1 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: What are our thoughts on the yellow dress? 2 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 2: I love the yellow signature. 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 3: And why was it immediately breathtaking to me? Like I 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 3: just thought, okay, it was the low back. It's the 5 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 3: combination of the nipples and the low back. Yeah. 6 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was not a huge fan of the yellow dress. 7 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 1: But more importantly the hair. She's worrying. I know, the 8 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: low pony, Yeah, the like low bun. I'm like, wait, 9 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: she's going to work at a library. Jesus. It's like, 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: get out of here. 11 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 3: Simple girl. She's a writer. 12 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: She's Oh my god. Yeah, that's the thing, is like 13 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 1: low maintenance women. That's such a like early odds thing. 14 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, fuck yourself, dude, claw clip. 15 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 3: The people spoke and we listened to a take off 16 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 3: boy sovers first ever rom com roundtable. We're talking all 17 00:00:56,600 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 3: about how to lose a guy in ten days. I'm 18 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 3: hopewordered and welcome to boys over a space where we're 19 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 3: learning and unlearning all the myths we're taught about love 20 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 3: and relationships. Who doesn't love a rom com. They're hilarious, 21 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 3: they're cute. Some may say they're a lost art. Most importantly, though, 22 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 3: they make us feel our feelings and reflect on our 23 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 3: own lives. They say a lot about the standards of 24 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 3: the time we're living in and can spark fierce debates. 25 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 3: Can men and women really just be friends? Is holding 26 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 3: up a boombox outside your window creepy or cute? Is 27 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 3: it possible to not fall in love with someone if 28 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 3: they run after you in the rain? All of this 29 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 3: is why we're bringing you a special episode Boiceover's first 30 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 3: ever rom com Roundtable, where I bring on smart and 31 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 3: funny people to discuss the movies that shaped our idea 32 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 3: of love. First up, we're talking about the two thousand 33 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 3: and three classic How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days, 34 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 3: starring Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey. If you've never seen it, 35 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 3: here's what you need to know. Kate Hudson plays Andy, 36 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 3: a magazine columnist who pitches an idea about how to 37 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 3: get a man to leave you in just ten days 38 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 3: by doing all the crazy things women do in relationships. 39 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 3: Matthew McConaughey plays Ben, and at exec who to win 40 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 3: a big campaign bets he can make any woman fall 41 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 3: in love with him in ten days. Andy and Ben 42 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 3: meet at a bar, both unaware of each other's scheme 43 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 3: and start dating. I think you can see what's going 44 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 3: to happen from here. To talk about this movie, I 45 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 3: brought on comedians Brandon Follock and Ivy Lou. I can't 46 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 3: wait for you to hear our conversation. Brandon, Ivy, Welcome 47 00:02:58,160 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 3: to Boyceover. 48 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: Oh thanks for having me. 49 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 3: I'm so excited. 50 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:03,239 Speaker 2: I know. 51 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 3: Okay, I would love for you. I would love for 52 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:09,679 Speaker 3: you to both introduce yourselves. 53 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 2: My name is Brandon Follick. I'm a comedian, actor, writer, 54 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 2: a podcaster with my best friend and co host, Ivy Lou. 55 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 2: I perform all over the city and I write for 56 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 2: various humor websites and whatnot. And I do stand up 57 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 2: kind of wherever they will allow me, which tends to 58 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 2: be basements and occasionally the ground floor, which is high brow. 59 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 3: A basement is high brow in my opinion when it 60 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 3: comes to comedy. 61 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you're a basement dweller, I'm like, oh, that's 62 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 2: so great because we can like already match each other 63 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 2: on the same level. 64 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 3: Totally. 65 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, the legwork is kind of gone. 66 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: I'm Ivy. I am a comedian, a freshly podcaster okay, 67 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: with my best friend Brandon follick and we just had 68 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: you as our guests. 69 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 3: True in the name of y'all's podcast. 70 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: Everybody wants to be My friend? 71 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 3: And what are y'all talking about? 72 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: So we're talking about friendship culture. We're talking about I 73 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: like to say friendship philosophy, but it sounds really stupid 74 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: when I say it, because no, no, go high brow. 75 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: I like friendship Comedians of the Moderns. We really wanted 76 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: to like capture the essence of like sleepover girly time. 77 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 2: Which is why we always record at three a m. 78 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: You know, It's like, our friendship is so pure, and 79 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 1: like everyone should be able to experience this in their 80 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: lives in a culture that is so isolating, in a 81 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: culture that seeks to alienate you from other people or 82 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: like make you fearful of other people. It's like, how 83 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: do we make a show that aligns with the value 84 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: of the importance of connecting with people? You know? 85 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 3: Yes, And I also love that it celebrates friendship because 86 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 3: so much is about romance. I mean, today we're talking 87 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 3: about rom coms, right, but this movie is kind of 88 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 3: giving late night sleepover. 