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Speaker 1: I'll be down that I gave it to y'all. Look

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what it about. I've been catching myself.

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Speaker 1: But this is how I know. I've had this habit

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Speaker 3: But why don't you try to do audible because it's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it'll probably make it easier for you to finish.

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Speaker 3: Like that's what I some of my books I read

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Speaker 1: That's where you're wrong at because you judged the book.

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Speaker 3: But I decided to start the year off with something nostalgic.

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Speaker 1: I was like, Harry Potter.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna read this so I have like my first

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to read a fantasy book. I loved

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Speaker 3: a google right as I'm reading versus I feel like

432
00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,359
Speaker 3: when you're listening to it on audible, you're less likely

433
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Speaker 3: to do this.

434
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Speaker 1: Don't do that, You're gonna be sitting on the couch

435
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:54,639
Speaker 1: talking about with an a in the end. Oh, how's

436
00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:56,600
Speaker 1: your new year's been going? Have you been sticking to

437
00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:59,280
Speaker 1: your thing? Yeah? I actually just kind of picked up

438
00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,280
Speaker 1: where I left off. This year is about enhancing my discipline.

439
00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 1: So I sure it was my foundation and building discipline.

440
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:08,280
Speaker 1: Now I'm like in it. So back to my workouts

441
00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 1: four to five times a week, heavy in my skincare.

442
00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 1: Now y'all have inspired me. Yeah, but I'm more Korean.

443
00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,679
Speaker 1: You love it. I like, yeah, I'm having fun, like

444
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 1: playing and things. So I got like a really nice

445
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 1: toner and then just different products. Fenty has some really

446
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 1: nice products too. It's all Savage fenty. They have some

447
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:29,800
Speaker 1: like products that I like to but yeah, prepping for

448
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:33,720
Speaker 1: I'm doing four puzzles a year, so one per quarter.

449
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,240
Speaker 1: I just did my first one, so now I'm looking

450
00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:38,439
Speaker 1: at books, so I'm taking notes on what y'all are

451
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,879
Speaker 1: been mentioning on books to read. I might get a

452
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:45,400
Speaker 1: Kindle though, Okay, take it with me. You're right, That's

453
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,439
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna get myself. Candle. My friend has one

454
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 1: and she loves it, like she just keep it in

455
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,199
Speaker 1: her purse and just take it out where I'm going.

456
00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,639
Speaker 1: I'm going to order one. I'm thinking about that, and

457
00:21:55,680 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 1: then my I'm gonna take. My next level is w

458
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:05,200
Speaker 1: set three, Level three in Spirits. I start that in February.

459
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 1: So so what does that do? What does that mean?

460
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 1: So basically, I've completed my first two levels, which you

461
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 1: it's a whole nine week course and you have to

462
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,640
Speaker 1: take a written exam. But this one is like next level,

463
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 1: I have to do an actual I have to travel

464
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:22,199
Speaker 1: to do a tasting in person, blindfolded on spirits, and

465
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 1: then I have to like write in the answers. So

466
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:28,760
Speaker 1: it's more theory based on the distillation and everything that

467
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 1: goes into the process of making spirits. Wow. Once I

468
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,199
Speaker 1: get that, then that pretty much just certific certifies me

469
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 1: in spirits, top of my game. I love that, Okay,

470
00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 1: I like that we support you, and you know what

471
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,679
Speaker 1: I want to do one year? You know me, When

472
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:49,400
Speaker 1: I watch a movie, y'all know, I'm a movie head.

473
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: I finally saw the F one movie. I want to

474
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 1: go to a Grand Prix. I wouldn't look. I did

475
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 1: not know that F one was so like because I

476
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 1: went to a nap car race when I was probably

477
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 1: like in seventh or eighth grade, and I just don't

478
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 1: remember having like a great time because it was a

479
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:11,159
Speaker 1: very very long race. But the F one races aren't that.

480
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 1: They're like, what hour and a half? I think they long?

481
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: Ain't they? Well though, I think I think they're like

482
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 1: an hour and a half, two hours. Somebody google that

483
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: for me, Colin, can you google that for me? How

484
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 1: long is the F one race? Because it seemed like

485
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 1: they're like an hour and a half I think, But

486
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: either way it goes. It just looked so interesting. And

487
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: then when I'm watching the movie, y'all know, I go

488
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 1: in a deep dive of things. Ninety minutes to two hours,

489
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 1: ninety minutes to two hours. See, I can do that,

490
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 1: I can do that. I can do that ninety minutes

491
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: two hours, And it's like say you bet on somebody

492
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:48,400
Speaker 1: or whatever. Get that all a inting you drinking Chrystall

493
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,639
Speaker 1: and the caveall it be a time. The girls be

494
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:55,400
Speaker 1: dressing and it's like, you know, it's very fancy. It's

495
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 1: like this is where we gotta go. It's like, once

496
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: we get our million dollar deal, we're going to celebrate

497
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,119
Speaker 1: at the Grand Prix, Like we have to go, we sugar,

498
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 1: we should make it a family trip. Yes, yes, yes,

499
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 1: And they you know they have it because you know

500
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: they it's a season and they get their points all season.

501
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: Because I was wondering. I didn't know how it worked.

502
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 1: So they have a partner that they race with and

503
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: basically they get points all season. So I was wondering.

504
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 1: I was like, so you mean Lewis Hamilton has had

505
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 1: a partner this whole time? Why is his partner not

506
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: as famous? But it was because he was always winning

507
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 1: because he always got the top points or whatever like that.

508
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,639
Speaker 1: But it's like a big deal because it got some

509
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 1: tea too, because bitch, he's been driving with Mercedes all

510
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,120
Speaker 1: these years and he not driving with Mercedes this year Beach,

511
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 1: So I thought there was a lady who oh no,

512
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: Mercedes Beach yeah, yeah, so being the tea is hot.

513
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,679
Speaker 1: He not driving with Mercedes, and he's been driving with

514
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 1: them for like ten eleven, twelve years. Child, But which

515
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 1: one do you want to go to? Cause isn't it

516
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 1: like it's so many places so main It's like they

517
00:24:57,359 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: have one in Vegas, ie feed. I mean, it's it's

518
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 1: all over the world, girl, that's the one. Beyonce just

519
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 1: went to right Vegas. Yes, and she had them kiddies

520
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: up to the moon. He did. It looked like a

521
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 1: time he did, like we have to go to one,

522
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: like we have to, but I feel like I would

523
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: be nervous in the car though you don't well you

524
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 1: don't have You're ain't gonna get in the car, baby,

525
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 1: That's what Beyonce, sweetheart. They may offer us to get

526
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:27,880
Speaker 1: in the cart. First one day, that the first one

527
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: one day she said, I'm gonna be she going all in.

528
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Speaker 4: I said, let's go.

529
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: God damn you, I don't even look like we have

530
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 1: good look you know, be like, would y'all like to

531
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: get in the car now, I'm not gonna lie them

532
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:53,160
Speaker 1: cars getting up to two hundred miles per hour. I'm

533
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 1: absolutely not getting those cars. Yeah, absolutely not. You would

534
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 1: never do it. Not No, I mean maybe i'll if

535
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 1: maybe we'll get up to like one hundred and twenty

536
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:03,119
Speaker 1: on a straight.

537
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 4: Well, I wouldn't want to go two hundred two hundred.

538
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

539
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 3: I would never want to get in a car and

540
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:12,639
Speaker 3: they're going like little Russell Dazzle.

541
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all like a little bit, a little bit. Yeah, yes,

542
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 1: it's a lot, but yeah, that's what That's what I

543
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: definitely want to do this year is go to a

544
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: Grand Prix. But like I said, that'll be the celebration

545
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: when we get our major deal. We're gonna speak of

546
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 1: the excess.

547
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 3: That's do you I have a question because you brought

548
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 3: up caviar. Do you feel like caviar is one of

549
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 3: those things that people like because they like attention or

550
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 3: do you think people really like caviar.

551
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 1: I'll say this because I had it again recently. You

552
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: didn't like it.

553
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 2: I did.

554
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 3: Actually, That's why I'm asking, because people be like, it's nasty.

555
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: I feel like you only like it for attention.

556
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 3: Some of some of them, some of the variations are nasty,

557
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 3: but some of them in my opinion. But the one

558
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:01,679
Speaker 3: that I had when we were in La, I went

559
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 3: to this restaurant called Boa, and it was really good.

560
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 3: They had put it on top of the mashed potatoes,

561
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 3: and I was fucking witty.

562
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. If you enjoy a fishy ocean taste,

563
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:17,679
Speaker 1: caviar is amazing. It's salty, it's very salty, it's very oceany.

564
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: So if you enjoy those flavors, I think that if

565
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 1: you like like sushi, salmon like stuff that's really fishy,

566
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 1: caviar is good. But if you don't like seafood and

567
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 1: stuff like that, I think you would think that. But

568
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: also I just think, like, okay, excuse me, bitch, you

569
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 1: eat caviar.

570
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 3: Right like I think I personally like it on food,

571
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 3: Like with other things.

572
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:42,919
Speaker 1: You're not gonna do that when people I would do

573
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 1: a bump. But people who'll be doing a bump, like

574
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: every day, I'm kind of bump. We're talking. I'm talking

575
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: about the caviar bump.

576
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 3: I follow a few people who eat caviar like almost

577
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 3: every day.

578
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I just be like, eat ain't good. I

579
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 1: mean every day. I mean if I eat beans every day,

580
00:27:58,920 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: people think it's a lot.

