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Speaker 1: if it's a gun involved, they'll do whatever it takes

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Speaker 1: know all this because right because he's that's right, was

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Speaker 1: part of an auto theft ring. He knows. He's like,

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Speaker 1: he's like, I got a track on the car. He's like, sir,

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Speaker 1: where are you at right now? He was like, it's

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Speaker 1: been an hour with gas station? Is that I know?

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Speaker 1: He was like, but he was still he kept his composure. Yes, ma'am.

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Speaker 1: Thank you man. He was very polite and he's a

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Speaker 1: nice guy. But it's just funny how she was like,

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Speaker 1: that's not a carjacking. S. What's the official the stolen car? Okaka? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: All right, well that is your room of reports. Oh

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Speaker 1: my goodness. All right, front page news. We'll be talking about. Yes,

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Speaker 1: remember we were telling you about getting this vaccine and

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Speaker 1: how you could come up on some cash. Yes, well

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Speaker 1: we'll tell you about some of these winners already. All right,

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Speaker 1: we'll get into it next. It's the Breakfast Club. God morning,

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Speaker 1: So Breakfast Club, your morning's will never be the same. Hey,

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Speaker 1: it's Angela Yee. By using brands like Dove and Helmets,

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Speaker 1: donating more than twenty five million dollars worth of everyday

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Speaker 1: Visit Unilever does Good dot com to support communities impacted

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Speaker 1: by the pandemic. I got what you need morning. Everybody

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Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are

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Speaker 1: to Breakfast Club. Let's getting some front page news, all right.

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Speaker 1: Last thing, NBA playoffs to seventy six is beat the

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Speaker 1: Wizards one twenty ninety five. The Jazz beat the Grizzlies

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Speaker 1: one one twenty nine, and the next they beat the

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Speaker 1: Hawks one on one nine, dropping a clue vaunce to

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Speaker 1: the New York next down, I'm rooting for the next

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Speaker 1: this year, I liked the Knicks. I like the way

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Speaker 1: they played tough team. What else she got? Ye? All right? Well,

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Speaker 1: remember we've been telling you about all these incentives to

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Speaker 1: get vaccinated. In Ohio, they have a five million dollars

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Speaker 1: COVID nineteen vaccine sweepstakes. Well that money is starting to follow.

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Speaker 1: Abigail Bougenski won a million dollars after getting vaccinated, and

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Speaker 1: Joseph Costello got a college scholarship. According to the VACS

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Speaker 1: A Million Programs website, how much do you got? One

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Speaker 1: person got a million dollars, Another person got scholars college scholarship.

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Speaker 1: I know it was given on college scholarships to Joseph Costello.

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Speaker 1: He's only fourteen years old. He won free tuish and

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Speaker 1: at any state university you got a full ride college scholarship.

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Speaker 1: So if you're between twelve and seventeen, and you had

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Speaker 1: at least one dose of the vaccine. You could be next.

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Speaker 1: And that's only where that's in Ohio. Damn. I would

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Speaker 1: like to know how many people signed up for that

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Speaker 1: lottery in Ohio because of that, because of the vacs. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because of the prize they were given away. I going

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Speaker 1: to know how many people like actually signed up. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And it's great. If you were planning to do it anyway,

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Speaker 1: I might as well, you know, enter, Well, I guess

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Speaker 1: you're entered to win. So all right, Now, here's another

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Speaker 1: historic thing that just happened. Kristin Clark is the new

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Speaker 1: leader of the Department of Justice's Civil Rights Division. According

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Speaker 1: to the Black Information Network, Clark was confirmed by the

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Speaker 1: United States Senate with a fifty one forty eight vote

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Speaker 1: on Tuesday. Senator Susan Collins was the only Republican to

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Speaker 1: express support for the attorney And with this confirmation, it

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Speaker 1: is history. Kristin Clark is the first black woman to

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Speaker 1: lead the Civil Rights Division since it was formed in

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Speaker 1: nineteen fifty seven. They try to say that she was

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Speaker 1: a radical and a leftist, but despite all of that,

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Speaker 1: you know, she is not that radical. She said she

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Speaker 1: does not support defunding the police. She said, I do

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Speaker 1: support finding strategies to ensure that law enforcement can carry

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Speaker 1: out their jobs more safely and effectively, and channeling resources

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Speaker 1: to emotional health treatment and others severely underresourced areas. And

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Speaker 1: In other historic news, climate activists have defeated x in

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Speaker 1: their push for clean energy. It was a stunning defeat

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Speaker 1: yesterday when shareholder is of Xon Mobile elected at least

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Speaker 1: two board candidates that were nominated by activists investors who

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Speaker 1: pledged to steer the company toward cleaner energy and away

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Speaker 1: from oil and gas. This is a big deal as

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Speaker 1: we are trying to address climate change. So if y'all

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Speaker 1: know what that means. With Xon Mobile being the biggest

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Speaker 1: oil company and the oil leader until recently, they've been

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Speaker 1: really slow to invest in this, but they've had some

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Speaker 1: poor returns recently. So now the loss of at lose

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Speaker 1: two seats on the board will energize activists to pressure

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Speaker 1: Xon and other oil companies and businesses who they believe

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Speaker 1: are not doing enough to address climate change. So that's

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Speaker 1: a really big deal, all right, Anne, Of course, you know,

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Speaker 1: I know this is really sad news, but this is

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Speaker 1: a big story for this morning, there were nine victims

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Speaker 1: of a mass shooting in San Jose yesterday. They have

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Speaker 1: been identified as investigators are trying to figure out why

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Speaker 1: this happened. They will also be honored tonight at an

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Speaker 1: event at the San Jose City Hall Plaza. The victims

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Speaker 1: all were at the Valley Transportation Authority. They operate the

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Speaker 1: Bustin light rail services in the Santa Clara Valley. They

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Speaker 1: employed about two thousand workers. The gunman has been identified

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Speaker 1: as Sam Cassidy. According to law enforcement sources, they did

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Speaker 1: all know each other because they all were co workers,

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Speaker 1: and they said one thing that has become clear is

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Speaker 1: that they knew the shooter. Well. So the shooting actually

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Speaker 1: happened yesterday as employees from the midnight shift and the

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Speaker 1: day shift overlapped. The yard is where the VTA vehicles

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Speaker 1: are maintained and dispatched, so that's where all of this happened,

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Speaker 1: and multiple law enforcement agencies and fire department personnel did respond.

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Speaker 1: They said, once law enforcement was there, that is when

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Speaker 1: Sam Cassidy took his own life, and they were there

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Speaker 1: very quickly because the Sheriff's office is next door. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: nine people were already killed by that time. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: just don't understand why mass shootings are just a side

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Speaker 1: edition the news. Like I know that there's a lot

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Speaker 1: going on, but mass shooting should always be the main

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Speaker 1: course in the media. We should ever getting numbed to

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Speaker 1: this because it's so much involved, mental health, gun laws,

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Speaker 1: so many things to discussed when these things happen, and

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Speaker 1: there's been a lot of them this year. Am I

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Speaker 1: tripping A definitely have been one every two days, I

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Speaker 1: think they said, yikes, yeah, So again, we want to

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Speaker 1: give our condolences to the families and to the friends

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Speaker 1: of the victims who were killed. Very sad sad day yesterday,

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Speaker 1: and his ex girlfriend and his ex wife have spoken

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Speaker 1: out to talk about the issues that he had. He

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Speaker 1: had a strained relationship with an ex girlfriend who did

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Speaker 1: not want to be identified. They did meet onmatch dot

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Speaker 1: com and she said they dated for approximately one year.

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Speaker 1: She said he would have mood swings that were exacerbated

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Speaker 1: when he consumed large quantities of alcohol. She also alleged

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Speaker 1: that he had bipolar disorder and that he enjoyed playing

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Speaker 1: mind games with her and several times during their relationship

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Speaker 1: he got intoxicated and raged and forced himself on her sexually.

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Speaker 1: His ex wife, Cecilia Nelms said that he resented his work.

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Speaker 1: They were together for about ten years, and she said,

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Speaker 1: and the two of them were married, he thought he

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Speaker 1: had unfair work assignments and he would have rant about

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Speaker 1: his job when he got home. She also had not

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Speaker 1: been in touch with him for about thirteen years after

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Speaker 1: filing for a divorce. T treat mass shootings and police

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Speaker 1: violence the same way y'all treated COVID. Make it the

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Speaker 1: headline everywhere, no opening acts. All right, well that is

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Speaker 1: your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye.

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Speaker 1: Now when we come back, Jay Barnett will be joining us.

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Speaker 1: Who's Jay Barnett? My man? Jay Barnett is an author, speaker,

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Speaker 1: mental health therapist, life coach. Uh you know he's all

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Speaker 1: about empowering and inspiring young black man. Really good brother,

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll get into that nextus. The Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Man. We got one of

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Speaker 1: my favorite people in the room right now. Man, this

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Speaker 1: brother is so necessary and regarded to anybody who any

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Speaker 1: man in particular who's trying to state mentally and emotionally healthy.

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Speaker 1: My man, King Jay Barnett is head How are you, man,

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Speaker 1: good man? Did you see you in New York. You'd

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Speaker 1: like the city, man. I love city. I visit several times.

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Speaker 1: I got my nieces with me. Boy, I ran them

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Speaker 1: around yesterday. Okay. They was like, man, New York is

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Speaker 1: a different beast, but no, I love I love the

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Speaker 1: city man. So it's it's been good. And now it's

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Speaker 1: good to see you in person too, because last time

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Speaker 1: we saw you, um you was on the Zoom with

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Speaker 1: Queen Taragi and Queen Queen Tracy. That's what I got

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Speaker 1: put onto. Yeah. Yeah, so I know that y'all have

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Speaker 1: something going on now, is he you know? Okay Taragi

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Speaker 1: has the unspoken curriculum shoes, what is that about? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So the unspoken curriculum is where we're going to be

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Speaker 1: talking about the experience that black students are having in classroom.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's many implicit bias that these students go

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Speaker 1: through from their experience and a lot of time black

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Speaker 1: students are treated differently based on behavior, based on different

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Speaker 1: learning differences that they're having. But a lot of times,

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Speaker 1: you know, our students are criminalized, and so I think

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Speaker 1: rather than being criminalized, these students more have more so

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Speaker 1: have clinical issues. So when you have a student that

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Speaker 1: maybe have a behavior issue, and black boys are more

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Speaker 1: likely to be suspended than white boys, and then now

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Speaker 1: black girls are more likely to be suspended as well.

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Speaker 1: And so the unspoken curriculum is also going to provide

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Speaker 1: a space for these boys to come in and to

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Speaker 1: talk about these different things. And so I'm going to

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Speaker 1: be spearheading along with doctor Yeshiva and brother Alfonzo, who

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Speaker 1: is a black male therapist as well, and so we'll

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Speaker 1: be providing space for the six weeks and kind of

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Speaker 1: talk about how to manage these spaces because when these

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Speaker 1: black boys going these classroom man or just black students,

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Speaker 1: their experienced man, it really does affect their confidence. So

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Speaker 1: if my issue is that I'm really suffering mentally because

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Speaker 1: of what's going on at home, and school is just

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Speaker 1: a place where I act out at and if I

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Speaker 1: get suspended, so I'm now feeling like, well, school is

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Speaker 1: not the place where it's going to advocate for me.

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Speaker 1: And when you look at these black students, very few

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Speaker 1: white teachers are taken out the time to provide resources

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Speaker 1: and to vibe the level of care that they need.

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Speaker 1: I agree with that, that's dope. I'm glad you guys

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Speaker 1: are doing that because I always say this. When I

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Speaker 1: was in college, I thought I was going to be

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Speaker 1: a teacher. So I did this teaching program for six

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Speaker 1: and seventh graders, and I was in a neighborhood that

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Speaker 1: was mostly Dominican. It was one black student in the class, right,

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Speaker 1: and he was Haitian, and so you know, they used

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Speaker 1: to make fun of him all the time, and he

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Speaker 1: had a lot of things going on at home, and

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Speaker 1: sometimes teachers don't take the time to find out, like

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Speaker 1: he would be hungry in school because he didn't have

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Speaker 1: enough food at home to eat, because he had a

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Speaker 1: lot of brothers and sisters. He wore like the same

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Speaker 1: clothes all the time, and all those things take a

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Speaker 1: toll on you. And then you come to school and

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Speaker 1: the other kids are making fun of you, and then

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Speaker 1: the teacher is seeing you acting out, but not even

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Speaker 1: taking the time to understand, like what's going on at

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Speaker 1: home and what are these real issues? And what about

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Speaker 1: these students that are really giving you a hard time

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Speaker 1: in class? And who do they talk to if they

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Speaker 1: have those problems? Yeah? Absolutely, because I mean when I

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Speaker 1: started working in the schools as far as counseling and

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Speaker 1: even my internship, a lot of the times when I

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Speaker 1: will go to these white teachers and ask him, you know,

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Speaker 1: have you really set and talk with this student. They didn't.

