WEBVTT - The Karol Markowicz Show: Navigating Hollywood as a Conservative Christian with Andrew Klavan

0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Hi, and welcome back to the Carol Markowitz Show on iHeartRadio.

0:00:07.360 --> 0:00:09.719
<v Speaker 1>One of the topics that I want to get into

0:00:09.760 --> 0:00:13.640
<v Speaker 1>here is how bad advice can lead to problems in

0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:17.200
<v Speaker 1>your life, and sometimes the bad advice comes from our

0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:21.919
<v Speaker 1>own families. Parents aren't perfect. They're also influenced by the

0:00:21.920 --> 0:00:25.720
<v Speaker 1>wider society, and they can make mistakes in raising their children.

0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:29.720
<v Speaker 1>There was a Puse study from January. I refer to

0:00:29.760 --> 0:00:32.360
<v Speaker 1>this study a lot, just because it really blew my

0:00:32.440 --> 0:00:36.920
<v Speaker 1>mind that found parents would prefer by a lot that

0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:41.680
<v Speaker 1>their children prioritize financial independence and a good career over

0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:46.120
<v Speaker 1>family and children. Eighty eight percent of parents said it

0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:49.199
<v Speaker 1>was extremely or very important for their children to be

0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:52.920
<v Speaker 1>financially independent when they reached adulthood. I mean sure, like

0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:57.279
<v Speaker 1>who doesn't think that that's definitely a worthy goal. And

0:00:57.440 --> 0:01:00.000
<v Speaker 1>eighty eight percent also said the same of their children

0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:02.760
<v Speaker 1>having a job they enjoy. Okay, you know, I want

0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:05.240
<v Speaker 1>my kids to be financially independent. I want them to

0:01:05.280 --> 0:01:09.080
<v Speaker 1>have a job they enjoy. I'm with you. But then

0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:12.839
<v Speaker 1>only twenty one percent of parents said it was extremely

0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:16.920
<v Speaker 1>or very important for their child to get married, and

0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:22.400
<v Speaker 1>just twenty percent felt that strongly about their kids reproducing.

0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:27.000
<v Speaker 1>So I mean, just the idea that such a greater

0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:33.040
<v Speaker 1>number cared about their child's job versus having grandchildren is astonishing.

0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:36.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, to me, that's civilization ending, and beyond that,

0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:42.200
<v Speaker 1>it's just bad advice for life. Like, if you're concerned

0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:45.959
<v Speaker 1>about your child making a good living them, getting married

0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:51.600
<v Speaker 1>goes a long way towards that, and living a stable

0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:54.720
<v Speaker 1>life in general goes a long way towards making more money.

0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I got into this a few episodes ago with Brad Wilcox.

0:01:58.760 --> 0:02:02.480
<v Speaker 1>But married people or simply richer I don't just mean

0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:05.600
<v Speaker 1>earning more money. They also save more money, which is

0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:10.080
<v Speaker 1>a really surprising stat since you know, married people often

0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:12.480
<v Speaker 1>have to take care of these really expensive little people

0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:15.280
<v Speaker 1>that live with them. They still end up saving more

0:02:15.280 --> 0:02:20.280
<v Speaker 1>money than single people. Putting money or career first doesn't work.

0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:23.480
<v Speaker 1>You can't have it all in that way. You can

0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:26.200
<v Speaker 1>have it most of it if you're in a stable relationship.

0:02:26.520 --> 0:02:30.399
<v Speaker 1>I mean, married people also pool their resources. You want

0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:33.560
<v Speaker 1>your kid to be financially secure, move marriage to the

0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:36.800
<v Speaker 1>top of his or her to do list. A study

0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:39.560
<v Speaker 1>I looked at found that twenty nine percent of single

0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:43.600
<v Speaker 1>adults consider themselves financially secure, whereas about half of married

0:02:43.639 --> 0:02:46.600
<v Speaker 1>couples say the same. I mean, that's a jump, you know,

0:02:46.919 --> 0:02:49.120
<v Speaker 1>but forget about the financial part of it. That's the

0:02:49.160 --> 0:02:51.760
<v Speaker 1>other thing I think like getting too wrapped up, and

0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:53.799
<v Speaker 1>I tend to do it myself. I tend to look

0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:56.240
<v Speaker 1>at these studies and say, like, it's so much better

0:02:56.280 --> 0:02:58.640
<v Speaker 1>for you financially to get married. But that's you know,

0:02:58.800 --> 0:03:02.600
<v Speaker 1>not romantic and all of that. So it's important to

0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:06.160
<v Speaker 1>look at marriage as being important for a lot of reasons.

0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:10.760
<v Speaker 1>We hear a lot about people dying lonely deaths, deaths

0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:14.640
<v Speaker 1>of despair, and yet we're giving our kids this terrible

0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:18.520
<v Speaker 1>advice to pursue money over relationships, only to what have

0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:21.880
<v Speaker 1>them die alone at sixty? Who wants that life for

0:03:21.919 --> 0:03:27.760
<v Speaker 1>their children. What's worse is parents are specifically not passing

0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:31.520
<v Speaker 1>on their own values to their kids. It's baffling. A

0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:34.720
<v Speaker 1>pupil from a few months ago found that only about

0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:37.680
<v Speaker 1>a third of parents consider it important to pass their

0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:40.960
<v Speaker 1>religious values onto their children. Like, are you serious with this?

0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Someone sent me A study just came out on Friday. Actually, Communio,

0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:52.760
<v Speaker 1>a national nonprofit organization, conducted a nationwide survey of nineteen

0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:56.480
<v Speaker 1>thousand Sunday church attendees, and they did it during worship

0:03:56.560 --> 0:04:00.720
<v Speaker 1>in one hundred and twelve Evangelical, Protestant and Catholic con ggregations.