581
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 3: But I like what I like. Kevio, don't make you

582
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 3: fart though. You don't make you beans, don't make me fart.

583
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 3: That's the bati my fiber, that's the beat.

584
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: Okay. Well I say all that to say caviar is tasty,

585
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: and I do like it. But I do like it

586
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: on things. I do agree. I like it on something

587
00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 1: like you know, they eat them with the little potato chips.

588
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 1: Rabi Rihanna had everybody eating it on a chicken nugget,

589
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 1: you know.

590
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so they did that this year at the Olympic.

591
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 3: They had it with the chicken NUGGI.

592
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think caviar is good, but it's not

593
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: something I definitely just like, Oh my god, I'm craving.

594
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 3: Cob the US Open, the US. Oh everybody had went

595
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 3: to the US competing, niggas compete, they would same same thing.

596
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: Okay, So again, y'all know, we got a poor decision,

597
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 1: the poor decision of the week. Do you have a

598
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: poor decision? This is a tailor ports? Yeah, shut up

599
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 1: Taylor Port. When I tell you, I had my cabin

600
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:04,719
Speaker 1: full of Taylor Port when I went on my Christmas

601
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 1: trip in Colorado and we were just sitting around the

602
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: fire sipping on that tailor Port y'all, I'm telling you,

603
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: a few SIPs and you just be feeling so relaxed

604
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: after a long day of work. I love going home

605
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 1: and or not my teleport.

606
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 3: Y'all don't never got to worry about what's in my cub.

607
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 3: Thank you guys, speaking of because it's always that Taylor Port.

608
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 3: And I like the black because it's a little strong.

609
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 3: M Yeah, it's a little bit stronger than the O G.

610
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 3: Taylor Port. I love me some Taylor Port black.

611
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: Yes, cheers. Okay for my poor decision this week, because

612
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: a lot of y'all were in the comments on the

613
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 1: Charlemagne episode like we don't like this segment because y'all

614
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: aren't honest. Well, y'all want me to be fucking honest.

615
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna get canceled for this. I'm not gonna

616
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: get cancel I'm gonna not go. Why would you say that?

617
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, Well, I want to say what I

618
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: have to say because this was my poor decision, and

619
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: I'm being honest. If this is a safe space, right,

620
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 1: might be safe, might not? Okay, So on the Kayla

621
00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: episode that we recorded with Kayla Na Call, I was

622
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: just saying, how you you know, like sometimes people will

623
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: DM me and I don't mind helping people every now

624
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: and then, like you know, if I whatever the case

625
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 1: may be. And that was just the point I shouldn't

626
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: have said that. The influx of people, hey boo, my rent,

627
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: Hey boo, I need something. I literally probably got about

628
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding about like one hundred to one hundred

629
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 1: and fifty messages of people asking me for money literally

630
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: after that episode dropped, and I get it times it's hard,

631
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: but god digging it down. I got a few messages

632
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 1: to though. I wonder if that's why. I think it

633
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: is why because they're like, hey, I heard you say

634
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: you like to help people, and it's like I do,

635
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 1: but jesus, I'm only one person. But I also think

636
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: it's kind of like teetering the line a little bit.

637
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, I guess just because like I know,

638
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't have community and stuff. But

639
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 1: like the pan handling on the internet has gotten crazy.

640
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: I post the thirst trap, somebody under it like, hey,

641
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: Lex can you donate to my gofund me. I'm trying

642
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: to show ass Yeah not right now, not right now,

643
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: going you know what I'm saying. So that's my poor

644
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 1: decision of the week because I feel like a lot

645
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 1: of times and you know, it tubs at my heart

646
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 1: strings and it's like I said, I do definitely help

647
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: people out when I can and when I feel and

648
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 1: where I feel, you know, it's necessary. But it was

649
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: extremely overwhelming. It was a lot. And honestly, I'm one person,

650
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 1: but that's a lot to read, Like all these sob

651
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: stories and things that people it's a lot on me. Same. Yeah,

652
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: it was very hard on Red. Yeah.

653
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 4: Well, I'm just being honest. I swear, y'all.

654
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:33,479
Speaker 1: I'm being honest.

655
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 3: Like, as soon as somebody send me a message asking

656
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 3: me for money, I don't read the rest of it.

657
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:41,479
Speaker 3: I just closed it because no, like I'm sorry, I

658
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 3: do feel like I'm grateful that God put us in

659
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 3: a position that he put us in to where you know,

660
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 3: we are financially stable and we make good money. I

661
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 3: know the economy is hard. I know a lot of

662
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 3: people are going through roof times, but like sending us

663
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 3: messages and asking us for thousands of dollars is crazy.

664
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, those are the type of messages that we beginting.

665
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 1: I know I be Yeah, so I know.

666
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 3: You be young and like, I just think that's crazy

667
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 3: people who I know in real life, Like if somebody

668
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 3: that I knew in real life really needed my help,

669
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 3: oh of course percent. But like people on the internet,

670
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 3: that's just hard. And you being somebody that I don't

671
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 3: know in real life, why do you think that I

672
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 3: can send you or would send you three thousand dollars?

673
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: That's insane.

674
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 3: So as soon as I see something about, oh, I'm

675
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 3: going through these, would you see it in your heart

676
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 3: to send me a thousand dollars too, I've closed the message.

677
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: I threes a you know what I mean? Ass I

678
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: had to read for one thousand dollars holo on shut

679
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 1: up girl, shit take me. But I say that to

680
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: say it was just a lot, and it like it

681
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: made me feel bad about one pime. It's like, damn,

682
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: like I'm trying to be out here and enjoying my

683
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 1: holidays too, Like it's a heavy time in the city

684
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: for me, and I'm like, y'all not even being like

685
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 1: considerate of me, and.

686
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 4: I feeling I agree, And that's an other thing.

687
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 3: That's why I don't finish reading either, because sometimes I

688
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 3: just feel like it's just not considering.

689
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 1: And like I said, I do every now and then

690
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: when I feel and it's like most of the time

691
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, something a little one too. I

692
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 1: don't mind being like, yeah, girl, gonna get something to eat,

693
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: whatever the case may be, but it be them I'm

694
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 1: talking and I'm specifically talking about the people who be

695
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: asking for thousands of all what I'm talking like, yeah,

696
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: the people like I'm not talking about the people who

697
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: asking for little mouse whatever stuff like that, but it'd

698
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: be people like straight up be like, hey, I'm four

699
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: months behind on rent. Hey yeah, you had four months

700
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 1: to fill or something more.

701
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 4: Now it's between you and the courty.

702
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 1: It's just really crazy because, like I said, I have

703
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: been on my lowest of lows and I'm glad that

704
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: I have community. But I think it's just a little

705
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: it's kind of like I'm not trying to be funny,

706
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: like I have family, I be doing stuff for I

707
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 1: just bought a house, y'all, and I bought a fixer rupper. Same.

708
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 3: I mean, I think two people don't realize, like, yeah,

709
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 3: you might make a lot of money, but they don't

710
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 3: know and they don't know what else you're doing with

711
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 3: your money. Like you said, you'll be helping people. Same

712
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 3: with me, I be helping people. I mean, but my

713
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 3: thing is too, I learned. I was talking to somebody

714
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,320
Speaker 3: about this the other day. My mom always used to

715
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 3: loan people money growing up, so I learned.

716
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 4: From Hud to just say no because it's.

717
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 3: So many people in our family. There's still all my

718
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 3: money to this day. Never paid her back. And then

719
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 3: if you got one time to borrow money from me

720
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 3: and I pay me back, You've been a never ever

721
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 3: asked me for shit again, because it's the principal too.

722
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 3: I'm not in lying for one hundred dollars last year.

723
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 3: Last year money in my family.

724
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: Oh. I was like, who are your friend one hundred dollars?

725
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 3: No, I'm one of my friends somebody in my family,

726
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 3: and I sent it to them because they asked me

727
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 3: for it. They was like, oh, I get paid next week,

728
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 3: I'll pay you back whatever.

729
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 1: I see thee.

730
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 3: You would have been better off just being like, can

731
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 3: I have one hundred dollar?

732
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 1: Yeah?

733
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 3: I hate if people tell you, oh, can I borrow

734
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 3: these from you?

735
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 4: If you borrow any that mean you gonna give it back.

736
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,320
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say you needed to have it because

737
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 3: you telling me that you wanted to borrow eat and

738
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 3: promising that you was gonna pay me back when you

739
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 3: got paid any udd e, Now you can't ask me

740
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 3: for no more. And it don't matter that it was

741
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 3: one hundred dollars, because it's not about the amounts. I

742
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 3: don't need one hundred dollars back. It's about the principle.

743
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: And then I don't like it when they don't say nothing,

744
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 1: Like you know your own money, and you don't say nothing,

745
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 1: you don't bring it up.

746
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 3: But I'm at the point I feel like you was

747
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 3: big and four read you don't remember how you was

748
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,240
Speaker 3: acting when you needed right.

749
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 1: And I just think for me because I've been there,

750
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: I am when I was at my lowest, I was

751
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 1: a serial borrower, but I would always pay folks bag always,

752
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 1: And then it's like I would know my limits too.

753
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 1: I'm not messaging somebody and just asking them for two

754
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 1: three thousand dollars. I think that's a little I don't know,

755
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 1: I just think that's a little crazy. But I will

756
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: say I'm in the position where I definitely do for

757
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: my close friends and my close family. But honestly, I

758
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: just already know I'm like, if you asking me for

759
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 1: this money. You need it, you don't got to pay

760
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 1: me back now, as long as it ain't nothing crazy.

