Feeding America this year. 0:22:36.119 --> 0:22:39.440 Visit Unilever does Good dot com to support communities impacted 0:22:39.440 --> 0:22:43.720 by the pandemic. I got what you need morning. Everybody 0:22:43.840 --> 0:22:47.000 is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are 0:22:47.000 --> 0:22:51.000 to Breakfast Club. Let's getting some front page news, all right. 0:22:51.119 --> 0:22:53.159 Last thing, NBA playoffs to seventy six is beat the 0:22:53.200 --> 0:22:55.880 Wizards one twenty ninety five. The Jazz beat the Grizzlies 0:22:55.920 --> 0:22:58.960 one one twenty nine, and the next they beat the 0:22:59.040 --> 0:23:01.359 Hawks one on one nine, dropping a clue vaunce to 0:23:01.359 --> 0:23:04.240 the New York next down, I'm rooting for the next 0:23:04.280 --> 0:23:06.000 this year, I liked the Knicks. I like the way 0:23:06.000 --> 0:23:09.320 they played tough team. What else she got? Ye? All right? Well, 0:23:09.359 --> 0:23:11.560 remember we've been telling you about all these incentives to 0:23:11.560 --> 0:23:15.000 get vaccinated. In Ohio, they have a five million dollars 0:23:15.119 --> 0:23:20.080 COVID nineteen vaccine sweepstakes. Well that money is starting to follow. 0:23:20.240 --> 0:23:24.080 Abigail Bougenski won a million dollars after getting vaccinated, and 0:23:24.200 --> 0:23:28.160 Joseph Costello got a college scholarship. According to the VACS 0:23:28.200 --> 0:23:32.879 A Million Programs website, how much do you got? One 0:23:32.880 --> 0:23:36.320 person got a million dollars, Another person got scholars college scholarship. 0:23:36.320 --> 0:23:39.560 I know it was given on college scholarships to Joseph Costello. 0:23:39.560 --> 0:23:41.840 He's only fourteen years old. He won free tuish and 0:23:41.880 --> 0:23:45.120 at any state university you got a full ride college scholarship. 0:23:45.119 --> 0:23:47.520 So if you're between twelve and seventeen, and you had 0:23:47.520 --> 0:23:49.720 at least one dose of the vaccine. You could be next. 0:23:50.040 --> 0:23:53.080 And that's only where that's in Ohio. Damn. I would 0:23:53.080 --> 0:23:54.720 like to know how many people signed up for that 0:23:55.200 --> 0:24:00.480 lottery in Ohio because of that, because of the vacs. Yeah, 0:24:00.480 --> 0:24:01.959 because of the prize they were given away. I going 0:24:02.040 --> 0:24:04.680 to know how many people like actually signed up. I mean, yeah, 0:24:04.680 --> 0:24:06.840 And it's great. If you were planning to do it anyway, 0:24:07.160 --> 0:24:09.280 I might as well, you know, enter, Well, I guess 0:24:09.280 --> 0:24:13.080 you're entered to win. So all right, Now, here's another 0:24:13.160 --> 0:24:16.040 historic thing that just happened. Kristin Clark is the new 0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:19.280 leader of the Department of Justice's Civil Rights Division. According 0:24:19.280 --> 0:24:22.520 to the Black Information Network, Clark was confirmed by the 0:24:22.600 --> 0:24:24.920 United States Senate with a fifty one forty eight vote 0:24:24.920 --> 0:24:28.480 on Tuesday. Senator Susan Collins was the only Republican to 0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:31.960 express support for the attorney And with this confirmation, it 0:24:32.080 --> 0:24:35.280 is history. Kristin Clark is the first black woman to 0:24:35.320 --> 0:24:37.520 lead the Civil Rights Division since it was formed in 0:24:37.640 --> 0:24:40.560 nineteen fifty seven. They try to say that she was 0:24:40.600 --> 0:24:44.160 a radical and a leftist, but despite all of that, 0:24:44.240 --> 0:24:46.439 you know, she is not that radical. She said she 0:24:46.480 --> 0:24:49.159 does not support defunding the police. She said, I do 0:24:49.240 --> 0:24:52.200 support finding strategies to ensure that law enforcement can carry 0:24:52.200 --> 0:24:55.680 out their jobs more safely and effectively, and channeling resources 0:24:55.680 --> 0:25:00.199 to emotional health treatment and others severely underresourced areas. And 0:25:00.240 --> 0:25:03.960 In other historic news, climate activists have defeated x in 0:25:04.040 --> 0:25:06.960 their push for clean energy. It was a stunning defeat 0:25:07.040 --> 0:25:09.680 yesterday when shareholder is of Xon Mobile elected at least 0:25:09.680 --> 0:25:13.200 two board candidates that were nominated by activists investors who 0:25:13.200 --> 0:25:16.120 pledged to steer the company toward cleaner energy and away 0:25:16.160 --> 0:25:18.080 from oil and gas. This is a big deal as 0:25:18.119 --> 0:25:22.160 we are trying to address climate change. So if y'all 0:25:22.160 --> 0:25:25.280 know what that means. With Xon Mobile being the biggest 0:25:25.280 --> 0:25:28.080 oil company and the oil leader until recently, they've been 0:25:28.080 --> 0:25:30.879 really slow to invest in this, but they've had some 0:25:30.920 --> 0:25:33.200 poor returns recently. So now the loss of at lose 0:25:33.280 --> 0:25:36.359 two seats on the board will energize activists to pressure 0:25:36.520 --> 0:25:39.520 Xon and other oil companies and businesses who they believe 0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:41.720 are not doing enough to address climate change. So that's 0:25:41.720 --> 0:25:45.280 a really big deal, all right, Anne, Of course, you know, 0:25:45.320 --> 0:25:47.480 I know this is really sad news, but this is 0:25:47.480 --> 0:25:50.400 a big story for this morning, there were nine victims 0:25:50.400 --> 0:25:52.919 of a mass shooting in San Jose yesterday. They have 0:25:53.040 --> 0:25:56.720 been identified as investigators are trying to figure out why 0:25:56.760 --> 0:25:59.600 this happened. They will also be honored tonight at an 0:25:59.600 --> 0:26:03.160 event at the San Jose City Hall Plaza. The victims 0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:07.480 all were at the Valley Transportation Authority. They operate the 0:26:07.520 --> 0:26:10.159 Bustin light rail services in the Santa Clara Valley. They 0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:13.399 employed about two thousand workers. The gunman has been identified 0:26:13.440 --> 0:26:16.800 as Sam Cassidy. According to law enforcement sources, they did 0:26:16.840 --> 0:26:19.360 all know each other because they all were co workers, 0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:22.800 and they said one thing that has become clear is 0:26:22.800 --> 0:26:25.840 that they knew the shooter. Well. So the shooting actually 0:26:25.840 --> 0:26:28.399 happened yesterday as employees from the midnight shift and the 0:26:28.480 --> 0:26:32.119 day shift overlapped. The yard is where the VTA vehicles 0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:35.120 are maintained and dispatched, so that's where all of this happened, 0:26:35.480 --> 0:26:39.520 and multiple law enforcement agencies and fire department personnel did respond. 0:26:40.040 --> 0:26:42.880 They said, once law enforcement was there, that is when 0:26:42.920 --> 0:26:45.400 Sam Cassidy took his own life, and they were there 0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:49.040 very quickly because the Sheriff's office is next door. Unfortunately, 0:26:49.160 --> 0:26:52.280 nine people were already killed by that time. Yeah, I 0:26:52.359 --> 0:26:54.639 just don't understand why mass shootings are just a side 0:26:54.760 --> 0:26:56.640 edition the news. Like I know that there's a lot 0:26:56.680 --> 0:26:58.800 going on, but mass shooting should always be the main 0:26:58.840 --> 0:27:00.639 course in the media. We should ever getting numbed to 0:27:00.720 --> 0:27:03.320 this because it's so much involved, mental health, gun laws, 0:27:03.480 --> 0:27:05.280 so many things to discussed when these things happen, and 0:27:05.320 --> 0:27:06.760 there's been a lot of them this year. Am I 0:27:06.800 --> 0:27:10.680 tripping A definitely have been one every two days, I 0:27:10.720 --> 0:27:15.119 think they said, yikes, yeah, So again, we want to 0:27:15.119 --> 0:27:18.800 give our condolences to the families and to the friends 0:27:18.880 --> 0:27:23.720 of the victims who were killed. Very sad sad day yesterday, 0:27:24.840 --> 0:27:27.480 and his ex girlfriend and his ex wife have spoken 0:27:27.520 --> 0:27:30.399 out to talk about the issues that he had. He 0:27:30.440 --> 0:27:32.439 had a strained relationship with an ex girlfriend who did 0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:34.600 not want to be identified. They did meet onmatch dot 0:27:34.600 --> 0:27:38.080 com and she said they dated for approximately one year. 0:27:38.160 --> 0:27:41.160 She said he would have mood swings that were exacerbated 0:27:41.160 --> 0:27:44.360 when he consumed large quantities of alcohol. She also alleged 0:27:44.440 --> 0:27:46.800 that he had bipolar disorder and that he enjoyed playing 0:27:46.840 --> 0:27:49.680 mind games with her and several times during their relationship 0:27:50.040 --> 0:27:53.520 he got intoxicated and raged and forced himself on her sexually. 0:27:54.080 --> 0:27:57.520 His ex wife, Cecilia Nelms said that he resented his work. 0:27:57.760 --> 0:27:59.880 They were together for about ten years, and she said, 0:28:00.000 --> 0:28:01.840 and the two of them were married, he thought he 0:28:01.880 --> 0:28:04.040 had unfair work assignments and he would have rant about 0:28:04.080 --> 0:28:06.240 his job when he got home. She also had not 0:28:06.280 --> 0:28:08.600 been in touch with him for about thirteen years after 0:28:08.640 --> 0:28:12.879 filing for a divorce. T treat mass shootings and police 0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:14.919 violence the same way y'all treated COVID. Make it the 0:28:14.920 --> 0:28:18.679 headline everywhere, no opening acts. All right, well that is 0:28:18.720 --> 0:28:21.399 your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye. 0:28:21.440 --> 0:28:24.760 Now when we come back, Jay Barnett will be joining us. 0:28:24.760 --> 0:28:27.920 Who's Jay Barnett? My man? Jay Barnett is an author, speaker, 0:28:28.080 --> 0:28:31.320 mental health therapist, life coach. Uh you know he's all 0:28:31.359 --> 0:28:35.040 about empowering and inspiring young black man. Really good brother, 0:28:35.119 --> 0:28:37.000 all right, we'll get into that nextus. The Breakfast Club. 0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:42.240 Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Man. We got one of 0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:44.960 my favorite people in the room right now. Man, this 0:28:45.040 --> 0:28:48.480 brother is so necessary and regarded to anybody who any 0:28:48.520 --> 0:28:51.560 man in particular who's trying to state mentally and emotionally healthy. 0:28:51.800 --> 0:28:56.840 My man, King Jay Barnett is head How are you, man, 0:28:57.040 --> 0:28:58.680 good man? Did you see you in New York. You'd 0:28:58.680 --> 0:29:02.000 like the city, man. I love city. I visit several times. 0:29:02.000 --> 0:29:03.720 I got my nieces with me. Boy, I ran them 0:29:03.720 --> 0:29:07.440 around yesterday. Okay. They was like, man, New York is 0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:09.800 a different beast, but no, I love I love the 0:29:09.800 --> 0:29:11.800 city man. So it's it's been good. And now it's 0:29:11.800 --> 0:29:13.640 good to see you in person too, because last time 0:29:13.680 --> 0:29:16.360 we saw you, um you was on the Zoom with 0:29:16.800 --> 0:29:19.480 Queen Taragi and Queen Queen Tracy. That's what I got 0:29:19.480 --> 0:29:22.320 put onto. Yeah. Yeah, so I know that y'all have 0:29:22.400 --> 0:29:25.360 something going on now, is he you know? Okay Taragi 0:29:25.440 --> 0:29:28.600 has the unspoken curriculum shoes, what is that about? Yeah? 0:29:28.640 --> 0:29:31.720 So the unspoken curriculum is where we're going to be 0:29:31.760 --> 0:29:36.160 talking about the experience that black students are having in classroom. 0:29:36.920 --> 0:29:40.480 You know, there's many implicit bias that these students go 0:29:40.600 --> 0:29:43.120 through from their experience and a lot of time black 0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:46.920 students are treated differently based on behavior, based on different 0:29:47.600 --> 0:29:50.479 learning differences that they're having. But a lot of times, 0:29:50.760 --> 0:29:54.160 you know, our students are criminalized, and so I think 0:29:54.240 --> 0:29:57.160 rather than being criminalized, these students more have more so 0:29:57.320 --> 0:30:00.160 have clinical issues. So when you have a student that 0:30:00.280 --> 0:30:03.400 maybe have a behavior issue, and black boys are more 0:30:03.480 --> 0:30:06.320 likely to be suspended than white boys, and then now 0:30:06.440 --> 0:30:09.000 black girls are more likely to be suspended as well. 0:30:09.240 --> 0:30:12.040 And so the unspoken curriculum is also going to provide 0:30:12.040 --> 0:30:14.120 a space for these boys to come in and to 0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:16.360 talk about these different things. And so I'm going to 0:30:16.440 --> 0:30:21.080 be spearheading along with doctor Yeshiva and brother Alfonzo, who 0:30:21.160 --> 0:30:23.480 is a black male therapist as well, and so we'll 0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:26.400 be providing space for the six weeks and kind of 0:30:26.440 --> 0:30:29.800 talk about how to manage these spaces because when these 0:30:29.840 --> 0:30:32.560 black boys going these classroom man or just black students, 0:30:32.760 --> 0:30:37.480 their experienced man, it really does affect their confidence. So 0:30:37.560 --> 0:30:43.160 if my issue is that I'm really suffering mentally because 0:30:43.160 --> 0:30:45.400 of what's going on at home, and school is just 0:30:45.440 --> 0:30:47.320 a place where I act out at and if I 0:30:47.360 --> 0:30:50.240 get suspended, so I'm now feeling like, well, school is 0:30:50.240 --> 0:30:52.600 not the place where it's going to advocate for me. 0:30:52.680 --> 0:30:55.640 And when you look at these