Speaker 1: Welcome to the Second Date Podcast. You are in for
Speaker 1: a treat today. Yeah, it's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Because the listener who called us in for help told
Speaker 1: us he was kind of famous.
Speaker 2: Yes, you can't see but I know, I know.
Speaker 1: But honestly, when his true identity was revealed, we were shocked.
Speaker 3: You're gonna hear it coming up. Let's do some listener
Speaker 3: comments real quick. No, I saw this comment from Derek
Speaker 3: that said love the show. Tuning in from Wisconsin. My
Speaker 3: wife got me hooked on the Second Date Update last summer.
Speaker 3: Then that turned into the phone tap, then that turned
Speaker 3: in the full show I listened to every day, and
Speaker 3: I just bought the Second Date Update shirt and can't
Speaker 3: wait for.
Speaker 4: It to drive.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I love them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. I love it so much.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we do the Second eight podcast and we also
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Speaker 2: All right, let's get this started.
Speaker 4: The Second Date of day. Sometimes I wonder do opposites
Speaker 4: really attract? Okay, question, because I look at Brook's husband,
Speaker 4: and he's handsome, charming, wait, funny, but extremely humble. Yeah, Brook,
Speaker 4: you're wait, wait, probably at least one of those things,
Speaker 4: if not half of one.
Speaker 1: I mean, I agree with you about my husband, but
Speaker 1: now I feel a little hurt.
Speaker 4: Question.
Speaker 1: I think it's more of a personality thing that makes
Speaker 1: us opposite.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Hey, hey, hey, there's a lot of theories.
Speaker 4: It has been thrown around right here. But one of
Speaker 4: our listeners, one of our listeners, tried the opposites approach,
Speaker 4: and I wonder how that went for him.
Speaker 2: Since he's on the phone with us, I'm going nut.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, probably not all that, but I am interested
Speaker 4: in hearing his story. So let's talk to Chris. Chris,
Speaker 4: what's up man?
Speaker 7: Hey guys, Well, it's not going terrible, but I could
Speaker 7: use your help.
Speaker 2: Okay, you just need a little help, not a ton
Speaker 2: of help.
Speaker 7: Well we'll see, I mean hopefully.
Speaker 4: All right, Well, tell us about your opposite Who are they?
Speaker 7: Well, the girl's name is Tiffany, but she's a couple
Speaker 7: of years younger than the girls I've been dating, and
Speaker 7: like loves to party and go out and super social.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and do you like that? Is that a lifestyle
Speaker 2: you're into.
Speaker 7: You know, I had a last with her, and like,
Speaker 7: I've typically not gone out with people like that, and
Speaker 7: then I get kind of bored of the people that
Speaker 7: I've been dating, and yeah, so I figured I'd give
Speaker 7: this a whirl.
Speaker 4: That makes sense.
Speaker 8: I think everyone comes to a point where it's like,
Speaker 8: you love being drunken a bar at midnight, and then
Speaker 8: you get older and you're like, I'd rather be in
Speaker 8: bed at midnight while you know, maybe reading a book,
Speaker 8: yeah something.
Speaker 4: I think that that's not what Chris is saying. He's
Speaker 4: saying the opposite. He wants to get back into the
Speaker 4: fun lifestyle.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, right, he was bored.
Speaker 7: Yeah I had. I had a taste of it, and
Speaker 7: it was it was awesome.
Speaker 2: Okay, so what did you and Tiffany do?
Speaker 7: So we initially met up at a bar, Okay, and
Speaker 7: like the sort of general awkwardness of like the first
Speaker 7: meeting was broken immediately because she was like, hey, honey,
Speaker 7: it just gave me a huge hug, and like it
Speaker 7: was very different from sort of the stand office like
Speaker 7: oh nice to meteor.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like the whole Tim and me.
Speaker 1: She wasn't old enough to be jaded yet so she
Speaker 1: didn't have as many barriers as many guards up.
Speaker 4: It's nice because some people are actually like that. They're
Speaker 4: super outgoing and personable the second you meet them. So
Speaker 4: it's so nice that you found somebody like that. How
Speaker 4: did the actual date go?