89 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 1: It is, so. 90 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 2: I was devastated and watch us in our pajamacy. 91 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: We should do it after the show. 92 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 2: I will have it going down the stairs. 93 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:01,919 Speaker 1: I have a lot of commentary. 94 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 3: I'm so excited. Okay, I want to ask you all 95 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 3: about this movie how to Lose a Guy in ten Days. 96 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 3: To kick it off, I want you to give this 97 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 3: movie like one out of five roses and why what's 98 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 3: your review, Brandon? 99 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 2: I'm giving it three out of five roses. 100 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 3: Three out of five roses, Yeah, tell me why. 101 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 2: I think it is a story. It works for me. 102 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 2: It totally makes sense why these protagonists know each other 103 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 2: like the whole like subtext of like each of them 104 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 2: has a bet going on the other one doesn't know 105 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 2: about it, the viewer knows. They get to see like 106 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 2: how the other one's behaving works. 107 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: Totally. 108 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: The stakes have never been higher. I love all the 109 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 2: external characters. I love the plot points that we're hitting. 110 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 2: I love that genre of rom com where like someone 111 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 2: just kind of a magazine editor and like they live 112 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,479 Speaker 2: comfortably in New York City and you don't see them 113 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 2: type of single word. 114 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: And that's the things that fall for me. 115 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: I would love to share for later. 116 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 3: Okay, we want to save it, so three out of 117 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 3: five roses, Yes, Ivy, I. 118 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 1: Think honestly, four roses. I love this movie. I did 119 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: not look at that. I loved it. I mean, okay. 120 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 1: My biggest quama about this movie, which we will get 121 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 1: into later. I know that you guys were talking about 122 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: Katherine Han in the group chat, but I thought she 123 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: was underutilized. 124 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, I'm okay with that. 125 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: I think we now, like looking back, see her as 126 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: such a genius that like in a movie like this 127 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: where it's so like Kookie. Of course, the therapist scene 128 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: is so funny, improvised, no way. Yeah, the sweater of 129 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: the armpits. 130 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 3: No, okay, I could tell because I could tell she 131 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 3: almost laughed when she put the tissue under her armpit. 132 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 3: I saw that sneaky laugh and I was like, I 133 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 3: thought she was about to break it made. 134 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 2: For us, and yeah, yeah, early Catherine's so good. 135 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 3: Between Catherine Han's character and Kate Hudson's character, Michelle and Andy, 136 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 3: who do you relate to more? 137 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: Oh I'm Michelle. 138 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 2: I Oh, I'm Kate Hudson. 139 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 3: What makes you say you're Michelle? What makes you say 140 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 3: you're Kate? 141 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 1: Because I act like that, huh, which is crazy, which 142 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: is by the way, women be crazy. I want to say, 143 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: this movie is firstly about the indomitable will of men 144 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: and secondly about how women be crazy. 145 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 3: And I related to it, and I was like, yeah, no, 146 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 3: I could see myself doing a few things. 147 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: Funny. How like the conceit of the movie is, oh, 148 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: kaus is driving this man away by acting how I act. 149 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:23,679 Speaker 2: She's diverting the feminist norm. 150 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 3: I know, what did you think about the female co 151 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 3: workers and bends female? 152 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, Judy and Judy and Judy, Oh my god, there 153 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: are such cunts I want to bear so yeah, they 154 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: were so evil. Wanted a coconut bathroom with them so bad? Okay. 155 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 2: I also want to highlight because I was noticing too, 156 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 2: like the drinks that people ordered at the bar were 157 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 2: defined by the class of the character, and Judy and 158 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: Judy were always drinking champagne slash prosecco slash sparkling wine. 159 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: So you think they're such a dramator. I love that. 160 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 3: What else did you notice? What other drinks did you notice? 161 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: Yes? But she or her, I get it, grategically attracts. 162 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 3: She wanted Matthew McConaughey so bad. 163 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,119 Speaker 1: I have never been more attracted aboutthewy in my life. 164 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 3: What is the hottest thing about Matthew McConaughey in this movie. 165 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 2: How closely is to Kate Hudson, How close he is 166 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 2: to all the guys in that movie are drinking something 167 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 2: brown because. 168 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: That's what guys. 169 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 2: And he's drinking martinis. Catherine Hanna is drinking Abatka cranberries love, which. 170 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: She's every woman. 171 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 3: She's a relatable girl. 172 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 2: She's well, she's supposed to be this like not infantiized, 173 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 2: but like she's like college like emotional maturity, whereas Andy's 174 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 2: like the cosmopolitan girl, like she's got a grip on men. 175 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 2: She knows what the dating is. 176 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 3: Do you think Andy is a guy's girl or a 177 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 3: girl's girl? 178 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 2: Girls girl, Yeah, girls girl. 179 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 3: But she loves sports. 