1 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:06,119 Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another week of Casual Chaos. 2 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: This week we have a very special guest, Maria. Welcome 3 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: to Casual Chaos. 4 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me. 5 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: I am so excited to have you. I feel like 6 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 1: this year, influencing content creating has blown up so much, 7 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: and with your platform of obviously The Bachelor, Yeah, has 8 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: that changed your life? 9 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 3: Honestly, Like, it's crazy where it's taken me. And like, 10 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 3: although after coming off of it, I was like, I 11 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 3: didn't want to become like an influencer type, Like I 12 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 3: didn't expect for it to like blow up the way. 13 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 2: That it did. 14 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 3: I've been a big fan of the show always. Everyone 15 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 3: knows this, and yeah, I didn't expect what was it. 16 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 3: I didn't expect from like even call her daddy, reaching 17 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 3: out like stuff like that. The things I've done since 18 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 3: the show, it's crazy. 19 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: It's like wild, and you know a lot of people 20 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: are go on the yes to find love, but then 21 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: also to get some incentive for themselves. But that was 22 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: not your intention, even in the slightest, Like it's. 23 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 3: So funny because I was very honest about wanting to 24 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:13,839 Speaker 3: go on the show. To go on the show because 25 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 3: I loved the show, but not like I think people 26 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 3: can recognize that I'm not trying to be an influencer. 27 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 3: I actually kind of suck at it. I like my Instagram, 28 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 3: I barely posted. Actually, more recently, i've been okay with it. 29 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 3: But yeah, no, definitely wasn't thinking that I wanted to 30 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 3: do influencing after the show. 31 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 2: I just really wanted to be on the show. Yeah. Yeah, also, 32 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 2: but I loved that would have been the better alternative. 33 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 2: But yeah, that didn't work out. 34 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: But it's not like you and Joey did not have 35 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: a connection. And it's funny because I obviously The Bachelor 36 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: is such a famous show, The Bachelor and Bachelorette. 37 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was. 38 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: Not a religious watcher, and my friends and I so 39 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: happened to watch your season. So watching it, I was 40 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: a die hard for you, die hard. I wanted you 41 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: to win. I just thought everything about you, you had 42 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: the confidence, you were beautiful, and I also felt that 43 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: Italian vibe from you. Yeah, so I was like, she's 44 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: gonna take it home and whenever he would do like 45 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: a left turn, but then I also felt left turns 46 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: from you. I was like, uh, I know she's not 47 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: in it. Well, you know, it's crazy. 48 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 3: And that's funny that you say the Italian thing. It's like, 49 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:27,399 Speaker 3: we have that strong personality. 50 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 2: I know. 51 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 3: Your mom is like, that's why I love that about 52 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 3: your family, is that you're strong, You're loud. You guys 53 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 3: are like you say it how it is and you know. 54 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 3: And so I always said, like, the people that are 55 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 3: gonna get me are going to be my kind of people. Yes, 56 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 3: although that wasn't the case for everyone. It was you 57 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 3: either loved me or hated me. It was there was 58 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 3: no in between. Yeah, but so I love to hear that. 59 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 2: Thank you. 60 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: It was very obvious, even from a viewer standpoint though, 61 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 1: to see that you were being attacked. 62 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, and it's so crazy. Actually, I was 63 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 3: getting coffee today and a girl came up to me 64 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 3: and she was like, to be honest, was it real? 65 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 3: Like did it like housewives? 66 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? And I'm like, you know, 67 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 2: what's so funny. 68 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 3: It's like, as a viewer of the show, sometimes I'm like, 69 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:14,639 Speaker 3: there's just no way these fights are so dumb. 70 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 2: There's no there's something's like off. 71 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 3: Until I went on the show and then I realized, 72 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 3: oh my god, there are just people out there that 73 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 3: you know. But here's the thing about Sydney, I like 74 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 3: appreciate her now, like looking back, I can really because 75 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 3: we needed that. 76 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 2: That like made the show in ways. It kind of 77 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 2: made the season iconic. That's what I mean. 78 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 3: I needed, Like, I mean, I wasn't gonna gonna start dramma, 79 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 3: but I was okay to it happened. 80 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: And yeah, you know, you also have to always think 81 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: about it. Your haters are also your biggest cheerleaders. 82 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 2: Well I mean she not that I say, a cheerleader. 83 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: Did you see her cheer? That was a kind of fitting. 84 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 2: I thought, Okay, that was fun. 85 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 3: I'm sorry I forgot about that, which you know what 86 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 3: I kind of feel like in person was it was better? 87 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 2: I promise? 88 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I mean, but then again, when you are 89 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: also in a setting like that, you guys don't get 90 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: your phones, right, no, yes, so you don't get your phones. 91 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 2: It's very isolating. 92 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,119 Speaker 1: You're around a bunch of girls, you're basically fighting over 93 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: the same man. 94 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna go insane. 95 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: There's no way that people could think that that shit's 96 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: not real, because I would kill a bit. 97 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I don't know how you went on 98 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: that show, I would die. 99 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I went into it with the mindset that 100 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 3: he's gonna pick one of us, so ideally, let's just 101 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 3: all get. 102 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 2: Along and then do the best bitchmen you know what 103 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 2: I mean. 104 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 3: Well whatever, But I tried to just really just tell myself, like, 105 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 3: if it's not me, it's not meant to be. Like, 106 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 3: I didn't want to be in an environment where I'm 107 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 3: fighting these women for a man. 108 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 2: I don't. That's why I'll never do a show where 109 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:50,119 Speaker 2: it's like that again. 110 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 1: And at the same time, it's kind of self respect 111 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 1: for yourself. Yeah, you don't want to seem desperate, no, 112 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: and you want to just look confident. And I feel 113 00:04:59,920 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 1: like that's even women struggle, regardless of the bachelor or not, 114 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:06,679 Speaker 1: when you really want a man but a man doesn't 115 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: want you. You never want to come off desperate. No, 116 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: you want to come off confident because then you would 117 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: think the man would want you more. Well. 118 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think that also, like there's no point 119 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 3: of like overstepping or giving too much when like it's 120 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 3: kind of smart to be self aware and like know 121 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 3: your place, And I think I knew my place almost 122 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 3: too much to the point where like producers are like 123 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 3: Maria like, no, you're you're, you're, you're it, You're he 124 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 3: likes you. 125 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't know, I think it's Kelsey, guys. 126 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 3: I'm telling you, Like I was so self aware to 127 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 3: the point where I was like self sabotaging. 128 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, and yeah, although I could. 129 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 3: Have like tried, you know, to continue it, but you know, 130 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 3: when you just know that it's not you, you have 131 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 3: the feeling, you just know and like I and maybe 132 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 3: I could have been wrong in times and maybe I 133 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 3: was like again in my head too much, but. 134 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 2: I think I mean, now I got my ass at home. 135 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 2: I think I was right. But it's it's very hard 136 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 2: in that environment. Yeah, it brings it can bring out 137 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 2: the worst and uh, but it can bring out the 138 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: best too. 139 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 3: There were a lot of good moments too that I 140 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 3: wish we're shown with the girls, like, yeah, we had 141 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 3: a lot more funny moments, but obviously the drama will 142 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 3: over always. 143 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 1: Like always over. Yeah, yeah, for sure, that's how it is, 144 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 1: even on Housewives. 145 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, I love reality. I would like to do 146 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 3: more of it, and I think just in a more like. 147 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 1: Well, that's why people are fell in love with you 148 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 1: because you felt really real and but that's why it 149 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: also stuck past the Bachelor. 150 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 2: Well, thank you for saying that's crazy. 151 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, no, no, I mean, hello, 152 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 1: you were unwell this week? 153 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 2: Guy? Yeah, no, that's crazy, and like you need to 154 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 2: come to one of those events. I would love to. Yeah, 155 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 2: my god, she would love to have you. Yeah. 156 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: Wait, definitely, yeah, let me talk about that. 157 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:51,919 Speaker 2: But for sure. 158 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 3: Wait, I love that though, because I was gonna say, 159 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 3: you were like raised around cameras. Yeah, like you're like 160 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 3: more used to it than anything. 161 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 1: Like, Yeah, I'm definitely used to it. It started from 162 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: when I was eight. Wow. And yeah, my mom was 163 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: the OG, so she's been on it from the start. 164 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: She's the only standing OG damn, So kudos to mom. 165 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: But yeah, now she's been through a lot. It's definitely 166 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: been a ride. We've been through a ton on this show, 167 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: and it's been a lot of ups and downs with. 168 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 2: My family and you know, we made it out. 169 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: And everyone's doing really good right now, but then we 170 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: still go through ups and downs. 171 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 2: It's just it doesn't but that's real life. 172 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 3: That's what people want to see that it's like authentically, Yes, 173 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 3: your family and you know what I mean, like, no 174 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 3: one's perfect. 175 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 2: No, I don't know. I like that side of things, 176 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 2: of showing the realness of that. 177 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, speaking of unwell, I always wondered, are the parties 178 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: as crazy as they look? Oh? Yeah, there's so much fun, 179 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: Like I'm not getting like I was because I was 180 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: just in Miami for my cousin's batch party. Were you 181 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: there around the same time, like, oh week, No, like 182 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks, I'm gonna says I. 183 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 2: Would have like, oh, I know, I know it was. 184 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 2: They're crazy. They're crazy. 185 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you were drunk? Oh well, I mean yeah, 186 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: like we were having like a good old time for sure. 187 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 2: I mean like it's hard not to be. There's so 188 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 2: much access to all the drinks, and then it's. 189 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 3: Like all the people that are there, you know, I 190 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 3: think everyone's like really comfortable with each other so regardless 191 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 3: in that environment, Yeah, we're all like in it together. 