0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:04.920
<v Speaker 1>They found that only twenty two percent of church goers

0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:08.480
<v Speaker 1>consider themselves lonely, while that number is about fifty percent

0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:13.440
<v Speaker 1>in the general population. I mean, religion matters, the religious services.

0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:17.080
<v Speaker 1>Attending religious services. We know that this leads to, you know,

0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:19.760
<v Speaker 1>a sense of community that you just simply don't have

0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:23.599
<v Speaker 1>if you don't go. And you know, honestly, I I'm

0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:27.640
<v Speaker 1>sort of mixed on where our family is for religious services.

0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:31.640
<v Speaker 1>We don't really go to anything regularly, and I, you know,

0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:34.000
<v Speaker 1>I feel like for my own kids, I have to

0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:39.080
<v Speaker 1>make that change. I'm trying. I've been trying, but I

0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:42.000
<v Speaker 1>get that it's important even if we don't do it.

0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:44.360
<v Speaker 1>You know, I feel like I understand that we need

0:04:44.400 --> 0:04:48.839
<v Speaker 1>to be motivating towards that. None of this is a coincidence.

0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:52.880
<v Speaker 1>Religion is good, marriage is good, community is good. These

0:04:52.880 --> 0:04:56.039
<v Speaker 1>are things that we know. So how did we get

0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:58.520
<v Speaker 1>to this stage where we're giving our kids such awful

0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:02.240
<v Speaker 1>life advice saying that those things don't really matter. I

0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:06.680
<v Speaker 1>really think that what happened is parents try to be

0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:09.400
<v Speaker 1>cool or try to be a friend to their kid,

0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:13.000
<v Speaker 1>and what ends up happening is if anything goes attitude like,

0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:14.719
<v Speaker 1>oh you don't need to get married, Oh you don't

0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:16.839
<v Speaker 1>need to go to religious services, you could do whatever

0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:20.440
<v Speaker 1>you want, everything's fine. They don't want to be like

0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:24.719
<v Speaker 1>that uncool generation who raised them. They want to be

0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.560
<v Speaker 1>understanding and let their kids be free to make their choices.

0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:31.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean, sure, kids will make their own choices no

0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.919
<v Speaker 1>matter what you say to them, but that doesn't mean

0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:37.320
<v Speaker 1>you shouldn't lay down the markers in your own home.

0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.600
<v Speaker 1>This is what we believe, This is what we want

0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:43.359
<v Speaker 1>for you. This is what a successful life looks like.

0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:47.280
<v Speaker 1>You win nothing by pretending all choices are just as

0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:49.960
<v Speaker 1>good as all the other choices. Tell your kids the

0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:52.480
<v Speaker 1>truth and then let them go forge their own path.

0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Coming up next and interview with Andrew Claven. Join us

0:05:55.960 --> 0:06:01.919
<v Speaker 1>after the break and welcome back to the Carol Markowitz

0:06:01.960 --> 0:06:06.040
<v Speaker 1>Show on iHeartRadio. Our guest today is Andrew Claven. Andrew

0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:08.400
<v Speaker 1>is host of The Andrew Claven Show an author of

0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:10.920
<v Speaker 1>the new novel The House of Love and Death. Thank

0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:12.960
<v Speaker 1>you so much for coming on, Andrew, it's.

0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:14.240
<v Speaker 2>Good to see you, Carol. Thanks for having me.

0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:17.280
<v Speaker 1>Really good to see you too. So The House of

0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:20.160
<v Speaker 1>Love and Death is the third in a trilogy. Tell

0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:21.880
<v Speaker 1>us a little bit about the book and the series.

0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:24.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a third in the series. I'm hoping it'll

0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:29.320
<v Speaker 2>go for ten books at least. Yeah. No. It's a long,

0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.440
<v Speaker 2>long story about a guy named Cameron Winter who has

0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:34.880
<v Speaker 2>been doing some very dirty work for the government in

0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:37.640
<v Speaker 2>his past and is now trying to recover and become

0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:39.640
<v Speaker 2>a sort of better person. He's taken a job as

0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:43.320
<v Speaker 2>a poetry professor in a Midwestern school, but he has

0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:45.920
<v Speaker 2>this what he calls a strange habit of mind where

0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:48.960
<v Speaker 2>every time he sees certain crimes that just don't make

0:06:49.000 --> 0:06:51.320
<v Speaker 2>sense to him, he's obsessively has to go out and

0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:53.359
<v Speaker 2>see if he can figure out what it is that

0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:55.960
<v Speaker 2>doesn't make sense about them. So he's a guy who's

0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:59.800
<v Speaker 2>kind of been an anti hero is trying to overcome

0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:02.320
<v Speaker 2>that becomes something better in the world, and the world

0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:04.919
<v Speaker 2>is falling apart around him. He's living in modern America,

0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.520
<v Speaker 2>so the world is falling apart around him, And it's

0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:09.840
<v Speaker 2>basically exploring the idea of how can you be a

0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:10.960
<v Speaker 2>good Man in a bad Time.

0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I like that. So some of your books have been

0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:18.040
<v Speaker 1>made into Hollywood movies before I know. You had True

0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:21.320
<v Speaker 1>Crime with Clint Eastwood, Don't Say a Word with Michael Douglas,

0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:24.440
<v Speaker 1>and this trilogy has been best selling. So has Hollywood

0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:25.240
<v Speaker 1>come calling again?

0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely not. That is something you know. I've been a

0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:32.440
<v Speaker 2>very outspoken conservative and an outspoken Christian and is very doubtful.

