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Speaker 2: Well, Hello, teeny Beaters. Nope, it's not it. It's still

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Speaker 2: work shopping our names. We will get there at some point,

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Speaker 2: I promise, but more importantly, in the meanwhile, this is

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Speaker 2: teen Beat with Me Danielle Fischel. It's a podcast where

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Speaker 2: I invite interesting people to sit down and chat about

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Speaker 2: their upbringings, the glorious and the awkward, all in an

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Speaker 2: on television as a literal kid. It's an easy concept.

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Speaker 2: I gave you my childhood. It's time we hear yours.

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Speaker 2: And this week I'm hanging out with a reality television

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Speaker 2: superstar who's here not only to talk about his formative years,

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Speaker 2: his generation and mine, with the goal of making me

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Speaker 2: cooler by the end of this episode. Twenty eight years old,

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Speaker 2: six foot five, this Queensland, Australia native burst onto the

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Speaker 2: scene in twenty eighteen as the standout star of New

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Speaker 2: Zealand's hit reality dating show Heartbreak Island, leaving with a

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Speaker 2: In branding. He then sidestepped the success onto twenty twenty

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Speaker 2: one's British dating game show Too Hot to Handle and

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Speaker 2: MTV's Match Me If You Can, a prime example of

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Speaker 2: celebrity in the always changing media landscape of today. He

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Speaker 2: continued to make the unscripted rounds from flori Islava to

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Speaker 2: thirty second season of Dancing with the Stars, where he

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Speaker 2: And now he's about to raise the ante with his

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Speaker 2: own reality dating show, Let's Marry Harry on Netflix, executive

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Speaker 2: produced by Alex Cooper of Call Her Daddy Fame, with

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Speaker 2: the goal of guiding the serial dater toward a committed,

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Speaker 2: Unwell Network called Boyfriend Material, but today he's here on

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Speaker 2: teen Beat because I have to assume somewhere underneath this

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Speaker 2: to the show, Harry Jousey.

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Speaker 3: That was the coolest I've ever had.

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, saying that six of us reality TV superstars Superstar

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's supermodel superstars?

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Speaker 3: So you really like did you say?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're just supply by night operation?

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Speaker 3: Here?

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Speaker 2: This is iHeart.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is the big this is a.

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Speaker 2: Serious building, as you called it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so cool. I feel really official.

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Speaker 2: You should and you're very cool. You should you should

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Speaker 3: Wow? What do I do now? It's so fun?

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Speaker 2: Am I right? Have you always been cool?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: I was such a little Yeah, a little sausage.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to need some more explanation about that.

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Speaker 2: What's a little sausage?

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Speaker 3: I just feel like sausage is like a universal word

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Speaker 3: I think I threw a desk at a teacher.

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Speaker 2: That doesn't seem like it. No, what had they done?

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Speaker 2: I just try to figure out what kind of what

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Speaker 2: I really got to be honest. When I started this

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't even know. Like that was the thing

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Speaker 2: She just wanted to say maybe she.

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Speaker 2: That was her thank you listen for our kids because

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Speaker 4: So it's so nice to ask questions.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I realized. That's what I'm grateful for

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Speaker 2: And wow, you don't seem like a trouble make me

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Speaker 3: No, I remember the first time I got suspended, my

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Speaker 2: Right, so it was just rocks and sticks everywhere.

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Speaker 3: It was all rocks and sticks, right. Yeah, So that

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like that was your dad's version of

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, and you know what, it didn't work because

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Was that for a fight club? I know you've been

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Speaker 2: pretty vocal about your teenage fight clubs. Were they like official,

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Speaker 3: No? Oh, you know how we call them tower fights.

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Speaker 3: This one time? I Most of the times I was

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Speaker 3: pretty good. This one time wasn't that good. This big,

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Speaker 3: He was pretty large. He was larger than charge. He

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Speaker 3: But then I dated his sister, So I was the

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Speaker 2: So you're the real winner. Yeah, our teenage are like,

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Speaker 2: it's crazy on which we have in common? Yeah, tower fights,

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Speaker 2: of course. Is that the worst injury you had as

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Speaker 3: I got any reconstruction at seventeen because I was playing rugby, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: But it was still together. And then my dad was like,

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Speaker 3: Back out there.

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Speaker 2: Your dad has some mean, very hue, a funny guy

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think because it wasn't like a crazy hit,

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Speaker 3: It was just like And also I was built like

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Speaker 3: I went to school in Australia, got kicked out of

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Speaker 4: Was the worst.

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Speaker 3: I was on the worst team at school and on

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Speaker 3: the bench for them, like they would just put me

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Speaker 3: Harris should probably run.

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Speaker 2: How old is your brother?

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Speaker 4: I think he's thirty one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so he's three years older than you two and

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Speaker 2: years old. Did he also have to go to New Zealand?

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Speaker 3: No, No, he was perfect at school.

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Speaker 2: Okay they did they send you a loan to another country?

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Speaker 3: Yep?

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Speaker 2: Cool?

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Speaker 3: And then you know what, I got kicked out at

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Speaker 3: school too.

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Speaker 4: I delivered a ten for two weeks.

