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Speaker 1: What's up y'all?

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Speaker 2: Is your girl next Space.

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Speaker 1: And it's the Girls writ in the call, and you.

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Speaker 2: Are tuned in to another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 3: Minds where drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: Boy, I have had a fucking day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I was just like I woke up

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Speaker 3: but still here, I'm here.

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Speaker 4: I made it. I was in a really good mood today.

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Speaker 4: Like I woke up in a very very good mood.

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Speaker 4: I went on a date last night.

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Speaker 1: What did you go on a date with?

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Speaker 3: Well, I've seen you was on a date, but you know,

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Speaker 3: well I was don't mind my business until i've seen

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Speaker 3: you in person.

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't want to say it on the show yet.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell the Patreon girls first.

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Speaker 1: I'm the girls first. Oh, okay, that's not really a day.

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Speaker 1: It was a day.

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Speaker 4: I got your rested up, we went out. I mean,

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Speaker 4: you know, it just is what it is.

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Speaker 2: Of course, today ended up in me second dig per usual.

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Speaker 1: Girl. Look, I knew I said this the other day,

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Speaker 1: but you know what I really do like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean I feel like this when I'm on my cycle,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not making no man happy.

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Speaker 2: If I'm suffering, so are you.

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Speaker 4: I was like, you know what, let me give him

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Speaker 4: a little hand since we ain't, since he can't get none.

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Speaker 2: That's true love right there, true love.

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Speaker 1: Because I don't like if I'm not gonna see.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, true love.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? So what did y'all go? We went to?

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Speaker 1: What if one of the listeners was there?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't think they were. I feel like

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Speaker 4: when people see us, they always speak. But no, it

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Speaker 4: was just a nice little cute place.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not you don't want to say he was

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Speaker 1: a watching the site where.

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Speaker 2: I mean saw if you saw my story, you saw

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Speaker 2: where I was.

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Speaker 1: We saw you ate what you normally eat.

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Speaker 2: The salmon.

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Speaker 4: I got me another salmon plate. Let me tell y'all

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Speaker 4: what the fuck I did. Let me tell you how

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Speaker 4: stupid I am.

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Speaker 1: You.

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Speaker 4: So one of my old niggas is in my close friends.

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Speaker 4: I forgot he was in there.

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Speaker 3: What type of shit is that? Who put the niggas

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Speaker 3: in their close friends. I think it was like we

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Speaker 3: were some most non players at.

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Speaker 1: All, bitch and he don't.

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Speaker 4: But it was like on some funny ship when we

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Speaker 4: posted my day, you know, like rubbing on my little

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Speaker 4: thigh last night.

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Speaker 1: Why this nigga watch my story?

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Speaker 3: I said, she wants to remove me from your close

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Speaker 3: friend No, it's still live there, you know how you like,

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Speaker 3: you know, you just little post a little rolex or something,

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Speaker 3: post a little hand and yes, he washed it.

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Speaker 4: He don't ever watch my fucking stories. I was like, well,

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Speaker 4: I can't get that dick normal or ruin that.

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Speaker 3: Clearly you didn't ever want it because you had in

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Speaker 3: me your close friends to begin with. I don't really

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Speaker 3: liked like to me, if a nigga is in my

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Speaker 3: close friends, like your friend zone, well no, I usually

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Speaker 3: I put niggas in there because I'm like posting ass

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Speaker 3: and titties.

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Speaker 4: And I be like, yeah, you see what the fuck

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Speaker 4: going on? I ain't see that, but my close friends

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Speaker 4: you seen it.

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Speaker 1: No, I le's gonna have to have a talk. You're

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Speaker 1: off camera. You're not my close friend. Clearly I ain't.

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Speaker 1: It's all right, I don't care no way. But what

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Speaker 1: I was about to say was, if a nigga is

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Speaker 2: Friends, you're a friend zone.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, that was not play of me, a't all

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Speaker 4: so yeah that I'm pretty sure He's like, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 4: not fucking with that whole no own.

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Speaker 2: He just sent me some money for Christmas too.

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Speaker 3: Well, you ain't getting no money for the Valentine today.

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Speaker 3: I was like, Fuck, what's the holiday that this month?

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Speaker 3: You're not getting no money for Martin Luther King Day?

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Speaker 1: It's Martin Luther King as mon, yes January. Damn.

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Speaker 3: You don't know why do all people call it Martha

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Speaker 3: Luther King? My mama be saying, you know, bro, tell

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Speaker 3: me you ain't never heard the old person say that

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Speaker 3: all people be calling it Martha Luther King King that

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Speaker 3: I've never heard that, bro.

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Speaker 1: My mam will say that all the time. Not be

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Speaker 1: like who the fuck is Martha?

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Speaker 2: Bro, I'm dead Martha.

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Speaker 1: She'd be like Martha Luther King? Who is Martha Luther King?

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Speaker 1: The women he was?

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Speaker 2: But we won't talk about that. We know MLK loved

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Speaker 2: him a white woman.

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Speaker 1: You're not getting no money for I'm not getting no

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Speaker 1: money for kids, not supporting Blake's enough about.

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Speaker 2: Me what you went up to since.

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Speaker 3: My eye bothering me because I let I took all

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Speaker 3: I let all my last extensions fall out because I

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Speaker 3: wanted to get a new set for the new year.

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Speaker 1: Sounds. I need to let all.

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Speaker 3: That old bad each God, the tears, the tears, I cried,

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Speaker 3: what is probably some residue on there, So I just

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Speaker 1: So, yes, I have strips on. I haven't wore strips

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Speaker 1: in a mini.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so it's kind of bothering.

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Speaker 1: Me a little bit. But yeah, I ain't want to

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Speaker 1: know dates or nothing.

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Speaker 3: I mean, Chili, and I've been trying to get you know,

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Speaker 3: myself together because I'm not gonna pop out, so getting

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Speaker 3: you're just getting prepared for your new roster and getting

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Speaker 3: prepared for my new roster for the year. And I've

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Speaker 3: just been chilling because I've done away with all my

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Speaker 3: old niggas. Any nigga that was fucking on me in

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Speaker 3: twenty twenty, I ain't got a chance no more.

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Speaker 1: I'm dealing with them niggas.

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Speaker 2: I wish I could say the same, But the flesh

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Speaker 3: You love, but you love old d I do you

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Speaker 3: love going back to old niggas like?

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Speaker 1: And I love to wash my hands of this.

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Speaker 4: I feel like with this situation, this is gonna be

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Speaker 4: another situation where I'm just like dealing with this nigga

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Speaker 4: for a long fucking time.

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Speaker 2: I can already tell it just is what it is.

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Speaker 3: We go to be getting so fucked up and it

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Speaker 3: just be lig We had a conversation the other day,

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Speaker 3: but I'm not going to tell the people what you said.

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Speaker 1: That's all right.

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Speaker 2: I was probably lying. Have you been doing good with

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Speaker 2: your New Year's resolution? What was your new Year's resolution?

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Speaker 3: I didn't ever say I had a New Year's I

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Speaker 3: did say he was going to be time management. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: have you been doing well with that? I mean, I

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Speaker 1: I said, I.

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Speaker 3: Haven't really had no obligations yet. Well, I said I was.

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Speaker 4: I stopped lying, and but I really tried. You gonna

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Speaker 4: die line, I really tried. You know what I lied about.

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Speaker 3: I was supposed to start a diet with my mama,

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Speaker 3: and she was like, how y'all die going?

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Speaker 1: I was like, girl's going good.

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Speaker 4: While I be in the back of chips, I was like,

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Speaker 4: she's like, you got any tips? I was like, girl,

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Speaker 4: just eat healthy, no shortcut?

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Speaker 1: Why she asked you do you got some tips?

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Speaker 4: Because like we're supposed to be on a diet together.

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Speaker 4: So she thinks I'm on a diet right now, and

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Speaker 4: I'm just lying to her because I don't feel like

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Speaker 1: I mean, you can always start fresh today.

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Speaker 2: No, I ate some chips.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you can always start fresh tomorrow. I'm cool.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't want to. I don't want to. I

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Speaker 4: just don't want to.

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Speaker 1: You really have a problem. It's like, really, it really

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Speaker 4: She was like, are you doing good? I was like, yeah, girl,

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Speaker 4: I went to the gym and everything. I mean, I

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Speaker 3: These cooks I love these because these cooks be reminded

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Speaker 3: me of the church cubs.

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Speaker 1: No you or her, these your cubs.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't you when you go to Catholic church to drinks.

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Speaker 1: With the cloth? No, I hold it and then you're

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Speaker 1: supposed to drink. Hell. I don't think they doing it

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Speaker 1: don't know. They let you know. I ain't be in

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Speaker 1: the church in to meet me. Shame on you. Speaking

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Speaker 1: of church, I got some mills to stay before. Please

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Speaker 1: shut it out. Did you see that Mace is the

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Speaker 1: pastor at their church out here now in Atlanta? Are

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Speaker 1: you gonna go? I think we should go together.

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Speaker 3: I'm not going, and we should record it for one

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Speaker 3: of our Patreon episodes.

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to see Mason because I hear him

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Speaker 4: on Clubhouse.

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Speaker 1: And I've had enough.

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Speaker 3: They said he'd be wilding on closse be on Clubhouse

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Speaker 1: He is like crazy on there, but nearly he's the

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Speaker 3: I don't want to know that's in the clubhouse talking

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Speaker 3: about dating and ship. Well it's okay for like, as

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Speaker 3: long as you're not a priest, you can date you, No,

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Speaker 3: you can.

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Speaker 4: But who wants to hear their pastors talking about what

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Speaker 4: type of woman should you be dating?

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Speaker 2: In twenty and twenty?

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Speaker 1: He always on.

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Speaker 3: There like the dating about like he chat roles with

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Speaker 3: the game. Why is my past that need to be

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Speaker 3: in a chat room with the game?

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Speaker 1: Because maybe he trying to Maybe he's trying to get

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Speaker 1: him to come in the pool pig.

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Speaker 2: You know what.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he might be the new deacon into a church

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Speaker 1: with a game. No, I don't want to hear nothing

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Speaker 1: to I don't want to that he did have that

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Speaker 1: Christian album? What Christian album? The album he had where

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Speaker 1: it was? It was called Jesus Peace.

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Speaker 2: Why that must have fucked?

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Speaker 1: Yes you did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not a game fan though I'm not, but

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Speaker 3: he had a few songs and I'm gonna pull it

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Speaker 3: up with you.

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Speaker 1: You'll remember that song with Chris Brown. Were you having

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Speaker 1: a celebration? Okay, girl, let me let me move, I know,

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Speaker 1: think about it. That song was on there was called Jesus.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, we're gonna get into the first topic I wanted

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Speaker 3: to talk about today, how to identify if you're toxic.

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Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of people always talk about,

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Speaker 3: oh I dealt with a toxic relationship or I have

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Speaker 3: a toxic friendship, but a lot of people don't hold

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Speaker 1: Do you think you're toxic? I think I used to be.

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Speaker 3: I don't really think I am no more because I

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Speaker 3: really be trying to work on myself. Like I feel

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Speaker 3: like I've identified some of the issues that I've had

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Speaker 3: and flaws that I've had, and I really feel like

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Speaker 3: I tried daily to work on it. But I definitely

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Speaker 3: think I used to be toxic and I did not

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Speaker 3: give a food.

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Speaker 1: So what did you used to do that was like

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Speaker 1: something I was toxic?

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Speaker 3: I feel like in relationships and like in dating, just

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Speaker 3: like always being extra and acting like I cared more

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Speaker 3: about she that I didn't care about just so it

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Speaker 3: would be drama. I used to like drama, you know

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Speaker 3: what with me and my niggas. I feel like if

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Speaker 3: it wasn't no drama, it wouldn't fun.

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Speaker 2: I used to be that way too.

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Speaker 4: I used to remember, like when I was dating rapper Bay,

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Speaker 4: I used to literally text him some of the meanest

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Speaker 4: shit ever, knowing I didn't mean a word that I said,

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Speaker 4: only to be fucking him later on that night. Like

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Speaker 4: stuff like that is like why would I be doing that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I used to say mean ass sheet to like

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Speaker 3: my niggas in me and like we're gretty the next day.

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Speaker 4: So I feel like, now, don't get me wrong, I

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Speaker 4: feel like I'm trying not to be toxic, but I

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Speaker 4: just feel like I have toxic ways. That's just like

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Speaker 4: not gonna change about me.

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Speaker 1: You toxic because the person you talking back to that's toxic.

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Speaker 1: It's not toxic. We love. That's my man, my man toxic.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait toxy.

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Speaker 3: It's like the green smoke on them cartoons they be

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Speaker 3: coming up for people, you got like this air of

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Speaker 3: toxicity around.

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Speaker 1: You, you know, it's like for me, I think it's

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Speaker 1: just it's just fun. It's like a little bit. No,

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Speaker 1: it's not. I'm trying not to be toxic now.

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Speaker 4: I think one thing that's toxic about me now that

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Speaker 4: I just can't stop is like I'll be like, oh

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Speaker 4: I'm done with this, nigga. I'm done, and we be

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Speaker 4: right back right now. But I want to say our

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Speaker 4: relationship is toxic. I don't think our relationship is toxic.

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Speaker 3: I think you should get another person who knows about

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Speaker 3: your relationship and ex them what do they think, because

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Speaker 3: you know my OpEd it is toxic.

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Speaker 4: But I feel like I'm actively working on, you know,

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Speaker 4: being a better person and a better partner because I

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Speaker 4: know I be doing shit.

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Speaker 3: Like I gottah a good question, though, how can you

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Speaker 3: stop being toxic when you put be putting yourself in

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Speaker 3: toxic situation?

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Speaker 4: Because I'm trying to do the situation differently. I'm not

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Speaker 4: going you necess It's like both of y'all are.

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Speaker 3: Something, but we have both recognized the issues, damn it,

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Speaker 3: and we motherfucking trying.

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Speaker 1: God damn it.

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Speaker 3: So if I'm telling me like we're openly communicat, we're

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Speaker 3: making efforts.

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Speaker 2: Like see.

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Speaker 4: Another one of my toxic traits is I'll be telling

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Speaker 4: niggas I love them and I don't mean it. I

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Speaker 4: love to say a fake I love you, I love

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Speaker 4: it all the time, but with.

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Speaker 1: This situation, I don't do that. I don't do that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like whenever we're ready to say it, we'll

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Speaker 1: be ready to say it.

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Speaker 3: Like the other situation, I just to be like, I

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Speaker 3: love you. How could you do this to me knowing

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Speaker 3: I didn't love that? Man, I think that you be

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Speaker 3: thinking that you do love them now when you say it.

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Speaker 3: Then I think later you be realizing that you don't.

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Speaker 3: But I think that you definitely be thinking that you

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Speaker 3: love it. I don't just be like, oh, I would

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Speaker 3: just say I love it in the moment.

