1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. 3 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 4 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 1: I don't know if you heard while you were gone, 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: but Robbie made another jingle. Oh it's a scrubbing in 6 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: life with my scrubbing and wife. 7 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 3: Wow, it's beautiful. 8 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 1: Yeah you like it? 9 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? 10 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 2: Do you? So? 11 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 3: You say that? 12 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: I would say it to you. 13 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 2: So you say hello everybody, and I say we are 14 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 2: scrubbing in and you say. 15 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: It's that scrubbing in life with my scrubbing in wife. 16 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 2: Wow? 17 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: Do you like it? 18 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 3: Sure? I'm up for anything that you're excited about. 19 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: I'm excited about it. 20 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 3: Your joy is my joy. 21 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: Oh, thank you so much. 22 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 2: I do appreciate Robbie filling in while Bolsta was gone. 23 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:55,959 Speaker 2: He's such a natural. 24 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: He really is. Yeah, he's very good. 25 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: It's really because Yeah, like I think that what we 26 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 2: do in our conversation, like it's very conversational. We've been 27 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 2: doing this for so long, like you're in radio, I've 28 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 2: been trudge along doing this. 29 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 3: With so much love and joy about them. But I'm 30 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 3: just I'm saying, like. 31 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 2: We're very familiar with this. This every the vibe of it, right, 32 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: And I think we assume that people who are in 33 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 2: this were like just talk, be normal. But when you 34 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 2: put a microphone in someone's face, it can either be 35 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 2: very intimidating or you thrive at it. 36 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 3: And I think Robbie thrives. 37 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: I appreciate you saying that because it's so funny. I 38 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: always I felt like this sense of like protectiveness in 39 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: a weird way because I'm like, I want him to 40 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: do well. I want you know what I mean like, 41 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: and I do think like he does know there's a microphone. 42 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: You know, He's not like one hundred percent. I feel 43 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: like himself natural because like there's this, but I'd say 44 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: he's like ninety five percent there. Yeah, And then like 45 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: you talk, and then I'm like is it entertaining to people? 46 00:01:59,560 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 2: You know? 47 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: Because like I spent my whole life with him, so 48 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, this is just like a day, yeah, my husband. 49 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: But then I got home and I was like, I 50 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: hope people like it. 51 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 3: I feel like people loved it. 52 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, y I forgot nice, nice messages, so that was nice. 53 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 3: I feel like he does a great job. 54 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 2: I'm so the winning the Pooh thing is crazy because 55 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: I was prompted. 56 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: You told me it was really Mark's fault. 57 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 2: You you told everyone, So technically the point goes back, 58 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 2: the blame goes back to you. 59 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 1: But I can tell you guys stuff and it doesn't 60 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: have to be on the podcast, like yeah, but it 61 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: was telling Marnie telling Mark is the issue. I've learned 62 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: that in my years, if you tell. 63 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 3: Mark something that's of entertainment, yeah, he will bring it up. Yeah. 64 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 2: I was just its like, I just I got the blame. 65 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: Robbie said, I broke his heart, and I'm like, hold on, 66 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: you know what's so funny. Mark's wife, Amy and Robbie 67 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: were like going back and forth in the Facebook group 68 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: about who to blame, and she was like, go back 69 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: to this podcast. At this time, it was oh no, 70 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: it was her. 71 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 3: I saw that conversation. Wow, we should get her on. 72 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 3: I need the skinny on Mark. We gets away with 73 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 3: a lot. 74 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 2: We don't know anything that we just have his take 75 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 2: on everything. 76 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 3: We need to get AMers in here. 77 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: Do we totally do? Yeah? 78 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 3: So thanks Robbie for holding the fort down. 79 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: Thanks. 80 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 3: I'm happy for you to take over whenever whenever I'm 81 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 3: out And about which. 82 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: I hope is not a lot, which we hope is 83 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: not off. I don't like doing the podcast without you. 84 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: Even with Robbie. I love doing it with him, like 85 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: I do, I really do, like I love doing it 86 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: with him, and I'm so grateful. But like, to me, 87 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: it's I don't know, like this is something that I 88 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: enjoy doing with you. 89 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I mean it's our podcast. 