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Speaker 2: Bobby is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up, but he's getting ghosted by Mila. So in
Speaker 2: a second we're gonna call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him
Speaker 2: another date. But first, Bobby, how long has the vinceince
Speaker 2: you heard from Mela?
Speaker 3: Git there, It's been about ten days.
Speaker 4: Have you tried to reach out to her in those
Speaker 4: sun days?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I've texted her like twice the center a meme
Speaker 6: or two, but it's been nothing.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, why don't you tell us about the date?
Speaker 3: Sure?
Speaker 6: Yeah, So we met a pot look that a mutual
Speaker 6: friend friend was throwing and it was her ags makes
Speaker 6: you know, everyone bringing like a homemade dish thing and
Speaker 6: I love to cook.
Speaker 3: I love being in the kitchen. So I brought my
Speaker 3: mom's famous.
Speaker 6: Big past role and it might have been slightly overcooked,
Speaker 6: but it was still edible and I think really good.
Speaker 6: And Mela showed up with like this like amazing, like
Speaker 6: professional charcuterie board, so many different cheeses. I could not
Speaker 6: stop eating it and I talked for like the entire
Speaker 6: night for so long.
Speaker 3: You know, it was like it was a really good vine.
Speaker 7: That's great. So did you feel like Mila was into
Speaker 7: the vibe? Does she love that you were eating her cheese?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Absolutely, Like we we were talking with a group outside
Speaker 6: and it felt like it was just us too, because
Speaker 6: like we were just talking between us like the entire time,
Speaker 6: back and forth, and uh, like we were talking about
Speaker 6: like cooking too, like the best way to my gualk,
Speaker 6: which you know I have some very strong feelings about.
Speaker 3: So I mean it felt really natural and good.
Speaker 4: Why do you think she might be ghosting you?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 6: Well, the only thing I can think is that I
Speaker 6: might have like overdone it at the potluck, like we
Speaker 6: I think I tried to impress her too much. But basically,
Speaker 6: she mentioned that how much she loves flond and I
Speaker 6: tried to like whip one up from scratch, just like
Speaker 6: using whatever I could find in the kitchen. I thought
Speaker 6: it'd be like really cute and romantic, but it did
Speaker 6: not go very well, Like I set off the smoke
Speaker 6: alarm and the flawn turned out more like like a soup.
Speaker 2: That's pretty impressive that you were able to make an
Speaker 2: impromptu flawn.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm just trying to picture it. She's like, I
Speaker 7: love flawn, and you go, bet watch this.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I might have. I might have been feeling a
Speaker 3: little too confident.
Speaker 4: Okay, And did the flawon taste any good?
Speaker 3: You know it? It tasted fine.
Speaker 6: The consistency was a little weird, but she like laughed
Speaker 6: it off, you know, But then she got like kind
Speaker 6: of quiet after that.
Speaker 3: So I don't know, I like, I don't know if
Speaker 3: I to give her the ck or I don't know.
Speaker 4: I just like, how do you recover from a fire alarm?
Speaker 7: I mean that's quite a like, I mean, or the
Speaker 7: whole party's got to stop for a second and then
Speaker 7: restart up again.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you quick. We just worked the spokelom
Speaker 3: out of the ceiling.
Speaker 4: It was no big deal, all right.
Speaker 2: And so the flawn or the failed flawn, I guess,
Speaker 2: is the only thing you can think of that might
Speaker 2: be the reason that she's ghosting you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because like everything else want like so naturally in
Speaker 3: the party. So I don't know.
Speaker 4: All right, Well, we'll see if we can help you out.
Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another chance at making some
Speaker 2: really good flawn for her. We'll play a song come
Speaker 2: back and get your first a follow.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Bobby is on the phone
Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by Milas. So we're about to
Speaker 2: call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
Speaker 2: ghosting him and hopefully get him another well first date,
Speaker 2: I guess, because they haven't really had an official date yet.
Speaker 2: But Bobby, before we do that, why don't you tell
Speaker 2: us what happened with me again?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: So we met had a pop look but a mutual
Speaker 6: friend put together and we really hit it off, your
Speaker 6: like talking all night, and then I tried to impress
Speaker 6: her by like making a flond from scratch and it
Speaker 6: did not go very well. But it's not like anyone
Speaker 6: got hurt or anything. But you know, I think I
Speaker 6: might have just turned her off.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I've never known anybody that's gotten injured from a fond,
Speaker 2: but it happened.
Speaker 4: It's possible. We'll see. Are you ready for us to
Speaker 4: call her? Yes? Okay, here we go. Want a dollar
Speaker 4: in front of her right now? Hello? Hi, man, speak
Speaker 4: to Mela. Please, Mila? How are you? This is the
Speaker 4: Jubile Show. It's a radio Showila. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm
Speaker 4: Victoria and I'm Jubil. How are you doing? Oh my god?
Speaker 3: Are you serious?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Do you listen to the show ever?
Speaker 3: I have heard you guys before. This is this is wild?
Speaker 4: Thank you? Well you've never heard a first aid? Follow up?
Speaker 4: What you do on the show.
Speaker 2: That's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody, you can
Speaker 2: email us and then we call that person and see
Speaker 2: if they'll tell us why you're ghosting them. So, we
Speaker 2: got an email about you from somebody. Do you know
Speaker 2: who would email us?
Speaker 3: Is it about Bobby?
