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Speaker 1: It's daily highlight from Elvis Duran in the morning show.

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Speaker 2: Text coming in from friend scene in Saint Pete, talking

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Speaker 2: about something we talked about on the show the other day,

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Speaker 2: coming up with excuses to get out of plans, coming

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Speaker 2: up with ways to say no to people inviting you places.

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Speaker 2: Let's go talk to friand scene. See what this is

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Speaker 2: all about, fran scene. So Friday night, you have plans

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Speaker 2: with the friend you want to get out of them?

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Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 1: Hi, guys, good morning. Yes, I'm trying to get out

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Speaker 1: of them, and I just I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. I've been just thinking

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Speaker 1: about it like the past few days and just dwelling

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Speaker 1: on it.

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Speaker 3: Are you the only one going? Are there other people there?

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Speaker 1: Well, we're meeting other people that she knows that I

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Speaker 1: don't know. But we're supposed to be going to the

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Speaker 1: hard Rock in Tampa at like five point thirty, which

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Speaker 1: is like traffic time, and I'm like, God, it's going

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Speaker 1: to suck driving there, and then it's my payday week,

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Speaker 1: it's not hers, so I'm pretty much gonna have to

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Speaker 1: pay for everything. Wow, Okay, what so you mean I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, not mean at all. No, that's realistic.

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Speaker 2: So you're thinking she'll be fine without me because she

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Speaker 2: has friends that will be there for her, right, I

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Speaker 2: mean right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But I just feel bad. She asked me like

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Speaker 1: a few weeks ago, and it was kind of like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I don't know. I feel guilty.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I can see that. Any any thoughts here, what

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Speaker 3: do you think?

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Speaker 4: I think you have a lot of valid reasons to

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Speaker 4: not want to go, and you shouldn't feel guilty, and

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Speaker 4: you should find a way to just nope.

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Speaker 3: Your way out of there, so she has to lie.

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Speaker 2: In other words, you just make up like a big

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Speaker 2: I can't go because of the arm that's lingering by attendant.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I think if she just does the I

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Speaker 4: can't make it thing right now, I don't think that's

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Speaker 4: going to go over very well. Since it's been planned

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Speaker 4: and there's you know, other people who are going to

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Speaker 4: be there. I think you have to make something up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's definitely don't go. It has to be like

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Speaker 3: an emergency situation. I think at this point, because.

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Speaker 1: I thought about that too, about like saying I'm going

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Speaker 1: to be I'm sick or whatever. But I feel like

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Speaker 1: she will know I'm lying.

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Speaker 4: Plus you don't want to jinx yourself sickness and yeah,

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Speaker 4: stuff like that flat.

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Speaker 3: Tire, flat tire. It's not so, but you have to

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Speaker 3: do it now.

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Speaker 2: Oh could you do like rather than a fall out

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Speaker 2: fib is there like a hybrid you could go with

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Speaker 2: something's come up and I just unfortunately can't make it.

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Speaker 3: So nothing came up, But you don't have to say

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Speaker 3: what it is. I got it, I got it. Well,

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Speaker 3: well I'm still asking about this one. So oh, go ahead, Nate,

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Speaker 3: what do you have?

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Speaker 1: All Right? I got it.

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Speaker 3: You say that day, oh my god, I had the

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Speaker 3: worst omen that something bad is going to happen if

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Speaker 3: I drive, I'm not coming.

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Speaker 1: She can't.

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Speaker 3: You can't refute that that if something does happen, she'll

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Speaker 3: feel feel terrible something does happen.

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Speaker 4: In the entire time, she's thinking that if something does happen,

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Speaker 4: she's going to be the one that's a fault because

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Speaker 4: she's the one that made the plans.

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Speaker 3: You got it out, there you go.

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Speaker 1: She very superstitious. There you go.

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Speaker 3: That could totally work. T GPT like putting the like

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Speaker 3: the details in the chat GPT and ask it to

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Speaker 3: give you some reasons good.