90 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 2: That would be it would be a little sad if 91 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 2: you felt the same level of comfort enjoy doing it 92 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 2: with anyone else. 93 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, could you imagine I was like, yeah, take more 94 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: vacation problem. 95 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 2: I think it msould be less affected by that than 96 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 2: you would if I did that. 97 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: Oh I'd be I'd be spiraling. 98 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm back. 99 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 2: I got back yesterday and so I'm on Japan's eighteen 100 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 2: hours ahead. 101 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 3: It's in the future. 102 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: So do you like beat the jet lag because it's 103 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 1: so many hours. 104 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: You would think, you know, because it's right there of 105 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:29,799 Speaker 2: twenty four, but the six hours that my friend does. 106 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 3: Certainly make a difference. Yeah, So it's I. 107 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 2: Don't know late where I'm more. My time mentally is 108 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 2: a middle of the night for me. 109 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 4: But you're here three fifteen am. 110 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 3: That's I kind of feel that a little bit. Yeah, 111 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 3: I feel a little. 112 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 2: Three fifteen ish, got bright lights in my face right now, 113 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 2: studio lighting. 114 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:55,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, A little something happened over the weekend. Well actually 115 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: not over the weekend, you know, like we live our 116 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: lives ago and this little tiny thing, yeah happened. 117 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 2: I made. I had some plans going into this trip, 118 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 2: and I kept it pretty low key. 119 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: Beyond like I am shook at how well you lie 120 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: or like keep things to yourself. Yeah, like it's kind 121 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: of scary. 122 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 2: Okay, So what happened was I've told you that I 123 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 2: wasn't gonna tell anyone until I did it. 124 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: I was, when I say, I was like completely shocked, 125 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: Like I couldn't have been more shocked, because I also 126 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: thought that you would tell me when you got the ring, 127 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: because you were you were like asking me how to 128 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 1: like how do I get her to try things on? 129 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 1: So I was like in it with you, like I 130 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: thought I was in it with you. 131 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. I did do a good job at like keeping 132 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 2: you at least at bay with questions. 133 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 3: You know, though, we are gonna I want to. 134 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 2: Talk about the whole thing because there's a lot to 135 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 2: talk about because it was it was a big thing. 136 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: And it was a mastermind, Like this was Taylor Swift level. 137 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I learned. I learned from the best. 138 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, but what did you? 139 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 3: I feel like, what were you doing? We're going to 140 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 3: get to that, so. 141 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: Don't worry, but what it will get there. I feel 142 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 1: like you. 143 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 2: Did a lot while I was gone. I feel like 144 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 2: a lot over the weekend. 145 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: You were at Oh my god. 146 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 3: You are at a party of Selena gummn At. 147 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: First of all, I did so much this weekend, Like 148 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: I went to Disneyland. I like I had one of 149 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: our kids winter recitals. I had two Honka parties in 150 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 1: a day. Your girl is. 151 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 3: Tired, Yeah that makes sense. 152 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 1: She's tired. Yeah, but you know what, she's alive and thriving. 153 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: Wow. 154 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, alive and thriving. 155 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 156 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 3: I still have been decorated for Christmas. 157 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: Well, I hate to break it to you, but like, well. 158 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 3: I know that I left on the second, and. 159 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:58,239 Speaker 1: Like we had the week before, but we did. 160 00:06:58,120 --> 00:06:59,839 Speaker 3: Thanksgiving twice that weekend. 161 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 2: Like I that was kind of a crazy weekend for 162 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 2: us because we had to postpone Thanksgiving and then and 163 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,559 Speaker 2: then I didn't have my I was trying to decide 164 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 2: if we wanted to do a real tree or. 165 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 3: Fake tree, so I ordered our fake tree. So we 166 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 3: have a fake tree. 167 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: Up, but it has the lights. 168 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 3: Okay, ornaments today. 169 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 2: Okay, Wow, I just decided because we got a fake 170 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 2: tree that I'm going to decorate today or tomorrow, whatever 171 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 2: I have energy for, and then we'll just leave it 172 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: up as long as we want. 173 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't have to rush to take it 174 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 3: down because it's not dying. Ah. 175 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: Yes, Well, you see, there gets to be a point 176 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: in like January where like I think it hits a 177 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,679 Speaker 1: like if you have the tree up at a certain 178 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: point in January, Yeah, it starts to feel weird. February 179 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: one year, I left it up like it's like January 180 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: twenty something, and I was like, it's starting. 