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Speaker 4: In the moment, I might feel like I do, but

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Speaker 4: I be knowing when I really love somebody and adult

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Speaker 4: and I be knowing when I'm just kind of saying it,

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Speaker 4: like I know in the back of my head.

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Speaker 2: But it's just so fun.

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Speaker 3: Being in love is fun, even if it's n nice.

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Speaker 3: It is I love being in fake love. That's the

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Speaker 3: best thing.

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Speaker 1: That's a Leo thing.

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Speaker 4: We love being in love like a fling. Honey, I'm

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Speaker 4: all for it. I wouldn't meet a nigga on the

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Speaker 4: first day, Like before we even order our appetizers, I'll

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Speaker 4: be like, is this forever?

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Speaker 1: Like I love it. I'm just always crazy. But like

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Speaker 1: I said, that's something about me today. I just be there.

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Speaker 1: I just be chilling. I mean I really do.

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Speaker 3: I just be chilling, Like I'll be trying to people

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Speaker 3: what's going on people If I feel like he a liar,

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Speaker 3: if he be cappy, Oh, I'll.

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Speaker 2: Be lying my ass off on the first day.

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Speaker 3: Cause niggas be capping to get that first date. So

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Speaker 3: when I get there, already be on guard and I'd

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Speaker 3: be sitting there like.

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Speaker 2: That's how niggas should be with me, because I'll be

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Speaker 2: the one lion.

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Speaker 1: That's how they need to be with you.

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Speaker 4: They be like, so, what was your last relationship? But

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Speaker 4: I just got all of a serious relationship, so I'm

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Speaker 4: in the healing process.

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Speaker 2: I just need a good man.

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Speaker 1: They love a sob story and.

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Speaker 3: It ain't The crazy thing is they still not gonna

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Speaker 3: be a good man so it's a point in line.

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Speaker 1: It's fun still go do dirty. I mean, that's true,

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Speaker 1: but we're gonna do each other's dirty.

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Speaker 2: It's a mutual thing.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I definitely feel like I used to be

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Speaker 3: very fucking talking.

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Speaker 4: But I think of a good thing is that you

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Speaker 4: identified it, because I feel like before I really did

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Speaker 4: not see no problem in what I was doing. I

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Speaker 4: really used to be like, no, I'm gonna tell this

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Speaker 4: nigga that I want him to burn in a house

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Speaker 4: full of his whole entire family and I don't care.

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Speaker 4: I used to really say, like the men is things,

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Speaker 4: and I would not see a problem with it. Now

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Speaker 4: I definitely try to watch my tongue and watch the

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Speaker 4: things that I say. Yeah, I used to always definitely

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Speaker 4: think it was the nigga and it was like never you, yeah,

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Speaker 4: because why would it be me?

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Speaker 1: I'm perfect And that was the problem exactly.

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Speaker 3: But I really used to feel that way, like everything

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Speaker 3: that goes wrong, it's you, nigga.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that was definitely me.

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Speaker 4: But like I said, i've in the past, especially this

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Speaker 4: past year, with like how my dating life has been,

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Speaker 4: it's been a whirlwind. It's been a lot, Like you

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Speaker 4: know what, Lex you need to stop doing a lot

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Speaker 4: all of this and just be more open and honest

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Speaker 4: and stop being crazy. I'm really not crazy in a

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Speaker 4: bad way, but I just be doing shit sometimes, Like

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Speaker 4: what do we saying over there? I'll just be doing

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Speaker 4: shit to do it?

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Speaker 1: You really do.

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Speaker 4: Like I'll just be in Miami with a random ass

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Speaker 4: nigga like why am I here?

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Speaker 2: What am I sucking this dick for?

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Speaker 1: Why? That's what I'll be thinking when you're telling her.

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Speaker 1: I'll be like why. But then y'all know what?

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Speaker 3: Like I know Lex so well at these points that

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Speaker 3: he's like she literally calls me and tells me fluff

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Speaker 3: and then I have no reaction. I told her, I

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Speaker 3: literally like, I don't we having no reaction? I just

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Speaker 3: suck this random nigga dig in the bathroom and I'll

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Speaker 3: be like, oh, what's for dinner?

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Speaker 4: I told her, I said draw was I like, I'll

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Speaker 4: call dress.

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Speaker 1: She'd be like, where are you at. I'll be like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm chilling with Carlton Caughton from who Fresh Prints?

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Speaker 2: And she was like, oh, because that's.

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Speaker 1: The kind of shit I do. Like nohing surprising me,

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Speaker 1: cast to trying to fly me out. I'm going bitch,

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Speaker 1: it's not unused. I'm going bitch, Yeah, it actually is unusual.

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Speaker 1: Why you with casting? What's good byey? Isn't he married?

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Speaker 1: I don't get well, we know you don't care about that.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know why. But no, I said, I'm changing.

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing shit just to do it. No more.

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Speaker 3: Bro, Well, I feel like you could be toxic in

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Speaker 3: your friendships too, But I honestly, I feel like I've

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Speaker 3: always been like a good friend.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't feel like I'm just a toxic ass friend.

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Speaker 3: I'll say, I don't think you're a toxic friend, but

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Speaker 3: you're an annoying drunk.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. For New Year's I could not.

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Speaker 4: You literally told us a story about your uncle Larry

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Speaker 4: about how his pie was nasty for about thirty minutes.

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Speaker 1: Like for thirty minutes you.

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Speaker 4: Were like, yeah, my uncle Larry got this pie. It's

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Speaker 4: so nasty, y'all. We was like, okay.

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Speaker 3: Ten minutes later, Grandma, what I well unclear he did.

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Speaker 3: He was talking about the dad Nigga pie you talked

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Speaker 3: about that pop. We were like, because my mamma swear

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Speaker 3: that pat so good. I'm thinking about it.

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Speaker 1: A year and girl, Oh, don't even give me storty.

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Speaker 3: Please don't get us started offclaric pie because we had

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Speaker 3: to hear.

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Speaker 1: About I think that's the only thing when you drink.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: So I was trying to get you to drink more

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Speaker 3: in hopes of you passing out, and it did not work.

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Speaker 1: You were just getting more drunk. I was like, what

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Speaker 1: is going on?

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Speaker 4: It was just a lot we had spent New Year's

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Speaker 4: It was just me, you and Kiki, but we had

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Speaker 4: a good time.

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Speaker 1: I went to church on Instagram line.

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Speaker 3: Oh, because I was to say, when, why would you

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Speaker 3: be surprised if I'm going to church? Because I've known

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Speaker 3: you for five years and you never went to church,

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Speaker 3: So why would I not be surprised?

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Speaker 2: So my mama went to church for New Year You

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Speaker 2: better hope you don't watch this shit.

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Speaker 3: Why my mam I don't watch it neither, because you

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Speaker 3: just told her that. I think Uncle Larry.

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Speaker 1: Pot nay damn telling family secret.

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Speaker 2: I'm dead or appeel Uncle Larry in his pot.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, those are the signs I think you can't

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Speaker 4: identify if you're toxic, Like if you say things you

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Speaker 4: know you don't mean to get a reaction. Out of people,

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Speaker 4: that's one like tall like tale sign, or like pretending

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Speaker 4: you like somebody when you know you really don't like them.

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Speaker 4: Like I know, I've been in situations where I'm just

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Speaker 4: doing something to make somebody else jealous, like getting somebody

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Speaker 4: else's feelings involved with me, just because like I'm trying

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Speaker 4: to make this other man mad. Like that's that's super

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Speaker 4: super super toxic. What's another toxic thing that I do?

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Speaker 4: My lion is very toxic. My lion is very toxic.

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Speaker 4: But I'm working on it. I'm working on it new year,

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Speaker 4: knew me period. I'm gonna start it right now, no

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Speaker 4: more lyon.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, you I think I'm doing well by identifying

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Speaker 3: that I'm toxic and working on it.

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Speaker 2: I'm actively working.

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Speaker 1: On your lying is.

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Speaker 3: I don't feel like that's toxic though, because I don't

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Speaker 3: necessarily feel like you just always be lying to me.

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Speaker 1: But then again, it's kind of like when would I.

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Speaker 3: I don't really be thinking that much into it, Like

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00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:26,280
Speaker 3: so it's like if you do, I just really kind

447
00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,119
Speaker 3: of be like, like you just said everything you tell me,

448
00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:33,240
Speaker 3: I just be like, Okay, if you do, I probably

449
00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:37,879
Speaker 3: wouldn't know, But you know, because thinking deep into it.

450
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:39,399
Speaker 1: But you know what the thing is, I'm not a

451
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 1: good liar.

452
00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 4: Like when people that actually know me know me, like

453
00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,520
Speaker 4: when I start lying, they already be knowing that I'm lying.

454
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,200
Speaker 3: No, but look, look you're not really You're not toxic.

455
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:53,639
Speaker 3: You're not toxic as a friend. Yeah, no, yeah, I

456
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:54,720
Speaker 3: don't think I'm a toxic friend.

457
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,280
Speaker 1: You know, I'm a very I'm actually a very good friend.

458
00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,600
Speaker 4: If anything I am on this earth, I'm a good

459
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:01,240
Speaker 4: ass friend.

460
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,040
Speaker 1: You a good friend. But I mean maybe not.

461
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 2: A good partner.

462
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:08,000
Speaker 1: But were working on that. We're working on that.

463
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, we gonna pray for those men because it's not

464
00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 3: just one, yes, it is.

465
00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 4: I'm trying to be a one woman man this year. Okay,

466
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:19,920
Speaker 4: I've only had one dick this year.

467
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,679
Speaker 1: That's a feat. That's good.

468
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:24,640
Speaker 2: I've only had.

469
00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 4: Sex with one man the entire year period. It don't

470
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 4: matter if we only two weeks in. But it's only

471
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 4: been one, Nigga, that's an upgrade.

472
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 3: Last year by the day, upgrade from one last year.

473
00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 1: By day four, I had like two three bodies already.

474
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,480
Speaker 1: I'm doing good. By day one.

475
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 4: By day four, oh, I already had like a couple

476
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 4: of bodies. So the fact that I made it this

477
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 4: long and I've just been I've been talking to one nigga,

478
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 4: been text to one nigga, only one nigga, been getting

479
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 4: my nudes, only one nigga seeing my booty hole this year,

480
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:59,000
Speaker 4: the girl, you're doing good, I'm doing I'm very proud

481
00:21:59,000 --> 00:21:59,639
Speaker 4: of myself.

482
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 1: I really don't want I can't say that I'm proud

483
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:06,120
Speaker 1: of you. Yeah, why because I know you.

484
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,119
Speaker 3: So next about like next week, you might have like

485
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,399
Speaker 3: you might be working with another niggas I'm not. I

486
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,840
Speaker 3: would be like, I will literally be proud of you

487
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 3: when you can like talk to one nigga for like

488
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 3: three months.

489
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:21,639
Speaker 1: Hold on now, taking I know and I am taking

490
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:22,400
Speaker 1: shit too far.

491
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:26,880
Speaker 3: And that's when I'll be proud of you, when you

492
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 3: talk to a nigga for three months, only one nigga.

493
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 4: Okay, So now, so we're gonna check back in March

494
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 4: to see if I'm still on the same guy.

495
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 1: End of March.

496
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:39,360
Speaker 2: The end of March. I can do this. I can

497
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 2: do these.

498
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 3: I really don't have I mean, you don't have faith

499
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,439
Speaker 3: in me, no, But I think that that's what I'm

500
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,679
Speaker 3: supposed to say, is your friend I'm gonna do it.

501
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,359
Speaker 3: They're gonna be in a comments like Dre is a

502
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 3: terrible friend. You know they're gonna start they go in

503
00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 3: on us with everything. Drey don't have no faith in legs.

504
00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 4: D I think even the listeners know by now though,

505
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,200
Speaker 4: Like I'm single, though I'm doing what I'm supposed to

506
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:03,639
Speaker 4: be doing.

507
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 2: I'm really not doing nothing wrong though, because I have

508
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 2: not a relationship.

509
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 1: No you not.

510
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 4: So I'm I'm dating. I'm trying to figure it out.

511
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 4: Do I want this Dick? Do I want that Dick?

512
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta dabble back and forth. You know, I

513
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 1: can't make a decision. Sometimes you just don't know. Sometimes

514
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 1: you do gotta dabble back and forth. You know what

515
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 1: I mean? You got a wigh out your option. I

516
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 1: love to di with that.

517
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 3: I do agree, but I feel like I don't understand

518
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 3: why you be neating to deabl because it be dick

519
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 3: you don'et already have.

520
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 1: So that's what really, that's what confuses me.

521
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 2: I got bad memory, so sometimes I be having to

522
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 2: go back.

523
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: I mean, like, well, why you gotta dabble back and

524
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 1: forth when you done have this? Because I forget sometimes I.

525
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,920
Speaker 3: Remember what dick be like, I want a nigga try

526
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 3: to come back in my life. It'll be like, I

527
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,360
Speaker 3: remember what that decon was like it was mediocre. I'm

528
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 3: not going down there roga.

529
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 4: Well see, I don't go back down the wad with

530
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 4: the mediocre dick. It'd be a good dick. That'd be

531
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 4: like fucking my head up.

532
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: Even if it's good, I'd be like, oh, he has

533
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,200
Speaker 1: some good dick. But like, but.

534
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,360
Speaker 4: See, I'm not gonna lie with this with this man,

535
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,439
Speaker 4: it's not just about the dick do like that for

536
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 4: any like see, and that's the problem. This nigga fine,

537
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 4: he funny, he got good conversation, the dick is.

538
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 2: Good, he got money.

539
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 1: It's just the list goes on and on and on

540
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 1: and on. So yeah, sometimes I slip and fall this

541
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 1: dick ing up my mouth, se me I I'm a

542
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 1: bad person for that.

543
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 3: You not a bad person, but you are a toxic person.

544
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 3: Going back to the topic in hand, You're not a

545
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 3: bad person, You're just an You said that, like, I

546
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 3: bet you I could find an episode from three months

547
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,159
Speaker 3: ago where you said this about somebody else.

548
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 1: You know what. So we're gonna move topic. Don't do

549
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: me like it's me a honey. It's just a loving

550
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 1: person and I love.

551
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 3: No, you're just a liars, Okay, I don't be lying you.

552
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm a tough crowd. Don't like like you ain't ever

553
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 1: told a little lie before.

554
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 3: I definitely have tall lies. Everybody lies occasionally, but I

555
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 3: don't just lie all the time for no reason. You

556
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 3: be lying for no reason, It'd be like, bro, why

557
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 3: are you lying?

558
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,360
Speaker 1: Sometimes it just be saying to be with you? Will

559
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: you be lying to people and I be like.

560
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 2: Don't call me. They'll be like, le's what you're doing.

561
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 3: I'm at work and right there, and it's like you

562
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 3: are not at work?

563
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: Why are you lying?

564
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,360
Speaker 4: Because I don't be on the talk Sometimes I don't

565
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 4: want to be bothered.