black students, very few 0:30:55.640 --> 0:30:58.959 white teachers are taken out the time to provide resources 0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:01.520 and to vibe the level of care that they need. 0:31:01.960 --> 0:31:04.000 I agree with that, that's dope. I'm glad you guys 0:31:04.040 --> 0:31:06.000 are doing that because I always say this. When I 0:31:06.040 --> 0:31:07.280 was in college, I thought I was going to be 0:31:07.320 --> 0:31:09.880 a teacher. So I did this teaching program for six 0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:12.560 and seventh graders, and I was in a neighborhood that 0:31:12.640 --> 0:31:15.680 was mostly Dominican. It was one black student in the class, right, 0:31:16.160 --> 0:31:19.280 and he was Haitian, and so you know, they used 0:31:19.320 --> 0:31:21.000 to make fun of him all the time, and he 0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:22.440 had a lot of things going on at home, and 0:31:22.520 --> 0:31:24.760 sometimes teachers don't take the time to find out, like 0:31:24.960 --> 0:31:27.240 he would be hungry in school because he didn't have 0:31:27.360 --> 0:31:28.720 enough food at home to eat, because he had a 0:31:28.760 --> 0:31:31.120 lot of brothers and sisters. He wore like the same 0:31:31.160 --> 0:31:33.520 clothes all the time, and all those things take a 0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:35.120 toll on you. And then you come to school and 0:31:35.160 --> 0:31:36.920 the other kids are making fun of you, and then 0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:39.840 the teacher is seeing you acting out, but not even 0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:41.880 taking the time to understand, like what's going on at 0:31:41.920 --> 0:31:44.320 home and what are these real issues? And what about 0:31:44.360 --> 0:31:46.920 these students that are really giving you a hard time 0:31:46.920 --> 0:31:48.880 in class? And who do they talk to if they 0:31:48.920 --> 0:31:53.800 have those problems? Yeah? Absolutely, because I mean when I 0:31:53.800 --> 0:31:57.840 started working in the schools as far as counseling and 0:31:57.920 --> 0:32:00.640 even my internship, a lot of the times when I 0:32:00.640 --> 0:32:03.400 will go to these white teachers and ask him, you know, 0:32:03.480 --> 0:32:06.120 have you really set and talk with this student. They didn't. 0:32:06.800 --> 0:32:09.800 They automatically looked at the student and they saw the issue, 0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:13.320 you know is that well he's well, he's disturbing the class. 0:32:13.520 --> 0:32:17.280 And really the kid hadn't eaten, you know, the kid 0:32:17.440 --> 0:32:19.920 was homeless. And there were so many kids that their 0:32:20.680 --> 0:32:24.680 home and family dynamic which is different, and school was 0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:28.160 just the way that they either felt safe or in 0:32:28.200 --> 0:32:31.000 many cases, these kids like man, you come to school 0:32:31.040 --> 0:32:33.560 and basically you just let everything out because let's let's 0:32:33.600 --> 0:32:35.560 take for an example, if you're get an abuse at home, 0:32:35.840 --> 0:32:40.120 and usually the abuser becomes who's been abused become the abuser, 0:32:40.440 --> 0:32:42.240 so which is where you have a lot of this 0:32:42.320 --> 0:32:44.959 bullying that has taken place. So the kid that has 0:32:45.000 --> 0:32:48.520 been bullied become the bully. But then again, he's acting 0:32:48.640 --> 0:32:52.040 out and basically he's lashing out on what he's experiencing. 0:32:52.440 --> 0:32:54.160 And so if you don't sit down and talk to 0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:55.840 a kid, and then too, if you don't have a 0:32:55.960 --> 0:32:59.760 representation as a black male or counselor or a black 0:33:00.040 --> 0:33:03.560 old teacher, and especially in the space of education, where 0:33:03.640 --> 0:33:08.040 just not many black individuals. It's for as males to 0:33:08.120 --> 0:33:10.680 represent an advocate for these young black boys. Yeah. Man, 0:33:10.680 --> 0:33:15.760 that's why cultural competency is so important. Ranks cultural competency, man, 0:33:15.800 --> 0:33:18.920 it's so important. And so I think for me, right 0:33:19.440 --> 0:33:22.120 when I was in grad school, I was I was 0:33:22.120 --> 0:33:27.200 the only black male student that was in my marriage 0:33:27.200 --> 0:33:29.520 and family therapy program. So I was one out of 0:33:29.560 --> 0:33:34.800 seventy six. And I remember my experience and talking about 0:33:34.880 --> 0:33:38.520 different things when we have our clinicals and our practicums, 0:33:38.560 --> 0:33:41.800 and all of these white students were trying to figure 0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:44.000 out how to work with black kids and to work 0:33:44.040 --> 0:33:46.560 with hispanics. And one of the things I said to them, 0:33:46.600 --> 0:33:49.520 I said, what level of understanding do you have of 0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:53.080 the culture, of their family dynamics, of their backgrounds, even 0:33:53.200 --> 0:33:56.880 a certain collocualism that we have in our language. And 0:33:57.080 --> 0:33:59.920 none of them had any understanding. They only had text 0:34:00.040 --> 0:34:02.880 book and so this is where they were felling. And 0:34:02.920 --> 0:34:06.040 they was disconnected because you can use all the theories 0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:08.480 that you want, but if you cannot connect to a 0:34:08.600 --> 0:34:12.600 kid here, or connect to his culture or connect to 0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:15.880 his family dynamic, you're not going to understand how to 0:34:16.000 --> 0:34:18.680 even connect with them. Even in your methods and your theories. 0:34:19.120 --> 0:34:22.640 So cultural competency is key that if you're going to 0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:25.840 advocate for black students, you need to understand Black culture. 0:34:26.520 --> 0:34:29.840 And if you're going to advocate for Brown hispanics, you 0:34:29.880 --> 0:34:32.399 need to understand their culture. You need to understand who 0:34:32.560 --> 0:34:36.440 is the patriarch, who is the matriarch, and just even 0:34:36.520 --> 0:34:40.480 those simple things. Understanding that if you're working with black families, 0:34:40.640 --> 0:34:42.800 nine times out of ten, you're going to be speaking 0:34:42.800 --> 0:34:45.680 with the mom and that won't be a male presence there, 0:34:46.080 --> 0:34:50.120 and that dynamic is going to impact how you interact 0:34:50.200 --> 0:34:53.560 and it's also going to impact how your methods, how 0:34:53.600 --> 0:34:58.080 effective are your methods, and so cultural competence is critical. Yeah, 0:34:58.160 --> 0:35:00.880 you know, even when you talk about anxiety, because you've 0:35:00.880 --> 0:35:03.040 never heard you say, you know, somebody asked you to 0:35:03.040 --> 0:35:05.239 break down anxiety and you said, anxiety is being here 0:35:05.600 --> 0:35:08.840 but wanting to be there. Man, when you say that, 0:35:08.840 --> 0:35:11.120 I understand exactly what you're talking about, because I think 0:35:11.120 --> 0:35:13.200 it's levels to anxiety, right, Like my anxiety as a 0:35:13.239 --> 0:35:15.480 black man's totally different than the anxiety I know that 0:35:15.520 --> 0:35:17.840 a white woman experiences, but it's found on that a 0:35:17.840 --> 0:35:20.880 little bit. So you know, anxiety is really rooted in 0:35:20.880 --> 0:35:23.560 the fear of the unknown, right, and it's the fear 0:35:23.640 --> 0:35:26.000 of the what if. It's the fear of what can. 0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:30.239 It's the fear of uncertainty, and it's the fear of 0:35:30.800 --> 0:35:35.120 a possibility where you have no evidence. And so it's 0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:37.600 the fear of what if they don't like me and 0:35:37.680 --> 0:35:42.520 you haven't even walked in their room. So it's the 0:35:42.560 --> 0:35:45.719 fear of what if I'm rejected? Well, you haven't given 0:35:45.760 --> 0:35:49.480 yourself an opportunity to be accepted. So it's and that 0:35:49.560 --> 0:35:53.600 anxiety roots up a lot of just you know, our 0:35:53.680 --> 0:35:57.440 family system, because many of us have already been rejected 0:35:57.440 --> 0:36:00.200 by our families. We've been abandoned by you know, our 0:36:00.239 --> 0:36:03.440 loved ones, and we've been ostracized for our thoughts, for 0:36:03.480 --> 0:36:06.480 our belief system. And so I would even go out 0:36:06.480 --> 0:36:09.960 on a limb man that said, every black person deals 0:36:10.000 --> 0:36:13.719 with a level of anxiety, whether it's racial or through 0:36:13.719 --> 0:36:17.280 a social experience. I think from a family perspective, even 0:36:17.320 --> 0:36:20.800 when you decide to step out of your family dynamic 0:36:20.840 --> 0:36:23.200 and said I'm going to become something that no one 0:36:23.239 --> 0:36:26.400 has never seen. That's great anxiety that comes from that 0:36:26.920 --> 0:36:29.640 because now you gotta hear well, who do you think 0:36:29.680 --> 0:36:34.160 you are? That creates a level of anxiety altogether. Right, So, 0:36:34.680 --> 0:36:37.120 I think the anxiety of being here, wanting to be 0:36:37.160 --> 0:36:41.640 there is always is having to rastle with the outcome 0:36:42.160 --> 0:36:46.080 that you created in your head that haven't really taken place, 0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:48.640 but in your mind you made it real. And so 0:36:48.719 --> 0:36:51.480 I think when we have spaces to kind of talk 0:36:51.520 --> 0:36:55.520 about rational and irrational anxiety and be able to expound 0:36:55.520 --> 0:36:58.520 on those differences in the variation, it allows us to 0:36:58.560 --> 0:37:01.719 be to grow and understand that it's real. However, I 0:37:01.760 --> 0:37:04.560 don't have to allow it to really hold truth in 0:37:04.600 --> 0:37:06.920 my life. All Right, we got more with Jay Barnette. 0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:09.040 When we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, 0:37:09.400 --> 0:37:13.799 Good morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. 0:37:13.880 --> 0:37:17.560 We are the Breakfast Club. We have author, motivational speaker 0:37:17.640 --> 0:37:23.239 Jay Barnett. Ye, what made you get into therapy and coaching? So? Man, 0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:27.680 oh god. So when when I left football, I battled 0:37:27.680 --> 0:37:30.800 with depression, like since I was thirteen when my parents divorced, 0:37:31.440 --> 0:37:34.399 and you know, and and and people say, well, how 0:37:34.400 --> 0:37:36.759 did it? It's shape, y'all, I said, because you know, 0:37:36.960 --> 0:37:39.719 my parents were pastors and so for me, it was 0:37:39.719 --> 0:37:42.600 just this heartbreak, like, you know, I can't believe my 0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:45.319 parents are divorcing, right, you know, they're church leaders, and 0:37:45.400 --> 0:37:48.000 I think at that time, I didn't really have anybody 0:37:48.040 --> 0:37:51.280 reaching out to ask me how was out doing because 0:37:51.360 --> 0:37:55.799 I automatically begin to fill this gap where I had 0:37:55.840 --> 0:37:57.719 to be a big brother and I had to be 0:37:57.800 --> 0:38:00.840 there for my mom. As most black boys, you're stepping 0:38:00.880 --> 0:38:03.680 in in a daddy role where you're still a boy, 0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:07.960 and so that pressure I carried it and football became 0:38:08.000 --> 0:38:10.640 a safe space for me. So when football was over, 0:38:10.840 --> 0:38:14.560 I didn't have a safe space or perceive safe space. 0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:18.040 And then too it was how I cope. So you know, 0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:21.080 for those that follow my story, I talk about suicide 0:38:21.120 --> 0:38:24.600 like I'm a two time suicide, a survivor attempts. And 0:38:24.640 --> 0:38:28.480 so when I started going to therapy after my second attempt, 0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:33.560 and the therapy started to really address the issue behind 0:38:33.640 --> 0:38:36.680 a depression, because I feel like depression is a symptom 0:38:36.840 --> 0:38:40.239 to a greater root issue, and the root issue was 0:38:40.360 --> 0:38:44.839 really stemming from abandonment, and the depression was brought on 0:38:45.400 --> 0:38:50.240 trying to be accepted because for most black boys in sports, 0:38:50.520 --> 0:38:54.360 coaches of fathers, so when football was over, I'm looking 0:38:54.360 --> 0:38:58.000 for another father. I'm looking for some more validation. And 0:38:58.040 --> 0:39:00.440 this is why it's hard for guys to try transition 0:39:00.520 --> 0:39:04.279 out of sports, because they identify themselves through what they do. 0:39:04.719 --> 0:39:06.920 And what I had to learn was it was what 0:39:07.040 --> 0:39:09.359 I did, but it wasn't who I was. But that 0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:13.719 takes a deeper level of healing then really addressing fatherhood 0:39:13.800 --> 0:39:19.200 issues and dadhood issues and understanding that the validation that 0:39:19.400 --> 0:39:22.160 most men, all of us. Let's be real, I don't 0:39:22.200 --> 0:39:25.839 care what level of success, it's just something about having 0:39:25.840 --> 0:39:28.880 a dad there, because I feel like a mother determines 0:39:29.360 --> 0:39:32.360 what a child remembers, but a dad determines what a 0:39:32.440 --> 0:39:36.040 child believes. So when dad put a stamp on it, man, 0:39:36.719 --> 0:39:39.839 it's like you can do it and be whatever you want. 0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:42.799 But even when you look at men who have become successful, 