WEBVTT - Why is Mila ghosting Bobby?

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 2>Bobby is on the phone today for a first day

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<v Speaker 2>follow up, but he's getting ghosted by Mila. So in

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<v Speaker 2>a second we're gonna call her and see if she'll

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<v Speaker 2>tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him

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<v Speaker 2>another date. But first, Bobby, how long has the vinceince

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<v Speaker 2>you heard from Mela?

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<v Speaker 3>Git there, It's been about ten days.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you tried to reach out to her in those

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<v Speaker 4>sun days?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I've texted her like twice the center a meme

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<v Speaker 6>or two, but it's been nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, why don't you tell us about the date?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, So we met a pot look that a mutual

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<v Speaker 6>friend friend was throwing and it was her ags makes

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<v Speaker 6>you know, everyone bringing like a homemade dish thing and

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<v Speaker 6>I love to cook.

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<v Speaker 3>I love being in the kitchen. So I brought my

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<v Speaker 3>mom's famous.

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<v Speaker 6>Big past role and it might have been slightly overcooked,

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<v Speaker 6>but it was still edible and I think really good.

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<v Speaker 6>And Mela showed up with like this like amazing, like

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<v Speaker 6>professional charcuterie board, so many different cheeses. I could not

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<v Speaker 6>stop eating it and I talked for like the entire

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<v Speaker 6>night for so long.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it was like it was a really good vine.

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<v Speaker 7>That's great. So did you feel like Mila was into

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<v Speaker 7>the vibe? Does she love that you were eating her cheese?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Absolutely, Like we we were talking with a group outside

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<v Speaker 6>and it felt like it was just us too, because

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<v Speaker 6>like we were just talking between us like the entire time,

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<v Speaker 6>back and forth, and uh, like we were talking about

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<v Speaker 6>like cooking too, like the best way to my gualk,

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<v Speaker 6>which you know I have some very strong feelings about.

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<v Speaker 3>So I mean it felt really natural and good.

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<v Speaker 4>Why do you think she might be ghosting you?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, the only thing I can think is that I

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<v Speaker 6>might have like overdone it at the potluck, like we

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<v Speaker 6>I think I tried to impress her too much. But basically,

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<v Speaker 6>she mentioned that how much she loves flond and I

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<v Speaker 6>tried to like whip one up from scratch, just like

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<v Speaker 6>using whatever I could find in the kitchen. I thought

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<v Speaker 6>it'd be like really cute and romantic, but it did

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<v Speaker 6>not go very well, Like I set off the smoke

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<v Speaker 6>alarm and the flawn turned out more like like a soup.

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<v Speaker 2>That's pretty impressive that you were able to make an

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<v Speaker 2>impromptu flawn.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I'm just trying to picture it. She's like, I

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<v Speaker 7>love flawn, and you go, bet watch this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I might have. I might have been feeling a

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<v Speaker 3>little too confident.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, And did the flawon taste any good?

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<v Speaker 3>You know it? It tasted fine.

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<v Speaker 6>The consistency was a little weird, but she like laughed

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<v Speaker 6>it off, you know, But then she got like kind

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<v Speaker 6>of quiet after that.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know, I like, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 3>I to give her the ck or I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I just like, how do you recover from a fire alarm?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean that's quite a like, I mean, or the

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<v Speaker 7>whole party's got to stop for a second and then

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<v Speaker 7>restart up again.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean you quick. We just worked the spokelom

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<v Speaker 3>out of the ceiling.

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<v Speaker 4>It was no big deal, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>And so the flawn or the failed flawn, I guess,

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<v Speaker 2>is the only thing you can think of that might

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<v Speaker 2>be the reason that she's ghosting you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because like everything else want like so naturally in

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<v Speaker 3>the party. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Well, we'll see if we can help you out.

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<v Speaker 2>Then we'll play a song come back, and then call

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<v Speaker 2>her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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<v Speaker 2>you and maybe get you another chance at making some

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<v Speaker 2>really good flawn for her. We'll play a song come

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<v Speaker 2>back and get your first a follow.

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<v Speaker 2>Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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<v Speaker 2>if you're just joining us, Bobby is on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>and he's getting ghosted by Milas. So we're about to

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<v Speaker 2>call her and see if she'll tell us why she's

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<v Speaker 2>ghosting him and hopefully get him another well first date,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, because they haven't really had an official date yet.

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<v Speaker 2>But Bobby, before we do that, why don't you tell

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<v Speaker 2>us what happened with me again?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>So we met had a pop look but a mutual

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<v Speaker 6>friend put together and we really hit it off, your

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<v Speaker 6>like talking all night, and then I tried to impress

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<v Speaker 6>her by like making a flond from scratch and it

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<v Speaker 6>did not go very well. But it's not like anyone

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<v Speaker 6>got hurt or anything. But you know, I think I

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<v Speaker 6>might have just turned her off.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never known anybody that's gotten injured from a fond,

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<v Speaker 2>but it happened.

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<v Speaker 4>It's possible. We'll see. Are you ready for us to

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<v Speaker 4>call her? Yes? Okay, here we go. Want a dollar

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<v Speaker 4>in front of her right now? Hello? Hi, man, speak

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<v Speaker 4>to Mela. Please, Mila? How are you? This is the

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<v Speaker 4>Jubile Show. It's a radio Showila. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>Victoria and I'm Jubil. How are you doing? Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Do you listen to the show ever?