0:07:33.000 --> 0:07:35.640
<v Speaker 2>In fact, when I sent the first book of the series,

0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:38.280
<v Speaker 2>When Christmas Comes to my very left wing film agent,

0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:41.360
<v Speaker 2>he loved it. He thought it was absolutely fantastic, and

0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:45.320
<v Speaker 2>he took it out to over one hundred people and

0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:49.600
<v Speaker 2>not even a single bite, not a little touch of

0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:51.800
<v Speaker 2>interest in it. And I kept saying to him, you know,

0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:53.920
<v Speaker 2>I am blacklisted, and he keeps saying, no, no, no,

0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:56.560
<v Speaker 2>they would never black Chust. It's all about the money.

0:07:56.600 --> 0:07:58.160
<v Speaker 2>And I kept saying, ah, you know, I don't know.

0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:01.240
<v Speaker 2>But he was never quite convinced. But he never got

0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:04.000
<v Speaker 2>anywhere with it. Eventually they'll be banned into movies, but

0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:06.480
<v Speaker 2>not for a while. Maybe I have to disappear before

0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:06.960
<v Speaker 2>that happened.

0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:10.840
<v Speaker 1>So how do we turn around in industry that is

0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:14.040
<v Speaker 1>not that interested in making money? I mean, Disney continues

0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:16.080
<v Speaker 1>to lose money and they're like, they seem fine with

0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:18.240
<v Speaker 1>it in the pursuit of their ideology.

0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:21.400
<v Speaker 2>That's right, and people do not understand that. People always

0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:23.800
<v Speaker 2>say they think they're being kind of cynical wise by

0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:26.240
<v Speaker 2>saying Hollywood is all about the money, but it's not,

0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:28.360
<v Speaker 2>you know, And they make the money anyway. They make

0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:30.400
<v Speaker 2>it off Marvel movies, they make it off those big

0:08:30.960 --> 0:08:33.880
<v Speaker 2>tent pole pictures. But we don't turn it around. We

0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:35.880
<v Speaker 2>have to beat it. We have to make our own industry,

0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:37.840
<v Speaker 2>We have to build our own infrastructure. This is one

0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:41.800
<v Speaker 2>of the most important parts that conservatives don't understand. It's

0:08:41.840 --> 0:08:45.040
<v Speaker 2>not enough to make movies because you can make movies

0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:48.199
<v Speaker 2>off a credit card. Now they're absolutely beautiful looking. You

0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:52.960
<v Speaker 2>need distribution entities, and you need review entities. You need

0:08:53.000 --> 0:08:55.640
<v Speaker 2>to give awards to artists. I mean, artists live for love,

0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:58.760
<v Speaker 2>you know. And Yeah, when you want to know why

0:08:58.880 --> 0:09:01.520
<v Speaker 2>actors don't care whether their movies make money, it's because

0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:04.440
<v Speaker 2>they get awards, they get prestige, they get girls, they

0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:07.160
<v Speaker 2>get all the things that they went into acting for, right,

0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:09.760
<v Speaker 2>and so they and the money will come. But we

0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:12.040
<v Speaker 2>don't have any of those things. So when I bring

0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:15.520
<v Speaker 2>out a novel, for instance, this I used to get

0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:20.160
<v Speaker 2>before I became outspoken. I used to become get hundreds

0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:23.880
<v Speaker 2>of venues giving me absolutely great reviews. Now I'm lucky

0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:26.760
<v Speaker 2>if I get any kind of major review attention. And

0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:29.000
<v Speaker 2>still I've managed to put books on the bestseller list,

0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:32.720
<v Speaker 2>which is amazing because because we're developing our own media,

0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:35.960
<v Speaker 2>but it's still very difficult, and we just haven't committed

0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:38.000
<v Speaker 2>to the culture the way we should not yet, but

0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:39.240
<v Speaker 2>we're starting. It's starting.

0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:42.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, I think Daily Wire is obviously leading

0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:43.960
<v Speaker 1>the way on so much of that. But so what

0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:46.679
<v Speaker 1>do you think is like so you're saying, like building

0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:49.360
<v Speaker 1>a movie studio would only be step one, but what

0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:52.160
<v Speaker 1>are like the next steps? What you know, is it

0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:55.079
<v Speaker 1>really just we have to just build a parallel society

0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:57.600
<v Speaker 1>and kind of leave the left out of it.

0:09:58.040 --> 0:10:01.079
<v Speaker 2>Yes, because we'll destroy them. Every thing they do is garbage.

0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:04.640
<v Speaker 2>Everything they touched turns to crap. Their stories are lies.

0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:08.240
<v Speaker 2>They're lecturing us. Everybody has to Nobody can be in

0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:10.600
<v Speaker 2>a marriage of two white people. Everybody has to be

0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:12.760
<v Speaker 2>in a mixed marriage, which, of course I could care

0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:14.600
<v Speaker 2>less whether people in mixed marriage I just don't want

0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:18.840
<v Speaker 2>to be lectured by the worst people in the country.

0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:21.079
<v Speaker 2>It's like fruit lying on the ground. It's not low

0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:24.160
<v Speaker 2>hanging fruit, it's fruit lying on the ground. They don't

0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:26.280
<v Speaker 2>make you know, A long time ago I made a

0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:29.000
<v Speaker 2>video called the One State Solution about how the entire

0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.559
<v Speaker 2>middle he should be given to the Jews. And when

0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:33.560
<v Speaker 2>I came up with the idea, I thought, that's such

0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:37.079
<v Speaker 2>an obvious joke. Someone must have made it. No, No,

0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:39.520
<v Speaker 2>they don't make any of those jokes, And so the

0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:43.600
<v Speaker 2>field is open. We could devour them if people would

0:10:43.640 --> 0:10:45.959
<v Speaker 2>just start spending the money and the attention to do it.

0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:49.240
<v Speaker 1>So, I mean, changing the culture is kind of a

0:10:49.320 --> 0:10:53.280
<v Speaker 1>tough you know, ask like other than movies. I guess

0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:57.200
<v Speaker 1>my question is how do we do it without? You know,

0:10:57.440 --> 0:11:00.800
<v Speaker 1>I guess we can't not restart everything. How do we

0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:02.120
<v Speaker 1>start this process?