181 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 3: Because you start yours like Halloween. 182 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: I like to have it in there. Yeah, I like 183 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: to have it. 184 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 2: I understand by January you're probably ready to clear the 185 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 2: clear it out. Yeah, so I'm going to do that today. 186 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 2: But how was Disneyland during these times? 187 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: Okay, so it was crowded, but I want to say 188 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: it wasn't like so bad. We didn't wait more than 189 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: forty five minutes wow, per ride, which I know sounds 190 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: like a long time, but like once you're in it, 191 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: it's really not that bad, Okay. 192 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 2: And I like the line, Yeah, I was gonna that 193 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: was so Tanya. 194 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: I knew it was gonna be a hot take. But like, 195 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: well were the responses somebody Like a couple of people 196 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 1: agreed with me, and then a couple of people were like, 197 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: are you crying? Okay, but I hear. I feel like 198 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 1: as our kids are getting older, and like we have 199 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 1: a teenager who's very into his phone. He left his 200 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: phone in the car because he was just not because 201 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 1: he didn't want it, but because he was like I 202 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:57,599 Speaker 1: just want to worry about it on the rides and 203 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: don't want to like you know, like they wear these 204 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: baggy pants, you know, you don't want anything falling out. Yeah, 205 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: And so Robbie's like, just leave it in the cards safer, 206 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: it's better, and we're like okay, yeah. And so it's 207 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: like you have this, you have these forty five minutes 208 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: of just talking and bonding and I know it sounds 209 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:16,199 Speaker 1: so silly, but like you don't get that so much. 210 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,079 Speaker 1: You know, like when we're all at home, we're kind 211 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 1: of doing our own things, and yeah, we have like 212 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 1: our meals together and stuff, But I don't know. There 213 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: was something about all just like being there, being present, 214 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: super present, that was really special. 215 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 3: I think that makes sense though. 216 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 2: I think it's I think it's beautiful that you recognized 217 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 2: that moment and that the gift of like being present. 218 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: I didn't realize it until we got home, Like I 219 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 1: was like, wow, Like that was a lot of quality time, 220 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: Like we had a full day of quality time with them, 221 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 1: and it was like really nice. 222 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 2: He just writes in his journal, I got to have 223 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 2: so much quality time talking with Tanya in line today. 224 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 3: It was the best. Yeah, exactly, Yeah, yeah, that's really fun. 225 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 3: I was just talking. 226 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 2: I was just seeing this thing about how this guy 227 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 2: his mom was on a plane and she was like, 228 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 2: this person was not on their phone the whole time 229 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 2: on the plane, and I just thought that was the 230 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 2: weirdest thing. And he goes, isn't it weird that that 231 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 2: is perceived as weird, like someone not being on their 232 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 2: phone as opposed to someone being present and like striking 233 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,199 Speaker 2: up a conversation with the next person. And she was like, well, 234 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 2: if you're not looking at your phone, people might try 235 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 2: to start a conversation with you, which is like, which 236 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 2: is like the worst case scenario. 237 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 4: I went to a restaurant with Allison once in my 238 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 4: phone was dead, and she went up and went to 239 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 4: the bathroom. She wasn't gone very long, but I was 240 00:10:40,520 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 4: just like kind of like sitting around, just like looking around, 241 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:44,839 Speaker 4: and I was like, I look crazy, and I'm like, 242 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 4: this is how every day yea many many years, you know, 243 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 4: Like I just like read the back of the ketchup bottles, 244 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 4: I know, I think about. 245 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 1: So we're watching Stranger Things right now, and like it's 246 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: in the eighties, and I'm like, wow, I could not 247 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: imagine like they had to go to a payphone to 248 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 1: call nine to one one. I mean, we did live 249 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: in those times, but I was so young, Like I 250 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 1: wouldn't even have a phone even at that age if 251 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: they existed, you know what I mean. 252 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but for I think I was sixteen 253 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 2: when I got a phone, so I had sixteen years 254 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 2: of pure childhood childhood. And also even when I had 255 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 2: a phone, I had to be aware of my minutes 256 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 2: and it wasn't like I was scrolling. 