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Speaker 2: You what you're delivering a tent yeap for two weeks?

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Speaker 2: Was that your punishment?

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Speaker 3: No? My parents, like, we spent so much money on

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Speaker 3: we spent so much money in boarding school for you,

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Speaker 3: and this was your final year at school.

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Speaker 4: We give up.

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Speaker 2: Like you said, there's only two weeks left, is what?

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Speaker 2: There were? Two weeks?

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Speaker 3: Two weeks aft, Like you didn't have to go to

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Speaker 3: I have to do it. But it was funny and

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Speaker 3: if one of our friends didn't get caught by the

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Speaker 3: police and snitch and everyone, we would have got away.

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Speaker 2: We would have gotten away with it if not for

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Speaker 3: That's what we're saying. Yeah, you know, so it's kind

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Speaker 3: of not really my fault.

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Speaker 2: I see, gosh, I really feel very bad for you.

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Speaker 3: It's horrible, honestly troubled up breaking.

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Speaker 2: Were you always tall? Did you like sprout overnight or.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my family's so tall, like my mom's six foot Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like me, exact same.

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Speaker 2: I walked in and you were like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: you're so tall.

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Speaker 4: This is so tall.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I think my brother's six two, and then my

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Speaker 2: You're the tallest in the family.

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Speaker 3: I have to be yeah, yeah, of course. And then

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Speaker 3: your four sisters and they're quite little, yeah, a little

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Speaker 3: and fun.

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Speaker 2: Great.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: When did you first notice girls? And when did they

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Speaker 2: first start noticing you?

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Speaker 3: Jenny, she was I was fourteen and that was hers

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Speaker 3: my virginity to love us so much at fourteen. Yeah wow, yeah,

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Speaker 3: because all my friends were doing it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's why. Yeah, that's that's how it happens.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I'm like, god, it is it fun?

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Speaker 3: Like what they say, it's kind of weird, okay, yeah, yeah, No.

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Speaker 3: I actually the first girl I noticed, I think I

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Speaker 3: was because there was Her name was Imogen. Remember that

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Speaker 3: But then as I remember, I turned fourteen, all my

445
00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:04,960
Speaker 3: friends were like telling me about like losing their virginities

446
00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:07,679
Speaker 3: for the first time with their girlfriends. And I was like, God,

447
00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,439
Speaker 3: what do we do? Who do I go for? And

448
00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,960
Speaker 3: then Jenny is my friend's cousin. She's like, I'll do.

449
00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:16,960
Speaker 2: It, be your girlfriend or yeah.

450
00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:18,520
Speaker 3: And she had a boyfriend of two years, so she

451
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,520
Speaker 3: knew what was going on. She knew the lads, knew

452
00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:24,400
Speaker 3: the ropes. Yeah, And so that was the first time,

453
00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 3: and I remember I was like, this is weird. Yeah,

454
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:30,399
Speaker 3: this is interesting. I was like I didn't expect it

455
00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 3: to feel like this. And then she was like, go

456
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,000
Speaker 3: out there and then come back to me after you

457
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,040
Speaker 3: get a few more girls, and I'll tell you if

458
00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:37,639
Speaker 3: you got better.

459
00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 2: She was so like she was a coolman of the world.

460
00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was cool. Yeah, I remember I was like

461
00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,240
Speaker 3: obsessed with her at school, Like every everyone would always

462
00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:54,200
Speaker 3: yell at me, like when Forrest coming, I love you, Jenny.

463
00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 3: They would always yell at me.

464
00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:58,200
Speaker 2: That you loved her.

465
00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:00,879
Speaker 3: It's my queen. Yeah, yeah, I don't know where she's

466
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:02,960
Speaker 3: that now. She's probably happily.

467
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 2: You've never bothered to look up. So if you can

468
00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,160
Speaker 2: find it on social media.

469
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:11,879
Speaker 3: I just keep name dropping her in every podcast.

470
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:16,680
Speaker 2: Everywhere you go. You I actually I was, let me

471
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:16,920
Speaker 2: see it.

472
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,360
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not that crazy.

473
00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,440
Speaker 2: Where do you go on dates in New Zealand? What's

474
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 2: the dating scene?

475
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,399
Speaker 3: Like? Oh, it was pretty bad. That's why I end

476
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,199
Speaker 3: up on these dating shows. Okay, what do we do?

477
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:31,359
Speaker 3: Running out of options? To be honest, until recently, I

478
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 3: wasn't very good at being a data silly to say it,

479
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 3: but I realized that if you want something, you have

480
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 3: to put an effort. If you want something good, you

481
00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:42,639
Speaker 3: gotta put an extra effort. So when I was younger,

482
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 3: I would be like dinner, a park, go for a walk,

483
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,640
Speaker 3: like whatever. But when I was at school in New Zealand,

484
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 3: pretty much just like I love doing stuff in the daytime,

485
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:54,439
Speaker 3: like I love daytime activities or going and doing something together.

486
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,360
Speaker 3: But now I'm being more active. We're trying to plan

487
00:21:58,440 --> 00:21:59,680
Speaker 3: better date, to be a better data.

488
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,639
Speaker 2: What's a good date for you?