0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:06.520
<v Speaker 2>Well, see, the thing is, conservatives by nature are kind

0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:08.480
<v Speaker 2>of backward looking, and you need to be forward looking

0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:10.640
<v Speaker 2>because the arts, the arts will only be saved by

0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:12.360
<v Speaker 2>people who love them. They won't be saved by people

0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:14.480
<v Speaker 2>who want to bludgeon other people into agreeing with you.

0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:17.960
<v Speaker 2>The arts are naturally countercultural, so we're actually in a

0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:21.680
<v Speaker 2>good position because we are the counterculture. But look look ahead.

0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:23.720
<v Speaker 2>Things that are coming out that are going to be

0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:27.360
<v Speaker 2>the great new art form are things like the oculus

0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:30.040
<v Speaker 2>that the meta stuff where you have three dimensional art

0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:34.160
<v Speaker 2>going on, is going to be. You know, YouTube and

0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:37.160
<v Speaker 2>videos are a form of art that we've actually done

0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:40.559
<v Speaker 2>very well. In those small satirical videos. We're a lot

0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:42.719
<v Speaker 2>funnier than they are where you know, we're a lot

0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:44.760
<v Speaker 2>we're saying it's easier to be funny because we tell

0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:48.800
<v Speaker 2>the truth. So there's all kinds of ways for ordinary

0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:51.680
<v Speaker 2>creative people to make their mark, but you have to

0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:53.280
<v Speaker 2>do it, and you have to give up on the

0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:57.040
<v Speaker 2>big career in Hollywood. This was a benefit that I had.

0:11:57.040 --> 0:11:59.679
<v Speaker 2>I got blacklisted in Hollywood. I always say I didn't

0:11:59.679 --> 0:12:02.640
<v Speaker 2>care couldn't care less. It was painful, but I never

0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:04.480
<v Speaker 2>lost any sleep over it because I just thought, no,

0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to make things any way I can. If

0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:09.200
<v Speaker 2>I have to just go to people's houses and scratch

0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:11.920
<v Speaker 2>it on their door, I'll do that. And it's been great.

0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:14.120
<v Speaker 2>It's worked out. You know, I'm good at what I do.

0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:16.439
<v Speaker 2>I've worked very hard to become good at what I do,

0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:19.400
<v Speaker 2>and so when people pick it up. I'm not a

0:12:19.480 --> 0:12:22.760
<v Speaker 2>conservative making art. I'm an artist who's a conservative. That's

0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:24.000
<v Speaker 2>that's what we're looking for.

0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:26.880
<v Speaker 1>That's great. Yeah, did you always want to be a

0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:28.400
<v Speaker 1>writer always?

0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:30.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean after I got over like wanting to be

0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:32.440
<v Speaker 2>a cowboy? Yeah, basically, you know.

0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:34.120
<v Speaker 1>But still be a cowboy.

0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:37.560
<v Speaker 2>And maybe I could or right fielder for the Yankees

0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:41.800
<v Speaker 2>if just get out of my way. But yeah, no,

0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:45.280
<v Speaker 2>I always wanted to. I loved I sort of found

0:12:45.360 --> 0:12:48.560
<v Speaker 2>myself in the books of the tough guy writers like

0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:53.240
<v Speaker 2>Ernest Hemingway and especially Raymond Chandler and his Philip Marlowe novels.

0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:56.840
<v Speaker 2>And so I'm doing exactly kind of what I set

0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:59.440
<v Speaker 2>out to do. And I'm now at that stage, at

0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:01.360
<v Speaker 2>late stage in a career where you start to sum

0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:03.720
<v Speaker 2>up and think about what you're doing. So these new books,

0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:05.960
<v Speaker 2>the Camera and Winter books are really, I feel like,

0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:08.160
<v Speaker 2>really rich with kind of the tradition that I've been

0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:12.280
<v Speaker 2>working in all this time. And it's a very moving

0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:15.400
<v Speaker 2>experience to kind of look at everything you've done and

0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:16.720
<v Speaker 2>try to bring it all together.

0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:19.880
<v Speaker 1>So both of your children have also written books. You

0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:20.960
<v Speaker 1>have two children, right.

0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:22.440
<v Speaker 2>I have two children, Yes, children.

0:13:22.520 --> 0:13:26.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So Spencer Claven and Faith More and I'm actually

0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:29.480
<v Speaker 1>having Faith on the show about her book later this week.

0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:31.800
<v Speaker 1>Did you force them to follow.

0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:33.360
<v Speaker 2>In your books? No? No, Oh my god, I would

0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:35.160
<v Speaker 2>have thrown my body over the door if I could

0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:38.439
<v Speaker 2>have stop them. I always feel that my family, somewhere,

0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:40.840
<v Speaker 2>somewhere in the past, someone in my family burned a

0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:43.280
<v Speaker 2>witch and she was going up and flames. She said,

0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:45.280
<v Speaker 2>you'll never have a doctor and your family, you know,

0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:49.559
<v Speaker 2>only artists. But they're both incredibly First of all, they're

0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:53.800
<v Speaker 2>both so such different people with such different outlooks. But

0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:57.400
<v Speaker 2>not only are they loving toward one another, but they

0:13:57.440 --> 0:14:00.560
<v Speaker 2>actually have each one of them this voice that I

0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:03.720
<v Speaker 2>think is right rather remarkable. I've read Faith's new book

0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:08.600
<v Speaker 2>and it's charming and witty and just another kind of

0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:11.000
<v Speaker 2>thing you know, that I would do or Spencer would do,

0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:14.680
<v Speaker 2>and I think it's it's a wonderful thing to see.

