1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: What if I told you there was more to the 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: story behind game changing events. Get ready for my new podcast, 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 1: That Moment with Damon John will jump into the personal 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: stories of some of the most influential people on the planet, 5 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: from business mogals and celebrities to athletes and artists. Now, 6 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:25,240 Speaker 1: one thing everybody has heard me emphasize on my book, 7 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: social media interviews, all my platforms, even when I am 8 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: coaching my little girl all the way up to CEOs 9 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: is about setting goals. But when you set these goals, 10 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 1: you have to have an actual plan in place. Now, 11 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: with our year wrapping up in a couple of short weeks, 12 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: I am taking time to set my twenty twenty four plan, 13 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: my personal goals, my health goals, faith goals, all the 14 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: milestones that I am aiming to hit. And you should 15 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: be doing the same exact thing too. And I am 16 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: not talking about when twenty twenty four hits. I'm talking 17 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: about right now. Because you create this habit right in 18 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 1: the end of the year, you are often running when 19 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,119 Speaker 1: that new year begins. And that's why I have been 20 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 1: holding back this never heard before interview with the founder 21 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: of best Self Co Katherine Lovery. Catherine created the ultimate 22 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: resource for making it possible to fully surpass your goals 23 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: and execute all of your plans, and her entrepreneur journey 24 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 1: is one that we can all learn from. So let's 25 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 1: prepare for the new year, and let's all do it together. 26 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: And of course, thank you for all the help, Catherine. 27 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: Let's get into it, Catherine, thanks for being here. Thank you. 28 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: I'm seeing in a bit, but I love seeing you 29 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 1: because you always keep me on my toes. That's when 30 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: we play monopoly. Thank you. So so let's jump into this. 31 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: So you know, in twenty eleven you move over here 32 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: from Ireland, right, you're you're you know, an architect or 33 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: you know, in the business, and twenty thirteen you decide 34 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: to quit and you decide to create self journal. Right, 35 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: tell me first of all, because you know, I have kids, 36 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: and a lot of people here will have kids, and 37 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: you know they're going to go to college and study 38 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: certain things, and all of a sudden they're going to 39 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: come out and find out they're not doing something they 40 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: really are passionate about. What are they going to quit 41 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: all of a sudden? What what gave you the guts 42 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: to do that? And were you always liked that growing up? 43 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 2: So when I was growing up, I was really entrepreneurial. 44 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 3: I was like, I had an eBay business when I 45 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 3: was fourteen, and when I was seven, I was selling 46 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 3: cupcakes on the playground. Yeah, and I would sell it 47 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 3: every day, and I didn't. 48 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 1: You sell it every day? Yeah? Huh? And I would 49 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: go home, how many you were selling? One or two? 50 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 2: Or I like forty? 51 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 3: I had like two big containers and I would go 52 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 3: home and I'd be like, mom, we need more inventory 53 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 3: because I didn't actually know how to bake them. So 54 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 3: she was baking them and then she just got tired 55 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 3: of it. So I was very like entrepreneurial. 56 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: But then well she got tired of what happened. 57 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 2: You know, she had a job. 58 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 3: It wasn't her job to like big cupcakes for me 59 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 3: to bring in to school and sell on the playground. 60 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 3: So I started like trying to learn how to big. 61 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 3: She went out one night and I was like, I 62 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 3: need to have more cupcakes for tomorrow. She was like, 63 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 3: do not go into the kitchen, like you can't be 64 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 3: trusted basically, and she was right, wait a. 65 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 1: Minute, but you know, listen, my daughter's out there selling cupcakes, 66 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: moving forty units a day all right. I know it's 67 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: pain on me because I have to cook, you know, 68 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: make these cupcakes. But then all of a sudden, I go, ah, 69 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: close up the business, forget it. 70 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 3: I think at one point this school was like, maybe 71 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 3: this is not a great idea. 72 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I'm just trying to find out where 73 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: it was coming from. But maybe that said to you, hey, 74 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: you know what, I have to also be able to 75 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: make what I'm doing, so I'm not depending on anybody, 76 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: whether it's mom or anybody else. 77 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 2: Right, don't sell on anyone else's platform, even if it's 78 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: your mother. 