192 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: You know. No, for sure, they look crazy and know 193 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: so much fun. And she picked like such amazing people too. 194 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 3: She always brings the best crew, and I think, like, 195 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:34,439 Speaker 3: like I said, everyone just gets. 196 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 2: Along so well, so it makes it even more fun. 197 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: Did you do know everyone prior. It's kind of like 198 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: a random brand trip in a way. 199 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 3: Well, I know, like the people that I were under 200 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 3: and well like originally because I've gone to like other events, 201 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 3: but this time she's invited new people and I got 202 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 3: to know and meet new people. So yeah, it's always fun. 203 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 3: It's always good, and she always brings a good crew. 204 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 205 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 3: I saw Rachel kirkconin Oh my god, Kirconnell, would you 206 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 3: say her? 207 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 2: Connic? I love it. 208 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: But you know, she even when I was like reading 209 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: her name prior, but I love you. 210 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 2: Oh, she's the best. So it's so funny because I've never. 211 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: Met her, okay, and I know she was under yeah right, 212 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: not her, but just her relations relationship. 213 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 214 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, but she's doing great and she looks like she's 215 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 3: she's thriving, and she's such a respectful woman, like the 216 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 3: way she holds herself. 217 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 2: I have so much respect for her. Well, you guys 218 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 2: probably bonded because Bachelor. 219 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, so we had followed each other for a while 220 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 3: and I know we both wanted to meet each other, 221 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 3: but you know, life goes on, and then it just 222 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:41,959 Speaker 3: so happened we ended up at the same event and 223 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 3: we hit it off like as if I've known her forever. 224 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,719 Speaker 2: But that's the best feeling. 225 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 3: But that's why I knew she was going to be 226 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 3: a real one from watching her season and then meeting 227 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 3: her in person was like ten times better love And 228 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 3: I love that those kinds of moments, you know, because 229 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 3: you never know what you're gonna get with some. 230 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 1: People one hundred percent. But no, she's and then also 231 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: after being in the public eye for a while because 232 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 1: she still also you know, followed that influencing career prior, 233 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 1: she's great after the Bachelor and everything, Yeah, yeah, exactly, No, Yeah, 234 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: she's done really well for herself, and you know with 235 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 1: her relationship and stuff like that. They were really like 236 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 1: good at influencing together and doing all the food that 237 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: you know, and that must have been hard to like 238 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: break apart from. Yeah, but you also have to do 239 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: what's best for you, absolutely and has been. So I'm 240 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: very happy to see her. And then Tyler Cameron also Bachelor, 241 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 1: and he's another one that I actually got to know 242 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: this trip, his girlfriend Tate Like love them. 243 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 2: Yes, she's adorable, she's the. 244 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 3: Best, and she's so funny and they were just so 245 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 3: funny together, like again, and I love that where. 246 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: She was also came on the Unwell trip. Was there 247 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: any like conversations about Matt James, I know, because Rachel 248 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: was there, or does she really try to like steer 249 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: clear from. 250 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 3: She She she's very respectful in the sense of, like, 251 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,439 Speaker 3: you know, like she still appreciates the relationship. 252 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 2: There's no bad blood like in that. 253 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 3: She will never speak negative on that, which I respect 254 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 3: that so much. 255 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: Speaking of just being single out in the world, what 256 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 1: is the status on your dating, Well, yeah, I'm single, 257 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 1: which is so crazy because I thought, you know, I'm 258 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: like the year that I'm gonna have I'm gonna like 259 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 1: go back to reality and do my own thing. But 260 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 1: I thought for sure I was gonna like probably be 261 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 1: in a relationship by thirty. 262 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 2: Or at least have like a prospect. 263 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 1: But I feel like, and a lot of people say this, 264 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: and I'm sure you see it while being in New 265 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: York more often that thirty is so young. Oh it's different, 266 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: especially and now, I mean I get it coming from 267 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: Italian families, they do everything super young. Everything is done 268 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 1: at a younger age, and you feel the pressure. 269 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 2: But even being in New. 270 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: York, a lot I see influencers in New York friends 271 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: in New York. They're in their late twenties and thirties 272 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: and still figuring it out. 273 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, of course, and now, yeah, that'll always be me. 274 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 3: I'm very honest about it too, Like as a thirty 275 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 3: year old, like, of course, when you're twenty five, you 276 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 3: think by thirty, I'm gonna have kids, you know what 277 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 3: I mean. And now I'm thirty, I'm like, oh my god, 278 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 3: I'm nowhere near yes ready for that. But I definitely 279 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 3: am open and and like I want a relationship. I like, 280 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 3: I'm ready for that. Yeah. But yeah, I definitely thought 281 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 3: I thought i'd be sitting here and telling you about that. 282 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: But yeah, how about you. I've been with my boyfriend 283 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: for like six years. 284 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 2: That's so nice. Yeah to his mom and dad love. 285 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: Love Yeah yeah, my mom loves him anything she needs. 286 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: It's Christian. 287 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 2: Oh, I love it. 288 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:56,679 Speaker 1: But my dad he visits him with me in the 289 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: Bahamas because my dad lives in the Bahamas. 290 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,119 Speaker 2: Nice. Yeah, I love the Bahamas. 291 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 1: It's beautiful there. Yeah, my dad was deported. I don't 292 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 1: know if you know that. No, well damn. So we 293 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 1: went through legal issues and my mom ended up going 294 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 1: away first for a little under a year. Then when 295 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: my mom came home, my dad went away, so it 296 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: was like swapping up the parents. And my dad went 297 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 1: away my freshman year of high school and never came 298 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: home from prison. They deported him and he was only 299 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: living in Italy for a year. So my grandparents brought 300 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: him to America when he was one years old. But 301 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: the laws changed, so his dad became a citizen before 302 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: he was eighteen, an American citizen. 303 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 2: Was your mom an American citizen? Yes? So then I 304 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 2: don't know. 305 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. I thought so too, that it was 306 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 1: that you would automatically become one. I still have questions. Yeah, 307 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: it's still crazy. And then my grandma became a citizen 308 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,680 Speaker 1: when my dad was nineteen. The law was at the time, 309 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: your mother needs to become a citizen before you're eighteen 310 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: years old, you'll. 311 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 2: Automatically become an American citizen. My nana did it when 312 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 2: he was nineteen. 313 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: So then from eighteen on he was responsible for making 314 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 1: himself an American citizen, which is where he looked up. No, 315 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: so he was in jail for about like three and 316 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: a half years, okay, then went straight to went straight 317 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: to Italy. He was in ice and then at that 318 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 1: point he kind of was like, I need to call 319 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: it quits. It was just a very crazy experience, very 320 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: hard on the mind. Yeah, I was safe for you, like, yeah, 321 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 1: it was you know more so honestly for us we 322 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 1: could only say daddy fight. Yeah, and for him he's 323 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: actually living it. 324 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 325 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: When he was in ice, he lost like thirty pounds. 326 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:59,479 Speaker 1: It was worse than prison. It was like crazy experience. 327 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: So it was definitely rough, considering he's also been in 328 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: the States since he was one. Yeah, and it's still 329 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: as rough. I mean, we go visit him, but it's 330 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: it's not the same, you know as having your father present. 331 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: And I know your dad was such an important part, 332 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 1: is such an important part of your life, you know, 333 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: So it was to imagine it was. It's definitely rough 334 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: even now. I actually just got back from visiting him. 335 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 1: Arriving in Bahamas is always so amazing. Leaving is the 336 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: hardest part. 337 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 2: It does. 338 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: I don't think it ever the tears will ever end. 339 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 2: No, of course not. It's your father, you know, Yeah. 340 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 1: Which is crazy, even though you know, I know he 341 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 1: might have not made the best decisions, but they were 342 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: never he did his time. Though he did his time. 343 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: He wasn't ever hurting anybody. He was never malicious. There 344 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: was no malicious intent, and he's just not a malicious person. 345 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: So your dad is someone that's really important in your life. 346 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: How did he take the whole thing? Was he just 347 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: happy for you and happy for your decision? 348 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 3: Well, when I first mentioned that I wanted to go 349 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 3: on the show, he was not excited. 350 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 2: I could only imagine he was just not about it. 351 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 3: You know, he's very protective of me, so like he's 352 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 3: just like, I don't want you going. And like, first 353 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 3: of all, he knew he can't call. 354 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 2: Me like we talk every day, which you know, like. 355 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I mean he trusts me, and like I 356 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 3: you know, at the end of the day, like I was, 357 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 3: so I'm like, I'm doing it. And I didn't even 358 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 3: know I was doing it until three days before they 359 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 3: called me. 360 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 2: They're like, yeah, we're flying you out, but we don't 361 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 2: we're not confirming that you're on the show yet. What. Yeah. Yeah, 362 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 2: So I was in the hotel where they have all 363 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 2: the girls and they're doing like the pre interview. 364 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: Theres girls that go there that's and then get. 365 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 2: What we're told. 366 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 3: I think everyone that that has happened before though, Yes, 367 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 3: but I think everyone that was in the hotel for 368 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 3: our season ended up going on. That's why we had 369 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 3: the most girls, Like I don't think. I don't think 370 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:00,080 Speaker 3: there's ever been a season with thirty two girls. It 371 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 3: was like twenty five or something, oh, twenty seven, but 372 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 3: our girls, there. 373 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 2: Was a lot of us. 374 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 3: But I remember sitting in the hotel room and right 375 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 3: away they take our phones. So now I'm sitting in 376 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 3: a hotel room being like, I need to call my dad. 377 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 3: I need to tell him that I'm I'm gonna be 378 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 3: on the show, like he had to find out through 379 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:23,679 Speaker 3: reality Steve basically because he like announced the cast. But 380 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 3: I was able to get like a producer to give 381 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 3: me her phone at the time to just be like, Okay, Daddy, 382 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:29,639 Speaker 3: I'm actually going on. 383 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:31,199 Speaker 2: But it's a crazy process. 384 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 3: And I understand where his concerns and fears were. 385 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 2: And I had those. 