566
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 3: Well, why you can't just tell? What makes it hard

567
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 3: for you to tell people that? Because like, if I

568
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 3: don't want to be bothered, I will literally tell, Like

569
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 3: it just depends because sometimes I don't want to be

570
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 3: hurting people feelings or like if I'm just like sometimes

571
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,679
Speaker 3: I swear I have like this one friend, I'm not

572
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,679
Speaker 3: gonna lie every time she calls me.

573
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:56,239
Speaker 4: It's at a bad time. No lie, Like sometimes I

574
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:58,639
Speaker 4: just don't feel like talking, or I'll be like on

575
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 4: my way here, or I will be like in a

576
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 4: meeting or something, so I'll be feeling bad and I

577
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 4: don't be wanting hurt her films, or sometimes you'll call

578
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 4: me and I'm not doing nothing, but you know, sometimes

579
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 4: you just be chilling and you don't feel like talking.

580
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 4: So it's kind of like hard for me to be like, yo,

581
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 4: I don't feel like talking right now, so I just

582
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 4: be like, hey, girl around at work and I'm okay,

583
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:18,439
Speaker 4: big and you don't never call her beg sorry, she

584
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 4: don't watch this shit anymore, she don't.

585
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: I hope that.

586
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 3: We're spilling a lot of to eat this episode. A

587
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 3: lot of people, a lot of people not gonna fuck

588
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 3: with us no more.

589
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 2: That's cool.

590
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 1: I don't fuck with nobody anyway. You see my phone

591
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: not going off because everybody got text in this room.

592
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 1: I got no fucking friends. Okay, I'm it, bitch. I'm

593
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: not about to play with you.

594
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 3: But yeah, you have to start putting yourself first, then

595
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 3: maybe you won't have to lie.

596
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: Put myself first. I do put myself first.

597
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 3: Down, if you you just said that, you be lying

598
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 3: because you don't be wanting to hurt somebody feeling.

599
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 1: Right, but don't hurt me to lie.

600
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 2: I'm not like, oh my god, I feel so bad.

601
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: I hang up that phone and go right back to sleep,

602
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: sleep like a baby.

603
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 3: I do try to do is be like, no, I

604
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 3: don't like, I don't really feel like talking about text

605
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 3: and why y'all just send a text and be like, oh,

606
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 3: I'm busy.

607
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 1: Because I don't be busy, so it is busy because

608
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: you need your risk.

609
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:24,880
Speaker 2: I mean, I do. I do.

610
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna work on it.

611
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 4: Like I said, I'm going to work on it because

612
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 4: I'm getting to the points where I.

613
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: May relate y'all.

614
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 3: Every time I call it, she answered the phone, and

615
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 3: if she don't.

616
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: She called right back. You do.

617
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 3: I literally can't recall the time that I've had to

618
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 3: call you, like more than twice.

619
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 4: I mean, like some people I do have to answer

620
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 4: the phone for because you know, it's more than.

621
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: No emergency most of the time. But she's still but

622
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: you could be talking. I mean, we have a whole

623
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: business together. Though. If I'm calling, God, I knew it

624
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 1: was my I'm.

625
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:12,159
Speaker 3: Just tagment now, okay, I'm lying. No more lying, okay,

626
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 3: no more lying.

627
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: Okay. So the next topic I wanted to talk about today.

628
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 4: I wanted to talk about issues that with our parents

629
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 4: that we had growing up, because I feel like a

630
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 4: lot of times, especially at this age, we're in that

631
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 4: time frame now where like parents people that are having

632
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,679
Speaker 4: kids now are like born in the nineties and you know,

633
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 4: like you know, our friends are parents now and things

634
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 4: like that, So parenting styles are a lot different than

635
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 4: how we were raised, you know what I'm saying. Like,

636
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 4: I feel like now parents are like open to not

637
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 4: whooping their kids, like my sister doesn't whoop my nephews.

638
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 4: They're open to like doing therapy with their children and

639
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 4: stuff like that, and our parents don't be like.

640
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: That at all.

641
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, fact, like I feel like me and my mom

642
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 4: definitely would benefit from therapy. I felt like that at

643
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 4: one point, but now I'm just kind of like, Okay,

644
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 4: she don't. She ain't gonna change.

645
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 3: I told my mama we shook go to therapy, and

646
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 3: she said for what. Then I was like, I feel

647
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 3: like we have issues that need to be resolved. She's

648
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 3: talking about you gonna pay for it.

649
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: I'm dead, And then that's the two.

650
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:19,959
Speaker 3: That I'll go if you pay for it. But I mean,

651
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 3: I don't really see no points. I'm like, so you're

652
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 3: not gonna be being vulnerable right because you don't really

653
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 3: want to go.

654
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: My mom told me, she was like, you need therapy.

655
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: I'm good.

656
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 3: She my mama said the same thing she said about you,

657
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 3: the one that got the problem.

658
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 1: And that's what they always said. I'd have been in

659
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 1: this world for fifty something years. I know what the.

660
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 4: Hell I'm doing. You don't you the one with three dollars?

661
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 4: I said, hold on, bitch, hold on. Now you're getting personal,

662
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 4: you know.

663
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 3: What I'm saying, Like my mom, I love my mom

664
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 3: to death, but you can't tell her nothing like she

665
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 3: just know that she got life figured out, just because

666
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: you know, she retired living in her big house and

667
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 3: you just can't tell her nothing about anything, like she

668
00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 3: just feels like she is.

669
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 4: She felt like she was just the perfect mother. And

670
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 4: I think one is the perfect mother. But I think

671
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 4: we realized that as adults. Like growing up, I did

672
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 4: think my mom was like this perfect person, and I like,

673
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 4: I still look up to my mom, but I just

674
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 4: looked at her like she was a super a superhuman,

675
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 4: like a superhero. But now becoming an adult, I'd be

676
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 4: like thinking about some conversations we had she that she did.

677
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, hold on, bitch, you probably shouldn't have said

678
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: that to me. I love my mama, but I always

679
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: knew she wasn't perfect.

680
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:34,239
Speaker 3: Yeah see yeah, like I mean cause it just used

681
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 3: to be certain stuff that, like we would have conversations about,

682
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 3: and I just knew she was lying, Like I'd be like, girl,

683
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:41,239
Speaker 3: are you lying? I need to say this, but in

684
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 3: my mind in common but in my mind, I used

685
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 3: to be like, she lying, And then conversations with other

686
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 3: people in the family, then I'd be like, dang, she

687
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 3: really was lying, but you but she swear that she

688
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 3: was telling the truth. I indeed, And my mama is

689
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 3: like one of them people where it's like she just

690
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 3: if she didn't do something, she can't understand or accept

691
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 3: that you're just different, so you might have chose to

692
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 3: do something different from hugs, like it's twenty of a

693
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 3: sheet that I unded, Like I couldn't name a laundry

694
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 3: least the sheet that I did growing up that my

695
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 3: mom will probably never did. But when I would do,

696
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 3: she instead of her just being kind of understanding like Okay,

697
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 3: you're a teenager, you're just trying to find your way,

698
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 3: and she she will always be like, I would never

699
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 3: do that.

700
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: You didn't tell me that.

701
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 4: Your mom kind of felt like she's like the perfect. Yeah,

702
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 4: she don't smoke, she don't she don't do none of that.

703
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 4: She don't have no tattoos, she don't do none of that.

704
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 4: So I just feel like, yeah, like she just would

705
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 4: always be like I would never do that.

706
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 3: I would never do that. Why you want to do that?

707
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 3: And it's just like people are different. Me and you

708
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 3: are two different people. Why you can't just accept that

709
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 3: we different?

710
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 5: Right?

711
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: Why you gotta try to make me feel bad for

712
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: being different.

713
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 2: From the decisions you made.

714
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: I like that's how my mom is too.

715
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 4: Like when I just decided to pop up and moved

716
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 4: to Atlanta, she was like, no, and you need to

717
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,239
Speaker 4: go to school and do this and do that and

718
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 4: get this degree.

719
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, watch her degree.

720
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 4: I mean yeah, but she wanted me to go back

721
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 4: to school and she wanted me to go on this

722
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 4: like right path. I'm like, no, I want to talk

723
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 4: about sucking dick and every Monday, that's what I want.

724
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: To do one PM.

725
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 3: I want to talk about sucking dick and daty Richmond,

726
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 3: and she's like, I mean, of course, if you tell

727
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 3: somebody that, they're not gonna she didn't see them. She

728
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 3: wasn't fucking with the vision. She was like, well, what

729
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,479
Speaker 3: are you gonna do? I said, well, listen, So what

730
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do is I'm gonna talk about it. Na

731
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 3: As first, you don't slide him in there real easy.

732
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 2: But she wasn't feeling it.

733
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I feel like my mama was the same

734
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 3: way too. She really used to see the vgion At first.

735
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 3: Neither were like poor mind. She was like, what are

736
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 3: you doing?

737
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm dad, you have a degree.

738
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 3: And even when I was why are you a bartender?

739
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 3: Why are you in the club's bartending? Why are you

740
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:02,479
Speaker 3: wearing those little out she just did not understand what

741
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 3: the fuck I was doing. But then also because they

742
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 3: come from a different generation, not realizing okay, you're talking

743
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 3: she about me wearing these little outfits bar teading. But

744
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 3: I'm making in a week with people. Why I'm making

745
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 3: in two nights with people, not even making in two weeks. Yeah,

746
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 3: they're honestly you know what I mean. And it's like, yeah,

747
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 3: of course I have a degree. I can easily go

748
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 3: and get a nine to five job. But I'm talking

749
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 3: twenty three. I just got my degree. I don't have

750
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 3: no work experience. I'm about to be making fifteen dollars

751
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 3: of hobword and I'm about to have to work forty

752
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 3: hours a week and I would get ten off days,

753
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 3: ten vacations a year.

754
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: You got me fucked up. I'm not doing this shit.

755
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 3: And they also don't realize like times are different, Like

756
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 3: there's literally people getting paid millions of dollars just to

757
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 3: make pasts on Instagram, right, So it's like they don't

758
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 3: understand that at all.

759
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 4: Like my mom don't understand nothing. She's like, you are

760
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 4: so poor, you need to move back to Houston. I'm like,

761
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 4: I'm actually doing well for my riff. She's like, no,

762
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 4: you see what your sister her is doing. It's like

763
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 4: my sister works in the hospital. She has a very

764
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 4: good job.

765
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I don't want to do that shit. Yeah,

766
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 1: you know.

767
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,839
Speaker 3: I feel like she's just now really honestly, just now

768
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 3: being more supportive because she seems like I'm not I'm

769
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 3: not gonna get off the internet.

770
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna this is your career. This is what

771
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do.

772
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 4: But I now I feel more comfortable talking to her,

773
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 4: like about the other things that I plan on doing

774
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 4: with it, Like you know this, we're not gonna be

775
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 4: doing poor minds forever, you know what I'm saying. But

776
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 4: it's just like it's gonna lead to other things. So

777
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 4: now I think she's being more open to understanding that.

778
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: But I think something that I've had.

779
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 4: To come to terms with as an adult is like,

780
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,320
Speaker 4: my mom's just not gonna change.

781
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 1: So it's like I've had to learn.

782
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 4: To kind of just accept her for who she is,

783
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 4: and when I can't deal with it, I just don't

784
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 4: deal with it. I used to feel so much pressure, like, oh,

785
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 4: I have to talk to her all the time every day,

786
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,240
Speaker 4: but it's like sometimes that should be getting on my nerves.

787
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: I feel like that too, though.

788
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 3: I feel like I have had to come to terms

789
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:57,760
Speaker 3: with the fact that my mom isn't gonna change either.

790
00:34:58,200 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 3: But then when I don't talk to her, she makes

791
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 3: me feel bad and be like girl, nice, bro, I

792
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 3: don't even want to I ain't gonna even do her Like.

793
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 3: I love your mom, though, but you have to realize,

794
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:18,720
Speaker 3: like you know, and their like every anytime my friends

795
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 3: meet her, people and it's it's literally been my whole life.

796
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 3: Like everybody is like, oh, your mom is so nice,

797
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 3: bro okay, but I would rather have my mom will

798
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 3: call me and be like, I'm on Instagram, I'm scrolling,

799
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 3: I see Drea coaching. I'll be like, first of all,

800
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 3: I had to block my mom first of all, your

801
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 3: mom commented under when I when we posted that boomerang

802
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 3: of the taste peels, she commented, and she said, with

803
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 3: them taste like I want some.

804
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 1: Embarrassing. But I love that about.

805
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 3: Your mom's always you feel like the grass is greener

806
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 3: on the other side, I love the fact that your

807
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 3: mommy is like so into like and like what we

808
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 3: be doing.

809
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 1: Like she's always liking our pictures. She likes all of

810
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:13,280
Speaker 1: my pictures.

811
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 3: She's always looking at but she always one of the

812
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 3: first people to view my other story. She always responded,

813
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 3: she'd be seeing the hard eyes when I postpeechs and

814
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 3: stuff like I don't love your mom, And sometimes I

815
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 3: be wishing that my mom was more like take savvy and.

816
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 1: But see that's kind of like the bad ticken.

817
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 4: She'd be all of my businesses the block her like,

818
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 4: I'll still let her be friends with me on Facebook

819
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 4: because I don't be on Facebook.

820
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 2: Like I went on her page.

821
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 3: And she was like, y'all check out my baby on

822
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:51,800
Speaker 3: the eighty five south Side. I said, she'd be drying.

823
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: I love that. I love that. Like I feel like

824
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: me and my mom had a conversation about that. I

825
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 1: feel like I always wanted to have, like, like a.

826
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 2: Cool mom, not a regular mom. I'm a cool mom.

827
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: I feel like some people have such cool mom.

828
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 3: Oh, it's like in between.

829
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 2: She is, but she isn't.

830
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 3: Like, for example, my best friend Jordan, I always thought

831
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 3: his mom is so cool, and she really is.

832
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 4: I think it's good to have that good balance, yeah,

833
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:25,280
Speaker 4: because like sometimes you have like I have a friend

834
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 4: her mom is super super cool, but she like her homegirl.

835
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: But it's like sometimes you want that. I got a

836
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: friend like that too.

837
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, like sometimes you gonna want that motherly advice, that

838
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 4: mom parent kind of point of view. So I feel

839
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 4: like my mom has a good balance. But like I said,

840
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 4: she begin on my nerves. I feel like she doesn't

841
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 4: realize like, ma'am, I'm thirty one. She will blow up

842
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 4: my phone.

843
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: Did you vote? Did you vote?

844
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 2: Have you voted?

845
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm thirty one, why are you like checking up

846
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 3: on me like I'm a kid?

847
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 4: Like she really in her mind, I feel like I'm

848
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:56,919
Speaker 4: still six years old.

849
00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 3: I feel like that about my mom too, though, because

850
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 3: I feel like the whole time that she was like

851
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 3: out here visiting me, I think I was telling you,

852
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 3: like the other day, how like she would like make

853
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 3: me breakfast and you you know, like those little TikTok

854
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 3: videos that were going viral of like the parents making

855
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 3: their kids those.