0:39:43.120 --> 0:39:47.640 the constant need for validation is that I have all 0:39:47.680 --> 0:39:50.120 of this, but I still haven't been approved by dad. 0:39:50.840 --> 0:39:52.799 I have all of that, but I still haven't been 0:39:52.840 --> 0:39:54.880 approved by the man that I looked up to or 0:39:54.920 --> 0:39:57.960 the man that was absent from soul. I started looking 0:39:57.960 --> 0:39:59.959 at them with it myself. I was looked at former team, 0:40:00.520 --> 0:40:02.600 I looked at all of the black men that I 0:40:02.680 --> 0:40:06.920 knew that man, what was the correlation and all of 0:40:07.000 --> 0:40:09.919 us trying to find our way of manhood? And it 0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:12.520 was the fact that the absence of not only just 0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:14.560 a father, but it's a lack of knowing who we were, 0:40:14.640 --> 0:40:16.719 who we are man. You know. The first time I 0:40:16.800 --> 0:40:21.799 ever bawd in therapy was talking about that, and like, 0:40:21.880 --> 0:40:25.239 you know how your father for me? My father, Um, 0:40:25.320 --> 0:40:27.600 he would he would discipline me for things he didn't 0:40:27.640 --> 0:40:30.880 teach me, you know what I'm saying. Like, and I 0:40:31.120 --> 0:40:33.520 I remember one time I'm driving behind him and he 0:40:33.880 --> 0:40:35.879 ran he ran a stop signs. I'm like fifteen sixty, 0:40:35.880 --> 0:40:37.640 so I ran to stop signed too, but then he 0:40:38.000 --> 0:40:40.480 pulled over. I pulled over and he slapped me. Right, 0:40:40.800 --> 0:40:43.640 But it's like you, I'm following you. So how you 0:40:43.640 --> 0:40:46.120 punished me for things you didn't teach me? You know? So? 0:40:46.280 --> 0:40:48.200 But you know you realized he just was only doing 0:40:48.239 --> 0:40:51.040 his best because he had his own issues. But no, y'ah, 0:40:51.040 --> 0:40:54.000 absolutely right. Just that's what you want from from your father, 0:40:54.120 --> 0:40:58.799 that validation. Yeah, And that's what led me into therapy. Um. 0:40:58.920 --> 0:41:00.640 It wasn't something that I was set out to do. 0:41:00.960 --> 0:41:03.960 I feel like it was, it was God ordained. And 0:41:04.200 --> 0:41:06.960 from the first time I entered into my master's program, 0:41:07.520 --> 0:41:11.279 the first class General Studies on family, the marriage and 0:41:11.320 --> 0:41:15.200 family therapy, like it answers so much within my own, 0:41:16.080 --> 0:41:19.400 you know, within myself and my own family dynamic. I 0:41:19.480 --> 0:41:20.960 was like, oh, yeah, this is what I'm supposed to be. 0:41:21.480 --> 0:41:24.720 And then when I started really talking and guys started 0:41:24.719 --> 0:41:27.839 reaching out and like, yo, man, you know man, I've 0:41:27.840 --> 0:41:30.839 struggled with depression. Man, I wanted to, you know, take 0:41:30.880 --> 0:41:33.920 my life, man, do I got stream anxiety, and especially 0:41:33.960 --> 0:41:37.080 with pro athletes because it's so much pressure to be 0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:40.120 and to perform and a lot of it. But you know, 0:41:40.760 --> 0:41:46.680 Chris Rock said something man that was so powerful. He said, women, children, 0:41:46.760 --> 0:41:51.719 and animals are loved unconditionally, but men I loved under 0:41:51.719 --> 0:41:59.480 the condition that they provide. So psychologically, as men, everything 0:41:59.560 --> 0:42:03.719 is about performance. And so when I started to really 0:42:03.760 --> 0:42:07.440 dig deep, I said, I want to get brothers to 0:42:07.440 --> 0:42:11.080 remove the cape from trying to be Superman and learn 0:42:11.080 --> 0:42:14.640 how to function in your Clark can and because that's 0:42:14.760 --> 0:42:18.160 really who Superman was, right, the reality of it. And 0:42:18.239 --> 0:42:22.360 so it's just functioning who you are because that performance 0:42:22.400 --> 0:42:26.080 thing is exhausting, it's hardsome. Does the league have anything 0:42:26.160 --> 0:42:30.200 for athletes who are transitioning from playing sports back into 0:42:30.760 --> 0:42:33.480 you know, regular life, or is that they're getting better 0:42:33.520 --> 0:42:36.360 at it. They're getting better at it. And recently I 0:42:36.520 --> 0:42:41.360 partner up with the NFLPA and then PA Players Association Foundation. 0:42:41.719 --> 0:42:44.359 They're they're doing a lot more workshops, a lot of more, 0:42:44.760 --> 0:42:48.000 a lot more symposing and creating more outlets. I mean, 0:42:48.040 --> 0:42:50.919 when you look at the players over the past couple 0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:54.680 of years who have either committed suicide or they've had 0:42:54.719 --> 0:43:00.040 these untimely deaths, it's it's it's it's very disheartening. And 0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:02.040 one of the things is that I want to do 0:43:02.239 --> 0:43:06.319 with athletes, especially black athletes, man, is just really get 0:43:06.360 --> 0:43:09.000 them into space to where they be. These coaches even 0:43:09.120 --> 0:43:12.120 begin to see these kids as a whole person and 0:43:12.320 --> 0:43:15.279 humanize them and in a way that, man, this kid 0:43:15.360 --> 0:43:17.319 is more than just an athlete. He's more than just 0:43:17.400 --> 0:43:20.920 somebody who can dump, who can who who can jump? 0:43:21.239 --> 0:43:24.000 These kids are future fathers and husband. But then too, 0:43:24.080 --> 0:43:26.680 it's like when these kids are done and let's say 0:43:26.719 --> 0:43:29.879 you don't go to the league, and you say, hey, 0:43:30.280 --> 0:43:32.480 go be the best in life. All they know, is 0:43:32.520 --> 0:43:36.000 to perform, and now you're asking them to function as 0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:38.600 a husband and function as a father or function as 0:43:38.640 --> 0:43:44.080 a as a citizen. It's it's unfortunate. And so I think, 0:43:44.440 --> 0:43:46.880 you know, with what Charlotte Mayne's doing and you guys 0:43:46.920 --> 0:43:52.560 platform and and and just really normalizing men speaking, you know. 0:43:52.600 --> 0:43:54.879 And I think there's a shift right now that more 0:43:54.960 --> 0:43:57.960 men are becoming comfortable because one thing about man, we 0:43:58.000 --> 0:43:59.760 have to see it. I feel like women, y'all always, 0:43:59.800 --> 0:44:06.760 y'll do brunches each other and women processed through talking 0:44:08.680 --> 0:44:12.640 each other everything, and man we process in silence. It's 0:44:12.719 --> 0:44:16.400 like in the locker room, like we're gonna come together, 0:44:17.360 --> 0:44:20.040 but you're not gonna know personal stuff that's going on 0:44:20.080 --> 0:44:22.920 and nobody's life because we performing for each other. And 0:44:23.000 --> 0:44:24.600 a lot of a lot of it is just protection, 0:44:24.719 --> 0:44:26.759 you know what I mean. That's it, and that's the 0:44:27.000 --> 0:44:30.080 it's the protection of that little boy. So what happened 0:44:30.160 --> 0:44:32.440 is that I show up as a man, or I 0:44:32.520 --> 0:44:35.520 show up or show up as a male, but behind 0:44:35.560 --> 0:44:40.040 it there's this little boy who is broken. Yeah you, um, 0:44:40.080 --> 0:44:42.400 how did you get the validation that you were seeking 0:44:42.440 --> 0:44:44.799 from your father? How did you I guess you know, 0:44:45.040 --> 0:44:49.480 fix that wounding yourself. I didn't. Um, I didn't get it. 0:44:49.800 --> 0:44:53.320 We Ever, man, when the first question friends, did you 0:44:53.320 --> 0:44:57.200 didn't get it? I didn't get it because I felt 0:44:57.239 --> 0:45:00.359 like I've never my father has never had to comeversation 0:45:00.480 --> 0:45:02.880 with me that I wanted him to have. And I 0:45:02.960 --> 0:45:05.920 said this to one of the young guys I mentor, 0:45:06.160 --> 0:45:09.440 and I said, man, I've had to accept that. I 0:45:09.480 --> 0:45:12.399 would love to have it, but I can't wait for it. 0:45:12.840 --> 0:45:16.080 And that's when I, like I said to myself, I 0:45:16.120 --> 0:45:19.160 have to keep healing. And I think the validation for 0:45:19.320 --> 0:45:23.040 me now is being able to look at other brothers 0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:25.799 and speaking to the king and them and being able 0:45:25.840 --> 0:45:29.279 to build them. Or also when a brother hops you know, 0:45:30.080 --> 0:45:34.360 or or send them a DM message and say, man, dude, 0:45:34.400 --> 0:45:37.319 thank you for talking about this. Man, I watch a video, uh, 0:45:37.680 --> 0:45:39.840 you know, talking about depression. I walked to watch a 0:45:39.960 --> 0:45:42.960 video talking about you know, leaving sports and all those things. 0:45:43.160 --> 0:45:45.560 It's like, man, that that that helped me. And so 0:45:46.440 --> 0:45:50.360 that brings a great validation. And I would say the 0:45:50.400 --> 0:45:53.520 word that I would use, it brings great fulfillment because 0:45:53.560 --> 0:45:56.840 now at this point, I think that as you continue 0:45:56.880 --> 0:45:59.040 to grow and evolve, as a man. Not only does 0:45:59.080 --> 0:46:02.920 your perspective shit, but your view on life shifts. And 0:46:02.960 --> 0:46:06.720 so my view is now is who are you building? 0:46:07.120 --> 0:46:10.319 Rather than what you're building? Because it's great to build things, 0:46:10.320 --> 0:46:12.640 and I think men should always work to build things, 0:46:12.680 --> 0:46:15.920 But who are you building? And I think to be 0:46:15.920 --> 0:46:18.239 able to hand the baton to another young man and 0:46:18.320 --> 0:46:21.759 to talk to him about emotional intelligence and to be 0:46:21.800 --> 0:46:24.480 able to encourage him, like, listen, man, I want you 0:46:24.520 --> 0:46:28.320 to get to a place where you can respond versus react. 0:46:28.880 --> 0:46:32.200 Everybody has anger, but I want you to manage that. 0:46:32.640 --> 0:46:35.160 I think even when we look at these artists, I think, 0:46:35.640 --> 0:46:37.960 you know, we give these young kids a bunch of 0:46:37.960 --> 0:46:41.120 money because they got a hit and they sung is popping. 0:46:41.160 --> 0:46:43.839 But I think these kids need mental health coaches. They 0:46:43.920 --> 0:46:46.640 need more than just a tour manager. These kids need 0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:50.520 a therapist or a counsel or somebody to help manage 0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:55.200 that because here's what is happening. Their processing through their pen, right, 0:46:55.840 --> 0:46:59.000 their processing through their pen and their pen is broken. 0:46:59.320 --> 0:47:03.000 And here's the thing that today's artists are doing is 0:47:04.080 --> 0:47:08.480 there's they speak about what's going on inside of them 0:47:08.640 --> 0:47:12.520 versus artists of old that when we grew up artists 0:47:12.560 --> 0:47:15.800 talked about what was going on around them. These artists 0:47:15.840 --> 0:47:18.000 are talking about what is going on inside of me. 0:47:18.600 --> 0:47:21.440 Listen to the lyrics. It's a whole mood, all right. 0:47:21.480 --> 0:47:23.480 We got more with Jay Barnette when we come back. 0:47:23.520 --> 0:47:27.800 It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ 0:47:28.320 --> 0:47:32.040 Envy angela Ye, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. 0:47:32.520 --> 0:47:36.480 We have author, motivational speaker Jay Barnett here. Charlemagne. I 0:47:36.560 --> 0:47:39.080 was talking to my homegirl, deVie Brown last night and 0:47:39.080 --> 0:47:40.920 I was talking about the mind of being in a 0:47:40.960 --> 0:47:43.960 position where like you can hear, you can hear somebody 0:47:44.040 --> 0:47:46.719 say all these great accolades about you, right, but then 0:47:46.760 --> 0:47:49.759 you can hear somebody talking negative about you too in 0:47:49.760 --> 0:47:51.239 your mind, like, well, who the fuck are you asking you? 0:47:51.280 --> 0:47:55.040 Who am I? Who am I? How you expecting? What 0:47:55.160 --> 0:47:58.440 is that? What is that? What is that called? So? Well? 0:47:58.480 --> 0:48:00.440 I mean, it's one of those things, man, And I 0:48:00.480 --> 0:48:04.960 think it's the constant question of who we are. And 0:48:05.000 --> 0:48:08.120 one of the things that I really tell people focus 0:48:08.200 --> 0:48:10.880 on what you can control, and that that you can't control, 0:48:11.560 --> 0:48:15.319 leave it alone. And the only thing that you can 0:48:15.360 --> 0:48:18.480 really control is how do you see yourself when you 0:48:18.520 --> 0:48:21.200 look at you, because people are gonna always see you 0:48:21.239 --> 0:48:26.560 according to their limited perspective of their experiences and either 0:48:26.600 --> 0:48:29.040 the people that they encounter, and a lot of times 0:48:29.080 --> 0:48:31.640 what you're projecting on me has nothing to do with me. 0:48:32.400 --> 0:48:35.800 That's your stuff. So if you feel that, oh, he's 0:48:35.960 --> 0:48:40.799 arrogant or she thinks she's that, no, you feel some 0:48:40.880 --> 0:48:43.200 type of way about some stuff that you're dealing with. 0:48:43.560 --> 0:48:46.480 And I just happen to be an innocent bystander in 0:48:46.600 --> 0:48:50.440 this process to where you formulated these thoughts in these opinions. 