386 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:38,679 Speaker 3: Same fears because I didn't want to go and not 387 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 3: be able to talk to talk to my family. But 388 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 3: coming back, I don't think he expected the audience or 389 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 3: people watching the show to have loved me, like I 390 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:51,679 Speaker 3: know obviously he knows like he sees that in me, 391 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 3: but coming back, all I had to say to him 392 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:56,439 Speaker 3: was everything that happened, and he was like. 393 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:59,199 Speaker 2: What the hell did you just go through? So we 394 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 2: both were like, what are we about to watch? 395 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, but thankfully, by the grace of God, people got 396 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:08,120 Speaker 3: to see the reality of how things went and kind 397 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 3: of where things went wrong. And yeah, I felt protected 398 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 3: in the edit, not in the edit, but like I 399 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 3: mean like they showed on it very well. That's what 400 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 3: I was working because I was I thought when I 401 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 3: was in the house and the girls, some of the 402 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,080 Speaker 3: girls were just I was rubbing them the wrong way 403 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 3: for some reason. And I remember I had girls like 404 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 3: Edwina and the sisters and like girls that kind of 405 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:32,480 Speaker 3: went home early on, but they were like my like 406 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 3: in the house, like I needed them because we were 407 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 3: one and the same. 408 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 2: And so when they left, I was like, oh my god, 409 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 2: I'm now. 410 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,640 Speaker 3: I'm like I don't know, I just don't I don't 411 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 3: belong here, Like I'm just not it's just not a 412 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:45,880 Speaker 3: good moment for me kind of. 413 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: And it was very obvious that you felt as if 414 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: you were the odd one out. Yeah, and it was 415 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:54,480 Speaker 1: everyone ganging up on you, but you really held your 416 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 1: own the entire season. But I think that's why everyone 417 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 1: admired you so much, because you were so confident and 418 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:03,679 Speaker 1: it ever really showed through the screen. 419 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 2: I am so serious. 420 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 3: I appreciate that because I one of my biggest thing 421 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 3: was like, I'm gonna go there be myself, because when 422 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 3: my family's gonna watch me, I want them to be like, yeah, okay. 423 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 2: That's if I went on and did. 424 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 3: Something that is just out of my comfort zone or 425 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 3: like out of character, then people would be like, who 426 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:23,400 Speaker 3: are you trying to like, you know, fool, but no, truthfully, honestly, 427 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 3: Like that's why I was so happy that it showed 428 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 3: the things like you guys saw the reality of what. 429 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 2: I was going through. 430 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 3: And I don't know if she expected a different result. 431 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 3: I don't know if she maybe expected people to be like, yeah, Sidney, 432 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 3: get the bully out. 433 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 2: You know. 434 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 3: I was like, guys, people were working a nine to five. 435 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 3: Right now we're on a yacht. Let's let's be cool, girl. 436 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 2: And I think I said that her. 437 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, let's just be grateful for this moment, 438 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:52,400 Speaker 3: like look around, yeah, look around. I ain't attacking you, sister, 439 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 3: but look around and see the view. Let's have fun today. 440 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 3: And that's kind of like where my like what I 441 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 3: was constantly trying to tell myself, like, just enjoy your time. 442 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 3: You don't know it can be your last stake, so 443 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 3: just enjoy your time here. And that's why I was like, 444 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 3: why are people trying to make it difficult for themselves too? 445 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 3: But yeah, no I And that's why I think the 446 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:15,640 Speaker 3: best part about the cameras were that they were there 447 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 3: and always there. 448 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 1: It was like protect or they can hurt you, but yea, 449 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:21,199 Speaker 1: they protect it. 450 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 2: I need that. 451 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 3: I was like please, And I remember telling the camera man, 452 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 3: I'm like, put it all in. 453 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,159 Speaker 2: I was begging them at one but I'm like put this. 454 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 3: In, please show everything because I'm like was going crazy? 455 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:34,639 Speaker 2: Like am I going nuts? Am I nuts? Who's nuts? 456 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 1: It makes you question, of course, when you're not also 457 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,919 Speaker 1: dealing with somebody that's trying to manipulate every word that 458 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 1: you're saying. I was when the best was when she 459 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: was like, which again we can laugh about and. 460 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,479 Speaker 2: I worked so cool. Now it's just different. 461 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 3: But I just remember watching it, mind you, because when 462 00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 3: you're watching it, you see people's confessionals and they're saying 463 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 3: things that you're hearing for the first time You're like 464 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,400 Speaker 3: and I'm like, damn, that girl didn't like I didn't 465 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 3: even know that girl didn't like me. 466 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,280 Speaker 2: There was a couple of them where I was like, 467 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 2: oh shit. 468 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 3: But with Sidney when she was like she I can't 469 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 3: go into a room without Maria or feeling like Maria 470 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 3: is gonna attack me, I'm like, I don't know, maybe 471 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 3: we have a different definition of attack, but. 472 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 1: Yes. 473 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 3: But for the most fart, I was like, I appreciate it. 474 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 3: Now I can really sit back and just be like, yeah, 475 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 3: that was a good time. 476 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 1: That's what made But that's what made you like so 477 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:41,920 Speaker 1: iconic too. Obviously, following the Bachelor, there was so much 478 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: noise about you becoming the bachelorette. I was the second 479 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:48,240 Speaker 1: and you got off. I was like, this is it. 480 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 1: I'm excited. I'm going to watch Maria's bachelorette season. But 481 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:57,439 Speaker 1: I was obviously. I know you were asked and you 482 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 1: said that it was very overwhelming on call Her Daddy 483 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 1: and that you kind of needed a step back. Yeah, 484 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 1: I'm curious because you got so much positive feedback and 485 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 1: everyone loved you. What made you feel so overwhelmed? Was 486 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 1: it the like, was it just everything to like, so 487 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:17,120 Speaker 1: it was just. 488 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,479 Speaker 3: Like again the whole thing of being self aware and 489 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 3: like knowing yourself. 490 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 2: I was like, I don't want to waste anyone's time. 491 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 3: It would be like people love as much as they 492 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 3: love the drama, they love the love story too, And 493 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 3: I wanted to feel like I can one hundred percent 494 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 3: put my like full soul into this because I want 495 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 3: you know, but like and I've said this before, going 496 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,120 Speaker 3: through what I went through on the show, like having 497 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,760 Speaker 3: to rewatch it all back, like it was hard during it, 498 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 3: and I don't think I fully got to process it. 499 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,240 Speaker 3: And I just knew if I did not take the 500 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 3: time to process it, like everything I was feeling I 501 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 3: was having like I was getting like bad panic attacks 502 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 3: like during the show, like I was going through it 503 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 3: because again no family, no friends, like just like yeah, 504 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 3: it's it's draining and traumatic. 505 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,360 Speaker 1: Also, like you were saying, if you get a bad edit, 506 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,919 Speaker 1: you're probably thinking, okay, there is also a possibility that 507 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 1: I could be made to look like. 508 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 2: Well, there was a murmur before the show started that 509 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 2: I was a villain, and I was like, oh no, no, no, no, no, yeah. 510 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 1: But I know that probably already sent you into a spiral. 511 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 1: Well I would have like that's yeah. 512 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 3: Well, to be honest, I wasn't even that scared because 513 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 3: I was like, no, I'm not a villain. 514 00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm like, what can. 515 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,199 Speaker 3: They even edit to show me being a villain, Like, 516 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 3: I don't even think I gave them any kind of 517 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 3: content where they can even make me seem like it. 518 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 3: Maybe maybe my face facial expressions like they can. But 519 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 3: I was like, that was kind exactly exactly weird on 520 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 3: her face with her hands like we don't you know? 521 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 3: But I was I honestly, when I saw that I 522 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 3: was the villain quote unquote online, I wasn't worried. 523 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 2: I'm to be honest, it had nothing to do with that. 524 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 3: But I think it was emotionally draining with the girls 525 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,959 Speaker 3: like I was. I was always like feeling like I 526 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 3: was on the attack because and that hurt me. Like 527 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 3: I would like one night like after the whole, like 528 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 3: I remember Sidney and I having such a great day 529 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,639 Speaker 3: and then later in the night I was called the bully. 530 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,919 Speaker 3: I cried myself to sleep that night, like it was 531 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 3: I was like, please, like. 532 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 2: Let me go home because no one wants me here. 533 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:28,160 Speaker 2: Why am I here? 534 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,399 Speaker 3: Like I don't want to have to stay another day 535 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 3: if it meant me having to go through the drama 536 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 3: with the girls. So I was like literally crying myself 537 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 3: to sleep every night I was going through it on 538 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:39,760 Speaker 3: the show. So when I got home to my friends 539 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 3: and family, I got like a little bit of time 540 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,439 Speaker 3: to like kind of try to recover. 541 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,120 Speaker 2: How quick is the turnaround time? 542 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, I got back to then, like 543 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: when you got back to them asking you so like 544 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 1: so oh for Bachelorette, Yeah, like for you to even 545 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 1: process like you want it. 546 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 2: To be honest. 547 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 3: For example, January it started, and I think bachelor I 548 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 3: would be March March. 549 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 2: So you got sent home. I got sent home, so 550 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 2: I had maybe like well like a month. Oh it's 551 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 2: like a quick it's a quick. 552 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 3: Turnover, like turnover and like again I would need to 553 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 3: go through. But mind you, oh there are they filming 554 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,360 Speaker 3: when they do tells all right. 555 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:24,080 Speaker 2: After like you go and you do like the limo entrances. 556 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,880 Speaker 1: Okay, wow, oh that day Yeah that's. 557 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 3: Crazy, well like probably two days after. But I never 558 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 3: did that, so I know there was like rumors about 559 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 3: me filming. I never filmed anything. No, I just I 560 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 3: really just know myself and. 561 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 1: So it was a quick turnaround. Again, you felt exhausted. 562 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 2: I was. 563 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,680 Speaker 1: I was drained and then it is exhausting though, when 564 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,159 Speaker 1: you feel like you're always trying to defend yourself, to 565 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 1: defend your character. It was, it was, it was definitely exhausting. 566 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, but what you like, like you said, like, well 567 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,880 Speaker 3: everyone was very positive, so how could you feel that way? 568 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 3: I'm like that's what kept me sane, Like I literally 569 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 3: was so grateful for that where I was almost like, Okay, 570 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 3: maybe I should do it, but then I was like no, Maria, 571 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,360 Speaker 3: like just just take your step back, go back to reality. 