856
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: Little lunchits and they had like the.

857
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 3: Little compartments, and she, my mom would literally make me

858
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 3: breakfast every morning and like cut my food up into

859
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 3: little pieces. No seriously, but I thought it was so weird.

860
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:28,839
Speaker 1: Every morning and you was eating that motherfucker. Sometimes I did.

861
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 3: Sometimes I'd be like, I don't want this, just like.

862
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: I just would go put in this toilet.

863
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 2: Put it on a toilet. You were so weird.

864
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: I was that weird.

865
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 3: Why would you put food in the toilet and bludh

866
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 3: it down the toilet?

867
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you just throw it?

868
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: She was in the living room, and I didn't want

869
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,720
Speaker 1: to hurt her feelings. Oh so I cannot hurt people feelings.

870
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: Why did you tell the truth?

871
00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 3: You saying to your friends and other people. So I'm

872
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 3: a lot of my mama because her feelings matter. Oh,

873
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 3: my my friends matter too. So maybe that's what I

874
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:12,359
Speaker 3: tell my friends the truthful out of the time, because

875
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 3: I feel like they feel this don't matter as much

876
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 3: as my mom was hypocrite. No, it's not that it's

877
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 3: just certain people I am. But that's not lying to

878
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 3: my mom. It's not lying because she don't ask me

879
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 3: about it because she don't know. I just go flihy,

880
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 3: put the plate.

881
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: Like I ate it.

882
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 2: Why didn't you eat it?

883
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 1: It was nasty.

884
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 3: It's not that it was nasty, but like she would

885
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 3: make the same thing every day, so I would just

886
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 3: get tired of eating egg.

887
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 4: Do you get you don't never get tired of eating

888
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 4: the same thing every day? And I do not get tired.

889
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just you know, sometimes I would just get

890
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:47,839
Speaker 3: tired of eating the same thing.

891
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 4: Okay, So yes, I just feel like we are raising

892
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 4: our children different. I know, like, whenever I have kids,

893
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 4: I'm probably not gonna want my kids either because my

894
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 4: nephew and me either. My nephew is so well behaved,

895
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 4: then my sister does not whoop him like he's just

896
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,720
Speaker 4: a good kid. I feel like, you know, parenting styles

897
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 4: have definitely changed, but I do.

898
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 3: Feel like I'm gonna apologize to my kids. My mom

899
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 3: has an issue apologizing to me. When I tell her

900
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 3: that she's done things to hurt my feelings, she'd be like,

901
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 3: I ain't do that, I ain't say that. So I'm

902
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 3: just pulling it out my ass, like you did do that,

903
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 3: you did say that, And then how you're gonna tell

904
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 3: me how I feel? Well, I didn't hurt your feelings. Yeah,

905
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 3: how you gonna tell me my feelings?

906
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 4: My mom's thing is I'll tell her that she hurt

907
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 4: my feelings or she said something that bothered me and

908
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 4: she was like, She'll be like, oh, what you doing?

909
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: My mam gonna do the science thing.

910
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,959
Speaker 3: She'll try to change the topic, or she'll be like, well,

911
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 3: I apologize fantastically and it's like this, she'd be like

912
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 3: a week cool again, no, because you didn't.

913
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 1: Even mean that.

914
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 3: She.

915
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 1: I'm fucking good with the fuck bro and not be

916
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: getting mad all up here.

917
00:40:56,960 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 3: I'm Bubby Field with so much rain.

918
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:03,880
Speaker 1: The boat tops U.

919
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 3: God, she be making me so mad, and so I

920
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 3: just feel like when I have kids, I want to

921
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 3: normalize apologizing to my kids. It's nothing wrong with apologizing, yeah,

922
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 3: very and just because they're a child, or just because

923
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 3: because even in well, in our situation, we're not children anymore,

924
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 3: but our parents still look at us that way. But

925
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 3: it's like even though we way younger than you, it's

926
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 3: like you're still you still do wrong. She like, you're

927
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 3: not always right because you're older or because you're the parent.

928
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 2: Right, that is very, very true.

929
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of times they feel like

930
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 4: just because they're older and they live.

931
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: I mean I'm the parent. Yeah, Like, don't get me wrong,

932
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:45,720
Speaker 1: Like everybody cares you.

933
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 3: You've been through a lot, You are wise there, you

934
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 3: know things, and that's why I was saying, you know,

935
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 3: you're gonna get that motherly advice. But it's like, Si,

936
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 3: sometimes you be wrong, like she was. Do you ever

937
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 3: tell her that she made up?

938
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,439
Speaker 4: Like when I first when I went on my first

939
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:01,760
Speaker 4: big trip, when I went to Paris with my little BDB.

940
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,439
Speaker 4: At the time, she was making such a big deal

941
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,280
Speaker 4: like don't go Biness.

942
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,280
Speaker 2: Says, you don't know nothing about this BDB lifestyle.

943
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 1: Stay where you at.

944
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 4: My choke business, Like it's just we live in a

945
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 4: different time, like dating back then wasn't how like dating

946
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 4: is now. So I feel like as far as like

947
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 4: the way she dates, the things that she does, like

948
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 4: I don't want to take dating advice from.

949
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 3: You, Like, well, don't even get me started, Like you

950
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 3: don't even get me started, bro, don't even started on

951
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 3: that sheet right there, Like, don't get me wrong.

952
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:35,320
Speaker 4: My dad was very much a BDB. But like I said,

953
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 4: that was a different time, like a different well.

954
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 3: I was more so talking about because like my mama

955
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 3: got married when she was twenty seven or whatever, so

956
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 3: obviously it's like I'm already older than that and I'm

957
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 3: still not married. And so she just be like, I

958
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 3: don't understand what you be out here doing. Bright the

959
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,800
Speaker 3: ball girl, it ain't for you to understand. And it

960
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 3: ain't show business what I'm out here doing. Y'all here,

961
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 3: mind and mind? Why need you help me paying me bills?

962
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 3: No worry about y'all still But no, Yeah, she'd just

963
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 3: be like, I don't understand. She was like, I just

964
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 3: feel like you don't be She was like, oh, let

965
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 3: me tell you what happened. So while she was out here,

966
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 3: one day we had went to the grocery store. We

967
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 3: went to publics and like, this guy was staring at me, right,

968
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 3: so I'm not paying no attention to him. I'm still

969
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 3: getting what I need to get out the little freeze

970
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 3: of section, not paying no attention to this nigga.

971
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: Right.

972
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 3: He walked over there and he asked my mom like

973
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 3: some shit like he says, how how you doing.

974
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:38,720
Speaker 1: To my mom? And my mom was like, I'm good, y'all,

975
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 1: y'all gotta hear my mama, I'm doing that voice right.

976
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 3: She was like I'm good, and he was like, well,

977
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 3: I just wanted to tell you that your daughter is beautiful,

978
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 3: so you know, I'm like, bro.

979
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 1: He tried. He tried to go in with the mom,

980
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 1: but she was.

981
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 3: Mean nice like she was being so friendly. She was

982
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 3: like thank you, and then he was, well, no, he

983
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 3: didn't even say yo, do her. He said, I just

984
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,839
Speaker 3: wanted to tell you that's your sister, you know, damn well,

985
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:06,320
Speaker 3: this ain't my motherfucking.

986
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 2: So mom is beautiful.

987
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: She is, but he knew she wasn't my sister.

988
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 3: I was saying like she's a old like when she's

989
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:15,720
Speaker 3: an older woman.

990
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: So she was like thank you, and then she was like,

991
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: but that's my daughter. But I picked what he doing? Bro?

992
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 3: Game?

993
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: I see what the fuck going on? Right? So she

994
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: like thank you, and he like he was like is

995
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 1: she single? And my mom was like, well, you need

996
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 1: to ask her. Jreah come over here, and I'm like, oh,

997
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 1: my fucking god. And so it wasn't.

998
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 3: No, he wasn't giving me no type of nigga that

999
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,439
Speaker 3: I wanted to fuck with at all types of vibes.

1000
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 3: But she was talking to him and being friendly with him,

1001
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 3: so she made him feel comfortable to have a conversation

1002
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 3: with me, and I didn't want to just be no bitch.

1003
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:00,880
Speaker 3: But then he was it all like, oh, can I

1004
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 3: follow you on Instagram? And I was like, yeah, you

1005
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 3: could follow me on Instagram? And I just walked away

1006
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 3: and I was like, why.

1007
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 1: Did you do this? So she got she was like

1008
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: I was, I was just being nice.

1009
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 3: Why you can't be nice to people? But why was

1010
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 3: you talking to that nigga? I knew he was gonna

1011
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 3: try to holler at me?

1012
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: Why did you do that?

1013
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 2: She gotta be down with the game.

1014
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,919
Speaker 3: She just don't be understanding game. And that's why because

1015
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 3: you got married to them early.

1016
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's the same with my mom because

1017
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 4: my mom got married when she was like nineteen twenty.

1018
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 3: And my mom only dated one other guy before my dad,

1019
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 3: So it's like, so cause twenty seven, honestly, that's not

1020
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 3: really that young to get married.

1021
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: But she only dated like maybe one.

1022
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 3: She was only in like one other relationship, you know

1023
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 3: what I mean, before she married my dad. And I

1024
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 3: just like, she'll be having no game. She did not

1025
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 3: know how the game goes, because clearly he was plotting.

1026
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 3: And he said, you up and you feel for the

1027
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 3: from he said, your sister, that's a good one.

1028
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 1: Niggas be trying it.

1029
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 2: They are so bright, and he.

1030
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 1: Knew I wouldn't go fuck with him.

1031
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 3: That's why he tried to go through my mama. I

1032
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 3: was so mad, y'all, but stay doing it. She stay

1033
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 3: having conversations with people, and need to just be like, girl,

1034
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:11,760
Speaker 3: you're too freely.

1035
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 2: We'll shout out to borrow. She'd be trying. We still

1036
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 2: love some barber.

1037
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get.

1038
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 3: Into the be ay ay.

1039
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 4: So today I wanted to talk about when is the

1040
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 4: appropriate time to stop using condoms. She when you're dealing

1041
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 4: with somebody drag up.

1042
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: Now we have to properly inform people. We do, so when.

1043
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 4: Is the appropriate time to stop using condoms when you're

1044
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 4: in a situation I feel like we didn't.

1045
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:54,919
Speaker 3: How it come out, Bro, don't act like that ain't

1046
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 3: how it happened.

1047
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 1: That ain't how it happened majority of the time.

1048
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 3: But I'm saying when like, I don't know, I feel

1049
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 3: like what it happens. But I do feel like you

1050
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,760
Speaker 3: need to have that conversation with somebody before the condom

1051
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 3: comes off.

1052
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: Absolutely, I'm not saying you don't need to talk.

1053
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 3: To no First of all, you talk about a conversation, conversation,

1054
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 3: It don't be a conversation, nigga, just be like I

1055
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 3: take this who off in the middle of fucking Nah.

1056
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 3: Sometimes it doesn't be in a conversation. It has But

1057
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 3: I feel like, too, you can have a conversation with

1058
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 3: a nigga about shit like that before y'all ever even

1059
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 3: start having seid. Okay, you ain't never talked to a

1060
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 3: dude about, like many people, he having sex, we like,

1061
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 3: if he fucking with somebody. Seriously, when's the last time

1062
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,360
Speaker 3: he got tested? You don't never talked to nobody.

1063
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 4: About that before you I'm not gonna lie like this

1064
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 4: situation like we definitely had that conversation because it was

1065
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:46,879
Speaker 4: just kind of like, I'm not gonna lie though we

1066
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 4: had sex one time without a condom, and then we

1067
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 4: had the conversation cause it was like, hold on, what

1068
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 4: are we about to do? Am I about to get

1069
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 4: on birth control? When was the last time you got tested?

1070
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 4: Are you fucking other people?

1071
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 3: Like?

1072
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 1: What are we doing?

1073
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 4: Cuz you know, it's it's hard to stop you using

1074
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 4: a condom and start using condoms again, Like once you

1075
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 4: take that condom off, you really don't want to go back.

1076
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 2: To using one.

1077
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:09,439
Speaker 4: So it's like I fucked up in that situation because

1078
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 4: we had sex without the condom first, But sometimes you get.

1079
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 3: And that's what I was about to say. It's kind

1080
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 3: of like, damn, but you make me feel bad, bitch.

1081
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 3: We like, I know, we're supposed to be politically correct,

1082
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 3: were supposed to say certain ship, but it's just like

1083
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 3: realistically speaking, bitch, we human, like sometimes that shit just

1084
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:25,760
Speaker 3: doesn't happy.

1085
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,319
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't. I ain't saying that y'all should be

1086
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: like me. No, I'm not. I wasn't. I wasn't.

1087
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 3: I'm sad that sometimes, like yeah, when especially when I

1088
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 3: was younger, that shit just would happen, and then you

1089
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 3: end up having a conversation later.

1090
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 1: Like you said, it'd be like, okay, she y'all wake up.

1091
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 3: The next morning you'd be like, so are you no

1092
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 3: the fuck now?

1093
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: It was just me, can you feel up to not

1094
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: when you take off that condom? I'm like, we're making

1095
00:48:59,560 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 1: so weak?

1096
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 2: So we love.

1097
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 3: I just don't know, bro, But it's like sometimes you

1098
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 3: just you'll be happy to have that conversation after the fact,

1099
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 3: he will be like, so.

1100
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 1: So you like niggas.

1101
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 3: And then a lot of time too, you be dreading

1102
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:18,320
Speaker 3: having a conversation with a nigga cause you'd be like,

1103
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 3: I'm just about to have the way I'm been thought

1104
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 3: to go get tested three months, nigga, everything is fine.

1105
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 1: This is what nigga go lie. Niggas gonna be like, Man,

1106
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 1: I ain't fucking nobody else wrong.

1107
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 3: And then not only that, you're getting tested and you good,

1108
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,879
Speaker 3: and nigga donna think he good that too.

1109
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 1: Niggas do not be getting tested like that.

1110
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 3: Niggas ain't been to the doctor since nineteen sixty three weeks.

1111
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: Niggas do not we walking like she when the last

1112
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 1: time you gotta testing. Oh I'm good. They really do

1113
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 1: not like you because I'm not to only be too fucky.

1114
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: But I'll say this.

1115
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 4: I feel like when I was younger, I was definitely

1116
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:01,799
Speaker 4: more careless. But now it's like, as I've become, you know,

1117
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 4: smarter and wiser. I just I am the condom queen hunt.

1118
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 4: I do not be playing that ship.

1119
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:08,799
Speaker 1: I don't play that ship neither.

1120
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 2: I do not be playing that ship.

1121
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:12,839
Speaker 4: But like I said, I feel like the appropriate time

1122
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:16,280
Speaker 4: is when you definitely do have a conversation. I feel like, sometimes,

1123
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 4: you know, ship do happen and you get caught up

1124
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 4: in a rapture in the moment she happens.

1125
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 3: But niggas be niggas be you falling for the okie

1126
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 3: dough every time.

