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Speaker 2: Bobby is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, but he's getting ghosted by Mila. So in

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Speaker 2: a second we're gonna call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him

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Speaker 2: another date. But first, Bobby, how long has the vinceince

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Speaker 2: you heard from Mela?

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Speaker 3: Git there, It's been about ten days.

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Speaker 4: Have you tried to reach out to her in those

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Speaker 4: sun days?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I've texted her like twice the center a meme

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Speaker 6: or two, but it's been nothing.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, why don't you tell us about the date?

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So we met a pot look that a mutual

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Speaker 6: friend friend was throwing and it was her ags makes

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Speaker 6: you know, everyone bringing like a homemade dish thing and

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Speaker 6: I love to cook.

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Speaker 3: I love being in the kitchen. So I brought my

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Speaker 3: mom's famous.

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Speaker 6: Big past role and it might have been slightly overcooked,

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Speaker 6: but it was still edible and I think really good.

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Speaker 6: And Mela showed up with like this like amazing, like

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Speaker 6: professional charcuterie board, so many different cheeses. I could not

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Speaker 3: You know, it was like it was a really good vine.

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Speaker 7: That's great. So did you feel like Mila was into

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Speaker 7: the vibe? Does she love that you were eating her cheese?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, Like we we were talking with a group outside

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Speaker 6: back and forth, and uh, like we were talking about

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Speaker 6: like cooking too, like the best way to my gualk,

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Speaker 6: which you know I have some very strong feelings about.

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Speaker 3: So I mean it felt really natural and good.

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Speaker 4: Why do you think she might be ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 6: Well, the only thing I can think is that I

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Speaker 6: I think I tried to impress her too much. But basically,

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Speaker 6: she mentioned that how much she loves flond and I

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Speaker 6: tried to like whip one up from scratch, just like

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Speaker 6: it'd be like really cute and romantic, but it did

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Speaker 6: alarm and the flawn turned out more like like a soup.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty impressive that you were able to make an

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm just trying to picture it. She's like, I

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Speaker 7: love flawn, and you go, bet watch this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I might have. I might have been feeling a

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Speaker 4: Okay, And did the flawon taste any good?

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Speaker 3: You know it? It tasted fine.

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Speaker 6: The consistency was a little weird, but she like laughed

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Speaker 3: So I don't know, I like, I don't know if

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Speaker 4: I just like, how do you recover from a fire alarm?

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Speaker 7: I mean that's quite a like, I mean, or the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you quick. We just worked the spokelom

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Speaker 4: It was no big deal, all right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because like everything else want like so naturally in

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, we'll see if we can help you out.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Bobby is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by Milas. So we're about to

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Speaker 2: I guess, because they haven't really had an official date yet.

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Speaker 2: But Bobby, before we do that, why don't you tell

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Speaker 2: us what happened with me again?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: So we met had a pop look but a mutual

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Speaker 6: did not go very well. But it's not like anyone

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I've never known anybody that's gotten injured from a fond,

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Speaker 4: It's possible. We'll see. Are you ready for us to

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Speaker 4: call her? Yes? Okay, here we go. Want a dollar

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Speaker 4: in front of her right now? Hello? Hi, man, speak

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Speaker 4: to Mela. Please, Mila? How are you? This is the

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Speaker 4: Jubile Show. It's a radio Showila. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm

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Speaker 4: Victoria and I'm Jubil. How are you doing? Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: Are you serious?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Do you listen to the show ever?

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Speaker 3: I have heard you guys before. This is this is wild?

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Speaker 4: Thank you? Well you've never heard a first aid? Follow up?

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Speaker 4: What you do on the show.

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Speaker 2: That's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody, you can

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Speaker 2: email us and then we call that person and see

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Speaker 2: if they'll tell us why you're ghosting them. So, we

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Speaker 2: got an email about you from somebody. Do you know

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Speaker 2: who would email us?

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Speaker 3: Is it about Bobby?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Yes, it is about Bobby.

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Speaker 2: He told us all about meeting you at the party

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Speaker 2: and he said it's been about ten days that you

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Speaker 2: guys really hit it off, liked you a lot, but

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Speaker 4: Would you mind telling us?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 5: Sure? So okay, First off, Bobby is sweet, really sweet,

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, the pomic was.

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Speaker 5: Fun that I've never seen someone try to make a

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Speaker 2: He told us about that he thinks that him trying

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Speaker 5: Oh no, I mean it was. It was very sweet.

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Speaker 5: It was kind of insane, but it was very sweet.

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Speaker 5: But there was this girl there, Emily, who would not

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Speaker 5: She was like, oh my god, you're so brave for

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Speaker 5: flw you know. And I'm just I'm not interested in

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Speaker 5: you know, I'm just I'm not interested in like fighting

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Speaker 4: You know, he's nice, but he said he texted you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, But I mean, I just it seems messy and

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Speaker 2: Like you think that the other girl that was flirting

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Speaker 5: I mean, I assume so, because she was so flirty.

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Speaker 5: So I'm just kind of like that's cool. Do your thing,

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Speaker 5: There was just a chaotic element to it that I'm

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Well, thank you for telling us why you're

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Speaker 2: not calling him back. Speaking of chaos, Mila, I don't

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Speaker 3: Hi. Wait, wait me, you really think Emily was blirting

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Speaker 5: I mean she was, she was being nice, but like

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Speaker 3: I mean, she was like.

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Speaker 6: I honestly, I was really just trying to make sure

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Speaker 4: Neila, where were you this whole time?

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Speaker 7: Like, were you off in a corner watching him make

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Speaker 5: No, I was kind of off in the corner at

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I get that.

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Speaker 7: Sometimes you're just too tired like it and like look

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but yeah, you don't really do that, you know.

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Speaker 5: I was just kind of like, you're sweet, would have fun.

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Speaker 5: She's all over you, like trying not to burn anything down.

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Speaker 4: Well, Mela, would you like to go on another day

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Speaker 5: I mean, I guess I misread it because I thought

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Speaker 4: Be open to that.

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Speaker 7: Yay, you got another date with Mila.

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Speaker 6: Well, actually, now that I like know this about Emily,

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Speaker 6: I think I kind of want to text her what wows. Well,

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Speaker 3: And not to go for it.

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Speaker 5: Well, I guess I did read it right. I don't

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean Meila, like no offense, but like thanks

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Speaker 6: for telling me, like you you're you're really cool like

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Speaker 6: your guacrus who sounds awesome.

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Speaker 3: But I mean Emily is like really pretty.

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Speaker 4: And oh wow interesting.

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Speaker 2: All right, well back to that chaotic thing Miila. Thank

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Speaker 2: I guess I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: Wow, okay, kind of what I expected to be honest,

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