761
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,320
Speaker 1: But if it's like anything like under a thousand dollars,

762
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, you don't gotta pay me back. Yeah, but

763
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: you know it's weird thin cause if you get that,

764
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: don't pay me back. You only got on Yeah, you

765
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: only got two more, so you better use them.

766
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 4: Wise that only got two, you only got two.

767
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: Well, I'm saying either way it goes. I'm like, now

768
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: the position where it's like, Okay, you don't have to

769
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: pay me back, but I think stuff like that. It's

770
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 1: like you're supposed to help people in your circle, and

771
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 1: I definitely do that. But yeah, that was my that

772
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: That was definitely my poor decision, cause it was just overwhelming.

773
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 1: It kind of like not ruined my day, but you

774
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: know how sensitive I am, so it was just really

775
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: really heavy on me. Reading all those measure I was like, God, damn,

776
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 1: that's so crazy. I swear that.

777
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,959
Speaker 4: It's really crazy that she said that, because I was.

778
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 1: Thinking that the other day. I'm like, I've been getting

779
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 1: a lot of.

780
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,720
Speaker 4: Messages like me of people asking me for money.

781
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 3: It was the episode, That's what it was. I swear.

782
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 3: It was about like ten that I seen. I got

783
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 3: two weeks. Literally, I mean it got to the point

784
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 3: where I was.

785
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 4: Like, glad niggas no, I said, I think I.

786
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: Want to turn my my my messages off. I was like,

787
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: do I want to turn my message off? I was like, no,

788
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 1: I don't want. It's somebody like that wants to work

789
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 1: with us or something wants to DM me, so I

790
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: can't turn my messages off. But it was just extremely overwhelming.

791
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: I was like, oh Jesus Christ, hundreds of nugs.

792
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 4: That's wild, So okay, my poor decision.

793
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 2: Is.

794
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:47,280
Speaker 3: I got my belly but in Peers three piers because

795
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:49,439
Speaker 3: I had my billy. I got my belly butting piers

796
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:50,800
Speaker 3: when I was sixteen.

797
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: At war.

798
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 3: And I had e I was at war with my

799
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 3: mama because she was mad as fuz.

800
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, she tried to kick me out the house.

801
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 3: I got my belly butting in my tongue pierced at

802
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 3: the same time at sixteen.

803
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 1: Yes, a tongue ring at sixteen is nuts.

804
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 3: And I used to be in class doing these ooh

805
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 3: flaking bad just bad for no reason. But yes, I

806
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 3: got my belly putting in my tongue hereuse my parents

807
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 3: was mad, but I mean my mom would let me

808
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 3: keep it because she was a nurse and she was like,

809
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 3: if I make you take it out, I'm scared of

810
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 3: my getting fixty. So she let me keep it, and

811
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 3: by the time.

812
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: It was healed, she was just like booky.

813
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 3: But anyways, I got my belly butudding pierced when I

814
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 3: was sixteen, and I had it until I was probably

815
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 3: like twenty cevy or twenty eight. I took it out

816
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 3: and so recently, I don't know. I just was like,

817
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 3: I want to get my belly butt in pierced again.

818
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 1: It's cute to me again. I took it out because

819
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 1: I had.

820
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 3: Started thinking it was ghetto a few years ago. But yeah,

821
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 3: so now it's been cute to me again. And then

822
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 3: I also felt like it's good motivation for me to

823
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 3: like keep going really hard with my challenge that I'm

824
00:38:57,880 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 3: doing as far as working out, because I'm like, I'm

825
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,359
Speaker 3: gonna have them abs by the time I said thank you,

826
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 3: that was really showing like last year at the beginning

827
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 3: of the year. So I'm like, by the time we

828
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 3: go on tour, I want my abs big, so my

829
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 3: belly but in piers when I tell y'all, I will

830
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 3: never and I don't have everything piers that you could

831
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 3: think of literally usual imagination. But anyways, I done had

832
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 3: everything piers like literally except for like facial piers. Since

833
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 3: I never had my nose, never had my lip, my eyebrow.

834
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 3: I will never in life get anything re pierced.

835
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 1: Oh the scar tissue, oh my god.

836
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 3: And I have a really high pain tolerance, like I

837
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 3: have tattoos. Like I said, I don't have a ton

838
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 3: of piercings. That ship was next level, really yes, And

839
00:39:56,719 --> 00:40:01,400
Speaker 3: it took so long to push you through. And my

840
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 3: friend Lynn was with me and she was recording it,

841
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 3: but she kind of couldn't really see me for real

842
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 3: because the way the lady was like bending over me

843
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 3: to push you through.

844
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 1: And she had started recording it, and then after like

845
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: a minute a minute, I know you, I swear, she.

846
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 3: Was like what is She was like, damn, what's taking

847
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 3: so long? It took forever to push you through? And

848
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 3: I was bleeding so bad. It just y'all, it hurts

849
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 3: so bad.

850
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:32,360
Speaker 1: I'm not even I'm sorry, said that boy so bad.

851
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 1: I know it hurts.

852
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 3: I swear it hurts so bad, like I've never in

853
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 3: my life experienced something so painful as far as getting

854
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 3: a piercing.

855
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:46,919
Speaker 1: Or that's crazy. It was bleeding bad.

856
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:49,240
Speaker 3: It was bleeding really really bad, like it was probably

857
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 3: bleeding for like an hour. Oh my god afterwards and

858
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 3: then that's not even that ain't even the gag. So

859
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 3: then Linn had spent the night at my house that night, right,

860
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 3: so I had on a white T shirt blood and

861
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 3: I went to sleep walk up the next morning it

862
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 3: was like a big ass of blood spot on my

863
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:09,840
Speaker 3: T shirt and on my bed.

864
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: It had went through on my madtress and I had

865
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: no I believe you, but it never gave us that

866
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:16,919
Speaker 1: serious take that ship out.

867
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 4: Well no, I mean well at the point it's been

868
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:20,240
Speaker 4: a few weeks.

869
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 3: It's been a few so it's healed, but it do

870
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:28,959
Speaker 3: still hurt a little bit like it. But when I say,

871
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 3: if that shit ever come out again, I ain't never

872
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 3: give me.

873
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 1: So are you gonna change it out or no? No, yeah,

874
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna change it. I wout once it fully heels

875
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: and stuff.

876
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 3: But I learned my lesson with getting something re pierced,

877
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 3: Like if a if something closed on my body, I'm

878
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 3: never getting it re pierced again because the scar tissue

879
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 3: is not nothing to fuck around with.

880
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god. The first time I got my belly

881
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 1: but and Piers it was quick. This second time because

882
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 1: of the scar t shoe, it was just so thick.

883
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: It just took forever to push and push.

884
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 3: And I thought I wanted to get my nipples three

885
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 3: peers too recently.

886
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 1: No, well, I don't chopped to screw my nipples up

887
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: so much. You probably ain't gonna be well.

888
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 3: No, I have feeling in them, you do, I'm not

889
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 3: getting them res I just I'm not either. I thought

890
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 3: I wanted to. But after that, because nipple Piers's already hurt,

891
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 3: the aady hurt.

892
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: And then I had the nerve to get my titties Piers.

893
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: Whenever I had big titties, they was already sagging, and

894
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 1: then that little piece of metal making them hang even more.

895
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 1: I had some nerves. I'm just doing anything. My nipples

896
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 1: sitting at the bottom of my shirt with that little

897
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: bar just at the bottom. I'm cleaning my titties like this.

898
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 1: You got to clean that nipple ring out.

899
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 3: And I will say, now, obviously things have changed. Everything

900
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 3: is a little more advanced now, so they have like

901
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 3: these saline bottles that you just sprayed.

902
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

903
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like it's like an aerosol thing and it

904
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 3: just sprays the saline so you don't have to really

905
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 3: clean around it with like a Q tip admiting, like

906
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 3: we used to have two bacon today. But who y'all

907
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:08,240
Speaker 3: that was my poor decision because never again, that's crazy

908
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 3: and still as I'm sitting here right now this because

909
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 3: you see how it's like tied right here, my billy

910
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:15,799
Speaker 3: budding right here, so I keep having to kind of

911
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 3: like adjust it because it's a little sore but cute

912
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,439
Speaker 3: as fuck, but not doing it again. And you will

913
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 3: be seeing me pregnant with one of them pregnancy billy

914
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 3: buttering rings. Souse, I ain't a pregnancy belly buttering them

915
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 3: long ass belly wedding rings that people be heavy when

916
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 3: they pregnant.

917
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: I thought it was just stretched out. So no, they

918
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: have pregnancy ones that be like this long. But when

919
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:42,399
Speaker 1: you're I do because I ain't going through that ship again.

920
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: That is it. It's a wrap today. I didn't know

921
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 1: that was a thing either.

922
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I will be out here billy button ring.

923
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:52,759
Speaker 1: Okay, So before we get into the first time because

924
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 1: we've been a little chattery day. Sorry y'all. You know,

925
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 1: I think we always do this when we have another

926
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 1: solo episode in a while. I mind you. We was

927
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,879
Speaker 1: on the phone, were almost two hours before we got here,

928
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 1: so it was like one hour and it was an

929
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 1: hour and a half. Okay, New Year, same sip. This

930
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 1: one's called New Year, same sip. Because growth doesn't always

931
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 1: mean starting over.