257 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 3: I just would. 258 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: Right right, right right, So it. 259 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:29,839 Speaker 2: Is crazy I do the same thing if I'm alone 260 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 2: I'm like, gosh, do I look so weird? 261 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,679 Speaker 1: You know it's called raw dogging? Yeah, okay, are we 262 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: allowed to say that on the podcast? 263 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 3: We've said a lot worse. 264 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 1: I said raw dogging before. Yeah, okay, but this is 265 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: like an innocent one. 266 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 2: Well yeah, I think normally when we're talking about it, 267 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 2: we're not using it and the way it really is 268 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:53,079 Speaker 2: supposed to be us. We always use that as a version. 269 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 2: We are a PG podcast. But yeah, So I went 270 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 2: to Japan because I wanted to propose to Haley, and 271 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 2: I want to tell you all about it when we 272 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:08,560 Speaker 2: come back. 273 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: We're back. 274 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 3: We are love. She always tries to need me, Tom. 275 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:35,440 Speaker 2: We're back. 276 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: What is who's voice? Listen, We're back. We're back. Don't worry, 277 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 1: We're back. 278 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 2: So I a lot of people had They were like, wait, 279 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 2: I thought you were already engaged. 280 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 3: We are engaged. We got engaged in July and Mayorca, Spain. 281 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 2: But the plan was always that I was also going 282 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 2: to I actually thought I was going to propose to Haley. 283 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 3: First. She surprised me. So I always had the plan. 284 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: That I wis she really Yeah, surprise shocked us. 285 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 3: All she did. She shocked us all. 286 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 2: So I was thinking, how now that she knows it's coming, 287 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 2: how am I going to plan something where I'm able 288 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 2: to surprise her? 289 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 3: Because you know I love a surprise. Yeah, I love 290 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:25,559 Speaker 3: a surprise. 291 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 2: So at Tanya's birthday party back in July, I was 292 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:33,239 Speaker 2: talking to Robbie's cousin Sabrina, and. 293 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 3: I was telling she was like, so, what is the plan? 294 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 2: Or talked about wedding planning, and I was like, well, 295 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 2: I want to propose to her too, but I have 296 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 2: to figure it out because her dream place is to 297 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 2: get engaged in Japan. But if I just book a 298 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 2: trip to Japan, She's going to know it's coming. So 299 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 2: she kind of planted this idea of maybe I have 300 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 2: a work trip or something, or she has a work 301 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 2: trip and then like I show up. She kind of 302 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 2: just planted the seed of coming up with an idea. 303 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: Uh huh. 304 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 3: So I just been Sabrina, you gotta give credit where 305 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 3: credit is she? 306 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: Actually I saw her at the Hanaka party around this 307 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: weekend and she was like, I feel like I maybe 308 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: gave her this idea. Actually did I know? 309 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 2: I know? And so I had been thinking, how am 310 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 2: I going to get Hayley to Japan without me there, 311 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 2: but have me there when she arrives. 312 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 1: How would one do that? Like, how does one? 313 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 3: Dude? 314 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 1: I wouldn't even know. I'd be like, this is too hard, 315 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: I'm out quit. 316 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 3: I'm just doing it. 317 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna do it right here in. 318 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 3: So we I have a friend or she's a friend. Now. 319 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 2: At first she was an acquaintance and her name is 320 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 2: Sinnem and she owns a company called s S Gold. 321 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 3: Tanya actually planned your trip to Greece. 322 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: With her, Yeah, which she did our trip to Grease 323 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: and it was amazing. 324 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 2: And I met her after that just by coincidence of 325 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 2: being We both go see Tawny for our hair. So 326 00:14:58,120 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 2: I just happened to be there and she was like, 327 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 2: oh wait, TAWNI was like, do you know Snem? Tania 328 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 2: just worked with her, and so we started talking. Sonyays 329 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 2: I had her email, but we hadn't worked together or anything. 330 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 2: So in September, I was like, I just had this 331 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 2: idea and I'm like, I'm going to reach out to 332 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 2: Sinem and see if this would be something she'd want 333 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 2: to help me with planning this whole proposal trip. So 334 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 2: I email her and I was like I have this 335 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 2: crazy idea. Do you have any time for a phone call? 336 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 2: So I called her. She was like, I'm so in 337 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 2: let's go. So the plan was that she was. 338 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: So crazy, it's so crazy. 