0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:18.560
<v Speaker 2>And again, because no one else is doing what we do,

0:14:18.880 --> 0:14:20.960
<v Speaker 2>the field is kind of open, and it's it's kind

0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:23.000
<v Speaker 2>of nice to be able to offer things to people

0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:26.120
<v Speaker 2>who aren't getting entertained because they're always being attacked.

0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you've written so many amazing books. You have

0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:32.520
<v Speaker 1>a great family. I just love your kids. Do you

0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:33.440
<v Speaker 1>feel like you've made it?

0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:39.000
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's a tough question. I'm not even sure what

0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:42.600
<v Speaker 2>it means. I feel that I have lived an extraordinarily

0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:47.080
<v Speaker 2>beautiful life. I mean, I cannot understand why this happened

0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:50.600
<v Speaker 2>to me. And I say that actually seriously, I've frequently

0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:54.920
<v Speaker 2>talked to God about this. I have a marriage that

0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:56.960
<v Speaker 2>is out of a fairy tale. I mean, you know,

0:14:56.960 --> 0:14:58.760
<v Speaker 2>at least from my point of view. Maybe my wife

0:14:58.800 --> 0:15:00.280
<v Speaker 2>is trying to stake out the back when do as

0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:03.440
<v Speaker 2>I speak. But you know, the kids are so are

0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:06.520
<v Speaker 2>so wonderful. I love them and we're close, and it's

0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:09.240
<v Speaker 2>it's a beautiful thing. I do the work that I

0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:11.160
<v Speaker 2>set out to do, and I do it at as

0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:14.480
<v Speaker 2>high a level as I could have ever expected of myself,

0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:18.000
<v Speaker 2>and sometimes higher. So yeah, you know, let's put it

0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:19.880
<v Speaker 2>this way. I have no complaints. I guess the reason

0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:22.080
<v Speaker 2>I hesitate to give you a yes or no answer

0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:26.720
<v Speaker 2>because there's always something ahead of you. There really something

0:15:26.960 --> 0:15:29.520
<v Speaker 2>more you want to achieve. And that's a beautiful thing too,

0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:31.760
<v Speaker 2>because I wouldn't want to just kind of dust off

0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:34.720
<v Speaker 2>my hands and say, well that's that's it. Until the

0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:38.200
<v Speaker 2>boss calls time, you know. So so yeah, you know,

0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:42.200
<v Speaker 2>I feel it's just been an amazing life. And again,

0:15:42.480 --> 0:15:45.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure some I keep expecting someone to knock

0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:47.080
<v Speaker 2>on the door and say, sorry, you got the wrong life,

0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:51.560
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I have no complaints.

0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:55.120
<v Speaker 1>So I have two separate friends who don't know each other,

0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:58.280
<v Speaker 1>who both say that you are podcast. You know, your

0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:01.800
<v Speaker 1>show like feels like like a friend. You know, I

0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:04.760
<v Speaker 1>feel like that's really the highest compliment that anybody can get.

0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:08.640
<v Speaker 1>Did you kind of start out your show thinking like

0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:11.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be a friend to all these people?

0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:15.800
<v Speaker 2>No, sometime I know it's funny. One of the reasons

0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:20.240
<v Speaker 2>I write is because there is nothing more beautiful to

0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.280
<v Speaker 2>me than if I don't sleep much and I'll wake

0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:24.400
<v Speaker 2>up at three o'clock in the morning, and if you

0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:27.760
<v Speaker 2>go and reach out for a book, you feel like, oh,

0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:30.280
<v Speaker 2>there's somebody out there in the darkness, even if they're

0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:32.240
<v Speaker 2>long dead, there's somebody out there in the darkness who

0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:36.640
<v Speaker 2>saw the things that I see and feels felt the

0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:40.160
<v Speaker 2>things that I feel. And so hopefully that's come across

0:16:40.240 --> 0:16:43.320
<v Speaker 2>in the podcast. You know, I never expected to be

0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:45.880
<v Speaker 2>doing anything like this. I never expected to be in public,

0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:49.000
<v Speaker 2>certainly never expected to be in front of cameras, and

0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:51.080
<v Speaker 2>it took me a while to sort of warm up

0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:55.480
<v Speaker 2>and let go and open myself to what I was doing.

0:16:55.520 --> 0:16:58.520
<v Speaker 2>At first, I felt very withdrawn and a little bit

0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:02.080
<v Speaker 2>performative in the since I'm not really a performer. It

0:17:02.120 --> 0:17:04.240
<v Speaker 2>took a while for me to kind of overcome that.

0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:07.320
<v Speaker 2>But I'm really happy to hear that. I mean, it is.

0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:10.160
<v Speaker 2>I do give it everything I've got every week. And

0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:11.760
<v Speaker 2>one of the reasons it was I was doing it

0:17:11.760 --> 0:17:14.200
<v Speaker 2>four days a week and I said to Jeremy Barne,

0:17:14.200 --> 0:17:15.840
<v Speaker 2>who runs the Daily Wire, I said, you know, I

0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:18.520
<v Speaker 2>just can't get it at the quality I want it,

0:17:19.359 --> 0:17:21.400
<v Speaker 2>so I want to I asked if I could cut

0:17:21.440 --> 0:17:23.240
<v Speaker 2>it back. And it's been great. I mean, that has

0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:25.560
<v Speaker 2>been great. I feel it is up the quality, and

0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:26.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm thrilled to hear that.

0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:31.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Are you optimistic in general on our culture or

0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:35.080
<v Speaker 1>where is Angel Clavin? You know, on what's going on

0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:38.000
<v Speaker 1>in the country and where we're heading, especially culturally.

0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:43.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, I feel that we've hit a bottom place.