Speaker 4: Oh? Yes, it is about Bobby.
Speaker 2: He told us all about meeting you at the party
Speaker 2: and he said it's been about ten days that you
Speaker 2: guys really hit it off, liked you a lot, but
Speaker 2: doesn't know why you're not calling him back.
Speaker 4: Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 5: Sure? So okay, First off, Bobby is sweet, really sweet,
Speaker 5: but he's kind of chaotic.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, the pomic was.
Speaker 5: Fun that I've never seen someone try to make a
Speaker 5: flawn out of nothing.
Speaker 2: He told us about that he thinks that him trying
Speaker 2: to make a flawn and then setting off the fire
Speaker 2: alarm and all that stuff might be the reason that
Speaker 2: you're ghosting.
Speaker 5: Oh no, I mean it was. It was very sweet.
Speaker 5: It was kind of insane, but it was very sweet.
Speaker 5: But there was this girl there, Emily, who would not
Speaker 5: stop flirting with him. She was trying to help him.
Speaker 5: She was like, oh my god, you're so brave for
Speaker 5: making this flaw. It's amazing. It was not an amazing
Speaker 5: flw you know. And I'm just I'm not interested in
Speaker 5: chasing anyone. Well, i mean, the fire alarm did go off, though,
Speaker 5: you know, I'm just I'm not interested in like fighting
Speaker 5: over some guy.
Speaker 4: You know, he's nice, but he said he texted you
Speaker 4: a couple of times.
Speaker 5: Yeah, But I mean, I just it seems messy and
Speaker 5: chaotic and not for me.
Speaker 2: Like you think that the other girl that was flirting
Speaker 2: with him, he's also interested in her.
Speaker 5: I mean, I assume so, because she was so flirty.
Speaker 5: So I'm just kind of like that's cool. Do your thing,
Speaker 5: you know, did he flat back?
Speaker 4: Was he given her the time of day?
Speaker 5: I mean, he was so excited about the flawn that
Speaker 5: I'm not sure. He just seemed really really excited about everything.
Speaker 3: So but it's kind of.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like someone was a little less excited about life.
Speaker 5: There was just a chaotic element to it that I'm
Speaker 5: just not sure about, you know.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Well, thank you for telling us why you're
Speaker 2: not calling him back. Speaking of chaos, Mila, I don't
Speaker 2: know if you know this or not, but Bobby is
Speaker 2: actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Hi. Wait, wait me, you really think Emily was blirting
Speaker 3: with me? Really? Yeah?
Speaker 5: She ate two pieces of that flawn, like nobody wanted
Speaker 5: to eat the fawn.
Speaker 3: I thought she was just being nice, like.
Speaker 5: I mean she was, she was being nice, but like
Speaker 5: ana get into your pants kind of oh.
Speaker 3: I mean, she was like.
Speaker 5: Grabbing your arm while you were cooking, and she kept
Speaker 5: like laughing at literally everything said.
Speaker 3: I mean, obvious, this is.
Speaker 5: What women do when they're into you.
Speaker 3: I guess I didn't notice.
Speaker 6: I honestly, I was really just trying to make sure
Speaker 6: I didn't like burn up the kitchen.
Speaker 3: Be well fair, because we're almost it.
Speaker 4: Neila, where were you this whole time?
Speaker 7: Like, were you off in a corner watching him make
Speaker 7: it while Emily was flirting with him? Or were you
Speaker 7: standing there trying to like still get attention.
Speaker 5: No, I was kind of off in the corner at
Speaker 5: that point, like I sensed it, and I just was like,
Speaker 5: I'm out, you know, like it's just I don't know,
Speaker 5: maybe it's like self defense. I'm just not interested in
Speaker 5: getting in the middle of like something that was clearly happening,
Speaker 5: Like you know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I get that.
Speaker 7: Sometimes you're just too tired like it and like look
Speaker 7: at me, I'm so cute, Like it's exhausting.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but yeah, you don't really do that, you know.
Speaker 5: I was just kind of like, you're sweet, would have fun.
Speaker 5: She's all over you, like trying not to burn anything down.
Speaker 4: Well, Mela, would you like to go on another day
Speaker 4: with Bobby? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 5: I mean, I guess I misread it because I thought
Speaker 5: you were into Emily, But if she's not in the picture,
Speaker 5: I would.
Speaker 4: Be open to that.
Speaker 7: Yay, you got another date with Mila.
Speaker 6: Well, actually, now that I like know this about Emily,
Speaker 6: I think I kind of want to text her what wows. Well,
Speaker 6: I mean she's like really into me like that and
Speaker 6: like I kind of be deep.
Speaker 3: And not to go for it.
Speaker 5: Well, I guess I did read it right. I don't
Speaker 5: know what to do now. I feel really weird.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean Meila, like no offense, but like thanks
Speaker 6: for telling me, like you you're you're really cool like
Speaker 6: your guacrus who sounds awesome.
Speaker 3: But I mean Emily is like really pretty.
Speaker 4: And oh wow interesting.
Speaker 2: All right, well back to that chaotic thing Miila. Thank
Speaker 2: you for your time, and Bobby, good luck with Emily.
Speaker 2: I guess I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: Wow, okay, kind of what I expected to be honest,
Speaker 5: So there you go.
Speaker 3: Wow, guys, thanks so much for doing this. This is
Speaker 3: so cool. This is
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