932
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 3: Yes, y'all, Sometimes it just means knowing what already words.

933
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: And we're starting with a tailor port. It's rich, smooth,

934
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: and a little indulgent, and I love indulgence, so it's giving.

935
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: I made it through the year, and I'm celebrating it.

936
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 1: A touch of vanilla to soften the edges, because ease

937
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 1: is the same thing this year. Fresh lemon juice for

938
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: ballance and.

939
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:40,439
Speaker 3: No chaos, not in life, not in cocktails never, a.

940
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 1: Little simple syrup to round it out, and a splash

941
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 1: of club soda for just enough sparkle. Finished with a

942
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 1: citrus twist. Simple, intentional and satisfying. New Year, Same sip.

943
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 1: All right, let's get into the first topic. Go ahead, Drea.

944
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 1: Why why I had to get my call my cars

945
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: in order? Why are more women deciding not to live

946
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 1: with men, you know, Like recently we've been seeing a

947
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 1: lot of talk online where men women are like intentionally

948
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: not to choose to live with their men, even if

949
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 1: they're in a relationship with them, even if they're married,

950
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 1: engaged long term relationships. Would you have you? Why or

951
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: why not?

952
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 3: I don't know why girls don't want to live with

953
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 3: They mean, you gonna pay the bills?

954
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 1: Why would I not want to live with you?

955
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 4: I'm kidding, not just that, but it's part of it.

956
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:44,959
Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, I don't really know why people

957
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:46,080
Speaker 3: don't want to live with they men.

958
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 4: I think that that's a great thing.

959
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, we want a man is great as long as

960
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 3: he's not dirty, right.

961
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: Like that's a lot of the point that they were making.

962
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 1: They were saying cleanliness. These men be dirty, not cleaning

963
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: up after they self, and they're like, sometimes I just

964
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: want to lay around the house with my hair not done.

965
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 3: I can fart. I'm gonna do that anyway, Is this

966
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 3: the thing about it? I'm gonna lay around with my

967
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 3: hair and I do it, and I'm gonna fart in

968
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:14,240
Speaker 3: front of him. Because I feel like, if you living

969
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 3: with somebody y'all should be comfortable enough like to do

970
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 3: that type of stuff in front of each other, like

971
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 3: in the early stages of dating somebody. Of course, not

972
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 3: of course, you're not gonna be sitting around fartening in

973
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:26,280
Speaker 3: front of it, a nigga.

974
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 1: You're gonna go to another room, but.

975
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 3: Be cause you be like I don't know about y'all,

976
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,760
Speaker 3: but I'll be like, hold on, I left my phone

977
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 3: or I left something.

978
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: I'll literally be like, oh, I gotta grasp some of

979
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 1: my car. Yeah, I like what you need a charger?

980
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: Oh I got one right here.

981
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 3: No for real though, Like, yeah, you gotta make any

982
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,359
Speaker 3: excuse go to another room. Let it a right, didn't

983
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 3: come back?

984
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 1: What if it follow you back? If you follow you back,

985
00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: some ain't right. You need to change your eyes follow you.

986
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 1: I've never had a part follow. Yes, you have, I

987
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: promise you probably have. That's if you far and you

988
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: leave too soon, you gotta let it. You gotta wave

989
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:10,720
Speaker 1: it a little bit. You gotta wave it. You definitely

990
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: gotta wave it. You gotta wave it.

991
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 3: But follow you, like to another room, like you know,

992
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 3: it's just like when your smell lingers if you spray

993
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 3: perfect Kyler what.

994
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 1: You be eating. If you don't kind of agrees, If

995
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:27,720
Speaker 1: you don't wave that booty, I'm like, where do it stay?

996
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: Stay like in a pocket in your peace. It stays

997
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: in like the cloth of your clothes a little bit.

998
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 1: It's gonna follow if you run too fast.

999
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:40,799
Speaker 3: Not if you're trying to play tag that it's crazy.

1000
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 3: But no, Yeah, I'm like, obviously in the early stages

1001
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 3: updating somebody, you're not gonna do that in front of them.

1002
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 4: Y'all gotta get a little more comfortable.

1003
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: But if you and somebody are living together, y'all should

1004
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 1: be comfortable enough to fart in front of each other.

1005
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: Like I'm not not living with a non nigga because

1006
00:47:58,040 --> 00:47:59,399
Speaker 1: I'm scared of the fart he be. When I think

1007
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 1: about niggas, don't give a fuck about farting in front

1008
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 1: of you. They will fart on you literally.

1009
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:08,720
Speaker 3: Why Oh, I'm speaking from experience same and I'm traumatized.

1010
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 3: But I will say this, Okay, So as the leader

1011
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 3: of the I really don't fuck with men like men

1012
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 3: get on my nerves. You are not the leader, Yes

1013
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 3: I am, and unfortunately I am straight unfortunately, but I

1014
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,840
Speaker 3: will say I think we've taken it too far, ladies.

1015
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 1: I think we have taken shit a little too far. Now.

1016
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 1: I get it. We don't like men. We hate them.

1017
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:32,320
Speaker 1: They're annoying, they're this and there. But it's getting a

1018
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 1: little too far. I actually saw TikTok the other day

1019
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 1: of a woman who says she's in that relationship with

1020
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 1: her boyfriend. He's always at her home that she bought

1021
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: so much to. She's like, you know what, you can

1022
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 1: move in with me, right cool, But she goes as

1023
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: far as saying he don't. He doesn't have to put

1024
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: it on the mortgage. This is my house that I bought.

1025
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 1: I'm the bread winner right now, and you don't have

1026
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 1: to because this is my mortgage. So I know that

1027
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: we're gonna be together for so the money that you're

1028
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 1: saving is gonna be for us the baby. Let me

1029
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: say something when that man leave, and I'm not wishing

1030
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 1: that on her, But if he if he leaves and

1031
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,799
Speaker 1: y'all break up, you ain't seeing none of that. Yeah,

1032
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 1: he's just gonna take him and that hefty savings that

1033
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 1: he saved up and he's gonna be on his way. Yeah.

1034
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 1: So I do think though, if you and a person

1035
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: move in together because a lot of people were like, Oh,

1036
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 1: I don't want anybody living and this is my y'all

1037
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 1: need to be barementum splitting the bills. Now, if a

1038
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: man wants to take care of all of that, that's fine,

1039
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 1: But I do not believe a woman should be paying

1040
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 1: one hundred percent of the bills with a man in

1041
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: the house. That's crazy to me.

1042
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:39,919
Speaker 3: I just think as a one man moving a man

1043
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 3: into your house and not having him pay for even

1044
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 3: that's crazy. Like if me and a man are gonna

1045
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 3: live together and I just bought a home, that's cool.

1046
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 3: We can still live together, but we need to find

1047
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,320
Speaker 3: something that we're gonna live in together.

1048
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: And I'm going to rent out my house right right.

1049
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 3: You not moving in my house and not paying nothing

1050
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 3: on the mortgage, and then that's crazy.

1051
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 1: And then you see I've seen. I had a friend

1052
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 1: from high school was telling me that her and her

1053
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:10,439
Speaker 1: boyfriend were together for like eight something years. He moved

1054
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: in the house that she had bought, and when they

1055
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: broke up, he was trying to fight her for the house,

1056
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 1: for her house and her name. I am sick of

1057
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 1: this generation.

1058
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,399
Speaker 4: Who is gonna be the niggas we are?

1059
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 1: Who are exact.

1060
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 4: Clearly, it's clearly who are gonna.

1061
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 1: Be was trying to fight her for that house, yes,

1062
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: cause he was like, oh, I've been paying his niggas

1063
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 1: is sad. I've been paying. But it's like, okay, but

1064
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: you you were gonna be paying rent anyway to a

1065
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: place that wasn't yours. So now you feel like, if

1066
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: I move out of an apartment, I can't say, well,

1067
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: I've been paying rent for two years, this is mine.

1068
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 1: It don't work like that. But anyways, but I do

1069
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,360
Speaker 1: feel like living with a partner, especially nowadays, Like if

1070
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 1: y'all have a healthy relationship, there's nothing wrong with living

1071
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: with a man. I think that being comfortable around your

1072
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 1: house and not looking pretty all the time. If you

1073
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: don't feel comfortable having no makeup, hair and a bun

1074
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 1: in front of your man, that's that's another red that

1075
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:01,919
Speaker 1: is like, that's another thing.

1076
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 3: How do you plan to be married to somebody eventually

1077
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 3: or be living with somebody for the rest of your

1078
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 3: life and they never see you without weaving make it?

1079
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's insane. Now, I will say for the women

1080
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:15,399
Speaker 1: that are choosing not to live with men because they

1081
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:19,879
Speaker 1: enjoy their personal space, and that works for them. I

1082
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: think that makes sense, but if you're doing it for

1083
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:25,280
Speaker 1: reasons like oh, I can't far, I can't talk to myself,

1084
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 1: I can't but a lot of times now what's her name,

1085
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:32,800
Speaker 1: Shiry Lee Ralph both her husband don't live again Bye Coastal,

1086
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 1: never have and that works for them, But I think

1087
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:38,720
Speaker 1: they're reasoning behind it. It works and it makes sense,

1088
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 1: but little story reason because like they just like their

1089
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: personal space. And she's like, I enjoy to I like

1090
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: missing him, Like when we get together, I still feel

1091
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: like that spark because we're not up under each other

1092
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 1: twenty four to seven. So it's like and I've seen

1093
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 1: couples who actually live together, but they don't sleep in

1094
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,800
Speaker 1: the same room. Yeah, I've seen stuff like that before.