339 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 2: So the plan was that she was going to send 340 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 2: an email to Hailey's management team and basically present an 341 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 2: opportunity to go to Japan and go to the Four 342 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 2: Seasons Kyoto, which is a very special place for us. 343 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 2: We went in twenty nineteen and there was a moment 344 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:54,040 Speaker 2: while we were at the hotel that Hailey told me 345 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 2: she looked over at me and she had this moment 346 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 2: where she was like, I'm going to marry her one day. 347 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 3: So I always saw it. I have to do it. 348 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 3: I have to get us to Four Seasons in Kyoto. 349 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 2: So Sinem sends an email to Haley's management team and 350 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 2: it's basically like, we want to offer a trip with 351 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 2: a collaboration between s S Gold, which is Sinem's travel agency, 352 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 2: and then four Seasons Kyoto and you'll get a five 353 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 2: nights stay and. 354 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 3: You basically have to do posts. 355 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 2: It's basically what an influencer trip looks like, like the 356 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 2: same amount of posts. It wasn't anything suspicious honestly easiest 357 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 2: deal ever. So I was like, she's gonna say yes, absolutely. 358 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 2: So my plan of why I wasn't able to go 359 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 2: was that I had a work trip. 360 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: Oh, she already proposed the dates, like she was gonna say, 361 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: it has to be like these dates. 362 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 2: So she was going to send the dates. And then 363 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 2: I knew that Haley was going to ask me to 364 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 2: come as a plus one. 365 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: That's why I was like, how did she not get 366 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: you to be the plus one? 367 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 2: So she was gonna ask me to be a plus 368 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 2: one and I was, unfortunately gonna have a work trip 369 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: on those dates, and so I was So it went. 370 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 3: Exactly as I thought. 371 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 2: Hayley goes, oh my gosh, I just got a deal 372 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 2: with to go to the Four. 373 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:07,640 Speaker 3: Seasons Kyoto with this travel agency. Like this feels fake. 374 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:09,400 Speaker 3: What did you? She goes, did you do this? 375 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,360 Speaker 2: And I'm like, wait, First of all, I like froze 376 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 2: because that was her first question, and I was like, 377 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 2: how would I do that? Right? And so then her 378 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 2: her manager sends her the official email, which so Nim 379 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 2: and I drafted on chat GPT and she's like, oh 380 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:29,919 Speaker 2: my gosh, this is a real thing, and she was like, 381 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 2: I get a plus one, like we're going to the 382 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 2: four season's Kyoto and I was like, this is crazy. 383 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 3: What of the dates? 384 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 2: So she tells me the dates and I go, that's 385 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 2: my So. I did a Starbucks Ambassador program this year. 386 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 2: I was an ambassador for them and it ended in 387 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 2: like September. 388 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 3: But she didn't know. Now she didn't know. 389 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:50,360 Speaker 4: I still have diplomatic duties. 390 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 2: I had to go to London to headquarters. 391 00:17:57,640 --> 00:17:59,400 Speaker 1: Quite the trip for Starbucks. 392 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:04,200 Speaker 2: Now in a second Starbucks would send me to London, 393 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,640 Speaker 2: but I was like, it's the final trip and all 394 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 2: the ambassadors are going together and we're going to I 395 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 2: just hoped that they had a big store there that 396 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 2: if she needed to look it up, it was there. 397 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 2: So I go, I can't do those dates. Can you 398 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 2: ask them if they can move those dates? 399 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: It's great? 400 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 2: Great, So she's like, okay, I'll ask and they were like, unfortunately, 401 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 2: these are the dates locked in and basically like, let 402 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 2: us know if you if you're not able to do it, 403 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 2: just so we can we need to fill the slot. 404 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 3: She's like, I'm going. 405 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 2: I'm like you need to go, whether you just go 406 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 2: with yourself or you invite a plus one I'll meet 407 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 2: you after London. 408 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 3: So that was the plan. 409 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 2: She invited Marla, her best friend, and I was going 410 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:47,879 Speaker 2: to London two days before. 411 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:50,919 Speaker 3: So we're going back and forth. 412 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 2: She's like negotiating with the Sinnam like trying to get 413 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:55,360 Speaker 2: like can we. 414 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 3: Get an extra night at the Moon? 415 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 2: No? And I'm basically telling Sinem like just say yes, 416 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 2: but make it in a way that's like believable, yeah, 417 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 2: like could we add a post or an extra story whatever. 418 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 2: Then she she wanted to see if there was a 419 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 2: car to go to this like fishing village in Japan, 420 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 2: and so Snem calls. 