Speaker 7: It was great. Like I'm not one to go clubbing,
Speaker 7: but I guess I can say I have now because
Speaker 7: typically like I go to like maybe one bar or
Speaker 7: one place to kind of hang out there for the evening.
Speaker 7: I think we went to three clubs after, so like
Speaker 7: I got dragged around and like willfully and happily.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's a good thing, or is that a red
Speaker 4: flag in your mind?
Speaker 7: I just kind of rolled with it and wasn't really sure,
Speaker 7: like is this going to be fun? Is this going
Speaker 7: to be annoying?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: And that's her scene, right, Like did you have to
Speaker 1: wait in line? Or was she able to get you
Speaker 1: in at every place? Because that's how you know if
Speaker 1: she's yeah, she knows all exactly what's up.
Speaker 7: Well, she was on the list at two places and
Speaker 7: then like we were in line for we got like
Speaker 7: got to the first club and got in line, and
Speaker 7: immediately these two girlfriends or hers and like pulled it
Speaker 7: up to the front and we walked right in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, see that's even better.
Speaker 6: It is good.
Speaker 4: But also, you.
Speaker 1: Know, is it were you Jose because you said, oh,
Speaker 1: and she's on the list at two places.
Speaker 8: Look, I have a lot of guy friends. I think
Speaker 8: we all know promoters. And the girls that tend to
Speaker 8: be on every list at every club are fun.
Speaker 4: They are fun.
Speaker 1: They are fun, but they're not necessarily looking for a relationship.
Speaker 2: Like maybe I've been looking to have fun. What are
Speaker 2: you looking for with her?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 7: Well, I mean see where it goes, I guess. But
Speaker 7: what's weird is at the end of the night, like
Speaker 7: had this amazing kiss with her and asked, hey, am
Speaker 7: I going to see you again? And she was like,
Speaker 7: if you're lucky, I love it.
Speaker 2: That's it.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Well then her ruber pulled up, she hopped in and
Speaker 7: like wave goodbye, and like that was it. But like
Speaker 7: I've reached out to her afterwards and she's responded. But
Speaker 7: when I asked her to like make plans, she's noncommittaled.
Speaker 2: She doesn't sound like a person who makes plans, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like she's bar to bar, she's club the club, she's
Speaker 1: rolling with life, right, And.
Speaker 4: I mean that's that's a fun lifestyle to live. But
Speaker 4: is there any time during the night, Chris, where you
Speaker 4: felt like the two of you just got to sit
Speaker 4: down and connect.
Speaker 2: That sounds old and boring, Jeffrey, Yeah, that's the.
Speaker 4: Thing that I think he wants.
Speaker 7: We did talk a little bit about like our families
Speaker 7: and how I recently lost a bunch of weight, and
Speaker 7: you know, just.
Speaker 8: How like as she's working on you just yet, I
Speaker 8: have a sister.
Speaker 7: No, no, no, I wasn't trying to have this conversation
Speaker 7: on the dance, but no, before we went to the club.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I guess you had travel time in between, right,
Speaker 1: like either you walking or in an uber or whatever.
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, but I mean it wasn't like awkward anything.
Speaker 7: It was just sort of general. I mean, she said
Speaker 7: she showed a picture of family and friends so that
Speaker 7: I couldn't murder her.
Speaker 2: But that's good and it's funny.
Speaker 4: Tifty sounds like a firecracker. So we're all going to
Speaker 4: have to turn up a lot before we make this
Speaker 4: farm call.
Speaker 2: I don't know if we should say it like that.
Speaker 4: How do we say it?
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think we just be ourselves with Tiffany. We don't
Speaker 2: need to try to be cool jeff It's going to be.
Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning when we come back
Speaker 4: so boring song, so we can really skywalket off of
Speaker 4: it when we do our second date update. It's happening next.
Speaker 4: Hold on, Yeah, we got our glow sticks out, are
Speaker 4: flaming yellow shots lit. I just went in the bathroom
Speaker 4: and snorted something off the toilet seat. I don't know.