180 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: And politics and religion, religion and so like she doesn't 181 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: have any male friends. 182 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 3: No, she doesn't. It's an impressive thing. Like she's a 183 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 3: girl's girl, but she loves the name. 184 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 1: But she has like regular interest, you know what I mean. Like, yes, 185 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: I think the boys' night scene is really telling because 186 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: she like knows enough about poker to like fuck up 187 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: the game so bad that no one wants to play. 188 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 2: Right, And the detailed timing of when she's demanding that dr. 189 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, this is a woman who's analyzed sports like 190 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: it's not dying. It's funny he didn't just say no, 191 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:24,199 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. 192 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,320 Speaker 3: You're saying it's crazy that Matthew McConaughey didn't say no, 193 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 3: I'm not going to go get you another coke. The 194 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 3: game was almost over. 195 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, wait one second, I'm gonna go do it. 196 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 3: She was like, I'm so thirsty. 197 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm so we're going to get a drink after this. 198 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: Didn't exist yet in two thousand and three, So where 199 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 2: were they going to get a drink? 200 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: After the coensation gumps handhuld. 201 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 3: Yet? Have you guys ever tried to lose a guy 202 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 3: like this. 203 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 2: I would not spread it out over the course of 204 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 2: ten days, and I don't think Andy was going to either. 205 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 2: She was like, why is it ten days? No, on 206 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 2: an eleven, I'd be sabotaging relationships. 207 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 3: Absolutely, when's the last time today? 208 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: What happened? I mean no, not really. I think once 209 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 1: you get into the like oh maybe this is getting serious, 210 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 1: it's like, well, you have to use something crazy to 211 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: see if you can scare the mom, right? 212 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 3: Is it a test? 213 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: I mean this guy a playlist and when he didn't 214 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: listen to it, I was like, you don't care about 215 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 1: the art that I like, you don't want to connect 216 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: over this, and like maybe I was being serious and 217 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: maybe I wasn't, but I did say it. 218 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 3: How did you know he didn't listen to the playlist? 219 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 3: He told you? 220 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: He told me. Yeah, he was like not shy about it, 221 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:37,559 Speaker 1: and I was like, I was like, come on. 222 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 2: You have to No, wait, didn't. 223 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 1: Get really into a hundred gigs for me. 224 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, What is the craziest thing you've ever 225 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:47,599 Speaker 3: done in a relationship? Like to pressure test it like 226 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 3: an in an andy sense? 227 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, oh my gosh, Brandon, what's the craziest thing 228 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: you have? 229 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:57,959 Speaker 2: Probably dragged my boyfriend around the New York comedy scene. No, 230 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 2: what have I done to like test him? Oh my gosh, 231 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 2: that's really interesting, other than talking about him on stage. 232 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that is quite a test. But do 233 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 3: you think they kind of like it a little? 234 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 1: Yes? They do. 235 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lot to be talked about. 236 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 237 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, you had to be immortalized and said that's ultimately improvisable, 238 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 2: not quality worthy of being repeated again. 239 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, they live for that. I have an example, 240 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 3: like I was in a situationship with this guy and 241 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 3: he was sick. He thought he had like COVID or something, 242 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 3: and we'd been dating for like two weeks, and I 243 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 3: fully went to his house, dropped off soup, dropped off groceries, 244 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 3: like essentially just full home care. Oh yeah, at home 245 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 3: care fully, girlfriend mode, nurse mode, and not my boyfriend 246 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 3: at all, because the thing is he's not Andy's boyfriend 247 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 3: the whole time. 248 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: Mm. Yeah. 249 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 2: Do you ever do something so overtly romantic for someone 250 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 2: that you know it's not going to work out with? 251 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 3: Oh? My god, I mean yeah all the time. 252 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 1: I think. 253 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 3: When I know specifically it's not going to work out, 254 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 3: I go into overdrive, Like I turn into Andy trying 255 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 3: to like make it happen, save the nothing. Yeah, what 256 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:01,599 Speaker 3: is that line that we loved so much at the 257 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 3: very end? You can't lose what you never had? 258 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, wait, can I ask y'all something vulnerable about 259 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 1: this movie made me think about I don't know why 260 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 1: I did, but I did write it in my notes. 261 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:13,719 Speaker 1: Do you guys ever say I love you to one 262 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 1: Ice fans? I definitely think about it, Oh I do. 263 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 1: I wade out sit on and I say I love 264 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: you while I love you. 265 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,559 Speaker 2: Only for the one you like. 266 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 3: Hand their faces in your hands. You're like making eye 267 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 3: contact with them. You're like I love it, yes, yes, 268 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 3: and it never scares. 