0:48:50.719 --> 0:48:54.760 And I think the more you become settling that because 0:48:54.800 --> 0:48:56.680 here's the thing that I think that it's so important, 0:48:57.239 --> 0:49:01.640 is I'd rather be a private success as rather than 0:49:01.680 --> 0:49:05.040 to be a public success and a private failure. And 0:49:05.080 --> 0:49:10.560 that's what we have people who that I'd rather be 0:49:10.880 --> 0:49:14.480 a private success than to be a public success and 0:49:14.520 --> 0:49:18.840 a private failure. And I feel like, because the public 0:49:18.880 --> 0:49:21.240 success is I have to put on the show for everybody, 0:49:21.560 --> 0:49:24.680 But you're failing in your relationships. You're failing in your 0:49:25.239 --> 0:49:29.760 day to day encounters with yourself because your inner personal 0:49:29.760 --> 0:49:32.320 relationship it's going to determine a relationship that you have 0:49:32.440 --> 0:49:35.000 with others. So the relationship that you have with yourself 0:49:35.120 --> 0:49:38.880 is always going to project how you relate to other people. Yeah. No, 0:49:38.960 --> 0:49:40.799 I think that's great when you know what's going on 0:49:40.880 --> 0:49:43.040 with you for real, no matter what anybody else says 0:49:43.040 --> 0:49:45.840 about you. Like people will try to attack me about 0:49:45.880 --> 0:49:48.440 certain things. Oh she ain't got no man, Well I 0:49:48.719 --> 0:49:52.160 have been with somebody for six years, I'd like, but 0:49:52.200 --> 0:49:54.759 they don't know because I don't put it all, you know, 0:49:54.760 --> 0:49:57.359 exactly out there all the time. But like they'll say 0:49:57.360 --> 0:49:59.319 like the worst things, Oh she don't do that, And 0:49:59.480 --> 0:50:01.680 it's like, know, in real life, I know what I'm 0:50:01.719 --> 0:50:04.080 really doing, and that's important to be able to feel 0:50:04.120 --> 0:50:06.440 confident in that and to have people that support you, 0:50:06.600 --> 0:50:08.759 that know you that that's what I care about more 0:50:08.800 --> 0:50:12.239 than like somebody trying to get my attention and trying 0:50:12.280 --> 0:50:14.560 to provoke you, because you can see when somebody's trying 0:50:14.560 --> 0:50:17.919 to provoke you into something. Yeah, And what you've done, 0:50:18.000 --> 0:50:22.919 Angela is provide a space of peace for you, because see, 0:50:22.960 --> 0:50:25.880 once you provide that space a piece for you, dude, 0:50:26.880 --> 0:50:30.799 piece is not the fact that everything is running through 0:50:31.200 --> 0:50:35.360 a field of sunflower pieces that the world has fallen 0:50:35.400 --> 0:50:39.960 apart and I have solitude. Yeah, I'm good. I'm happy, 0:50:39.280 --> 0:50:42.239 and that's good. But you know when people say things 0:50:42.239 --> 0:50:46.520 that aren't true, you're like, not even true exactly. Remember 0:50:46.520 --> 0:50:48.480 that old exhibit video when he was just walking and 0:50:48.520 --> 0:50:50.480 everything was going crazy behind him, but he was just 0:50:50.680 --> 0:50:55.840 exactly home, man. And it's really having a place of 0:50:55.920 --> 0:50:58.920 piece because we live in a world where everybody has 0:50:58.960 --> 0:51:02.359 an opinion. Yeah. Yeah, if you have social media, you 0:51:02.480 --> 0:51:07.359 have an opinion, rightfully yours. However, your opinion is none 0:51:07.360 --> 0:51:09.520 of my business. And it's also not a fact sometimes, 0:51:09.560 --> 0:51:12.440 like it could be something that's a fact and you're like, 0:51:12.440 --> 0:51:16.800 like people would be like Angela is not black. I'm like, okay, 0:51:16.840 --> 0:51:18.680 I mean what can I even say to that? Like 0:51:19.080 --> 0:51:21.239 then that don't tell the whole story, though, yeah, you 0:51:21.239 --> 0:51:23.080 know what I mean. But to you, I'm like, okay, 0:51:23.120 --> 0:51:27.120 what constitute's actually being black? You know? She is black, 0:51:27.280 --> 0:51:29.440 black and age. He's like, they don't know the whole story. 0:51:29.480 --> 0:51:31.759 It's like, but it's also like you're just saying that 0:51:31.800 --> 0:51:33.560 because you want me to be mad and like, and 0:51:33.600 --> 0:51:37.080 I don't give people that privilege of me like responding 0:51:37.120 --> 0:51:39.680 to things that I feel like they're trying to get 0:51:39.719 --> 0:51:42.480 you to respond because they want to back and forth 0:51:42.560 --> 0:51:44.200 and they want to try to embarrass you, and I 0:51:44.239 --> 0:51:47.560 don't give anybody that. Man, Listen, I'll live about what 0:51:47.880 --> 0:51:50.120 little Duke Vall said. Man, I'm not going back and 0:51:50.160 --> 0:51:53.120 forth with you. I'm not because DONA doesn't make it worse. 0:51:53.120 --> 0:51:54.839 So then now you're stretched out and you got all 0:51:54.880 --> 0:51:58.360 these no I'm not even true. Why am I even entertaining? Listen, 0:51:58.440 --> 0:52:01.400 I told a lot of these athletes, man, if you 0:52:01.400 --> 0:52:04.640 don't get nothing else, get you some emotional intelligence. Man 0:52:04.960 --> 0:52:07.920 be able to process your emotions and be able to 0:52:08.000 --> 0:52:11.719 manage your emotions about others when they can't process their emotions, 0:52:11.960 --> 0:52:16.120 because again, that emotional IQ intelligence allows you to be 0:52:16.160 --> 0:52:19.080 able to Okay, I can process that. I don't like 0:52:19.239 --> 0:52:21.960 what they said, but I have the ability and the 0:52:22.040 --> 0:52:25.040 capacity to know what they said it's not true. It's 0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:29.279 not true. However, doesn't have any validity because when we 0:52:29.320 --> 0:52:31.480 start to allow that stuff to enter into our spirit 0:52:31.719 --> 0:52:36.000 and enter into our control system, which is your mind, 0:52:36.360 --> 0:52:40.279 that dictates so much. So many people are depressed by 0:52:40.320 --> 0:52:42.359 other people. See it's one thing to be depressed by 0:52:42.360 --> 0:52:45.680 a circumstance or situation, but when you start allowing people 0:52:46.000 --> 0:52:49.319 to cause your depression. Man, Like, nah, you're you're you're 0:52:49.480 --> 0:52:53.399 you are giving them the power over you to say, hey, 0:52:53.440 --> 0:52:56.719 I get to control how you feel Like Nah, man, 0:52:56.760 --> 0:52:59.080 life is too short for that. What do you What 0:52:59.120 --> 0:53:02.080 do you mean, Jay, when you say that you're black exhausted? Man? 0:53:02.120 --> 0:53:05.240 When I say that I'm black exhausted, I'm really talking 0:53:05.280 --> 0:53:11.040 about the emotional toll and turmoil that it has taken 0:53:11.160 --> 0:53:13.880 on me being a black man, being a black person, 0:53:14.400 --> 0:53:19.680 having to endure, you know, avert racism, having to endure 0:53:21.040 --> 0:53:25.719 the media, controlling the narrative, controlling the messages. It's just like, 0:53:26.120 --> 0:53:28.280 you know, it's one of those things that I walked 0:53:28.280 --> 0:53:33.440 into my office and back in Texas and and there 0:53:33.520 --> 0:53:36.239 was a white colleague of mine who's a therapist, and 0:53:36.400 --> 0:53:38.600 you know, we were talking about the George Floyd thing, 0:53:39.000 --> 0:53:40.480 and I just looked at her. I was just like, man, 0:53:40.520 --> 0:53:45.640 I'm just so tired. Man, I'm just tired, man. And 0:53:45.680 --> 0:53:48.600 it was one of those things. She was like, she 0:53:48.760 --> 0:53:51.319 was like, Jay, what do you mean? I said, Man, 0:53:51.560 --> 0:53:55.000 I'm just I said, it feels like being black is 0:53:55.080 --> 0:53:59.960 a job. Yeah, Like it's worked. It's like you gotta 0:54:00.080 --> 0:54:03.600 if you're educated, black man, you gotta manage how you 0:54:03.640 --> 0:54:07.600 present yourself, right, and then if you're an educated black woman, 0:54:07.640 --> 0:54:10.160 you don't want to come off as an angry black woman. 0:54:10.480 --> 0:54:14.440 But it's just like it's always having to control our emotions, 0:54:15.000 --> 0:54:18.880 manage our feelings, you know, make sure you dress appropriate, 0:54:19.320 --> 0:54:22.040 make sure you wear your hair like this, don't say 0:54:22.080 --> 0:54:24.719 too many of this word, don't say to that. You 0:54:24.760 --> 0:54:27.719 know what I mean, So just shut up and get 0:54:28.440 --> 0:54:31.919 just comply. And that's black exhausted right there for those 0:54:32.000 --> 0:54:35.279 to watch it. Right. My homeboy, you know, I do 0:54:35.360 --> 0:54:37.640 like two big vacations a year where his family and friends. 0:54:37.680 --> 0:54:39.440 And my homeboy was like, man, we didn't even get 0:54:39.440 --> 0:54:42.040 to go into vacation last year, and he said, I 0:54:42.040 --> 0:54:44.040 look forward to just two weeks and not being black. 0:54:44.120 --> 0:54:46.000 I'm like, what did you talking about? But then he 0:54:46.080 --> 0:54:48.440 explained exactly what you're said. It's just going somewhere and 0:54:48.480 --> 0:54:53.080 just being that's just existing. I'm like, damn, because you 0:54:53.200 --> 0:54:55.640 go into other countries, right, they just want you to 0:54:55.640 --> 0:54:57.560 have a good time, that's it. They just want you 0:54:57.560 --> 0:54:59.840 to come and have a good time. Body a little supernir, 0:55:00.680 --> 0:55:02.879 drink a bunch of margar readers or tequila, and it's 0:55:02.920 --> 0:55:04.719 just like, hey, just come have a good time when 0:55:04.719 --> 0:55:09.279 we get here. It's like, I mean, Jesus, man, that's 0:55:09.280 --> 0:55:11.640 the fact when you get the hoodies from Man, what's 0:55:11.640 --> 0:55:16.160 the website. So the website is hellgirlhel dot com. Heal 0:55:16.280 --> 0:55:19.480 girlhell dot com. So we're just pushing this heel movement. 0:55:20.000 --> 0:55:23.200 And I'm excited to be working with Taragi again on 0:55:23.520 --> 0:55:27.160 the unspoken curriculum. Man, like this is needed. Give me. 0:55:27.360 --> 0:55:30.239 Give me your Twitters and Instagram. Yeah, my Twitterstagram is 0:55:30.320 --> 0:55:34.600 King Jay Barnett and I have an online coaching mental 0:55:34.600 --> 0:55:38.640 health coaching platform which is KJB Coaching dot com. Jay, 0:55:38.840 --> 0:55:41.520 I love you, I value you, I appreciate you, King Man. 0:55:42.000 --> 0:55:44.799 Just thank you and just keep keep existing absolutely, brother. 0:55:44.960 --> 0:55:48.080 I value you man, love you, brother man. And it's 0:55:48.080 --> 0:55:51.560 just been beautiful man to watch you evolve and Angela. 0:55:51.600 --> 0:55:53.880 Thank you man, you know for not only work that 0:55:54.000 --> 0:55:57.040 you do, but just even just you guys being authentic. Man. 0:55:57.080 --> 0:55:59.840 So I think that's beautiful to have people because so 0:56:00.040 --> 0:56:03.600 many people that man do, they're performing. By the time 0:56:03.640 --> 0:56:06.680 they get home, they don't like the shoulder they're putting on. Right. 0:56:07.440 --> 0:56:10.760 So I've been don't get me wrong, I've been there. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:56:10.800 --> 0:56:13.399 I've been there and so no, no, thank you both 0:56:13.400 --> 0:56:15.360 for the work that you guys doing for your platform. 0:56:16.120 --> 0:56:25.319 You do it's the breakfast club. I'm in a good 0:56:25.320 --> 0:56:27.360 move today. Man. It just feels good. How can you 0:56:27.440 --> 0:56:30.680 not be that's good? I'm the only thing that sucks 0:56:30.760 --> 0:56:33.200 is that here in New York City with everybody that listens. 0:56:33.200 --> 0:56:35.720 That's all over the country, but in New York this weekend, 0:56:35.719 --> 0:56:37.799 it's not gonna be like hot like it was all week. 0:56:38.360 --> 0:56:40.000 It was like eighty ninety degrees all week and it's 0:56:40.000 --> 0:56:42.479 Memorial Day weekend, That's what I'm saying. But it's still 0:56:42.560 --> 0:56:44.480 good though. This is the first time we got teams 0:56:44.480 --> 0:56:46.600 in the playoffs in New York. It just feels like 0:56:46.719 --> 0:56:51.239 first time in long time, long time basketball. Basketball. Yeah, 0:56:50.360 --> 0:56:53.400 oh football too. We don't have a playoffs in a 0:56:53.440 --> 0:56:55.800 long time too. You got to figure out who to 0:56:55.920 --> 0:56:58.800 root for. Bro at least a year is consistent birthday. 0:56:58.840 --> 0:57:01.000 That's going to take it off. I'm a Knicks fan, 0:57:01.239 --> 0:57:03.560 I'm a Giants fan. You said before you were a 0:57:03.640 --> 0:57:05.560 Nets fan now and he was been a Jets fan 0:57:05.760 --> 0:57:10.520 when yes he was. No, no, don't start these lives. 0:57:09.160 --> 0:57:14.160 But you never played for the Jets. Scott shout the ball, 0:57:14.200 --> 0:57:19.520 Scott I was supporting, Not definitely, he does. He does 0:57:19.520 --> 0:57:22.600 wear Mets hats and Yankees hats. All and we care 0:57:22.600 --> 0:57:25.240 about is what matches outfit and who's winning there By 0:57:25.360 --> 0:57:28.720 sports fans, that's what you are. You can't be like that, 0:57:28.960 --> 0:57:30.560 especially in the same city. Pick a slide. I'm a 0:57:30.640 --> 0:57:33.720 Yankees fan, I'm a Giants fan, and I'm a Knicks fan. 0:57:33.840 --> 0:57:35.440 When you went in next tickets, you was a Nets fan. 0:57:35.480 --> 0:57:38.520 That's support New York teams, though, I see what I'm saying. 0:57:38.720 --> 0:57:40.640 Why can't I can't support me the old team? No, 0:57:40.920 --> 0:57:43.080 you gotta pick one. What team do you rap for? 0:57:43.960 --> 0:57:49.280 Dallas Cowboys? I like the New York Liberty. Yeah, me too, 0:57:49.760 --> 0:57:51.800 like the New York Liberty, Dallas Cowboys. All right, well, 0:57:51.840 --> 0:57:56.800 let's get to room, let's talk dest any shot? Oh gosh, 0:57:58.000 --> 0:58:06.480 report go well. Michelle Williams had shared some audio clips 0:58:06.520 --> 0:58:09.960 from checking in with her groupmates Beyond Saying Kelly Roland 0:58:09.960 --> 0:58:13.400 ahead of her new book Checking In, and she posted, 0:58:13.440 --> 0:58:15.560 look who checked in yesterday with me? The only time 0:58:15.600 --> 0:58:18.480 we'll let your eaves drop on our group chats. I 0:58:18.560 --> 0:58:20.440 just wanted to check in We just think what's been 0:58:20.520 --> 0:58:23.480 going on has been making us more intentional about calling 0:58:23.520 --> 0:58:27.720 each other checking in. And I'm loving the smile. Oh, 0:58:27.720 --> 0:58:31.760 we love and miss you so much, so proud of me, 0:58:32.720 --> 0:58:38.440 I know, so inspirational for both of us, and we 0:58:38.560 --> 0:58:42.920 just love watching you become exactly who you are in 0:58:42.960 --> 0:58:47.040 the world. See you're impacting and wisdom and your beautiful 0:58:47.080 --> 0:58:50.840 advice in your discernment and we're just so proud of you. 0:58:51.160 --> 0:58:53.880 Probably include bons from Michelle Williams. Her new book is 0:58:53.880 --> 0:58:56.400 out right now, Checking In How Getting Real about Depression 0:58:56.480 --> 0:58:58.800 save My life and can save yours, And you can 0:58:58.840 --> 0:59:01.960 listen to her checking in podcasts on The Black Effect 0:59:02.000 --> 0:59:05.680 iHeartRadio podcast network. Well, these are her safe sisters, and 0:59:06.400 --> 0:59:08.600 Kelly Rowland said people should know that along with friendships 0:59:08.600 --> 0:59:10.600 there's humility. You have to allow yourself to hold a 0:59:10.680 --> 0:59:13.600 safe place in a safe space for all friendships to 0:59:13.720 --> 0:59:15.960 be able to check in. That's a beautiful thing. When 0:59:16.000 --> 0:59:18.680 you call a friend and you express some things to 0:59:18.760 --> 0:59:21.240 them and they say, I know I've been holding space 0:59:21.280 --> 0:59:24.000 for you. That term holding space means a lot. I 0:59:24.120 --> 0:59:27.080 got some safe sisters the same. That's a good thing. 