1 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thank y'all 2 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: for joining us. We're so excited to be back. 3 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 2: And make sure to check out our latest episodes because 4 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 2: we've been having so much fun not only answering your 5 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 2: questions and chatting with your Bachelor Nation favorites, but given 6 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 2: our advice and our opinions on what you write in. 7 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: Okay, so today we have a very special guest. Please 8 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: welcome my very good friend, our very good friend from 9 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: our season of Golden Bachelor, Leslie. Hey, Leslie, how are 10 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: you doing? Welcome? Welcome? 11 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 2: So day, long time, no see, I was IMO so 12 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 2: bad when you guys were there. 13 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 1: I most don't recognize you, Leslie. You're not an a 14 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: bathing suit to cover up. 15 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 3: Oh wait, wait wait, you want to know something that's 16 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 3: funny days that as soon as we're done here, my 17 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 3: pool is still open. It's ninety degrees in Minneapolis today, 18 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 3: and I do have my meetings. 19 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 2: Look, I have so much we want to dive into 20 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 2: today and the short amount of time, so let's get 21 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: things start. Okay, We're going to question you first of all, 22 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 2: what word would you use to describe your paradise experience? 23 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 3: One word? 24 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:25,960 Speaker 4: Oh, my god. Okay, that's three. 25 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:28,559 Speaker 3: I know there's not one. 26 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: Fabulous that's I mean, it was it was. Okay, listen, 27 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: this is my question for it is very self serving. 28 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:41,680 Speaker 1: How did it feel reuniting your friendships with the other 29 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: Golden Ladies? 30 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 3: Hi, Well, it was really funny because when I got 31 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 3: in the van that first day and you guys are 32 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 3: waiting for me because I kind of goofed up on 33 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 3: the time whatever, but you were waiting for me, and 34 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 3: you're all waiting for me, and I got in it 35 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 3: and was like at first, I was, you know, we 36 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 3: hadn't seen each other so long, and and it was 37 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 3: just like it was like a beat where I had 38 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 3: to go, wait a minute, Okay, hi guys. Yeah, it 39 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 3: was really and then it was like we it was 40 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 3: like we had never been. Yeah, it was because we had, 41 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 3: you would have been right there. 42 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: That's we and we Leslie, you and I shared a 43 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: room in Paradise, and I have to say, shared a 44 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: room with you was so much fun watching Leslie do 45 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: her makeup and her clothes. I mean, it was just fun. 46 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: It was fun to get you. 47 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 3: We did have fun. I mean my whole bedtime thing, 48 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 3: Kathy's sitting there going, what's that? Now? What's that? 49 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 4: What are you doing there? What you funny. 50 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: Routine of face stuff? And I did and you know, 51 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: you do the same thing different Okay, that's Leslie. 52 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 2: Is there anything you would have done differently in Paradise 53 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 2: you had the opportunity to do it again? 54 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 3: You know, I don't think so, Susan. I mean I 55 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 3: kind of just you know, I'm that kind of girl 56 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,079 Speaker 3: where I go along to get along. I mean, I 57 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 3: just was there. I felt really good about experiencing the 58 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 3: whole thing. 59 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,959 Speaker 2: I felt like it was Gary. I thought you guys 60 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,279 Speaker 2: were yeah, I mean beginning there. 61 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, we you know again they didn't they didn't have 62 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 3: a lot of guys for us, So I mean, it 63 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 3: was it was kind of what it was. But you know, 64 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 3: I felt like we were just kind of I felt 65 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 3: like we were kind of like one big, happy family. 66 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 3: To be honest, I didn't feel that there was you know. 67 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: But let me ask you something so and actually, to 68 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 1: be fair, you and I've sort of touched on this 69 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: before with Gary Turner. That is the Gary from our season. 70 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: You were obviously everyone knows you were very emotionally invested 71 00:03:56,720 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: and and had your heart broken at the time. But 72 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: now let's fast forward to Paradise. What you just said, 73 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: none of the guys you knew, we all knew we 74 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: were all friend The guys knew we were friends. The 75 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: gals knew we were friends friends friends friends. But in 76 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: a way, didn't it make you for me? I mean 77 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: Gary was never interested in me and I was never 78 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 1: interested in him, our Gary Turner? But didn't it make 79 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: it fun for you? Knowing when you came to Paradise 80 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 1: that we were just going to be there for the 81 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: young ins, we were going to have fun together. Wasn't 82 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: that sort of freeing? 83 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 3: In a way, it was so freeing, I felt like 84 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 3: a big weight was off, you know. And I mean, 85 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 3: you know we had talked about it. If our guy 86 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 3: walked down the beach, yes, and we were to be like, 87 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 3: you know, this is our guy. 88 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: I kept walking, Leslie, We kept walking down the beach, 89 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 1: remember in the mornings, going just coming down, where is 90 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: he coming this morning? 