572 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 2: Like were you. 573 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: Even ready to really fine love yet? 574 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, one hundred percent. I didn't go on the 575 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 2: like I went on the. 576 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,480 Speaker 1: Show saying for if you were on the Bachelorette, like 577 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 1: or were you just so mentally like not there yet? 578 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 3: No, Like I'm so so so ready for a relationship. 579 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,159 Speaker 3: That's why I was. I wanted that that was my 580 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 3: outcome that I envisioned. So then going on the Bachelor, 581 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:35,440 Speaker 3: I just didn't know if I can handle all these 582 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 3: season of that, like having all. 583 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 1: These conversations with all these guys and like really trying 584 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 1: to be the like you you need to be on 585 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: your A game, you need to give you have to 586 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,360 Speaker 1: be very open to all these men. 587 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 2: And so that's probably so exhausting. I mean, it would 588 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:53,200 Speaker 2: just be hard. 589 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,040 Speaker 3: It would it would be hard, and I can't imagine 590 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 3: what one would go through. 591 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:58,679 Speaker 2: Like even Joey on our season. 592 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,359 Speaker 3: You you saw his down days where he was just 593 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,400 Speaker 3: so you know, it's mentally exhausting. And I think, again, 594 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:08,159 Speaker 3: just it's okay to say no, and especially in this industry, 595 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,239 Speaker 3: I love saying no. I know that sounds like messed up, 596 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 3: but like reality is, I'm just a regular Canadian girl. 597 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:20,119 Speaker 3: Like I'm not trying to like do everything and anything. 598 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 3: I want to do things that excite me and that 599 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,239 Speaker 3: I'm happy to do and I'm so grateful that I've 600 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:27,720 Speaker 3: been able to do certain things. But again, like I'm 601 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,479 Speaker 3: not afraid to say no, and I think I just 602 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 3: need to be I just need to like look over 603 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 3: myself along the way. 604 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 1: So then with you being okay to say no to things, 605 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 1: I know that the Bachelorette's on hold right now, which 606 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,640 Speaker 1: is kind of crazy. I don't have that ever even happened, 607 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 1: not that I know of, but I truly think that 608 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 1: they need a revamp, and I think they need to 609 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: do some things differently. 610 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 2: So this whole I it could help things like. 611 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 1: Did they ask anyone were you at asked to be 612 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 1: on the Bachelor app prior to this hold. 613 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,160 Speaker 3: I'm gonna be so honest with you, I really don't 614 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,160 Speaker 3: want to be a part of that narrative again because 615 00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 3: of what happened the last time, Like for whoever they 616 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,840 Speaker 3: asked and who wants to talk about it. I think 617 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,720 Speaker 3: what I thought, I think something that you can appreciate 618 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 3: and I know is just honesty. 619 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 2: And I thought me coming out and saying my truth. 620 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 1: And you were asked the first time and. 621 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 3: Just saying like I just you know, I thought, you know, 622 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 3: I mind. I didn't speak for months until like I 623 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,320 Speaker 3: was asked on call or Daddy, But I just figured 624 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 3: now nowadays it's better to just. 625 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,919 Speaker 2: Kind of err it out there, just just let it be, 626 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 2: you know. I know people are interested. 627 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 3: I know when I'm asked, I want whatever, But I 628 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 3: just think, I don't know, I don't even know how 629 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 3: to answer it. But Bachelor being on past is probably 630 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 3: a good thing for them, But at being asked, don't 631 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 3: there's a lot of girls that came out that said 632 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,080 Speaker 3: that they were asked, so maybe they'll pick one of them. 633 00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 1: I'm like really trying to answer with it, like I'm 634 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 1: so scarred from like that interview coming out and saying 635 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,000 Speaker 1: what happened the last time that. I'm like, I'm so 636 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to be a part of this narrative anymore. 637 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,240 Speaker 1: My loss, well, the whole thing, the whole thing. 638 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 3: With like me saying my piece, like people thought I 639 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 3: would like take away from the moment, and I yeah, 640 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 3: I can't even speak it, like literally traumatizes me because 641 00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:22,479 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, all I did was just 642 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 3: answer a question and then it became the worst thing 643 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 3: in the world. 644 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I got it. They could take the smallest 645 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 1: thing and blow it up. 646 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. 647 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 3: So I'm like, I don't I really don't want to 648 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 3: be a part of a narrative of like, oh, what 649 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 3: were you asked? 650 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 2: Were you not? 651 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, so, you you think your time on the 652 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 1: Bachelor is kind of just it's concluded, it's it's done. 653 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 3: Well, did you hear what they're doing with Paradise. They're 654 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 3: bringing the Golden Golden Bachelor and Bachelorettes with like young people. 655 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, they're going to mix them, mix them on 656 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 3: the beach. How do you feel about that as a viewer, 657 00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 3: I think that's so weird. I'm just also thinking like 658 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 3: old school mentality, like in the aspect. 659 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 2: Of my dad's not going to want to see me 660 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 2: on a. 661 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: Beach with an older man. 662 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 3: I think they're they're always trying to like do something 663 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 3: new to spice things up. Of course, so I'm excited 664 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 3: to see how it's going to go. I'm not doing 665 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 3: verydis I've made that very clear. 666 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 667 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 3: I don't want to go in a reality ship where 668 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 3: I fight for a guy ever again. 669 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, ever again. 670 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 1: It's not fun. No, you want to feel chosen. Yeah, 671 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 1: I think that's the end of the day too. I 672 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 1: think any girl wants to feel chosen, and as much 673 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: as the bachelor is in an amazing experience. And you 674 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:39,600 Speaker 1: said how Gentran was like so amazing to be a bachelorette, 675 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: and I feel so bad for her everything that she 676 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 1: went through, but thank god, now she's so happy with Sasha. 677 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 2: Are they together? I don't know. I don't know. Yeah, 678 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think Okay, well no, no, I think 679 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 2: her So she had an happy ending. 680 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 1: I mean she also popped off. You know, you would 681 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 1: do so good on Dancing with Sorry, thank you. 682 00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 2: I wish one day. I always said, I'm like, I'll 683 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,000 Speaker 2: never say no if I ever was asking. 684 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I mean it's such a good opportunity. It's 685 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 1: such a fun show too. Do I think the Stars 686 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,480 Speaker 1: is another one with The Bachelor that I grew up 687 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 1: watching because I feel like Dancing with the Stars was. 688 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 3: Always have They always have a Bachelor bachelorette on it. 689 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, that's it's it's a great show. 690 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 2: I love it. 691 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, so she found love. Yeah, god, but I 692 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 1: mean there's others we had a rough experience too. Yeah, 693 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 1: but if you're ready for that then that's totally fine. 694 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 1: But it definitely is a hard experience. I wouldn't think 695 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 1: that it's easy on anybody. 696 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 3: No, I I think like I'm like old school, I 697 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 3: want to I want to meet someone just organically, like 698 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 3: out and about you know, did. 699 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 1: The Bachelor kind of settle that answer for you? 700 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's definitely opened my dating pool, Like 701 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,400 Speaker 3: I've met a lot of great people from it. 702 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 1: And has The Bachelor heard it or made it better? No? 703 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 1: I think Well, I mean I'll try to say positive. 704 00:31:59,160 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 1: I think it's been good. 705 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,880 Speaker 3: I think it's weird when like maybe they know too 706 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:05,840 Speaker 3: much or they watch the show. But I think it's 707 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 3: I mean, regardless, I don't think anything changed in that 708 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 3: in that department. Would you say, you now are meeting 709 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 3: more people that I don't even want to say, like people. 710 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,959 Speaker 1: That are not like normal or public eye people. 711 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 2: Oh, I mean it's a mix of both probably well, because. 712 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 3: You know, what what I can say is that being 713 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 3: on the show, it's it's allowed me to like meet 714 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 3: a lot of new people at like fun events and 715 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:33,600 Speaker 3: like fancy events and so like, yeah, like it's brought 716 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 3: in my horizons. But yeah, I don't know, I've I've 717 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,800 Speaker 3: just gone back to just I'll meet anyone if I 718 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:41,240 Speaker 3: like them. 719 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 2: I like them. 720 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 3: If you're if you were on reality TV, sure, if 721 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 3: you weren't, like, I like you too. 722 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 2: Like I'm very open to just meeting a good guy. 723 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 2: I don't like, that's it. It's that's it. 724 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:57,720 Speaker 3: Just a good guy, good sense of humor, maybe a 725 00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 3: good style too. Yeah, like thing these are no but 726 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 3: like honestly, truly, like I'm not I'm kind of one 727 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,560 Speaker 3: of those people that I don't like anyone until I 728 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 3: like someone, and I just haven't gotten that yet. 729 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 2: I haven't had that feeling yet where I'm like, yes. 730 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,680 Speaker 1: And I mean I listen on Caller Daddy. You haven't 731 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 1: been in too many relationships neither, so I mean when 732 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 1: I situationships, of course, sure, but relationship relationship no. But 733 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 1: I mean has New York I'm sure being in New York? Like, yeah, 734 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,959 Speaker 1: I know you told me you really want to move here, 735 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,040 Speaker 1: truly I do. Do you still or do you still 736 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 1: have your heart? Like? Do you still feel that attachment 737 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 1: to Canada too? I feel like that's always home. 738 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, of course of course, but because New York is 739 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 3: so close to home, I feel like it's like become 740 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 3: my second home. I'm like, might as well just come 741 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 3: here as much as I can. I have so many 742 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 3: amazing friends here now that like, I'm so comfortable being here. 743 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 3: But of course, like home is home, like I'm Canadian, 744 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:58,320 Speaker 3: proud Canadian. But of course I would love to be 745 00:33:58,360 --> 00:33:59,840 Speaker 3: in New York as much as I can, especially in 746 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,160 Speaker 3: this summer, and I have. 747 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 1: To come to the Jersey Shore. 748 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god, are you kidding me? I would love 749 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 2: to go to the Jersey Shore like we would have 750 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 2: so much. Okay, we'll go, we'll go. We need so much, 751 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,839 Speaker 2: I know, I know, Okay, we're doing it. 752 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 1: I mean, but I will take you to obviously, I 753 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 1: you need like an hour in DJs and that's it, 754 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,359 Speaker 1: just to experience. That's the one where they all used 755 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,279 Speaker 1: to go to, like the oh you're talking y yeah, 756 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 1: I'm talking about that. Every you know what's so crazy 757 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 1: every place that they have gone to, and that was 758 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 1: so infamous on Jersey Shore. It's like shitty, it's closed down, shitty, 759 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 1: closed down, not a thing anymore, Like nobody goes to 760 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 1: these places. Now we have DJs, which I guess you 761 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 1: could is it a club? Has been a thing though 762 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 1: not now we have DJs. I don't know why they 763 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 1: didn't go to DJs. DJs is not like your New 764 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 1: York City club. 765 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,680 Speaker 2: I would club. I rarely club. 766 00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 1: Okay, so they're all bars. 767 00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 2: I love. I love a good die bar like fun 768 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,240 Speaker 2: I love it's on the boardwalk. 