1127
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: But that's how babies be happening.

1128
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 4: You don't want to get Look, I told y'all, I

1129
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 4: got a whole section in heaven.

1130
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 2: You don't want to be like me.

1131
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 4: All my kids just up there like damn you could

1132
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 4: have had us.

1133
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 1: Bro. They gonna jump you when you get up there.

1134
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 4: Bro, as soon as I walk through the gates, right, Julia,

1135
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be out that hole.

1136
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: Sent me to hell. Fuck that ship. Hell, But that

1137
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 1: you ain't even them a fair proper check. But I'm

1138
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 1: saying that's why you gotta use comums. Don't be like me.

1139
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 1: I go through, I go through. I went through a

1140
00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:09,399
Speaker 1: lot of shit in life.

1141
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 3: I feel like I went through a lot of being

1142
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 3: So I can put y'all on game and let y'all know,

1143
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 3: y'all don't got to go through what lex P went through.

1144
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: Now you know, there's no I feel.

1145
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 4: Like, at this time and day and age, there's no

1146
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 4: reason you should be getting pregnant on accident.

1147
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 2: There's no reason.

1148
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

1149
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 3: Like seriously, if you're keeping up with your period, when

1150
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 3: you're ovulating, you're using protection, you and your manner having conversations,

1151
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 3: It's like, if you really think about it, there's really

1152
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:41,360
Speaker 3: like you shouldn't because it's like even like if you

1153
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 3: don't like taking breath control pills, because I don't really

1154
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 3: like to take breath control pills, don't, Yeah, well, I

1155
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 3: I just feel.

1156
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:56,280
Speaker 1: Like they make they made me gain weight.

1157
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 3: I just it's a lot of different things that I

1158
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 3: just didn't like, the certain side effics whatever from taking

1159
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 3: break control pills so I track my period or whatever.

1160
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 1: So when I'm in.

1161
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,839
Speaker 3: A serious situation and I'm talking with somebody and we're

1162
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 3: not using a condom. I track my ovulation so that

1163
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:13,719
Speaker 3: I just know, like, no, you can't shoot the club.

1164
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:16,240
Speaker 1: Up to I shoot the club.

1165
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 3: You a nasty little freeze twinkie.

1166
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:25,240
Speaker 1: Not a twinkie.

1167
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 4: You're more like a ding dong because I'm.

1168
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 1: But no, for real.

1169
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 3: So it's like, it's so many ways that you can

1170
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:39,439
Speaker 3: like prevent pregnancy and stuff. And also you know it's

1171
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:43,400
Speaker 3: TDS too. Yeah, I mean that's the major thing in cloud.

1172
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 1: They don't be having a cloud. Oh lord, it's just

1173
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 1: too much, and keep your ass away from me. That's

1174
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1175
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 4: It's just too much between STDs and even worse, a

1176
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 4: baby like a baby.

1177
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 1: Bro, a baby's not worse.

1178
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 3: And then it's I ain't seen some little ad that

1179
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 3: came up on Instagram earlier today, he said, like the

1180
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 3: different types of discharge.

1181
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 1: He said pink, yellow, white, green.

1182
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 3: I said green, having no green coochie juice.

1183
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: That is devastating. No, I said green.

1184
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 3: I swear to God, out of about almost thirty years

1185
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 3: of living, I ain't never seen letting green come out

1186
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 3: my kouchie green.

1187
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

1188
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: But that's why I said, people be out here wiling. No,

1189
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: you definitely willing Green Beach.

1190
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 4: So yes, keep keep the connum on. Unlets y'all have

1191
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 4: a conversation, not the broccoli.

1192
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 2: You were disgusting, stupid that.

1193
00:53:50,719 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 1: You not by your boo boop green bro That was that?

1194
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 1: That was not okay, Okay, okay, that's enough. Now go

1195
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:21,720
Speaker 1: to the damn doc. We can't never take she serious.

1196
00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 1: Let me try to have serious discussions with people.

1197
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 3: All I'm trying to say is protect Okay, keep the

1198
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 3: column on until y'all have had a conversation.

1199
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 2: I agree.

1200
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 4: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the bop dub hey.

1201
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: B because I don't think I got one.

1202
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 3: Okay, well you do your bop next then leading to

1203
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 3: that so one thing, y'all.

1204
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 4: I have been just discovering I have a lot of

1205
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 4: bops this week I do.

1206
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 3: First of all, let me go look on my my myles. Well,

1207
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:57,879
Speaker 3: this is not necessarily my box of the week.

1208
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 4: I just want to talk about these works that projects

1209
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 4: that have dropped.

1210
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: First of all, I waited, and I waited.

1211
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 3: I kept pushing it off, but I listened to t

1212
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 3: I's album and it's so good.

1213
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:11,800
Speaker 1: Is he Bro that whole five. That's who I be.

1214
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 1: A rubber band. Rubber band man did what he had

1215
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 1: to do this Taliban.

1216
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:28,319
Speaker 3: Right, I said, I still got it, Bro. I was like,

1217
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 3: like pleasantly surprised. I was like, okay, he's still yeah.

1218
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 3: So t I's album was good. Marion dropped the project

1219
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 3: that was.

1220
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 1: Super really super solid, super solid.

1221
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 4: That's actually gonna be my first bob for the week.

1222
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 4: He has a song with t Pain called can You

1223
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 4: Hear Me? And it's really good.

1224
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:46,919
Speaker 2: I like it.

1225
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 1: I fuck with a Marion.

1226
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,479
Speaker 4: I hate when people say like R and B is dead,

1227
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:52,319
Speaker 4: because it's really not.

1228
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 2: You're just not looking for music.

1229
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,799
Speaker 4: R and B is not mainstream anymore, so you have

1230
00:55:56,880 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 4: to go and really like sit down and find these artist.

1231
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:01,400
Speaker 1: So I agree.

1232
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 4: My main bop of the week is a song by

1233
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 4: Tiana Major nine. I found her because she got nominated

1234
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:11,720
Speaker 4: for a Grammy for this song that she has called Collide,

1235
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 4: and I had never heard of her, so I'm like,

1236
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,279
Speaker 4: let me go, you know, dig deep and find her.

1237
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 2: She is fucking amazing.

1238
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 4: She wrote some songs for Beyonce, so she has a

1239
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 4: song called same Space. She's an R and B singer.

1240
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 4: She's from London. The London girls don't be playing.

1241
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 1: I love people from London. I don't know what the

1242
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 1: fuck be going on in London. House sing nodes can

1243
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: sing and they be getting their heart broke.

1244
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 3: Them niggas be fucking y'all up over there cause they.

1245
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 1: Be fucking singing.

1246
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:41,360
Speaker 3: I'd be like, yeah they do, because baby, let me

1247
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 3: tell you about a deal. Hey, how she done got

1248
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,360
Speaker 3: me through some time? Now, nigga did her sorrow. She

1249
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,800
Speaker 3: went and got some black dig You know how fucked

1250
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 3: up of a man you have to be to send somebody.

1251
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:51,720
Speaker 1: To some niggas.

1252
00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 3: No, not really, because they be wanting black niggas anyways,

1253
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 3: they be wanting niggas anyway.

1254
00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying, but Adelea, I have never known her today.

1255
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 1: You know, black meat. You ain't never known a lot

1256
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 1: of them too until they do.

1257
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 2: That is true. But yeah, that's my TIAI.

1258
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 1: Did a lotto so y'all have a major nine same space.

1259
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's my bop of the week.

1260
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 2: What's your the week's is?

1261
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 1: Oh god, so you know that was since I was

1262
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: a little girl or whatever. No, I'm just kidding, but

1263
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 1: now y'all know me.

1264
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 3: And LCK said we wanted to start dissecting lyrics to like,

1265
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 3: you know, popular songs that we like, ship that we

1266
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 3: listened to, coming up different little songs or whatever. So

1267
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 3: we hit dissect songs on the show with I talking

1268
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 3: about Trina the Bad This is when I knew. This

1269
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 3: is when I knew.

1270
00:57:53,080 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: But I'm not living my life like I got a

1271
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 1: regular pussy. I was like seven, like, yeah, bitch, we

1272
00:57:58,040 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 1: don't want to work.

1273
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 3: But that's why it's crazy that people be trying to

1274
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 3: give so so much props to like a lot of

1275
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 3: female represents out now, because it's like, no, no, to

1276
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 3: not forget our girl, Jackie O the Queen. We're gonna

1277
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 3: have to go stick that song on the next don't

1278
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 3: do that one on the next episode. Okay, so do

1279
00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 3: the third verse. That's the good verse. Okay, So I

1280
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 3: wanted to do Trina the Baddest Bitch lyrics. Okay, so

1281
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 3: I got game for you young hoes. Don't grow to

1282
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 3: be a dumb hole. That's a no no.

1283
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 1: What do you think that means? I know we're gonna stop.

1284
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: So this is what Trina brand us.

1285
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 4: Okay, she put us on a bad b We just

1286
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 4: passing down the knowledge right, I got game for you

1287
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 4: young holes. Okay, because we know, like I'm twenty one.

1288
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 1: I got game for you, young hole.

1289
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 2: Come on, go ahead, fish.

1290
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: A stott, grow to be a dumb hoe. That's don't know.

1291
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 3: See if you off the chain, stay ahead of the game,

1292
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 3: save up and buy a condo.

1293
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 2: That's a good point. Let me tell y'all something.

1294
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 3: I want to say something because somebody had commented on

1295
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 3: both of our shit the other day and they was like,

1296
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 3: y'all always want to be bragging about what these niggas

1297
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,440
Speaker 3: doing for y'all, But y'all ain't got no uh designer

1298
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 3: on no change.

1299
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:25,640
Speaker 1: No this.

1300
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 4: First of all, if a nigga gives you money and

1301
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 4: you go and buy stuff that depreciates in value, you're dumb.

1302
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 1: When a man gives you.

1303
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 3: Money, you're supposed to invest that towards a business, a home,

1304
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 3: a condo.

1305
00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 1: The game is right here, The game is right.

1306
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 3: But yeah, Also, to let me say something real quick,

1307
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 3: because that's why I'll never be just even responding to

1308
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 3: sit like that when I see that, because like, how

1309
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 3: do people do?

1310
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 1: People do? I think people really think you do? Got

1311
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 1: three dollars for real? You'll never know.

1312
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:57,919
Speaker 3: But and then on top of that, like any time

1313
00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:00,919
Speaker 3: I invest money in the stock or anytime I do anything,

1314
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 3: am I supposed to get on?

1315
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, am I supposed to get on? That

1316
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 1: pussy bus stops? Your pussy could never come on?

1317
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, anytime that we do those type

1318
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 3: of things, or we do anything with our money, are

1319
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 3: we are if the lex is saving up to get

1320
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 3: a house, because nobody knows if she's saving up. I

1321
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 3: mean I probably know, but y'all don't know if she

1322
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 3: is saving up to get a house and she's supposed

1323
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:24,000
Speaker 3: to get on. Poor minds to be like, oh, I'm saying,

1324
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:27,920
Speaker 3: our girl I saved forty man's already like y'all weird

1325
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 3: at FuG if y'all really think that people can't have

1326
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 3: or can't buy certain things like anyways, anyways, come on

1327
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 3: Amazon putting next topic, set a pussy by the grants

1328
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 3: and in a month you'll are on the Bens after

1329
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 3: a week of set a rim rims.

1330
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:47,200
Speaker 1: Though, if you ain't got the benz.

1331
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 4: Well, first of all, no, she said, bought a bottle

1332
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 4: of Bens in the week get the rims. Oh say

1333
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 4: this is after about the condo now you need a

1334
01:00:57,560 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 4: little whip.

1335
01:00:58,320 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 1: You can't pull up to that.

1336
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 3: Conzo find out first, then the car got You can't

1337
01:01:03,160 --> 01:01:05,120
Speaker 3: pull up in your condo in the Honda Civic.

1338
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 2: Now we gotta you know what I'm.

1339
01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 3: Saying, house dude, be pulling up to the condo and

1340
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 3: ubers not even hunderd cvs, or pulling up somebody else

1341
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 3: find a CV, or pulling up to.

1342
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 1: Their apartments and luxury cars which is or pulling up

1343
01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 1: to the apartment.

1344
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:24,000
Speaker 3: You don't have no big but we ain't gonna come on.

1345
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into the all of that. See. If

1346
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:28,960
Speaker 1: I had the chance to be a virgin again, I'd

1347
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:32,080
Speaker 1: be fucking by the time I was ten bars. See,

1348
01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 1: I'd be thinking about how much time, Ol lady, that's

1349
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 1: do mind stay my mama head.

1350
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 3: If I wasted so much time coloring and shit, I

1351
01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:42,480
Speaker 3: should have been fucking. Why the fuck am I sitting

1352
01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 3: here watching SpongeBob with its dick to be sucked. I

1353
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 3: wasted a lot of time. I could have been real

1354
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:50,640
Speaker 3: good at my craft. If I started younger. By the

1355
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:52,320
Speaker 3: time I was seventeen, I would have been had me

1356
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:53,919
Speaker 3: imnsion all the shit.

1357
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:55,640
Speaker 1: Stop wasting your time.

1358
01:01:55,880 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 3: First of all, that is not true, because house that

1359
01:01:58,240 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 3: was fucking at their age steal done got me.

1360
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 2: Oh well, I'm talking about with you.

1361
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 3: I'm talking about me personally, because Trena was like talking

1362
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 3: from a personal point of view, like I should have

1363
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 3: been fucking by the time I was That is terrible

1364
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 3: advice to give somebody. Now that far is terrible advice.

1365
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:15,840
Speaker 3: You should not be fucking by.

1366
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 1: The time you was here. You ain't even got no period.

1367
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 1: I can only speak for myself. I was wasting my time.

1368
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 2: I couldn't even color in the line.

1369
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 3: But she was started fucking when you was a living

1370
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:30,439
Speaker 3: so it was only a year later. You ain't waste

1371
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:34,280
Speaker 3: too much more time. You see how the glass is

1372
01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 3: my motto dick sucking in the auto we're talking about

1373
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 3: to follow, Okay, what you think that means? I mean

1374
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 3: dick sucking in the auto? We dick sucking in the car.

1375
01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 3: We got to get this ship.

1376
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:46,440
Speaker 1: We've been doing that.

1377
01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 3: We've been doing that. That's kind of like amateur stuff.

1378
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 1: I was dick sucking in the car back and doing

1379
01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: that one.

1380
01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:58,800
Speaker 3: Move on, move on, okay, on the back of the truck,

1381
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 3: or when I'm dead ass drunk but I don't get

1382
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 3: hit though.

1383
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 2: Now that used to be me.

1384
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 1: No more. I'm gone off them edibles, y'all. You know what,

1385
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 1: I'm actually happy.

1386
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 4: I came in today and I was like, I'm not

1387
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 4: gonna be hoigh on this episode.

1388
01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:18,320
Speaker 1: So I'm actually you was not the last episode.