0:59:27.400 --> 0:59:30.000 Envy's one of them. All right. Now, jay Z has 0:59:30.000 --> 0:59:34.200 announced that made an America Festival's returning to Philly September 0:59:34.280 --> 0:59:38.240 fourth and fifth. They did call things off obviously last year, 0:59:38.280 --> 0:59:40.240 as everybody had to. But now you can get your 0:59:40.240 --> 0:59:42.840 two day passes and you can also lock in early 0:59:42.880 --> 0:59:45.640 bird pricing while it's available. Boy Outside back open for 0:59:45.760 --> 0:59:49.120 real if they bring it back. Festivals Outside is open. 0:59:50.560 --> 0:59:53.040 It is the fourth and the fifth of September. I 0:59:53.120 --> 0:59:56.600 ain't hitting no stipulations, know nothing. I guess you'll know 0:59:56.680 --> 0:59:58.640 as it gets a little closer, because we also don't 0:59:58.680 --> 1:00:00.720 know in September what the rules are are going to be. Yeah, 1:00:01.400 --> 1:00:03.520 be open, open, because it's damn they're open open now. 1:00:03.680 --> 1:00:04.840 I just want to say that I got a call 1:00:04.840 --> 1:00:07.440 show Atlantic City's festival type with you know, rides and 1:00:07.560 --> 1:00:10.479 cars and it's open open Focus fourteen. I just whle COVID, 1:00:10.480 --> 1:00:12.760 don't come back, like allow me to reintroduce myself. My 1:00:12.840 --> 1:00:17.680 name is cold to Dave Chappelle's new documentary is going 1:00:17.760 --> 1:00:21.360 to premiere as the closing night film at the Tribeca Festival. 1:00:22.000 --> 1:00:24.280 And so you can go ahead and get those um 1:00:24.520 --> 1:00:26.960 but you have to be fully vaccinated and you have 1:00:27.040 --> 1:00:31.800 to provide proof of your vaccination upon entry, so get 1:00:31.800 --> 1:00:33.880 ready for that. I actually saw it. It's amazing, so 1:00:33.920 --> 1:00:35.800 I think people are gonna love it. So that's going 1:00:35.840 --> 1:00:37.840 to take place on June nineteen. I see when you 1:00:37.880 --> 1:00:40.160 announced that, you announced the stipulations with it. I expect 1:00:40.200 --> 1:00:42.680 to hear any big event to have some type of stipulation. Yeah, 1:00:42.680 --> 1:00:45.000 but this is coming up really soon. Oh gotcha? You 1:00:45.040 --> 1:00:47.360 know in September. Like I said, we don't know how 1:00:47.400 --> 1:00:51.000 open things will are won't be. And since we're talking comedy, 1:00:51.480 --> 1:00:54.560 Palmoney they've given him his own day in Oakland and 1:00:54.600 --> 1:00:58.200 that is going to be May nineteenth, so it's Palmoney 1:00:58.280 --> 1:01:01.240 Day on May nineteenth. He was born in Shreeport, Louisiana, 1:01:01.280 --> 1:01:02.800 but he did move to Oakland when he was seven 1:01:02.880 --> 1:01:05.160 years old, and as you know, he got to start 1:01:05.200 --> 1:01:07.680 writing for Richard Pryor driveling a clue bound with the 1:01:07.720 --> 1:01:10.200 late Great Paul Morning. Are we gonna haven't put that 1:01:10.240 --> 1:01:14.120 interview out? They said the audio wasn't that good. Understanding 1:01:14.120 --> 1:01:15.640 we could still get it out though some of it 1:01:15.800 --> 1:01:17.600 he put it on the documentary. All right, Well that 1:01:17.720 --> 1:01:20.200 is your rumor reports. All right, then let me show 1:01:20.240 --> 1:01:22.000 out to my brother Nori in O r E. He 1:01:22.080 --> 1:01:24.800 just said, and he says, I'm an old New York 1:01:24.800 --> 1:01:27.800 City All Teams fan as well. Okay, Nor just put 1:01:27.840 --> 1:01:29.840 us in the group chat, bro, we all got to 1:01:29.840 --> 1:01:33.120 say seven fifty eight am, I'm an all NYC All Teams. 1:01:35.320 --> 1:01:37.360 I can't lie. Living out of town makes me that way. 1:01:37.440 --> 1:01:39.000 Nor just sit us all in the group chat. You 1:01:39.400 --> 1:01:42.280 were family. Nor just put your breakfast club group chat 1:01:42.320 --> 1:01:45.280 together right now? Special Like Noor, he just texts me. 1:01:45.360 --> 1:01:47.160 He texts me too, and he texts me to cut 1:01:47.240 --> 1:01:50.439 and pays. He texted the same thing he did. Thought 1:01:50.760 --> 1:01:52.680 make sure y'all listen to Drink Champs to suit the 1:01:52.760 --> 1:01:54.720 Drink Champs that's on the Black Effect. I heart radio 1:01:54.720 --> 1:01:59.520 podcast great plus my guy man men do great business together. 1:01:59.560 --> 1:02:02.959 I like him. My guy talking to Clue Bonnor good brother, 1:02:03.120 --> 1:02:05.880 great brother. Tend to get our running challenge back. Nori, 1:02:07.080 --> 1:02:09.400 who actually was driving in the city yesterday and I 1:02:09.440 --> 1:02:11.400 just ran to I don't know, Norridn'm got a building. 1:02:11.680 --> 1:02:14.840 I just saw smoke Champs on a window. Smoke Champs. Yeah, 1:02:14.840 --> 1:02:17.880 they got smoke Champs now his nephew young Rally. I 1:02:17.880 --> 1:02:20.000 just I just literally saw it was in I don't 1:02:20.040 --> 1:02:21.520 remember what part of the town the canal screens on 1:02:21.560 --> 1:02:24.960 canal screen really all right, we're even your talking too. 1:02:25.320 --> 1:02:27.320 Amy Cooper needs to come to the front of the congregation. 1:02:27.360 --> 1:02:28.959 We'd like to have a word with Amy Cooper this morning. 1:02:29.080 --> 1:02:31.040 All right, we'll get into that next. It's the breakfast Club. 1:02:31.040 --> 1:02:34.440 Good morning, So breakfast Club, your morning's will never be 1:02:34.600 --> 1:02:37.720 the same. Angela yet here. And did you know that 1:02:37.720 --> 1:02:40.640 the General Insurance has been saving people money for nearly 1:02:40.800 --> 1:02:43.439 sixty years. That's a long time. 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But 1:03:21.240 --> 1:03:25.040 I'm also very proud that my wife was white because 1:03:25.080 --> 1:03:28.760 the breakfast club bitches right. Please tell me why was 1:03:28.800 --> 1:03:32.760 I day donkey to day for Thursday, May twenty seven 1:03:32.840 --> 1:03:35.120 calls to Amy Cooper. You all remember who Amy Cooper is, 1:03:35.160 --> 1:03:37.760 don't you. Amy Cooper is the human jar of Hellman's 1:03:37.760 --> 1:03:39.640 who called nine one one last year when she was 1:03:39.680 --> 1:03:42.200 walking her dog in Central Park and she adn't counted 1:03:42.200 --> 1:03:44.840 a black man named Christian Cooper. Christian Cooper was mining 1:03:44.920 --> 1:03:47.960 his business doing his favorite pastime, which is bird watching. 1:03:48.000 --> 1:03:51.000 I know, I know, a black man bird watching looks suspicious, 1:03:51.000 --> 1:03:54.280 but that's your problem because you think black people are monolithic, 1:03:54.400 --> 1:03:56.720 and you have a perception of what black people do 1:03:56.800 --> 1:03:59.000 and can't do. In bird watching, it's not on your 1:03:59.040 --> 1:04:01.600 list of things that black people do. Therefore, you just 1:04:01.640 --> 1:04:04.400 assumed he was doing something he had no business doing. 1:04:04.440 --> 1:04:06.480 Can we flash back to that encounter between the Cooper's. 1:04:08.200 --> 1:04:10.440 Please don't come close to me, sir, I asked me 1:04:10.440 --> 1:04:13.720 to stop according Please don't come clost me. Please don't 1:04:13.720 --> 1:04:18.440 come close. Please please call the cops. There's an African 1:04:18.440 --> 1:04:21.080 American man threatening my life. Please tell them whatever you like. 1:04:22.200 --> 1:04:26.960 There was an African American man. He's recording me threading 1:04:27.040 --> 1:04:34.200 myself and my dog. I'm sorry, I can't I Before 1:04:34.200 --> 1:04:36.560 we move on, has anybody checked on Amy Cooper's dog 1:04:37.520 --> 1:04:40.000 every time I watched that video here, that video, I 1:04:40.080 --> 1:04:42.040 think in the fact that she was lynching her dog 1:04:42.240 --> 1:04:44.080 and then called the police and hope that they would 1:04:44.200 --> 1:04:46.760 lynch Christian. Now, what everyone and their mother just heard 1:04:46.800 --> 1:04:49.600 and saw in that video was obvious racial discrimination. I 1:04:49.640 --> 1:04:53.520 mean Amy literally emphasized that Christian was black to the police. 1:04:53.520 --> 1:04:56.040 She weaponized the police against Christian because she knew how 1:04:56.080 --> 1:04:58.840 police would react to a white damsel in distress, saying 1:04:58.880 --> 1:05:01.880 she's been being attacked by a black man. Now. Amy 1:05:02.000 --> 1:05:04.880 was charged with falsely reporting an incident in the third degree. 1:05:05.160 --> 1:05:08.440 Of course, the charge was dismissed early this year after 1:05:08.480 --> 1:05:12.680 she completed a counseling program intended to educate her on 1:05:12.720 --> 1:05:16.160 the harm of her actions. Hopefully it was the same 1:05:16.240 --> 1:05:19.840 diversity training Coca Cola used where they urged workers to 1:05:19.920 --> 1:05:23.400 be less white. Also literally a day after the confrontation, 1:05:23.480 --> 1:05:26.720 she apologized for her actions in an interview with NBC 1:05:26.880 --> 1:05:29.560 four n y Let's listen and it's unacceptable, you know, 1:05:29.640 --> 1:05:31.800 and words are just words, and I can't undo what 1:05:31.840 --> 1:05:35.560 I did, but I sincerely and humbly apologize to everyone, 1:05:35.960 --> 1:05:38.360 especially to that man. The police. I think of them 1:05:38.360 --> 1:05:42.200 as protection agents, see, and unfortunately this has caused me 1:05:42.240 --> 1:05:43.800 to realize that there are so many people in this 1:05:43.880 --> 1:05:48.240 country that don't have that luxury. Apologies are great, Okay, 1:05:48.280 --> 1:05:49.840 when you feel you have wrong someone, you have to 1:05:49.880 --> 1:05:53.200 take accountability for your actions. We all have missteps. So why, 1:05:53.320 --> 1:05:57.120 oh why is Amy Cooper getting Donkey of the Day. Well, 1:05:57.920 --> 1:06:01.000 Amy says she's not racist, but what she did was 1:06:01.120 --> 1:06:04.320 clearly racist. Okay. I think in a situation like that, 1:06:04.520 --> 1:06:06.800 it doesn't matter if a person is actually a racist, 1:06:06.800 --> 1:06:10.120 because what she did is actually racist, and that's what matters. 1:06:10.320 --> 1:06:13.280 And it's her privilege and sense of entitlement that led 1:06:13.320 --> 1:06:15.680 her to call the police on Christian in the first place, 1:06:15.800 --> 1:06:18.520 and it's her privileged and sensive entitlement that is causing 1:06:18.560 --> 1:06:20.320 her to do what she is getting Donkey of the 1:06:20.440 --> 1:06:23.640 Day for what is Christian Cooper currently up to. Let's 1:06:23.680 --> 1:06:25.520 go to ABC seven New York for the report police. 1:06:25.640 --> 1:06:28.439 The woman known as Central Park Karen now filing suit 1:06:28.480 --> 1:06:31.200 against her former employer. Her name is Amy Cooper. She's 1:06:31.240 --> 1:06:35.520 accusing Franklin Templeton of wrongful termination. The financial company fired 1:06:35.600 --> 1:06:38.280 Cooper as the outrage over her racist rant hit a 1:06:38.360 --> 1:06:41.400 fever pitch a year ago. Right now, Cooper claims they 1:06:41.520 --> 1:06:44.520 nurtured the idea that the confrontation was a racial flash point. 1:06:44.760 --> 1:06:47.280 She also claims there should have been an investigation before 1:06:47.280 --> 1:06:50.640 her dismissal. Amy is suing her former employer for wrong 1:06:50.920 --> 1:06:54.840 wrongful termination, for racial engender discrimination her laws through the 1:06:54.840 --> 1:06:58.920 alleges that she was characterized as a privileged white female. 1:06:59.120 --> 1:07:02.720 Karen Amy let brother Lenard and uncle Shlomy the first 1:07:02.720 --> 1:07:05.240 to tell you, quite simply, you didn't get fired because 1:07:05.240 --> 1:07:10.040 you were discriminated against. You got fired for doing the discriminating. Okay, 1:07:10.160 --> 1:07:13.480 you falsely claim to police that a black man was 1:07:13.520 --> 1:07:17.320 threatening you and your dog. You lied, so your job 1:07:17.360 --> 1:07:20.480 fired you for lying. This isn't complicated, Amy. Okay. For 1:07:20.560 --> 1:07:22.520 you to turn around and file a lawsuit and feel 1:07:22.560 --> 1:07:26.800 like you were wronged in any way is Maynnai's flavored malarkey. Okay, 1:07:27.000 --> 1:07:30.520 you file lawsuits when you get lied on, not when 1:07:30.560 --> 1:07:35.280 you lied on people. Amy. Privilege, privilege has tag privilege. Okay, 1:07:35.280 --> 1:07:38.040 this is a prime example of privilege, and as Deshaun 1:07:38.160 --> 1:07:41.200 Stokes once said, privilege is not knowing that you're hurting 1:07:41.200 --> 1:07:44.760 others and not listening when they tell you that you are. 1:07:45.200 --> 1:07:47.880 Please let Kathy Griffin give Amy Cooper the biggest here. 1:07:48.240 --> 1:07:51.080 Please give this giant jar of male the biggest he haw. 1:07:54.720 --> 1:07:57.400 All right, thank you for that. Donkey up the day, Yes, 1:07:57.480 --> 1:08:00.480 ma'am up next, ask a ye eight undred five, eight 1:08:00.560 --> 1:08:02.600 five one or five one. If you need relationship advice 1:08:02.680 --> 1:08:05.480 or any type of advice, call ye now. It's the 1:08:05.480 --> 1:08:13.120 Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Need relationship advice, 1:08:13.640 --> 1:08:17.040 need personal advice, just need real advice? Call up now 1:08:17.200 --> 1:08:23.200 for asking morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, Yee, Sean 1:08:23.439 --> 1:08:25.680 the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time for 1:08:25.760 --> 1:08:28.760 ask ye. Hello. Who's this? Hey? How's it going? Man? 1:08:28.760 --> 1:08:32.439 As David? Hello David, how you guys gonna? Good morning? 