0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:47.760
<v Speaker 2>I feel that the thought of the last five hundred years,

0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:49.639
<v Speaker 2>and I'm not joking about this, I feel that over

0:17:49.720 --> 0:17:52.520
<v Speaker 2>the course of five hundred years, the idea of faith

0:17:52.560 --> 0:17:55.480
<v Speaker 2>has been bleeding away. The greatest thinkers have been saying

0:17:55.480 --> 0:17:57.680
<v Speaker 2>it's bleeding away. They've been talking about what it was

0:17:57.720 --> 0:17:59.720
<v Speaker 2>going to be like when it bled away, and all

0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:03.480
<v Speaker 2>of that stuff has come true. And so the question, now,

0:18:04.080 --> 0:18:07.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's funny, but even people I know who

0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:09.520
<v Speaker 2>have no faith, who have no religion, are talking to

0:18:09.560 --> 0:18:14.119
<v Speaker 2>me now in religious terms. They're talking about demonic times.

0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:16.680
<v Speaker 2>They're talking about the end of days and all those things.

0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:19.000
<v Speaker 2>And so, either you know, we're going to look up

0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:20.440
<v Speaker 2>in the cloud and God is going to be coming

0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:23.520
<v Speaker 2>down with charriots and angels and all that stuff, or

0:18:23.760 --> 0:18:26.800
<v Speaker 2>it's time to make a turn. We're going through something

0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:28.879
<v Speaker 2>that I've never seen before. I've been I'm now one

0:18:28.960 --> 0:18:31.720
<v Speaker 2>hundred and seventy two years old, and I've never seen

0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:35.320
<v Speaker 2>I've never seen a pause in the culture like this.

0:18:36.320 --> 0:18:39.959
<v Speaker 2>Our movie stink, our books aren't that good, our music

0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:43.080
<v Speaker 2>is terrible. Everything has stopped. Even the New York Times.

0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:45.000
<v Speaker 2>I have to say that one of their critics wrote

0:18:45.040 --> 0:18:47.080
<v Speaker 2>a long piece about this, why has this happened? And

0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:50.560
<v Speaker 2>of course everything after that was incorrect, but he was

0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:54.120
<v Speaker 2>at least asking the question that means that something new

0:18:54.200 --> 0:18:57.760
<v Speaker 2>is coming, and hopefully it's something new that remains human

0:18:58.080 --> 0:19:01.800
<v Speaker 2>and humane and starts to I moved back toward the

0:19:01.920 --> 0:19:06.320
<v Speaker 2>light of spiritual faith, because we're not just meat puppets

0:19:06.400 --> 0:19:09.640
<v Speaker 2>filled with chemistry sets. We're actually are something far more

0:19:09.720 --> 0:19:12.240
<v Speaker 2>than that. And I understand that we had to explore

0:19:12.280 --> 0:19:16.800
<v Speaker 2>this thought. Some thoughts are inevitably will be explored. But

0:19:17.160 --> 0:19:19.280
<v Speaker 2>it was wrong. There was thought was wrong, and the

0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:22.560
<v Speaker 2>thought that created modernism and postmodernism and all the things

0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:24.879
<v Speaker 2>that came afterwards was an incorrect thought. And now that

0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:28.240
<v Speaker 2>we've hit the bottom, I'm very hopeful that we will

0:19:28.240 --> 0:19:30.960
<v Speaker 2>turn around. I did, I mean my life. I was

0:19:31.000 --> 0:19:32.960
<v Speaker 2>baptized at the age of forty nine. I mean my

0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:35.640
<v Speaker 2>life has been a long journey in that regard. And

0:19:35.880 --> 0:19:39.760
<v Speaker 2>I only came to faith because it made sense when

0:19:39.800 --> 0:19:42.200
<v Speaker 2>nothing else did. And it not only made sense in itself,

0:19:42.240 --> 0:19:45.240
<v Speaker 2>it made sense of everything else. And so I cannot

0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:48.520
<v Speaker 2>help but believe and have faith in the idea that

0:19:48.560 --> 0:19:51.760
<v Speaker 2>people ultimately turn to what makes sense away from what

0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:55.760
<v Speaker 2>is destroying them and dragging them down. So many, especially

0:19:55.800 --> 0:19:57.600
<v Speaker 2>young people, I talk to them all the time. They're

0:19:57.760 --> 0:20:01.080
<v Speaker 2>so unhappy and it's like, you know, it's eventually you

0:20:01.119 --> 0:20:02.639
<v Speaker 2>start to think, well, maybe I don't have to be

0:20:02.720 --> 0:20:04.600
<v Speaker 2>this way, Maybe this is not what life is supposed

0:20:04.640 --> 0:20:04.720
<v Speaker 2>to be.

0:20:05.480 --> 0:20:07.119
<v Speaker 1>So I don't think you look a day over one

0:20:07.160 --> 0:20:12.080
<v Speaker 1>hundred and seventy flatter me. We're going to take a

0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:14.880
<v Speaker 1>quick break and be right back on the Carol Marcowitch Show.

0:20:18.320 --> 0:20:21.840
<v Speaker 1>What would you say is our largest cultural or sital

0:20:21.920 --> 0:20:23.600
<v Speaker 1>problem and is it solvable?

0:20:24.520 --> 0:20:30.360
<v Speaker 2>Well, it's this, It's materialism, and it's so it diffuses

0:20:30.480 --> 0:20:33.560
<v Speaker 2>the society so completely that even the people who think

0:20:33.600 --> 0:20:36.239
<v Speaker 2>they have faith don't really act as if they have

0:20:36.280 --> 0:20:38.439
<v Speaker 2>faith a minute. They get depressed, they take a pill,

0:20:38.760 --> 0:20:41.199
<v Speaker 2>they talk about they'll say, well, I'm having a you know,

0:20:41.560 --> 0:20:44.680
<v Speaker 2>an adrenaline rush, instead of saying I'm excited. They talk

0:20:44.680 --> 0:20:46.840
<v Speaker 2>about themselves as if there were a chemistry set and

0:20:47.200 --> 0:20:50.360
<v Speaker 2>that's not what we are. The obvious truth is that

0:20:50.480 --> 0:20:52.840
<v Speaker 2>the chemicals in our bodies, or our bodies or physical

0:20:52.880 --> 0:20:56.439
<v Speaker 2>machines are reflecting something that's happening that you know, just

0:20:56.480 --> 0:20:59.480
<v Speaker 2>like a word reflects a meaning, our bodies reflect a self.