1389
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was hot as fuck.

1390
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 3: I was looking at you like this, So why do

1391
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:24,439
Speaker 3: you think she said, But I don't get hot.

1392
01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: I ain't even look to see what you did.

1393
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:29,480
Speaker 3: Why you think she said, but I don't get high though,

1394
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 3: because I feel like during this era. You have to

1395
01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 3: realize the bats came out in the nineties, so honestly,

1396
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:36,880
Speaker 3: it wasn't cute for women to smoke back then.

1397
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:39,080
Speaker 4: It wasn't fly for a girl to have a blunt

1398
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:40,840
Speaker 4: in her hand. Now that shit don't really matter, but

1399
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 4: it really wasn't. She's probably talking about cocaine too, though, yeah,

1400
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:46,000
Speaker 4: all that shit drugs, Like, I mean, the cocaine is

1401
01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 4: still we don't want to be snorting, you know. But

1402
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 4: what I'm saying is like it used to not be

1403
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 4: cool for women to smoke. I'm not saying it's cool now.

1404
01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:54,920
Speaker 4: It's just like nobody cares if you smoke. You smoke,

1405
01:03:55,200 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 4: so I think maybe that's what she was. He still

1406
01:03:57,400 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 4: caring though, yeah, sometimes, but who cares. I feel like

1407
01:03:59,840 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 4: if if a girl want to get high, I don't smoke,

1408
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:04,000
Speaker 4: but like if somebody smoked him, leave him be.

1409
01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 2: Who cares?

1410
01:04:04,760 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't really care neither. Okay, Well that was

1411
01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: our son. Shout up to Trina. You still the baddest bitch.

1412
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 4: Thank you for putting us on a game because I

1413
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:16,120
Speaker 4: feel like we're spreading the word. All we're doing every

1414
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 4: week is really preaching Trina's word.

1415
01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 1: Amen.

1416
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:21,000
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, trying to let the people now,

1417
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:24,680
Speaker 3: trying to tell y'all hosts.

1418
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:25,920
Speaker 1: Amen. Amen.

1419
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 4: Okay, So now we're going to get into the questions

1420
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,520
Speaker 4: portion of the show. If you want your questions answered

1421
01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 4: on the show, make sure you email us at ask

1422
01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 4: poor Minds at gmail dot com and we.

1423
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 3: Will get to your question as soon as possible. If

1424
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 3: you're a Patreon member, the top tier member, you get

1425
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 3: to skip the line and shit. Okay, so go ahead,

1426
01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:48,120
Speaker 3: Hey baddies. Okay, So this guy had been trying to

1427
01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 3: talk to me for the past five years. I was

1428
01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 3: in a relationship ship until the beginning of this year.

1429
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 3: So I finally gave him the time of the day.

1430
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 3: I liked him back in the day, but I was

1431
01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 3: with my first love.

1432
01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 1: Y'all know how that be.

1433
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:06,920
Speaker 3: When he linked up and was talking, he said he

1434
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 3: liked me because he felt like I was his equal

1435
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:11,320
Speaker 3: and I wasn't the types of care about him and

1436
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 3: money and stuff.

1437
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:13,960
Speaker 1: He a BDB y'all.

1438
01:05:14,360 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 3: All the females in the CD won him, so I

1439
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 3: was kind of giving him the run around. He wanted

1440
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 3: to go get drinks and asked me to come out

1441
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 3: one night, but I was always busy. We finally linked

1442
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 3: up and he came over. We fucked and it was amazing.

1443
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 3: He came really quick though, with a condom.

1444
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:29,960
Speaker 1: Ooh, you got that super socum.

1445
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 3: After that, he never called our texted well, but a

1446
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:40,400
Speaker 3: reply to my stories on IG, which I thought was

1447
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:42,400
Speaker 3: weird because he had my number to hit me up

1448
01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 3: if he wanted to talk. He came over again and

1449
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:47,439
Speaker 3: told me he was talking to someone. Then he told

1450
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 3: me I had good pussy. It felt like an ocean.

1451
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:51,840
Speaker 1: I caught him.

1452
01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 3: Thanks for the honesty, but why are you here if

1453
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:56,680
Speaker 3: you got a girlfriend. He tried to fuck again, but

1454
01:05:56,800 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 3: I said no, I wanted to impress him so he

1455
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 3: will forget about he's girls.

1456
01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 1: So I gave him some powerhead, not the powerhead. Powerhead,

1457
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 1: I heard that one. What cartis? Then came out with

1458
01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 1: now power head and he came in less than a

1459
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 1: minute after he still are you wait? She said?

1460
01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:19,120
Speaker 3: What?

1461
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:19,680
Speaker 2: After?

1462
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 3: He still never calls or tigs there was no powerhead,

1463
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:27,360
Speaker 3: then watches my stories within minis of posting and stays

1464
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 3: in my DMS. I don't understand why he's been chasing

1465
01:06:30,720 --> 01:06:32,640
Speaker 3: me for these long just to show me he's a

1466
01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:35,120
Speaker 3: clown or was he just to say he had me?

1467
01:06:35,560 --> 01:06:37,800
Speaker 1: Am? I goofy for fucking with him? And should I

1468
01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:39,240
Speaker 1: entertain him or block him?

1469
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 4: Okay, so let me say you're beautiful first of all, battye.

1470
01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:47,479
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something that we as women playing

1471
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:48,920
Speaker 1: to a girl with the a leabs I'm taking.

1472
01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something that we do as women.

1473
01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:56,000
Speaker 3: We fool ourselves into overthinking certain things that men do

1474
01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:57,479
Speaker 3: to make him make.

1475
01:06:57,480 --> 01:06:58,560
Speaker 1: Us feel like they like us.

1476
01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 4: Right, just because he watched your story within minutes, it's

1477
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 4: probably because you pop up because you know he's following you.

1478
01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 4: He interacts with you. That doesn't mean anything. And sometimes

1479
01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 4: niggas just like to see what the fuck going on.

1480
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:12,439
Speaker 4: If you make yourself so easily accessible to him, he's

1481
01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:14,680
Speaker 4: gonna keep fucking niggas like to get that big wag

1482
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 4: you give over that giving him that powerhead, nigga.

1483
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 1: I'll text you too. So it's just like you're so

1484
01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 1: easily accessible to him.

1485
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:24,160
Speaker 4: I feel like he got a girl and he figured, shit,

1486
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:26,440
Speaker 4: she bad as fuck, she got some good pussy, and

1487
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:27,800
Speaker 4: she gonna give me that power head.

1488
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:29,479
Speaker 1: This is gonna be a good side bitch.

1489
01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 4: So I feel like you're either gonna stay in that

1490
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 4: role of being a side bitch and get what you

1491
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 4: can from him, or just leave him alone. But it's

1492
01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 4: just like trying to convince yourself that he cares about

1493
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 4: you because he's watching your stories and replying to your

1494
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:43,680
Speaker 4: stories that don't mean nothing.

1495
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 3: And then as I'm looking back over these message and

1496
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:52,000
Speaker 3: reanalyzing it, you said that he's a BDB and all

1497
01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:54,400
Speaker 3: the girls in the CD won him. But then you

1498
01:07:54,520 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 3: said you was giving him the run around. And then

1499
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 3: y'all finally linked up and he came over in y'all

1500
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:03,640
Speaker 3: FuG anyway, was amazing. He's you say, y'all had drinks

1501
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:06,080
Speaker 3: so you fucked him. He he one of the biggest

1502
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:10,680
Speaker 3: bed bees in the city and everybody live range he

1503
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:18,360
Speaker 3: wanted them, but she said he wanted the biggest bead

1504
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:20,679
Speaker 3: bees in the city or whatever, and he been wanting

1505
01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:22,720
Speaker 3: her and all the girls want him, and then they

1506
01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 3: had drinks and y'all fugged. Well, that's why he acted funny, ces,

1507
01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 3: because that pussy off of some Yeah, you didn't require nothing,

1508
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:35,639
Speaker 3: and you didn't make him do nothing, yes, but yes.

1509
01:08:35,479 --> 01:08:37,800
Speaker 1: It's like you wasn't required, you didn't require much. And

1510
01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 1: I mean, you're a beautiful girl. Yeah you're bad. You

1511
01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:40,840
Speaker 1: don't need to be nobody.

1512
01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 3: So I just feel like he got what he can

1513
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:46,840
Speaker 3: for for the lo lo and that's what it was.

1514
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:48,640
Speaker 3: And so now he acting funny because it's kind of

1515
01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:51,160
Speaker 3: like it's not no mystery no more. Like it's always

1516
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:53,080
Speaker 3: a mystery when niggas don't know what he's like to

1517
01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:54,680
Speaker 3: fuck you, and they don't know what y'all pussy like,

1518
01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:56,920
Speaker 3: they gonna keep trying to fuck with you and do

1519
01:08:57,000 --> 01:08:58,439
Speaker 3: whatever they gotta do to giddy.

1520
01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 1: But if you let him giddy, he ain't had to

1521
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:02,760
Speaker 1: do anything. It's like it's no mystery no more. You

1522
01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:04,519
Speaker 1: know what yo Coochie likes, so he ain't about to

1523
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:05,000
Speaker 1: just say.

1524
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 4: You gotta make a nigga fuck with you, be books

1525
01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:11,880
Speaker 4: before you give up the pussy, if you're trying to

1526
01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:14,639
Speaker 4: get something more out the situation. Like don't get me wrong,

1527
01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:17,519
Speaker 4: like me Andre are beautiful. Yes we like this suck diggie,

1528
01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:19,680
Speaker 4: we like the fuck. But at this age, I'm not

1529
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:22,120
Speaker 4: just fucking a nigga just because of who he is,

1530
01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:24,639
Speaker 4: or like you got to you don't give a fuck

1531
01:09:24,640 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 4: if you a BDB.

1532
01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:27,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you have to get you here. You gotta

1533
01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:30,280
Speaker 1: let a nigga get to know you and know your personality.

1534
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:32,559
Speaker 4: Then that's when he's gonna be like, you know what, Well,

1535
01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 4: let me give her this, let me show her this,

1536
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:35,680
Speaker 4: let me show her that I'm really fucking with her.

1537
01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:38,559
Speaker 1: So I feel like, yeah, we gotta stop giving up

1538
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:39,439
Speaker 1: the pussy so early.

1539
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:43,599
Speaker 3: You gotta stay in control. Yeah, stay in control, Stay

1540
01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:45,400
Speaker 3: in control. So I feel like, now you know it's

1541
01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:48,080
Speaker 3: just a list and learned. Now you know, next time,

1542
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:51,120
Speaker 3: make this nigga work for it. Read Okay, it says

1543
01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:54,880
Speaker 3: please don't say my name? Should I press go? Hey,

1544
01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:58,200
Speaker 3: dre les what it's all.

1545
01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:02,000
Speaker 1: Like somebody we know. They just change the words, Hey,

1546
01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:02,800
Speaker 1: Dre and Lex.

1547
01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 2: I need help.

1548
01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:06,000
Speaker 4: I started dating this guy when I was seventeen. He

1549
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:08,839
Speaker 4: was my bd B, y'all. I never wanted for anything.

1550
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:11,080
Speaker 4: While we were together on and off until we were

1551
01:10:11,160 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 4: twenty two. Our relationship had a lot of ups and downs.

1552
01:10:14,120 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 4: We all know what ups and downs mean.

1553
01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:18,160
Speaker 3: He couldn't keep his dick in his pants and eventually

1554
01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:20,559
Speaker 3: became very toxic, so I broke it off.

1555
01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:22,800
Speaker 1: The next two years, he was fighting for us to

1556
01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:24,920
Speaker 1: get back together. I wasn't having it.

1557
01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:26,960
Speaker 3: I said a lot of mean and hurtful shit to

1558
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:29,320
Speaker 3: push him away. I have dated other people, but I

1559
01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:32,360
Speaker 3: have never felt the same about anyone. I pushed him away.

1560
01:10:32,760 --> 01:10:35,400
Speaker 3: Now he has a new girlfriend. Since they've been together,

1561
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:38,240
Speaker 3: he has been loyal. He's off all socials and he

1562
01:10:38,320 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 3: barely talks to me, and he's really short and dry.

1563
01:10:40,920 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 3: Recently we met up for coffee and you could feel

1564
01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 3: the tension. And we still love each other, but I

1565
01:10:45,320 --> 01:10:47,640
Speaker 3: can tell he's trying to do right by his current girlfriend.

1566
01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:49,840
Speaker 3: I want him back, but I'm in the stage of

1567
01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 3: my life where I'm really trying to work on myself

1568
01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 3: and get my career together, but I don't want to

1569
01:10:54,800 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 3: miss out on the opportunity that he may get too

1570
01:10:56,960 --> 01:10:58,559
Speaker 3: deep in his relationship.

1571
01:10:58,080 --> 01:10:58,840
Speaker 2: And never come back.

1572
01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:01,560
Speaker 3: I am no homewrecord and I've never been wanting to

1573
01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:03,800
Speaker 3: chase after a man. But it's something about him I

1574
01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 3: really do love, and I know he still loves me.

1575
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:08,600
Speaker 4: So my question is do I let him go and

1576
01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:10,840
Speaker 4: hope he finds his way back, or do I try

1577
01:11:10,880 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 4: to get him back despite him having a new girlfriend.

1578
01:11:14,160 --> 01:11:16,519
Speaker 4: My logic is telling me to take the if it's

1579
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:18,560
Speaker 4: meant to be approached, but I want to know what

1580
01:11:18,680 --> 01:11:20,960
Speaker 4: y'all think, because the hearts wants what it wants.

1581
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:21,599
Speaker 2: Ps.

1582
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:23,160
Speaker 1: There's so much more to this, but I have to

1583
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:27,120
Speaker 1: keep it as short as possible. Ooh, that's kind of deep,

1584
01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 1: what you think. Work on you and get your careers together.

1585
01:11:33,840 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 2: Facts.

1586
01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,759
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something about these niggas. A nigga

1587
01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:38,759
Speaker 1: won't what he wants.

1588
01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:40,760
Speaker 4: So if he really, I mean, I'm pretty sure he

1589
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,599
Speaker 4: still has feelings for you, but he's where he wants

1590
01:11:43,680 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 4: to be. If he wanted to be with you, he

1591
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 4: would be like, you know what, let's have a talk

1592
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:49,840
Speaker 4: about it or let's see. So you gotta let a

1593
01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:51,880
Speaker 4: nigga do, so you get definitely need to take the

1594
01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 4: approach of you know.

1595
01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 2: What's that song?

1596
01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:57,760
Speaker 3: It ain't never know perfect timing. Y'all gonna stop letting

1597
01:11:57,800 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 3: niggas tell y'all there, oh it's not the right time.

1598
01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 3: It ain't gonna never be the mother sucking right time

1599
01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:04,519
Speaker 3: because life is just always life.

1600
01:12:04,360 --> 01:12:07,120
Speaker 2: In period shout out to Little Jazz.

