Speaker 1: Freaking Jewels second date of date. I'm sure you guys
Speaker 1: have had friends that argue all the time with their
Speaker 1: significant other, Like you know that couple that they can't
Speaker 1: ever go out anywhere because you know it's going to
Speaker 1: end in an argument that has to start at some point,
Speaker 1: maybe even on a first date. Kind of what happened
Speaker 1: with Nick. Who wants us to call Grace today. That's
Speaker 1: the girl that he went out with. I don't even
Speaker 1: know why Nick wants to call her because it sounds
Speaker 1: like a horrible first date. But we're going to talk
Speaker 1: to him about it anyway and ask Nick, how are you? Hey? Guys?
Speaker 1: First off, I just want to say I'm like a huge,
Speaker 1: huge fan of the show. You guys are awesome than
Speaker 1: jew Like you're the man I have the loveless news
Speaker 1: stuff you guys to do on the radio. All right, okay?
Speaker 1: And couldn't agree more. Yeah, we're getting out of control, Nick,
Speaker 1: who Let's be honest, Nick, your email said that you
Speaker 1: and Grace, the girl you went out with, argued the
Speaker 1: whole time on your date. Why do you want to
Speaker 1: call her? Why do you even want a second date?
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I just fell there was some
Speaker 1: kind of like connection, you know, like it was not
Speaker 1: passion dude. Well, was it the type of arguing that's
Speaker 1: like over big theological issues or was it the kind
Speaker 1: of like fiery debate that you can have with some people,
Speaker 1: because I think that's nice. Sometimes it was just like
Speaker 1: about some stuff, like some of it was about stuff
Speaker 1: that happened at night. But um, can you get can
Speaker 1: you get more specific here? Yeah? Well I'll give you
Speaker 1: a little like sort of the lowdown of like what happened, okay,
Speaker 1: basically like weird online and um, it was either like
Speaker 1: tender or was okay stupid or you don't even know
Speaker 1: which place you met her at night? How many? How
Speaker 1: much online dating are you doing? Dude? I don't know,
Speaker 1: like a good deal. I mean it's fun, you know,
Speaker 1: it's fun to meet people. Right, So, you met Grace
Speaker 1: on some website and you guys met up. Now your
Speaker 1: email said that you started off arguing. You started the
Speaker 1: whole thing off with an argument. How does that even happen? Dude?
Speaker 1: How do you start off with an argument on your
Speaker 1: first date? Right away? Well, like we met up at
Speaker 1: this parking lot, like we met in the mall parking lot.
Speaker 1: You know, because she was like, oh, you know, we
Speaker 1: don't really know each other that well, I don't want
Speaker 1: you to like come pick me up at like my house,
Speaker 1: which I respect for. So we're like hanging out in
Speaker 1: the parking lot of this mall and I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, well let's go. I made a reservation somewhere
Speaker 1: else and she was like, oh, well I kind of
Speaker 1: thought we would be here and I was like no, no,
Speaker 1: like that said another restaurant down the way, like just
Speaker 1: hopping my car and we'll go. Oh. So she didn't
Speaker 1: want to get in the car with you because she
Speaker 1: thought you were a creature. Yeah, she didn't want to
Speaker 1: get in the car. You guys argued about that. Well,
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, like it's a date. It
Speaker 1: seems like a more sort of economic car. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: don't sound like a fiery person. You sound pretty laid back. Well,
Speaker 1: I have like opinions, I guess, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: wanted to do nice things for her and she wasn't
Speaker 1: letting me do him. And I was like, hey, like
Speaker 1: I want to drive you to the date. Okay, So
Speaker 1: she said no, I don't want to get in your car.