489
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:01,920
Speaker 3: Now?

490
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,040
Speaker 2: Like, if you were going to plan a great date,

491
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:04,640
Speaker 2: you want to hear.

492
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 3: The craziest one. Yeah, fly to Catalina Island on a helicopter,

493
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,880
Speaker 3: get dinner, and then fly back. Wow, because I thought

494
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 3: that was like pretty intense.

495
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,680
Speaker 2: That is pretty intense. What if it's a bad first

496
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 2: date and then you've got like a helicopter ride and.

497
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 3: A like Instagram stories?

498
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 2: Yeah? True, Okay, so that's good.

499
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 3: That I went on. I Throughout the whole date, I

500
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 3: had written pre written compliments for I was really excited

501
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:35,560
Speaker 3: to see this person, Okay, and every like I think

502
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,920
Speaker 3: like every thirty minutes or so or twenty minutes, I

503
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:39,639
Speaker 3: would give her a piece of paper and I'd be like,

504
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 3: I think you're so amazing. And then the end of it,

505
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 3: I was like, I think you should be going to go. Yes.

506
00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 3: I had like ten ten outs I've written at and

507
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,120
Speaker 3: I kept giving it to him. I was like, oh,

508
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 3: I said, this is this makes me feel good because

509
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 3: it's intentional.

510
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,919
Speaker 2: It's yeah, and you got to think about really what

511
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,199
Speaker 2: you wanted to say, instead of just trying to come

512
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:58,400
Speaker 2: up with them on the spot.

513
00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 3: And it makes it feel special. Yeah, that's the.

514
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 2: That's the most important. So let's go back to let's

515
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:10,920
Speaker 2: say you're sixteen and you start looking for brand deals.

516
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 2: Not that that was a thing when you were sixteen,

517
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 2: but let's say that it was. What are if some

518
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:18,679
Speaker 2: of the products you hope reach out to you?

519
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 3: Links deodorant which like our acts, you guys have a

520
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 3: that's the one. Yeah, so it's rebranded Links in Australia,

521
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 3: I think l y n X and love them. And

522
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 3: Colgate toothpaste.

523
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 2: Ooh, you've always been a cold Gate guy.

524
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 3: No, I hate them so much now.

525
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 2: But back then you loved it.

526
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I used to have the yellow his teeth

527
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 3: but I just yeah, and Mathwash. I was a big

528
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 3: Listinge mathwash guy. Okay, yeah, but then apparently that's also

529
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 3: not good for you.

530
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 2: I know, you know what, Nothing is anything good for us? No, yeah,

531
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,439
Speaker 2: whatever whatever you currently are using, it's bad for you.

532
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 2: Whatever you used to use is now better for you,

533
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 2: and whatever, and then five years it will change again.

534
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 3: Yeah. Actually, back then I had braces and blocks and

535
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 3: rubber bands, so yeah, maybe teeth self would have been cool.

536
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, did you have a favorite food or snack?

537
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 3: No, I was like thee of a horse, so I

538
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 3: just eat everything. And when I was sixteen, I was

539
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 3: just I couldn't eat enough food. It was wild.

540
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 2: But you said you were built like an asparagus, which

541
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 2: is the opposite of a horse. So when did you

542
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 2: go from asparagus to horse?

543
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 3: I think when I was like twenty two, okay, when

544
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 3: I started to fill out. But yeah, back then I

545
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,880
Speaker 3: was more like a flamingo, I think, okay, skinny legs

546
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 3: and just a pop belly. Hot. It was a unique look.

547
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,960
Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite reality TV show you have

548
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 2: not appeared on.

549
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,959
Speaker 3: Oh, I just finished Traders? Have you been watching Traders?

550
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 2: I have seen Traders yet.

551
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 3: Would you do it? Have you done it?

552
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,880
Speaker 2: No, I've not done it, and I think I would

553
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 2: be terrible at it. Would you want to be a

554
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 2: faithful or a Trader?

555
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 3: Trader? For sure? Trader, I'll get caught out right away,

556
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 3: you think so? For sure? I'm so bad at Lie. No,

557
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 3: it's all the other shows where I kissed go and

558
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 3: I about it.

559
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm wanting I'm like.

560
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 3: This guy's stupid. You can see it.

561
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:10,360
Speaker 5: You can see what I'm lying, like, no way, Yeah,

562
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:13,679
Speaker 5: and then I'm like I'm exaggerating, Like tell them to

563
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:14,680
Speaker 5: pull up the replay.

564
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 3: This is a TV show, right, They're like, this guy's

565
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 3: an idiot, Like why so me as a as a

566
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 3: trade to go? We didn't kill with that person. I

567
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 3: didn't mean we they literally I would just but I

568
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 3: was being obsessed with that because I've had a few

569
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 3: of them on my podcast and I just think, like

570
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 3: the whole experience would be cool.

571
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:35,360
Speaker 7: Yeah.

572
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 3: No, one didn't chest me. Let's marry Harry was my

573
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 3: retirement one.