91 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 3: But you know, but other than that, I felt it 92 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 3: was just like so much pressure. When people say, did 93 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 3: you have a better experience than Golden? It wasn't like 94 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 3: a he experience. It was just different, and it was 95 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 3: just it was just I guess maybe a little more fun. 96 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 2: In a way, because I thought it was you had 97 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 2: more time and you got to know couples to and. 98 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 3: Not in competition and not like is he going to 99 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 3: talk to me? Is you know that ring? And so 100 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 3: it was just different and maybe I'm different too. 101 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 2: So okay, so tell me about dating life. Are you 102 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 2: out there? Are you dating yet? Anybody special? 103 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 3: No? No, no to all those people. 104 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: Don't get it, Leslie. People don't understand. And I've said 105 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: this to you when you and I've talked, Leslie. You're 106 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 1: beautiful person inside and out. Why men do not? You know, 107 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: are not? I talked to a lot. Is always saying 108 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:52,840 Speaker 1: to me, Kathy, why don't you have a guy? Why 109 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: doesn't Leslie have a guy? Why doesn't Nancy have a guy? 110 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 1: And I'm always saying, you know, get your buddies and 111 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: line them up and send them because they don't. 112 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 4: You wish you could just answer that. I mean, really 113 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:04,919 Speaker 4: I can't answer. 114 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: I don't. 115 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 3: I mean, you know part of it, you know, living 116 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:11,559 Speaker 3: and living not a small town, Minneapolis not a small town. 117 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 3: But I've lived here my whole life, and so I 118 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 3: know people I knew I knew people before I got 119 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 3: on the show, you know, because I was teaching all 120 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 3: the time and I had tons of people in my classes. 121 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 3: So and it's just, you know, it's like a small 122 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 3: big town, so you just know everybody. 123 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,119 Speaker 4: If you met the right person, would you leave that town? 124 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 3: You know, I don't know. 125 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: That's like, come on, We've talked about this. 126 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,559 Speaker 3: Come on, I'm not leaving my grandkids. I'm not leaving 127 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:42,160 Speaker 3: my grand kids now. But I would go back and forth. 128 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 3: I mean, who wants to be here in the winter. 129 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 3: It's but you know, but but I love summers and 130 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 3: I love like October is my favorite month. But my 131 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 3: grandkids are here. But yes, I would definitely travel. I 132 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 3: would go, I would come back. I would keep my 133 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 3: condo here all the time. 134 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: And I mean, never give up your base right home. 135 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 2: But you will go stay with them for. 136 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 3: I think, and then come back exactly. 137 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 4: And both parties would have to be willing, correct and exactly. 138 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: And the reason I pushed you is because you and 139 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: I've talked, Leslie, and you you always initially say I 140 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: wouldn't be my grandchildren, but you would you would, just 141 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 1: like I would, if for the right guy, go back 142 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 1: and forth. 143 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 3: Guy, if I'm cuckoo crazy about him. I will follow 144 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 3: him to the ends of the earth. You know, that's 145 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 3: just I'm like that. I'm hopeless romantic. But he's got 146 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 3: to come to Minneapolis too. 147 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 2: I've been I've been. I say that all my life 148 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 2: and somebody corrected me and. 149 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: Said it was me. It was me hopeful, hopeful romantic. Oh, 150 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: I say, I'm hopeless romantic. 151 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 4: Romantics. 152 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 3: What Leslie? 153 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: You would you date a lot? Because Leslie, you look young, 154 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: you act young. You know, we're gonna talk about your 155 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: dancing in a minute. How young would you date? And 156 00:07:57,840 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: I'm serious when I asked. 157 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 3: You, Yeah, I know, I'm well, I joke about I 158 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 3: would never date anyone that's thirty nine because that's my 159 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 3: oldest child. But and I wouldn't date anyone forty nine. 160 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 3: I don't think I would maybe go fifty five fifty six, 161 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 3: because that's ten years younger. I mean, I don't know, 162 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 3: you know, dating dating young for me, it's like sixty, 163 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 3: I know, I know. 164 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: Like dating young for you, Leslie. 165 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 3: Dating young for me a sixty you know, And I say, I, 166 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 3: you know, i'd go younger sixty, you know, But. 167 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 4: It's not like we're looking for an age. You know 168 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 4: what I mean, I'm. 169 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:36,319 Speaker 3: Almost for an age. I'm not looking for an age 170 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 3: at all, but I you know, I just I got 171 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 3: to keep it real, you know. 172 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:43,319 Speaker 1: Well, also, you know you work, you teach dance, which 173 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 1: I want to know. What's your favorite dance? What is 174 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 1: your favorite style of dance? 175 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 3: Well, it's hip hop? 176 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: But do you dance other dances? Though? 177 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 3: I don't. I've never ballroom danced in my life. 178 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: I have that, yeah, I mean, do you have never 179 00:08:58,720 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: ballroom dance? 180 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 3: Never? I mean, well, when Gary and I went on 181 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 3: our date, it was salsa. I guess I guess you 182 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 3: call that salcea. I was just following his lead. 183 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: I I don't dance like that, so so okay. 184 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 3: So but I you know, I dance, I teach, I 185 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 3: teach hip hop. I teach kids hip hop. My dance 186 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 3: class is called dance Jam. It's it's like follow along dancing, 187 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 3: and I choreograph every song. So, you know, I mean, 188 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 3: when I know you, it's so much fun. When people say, oh, 189 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 3: you're a dancer, I'm like, I don't really call myself 190 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 3: a dancer. I call myself a fitness dancer. 