769 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:06,320 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, the DJs is crazy Italian fist pumping. You're 770 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,479 Speaker 1: walking into a black hole. You walk into a black 771 00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:13,359 Speaker 1: hole and you leave blacked out. It is a black hole. 772 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:14,919 Speaker 2: We need one of those days. 773 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:19,800 Speaker 1: Parker House is great. It's classy Parker House and columns, 774 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,360 Speaker 1: same owners. So it's on the Blossa. They're not on 775 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,879 Speaker 1: the boardwalk, but they're in like really nice areas. Okay, 776 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 1: so it's classy live music. 777 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:31,719 Speaker 2: You go upstairs. 778 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 1: It's not live music, but they call it the Basement's 779 00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 1: God's basement. 780 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:41,839 Speaker 2: Cool vibes. There got a little bit of all is boardwalk? 781 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:47,160 Speaker 1: What is it? Jenks Jenkinson's and Jenkinson's is like a variety. 782 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 1: There's like. 783 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:53,040 Speaker 2: People of all ages, like it doesn't matter. So you go, 784 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 2: I need to. 785 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 1: Show you the waves of the I still haven't seen 786 00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:59,800 Speaker 1: and you howie, Like I would you, guys. 787 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,000 Speaker 2: Would Ally's probably been there. 788 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,399 Speaker 1: It's probably been, I mean because she's from Boston, Yes 789 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,359 Speaker 1: she is, So I don't been living here? 790 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 2: Has she for a while? Well maybe not a while, but. 791 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,359 Speaker 1: I wonder if she has been to the Jersey Shore 792 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:15,160 Speaker 1: because that would be so so fun. 793 00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,600 Speaker 3: I feel like I've already like envisioned her fist pumping 794 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 3: in the Jersey Shore. 795 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 2: No, yeah, you know what I mean. 796 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,240 Speaker 3: That's like Halle would already be like ten drinks deep. 797 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:27,320 Speaker 3: We'd show up and she'd be fist pumping like Halley's 798 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:27,840 Speaker 3: a time. 799 00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 1: Such a good time. 800 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so fun. 801 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,640 Speaker 1: I love, but we definitely need to set that up. 802 00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 1: That would love to so fun. Yeah. This summer, me 803 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,359 Speaker 1: and all my girls are renting a house too, so 804 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,840 Speaker 1: it's a full girl's house. 805 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,040 Speaker 3: That's I want to do. Hampton's too, I want to 806 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 3: do I know I've never been. You know, I just 807 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:47,720 Speaker 3: started like binging summerhouse, like, okay, I need to start, 808 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,399 Speaker 3: you need to start, and I don't. 809 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,280 Speaker 1: I love Page Yeah, just. 810 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,279 Speaker 2: Because I know what a real woman that is. 811 00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:54,760 Speaker 1: I love that woman. 812 00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 3: I don't even know her, and I just started watching 813 00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 3: a couple of episodes and she is such. 814 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,840 Speaker 1: Real, yes real like and I just know her from 815 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 1: obviously the Bravo world. You know, my mom loves her. 816 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 2: I do. 817 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,759 Speaker 1: Amazon lives a lot, so I see her in and 818 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:15,719 Speaker 1: out of the Amazon Live studio. She is literally amazing 819 00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,359 Speaker 1: and I just love every inch of her personality. I say, 820 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,919 Speaker 1: I have it, don't give personality. 821 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 3: She does it in such the glass like a class 822 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:23,400 Speaker 3: good way. 823 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 2: But she really doesn't give up. Yeah, she really like 824 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 2: you believe her when she doesn't. I know, I'm not. 825 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,359 Speaker 2: I know, I literally watching her. I'm like I would 826 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,560 Speaker 2: need her in my friend group, like she's great, and. 827 00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:38,359 Speaker 3: Like Summerhouse is a show I would I would, you would, 828 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 3: like I would go on because it's just again, it's 829 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:41,600 Speaker 3: like it's. 830 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: I know, I feel like to be Oh yeah, okay. 831 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,319 Speaker 1: The only other show that you don't get to keep 832 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 1: your phones on is like Traders. 833 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 2: Well damn they even need to stop doing. What do 834 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 2: you think a phone's gonna do? 835 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 1: Leave the phone, I know, or at least give us 836 00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:56,920 Speaker 1: a flip phone so we can just call people. 837 00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:57,480 Speaker 2: I know. 838 00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:59,239 Speaker 1: I think it's more so the fact when you're in 839 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,319 Speaker 1: your room and your board, you want something to do. 840 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 3: But what I can't say is I got the best 841 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,399 Speaker 3: sleep on The Bachelor, because did you when I hit 842 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 3: my head hit the pillow, I was out. 843 00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:09,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 844 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 3: Because you're not scrolling distracted, you're not distracted. There's no 845 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,280 Speaker 3: TVs either, And the purpose of it obviously is because 846 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 3: for you guys. 847 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,399 Speaker 2: Not to leak at anything, probably right, yeah. 848 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, probably that, And like I mean, you want to 849 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 3: stay focused, yeah, and they want to be able to, like, 850 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 3: you know, get you up in the morning and you're 851 00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 3: not like screwing around. 852 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:28,480 Speaker 1: You know. 853 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,040 Speaker 3: There was a couple of times where I like pay 854 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 3: because I could probably get in trouble for saying this, 855 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 3: but I don't care because don't keep you away from 856 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 3: my family. I paid a couple of housekeepers to use 857 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:42,160 Speaker 3: their phones whenever we'd be in hotels, and it's so funny. 858 00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:43,680 Speaker 3: I would tell the girls and I'm like, did you 859 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 3: guys like try to get a phone? 860 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 1: When they're like, did you have money? 861 00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:46,719 Speaker 2: You just had cash. 862 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,600 Speaker 3: You had cash, Okay, I brought cash in case and 863 00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,359 Speaker 3: you might be traveling and I just had it. And 864 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,880 Speaker 3: luckily so the first hotel room we were in, oh 865 00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:56,680 Speaker 3: my god, I paid like fifty dollars once for ten 866 00:38:56,680 --> 00:39:01,280 Speaker 3: minutes to use their phone. One time, I like got 867 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 3: in store for like two seconds with my producer. She 868 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:04,799 Speaker 3: would like had to go to the bank next door, 869 00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:06,720 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my god. 870 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,840 Speaker 2: This is so bad. This is this. 871 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,520 Speaker 3: I don't even know if I ever told it, but 872 00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 3: I was like, sir, listen, I need your phone. 873 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,800 Speaker 2: I'm on a reality show. I need to call my dad. 874 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,600 Speaker 3: So I did, and every time I would call from 875 00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 3: a random number, I would be like Maria, I'm like Dad, 876 00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,239 Speaker 3: It's like the weirdest thing to think about because it's 877 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:25,680 Speaker 3: like why can't I just call my dad? 878 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:26,560 Speaker 2: Literally? 879 00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:30,000 Speaker 3: No, But when I did get to potentially get a phone, 880 00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:34,600 Speaker 3: I took that risk every time. Sorry, no, sorry, not sorry, 881 00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 3: Like I'm sorry, you would probably do the same, like 882 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,040 Speaker 3: and it was crazy. I'd be girls talk to your 883 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 3: parents are like No, I'm like, guys, I'm about to 884 00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 3: pay this guy for his phone for two minutes, Like 885 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,239 Speaker 3: I don't know how you're doing it. But yeah, no, 886 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,399 Speaker 3: it's funny. I had to, you're fully, I was about 887 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:51,840 Speaker 3: to go on an eight and hour flight. I'm not 888 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,359 Speaker 3: going to talk to my dad before I do it 889 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 3: for you crazy, I had to. 890 00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 1: No, I love that I had to. 891 00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,440 Speaker 3: I'm a daddy's girl too, always like, don't leave me 892 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 3: around on attended phone. 893 00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:02,600 Speaker 2: Yea, even men these days. 894 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,960 Speaker 3: I'll take their phone too, But no, I yeah, I 895 00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:05,840 Speaker 3: had to do what I had to do. 896 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:09,240 Speaker 1: No, I love that I would have done the same thing. Yeah, 897 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 1: who has been the craziest person now that has slid 898 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,719 Speaker 1: into your DMS? I know you've said, not too many. 899 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,840 Speaker 2: Slid in it's crazy. No, I'm not. I still stand 900 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:18,080 Speaker 2: with this. 901 00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:21,240 Speaker 3: Like, no one's well, like, obviously there's guys and stuff 902 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:23,000 Speaker 3: that signed to my dance, but no one that I'd. 903 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:28,520 Speaker 2: Be like, now, no, honestly, how about you? 904 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 1: Same? 905 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:32,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, Like I don't know this. Am I missing the. 906 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:38,080 Speaker 1: NFL players that slide into girls dms. I'm like, I must. 907 00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:41,480 Speaker 2: Not be on their roster? Yeah? Same, I don't know. 908 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 2: I'm I don't know. 909 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:45,879 Speaker 1: I I and I would so not think that from 910 00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,160 Speaker 1: you because you. 911 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 2: Wait, really, because you know, I want people to think. 912 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:54,280 Speaker 1: That I'm getting I would think that because you came 913 00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:54,880 Speaker 1: off like. 914 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was all women, which I love. 915 00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,480 Speaker 3: It was all girls like being like I love you 916 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 3: telling me their's stories. I'm like, that meant more to 917 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,800 Speaker 3: me than, of course, any NFL player trying to sign 918 00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:09,920 Speaker 3: to my damn of course, and they feel like anyway, 919 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,520 Speaker 3: but it's I know, I don't want I don't need that. 920 00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:14,799 Speaker 3: I want a nice stay at home boy. I don't 921 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,880 Speaker 3: want him to be making tiktoks. I don't want to 922 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,319 Speaker 3: be making reels. I just wanted to like come home 923 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 3: and then like, you know, watch a movie with me. 924 00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:25,239 Speaker 3: That's just I just want to get potato just to 925 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:25,920 Speaker 3: be there with me. 926 00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:26,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. 927 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm like cook just do wholesome too. 928 00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 2: I'm an eater. 929 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 1: I'm definitely not a cooker, but I'll eat no cook 930 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:37,800 Speaker 1: I know, what a disgrace to the Italians. 931 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,799 Speaker 2: Yes, so your moment, say hi, I will. 932 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 1: She literally loved you when she wat you at the 933 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,200 Speaker 1: House of Villains. She was like, wait, she's so cute, 934 00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:49,480 Speaker 1: because sometimes she would come in and watch Bachelor with 935 00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,000 Speaker 1: me and my friends. Yes, but she was like, she's 936 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:54,279 Speaker 1: so cute and so tiny like that. 937 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 2: Everyone thinks that I'm taller than I am. 938 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the one thing I always get there, like 939 00:41:58,320 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 3: you're so tiny in person. 940 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 2: It's you and the girls are short that. But at 941 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:05,680 Speaker 2: least we can wear heels on a regular day. 942 00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,319 Speaker 1: I mean less than I'm totally a heels girls at night. 943 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,120 Speaker 1: But I also love my sneakers. 