269 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 1: Them away, No, because they're inside me. 270 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 3: Do you think Andy and Ben would last past the movie? 271 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 272 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:00,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well the whole thing was that Ben saw the 273 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 2: parts of Andy that were her naturally right. 274 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and like they're able to like joke about it 275 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 1: at the end of the movie, you know what I mean, Like, yeah, 276 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: he has no idea what her actual personality is like, 277 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: except he believes that he does. And she's like, well, 278 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 1: all the crazy stuff was just an act and I'm 279 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: actually quite normal. 280 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 3: There's no way she's totally normal, though. 281 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: She has to. Yeah, I mean she had to. 282 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 2: I don't know if it was like her the woman 283 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 2: she's been observing, but she knew exactly how to take 284 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 2: that relationship onto warp speed mode. 285 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: So true, like every day was something absolutely nuts, was awesome. 286 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 1: You're killing her love, Yeah, it's your favorite crazy thing 287 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: she did. 288 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 2: I love the Celine Dion moment, but I think the 289 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 2: craziest thing to me is meeting the parents, right, Oh, Like, 290 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 2: what did you think about the subtext of them being 291 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 2: so able to call each other out on their bullshit 292 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 2: when they're both lying to each other. 293 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, when it came back at the end of 294 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:57,319 Speaker 1: the movie, I like, no, me too, Oh my god. 295 00:13:57,600 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 3: What propaganda do you think this movie is. 296 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 2: That you can leave in New York on an editor's salary. Also, 297 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 2: those ideals that like Andy were like trying to find 298 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 2: so repulsive, like, aren't actually that bad. Like you can 299 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 2: be cleaning, you can be needy, you can be touchy feeling. 300 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: Totally, that's fine. 301 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 2: Sometimes relationships do you require that? I definitely think like 302 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 2: Andy exaggerated it and made it like an excess, but 303 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:23,239 Speaker 2: like those qualities themselves aren't. 304 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 3: Bad, right, Like the best part of the movie to 305 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 3: me was when Catherine Hahn got her man back. Yeah yeah, 306 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 3: when he walks in at the door with the roy guy. 307 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 3: Oh my god, and he was so cute. 308 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: Okay. 309 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 2: The other thing, too, is they do so much labeling 310 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 2: of different relationship types, which is like people are allowed 311 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 2: to live organically outside of those, Like the whole discussion 312 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 2: about like who to sell diamonds to, Like who's a 313 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 2: proper fit for a customer for a diamond who's not 314 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 2: like what type of relationship are they seeking? Like what's 315 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 2: like a class level that like they don't exist in 316 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 2: like that whole idea of like only someone who's like 317 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 2: so emotional and deluded to this point, they're not diamond worthy. 318 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 2: She were like a real high price quality necklace, by 319 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 2: the way, like they had, like Kate Hudson, that was 320 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 2: like a high secure that yellow diamonds. 321 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, gorgeous. 322 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 3: Who would you cast if there was a remake in 323 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 3: twenty twenty five for How to Lose Guy in Ten Days? 324 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 2: Kate Hudson's the editor in chief by the way. 325 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 3: Oh right, of course, she's the boss now, and she's 326 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 3: letting everyone write about the war. 327 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 2: She's letting over Yeah, what is his team? 328 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 1: Vogue? 329 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, would we put Dove Cameron in Cameron? 330 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 3: Or maybe Renee Wrap. 331 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 1: Is Gaye? I came passes straight anymore at this point. 332 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 2: She's just too confuient. 333 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 3: I think she's such a great actress though. 334 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: Well for me, it's either Sabrina Carpenter or maybe a 335 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: lot of condor a Rando. But she is Vietnamese, and 336 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 1: I think it's ok. Hugely she was letting the girl 337 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 1: from to all the boys I've loved before. 338 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 3: Yes, okay, is. 339 00:15:57,200 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 2: The Matthew McConaughey character who's been It's not Timothy Shalloon. 340 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 1: God, no, no, no, no, it's it's not no, no, no, no, no, 341 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: no no. It's gotta be a guy who's like in 342 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: his thirties. 343 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 3: He's the guy from Baby Girl. No, he's no, it's 344 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 3: got to be. 345 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 1: No. 346 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 2: But there's a really good role out there brewing for him. 347 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: He's so good. Well, and I was thinking about like, 348 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 1: who the male wrongcome leads are in this day and age, 349 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 1: and it's like Miles Teller, Glenn Powell. Oh my god, no, no, 350 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: Glenn Powell looks like an old navy mannequin. 351 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 3: I don't know if anyone has the same ridge. Yeah, 352 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 3: Will Sharp. 