574
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 2: Okay. I want to get to that in a second,

575
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 2: but before I do, I do want to talk about

576
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 2: your crossover into traditional movies real acting you're doing now, Yeah,

577
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 2: what do you like more? Do you like being yourself

578
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 2: on reality TV or a heightened version of yourself on

579
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 2: reality TV? Or do you prefer something that's scripted where

580
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:01,439
Speaker 2: you get to play a character.

581
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 3: I love acting because everyone has the I guess the

582
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 3: main essence of it is it's someone's dream and their idea,

583
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 3: and I love being a part of someone's dream. Like

584
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 3: I love being like, oh my god, I get to

585
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 3: be an accessory, like because you know how it is.

586
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 3: It takes forever to get a thought to film. Oh yes,

587
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,679
Speaker 3: like I thought in front of the consumer and like

588
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 3: so many corporate meetings and then who's the right person

589
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 3: for this position? And then rewrites the script Like there's

590
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 3: just so much stuff that goes into it. And just

591
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 3: like I'm not saying reality TV isn't like that, But

592
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 3: when everyone's on set, everyone knows the game plan, everyone's

593
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 3: read the script, everyone's so excited about it. Everyone knows

594
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,639
Speaker 3: what they need in the scene, right, And I just

595
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 3: love that, Like I love that idea and I love that,

596
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 3: Like I think reality TV is a little bit more

597
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 3: like unraveled, Like it's just you could be filming twenty

598
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 3: hours a day. You could be all over the place.

599
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 3: You don't know what the scene is going to give.

600
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 3: You don't know if you've got to hit or not hit.

601
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 3: But like when you're on set, like you can feel, yeah,

602
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 3: the vibe on a script it said so the movies

603
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 3: I have done, Like I just really love that, And

604
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 3: I just love seeing people like reading nail it like.

605
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 2: Wow, and you love obviously, like you just said that collaborative.

606
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 2: We're all it, We're all on the same team. We're

607
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 2: all going for the same goal, and now we're just

608
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 2: going to talk out what the best avenue is to

609
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 2: get there.

610
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 5: Cool.

611
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like reality TV.

612
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 2: It's like you don't even know what the storyline.

613
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,640
Speaker 3: Is, kiss that go and then lie about.

614
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 2: It, right, right? And are they that direct? No, it's

615
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 2: my brain, right, but they are right, they are. They

616
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 2: are thinking like, let's see if he'll get drunk and

617
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 2: kiss that girl and then lie about it, and then

618
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 2: you'll have a show.

619
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 3: And he'll do it every time.

620
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 2: You gotta get you gotta get that guy.

621
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 3: Thing is whatever our vought show. And I hear producer

622
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 3: was someone to say, she's getting boring. I'm be one second,

623
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 3: hold on, hold on, what do we got to do?

624
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 3: That's the because I'm just like I remember like earlier shows,

625
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 3: like I would just be a menace, Like I would

626
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 3: go into something like there's obviously there's different couples, right,

627
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 3: I'd take something out of someone's bag and put it

628
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 3: in someone else's bag like they're gonna fight it. And

629
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:12,879
Speaker 3: then I go like, because everyone's.

630
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 2: Over, producer's dreamy and just take away all the bad

631
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 2: producer responsibility from them and you do it for them.

632
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, free. He's so stupid. And I remember Perfect Match

633
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 3: was like one nighter, no one was doing anything, and

634
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 3: I was so drunk, so I just said, go to

635
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 3: the mayonnaise and walk around like feeding, feeding everyone mayonnaise.

636
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 4: You have to eat it. It's so good. Never made

637
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 4: the cut.

638
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 3: It was just so weird, right.

639
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 2: But you know it. It was an experience that you'll

640
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 2: have and everyone there, everyone.

641
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 3: Now had to tell me for the mayonnaise.

642
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, and they will get to tell everyone Harry loves

643
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 2: feeding people mayonnaise when he gets drunk.

644
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 3: Ye, very good.

645
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 2: I'd like to pitch you a movie. Okay, that's good,

646
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 2: it's pretty earnest. I'm serious here. I want you to

647
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 2: do a three Amigo's reboot with Rob Roush and Dylan

648
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 2: that Ron.

649
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 3: Wow, that would be cool. But they really nice, so sweet.

650
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, so Steve Martin and Martin short and then you

651
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 2: could be Chevy Cha perfect.

652
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 3: Yeah. I love I really love Dylan. I haven't met Rob.

653
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 3: Maybe I have, I'm not sure, but Dylan is the

654
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 3: best guy ever.

655
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 2: I know.

656
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 4: He's so sweet.

657
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 2: I know what's going on. Yeah, just the nicest, the nicest, true,

658
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 2: like salt of the Earth. It's like, no surprise too

659
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 2: that then he and Robert Irwin connected because it's again

660
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 2: another guy. You're just like, is there a single bad

661
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 2: bone or even just a bit of a bone. I

662
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 2: don't think so. No bones, No bones, They're made of mayonnaise.

663
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:42,959
Speaker 2: It's it's just incredible.

664
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:44,479
Speaker 3: Let's go, how do we get that?

665
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 2: And now that I've said it's manifested for you, I

666
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 2: know you got to meet Tom Cruise during his mission

667
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 2: Impossible Press Roun. Wow was he your guy?