421 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 3: I'm like just saying yes. 422 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:23,679 Speaker 2: Like sponsoring a full trip, and Hailey's like, yeah, I 423 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 2: feel like and then she was like yeah, there's gonna 424 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 2: be a tea ceremony, a kimono experience, and Snem's like, 425 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:31,919 Speaker 2: I'm just making all this stuff up so that she 426 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,639 Speaker 2: feels like it's like all the things are slotted, and 427 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 2: I'm like that's fine, do whatever. 428 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:38,880 Speaker 3: So one night. 429 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:42,639 Speaker 2: Haley goes, how do you how do I know that? 430 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:46,200 Speaker 2: She kept asking, like she kept saying, my dream place 431 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:48,400 Speaker 2: is to get proposed to in Japan. She's like, are 432 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 2: you going to propose and I go, no, like I 433 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:53,720 Speaker 2: really think I want to just do it on my own, 434 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 2: like I want to plan. 435 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 3: I don't want to do it on like a free 436 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:58,919 Speaker 3: trip that you got. I want to play. Yeah, I 437 00:19:58,960 --> 00:19:59,640 Speaker 3: want to do my. 438 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 2: Own thing and just do it how I want. And 439 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:04,879 Speaker 2: I was like, would you be disappointed if it's not 440 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:05,479 Speaker 2: in Japan? 441 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 3: She was like, I don't think so. 442 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, but I mean, I'll obviously 443 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 2: make it amazing. It's gonna be great, but you know, 444 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 2: I just I need to know before we start doing 445 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 2: this if you're gonna be bummed, because I need to 446 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:23,640 Speaker 2: figure it out. And she's like, no, Like I understand, 447 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 2: you want to do it the way you want to 448 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:29,400 Speaker 2: do it. So for two months of having to keep 449 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 2: up this. By the way, I did not tell a 450 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 2: single person. 451 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: By the way, I don't know if I told it 452 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: on the story on the podcast about my scam, My 453 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,959 Speaker 1: cool Kuya scam. I think I did. I think I 454 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: told it on the podcast. Now did Hey? This short 455 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 1: version I got majorly scammed through email with this like 456 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:09,639 Speaker 1: fake Kolkaya representative. I'm on the phone with Becca and 457 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:13,159 Speaker 1: Haley's the background listening to the whole story, and Haley's like, 458 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,880 Speaker 1: I just got invited on this trip to Japan, Like 459 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: is my whole thing a scam? I was like, yeah, 460 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:20,479 Speaker 1: that's a freaking scam. 461 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:21,400 Speaker 3: You should check in. 462 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 1: On that, like that's for sure. Shut up, shut up. 463 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,360 Speaker 1: I had no idea, Like, I literally had no idea. 464 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 3: But I just had to roll with it. I was like, yeah, 465 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 3: like if it was. 466 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 2: I was like Tanya worked with CM like it's a 467 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,439 Speaker 2: real and then Tony's like, put is it from her 468 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 2: a real email? Yeah? 469 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 1: I was like check the email, check the phone numbers. Yeah. 470 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 2: So then we're like trying to plan dates back because 471 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 2: she was like I got them to extend our flight trip. 472 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 3: I'm like that's amazing. 473 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: Whoa So, I mean, while you're getting the bill on 474 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 1: the other. 475 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:57,679 Speaker 2: End, just like, okay, this is racking up. And the 476 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:01,199 Speaker 2: plan was that, you know, me, Haley, and Marla were 477 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 2: all gonna share a room, but I got two rooms 478 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 2: so that everyone had their space. And so as it's 479 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 2: getting closer, one night, I had gardened and Haley goes, 480 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 2: how do I know this isn't you doing this whole 481 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 2: thing and that you don't actually have a work trip 482 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 2: with Starbucks? And I like was taking the pillows off 483 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 2: the bed and I was turned away from her, and 484 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 2: I was like, you have to lock in, Like you 485 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 2: have to lock in and be like the best liar 486 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 2: you've ever been. And I was like that would be genius. 487 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 2: I was like, but I really, you know, I really 488 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,159 Speaker 2: want to just propose to you the way that I 489 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 2: want to. And she's like, Okay, I'm gonna stop asking 490 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 2: because I don't even I don't want to ruin my 491 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 2: own proposal. And I was like, that would be great, 492 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 2: thanks so much. So after that she stopped like kind 493 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 2: of asking questions about it. I just kept having to 494 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 2: be like, I have stuff in London. I can't wait 495 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,159 Speaker 2: to do this in London. Oh my, one of my 496 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:59,199 Speaker 2: favorite people that's part of the ambassadorship, isn't I No, 497 00:22:59,280 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 2: I wasn't. 498 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:00,200 Speaker 1: Able to go. 499 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 3: I'm so yeah. 500 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 2: I planned a fake trip to New Zealand in January, 501 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 2: saying that I got an opportunity to go there, thinking 502 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,440 Speaker 2: that she would think that's where I'm going to propose. 