944 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:12,560 Speaker 3: I'm so com I'm in crocs half the time or 945 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,279 Speaker 3: like comfye can maybe not crocs, but like I wear 946 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:17,280 Speaker 3: You should see the shoes I was. I was roaming 947 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:20,480 Speaker 3: around so and it was really bad, and I and 948 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 3: I wore that to a bar too. We were all 949 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,560 Speaker 3: like having a day Sunday, fun day, and I was 950 00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:29,440 Speaker 3: dressed in track pants. Anyways, but I'm an Adam Sandler 951 00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:30,399 Speaker 3: most of the time. 952 00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,760 Speaker 2: I don't normally dress up. But when I do, it's fun. 953 00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,319 Speaker 1: No, it's fun. But even this, I love this. It's 954 00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:39,960 Speaker 1: casual and still super with you. I'm this is me. 955 00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:40,760 Speaker 1: I'm casual. 956 00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:42,919 Speaker 2: I feel like you're more of like a girly girl. 957 00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,560 Speaker 1: Yes, but I'm in a I'm going to work out 958 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:47,359 Speaker 1: outfit every day. 959 00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:49,719 Speaker 2: Oh good, Well least you know you're working out. Good 960 00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 2: for you, you're an active queen. 961 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm going to work out outfit or I'll 962 00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,279 Speaker 1: like you know, honestly, my time to get dressed up 963 00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:56,840 Speaker 1: is events. 964 00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, that's my excuse all the time. 965 00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:02,640 Speaker 1: That's the only time action. Yeah, it's that or dinner. Yeah, 966 00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,200 Speaker 1: like it's really it. When else do I like my 967 00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,000 Speaker 1: Amazon lives I'm dressed like this? 968 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,480 Speaker 2: Well that's well, I mean that's casual. 969 00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:12,320 Speaker 1: Just casual. Are you doing influencing full time? 970 00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:13,480 Speaker 2: Is that? I mean? 971 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,879 Speaker 3: I mean I have an agent, okay, and I'm very 972 00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:18,560 Speaker 3: selective with what I do, Like, I want to be 973 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,000 Speaker 3: honest when I'm like promoting these things, So I'm very 974 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:23,120 Speaker 3: like I'll do some things. 975 00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:26,080 Speaker 2: It's not like I don't. I want to do more reality. 976 00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 2: That's what I'm we're working on. 977 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:27,279 Speaker 1: You know. 978 00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:30,879 Speaker 2: I just got out of my contract literally a week ago. 979 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 1: I'm from Bachelor. 980 00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just got out of my contract. I'm a 981 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:34,880 Speaker 2: free woman. 982 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,799 Speaker 1: So now you're free to go on any network. Yeah 983 00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:39,759 Speaker 1: so now like Bravo, she is up for. 984 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:44,440 Speaker 2: Grubs please, but yeah no I want That's when I'm like, 985 00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:48,640 Speaker 2: so good on somewhere. Well, I literally binged these episodes. 986 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:51,960 Speaker 1: I'm like and not what am they just am I wrong? 987 00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,680 Speaker 1: But they just added kind of added people. 988 00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:57,279 Speaker 3: She was Canadian. Canadian one of the girls, Lexi would 989 00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:58,440 Speaker 3: she's a Canadian? 990 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:03,160 Speaker 1: Okay, foreshadowing maybe Well see, I mean I'm open, I'm 991 00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:04,799 Speaker 1: meeting with a lot of people. I have a really 992 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,880 Speaker 1: good agency right now. That's like, you know, setting me 993 00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,200 Speaker 1: up but amazing. Yeah, and I feel like Bravo is 994 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:12,520 Speaker 1: the reality network. 995 00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:15,800 Speaker 3: Oh one hundred percent, like you know, yes, yeah, but 996 00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:19,560 Speaker 3: that's more or less what I'm like leaning towards. I'm 997 00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:23,680 Speaker 3: very just open. But again I think I'm I think 998 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 3: I'm over the fighting other women for a man and 999 00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,480 Speaker 3: just that challenge. Yeah, yeah, no, I don't want to 1000 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:31,320 Speaker 3: do that ever again. 1001 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think the best way, you know, 1002 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,920 Speaker 1: people saw your real personality throughout the Bachelor, and now 1003 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,920 Speaker 1: that you're out of your contract, Bravo. She's up for grabs. 1004 00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:45,520 Speaker 1: I'm telling you she's a real one and she would 1005 00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:47,280 Speaker 1: be great on the network. 1006 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:49,480 Speaker 2: But this would be fun for you. 1007 00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm very open and like you said, there's going 1008 00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 1: to be new things coming along. So when people come 1009 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 1: up and I feel like, you know, lovey Bravo. They 1010 00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:00,239 Speaker 1: are undergoing lots of changes right now in general, just 1011 00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:03,680 Speaker 1: with you know, bandor pump Rules being shut down, there's 1012 00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:05,719 Speaker 1: always or on pause. 1013 00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,160 Speaker 2: That I'm pretty sure shut down. I don't know. 1014 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:12,160 Speaker 1: I'm there's always there's always room for improvement, revamp, adding 1015 00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:16,880 Speaker 1: new people. And they also love fun and exciting new guests. 1016 00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:18,200 Speaker 2: Everyone does. 1017 00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:20,200 Speaker 1: I feel like it's a good thing to it's refreshing. 1018 00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, we'll see then. I'm putting it in 1019 00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,440 Speaker 1: the air. It's gonna be I love you good good 1020 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:39,320 Speaker 1: karma for sure. I'm gonna say names of guys on 1021 00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:41,440 Speaker 1: the internet, say if you've hooked. 1022 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:41,800 Speaker 2: Up with them or not? 1023 00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:46,799 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm like, WHOA, Okay, I honestly haven't. I've been 1024 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:48,919 Speaker 3: on a on a celibacy. I think I'm a boring 1025 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:51,800 Speaker 3: of I'm fully celibate, so people. 1026 00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 2: Think i'm dating this person that I'm like, Nope, I 1027 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,080 Speaker 2: mean that's honestly great. Play the game, Okay, play the game, 1028 00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:58,759 Speaker 2: but I love that for you. I want to say 1029 00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 2: that on the podcast. Sorry, I mean, she's just. 1030 00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:04,239 Speaker 1: Waiting for the one that's right. She's waiting for the 1031 00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:04,879 Speaker 1: right guy. 1032 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:05,600 Speaker 2: Nice guy. 1033 00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:09,799 Speaker 1: So nice guy maybe slide into the DMS because it's 1034 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 1: what she's waiting for. 1035 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 2: Would a nice guy slide in a DM. I don't know. 1036 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,640 Speaker 1: I feel like it's more of a coffee date. But 1037 00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:20,400 Speaker 1: they could find could slide into the DM and and 1038 00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 1: ask you in a polite, respectful way. Yeah, there's a 1039 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:26,280 Speaker 1: way of doing it that doesn't sound it doesn't cringe 1040 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,799 Speaker 1: me out. Yeah, hopefully I'll let you know. I feel 1041 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:33,120 Speaker 1: like a lot of things would still cringe, right, but okay, okay, 1042 00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 1: I'm ready. Carl from Summerhouse never met the man. What 1043 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: is the speculation? So that's why I'm like, if it's 1044 00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:43,759 Speaker 1: anyone online, there's no even wait, so how did they 1045 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,000 Speaker 1: even make this rumor if you've never even met this one? Like, 1046 00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 1: was so funny because I saw doom. 1047 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,840 Speaker 3: Someone sent me the Duma post of someone being like 1048 00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:57,120 Speaker 3: just saw Maria Georgis and Carl on a date in 1049 00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:00,480 Speaker 3: la at some restaurant, and I literally wrote back to 1050 00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 3: Juan like I'm I'm in Canada, like right now, I'm 1051 00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,440 Speaker 3: in Canada. Like she's like, oh my god, sorry, like 1052 00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,600 Speaker 3: I'll and I never write back to this stuff. But 1053 00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,960 Speaker 3: I was like, this is just this is annoying because 1054 00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:11,719 Speaker 3: it was like one thing after another after another, and 1055 00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:13,680 Speaker 3: I was like, hey, like I'm actually in Canada and 1056 00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:14,719 Speaker 3: I never met this man. 1057 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:19,239 Speaker 2: So they corrected it, but from that post, they just 1058 00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:20,120 Speaker 2: created a story. 1059 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,800 Speaker 3: That's just usually how it goes. I didn't know that 1060 00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 3: this is probably gonna sound very naive, but I didn't know. 1061 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,200 Speaker 3: You didn't really need a credible source to create a 1062 00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:32,960 Speaker 3: story out of nothing. So there, yeah, I was like, 1063 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,840 Speaker 3: I was like, no, they literally and want corrected it, 1064 00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 3: but they still ran with the first post, but never 1065 00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 3: because look for that one thing. 1066 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it doesn't matter, they'll yeah, they'll take the 1067 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 1: we'll just run from it, even if because if the 1068 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:50,560 Speaker 1: correcting is too late, yeah, yeah, of course, odds are. 1069 00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,759 Speaker 1: What they should have done is honestly just taken the 1070 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:53,600 Speaker 1: article down. 1071 00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:54,480 Speaker 2: Well that's why. 1072 00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:57,600 Speaker 3: And then there I put that ship down right away, 1073 00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:00,839 Speaker 3: like I don't even let it last twenty minutes. I'm 1074 00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:03,839 Speaker 3: already posting like this is untrue. I don't know this persona. 1075 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:07,920 Speaker 3: But the thing is, since watching the show, I feel bad. 1076 00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,200 Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, maybe because I put the meme of 1077 00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:13,000 Speaker 3: Kiki Palmer being like I don't know. 1078 00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,719 Speaker 2: Who this man is. Because this is truth, I'm like, 1079 00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:17,080 Speaker 2: I really didn't. 1080 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:20,680 Speaker 1: See I wonder like if that, like I Carl, I 1081 00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,320 Speaker 1: wonder why he didn't slide in your DM No no no, no, no, 1082 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,160 Speaker 1: no no no, but that would have been funny. Yeah, 1083 00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:28,719 Speaker 1: and been like, wow, wish this was true. 1084 00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:32,520 Speaker 3: I'm sure because Jesse messaged me, He's like, damn, I'm like, sorry, 1085 00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:33,280 Speaker 3: this is like happened. 1086 00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:36,160 Speaker 2: I'm like, I really don't. Yeah, it's just it's weird 1087 00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:36,920 Speaker 2: how this shit happens. 1088 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,880 Speaker 1: But anyways, yes, okay, No, I never hooked up with 1089 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:43,879 Speaker 1: him nothing, Okay, Harry Jowsey know him from. 1090 00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:46,600 Speaker 3: Manuel, never hooked up with him, nothing like that. It 1091 00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:50,800 Speaker 3: was like friendly because we're in the same environment. 1092 00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:50,960 Speaker 2: Of course. 1093 00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 1: Yeah and fun Yeah, Wes Wilson from. 1094 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,680 Speaker 2: I smacked him so he had a thing with my 1095 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:00,880 Speaker 2: So that's another one that I know from somewher. 1096 00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:06,080 Speaker 1: You have so many connections to Summer House like many. 1097 00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:10,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like that, but I'm sure I'm wondering 1098 00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: if they recommend, like they should recommend you if they're 1099 00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:15,200 Speaker 1: ever looking for casting. 1100 00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,759 Speaker 2: I think so yeah, No, that one definitely not. 1101 00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:18,239 Speaker 1: No. 1102 00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:21,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, just I gave him a little smack he asked 1103 00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:23,440 Speaker 3: me to do it, and actually smacked him well because 1104 00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,800 Speaker 3: he was like, I was like, he was seeing my friend. 1105 00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,000 Speaker 3: I don't know, like they had like this like funny 1106 00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:31,040 Speaker 3: back and forth. I don't know if anything went down, 1107 00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:34,040 Speaker 3: but I was like, if you ever like screw with her, 1108 00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,880 Speaker 3: like I'll smack you, and he' said oky case smacking 1109 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:39,600 Speaker 3: smack me. And then I went to go do and 1110 00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:42,080 Speaker 3: I guess they filmed in to put on TikTok. But no, 1111 00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:44,480 Speaker 3: he's such a nice guy. I just don't want him 1112 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:45,760 Speaker 3: to fuck with any of my friends. 