191 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:45,439 Speaker 4: You know, like exactly, yeah, and like exercise. 192 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 3: Yeah exactly. And I mean, of course I can dance, 193 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 3: and I've taken dance my whole life and skating, but 194 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 3: and I'm choreographing a ride and her groom dance on Saturday. 195 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:58,719 Speaker 3: I do things like that, you know so. And I've 196 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 3: done flash moms and I've done and all that stuff. 197 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 3: But you know, I'm not any I'm not like take 198 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 3: my career or anything like that, you. 199 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: Know so, So answer who do you? Who do you? 200 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: What are the qualities? Like I feel like, you know, 201 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: you've been married before and you've dated. What if you 202 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 1: could find the guy, what are the really important characteristics 203 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 1: for him to have. 204 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,319 Speaker 3: They have to be funny. They have to make me laugh. 205 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 3: I mean we all have to laugh, all of us. 206 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 3: I feel like they, yeah, sense of humor. They have 207 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 3: to align with my moral compass with That's a few things. 208 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 3: We don't need to talk about that, but they have 209 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 3: to align with that. They have to be fit. 210 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, wait wait wait morally is what 211 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 1: is exactly you? I think I think really you're saying, 212 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 1: and we don't have to say which side of ye on, 213 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: but you're saying, I know for a fact, leslie that 214 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 1: you want someone who you can who shares your political ideology, 215 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 1: and that's really important, and there's nothing wrong with that. 216 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 3: It's important to me. It's important to me. It's more 217 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 3: important to me than religion. To be honest, I don't 218 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 3: need someone Jewish, you know. I just don't want someone 219 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 3: uber religious on whether a Jew or a non Jew, 220 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 3: you know, like, I don't want someone I'm very more 221 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 3: traditional Jewish. I'm not like you know, I don't celebrate. 222 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: Would you live with the guy if you work? Really? 223 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 1: Can I tell you a very funny story you'll laugh 224 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: at this. Uh? You know, I grew up in a 225 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 1: very Jewish neighborhood and all my friends were Jewish. And 226 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: what is the what is the uh? Is it Passover? 227 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 1: When you have to have the separate in the kosher household, 228 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: you have to have the separate spoon, separate somewhere for 229 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: milk and dairy. Yeah, well they kept kosher. Yeah they 230 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: kept Yeah, they kept right. You're right, they kept kosher. 231 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: And what did I know? They had to bury the 232 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 1: silverware in the backyard. Yeah, I mean, yeah, they did. 233 00:11:56,640 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 1: Moving right along, I don't know. I think I dipped 234 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: my fork in the steak and then dipped it in 235 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: the yogurt. I don't know. Whenever I did it, I 236 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: screwed up. 237 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 4: Who would you say you're closest to in Bachelor Nation? 238 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I'm going to be honest with you. 239 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 3: Teresa and I are very close, but I have to 240 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 3: say since Paradise, I feel like I'm really close to Kathy. 241 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: Oh, thank you. 242 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 4: I don't know you time you slept in the same room. 243 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: That's what happened, Leslie. I love you for saying that. 244 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 1: I feel the same way. But we've also had some, 245 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: you know, hard conversations, and I love that that we 246 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 1: can share because that, to me is what a really 247 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 1: good friend be honest, whether we're talking about a man, 248 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 1: you know, a relationship with a man, or a female friendship, 249 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: I think those are important. When those are important qualities 250 00:12:58,160 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: to have, and you and I've been able to do that, 251 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: and I really appreciate that something. 252 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. I mean, you know, Teresa and Ellen 253 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 3: and Sandra, I mean you guys. You know, I love 254 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 3: all of you, guys. I just feel like Kathy. You know, 255 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 3: I'm sure you understand the Susan she says what she says, 256 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 3: what is in her head. There's no filter, and sometimes 257 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 3: she says it over and over and over again, and 258 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 3: then sometimes and then sometimes I have to you have 259 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 3: you stop? You have to stop saying that to me. 260 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 3: You know, like I feel like I could say anything 261 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 3: to her and not feeling. 262 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: And I think that I'm going to take that as 263 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 1: a compliment because I and I do try to not 264 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: repeat myself. But you're right, Leslie, I am guilty that 265 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: sometimes when I go on my next date, I'm not 266 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: doing it. 267 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:42,559 Speaker 2: Do you stay in contact with anybody else from from Paradise? 268 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? Oh, from Paradise? Well, you know what I do. 269 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 3: I text those those young girls. I you know, Leigh 270 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 3: and I are texting a lot. Cat you know Parsa. 271 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 3: You know, I got really close with Parsa. I just 272 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 3: love them so much. I say, you know, I'm sure 273 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:03,959 Speaker 3: that Kathy feels like this too. She stayed down longer, 274 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 3: but I feel like I came home with like six daughters. 