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<v Speaker 3>I have heard you guys before. This is this is wild?

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you? Well you've never heard a first aid? Follow up?

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<v Speaker 4>What you do on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody, you can

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<v Speaker 2>email us and then we call that person and see

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<v Speaker 2>if they'll tell us why you're ghosting them. So, we

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<v Speaker 2>got an email about you from somebody. Do you know

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<v Speaker 2>who would email us?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it about Bobby?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Yes, it is about Bobby.

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<v Speaker 2>He told us all about meeting you at the party

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<v Speaker 2>and he said it's been about ten days that you

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<v Speaker 2>guys really hit it off, liked you a lot, but

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't know why you're not calling him back.

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<v Speaker 4>Would you mind telling us?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Sure? So okay, First off, Bobby is sweet, really sweet,

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<v Speaker 5>but he's kind of chaotic.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, the pomic was.

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<v Speaker 5>Fun that I've never seen someone try to make a

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<v Speaker 5>flawn out of nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>He told us about that he thinks that him trying

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<v Speaker 2>to make a flawn and then setting off the fire

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<v Speaker 2>alarm and all that stuff might be the reason that

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<v Speaker 2>you're ghosting.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, I mean it was. It was very sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>It was kind of insane, but it was very sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>But there was this girl there, Emily, who would not

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<v Speaker 5>stop flirting with him. She was trying to help him.

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<v Speaker 5>She was like, oh my god, you're so brave for

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<v Speaker 5>making this flaw. It's amazing. It was not an amazing

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<v Speaker 5>flw you know. And I'm just I'm not interested in

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<v Speaker 5>chasing anyone. Well, i mean, the fire alarm did go off, though,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I'm just I'm not interested in like fighting

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<v Speaker 5>over some guy.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, he's nice, but he said he texted you

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<v Speaker 4>a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, But I mean, I just it seems messy and

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<v Speaker 5>chaotic and not for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Like you think that the other girl that was flirting

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<v Speaker 2>with him, he's also interested in her.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I assume so, because she was so flirty.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm just kind of like that's cool. Do your thing,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, did he flat back?

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<v Speaker 4>Was he given her the time of day?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, he was so excited about the flawn that

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not sure. He just seemed really really excited about everything.

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<v Speaker 3>So but it's kind of.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like someone was a little less excited about life.

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<v Speaker 5>There was just a chaotic element to it that I'm

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<v Speaker 5>just not sure about, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, Well, thank you for telling us why you're

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<v Speaker 2>not calling him back. Speaking of chaos, Mila, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if you know this or not, but Bobby is

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<v Speaker 2>actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi. Wait, wait me, you really think Emily was blirting

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<v Speaker 3>with me? Really? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>She ate two pieces of that flawn, like nobody wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to eat the fawn.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought she was just being nice, like.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean she was, she was being nice, but like

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<v Speaker 5>ana get into your pants kind of oh.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, she was like.

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<v Speaker 5>Grabbing your arm while you were cooking, and she kept

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<v Speaker 5>like laughing at literally everything said.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, obvious, this is.

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<v Speaker 5>What women do when they're into you.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I didn't notice.

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<v Speaker 6>I honestly, I was really just trying to make sure

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't like burn up the kitchen.

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<v Speaker 3>Be well fair, because we're almost it.

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<v Speaker 4>Neila, where were you this whole time?

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<v Speaker 7>Like, were you off in a corner watching him make

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<v Speaker 7>it while Emily was flirting with him? Or were you

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<v Speaker 7>standing there trying to like still get attention.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I was kind of off in the corner at

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<v Speaker 5>that point, like I sensed it, and I just was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm out, you know, like it's just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe it's like self defense. I'm just not interested in

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<v Speaker 5>getting in the middle of like something that was clearly happening,

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<v Speaker 5>Like you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, I get that.

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<v Speaker 7>Sometimes you're just too tired like it and like look

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<v Speaker 7>at me, I'm so cute, Like it's exhausting.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but yeah, you don't really do that, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I was just kind of like, you're sweet, would have fun.

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<v Speaker 5>She's all over you, like trying not to burn anything down.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, Mela, would you like to go on another day

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<v Speaker 4>with Bobby? We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I guess I misread it because I thought

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<v Speaker 5>you were into Emily, But if she's not in the picture,

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<v Speaker 5>I would.

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<v Speaker 4>Be open to that.

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<v Speaker 7>Yay, you got another date with Mila.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, actually, now that I like know this about Emily,

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<v Speaker 6>I think I kind of want to text her what wows. Well,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean she's like really into me like that and

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<v Speaker 6>like I kind of be deep.

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<v Speaker 3>And not to go for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I guess I did read it right. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know what to do now. I feel really weird.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean Meila, like no offense, but like thanks

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<v Speaker 6>for telling me, like you you're you're really cool like

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<v Speaker 6>your guacrus who sounds awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>But I mean Emily is like really pretty.

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<v Speaker 4>And oh wow interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, well back to that chaotic thing Miila. Thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for your time, and Bobby, good luck with Emily.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, okay, kind of what I expected to be honest,

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<v Speaker 5>So there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, guys, thanks so much for doing this. This is

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<v Speaker 3>so cool. This is

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