668
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 3: Like?

669
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 2: Who were your celebrities growing up?

670
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 3: Justin Bieber always number one?

671
00:29:58,960 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 2: Number one?

672
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, Adams, he's he's just the coolest guy. Tom Cruise obviously, Wow,

673
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 3: Like I think and Brad Pitt probably I got it.

674
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 2: I know.

675
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 3: The thing is that it's when you meet people like that,

676
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 3: like maybe it's different, but I'm like, I don't know

677
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 3: what to do with my hands. I don't know what

678
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,239
Speaker 3: to look like. I met Tom and I was like,

679
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 3: we've got to mutual friend, right, and he was like okay.

680
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 3: I was like, I've done plates with Glenn Powell one time,

681
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 3: and he was like he's done plates with Glenn. And

682
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 3: then I'm like, okay, who did he say that to?

683
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 3: She's like looked at like there was so many people

684
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 3: and I looked at the crowd and I was like, oh,

685
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry, mister Cruise. Can we

686
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 3: just take the.

687
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 2: Could you send me your cake?

688
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 3: You cake?

689
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 2: I want to be on the cake list?

690
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 3: Yeah? Wait? What's the cake list?

691
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 2: Is Tom Cruise? Everybody he works with, he then the

692
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 2: following year sends them a cake. Everyone. He remembers everybody's names.

693
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: He sends them like a person. It's a Christmas gift,

694
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 2: he sends them. Uh, I think it's a sweet lead. No,

695
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 2: it's not a sweet lady. Jane's a Woodland Hills cake

696
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 2: Don's Bakery. It's famous and people who get it now

697
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 2: it's like, you know, Hollywood Lore, are you on the

698
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 2: Tom Cruise list to get the cake? And now with

699
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 2: social media, people who get them will open them up

700
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 2: and put into them and take bites.

701
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 3: I lie, I'm gonna buy one from this place.

702
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 2: And I think, okay, thanks Tom, do it great? Put

703
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: on the list, suggests not sure how we got a cake.

704
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna lie like, yeah, guys, thanks, thank you.

705
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 3: I really should make miss possible the next one. I'm

706
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 3: the lead.

707
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 2: I'm the lead to Tom.

708
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm stepping it his replacement.

709
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 5: He sees the potential off his one really AWKWD interview interaction.

710
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 2: Did you have any celebrity crushes growing up?

711
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 5: God?

712
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously Angela and Joy.

713
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 2: I mean, come on, come on, who didn't have a

714
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 2: crush on Angela and Yeah, mister and.

715
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 3: Missus Smith, I think that was I'm like, I need

716
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 3: a love that reality. Maybe it's them too.

717
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 2: They that's we can blame them. We can totally blame

718
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 2: the two of them.

719
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, mister missus Smith. If it wasn't for that, I

720
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 3: wouldn't be in reality, it would never happened.

721
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 7: Love life would have been perfect. Yeah, I think that's okay.

722
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 2: Do you have any cool young suggestions for me? Before

723
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:51,239
Speaker 2: we started this podcast, we talked about your pants that

724
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:54,479
Speaker 2: are dirty on purpose? There you paid extra money for

725
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 2: this dirt? That could be something? What could I do

726
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: as a mid forties mom of two? How did? What

727
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 2: could I do to be cooler?

728
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 3: So you didn't strike me as Sony's dirty?

729
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 2: So thank you.

730
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 3: Let's cut out the dirty pants. You know you didn't

731
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,239
Speaker 3: need to do that. Okay, I think you question You've

732
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 3: got a podcast?

733
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, very cool?

734
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 3: The coolest thing you could have ever done? Okay, okay,

735
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 3: I we love hots.

736
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 2: We love them. I know how to do the I

737
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 2: know how to do the young gen Z verse.

738
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 3: Isn't it the heart?

739
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 2: You can do it with all of them?

740
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't think that's right.

741
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 4: I think yeah, I think there's something with the pinkies

742
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 4: this one.

743
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 3: Am I getting old? What's good?

744
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 2: Exactly what? But I'm matching it with yours? So we

745
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 2: do it together? See?

746
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 3: Am I did I just age myself?

747
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 4: I don't know.

748
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 2: I'm so happy or old?

749
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 3: Yeah? So I'm the oldest person in life. I don't know.

750
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 3: I feel like health and wellness is really into.

751
00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 2: So okayptides, Oh what do you say? It could be

752
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 2: one five.

753
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 3: I'm taking the Glimmax. No, the Glimax and NAD so Glomax.

754
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 2: I know about all about NAD. I hadn't an AD

755
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 2: shot not that long ago. And it bruised the back

756
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 2: of my arm.

757
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't even feel.

758
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 2: It, but I yeah, I don't. I think I bruised

759
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 2: like a peach.

760
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 3: Oh you do? Yea?

761
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:19,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's nice and sensitive and sweet.

762
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 2: I'm just little, you up?

763
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 3: I think yeah? I think Glomax is GHK CU and

764
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 3: it BP one and then there's something else. But it's

765
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 3: talking meant to be really good and good for your skins.