275 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 276 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:12,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, how did you watch the end of the show? Obviously, 277 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 2: and how did you feel about the end? 278 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 3: It was perfect? It was so happy for them, couldn't be. 279 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 3: It was exactly what I thought of. How I was 280 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 3: going to add to the yes. 281 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: So can I just say, Leslie, you and I are 282 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: doing something wrong because Alex and Andrew are in Tokyo, 283 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 1: Japan with drug wait. I don't know what's going on there, 284 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 1: but they're traveling there. Uh, Bailey's getting ready to go 285 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: to China and somewhere else. They were in Portugal to 286 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: something like, what are you and I doing wrong? 287 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 3: Well, you guys went on. 288 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 4: We go to St. 289 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 3: Martin. 290 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 4: We go every year, Leslie. The doors always open. 291 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 3: Well, I want to, but I have my retreats and 292 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm just I feel like it's already 293 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 3: like piling on. 294 00:14:57,320 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: Well, you know sometimes, Leslie, sometimes if you want your 295 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 1: life to be different, you gotta. 296 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 4: Do some sign I'm going to l A in a week. 297 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 3: Then I'm going to New York, and you know, I 298 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 3: am making my own way, but I'm going to I 299 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 3: told you I was going to l A because I'm 300 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 3: going to kind of I'm I'm the smoke spokesperson for 301 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 3: the for the Suicide Prevention, the you know, the Katie 302 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 3: Hurst Suicide Prevention and they're doing a walk run at 303 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 3: uc LA on Sunday the twenty eighth, and I'm going 304 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 3: to be there and people can walk with me. And 305 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 3: cause I'm sorry New York, New York. I'm doing a 306 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 3: few things. I'm doing a podcast. The timing was never right, 307 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 3: but it's right this time, so I'm going to do that. 308 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 3: And then I'm going to see Stephen Colbert. I cannot 309 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 3: wait on my bucket list. I'm taking April, I know, 310 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 3: the percussionist, and she's getting tickets. 311 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 4: Answer when is this? 312 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 3: That's October like fourteenth or something like that, and Teres 313 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 3: is coming and she's meeting me in New York. And 314 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 3: I'm going to be meeting in a class all the 315 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 3: time in Long Island. 316 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 2: Oh, you should come to my class that lifetime, admit 317 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 2: it October tenth. 318 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 1: We'll do this later. We can do this later. You 319 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 1: can well. 320 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 2: So now we're going to move into our advice portion 321 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 2: of the episode. We're going to kick things off with 322 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 2: our question of the day. So, Leslie, we definitely would 323 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 2: love your thoughts on. 324 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 4: Okay, the question of the day. So many young people 325 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 4: fear getting older. What advice do you have to anyone 326 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 4: that's afraid of aging. 327 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 3: That's a good question, but that is an easy one 328 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 3: for me to answer because people, the young people, I'm 329 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 3: sure they do the same thing. With you guys. They 330 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 3: come up to me all the time, and they said, 331 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 3: you make looking older so like easy and great, and 332 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 3: I don't fear it when I look at you guys, 333 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 3: and you know, the Golden Bachelor girls. So basically I 334 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 3: just say, you know, the other day I did like 335 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:16,119 Speaker 3: a talk with like fifteen twenty two year olds and 336 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 3: they asked me all these questions and I said, and 337 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 3: they said, whish you know the same question. I said. 338 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 3: You know what, you guys, this is what I say. 339 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 3: Just live life. Never say no to anything. You know, always, 340 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:32,480 Speaker 3: you know, think first before you say some things. But 341 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,679 Speaker 3: be free. Just be free and open to things and 342 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 3: just experience, you know, experience life, because that's really all 343 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 3: we've got. We've got our family, we've got our experiences. 344 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:46,200 Speaker 3: And you know, I did say, you got to take 345 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 3: care of yourself because when you get older, your body 346 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 3: is your temple and it's really your only thing. You 347 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 3: know that you've got to be strong. 348 00:17:54,920 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 2: Stuff good qualities about aging, like what we know, what 349 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:04,439 Speaker 2: we've learned throughout life, and you don't worry about the 350 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 2: small things so much. 351 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 3: I feel that's for them because they're always worrying about things, 352 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:11,439 Speaker 3: and I'm like, just so it's hard for us to 353 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 3: say that. 354 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 1: To them when they're so so Leslie, you must be 355 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: reading our mind because the question of the day actually 356 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 1: leads into our advice portion of the episode. And so 357 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to ask you a couple of questions, and 358 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 1: it actually is just a follow on of what you 359 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 1: just started to talk about. What advice do you have 360 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 1: to Golden's or other adults that are past their thirties. 361 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 1: You know that we still struggle with body image and fitness. 362 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:43,959 Speaker 1: We Susan and I get so many writings asking for 363 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:47,959 Speaker 1: advice about dealing with body changes, you know, especially during pregnancy. 364 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:52,119 Speaker 1: What advice do you have for anyone struggling with maintaining 365 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 1: fitness or finding a place for it in their lives. 