0:20:59.520 --> 0:21:01.840
<v Speaker 2>And I think that's where we're going to have to

0:21:02.000 --> 0:21:05.440
<v Speaker 2>come back to. And yes, of course it's solvable because

0:21:05.440 --> 0:21:07.600
<v Speaker 2>the funny thing, the weirdest thing about life, and the

0:21:07.640 --> 0:21:09.879
<v Speaker 2>most hopeful thing about life, is you only have to

0:21:09.880 --> 0:21:12.760
<v Speaker 2>turn the ship around. It's like the minute you turn

0:21:12.960 --> 0:21:16.360
<v Speaker 2>in another direction. This is in the New Testament. There's

0:21:16.400 --> 0:21:20.800
<v Speaker 2>a story of the prodigal son who goes off and

0:21:20.880 --> 0:21:24.840
<v Speaker 2>wastes everything. He has everything, and he comes back and

0:21:24.880 --> 0:21:28.200
<v Speaker 2>the minute he comes over the hill, thinking I'll beg

0:21:28.280 --> 0:21:29.960
<v Speaker 2>my father to take me back, And the minute he

0:21:30.000 --> 0:21:32.440
<v Speaker 2>comes over the hill, his father runs to greet him.

0:21:32.680 --> 0:21:37.200
<v Speaker 2>And that is something I've seen before. To give an example,

0:21:37.640 --> 0:21:40.240
<v Speaker 2>the seventies were very much like this time, not quite

0:21:40.280 --> 0:21:42.400
<v Speaker 2>as bad. There were things that were better about them,

0:21:42.520 --> 0:21:46.240
<v Speaker 2>but the economy was bad, the culture was bad, and

0:21:46.280 --> 0:21:48.320
<v Speaker 2>all that had to happen was Ronald Reagan had to

0:21:48.320 --> 0:21:49.720
<v Speaker 2>just say we're going to go in a different direction,

0:21:50.400 --> 0:21:53.840
<v Speaker 2>and within a year everything was better. Rudy Giuliani took

0:21:53.840 --> 0:21:55.639
<v Speaker 2>over a city that was just as bad as San

0:21:55.680 --> 0:21:58.760
<v Speaker 2>Francisco is today and somehow worse, and all he need

0:21:58.880 --> 0:22:00.880
<v Speaker 2>to do is turn the culture well. The New York

0:22:00.880 --> 0:22:04.159
<v Speaker 2>Times called them names and a racism every day, but

0:22:05.119 --> 0:22:08.680
<v Speaker 2>the whole city turned around almost instantaneously. It was really

0:22:08.680 --> 0:22:12.000
<v Speaker 2>a beautiful thing, and that's true of individual lives too.

0:22:12.240 --> 0:22:15.520
<v Speaker 2>You only have to turn around and you know your

0:22:15.520 --> 0:22:18.840
<v Speaker 2>father comes running to meet you. And so I'm really

0:22:19.320 --> 0:22:23.560
<v Speaker 2>always optimistic, even though I do know that everything that's

0:22:23.640 --> 0:22:26.920
<v Speaker 2>mortal dies and everything built by mortal fans collapses. I

0:22:26.960 --> 0:22:28.720
<v Speaker 2>don't think we're there yet. I don't think this is

0:22:29.040 --> 0:22:32.920
<v Speaker 2>that time yet, and so I'm hopeful it can turn

0:22:32.920 --> 0:22:34.600
<v Speaker 2>around and quicker than we think.

0:22:35.000 --> 0:22:37.840
<v Speaker 1>Do you think you have a nonfiction book on all

0:22:37.880 --> 0:22:39.399
<v Speaker 1>of this in you?

0:22:39.400 --> 0:22:42.560
<v Speaker 2>You know? I have. I've been writing nonfiction books too,

0:22:42.680 --> 0:22:45.400
<v Speaker 2>which has been a really exciting part of this part

0:22:45.400 --> 0:22:50.280
<v Speaker 2>of my career. I'm working on one now about evil

0:22:50.320 --> 0:22:54.080
<v Speaker 2>in the arts and what that looks like. And yes,

0:22:54.160 --> 0:22:56.639
<v Speaker 2>I think this is something. You know. I wrote a

0:22:56.640 --> 0:22:59.679
<v Speaker 2>memoir which was about my coming to faith, but so

0:22:59.760 --> 0:23:01.680
<v Speaker 2>much to me since then.

0:23:01.680 --> 0:23:03.520
<v Speaker 1>That I could, you know, I don't want our part two.

0:23:03.840 --> 0:23:05.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't. I don't want to. I don't want

0:23:05.080 --> 0:23:08.080
<v Speaker 2>to be like Barack Obama just writing memoirs about myself.

0:23:08.080 --> 0:23:11.840
<v Speaker 2>But I do. It has been a journey and it

0:23:11.880 --> 0:23:15.840
<v Speaker 2>has been one of the most remarkable times in my life.

0:23:15.880 --> 0:23:18.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I started at the Daily Wire. It was

0:23:18.640 --> 0:23:21.760
<v Speaker 2>me and Ben Shapiro and Jeremy and Jeremy's poolhouse on

0:23:21.800 --> 0:23:24.639
<v Speaker 2>a card table, and now it's a billion dollar company.