Speaker 4: The thing is, I do feel lemony fresh for the
Speaker 4: second date update, because that's what our listeners trying to
Speaker 4: do for his dating life now, try not to be
Speaker 4: so boring anymore. Yeah, it's one of the main reasons
Speaker 4: he went out with someone named Tiffany. She's young and outgoing,
Speaker 4: loves to party and bounce around from club to club.
Speaker 4: So that's what they did for their date night. Had
Speaker 4: a great time. But afterwards Tiffany's been m I A
Speaker 4: good news is some of her wild side did rub
Speaker 4: off on you, Chris, because you're stepping out of your
Speaker 4: comfort zone now calling a radio show trying to get
Speaker 4: a hold of her. How does that make you feel?
Speaker 7: I mean, somewhat desper but.
Speaker 4: Slightly embarrassed, but still that's what the young people feel
Speaker 4: all the time.
Speaker 2: Do you think that she's actually gonna be awake right now?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 7: I mean it's like, I don't mean to make it
Speaker 7: seem like she's always partying, but I just feel like
Speaker 7: she would not miss a good party.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, she's already on the list.
Speaker 1: She has a job and like some sort of like
Speaker 1: adult part of her life too.
Speaker 7: You mean yeah, I mean, as far as I could tell,
Speaker 7: she seems to keep it together, but she's not the
Speaker 7: one who wants to Netflix and chill.
Speaker 2: Okay, there's no chill.
Speaker 7: Well, there's like chill, but like it's gonna be like
Speaker 7: chilling somewhere out and about.
Speaker 4: Chill, like no consciousness.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I.
Speaker 4: That she was passed out of an an, alloys, let's not
Speaker 4: waste any more time. Let's just call Tiffany and see
Speaker 4: if she knows Alexis personally and if she even remembers you, Chris.
Speaker 2: But we'll be come friend.
Speaker 4: All right, let's us do this. I'm a dollar number
Speaker 4: right now here we go. Hello, she's awake? Is this Tiffany?
Speaker 1: Hi?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: It is?
Speaker 4: What's up?
Speaker 6: How are you good? An?
Speaker 4: I do who you're talking with right now?
Speaker 6: Or do you know? I don't know what I'm talking
Speaker 6: to you. I'm so tired.
Speaker 4: Well, you're on the radio right now with Brooke and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: No, yeah, yeah, Why am I on the radio.
Speaker 4: Because a little birdie told me that you're a fun time?
Speaker 1: Why are you saying it like we're supposed to be
Speaker 1: the verdie soorry?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, missus cool, you take it away. I
Speaker 4: don't know.
Speaker 2: It just sounded weird, like you got her number off
Speaker 2: some bathroom stall.
Speaker 4: Maybe I did, Tiffany, would that be weird to you?
Speaker 6: That would be weird. But the birdie, No, I was
Speaker 6: partying with the birdie last night.
Speaker 4: I think she was hallucinating. But the truth is we're
Speaker 4: calling you because one of our listeners gave us your
Speaker 4: phone number because he wants to get a hold of you.
Speaker 4: Remember going out with Chris the other night?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, okay, did you follow Chris?
Speaker 2: Was he a good time?
Speaker 6: Yeah? We have fun. For a guy that was like
Speaker 6: more of an introvert, he kind of.
Speaker 2: Let loose, okay, like.
Speaker 6: He let it shell down and just like had at
Speaker 6: of ball.
Speaker 4: I can't help but notice the there's something in your voice,
Speaker 4: Tiffany that's telling me something was off.
Speaker 6: Yeah. So at one point towards the beginning of the date,
Speaker 6: he started like talking about how he's lost a lot
Speaker 6: of wheat and in the newspaper.
Speaker 2: In the newspaper, Sorry, what did that have to do
Speaker 2: with the newspaper?
Speaker 6: Yeah, he said that he dated a story or a
Speaker 6: feature of him or.
Speaker 2: Something who good for him.
Speaker 6: And then he said that he might also be on television.
Speaker 6: So so I researched it because you would think like
Speaker 6: the TV would tell the story when the newspaper, like
Speaker 6: both of those would talk about his weight loss and everything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because just knowing your type of personality, you're not
Speaker 4: going to be reading any newspapers coming out.