1:08:32.479 --> 1:08:34.559 Every gone? Good morning? Man? What's your question for you? Bro? 1:08:35.360 --> 1:08:38.519 Oh my god, I'm gonna through it with my fiance. Man, 1:08:38.760 --> 1:08:43.400 it's just ridiculous. Like so the other day we got 1:08:43.479 --> 1:08:46.640 up to argument, you know, because I was picking up 1:08:46.680 --> 1:08:51.160 for her that you know, heard that bought his brother 1:08:51.360 --> 1:08:54.960 new car, and um, you know, we're all outside small 1:08:55.200 --> 1:08:58.640 cigarettes or whatever like that, and um, she you know, 1:09:00.120 --> 1:09:01.960 she told her dad she had to take the baby 1:09:02.040 --> 1:09:06.080 because our son because he baby sits, and the next 1:09:06.160 --> 1:09:10.280 day he went I didn't think to put it baby, 1:09:10.520 --> 1:09:13.640 and she got upset and I told her like, no, 1:09:13.920 --> 1:09:17.120 you were outside listen and you know that what the 1:09:17.280 --> 1:09:19.760 situation was going to be. And I we just have 1:09:19.880 --> 1:09:22.840 a huge argument. Well, it sounds like you all have 1:09:22.920 --> 1:09:25.080 other issues and that's why you had a big argument 1:09:25.080 --> 1:09:28.080 about this. Yeah, but like I like, I'm clueless. I 1:09:28.080 --> 1:09:31.519 don't even know what the heart like. And every time, 1:09:31.640 --> 1:09:33.519 you know, she's always telling me that I have a 1:09:33.560 --> 1:09:36.280 bad attitude and I got to go to therapy. But 1:09:36.439 --> 1:09:38.720 now I'm trying to realize it's not me, you know 1:09:38.720 --> 1:09:41.320 what I mean, that's her. It sounds like you both 1:09:41.400 --> 1:09:44.960 need therapy. But let me ask you this. Okay, how 1:09:44.960 --> 1:09:48.840 old is the baby? He won? One year and three months? 1:09:49.160 --> 1:09:52.400 And then what was she like this before she had 1:09:52.439 --> 1:09:57.400 the baby? No? Not brilliant. You think that perhaps you 1:09:57.439 --> 1:10:03.160 know these hormonal changes and maybe she's had the baby 1:10:03.200 --> 1:10:05.720 and you know a lot of people have a lot 1:10:05.720 --> 1:10:08.760 of women go through a lot emotionally once they have 1:10:08.800 --> 1:10:11.320 a child. Yeah, but like, how don't I deal with 1:10:11.320 --> 1:10:14.280 it because you know, like we live with her dad 1:10:14.479 --> 1:10:17.760 at the moment, and she's always telling me, you know, 1:10:17.800 --> 1:10:21.040 we gotta move out about but she gotta puts everything 1:10:21.080 --> 1:10:25.240 at my field, you know, like to tree. You know, 1:10:25.320 --> 1:10:28.160 like I didn't help too, right, I mean, well, why 1:10:28.160 --> 1:10:30.920 don't you guys agree to both to counting because it 1:10:30.960 --> 1:10:34.240 feels like you have issues communicating with each other. And 1:10:34.280 --> 1:10:36.960 I'm sure like the dynamics of your relationship have changed. 1:10:37.000 --> 1:10:39.519 You guys had this baby. I'm guessing, like you know, 1:10:39.640 --> 1:10:42.000 during the pandemic, y'all have been kind of at home 1:10:42.040 --> 1:10:45.120 a lot more um as well. It's also not easy 1:10:45.160 --> 1:10:47.920 living with a parent, and just it's hard enough to 1:10:47.920 --> 1:10:50.120 deal with just each other, but then when there's also 1:10:50.160 --> 1:10:53.280 a parent there living in the house with you, sometimes 1:10:53.280 --> 1:10:57.559 that also piles on. Yeah, I just like I'm just 1:10:57.560 --> 1:11:01.880 trying to predicament where yeah, like and you know, now 1:11:02.000 --> 1:11:04.240 she tells me she's gonna put me on child support 1:11:04.360 --> 1:11:07.439 and you know, she don't love me anymore and stuff 1:11:07.479 --> 1:11:10.840 like that over a little argument, you know. So I 1:11:10.840 --> 1:11:13.320 don't know if it might be some postpartum that she 1:11:13.400 --> 1:11:17.720 doesn't even realize that she's dealing with really yeah, and 1:11:17.800 --> 1:11:20.880 that's a real thing and sometimes women can't identify it. 1:11:21.280 --> 1:11:24.240 But postpartum depression affects a lot of a lot of women. 1:11:25.760 --> 1:11:29.439 And so I would m hm. So she's a type 1:11:29.439 --> 1:11:35.160 of like she won't hey, you know, but she she's 1:11:35.200 --> 1:11:38.719 a type like she you know, she she won't listen 1:11:38.760 --> 1:11:42.080 to everybody else that like she's always right, everybody else's 1:11:42.120 --> 1:11:45.400 always wrong, like you know, she don't she don't, you know, 1:11:45.560 --> 1:11:48.880 throw up and just realize, like she'll never say sorry, 1:11:49.280 --> 1:11:52.559 you know, you know what. And that's interesting, it's it's 1:11:52.560 --> 1:11:54.040 interesting that you say that. I want to say a 1:11:54.080 --> 1:11:56.000 couple of things here. A lot of times it's hard 1:11:56.000 --> 1:11:58.000 to have a discussion with somebody and own up to 1:11:58.040 --> 1:12:00.800 your mistakes when they're not doing it right. And so 1:12:00.920 --> 1:12:03.000 a lot of what you're saying to me is about 1:12:03.040 --> 1:12:06.599 what she's doing. You're not really talking about what you're doing. Also, 1:12:06.880 --> 1:12:09.160 I know that both of you are contributing to the 1:12:09.200 --> 1:12:11.800 issues in your relationship, but a lot of times we 1:12:11.880 --> 1:12:14.600 blame the other person instead of also looking at ourselves 1:12:14.800 --> 1:12:16.880 and instead of saying you do this, you don't ever 1:12:17.040 --> 1:12:19.599 think you're wrong, you don't ever apologize. You also have 1:12:19.640 --> 1:12:22.400 to say, well, it bothers me that when we get 1:12:22.439 --> 1:12:25.400 into these arguments, you know, this is how it goes, 1:12:25.439 --> 1:12:28.000 because really it's how it affects you. But you also 1:12:28.000 --> 1:12:29.519 have to think about things that you do and how 1:12:29.520 --> 1:12:31.720 it affects her. And it feels like both of you 1:12:31.800 --> 1:12:34.360 need help. And if you're saying she needs to get 1:12:34.439 --> 1:12:36.880 therapy and she's saying you need to get therapy, I'm 1:12:36.920 --> 1:12:40.280 gonna say both of y'all would benefit from some type 1:12:40.280 --> 1:12:42.479 of counseling or therapy to learn how you guys can 1:12:42.520 --> 1:12:46.599 talk to each other more effectively. Oh no, I understand 1:12:46.640 --> 1:12:48.479 for you. I'm telling you like I'm Anna type, Like 1:12:49.200 --> 1:12:51.760 if I'm wrong, I'll say it in an arpy that 1:12:51.880 --> 1:12:55.840 I'm wrong, you know what I mean? Like like I'm 1:12:55.880 --> 1:12:59.600 that type of dude, Like if if there's something that 1:12:59.600 --> 1:13:01.240 she don't like and then I leave, but tell them 1:13:01.240 --> 1:13:03.840 one like if there's something I don't make, you know, 1:13:03.840 --> 1:13:06.080 I'll tell them a nice way like eight days, you know, 1:13:06.200 --> 1:13:09.200 like you know you shouldn't do it, then maybe she's 1:13:09.240 --> 1:13:11.400 trying to do it a different way, or you know, 1:13:11.840 --> 1:13:18.679 maybe should you offer opfer solutions? You're saying you offer solutions? Yeah, yeah, 1:13:18.720 --> 1:13:20.600 and then she never just rocks with it, you know 1:13:20.640 --> 1:13:24.320 what I mean. And it's very frustrating because now it's 1:13:24.360 --> 1:13:27.800 just like I gotta just pretty much shuck it up 1:13:27.840 --> 1:13:32.120 and let her do like whatever. She you know, wear 1:13:32.160 --> 1:13:34.720 a little attitude and all that. You know, do you 1:13:34.800 --> 1:13:36.479 love her? Do you want to be with her? Do 1:13:36.560 --> 1:13:40.080 you want to get married? I'm not gonna lie after 1:13:40.160 --> 1:13:43.360 the because she sent me some real nasty text like 1:13:43.439 --> 1:13:46.439 my my brother, you know, he he's like a dead 1:13:46.479 --> 1:13:48.760 beat brother, you know what I mean, Like he got 1:13:48.800 --> 1:13:51.840 three kids and you don't talk to them, you know, 1:13:52.000 --> 1:13:56.400 And she takes me, uh that she that I shouldn't 1:13:57.720 --> 1:14:01.080 how to be a dead beat father. When she rolls 1:14:01.080 --> 1:14:04.200 stuff like that, it's just like, yeah, she's trying to 1:14:04.280 --> 1:14:11.320 hurt you, you know, right. Yeah, I think you guys. 1:14:11.960 --> 1:14:16.000 I think you guys as as new parents too, both really, uh, 1:14:16.040 --> 1:14:17.880 you're going to have to raise this child together no 1:14:17.960 --> 1:14:21.000 matter what and deal with each other. And I think 1:14:21.040 --> 1:14:22.800 you do need the proper tools to be able to 1:14:22.840 --> 1:14:25.439 do that. Regardless. I think you have to let her know, 1:14:25.760 --> 1:14:28.519 and I'm sure you do how it hurts your feelings 1:14:28.520 --> 1:14:31.120 when she says things like that to you. But I 1:14:31.160 --> 1:14:33.600 also feel like it could be some postpartum depression, and 1:14:33.640 --> 1:14:36.679 that's something that is a really common thing that doesn't 1:14:36.720 --> 1:14:40.439 even get diagnosed, And so I think it would benefit 1:14:40.520 --> 1:14:42.080 for you guys to learn how to do that and 1:14:42.080 --> 1:14:44.960 and and decide if you want to continue in this relationship. 1:14:45.120 --> 1:14:46.640 But no matter what, you are going to have to 1:14:46.720 --> 1:14:50.040 learn how to deal with each other in a better way. Well, 1:14:50.080 --> 1:14:51.840 what do you think I should just kind of like 1:14:51.920 --> 1:14:58.160 suck it off? I definite, I don't think you should 1:14:58.200 --> 1:15:00.320 ever quote suck it up, But I do you think 1:15:00.320 --> 1:15:02.439 that you need to address these issues as best as 1:15:02.439 --> 1:15:04.680 you can head on. I do think you guys need 1:15:04.760 --> 1:15:08.640 to get a recommendation for a therapist so that you 1:15:08.640 --> 1:15:11.680 guys can go into couples therapy together, because it's not 1:15:11.760 --> 1:15:13.880 working with y'all just talking to each other the way 1:15:13.920 --> 1:15:15.519 that you have been. And then I think you have 1:15:15.600 --> 1:15:17.559 some decisions to make to see if this can work, 1:15:17.600 --> 1:15:20.320 if it can move forward. But I also feel like, 1:15:20.880 --> 1:15:23.600 you know, her body just went through a lot hormonally 1:15:23.680 --> 1:15:25.920 things that she probably doesn't even understand. If she's acting 1:15:25.920 --> 1:15:28.839 different now than she used to, I think that deserves 1:15:28.880 --> 1:15:34.600 some attention as well. Yeah, well I do appreciate it. 1:15:34.640 --> 1:15:37.479 And another thing, I'm sorry for being so long. But 1:15:38.320 --> 1:15:41.080 another thing like and I'm in the predicament, like if 1:15:41.280 --> 1:15:44.439 if we don't make up, you know, she's gonna kick me, 1:15:45.240 --> 1:15:47.320 and my parents don't want to take me back. You know. 1:15:47.520 --> 1:15:50.120 It's like I'm gonna be homeless, you know what i mean, 1:15:50.520 --> 1:15:54.719 just living a magar. And that's what scares me almost 1:15:54.760 --> 1:15:59.160 like you know, she talks like, yeah, I'm not gonna 1:15:59.160 --> 1:16:01.040 see what I'm man. You know, I'm not gonna have 1:16:01.040 --> 1:16:03.519 a place to live it and she shouldn't be threatening. 1:16:03.600 --> 1:16:07.160 She should not be threatening you with that. Yeah, that's 1:16:07.200 --> 1:16:10.320 not fair. Talk about it, and it's like, yes, it's 1:16:10.360 --> 1:16:13.200 running out fair, Like I just wish that I can 1:16:14.040 --> 1:16:18.320 you know, when the scratch off. Okay, you don't have 1:16:18.360 --> 1:16:21.920 any money, you have a job, I got two jobs, 1:16:21.960 --> 1:16:24.559 but I just bought a car. I want finance the car, 1:16:25.280 --> 1:16:30.880 and I'm playing off eight thousand dollars credit card right now. 1:16:30.960 --> 1:16:34.800 You know, if this credit card was paid off, that 1:16:34.960 --> 1:16:39.080 I would definitely shave a thousand dollars to check everything's 1:16:39.080 --> 1:16:41.479 going towards the credit card. And that that's pretty much 1:16:42.080 --> 1:16:45.439 right understand. So well, I'm sure financially. That's a lot 1:16:45.479 --> 1:16:47.639 of stress for you guys in the house as well. 1:16:47.920 --> 1:16:50.240 And I can tell right now just from hearing this 1:16:50.320 --> 1:16:53.120 that also plays a role, you know. So it's a 1:16:53.160 --> 1:16:55.240 lot of different things that you guys are dealing with. 1:16:55.360 --> 1:16:57.640 So I just want to encourage you to try to 1:16:57.680 --> 1:16:59.960 work it out if you can, to seek some profess 1:17:00.000 --> 1:17:01.800 I should know, help, and to learn how to speak 1:17:01.840 --> 1:17:04.360 to each other better. Don't use the words never or 1:17:04.479 --> 1:17:07.040 always when you get into an argument, and always talk 1:17:07.080 --> 1:17:09.439 about well I just said always, and talk about how 1:17:09.479 --> 1:17:12.080 things make you feel instead of being accusatory. And that's 1:17:12.640 --> 1:17:14.360 the advice that I can give you for now. Ask 1:17:14.439 --> 1:17:18.160 ye all right, eight minutes with ye eight hundred five 1:17:18.240 --> 1:17:20.759 eight five one oh five one. If you need relationship advice, 1:17:21.080 --> 1:17:25.760 call us now. It's a breakfast local morn there's some 1:17:25.800 --> 1:17:29.719 real advice with Angela ye kids, ask ye morning. Everybody 1:17:29.760 --> 1:17:33.479 is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomae Nicay. We are the 1:17:33.520 --> 1:17:35.800 