1095
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 1: So I do think whenever I do decide to live

1096
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 1: with a man, I know I'm gonna have to have

1097
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: a huge house. I've lived with a boyfriend before, Yeah,

1098
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 1: in a tiny apartment and we worked together.

1099
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, an apartment is different from from like you said,

1100
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 3: like a sizable a nice size home.

1101
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 1: You need a big home.

1102
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 3: You Definitely I feel the same way. I'm gonna need

1103
00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 3: a big home. Yes, I'm gonna need a big home

1104
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 3: for me and my husband. We need to have separate

1105
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 3: quarters that we can go to at time.

1106
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 1: Now.

1107
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 3: I do want us to sleep in the same bed,

1108
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 3: yeah I do. But during the day sometimes I'm gonna

1109
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 3: eat my faith, yes, and you gonna need yours and

1110
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 3: it's okay. But some of these reasons is it's crazy.

1111
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 3: Maybe I'm unhinged a little bit because I don't give

1112
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 3: it them. I will talk to myself in front of

1113
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 3: that nigga.

1114
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: Too, Yeah, I always talk to myself. The fuck I

1115
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 1: don't get Yeah, I think some of the reasons that

1116
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 1: the girlies were given was kind of like.

1117
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:50,800
Speaker 3: And then as far as cleanly needs, I'm not gonna

1118
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:54,760
Speaker 3: lie like I've been blessed. I've never dated no dirty nigga.

1119
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,879
Speaker 3: I've never dated nobody who was just who was dirty. Now,

1120
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 3: I do think me do certain things that us as

1121
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 3: women we don't like, and it's a little inconsidery. Like

1122
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:12,240
Speaker 3: I've definitely had a boyfriend who would leave the toilet

1123
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:14,439
Speaker 3: seed up. I hate that and I hate that ship

1124
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 3: because especially if you gotta go pee in the wee

1125
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 3: hours of the morning and the light is off and

1126
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 3: you don't know, and then you end up seating on

1127
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 3: that the crown, yes, instead of seating on the toilet.

1128
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 1: Then your booty get a litle wet because it's gonna fall.

1129
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:27,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1130
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 3: Yes, So it's like, you know, stuff like that, or

1131
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 3: like men, some men will like pee and not raise

1132
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 3: the toilet seed up and then the pe all the

1133
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 3: toilet seeds and then they don't wipe eat like it

1134
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 3: be little stuff like that. And I even I hate

1135
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 3: when people just leave the toilet open period. Yeah, after

1136
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 3: I go to the bathroom, I close the entire thing

1137
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:48,320
Speaker 3: like it needs.

1138
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 1: To be closed. Or you know what.

1139
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:52,359
Speaker 3: Another pet peeve of mine is when people don't rench

1140
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:55,360
Speaker 3: the sink after they burst their team, yes, and beating

1141
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 3: the sink and.

1142
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:59,360
Speaker 1: Then it dry up. I don't like.

1143
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:02,920
Speaker 3: But those are things that I feel like though, and

1144
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 3: I'm just speaking on personal experience, like issues that I've

1145
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 3: had with like people that I've dated, yes or whatever.

1146
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 3: But I feel like those are things that you could

1147
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 3: work through. That's not like being dirty. Yeah, that's just

1148
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 3: more so Okay, babe, let me let you know that

1149
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 3: you do these and I don't like it, and maybe

1150
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 3: you could fix it and work on me. As far

1151
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 3: as just being dirty, unorganized. If you got a man

1152
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 3: like they, I just feel like he ain't doing especially

1153
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 3: if you organized, then you clean and he just stealthy.

1154
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:32,800
Speaker 1: That's literally a reason to break us. Missalignment. That's a

1155
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,280
Speaker 1: big missalignment because I can tell you, like I've lived

1156
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 1: with people, friends, boyfriends and things like that. Yeah, and

1157
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 1: cleanliness for me is one hundred percent of deal breaker

1158
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 1: because I was at a point in my life at

1159
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: one time I was a little ocd about cleaning. I'm

1160
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 1: a little better. I'm a lot better with it now

1161
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 1: because I literally used to be the type of person

1162
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: like I Sometimes I would get into it with people

1163
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 1: about them not cleaning up, but it was just me

1164
00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 1: being extremely anal. So I'm not that bad with anymore.

1165
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 1: But I cannot have somebody who's like, feelthy because it's

1166
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 1: it's a deal breaker. It ruins my peace. I literally

1167
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 1: feel unsettled as fuck. Just knowing that I clean the

1168
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,840
Speaker 1: whole kitchen and you coming in there and cooking and

1169
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:15,839
Speaker 1: you not even cleaning up at that is the most

1170
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: aggravating thing in the entire world. So I feel like

1171
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: stuff like that is bounced to be like, Okay, either

1172
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 1: we're not gonna be together or we're not gonna live together.

1173
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:27,280
Speaker 1: But I think for the most part we have lost

1174
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 1: the plot so much with love and marriage and happy y'all.

1175
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 1: Don't want to live with y'all people. That's crazy to me.

1176
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:34,799
Speaker 1: You don't want to live with y'all.

1177
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 3: Like my man arm Oh my god, I love it.

1178
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 3: He has the best Yoda in the world. Give me

1179
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:45,280
Speaker 3: that pit, right, that's what I'm saying. I can't relate.

1180
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:48,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it not relates. I want to be a bit

1181
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: of money. But I do think, like I said, Yeah,

1182
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 1: me and my man ever decide to, you know, get

1183
00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:58,800
Speaker 1: engaged and you know, get a home together, it's definitely

1184
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 1: gonna have to be big. Like I'm probably gonna need

1185
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: a wing. Yeah, yeah, a wing. That's a wi Yeah

1186
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 1: I need a wing. Is will he needs a wing.

1187
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:09,320
Speaker 1: I need a wing. And then in the middle we

1188
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 1: can congregate guest house in the back for when people

1189
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: visit things like that, because I do like when people

1190
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 1: visit too. Like cause even my house now, the way

1191
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:18,800
Speaker 1: where it's set up, I had a friend staying with

1192
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 1: me for a while. Sometimes I'm and my house is big,

1193
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 1: but it's not like a mansion at all. But I

1194
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,359
Speaker 1: have a whole basement and it's like an apartment down there.

1195
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 1: It's got a full bathroom, a bedroom, a living room,

1196
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:31,720
Speaker 1: and a dry bar. So it would be like sometimes

1197
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even see her for about three four days

1198
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:35,879
Speaker 1: for real because I would be on the third floor.

1199
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 1: So I think situations like that it makes it a

1200
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: lot easier versus being in a small apartment for real.

1201
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:45,839
Speaker 1: So I don't know, I disagree. I would definitely live

1202
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,479
Speaker 1: with my man again, but we need a wealth wing.

1203
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 1: A wealth wing we do because last time I live

1204
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:53,719
Speaker 1: with my man, it was in a two bedroom apartment child,

1205
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 1: and it was just a mess. We was young though

1206
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 1: I was working at tg Off Friday, Oh child, the

1207
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:04,320
Speaker 1: good old mm, when life was easy.

1208
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 3: Okay, now it's time to get into topic number two,

1209
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:10,879
Speaker 3: Sophotypic number two.

1210
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about like being beauty conscie. Have we

1211
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: become so obsessed with the looks that we have begun

1212
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 1: to hate natural beauty? Yeah hmm, what are your thoughts

1213
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 1: with your take? So my hot take on this is,

1214
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 1: I think sometimes as individuals we have to step back

1215
00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: and say this is a lot right, And this is

1216
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 1: coming from I love the glam Okay, I love the makeup,

1217
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:43,520
Speaker 1: I love the hair. I love to get dawned up.

1218
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 1: But I do remember a time in my twenties where

1219
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 1: it used to take me about an hour and hour

1220
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 1: and a half to do my makeup because I used to,

1221
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:53,920
Speaker 1: you know, bartend, I'm going to work, like we had

1222
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 1: to be dolled up, and we get to the points

1223
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 1: where I would like take my makeup off and be like,

1224
00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: oh lord, I can never go outside without makeup on.

1225
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 1: Like I started to feel that way about myself because

1226
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: I was constantly putting on so much makeup and I

1227
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 1: looked so different with my makeup on versus with it off.

1228
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: So I think that now being I'll be thirty seven

1229
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 1: this year and like growing into like I had a

1230
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 1: moment where I just woke up and I was like, hey, girl,

1231
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: this is your body and this is your face, and

1232
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 1: you need to love yourself because you can't change it,

1233
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I did get to

1234
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: a point to where I scaled back a little bit

1235
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 1: because I got to the point to where I had

1236
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 1: to have my lashes done, you know what I'm saying,

1237
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:38,200
Speaker 1: Like I had to have everything has to be done,

1238
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 1: and everything I had to have my hair down my

1239
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:41,920
Speaker 1: back and all this stuff, and it was just like

1240
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:44,560
Speaker 1: why though, you know, it was like, what is it

1241
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 1: about me? I'm trying to keep up with people online

1242
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 1: how social media makes me feel, and I'll say, I'm

1243
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. The best thing that happened for my

1244
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:54,800
Speaker 1: confidence too is these cameras. I don't care how many

1245
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:58,959
Speaker 1: filters I put on on the goddamn Instagram and TikTok baby,

1246
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 1: that's real. Cameras ain't gonna like HD so you don't

1247
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 1: see what the fuck going on close and personal. Yeah,

1248
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:10,920
Speaker 1: And so I think even with the makeup looks now

1249
00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:14,080
Speaker 1: And I'm not shading people because different people have different

1250
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 1: reasons for why they wear makeup and things. But I

1251
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:19,280
Speaker 1: think we have to definitely get back to And I

1252
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 1: know people gonna be like, oh, next, you say that

1253
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: after sixteen surgeries, But I'm like, I know. That's why

1254
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying that is because I don't regret my surgeries

1255
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 1: because body tea. But I do think probably if I

1256
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 1: would have looked at myself a little different versus looking

1257
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 1: at other things, maybe I would have made a different decision.