353 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 2: Will Sharp, of a white lotus and too much fame. 354 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah that guy? Or who is the one 355 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 1: that was the one that was in Riverdale? 356 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 2: I only know the Sprouse, No, the Asian. 357 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 1: Guy from Riverdale. I'm using my powers. I'm using my powers. 358 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 1: Charles Milton, Oh my god, Charles Melton of Beaman to 359 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 1: look it up. 360 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 2: I love o. 361 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 3: Yes, he's so beautiful. 362 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:15,920 Speaker 1: He's gorgeous good. I think with the right woman, it 363 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: would be really good chemistry. 364 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 3: And we're thinking Sabrina Carpenter. 365 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: I would love Sabrina Carpenter. If she had like a 366 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:24,879 Speaker 1: j Lo phase where she just did a bunch of 367 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 1: rom coms, it would be what about Rachel Sennate? What 368 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 1: about Rachel. 369 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:35,880 Speaker 3: Senna That's a I like that too, Molly Gordon. 370 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:40,120 Speaker 1: Molly Gordon, see so many out there are so many 371 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: women that could bring a really fun and fresh take 372 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,679 Speaker 1: to the Kate Hudson roll, and they're like, we're literally 373 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,120 Speaker 1: scraping the bottle of the barrel for bed. 374 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 3: Wait no, could the guy from the Bear be Matthew 375 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 3: McConaughey and Jeremy the Bear? 376 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 2: Oh sure, yeah, I could see that. 377 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, he does have mass appeal. I was gonna say 378 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 1: he's am I gonna get crucified for his saying Jerry 379 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 1: Allen White is a short king and therefore his casting 380 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: might be controversial. I don't want to be controversial. I 381 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: don't want to get canceled. 382 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 2: No, actually it might be who them to cast him, 383 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 2: because listen to this, like man is. 384 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 1: Only four eleven. 385 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, they can get a really tiny camera there no 386 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 2: let's do it. 387 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:26,360 Speaker 3: Okay, how do you think this movie would play out 388 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 3: if the roles were reversed? 389 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 2: Like then was the one writting the article, Andy was 390 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 2: the one who is trying to get him to fall 391 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 2: in love with her. 392 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 1: I think that it would be a true crime documentary 393 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:47,159 Speaker 1: problematic basically killed me. Yeah, like that scene where she's like, 394 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna make you wish you were Imagine a man 395 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:57,360 Speaker 1: saying that that's a horror film. Literally nightmare. 396 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 3: That's my nightmare. The thing is, when I want a 397 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:02,880 Speaker 3: guy to fall in love with me, like I usually 398 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 3: act crazy, Like it's sort of about being apathetic when 399 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:07,640 Speaker 3: it comes to getting a guy to fall in love 400 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 3: with you, in my opinion, make them feel kind of 401 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 3: forgotten about. 402 00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, we should be manipulated any more. 403 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm thinking a lot about the movie Gone Girl 404 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 2: right now. 405 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,399 Speaker 3: What do you think a man has to do to 406 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:22,119 Speaker 3: lose the woman? 407 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: Wait? 408 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 2: What do I think a man has to do? 409 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:34,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, lose his job, plug his improv show on his Instagram. 410 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 2: He has to oh my god, he has to be part. 411 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 1: I'm actually slipping out of my seat right now. A 412 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: guy ever done anything to what's the craziest thing a 413 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: guy has done to lose you? What's your biggest achy egg? 414 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:56,920 Speaker 3: Damn? Okay. I was on a date last night and 415 00:19:57,119 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 3: this guy had bangs and I said, what hairline? Are 416 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 3: we rocking under those banks? And he pulls his banks 417 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 3: back and his hairline is all the way back here, 418 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 3: and I just want someone to own it, you know 419 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 3: what I mean? 420 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 1: You wants yes, absolutely sexy. 421 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 3: You know, show me what you're working with. 422 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're racing to Turkey, bitch? 423 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 3: How soon it is too soon to introduce your partner 424 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 3: to your parents? 425 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:44,679 Speaker 1: Oh you can't do that with in the first like 426 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 1: six months, even six months, feel sus. 427 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 3: I've been introduced to the parents before six months. Drove 428 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 3: to Atlanta from Knoxville, Tennessee and not even. 429 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 1: Dating girl, not even dating. 430 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 3: I think so many things happen when you're not even together. 431 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:00,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, when you're like when you're like friends. So it's 432 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,400 Speaker 1: like conceivably, like this could be anything, totally. 433 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 3: Maybe the stakes feel so low, like. 434 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 2: Whatever, Well, if you're going to end up living with 435 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,919 Speaker 2: them in a year, because everyone needs to live with 436 00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 2: each other in the New York apartment scheme, Now. 437 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 3: That's really something I've been thinking a lot about is 438 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:16,439 Speaker 3: I need to get a boyfriend because I want to 439 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 3: cut my rent in half? 440 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 1: Yes? 441 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 3: Bad? 442 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 1: Oh my god, subsidize your rent please. 443 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 3: I'm like, my rent can't go up again and me 444 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 3: still be single, Like it just can't happen. 445 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. Have you ever gone on a date with someone 446 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 2: for a quote unquote assignment, whether it was something you're 447 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 2: therapist assigned to you or you're like, this is for 448 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:38,360 Speaker 2: my story. 449 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 3: I am trying to go on dates with men who 450 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 3: have money. I am trying to do that just because. 451 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 1: I usually generational wealth. No, just like a job, like 452 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: what do you what's your what's your qualification for? Has money? 453 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: Like someone maybe with. 454 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,880 Speaker 3: Health insurance is what I'm looking for right now? 455 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, benefits, benefits. Yeah, yeah. 456 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 3: I was in the East Village when I met a 457 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 3: guy who had been on unemployment for like six months, 458 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 3: and I thought in Manhattan I would find a guy 459 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:09,680 Speaker 3: with benefits, right, But I found someone who didn't have them. 460 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 3: And then last night I was on this date and 461 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 3: I just found out, Yeah, he has a nine to five, 462 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 3: So it's sort of in a moment, Yeah. 463 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 1: What insurance? 464 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 3: I didn't check. 465 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's first date behavior. He asks, what are your 466 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 1: favorite things about yourself internally and externally, And you say, 467 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 1: how much is your cope for a specialist? 468 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? Have you hit your deductible this year? 469 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: How much is left in your FSA? Your company's covering 470 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 1: your premium? Yeaheah? Do you get commuter benefits city by subscription? 471 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 3: I'm gonna turn thirty next year. These are all very 472 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 3: important questions for me, you know. 473 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, huge. 474 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 3: When was the last first date you went on? 475 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 1: Yes, the Saturday? 476 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 3: And how was it? 477 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:48,439 Speaker 1: Did we spent all day together? 478 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 3: Was it just a one day date or did it 479 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 3: turn into like a toothree. 480 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,959 Speaker 1: Talking for a while and we were looking at an 481 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,159 Speaker 1: apartment for him to move into, and like that was 482 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:01,640 Speaker 1: your date? We went to Chinatown and food, but then yeah, 483 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: that was mostly the vid. 484 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 3: You were apartment hunting together. 485 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:04,400 Speaker 1: We are. 486 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,119 Speaker 3: Kind of five hundred days of summer, but like a 487 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 3: bit beyond ikea a. 488 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 1: Bit beyond for sure. 489 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 3: It was you've been in a long term relationship multi year? 490 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 491 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 3: How long? 492 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 2: Depending on who you ask, of course, Yeah, let's take 493 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 2: it we're not back together too. Yeah, we we dated 494 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 2: for like a year, broke up, went on a break 495 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,199 Speaker 2: then a breakup, then we got back together. Okay, and 496 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 2: that was like a nine month period of break breakup. 497 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:33,160 Speaker 3: You haven't had a first date in a while? 498 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:39,640 Speaker 2: No Saturday? Yeah, well no during the breakup, so that 499 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 2: was like twenty twenty two. 500 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 3: Okay. Yeah, do you miss first time dates? Do you miss? Like? 501 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 2: First dates are so fun? I mean like you do 502 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 2: definitely have to go through like the labor of like 503 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,120 Speaker 2: rehearsing your introduction over and over with someone. But it's 504 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 2: like I love using first states as a way to 505 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 2: go to places I've been meaning to go to. 506 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,120 Speaker 1: Okay, it's like, really. 507 00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 2: I've been meaning to check out this part. Yeah, let's 508 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 2: go justin. 509 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 3: Totally, let's go see if we like it. 510 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Ontario, great first date spot. They have ski 511 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 1: ball or no, they have air hockey. Oh you like 512 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: an activity? I love an activity? Oh my god. Well, 513 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 1: if there's like a way to this is my first 514 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 1: date tip for all the ladies out there. If there 515 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: is a way for you to like play a game 516 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: with someone where you can incorporate hit talk and like 517 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 1: potentially even like crush them, it is I mean the 518 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 1: most powerful effort desac. 519 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 3: I think, well, like playing a game with someone, you 520 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 3: really get to see who they are like if they 521 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,640 Speaker 3: get weird and they're like an asshole for real? 522 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 1: Games are primal, right? Wait? 523 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 3: I should be doing this more often, playing games on 524 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:41,400 Speaker 3: a first. 525 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 1: Date Wonderville, first date? Okay, first spot Wonderville. Okay. 526 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 3: What about the shower sex scene though? 527 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:49,360 Speaker 1: What about the. 528 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:52,880 Speaker 3: God in the bathroom. 529 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 1: With her dirty ass hair, dirty ass tak tag? Yeah, 530 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 1: I just said something. 531 00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,639 Speaker 2: He was wearing a collegiate gray shirt and wait. 532 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 3: Thank took off his shirt. Matthew McConaughey without a shirt 533 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:03,359 Speaker 3: on in this movie. 534 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 1: Oh, my first scene in the movie is riding into 535 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:09,439 Speaker 1: the office of the motorcycle and immediately taking his shirt off. 536 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 2: You not to bring a different change of clothes after 537 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 2: commuting into the midtown office. 538 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 1: I'm not changing in front of my coworkers. 539 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 3: Love to know who is taking the shirt off in 540 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:20,439 Speaker 3: the office. 541 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:25,680 Speaker 1: Can I say something yet anti shower sex? Yeah, honestly, 542 00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 1: because I think when your hair is dry, boys are 543 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 1: too dumb to know that it's actually quite fragile your hair, 544 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 1: And when your hair is wet, it's like even worse, 545 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:38,399 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And like someone ripped out 546 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 1: a clump of my hair while while you're havings I would, 547 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 1: I would scream. 548 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,159 Speaker 3: What gets me about shower sex is the having to 549 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 3: take turns being under the water, so like someone's okay, 550 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 3: you're okay with that. I don't know, what do you 551 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 3: think about it? 552 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 2: The water thing is a little interesting, like you do 553 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 2: need to have it extremely hot s away that the 554 00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 2: steam is kind of keeping everything to I think shower 555 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 2: sex should just really like hands and mouth stuff. 556 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:06,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, are you very fair? 557 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,359 Speaker 3: But that scene, I was so relieved when they finally 558 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:10,120 Speaker 3: started kissing. 559 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was so hot. 560 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 3: I know I needed a little bit more. 561 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 1: Chemistry is insane. I need to watch them bone like 562 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 1: freaking dog. 563 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 2: I love. 564 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: God. I am. 565 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 2: Gwyneth Paltrow is considered for the role of Kate, and. 566 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: I'm curiously as charming. 567 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,160 Speaker 3: No, no, there's no way. 568 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,199 Speaker 1: What do you think when shallow hal Paltrow? 569 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:36,960 Speaker 2: I kind of love you telling me my matriarch kids 570 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 2: lead in a rom com. I think she could have 571 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:43,400 Speaker 2: brought it out, you think so. I think young Gwyneth 572 00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,679 Speaker 2: Paltrow had a really like warm charm. 573 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 1: She doesn't have the like sardonic edge to her that 574 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 1: Kate hasn't does so whenever she reveals her vulnerability, it's 575 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 1: not as satisfying. 576 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 2: Oh were you not following the ski incident in court? 577 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 1: You didn't watch her in the courtroom? As you know 578 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 1: what I mean. She is not fun. She's not like 579 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,120 Speaker 1: a girl who wants to go to a basketball game. 580 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 1: She's a girl who wants to sit in the box 581 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:09,640 Speaker 1: at a basketball. 582 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:14,360 Speaker 3: I agree, what do y'all think we are missing now 583 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 3: when we make a rom com like we are missing Nora? 584 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 3: But just what do you think, Like why is it 585 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,400 Speaker 3: so hard to make a good realm com? Now? 586 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 1: I think that with like modern at least films like 587 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 1: that are meant to have mass appeal and like even theater, 588 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 1: even music, whatever, there's this emphasis on neoliberal virtue signaling 589 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:39,400 Speaker 1: where we're all like so obsessed with coming off as 590 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 1: feminists and like, you know, do whatever. It's like we 591 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:47,640 Speaker 1: don't want to see women behave in ways that contradict 592 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 1: the image of the millennial girl boss totally. I would 593 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 1: love to see a modern realm com where like the 594 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 1: girl is like a mess or she's like you know, now, 595 00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,120 Speaker 1: now suddenly we're getting an amy. 596 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 3: You want to watch Fleabag though, like I think flea 597 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 3: Bag doesn't gad job of like making the female lead 598 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,920 Speaker 3: like a disaster, like a disaster but still lovable. 599 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:13,119 Speaker 2: And disaster is different from anti hero, but tell me 600 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 2: the difference. Disaster is more like raw and organic, and 601 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 2: like they don't fit in the society that other people 602 00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 2: have built around them, like they're seen as the outcast 603 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 2: anti hero, Like there's something like a little more internally 604 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:26,640 Speaker 2: flawed within them. 605 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,160 Speaker 1: M Yeah, I think in general we need more women 606 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:29,919 Speaker 1: behaving badly. 607 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would like to see that as well. 608 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 2: I think rom coms these days are also like jumping 609 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 2: towards like they want that type of like timelessness feel 610 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 2: to those movies at like the nineties and ats added 611 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 2: to them because like they've had time to age and 612 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 2: we've had time to like poke holes in them. But 613 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 2: like that's not going to like be associated with commercial success, right. 614 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,080 Speaker 2: I think also like rom coms are a coming of 615 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 2: age story just by the nature. 616 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 1: Of adults whenever they settle down with men. Yes, how 617 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 1: else will we collect the dowdy? 618 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 3: No? 619 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 1: But it is like there's like the classic. 620 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 2: Coming of age where like you know, someone's like growing 621 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 2: up and maturing and like coming into be who they are. 622 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 2: But then there's also like rom com scene in the 623 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 2: Coming of Age lens where it's like they're seeing themselves 624 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 2: within the context of another partner. They're seeing themselves within 625 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 2: the like sociological landscape of like how other people are, 626 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 2: like navigating a capitalist system where everyone's being forced to 627 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 2: pair up and buy a house in Sarata family And 628 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 2: I think there's there's just not great storytelling sometimes because 629 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 2: I think we know that, like in the end, they 630 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 2: have to end up together, right totally, I don't always 631 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 2: have to. 632 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 3: Like in How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days, 633 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 3: I love that there was just an answering machine. Like 634 00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 3: I loved that they're not texting all the time, Like, 635 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 3: is there something you wish we had in modern dating 636 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 3: now that they had in the two thousands? 637 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: Guys bringing flowers? 638 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my gosh, Yeah, we're done with that. 639 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 3: The scene where he sent flowers, that's cringe. 640 00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 1: But that's but when Catherine Han's guy comes back at 641 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 1: the end and he's got flowers, yes, I'm like, oh 642 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 1: my god, I would cry. I would cry and suck 643 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 1: you off in the sling doorway away from me with 644 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 1: flowers fans. Yeah, yeah, yeah, my friend is right there. 645 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 1: She's getting through something and then. 646 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 2: Wait, have you ever gotten flowers for someone or receive them? 647 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 3: I got flowers from a guy when I was sixteen. 648 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 3: He left them in my car when I was working, 649 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 3: and he had a note with them, a letter, and 650 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 3: it me he knows like one day our leve will 651 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 3: die like these flowers. I really thought that was romantic, 652 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,440 Speaker 3: and I got so mad at him about it. I 653 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 3: was like sixteen, and I was like walking out of 654 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 3: my coffee shop job, being like, why did you write that? 655 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,480 Speaker 3: Like and it did die and he married my best friend. 656 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, Wow, are not. 657 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:47,720 Speaker 3: Is that the last? Surely that's not the last time? 658 00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 1: Does she know that story? 659 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 3: I'm not sure you should tell her. 660 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 1: I think it would funny. I mean, like it's not 661 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 1: like not just our drama, but to be like, that's 662 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 1: a funny thing that your husband said to me. 663 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 3: What about you? Anything you meant or anything you wish 664 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 3: was a part of dating now that was a part 665 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 3: of dating culture in the two thousands. 666 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, you kind of hit it with just the lack 667 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 2: of digital right connections all the time, like not even 668 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 2: knowing mutual friends and whatnot. Like one thing I liked 669 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 2: when I was going on dates was I always try 670 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 2: to date people who like we had no mutual friends, 671 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 2: like not to be like because I want to like 672 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 2: abandon you or whatever. But it's kind of like, oh, 673 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:27,160 Speaker 2: I'm like getting to like see someone who like lives 674 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 2: in a space that I don't frequent myself. Yeah, And 675 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 2: I think not having Instagram or like any type of 676 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 2: like social media like that and dating would be really 677 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 2: helpful for those situations. 678 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 3: What do you think this movie teaches us about love? 679 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 1: If anything, that there should be two liars at all times. 680 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 1: Waiting to have sex is hot, Okay, waiting to have 681 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,960 Speaker 1: sex is perhaps the most powerful afrodisiac ever made. 682 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 3: Damn are you good at waiting to have sex? Though? 683 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 1: No? 684 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,880 Speaker 3: Me either, Brandon? No, Yeah, but maybe we should try. 685 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 1: Maybe we should try. 686 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 3: O kay, let's try. Boys, sobriety, sobriety, y'all. Thank you 687 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 3: so much for coming on and watching the movie. It's 688 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 3: been so much fun. 689 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: Y'all. 690 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 3: I had the best time talking about this movie with 691 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 3: Brandon and Ivy, and I hope you enjoyed our first 692 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 3: rom com round table as much as we enjoyed making it. 693 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 3: Now I'm gonna go browse yellow dresses and start telling 694 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,600 Speaker 3: all of my dates, I love them because Catherine Hans's 695 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 3: character and that man of hers give me so much Hope. 696 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 3: Thanks for listening, and talk to y'all next week. Boy 697 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 3: Sover is a production of iHeart Podcasts. I'm your host, 698 00:32:56,240 --> 00:33:00,040 Speaker 3: Hope Ordered. 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