Speaker 6: That's like I was really looking for the television.
Speaker 4: She's like, let me see the shortslip on TikTok, So,
Speaker 4: what what did you find?
Speaker 6: I found him on Doctor Phil?
Speaker 2: Oh, Doctor Phil. So it's like a national story.
Speaker 4: Why was he on Doctor Phil?
Speaker 6: So I'm not going to say why he was on there,
Speaker 6: because like that's his business. But okay, I'm not going
Speaker 6: to hang out with him anymore because when I turned
Speaker 6: on the television, he was on the TV in the
Speaker 6: same outfit. We went to the date and and he
Speaker 6: wasn't on I'm there for his weight loss, so I.
Speaker 1: Can understand like the outfit thing, because everybody has that
Speaker 1: one outfit that makes him feel really good about that.
Speaker 4: I probably know my outfit that i'd wear.
Speaker 2: I'm like dying to know what the Doctor Phil episode
Speaker 2: was about.
Speaker 4: Chris, why do you smoke so much? Cry?
Speaker 2: That was a weight loss?
Speaker 5: Ye?
Speaker 1: Weight loss?
Speaker 4: I saw that episode. That was a good one.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Like I said, that's his business, is not mine.
Speaker 6: And clearly, like he probably doesn't have a problem talking
Speaker 6: to you because he called you and you're calling me.
Speaker 6: I would definitely ask him.
Speaker 4: Okay, well, if you're not gonna tell a Tiffany, then
Speaker 4: we're just gonna turn over to the other line and
Speaker 4: ask Chris, Chris, why were you on Doctor Phil?
Speaker 6: Bro Wait, wait, you have him on the phone.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's how this segment works. We have him
Speaker 4: waiting on the other line.
Speaker 5: But Chris, oh god, yeah, I mean, look, I met
Speaker 5: I was on Touch so and but what I mean, look,
Speaker 5: I'll explain sort of quicklys.
Speaker 4: A lot what's going on here.
Speaker 8: But I don't like it.
Speaker 1: How did you make a whole showy and why would
Speaker 1: you tell her about it if it's something you're embarrassed of.
Speaker 7: I wasn't embarrassed by, but I didn't really think she'd
Speaker 7: go look it up. I was just like we were
Speaker 7: talking about, like being written up in the newspaper and
Speaker 7: possibly being on TV.
Speaker 4: All right, well, can you fill us in on why
Speaker 4: you were on the show?
Speaker 7: I was. I was a guest. I wasn't the main feature.
Speaker 7: But the deal was my sister was a stripper, and
Speaker 7: what was asked up about it was a friend of
Speaker 7: mine went to the strip club and Mike courted her,
Speaker 7: and so that's what the show was about.
Speaker 1: The show is about somebody sleeping with your stripper sister.
Speaker 7: Exactly.
Speaker 4: Okay, who hasn't that happened to before?
Speaker 1: That? Producing from Doctor Phild like worse, Yeah, that's a
Speaker 1: pretty dull thing.
Speaker 2: Like Tiffany, you're in the party scene. What does that
Speaker 2: bother you?
Speaker 6: The partner really like weirding me out with the fact
Speaker 6: when they asked him, like, if this wasn't your sister,
Speaker 6: would you be attracted to her?
Speaker 7: And he said, yes, Oh wait, tell my sister, she's ugly.
Speaker 4: Come on the point is to like imagine her as
Speaker 4: not a sister.
Speaker 7: There's no right answer for that. They're only wrong that
Speaker 7: he has a point.
Speaker 4: Doctor Phil asking this question.
Speaker 1: You want the juice, you want the drama on the show.
Speaker 4: I think, if anything, it proves that Chris is a
Speaker 4: gentleman because he knows how to compliment a lady.
Speaker 1: That is a stress.
Speaker 6: Being attracted to someone and complimenting them are two different things.
Speaker 6: Your sister.
Speaker 7: But what am I supposed to say? No, she's pretty,
Speaker 7: She's just not my type.
Speaker 6: I mean that I don't look at my sister like that.
Speaker 6: I don't know abou would look at sure like that.