766
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 2: Yes, And I just want people to know, not that

767
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 2: I'm anti your your health and wellness thing, but for

768
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: people who I had cancer in twenty twenty four and peptides,

769
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 2: one of the reasons they're so good for your skin

770
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 2: is that they promote cell turnover. One of the things

771
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 2: you don't want if you have cancer is those cells

772
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:51,399
Speaker 2: to turnover. And multi three times you had what three

773
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:57,879
Speaker 2: times skin cancer? Okay, So what I'm saying is peptides

774
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 2: right now are kind of all the rage, but they're

775
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:09,840
Speaker 2: not for everyone. So worth possibly talking to your dermatologist

776
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 2: to say, is there is there a potential for my

777
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: skin cancer cells to be regenerating? Because I love lying

778
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 2: to it.

779
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 4: You just love God, it makes you feel better.

780
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I like to my therapist. I don't

781
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 2: like to my oncologist. Okay, you know, pick and choose

782
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 2: the doctors you lie to.

783
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 3: Friend, Okay, that's a good point.

784
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 2: You don't even have to tell me the name. Just

785
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 2: what's the oldest person you've ever had slide into your DMS?

786
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 3: Oh uh, I don't know, like a seventies eighties, but

787
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 3: that's who the stars is going. Like the average the

788
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 3: average audience age is sixty. I believe maybe it's changed now,

789
00:35:58,320 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 3: but when I was on the show, there was sixty

790
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 3: and after that I add some some freaky older ladies.

791
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 3: I want to taste of the sausage. You know, I

792
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 3: was gonna say apple pie, but I don't know why

793
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 3: shut up.

794
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 2: I am about ready to wrap up my ballroom career

795
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 2: with a few final dates on the Dancing with the

796
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 2: Stars Live Tour. And you competed and also hit the road.

797
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,839
Speaker 2: Did you have as much fun on the show as

798
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 2: I have been having, which is immeasurable amounts of fun?

799
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 2: In case you were good time in my life?

800
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 4: I wanted to die.

801
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 3: Did you know? It was the best experience ever, so

802
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 3: rewarding and amazing. I just never danced in my life.

803
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 3: And I'm like, well you a little and easy to

804
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 3: move now?

805
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 2: Yeah I can.

806
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 3: I'm a tree. And one of the judges, like one

807
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 3: of the extra judges, one day, he was like, are

808
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 3: you a tree trunk? You don't know what's going on

809
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 3: out I'm trying, You're correct.

810
00:36:58,440 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 4: So when I was on tour, I came out as

811
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 4: a t and it was really fun. But no, I

812
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 4: had the best time.

813
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 3: Everyone was really lovely and then they weren't, and then

814
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 3: they weren't. Yeah, because you know, cool when the next

815
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 3: season comes around, so everyone stops talking to you.

816
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 2: Well yeah, I mean also, you know what that schedule's like.

817
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 2: When the next season comes around, they're locked in. Boy,

818
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 2: you have no time for anything. I was. I was

819
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 2: a little surprised by how much of my life had absorbed.

820
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 3: Yeah. He deletes every plan and everything that you have. Yeah.

821
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 3: The next season came around the show, and I realized

822
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 3: like a lot of the people were not text me

823
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 3: back or on following me. And actually, the biggest thing

824
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 3: that upset me, the most biggest thing that upset me

825
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,439
Speaker 3: the most is when my dad had passed, no one

826
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 3: text me, and I was really close to them. No

827
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 3: one had texted me apart from Sasha, and I was like, okay,

828
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 3: So I was like, I don't know if you guys

829
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 3: are really my friends or it was just it was horrible.

830
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 4: It was right.

831
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,400
Speaker 2: That was a very telling moment for you.

832
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 3: Yeah. And also I think the hardest thing was like

833
00:37:56,440 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 3: I was trying my best with all the noise and rething.

834
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 4: But I just think I'm I'm kind of.

835
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,280
Speaker 3: Glad that I'm not friends with any of them because

836
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 3: of when my dad had passed that I was like,

837
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 3: there was one of them. I was training in the

838
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 3: gym with him like every day, and I'm like, oh,

839
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,919
Speaker 3: I could and I told him that my dad was sick,

840
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 3: and there was a lot of them, and I knew

841
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 3: that they knew that someone was going on.

842
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:19,959
Speaker 4: I think that was the thing that felt most.

843
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, okay, there's.

844
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 2: No denying he knew.

845
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, no denying that, and you could have texted or

846
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 3: anything like that. But when I posted the photo like

847
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 3: and my dad's passed, they just like it. And I'm like,

848
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 3: I would have moved mountains, Like if it was you,

849
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 3: I would have been there. So I think that's why

850
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm kind of glad that that chapter.

851
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 2: Is behind you.

852
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't know if you're really real people.

853
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 3: But it's all good because I think when you're in

854
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 3: that show, and I've spoken to other people that want

855
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 3: the show too, like it's just such a bubble and

856
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 3: you see like it's it's such a bubble and nothing

857
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 3: else matters. And I think like when you when you're

858
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 3: a dancer and you on that show, that's like you

859
00:38:57,680 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 3: made the NFL because like a lot of the other

860
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 3: pros that like leave the show that kind of like

861
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 3: the outcasts. They don't really talk to them, so it's

862
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 3: a bit weird. Anyway, I'm probably going to get in.