0:23:24.880 --> 0:23:27.880
<v Speaker 2>Was actually making the change in the culture we all

0:23:27.920 --> 0:23:31.000
<v Speaker 2>talked about it to be. So that's a journey. It's

0:23:31.000 --> 0:23:33.640
<v Speaker 2>pretty exciting and I would like to write about that too.

0:23:34.040 --> 0:23:37.160
<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to read that. So my last question

0:23:37.520 --> 0:23:40.439
<v Speaker 1>is for you to end with your best tip for

0:23:40.640 --> 0:23:44.639
<v Speaker 1>our listeners on how they can improve their lives. Andrew

0:23:44.640 --> 0:23:45.320
<v Speaker 1>Clayvin advice.

0:23:45.400 --> 0:23:48.879
<v Speaker 2>Let's hear it the best well. I can tell you

0:23:48.920 --> 0:23:52.200
<v Speaker 2>that it's easy advice to give, it's hard advice to take.

0:23:52.240 --> 0:23:54.920
<v Speaker 2>But if I had to sum it up, it would

0:23:54.920 --> 0:23:58.520
<v Speaker 2>be living the truth. You know, everything in our culture

0:23:58.800 --> 0:24:02.720
<v Speaker 2>is urging you to lie, not just urging you to lie,

0:24:02.720 --> 0:24:05.520
<v Speaker 2>but silencing you if you tell the truth. If you

0:24:05.640 --> 0:24:07.560
<v Speaker 2>just say, well, a man can't become a woman. I

0:24:07.600 --> 0:24:09.200
<v Speaker 2>don't care how you live, but a man can't become

0:24:09.200 --> 0:24:11.760
<v Speaker 2>a woman, you will be demonetized and pushed off social

0:24:11.800 --> 0:24:15.480
<v Speaker 2>media and called names. If you point to you know,

0:24:15.840 --> 0:24:17.840
<v Speaker 2>things that are wrong in the culture, that maybe it

0:24:17.840 --> 0:24:21.680
<v Speaker 2>would be better if more black people got married before

0:24:21.720 --> 0:24:24.840
<v Speaker 2>they have family, Suddenly you're a racist for saying the

0:24:24.880 --> 0:24:26.880
<v Speaker 2>one thing that a friend would actually say to a friend,

0:24:26.920 --> 0:24:30.040
<v Speaker 2>which is the truth that they need to hear. And

0:24:30.480 --> 0:24:32.760
<v Speaker 2>it also means, and this is the hardest part, It

0:24:32.800 --> 0:24:36.560
<v Speaker 2>means accepting the shame for your own behavior and for

0:24:36.680 --> 0:24:38.879
<v Speaker 2>your own thoughts and for the ways in which you

0:24:39.040 --> 0:24:41.760
<v Speaker 2>fail yourself and fail. This is the one thing that's

0:24:41.760 --> 0:24:44.600
<v Speaker 2>true of every single person. Every single person knows he

0:24:44.720 --> 0:24:47.320
<v Speaker 2>is not who he's supposed to be, every single one

0:24:47.320 --> 0:24:50.560
<v Speaker 2>of us. And the way that you turn that around,

0:24:50.600 --> 0:24:51.920
<v Speaker 2>and the way that you turn that around is you

0:24:51.960 --> 0:24:54.280
<v Speaker 2>start to tell yourself the truth about yourself. And it

0:24:54.920 --> 0:24:57.439
<v Speaker 2>costs you shame. And it's something that people, if I

0:24:57.480 --> 0:24:59.600
<v Speaker 2>had to find you know, people say, ohtho, everybody's motivated

0:24:59.600 --> 0:25:03.359
<v Speaker 2>by sax. Everybody's motivated by money and all these things.

0:25:03.400 --> 0:25:05.440
<v Speaker 2>If I had to pick one thing, I would say,

0:25:05.480 --> 0:25:09.000
<v Speaker 2>everybody's motivated for by the need to feel virtuous. And

0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:11.639
<v Speaker 2>once you accept the fact that you're not virtuous, that

0:25:11.720 --> 0:25:15.040
<v Speaker 2>you are a coward, that you are corrupt, that you

0:25:15.119 --> 0:25:18.440
<v Speaker 2>would sheet if you were given the moment, the darkness

0:25:18.480 --> 0:25:20.760
<v Speaker 2>to do it. And once you accept that about yourself,

0:25:20.800 --> 0:25:24.360
<v Speaker 2>suddenly you see it's like a road, a magic road

0:25:24.400 --> 0:25:26.320
<v Speaker 2>appears in front of you where you don't have to

0:25:26.359 --> 0:25:29.360
<v Speaker 2>be that way anymore. And so that's the one thing

0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:32.040
<v Speaker 2>I would tell people. Make the effort to tell yourself

0:25:32.080 --> 0:25:35.280
<v Speaker 2>the truth, make the effort to speak the truth, pay

0:25:35.320 --> 0:25:37.440
<v Speaker 2>the price, and keep going because you will get to

0:25:37.480 --> 0:25:39.600
<v Speaker 2>a better place than you are right now. There's just

0:25:39.640 --> 0:25:40.600
<v Speaker 2>no question about it.

0:25:40.680 --> 0:25:43.040
<v Speaker 1>You should all listen to him. He is Andrew Clavin.

0:25:43.119 --> 0:25:45.399
<v Speaker 1>He is fantastic. His new book is The House of

0:25:45.440 --> 0:25:47.560
<v Speaker 1>Love and Death. Please pick it up and read it

0:25:47.600 --> 0:25:50.280
<v Speaker 1>and tell all your friends. Thank you so much, Andrew.

0:25:50.359 --> 0:25:51.440
<v Speaker 2>Thanks Carl, great to see you.

0:25:52.400 --> 0:25:54.800
<v Speaker 1>Thanks so much for joining us on the Carol Marcowitz Show.

0:25:54.960 --> 0:25:57.560
<v Speaker 1>Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts.