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Speaker 1: All right, This is from Quinn in Minneapolis. Quinn says,

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Speaker 1: I'm a fifty year old single woman, but I live

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Speaker 1: with my boyfriend of eight years. I've recently started referring

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Speaker 1: to myself as single because my man told me that

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Speaker 1: we don't need a piece of paper saying we're a couple.

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Speaker 1: He said a wedding would be a waste of time.

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Speaker 1: I don't plan to make any drastic moves right now,

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Speaker 1: but I'm open to dating other people. Am I crazy

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Speaker 1: to want a wedding and to be legally married after

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Speaker 1: eight years?

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Speaker 2: Well, I think it's crazy for you to say you're

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Speaker 2: open to dating other people. Y'all live together. I don't

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Speaker 2: know why women y'all are so accepting of this new

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Speaker 2: way of doing things when you really want the old

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Speaker 2: fashioned thing. You want to be somebody's wife, and you

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Speaker 2: want to be married and have a family structure. Now

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Speaker 2: because some dudes don't set up here and told you

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Speaker 2: don't need a piece of paper between us, and you

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Speaker 2: set up there and let that happen.

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Speaker 3: Now, you just set up there and build a life

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Speaker 3: with this dude.

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Speaker 2: And now he bene told you he don't need a

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Speaker 2: piece of paper to be I don't care what he said.

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Speaker 3: What about what you want? Now?

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Speaker 2: This thing that you're saying about, I want to be

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Speaker 2: open to dating. How where y'all going? Because you can't

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Speaker 2: get dressed and lead that house with a skirt on

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Speaker 2: and some makeup and your had done and some heels

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Speaker 2: and then tell this dude that's sitting up in here

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Speaker 2: paying bills with you, I'm going on a date.

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Speaker 3: Girl.

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Speaker 2: Girl, you put the whole cart in front of the horse.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: Now, now you want to start changing rules, it will

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Speaker 2: never happen. You are not single and he didn't tell,

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Speaker 2: and you're not gonna start dating. You know, you gotta,

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Speaker 2: you gotta, you got, you got, you gotta tell this guy.

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Speaker 3: This is the deal.

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Speaker 2: If you want this to continue to continue, I have

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Speaker 2: to be married or else I'm out and then you

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Speaker 2: have then you go out and then you can start dating. Okay,

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Speaker 2: but you're not. You can't date from this man's how

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Speaker 2: you cannot do that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, great advice, Thank you. We have

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Speaker 1: time for another one, Steve. This is from Rashid in Brooklyn.

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Speaker 1: Rashid says, I had a female over at my house

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Speaker 1: during the week and my girlfriend came to visit me

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Speaker 1: this past weekend. When my girlfriend got in my bed,

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Speaker 1: she immediately said she could smell another woman. That was

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Speaker 1: impossible because I bought new sheets for her visit. What

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Speaker 1: is it about women that make them so suspicious of everything?

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Speaker 2: No, it's not suspicion, dog, it's called intuition. You got

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Speaker 2: the wrong issue. It's not suspicion, it's intuition.

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Speaker 3: See.

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Speaker 2: See, you need to get your issuans together, because if

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Speaker 2: you think that you can have a woman over your

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Speaker 2: house and then me and your girlfriend over the house

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Speaker 2: and she ain't gonna know it, I can't even explain

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Speaker 2: it to you. Though, I can't even explain it to you,

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Speaker 2: but you are beyond stupid. And then you said you

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Speaker 2: went and bought some new sheets. She said she could

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Speaker 2: smell another woman.

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Speaker 1: Smell another woman?

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Speaker 2: Now, bro, the only way you could have slept with

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Speaker 2: this girl and your wife not know it if y'all

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Speaker 2: had to did it in there on the kitchen float

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Speaker 2: and then you mocked with a swift. That's the only way.

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Speaker 2: That's the only way. Swift and some pine solid fabulo,

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Speaker 2: that's the only way. If that girl done. Yeah, if

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Speaker 2: that girl then touched.

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Speaker 3: A piece of fabric in that we will know they

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Speaker 3: know dogs. She knows how your toothbrushes is arranged. Don't

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Speaker 3: do it.

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Speaker 2: She'll see a fingerprint on the corner of the medicine cabinet. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you can't have no teeth marks in your head board

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Speaker 2: because they wasn't here last week.

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Speaker 3: Why you can't have no teeth marks in your headboard

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Speaker 3: because there last week. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 3: Morning Show