1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Smitha and welcome Stuff Never 2 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:09,039 Speaker 1: Told You production of iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 2: And welcome to. 4 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: Our Valentine's Day episode classic by. 5 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 3: This expression, that's one of those kind of ironic Valantine. 6 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yes, well, there are a couple of episodes 7 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 1: that were on my mind for this. Uh and one 8 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 1: was the episode that you did Samantha on Mistress Day. 9 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 1: Oh yes, which is around the same time I've got 10 00:00:52,680 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, Valentine's Day, Mistress Day. Uh. So I feel 11 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: like every topic we come up with for Valentine's Day 12 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: has traditionally been kind of a darker. 13 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 3: Day anti Valentine's Apparently. 14 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 1: A lot of them are as I was finding looking 15 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 1: through these classics. But please enjoy and have happy Valentine's 16 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:21,960 Speaker 1: Day and Valentine's. 17 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 3: Day, Happy Valentine. 18 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 2: Hey, this is Anny and Smitha. 19 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 1: I'm welcome to stuff I've Never Told You production of iHeartRadio. 20 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 3: Okay, so for this Monday Mini Annie, we need to 21 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 3: start off with a timestamp, which is we are recording 22 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 3: on February eighth, twenty four and this will be released 23 00:01:55,200 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 3: though on Monday, February twelfth, for if you happen to 24 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 3: listen on the day of This is when we were 25 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: recording it. If you're listening much long further down the road, 26 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 3: you're like, why are you talking about Valentine's Day? Well, 27 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 3: now you know why, because yes, Valentine's Day is just 28 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 3: around the corner as you're listening to this. Of course 29 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 3: we had to do something that was related to this 30 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 3: day of love or day of commercially giving, so we 31 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 3: can judge our partners to on what they gave us 32 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 3: or didn't give us row food. By the way, if 33 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 3: anybody was asking, always food or a puppy, I'm not 34 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 3: adding to that list. 35 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 1: Puppy not for me. Have you seen pizza as a 36 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: breakup pizza? 37 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 3: Yes, they break it up. Break it's like broken, it's broken. 38 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,800 Speaker 1: And the one I said, we've like swirled, we've gone 39 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: from Valentine's Day is all that romance to like, let's 40 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: just stop protecting what I think. 41 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 3: It's kind of background being salty valentied essentially as you 42 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 3: were saying. But like the one I saw had the 43 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 3: box with the name to the person is sorry about that? 44 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 2: Yes, good luck. 45 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: Can you imagine if you're a delivery person like, whoo, well, I. 46 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 3: This is like the equivalent of when you're in middle 47 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 3: school and you don't want to break up with them, 48 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 3: so your friend goes and tells you, hey, so and 49 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 3: so it is breaking up with you, sorry, and then 50 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 3: moving on, and then that friend really loving that moment 51 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 3: because you know she gets they get to be a 52 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 3: part of it even though they are not a part 53 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 3: of this drama. I feel like this is that equivalent. 54 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 3: So if anyone, if like middle schoolers get a credit 55 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 3: card or get their parents' credit card, they're going to 56 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 3: do this. 57 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: I can see just like sending this to people for. 58 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:44,839 Speaker 3: I mean, if I get a free pizza out of it, 59 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 3: that's not bad. 60 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 2: It's better than. 61 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: Just being broken up with. 62 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 2: That's yeah. 63 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 3: I'm just saying I haven't had a Pizza Hut pizza 64 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 3: in a very long time, so I don't know the quality, 65 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 3: but I'm just saying a pizza a win is a win. 66 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 67 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: At a certain point, yes, I mean definitely, I'd be 68 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: like Pizza Hut, But then I'd be like, all right, sponsor, praps. 69 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 3: Sponsor, apparently we need to have it. 70 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. 71 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 3: So with all of that, you know what, because we 72 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 3: have started one rabbit hole, we're gonna do another one, 73 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 3: so y'all can come with me into this very interesting 74 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 3: romantic tale of Mistress Day, which I didn't know anything about. 75 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 3: But Annie, you said you knew something about. 76 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 1: I had heard of it. I think we had done 77 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: we'd done something on Ashley Madison. Yes, and it came up, 78 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: which I know you'll talk about more in a second, 79 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: But yes, it came up with that. 80 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, and that makes sense. But it's been around before 81 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 3: Ashley Madison apparently. But for me personally, February thirteenth is 82 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 3: Gallantine's Day, which is all cheerful and great. See our 83 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 3: previous episode where we talked about it, and we enjoy 84 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 3: the joys of that. Thank you Parks and Ratt for 85 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 3: giving us a name for this holiday. But for some, 86 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 3: specifically those in the restaurant industry, because this is kind 87 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 3: of where it comes from, is what many call Mistress Day. Me, 88 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 3: being my naive self, had no idea. Again, this was 89 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 3: a thing makes sense, but I didn't know. 90 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 2: Yet. 91 