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Speaker 1: It's a fresh show.

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Speaker 2: It's Kiki's I saw you guys to the jury eight five, five,

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Speaker 2: five nine one one three five all rise. The honorable

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Speaker 2: Kikilik is here. Take it away, Judge Kiki.

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Speaker 3: So let's step into the courtroom. The gabble has been hit,

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Speaker 3: all right, it says Heikei Kei. My name is Connie.

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Speaker 3: I'm currently no contact with my oldest son and it's

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Speaker 3: killing me. I've always been very close to him and

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Speaker 3: his wife. My daughter in law would always text and

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Speaker 3: call me when they would have fights, and I would

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Speaker 3: be the mediator and get them back to a happy place. Well,

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Speaker 3: about two months ago, everything hit the fan when my

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Speaker 3: daughter in law posted a Facebook status saying that she

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Speaker 3: was filing for divorce. All of our family and friends

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Speaker 3: saw her posts, including my son's co workers. It was

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Speaker 3: so embarrassing for our family. I couldn't believe she would

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Speaker 3: post something like that. I later learned that she caught

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Speaker 3: my son cheating, but I still feel like posting something like.

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Speaker 4: That was just unforgivable.

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Speaker 3: They've gone to counseling and decided to work on their marriage,

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Speaker 3: but I can't bring myself to forgive her for publicly

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Speaker 3: embarrassing our family. Our church family saw it, and we

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Speaker 3: were the talk of the town all because she decided

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Speaker 3: to run to Facebook over the holidays. I asked my

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Speaker 3: son not to bring her around and to only bring

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Speaker 3: my grandchildren. Well, he didn't listen and brought her anyway.

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Speaker 3: I asked her to leave on Christmas Eve, and I

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Speaker 4: Since.

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Speaker 3: Should I reach out and apologize to my son because

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Speaker 3: I really miss my grandkids? Hummm wow, okay, wow, Connie, unpack, Connie.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna hold your hand when I say this girl,

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Speaker 3: Your daughter in law's not the problem here.

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Speaker 1: Your son is the issue.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So he cheated, but then she exposed him

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Speaker 2: on Facebook. On Facebook, yes, and and then that makes

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Speaker 2: her look bad. It made the whole family apparently. So

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Speaker 2: she's upset because it's like, why did you why did

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Speaker 2: you have to air that all out? Why can't you

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Speaker 2: just say you know it didn't work out, or we're

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Speaker 2: not together anymore, or why not just not say anything exactly?

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Speaker 3: But let's not skip past brought us here, which is

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Speaker 3: your son cheating. Okay, however I react to your son

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Speaker 3: cheating is just However, I react, and if we decide

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Speaker 3: to go to counseling and get over our marital issues,

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Speaker 3: that has nothing to do with you, ma'am.

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Speaker 4: Like, I understand you're upset. The church saw it.

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Speaker 3: People aren't asking, but it's Hey, I felt emotional in

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Speaker 3: the moment I put it on Facebook. He needs to

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Speaker 3: answer for its issues. You know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 3: he brought us here. It's not the daughter in law's issue.

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Speaker 3: It's your son cheating on her. Let's address that first.

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Speaker 3: Did you correct your son at all?

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Speaker 2: Well, internally I would say that, and look, no one

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Speaker 2: should be cheating on anybody else. But I guess I

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Speaker 2: still think that Facebook and social media is the death

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Speaker 2: to take it to that point? Do we have to

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Speaker 2: take it to the floor. Do we have to air

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Speaker 2: all of our dirty laundry? Look, she was wrong, I

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Speaker 2: get it, you should. I agree with you. He should

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Speaker 2: not be cheating on anybody.

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Speaker 5: Yes, but she was emotional, and we do stupid things

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Speaker 5: were very emotional.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we're.

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Speaker 2: Admitting then that posting yeah, this out out there is

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Speaker 4: No, Yeah, it's not the best decision.

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Speaker 3: But like this, Connie has completely disregarded all her son's

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Speaker 3: to his actions.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what's Connie's worried about the wrong stuff?

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Speaker 5: And also Connie needs to understand that they chose to

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Speaker 5: fix their marriage right, they went to counseling, they're working

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Speaker 5: on it. Also, Connie is the grandmother to these babies,

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Speaker 5: right to so Okay, to have access to the baby,

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Speaker 5: to have access to your grandkids, you need to treat

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Speaker 5: the mother with respect.

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Speaker 4: You need to always understand that that is the mother.

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Speaker 5: And you don't have to like her choice is what

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Speaker 5: she did with the whole Facebook thing and the whole

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Speaker 5: church scandal whatever, You'll get over that. This is your grandkids,

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Speaker 5: that's your daughter in law. You need to understand that.