1601
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's like life is always life, and like

1602
01:12:09,800 --> 01:12:11,760
Speaker 3: it's always gonna be some shit going on in all

1603
01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:13,559
Speaker 3: of our life. So it technically it ain't gonna never

1604
01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:16,120
Speaker 3: be the right time to be together. A nigga just

1605
01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:18,160
Speaker 3: be saying this shit because he be wanting to still

1606
01:12:18,200 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 3: fuck on you and still keep going around.

1607
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:22,599
Speaker 4: And it really strokes his ego to know that you're

1608
01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:24,920
Speaker 4: still around and you still love him and care about him.

1609
01:12:25,360 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 1: So honestly, I just feel like, just let it go.

1610
01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:30,040
Speaker 4: If he comes back it's meant to be, and if

1611
01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:32,160
Speaker 4: it's not, just move on with your life, focus on

1612
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:34,760
Speaker 4: yourself and your career. And it's like, obviously, if he's

1613
01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 4: trying to do right by this girl, obviously he cares

1614
01:12:36,880 --> 01:12:41,120
Speaker 4: about her. I mean, the world love is very complex

1615
01:12:41,560 --> 01:12:45,120
Speaker 4: and deep. You're not gonna be in love with one person.

1616
01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:46,400
Speaker 4: It's very possible to be in.

1617
01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:47,280
Speaker 1: Love with two people.

1618
01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 4: You can be in love with two people, but know

1619
01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:51,160
Speaker 4: that this is the person I should be with over

1620
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 4: this person. You see what I'm saying. So it's just

1621
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:56,639
Speaker 4: like he's where he wants.

1622
01:12:56,439 --> 01:12:56,800
Speaker 1: To be at.

1623
01:12:58,000 --> 01:13:00,160
Speaker 3: I mean, it's sound their way to me too. I

1624
01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:02,519
Speaker 3: just would never be putting my life on hop for

1625
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 3: no nigga. And I say that all the time, Like

1626
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:07,360
Speaker 3: I'm almost thirty now and I still at about to

1627
01:13:07,360 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 3: put my life on hole for no niggas. So when

1628
01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:11,360
Speaker 3: I was in my early twenties, I damn sure wasn't

1629
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:13,680
Speaker 3: putting my life on hope and no nigga because it's

1630
01:13:13,680 --> 01:13:16,560
Speaker 3: like I had my whole twenties ahead of me, and

1631
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:19,479
Speaker 3: your twenties are like so fun. You really supposed to

1632
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:21,759
Speaker 3: live your life and be getting to know yourself, find

1633
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 3: yourself and having fun.

1634
01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:24,240
Speaker 1: Girl, Fuck that.

1635
01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 3: Nigga, you gonna find another nigga. I think there'd be

1636
01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:27,880
Speaker 3: a lot of girls problem too. They'd be like young,

1637
01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 3: maybe meeting niggas when they be seventeen to twenty two

1638
01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 3: or twenty three, and they be feel like that's the

1639
01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:34,720
Speaker 3: dude that they gonna be and you know, I'll meet

1640
01:13:34,760 --> 01:13:35,639
Speaker 3: so many more niggas.

1641
01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:37,400
Speaker 4: That's because but you know what, I was that girl

1642
01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:40,000
Speaker 4: at one point, Like when I met my fame, that

1643
01:13:40,120 --> 01:13:43,519
Speaker 4: was my first bad b He was like the first

1644
01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:45,760
Speaker 4: nigga that I went on a PJ with, Like it

1645
01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:46,720
Speaker 4: was just like new for me.

1646
01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:47,720
Speaker 2: So I kind of get it.

1647
01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:50,599
Speaker 1: But at the same time, it was like he gave

1648
01:13:50,640 --> 01:13:52,320
Speaker 1: me a ultimatum and I didn't want that shit. So

1649
01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's more of you. It's always more of

1650
01:13:57,080 --> 01:13:59,799
Speaker 1: next question, basic bitch problem.

1651
01:14:00,479 --> 01:14:01,600
Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, gonna help you with that.

1652
01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:04,280
Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, I have a friend that's trying to make

1653
01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:07,120
Speaker 3: a name for herself in the industry. I'm super proud

1654
01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:09,320
Speaker 3: of her and admire her hustle and how she's living

1655
01:14:09,400 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 3: her passion. I, on the other hand, am just a

1656
01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:15,280
Speaker 3: regular girl with a regular job, what some might.

1657
01:14:15,280 --> 01:14:18,680
Speaker 1: Call a basic bitch. However, my bills are paid, my

1658
01:14:18,840 --> 01:14:23,000
Speaker 1: thighs are THEI know that's right. I know that's right,

1659
01:14:23,080 --> 01:14:27,120
Speaker 1: thick thighs. So that means I eat well, then I'm comfortable.

1660
01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:29,680
Speaker 3: I want a path of self love and growth, and

1661
01:14:29,720 --> 01:14:31,760
Speaker 3: I'm grateful that I have a job that allows me

1662
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:34,679
Speaker 3: to stay stable while I do so. My friend, however,

1663
01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:36,720
Speaker 3: has been on the come up lately and flat. I

1664
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:39,519
Speaker 3: told me, if I don't live up, she's leaving me behind.

1665
01:14:40,040 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 3: The problem is I don't aspire to be a part

1666
01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 3: of their life like she does, and her industry friends

1667
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:48,439
Speaker 3: are straight up snobby. When they ask what I do

1668
01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 3: for a living, it gets followed with an oh, that's cool,

1669
01:14:52,400 --> 01:14:55,600
Speaker 3: extra on the sarcasm. I feel like she's embarrassed with

1670
01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 3: me and it's starting to distance herself. I'm trying not

1671
01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:00,320
Speaker 3: to let peer pressure get to me in staf true

1672
01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:02,800
Speaker 3: to myself, but I hate losing a friend. Is it

1673
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 3: time to let that friendship go? Am I missing out

1674
01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 3: on the opportunity to get me a BDB? Can I

1675
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:09,439
Speaker 3: still love her? From a Disneys?

1676
01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:12,000
Speaker 1: Drea? Do you have basic friends and how do you

1677
01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:13,800
Speaker 1: treat them? Laughing my ass off?

1678
01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 3: I can't wait to see how much more y'all grow

1679
01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:19,400
Speaker 3: with love a basic beach. I'm in the pink, my

1680
01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:21,560
Speaker 3: she she posted a picture of herself, so I me,

1681
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 3: y'all not gonna see you.

1682
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:24,800
Speaker 2: I'm in the pink.

1683
01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:25,640
Speaker 1: My friend I'm speaking of?

1684
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:26,240
Speaker 2: Is the blonde?

1685
01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:29,840
Speaker 1: You look basic? So who looks the friend?

1686
01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:34,680
Speaker 2: The friend that's supposed to be.

1687
01:15:34,680 --> 01:15:38,320
Speaker 1: The popping because look at that blonde. Tell y'all something

1688
01:15:38,520 --> 01:15:42,599
Speaker 1: you host is weird? Your house is fucking weird? Are

1689
01:15:42,640 --> 01:15:45,040
Speaker 1: you beautiful? You look good? Y'all? Friend? Look basic?

1690
01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:46,120
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.

1691
01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:50,479
Speaker 3: When I first still, I have a job and Drea

1692
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:55,240
Speaker 3: don't work. That don't stop us from being friends out there.

1693
01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:57,840
Speaker 3: Like I'm just saying though, but like you know, I

1694
01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:00,200
Speaker 3: mean because you've talked about it, ebody, I had a

1695
01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:02,040
Speaker 3: man that was taking care of you and I was working.

1696
01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 3: Drad was not like your pussy isn't hitting what it

1697
01:16:04,920 --> 01:16:05,320
Speaker 3: needs to hit.

1698
01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:08,519
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be yo. That hoe is weird? You

1699
01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:11,280
Speaker 1: gonna work tomorrow? Lose my number?

1700
01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 3: What the fun? You can never your job, what you

1701
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 3: do for a living, and you're taking care of yourself?

1702
01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:18,639
Speaker 1: That's never basic.

1703
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:21,200
Speaker 3: Ain't shit basic about going to work every day and

1704
01:16:21,280 --> 01:16:22,160
Speaker 3: taking care of yourself.

1705
01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:24,920
Speaker 1: You think you eating good? You living good? You good?

1706
01:16:25,080 --> 01:16:26,840
Speaker 1: And is your friend gonna take care of you?

1707
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:31,680
Speaker 3: Don't had an audacity to tell somebody like they need

1708
01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:33,519
Speaker 3: to be living a different type of life or doing

1709
01:16:33,600 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 3: some other sit but beat you.

1710
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:37,200
Speaker 1: You ain't about to pay my bills like I gotta

1711
01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:37,760
Speaker 1: go to work.

1712
01:16:39,560 --> 01:16:42,960
Speaker 4: And also I want to know the definition of leveling up,

1713
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:45,920
Speaker 4: like if she's doing something with her career. To me,

1714
01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:48,519
Speaker 4: if a real friend, if they're doing something with their

1715
01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:50,839
Speaker 4: career and they're leveling up, that means they're taking everybody

1716
01:16:50,960 --> 01:16:53,200
Speaker 4: around there with them, because I know when I get

1717
01:16:53,240 --> 01:16:53,960
Speaker 4: to where I want to.

1718
01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:56,799
Speaker 1: Be, I got jobs for everybody. So what's the issue.

1719
01:16:57,160 --> 01:16:59,040
Speaker 1: But if you leveling up by talking about the niggas

1720
01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:00,680
Speaker 1: you fucking that's not well.

1721
01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:02,600
Speaker 3: I ain't got jobs of everybody when I live a

1722
01:17:02,640 --> 01:17:05,640
Speaker 3: little bit, you know what I mean, everybody in your

1723
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:07,800
Speaker 3: circle even though I'm not, I don't, but I don't

1724
01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 3: need to because my friends is already eating and they

1725
01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:11,120
Speaker 3: doing their own thing.

1726
01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:14,920
Speaker 1: They not waiting on me to level up. Eat off.

1727
01:17:15,120 --> 01:17:17,960
Speaker 3: No, I don't, cause like my friends ain't waiting on me.

1728
01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:21,760
Speaker 3: To you, I'm saying, like my friends don't even want

1729
01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:24,679
Speaker 3: to work for me, like they got that. I feel

1730
01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:27,000
Speaker 3: like if you have a connection and you can help people,

1731
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:30,040
Speaker 3: you know, don't want to do nothing in my realm.

1732
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:32,560
Speaker 3: So it's like that's what I'm saying, like kind of

1733
01:17:32,680 --> 01:17:34,840
Speaker 3: like how she said, and I'm just saying that to

1734
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:37,880
Speaker 3: reiterate what she was just saying about her position, like

1735
01:17:37,960 --> 01:17:40,640
Speaker 3: she don't want nothing to do with the life, so

1736
01:17:40,800 --> 01:17:43,000
Speaker 3: it's like she might not need her friend, Like even

1737
01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:45,080
Speaker 3: if her friend do livel up, that's good for you, friend,

1738
01:17:45,120 --> 01:17:46,439
Speaker 3: But I'm not trying to work for you. I'm not

1739
01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:49,439
Speaker 3: trying to be in that industry or whatever. So to

1740
01:17:49,520 --> 01:17:51,200
Speaker 3: go back to the question that you asked me, No,

1741
01:17:51,320 --> 01:17:53,479
Speaker 3: I don't have no basic bitch friends because I don't

1742
01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:55,400
Speaker 3: look at none of my friends like they basic beachy.

1743
01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:59,120
Speaker 3: But I will have friends that do completely different things

1744
01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:01,160
Speaker 3: for me and live a completely different life, and I

1745
01:18:01,200 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 3: don't look down on them because their life is different

1746
01:18:03,400 --> 01:18:05,240
Speaker 3: from mine or because they go to work every day.

1747
01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:08,479
Speaker 3: I think that people have different passing life. Nobody want

1748
01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:11,040
Speaker 3: the same thing, and you have to respect your friends

1749
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:13,360
Speaker 3: for where they are in life. Now, if you a

1750
01:18:13,439 --> 01:18:15,680
Speaker 3: bum ass beach who's not trying to do nothing with

1751
01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:17,640
Speaker 3: your life, well a year, I might get to a

1752
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 3: point to where I'm like, well, beach, if you don't

1753
01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:21,800
Speaker 3: get your shit together, I can't really be around you

1754
01:18:21,920 --> 01:18:24,960
Speaker 3: no more because that shit rub off. You know, not

1755
01:18:25,080 --> 01:18:26,920
Speaker 3: to say that it would make me be a basic beach.

1756
01:18:27,120 --> 01:18:29,479
Speaker 3: But if I'm trying to go and get to a

1757
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:31,559
Speaker 3: certain liveling life. So I'm trying to be a millionaire.

1758
01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 3: I can't hang around no beach who is a bum

1759
01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 3: who's not trying.

1760
01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:36,720
Speaker 1: To do nothing life right? You know what? Just not

1761
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:37,600
Speaker 1: having anything right?

1762
01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:39,519
Speaker 3: Who's just not okay with having anything? You don't have

1763
01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:42,439
Speaker 3: no goals, no aspirations, no nothing. But to tell your

1764
01:18:42,479 --> 01:18:45,000
Speaker 3: friend who is working hard or who just doesn't want

1765
01:18:45,040 --> 01:18:46,800
Speaker 3: the same life as you, that I can't be friends

1766
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:48,479
Speaker 3: with you because you don't want the same shit as me.

1767
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:50,600
Speaker 4: That's weird, it's fun, but you know what, those be

1768
01:18:50,680 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 4: the same way. You need to cut that hell off

1769
01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:54,760
Speaker 4: those yes, and those be the same girls that look

1770
01:18:54,840 --> 01:18:57,280
Speaker 4: up to the like the Instagram girls and be like

1771
01:18:57,439 --> 01:18:59,320
Speaker 4: and not knowing that a lot of these girls don't

1772
01:18:59,320 --> 01:19:02,759
Speaker 4: have nothing to name, like, they'd be like so thirsty

1773
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:05,080
Speaker 4: to hang out with those girls and be like but

1774
01:19:05,200 --> 01:19:08,200
Speaker 4: it's just it's laughable to me, That's all I can say.

1775
01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:10,080
Speaker 3: But me and you had a conversation the other day

1776
01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:12,280
Speaker 3: about these sheep, and I was just saying, how like

1777
01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:14,360
Speaker 3: people be looking up to certain people and they be

1778
01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:16,080
Speaker 3: feeling like you're supposed to be doing these since you're

1779
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:18,040
Speaker 3: supposed to be doing that with your life. You ain't

1780
01:19:18,040 --> 01:19:20,599
Speaker 3: supposed to be doing nothing. You move at your own

1781
01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:23,320
Speaker 3: pace in life. And one thing about the game, like

1782
01:19:23,479 --> 01:19:25,519
Speaker 3: players change with the games, stay the same.

1783
01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 1: People be looking up to.

