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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 2: Hey guys, welcome to the Almost same As podcast. Today

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Speaker 2: we have a mini episode catching up with Heather Martin.

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Speaker 2: Our producers had a little bit of a thought having

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Speaker 2: you on Heather.

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Speaker 3: Oh, noh, who can we.

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Speaker 2: Get Matt James t from? And they're like, oh, heathers

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Speaker 2: and she wanted to join his season.

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Speaker 3: I figured as much, so let's just jump into it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, what was your reaction when you saw I guess

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Speaker 2: the breakup post? Initially?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean as far as I know, obviously, like

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Speaker 4: I haven't been best friends with that, you know, for

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Speaker 4: the thought, So I thought, as far as I.

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Speaker 3: Knew, I thought they were gonna get married endgame.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and from you know, hearing through Hannah because I'm

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Speaker 4: still obviously talked to Hannah all the time, like it

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Speaker 4: felt the same, she felt the same vibe. So I

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Speaker 4: was when I saw that. I was I was shocked.

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Speaker 4: I was like, what happened? I had known nothing, but

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Speaker 4: I was like, that was crazy.

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Speaker 3: It was.

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Speaker 4: It was interesting post obviously that everyone you know, everyone thought.

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Speaker 2: But did you watch the call her Daddy? I did,

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Speaker 2: as I did? And what was your maid Haegaway.

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Speaker 4: I honestly thought I thought Rachel Hannah handled herself really

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Speaker 4: really well. I thought I thought she was like spoke

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Speaker 4: so highly of him, and I honestly thought she was

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Speaker 4: just being like truthful. I felt like she really meant

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Speaker 4: what she said and she was still like obviously it

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Speaker 4: was so so fresh, but I was like, I think

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Speaker 4: she's just saying exactly what happened and what the truth was,

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Speaker 4: which I thought was really respectful because she could have

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Speaker 4: gone and said like yeah the worst, or she could

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Speaker 4: have you know, still been like I want I want

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Speaker 4: to like tried to like talk about more because she

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Speaker 4: still wanted to get back together with him, But it

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Speaker 4: felt like she was just like raw and honest, which

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Speaker 4: I thought was really Yeah, that was cool.

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Speaker 2: She's definitely giving you know, the I'm a lady, I'm

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Speaker 2: a single very uh.

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Speaker 3: What would be the word?

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Speaker 2: Like she is like a she's kind of playing the

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Speaker 2: bachelorette in real life right now on Instagram totally.

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Speaker 3: I mean like all of her gallantines posts and.

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Speaker 4: All the things, and I mean she is like the

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Speaker 4: most ever and saying like she's the most eligible.

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Speaker 2: Bachelorette and she eligible bachelorette yeah, see it.

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Speaker 4: She's she's stunning, she's funny, she's sweet. Like, I'm like,

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Speaker 4: she's gonna get She's gonna get swooped up so quick.

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Speaker 3: But what do you think do you think she's ready?

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Speaker 3: Like do you feel like she would be ready or

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Speaker 3: do you think that.

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Speaker 2: She No, not right now?

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Speaker 3: I wonder, like, I mean, I feel like she you know,

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Speaker 3: who knows.

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Speaker 2: So my theory was that like mad probably knew for

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Speaker 2: quite some time that she wasn't endgame for him, and

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Speaker 2: he just didn't know how to how to get out

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Speaker 2: of it. So when they had a series of fights,

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Speaker 2: I think he just kind of thought that was his

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Speaker 2: way out.

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Speaker 3: Do you think, yeah, what do you think like a

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Speaker 3: revelation in the moment? No way. I think that what

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Speaker 3: I think.

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Speaker 4: Is that he and this is like only my thoughts,

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Speaker 4: but I think that he like was trying so hard

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Speaker 4: and he wanted it so badly to be it, and

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Speaker 4: I think, like I've done it before where it's like

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Speaker 4: you can you can convince yourself it's it for so.

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Speaker 3: Long, oh one hundred thousand percent, And.

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Speaker 4: I think, like I think that he wasn't planning it.

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Speaker 4: I don't think he's like, how do like I don't

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Speaker 4: think he was like how do I get out?

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Speaker 3: How to get out?