1113 00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:49,799 Speaker 2: Understandable, but he seems nice. Okay, love that, but never yet. 1114 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:53,800 Speaker 1: So basically I was just talking about some Summerhouse drama 1115 00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:59,440 Speaker 1: with all of that, and Sierra was with Wes last summer, yes, 1116 00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:02,800 Speaker 1: and now this summer, Jesse is kind of trying to 1117 00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:04,120 Speaker 1: slide in and. 1118 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,279 Speaker 2: You know, all the girls on the show like are 1119 00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 2: encouraging this behavior. 1120 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:13,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, like for Jesse to slide in with Sierra right, 1121 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:15,640 Speaker 1: And I'm kind of controversial about it. 1122 00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:17,880 Speaker 2: I think I would be too. Well, I don't know. 1123 00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 3: I just recently was with Allie and Jesse was there 1124 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,279 Speaker 3: as well. We hopped on the podcast, as I said, 1125 00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,640 Speaker 3: don't drink in pod. Yeah, but she was calling him 1126 00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 3: a homie hopper, and I was like, is this guy 1127 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:28,719 Speaker 3: a homie hopper? 1128 00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:29,480 Speaker 2: I'm like, And then I. 1129 00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:32,120 Speaker 3: When I binged a couple of episodes, I've been season nine. 1130 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 3: I'm moving backwards. 1131 00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:35,640 Speaker 1: Because it's hard because all of the stuff that's being 1132 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:36,080 Speaker 1: talked about. 1133 00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:38,920 Speaker 3: I know, I want to know what's going on. But 1134 00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,800 Speaker 3: then I saw that and I was like, wait a minute, 1135 00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:43,600 Speaker 3: does Wes know this is going on? Because Jesse doesn't 1136 00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:45,239 Speaker 3: seem that that kind of guy. He actually seems like 1137 00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:46,919 Speaker 3: a really good friend, and I know him and West 1138 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:48,919 Speaker 3: are really good friends. But I was like, I don't 1139 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:50,560 Speaker 3: know how I feel about that. Yeah, And I think 1140 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:54,680 Speaker 3: she's I love the guys great, but I love her 1141 00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:56,959 Speaker 3: and I think she is such a strong independent woman. 1142 00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:59,120 Speaker 3: Don't go don't go around the Frank. I think she 1143 00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,520 Speaker 3: it's gonna be Usie more wanting her over her wanting him. 1144 00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:05,319 Speaker 1: But yes, but it's like you're also catching her maybe 1145 00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,560 Speaker 1: out of vulnerable like leave her alone, out of vulnerable state. 1146 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:12,480 Speaker 2: Leave her alone, I know, I know. Yeah, so I 1147 00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:15,160 Speaker 2: just then I don't know why like Paige and no, 1148 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 2: I don't want to say Page, I love Paige. I 1149 00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:16,920 Speaker 2: don't know. 1150 00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:19,600 Speaker 3: But maybe it's because they're like they see that she's 1151 00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:22,279 Speaker 3: down and and like because I think maybe she really 1152 00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:23,839 Speaker 3: is a little into Jesse. 1153 00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so maybe they're just like then like go for it, 1154 00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:27,600 Speaker 2: for it. 1155 00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,920 Speaker 1: I know. I feel like the girls are kind of 1156 00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:33,040 Speaker 1: either go for it, but sometimes it's you know when 1157 00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,000 Speaker 1: you tell your friend to go for it and deep 1158 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,920 Speaker 1: down you're like, maybe you shouldn't because I feel like 1159 00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:41,440 Speaker 1: someone needs to be there and saying maybe you shouldn't. 1160 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,520 Speaker 2: I feel like she's not going to do anything. I 1161 00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:46,200 Speaker 2: feel like she's going to be like absolutely not. 1162 00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:49,279 Speaker 3: I think she's just like being flirty because they've always had, well, 1163 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:52,759 Speaker 3: they've always had watched like ten episodes, they've always had 1164 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,120 Speaker 3: well they seem to like yeah, I know, right, they 1165 00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:59,600 Speaker 3: seem to look like they have like cute, flirtatious banter. 1166 00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:01,759 Speaker 3: And I think that's as far as she's gonna let it. 1167 00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:05,120 Speaker 3: But I also love when like I love doing that that, 1168 00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 3: I love doing that. I feel like it even with 1169 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:11,000 Speaker 3: my boyfriend. I love the flirtatious back and forth banter. 1170 00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:13,800 Speaker 1: And when I was single, I feel like flirtatious banter 1171 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:18,920 Speaker 1: is so much fun and it's so enjoyable. It's literally careless, 1172 00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 1: effortless fun that also makes you feel good. 1173 00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:22,920 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. 1174 00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,320 Speaker 3: I think that's what That's as far as that will go. 1175 00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,040 Speaker 3: But I know that Jesse was getting some heat and 1176 00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:32,040 Speaker 3: that's why he was like you Homeie Hopper, and I 1177 00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,759 Speaker 3: was like, I hope not, but yeah, I'm hoping that 1178 00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:38,120 Speaker 3: that's probably as far as it goes. Okay, love that opinion, 1179 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,759 Speaker 3: but if she wants to, she can do whatever she 1180 00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:43,800 Speaker 3: wants on her terms as long as she's happy, of course. 1181 00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:44,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1182 00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:50,239 Speaker 1: Jeremy Simon from Gen season of The Bachelor, no, no. 1183 00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:53,560 Speaker 3: Nothing with him, but he's a great friend and I 1184 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:58,720 Speaker 3: was lucky enough to meet him after Gen season through Charity. 1185 00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:00,600 Speaker 1: You know. 1186 00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:04,080 Speaker 2: I just met Charity love her at the iHeartRadio Awards. 1187 00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:08,279 Speaker 1: She is so sweet, so nice, she's amazing, She's and 1188 00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:10,319 Speaker 1: I loved wait and it was so funny because I'm 1189 00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,440 Speaker 1: so oblivious, like I'm so clueless. I'm sitting there getting 1190 00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,880 Speaker 1: my makeup done, and I was like, yeah, wait, like 1191 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:20,400 Speaker 1: Bachelor so fun I actually just watched Joey's season. She 1192 00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 1: was she goes, I was the one who dumbed Joey. 1193 00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,879 Speaker 1: My god that I had no idea, no idea. She's great, 1194 00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,160 Speaker 1: sitting there getting my makeup done with her, she was 1195 00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:34,080 Speaker 1: dying laughing. I was like, I'm so sorry, I'm so oblivious, 1196 00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:36,400 Speaker 1: and she was like, yeah, that's where. 1197 00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:37,040 Speaker 2: Joey came from. 1198 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,960 Speaker 3: But yeah, no, thank you Charity for dumping Joey. We 1199 00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,759 Speaker 3: had our season, but yeah, no, Cherry is the best. 1200 00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,360 Speaker 3: But no, I met him through them, and so we 1201 00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:49,719 Speaker 3: all just like hung out one night. I know people 1202 00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:51,560 Speaker 3: were a little like taken aback by that, but I 1203 00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:53,480 Speaker 3: was like, guys, what do you think Paradise is? Yeah, 1204 00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,120 Speaker 3: Paradise is literally exactly that I'm just doing in real life. 1205 00:53:57,040 --> 00:54:01,200 Speaker 2: But no, it's home. It's literally homieh hoping. But no, 1206 00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:05,319 Speaker 2: I think he's great. But no, never okay, Blake Gray. 1207 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 2: Oh for a second, oh my god, that's so mean. 1208 00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:12,040 Speaker 2: I was like, who's that? But no, okay, wait I'm dead. No, 1209 00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:13,120 Speaker 2: I met him this weekend. 1210 00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:15,719 Speaker 1: I love him a second to me a second I 1211 00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:20,000 Speaker 1: have then he definitely did, I mean she did, definitely 1212 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:20,680 Speaker 1: did not hook up. 1213 00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,160 Speaker 3: No, because for a second I went, wait, that sounds 1214 00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:25,040 Speaker 3: so familiar, and then I went, oh, of course it 1215 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 3: was like the Blake Gray together. 1216 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:28,080 Speaker 2: I guess I didn't realize that was his last name. 1217 00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:30,680 Speaker 2: But he's so sweet. He was a newcomer, never been 1218 00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,080 Speaker 2: to an unwell event, and he was sweet. 1219 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,680 Speaker 1: Okay, another little fun game. I'm just gonna name guys 1220 00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:40,680 Speaker 1: that have been honestly pretty hot on the internet and 1221 00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:44,880 Speaker 1: just known right now and just let me know if 1222 00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:46,960 Speaker 1: you would have interested in them or not, may date 1223 00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:50,480 Speaker 1: them or not? All right, Okay, Rob from Love Island. 1224 00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,760 Speaker 1: He's very pretty boy, pretty boy. 1225 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,080 Speaker 2: But I think I don't know. I would have to 1226 00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:59,200 Speaker 2: meet him first. I've never met him yet. Pretty boy. 1227 00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:04,440 Speaker 2: It looks like he's I think he's beautiful. Do I 1228 00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:08,759 Speaker 2: what I want. I'm very into snake. I know he's 1229 00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:13,759 Speaker 2: like and I just he loves snakes and oh he's 1230 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,120 Speaker 2: like a big like. I'm so confused. I feel like 1231 00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:19,440 Speaker 2: as a virgo, I should like the forest more. I'm 1232 00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:20,560 Speaker 2: not an outdoorsy girl. 1233 00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:23,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I mean maybe that would not work out 1234 00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:25,560 Speaker 1: for him, and I would definitely be like, say he 1235 00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:27,800 Speaker 1: brought you back to his place, there would definitely be 1236 00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:29,440 Speaker 1: like a snake a snake thing. 1237 00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:30,319 Speaker 2: What are those calls? 1238 00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:32,719 Speaker 1: Make me hold a snake? Yeah that sounds wrong, but 1239 00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:34,399 Speaker 1: probably turns out in some weird way. 1240 00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:36,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, He's like, yeah, I could seem just like playing 1241 00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:38,239 Speaker 3: with it in his hands while he's talking to me. 1242 00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:40,000 Speaker 2: He's like, you know what I mean. 1243 00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:42,960 Speaker 3: I don't know, he seems he seems very sweet though. Yeah, 1244 00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:45,120 Speaker 3: he's a beautiful boy. 1245 00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:47,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll meet him one day, I'm sure. 1246 00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:53,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, he's obviously everywhere right now. But Craig Connover, no, 1247 00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:54,520 Speaker 1: I want to know. 1248 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:58,680 Speaker 2: You know, he's Page's ex. Oh no, I'm team Page. 1249 00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:00,480 Speaker 2: I don't know why. I really don't know what happened 1250 00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:04,080 Speaker 2: between them. Honestly, she is just iconic. 1251 00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:10,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, she basically came into her own and I think 1252 00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:12,400 Speaker 1: just became so busy, you know, not. 1253 00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:15,240 Speaker 2: Even like I think she's just she's. 1254 00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:18,319 Speaker 1: Living her life. Yeah, and it's what she's always wanted 1255 00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:20,520 Speaker 1: to take. It was a too fast pace for him 1256 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:20,920 Speaker 1: in a way. 1257 00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:22,920 Speaker 3: I don't know, I know, I actually one of the 1258 00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:24,360 Speaker 3: episodes that I was watching, she was he was like 1259 00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:26,040 Speaker 3: I didn't think I was going to date such a 1260 00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:30,080 Speaker 3: dominant woman or something along those lines, and I was like, well, 1261 00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:32,360 Speaker 3: you can't keep up with her, then goodbye. 1262 00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:34,359 Speaker 1: And she's like strong Italian one too. 1263 00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:36,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, for so much. But he seems like a nice 1264 00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:36,799 Speaker 2: guy though. 1265 00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:40,120 Speaker 1: No, but yeah, not bashing you at all, but yeah, no, 1266 00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:42,680 Speaker 1: really nice guy. I think he kind of just needs 1267 00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,680 Speaker 1: a mellow yeah, kind of it's hard comfortable girl. 1268 00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:50,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I agree. I think there needs to be 1269 00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:52,799 Speaker 3: balance in the relationship. You guys both can't be after 1270 00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:56,080 Speaker 3: the same things. I always feel like you're in competition. 1271 00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:59,719 Speaker 1: Well when you're also both in the television network. Yeah, 1272 00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:01,640 Speaker 1: it's too much, So. 1273 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:08,560 Speaker 3: Greg Grippo, No, he dated another girl in the franchise, 1274 00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:11,480 Speaker 3: and like, I just feel like staying away from bachelor 1275 00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:13,880 Speaker 3: boys in general in general, it's just too messy. 1276 00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:20,920 Speaker 2: It's like high school, Like I knows, very nice. 1277 00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:23,680 Speaker 3: Guy though, very nice. Yeah, I'm like, as I want 1278 00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,320 Speaker 3: to be as political as again, very nice guy. 1279 00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:30,080 Speaker 1: Yeah no, but yeah, Okay, Well let's end on giving 1280 00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:32,720 Speaker 1: some advice to the girls. 