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Speaker 1: To Actually, yes, I did this morning before I texted

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Speaker 1: you guys, and I just said, let them down easy,

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Speaker 1: and it was kind of giving ideas. I'm like, this

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Speaker 1: is gonna be all crap. She will just see right

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Speaker 1: through this. So you go for a little bit of

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Speaker 1: time and then like say, yeah, I thought about the

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Speaker 1: stomach ache. I thought about that, but I don't feel

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Speaker 1: like driving over there, Danielle. So far it's let me traffic.

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Speaker 3: And it's it is not close from where you are.

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Speaker 3: It's not close.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: The other day we actually came on and said we

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Speaker 2: should normalize saying no, we should just say no.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I know she's depending on you, but you know if

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Speaker 2: you just said no, she's gonna get mad at you.

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Speaker 2: She may do un understand. But maybe this I don't know.

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Speaker 3: That's why I said.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I'm halfway in between, like something came up that's

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Speaker 2: really personal.

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Speaker 3: I can't make it. I don't go here's.

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Speaker 1: Get it over with that thing and tell her today

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Speaker 1: Maybe just I can't make it.

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Speaker 4: You had to work late, you picked up an extra shift,

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Speaker 4: and then you'll pick up an extra shift.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Why, Yeah, what would happen if you said, I just

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Speaker 2: don't feel like coming.

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Speaker 3: I don't know about that one. Don't even have to

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Speaker 3: make up like I've had the worst week ever.

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Speaker 2: I just want to stay home. I just don't feel

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Speaker 2: like coming. I don't want to sit in traffic. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to pay for everyone's dinner. Okay, that's not flying.

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Speaker 3: I don't think that's good. All right, we've given you

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Speaker 3: the omen one.

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Speaker 2: If that's say, if that's the one that's gonna if

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Speaker 2: that's the one that's gonna work, Yes, scary, what's up?

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Speaker 3: What if you replace it with something else? See? Because

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Speaker 3: you take it away, but you're gonna put something else there.

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Speaker 3: So think about right now in advance, how you can

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Speaker 3: make it up to her, And then this way you

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Speaker 3: shall you'll focus on the solution and not the problem.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna buy you a round of drinks.

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Speaker 1: That's a good And maybe I could take her up

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Speaker 1: tomorrow after work for a little bit. That's a great idea.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. I think I think that would be that's

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Speaker 1: gonna be the winner. I think, thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you.

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Speaker 4: Elvis was really trying to go down the honesty path

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Speaker 4: and all this sort. No, no, I have this lie

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Speaker 4: in my pocket.

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Speaker 2: Well that always backfires trying to be honest. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: let that one go. Yeah, I'm gonna go with Nates.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I had a vision and visit me in the night.

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Speaker 2: This guy wearing wearing chains in a robe. But you

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Speaker 2: don't want to go to Tampa at five thirty. It's

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Speaker 2: just not what you want to do, all right. Well,

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Speaker 2: we've given you a lot of answers. You can choose

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Speaker 2: one of ours or choose one of your own. But

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Speaker 2: it really says a lot about everyone when you ghost

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Speaker 2: visited me in the night and said, well, good luck.

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Speaker 2: Are you gonna let us know Monday when we come

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Speaker 2: back or whenever you talk to us next Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Let us. Yes, I think it's gonna work. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: get it over with by lunchtime today and just pick

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Speaker 1: one of them and a little bit. I think I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna maybe take her out Thursday. I don't know it'll

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Speaker 1: it'll work out, but I appreciates.

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Speaker 3: That's a good one. Francine.

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Speaker 2: Francine, Hey, I don't think I can make it Friday,

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Speaker 2: but I'd love to take you out Thursday.

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Speaker 3: May I come pick you up at you know, do

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Speaker 3: you take stay the time? But just do that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Perfect? And she works right downtown. She works like

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Speaker 1: ten minutes from me, so we could just do something

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Speaker 1: right there that's like way better.

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Speaker 3: Perfect. So you get together Thursday and tell her about

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Speaker 3: the ghost that visits you visited, I think