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Speaker 1: They automatically looked at the student and they saw the issue,

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Speaker 1: you know is that well he's well, he's disturbing the class.

634
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: And really the kid hadn't eaten, you know, the kid

635
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: was homeless. And there were so many kids that their

636
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 1: home and family dynamic which is different, and school was

637
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: just the way that they either felt safe or in

638
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: many cases, these kids like man, you come to school

639
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: and basically you just let everything out because let's let's

640
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: take for an example, if you're get an abuse at home,

641
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: and usually the abuser becomes who's been abused become the abuser,

642
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Speaker 1: so which is where you have a lot of this

643
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:44,959
Speaker 1: bullying that has taken place. So the kid that has

644
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 1: been bullied become the bully. But then again, he's acting

645
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: out and basically he's lashing out on what he's experiencing.

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Speaker 1: And so if you don't sit down and talk to

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Speaker 1: a kid, and then too, if you don't have a

648
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: representation as a black male or counselor or a black

649
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: old teacher, and especially in the space of education, where

650
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: just not many black individuals. It's for as males to

651
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: represent an advocate for these young black boys. Yeah. Man,

652
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: that's why cultural competency is so important. Ranks cultural competency, man,

653
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: it's so important. And so I think for me, right

654
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Speaker 1: when I was in grad school, I was I was

655
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: the only black male student that was in my marriage

656
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: and family therapy program. So I was one out of

657
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Speaker 1: seventy six. And I remember my experience and talking about

658
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: different things when we have our clinicals and our practicums,

659
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: and all of these white students were trying to figure

660
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 1: out how to work with black kids and to work

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00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 1: with hispanics. And one of the things I said to them,

662
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: I said, what level of understanding do you have of

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00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: the culture, of their family dynamics, of their backgrounds, even

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00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: a certain collocualism that we have in our language. And

665
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: none of them had any understanding. They only had text

666
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: book and so this is where they were felling. And

667
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: they was disconnected because you can use all the theories

668
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 1: that you want, but if you cannot connect to a

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Speaker 1: kid here, or connect to his culture or connect to

670
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: his family dynamic, you're not going to understand how to

671
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 1: even connect with them. Even in your methods and your theories.

672
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 1: So cultural competency is key that if you're going to

673
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: advocate for black students, you need to understand Black culture.

674
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 1: And if you're going to advocate for Brown hispanics, you

675
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,399
Speaker 1: need to understand their culture. You need to understand who

676
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 1: is the patriarch, who is the matriarch, and just even

677
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 1: those simple things. Understanding that if you're working with black families,

678
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:42,800
Speaker 1: nine times out of ten, you're going to be speaking

679
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: with the mom and that won't be a male presence there,

680
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: and that dynamic is going to impact how you interact

681
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: and it's also going to impact how your methods, how

682
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: effective are your methods, and so cultural competence is critical. Yeah,

683
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: you know, even when you talk about anxiety, because you've

684
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: never heard you say, you know, somebody asked you to

685
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: break down anxiety and you said, anxiety is being here

686
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 1: but wanting to be there. Man, when you say that,

687
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: I understand exactly what you're talking about, because I think

688
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 1: it's levels to anxiety, right, Like my anxiety as a

689
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: black man's totally different than the anxiety I know that

690
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: a white woman experiences, but it's found on that a

691
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 1: little bit. So you know, anxiety is really rooted in

692
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: the fear of the unknown, right, and it's the fear

693
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 1: of the what if. It's the fear of what can.

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00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 1: It's the fear of uncertainty, and it's the fear of

695
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: a possibility where you have no evidence. And so it's

696
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 1: the fear of what if they don't like me and

697
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: you haven't even walked in their room. So it's the

698
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: fear of what if I'm rejected? Well, you haven't given

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00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: yourself an opportunity to be accepted. So it's and that

700
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: anxiety roots up a lot of just you know, our

701
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 1: family system, because many of us have already been rejected

702
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: by our families. We've been abandoned by you know, our

703
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 1: loved ones, and we've been ostracized for our thoughts, for

704
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: our belief system. And so I would even go out

705
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: on a limb man that said, every black person deals

706
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 1: with a level of anxiety, whether it's racial or through

707
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:17,280
Speaker 1: a social experience. I think from a family perspective, even

708
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,800
Speaker 1: when you decide to step out of your family dynamic

709
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: and said I'm going to become something that no one

710
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 1: has never seen. That's great anxiety that comes from that

711
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: because now you gotta hear well, who do you think

712
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: you are? That creates a level of anxiety altogether. Right, So,

713
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Speaker 1: I think the anxiety of being here, wanting to be

714
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 1: there is always is having to rastle with the outcome

715
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 1: that you created in your head that haven't really taken place,

716
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 1: but in your mind you made it real. And so

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00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 1: I think when we have spaces to kind of talk

718
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: about rational and irrational anxiety and be able to expound

719
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 1: on those differences in the variation, it allows us to

720
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: be to grow and understand that it's real. However, I

721
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: don't have to allow it to really hold truth in

722
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: my life. All Right, we got more with Jay Barnette.

723
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: When we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning,

724
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 1: Good morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy.

725
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We have author, motivational speaker

726
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: Jay Barnett. Ye, what made you get into therapy and coaching? So? Man,

727
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: oh god. So when when I left football, I battled

728
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 1: with depression, like since I was thirteen when my parents divorced,

729
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,399
Speaker 1: and you know, and and and people say, well, how

730
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 1: did it? It's shape, y'all, I said, because you know,

731
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: my parents were pastors and so for me, it was

732
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: just this heartbreak, like, you know, I can't believe my

733
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 1: parents are divorcing, right, you know, they're church leaders, and

734
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 1: I think at that time, I didn't really have anybody

735
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:51,280
Speaker 1: reaching out to ask me how was out doing because

736
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 1: I automatically begin to fill this gap where I had

737
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: to be a big brother and I had to be

738
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 1: there for my mom. As most black boys, you're stepping

739
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: in in a daddy role where you're still a boy,

740
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 1: and so that pressure I carried it and football became

741
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 1: a safe space for me. So when football was over,

742
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: I didn't have a safe space or perceive safe space.

743
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 1: And then too it was how I cope. So you know,

744
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: for those that follow my story, I talk about suicide

745
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 1: like I'm a two time suicide, a survivor attempts. And

746
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: so when I started going to therapy after my second attempt,

747
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: and the therapy started to really address the issue behind

748
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 1: a depression, because I feel like depression is a symptom

749
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 1: to a greater root issue, and the root issue was

750
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 1: really stemming from abandonment, and the depression was brought on

751
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:50,240
Speaker 1: trying to be accepted because for most black boys in sports,

752
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 1: coaches of fathers, so when football was over, I'm looking

753
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 1: for another father. I'm looking for some more validation. And

754
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 1: this is why it's hard for guys to try transition

755
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: out of sports, because they identify themselves through what they do.

756
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 1: And what I had to learn was it was what

757
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,359
Speaker 1: I did, but it wasn't who I was. But that

758
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 1: takes a deeper level of healing then really addressing fatherhood

759
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 1: issues and dadhood issues and understanding that the validation that

760
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 1: most men, all of us. Let's be real, I don't

761
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 1: care what level of success, it's just something about having

762
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: a dad there, because I feel like a mother determines

763
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 1: what a child remembers, but a dad determines what a

764
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 1: child believes. So when dad put a stamp on it, man,

765
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 1: it's like you can do it and be whatever you want.

766
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 1: But even when you look at men who have become successful,

767
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 1: the constant need for validation is that I have all

768
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 1: of this, but I still haven't been approved by dad.

769
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:52,799
Speaker 1: I have all of that, but I still haven't been

770
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: approved by the man that I looked up to or

771
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: the man that was absent from soul. I started looking

772
00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,959
Speaker 1: at them with it myself. I was looked at former team,

773
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 1: I looked at all of the black men that I

774
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 1: knew that man, what was the correlation and all of

775
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,919
Speaker 1: us trying to find our way of manhood? And it

776
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: was the fact that the absence of not only just

777
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 1: a father, but it's a lack of knowing who we were,

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00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,719
Speaker 1: who we are man. You know. The first time I

779
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 1: ever bawd in therapy was talking about that, and like,

780
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 1: you know how your father for me? My father, Um,

781
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: he would he would discipline me for things he didn't

782
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: teach me, you know what I'm saying. Like, and I

783
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: I remember one time I'm driving behind him and he

784
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:35,879
Speaker 1: ran he ran a stop signs. I'm like fifteen sixty,

785
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: so I ran to stop signed too, but then he

786
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: pulled over. I pulled over and he slapped me. Right,

787
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: But it's like you, I'm following you. So how you

788
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: punished me for things you didn't teach me? You know? So?

789
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: But you know you realized he just was only doing

790
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 1: his best because he had his own issues. But no, y'ah,

791
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 1: absolutely right. Just that's what you want from from your father,

792
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: that validation. Yeah, And that's what led me into therapy. Um.

793
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: It wasn't something that I was set out to do.

794
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 1: I feel like it was, it was God ordained. And

795
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: from the first time I entered into my master's program,

796
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: the first class General Studies on family, the marriage and

797
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: family therapy, like it answers so much within my own,

798
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 1: you know, within myself and my own family dynamic. I

799
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, this is what I'm supposed to be.

800
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:24,720
Speaker 1: And then when I started really talking and guys started

801
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 1: reaching out and like, yo, man, you know man, I've

802
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,839
Speaker 1: struggled with depression. Man, I wanted to, you know, take

803
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 1: my life, man, do I got stream anxiety, and especially

804
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 1: with pro athletes because it's so much pressure to be

805
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: and to perform and a lot of it. But you know,

806
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 1: Chris Rock said something man that was so powerful. He said, women, children,

807
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 1: and animals are loved unconditionally, but men I loved under

808
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 1: the condition that they provide. So psychologically, as men, everything

809
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 1: is about performance. And so when I started to really

810
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: dig deep, I said, I want to get brothers to

811
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: remove the cape from trying to be Superman and learn

812
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: how to function in your Clark can and because that's

813
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: really who Superman was, right, the reality of it. And

814
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:22,360
Speaker 1: so it's just functioning who you are because that performance

815
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: thing is exhausting, it's hardsome. Does the league have anything

816
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 1: for athletes who are transitioning from playing sports back into

817
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 1: you know, regular life, or is that they're getting better

818
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 1: at it. They're getting better at it. And recently I

819
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 1: partner up with the NFLPA and then PA Players Association Foundation.

820
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,359
Speaker 1: They're they're doing a lot more workshops, a lot of more,

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00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 1: a lot more symposing and creating more outlets. I mean,

822
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,919
Speaker 1: when you look at the players over the past couple

823
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 1: of years who have either committed suicide or they've had

824
00:42:54,719 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 1: these untimely deaths, it's it's it's it's very disheartening. And

825
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 1: one of the things is that I want to do

826
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:06,319
Speaker 1: with athletes, especially black athletes, man, is just really get

827
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: them into space to where they be. These coaches even

828
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 1: begin to see these kids as a whole person and

829
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: humanize them and in a way that, man, this kid

830
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 1: is more than just an athlete. He's more than just

831
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 1: somebody who can dump, who can who who can jump?

832
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: These kids are future fathers and husband. But then too,

833
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: it's like when these kids are done and let's say

834
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:29,879
Speaker 1: you don't go to the league, and you say, hey,

835
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: go be the best in life. All they know, is

836
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: to perform, and now you're asking them to function as

837
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: a husband and function as a father or function as

838
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 1: a as a citizen. It's it's unfortunate. And so I think,

839
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Speaker 1: you know, with what Charlotte Mayne's doing and you guys

840
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: platform and and and just really normalizing men speaking, you know.

841
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:54,879
Speaker 1: And I think there's a shift right now that more

842
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 1: men are becoming comfortable because one thing about man, we

843
00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 1: have to see it. I feel like women, y'all always,

844
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:06,760
Speaker 1: y'll do brunches each other and women processed through talking

845
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: each other everything, and man we process in silence. It's

846
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 1: like in the locker room, like we're gonna come together,

847
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: but you're not gonna know personal stuff that's going on

848
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 1: and nobody's life because we performing for each other. And

849
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of it is just protection,

850
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's it, and that's the

851
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: it's the protection of that little boy. So what happened

852
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: is that I show up as a man, or I

853
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 1: show up or show up as a male, but behind

854
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 1: it there's this little boy who is broken. Yeah you, um,

855
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 1: how did you get the validation that you were seeking

856
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 1: from your father? How did you I guess you know,

857
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: fix that wounding yourself. I didn't. Um, I didn't get it.

858
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:53,320
Speaker 1: We Ever, man, when the first question friends, did you

859
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: didn't get it? I didn't get it because I felt

860
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 1: like I've never my father has never had to comeversation

861
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 1: with me that I wanted him to have. And I

862
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 1: said this to one of the young guys I mentor,

863
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:09,440
Speaker 1: and I said, man, I've had to accept that. I

864
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: would love to have it, but I can't wait for it.

865
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: And that's when I, like I said to myself, I

866
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: have to keep healing. And I think the validation for

867
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 1: me now is being able to look at other brothers

868
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 1: and speaking to the king and them and being able

869
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 1: to build them. Or also when a brother hops you know,

870
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 1: or or send them a DM message and say, man, dude,

871
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 1: thank you for talking about this. Man, I watch a video, uh,

872
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,840
Speaker 1: you know, talking about depression. I walked to watch a

873
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: video talking about you know, leaving sports and all those things.

874
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 1: It's like, man, that that that helped me. And so

875
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 1: that brings a great validation. And I would say the

876
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: word that I would use, it brings great fulfillment because

877
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: now at this point, I think that as you continue

878
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: to grow and evolve, as a man. Not only does

879
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 1: your perspective shit, but your view on life shifts. And

880
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 1: so my view is now is who are you building?

881
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,319
Speaker 1: Rather than what you're building? Because it's great to build things,

882
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: and I think men should always work to build things,

883
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 1: But who are you building? And I think to be

884
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: able to hand the baton to another young man and

885
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 1: to talk to him about emotional intelligence and to be

886
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: able to encourage him, like, listen, man, I want you

887
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:28,320
Speaker 1: to get to a place where you can respond versus react.

888
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: Everybody has anger, but I want you to manage that.

889
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 1: I think even when we look at these artists, I think,

890
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 1: you know, we give these young kids a bunch of

891
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: money because they got a hit and they sung is popping.

892
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,839
Speaker 1: But I think these kids need mental health coaches. They

893
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 1: need more than just a tour manager. These kids need

894
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 1: a therapist or a counsel or somebody to help manage

895
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: that because here's what is happening. Their processing through their pen, right,

896
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: their processing through their pen and their pen is broken.

897
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 1: And here's the thing that today's artists are doing is

898
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 1: there's they speak about what's going on inside of them

899
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 1: versus artists of old that when we grew up artists

900
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:15,800
Speaker 1: talked about what was going on around them. These artists

901
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: are talking about what is going on inside of me.

902
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 1: Listen to the lyrics. It's a whole mood, all right.

903
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: We got more with Jay Barnette when we come back.

904
00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:27,800
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ

905
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: Envy angela Ye, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

906
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 1: We have author, motivational speaker Jay Barnett here. Charlemagne. I

907
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: was talking to my homegirl, deVie Brown last night and

908
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 1: I was talking about the mind of being in a

909
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 1: position where like you can hear, you can hear somebody

910
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,719
Speaker 1: say all these great accolades about you, right, but then

911
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: you can hear somebody talking negative about you too in

912
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:51,239
Speaker 1: your mind, like, well, who the fuck are you asking you?

913
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 1: Who am I? Who am I? How you expecting? What

914
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 1: is that? What is that? What is that called? So? Well?

915
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: I mean, it's one of those things, man, And I

916
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: think it's the constant question of who we are. And

917
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: one of the things that I really tell people focus

918
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: on what you can control, and that that you can't control,

919
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: leave it alone. And the only thing that you can

920
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 1: really control is how do you see yourself when you

921
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 1: look at you, because people are gonna always see you

922
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 1: according to their limited perspective of their experiences and either

923
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: the people that they encounter, and a lot of times

924
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: what you're projecting on me has nothing to do with me.

925
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,800
Speaker 1: That's your stuff. So if you feel that, oh, he's

926
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 1: arrogant or she thinks she's that, no, you feel some

927
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 1: type of way about some stuff that you're dealing with.

928
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 1: And I just happen to be an innocent bystander in

929
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: this process to where you formulated these thoughts in these opinions.

930
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:54,760
Speaker 1: And I think the more you become settling that because

931
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: here's the thing that I think that it's so important,

932
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 1: is I'd rather be a private success as rather than

933
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: to be a public success and a private failure. And

934
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 1: that's what we have people who that I'd rather be

935
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: a private success than to be a public success and

936
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 1: a private failure. And I feel like, because the public

937
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:21,240
Speaker 1: success is I have to put on the show for everybody,

938
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 1: But you're failing in your relationships. You're failing in your

939
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:29,760
Speaker 1: day to day encounters with yourself because your inner personal

940
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: relationship it's going to determine a relationship that you have

941
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 1: with others. So the relationship that you have with yourself

942
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 1: is always going to project how you relate to other people. Yeah. No,

943
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 1: I think that's great when you know what's going on

944
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: with you for real, no matter what anybody else says

945
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 1: about you. Like people will try to attack me about

946
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: certain things. Oh she ain't got no man, Well I

947
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 1: have been with somebody for six years, I'd like, but

948
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 1: they don't know because I don't put it all, you know,

949
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:57,359
Speaker 1: exactly out there all the time. But like they'll say

950
00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:59,319
Speaker 1: like the worst things, Oh she don't do that, And

951
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: it's like, know, in real life, I know what I'm

952
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: really doing, and that's important to be able to feel

953
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: confident in that and to have people that support you,

954
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: that know you that that's what I care about more

955
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 1: than like somebody trying to get my attention and trying

956
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: to provoke you, because you can see when somebody's trying

957
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:17,919
Speaker 1: to provoke you into something. Yeah, And what you've done,

958
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:22,919
Speaker 1: Angela is provide a space of peace for you, because see,

959
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 1: once you provide that space a piece for you, dude,

960
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 1: piece is not the fact that everything is running through

961
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 1: a field of sunflower pieces that the world has fallen

962
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 1: apart and I have solitude. Yeah, I'm good. I'm happy,

963
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: and that's good. But you know when people say things

964
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: that aren't true, you're like, not even true exactly. Remember

965
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 1: that old exhibit video when he was just walking and

966
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 1: everything was going crazy behind him, but he was just

967
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:55,840
Speaker 1: exactly home, man. And it's really having a place of

968
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 1: piece because we live in a world where everybody has

969
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 1: an opinion. Yeah. Yeah, if you have social media, you

970
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:07,359
Speaker 1: have an opinion, rightfully yours. However, your opinion is none

971
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 1: of my business. And it's also not a fact sometimes,

972
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 1: like it could be something that's a fact and you're like,

973
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:16,800
Speaker 1: like people would be like Angela is not black. I'm like, okay,

974
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 1: I mean what can I even say to that? Like

975
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: then that don't tell the whole story, though, yeah, you

976
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But to you, I'm like, okay,

977
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: what constitute's actually being black? You know? She is black,

978
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 1: black and age. He's like, they don't know the whole story.

979
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: It's like, but it's also like you're just saying that

980
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 1: because you want me to be mad and like, and

981
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: I don't give people that privilege of me like responding

982
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 1: to things that I feel like they're trying to get

983
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 1: you to respond because they want to back and forth

984
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 1: and they want to try to embarrass you, and I

985
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: don't give anybody that. Man, Listen, I'll live about what

986
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: little Duke Vall said. Man, I'm not going back and

987
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 1: forth with you. I'm not because DONA doesn't make it worse.

988
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:54,839
Speaker 1: So then now you're stretched out and you got all

989
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:58,360
Speaker 1: these no I'm not even true. Why am I even entertaining? Listen,

990
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 1: I told a lot of these athletes, man, if you

991
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 1: don't get nothing else, get you some emotional intelligence. Man

992
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 1: be able to process your emotions and be able to

993
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:11,719
Speaker 1: manage your emotions about others when they can't process their emotions,

994
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: because again, that emotional IQ intelligence allows you to be

995
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 1: able to Okay, I can process that. I don't like

996
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 1: what they said, but I have the ability and the

997
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: capacity to know what they said it's not true. It's

998
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 1: not true. However, doesn't have any validity because when we

999
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 1: start to allow that stuff to enter into our spirit

1000
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 1: and enter into our control system, which is your mind,

1001
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 1: that dictates so much. So many people are depressed by

1002
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:42,359
Speaker 1: other people. See it's one thing to be depressed by

1003
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: a circumstance or situation, but when you start allowing people

1004
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:49,319
Speaker 1: to cause your depression. Man, Like, nah, you're you're you're

1005
00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 1: you are giving them the power over you to say, hey,

1006
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:56,719
Speaker 1: I get to control how you feel Like Nah, man,

1007
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 1: life is too short for that. What do you What

1008
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 1: do you mean, Jay, when you say that you're black exhausted? Man?

1009
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:05,240
Speaker 1: When I say that I'm black exhausted, I'm really talking

1010
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 1: about the emotional toll and turmoil that it has taken

1011
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 1: on me being a black man, being a black person,

1012
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 1: having to endure, you know, avert racism, having to endure

1013
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 1: the media, controlling the narrative, controlling the messages. It's just like,

1014
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,280
Speaker 1: you know, it's one of those things that I walked

1015
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 1: into my office and back in Texas and and there

1016
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: was a white colleague of mine who's a therapist, and

1017
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: you know, we were talking about the George Floyd thing,

1018
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: and I just looked at her. I was just like, man,

1019
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm just so tired. Man, I'm just tired, man. And

1020
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: it was one of those things. She was like, she

1021
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,319
Speaker 1: was like, Jay, what do you mean? I said, Man,

1022
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 1: I'm just I said, it feels like being black is

1023
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: a job. Yeah, Like it's worked. It's like you gotta

1024
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 1: if you're educated, black man, you gotta manage how you

1025
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: present yourself, right, and then if you're an educated black woman,

1026
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 1: you don't want to come off as an angry black woman.

1027
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 1: But it's just like it's always having to control our emotions,

1028
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 1: manage our feelings, you know, make sure you dress appropriate,

1029
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 1: make sure you wear your hair like this, don't say

1030
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 1: too many of this word, don't say to that. You

1031
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,719
Speaker 1: know what I mean, So just shut up and get

1032
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:31,919
Speaker 1: just comply. And that's black exhausted right there for those

1033
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:35,279
Speaker 1: to watch it. Right. My homeboy, you know, I do

1034
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 1: like two big vacations a year where his family and friends.

1035
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 1: And my homeboy was like, man, we didn't even get

1036
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 1: to go into vacation last year, and he said, I

1037
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 1: look forward to just two weeks and not being black.

1038
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, what did you talking about? But then he

1039
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 1: explained exactly what you're said. It's just going somewhere and

1040
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: just being that's just existing. I'm like, damn, because you

1041
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 1: go into other countries, right, they just want you to

1042
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 1: have a good time, that's it. They just want you

1043
00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 1: to come and have a good time. Body a little supernir,

1044
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:02,879
Speaker 1: drink a bunch of margar readers or tequila, and it's

1045
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: just like, hey, just come have a good time when

1046
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: we get here. It's like, I mean, Jesus, man, that's

1047
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 1: the fact when you get the hoodies from Man, what's

1048
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:16,160
Speaker 1: the website. So the website is hellgirlhel dot com. Heal

1049
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: girlhell dot com. So we're just pushing this heel movement.

1050
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: And I'm excited to be working with Taragi again on

1051
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Speaker 1: I love you, I value you, I appreciate you, King Man.

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Speaker 1: Just thank you and just keep keep existing absolutely, brother.

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Speaker 1: I value you man, love you, brother man. And it's

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Speaker 1: just been beautiful man to watch you evolve and Angela.

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Speaker 1: Thank you man, you know for not only work that

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Speaker 1: you do, but just even just you guys being authentic. Man.

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Speaker 1: So I think that's beautiful to have people because so

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Speaker 1: many people that man do, they're performing. By the time

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Speaker 1: they get home, they don't like the shoulder they're putting on. Right.

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Speaker 1: So I've been don't get me wrong, I've been there. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've been there and so no, no, thank you both

1066
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Speaker 1: for the work that you guys doing for your platform.

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Speaker 1: You do it's the breakfast club. I'm in a good

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Speaker 1: move today. Man. It just feels good. How can you

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Speaker 1: not be that's good? I'm the only thing that sucks

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Speaker 1: is that here in New York City with everybody that listens.

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Speaker 1: That's all over the country, but in New York this weekend,

1072
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Speaker 1: it's not gonna be like hot like it was all week.

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Speaker 1: It was like eighty ninety degrees all week and it's

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Speaker 1: Memorial Day weekend, That's what I'm saying. But it's still

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Speaker 1: good though. This is the first time we got teams

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Speaker 1: in the playoffs in New York. It just feels like

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Speaker 1: first time in long time, long time basketball. Basketball. Yeah,

1078
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Speaker 1: oh football too. We don't have a playoffs in a

1079
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Speaker 1: long time too. You got to figure out who to

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Speaker 1: root for. Bro at least a year is consistent birthday.

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Speaker 1: That's going to take it off. I'm a Knicks fan,

1082
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 1: I'm a Giants fan. You said before you were a

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00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 1: Nets fan now and he was been a Jets fan

1084
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: when yes he was. No, no, don't start these lives.

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Speaker 1: But you never played for the Jets. Scott shout the ball,

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Speaker 1: Scott I was supporting, Not definitely, he does. He does

1087
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Speaker 1: wear Mets hats and Yankees hats. All and we care

1088
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: about is what matches outfit and who's winning there By

1089
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 1: sports fans, that's what you are. You can't be like that,

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Speaker 1: especially in the same city. Pick a slide. I'm a

1091
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: Yankees fan, I'm a Giants fan, and I'm a Knicks fan.

1092
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 1: When you went in next tickets, you was a Nets fan.

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00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 1: That's support New York teams, though, I see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Why can't I can't support me the old team? No,

1095
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: you gotta pick one. What team do you rap for?

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Speaker 1: Dallas Cowboys? I like the New York Liberty. Yeah, me too,

1097
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 1: like the New York Liberty, Dallas Cowboys. All right, well,

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Speaker 1: let's get to room, let's talk dest any shot? Oh gosh,

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Speaker 1: report go well. Michelle Williams had shared some audio clips

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Speaker 1: from checking in with her groupmates Beyond Saying Kelly Roland

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Speaker 1: ahead of her new book Checking In, and she posted,

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Speaker 1: look who checked in yesterday with me? The only time

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Speaker 1: we'll let your eaves drop on our group chats. I

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Speaker 1: just wanted to check in We just think what's been

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00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 1: going on has been making us more intentional about calling

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Speaker 1: each other checking in. And I'm loving the smile. Oh,

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Speaker 1: we love and miss you so much, so proud of me,

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Speaker 1: I know, so inspirational for both of us, and we

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Speaker 1: just love watching you become exactly who you are in

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Speaker 1: the world. See you're impacting and wisdom and your beautiful

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00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 1: advice in your discernment and we're just so proud of you.

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Speaker 1: Probably include bons from Michelle Williams. Her new book is

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Speaker 1: out right now, Checking In How Getting Real about Depression

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Speaker 1: save My life and can save yours, And you can

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Speaker 1: listen to her checking in podcasts on The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: iHeartRadio podcast network. Well, these are her safe sisters, and

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00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: Kelly Rowland said people should know that along with friendships

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Speaker 1: there's humility. You have to allow yourself to hold a

1119
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Speaker 1: safe place in a safe space for all friendships to

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Speaker 1: be able to check in. That's a beautiful thing. When

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Speaker 1: you call a friend and you express some things to

1122
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: them and they say, I know I've been holding space

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Speaker 1: for you. That term holding space means a lot. I

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Speaker 1: got some safe sisters the same. That's a good thing.

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Speaker 1: Envy's one of them. All right. Now, jay Z has

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Speaker 1: announced that made an America Festival's returning to Philly September

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Speaker 1: fourth and fifth. They did call things off obviously last year,

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Speaker 1: as everybody had to. But now you can get your

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Speaker 1: two day passes and you can also lock in early

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Speaker 1: bird pricing while it's available. Boy Outside back open for

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Speaker 1: real if they bring it back. Festivals Outside is open.

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Speaker 1: It is the fourth and the fifth of September. I

1133
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:56,600
Speaker 1: ain't hitting no stipulations, know nothing. I guess you'll know

1134
00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 1: as it gets a little closer, because we also don't

1135
00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 1: know in September what the rules are are going to be. Yeah,

1136
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 1: be open, open, because it's damn they're open open now.

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Speaker 1: I just want to say that I got a call

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Speaker 1: show Atlantic City's festival type with you know, rides and

1139
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Speaker 1: cars and it's open open Focus fourteen. I just whle COVID,

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Speaker 1: don't come back, like allow me to reintroduce myself. My

1141
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Speaker 1: name is cold to Dave Chappelle's new documentary is going

1142
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Speaker 1: to premiere as the closing night film at the Tribeca Festival.

1143
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 1: And so you can go ahead and get those um

1144
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 1: but you have to be fully vaccinated and you have

1145
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 1: to provide proof of your vaccination upon entry, so get

1146
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 1: ready for that. I actually saw it. It's amazing, so

1147
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: I think people are gonna love it. So that's going

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Speaker 1: to take place on June nineteen. I see when you

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01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 1: announced that, you announced the stipulations with it. I expect

1150
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: to hear any big event to have some type of stipulation. Yeah,

1151
01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 1: but this is coming up really soon. Oh gotcha? You

1152
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: know in September. Like I said, we don't know how

1153
01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 1: open things will are won't be. And since we're talking comedy,

1154
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Speaker 1: Palmoney they've given him his own day in Oakland and

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Speaker 1: that is going to be May nineteenth, so it's Palmoney

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Speaker 1: Day on May nineteenth. He was born in Shreeport, Louisiana,

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01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 1: but he did move to Oakland when he was seven

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Speaker 1: years old, and as you know, he got to start

1159
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:07,680
Speaker 1: writing for Richard Pryor driveling a clue bound with the

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Speaker 1: late Great Paul Morning. Are we gonna haven't put that

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Speaker 1: interview out? They said the audio wasn't that good. Understanding

1162
01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: we could still get it out though some of it

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01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:17,600
Speaker 1: he put it on the documentary. All right, Well that

1164
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 1: is your rumor reports. All right, then let me show

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Speaker 1: out to my brother Nori in O r E. He

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Speaker 1: just said, and he says, I'm an old New York

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Speaker 1: City All Teams fan as well. Okay, Nor just put

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Speaker 1: us in the group chat, bro, we all got to

1169
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Speaker 1: say seven fifty eight am, I'm an all NYC All Teams.

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Speaker 1: I can't lie. Living out of town makes me that way.

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Speaker 1: Nor just sit us all in the group chat. You

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Speaker 1: were family. Nor just put your breakfast club group chat

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Speaker 1: together right now? Special Like Noor, he just texts me.

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01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 1: He texts me too, and he texts me to cut

1175
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Speaker 1: and pays. He texted the same thing he did. Thought

1176
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Speaker 1: make sure y'all listen to Drink Champs to suit the

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Speaker 1: Drink Champs that's on the Black Effect. I heart radio

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Speaker 1: podcast great plus my guy man men do great business together.

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Speaker 1: I like him. My guy talking to Clue Bonnor good brother,

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Speaker 1: great brother. Tend to get our running challenge back. Nori,

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01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 1: who actually was driving in the city yesterday and I

1182
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 1: just ran to I don't know, Norridn'm got a building.

1183
01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: I just saw smoke Champs on a window. Smoke Champs. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they got smoke Champs now his nephew young Rally. I

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Speaker 1: just I just literally saw it was in I don't

1186
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Speaker 1: remember what part of the town the canal screens on

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Speaker 1: canal screen really all right, we're even your talking too.

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01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 1: Amy Cooper needs to come to the front of the congregation.

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Speaker 1: We'd like to have a word with Amy Cooper this morning.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that next. It's the breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, So breakfast Club, your morning's will never be

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Speaker 1: there is no question. And there are all problems in

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Speaker 1: this country between police and community. Yes, you are a

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Speaker 1: donkey to the latest on that police killing of a

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Speaker 1: black man. Now a new developments in the deathly spawshooting ramps. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it was a really bad day for him and if

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Speaker 1: this is what he did, and so we are in

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01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: a state of emergency. Okay, White supremacist violence is it

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01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:21,120
Speaker 1: always has been the number one threat to otracide. But

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Speaker 1: I'm also very proud that my wife was white because

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Speaker 1: the breakfast club bitches right. Please tell me why was

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Speaker 1: I day donkey to day for Thursday, May twenty seven

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Speaker 1: calls to Amy Cooper. You all remember who Amy Cooper is,

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Speaker 1: don't you. Amy Cooper is the human jar of Hellman's

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Speaker 1: who called nine one one last year when she was

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Speaker 1: walking her dog in Central Park and she adn't counted

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Speaker 1: a black man named Christian Cooper. Christian Cooper was mining

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Speaker 1: his business doing his favorite pastime, which is bird watching.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know, a black man bird watching looks suspicious,

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Speaker 1: but that's your problem because you think black people are monolithic,

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Speaker 1: and you have a perception of what black people do

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Speaker 1: and can't do. In bird watching, it's not on your

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Speaker 1: list of things that black people do. Therefore, you just

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Speaker 1: assumed he was doing something he had no business doing.

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Speaker 1: Can we flash back to that encounter between the Cooper's.

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Speaker 1: Please don't come close to me, sir, I asked me

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Speaker 1: to stop according Please don't come clost me. Please don't

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Speaker 1: come close. Please please call the cops. There's an African

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Speaker 1: American man threatening my life. Please tell them whatever you like.

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Speaker 1: There was an African American man. He's recording me threading

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Speaker 1: myself and my dog. I'm sorry, I can't I Before

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Speaker 1: we move on, has anybody checked on Amy Cooper's dog

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01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 1: every time I watched that video here, that video, I

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Speaker 1: think in the fact that she was lynching her dog

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Speaker 1: and then called the police and hope that they would

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Speaker 1: lynch Christian. Now, what everyone and their mother just heard

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Speaker 1: and saw in that video was obvious racial discrimination. I

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01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 1: mean Amy literally emphasized that Christian was black to the police.

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Speaker 1: She weaponized the police against Christian because she knew how

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Speaker 1: police would react to a white damsel in distress, saying

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Speaker 1: she's been being attacked by a black man. Now. Amy

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Speaker 1: was charged with falsely reporting an incident in the third degree.

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01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:08,440
Speaker 1: Of course, the charge was dismissed early this year after

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01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 1: she completed a counseling program intended to educate her on

1241
01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 1: the harm of her actions. Hopefully it was the same

1242
01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 1: diversity training Coca Cola used where they urged workers to

1243
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 1: be less white. Also literally a day after the confrontation,

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01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 1: she apologized for her actions in an interview with NBC

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Speaker 1: four n y Let's listen and it's unacceptable, you know,

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Speaker 1: and words are just words, and I can't undo what

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Speaker 1: I did, but I sincerely and humbly apologize to everyone,

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01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:38,360
Speaker 1: especially to that man. The police. I think of them

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01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 1: as protection agents, see, and unfortunately this has caused me

1250
01:05:42,240 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 1: to realize that there are so many people in this

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01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 1: country that don't have that luxury. Apologies are great, Okay,

1252
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 1: when you feel you have wrong someone, you have to

1253
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:53,200
Speaker 1: take accountability for your actions. We all have missteps. So why,

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01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 1: oh why is Amy Cooper getting Donkey of the Day. Well,

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01:05:57,920 --> 01:06:01,000
Speaker 1: Amy says she's not racist, but what she did was

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01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: clearly racist. Okay. I think in a situation like that,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if a person is actually a racist,

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Speaker 1: because what she did is actually racist, and that's what matters.

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Speaker 1: And it's her privilege and sense of entitlement that led

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Speaker 1: her to call the police on Christian in the first place,

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Speaker 1: and it's her privileged and sensive entitlement that is causing

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Speaker 1: her to do what she is getting Donkey of the

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Speaker 1: Day for what is Christian Cooper currently up to. Let's

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Speaker 1: go to ABC seven New York for the report police.

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Speaker 1: The woman known as Central Park Karen now filing suit

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Speaker 1: against her former employer. Her name is Amy Cooper. She's

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Speaker 1: accusing Franklin Templeton of wrongful termination. The financial company fired

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Speaker 1: Cooper as the outrage over her racist rant hit a

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Speaker 1: fever pitch a year ago. Right now, Cooper claims they

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Speaker 1: nurtured the idea that the confrontation was a racial flash point.

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Speaker 1: She also claims there should have been an investigation before

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Speaker 1: her dismissal. Amy is suing her former employer for wrong

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Speaker 1: wrongful termination, for racial engender discrimination her laws through the

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Speaker 1: alleges that she was characterized as a privileged white female.

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Speaker 1: Karen Amy let brother Lenard and uncle Shlomy the first

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01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 1: to tell you, quite simply, you didn't get fired because

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Speaker 1: you were discriminated against. You got fired for doing the discriminating. Okay,

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01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 1: you falsely claim to police that a black man was

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Speaker 1: threatening you and your dog. You lied, so your job

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Speaker 1: fired you for lying. This isn't complicated, Amy. Okay. For

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01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:22,520
Speaker 1: you to turn around and file a lawsuit and feel

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01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:26,800
Speaker 1: like you were wronged in any way is Maynnai's flavored malarkey. Okay,

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01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:30,520
Speaker 1: you file lawsuits when you get lied on, not when

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01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 1: you lied on people. Amy. Privilege, privilege has tag privilege. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is a prime example of privilege, and as Deshaun

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01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:41,200
Speaker 1: Stokes once said, privilege is not knowing that you're hurting

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01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:44,760
Speaker 1: others and not listening when they tell you that you are.

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Speaker 1: Please let Kathy Griffin give Amy Cooper the biggest here.

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Speaker 1: Please give this giant jar of male the biggest he haw.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you for that. Donkey up the day, Yes,

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Speaker 1: ma'am up next, ask a ye eight undred five, eight

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Speaker 1: five one or five one. If you need relationship advice

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01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 1: or any type of advice, call ye now. It's the

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Need relationship advice,

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01:08:13,640 --> 01:08:17,040
Speaker 1: need personal advice, just need real advice? Call up now

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Speaker 1: for asking morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, Yee, Sean

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Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time for

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Speaker 1: ask ye. Hello. Who's this? Hey? How's it going? Man?

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Speaker 1: As David? Hello David, how you guys gonna? Good morning?

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01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:34,559
Speaker 1: Every gone? Good morning? Man? What's your question for you? Bro?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm gonna through it with my fiance. Man,

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01:08:38,760 --> 01:08:43,400
Speaker 1: it's just ridiculous. Like so the other day we got

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01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:46,640
Speaker 1: up to argument, you know, because I was picking up

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01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:51,160
Speaker 1: for her that you know, heard that bought his brother

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01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 1: new car, and um, you know, we're all outside small

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01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:58,640
Speaker 1: cigarettes or whatever like that, and um, she you know,

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01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:01,960
Speaker 1: she told her dad she had to take the baby

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01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 1: because our son because he baby sits, and the next

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01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 1: day he went I didn't think to put it baby,

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01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:13,640
Speaker 1: and she got upset and I told her like, no,

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01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 1: you were outside listen and you know that what the

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01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 1: situation was going to be. And I we just have

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01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:22,840
Speaker 1: a huge argument. Well, it sounds like you all have

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01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 1: other issues and that's why you had a big argument

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01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:28,080
Speaker 1: about this. Yeah, but like I like, I'm clueless. I

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01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:31,519
Speaker 1: don't even know what the heart like. And every time,

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Speaker 1: you know, she's always telling me that I have a

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01:09:33,560 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 1: bad attitude and I got to go to therapy. But

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01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:38,720
Speaker 1: now I'm trying to realize it's not me, you know

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01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 1: what I mean, that's her. It sounds like you both

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01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:44,960
Speaker 1: need therapy. But let me ask you this. Okay, how

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01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:48,840
Speaker 1: old is the baby? He won? One year and three months?

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01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:52,400
Speaker 1: And then what was she like this before she had

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01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:57,400
Speaker 1: the baby? No? Not brilliant. You think that perhaps you

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01:09:57,439 --> 01:10:03,160
Speaker 1: know these hormonal changes and maybe she's had the baby

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01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:05,720
Speaker 1: and you know a lot of people have a lot

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01:10:05,720 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 1: of women go through a lot emotionally once they have

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Speaker 1: a child. Yeah, but like, how don't I deal with

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01:10:11,320 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 1: it because you know, like we live with her dad

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01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:17,760
Speaker 1: at the moment, and she's always telling me, you know,

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01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:21,040
Speaker 1: we gotta move out about but she gotta puts everything

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01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:25,240
Speaker 1: at my field, you know, like to tree. You know,

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01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 1: like I didn't help too, right, I mean, well, why

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01:10:28,160 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 1: don't you guys agree to both to counting because it

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01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 1: feels like you have issues communicating with each other. And

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Speaker 1: I'm sure like the dynamics of your relationship have changed.

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01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:39,519
Speaker 1: You guys had this baby. I'm guessing, like you know,

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01:10:39,640 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: during the pandemic, y'all have been kind of at home

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01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:45,120
Speaker 1: a lot more um as well. It's also not easy

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01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 1: living with a parent, and just it's hard enough to

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01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:50,120
Speaker 1: deal with just each other, but then when there's also

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01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:53,280
Speaker 1: a parent there living in the house with you, sometimes

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01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 1: that also piles on. Yeah, I just like I'm just

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01:10:57,560 --> 01:11:01,880
Speaker 1: trying to predicament where yeah, like and you know, now

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01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:04,240
Speaker 1: she tells me she's gonna put me on child support

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01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:07,439
Speaker 1: and you know, she don't love me anymore and stuff

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01:11:07,479 --> 01:11:10,840
Speaker 1: like that over a little argument, you know. So I

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Speaker 1: don't know if it might be some postpartum that she

1349
01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:17,720
Speaker 1: doesn't even realize that she's dealing with really yeah, and

1350
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 1: that's a real thing and sometimes women can't identify it.

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01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:24,240
Speaker 1: But postpartum depression affects a lot of a lot of women.

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Speaker 1: And so I would m hm. So she's a type

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01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 1: of like she won't hey, you know, but she she's

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01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:38,719
Speaker 1: a type like she you know, she she won't listen

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01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:42,080
Speaker 1: to everybody else that like she's always right, everybody else's

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01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:45,400
Speaker 1: always wrong, like you know, she don't she don't, you know,

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01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:48,880
Speaker 1: throw up and just realize, like she'll never say sorry,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know what. And that's interesting, it's it's

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01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:54,040
Speaker 1: interesting that you say that. I want to say a

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01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,000
Speaker 1: couple of things here. A lot of times it's hard

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01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 1: to have a discussion with somebody and own up to

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01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:00,800
Speaker 1: your mistakes when they're not doing it right. And so

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01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:03,000
Speaker 1: a lot of what you're saying to me is about

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01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:06,599
Speaker 1: what she's doing. You're not really talking about what you're doing. Also,

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Speaker 1: I know that both of you are contributing to the

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01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:11,800
Speaker 1: issues in your relationship, but a lot of times we

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01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:14,600
Speaker 1: blame the other person instead of also looking at ourselves

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01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:16,880
Speaker 1: and instead of saying you do this, you don't ever

1369
01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:19,599
Speaker 1: think you're wrong, you don't ever apologize. You also have

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01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:22,400
Speaker 1: to say, well, it bothers me that when we get

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01:12:22,439 --> 01:12:25,400
Speaker 1: into these arguments, you know, this is how it goes,

1372
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 1: because really it's how it affects you. But you also

1373
01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:29,519
Speaker 1: have to think about things that you do and how

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01:12:29,520 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 1: it affects her. And it feels like both of you

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01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:34,360
Speaker 1: need help. And if you're saying she needs to get

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01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:36,880
Speaker 1: therapy and she's saying you need to get therapy, I'm

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01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:40,280
Speaker 1: gonna say both of y'all would benefit from some type

1378
01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:42,479
Speaker 1: of counseling or therapy to learn how you guys can

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01:12:42,520 --> 01:12:46,599
Speaker 1: talk to each other more effectively. Oh no, I understand

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01:12:46,640 --> 01:12:48,479
Speaker 1: for you. I'm telling you like I'm Anna type, Like

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01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:51,760
Speaker 1: if I'm wrong, I'll say it in an arpy that

1382
01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:55,840
Speaker 1: I'm wrong, you know what I mean? Like like I'm

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01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:59,600
Speaker 1: that type of dude, Like if if there's something that

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01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:01,240
Speaker 1: she don't like and then I leave, but tell them

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01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:03,840
Speaker 1: one like if there's something I don't make, you know,

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01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:06,080
Speaker 1: I'll tell them a nice way like eight days, you know,

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01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:09,200
Speaker 1: like you know you shouldn't do it, then maybe she's

1388
01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 1: trying to do it a different way, or you know,

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01:13:11,840 --> 01:13:18,679
Speaker 1: maybe should you offer opfer solutions? You're saying you offer solutions? Yeah, yeah,

1390
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:20,600
Speaker 1: and then she never just rocks with it, you know

1391
01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:24,320
Speaker 1: what I mean. And it's very frustrating because now it's

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01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:27,800
Speaker 1: just like I gotta just pretty much shuck it up

1393
01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:32,120
Speaker 1: and let her do like whatever. She you know, wear

1394
01:13:32,160 --> 01:13:34,720
Speaker 1: a little attitude and all that. You know, do you

1395
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:36,479
Speaker 1: love her? Do you want to be with her? Do

1396
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:40,080
Speaker 1: you want to get married? I'm not gonna lie after

1397
01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:43,360
Speaker 1: the because she sent me some real nasty text like

1398
01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:46,439
Speaker 1: my my brother, you know, he he's like a dead

1399
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:48,760
Speaker 1: beat brother, you know what I mean, Like he got

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01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:51,840
Speaker 1: three kids and you don't talk to them, you know,

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01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:56,400
Speaker 1: And she takes me, uh that she that I shouldn't

1402
01:13:57,720 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 1: how to be a dead beat father. When she rolls

1403
01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 1: stuff like that, it's just like, yeah, she's trying to

1404
01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:11,320
Speaker 1: hurt you, you know, right. Yeah, I think you guys.

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01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 1: I think you guys as as new parents too, both really, uh,

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01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:17,880
Speaker 1: you're going to have to raise this child together no

1407
01:14:17,960 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 1: matter what and deal with each other. And I think

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01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:22,800
Speaker 1: you do need the proper tools to be able to

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01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:25,439
Speaker 1: do that. Regardless. I think you have to let her know,

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01:14:25,760 --> 01:14:28,519
Speaker 1: and I'm sure you do how it hurts your feelings

1411
01:14:28,520 --> 01:14:31,120
Speaker 1: when she says things like that to you. But I

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01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:33,600
Speaker 1: also feel like it could be some postpartum depression, and

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01:14:33,640 --> 01:14:36,679
Speaker 1: that's something that is a really common thing that doesn't

1414
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:40,439
Speaker 1: even get diagnosed, And so I think it would benefit

1415
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:42,080
Speaker 1: for you guys to learn how to do that and

1416
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 1: and and decide if you want to continue in this relationship.

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01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:46,640
Speaker 1: But no matter what, you are going to have to

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01:14:46,720 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: learn how to deal with each other in a better way. Well,

1419
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:51,840
Speaker 1: what do you think I should just kind of like

1420
01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:58,160
Speaker 1: suck it off? I definite, I don't think you should

1421
01:14:58,200 --> 01:15:00,320
Speaker 1: ever quote suck it up, But I do you think

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01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 1: that you need to address these issues as best as

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01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:04,680
Speaker 1: you can head on. I do think you guys need

1424
01:15:04,760 --> 01:15:08,640
Speaker 1: to get a recommendation for a therapist so that you

1425
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:11,680
Speaker 1: guys can go into couples therapy together, because it's not

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01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:13,880
Speaker 1: working with y'all just talking to each other the way

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01:15:13,920 --> 01:15:15,519
Speaker 1: that you have been. And then I think you have

1428
01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:17,559
Speaker 1: some decisions to make to see if this can work,

1429
01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:20,320
Speaker 1: if it can move forward. But I also feel like,

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01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:23,600
Speaker 1: you know, her body just went through a lot hormonally

1431
01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:25,920
Speaker 1: things that she probably doesn't even understand. If she's acting

1432
01:15:25,920 --> 01:15:28,839
Speaker 1: different now than she used to, I think that deserves

1433
01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:34,600
Speaker 1: some attention as well. Yeah, well I do appreciate it.

1434
01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:37,479
Speaker 1: And another thing, I'm sorry for being so long. But

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01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:41,080
Speaker 1: another thing like and I'm in the predicament, like if

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01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:44,439
Speaker 1: if we don't make up, you know, she's gonna kick me,

1437
01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:47,320
Speaker 1: and my parents don't want to take me back. You know.

1438
01:15:47,520 --> 01:15:50,120
Speaker 1: It's like I'm gonna be homeless, you know what i mean,

1439
01:15:50,520 --> 01:15:54,719
Speaker 1: just living a magar. And that's what scares me almost

1440
01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:59,160
Speaker 1: like you know, she talks like, yeah, I'm not gonna

1441
01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:01,040
Speaker 1: see what I'm man. You know, I'm not gonna have

1442
01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 1: a place to live it and she shouldn't be threatening.

1443
01:16:03,600 --> 01:16:07,160
Speaker 1: She should not be threatening you with that. Yeah, that's

1444
01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:10,320
Speaker 1: not fair. Talk about it, and it's like, yes, it's

1445
01:16:10,360 --> 01:16:13,200
Speaker 1: running out fair, Like I just wish that I can

1446
01:16:14,040 --> 01:16:18,320
Speaker 1: you know, when the scratch off. Okay, you don't have

1447
01:16:18,360 --> 01:16:21,920
Speaker 1: any money, you have a job, I got two jobs,

1448
01:16:21,960 --> 01:16:24,559
Speaker 1: but I just bought a car. I want finance the car,

1449
01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:30,880
Speaker 1: and I'm playing off eight thousand dollars credit card right now.

1450
01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:34,800
Speaker 1: You know, if this credit card was paid off, that

1451
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:39,080
Speaker 1: I would definitely shave a thousand dollars to check everything's

1452
01:16:39,080 --> 01:16:41,479
Speaker 1: going towards the credit card. And that that's pretty much

1453
01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:45,439
Speaker 1: right understand. So well, I'm sure financially. That's a lot

1454
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:47,639
Speaker 1: of stress for you guys in the house as well.

1455
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:50,240
Speaker 1: And I can tell right now just from hearing this

1456
01:16:50,320 --> 01:16:53,120
Speaker 1: that also plays a role, you know. So it's a

1457
01:16:53,160 --> 01:16:55,240
Speaker 1: lot of different things that you guys are dealing with.

1458
01:16:55,360 --> 01:16:57,640
Speaker 1: So I just want to encourage you to try to

1459
01:16:57,680 --> 01:16:59,960
Speaker 1: work it out if you can, to seek some profess

1460
01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:01,800
Speaker 1: I should know, help, and to learn how to speak

1461
01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:04,360
Speaker 1: to each other better. Don't use the words never or

1462
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:07,040
Speaker 1: always when you get into an argument, and always talk

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01:17:07,080 --> 01:17:09,439
Speaker 1: about well I just said always, and talk about how

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01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:12,080
Speaker 1: things make you feel instead of being accusatory. And that's

1465
01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:14,360
Speaker 1: the advice that I can give you for now. Ask

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01:17:14,439 --> 01:17:18,160
Speaker 1: ye all right, eight minutes with ye eight hundred five

1467
01:17:18,240 --> 01:17:20,759
Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. If you need relationship advice,

1468
01:17:21,080 --> 01:17:25,760
Speaker 1: call us now. It's a breakfast local morn there's some

1469
01:17:25,800 --> 01:17:29,719
Speaker 1: real advice with Angela ye kids, ask ye morning. Everybody

1470
01:17:29,760 --> 01:17:33,479
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomae Nicay. We are the

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01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 1: breakfast club. But in the middle of ask ye, hello,

1472
01:17:35,840 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 1: who's this? Hello, Hey, Hey, good morning. My name is

1473
01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:43,080
Speaker 1: NEAs Hey Nee. What's your question for you? Um? My

1474
01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:46,880
Speaker 1: question is it's a little volgar um. Last year when

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01:17:46,880 --> 01:17:50,080
Speaker 1: the coba first started my kids. I caught my kids

1476
01:17:50,560 --> 01:17:53,519
Speaker 1: doing a sex act on each other who I asked

1477
01:17:53,520 --> 01:17:55,400
Speaker 1: them where they got it from, and they told me

1478
01:17:55,439 --> 01:17:57,080
Speaker 1: they got it from there there and I had been

1479
01:17:57,160 --> 01:18:00,840
Speaker 1: letting their dad get them for Like the Wow, how

1480
01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:02,760
Speaker 1: old are that when I brought it to um at

1481
01:18:02,800 --> 01:18:06,040
Speaker 1: that time, they were eight and six. Oh my boy

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01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:08,559
Speaker 1: and girl. Two boys, two girls. So they're both boys,

1483
01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:13,760
Speaker 1: both boys. Boy. Wow. So with that, like, it's beeny

1484
01:18:13,800 --> 01:18:15,880
Speaker 1: years since he talked to me or talked to him,

1485
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:19,519
Speaker 1: which I find fine. But today if my oldest son's birthday,

1486
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:22,440
Speaker 1: so he reached out to me yesterday and he's like, UM,

1487
01:18:22,600 --> 01:18:24,479
Speaker 1: I feel like you're bitter. You're not letting me see

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01:18:24,479 --> 01:18:26,400
Speaker 1: my kids. You're not letting me, You're not let me

1489
01:18:26,479 --> 01:18:28,720
Speaker 1: do that. I told him why I'm not letting him

1490
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:30,960
Speaker 1: see them, and he's like, oh, I would never do that,

1491
01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:33,960
Speaker 1: But I have my own instances because we were together

1492
01:18:34,000 --> 01:18:37,000
Speaker 1: for five years. I know he would do that. So, UM,

1493
01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:39,040
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to find out if I'm doing the

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01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:42,439
Speaker 1: right thing by keeping my kids away from him. Can

1495
01:18:42,479 --> 01:18:45,160
Speaker 1: I put more question? Can I ask one question? They

1496
01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:46,720
Speaker 1: said they learned it from their dad. What do you

1497
01:18:46,760 --> 01:18:49,320
Speaker 1: mean they learned it from their dad. Um, My youngest

1498
01:18:49,360 --> 01:18:51,880
Speaker 1: son told me, he's like, I'm a daddy told us

1499
01:18:51,920 --> 01:18:55,240
Speaker 1: that it's okay to do this to each other together.

1500
01:18:56,120 --> 01:19:01,280
Speaker 1: I bring yourself. I went, definitely I did. It was

1501
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:03,840
Speaker 1: a whole scene. It was the whole scene. Like when

1502
01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 1: I found out I packed my fee to the car.

1503
01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:09,479
Speaker 1: I pulled up to his career barefoot. I'm from Florida,

1504
01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:14,240
Speaker 1: Like I pulled up. I was ready to hell. No,

1505
01:19:15,360 --> 01:19:19,160
Speaker 1: it was the whole Still when they got there, they

1506
01:19:19,160 --> 01:19:21,960
Speaker 1: were like, okay, one, we need you, mam to calm down.

1507
01:19:22,040 --> 01:19:23,840
Speaker 1: We understand where you're at, but we need you to

1508
01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:25,719
Speaker 1: be calm because we don't want to take you for,

1509
01:19:25,880 --> 01:19:28,599
Speaker 1: you know, being hotspot. And they're like, okay. The next day,

1510
01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:30,719
Speaker 1: we need your children to come in for an interview

1511
01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:33,479
Speaker 1: to uh, to talk and see what's going on. The

1512
01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:36,479
Speaker 1: thing about my kids is we're afraid of your dad

1513
01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:41,840
Speaker 1: because they watched their dad likely like bloody. So they're

1514
01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:44,479
Speaker 1: more or less like, okay, we'll protect Mama and we'll

1515
01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:46,200
Speaker 1: just kind of be like okay, it's it's not a

1516
01:19:46,240 --> 01:19:49,240
Speaker 1: big deal. It's okay. When we talk about it amongst

1517
01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:51,880
Speaker 1: our shoves. UM they're like, yo, Mama, Getty says this,

1518
01:19:52,040 --> 01:19:54,680
Speaker 1: and that is you birds at us and Getty do this.

1519
01:19:55,400 --> 01:19:59,360
Speaker 1: So you know that already. Now tell me in your gut,

1520
01:19:59,520 --> 01:20:01,880
Speaker 1: what is it telling you cannot have your children around

1521
01:20:01,880 --> 01:20:06,440
Speaker 1: this man? Yeah, I've been saying no from the gate, nope, grandparents,

1522
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:12,080
Speaker 1: the old grandparents, and like no, no, that's probably nope, nope, nope.

1523
01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:16,160
Speaker 1: And not only should he not be around them, you

1524
01:20:16,240 --> 01:20:19,519
Speaker 1: have to make sure that you are trying to repair

1525
01:20:20,240 --> 01:20:22,840
Speaker 1: the harm that he's done to your kids as well,

1526
01:20:22,880 --> 01:20:24,840
Speaker 1: and pay extra close attention to let them know that

1527
01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:27,800
Speaker 1: they can talk to you about any and everything year

1528
01:20:28,160 --> 01:20:32,599
Speaker 1: and make sure monitoring their their internet. I monitor internet.

1529
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:36,800
Speaker 1: I monitored their songs, I monitor their friends, I monitor everything.

1530
01:20:36,920 --> 01:20:38,759
Speaker 1: It is not because I want to do this, because

1531
01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:40,639
Speaker 1: I feel like now I hack, you know, and they

1532
01:20:40,680 --> 01:20:43,360
Speaker 1: obviously did not understand what they were doing. They were

1533
01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:46,479
Speaker 1: and who knows what else happens when their fathers around.

1534
01:20:46,479 --> 01:20:49,639
Speaker 1: So I just would never feel comfortable having any child.

1535
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:51,599
Speaker 1: I don't think any children should be around that. Matter

1536
01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:53,960
Speaker 1: of fact, you need to go see a judge and

1537
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:56,280
Speaker 1: get a lawyer and just make sure that he can't

1538
01:20:56,280 --> 01:20:59,760
Speaker 1: do anything to try to get those kids might too.

1539
01:21:00,200 --> 01:21:02,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, therapy is definitely in our lineup. We

1540
01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:04,920
Speaker 1: just moved from Florida because I just felt like we

1541
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:08,160
Speaker 1: needed to move completely. We packed it up and we moved.

1542
01:21:08,160 --> 01:21:09,720
Speaker 1: So now in this new place, I'm trying to get

1543
01:21:09,760 --> 01:21:12,400
Speaker 1: them shut up with therapy and um where they feel

1544
01:21:12,439 --> 01:21:16,120
Speaker 1: more comfortable discussing certain things because, um, most of the

1545
01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:18,519
Speaker 1: time I was working while he was with them, so

1546
01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:22,960
Speaker 1: they're probably are things that I don't know still and right,

1547
01:21:23,000 --> 01:21:24,840
Speaker 1: I feel what I feel like, you are doing all

1548
01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:26,799
Speaker 1: the right things that you're supposed to be doing. You shouldn't.

1549
01:21:26,840 --> 01:21:30,160
Speaker 1: I feel no guilt. He has no privileges when it

1550
01:21:30,160 --> 01:21:35,880
Speaker 1: comes to your children. Thank you, your kids, thank you.

1551
01:21:35,920 --> 01:21:38,840
Speaker 1: They're definitely my children, had them natural. They're all just

1552
01:21:38,960 --> 01:21:41,519
Speaker 1: this conversation is a little too casual for my liking.

1553
01:21:41,720 --> 01:21:44,160
Speaker 1: Got kids doing sex acts on each other, father beating

1554
01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:47,000
Speaker 1: on his ex like jeezz christ. I just don't understand

1555
01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 1: how we casually discussed trauma like that. Yeah, you around him,

1556
01:21:51,320 --> 01:21:53,920
Speaker 1: he did. I walk around with a with a pretty

1557
01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 1: bright energy. I have a really good energy only because

1558
01:21:56,960 --> 01:21:59,640
Speaker 1: that's not going to make me a narrow baby. I

1559
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:02,040
Speaker 1: do have the scars I'm able to tell other people

1560
01:22:02,040 --> 01:22:04,720
Speaker 1: what I've been through, so they can be like, okay, yeah,

1561
01:22:04,880 --> 01:22:06,880
Speaker 1: like they know what to look for us because I

1562
01:22:06,920 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 1: went through five years like pregnant and not pregnant, getting

1563
01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:13,960
Speaker 1: like beat drags, all types of stuff. So it's more

1564
01:22:14,040 --> 01:22:17,000
Speaker 1: or less like the learning experience for me. And now

1565
01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:18,880
Speaker 1: I can teach other people, and now I know what

1566
01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:20,840
Speaker 1: to look for for myself as well. I just feel

1567
01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:22,560
Speaker 1: like he needs to be in jail. I'm saying you

1568
01:22:22,720 --> 01:22:25,800
Speaker 1: so much to leave under the jail, should have been there.

1569
01:22:25,880 --> 01:22:27,920
Speaker 1: But every time he gets there, just parents tell them

1570
01:22:27,920 --> 01:22:32,280
Speaker 1: out right, Well, listen, let's just make sure judge, lawyer,

1571
01:22:32,640 --> 01:22:34,960
Speaker 1: restraining order, everything you got to do to make sure

1572
01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:39,360
Speaker 1: he's not around. Cool, I mean, thank y'all. All right, right, Wow,

1573
01:22:39,400 --> 01:22:43,439
Speaker 1: her energy is amazing. My goodness, ask ye eight hundred

1574
01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:47,320
Speaker 1: five you know what and and this has nothing to

1575
01:22:47,320 --> 01:22:49,200
Speaker 1: do it but do it that. But that's why I

1576
01:22:49,320 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 1: never let my kids sleep at people's houses. But that's

1577
01:22:52,360 --> 01:22:55,040
Speaker 1: their dad. You gotta think. Yeah, but I'm saying in

1578
01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:58,479
Speaker 1: her head right, originally that's yeah. I guess you're right,

1579
01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:01,240
Speaker 1: But that is the rest, not other people. That is

1580
01:23:01,240 --> 01:23:03,439
Speaker 1: the reason why I don't let my kids go to

1581
01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:05,840
Speaker 1: anybody's house, spend the night at anybody's house. I don't

1582
01:23:05,840 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 1: really let anybody watch my kids, just for that, and

1583
01:23:08,360 --> 01:23:09,840
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be, you know that, just don't.

1584
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:12,559
Speaker 1: I don't trust anybody around my kids. And that's anxiety.

1585
01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:14,400
Speaker 1: But that's just who I am, you know, And just

1586
01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:16,120
Speaker 1: I just think about how guys are always like, oh,

1587
01:23:16,160 --> 01:23:17,800
Speaker 1: she need to let us see your kids, like, because

1588
01:23:17,840 --> 01:23:19,559
Speaker 1: we just had a whole issue about this the other

1589
01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:22,439
Speaker 1: day for asking and that situation that man should not

1590
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 1: be around those child He shouldn't be around any children,

1591
01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:27,439
Speaker 1: definitely not his own. All right, Well, we got rumors

1592
01:23:27,479 --> 01:23:29,599
Speaker 1: on the way, yes, and let's talk about the Shop.

1593
01:23:29,680 --> 01:23:32,519
Speaker 1: A new season of The Shop is coming. It's the

1594
01:23:32,640 --> 01:23:34,280
Speaker 1: fourth season, and we'll tell you who some of these

1595
01:23:34,360 --> 01:23:36,000
Speaker 1: huge guests are going to be for the new season.

1596
01:23:36,040 --> 01:23:37,800
Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into it next. It's the Breakfast Club.

1597
01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:45,040
Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This is the rumor Report

1598
01:23:45,479 --> 01:23:55,360
Speaker 1: with Angela. Ye. Well, The Shop Uninterrupted is returning on

1599
01:23:55,560 --> 01:23:59,080
Speaker 1: HBO and HBO Max tomorrow and some of the new

1600
01:23:59,120 --> 01:24:02,240
Speaker 1: people on this sea in joining Lebron and Maverick are

1601
01:24:02,280 --> 01:24:07,080
Speaker 1: going to be jay Z, Bad, Bunny w NBA Star,

1602
01:24:09,960 --> 01:24:14,080
Speaker 1: that's jay Z that's jay z Okay Nakagwi McKay and

1603
01:24:14,200 --> 01:24:18,040
Speaker 1: marketing executive Paul Rivera. So a lot of things being discussed.

1604
01:24:18,040 --> 01:24:20,680
Speaker 1: Here's the trailer. I got two teenage boys. Do they

1605
01:24:20,760 --> 01:24:26,960
Speaker 1: care that I'm not gonna enter spec where I'm with

1606
01:24:27,000 --> 01:24:29,840
Speaker 1: people that I don't align with. I'm a shy person,

1607
01:24:29,960 --> 01:24:33,880
Speaker 1: but at the same dying I'm yam. Being confident is

1608
01:24:34,000 --> 01:24:37,280
Speaker 1: taking chances and being failing. Did it get to a

1609
01:24:37,280 --> 01:24:39,080
Speaker 1: point where it was so zoned out that you didn't

1610
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:40,439
Speaker 1: see anybody In the beginning, I used to get on

1611
01:24:40,479 --> 01:24:45,200
Speaker 1: State and just forget all my lyrics. Well, there you go,

1612
01:24:45,520 --> 01:24:49,080
Speaker 1: stay tomorrow, yep. I know y'all can't wait. All right now.

1613
01:24:49,160 --> 01:24:52,240
Speaker 1: Hillary Clinton, who was talking to two q and non

1614
01:24:52,360 --> 01:24:55,320
Speaker 1: believers in Amazon's debunking Barat. She actually sent them a

1615
01:24:55,439 --> 01:24:59,840
Speaker 1: video after they discussed some of the rumors and things

1616
01:24:59,840 --> 01:25:02,840
Speaker 1: that QAnon spreads about Hillary Clinton. The episode is called

1617
01:25:03,200 --> 01:25:06,360
Speaker 1: Hillary Clinton and Blood Libel, and that is referencing the

1618
01:25:06,400 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 1: anti Semitical lie that Jews drink the blood of Christians children.

1619
01:25:10,960 --> 01:25:14,200
Speaker 1: And here is what they had to say. Clinton's are

1620
01:25:14,280 --> 01:25:17,920
Speaker 1: very evil. Supposedly they torture these kids, It gets their

1621
01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:22,080
Speaker 1: adrenaline flowing in their body. Then they take that out

1622
01:25:22,080 --> 01:25:24,920
Speaker 1: of their dream dream of limbs, and then they drink

1623
01:25:24,920 --> 01:25:28,240
Speaker 1: their blood or that. I've heard about things like that,

1624
01:25:29,680 --> 01:25:32,000
Speaker 1: all right, So it's too. Quan On supported Jim Russell

1625
01:25:32,040 --> 01:25:35,240
Speaker 1: and Jerry Holloman, and they believe that Hillary Clinton and

1626
01:25:35,280 --> 01:25:40,320
Speaker 1: other politicians are somehow secretly bloodthirsty child torturers. Now, Hillary

1627
01:25:40,320 --> 01:25:44,000
Speaker 1: Clinton did send a response, I know that you're not alone.

1628
01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:47,400
Speaker 1: It's hurtful. I'll be really honest with you. It's hurtful

1629
01:25:47,520 --> 01:25:50,040
Speaker 1: not just to me and my family, but to my

1630
01:25:50,120 --> 01:25:53,640
Speaker 1: friends and on other people who know that this is

1631
01:25:54,200 --> 01:25:57,840
Speaker 1: not just false but painfully falls. So, just as one

1632
01:25:57,840 --> 01:26:01,439
Speaker 1: American to another, I hope that we can start trying

1633
01:26:01,439 --> 01:26:05,400
Speaker 1: to find some common ground again and overcome all those

1634
01:26:05,439 --> 01:26:08,280
Speaker 1: forces trying to divide us and put us into little

1635
01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:11,559
Speaker 1: boxes apart from each other. I think it's a compliment

1636
01:26:11,560 --> 01:26:13,960
Speaker 1: when people make up wild conspiracy theories about you in

1637
01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:16,720
Speaker 1: that way that means you have achieved something so unbelievable

1638
01:26:16,800 --> 01:26:19,160
Speaker 1: to them, something that they think is not humanly possible.

1639
01:26:19,320 --> 01:26:20,960
Speaker 1: So you either have to sell your soul or drink

1640
01:26:21,000 --> 01:26:23,519
Speaker 1: the blood of children. It's movies to get it well,

1641
01:26:23,560 --> 01:26:25,560
Speaker 1: I think she said it was hurtful though it is,

1642
01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:28,280
Speaker 1: and of course they did brush off her message and

1643
01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:30,320
Speaker 1: double down on the fact that they also just cannot

1644
01:26:30,360 --> 01:26:32,200
Speaker 1: stand here. But there is another way to look at

1645
01:26:32,240 --> 01:26:33,720
Speaker 1: it. It It is a compliment when people got to make

1646
01:26:33,800 --> 01:26:37,040
Speaker 1: up that those type of wild theories just to you know,

1647
01:26:37,240 --> 01:26:40,120
Speaker 1: make themselves believe. Why why you're in the position you're in. Yeah,

1648
01:26:40,120 --> 01:26:43,760
Speaker 1: because you're in an illuminati? Right, yes, very much so?

1649
01:26:44,280 --> 01:26:46,720
Speaker 1: All right now, Giherbo has entered a not guilty plea

1650
01:26:46,800 --> 01:26:48,680
Speaker 1: in the Wire for Our case. He was charged with

1651
01:26:48,720 --> 01:26:51,559
Speaker 1: a lying to a federal agent about his relationship with

1652
01:26:51,600 --> 01:26:53,840
Speaker 1: one of his alleged co conspirators in a federal for

1653
01:26:53,920 --> 01:26:56,320
Speaker 1: Our case and he is pleading not guilty. On the

1654
01:26:56,320 --> 01:26:58,720
Speaker 1: flip side. And some great news he and Talana have

1655
01:26:58,800 --> 01:27:03,920
Speaker 1: had their baby. Nice congrats today. Congrats, So congratulations to

1656
01:27:04,040 --> 01:27:07,280
Speaker 1: Herbal and Taliana. They had that little baby. All right now.

1657
01:27:07,280 --> 01:27:10,559
Speaker 1: Paul Parris has some things to say at ESPN. He

1658
01:27:10,600 --> 01:27:13,800
Speaker 1: wrote on Twitter to them yesterday at ESPN, I don't

1659
01:27:13,840 --> 01:27:16,680
Speaker 1: need you. I got at ethereum Max. I made more

1660
01:27:16,720 --> 01:27:18,880
Speaker 1: money with crypto in this past month than I did

1661
01:27:18,880 --> 01:27:21,160
Speaker 1: with you all in a year. Truthshell set you free

1662
01:27:22,120 --> 01:27:25,599
Speaker 1: my own boss, so I guess he's happy to not

1663
01:27:25,680 --> 01:27:31,840
Speaker 1: be there anymore. Now let's discuss this is stupid. You

1664
01:27:31,920 --> 01:27:35,240
Speaker 1: look at your full please. This is stupid since you

1665
01:27:35,360 --> 01:27:38,600
Speaker 1: just talked about the g Herbal this is the intern internutshell,

1666
01:27:39,520 --> 01:27:44,160
Speaker 1: this is stupid. What happened dj nvca congrats to g

1667
01:27:44,400 --> 01:27:48,240
Speaker 1: Herbal in Tiana, and it says and people not fans,

1668
01:27:48,240 --> 01:27:50,799
Speaker 1: trying to get at DJ envy for simply saying congrats

1669
01:27:50,800 --> 01:27:53,000
Speaker 1: to g Herbal and his new baby boy. Is there

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Speaker 1: a certain way you're supposed to congratulate someone? DJA put congrats?

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01:27:56,960 --> 01:27:59,000
Speaker 1: Somebody put what's up with all those dots? I said,

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01:27:59,000 --> 01:28:02,479
Speaker 1: cots that that's what. They don't call you envy for nothing.

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01:28:02,800 --> 01:28:05,479
Speaker 1: You know what somebody said. Somebody did clarify. This is

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01:28:05,479 --> 01:28:07,360
Speaker 1: how my daddy typed too. That's just how some older

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01:28:07,400 --> 01:28:11,000
Speaker 1: people being on Instagram. But what's the problem he said? Congrats?

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01:28:12,120 --> 01:28:13,920
Speaker 1: And why would you be jose him having a baby.

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01:28:13,960 --> 01:28:19,559
Speaker 1: You got ten of him. I got Jesus like Herbo

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01:28:19,680 --> 01:28:23,000
Speaker 1: and Shelter. You know Tiana, that's family's daughter. So I said,

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01:28:24,040 --> 01:28:27,320
Speaker 1: said congrats. That sounded like some The crazy thing is

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01:28:27,479 --> 01:28:30,679
Speaker 1: who posted that what blogs I posted. Oh my goodness,

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01:28:30,720 --> 01:28:32,960
Speaker 1: why did you put the dots? I put dots on everything.

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01:28:33,080 --> 01:28:36,639
Speaker 1: Why that's just shut up, man, it's just died. It's

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01:28:37,920 --> 01:28:39,479
Speaker 1: that's what I do. When I say something, I says,

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01:28:40,080 --> 01:28:41,799
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. And then the picture they posted

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01:28:41,800 --> 01:28:45,160
Speaker 1: of you with it, you do look jealous? Yeah, I

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01:28:45,240 --> 01:28:57,479
Speaker 1: can't sunglasses jersey on. You know what, hater? How did

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01:28:57,520 --> 01:28:59,400
Speaker 1: I do? Think about it? This is the way I excess.

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01:28:59,439 --> 01:29:06,360
Speaker 1: Congrats yea an extra nothing look like a hater, but

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Speaker 1: it liked. I love to see brothers when it in

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01:29:13,520 --> 01:29:16,840
Speaker 1: having fruit food for I do everything. If you look,

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01:29:16,840 --> 01:29:19,120
Speaker 1: if you read all my posts, I always use a take.

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01:29:19,560 --> 01:29:21,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why I use that right now.

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01:29:21,439 --> 01:29:23,640
Speaker 1: They said that that's what old people do one right,

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01:29:23,720 --> 01:29:25,240
Speaker 1: I use that because I don't know how you trunk

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01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:29,519
Speaker 1: about to say pronunciation? What's the thing called what's common

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01:29:29,600 --> 01:29:34,000
Speaker 1: and stuff called? Oh my gosh, guys, I can't punctuation punctuation, right,

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01:29:34,040 --> 01:29:36,559
Speaker 1: I don't know how do you function? So I do

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01:29:36,640 --> 01:29:41,080
Speaker 1: it all right? Well, and you got the mixed coming

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01:29:41,160 --> 01:29:44,160
Speaker 1: up dot dot dotor. I'm a New York time. Okay,

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01:29:44,160 --> 01:29:47,280
Speaker 1: that's what edit is for. Yeah, I can tell a story,

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Speaker 1: I just can't pronounce it. No, what's the word pronunciated?

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01:29:51,320 --> 01:29:55,000
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, pronunciate stopping all right, shout out to revolt.

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01:29:55,240 --> 01:30:02,599
Speaker 1: I'm a doctor's okay, all right, you expect me as such.