1281 00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:38,400 Speaker 3: Don't rush into anything, like you know, enjoy your twenties, 1282 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:42,200 Speaker 3: have fun, like experience things that you maybe never would 1283 00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,479 Speaker 3: experience it. Do it while you're in your twenties, because 1284 00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:46,400 Speaker 3: you so much, because as a thirty year old and 1285 00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:48,680 Speaker 3: you're still figuring it out. So I'm saying it's okay 1286 00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,000 Speaker 3: to speak, but we're stilling it out. 1287 00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:55,920 Speaker 1: You still look and just your personality, like you look amazing. 1288 00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:56,520 Speaker 2: Well, thank you. 1289 00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:59,960 Speaker 1: I would never think you're thirty and years. You literally 1290 00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,760 Speaker 1: look my age. I love you. I'm not even kidding. 1291 00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,520 Speaker 2: I'm always oldest in the room, always wherever I go. 1292 00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:07,960 Speaker 1: You don't look at nor act like it. 1293 00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:12,439 Speaker 2: And you have a little snary No. See, you're twenty 1294 00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:14,320 Speaker 2: three and you act like a woman, which is like 1295 00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:15,800 Speaker 2: a lady what you are? You know what I mean? 1296 00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:18,720 Speaker 2: But I appreciate that. No, that's my favorite. 1297 00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:21,680 Speaker 1: I mean beyond like, don't tell me I look thirty, 1298 00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:24,560 Speaker 1: think you. No, thirty isn't even what is thirty anymore? 1299 00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:27,440 Speaker 1: Thirty is the new twenty now, like that's what it is. 1300 00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:30,560 Speaker 1: So yeah, and it's it's crazy going through your boyfriend's phone. 1301 00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:34,880 Speaker 1: One two, Yes, absolutely, I just said don't leave an 1302 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:35,760 Speaker 1: unattended phone. 1303 00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:39,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, because well why it's just yes and no, I 1304 00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:41,600 Speaker 3: want to lie no weekend. Well, the thing is, it's like, 1305 00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,640 Speaker 3: I don't ever want to be in a position where 1306 00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:45,840 Speaker 3: I feel the need to I. 1307 00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:47,680 Speaker 1: Want to be It's annoying because you don't want to 1308 00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:51,440 Speaker 1: feel like you're not trusting your partner, right, But if 1309 00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:53,360 Speaker 1: it's their assurance. 1310 00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:55,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent. If I ever feel like I 1311 00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:56,880 Speaker 2: need to see it, I need to see it. 1312 00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:59,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, and he shouldn't have a problem with that 1313 00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:01,720 Speaker 3: because I would be like saying, here you go, you 1314 00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:02,200 Speaker 3: know what I mean. 1315 00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,280 Speaker 2: So I think it's like a bad thing. 1316 00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:07,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think. It's like I'm digging for something. 1317 00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm kind of just snooping to look. Yeah. 1318 00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:12,520 Speaker 2: I look, we're just changing the words, not digging. It's snooping. 1319 00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:13,160 Speaker 1: So it's better. 1320 00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:14,960 Speaker 2: But no, I I think. 1321 00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:15,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1322 00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:18,120 Speaker 3: I mean, if you're if you have that gut feeling, 1323 00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:21,080 Speaker 3: just do it. It'll make you sleep better at night 1324 00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,000 Speaker 3: knowing you're gonna look at some point. It might not 1325 00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:25,600 Speaker 3: be that day, you're gonna find a way to look 1326 00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:25,800 Speaker 3: at it. 1327 00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, at some point, so just do it. Whatever. 1328 00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:32,720 Speaker 1: Okay, how long should you wait to sleep with a guy? 1329 00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:35,200 Speaker 1: What's your number of dates? 1330 00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:39,480 Speaker 3: Okay, I actually have something to say about this because 1331 00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:44,600 Speaker 3: I have always been a huge advocate for like really 1332 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,720 Speaker 3: getting to know someone before you you open that kind 1333 00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:51,080 Speaker 3: of worms because you want to feel good about the situation. 1334 00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:53,560 Speaker 3: Like I like, there is a big difference between having 1335 00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:56,600 Speaker 3: sex with someone you just met and then like having 1336 00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:58,920 Speaker 3: sex with someone you really know. It just it's to me, 1337 00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:02,160 Speaker 3: it makes all the difference and it always just ends 1338 01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:04,480 Speaker 3: up being a waste of time. Not that I've done it, like, 1339 01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:06,360 Speaker 3: oh look at me, I'm like one night stand now, 1340 01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,080 Speaker 3: But sure, I feel. 1341 01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:09,280 Speaker 2: Like you kind of do have to live in the 1342 01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:12,360 Speaker 2: moment a little bit, right when it comes to that say, I. 1343 01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:15,040 Speaker 3: Was going to say, because I had a friend who 1344 01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:18,200 Speaker 3: would always have sex with a Okay, not always not 1345 01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:21,000 Speaker 3: the word is right. She had sex with all of 1346 01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:22,960 Speaker 3: her boyfriends on the first night. 1347 01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,000 Speaker 1: I mean, so I don't think gonna lie I had 1348 01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:26,680 Speaker 1: sex with Christian on the first side. 1349 01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:28,240 Speaker 2: So this is what I was gonna say. If the 1350 01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:29,360 Speaker 2: man that's. 1351 01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:31,720 Speaker 1: Never me to be like, oh my gosh, because I 1352 01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:36,760 Speaker 1: in my head I'm like, Okay, the third date seems good. 1353 01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:39,320 Speaker 2: I changed my mind. So well, I'll tell you something. 1354 01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:42,080 Speaker 2: So this is this is where my stance is, and 1355 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:42,640 Speaker 2: this is this. 1356 01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:44,720 Speaker 1: Is especially just coming from old school Italians. 1357 01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:45,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean? 1358 01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:45,960 Speaker 1: Does? 1359 01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:50,200 Speaker 3: My thing is this, do whatever feels right in the moment, 1360 01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:52,960 Speaker 3: because if the man's gonna love you, and if the 1361 01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:55,080 Speaker 3: man likes you enough, you can fuck him on the 1362 01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:57,360 Speaker 3: first in the first ten seconds and he's still going 1363 01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:59,640 Speaker 3: to treat you with respect and love you up because 1364 01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:00,400 Speaker 3: he likes you. 1365 01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:02,960 Speaker 2: If it doesn't work out, he just wasn't for you. 1366 01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:04,840 Speaker 3: So I don't think that if you make a guy 1367 01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:07,400 Speaker 3: wait doesn't mean you're gonna get him in the end. 1368 01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:11,320 Speaker 2: So my thing is do whatever makes don't know, it's 1369 01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:13,440 Speaker 2: a gamble, it's it'll always be a gamble. 1370 01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:15,680 Speaker 3: The worst thing in the world is wasting a month 1371 01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:17,960 Speaker 3: on a guy, holding it off, making him wait for it. 1372 01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:19,680 Speaker 3: First of all, if he's not getting it from you, 1373 01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:21,439 Speaker 3: he's probably gonna get it from someone else on else. 1374 01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:25,280 Speaker 3: But regardless, my thing is this, if if he likes 1375 01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:27,840 Speaker 3: you and he respects you, he'll know right away you 1376 01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:29,640 Speaker 3: don't need to hold it off to try to keep him. 1377 01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:32,880 Speaker 3: He'll wait the month, has sex with you, and then 1378 01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:34,600 Speaker 3: dip after regardless. 1379 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:36,240 Speaker 2: Like so, I think it takes it. 1380 01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:40,520 Speaker 3: It depends on the man, and it depends on how 1381 01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:42,240 Speaker 3: the person feels and how you feel about them. 1382 01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:44,760 Speaker 2: So I don't think there ever should be a time. 1383 01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:46,480 Speaker 3: I know a lot of girls like to say like, 1384 01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:49,200 Speaker 3: I want to wait, I need, I need this certain 1385 01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:52,080 Speaker 3: amount of dates. I don't know, it's just it's I 1386 01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 3: think it's in the moment thing. 1387 01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:56,400 Speaker 2: I agree how you feel. I do, And if he's 1388 01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:58,120 Speaker 2: the right guy, then he'll stay no matter what. 1389 01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:00,760 Speaker 1: Do you monitor who your boyfriend fallow was on Instagram? 1390 01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:01,640 Speaker 1: Yes or no? 1391 01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:07,120 Speaker 2: It's hard to tell nowadays. It doesn't go in a 1392 01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:11,240 Speaker 2: weird order. Weird order you I'll do it. 1393 01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:14,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. I think there's crazy things on like 1394 01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:16,560 Speaker 1: the Internet and stuff where like puts it in order 1395 01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:16,840 Speaker 1: for you. 1396 01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:21,240 Speaker 2: But I mean I think if you're really that crazy, 1397 01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:23,560 Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm like, I've never done it. It's a 1398 01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:24,120 Speaker 2: little much. 1399 01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:26,480 Speaker 1: I mean, if you don't, if you have that much 1400 01:02:26,560 --> 01:02:28,880 Speaker 1: of a distrust in your man, I feel he shouldn't 1401 01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:33,200 Speaker 1: be with him. Yes, should a woman ever offer to 1402 01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:35,960 Speaker 1: pay on the first date, not. 1403 01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:39,280 Speaker 2: The first day? No, I think I would leave, not 1404 01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:40,000 Speaker 2: the first day. 1405 01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:44,080 Speaker 1: But always for the whole bill. And yeah, I mean 1406 01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:46,120 Speaker 1: I always say I go at the moment. A man 1407 01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:47,880 Speaker 1: is like if you about the bill, I take it 1408 01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:48,120 Speaker 1: and go. 1409 01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, so as soon as he's like, if 1410 01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:52,600 Speaker 3: you about the bill, I'll take it paid all and 1411 01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:55,320 Speaker 3: then go. But I think it's always polite to like 1412 01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:57,880 Speaker 3: at least like, like, you know, go through the try 1413 01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:00,920 Speaker 3: to try. I think it's should give an take two 1414 01:03:01,000 --> 01:03:04,600 Speaker 3: along the line along, like like a couple of dates later, 1415 01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:07,760 Speaker 3: maybe just as you know, but the first date should 1416 01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:10,040 Speaker 3: If the man's asking you on a first date, it 1417 01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,520 Speaker 3: should be him planning it, taking care of it, and. 1418 01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:13,680 Speaker 2: Setting off the whole thing. 1419 01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:16,320 Speaker 1: Do you think it's okay for women to make the 1420 01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:18,400 Speaker 1: first move if they're interested in a guy? 1421 01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:21,800 Speaker 2: Now why not? I feel like it was frowned upon, 1422 01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:23,960 Speaker 2: But now I'm like, go for it. But like, I 1423 01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:26,200 Speaker 2: think making the first move, like what talking to them? 1424 01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:28,680 Speaker 1: Is that saying a conversation? 1425 01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:30,800 Speaker 2: Men nowadays? I think. 1426 01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:35,080 Speaker 3: They don't Normally, I don't know what's going on these ideas. 1427 01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:39,880 Speaker 3: He approaches a lot more like sheltered and shied they 1428 01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:43,360 Speaker 3: But sometimes I'm man like, if you like that guy, 1429 01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:45,400 Speaker 3: he could be your soulmate, and maybe he's just too 1430 01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 3: shy or too awkward to come up. 1431 01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:48,400 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe you have to start. 1432 01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:50,920 Speaker 3: It just go up, just be fearless and if you 1433 01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:52,840 Speaker 3: start it, maybe he'll take care of the rest. And 1434 01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:55,960 Speaker 3: like we'll never let you take care or start anything exactly. 1435 01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:56,800 Speaker 2: I think you too. 1436 01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:58,520 Speaker 1: If you've seen someone cute, you gotta just go for 1437 01:03:58,640 --> 01:03:58,920 Speaker 1: Why not? 1438 01:03:59,040 --> 01:03:59,880 Speaker 2: Who cares? Zone over? 1439 01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:03,360 Speaker 1: Thank you, just do it so guy, Maria, thank you 1440 01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:06,880 Speaker 1: so much for coming on Casual Chaos. This was such 1441 01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:09,360 Speaker 1: a pleasure and you are such an amazing guest and 1442 01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:14,240 Speaker 1: we want to find love for Maria and Bravo, she's 1443 01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:15,040 Speaker 1: your next Canada. 1444 01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:18,760 Speaker 2: I love it. Thank you so much for having me. Honestly, 1445 01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:20,240 Speaker 2: you know this was so fun.