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Speaker 4: Like and this is my opportunity. I think he was

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Speaker 4: just like I think he kind of knew deep deep down.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's what I mean too. Yeah. I don't think

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Speaker 3: like any of this was on the surface. Yeah, but

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Speaker 3: I do feel like there was like.

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Speaker 2: That little voice inside his soul that knew it wasn't

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Speaker 2: completely right. And then that little conscious conscience came out

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Speaker 2: during this moment.

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Speaker 4: Like almost like a little mini I like came to

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Speaker 4: the surface of revelation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, this this isn't how it should be or

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Speaker 4: this isn't how I should feel.

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Speaker 2: And she's gonna know that soon enough. Like I'm not

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Speaker 2: worried about her at all. She I don't know that

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Speaker 2: she's there yet. It's only been like mom a little

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Speaker 2: over a month. But I think that she will soon

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Speaker 2: realize like, oh, there was that, and there was that,

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Speaker 2: and this that wasn't the right relationship.

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Speaker 3: Yeah for her too. Yeah, Yeah, I think so too. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And it's so hard when it's like you're so I

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Speaker 4: think just dating for that's like my biggest fear is

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Speaker 4: like dating for so long and then being like how

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Speaker 4: did I not?

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Speaker 2: No, my god, not just that, just like you feel

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Speaker 2: like it's a waste of time. If you was somebody

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Speaker 2: for like a year, you're like, Okay, I learned something

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Speaker 2: through that, blah blah blah, but four years feels like always.

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Speaker 4: So even a year feel a year totally feels like

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Speaker 4: three months of my life right now. I'm like, that's no,

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Speaker 4: I can't do it, you know what I mean, And

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Speaker 4: especially like those like I feel like upper twenties, mid twenties,

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Speaker 4: like formative years were like, yeah, I met my person,

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Speaker 4: and I want to and.

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Speaker 3: I want to have kids.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 4: But it's also at the same time, like I don't

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Speaker 4: feel like I think a lot of people are like

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Speaker 4: it's his fault, he should have done it, like blah blah.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know. I think.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I know it's controversial, but I just

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Speaker 4: feel like he really wanted it to happen, So I'm

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Speaker 4: not thinking like he was so like malicious and like

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Speaker 4: was like only doing it because they're like business partners,

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Speaker 4: and you know, I don't.

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Speaker 3: Like jumping on him so much.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, no, I think he was also trying to

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Speaker 4: figure it out and he was like he wants us

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Speaker 4: to be it, and he also wants to get married

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Speaker 4: and all the things.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, well I think he wants to get married,

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Speaker 2: but I think that there's a there's a lot that

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Speaker 2: needs to happen with him before that, because he does

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Speaker 2: seem to like he seems scared of sort of like

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Speaker 3: Do you think then, well, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think he's just like there's something I just he

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Speaker 2: should not four years. He knew it years ago. He

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Speaker 2: should have been working to feel it for four years,

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Speaker 2: is what I'm saying. So if he's like had a

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Speaker 2: four years.

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Speaker 3: I know, And so I know, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: See, Like my perpective is, I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 4: necessarily think it's like he's afraid of commit It's.

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Speaker 3: Not it's not the term.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what.

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Speaker 4: So that like he's like it just wasn't the right one.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I guess it. I guess you should have.

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Speaker 4: I guess you should have. Like I think if he

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Speaker 4: was to meet the.

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Speaker 2: Right later on, that's the biggest problem.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think you should have. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: mean I think you kind of know.

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Speaker 2: I think you know, like I think you know pretty

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Speaker 2: fast too.

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Speaker 3: Immediately, And maybe it's a girl thing. But I think like.

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Speaker 4: If I when I've been in a situation, like I knew,

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Speaker 4: I knew like within the first month.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I don't know. How is your love

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Speaker 2: life right now?

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Speaker 3: Oh, Ashley, it's I think it's rough out there.

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Speaker 2: Have there for bachelorrette Come on, I mean, I know

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Speaker 2: we're skipping this season.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, it's a I've d I dated this last

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Speaker 4: year for a little a while, someone from not from California.

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Speaker 4: He was awesome, so great on paper, but there was

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Speaker 4: just like this connection piece that was missing. Yeah, and

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Speaker 4: it was kind of s I mean, obviously it wasn't

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Speaker 4: the the same thing, but the same with that.