503 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:16,520 Speaker 1: You got an opportunity to go there? 504 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 2: No, Like, I got a work thing in Australia and 505 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 2: then I was like we could maybe extend it and 506 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,479 Speaker 2: go to New Zealand because she's we wanted to go 507 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 2: to New Zealand, and I thought that would be somewhere 508 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,119 Speaker 2: where she would go. Okay, she's going to propose a 509 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 2: New Zealand. So it's a fake trip that I had 510 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 2: her mark off. 511 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 3: Like a week in January for. 512 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:37,159 Speaker 2: This. By the way, lying like this, I was just 513 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 2: throwing stuff out there to see what would to Dick, 514 00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 2: Like what what is she. 515 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 3: Going to believe? And that is sick, I know. 516 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,240 Speaker 2: I just I had to commit, and so I didn't 517 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 2: tell anybody. And I because I wanted everything to be 518 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 2: really clean. I didn't want any I didn't want to 519 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 2: have to like protect my stories or anything. 520 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: So clean, well, you would tell people the truth. 521 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 3: I know. But I can't arrest that anyone wasn't an ax. 522 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:03,360 Speaker 3: I couldn't. 523 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 2: It was too risky. It was such a big thing, 524 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 2: a big plan that like I really couldn't risk someone slipping. 525 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,399 Speaker 2: I would have been like, I can't talk to you 526 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:19,359 Speaker 2: for a weaver. So I was leaving Tuesday night. She 527 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 2: thinks I'm going to London and I'm going to the airport. 528 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,719 Speaker 2: Because my whole thing leading up to this was what 529 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 2: am I going to do about my shared location. I'm like, 530 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 2: we share locations. And then I thought, I'm just gonna 531 00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:35,960 Speaker 2: turn it off. And I thought, when you turn it off, 532 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,199 Speaker 2: it doesn't tell anybody. It does well, apparently when you 533 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 2: only turn off one person's it notifies them. So I'm 534 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 2: on the way to the airport and she goes, hey, babe, 535 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 2: did you mean to stop sharing your location with me? 536 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 2: And I go, uugh, no, I was like, I did 537 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 2: something on my computer before I left. I was like, 538 00:24:55,920 --> 00:25:00,119 Speaker 2: I just got the same frantic message from Tanya and 539 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,399 Speaker 2: and I just turned it right back on. I like, 540 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 2: didn't make a big deal of it. I just turned 541 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 2: it back on. So then she called me and she's like, hey, 542 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 2: I I still can't see your location because I ended 543 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 2: up turning it off on the app, which doesn't let 544 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,199 Speaker 2: anyone know, by the way, And I go, when you 545 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 2: get home, will you check my computer and change the 546 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 2: settings on the my location settings? 547 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: So that turns to have her going into your computer 548 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: with like text messages. 549 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 2: I changed my password, so she was never going to 550 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 2: be able to get into my computer, so she said, 551 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 2: because I was just going to be like tell her 552 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,800 Speaker 2: the password and she was going to keep trying and 553 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 2: be like it's not working, and I'm like, oh my god, 554 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 2: I don't know what I did. 555 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 4: Block your computer. 556 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, so she said, she said in hindsight, as soon 557 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 2: as I said, like, just go to my computer and 558 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 2: check it, she didn't think anything of it, because she 559 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,719 Speaker 2: was like, you were so nonchalant about it that I 560 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,159 Speaker 2: just was like, for I guess I don't care whatever. 561 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 2: So I get to panic. I get to the airport, 562 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 2: she called me, and I fake. I'm sitting by myself. 563 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,359 Speaker 2: There's barely anyone sitting around me, and I fake a 564 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 2: conversation like I'm seeing someone from Starbucks. 565 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 3: It's going on the trip and I'm like. 566 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 2: Oh my god, hey, like how are you? And I'm 567 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 2: like I overpack so much, like it's gonna be so 568 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 2: cold and rainy, like I'm not prepared. And then I'm 569 00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 2: like the person like walked away allegedly, and I go, 570 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 2: oh my god, I feel so bad. 571 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 3: I can't remember her name. 572 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: It's like diabolical. 573 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 2: It's diabolical. So I get on the plane. I'm like, 574 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,920 Speaker 2: I just have to try the plant. The flight time 575 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 2: from LA to London was like a similar flight time 576 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,879 Speaker 2: to Tokyo, so I was like the time, She's not 577 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,119 Speaker 2: gonna question you know, why am I still on the plane? 