366 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 1: So it's it's not just you know, the thirty year olds. 367 00:18:57,800 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: We all So I'm curious what you think. 368 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I have actually my book club. They're 369 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 3: younger than me and they are going through menopause right now, 370 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 3: and I was just with them last night and I said, 371 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 3: the best thing you guys can do for your bodies 372 00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:14,959 Speaker 3: when you're getting older is do weight bearing exercises. I mean, 373 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 3: we all need to lift weights. When we get older, 374 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,119 Speaker 3: because that is what's going to keep our bones healthy. 375 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 3: And you know, as far as just you know, even 376 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 3: if you have a small set of weights in your 377 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 3: house and just do you know, you can go online 378 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 3: and find any exercise and and ten minute workout. You know, 379 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:34,439 Speaker 3: I don't have to. If you don't want to go 380 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:37,120 Speaker 3: to a gym, you don't have to. But I would 381 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 3: just say, you know, I got to keep moving. I mean, really, 382 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:41,159 Speaker 3: you got to get off the couch. You got to 383 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 3: keep moving. 384 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: You and I, Leslie, we've talked about this, you and 385 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 1: I in Paradise. We were doing our push ups on 386 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 1: the beach lifting weights. Were Yeah, we are as fit 387 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 1: as any of those young and problems. Yeah, but probably 388 00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:59,119 Speaker 1: more fit than some of but here I'll pay to 389 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 1: see that. Yeah, that's overstated the case, just to tid 390 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:06,639 Speaker 1: but one, I trained with weights. I have a trainer, 391 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: a train, I'm in the gym three days a week. 392 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 1: I powerwalk. 393 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 3: You know. 394 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 1: We talked about a lot, but one thing that I 395 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 1: think Golden's really anyone over the age of between forty 396 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:21,399 Speaker 1: and fifty and onwards, it's all about fitness, keeping your 397 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 1: bones strong, all of that, being able to move but 398 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: it's also about not breaking bones right and having balance 399 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: and caving strength because as we get older, wrist yeah, 400 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: and it's because I mean, freak accidents are going to happen. 401 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 1: But when we you and I and people who work 402 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: out a lot, if we tend to, you know, jostle 403 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: and lose, we can regain our balance because we've done 404 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,360 Speaker 1: we spend a lot of time doing. 405 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 3: Walking and heels and water and your elbow. 406 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 2: But about me, one that didn't work out ever, And 407 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 2: it's never too late because I've just begun and I 408 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 2: am lifting. And it's a struggle, it really is, but. 409 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 1: It but it becomes a part of your life, Susan, 410 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 1: if you do it long. 411 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:12,159 Speaker 3: Enough, it's you know what you guys are a habit, 412 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 3: a habit. It takes thirty days to get into a habit. 413 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 3: I think it takes thirty days to break a habit. Whatever. 414 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 2: But those people that are struggling saying, well, I never 415 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,199 Speaker 2: worked out, I'm going to do this. 416 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,439 Speaker 4: I can't do that. You can do it. You can, 417 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 4: you can. 418 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 2: It's just and just put one foot in front of 419 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 2: the other. 420 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:31,120 Speaker 3: I mean, it's easy for me to say because it's 421 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:32,639 Speaker 3: always been a part of my life. 422 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 4: Well, yes, so I never had. 423 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:38,679 Speaker 3: To start somehow, you know, but I would just you know, 424 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 3: I'm a motivator. I just want people to get healthy 425 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 3: and be healthy and strong, and you know, some young 426 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 3: people need to get up and move to It's like, 427 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:51,200 Speaker 3: you know, the good thing about like the pilates craze 428 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,120 Speaker 3: with the like I teach every former class, but that 429 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:58,040 Speaker 3: is helping younger people exercise because they really like that 430 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,360 Speaker 3: class and they're like they're all time. 431 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:01,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, the reform. 432 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's all kind of a movement. 433 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 1: It is hard. I know, what do you tell women, Leslie, 434 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:12,360 Speaker 1: because I'm sure you teach them, uh in your dance classes, 435 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 1: women who've just had babies, pregnancy because for me that 436 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:20,440 Speaker 1: was a struggle to get fit again after having babies. 437 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 1: You know, do you have those class Well. 438 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,639 Speaker 3: I do have people coming in, but I just always 439 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 3: say take a slow you know, even in my reformer 440 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 3: class to day has somebody that had just had a 441 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,360 Speaker 3: baby and she just did what she could. I mean, 442 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 3: you're showing up, that's the first. That's the hardest part. 443 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 3: You're showing up. You're there, You're ready to go, whether 444 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 3: you do half the class or a few exercise, take 445 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 3: a break. I don't care. And I always say that 446 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,400 Speaker 3: to people. Don't worry if you can't follow me. I mean, 447 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:52,479 Speaker 3: just go at. 448 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:57,879 Speaker 1: It's funny when people talk about finding time, finding a 449 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: place in their lives for fitness. I've said the susan 450 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 1: like put down your games on your computer. Everyone has 451 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 1: twenty four hours in their day. Anybody can find starting 452 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: out ten minutes for fitness. And you don't start out 453 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 1: like you and I do, lifting weights and working out 454 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 1: the way we do. But we didn't start you know, 455 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 1: we didn't start this yesterday. And so that's my advice 456 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: to people is. 457 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 3: I would say start with you know what the best 458 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 3: exercises push ups. You start on your knees, you do five. 459 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 3: The next day, you add a couple. 460 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 1: More more against the kitchen counter, your name, my bureau. 461 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 2: I did the fifty challenge, fifty fifty push ups. 462 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 4: Yes it's nine. 463 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,639 Speaker 3: Sometimes when I turned fifty, I did fifty in a 464 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 3: row on my toes. 465 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 4: That was only want, and that was that. 466 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 3: I'm doing it. 467 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: You and I did one hundred in Paradise. 468 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:51,919 Speaker 3: Oh I do one hundred, but I was twenty at 469 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 3: a time. 470 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well that's what I'm saying you can't do it 471 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,159 Speaker 2: all at once, if you can only do ten and 472 00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 2: then an hour later do ten or fifteen more. 473 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 3: I should have seen me in the hotel and am 474 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 3: I probably two wondering every every five minutes? 475 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:12,200 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, that's that's all we Your advice is great. 476 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 1: I mean, everyone knows Leslie is synonymous with dance and fitness, 477 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 1: so we appreciate your advice on that. We've got to 478 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 1: ask you some questions, Leslieies. 479 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 3: Okay, sorry, my dog is bothering me right now. Okay, 480 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:36,400 Speaker 3: We're gonna let you ask us anything you want. Oh, 481 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,920 Speaker 3: I stead of spousing you, you get to the floor, 482 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:41,719 Speaker 3: is yours? 483 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 1: Have your number? Careful your number? 484 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 3: I know? Do I ask you separately things? 485 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 1: Whatever? Whatever? 486 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 4: Your little heart? 487 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 3: Okay, Susan, tell me about your boyfriend. 488 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 4: Son. Yes, Kathy and I were on vacation and I 489 00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 4: hadn't express I know, are you madam? 490 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 2: Yeh yes, y And communication was difficult at the beginning, 491 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,160 Speaker 2: but he's a charming gentleman. 492 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 3: Are you Are you learning French? 493 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 4: So I've taken every course. 494 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 2: I'm starting to be able to read it, oh and 495 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:16,199 Speaker 2: understand it. But when I speak I sound like I 496 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:17,360 Speaker 2: have a Spanish accent. 497 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: She like she's from Brochure. 498 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:27,160 Speaker 2: I could do, I could say, but I'm not good 499 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 2: at it at all. He however, has a heavy accent 500 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 2: when he speaks his English words, and we crack up 501 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 2: because he'll repeat the same word twelve times and he 502 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,359 Speaker 2: gets louder, and I go, I don't know what you're saying. 503 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:44,160 Speaker 2: And finally it'll dawn on me. Gota remember the Fort 504 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 2: Knox and I find. 505 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 4: It, I go for it. 506 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,119 Speaker 2: I say this, I go, no, you didn't say you 507 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,120 Speaker 2: thought you were things like that, But when. 508 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 3: It's really My husband is French, but he does I mean, 509 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 3: he speaks English, but but he does have a heavy 510 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 3: accent in it. 511 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,639 Speaker 2: If it's really really important, he'll say this is important 512 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 2: and we both run and we get the translator so 513 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:06,640 Speaker 2: that we. 514 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 1: Could speak French. 515 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 3: No, I mean I took French in school, but I 516 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 3: mean I understand it way better than I can speak. 517 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:20,880 Speaker 3: You do, yes, And he speaks French to my grandson, 518 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:25,200 Speaker 3: and so my grandson, my daughter in laws, is Mexican, 519 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,119 Speaker 3: so she speaks Spanish to him, and then David speaks 520 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 3: French to him, and then Eli speaks he's teaching him Hebrew, 521 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 3: so he's got four language. 522 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:35,880 Speaker 4: That's how it should be. 523 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 3: I know, I know, I wish, I wish they would 524 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 3: have done that for me. But there, okay. So then 525 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,360 Speaker 3: I don't know if you know that the new iPods 526 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,640 Speaker 3: air pods have a translator. 527 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:48,880 Speaker 1: I love them. 528 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 2: We have glasses, we have, but you always need this, 529 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,480 Speaker 2: always you have to have and that's okay. 530 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 4: And he says, darling, hell are we going to learn? 531 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:00,959 Speaker 4: And I get you right? 532 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,199 Speaker 1: Wait, can I just tell you? I don't know if 533 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 1: I've told you the story, but unless you'll get a 534 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,919 Speaker 1: crack out of it, I noticed less you had no 535 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 1: questions for me. We'll take that up later. 536 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 3: I do have a questions. 537 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,760 Speaker 1: What is what am I supposed to do? 538 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:20,119 Speaker 3: I asked Susan. Now I'm going to I was going 539 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,119 Speaker 3: to ask you, do you miss Paradise as much as 540 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 3: I do? 541 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:26,199 Speaker 1: Yes? I do. I you when you said earlier in 542 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: this podcast that you know you enjoyed Paradise, but it 543 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 1: was different, oh, comparing Paradise to Golden for me. I know, 544 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 1: I loved Paradise. I loved being, like you said, having 545 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 1: these young adults that actually cared what you and I thought, 546 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,679 Speaker 1: and wanted to be around us and and and spending 547 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,560 Speaker 1: time with you, and yeah, I like when I came home. 548 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,399 Speaker 3: It was when I came home from from Golden Bacheler. 549 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,439 Speaker 3: I missed you guys. I just didn't miss when you 550 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:59,919 Speaker 3: went through something. Yeah, that's it was. It was always 551 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:04,359 Speaker 3: sign it. I do miss the young us, you know, 552 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 3: I just I love them so much. 553 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,199 Speaker 1: But that was my question. Yes I do. Okay, but 554 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 1: I just have to tell you a very funny story. 555 00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 1: I haven't met this guy yet, but I'm probably going 556 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 1: to meet him. But he called me on the phone 557 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: to chat with him, and very funny, very nice guy. 558 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 1: I haven't met me, had no no phone calls, in 559 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 1: no emails. I don't know anything, very little about him. 560 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 1: But the reason he wanted to call him talk to 561 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 1: me first was he was on a dating site and 562 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 1: he drove an hour and a half to meet this woman. 563 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:35,679 Speaker 1: And they sat down for dinner and he said she 564 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 1: was very pretty on the dating app. And he said, 565 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,320 Speaker 1: we sat down and she had three words of English, 566 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: and I burst out laughing. I said, well, hell, I'm 567 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 1: I'm ahead of the race here, and I got I 568 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,479 Speaker 1: I have way more than three words. And he started laughing, 569 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 1: and I said, I have to ask you, because you 570 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: know me a million questions. How did that go? He said, 571 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:59,600 Speaker 1: We spent a lot of time staring at our phones translating, 572 00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 1: and I thought to myself, oh my god. And he said, 573 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 1: but I learned a very important lesson. I said, what 574 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 1: did you learn? He said, at least have a short 575 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 1: phone conversation with the person before you invite them out 576 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 1: for dinner. Can I have to. 577 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 3: Hear the person's voice? 578 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 4: Would I would share that with someone, wouldn't you? 579 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 3: By the way, I don't all that way. I'd have 580 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,160 Speaker 3: to hear the voice. The voice is important to me. 581 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 4: They talk. 582 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, well you heard what happened to me when I 583 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 1: corrected Brian's grammar. So I'm out of that game. 584 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 2: Well, Fred, our first date, he said, I hope you 585 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:39,520 Speaker 2: speak French better than my English. Do you have ear pods? 586 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 2: And do you like to dance? And the ear pods? 587 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:45,120 Speaker 2: As soon as we met, he took my phone, he 588 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 2: downloaded the app. 589 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 4: Kathy did a little bit of friends. 590 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 2: She stayed for one drink and left, and then for 591 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 2: three hours I was looking at the phone and at 592 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 2: one point I said, you know where I come from? 593 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 2: When I go on a date or meet somebody, I 594 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 2: usually make eye contact and I can't even tell you 595 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 2: what color you are. 596 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 4: And we started rapping them. 597 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 1: Wait, Leslie, I want to know, have you ever met 598 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: a guy where like, I've talked to guys on the 599 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 1: phone and I'm in love with their voice and then 600 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: I meet them and where is this? Where's the closest exit? 601 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 3: Well that happened to me, but it was even worse. 602 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 3: I spent two hours on a zoom with them and. 603 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 4: Wait minute, and what was different? 604 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:27,560 Speaker 3: Though? 605 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 1: Wait a second? Oh wait, you're in now at Leslie, 606 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: I know? 607 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 3: Okay, so this So my friend worked for this uh 608 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 3: talk ify. It's called talk Ify. They match you up. 609 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 3: And she she was and she knew I was going 610 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 3: to New York for something. This was a year ago 611 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 3: or so maybe yeah, a year ago. And so she said, 612 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:52,000 Speaker 3: I have a guy. He's Jewish. Okay, all right? So 613 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,680 Speaker 3: I spent two hours on a zoom with him, and 614 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 3: he was really nice and cute and. 615 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 4: We had so much looking forward to it, right, yes. 616 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 3: And we just met for coffee. Again. I happened to 617 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 3: be in New York. I didn't go to New York 618 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 3: to meet him, but he met, but it was as 619 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 3: soon as we met in person done. 620 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,480 Speaker 1: It was just what do you think it was done 621 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,160 Speaker 1: for you or for him or both? 622 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 3: I don't know. For him, it was for me. The 623 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 3: vibe wasn't there. He he had a little bit of 624 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 3: a crop, a. 625 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 2: Little bit of a what cross eye, I'd be staring 626 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 2: at it, I'm slipping. 627 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,600 Speaker 3: But on the zoom he was looking at the screen, 628 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 3: but not like this way, but kind of like this was. 629 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 3: I couldn't see. 630 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 1: I did not. 631 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm sorry. He was so nice. I'm 632 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 3: sorry that's not nice. But I'm just saying I think 633 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 3: you just when you meet somebody in person, it's just 634 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 3: a completely different thing. 635 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,880 Speaker 4: I don't know I have helped, though I really. 636 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 3: Did well too. 637 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. I've never zoomed with a guy and 638 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 1: then met him, but I I have talked to so 639 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 1: many guys on the phone that have the best voice, 640 00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 1: and then I meet them and I'm like, I'm so out. 641 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,000 Speaker 1: I'm because it doesn't take me along, Like, how long 642 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 1: is it take you, Leslie, when you meet a guy 643 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: to know if you're interested? 644 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 3: I say fifteen seconds. 645 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: You're saying fifteen. 646 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 3: I know, I don't know. 647 00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 1: So here's the thing with me now. And I say 648 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 1: this earlier, but Leslie, beyond of course, you're younger than 649 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 1: I am. But I in my mind, I have this 650 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 1: image of the man, the look that I would like. 651 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 1: But I'm trying to get over that. I'm trying to 652 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:45,040 Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm trying to just be open to 653 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 1: whatever they bring and see. 654 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 3: No. 655 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 1: Actually, because I'll tell you why, Because I'm changing what 656 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:57,720 Speaker 1: I want if I want. 657 00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 3: To feel that, I feel. Yes, I feel like after 658 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:04,360 Speaker 3: the show and me and me being very invested in 659 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 3: Gary or Gary, I feel like, you know, that's not 660 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 3: the typical person that I definitely and I actually liked 661 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:14,960 Speaker 3: the fact that. 662 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 4: I was something different exactly. 663 00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 3: So I was like, okay, I'm growing up. 664 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:23,160 Speaker 4: You know, me and a big girl. 665 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 3: Yeah exactly. I'm like, Okay, this is good. You know. 666 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 3: That is what I'm supposed to do. It supposed to 667 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,880 Speaker 3: be open. My daughter's last words to me be open, mom, 668 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 3: don't you know? So I was? And then you know so, 669 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 3: and so that was good. I'm glad you. 670 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 1: Gave it the old cult. Try to be clear, Leslie, 671 00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 1: you gave it the old col try. I thought very 672 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,560 Speaker 1: appropriately with Gary. You know, you went to see if 673 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 1: there was something there. You came, you saw, you didn't 674 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 1: you know it was what it was. But I'm saying 675 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:57,520 Speaker 1: that when we when I was younger, I would meet 676 00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 1: a guy, he didn't have to open his mouth, I 677 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:05,239 Speaker 1: would just look at him and if I wasn't And 678 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 1: now that's not settling to answer your question, because I'm 679 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,719 Speaker 1: now realizing that look, I don't look great compared to 680 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 1: what I like when I was thirty either. 681 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,799 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, weren't getting. 682 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,800 Speaker 1: Older, right, and so I so now I want to 683 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 1: give men a chance to see what their personality is like. 684 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 1: Are we compatible? You know, those things to me are 685 00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 1: becoming more important. Like we had talked to April. We 686 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 1: had her on podcast and she was talking about, you know, 687 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:38,239 Speaker 1: the look that she likes, and you know, April, that's 688 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 1: that's her world. But I said to listen to her, 689 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:46,279 Speaker 1: thinking I have I guess I really am changing because you. 690 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:50,320 Speaker 2: Know, if I like a body type two and forever, 691 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 2: they had to be built and I don't care a 692 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 2: few extra pounds. 693 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:54,839 Speaker 4: I don't care about that. 694 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 2: It's who you are and how I feel when I'm 695 00:34:58,400 --> 00:34:59,200 Speaker 2: with you. 696 00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 3: You know, I want someone that's that that has that 697 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,719 Speaker 3: takes care of himself, because I do, so I want 698 00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,760 Speaker 3: someone that does that as well. 699 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: Right, But but the point is, Leslie, you don't care, 700 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 1: or maybe I'm putting more in your mouth, you don't 701 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,160 Speaker 1: seem that you care. If the guy is a dawn 702 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 1: as fitness level, just a guy who goes to the gym. 703 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 4: Bye takes care of it. 704 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,160 Speaker 1: You know, he may not be as thin as ever. 705 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 3: I mean, they don't have to do all the things 706 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 3: that I do. I mean, you know, if they ski 707 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,960 Speaker 3: and snowboard, that's bonus. But if they don't, that's fine. 708 00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 3: If you know, you know, I I'm fine with that. 709 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 3: I just want someone that takes care of themselves. 710 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:35,480 Speaker 4: That's all. 711 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:39,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, Oh God, I hate to burst this bubble, 712 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 2: but you know what time it is. 713 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:42,440 Speaker 1: It's time for you to go out and find a 714 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 1: guy for Kathy and Leslie. 715 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,160 Speaker 2: That's going to do it for this episode of Bachelor 716 00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 2: Happy Hour's Golden Hour. 717 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,239 Speaker 4: Leslie, thank you, thanks for joining us. 718 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 1: I miss you. 719 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:57,319 Speaker 4: We're definitely we always say let's play in something and 720 00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 4: it never happens. But if you're going to be a 721 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:01,960 Speaker 4: New York and you know ahead of time, let me know. 722 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 4: I'm a couple of hours away. 723 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,880 Speaker 1: So I and you know you have an open invitation 724 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 1: to Austin. Thank you for coming on Lussie. You always 725 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 1: give great advice, and thanks to all of you out 726 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 1: there for joining us. 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