Speaker 1: You said, get in the car now I'm taking it
Speaker 1: to dinner. She said, no, did it get heated with
Speaker 1: you guys? We were arguing, but it couldn't really get
Speaker 1: heated until we got to the restaurant. And that's when
Speaker 1: like the big argument argument. You guys have known each
Speaker 1: other for all of what an hour by this point,
Speaker 1: probably like fifteen minutes a little left? Okay, So what
Speaker 1: was the argument about in the restaurant? Well, she like
Speaker 1: went to sit down and I could see that she
Speaker 1: had this tattoo on her hip. So I was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: what's that? Can you tell me what it's about? She
Speaker 1: was like, no, no, no, I'd rather not. And I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, come on, like it's on your body,
Speaker 1: you know, like you got a tattoo on your body,
Speaker 1: it's there forever, it's in a pretty visible place, Like
Speaker 1: what is it? And she was like, no, I got
Speaker 1: it when I was seventeen, and I don't really like
Speaker 1: just would rather not talk about it on a first date.
Speaker 1: Why didn't you just let it go? Then? Nick? Well,
Speaker 1: I tried to like forget it and not think about it,
Speaker 1: and then like a minute, will go buy and it
Speaker 1: would come into my head again and just ask I know,
Speaker 1: I'd say, like, why can't we just talk about this
Speaker 1: now so we can get to the next part at dinner?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you know you're coming off? Is crazy? Right?
Speaker 1: You argued with her the entire date. How did things
Speaker 1: in with you, guys? Well, I was pretty upset about it,
Speaker 1: and she was pretty upset about it, and you know,
Speaker 1: we drove back to the parking lot and it got
Speaker 1: a little bit worse and then she just left. Were you,
Speaker 1: I mean, at any point during this it did the
Speaker 1: arguments escalate into actual yelling? Yeah? Definitely? So, Nick, why
Speaker 1: do you want Why do you even want to call
Speaker 1: her back for a second date? You guys obviously don't
Speaker 1: get along. I just like, I really liked her. She's
Speaker 1: really pretty, and she had a cool energy about her.
Speaker 1: She's really feisty, and like she didn't take any crap
Speaker 1: from me, and you know, she would just give it
Speaker 1: right back, and I felt like it could be like
Speaker 1: a really cool sexual energy. Nick, do you normally fall
Speaker 1: for girls who tend to beat you up a little bit?
Speaker 1: I like a girl who, like you, can stand up
Speaker 1: for herself, right, But screaming at the end of a
Speaker 1: date not exactly the same as feisty yeah, but you
Speaker 1: never know, you know, like sometimes people were together and
Speaker 1: they like just have that thing where they just like
Speaker 1: or know how to push a chow's button. Fight and
Speaker 1: then you make up. The makeup is very nice. All right, Nick,
Speaker 1: Well we'll play a song, come back, call her, get
Speaker 1: her on the phone. And we already know why she's
Speaker 1: not calling you back. That's a terrible first date you
Speaker 1: just told us about. But we'll see if we can
Speaker 1: get you a second date. I guess okay, all right, cool,
Speaker 1: all right, hang on foking jubil in the morning. All right,
Speaker 1: I figured it out. I figured out how to who's
Speaker 1: on the phone to do a second day update with us?
Speaker 1: Right now? Can actually get this girl to go out
Speaker 1: with him again? Well, apologize profusely and swear it won't
Speaker 1: happen again. No, oh, well kind of. I guess Nick's
Speaker 1: about to have us called Grace for a second date update.
Speaker 1: Their first date was filled with arguments. It started at
Speaker 1: the car and continued on through dinner. They argue the
Speaker 1: whole time. Nick, you want a second date with her? Right? Yeah, definitely?
Speaker 1: For whatever reason, I'm guessing the best way to do
Speaker 1: that is to just tell her, Hey, at least, it's
Speaker 1: going to be all uphill from here, Like, it can't
Speaker 1: get any worse than what happened on our first date
Speaker 1: unless she disagrees with you and then you start a fight. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then sends up in an argument. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: willing to try whatever. So okay, we're gonna call her
Speaker 1: right now, see if we can get her on the phone,
Speaker 1: talk to her about your date, and then we'll connect
Speaker 1: you with her. Okay, great, all right, man, here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hi is Race there? This is Shame. Hello Grace. How
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Right. Do you know who I am? I do,
Speaker 1: I just don't know why you're calling me? But hello,
Speaker 1: do you know who I am? Grace? I feel like
Speaker 1: you've used that line a couple of times I have,
Speaker 1: mostly at restaurants. So you listen to our show at all? Yeah? Okay?