1258
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 1: Maybe not. You know what I'm saying, I don't know.

1259
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:42,240
Speaker 1: I can't say, but I will say I wouldn't have.

1260
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 1: But I will say the natural beauty, even with the

1261
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 1: natural makeup, looks like just don't wear makeup. This, don't

1262
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 1: wear makeup. It's okay. Now. Sometimes I do a natural beat,

1263
00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 1: you know, like today I have on lashes and lip gloss.

1264
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: That's what I kept it as, very simple. But I

1265
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 1: think that we need to learn to just like, hey,

1266
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 1: this is my face, Let's make it work. Let's make

1267
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 1: it work. It's a lot. It is a lot when

1268
01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 1: I look at the girls and they be so young,

1269
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 1: and it's just like I hate that for them because

1270
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 1: I didn't really start beating my face till I got

1271
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:20,280
Speaker 1: to the city. Like I used to do my makeup

1272
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 1: in high school. But the girls are like sixteen getting

1273
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 1: lace fronts, getting the makeup done and doing it, and

1274
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 1: I just be like, oh my gosh, it's about I

1275
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 1: hope that you don't go down the road that I

1276
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 1: went down. You know what I'm saying, Yeah, how you feel.

1277
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 3: I mean, I definitely think you need to be confident

1278
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 3: in what you look like without all of the extra

1279
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 3: because it is what you look like. Yeah, at the

1280
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 3: end of the day, when you go home and it's

1281
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 3: just you in the mirror. This is what you look like,

1282
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 3: and you have to be okay with yourself because I

1283
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 3: think that that's how people end up like distorting themselves

1284
01:00:54,960 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 3: and making themselves start to look disfigured because you become obset.

1285
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 3: It's with trying to look perfect or trying to emulate

1286
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 3: what you see other people looking like online. And then

1287
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 3: it's a thing called like feeler blindness. Oh my gosh,

1288
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 3: it's very real in general, not necessarily even feeler, but

1289
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 3: just getting work done your face to your body to

1290
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 3: a point that like you don't even really see in

1291
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 3: the mirror what everybody else to see in and like

1292
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:24,320
Speaker 3: you've taken it over.

1293
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 4: I think being confident in yourself is key.

1294
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:32,080
Speaker 3: Nobody is perfect, right and if it's things about yourself

1295
01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 3: that you don't like, hey, I am an advocate.

1296
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:36,479
Speaker 1: For changing things and working on things.

1297
01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 3: But it gets to a point and I think people

1298
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 3: take it overboard, because I truly believe people don't really

1299
01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:48,040
Speaker 3: be thinking anything be wrong with them until other people's

1300
01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 3: heals That's a fact. A lot of the time, A

1301
01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:53,160
Speaker 3: lot of the things that people want to change about

1302
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 3: themselves physically, it didn't become something that you wanted to

1303
01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:58,360
Speaker 3: change about yourself until other people.

1304
01:01:58,240 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 1: Kept bringing it to your ashing.

1305
01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:02,920
Speaker 3: I think a lot of the time, naturally us as people,

1306
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 3: we be thinking we look good, and we be pretty

1307
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 3: confident in ourselves until other people start knit picking at

1308
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 3: your looks.

1309
01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 1: It was this girl I had seen on TikTok.

1310
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 3: They have a surgery now, and I don't know if

1311
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 3: it's a new surgery or what, but they have it

1312
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,400
Speaker 3: to where you can lower your hairline.

1313
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:25,400
Speaker 4: But not the but not the implant, like not to

1314
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:26,480
Speaker 4: where you like implants.

1315
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 3: They actually cut it and then so it sew your

1316
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 3: hairlines closer to your forehead and it makes your fore

1317
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 3: head smaller. And this girl had got it done and

1318
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 3: she was just saying how she was happy with her decision.

1319
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 3: It was something she had been wanting to do. And

1320
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 3: it was a few people in the comments and they

1321
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 3: was just like, what was the reason why you wanted

1322
01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:47,520
Speaker 3: to do these? So whatever, I feel like you probably

1323
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:49,800
Speaker 3: only wanted to do this because people started telling you.

1324
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:50,919
Speaker 1: You had a big four head.

1325
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 3: And I really do feel like that's how we go

1326
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 3: when people become obsessed to the point that they want

1327
01:02:55,640 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 3: to change so many things about themselves. It's little things

1328
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 3: that people be pointing out. That's a have to be kind.

1329
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 3: I was just about to say that you have to

1330
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 3: be kind to people. I would imagine that's hard though, hearing.

1331
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:08,920
Speaker 1: That, like you got to like ass fore head, you

1332
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:10,959
Speaker 1: got a big ass forehead and they just making jokes

1333
01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 1: on you constantly all the time. That would mess up

1334
01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:16,479
Speaker 1: anybody's confidence or make anybody you know what I'm saying. Yeah,

1335
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 1: like to hear something. I mean, you see people a

1336
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:20,640
Speaker 1: lot of times that get their ears pinned back or

1337
01:03:20,680 --> 01:03:23,640
Speaker 1: something like that. So I just think it's like there's

1338
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:26,480
Speaker 1: only so much confidence a person can have at the

1339
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 1: same time, too, when it's like everybody is picking on

1340
01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 1: them constantly about something as well. So I just think

1341
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 1: it's like a double edged sword. It's like, you know,

1342
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: people will praise you for being natural, and then people

1343
01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 1: will still talk about you. Then you get your body

1344
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:42,320
Speaker 1: done or you get things done, and you know, you

1345
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:46,520
Speaker 1: look better and you're more appealing to society, but people like, oh, well,

1346
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:48,120
Speaker 1: why did you go get that done? You know what

1347
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 1: I mean, It's like it's no winning. I agree.

1348
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 3: I like I said, I just think you have to

1349
01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:57,000
Speaker 3: be confident who are without all of the extras. As

1350
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 3: much as I love makeup, as much as I love

1351
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 3: of hair and quick weaves and braids and all of

1352
01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 3: those things, I'm also okay with how I look without em.

1353
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 3: And I've always been a person who I will wear

1354
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 3: my natural hair. Sometimes I will go bear faced. I mean,

1355
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:16,200
Speaker 3: we lately we really haven't been wearing makeup on it.

1356
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 3: So I do have a little makeup on today, but

1357
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 3: it's honestly the first time that I don't wear makeup

1358
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:24,120
Speaker 3: in like a month and a half. Yeah, we had to, yeah,

1359
01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 3: I mean, we didn't have a choice because we got

1360
01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:28,960
Speaker 3: our chemical pews. But even outside of that, though, you

1361
01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:32,200
Speaker 3: and I go do things all the time without makeup on,

1362
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 3: and I just think you have to be okay with

1363
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 3: the way you look. And I don't know who started

1364
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 3: telling y'all it's something wrong with the way y'all look.

1365
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:43,280
Speaker 3: But y'all don't look bad, right, y'all don't.

1366
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,680
Speaker 1: But like I said, I think it's just social media

1367
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:48,280
Speaker 1: seeing other girls and what they look like. It's hard, though,

1368
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:53,440
Speaker 1: because the beauty standard is insane right now.

1369
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 3: But I also think all of the people that everybody

1370
01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:59,280
Speaker 3: look up to, you see them without makeup and without

1371
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 3: hair all the time. Like you see what Cardi B

1372
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 3: look like without making up and without weave. You see

1373
01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:06,440
Speaker 3: what Beyonce looks like without makeup and weave. They actually

1374
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 3: get online and show themselves. Rihanna, we see what she

1375
01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 3: looks like, bear face, noah, even her head. Kim Kardashian

1376
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 3: is another person people look up to, which, okay, people

1377
01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:16,720
Speaker 3: can say, oh, she's.

1378
01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 4: Gotten work done.

1379
01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 1: I mean most celeberties have gotten working.

1380
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, she gets online,

1381
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 3: bear faced, with out the glen so feeling like you

1382
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:27,720
Speaker 3: gotta be made up twenty four to seven.

1383
01:05:27,760 --> 01:05:30,840
Speaker 4: It's just unrealistic even for those people.

1384
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. And I also, but I

1385
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:36,439
Speaker 1: don't like the girls who are natural and they try

1386
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:39,800
Speaker 1: to like weaponize it and be like, oh, well, I'm

1387
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:43,640
Speaker 1: so glad I don't do that anymore, because, like I said, now,

1388
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm all for the natural girl is, but they be

1389
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:48,560
Speaker 1: throwing a lot of shade too. They definitely be like,

1390
01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 1: oh well, I don't. I had to let that go.

1391
01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 1: I don't wear weave, I don't wear lashes, I don't

1392
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 1: wear makeup. Like that's just too much. I don't see

1393
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 1: how I did that, well, guess what be shady? You

1394
01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 1: need it? I know I do agree. Now, there are

1395
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 1: certain occasions you do need to put a little lip on.