79 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: There you go. 80 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 3: So so I was very entrepreneurial, but then, you know, 81 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 3: I didn't have any mentors or anyone that had a 82 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 3: business growing up, so it was always everyone I knew 83 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 3: just had a regular job. So I didn't even know 84 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 3: that doing what I do now I was an option. 85 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 3: And so I went to school, I became an architect, 86 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 3: And so when I was in my architecture job, I 87 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 3: moved from from home and I just realized it wasn't 88 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 3: really what I love to do. 89 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 2: But I wasn't just going to quit my job. I'm not. 90 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 2: I just don't take risks like that. 91 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 3: So I'd started a side business which was a shop 92 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 3: office store also which is a design I would just 93 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 3: do design goods and that over like eighteen months, was 94 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:29,559 Speaker 3: making enough more than my job that I could quit 95 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 3: my job. 96 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 2: So I wasn't just like risking. 97 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 3: I don't really recommend you just quit your job and 98 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 3: hope for the best. 99 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: Don't quit your day job and hope for the best. Right, 100 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: you have to have something there, Yeah, like. 101 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 3: Hustle on the weekends, get up early, like do what 102 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 3: you have to do, because when you have constraints, you 103 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 3: actually work better. 104 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 2: When you have all day off, you will just procrastinate. 105 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 1: I learned that I worked a real labster for five 106 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: years while doing pooblo in the morning or the night whenever. 107 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 1: I wasn't working a real labster, but I had to 108 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: pay the bills. Right, so so now all of a 109 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: sudden you quit. But you know, you know, how long 110 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 1: did you go to school to be it six and 111 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 1: a half years? Yeah, you went to school six and 112 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: a half years. Right, Did you have loans or anything 113 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: they didn't take care of or you grants. 114 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 2: Or I had some grants. 115 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 3: I didn't have too much loans because I went in 116 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 3: the UK, so it wasn't too crazy. 117 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: So six and a half years in school and then 118 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: you go and work there for two years. Right, so 119 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: you know you have now eight and a half years, 120 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: almost nine years invested. And even the six and a 121 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: half years you went to school, you you obviously did 122 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: something prior to getting into the courses and things of 123 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: that nature. That's a lot of time invested just to wit. Right, 124 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: how old are you at. 125 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 2: That time when I quit twenty x twenty six? 126 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: Okay, that was one thirty a life that you were 127 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: that you were doing this all right or a little 128 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 1: bit more. 129 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 2: I got that a lot a lot of people like 130 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 2: you just studied this for almost seven years. 131 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, why are you quitting? And I said, should I 132 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 3: put another seven years in? So I have equal in mind? 133 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 3: It didn't seem like it just made sense that it 134 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 3: was like sunk in costs. At that point, I'd learned 135 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 3: a lot of like you know, I was an architect, 136 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 3: so I'd learned a buy design. I'd learned about like creating, 137 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 3: like physical things. I learned about presentation, So I learned 138 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 3: a lot that helped me later. But I think if 139 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 3: I had just just stayed in architecture, because I studied 140 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 3: that long then I would have, you know, been to 141 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 3: like thirty five and still hated it. So like I 142 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 3: when I started, like I was barely making enough and 143 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 3: didn't really have any benefits, was working like eighty ninety 144 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 3: hours a week, so it was it was like a 145 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 3: hard and I still managed to start a side hustle, 146 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 3: but it was really hard. And I consider it kind 147 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 3: of like you know when you throw a sprog into 148 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 3: boiling water and they hop right out. So I hopped 149 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 3: right out and got out of architecture. And I have 150 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 3: a lot of friends that are in that slowly boiling 151 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 3: to death where it's not uncomfortable enough to leave, but 152 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 3: it's not comfortable enough to stay. 153 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 2: And so they're just like, oh, you're so lucky that 154 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 2: you got out of it early. 