863
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 6: Trouble for that.

864
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 3: No, I don't really care.

865
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 2: You've mentioned a couple of times about your dad passing,

866
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 2: so it's obviously something that still deeply affects you when

867
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,280
Speaker 2: you were close to your dad. You've had great stories

868
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 2: in this podcast about do you want to talk a

869
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 2: little more about your dad? Is there anything in particular

870
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 2: you want to say, or.

871
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 3: I just it's like, grief is so fun and I

872
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 3: love I love thinking about my dad and I love

873
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 3: getting the opportunity to talk about like lost one like

874
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 3: lost loved ones because it's really like that was the

875
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:37,439
Speaker 3: hard the hardest thing I've ever experienced is watching him

876
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 3: take his last breath.

877
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 4: But that was such a beautiful thing to be a

878
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 4: part of.

879
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 3: And I think you learn a lot about your environment

880
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 3: and your people and who really cares and who's really

881
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 3: there when you're going through something so humanizing and something

882
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 3: so like traumatic, and I'm just I was just so

883
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 3: grateful that I was there to be there and experience that.

884
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 3: But like there's so much drama around death too, Like

885
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 3: family is so silly and sassy. Yes, Like isn't it

886
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 3: kind of funny how people.

887
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 4: Get when someone goes.

888
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 3: But I just love, yeah, I just I love being

889
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 3: able to talk about him because he's he's my whole personality,

890
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 3: you know, like my dad was when growing up. He's

891
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 3: the biggest flirt in front of mom. He's flirting with

892
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 3: the waitress. He's teaching me how to tip. I remember

893
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 3: we would be first time I ever tipped, because tipping

894
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 3: is on a thing in Australia. But if someone's really good,

895
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 3: my dad would be like, here's some cash. You got

896
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 3: to shake their hand and and I'm like, okay, that's

897
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 3: cool because you don't want other people to see it

898
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 3: because then they thing that they get to like, okay,

899
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 3: it's like only the good.

900
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 2: One, only the good one.

901
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:52,240
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, But I love, like, I just love thinking

902
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 3: about that stuff because she's all fleeting, right, And I

903
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 3: guess that's where my journey with religion and it's going

904
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 3: now because I remember sitting now with him because he

905
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 3: went through with his sister dying and that was the

906
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,760
Speaker 3: scariest thing but the most beautiful thing on the planet

907
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:11,399
Speaker 3: because you get to know that he's this is the day,

908
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 3: like he gets to choose and you get to be there.

909
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 3: You get to spend every day with him, and that

910
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 3: was really cool. But uh wow, yeah, it was just

911
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 3: like obviously every relationship and every relationship with your parents

912
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,919
Speaker 3: is up and down, and I had so many I'd

913
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 3: like two or three years right, didn't talk to him

914
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 3: because he struggled with alcohol, and we had this very

915
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 3: rocky relationship, but as as anyone does. Like not no relationships, absolutely,

916
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,360
Speaker 3: but I just I'm so grateful that we got to

917
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 3: we got to know, and I got to look back

918
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 3: and it's just all those hard days and all those

919
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 3: happy days. Just be grateful because my.

920
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:54,839
Speaker 2: Dad, Yeah, it's really nice that you were there too

921
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 2: for those those last moments. I really think are like

922
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 2: just one of the points of life.

923
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so like is it so? I remember Alex

924
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 3: Warren was talking about it when his parents had passed

925
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 3: that like he was in the hospital and his whole

926
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 3: world is just like flipped on its head, Like it's

927
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 3: the hardest thing is they ever gone through. And then

928
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 3: he walks outside.

929
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:20,720
Speaker 2: And the world is all just moving.

930
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, people are driving past.

931
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 3: No one cares. And that's why I felt like. I

932
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,800
Speaker 3: remember because he had a drink and he went to sleep,

933
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 3: and remember seeing there. I was like, because my sister Sarah,

934
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 3: she said, hold his feet, You'll get allose magic powers

935
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 3: when he goes over. So I'm sitting there holding his

936
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 3: feet and he takes his last breath. I remember, I

937
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 3: was like, Wow, this is really tough, but this is

938
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 3: the hardest thing ever there. I can't be in this room.

939
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:46,800
Speaker 3: So I went outside and went and cried in a bush.

940
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 3: I'm looking him like no one, no one else, no

941
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 3: one cares about what just said, Like this is.

942
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 2: It's a very isolating wowing yeah.

943
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 3: But then this, yeah, the same thing, Like I just

944
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 3: look at older people that reached out, Like there was

945
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 3: friends that were like, I'll fight in New Zealand right now. Yeah,

946
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:09,240
Speaker 3: there was friends that were like, I'll literally do anything

947
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 3: that you need. I'll be there whatever else. And then

948
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:16,280
Speaker 3: there was a lot of friends that didn't. I couldn't

949
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 3: even text what it is and it's not like I

950
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 3: needed it, Like I'm good and I had my sisters.