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 3: But I will say part of this kind of the 92 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 3: first thing I have in my head is like the 93 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 3: eighties nineties soap opera thing with the rich older men 94 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 3: taking out their Valentine to these restaurants on the low, 95 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 3: you know. And by the way, again, rich people think 96 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 3: because Valentine's celebration is ridiculously expensive, you try to go 97 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 3: out to this like prefixed menu, it's like four hundred 98 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 3: dollars and that doesn't include drinks, which I did that 99 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 3: last year because I just wanted to do it for 100 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 3: one time round. Have a nice little I love a 101 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 3: prefixed milk. Like if it's good, it's good. But damn 102 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 3: is expensive. Yeah, yep. So for a person to do 103 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 3: that twice in one week, well, I guess because the 104 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 3: February thirteenth is not necessarily Actually, most of the restaurants 105 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,239 Speaker 3: that I was looking at recently they had a prefix 106 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 3: menu from like the twelfth to the fifteenth, so they 107 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 3: were covering their damn basis. 108 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 109 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: I think it's like if you can't get one, you 110 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: can't get a reservation, and or you're busy the day 111 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 1: quotever reason, Yeah. 112 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: Just put that quote saying yeah for whatever. 113 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 3: For whatever reason. 114 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yes. 115 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 3: But thanks to TikTok again for informing me of such practices, 116 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 3: and more specifically to Delish the site who did an 117 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 3: article and did a whole video talking about these things 118 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 3: and traditions. So here's a definition from them. Mistress Day 119 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 3: is the day when affair havers choose to shower their 120 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 3: other special someone prior to whining and dining their actual 121 00:06:55,920 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 3: partner on February fourteenth. They explain. Also Mistress Day also 122 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 3: called mistress Night or paramore Night, which I like that 123 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 3: title better. I'm not gonna lie. It apparently occurs on 124 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 3: the day before Valentine's Day. So there you go. And 125 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 3: there's a couple another term that we're gonna talk about 126 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 3: a minute. I think it's just as funny. And the 127 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 3: article continues. A study from Ashley Madison Australia suggests, yes 128 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 3: the Affair website, so take this with a grain of salt, 129 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 3: that thirty percent of male and female cheaters typically spend 130 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 3: Valentine's Day with their outside partners, and they often spend 131 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 3: the same or more on their affair partners during the holiday, 132 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,679 Speaker 3: between one hundred dollars to two hundred and fifty dollars 133 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 3: per partner. Again, why would you cheat it? It's expensive, 134 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 3: That's what I'm finding out. 135 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: It is expensive, and it's also, like I think, pretty 136 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: telling if you spend more because you don't want them 137 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: to say something you're like, see, I appreciate you. 138 00:07:53,360 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 139 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 3: So a couple of the articles that I read outside 140 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 3: of this, and they are older so one of them 141 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 3: was two thousand and nine, one of them was two thousand, 142 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 3: one of them was twenty eleven, so a little older, 143 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 3: and talking about these some of them said that seventy 144 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 3: percent of more people who have these partners, I guess 145 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 3: will will be spending more on them, so they're more 146 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 3: likely going to spend more and then move on and 147 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 3: kind of talked about how the women or people who 148 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 3: are their spouses or actual partners get less and less 149 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 3: and less every year. Yeah, that's so sad. Do better 150 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 3: people again. All of this makes me very sad, both 151 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 3: for the amount spent in general, to the cheating and 152 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,439 Speaker 3: to the cheating like both of those things, I'm like, 153 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 3: don't wow, wow, Like I want to be cared for, 154 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 3: but I want thoughtful presence just knowing that you care. Yeah, 155 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 3: any I know you care, Which does bring in the 156 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 3: perspective that it may not be about mistresses at all, 157 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 3: just as a reminder, but couples who are making smart 158 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 3: financial deals and decisions and also not missing with those crowds. 159 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,559 Speaker 3: So they're like yeah, we're gonna do it ahead of time, 160 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 3: or later we'll just do our own thing, so you know, 161 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 3: that's one option. Or perhaps they are polyamorous or in 162 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 3: an open relationship so they are communicating, so it's not 163 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:23,599 Speaker 3: so much cheating, or so we can't judge any of 164 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 3: these things by that appearance because you never know. You 165 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 3: never know, So as just someone like, don't become that 166 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 3: person that comes to like you're cheating unless you actually know. 167 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 2: I guess. 