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Speaker 1: All right. This is from Julian in Saint Petersburg.

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Speaker 2: Julian says, I sometimes go buy my ex wife's house

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Speaker 2: to fix things, and I never tell my wife about it.

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Speaker 2: I think my wife suspects suspects that I was over

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Speaker 2: there in mid December because she's been making comments about

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Speaker 2: me living in the past. I shouldn't have to explain

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Speaker 2: myself because my kids live in that house. I think

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Speaker 2: she's going to blow up on me at any minute

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Speaker 2: before that happens. How do I explain my feelings to her? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Wow, she's going over there first?

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Speaker 1: He doesn't want to lie.

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Speaker 3: Call it first. He don't want to lie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't think.

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Speaker 4: So, let's just go back to what he said just now.

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Speaker 4: How do I explain my feelings to her? Don't ever

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Speaker 4: say that he's doll? Why not?

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Speaker 3: He doesn't want to lie to her feelings. That's why

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Speaker 3: he in this situation, because he ain't. Don't You don't

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Speaker 3: say feelings.

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Speaker 1: Men don't have feelings. Men have feelings.

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Speaker 4: What are you saying not towards your ex? You can't

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Speaker 4: tell your wife? How do I explain to my wife

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Speaker 4: my feelings? For feelings? You're over there because you feel

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Speaker 4: like you're over there out of obligation, as you feel

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Speaker 4: obligated to provide for your kids. You're not over there

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Speaker 4: to help her out, so don't ever say feelings. Secondly,

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Speaker 4: you said she suspects you were over there in me

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Speaker 4: in December. Uh huh, Caul, she until she's seen your

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Speaker 4: car in that driveway and take a picture of it.

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Speaker 3: You ain't been over there.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: But what if he and his ex wife are like

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Speaker 2: friendly because they have to co parent? You know that

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Speaker 2: does happen when you break up with someone you're friendly

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Speaker 2: with them, especially if kids are involved.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would need to think about it because I

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Speaker 4: because I've never been friends with that.

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Speaker 3: Really, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: How they or what if the kids say?

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Speaker 4: What if the kids say, Okay, Daddy, see you in

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Speaker 4: a couple of weeks when you, you know, stop by

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Speaker 4: the house and help us fix.

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Speaker 1: Or whatever?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: Good in the hell? Well, I ain't been by your house.

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Speaker 3: What is you talking about? Sent me in a couple

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Speaker 3: of weeks?

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Speaker 1: You look so confused.

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Speaker 4: Then I pulled them over to the side. Okay, say

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Speaker 4: something else. If I take the bike.

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Speaker 1: You threatened him, you just drop that bike for Christmas.

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Speaker 1: What's the big kill?

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Speaker 2: Daddy?

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Speaker 3: You're gonna You're gonna be playing football with no equipment.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you. You are daddy. You can do that.

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Speaker 1: You we need to washing machine.

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Speaker 3: Dad. Listen to me.

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Speaker 4: Listen, I'm gonna tell I'm gonn just tell you something

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Speaker 4: that you're gonna have to deal with this. I ain't

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Speaker 4: you real, daddy? God kid, you say Daddy called me that?

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Speaker 2: All right, we have time for another one. This is

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Speaker 2: from Chester and Shreveport, Chester says. My wife was in

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Speaker 2: the hospital and her sister got a little too comfy

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Speaker 2: in my arms. I hugged her sister and held her

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Speaker 2: for a minute because she was crying. But then she

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Speaker 2: slid one of her legs between mine and acted like she.

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Speaker 1: Was going to fall back.

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Speaker 2: She had stopped crying and was looking me dead in

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Speaker 2: my eyes while she did that. I almost dropped her

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Speaker 2: because our body parts were rubbing. I have stayed away

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Speaker 2: from her since then. Was she coming on to me

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Speaker 2: or truly sad? No?

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Speaker 3: Good?

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Speaker 4: Hell will what she did? Put her thigh between your leg?

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Speaker 1: Stop crying and looking dead and is that yeah? Some sister?

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Speaker 3: She is?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, horrible and her sister's in the hospital.

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Speaker 3: On land right there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, well oh really, like.

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Speaker 3: Well, if you think she ain't gonna make it, and

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Speaker 3: you know, don't.

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Speaker 1: See what's happened, that's when you went with it.

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Speaker 3: Thinks she ain't gonna get up.

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Speaker 4: I'm looking for that next next time you at the hospital,

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Speaker 4: read that chart and.

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Speaker 3: Decision from there.

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Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the Harvey Morning Show right after this, you're listening to

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