951
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 4: But god, it's nice to just know that because.

952
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 3: Then it's but well, I was gonna say a birthday text,

953
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,320
Speaker 3: but that's a little bit. You can let that slide.

954
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can let that one go. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no,

955
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 2: I agree with you. Grief and death, though, does everybody

956
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 2: responds very differently. Some people really like I, I don't

957
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 2: know what to say, and that not knowing what to

958
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 2: say paralyzes you. And certainly there are other people who

959
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 2: are just assholes and are just like gonna be callous

960
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 2: and not care. But also for other people, it can

961
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 2: I don't know what to say, I don't want to

962
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 2: do I call, and if I call, am I interrupting? Am? I?

963
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 2: You know, everyone can make people weirdy, and.

964
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 3: Death is so scary, and I think the only thing

965
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 3: because now I guess I'm the spokesperson for the dead

966
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 3: Dad Club with all my friends. So I've had a

967
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 3: few friends now who've lost parents, And my best advice

968
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 3: to anyone if they have a friend that's lost someone

969
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 3: or whatever else, is just them knowing that you're there

970
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 3: is super important. So like the greatest thing, the greatest

971
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,439
Speaker 3: gift that I learned was that I don't want people

972
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 3: calling me all the time. I don't want on a

973
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 3: good day, like if someone's blowing my phone up, it's horrible.

974
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 3: But on those moments, I just if you text your friend.

975
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 2: Like, hey, thinking about you, thinking.

976
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 3: About you, whatever, you need them here, love you so

977
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 3: much like that. Wow, if I had that from half

978
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,400
Speaker 3: the people that I'm angry at, it would have been

979
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 3: a different story and I still would have tried to help.

980
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, and yeah, so anyway, thank you for sharing all

981
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 2: with me. That was very special. So let's talk very

982
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 2: briefly about Let's Marry Harry executive produced by Alex Cooper

983
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: for Netflix. Outside of assuming you just picked sea at

984
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 2: the end, we don't know anything about it. What can

985
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:13,839
Speaker 2: you tell us?

986
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 3: So it does get picked at the end. No, you

987
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 3: know what's funny is she texts me and she went

988
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 3: by me saying this. She text me, she goes, if

989
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 3: they're all duds, Harry, just let me know, come save

990
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 3: the day. She's awesome. She's so funny, like we have

991
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 3: such a good relationship. She's like, just let me know

992
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 3: if you don't having a good time, and I'll come

993
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 3: save the day. And I'm like, okay, cool. But it

994
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 3: is that was one of the hardest things I've ever done. Yeah,

995
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 3: a lot of stuff with my dad is going to

996
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 3: be in there. She was really like, ah, I guess

997
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 3: vulnerable and opens me up more than I've ever been

998
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 3: up and up on the show before. And I think, also,

999
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 3: it's different this time because i'd have to be any

1000
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,879
Speaker 3: but myself. Yeah, I don't have to compete with other

1001
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 3: guys for screen time or I don't have to hide

1002
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 3: stuff in people's rooms. But there's obviously a lot of drama,

1003
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:17,240
Speaker 3: way too much drama, a lot of sleepless nights, pretty

1004
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:21,799
Speaker 3: pretty chaotic show, amazing cast, like the most beautiful cast

1005
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 3: on the planet ever to exist, most incredible stories, the

1006
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 3: most incredible people, And I just think that it's going

1007
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 3: to be such a wild ride for everyone to come on.

1008
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 3: There's a lot of cringe moments. I'm sure that I've

1009
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 3: done a lot of embarrassing things that I've done, and

1010
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 3: I just, yeah, I would sink I'm going to be

1011
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,320
Speaker 3: watching through my fingers.

1012
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, now that you're at this phase of life where

1013
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 2: you are ready to settle down, do you hate watching

1014
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 2: old reality clips of young f boy? Harry can't do it.

1015
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 3: Like it's nice to look back and be like, oh,

1016
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 3: I don't want to be like that anymore. Right, Well, say,

1017
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 3: my whole dating life has been on TV sincey nineteen.

1018
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so.

1019
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 3: There's a lot of yeah, a lot of silly decisions,

1020
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 3: of course, but yeah, now I'm glad it's wrapped up.

1021
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 2: Okay, good. When you get Harry Jowsey, you don't just

1022
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 2: let him leave that easy. He's going to stick around

1023
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 2: for a bonus episode where we will listen to one

1024
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 2: of your voicemails. It'll premiere this Friday on the dedicated

1025
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 2: teen Beat feed. Just search teen Beat wherever you get

1026
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 2: your podcasts. That way, every new episode just shows up

1027
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 2: when they're released. Plus, I want you to share your

1028
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 2: own tales of childhood cringe with the podcast. Record a

1029
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 2: voice memo recalling the most embarrassing story from your teens,

1030
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 2: and then email it to teenbeatpod at gmail dot com

1031
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 2: and the next thing you know, Harry Jowsey will be

1032
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:48,400
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1033
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1034
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 2: Jensen Carp and Amy Sugarman. Executive in charge of production

1035
00:47:56,120 --> 00:48:00,319
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1036
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:05,120
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