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Speaker 2: Trea is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted from a date she

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Speaker 2: went on with a woman named Carolina. So we're going

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Speaker 2: to see if we can help figure it out for

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Speaker 2: and maybe get another date if she still wants one.

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Speaker 2: In a second, but first, Dray, how long has it

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Speaker 2: been since you heard from Krolina.

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Speaker 3: It's been about a week now that I hadn't heard

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Speaker 3: from her, Okay, And yeah, so I'm just really confused

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Speaker 3: because we well, for like, we met at work and

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Speaker 3: we've kind of been flirting, like back and forth, you know,

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Speaker 3: just kind of office romance. I guess, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 4: But she's really pretty.

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Speaker 3: She has a great sense of humor, and we've actually

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Speaker 3: been having coffee like in the office break room and

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Speaker 3: stuff and kind of getting to know each other. So

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Speaker 3: it was we kind of knew each other before going

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Speaker 3: into a date, and so I finally got up the

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Speaker 3: nerve to ask her out, and I wanted I've been

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Speaker 3: wanting to play pickleball because I've heard there's so much

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Speaker 5: Is that what you did for your date?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we went.

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Speaker 3: We played We played a couple of rounds of pickleball,

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Speaker 3: and then we had some drinks after words at bar.

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Speaker 4: Okay, And I mean, as far as I'm concerned, the

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Speaker 4: date was great. Like the conversation was wonderful.

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Speaker 3: Like I said, she has a great personality, she's funny,

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Speaker 3: a little kiss. Oh but yeah, the next day, I

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Speaker 3: was excited to like get to work and see her,

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Speaker 3: and she wasn't there. So I texted her because I

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Speaker 3: make sure she was okay. Maybe she was sick. I

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Speaker 3: me back, and so she hasn't been at work all week.

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Speaker 4: She get fired, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I hadn't heard anything, so I don't think so. But

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Speaker 3: I've been reaching out to her, and I'm actually like

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Speaker 3: kind of worried because like I don't know if something

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Speaker 4: Just don't know. I thought we had a great date.

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Speaker 4: I think, you know. Now I'm just worried I did something.

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Speaker 2: Do they have like a policy about dating other coworkers

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Speaker 2: at your office?

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Speaker 4: Only if you're like.

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Speaker 3: You can't, like supervisors can't date hourly employees and things

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Speaker 4: But if you're both hourly, then you can, then you

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Speaker 4: can date.

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Speaker 5: Look, it's a free for all.

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Speaker 4: I love it.

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Speaker 5: Does she usually show up to work every day?

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Speaker 7: Like, I mean, is she the type of person that

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Speaker 3: She's actually pretty good with attendance, so which is why

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Speaker 3: I'm so worried that she's missed so much.

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Speaker 7: Did anything weird and on the date, Like, was there

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Speaker 3: Don't know, I mean not on my end, I thought

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Speaker 3: everything went went great, Like when we parted, we parted

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Speaker 3: on great terms, and you know, we even said we

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Speaker 4: Out of it.

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Speaker 5: But I'd be worried too. Have you asked around about her?

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Speaker 3: I asked a couple of people, but nobody really and

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Speaker 3: everybody just kind of says they haven't heard from her either,

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Speaker 5: I feel like it's a good amount of time to

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Speaker 5: not be in the office, right, Like, do you know

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Speaker 4: I did call her.

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Speaker 3: From a block number to see if she would answer,

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Speaker 3: and she did answer, but I got a little nervous

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Speaker 2: Oh no, so you know that she's answering her phone

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Speaker 2: at least.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, good, she's alive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she is alive, So that's good. I guess now

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Speaker 5: We'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come Back, and then we'll call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date if you still

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's great, thanks guys, all right, we'll play song

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Speaker 5: come Back, Get your first Date follow up.

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Speaker 2: Greya is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a date she

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Speaker 2: went on with a coworker named Carolina and doesn't know why.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call Carolina and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting and maybe get Drea another

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Speaker 2: date if she still wants one. But first, Drea, why

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Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your date with Carolina.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Carolyne and I met at work. We've been kind

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Speaker 3: of floating back and forth, and I finally got the

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Speaker 3: we had drinks, great conversation, and even a little kiss.

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Speaker 4: At the end.

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Speaker 3: So I'm just wondering why she's not returning my text.

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Speaker 5: And she hasn't been to work for a week. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: that's the alarming.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, all right, that's where I'm worried.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okaym call her.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 5: Hi, May I speak to Carolina please? Yes, this is Carolina, Carolina,

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Speaker 5: how are you? My name is Jewbell, and I host

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Speaker 5: a radio show and it's called The Jewbell Show. Hi, Carolena,

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Speaker 5: the show's here too. My name is Nina. Hi An,

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Speaker 5: I'm Victoria. There's three of us on the phone with

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Speaker 5: you right now.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Okay, sorry three?

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Speaker 6: Okay, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on our show it's called the

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Speaker 2: first Date follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a day with somebody and end up ghosting them.

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Speaker 2: That person can email us to get you on the

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Speaker 5: That you dated recently. Okay, any idea who would be?

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Speaker 5: Was it?

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Speaker 6: Ja?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 5: It was. Drea wants to know why you're ghosting her?

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Speaker 5: Why haven't been to worked?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So I'll tell you about that. Okay, cool, I

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Speaker 6: mean to ask me about it? Okay, yeah, okay, but

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Speaker 6: you know what, fine, So I'm Gohostandrea. You can tell

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Speaker 6: her this because you know, as we were leaving our date,

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Speaker 6: you know, it's going to be amazing when my ex

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Speaker 6: you know, listen, I'm getting older. I don't want to

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Speaker 5: She was saying that going out with you was going

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like basically like getting back to her, Like happiness

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Speaker 2: You think that she didn't really like you that much,

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Speaker 2: She just wanted to make her ex jealous.

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Speaker 6: Well that's the thing, like I didn't see that coming

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Speaker 6: So I don't know what she'll say if I mentioned

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Speaker 2: Well, let's see, because she's actually on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she's been listening this whole time, and she wants to

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, so Dreya, you're there right, No, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Obviously, you don't know a lot about my past and

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Speaker 3: Amazing time with you, but my ex was kind of

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Speaker 6: Right now, like I do appreciate the apology for sure,

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Speaker 6: dated guys? Yes, I date people for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Oh yeah, you didn't tell me that, so I

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Speaker 6: So I just thought I'll mention, you know, keeps your

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well you're getting onto me about like my ex

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Speaker 4: XES, so it's just kind of it's just kind of

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Speaker 6: I wasn't really getting onto about your act. I think

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Speaker 4: So yeah, I just I mean, I guess like.

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Speaker 3: I guess I'm just kind of different on that end.

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Speaker 2: More different Carolina. Would you would you like to go

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Speaker 6: I think that's just made myself pretty clear here. Again,

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Speaker 6: I think she seems like a cool girl, but I

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Speaker 6: You know, it's early on, but I can tell, I

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Speaker 4: But yeah, no, that's fine.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I would feel like to be friends, because

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Speaker 3: I think you're really cool girls. But I mean I

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Speaker 6: So well, hopefully you know, work friends. We'll leave it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well see it work, Carolina.

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Speaker 5: We have a good first day back after being sick.

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Speaker 6: Oh, thank you. I appreciate that.

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