155 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 1: So you took action, you toook the portal steps. Now, 156 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: by the way, I'm just gonna tell everybody you heard 157 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: the fire engine or the emergency vehicle passing by. And 158 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: when people visit me, we're in the heart of New 159 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: York City. When people visit me from Midwest or the 160 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:06,600 Speaker 1: places they go, what's happening is you know it's something happening. Now, 161 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 1: that's just the emergening vehicle trying to get down the 162 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: street with all the traffic. We're in New York City. 163 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: You're familiar with it, so I don't want Yeah, I 164 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: don't want anybody who's watching to freak out and say, oh, 165 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: by the way, somebody's dead on the street out there. 166 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: It's probably not. Probably just traffic, right, and hopefully nobody's dead, 167 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: but that's New York. 168 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 169 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: Now, all right, So now you decide to create the 170 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: self journal. Well, where did that come about? Because you 171 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: have a partner, Alan, right, just tell me that story 172 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: on how that came about and why you felt that 173 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: this was something that was needed out there and or 174 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: there was something that you could make change and hopefully 175 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: empower yourself with at the same time. 176 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, So after I quit my job, I actually had 177 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 3: a couple of other things that I tried. Alan and 178 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 3: I met in an entrepreneurship course because I knew, like 179 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 3: the design stuff was good, but it wasn't It was 180 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 3: like a vehicle for freedom, but it wasn't like a 181 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 3: long term play. And so Alan and I joined an 182 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 3: entrepreneurship course. Didn't know each other, and. 183 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 1: What is an entrepreneurship course. It was a college or no, it. 184 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 3: Was online and it was a teaching people how to 185 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 3: find a problem and solve it with software. And so 186 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 3: we would have these Monday night calls and we met 187 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 3: on there and it was it was the two of 188 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 3: us and like eight other people. And every week it 189 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 3: was like Alan and I'd be like I did this, 190 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 3: this and this, and everyone else would be. 191 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 2: Like, oh, I got busy. 192 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 3: You know, the book was busy, and so we were 193 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 3: both like, why don't we just do a call together, 194 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 3: And that's how we kind of became accountability partners. And 195 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:32,840 Speaker 3: I knew that he was an action taker, which is 196 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 3: why someone came to me with like an idea for 197 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 3: creating like an Amazon business, which we did before the 198 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 3: soft Journal, okay, And it was all about like getting products, 199 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:44,719 Speaker 3: creating a brand around it. So he's marketing and I'm 200 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 3: product and so I would create the branding around it 201 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 3: and he would sell it. And through this time, we're 202 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 3: just reading a ton of books, going to conferences and 203 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:55,840 Speaker 3: like figuring out how to optimize our time the best. 204 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 3: So it was really like reading everything, studying a lot 205 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 3: about how we manage our time better. Because we both had, 206 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 3: you know, I had the design business we had this 207 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 3: business together, and we were just limited on our time, 208 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 3: and so as I learned about discipline and like morning 209 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 3: routines and a lot of stuff that we don't learn 210 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 3: at school, Like if we learned the stuff that I 211 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 3: read in the books when I was a school, I 212 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 3: would have been way further ahead. So I was just thinking, 213 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 3: why do I create a framework so that I'm not 214 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 3: recreating the wheel all the time. So we created a 215 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 3: mole skin, Like the first version of the journal was 216 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 3: just for Allen and me and we would just write 217 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 3: it every day. And then as a designer, I was like, 218 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 3: this is so ugly. I have to create something for this, 219 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:40,680 Speaker 3: and so we created it. We showed it to some friends. 220 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 3: They were like, how do I get this? And that's 221 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 3: when we decided to try to launch it on Kickstarter, 222 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 3: and we basically took three months launched on Kickstarter, and 223 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 3: it just blew up. And I was like, why are 224 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 3: we doing this over here? Because this is what we're 225 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 3: passionate about and what people actually are loving and what 226 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 3: could grow into like a real thing. 