breakfast club. But in the middle of ask ye, hello, 1:17:35.840 --> 1:17:39.880 who's this? Hello, Hey, Hey, good morning. My name is 1:17:39.960 --> 1:17:43.080 NEAs Hey Nee. What's your question for you? Um? My 1:17:43.160 --> 1:17:46.880 question is it's a little volgar um. Last year when 1:17:46.880 --> 1:17:50.080 the coba first started my kids. I caught my kids 1:17:50.560 --> 1:17:53.519 doing a sex act on each other who I asked 1:17:53.520 --> 1:17:55.400 them where they got it from, and they told me 1:17:55.439 --> 1:17:57.080 they got it from there there and I had been 1:17:57.160 --> 1:18:00.840 letting their dad get them for Like the Wow, how 1:18:00.840 --> 1:18:02.760 old are that when I brought it to um at 1:18:02.800 --> 1:18:06.040 that time, they were eight and six. Oh my boy 1:18:06.120 --> 1:18:08.559 and girl. Two boys, two girls. So they're both boys, 1:18:08.600 --> 1:18:13.760 both boys. Boy. Wow. So with that, like, it's beeny 1:18:13.800 --> 1:18:15.880 years since he talked to me or talked to him, 1:18:16.000 --> 1:18:19.519 which I find fine. But today if my oldest son's birthday, 1:18:19.600 --> 1:18:22.440 so he reached out to me yesterday and he's like, UM, 1:18:22.600 --> 1:18:24.479 I feel like you're bitter. You're not letting me see 1:18:24.479 --> 1:18:26.400 my kids. You're not letting me, You're not let me 1:18:26.479 --> 1:18:28.720 do that. I told him why I'm not letting him 1:18:28.720 --> 1:18:30.960 see them, and he's like, oh, I would never do that, 1:18:31.560 --> 1:18:33.960 But I have my own instances because we were together 1:18:34.000 --> 1:18:37.000 for five years. I know he would do that. So, UM, 1:18:37.479 --> 1:18:39.040 I'm just trying to find out if I'm doing the 1:18:39.080 --> 1:18:42.439 right thing by keeping my kids away from him. Can 1:18:42.479 --> 1:18:45.160 I put more question? Can I ask one question? They 1:18:45.160 --> 1:18:46.720 said they learned it from their dad. What do you 1:18:46.760 --> 1:18:49.320 mean they learned it from their dad. Um, My youngest 1:18:49.360 --> 1:18:51.880 son told me, he's like, I'm a daddy told us 1:18:51.920 --> 1:18:55.240 that it's okay to do this to each other together. 1:18:56.120 --> 1:19:01.280 I bring yourself. I went, definitely I did. It was 1:19:01.320 --> 1:19:03.840 a whole scene. It was the whole scene. Like when 1:19:03.840 --> 1:19:06.080 I found out I packed my fee to the car. 1:19:06.439 --> 1:19:09.479 I pulled up to his career barefoot. I'm from Florida, 1:19:09.600 --> 1:19:14.240 Like I pulled up. I was ready to hell. No, 1:19:15.360 --> 1:19:19.160 it was the whole Still when they got there, they 1:19:19.160 --> 1:19:21.960 were like, okay, one, we need you, mam to calm down. 1:19:22.040 --> 1:19:23.840 We understand where you're at, but we need you to 1:19:23.880 --> 1:19:25.719 be calm because we don't want to take you for, 1:19:25.880 --> 1:19:28.599 you know, being hotspot. And they're like, okay. The next day, 1:19:28.640 --> 1:19:30.719 we need your children to come in for an interview 1:19:31.120 --> 1:19:33.479 to uh, to talk and see what's going on. The 1:19:33.600 --> 1:19:36.479 thing about my kids is we're afraid of your dad 1:19:36.520 --> 1:19:41.840 because they watched their dad likely like bloody. So they're 1:19:41.880 --> 1:19:44.479 more or less like, okay, we'll protect Mama and we'll 1:19:44.520 --> 1:19:46.200 just kind of be like okay, it's it's not a 1:19:46.240 --> 1:19:49.240 big deal. It's okay. When we talk about it amongst 1:19:49.240 --> 1:19:51.880 our shoves. UM they're like, yo, Mama, Getty says this, 1:19:52.040 --> 1:19:54.680 and that is you birds at us and Getty do this. 1:19:55.400 --> 1:19:59.360 So you know that already. Now tell me in your gut, 1:19:59.520 --> 1:20:01.880 what is it telling you cannot have your children around 1:20:01.880 --> 1:20:06.440 this man? Yeah, I've been saying no from the gate, nope, grandparents, 1:20:06.479 --> 1:20:12.080 the old grandparents, and like no, no, that's probably nope, nope, nope. 1:20:13.600 --> 1:20:16.160 And not only should he not be around them, you 1:20:16.240 --> 1:20:19.519 have to make sure that you are trying to repair 1:20:20.240 --> 1:20:22.840 the harm that he's done to your kids as well, 1:20:22.880 --> 1:20:24.840 and pay extra close attention to let them know that 1:20:24.880 --> 1:20:27.800 they can talk to you about any and everything year 1:20:28.160 --> 1:20:32.599 and make sure monitoring their their internet. I monitor internet. 1:20:32.640 --> 1:20:36.800 I monitored their songs, I monitor their friends, I monitor everything. 1:20:36.920 --> 1:20:38.759 It is not because I want to do this, because 1:20:38.760 --> 1:20:40.639 I feel like now I hack, you know, and they 1:20:40.680 --> 1:20:43.360 obviously did not understand what they were doing. They were 1:20:43.840 --> 1:20:46.479 and who knows what else happens when their fathers around. 1:20:46.479 --> 1:20:49.639 So I just would never feel comfortable having any child. 1:20:49.680 --> 1:20:51.599 I don't think any children should be around that. Matter 1:20:51.600 --> 1:20:53.960 of fact, you need to go see a judge and 1:20:54.000 --> 1:20:56.280 get a lawyer and just make sure that he can't 1:20:56.280 --> 1:20:59.760 do anything to try to get those kids might too. 1:21:00.200 --> 1:21:02.600 I'm like, yeah, therapy is definitely in our lineup. We 1:21:02.720 --> 1:21:04.920 just moved from Florida because I just felt like we 1:21:05.000 --> 1:21:08.160 needed to move completely. We packed it up and we moved. 1:21:08.160 --> 1:21:09.720 So now in this new place, I'm trying to get 1:21:09.760 --> 1:21:12.400 them shut up with therapy and um where they feel 1:21:12.439 --> 1:21:16.120 more comfortable discussing certain things because, um, most of the 1:21:16.120 --> 1:21:18.519 time I was working while he was with them, so 1:21:18.640 --> 1:21:22.960 they're probably are things that I don't know still and right, 1:21:23.000 --> 1:21:24.840 I feel what I feel like, you are doing all 1:21:24.880 --> 1:21:26.799 the right things that you're supposed to be doing. You shouldn't. 1:21:26.840 --> 1:21:30.160 I feel no guilt. He has no privileges when it 1:21:30.160 --> 1:21:35.880 comes to your children. Thank you, your kids, thank you. 1:21:35.920 --> 1:21:38.840 They're definitely my children, had them natural. They're all just 1:21:38.960 --> 1:21:41.519 this conversation is a little too casual for my liking. 1:21:41.720 --> 1:21:44.160 Got kids doing sex acts on each other, father beating 1:21:44.200 --> 1:21:47.000 on his ex like jeezz christ. I just don't understand 1:21:47.000 --> 1:21:51.040 how we casually discussed trauma like that. Yeah, you around him, 1:21:51.320 --> 1:21:53.920 he did. I walk around with a with a pretty 1:21:53.960 --> 1:21:56.920 bright energy. I have a really good energy only because 1:21:56.960 --> 1:21:59.640 that's not going to make me a narrow baby. I 1:21:59.680 --> 1:22:02.040 do have the scars I'm able to tell other people 1:22:02.040 --> 1:22:04.720 what I've been through, so they can be like, okay, yeah, 1:22:04.880 --> 1:22:06.880 like they know what to look for us because I 1:22:06.920 --> 1:22:10.439 went through five years like pregnant and not pregnant, getting 1:22:10.560 --> 1:22:13.960 like beat drags, all types of stuff. So it's more 1:22:14.040 --> 1:22:17.000 or less like the learning experience for me. And now 1:22:17.040 --> 1:22:18.880 I can teach other people, and now I know what 1:22:19.000 --> 1:22:20.840 to look for for myself as well. I just feel 1:22:20.880 --> 1:22:22.560 like he needs to be in jail. I'm saying you 1:22:22.720 --> 1:22:25.800 so much to leave under the jail, should have been there. 1:22:25.880 --> 1:22:27.920 But every time he gets there, just parents tell them 1:22:27.920 --> 1:22:32.280 out right, Well, listen, let's just make sure judge, lawyer, 1:22:32.640 --> 1:22:34.960 restraining order, everything you got to do to make sure 1:22:35.000 --> 1:22:39.360 he's not around. Cool, I mean, thank y'all. All right, right, Wow, 1:22:39.400 --> 1:22:43.439 her energy is amazing. My goodness, ask ye eight hundred 1:22:43.520 --> 1:22:47.320 five you know what and and this has nothing to 1:22:47.320 --> 1:22:49.200 do it but do it that. But that's why I 1:22:49.320 --> 1:22:52.320 never let my kids sleep at people's houses. But that's 1:22:52.360 --> 1:22:55.040 their dad. You gotta think. Yeah, but I'm saying in 1:22:55.520 --> 1:22:58.479 her head right, originally that's yeah. I guess you're right, 1:22:58.880 --> 1:23:01.240 But that is the rest, not other people. That is 1:23:01.240 --> 1:23:03.439 the reason why I don't let my kids go to 1:23:03.479 --> 1:23:05.840 anybody's house, spend the night at anybody's house. I don't 1:23:05.840 --> 1:23:08.320 really let anybody watch my kids, just for that, and 1:23:08.360 --> 1:23:09.840 it doesn't have to be, you know that, just don't. 1:23:09.840 --> 1:23:12.559 I don't trust anybody around my kids. And that's anxiety. 1:23:12.600 --> 1:23:14.400 But that's just who I am, you know, And just 1:23:14.439 --> 1:23:16.120 I just think about how guys are always like, oh, 1:23:16.160 --> 1:23:17.800 she need to let us see your kids, like, because 1:23:17.840 --> 1:23:19.559 we just had a whole issue about this the other 1:23:19.600 --> 1:23:22.439 day for asking and that situation that man should not 1:23:22.520 --> 1:23:24.920 be around those child He shouldn't be around any children, 1:23:25.200 --> 1:23:27.439 definitely not his own. All right, Well, we got rumors 1:23:27.479 --> 1:23:29.599 on the way, yes, and let's talk about the Shop. 1:23:29.680 --> 1:23:32.519 A new season of The Shop is coming. It's the 1:23:32.640 --> 1:23:34.280 fourth season, and we'll tell you who some of these 1:23:34.360 --> 1:23:36.000 huge guests are going to be for the new season. 1:23:36.040 --> 1:23:37.800 All right, we'll get into it next. It's the Breakfast Club. 1:23:37.800 --> 1:23:45.040 Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This is the rumor Report 1:23:45.479 --> 1:23:55.360 with Angela. Ye. Well, The Shop Uninterrupted is returning on 1:23:55.560 --> 1:23:59.080 HBO and HBO Max tomorrow and some of the new 1:23:59.120 --> 1:24:02.240 people on this sea in joining Lebron and Maverick are 1:24:02.280 --> 1:24:07.080 going to be jay Z, Bad, Bunny w NBA Star, 1:24:09.960 --> 1:24:14.080 that's jay Z that's jay z Okay Nakagwi McKay and 1:24:14.200 --> 1:24:18.040 marketing executive Paul Rivera. So a lot of things being discussed. 1:24:18.040 --> 1:24:20.680 Here's the trailer. I got two teenage boys. Do they 1:24:20.760 --> 1:24:26.960 care that I'm not gonna enter spec where I'm with 1:24:27.000 --> 1:24:29.840 people that I don't align with. I'm a shy person, 1:24:29.960 --> 1:24:33.880 but at the same dying I'm yam. Being confident is 1:24:34.000 --> 1:24:37.280 taking chances and being failing. Did it get to a 1:24:37.280 --> 1:24:39.080 point where it was so zoned out that you didn't 1:24:39.080 --> 1:24:40.439 see anybody In the beginning, I used to get on 1:24:40.479 --> 1:24:45.200 State and just forget all my lyrics. Well, there you go, 1:24:45.520 --> 1:24:49.080 stay tomorrow, yep. I know y'all can't wait. All right now. 1:24:49.160 --> 1:24:52.240 Hillary Clinton, who was talking to two q and non 1:24:52.360 --> 1:24:55.320 believers in Amazon's debunking Barat. She actually sent them a 1:24:55.439 --> 1:24:59.840 video after they discussed some of the rumors and things 1:24:59.840 --> 1:25:02.840 that QAnon spreads about Hillary Clinton. The episode is called 1:25:03.200 --> 1:25:06.360 Hillary Clinton and Blood Libel, and that is referencing the 1:25:06.400 --> 1:25:10.519 anti Semitical lie that Jews drink the blood of Christians children. 1:25:10.960 --> 1:25:14.200 And here is what they had to say. Clinton's are 1:25:14.280 --> 1:25:17.920 very evil. Supposedly they torture these kids, It gets their 1:25:17.960 --> 1:25:22.080 adrenaline flowing in their body. Then they take that out 1:25:22.080 --> 1:25:24.920 of their dream dream of limbs, and then they drink 1:25:24.920 --> 1:25:28.240 their blood or that. I've heard about things like that, 1:25:29.680 --> 1:25:32.000 all right, So it's too. Quan On supported Jim Russell 1:25:32.040 --> 1:25:35.240 and Jerry Holloman, and they believe that Hillary Clinton and 1:25:35.280 --> 1:25:40.320 other politicians are somehow secretly bloodthirsty child torturers. Now, Hillary 1:25:40.320 --> 1:25:44.000 Clinton did send a response, I know that you're not alone. 1:25:44.479 --> 1:25:47.400 It's hurtful. I'll be really honest with you. It's hurtful 1:25:47.520 --> 1:25:50.040 not just to me and my family, but to my 1:25:50.120 --> 1:25:53.640 friends and on other people who know that this is 1:25:54.200 --> 1:25:57.840 not just false but painfully falls. So, just as one 1:25:57.840 --> 1:26:01.439 American to another, I hope that we can start trying 1:26:01.439 --> 1:26:05.400 to find some common ground again and overcome all those 1:26:05.439 --> 1:26:08.280 forces trying to divide us and put us into little 1:26:08.320 --> 1:26:11.559 boxes apart from each other. I think it's a compliment 1:26:11.560 --> 1:26:13.960 when people make up wild conspiracy theories about you in 1:26:14.000 --> 1:26:16.720 that way that means you have achieved something so unbelievable 1:26:16.800 --> 1:26:19.160 to them, something that they think is not humanly possible. 