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Speaker 3: Thing is like I wanted it.

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Speaker 4: I try, I really really want it to happen because

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Speaker 4: I'm like he's like a perfect team and like why

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Speaker 4: and it just like I pushed it along, pushed along

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Speaker 4: because I was like, something's wrong with me.

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Speaker 3: Maybe maybe this is.

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Speaker 4: A meat problem and I like I need to like

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Speaker 4: figure it out. But I think at the end of

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Speaker 4: just it wasn't it, you know, Yeah, so it's.

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Speaker 3: Tough out there. I'm like, I don't know what to

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Speaker 3: do at this point. I'll do twenty nine.

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Speaker 2: You're still in your twenties and you're fine. I always

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Speaker 2: Jared and I didn't get together until I was well.

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Speaker 2: My thirtieth birthday was like our really hating anniversary. Die.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, that makes it feel better. It can happen fast.

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Speaker 2: I always just say that, like, it feels like it

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Speaker 2: could be so far away, especially when you get into

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Speaker 2: your upper twenties, but then like it just takes one

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Speaker 2: person and then all of a sudden, it's just like all.

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Speaker 3: Happening, and then it's there.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 3: I think I'm just holding out for that.

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Speaker 4: I think it's like, yeah, in those fates that phase before,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh no, I think I never felt like

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Speaker 4: the twenty nine thing. I'm like, that's not gonna happen

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Speaker 4: to me. I'm not gonna feel like stressed out out thirty.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh no, yeah, I'm over. I'm over the hill.

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Speaker 3: Not really.

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Speaker 2: I understand coouraging and you're like, well, you know, I understand,

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Speaker 2: but it's all silly and don't worry about it.

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Speaker 3: You're it's gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna's gonna happen where nobody's worried about you, Heather,

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Speaker 2: nobody's gonna look and look at you and then be

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Speaker 2: around you and be like, ah, Nope, this girl's block.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna die alone. That's funny.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Yes, a mad for a second. What was

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Speaker 2: the last time you spoke to him? Did you carry

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Speaker 2: on any sort of friendliness after he decided to not

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Speaker 2: let you in on the season.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I saw I've seen him that. I saw him

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Speaker 4: at Hannah's birthday party one time. I like, I've I

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Speaker 4: never had any sort of weirdness with that after, Like

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Speaker 4: i didn'tven feel uncomfortable at all, because I'm like it

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Speaker 4: was just such a weird situation. But nothing ever happened

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Speaker 4: between us, So I haven't like we're not we were

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Speaker 4: never like we're not best buds. You know.

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Speaker 2: Did you reach out to him after the breath to

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Speaker 2: break up?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, Ka, I didn't.

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Speaker 2: That would be maybe a little bit weird. It was like,

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Speaker 2: you're we're trying to get in.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm not trying to hear to swoop in

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Speaker 4: and yeah, none of that. But I have yeah, I

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Speaker 4: just I've been like I've you know, pretty much caught

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Speaker 2: Well, Hannah Brown is one of your best friends, and

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Speaker 4: Yes, still, and so yeah, she's so I think I

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Speaker 2: Adam's a prince like he is, he's a stunning man

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Speaker 4: So literally, they were the one who they were on

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna look up for you too. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Please.

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Speaker 2: It would be like another long distance things. I don't

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Speaker 3: I honestly that I think the California thing might be

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Speaker 4: My family's from the area, but they're I think my

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Speaker 2: Just nonchalant all to go where she goes. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 3: But I don't know. I honestly don't think it's easier anywhere.

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Speaker 3: It's like Peter Pan syndrome here too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like forty five still surfing and you know, not committing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. Is there any cute guys running around?

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Speaker 2: So it's just like all successpool. It's basically a bigger

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Speaker 4: Like but but like just like it's beautiful and like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: like you kind of it is like a Tad Hamilton.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, my favorite movie of all time.

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Speaker 2: One of the most underrated rom coms of all time.

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Speaker 2: You were like born when that movie came out.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I want to be her so badly

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Speaker 3: and like that is my ultimate dream. Rosalie Flutch.

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Speaker 2: All right, there's so much fun talking to you. We'll

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Speaker 3: Okay, talk later until next time, guys.

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