Speaker 4: The point was doctor Phil said, pretend it's not your sister.
Speaker 4: I feel like maybe Doctor Phil should book both of
Speaker 4: you for a new show.
Speaker 6: Are you kidding me to get out of here?
Speaker 2: We needed one more chance?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you guys just need one day to build a
Speaker 4: little bit more drama between you.
Speaker 6: I know what drama I don't want, don't it was?
Speaker 2: It wasn't drama though, it was just a misunderstanding.
Speaker 7: A time that drama came from. You've seen it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like he purposely misread me.
Speaker 2: So he didn't he did?
Speaker 6: He did? He wanted to be cool. He wanted to
Speaker 6: say that he was popular or he had some type
Speaker 6: of fame. I didn't say any of that.
Speaker 7: And who's going to try to brag by staying there
Speaker 7: on Doctor PHILM.
Speaker 6: You don't say you are on Doctor Phil.
Speaker 7: You said you, that's right, I did not. I said
Speaker 7: I was on TV.
Speaker 6: Right, you're on TV when your striptless sister that you
Speaker 6: were attracted to.
Speaker 7: It's you needed a job. I'm not attracted her like that,
Speaker 7: like she's a pretty girl.
Speaker 4: I think he's made it pretty clear here, Tiffany, he's
Speaker 4: not attracted to his sister. He is attracted to you.
Speaker 7: Though.
Speaker 1: To prove that.
Speaker 7: The girl's married a dozen strips and come on, makes.
Speaker 4: Her less attractive. What we would like to send you,
Speaker 4: Tiffany on a date with this TV star who is
Speaker 4: one hundred percent not attracted to his real sister anymore anymore?
Speaker 6: When he start attracted there, I don't know what it is.
Speaker 3: Jokey, he doesn't like drama, Tiffy, give you another chance.
Speaker 2: He sounds like a cool dude.
Speaker 4: We can find out if he's really an honest guy
Speaker 4: or not. Right now, I'm just gonna ask you one
Speaker 4: question Chris, are you attracted to my co host Brooke?
Speaker 1: Who?
Speaker 7: I mean? I think she is a very actilated.
Speaker 4: Can't trust this guy. I'm with you, Tiffany, cut and run,
Speaker 4: can't trust stay away from shows looking Jeffrey in the morning. Man.
Speaker 4: I know we were kind of joking about it, but
Speaker 4: I'm serious. I actually think having those two on a
Speaker 4: Doctor Phil episode would be absolutely hilarious.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you think, funnier than the sterper sister.
Speaker 4: She just hearing the vicker back and forth. I mean,
Speaker 4: that's TV gold.
Speaker 2: And I do like.
Speaker 1: How honest he is about all his questioning, you know,
Speaker 1: even when asked if you thought his sister was attractive.
Speaker 4: That's all you can ask for. And after we recorded
Speaker 4: that second date behind the scenes, I did confirm that
Speaker 4: Jose has a sister, so I asked him if she
Speaker 4: wasn't his sister, would he be attracted to her? And
Speaker 4: to his credit, he was very grossed out by that
Speaker 4: she's not his type.
Speaker 2: But that's the thing with siblings.
Speaker 1: It's okay to say that that your other sibling isn't attractive.
Speaker 4: Exactly, but his mom that was a different story.
Speaker 8: Don't get me going mama, Like okay.
Speaker 4: Say mama, Okay, if she wasn't your mom, let me
Speaker 4: be clear. Answered that is I thought it was assumed.
Speaker 1: It's not right.
Speaker 4: Okay, his mom better check her DM. A little bit later,
Speaker 4: he's got a message coming.
Speaker 8: He mama doesn't know how to check her DM.
Speaker 1: Actually, mama needs to block her s Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think we just kind of with a fun new
Speaker 4: party game though, that you can play. It's called if
Speaker 4: She Wasn't Your Sister by Hasbro The Brothers. They're like
Speaker 4: twelve one of us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but the legal one. I mean that's fair enough.
Speaker 4: No, you can stop at first base. You don't go
Speaker 4: any farther thes Okay, we're doing I hope you're listening anyway.
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