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Speaker 2: See. But I just I don't understand. And again I'm

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Speaker 2: not excusing the cheating whatsoever. Do not hear that as

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's.

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Speaker 1: Like it's not great, and I get it. You're mad.

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Speaker 2: You have every right to be mad, but it's just

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Speaker 2: a bigger problem now now, I mean, as we don't

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Speaker 2: know what was going on inside that relationship. But again,

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Speaker 2: doesn't excuse the cheating, doesn't excuse the cheating. But I

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Speaker 2: never see the point in outing somebody one side of

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Speaker 2: everybody's life. Well, because because that was a private matter

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Speaker 2: and you made it not private.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not great. I don't Yeah, you're emotional. Sorry,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna cut you off.

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Speaker 1: I mean you can't.

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Speaker 4: I mean you can't. There's no post without the cheating,

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Speaker 4: and I think that that's the case, you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's my issue with Ms Connie is that

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Speaker 3: she has completely disregarded her so she has no fault

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Speaker 3: for her son. It's just don't bring that girl to

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Speaker 3: my house. She embarrassed the whole family. But like, what

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Speaker 3: about what he did?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 4: What about that? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just feel like she's taking her son's side and

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Speaker 3: completely just blaming the daughter in law.

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Speaker 4: And as your Facebook friend, please keep posting your drama. Yes,

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Speaker 4: as I need it. I need to follow up immediately.

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Speaker 2: Hey Brittany, Yeah, Hi Brittany good morning, so Keikey's court.

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Speaker 2: So just recap it quickly gain yes, like like a

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Speaker 2: ten second recap.

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Speaker 4: All right, Connie's son she did on his wife.

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Speaker 3: His wife got on Facebook and told everybody that cheated

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Speaker 3: and she wants a divorce. Now Connie is mad at

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well she has no right to be mad. I

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Speaker 7: was in the same situation. I'm married, my husband had

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Speaker 7: an affair with who was I thought my friend for

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Speaker 7: three years. I did the Facebook thing. I didn't necessarily

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Speaker 7: put what he did or whatever the case was. But

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Speaker 7: I think the mother in law or the mom is

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Speaker 7: So what goes on behind closed doors, even though that's

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Speaker 7: your son and he came from you, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 7: That's not your marriage. Your marriage is with your husband,

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Speaker 7: not your son. So what goes on between them stays

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Speaker 7: between them. And I wholeheartedly believe the mother in law

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Speaker 7: and me and my husband are still together. It took

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Speaker 7: us a while to get back to where we are.

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Speaker 7: But guests, like I said, it's our marriage, nobody else is.

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Speaker 7: But nobody likes their business.

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Speaker 2: Brittany, if you had a if you had completely outed

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Speaker 2: whole thing. I thought you said you didn't get into

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Speaker 2: the cheating though. I thought you said you didn't tell everything.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I mean I just said that you know, he

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Speaker 7: had cheated. It just wasn't the whole like three year fair.

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Speaker 7: It wasn't with who it was it was.

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Speaker 8: You know, I did out him, but at the end

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Speaker 8: of the day, me.

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Speaker 7: And him worked on it, we got back together, And

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Speaker 7: what people say doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: Well, see that's what I meant because I think, like,

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Speaker 2: when you do that and again, you didn't do anything wrong,

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Speaker 2: You were the one who was You were the one

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Speaker 2: who was wrong. But when people just expose and they

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Speaker 2: really get into like the nitty gritty and the dirt

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Speaker 2: within their relationship, well then you have to undo all

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Speaker 2: of that too, because in this case, you chose to

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Speaker 2: stay with the man, and now you have to explain

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Speaker 2: to everybody, well, yeah, he did do all that. As

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Speaker 2: where if you just keep that private, doesn't it make

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Speaker 2: the reconciliation process easier, like it's our business, not everybody else's.

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Speaker 7: Yes, yes, yes, yes it does, because I mean what

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Speaker 7: people say, honestly doesn't matter to me, but I did

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Speaker 7: take that into consideration. Put at the same time, that's

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Speaker 7: my marriage and I love my husband and I feel

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Speaker 7: like we should work on it and worked it out,

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Speaker 7: and we did. We have two children.

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Speaker 1: So well for you, well then you.

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Speaker 2: Know what you're You have a lot more uh forgiveness

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Speaker 2: in you than I do. And I'm glad it worked out.

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Speaker 2: And thank you for calling it for share. I appreciate you, Brittany.