1784
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:29,439
Speaker 3: These beaches on Instagram who they feel like is doing

1785
01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:31,000
Speaker 3: something in these holes, they ain't doing nothing.

1786
01:19:31,080 --> 01:19:32,799
Speaker 1: The's the same beaches twenty.

1787
01:19:32,680 --> 01:19:35,960
Speaker 3: Years ago when we didn't have Instagram that wasn't doing sheet,

1788
01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:38,479
Speaker 3: but it looked like they was doing something. And now

1789
01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:41,200
Speaker 3: the forty five and they still ain't got shit going on. Oh,

1790
01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:45,120
Speaker 3: it just wasn't magnified as much because we didn't have

1791
01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:48,840
Speaker 3: social media backcan So, like I said, like the game,

1792
01:19:49,200 --> 01:19:49,479
Speaker 3: like the.

1793
01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:51,680
Speaker 1: Players change with the games, stay the same.

1794
01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:53,720
Speaker 3: Y'all gotta stop looking up to these hoss cause these

1795
01:19:53,760 --> 01:19:55,920
Speaker 3: same house that y'all looking up to right now ain't

1796
01:19:55,920 --> 01:19:58,479
Speaker 3: gonna have nothing in another ten twenty years cause they

1797
01:19:58,600 --> 01:20:01,320
Speaker 3: not doing shit but fucking on the And I mean

1798
01:20:01,360 --> 01:20:03,240
Speaker 3: it might get some of them somewhere, because sometimes some

1799
01:20:03,320 --> 01:20:04,160
Speaker 3: bitches doogie, but.

1800
01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:08,920
Speaker 1: The doing it, but the percentage is very small.

1801
01:20:09,800 --> 01:20:11,880
Speaker 4: It looks like it's a lot of people because everybody

1802
01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:14,320
Speaker 4: on Instagram, I'm doing it, but it's not trust me.

1803
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:16,320
Speaker 3: And it's about the end game. It's about where you

1804
01:20:16,479 --> 01:20:19,200
Speaker 3: end up exactly. So I feel like, yeah, your friend tripping.

1805
01:20:19,240 --> 01:20:21,000
Speaker 3: I feel like I don't care what my friends are.

1806
01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:23,560
Speaker 4: Doing if as long as you're making money and you

1807
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:25,760
Speaker 4: doing what you want to do, that has nothing to

1808
01:20:25,800 --> 01:20:27,960
Speaker 4: do with our friendship. So yeah, that's that whole weird

1809
01:20:28,240 --> 01:20:33,519
Speaker 4: that he she is a week and we'll just say

1810
01:20:34,120 --> 01:20:39,240
Speaker 4: you wasn't the basic one in the picture? Help, he's

1811
01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:42,840
Speaker 4: taking up unnecessary space. Hey, ladies, how do you feel

1812
01:20:42,840 --> 01:20:45,479
Speaker 4: about the expression The best way to get over one

1813
01:20:45,560 --> 01:20:47,640
Speaker 4: nigga is to get under a new one. Do you

1814
01:20:47,720 --> 01:20:50,040
Speaker 4: guys feel like that's a real thing or a band

1815
01:20:50,080 --> 01:20:54,200
Speaker 4: aid fix. I'm thirty years old and have recently recently

1816
01:20:54,280 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 4: been about six months, got out of a seven year relationship.

1817
01:20:57,520 --> 01:21:00,080
Speaker 4: I shortly met a guy about three months afterwards. I

1818
01:21:00,200 --> 01:21:02,799
Speaker 4: wasn't over my ex, but I was getting bored and horny,

1819
01:21:03,080 --> 01:21:05,320
Speaker 4: and the knew gud came and basically sweep me off

1820
01:21:05,360 --> 01:21:08,120
Speaker 4: my feet. Well, here it is three months later with him,

1821
01:21:08,520 --> 01:21:10,559
Speaker 4: six months later from my ex, and all I keep

1822
01:21:10,640 --> 01:21:13,240
Speaker 4: thinking about is my ex. Me and new Bay are

1823
01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:15,920
Speaker 4: still going strong. He's still amazing and has confessed his

1824
01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:19,880
Speaker 4: feelings and XYZ. But I can't shake my ex like

1825
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 4: we have no communication.

1826
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:23,960
Speaker 3: I haven't seen him or anything else, but he's there

1827
01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:26,080
Speaker 3: taking up space in my mind and heart.

1828
01:21:26,439 --> 01:21:26,679
Speaker 1: Help.

1829
01:21:26,800 --> 01:21:27,439
Speaker 3: What do I do?

1830
01:21:27,800 --> 01:21:29,960
Speaker 4: Do I continue to be with New Bay in hopes

1831
01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:32,280
Speaker 4: that one day these feelings will pass and suffer in

1832
01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:35,200
Speaker 4: silence because I'm starting to feel bad. Or do I

1833
01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:37,320
Speaker 4: break it off and admit to myself that I may

1834
01:21:37,439 --> 01:21:40,040
Speaker 4: not be ready to date yet? It's so hard because

1835
01:21:40,040 --> 01:21:43,960
Speaker 4: he's such a good man. I think we gonna have

1836
01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:45,160
Speaker 4: different ophiggins on me.

1837
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:53,280
Speaker 1: You definitely are go ahead. I feel like you gotta

1838
01:21:53,320 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 1: get over anyga, like the best way.

1839
01:21:55,320 --> 01:21:58,680
Speaker 3: I feel like it's fun to like go and just

1840
01:21:58,840 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 3: fuck on the niggas stuff, But that's it's a band

1841
01:22:01,360 --> 01:22:03,439
Speaker 3: ave fix. Like how you said, it's not gonna make

1842
01:22:03,520 --> 01:22:06,320
Speaker 3: you get over the nigga. If you really love somebody,

1843
01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:09,000
Speaker 3: going and fucking on other niggas or going on dates

1844
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:11,040
Speaker 3: with other dudes is not gonna make you forget about

1845
01:22:11,080 --> 01:22:12,960
Speaker 3: them and it's not gonna make you just get over them.

1846
01:22:13,000 --> 01:22:15,439
Speaker 1: You need to do the work to get over that nigga,

1847
01:22:15,960 --> 01:22:16,479
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

1848
01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:19,040
Speaker 3: And I feel like doing the work is focusing on you,

1849
01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:21,679
Speaker 3: not focusing on dating other people.

1850
01:22:22,240 --> 01:22:24,840
Speaker 4: I agree with that to a certain extent, but I

1851
01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:27,800
Speaker 4: feel like your problem is your It looks like you're

1852
01:22:27,800 --> 01:22:30,840
Speaker 4: trying to like hop in another situation. If you're gonna

1853
01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:32,760
Speaker 4: be dating, just have fun and date. You don't have

1854
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:35,400
Speaker 4: to date one person. I feel like, if you're ready,

1855
01:22:35,400 --> 01:22:37,800
Speaker 4: if you think you're ready to get out there, then date.

1856
01:22:38,320 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 3: Like. I don't know why people are scared to date

1857
01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:42,439
Speaker 3: more than one person. I'm not saying you gotta fuck

1858
01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:44,800
Speaker 3: all these niggas, but go out and meet other people.

1859
01:22:44,880 --> 01:22:47,080
Speaker 3: You dating this nigga, and this nigga's obviously not the

1860
01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:47,720
Speaker 3: one for you.

1861
01:22:48,120 --> 01:22:49,200
Speaker 1: Go try another nigga.

1862
01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:49,479
Speaker 3: Girl.

1863
01:22:49,880 --> 01:22:52,439
Speaker 1: Look, we gotta eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner. That's three

1864
01:22:52,520 --> 01:22:55,320
Speaker 1: niggas in a day. You know what I'm saying. Get

1865
01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:58,080
Speaker 1: you know, I just feel like, forget happy hours.

1866
01:22:58,200 --> 01:23:00,479
Speaker 4: No, I just feel like you want are you only

1867
01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:03,360
Speaker 4: dating one person? Your feelings are not gonna change for

1868
01:23:03,439 --> 01:23:06,200
Speaker 4: this man. I feel like in three months of dating somebody,

1869
01:23:06,280 --> 01:23:07,840
Speaker 4: you know if the feelings are there, if they're not.

1870
01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:10,320
Speaker 4: So it's like three months you feel like he cool,

1871
01:23:10,360 --> 01:23:11,960
Speaker 4: he a good guy, but he's just not the person

1872
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:14,439
Speaker 4: for you, so yeah, you can, you know, fuck on him,

1873
01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:16,599
Speaker 4: when you horny and shit, but go find somebody else.

1874
01:23:16,640 --> 01:23:18,599
Speaker 1: But you also have to do the work in the meantime.

1875
01:23:19,160 --> 01:23:19,880
Speaker 2: You have to work on.

1876
01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:24,760
Speaker 1: Yourself and understand that you need to heal as well.

1877
01:23:25,320 --> 01:23:27,720
Speaker 4: And you're not gonna heal and be able to move

1878
01:23:27,760 --> 01:23:29,720
Speaker 4: on in a relationship when you do find another good guy,

1879
01:23:29,720 --> 01:23:32,240
Speaker 4: because you're gonna bring that baggage from your past. So

1880
01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:34,960
Speaker 4: I feel like, focus on yourself. But if you gonna

1881
01:23:35,040 --> 01:23:35,559
Speaker 4: date girl.

1882
01:23:35,520 --> 01:23:38,960
Speaker 3: Date, yeah, I think that that's weird to their girls

1883
01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:41,120
Speaker 3: be thinking, oh, I gotta only be dating one nigga

1884
01:23:41,160 --> 01:23:44,439
Speaker 3: because actually dating you, yes, you're not the only Like

1885
01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:46,120
Speaker 3: when you go on the first date with a nigga,

1886
01:23:46,120 --> 01:23:47,680
Speaker 3: you really think you the only bitchy dating.

1887
01:23:47,720 --> 01:23:50,040
Speaker 1: It's y'all first date and you think that you're the

1888
01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:51,200
Speaker 1: only girl. He's fucking weak.

1889
01:23:51,560 --> 01:23:54,680
Speaker 3: Nor So why not be dating us niggas who, like

1890
01:23:54,760 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 3: Lick said, I'm not saying you should be fucking all

1891
01:23:57,000 --> 01:24:00,360
Speaker 3: of them, but it's nothing wrong with like letting different

1892
01:24:00,400 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 3: niggas take you out on dates and getting to know

1893
01:24:02,120 --> 01:24:04,000
Speaker 3: a few different people and seeing which one you like.

1894
01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:07,559
Speaker 1: MM, that's what we be doing. We're gonna be caring.

1895
01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:09,920
Speaker 1: I sure, don't you know I'll be doing anything.

1896
01:24:10,680 --> 01:24:13,360
Speaker 2: I let a few of them hit, but that's another topic.

1897
01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:16,040
Speaker 1: Don't be like legs.

1898
01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:21,120
Speaker 4: Okay, any questions, make sure y'all email us at ask

1899
01:24:21,200 --> 01:24:23,120
Speaker 4: poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1900
01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:26,799
Speaker 1: Yes, damn, I don't even got a song and sing today?

1901
01:24:27,680 --> 01:24:28,839
Speaker 1: Oh can you sing Tamar?

1902
01:24:29,360 --> 01:24:29,920
Speaker 3: What song?

1903
01:24:32,160 --> 01:24:34,479
Speaker 1: I don't know it? I don't know it. You don't

1904
01:24:34,479 --> 01:24:34,960
Speaker 1: know sing?

1905
01:24:35,080 --> 01:24:35,280
Speaker 3: Love it?

1906
01:24:35,439 --> 01:24:35,760
Speaker 1: You do it?

1907
01:24:35,800 --> 01:24:36,280
Speaker 2: Don't love it?

1908
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:36,559
Speaker 3: War?

1909
01:24:37,200 --> 01:24:37,320
Speaker 1: Oh?

1910
01:24:37,439 --> 01:24:37,640
Speaker 3: I do?

1911
01:24:37,840 --> 01:24:40,920
Speaker 2: But that's not that's not in my range. Okay, that's

1912
01:24:40,960 --> 01:24:41,960
Speaker 2: not in my range.

1913
01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:44,080
Speaker 1: Now I'm trying to think. What's all right? Sing something

1914
01:24:44,120 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 1: about berry White? Thank you for I was about to

1915
01:24:55,040 --> 01:25:00,800
Speaker 1: say something about sir. Oh yeah, so we are re

1916
01:25:01,160 --> 01:25:01,600
Speaker 1: fuck you.

1917
01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:04,120
Speaker 3: Love he.

1918
01:25:06,479 --> 01:25:11,840
Speaker 5: Practice what you preach. Yeah, that wasn't my rain. Oh

1919
01:25:12,120 --> 01:25:16,400
Speaker 5: you just keep oh you keep telling me is and

1920
01:25:16,640 --> 01:25:17,320
Speaker 5: tailing me.

1921
01:25:17,560 --> 01:25:18,160
Speaker 3: That you.

1922
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:22,759
Speaker 1: Anyway. Sometimes people know bass.

1923
01:25:24,000 --> 01:25:27,280
Speaker 3: So we are restocking these shirts just one more time

1924
01:25:27,640 --> 01:25:29,559
Speaker 3: because we told y'all to get them and they ended

1925
01:25:29,640 --> 01:25:30,160
Speaker 3: up selling out.

1926
01:25:30,160 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 1: I think we only have like double excels left.

1927
01:25:32,640 --> 01:25:35,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, right now we do. So we are going to

1928
01:25:35,640 --> 01:25:38,400
Speaker 4: do one more batch of horders shirt. So if you

1929
01:25:38,439 --> 01:25:41,360
Speaker 4: want your poor mind shirts, make sure you go to www.

1930
01:25:41,479 --> 01:25:43,720
Speaker 4: Dot poor mindes dot com and click on merch and

1931
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:47,479
Speaker 4: get your shirt. And we have another drop coming soon,

1932
01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:49,200
Speaker 4: so y'all make sure y'all be gonna look out for

1933
01:25:49,280 --> 01:25:50,200
Speaker 4: that and listen.

1934
01:25:50,680 --> 01:25:52,599
Speaker 1: This next drop is gonna be one drop.

1935
01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:55,960
Speaker 4: Okay, So when we do a drop, make sure y'all

1936
01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:57,559
Speaker 4: get the merch because it ain't gonna be back.

1937
01:25:57,600 --> 01:25:59,200
Speaker 3: It's like a one time deal. We just doing this

1938
01:25:59,320 --> 01:26:01,000
Speaker 3: again because y'all asking for the shirts.

1939
01:26:01,360 --> 01:26:06,280
Speaker 1: We're not doing no more than y'all see the cheeks period.

1940
01:26:06,680 --> 01:26:08,599
Speaker 4: So yes, we're gonna do that for the shirts again.

1941
01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:11,559
Speaker 4: Thank y'all so much for tuning in. We'll see y'all

1942
01:26:11,600 --> 01:26:12,040
Speaker 4: next week.

1943
01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:17,000
Speaker 2: Your age childish way