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard the second date updates before? I
Speaker 1: think I heard one? Okay, so you kind of know
Speaker 1: what it is. It's where you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody end up not calling them back. They
Speaker 1: email us to get you on the phone and ask
Speaker 1: why the person that I'm calling about is named Nick.
Speaker 1: You've got to be kidding me, And I feel like,
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a very memorable date for
Speaker 1: you because we actually talked to Nick. We read his
Speaker 1: email and he said that you guys argued throughout the
Speaker 1: whole first date, but Nick still wants to go out
Speaker 1: with you. Is a loon. I'm glad we're doing this
Speaker 1: because this is gonna be like a warning to everybody
Speaker 1: on match dot com. Oh my god, he didn't even
Speaker 1: list match. So what happened on the date? So I
Speaker 1: told him, let's meet in the mall parking lot. That's
Speaker 1: where I always meet dates because I don't know these
Speaker 1: guys yet, right, And I told him we're gonna go
Speaker 1: to eat at the restaurant there was, you know, right
Speaker 1: there where I had parts. He starts going into a bitch,
Speaker 1: wanting me to get in his car because he's gonna
Speaker 1: take me to a place that's quote bitchen bitchen spot,
Speaker 1: that's like a five star yelp. Yeah, yeah, Well he
Speaker 1: explained that to us, Grace. He told us all about
Speaker 1: your argument in the parking lot, that you didn't want
Speaker 1: to get in the car, and he said that he
Speaker 1: was he had planned to take you to a nice
Speaker 1: dinner and wanted to drive you there and told us
Speaker 1: how you argued quite a bit. So we're in the
Speaker 1: car and he starts trying to kiss me at every
Speaker 1: stop sign. Really right away. Yes, I'm like, get out
Speaker 1: of here and need ask you need to be more
Speaker 1: open with me. Wow, Okay, he didn't mention anything about
Speaker 1: the kissing. I'll go ahead, Grace and tell you what
Speaker 1: else you said about your date. Go ahead. He said
Speaker 1: that you went to the restaurant and got in a
Speaker 1: little bit of an argument about your tattoo. It was
Speaker 1: like a dog seeing a bone. He would not shut
Speaker 1: up about this tattoo. Where did you get it? With me?
Speaker 1: What you haven't hold? Where you did it? Will ring
Speaker 1: three two? I'm like, shut up, it's primate. First of all,
Speaker 1: if I want you to know what my tattoo is,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Okay, I didn't. So I'm getting mad
Speaker 1: and I'm just start yelling and I said, you know,
Speaker 1: it's none of your business. And so he said, well,
Speaker 1: if that's your attitude, you're paying for dinner. Oh no,
Speaker 1: it was worth forty dollars to me to just get
Speaker 1: him out of my sight. I put down the forty dollars,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, take me back to my car now.
Speaker 1: I mean really, I could have ran there, but I
Speaker 1: had on good shoes. Hey, Grace, I'll tell you this, Nick,
Speaker 1: when he was talking about you, I said, why do
Speaker 1: you even want to go out on a second date
Speaker 1: with Grace? Because you guys argued the whole time, right.
Speaker 1: I didn't know about him being a weirdo or whatever
Speaker 1: with you. I just knew about you guys arguing. And
Speaker 1: I said, why would you want to go out with
Speaker 1: her again? He said, I love the fact that she's
Speaker 1: got spunk and she stands up for herself. You do
Speaker 1: have a lot of spunk, You got that right, and
Speaker 1: you're funny. Yeah. What if you were to talk to
Speaker 1: Nick right now, what would you say to him? Well,
Speaker 1: I'd have to spit because I threw up in my
Speaker 1: mouth a little bit. Just a bit of therapy, you know.
Speaker 1: He just I don't know if his med's hat and
Speaker 1: kicked in yet or they wore off. Story is he's
Speaker 1: got issues? Grace? Oh my god, Nick is actually on
Speaker 1: the phone. Hey, Grace, you've got hitting me, not at all. Nick.