1396
01:06:05,640 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 1: You need to put a little liner on. I hate,

1397
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:13,360
Speaker 1: I hate if you have a ball gown on, why

1398
01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:16,680
Speaker 1: you gotta make up on? Now, the one person that

1399
01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 1: does out the lip it does work. Now, I will say,

1400
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: there's one lady who does this, Pam Anderson, and she

1401
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:24,280
Speaker 1: does it really well. But I think it's because she's older,

1402
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:26,480
Speaker 1: because you know, she doesn't wear makeup at all anymore.

1403
01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 1: She like, stop wearing. Alicia Keys don't need yes, And

1404
01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 1: I think it works for that and Alicia Keys, I

1405
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 1: think she started to promote her skincare line things like that,

1406
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 1: but I think it. You know, it works, you know

1407
01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:38,800
Speaker 1: for that age group and stuff like that. Like Alicia

1408
01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 1: Keys is not old. But what I'm saying is like,

1409
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:43,080
Speaker 1: you know, she's in her forty so it makes sense.

1410
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 1: But it's like for the young girls, if you're going outside,

1411
01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:47,840
Speaker 1: put a little one soon, put a little lip liner.

1412
01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 1: I ain't saying you gotta do a full beat, but

1413
01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 1: you can put a little mask gar on, at least

1414
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:54,800
Speaker 1: a little massk gar Himla Anderson definitely needs to put

1415
01:06:54,840 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 1: on something cup you think so for sure you saw

1416
01:06:58,440 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 1: a picture of her at the Golden Globes, thought she

1417
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 1: looked cute, scrolling, but you know that they ate a

1418
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:10,360
Speaker 1: little differently. Now, maybe the picture I saw was a

1419
01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 1: little I thought it was. Was it a giddy image?

1420
01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 1: No it wasn't. Oh we gotta check the giddy. We

1421
01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:24,040
Speaker 1: gotta check the giddy. Okay, well, yeah, like I don't know.

1422
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:27,720
Speaker 3: I definitely think some occasions call for but you also

1423
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:30,080
Speaker 3: need to be okay without these.

1424
01:07:30,440 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 1: But then it's always the men and the women who

1425
01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 1: do be online trying to be like, oh, I don't

1426
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:37,960
Speaker 1: wear that. I don't I'm not trying to be maybe

1427
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 1: I am beating little mean oh will? I just feel

1428
01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 1: like the main people who be like, I don't wear that,

1429
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:46,400
Speaker 1: I don't need that. You do you do?

1430
01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:52,000
Speaker 3: I don't know who told you that, But usually more

1431
01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 3: often than not, when I see somebody saying that, I

1432
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:58,439
Speaker 3: always be thinking, will, actually you could use a little

1433
01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:03,480
Speaker 3: one too, And I always hate because they're healthy the

1434
01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:05,520
Speaker 3: oh my gosh.

1435
01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 1: Now the girls that be like the care so basically yes,

1436
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:13,640
Speaker 1: when they care about the inch how long their hair is.

1437
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:16,720
Speaker 1: But it's like it be to yo, but it's thing,

1438
01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: but it'd be like three strings in the it's given

1439
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:25,519
Speaker 1: Tommy pickles at the top. Let it go, et the

1440
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:28,240
Speaker 1: fuck up, come on now. And I hate it when

1441
01:08:28,280 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 1: the men be like, yeah, I like my woman with

1442
01:08:30,640 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 1: no we and I like men who mind their business.

1443
01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:36,000
Speaker 1: If I want to get dressed, head off and they

1444
01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:38,080
Speaker 1: ain't gonna do that. And they're not gonna do that

1445
01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:40,439
Speaker 1: because a lot of that ship under that hadn't. Not

1446
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:44,000
Speaker 1: everybody can have them ball nothing there and not everybody

1447
01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:46,280
Speaker 1: can pull it off that ball head. Now, I don't

1448
01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 1: like ball head men. Oh I'm telling Charlemagne, I'm gonna

1449
01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:52,560
Speaker 1: clip this to send it to him today, Charlemagne. But

1450
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:54,760
Speaker 1: I'm just sitting Mary Well. I didn't say it like that,

1451
01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:56,800
Speaker 1: but I think you know. I don't mean I don't

1452
01:08:56,960 --> 01:08:57,240
Speaker 1: like them.

1453
01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:59,680
Speaker 3: It's people i'm talking about for me today, oh for you,

1454
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 3: And that's what I'm saying. I'm not about to day

1455
01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 3: Charlott Mayne shout out to Uncle Betty. But no they

1456
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 3: not because they don't be attractive. They they give me

1457
01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 3: uncle vibs. I grew up having four bald uncles, four

1458
01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 3: dark skins. I don't think none of my uncles, my uncle,

1459
01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 3: all four of my uncles. Shout out to them. One

1460
01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:23,479
Speaker 3: of them died r but I still have my mama,

1461
01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 3: still have three realthers that's alive. All four of my

1462
01:09:26,320 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 3: uncles was dark skin and Baldhidi my whole life.

1463
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:31,639
Speaker 1: That's my type Jesus.

1464
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:44,920
Speaker 4: But but yes, girl, they was all bald and dark skin.

1465
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: So like I just have the associated with yes, he

1466
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:51,160
Speaker 1: just give me uncle vibes like it'd be giving big

1467
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:55,160
Speaker 1: un and like probably the only it's one man that's

1468
01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:58,840
Speaker 1: bald that's older. Did I be like, Okay, he's still fine?

1469
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 1: More is still Yeah, I think Jesus attractive. Oh, Jesz

1470
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:06,599
Speaker 1: is fine. So Jesus fine, Jesz is fine.

1471
01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:11,599
Speaker 3: But and Jesz been bald along, I ain't never never

1472
01:10:11,720 --> 01:10:15,200
Speaker 3: heard mine. He never seen Z with her shout out

1473
01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 3: to j Z. But yeah, I mean it does work.

1474
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:22,560
Speaker 1: It works for some people, but it's definitely a hard transition.

1475
01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:25,240
Speaker 1: Let it go. But you know what I really don't like.

1476
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:28,760
Speaker 3: I don't like when they like when men be going

1477
01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:31,479
Speaker 3: bald and then Neil, could it real real low to

1478
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 3: wear the hair, real real short.

1479
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:38,000
Speaker 1: Anything like they cut it all off. See all of

1480
01:10:38,160 --> 01:10:40,759
Speaker 1: my not all. Most of my uncles had the could

1481
01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 1: the sack. They wouldn't. Yeah, I think I appreciate ball

1482
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:48,240
Speaker 1: because just do it if it's at all Yeah, y'all

1483
01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:52,160
Speaker 1: trying to hold on Jefferson. Yeah, the roof and it

1484
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 1: was the afro something permit it, Uncle Terry. Yes, and

1485
01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:00,600
Speaker 1: he had it balled at the time. Yep. Cold the

1486
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:03,679
Speaker 1: sadd We were like crazy. It was wavy and long.

1487
01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 1: He crampy. It was just the natural. I guess that

1488
01:11:06,640 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 1: was how his perm took. Yeah. Oh so it was

1489
01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:13,479
Speaker 1: like a washing go yeah, wash it just the back though, yep,

1490
01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:14,760
Speaker 1: that's all he had to do in the back.

1491
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:16,479
Speaker 4: And he had it like that in the bank. But

1492
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 4: he would pull up with the sometimes.

1493
01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:19,719
Speaker 1: He would do a little pony like pull it together.

1494
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:23,600
Speaker 1: Oh that was when he put a suit on. That

1495
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:27,920
Speaker 1: was like a nice man that I like. The versatility.

1496
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:30,919
Speaker 1: He wouldn't have a ponytail on the back of low ponytail.

1497
01:11:30,920 --> 01:11:32,519
Speaker 1: But he would always wear a hat. And we thought

1498
01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:34,960
Speaker 1: that he had a full head of hair, y'all. It

1499
01:11:35,160 --> 01:11:39,400
Speaker 1: was nothing under that hat. I was discussed. I said,

1500
01:11:39,439 --> 01:11:43,360
Speaker 1: oh my god, you got some motherfucking nerves. He was

1501
01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:45,080
Speaker 1: wanted to maragure that he used to always be telling

1502
01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:47,160
Speaker 1: girls how to dress and do this and oh the

1503
01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 1: dancers and this, and that you don't got no hair?

1504
01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:51,720
Speaker 1: How did you? How did y'all find out? Because we

1505
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:53,760
Speaker 1: see like, I don't know. It was like maybe he

1506
01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:55,640
Speaker 1: switched it up one day and it was like a

1507
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:57,920
Speaker 1: hat that was kind of lifted in the back and

1508
01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:00,800
Speaker 1: it didn't cover that ponytail like it used too. I said,

1509
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:01,840
Speaker 1: it ain't nothing under there.

1510
01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:06,760
Speaker 3: Men, Drewski had Drewski had a ski that he came

1511
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 3: out with like maybe a few oh yeah, it was

1512
01:12:10,439 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 3: like about the ball, dude. And then it was like

1513
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:15,479
Speaker 3: when he pulled up to the club and the niggas

1514
01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:17,320
Speaker 3: be ready to turn around when you gotta take your

1515
01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:19,000
Speaker 3: head go home?

1516
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:19,479
Speaker 1: They do.

1517
01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:22,479
Speaker 4: They don't want to take their hat off. Red flag

1518
01:12:23,680 --> 01:12:24,160
Speaker 4: if you don't.