227 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: So I think that there, you know, you're obviously casually 228 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: telling your story, and I know there's a lot of 229 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 1: things to learn in that Number one, there is a 230 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: place to and to find education. I mean, I have 231 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: Damon on Demand, I have my success formula. But you 232 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: went out and found another entrepreneural course as long as 233 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: it's good and it's highly rated. You know, there are 234 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: places out there where you don't have to go and 235 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: get an MBA in school and things of that nature, 236 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: and you can go and do that. So you'll suggest 237 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: that to other people to go out and try to 238 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: educate themselves much as they can. Number two, you surrounded 239 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: yourself with a like minded person, Alan right. And number 240 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 1: three you said that the things that you read in books, 241 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 1: it was great, but once you started to do it, 242 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: you would have learned so much faster. And I think 243 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 1: that I learned that because I'm dyslexic, and I've shared 244 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 1: that with many people. Growing up, I never knew when 245 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: I read something if I retained it the right way, 246 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 1: or I have to read it five times. So I 247 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: would go out and just try to do it. And 248 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: that actionable step was the things that would make me go, Okay, 249 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: let me improve it. Here's what I'm doing wrong, here's 250 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:03,079 Speaker 1: what I'm doing right. And those are the things that 251 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: that started to grow and happen. All right, So now 252 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:07,320 Speaker 1: you go and put it on Kickstart, and there's this 253 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 1: wild response. I mean because a lot of people will 254 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: sit here and listen to our conversation and think, oh, 255 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: well she makes a journal. No, no, no, your journal 256 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 1: is My brother said. 257 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 2: That, yeah, when we want too a Kickstarter. He's a doctor, 258 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 2: but he's like, what's it's a book though? He's a doctor, 259 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 2: but he's like, it's a book though a book And 260 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 2: he said that to me. 261 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: But you and the best thing about the being a book, 262 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: it's not a book with tons of information. It's information 263 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: that you give to people to then in response put 264 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: their information in That makes them really really you're you're 265 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: you're You're basically letting people lay out the operational manual 266 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: to their life, and you're giving them a step by 267 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 1: step by step by step way to do it. And 268 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: then they can look at it and say, wait a minute, 269 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 1: all this content is for me and this is what 270 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 1: I should be doing. Or they can look past it 271 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: and look look at the at the months or the 272 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 1: years they filled in and go, here's what I was 273 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: thinking then, and now it's coming to puitional, here's what 274 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 1: I'm thinking then, and now it's changed. So so it's 275 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: way more than a book. I think it's like a 276 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:35,079 Speaker 1: blueprint of somebody's life. 277 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's we basically took like nobody has time to 278 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:40,599 Speaker 3: read all the books that we read. We draw the 279 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 3: down into what worked for us and what was worked 280 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 3: for other people, so that you don't have to read 281 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 3: all these books to know what the principles of success 282 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 3: look like. It's like here's a framework. If you follow 283 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 3: the framework, it will work. 284 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. Now let's talk about the first couple of months 285 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: of you going alive. How did you find these customers? 286 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 1: How did you share the story? We make them feel 287 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 1: like there was something of value here and convert them. 288 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 2: So when we first launched on Kickscharter, we worked the 289 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 2: three months prior to build an email list of people 290 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 2: that were interested in productivity. And we did this. 291 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 3: We did a giveaway where we put a bunch of 292 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 3: books together software. 293 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,079 Speaker 2: We put your book in there. I think. 294 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 3: Stuff that only people that were interested in what our 295 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:26,960 Speaker 3: end product would be would be curious about it. Like, 296 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:30,199 Speaker 3: not everyone off the street wants all of this productivity stuff, 297 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 3: but our target market would want that. So figuring out 298 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 3: what your target customer wants, and we did a giveaway 299 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,719 Speaker 3: where we collected I think two thousand emails, like a 300 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 3: viral giveaway of people that would be interested in this, 301 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 3: so that when we launched, you know, it wasn't just 302 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 3: like hey, it's out of the blow here's this thing. 303 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 3: It's like, oh no, here was sort of the teaser 304 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 3: and this is the product that we sort of created 305 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 3: from it. And then we also did some content strategies, 306 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 3: so we would write articles like we did one on 307 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 3: a morning routine, how to set it up, why it's important, 308 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 3: and then I talked to a bunch of you know, entrepreneurs, 309 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 3: and I designed basically, here's their morning routine. Because people 310 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 3: are like, oh, I like knowing how to do it, 311 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 3: but show me some other peoples to see so I 312 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 3: can get Like, it's kind of like a cheat sheet. 313 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 3: So I had like twenty successful people a cheat sheet, 314 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 3: and so they had to put their email address in 315 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 3: to get this cheat sheet. And so we just kind 316 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 3: of added a lot of value prior to launching on 317 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 3: Kickstarter to get some email so that when we launched, 318 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 3: we weren't just like shinding into an empty room. 319 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 1: So I want people to learn from that because so 320 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 1: many people. You know, they only take things for face 321 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: value and they only hear these little things. Oh, you know, 322 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to get my product out on kicksarder, and 323 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: I think that, you know, we see that a lot 324 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: on shartang. Now we see a couple of people who 325 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: go on Kickstarter. They're wildly successful on the initial aspect 326 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 1: of Kickstarter, and then all of a sudden they don't deliver. 327 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 1: Then all of a sudden, they're big failures, and they're 328 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: known for more being a failure than being a success. 329 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: But you know, if you really just listen to all 330 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: the things you did to get Kickstarter started, it's launching something. 331 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: No matter what platform is Kickstarter or retail online, Kiosk, 332 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: whatever the case is, there is a three month five 333 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 1: month process prior you have to build this up. And really, honestly, 334 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 1: I think kickstar is sometimes is harder than launching a 335 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 1: regular business. Because if I decided I'm going to get 336 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 1: a Kiosk in the mall and during Christmas time for 337 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 1: three months, I'm gonna I'm into a thirty thousand dollars 338 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: argument sake, But I have three months to figure it out. Kickstarter, 339 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: you have a short window, and you better hit your 340 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 1: target or supersede your target. If not, then you're known 341 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: as a failure. 342 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 343 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 1: Right, So I want people to listen to what you 344 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 1: just said about all the things you had to do 345 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: to bring you know, kickstarted life. Now you'd move on 346 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: and become wildly successful. You would win the Shopify build 347 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 1: a business competition. That's where I met you initially. And 348 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: for people who don't know what that is, there's seven 349 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: different silos and the Kickstarter thing, and somebody is like 350 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 1: maybe in publishing, and somebody selling accessory, somebody selling electronics, 351 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: and whoever sells the most amount from the day of 352 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 1: opening to the end of the competition within a year 353 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: get to win. There are hundreds of thousands of people submitting. 354 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 1: You beat them all out in one area. Then you 355 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: go on to win the second year, which is build 356 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: a bigger business competition. That means, now who has improved 357 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: you already the top of your game? Who has improved 358 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 1: even more during that time? Right? What was the experiences 359 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: that you had and besides you and I playing monopoly there, 360 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 1: what did you take away from there? Tell us about 361 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 1: the experience for all those people out there who don't 362 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: know about it, and what did you learn to move 363 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: forward to your business as well. 364 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 2: I mean the monopoly I learned a ton. 365 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that definitely improved, but I think being around the 366 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 3: other entrepreneurs so you win, and there was I think 367 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 3: five other winners. We were all to be honest, when 368 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 3: I went in there, I was like, I can't meet 369 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 3: way to meet like Tony Robbins and Damon John And 370 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 3: you go in there and you get like, you guys 371 00:16:56,480 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 3: are so far ahead that it's almost difficult to imagine 372 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 3: getting there. But the people that are at the same 373 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 3: stage as you, which is why I always say, like 374 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 3: find people like minded people, because those people were talking, 375 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 3: like on the last night, were up till two am, 376 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:16,119 Speaker 3: going over like ad strategies and marketing because what works 377 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 3: for us might work for them, and we could be 378 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 3: doing something really well and they could be doing something 379 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 3: really well. And so I think just sharing the strategies 380 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 3: of like minded people that are at the top of 381 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 3: their game is where we wanted to start learning from. 382 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 3: So we learned a ton from that and then some 383 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 3: huge takeaways just from the mentors. 384 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: That's great. Yeah, I forgot to mention. The opportunity was 385 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: to go away and one year we went to Richard 386 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: Brandson's Island. Another way, we're other place. We were in 387 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 1: a mansion on New York Stock Exchange and you got 388 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: to sit with them, myself, Tony Robbins, Tim Ferriss, and 389 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,680 Speaker 1: so many other people. But I think there's another valid 390 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 1: point you also, Okay, maybe you learn something from us 391 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 1: here that we have in half an hour an hour 392 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 1: to speak to you. Maybe we'll give you some really 393 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 1: good nuggets. But being around other like minded entrepreneurs the 394 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: former network and seeing what's working in their industry may 395 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 1: work for you. Or maybe you were about to try something, 396 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 1: they said, well listen, if you try it, here's what 397 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: happened to me. Adjust it, you know what I mean. 398 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 1: So I think that's that's extremely important. 399 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 3: We maintained those friendships, like the people I met there 400 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,360 Speaker 3: actually was in China but a month and a half ago, 401 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:20,439 Speaker 3: and another winner from that contest just happened to be 402 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 3: in China, saw me on Instagram Stories and we had 403 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 3: dinner and it was just awesome. We're just talking this 404 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 3: is working, well, this is how I do a factory visit, even, 405 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 3: this is what I want to look for. So it's 406 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 3: not like after the event, those relationships go away. 407 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 1: I think network E spance going. 408 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 409 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 1: You know, when I was coming up in the business, 410 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 1: it was probably about fifteen clothing lines and we would all, 411 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 1: you know, we were all struggling to get where we 412 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:47,199 Speaker 1: were trying to get into big retailers manufacturing and learn that. 413 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: And we're still twenty five years later, we're still we're 414 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 1: still very good friends and still working with each other. 415 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: And those relationships don't go away. And when those people 416 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: don't have an investment in your company, but they're giving 417 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: you this information and vice versa, that's the most valuable 418 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 1: thing in regards to mentors. Mentors don't always have to 419 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 1: be older. Yeah, mentors could be somebody going through it 420 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: with you. So I find that the fascinating and empowering. 421 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:14,399 Speaker 1: What is the single most highly actionable marketing advice that 422 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: you can give somebody else out there. 423 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 3: So the marketing advice I would say, is whatever you're selling, 424 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 3: whether it's a physical product, digital product, service, making it 425 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 3: very clear to whoever's buying it what success looks like 426 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:32,200 Speaker 3: for that product. Because we have a community of people, 427 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 3: it's about thirty three thousand night of people that have 428 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:38,199 Speaker 3: come through and it's become a group of people sharing 429 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 3: their goals, sharing what's working for them. 430 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 2: It's a great feedback for us. 431 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,119 Speaker 3: But they know what success looks like with this tool, 432 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 3: and with a lot of other things that they bought, 433 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 3: they just kind of get thrown out there to hope 434 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 3: for the best. Whereas we were like, okay, if we 435 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 3: want people to come back and buy from us again, 436 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 3: how do we make sure that they find success with 437 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,680 Speaker 3: this so it's not just selling to them once. 438 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 2: Sure, now we have people on subscription because we created 439 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 2: the how to guides. 440 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 3: And basically anything they need so that they're not you know, 441 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 3: a lot of people don't know how to set a goal. 442 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 3: They you know, they're like, I want to lose it. 443 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 3: It's like, well, if you lose a pond, is that 444 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:17,240 Speaker 3: technically reaching your goal? Yes, but that's not what you 445 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 3: actually want. 446 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 2: So we teach people. 447 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,160 Speaker 3: How to set goals, give them templates to get there, 448 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 3: give them accountability, give them a community. And so my 449 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 3: biggest marketing thing, which is hard work but it works, 450 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 3: is showing people what success looks like for your product 451 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 3: and actually making sure that they get it. 452 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 1: And I'm sure that you know in the self journal 453 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 1: you can they can be so much like you said, 454 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: this can be about people want to be dedicated faith 455 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 1: or their health, or their career or family romance, whatever 456 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:54,399 Speaker 1: the case is. And you know a lot of us 457 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 1: who are putting out products and things. You know, sometimes 458 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: we get those crazy days and crazy night it's where 459 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 1: so much stress, like why are we doing this? But 460 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 1: all of a sudden we hear this story. Yeah, a 461 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:07,360 Speaker 1: story that has empowered somebody and it makes you realize 462 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 1: why you're doing it? Right? Can you share with us 463 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:12,439 Speaker 1: one or two of the things, because I'm sure with 464 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 1: thirty three thousand people online that you have obviously changed 465 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: a couple of people's lives or helped them change their 466 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: own life. Can you share us any with us any 467 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 1: of those stories that have so we had really feel. 468 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 3: Good one guy Mark who managed to save twenty thousand 469 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 3: dollars by just being very breaking down how much he 470 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,200 Speaker 3: made and like had a budget and all the stuff, 471 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 3: and he's like a changed my life. We had someone 472 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,920 Speaker 3: else that ran a marathon when they couldn't even run 473 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 3: down the block at the beginning. Losing weight is a 474 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 3: big one. We've had another girl, Barbara write a book, 475 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 3: so it's it's really we gave you the framework and 476 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 3: your goal whatever it is, whether it's health, fitness, career, business. 477 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 3: We had someone who doubled their double their revenue. 478 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: The revenue revenue. 479 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 3: We had someone who doubled their doubled their revenue every 480 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 3: single journal. So they're a marriage counselor. He lives down 481 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 3: syth So his first goal was like fifteen hundred he 482 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 3: hit in the first journal. Then it was three thousand, 483 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 3: then it was six thousand, and then he hit twelve thousand, 484 00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 3: and he sort of was He's like, my time's max starts. 485 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 3: So now his next journal is figuring out how to 486 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:37,400 Speaker 3: get his time back through system. 487 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 2: Oh. 488 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 1: I think the good thing is these are all affordable 489 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 1: steps and you're you're also the journal is also just 490 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: creating a habit, right, that'll that'll move on for the 491 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 1: rest of your life hopefully, Right. So what do you 492 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 1: think you know today? You know, looking at Catherine today 493 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 1: and Catherine you know whatever ten years ago, what would 494 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,679 Speaker 1: you think is powered to you today? How do you 495 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 1: how do you empower your self every day? 496 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 3: The thing that's make a difference for me is when 497 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 3: I see the outcome that someone else gets, like the 498 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 3: value that I'm providing. 499 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 2: The days that sort of feel sluggish. Are the days where. 500 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:14,160 Speaker 3: I'm not connected to whatever the value is that I'm 501 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:17,639 Speaker 3: putting out there, and the days that I always end 502 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 3: up feeling good about myself, or the days when I 503 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 3: plan what I'm actually going to do that day and 504 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 3: how it's connected to what my bigger goal is, which 505 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,199 Speaker 3: is to impact people and to change their lives through 506 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 3: helping them build daily habits. So when I know what 507 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,640 Speaker 3: my end mission is and the stuff that I'm doing 508 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 3: throughout the day connects to that, then I feel good. 509 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 1: And would you say that if everybody can take that away, 510 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: they would feel better about themselves, because you know, I 511 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,919 Speaker 1: think that a lot of people work in nine to 512 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 1: five and they get stuck in the nine to five 513 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: and maybe they don't have the guts or they don't 514 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: have the ability to go and chase the dream that 515 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 1: you did. But you know what, they're raising a great 516 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,680 Speaker 1: family and they're providing for their kids, and they kind 517 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 1: of don't think about those things. I see so many 518 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 1: people will miserable and they don't realize they're empowering somebody 519 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: by the actions they take. Would you say that people 520 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: should just think about that, at least when it gets 521 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 1: dark or when it gets cold and say, well, whose 522 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:13,640 Speaker 1: life am I changing? Or maybe the opposite. Maybe they're 523 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: doing something and they're doing it because they think they 524 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 1: should do it, and they're not empowering anybody, even themselves, 525 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: and they should say, you know what, maybe I should 526 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 1: change what I'm doing. So I'm trying to ask, do 527 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 1: you think that that is really something that could help 528 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:32,159 Speaker 1: people be more what they want to be or discover 529 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,639 Speaker 1: themselves if they if they have that same theory, I 530 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: have to think about who am I empowering it? And 531 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,920 Speaker 1: if I'm not connected to somebody, then maybe i should 532 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 1: rethink what I'm doing. 533 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, well we actually so sometimes people are like, oh, 534 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 3: I want to make this much money. Yeah, but they 535 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 3: don't know why they want to do It's like why, 536 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,919 Speaker 3: you know, they could do whatever they want to do 537 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 3: with the amount of money they have, but they think 538 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:59,199 Speaker 3: that that's what they're that's what they should want, and 539 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 3: so figuring out why you want something is important. So 540 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 3: it's like, why do I want to make more money 541 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 3: so that my wife can stay at home and look 542 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 3: after the kids and we can have a more loving 543 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 3: family where the kids have more time with us. Well, 544 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 3: that's become your why, and you're going to feel more 545 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 3: connected to that than oh I want to make another twenty. 546 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 2: Thousand dollars this year or whatever whatever. That looks like. 547 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,399 Speaker 1: Perfect, Know what your why is, who you connect to 548 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 1: and why are you doing it? 549 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 550 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 1: Right, perfect time to take now in here, there's a 551 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 1: bunch of questions. I don't know what they are. They 552 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,399 Speaker 1: was submitted by fellow sharks and shark gets and or 553 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 1: some of my supporters and fans. Why don't you take 554 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,720 Speaker 1: a question, read it, answer it, and then you're gonna 555 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 1: write your own question and put in there. 556 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:48,879 Speaker 3: Okay, what is the best piece of advice you have 557 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 3: ever received and how do you apply that to your life. 558 00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 3: One of the best things, probably in the last six 559 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 3: months that we got was fall in love with your customer, 560 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 3: not your product. That's probably in the last year because 561 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,639 Speaker 3: we were figuring out what was coming next and the 562 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:15,399 Speaker 3: self journal had done so well that you know, like, 563 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,199 Speaker 3: we love this product, but if we love the product, 564 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,639 Speaker 3: we would just keep creating the same thing. And so 565 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 3: falling in love with people that love this product so 566 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,440 Speaker 3: that we can create more for them has made us 567 00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 3: go from like now we're bridging into something more digital 568 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:30,680 Speaker 3: things that are going to bring. 569 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:31,600 Speaker 2: More value to their life. 570 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 3: Whereas if we didn't stab byside that think, you know, 571 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 3: that thinking space of like just loving this journal and 572 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 3: coming up with more journals and more different types of journals, 573 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 3: then we wouldn't have figured out the scope that we 574 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 3: could step into. 575 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 1: I think that's smart. More designers need to take that advice, 576 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,159 Speaker 1: right because this and they're saying, no, you need to 577 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,160 Speaker 1: wear this design because I'm way ahead of the curve 578 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 1: instead of falling in love with their customers. And more 579 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 1: people need to take that advice. You know. One of 580 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 1: the stats are you know, in major operations, the most 581 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,920 Speaker 1: profitable products come from customer complaints. Now, if you didn't 582 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,159 Speaker 1: love your customer, you would say, screw you. I don't care. 583 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: If you complain, maybe the products not for you get lost. 584 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 1: But if you can, if you care about them and 585 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 1: you're in love with them, you want to make sure 586 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 1: that it's right for them, right because everybody's got limited time. 587 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:22,959 Speaker 1: They don't even have to complain. If they're complaining, at 588 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 1: least they're giving you feedback. They could have just went 589 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:26,919 Speaker 1: about their business and you would have never known. So 590 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 1: I think that that's really something that people can learn from. 591 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 1: So thank you for being here. What's going to be 592 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:32,800 Speaker 1: your question that we're going to add into. 593 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:36,640 Speaker 3: Here a what moment did you think about quitting? And 594 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 3: why did you stop yourself? 595 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,640 Speaker 1: At one moment did you think about quitting? And why 596 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 1: did you stop yourself? Perfect? All right, well, thank you 597 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 1: for being here. You know what I know you have, 598 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 1: you know, a website and that people could check out 599 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,640 Speaker 1: your your blog and your information is called little Might 600 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:57,120 Speaker 1: Little m ighg dot com. 601 00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:01,159 Speaker 2: Correct, that's my personal blog. 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