Speaker 1: What do you have to say for yourself? Is everything
Speaker 1: that Grace said true. I mean it's not that bad,
Speaker 1: but like, yeah, we had some hiccups in our date,
Speaker 1: and like what you told us about the hiccups. You
Speaker 1: told us about the hiccups, But I'm talking about trying
Speaker 1: to kiss her as soon as she got in the
Speaker 1: car and that kind of stuff. Well, I met her online.
Speaker 1: Like a lot of the girls that have met online
Speaker 1: are like down you know, to kiss like pretty much
Speaker 1: right off the back. It's probably not true. They're not
Speaker 1: nick They might be doing it to shut you off,
Speaker 1: because first of all, I have never been around anybody
Speaker 1: that uses more words, that says absolutely nothing and takes
Speaker 1: twenty five minutes to do it. I mean, you are
Speaker 1: one of the most annoying human beings as ever walked
Speaker 1: the story. Wow. See, Like that's why I like you,
Speaker 1: because you've got that spunk. You're not afraid to tell
Speaker 1: how it is. But right, here's how it is. The
Speaker 1: guys didn't let me finish my story. When we got
Speaker 1: to my car finally, Thank the Lord, he started crying.
Speaker 1: He was what was he saying? Why was he crying?
Speaker 1: I just don't understand why this is south, you know,
Speaker 1: because I think that you're just like an awesome chick,
Speaker 1: come down and there's like all this energy chemistry, and
Speaker 1: he jumps in the backseat of my car. He jumped
Speaker 1: on the back seat of your car. How'd you get
Speaker 1: him out? He said? There, I'm not gonna get out.
Speaker 1: You promised me a second date. I'm not gonna get us.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I just gotta warm much better on the next day.
Speaker 1: And so I was like, okay, I'll go out with
Speaker 1: you again. And the freak got out of my car,
Speaker 1: and I'd like to apologize to them all because I
Speaker 1: left big old tire. Mark says, I don't know, Nick,
Speaker 1: is all that true? Well, I was upset, you know,
Speaker 1: like energy and focus on something. And Nick, Nick, you
Speaker 1: are very calmly talking about this. You don't see anything
Speaker 1: wrong with your behavior? No, I do, Like, I don't
Speaker 1: think I was like the perfect date or anything like that.
Speaker 1: The perfect date. Nick. Nick, I'm just gonna I'm gonna
Speaker 1: recap one thing real quick for you. You were in tears, blubbering,
Speaker 1: jumped in the backseat of a car, refused to get
Speaker 1: out unless you would go on a second date. That
Speaker 1: is not normal behavior, man, All right, Well, I just
Speaker 1: I don't know. I was improvising Nick. Yeah, how about this.
Speaker 1: You don't have to cry and throw yourself around this time.
Speaker 1: I will ask for a second date for you, Grace,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Nick again? We
Speaker 1: will pay for a second date. Please don't yell at me.
Speaker 1: Yeah I would. What we're gonna do is we're gonna
Speaker 1: go to a therapist office. I'm gonna drop him off,
Speaker 1: and you guys will pay for it. That'll probably be
Speaker 1: the nicest thing you've done this. It's like a charity
Speaker 1: case for Nick. Nick. There you go, man, that's that's
Speaker 1: what happened. Well, win some loose something, I guess. Hey, Nick,
Speaker 1: are we still cool? Like? I know that you got
Speaker 1: put through a lot here with Grace and everything else
Speaker 1: and being in this segment, like you may feel ripped
Speaker 1: on everything else. We're still cool, right, Like you still
Speaker 1: are friends with the show and everything. Yeah, you guys
Speaker 1: are cool. I mean like you went out of your
Speaker 1: way to do this for me. That's pretty cool. All right,
Speaker 1: Thank you man, Thank you for a second day update. Um,
Speaker 1: take care all right, It will all right, man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just want to make sure he was still friends
Speaker 1: with us, because he is crazy. Morning