1:26:19.320 --> 1:26:20.960 So you either have to sell your soul or drink 1:26:21.000 --> 1:26:23.519 the blood of children. It's movies to get it well, 1:26:23.560 --> 1:26:25.560 I think she said it was hurtful though it is, 1:26:25.920 --> 1:26:28.280 and of course they did brush off her message and 1:26:28.320 --> 1:26:30.320 double down on the fact that they also just cannot 1:26:30.360 --> 1:26:32.200 stand here. But there is another way to look at 1:26:32.240 --> 1:26:33.720 it. It It is a compliment when people got to make 1:26:33.800 --> 1:26:37.040 up that those type of wild theories just to you know, 1:26:37.240 --> 1:26:40.120 make themselves believe. Why why you're in the position you're in. Yeah, 1:26:40.120 --> 1:26:43.760 because you're in an illuminati? Right, yes, very much so? 1:26:44.280 --> 1:26:46.720 All right now, Giherbo has entered a not guilty plea 1:26:46.800 --> 1:26:48.680 in the Wire for Our case. He was charged with 1:26:48.720 --> 1:26:51.559 a lying to a federal agent about his relationship with 1:26:51.600 --> 1:26:53.840 one of his alleged co conspirators in a federal for 1:26:53.920 --> 1:26:56.320 Our case and he is pleading not guilty. On the 1:26:56.320 --> 1:26:58.720 flip side. And some great news he and Talana have 1:26:58.800 --> 1:27:03.920 had their baby. Nice congrats today. Congrats, So congratulations to 1:27:04.040 --> 1:27:07.280 Herbal and Taliana. They had that little baby. All right now. 1:27:07.280 --> 1:27:10.559 Paul Parris has some things to say at ESPN. He 1:27:10.600 --> 1:27:13.800 wrote on Twitter to them yesterday at ESPN, I don't 1:27:13.840 --> 1:27:16.680 need you. I got at ethereum Max. I made more 1:27:16.720 --> 1:27:18.880 money with crypto in this past month than I did 1:27:18.880 --> 1:27:21.160 with you all in a year. Truthshell set you free 1:27:22.120 --> 1:27:25.599 my own boss, so I guess he's happy to not 1:27:25.680 --> 1:27:31.840 be there anymore. Now let's discuss this is stupid. You 1:27:31.920 --> 1:27:35.240 look at your full please. This is stupid since you 1:27:35.360 --> 1:27:38.600 just talked about the g Herbal this is the intern internutshell, 1:27:39.520 --> 1:27:44.160 this is stupid. What happened dj nvca congrats to g 1:27:44.400 --> 1:27:48.240 Herbal in Tiana, and it says and people not fans, 1:27:48.240 --> 1:27:50.799 trying to get at DJ envy for simply saying congrats 1:27:50.800 --> 1:27:53.000 to g Herbal and his new baby boy. Is there 1:27:53.040 --> 1:27:56.959 a certain way you're supposed to congratulate someone? DJA put congrats? 1:27:56.960 --> 1:27:59.000 Somebody put what's up with all those dots? I said, 1:27:59.000 --> 1:28:02.479 cots that that's what. They don't call you envy for nothing. 1:28:02.800 --> 1:28:05.479 You know what somebody said. Somebody did clarify. This is 1:28:05.479 --> 1:28:07.360 how my daddy typed too. That's just how some older 1:28:07.400 --> 1:28:11.000 people being on Instagram. But what's the problem he said? Congrats? 1:28:12.120 --> 1:28:13.920 And why would you be jose him having a baby. 1:28:13.960 --> 1:28:19.559 You got ten of him. I got Jesus like Herbo 1:28:19.680 --> 1:28:23.000 and Shelter. You know Tiana, that's family's daughter. So I said, 1:28:24.040 --> 1:28:27.320 said congrats. That sounded like some The crazy thing is 1:28:27.479 --> 1:28:30.679 who posted that what blogs I posted. Oh my goodness, 1:28:30.720 --> 1:28:32.960 why did you put the dots? I put dots on everything. 1:28:33.080 --> 1:28:36.639 Why that's just shut up, man, it's just died. It's 1:28:37.920 --> 1:28:39.479 that's what I do. When I say something, I says, 1:28:40.080 --> 1:28:41.799 I'm not gonna lie. And then the picture they posted 1:28:41.800 --> 1:28:45.160 of you with it, you do look jealous? Yeah, I 1:28:45.240 --> 1:28:57.479 can't sunglasses jersey on. You know what, hater? How did 1:28:57.520 --> 1:28:59.400 I do? Think about it? This is the way I excess. 1:28:59.439 --> 1:29:06.360 Congrats yea an extra nothing look like a hater, but 1:29:06.360 --> 1:29:13.320 it liked. I love to see brothers when it in 1:29:13.520 --> 1:29:16.840 having fruit food for I do everything. If you look, 1:29:16.840 --> 1:29:19.120 if you read all my posts, I always use a take. 1:29:19.560 --> 1:29:21.400 I'm gonna tell you why I use that right now. 1:29:21.439 --> 1:29:23.640 They said that that's what old people do one right, 1:29:23.720 --> 1:29:25.240 I use that because I don't know how you trunk 1:29:25.760 --> 1:29:29.519 about to say pronunciation? What's the thing called what's common 1:29:29.600 --> 1:29:34.000 and stuff called? Oh my gosh, guys, I can't punctuation punctuation, right, 1:29:34.040 --> 1:29:36.559 I don't know how do you function? So I do 1:29:36.640 --> 1:29:41.080 it all right? Well, and you got the mixed coming 1:29:41.160 --> 1:29:44.160 up dot dot dotor. I'm a New York time. Okay, 1:29:44.160 --> 1:29:47.280 that's what edit is for. Yeah, I can tell a story, 1:29:47.280 --> 1:29:51.280 I just can't pronounce it. No, what's the word pronunciated? 1:29:51.320 --> 1:29:55.000 Oh my goodness, pronunciate stopping all right, shout out to revolt. 1:29:55.240 --> 1:30:02.599 I'm a doctor's okay, all right, you expect me as such. 1:30:02.920 --> 1:30:05.000 Revote with seeing them everybody else, Let's get to the mix. 1:30:05.040 --> 1:30:08.040 Happy birthday, jadakiss dot dot dot day so I'm gonna 1:30:08.040 --> 1:30:10.320 play some joints and also Andre three thousand dot dot 1:30:10.320 --> 1:30:14.040 dot doppy birthday dot dot dots two are the greatest 1:30:14.080 --> 1:30:16.400 to ever do it. Let's go dot dot dot so 1:30:16.560 --> 1:30:21.040 Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. Hey, 1:30:21.040 --> 1:30:24.320 it's Angela Yee. By using brands like Dove and Helmets, 1:30:24.360 --> 1:30:27.559 you're supporting Unilever and the everyday good they do, like 1:30:27.720 --> 1:30:30.719 donating more than twenty five million dollars worth of everyday 1:30:30.720 --> 1:30:33.960 products and services to groups like Feeding America this year. 1:30:34.320 --> 1:30:37.599 Visit Unilever does Good dot com to support communities impacted 1:30:37.600 --> 1:30:41.960 by the pandemic. Morning. Everybody is cej Envy, Angela Yee, 1:30:42.040 --> 1:30:45.240 Charlomagne the guy, we are the Breakfast Club. Yesterday, I 1:30:45.320 --> 1:30:48.280 almost uh almost got into an altercation with Queens Flip, 1:30:48.479 --> 1:30:51.200 and you know Queens Flippy does all these, um, I 1:30:51.240 --> 1:30:53.479 guess what do you call them? These little skits jobs 1:30:53.479 --> 1:30:56.320 to do? And he hopped my fence yesterday and it 1:30:56.400 --> 1:31:00.240 almost got nasty. And thank god that the door wasn't 1:31:00.280 --> 1:31:02.040 outside and I didn't sick the dog. And I've seen 1:31:02.040 --> 1:31:04.200 it with him, because if I didn't see it with him, 1:31:04.560 --> 1:31:08.599 I would probably be Yes, nobody believes this. It was no, 1:31:08.800 --> 1:31:12.280 it's true story. Shut, I know a true story. Ya. No, 1:31:12.320 --> 1:31:18.360 we did the skid after talking from true story, yapped 1:31:18.360 --> 1:31:19.800 over the fence and why does he know where you 1:31:19.840 --> 1:31:24.920 live at? Um? He he just pulled up to your house. Yes, 1:31:25.080 --> 1:31:27.760 y'all cool like that man Queens is cool. Yeah, but 1:31:27.800 --> 1:31:29.600 he hopped the fence and I seen him hop the 1:31:29.680 --> 1:31:32.880 fence and I've seen this, this big fat black dude 1:31:32.920 --> 1:31:35.519 running down my driveway. I'm like what And I've seen 1:31:35.560 --> 1:31:37.840 it with him, and you know I did send the 1:31:37.840 --> 1:31:40.800 dog at him. Well yeah, but he had to jump 1:31:40.800 --> 1:31:42.679 in the pool squashed it out. Yeah, we were talking 1:31:42.680 --> 1:31:46.640 about you guys. Squashed it Yeah because you because he 1:31:46.640 --> 1:31:48.680 does skits and he thinks it's funny, but sometimes it's 1:31:48.720 --> 1:31:51.200 not funny, right, and you know it could have got nasty, 1:31:51.280 --> 1:31:55.519 but you know dot dot, shout the queen's flip. He 1:31:55.680 --> 1:32:00.679 better be from queens. If his name is Queen's flip, Yeah, 1:32:01.720 --> 1:32:04.000 he should be a queen, and shout to Hollywood. And 1:32:04.000 --> 1:32:05.960 the reason we keep saying dot dot dot is because 1:32:06.760 --> 1:32:09.479 g Herbo had his baby and I hit him on 1:32:09.479 --> 1:32:13.760 on Instagram dot dot dot, and people was like, why 1:32:13.920 --> 1:32:16.280 MV being so this? I'm like, what's wrong with the dots? 1:32:16.640 --> 1:32:19.240 Just do an exclamation mark next time, bro, That's all 1:32:19.280 --> 1:32:21.479 I want to do. What I want to do. Everybody, 1:32:22.880 --> 1:32:25.200 everybody going at his comments and put dot dot dot 1:32:25.520 --> 1:32:27.559 were because it could have been it because it looked 1:32:27.600 --> 1:32:31.080 like it's like, congratulations, this could have been us. But yeah, 1:32:31.160 --> 1:32:33.559 that's what it seems like with all the dot dot dot, 1:32:33.640 --> 1:32:37.120 But it was that congrat Do you look like back? 1:32:40.040 --> 1:32:41.800 You look like a bit of X who hasn't moved on? 1:32:42.240 --> 1:32:44.960 And that person you hit it and that person then 1:32:45.000 --> 1:32:47.160 got a girl had a baby, and you're still lonely, 1:32:47.320 --> 1:32:50.640 you know, because that dot that dot doesn't senuate like 1:32:51.720 --> 1:33:00.200 English language literally, and some means like to be what 1:33:00.240 --> 1:33:02.680 do you know about English drama? Dot dot dot the 1:33:03.240 --> 1:33:06.679 first second, third grade, that's what you're a liar? Dot 1:33:06.720 --> 1:33:10.000 dot dot dot. Yes, that's Puerto Rican language. Don't call 1:33:10.080 --> 1:33:13.960 talking to us about what you do to be continued 1:33:14.000 --> 1:33:16.439 like there's something more. That's exactly what it means to 1:33:16.560 --> 1:33:20.040 be continued, well as stated by the English language, but 1:33:20.120 --> 1:33:24.679 that relationship is to be continued. Congratulations if he continued, 1:33:24.880 --> 1:33:26.880 that's what that's okay. It's a birth of a child. 1:33:27.200 --> 1:33:30.280 I mean, you know what it felt like. Congrats dot 1:33:30.320 --> 1:33:34.040 dot dot, but you don't have six and then the 1:33:34.120 --> 1:33:36.679 congrats can go if you leave the dot dot dots 1:33:36.680 --> 1:33:38.599 and that means you don't have to say congrats ever again, 1:33:38.680 --> 1:33:40.360 meaning like when they go to first grade for the 1:33:40.360 --> 1:33:43.800 first time, when they turned sixteen, when they turned twenty one. Listen, 1:33:43.840 --> 1:33:45.400 they want to listen to you. I'm listening to the doctor. 1:33:45.400 --> 1:33:49.080 The doctor said I could use him. Sure him. He 1:33:49.160 --> 1:33:51.519 doing the doctor who came and pronounce the word homicide properly. 1:33:51.560 --> 1:33:54.320 Listen to him. What did you call me? What did 1:33:54.320 --> 1:33:57.960 you call me? You're freaking home a fold. I knew 1:33:58.000 --> 1:34:02.400 it when we come back. Positive notice to Breakfast club. 1:34:02.400 --> 1:34:07.639 Good morning. Now, tonight's a big night. It's the iHeart 1:34:07.680 --> 1:34:10.879 Radio Music Awards that comes on tonight at a pm Eastern. 1:34:10.920 --> 1:34:13.960 You can watch that on demand, Fox Now and Hulu, 1:34:14.000 --> 1:34:17.839 and of course on iHeart radio stations across America. Usher 1:34:18.000 --> 1:34:20.240 is gonna have his incredible club USh I'm sure he's 1:34:20.240 --> 1:34:22.880 gonna be throwing Usher Bucks all over the place. It's 1:34:22.880 --> 1:34:24.800 a nightclub that's built into the side of the stage. 1:34:24.800 --> 1:34:28.000 He's gonna host the whole thing, and he's gonna also 1:34:28.120 --> 1:34:30.880 be there performing with other artists. Now, if you ever 1:34:31.000 --> 1:34:33.639 dreamed of walking into a lounge and finding Bruno Mars 1:34:33.680 --> 1:34:36.960 and Anderson Pack ticking over the piano and serenading you 1:34:37.000 --> 1:34:40.280 at the bar, now you can experience that with Silk Sonic, 1:34:40.280 --> 1:34:42.920 and they're gonna do my song leave the Door Open. 1:34:43.200 --> 1:34:45.439 That was like my vacation song just now In Turks 1:34:45.439 --> 1:34:49.080 and Caicos. Usher also has an incredible medley of Yeah, Confessions, 1:34:49.160 --> 1:34:52.320 Love in This Club, Scream and more Planned and Little 1:34:52.360 --> 1:34:54.360 John's gonna pull up in a nineteen seventy two and 1:34:54.439 --> 1:34:58.040 Paula to join Usher on stage for their performance of Yeah. 1:34:58.320 --> 1:35:00.639 Little John and Usher are also gonna make it rain 1:35:00.760 --> 1:35:02.960 and better not be Usher Bucks while they break it 1:35:03.000 --> 1:35:05.240 down on stage and head to toe, White and Gold 1:35:05.280 --> 1:35:08.200 and the biggest breakout artists of the year that's Dozia Cat. 1:35:08.479 --> 1:35:11.880 She's put together a stunning visual performance of her biggest hits, 1:35:12.120 --> 1:35:14.360 and Dan and Shade will be reuniting with their full 1:35:14.360 --> 1:35:17.240 band for the first time to perform Glad You Exist. 1:35:17.320 --> 1:35:20.599 So everybody's gonna be at the show making the Stallion Teller, 1:35:20.720 --> 1:35:23.559 Swift Friday, rich L L Cool, Jay Machine Gun, Kelly 1:35:23.560 --> 1:35:27.439 French Montana to a Lepa twenty one pilots. We told 1:35:27.479 --> 1:35:30.640 you Little John, Robin Thick Rapha Yo Sadik you know 1:35:30.720 --> 1:35:33.240 from Tony Tony, Tony, and a whole lot more. So 1:35:33.280 --> 1:35:35.799 make sure y'all check that out tonight at APM dot 1:35:35.880 --> 1:35:40.479 dot Damn my heart. No surprises, like Jesus Christ, give 1:35:40.560 --> 1:35:43.479 us the whole detail to rundown, Like, man, you want 1:35:43.479 --> 1:35:45.479 to watch now? I mean I will. I'm watching them, 1:35:45.479 --> 1:35:47.200 definitely watching them. I'm just like, give it. Leave us 1:35:47.200 --> 1:35:50.200 some surprises. It sounds amazing though, especially that little John thing. 1:35:50.200 --> 1:35:51.800 I want to see what that what that's about? But 1:35:51.840 --> 1:35:53.679 that would have been a good surprise, right see little 1:35:53.720 --> 1:35:56.360 John pull up in the old school. Well we spoiled 1:35:56.360 --> 1:36:00.519 it all right, Well leave us on a positive note. Listen, 1:36:00.600 --> 1:36:04.720 people of poor character tend to blame their choices on circumstances. 1:36:04.760 --> 1:36:08.720 Ethical people make good choices regardless of circumstances. If they 1:36:08.760 --> 1:36:11.880 make enough good choices, they begin to create better conditions 1:36:11.880 --> 1:36:15.840 for themselves. Breakfast Club begins, y'all finish with y'all dumb