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01:30:02,920 --> 01:30:05,000
Speaker 1: Revote with seeing them everybody else, Let's get to the mix.

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01:30:05,040 --> 01:30:08,040
Speaker 1: Happy birthday, jadakiss dot dot dot day so I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: play some joints and also Andre three thousand dot dot

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01:30:10,320 --> 01:30:14,040
Speaker 1: dot doppy birthday dot dot dots two are the greatest

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01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:16,400
Speaker 1: to ever do it. Let's go dot dot dot so

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. Hey,

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01:30:21,040 --> 01:30:24,320
Speaker 1: it's Angela Yee. By using brands like Dove and Helmets,

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Speaker 1: you're supporting Unilever and the everyday good they do, like

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Speaker 1: donating more than twenty five million dollars worth of everyday

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01:30:30,720 --> 01:30:33,960
Speaker 1: products and services to groups like Feeding America this year.

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Speaker 1: Visit Unilever does Good dot com to support communities impacted

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Speaker 1: by the pandemic. Morning. Everybody is cej Envy, Angela Yee,

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Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy, we are the Breakfast Club. Yesterday, I

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01:30:45,320 --> 01:30:48,280
Speaker 1: almost uh almost got into an altercation with Queens Flip,

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01:30:48,479 --> 01:30:51,200
Speaker 1: and you know Queens Flippy does all these, um, I

1719
01:30:51,240 --> 01:30:53,479
Speaker 1: guess what do you call them? These little skits jobs

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01:30:53,479 --> 01:30:56,320
Speaker 1: to do? And he hopped my fence yesterday and it

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01:30:56,400 --> 01:31:00,240
Speaker 1: almost got nasty. And thank god that the door wasn't

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01:31:00,280 --> 01:31:02,040
Speaker 1: outside and I didn't sick the dog. And I've seen

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01:31:02,040 --> 01:31:04,200
Speaker 1: it with him, because if I didn't see it with him,

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01:31:04,560 --> 01:31:08,599
Speaker 1: I would probably be Yes, nobody believes this. It was no,

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01:31:08,800 --> 01:31:12,280
Speaker 1: it's true story. Shut, I know a true story. Ya. No,

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01:31:12,320 --> 01:31:18,360
Speaker 1: we did the skid after talking from true story, yapped

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01:31:18,360 --> 01:31:19,800
Speaker 1: over the fence and why does he know where you

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01:31:19,840 --> 01:31:24,920
Speaker 1: live at? Um? He he just pulled up to your house. Yes,

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01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:27,760
Speaker 1: y'all cool like that man Queens is cool. Yeah, but

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01:31:27,800 --> 01:31:29,600
Speaker 1: he hopped the fence and I seen him hop the

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01:31:29,680 --> 01:31:32,880
Speaker 1: fence and I've seen this, this big fat black dude

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01:31:32,920 --> 01:31:35,519
Speaker 1: running down my driveway. I'm like what And I've seen

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01:31:35,560 --> 01:31:37,840
Speaker 1: it with him, and you know I did send the

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01:31:37,840 --> 01:31:40,800
Speaker 1: dog at him. Well yeah, but he had to jump

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01:31:40,800 --> 01:31:42,679
Speaker 1: in the pool squashed it out. Yeah, we were talking

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01:31:42,680 --> 01:31:46,640
Speaker 1: about you guys. Squashed it Yeah because you because he

1737
01:31:46,640 --> 01:31:48,680
Speaker 1: does skits and he thinks it's funny, but sometimes it's

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01:31:48,720 --> 01:31:51,200
Speaker 1: not funny, right, and you know it could have got nasty,

1739
01:31:51,280 --> 01:31:55,519
Speaker 1: but you know dot dot, shout the queen's flip. He

1740
01:31:55,680 --> 01:32:00,679
Speaker 1: better be from queens. If his name is Queen's flip, Yeah,

1741
01:32:01,720 --> 01:32:04,000
Speaker 1: he should be a queen, and shout to Hollywood. And

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01:32:04,000 --> 01:32:05,960
Speaker 1: the reason we keep saying dot dot dot is because

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01:32:06,760 --> 01:32:09,479
Speaker 1: g Herbo had his baby and I hit him on

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01:32:09,479 --> 01:32:13,760
Speaker 1: on Instagram dot dot dot, and people was like, why

1745
01:32:13,920 --> 01:32:16,280
Speaker 1: MV being so this? I'm like, what's wrong with the dots?

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01:32:16,640 --> 01:32:19,240
Speaker 1: Just do an exclamation mark next time, bro, That's all

1747
01:32:19,280 --> 01:32:21,479
Speaker 1: I want to do. What I want to do. Everybody,

1748
01:32:22,880 --> 01:32:25,200
Speaker 1: everybody going at his comments and put dot dot dot

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01:32:25,520 --> 01:32:27,559
Speaker 1: were because it could have been it because it looked

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01:32:27,600 --> 01:32:31,080
Speaker 1: like it's like, congratulations, this could have been us. But yeah,

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01:32:31,160 --> 01:32:33,559
Speaker 1: that's what it seems like with all the dot dot dot,

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01:32:33,640 --> 01:32:37,120
Speaker 1: But it was that congrat Do you look like back?

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01:32:40,040 --> 01:32:41,800
Speaker 1: You look like a bit of X who hasn't moved on?

1754
01:32:42,240 --> 01:32:44,960
Speaker 1: And that person you hit it and that person then

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01:32:45,000 --> 01:32:47,160
Speaker 1: got a girl had a baby, and you're still lonely,

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01:32:47,320 --> 01:32:50,640
Speaker 1: you know, because that dot that dot doesn't senuate like

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01:32:51,720 --> 01:33:00,200
Speaker 1: English language literally, and some means like to be what

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01:33:00,240 --> 01:33:02,680
Speaker 1: do you know about English drama? Dot dot dot the

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01:33:03,240 --> 01:33:06,679
Speaker 1: first second, third grade, that's what you're a liar? Dot

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01:33:06,720 --> 01:33:10,000
Speaker 1: dot dot dot. Yes, that's Puerto Rican language. Don't call

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01:33:10,080 --> 01:33:13,960
Speaker 1: talking to us about what you do to be continued

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01:33:14,000 --> 01:33:16,439
Speaker 1: like there's something more. That's exactly what it means to

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01:33:16,560 --> 01:33:20,040
Speaker 1: be continued, well as stated by the English language, but

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01:33:20,120 --> 01:33:24,679
Speaker 1: that relationship is to be continued. Congratulations if he continued,

1765
01:33:24,880 --> 01:33:26,880
Speaker 1: that's what that's okay. It's a birth of a child.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know what it felt like. Congrats dot

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01:33:30,320 --> 01:33:34,040
Speaker 1: dot dot, but you don't have six and then the

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01:33:34,120 --> 01:33:36,679
Speaker 1: congrats can go if you leave the dot dot dots

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01:33:36,680 --> 01:33:38,599
Speaker 1: and that means you don't have to say congrats ever again,

1770
01:33:38,680 --> 01:33:40,360
Speaker 1: meaning like when they go to first grade for the

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01:33:40,360 --> 01:33:43,800
Speaker 1: first time, when they turned sixteen, when they turned twenty one. Listen,

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01:33:43,840 --> 01:33:45,400
Speaker 1: they want to listen to you. I'm listening to the doctor.

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01:33:45,400 --> 01:33:49,080
Speaker 1: The doctor said I could use him. Sure him. He

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01:33:49,160 --> 01:33:51,519
Speaker 1: doing the doctor who came and pronounce the word homicide properly.

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01:33:51,560 --> 01:33:54,320
Speaker 1: Listen to him. What did you call me? What did

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01:33:54,320 --> 01:33:57,960
Speaker 1: you call me? You're freaking home a fold. I knew

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01:33:58,000 --> 01:34:02,400
Speaker 1: it when we come back. Positive notice to Breakfast club.

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01:34:02,400 --> 01:34:07,639
Speaker 1: Good morning. Now, tonight's a big night. It's the iHeart

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01:34:07,680 --> 01:34:10,879
Speaker 1: Radio Music Awards that comes on tonight at a pm Eastern.

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01:34:10,920 --> 01:34:13,960
Speaker 1: You can watch that on demand, Fox Now and Hulu,

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01:34:14,000 --> 01:34:17,839
Speaker 1: and of course on iHeart radio stations across America. Usher

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01:34:18,000 --> 01:34:20,240
Speaker 1: is gonna have his incredible club USh I'm sure he's

1783
01:34:20,240 --> 01:34:22,880
Speaker 1: gonna be throwing Usher Bucks all over the place. It's

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01:34:22,880 --> 01:34:24,800
Speaker 1: a nightclub that's built into the side of the stage.

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01:34:24,800 --> 01:34:28,000
Speaker 1: He's gonna host the whole thing, and he's gonna also

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01:34:28,120 --> 01:34:30,880
Speaker 1: be there performing with other artists. Now, if you ever

1787
01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:33,639
Speaker 1: dreamed of walking into a lounge and finding Bruno Mars

1788
01:34:33,680 --> 01:34:36,960
Speaker 1: and Anderson Pack ticking over the piano and serenading you

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01:34:37,000 --> 01:34:40,280
Speaker 1: at the bar, now you can experience that with Silk Sonic,

1790
01:34:40,280 --> 01:34:42,920
Speaker 1: and they're gonna do my song leave the Door Open.

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01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:45,439
Speaker 1: That was like my vacation song just now In Turks

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01:34:45,439 --> 01:34:49,080
Speaker 1: and Caicos. Usher also has an incredible medley of Yeah, Confessions,

1793
01:34:49,160 --> 01:34:52,320
Speaker 1: Love in This Club, Scream and more Planned and Little

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01:34:52,360 --> 01:34:54,360
Speaker 1: John's gonna pull up in a nineteen seventy two and

1795
01:34:54,439 --> 01:34:58,040
Speaker 1: Paula to join Usher on stage for their performance of Yeah.

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01:34:58,320 --> 01:35:00,639
Speaker 1: Little John and Usher are also gonna make it rain

1797
01:35:00,760 --> 01:35:02,960
Speaker 1: and better not be Usher Bucks while they break it

1798
01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:05,240
Speaker 1: down on stage and head to toe, White and Gold

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01:35:05,280 --> 01:35:08,200
Speaker 1: and the biggest breakout artists of the year that's Dozia Cat.

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01:35:08,479 --> 01:35:11,880
Speaker 1: She's put together a stunning visual performance of her biggest hits,

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01:35:12,120 --> 01:35:14,360
Speaker 1: and Dan and Shade will be reuniting with their full

1802
01:35:14,360 --> 01:35:17,240
Speaker 1: band for the first time to perform Glad You Exist.

1803
01:35:17,320 --> 01:35:20,599
Speaker 1: So everybody's gonna be at the show making the Stallion Teller,

1804
01:35:20,720 --> 01:35:23,559
Speaker 1: Swift Friday, rich L L Cool, Jay Machine Gun, Kelly

1805
01:35:23,560 --> 01:35:27,439
Speaker 1: French Montana to a Lepa twenty one pilots. We told

1806
01:35:27,479 --> 01:35:30,640
Speaker 1: you Little John, Robin Thick Rapha Yo Sadik you know

1807
01:35:30,720 --> 01:35:33,240
Speaker 1: from Tony Tony, Tony, and a whole lot more. So

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01:35:33,280 --> 01:35:35,799
Speaker 1: make sure y'all check that out tonight at APM dot

1809
01:35:35,880 --> 01:35:40,479
Speaker 1: dot Damn my heart. No surprises, like Jesus Christ, give

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01:35:40,560 --> 01:35:43,479
Speaker 1: us the whole detail to rundown, Like, man, you want

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01:35:43,479 --> 01:35:45,479
Speaker 1: to watch now? I mean I will. I'm watching them,

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01:35:45,479 --> 01:35:47,200
Speaker 1: definitely watching them. I'm just like, give it. Leave us

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01:35:47,200 --> 01:35:50,200
Speaker 1: some surprises. It sounds amazing though, especially that little John thing.

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01:35:50,200 --> 01:35:51,800
Speaker 1: I want to see what that what that's about? But

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01:35:51,840 --> 01:35:53,679
Speaker 1: that would have been a good surprise, right see little

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01:35:53,720 --> 01:35:56,360
Speaker 1: John pull up in the old school. Well we spoiled

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01:35:56,360 --> 01:36:00,519
Speaker 1: it all right, Well leave us on a positive note. Listen,

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Speaker 1: people of poor character tend to blame their choices on circumstances.

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01:36:04,760 --> 01:36:08,720
Speaker 1: Ethical people make good choices regardless of circumstances. If they

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01:36:08,760 --> 01:36:11,880
Speaker 1: make enough good choices, they begin to create better conditions

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Speaker 1: for themselves. Breakfast Club begins, y'all finish with y'all dumb