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Speaker 7: You know you guys, have a great day. Thank you

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Speaker 7: so much.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's like when you it's like when you tell your

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Speaker 2: friends about trivial fights that you have. And this is

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Speaker 2: more than trivial. This is but even if it's cheating, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you tell your friends about this, all my got you

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Speaker 2: cheated on me whatever. And then let's say you decided

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Speaker 2: you got to undo all that damage with your friends

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Speaker 2: who will never forget that you were wrong in that way.

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Speaker 2: And I guess the question I would ask is, if

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Speaker 2: you have any intention of forgiving someone, then why make

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Speaker 2: it bigger than it has to be.

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Speaker 4: But why did you cheat on me?

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 3: You know you put me here, You put me in

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Speaker 3: this situation to make this decision to air you out

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Speaker 3: like you gave me.

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Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, here is you when he cheated?

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Speaker 4: I agree?

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Speaker 2: I just I would be I don't know that I

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Speaker 2: would make it bigger because I'd be embarrassed about it myself.

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Speaker 7: You're not thinking rationally though it's emotional, but like people need.

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Speaker 2: To be a little more rational when it comes to

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Speaker 1: The social media is undoing of many.

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Speaker 4: Take my phone if I get cheated, I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Like my phone. That's what I want to.

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Speaker 3: I can only imagine, probably right sadus is she? I

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Speaker 3: almost went just gun emojis.

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Speaker 2: I think people paint themselves into a corner with social

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Speaker 2: media all the time. I think people they say stuff

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Speaker 2: and do stuff about their at work or about their

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Speaker 2: relationships or whatever, and then about their friends in the moment.

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Speaker 1: That stuff lives forever. And again that's what pee.

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Speaker 5: I got into a fight with my husband on Saturday

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Speaker 5: night with overnight care with the baby because you know,

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Speaker 5: baby wakes up.

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Speaker 4: I'm frustrated, I'm tired. He's not getting up. I almost

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Speaker 4: almost and I didn't do a friend. I didn't do it.

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Speaker 4: I almost want on Instagram, not live on the story.

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Speaker 5: I almost suposed to posted a story and I almost said,

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Speaker 5: you know, this is why I feel like women are

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Speaker 5: staying single and not having kids these days.

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Speaker 2: Almost that would have caused a five times bigger fight.

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Speaker 4: I gotta tell my son.

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Speaker 1: It's cathartic. It's yes, he can't be undone.

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Speaker 9: Yes, good morning.

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Speaker 1: You guys just don't want their tee. That's what it is.

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Speaker 6: He has to.

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Speaker 9: He's trying to fix his marriage. So and for her

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Speaker 2: And well, Jennifer, let me tell you this, and I'm

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Speaker 2: But thank you, Jennifer, have a.

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Speaker 9: Good day, Thanks you too.

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Speaker 2: I just think the social media, man, it's just ah,

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 8: So yeah, he should be called out. I'm going through

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Speaker 1: The radio show about to call this man out. Okay, good,

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Speaker 1: what happened? What happened? Girl?

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Speaker 8: He puts secret Kramelins in the house, and I call

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Speaker 8: You know, they don't so doubt somebody will feel that

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Speaker 1: Me, Texas, Are you staying with him?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Well see okay, which no judgment, but like now the

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Speaker 8: No, he can't get a job. He can't get a job.

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Speaker 8: Trusted you can't. But it's it's not he has a job.

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Speaker 8: He's just saying that. That's an excuse on why you

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Speaker 8: And his excuse was he just wanted to see me

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Speaker 2: Okay, And I'm just like, no nobody because he thought right,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, you have.

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Speaker 8: A good days.

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Speaker 2: I just want to see like these celebrities who like

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Speaker 4: You already heard me, so I'm already damaged.

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Speaker 1: The Kinky's court? What does you want to say? Welcome? Fine?

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Speaker 8: First of all, that last story was wild.

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Speaker 6: Yes, everyone's everyone's at fault. I think won him for cheating,

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Speaker 8: The fact that it's out.

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Speaker 6: There, everyone's going to make comments. Now you're staying with

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Speaker 2: Right, like, mitigate the damage by not making it bigger

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Speaker 6: Want to embarrass him, But at the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: So protect yourself.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think at this point, if like you're in

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Speaker 8: A baby with his mistress.

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Speaker 6: Oh I didn't, I didn't go and post it on

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Speaker 6: I think I would have looked even more stupid if

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Speaker 2: You have every right to do it, but it just

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Speaker 1: But thank you.

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Speaker 6: Have a good day, you too, have a great one.

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Speaker 1: You don't be cheating. Don't be cheating, Nope. But if

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Speaker 1: That's I'm just I do that too. We could do

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