578 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 2: So I was like, I told her it was delayed 579 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 2: an hour or something, so that the length felt more accurate. 580 00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,480 Speaker 3: By the way, these are all things that like she 581 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 3: could check. She didn't even think about, right, but she 582 00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,360 Speaker 3: could have cheme about everything. Yeah, I could have checked. 583 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you said my fight's delayed, like that's something 584 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,080 Speaker 1: Robbie would do, he would like go on the like 585 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 1: website and it was like, look, oh I would never 586 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 1: if he was like my fights lay now, I'm like, okay, 587 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:14,760 Speaker 1: cool text to me, LAMB. 588 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 3: That's why it's fun to surprise y'all and prank you. 589 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 1: Because it's just easy. 590 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 3: So I get there and I land and. 591 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 2: By the time I think I got there, it was 592 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 2: nighttime here or something. There was a I had a 593 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 2: break or she was I don't know what happened. 594 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 3: She was busy. 595 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 2: I got to the hotel I had to, like, I 596 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 2: got to I got to the I landed, I got 597 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:43,439 Speaker 2: off the plane. A guy Snam really helped me, Like 598 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 2: she set up like my car service and everything, like. 599 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 3: She's literally my hero. I got there, the guy. 600 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,160 Speaker 2: Picked me up, got took me to the train, got 601 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 2: my train to get and put me in my seat 602 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 2: on the train, Otherwise I would probably still be at 603 00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 2: the train station. I was so overwhelmed and like it 604 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 2: is so overstimulating and like navigating that system and nothing 605 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 2: being and everyone's super helpful, but nothing being familiar to me. 606 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:13,200 Speaker 3: I was so grateful for him. 607 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 2: I had a two hour train ride, so I'm just like, oh, 608 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 2: I'm waiting. 609 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 3: To get off the plane. It's taking forever. My bag 610 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,360 Speaker 3: y to just stom I get to the hotel. 611 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:27,160 Speaker 2: I tell the girls that meet me. They were like amazing, 612 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 2: the girls at four season. They were in on everything, 613 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 2: so they knew about it. They were so excited. And 614 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 2: I was like, I got to go to my room 615 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,959 Speaker 2: and I need to close the blinds because it's supposed 616 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 2: to be dark in London. London was like the worst 617 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 2: choice I could have made, because the opposite day and 618 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 2: night made it so hard trying to like lie FaceTime, Yeah, 619 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 2: because I just had to FaceTime from the room and 620 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 2: have my drapes shut. 621 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it would be like bright daylight. 622 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 2: And I'd be like, all right, I'm going to bed. 623 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 2: I'm so tired. I feel jet lagged and then I 624 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 2: go to bed and then go eat breakfast and have 625 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:03,360 Speaker 2: my day. So the first day I got there, I 626 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 2: called her and I was like, I'm literally sick. 627 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 3: I'm so tired, I have to go to sleep. I 628 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:08,040 Speaker 3: love you so much. 629 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 2: We FaceTime and then went had breakfast and got a 630 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 2: massage at the hotel, like just talk to the girls 631 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 2: about the plan, scouted the location of where I was 632 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 2: going to do it, and that was the That was 633 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 2: two days before and they were flying in the next day, 634 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 2: and so I was like, I need to call all 635 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 2: the people I need to call. I wanted to call 636 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 2: and ask her parents for their blessing because I was 637 00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 2: going to do it at Thanksgiving, but I was just 638 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 2: worried that she would walk in or they might say something. 639 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 2: So I just waited till the day before to call 640 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 2: them and tell them. And then I called you to 641 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 2: tell you. I called her parents and it was like 642 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 2: really sweet and emotional and it was it was like 643 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,680 Speaker 2: really special and I'm so glad. I had that time 644 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 2: in my room just chilling because I was able to 645 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 2: kind of process what I needed to do and pick 646 00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 2: out my outfit and all the things. But I called 647 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 2: Tanya and Robbie and I want to talk about that, 648 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 2: but we're going to do it. 649 00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: Yes, because I have so much to say. I have 650 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 1: so much to say because I just getting a FaceTime 651 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 1: from Becca is very alarming because she never face times me. 652 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 1: So I was like, the whole the whole thing was crazy. 653 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 3: But we're going to do it on our next episode. 654 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 1: Yes. So too much to get to. 655 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 3: Be continued on the next episode of Scribbing in 656 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 1: Love You love It