168 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 3: Also, can we talk about how this sexist idea links 169 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 3: very heavily into the rich man having an affair thing, 170 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 3: because again, mistress day is definitely gendered as we see it, 171 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 3: and of course one article the New York Post puts 172 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 3: it this way, mistress day has become a misnomer as 173 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 3: more cougars have gotten in on the action. So there 174 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 3: you go, I guess. And then there's some just shows 175 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 3: up bad. So I was like, okay, add another sexist 176 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 3: term to that to make it worse. While this is 177 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 3: just a fair having men, it's mistresses and cougar's in 178 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 3: that term. I was like, yeah, that's about right, But 179 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 3: there is another term also for this practice. I enjoy 180 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 3: a bit more. I will say, which is Valence swins Day, 181 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 3: y'all Valence swines And I was like, oh, okay, which 182 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 3: is not to be confused to the German tradition of 183 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 3: their own form of Valentine's I guess I don't know 184 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,079 Speaker 3: if that's what they call it. I'm sure they don't 185 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 3: call it valanced wines day that Germany has a term 186 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 3: for it. But they do actually exchange pigs, unfortunately, not 187 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 3: real ones, because I want to pot belly pigs. I'm 188 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 3: gonna give me one, just kidding, but keep seeks and 189 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 3: as such, and pigs are considered good luck and oftentimes 190 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 3: will be a picture of a pig instead of cupid. 191 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's a practice, but this is not what 192 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 3: we're talking about. This is not a cute term of 193 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 3: endearment for that no, but as would indicate, people use 194 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 3: this term as more of a dig as A New 195 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 3: York Post titled it titled their twenty eleven piece about 196 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 3: this subject Valence Swine's Day When Pigs romance mistresses. Dang, 197 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 3: and I was like, you know what, I really appreciate 198 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 3: this title, So we're gonna gender it. Let's do it 199 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 3: this way, because I'm like, the very least, we're not 200 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 3: blaming the mistress on this one, just the mistress on 201 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 3: this way Paramore day, Paramore night. I feel like it 202 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 3: is a fancier version, right, Maybe this is Ashley Madison term. 203 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 3: And of course we had to do the urban Dictionary 204 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 3: example about this term the day before Valentine's Day that 205 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 3: guys used to spend time with their second or third 206 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 3: most important woman in their lives. February thirteenth is the 207 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 3: day that just get to feel like wives and sideline 208 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 3: hoes get to feel like star players. Yes, this is 209 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 3: all urban dictionary, y'all. It's especially sad when the girl 210 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 3: doesn't know she's not the only girl her boyfriend is seeing. 211 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 3: And of course they have a little dialogue. So, uh, 212 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 3: you want to be a girl too in this Annie? Yeah? 213 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 2: Sure, all right, here we go. Girl. 214 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 3: So he's taking you out the day before Valentine's Day. 215 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, he has to work late on Valentine's Day. 216 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure he's going to be with his actual girlfriend. 217 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:37,839 Speaker 3: That's why he's taking you out on Valencewine's Day. 218 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 2: And scene scene what you need to do these more often? 219 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 3: But yeah, so apparently it's a thing. I'm not really 220 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,080 Speaker 3: I try to find the history of where that began. 221 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 3: Maybe it's just the easily done, like obvious term and 222 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 3: it just kind of grew with that, but yeah, it 223 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 3: did start. It does look like it originated from restaurant 224 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 3: because they had to prepare and knowing that how much 225 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 3: money they were going to make or who's coming in. 226 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 3: A lot of servers were interviewed talking about how they were, 227 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 3: you know, given the eye or the look from the 228 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 3: cheater be like please, please play it cool, how oftentimes 229 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 3: they were so uncreative, not creative, that they would come 230 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 3: to the same place two or three times back to 231 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 3: back to back, so they knew who these people were. 232 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 3: I think there was one person talked about how they 233 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:34,199 Speaker 3: did out them quite loudly and it was quite funny. 234 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 3: And then there was another person talking about how she 235 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 3: had a huge tip because the dude was like realizing 236 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 3: she wasn't playing along because she would look just look 237 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 3: more confused more than anything else, not saying anything, just 238 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 3: obviously wasn't aware of what's happening, and it was like 239 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:52,559 Speaker 3: please with the love of Jesus, and gave her a 240 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 3: huge tip in order to keep her quiet. 241 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 2: Aw geez. 242 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 3: So so they go Happy Valentine's Day. I hope your 243 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 3: Valentie's Day is better than this mess right here if 244 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 3: you happen to celebrate, if you would just rather do 245 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 3: the joys of Gallantine, we hear you, and Happy Gallantine's 246 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 3: Day from us. 247 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, and if you want to go 248 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: check out our you know not too oftenly updated Instagram 249 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: we did prior to a Gallantine's Day post from Disneyland. 250 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 2: It's true, it's very cute. Thank you, that is very cute. 251 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 1: But yes, whatever you're doing, because again I'm pretty much 252 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 1: just like eating food by myself, and I'm pretty excited 253 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 1: about it. You can email us at Stephanie moms Stuff 254 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: at iHeartMedia dot com. You can find us on Twitter 255 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: at mom Stuff podcast, or on Instagram and TikTok at 256 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: stuff One never told you. We have a tea public 257 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: store and we have a book you can get wherever 258 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: you get your books. 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