1519
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:26,680
Speaker 1: If he decides that he gonna end the night all

1520
01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:29,400
Speaker 1: because they want him to take his hat off, he

1521
01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 1: ain't pretty under the Yeah, that's crazy. But men, I

1522
01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 1: think they they definitely be insecure about their hairline. I

1523
01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:38,880
Speaker 1: think the equivalent of like how women are about our

1524
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:41,639
Speaker 1: bodies and are like our butts is men in their

1525
01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 1: fucking hairlines. Bro, They do not. They are so sensitive

1526
01:12:44,960 --> 01:12:48,320
Speaker 1: about it. I hate the tattooed hairlines. How you looking

1527
01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 1: at at the two pays. I don't mind the two

1528
01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:53,040
Speaker 1: pays though, because they look good. They do look good.

1529
01:12:53,320 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 1: I will say, I don't mind the two pay. If

1530
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:57,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna do it, if you don't feel comfortable being bald,

1531
01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:00,800
Speaker 1: you need to go to somebody who does something like that.

1532
01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 1: And it looks na get your lace, lad. I'm not

1533
01:13:04,920 --> 01:13:10,160
Speaker 1: mad at that. I'm not mad at that. That's what

1534
01:13:10,280 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 1: they be doing. It be lame. I believe they don't

1535
01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:17,519
Speaker 1: really have no lace song. No, it be laid. No,

1536
01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:20,519
Speaker 1: it don't be lace. It'd be that like I don't

1537
01:13:20,520 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 1: know how maybe.

1538
01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:23,360
Speaker 4: But don't I thought they install it how they install

1539
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:24,040
Speaker 4: lace front.

1540
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:26,880
Speaker 1: It's not installed. It's like this little rubber thing and

1541
01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:28,760
Speaker 1: they put the glue on it and they just lay

1542
01:13:28,840 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 1: it real flat, and then they dry it, and then

1543
01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:34,439
Speaker 1: they just cut it like it's regular hair. And it

1544
01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:37,680
Speaker 1: don't look like scalping and eat no, because you don't

1545
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:41,639
Speaker 1: see no scalp. So it's still a two pain. It's

1546
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,439
Speaker 1: litter lying it different. They're just applying it differently when

1547
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:46,519
Speaker 1: they're cut it like real hair. But it's not It

1548
01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:48,720
Speaker 1: was lame because you don't see because most of the

1549
01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 1: time when dudes get hair cuts, you don't see their scalp.

1550
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:53,960
Speaker 1: But they probably do got a lace. One feel like,

1551
01:13:54,040 --> 01:13:56,479
Speaker 1: you know, if you want a part of you know

1552
01:13:56,760 --> 01:13:57,280
Speaker 1: me and but.

1553
01:13:57,320 --> 01:13:59,320
Speaker 3: You know how me and be having their hairstyle where

1554
01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:00,960
Speaker 3: it'd be like the and they put it in a

1555
01:14:01,000 --> 01:14:03,040
Speaker 3: ponytail and you need to be a fade around.

1556
01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:05,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, they probably got lace for that. Those they do.

1557
01:14:05,920 --> 01:14:08,600
Speaker 1: And they have him on dreads too, like they have

1558
01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:11,200
Speaker 1: the dreads where you can those are actually lace stuff.

1559
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 1: Now with that, I'm not gonna lie. I don't want

1560
01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:20,280
Speaker 1: a man that has like a lace lace. No. It

1561
01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:23,040
Speaker 1: was like, ooh baby, y'all skop for a little dryn. Yeah,

1562
01:14:23,080 --> 01:14:25,240
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. I've seen a guy I was

1563
01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:27,800
Speaker 1: at my nephew's basketball game shout out to Carter. He

1564
01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:30,120
Speaker 1: didn't have a really good game the other day. But

1565
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 1: it looked like he had yarn in his hair. It

1566
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 1: looked like real yarn. I'm like, is that a hairstyle

1567
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:37,360
Speaker 1: maybe or something a culture thing that I don't know about.

1568
01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:39,160
Speaker 1: It was like it looked like it was supposed to

1569
01:14:39,200 --> 01:14:41,720
Speaker 1: be dreads, but it was straight up yarn. They used

1570
01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 1: to do that all the time. A color black. It was.

1571
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:48,360
Speaker 4: I've seen like color That's what I was about to say.

1572
01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:49,439
Speaker 4: I used to see that all the time.

1573
01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 1: No, it was a one, A jet black one. It was.

1574
01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:55,400
Speaker 1: It was a one one. Yeah, and it was yarn.

1575
01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 1: It was yarn, one thousand percent yarn. Was it like

1576
01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:03,920
Speaker 1: wrapped around or was it was just yarn? And it

1577
01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:09,840
Speaker 1: was thick. It was thick. It was a donkey probably. Yes,

1578
01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:14,960
Speaker 1: it was a well I'm not cutting I like, but

1579
01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:16,640
Speaker 1: it was. Yeah, it was a lot. It was a

1580
01:15:17,160 --> 01:15:18,560
Speaker 1: And I don't want to call it strange because, like

1581
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 1: I said, if it's a culture thing, I don't want

1582
01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 1: to figure out. Yeah, but yeah, it was an interesting thing.

1583
01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 1: It was definitely interesting. I just think men need to

1584
01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:29,800
Speaker 1: winn't let it go. Just everybody needs to let it go.

1585
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 1: It's okay, pull up to the scene with it's okay.

1586
01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:35,880
Speaker 4: Just cut it all off.

1587
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:37,719
Speaker 1: Cut it off.

1588
01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:41,760
Speaker 4: Like like I said, ball men are not my preference.

1589
01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:44,880
Speaker 3: But if my man was going ball, I'm not leaving.

1590
01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:47,080
Speaker 3: I'm not leaving my man because you're going ball. But

1591
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:48,680
Speaker 3: you're gonna have to cut that ship off.

1592
01:15:48,760 --> 01:15:50,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna either cut it, cut it off? Are

1593
01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:57,960
Speaker 1: we going to Turkey? Even gifted to you? But I'm

1594
01:15:58,000 --> 01:16:01,120
Speaker 1: not leaving my man. You're gonna be fucked up. That's

1595
01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:05,920
Speaker 1: why y'all got Turkish airways. I'm telling you. You think

1596
01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:09,639
Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave for a little hell? Good Man too

1597
01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:12,360
Speaker 1: hard to find. I'm telling you, I'm telling you.

1598
01:16:12,960 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 4: Now your side tooth, that's another topic.

1599
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:19,400
Speaker 1: We're gonna go to the dentist. Stuff like that can

1600
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:22,720
Speaker 1: be fixed. You gonna go to the dni. Yeah, if

1601
01:16:22,760 --> 01:16:25,280
Speaker 1: my man loses his side tooth, I'm gonna say, like

1602
01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:29,320
Speaker 1: this would never happen, but like if he couldn't afford it,

1603
01:16:29,479 --> 01:16:32,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get his I'm gonna buy that tooth. I'm

1604
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:33,519
Speaker 1: buying that tooth for my man.

1605
01:16:33,800 --> 01:16:36,479
Speaker 3: Why did you lose? How do you lose your side too?

1606
01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:41,280
Speaker 3: M hmm after we've already been dating. Are you not

1607
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:44,280
Speaker 3: brushing properly? What's going on?

1608
01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:48,360
Speaker 1: Crack? And that's really a reason to leave that crack?

1609
01:16:48,720 --> 01:16:50,479
Speaker 1: What if he's addicted to now I would leave you

1610
01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:52,680
Speaker 1: for the crag. I'm not. I'm gonna leave you for crack. No,

1611
01:16:52,840 --> 01:17:00,479
Speaker 1: you not. I might join in, but I believe it.

1612
01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:04,840
Speaker 1: I don't want no, pooky. Yeah, I started watching the wire.

1613
01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:11,800
Speaker 1: Oh he just died. Who got murdered? Damn the dude

1614
01:17:11,840 --> 01:17:15,840
Speaker 1: that wasn't waiting to exhale? Oh the state farm, the

1615
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:18,760
Speaker 1: state farm. No, no, no, from the wire. He was

1616
01:17:18,800 --> 01:17:23,400
Speaker 1: a police officer. Oh, yes, I can't remember his name.

1617
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:25,760
Speaker 1: I'm only on episode one. I can't remember his name.

1618
01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:31,240
Speaker 1: Oh he wasn't gonna used to go shoot him? Was

1619
01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:34,160
Speaker 1: that him? Hold on? We know somebody that used to

1620
01:17:34,200 --> 01:17:38,400
Speaker 1: say that. She yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's like, what's

1621
01:17:38,439 --> 01:17:42,240
Speaker 1: his name? Hold on? Oh, it's on the tip of

1622
01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:46,280
Speaker 1: my tongue too. If you pressed Windale Peers, Windale Piers.

1623
01:17:46,360 --> 01:17:48,880
Speaker 1: This died like last week. Yes, rest in peace of

1624
01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:52,640
Speaker 1: window to wind the man you daddy used to go

1625
01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:54,960
Speaker 1: shut he did? He used to say he used to

1626
01:17:55,000 --> 01:17:58,479
Speaker 1: say that every time I walked in the room. But

1627
01:17:58,600 --> 01:18:01,639
Speaker 1: it was like every time, like like who he walked

1628
01:18:01,760 --> 01:18:04,439
Speaker 1: by you? We would have been together for hours.

1629
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:09,800
Speaker 3: He would be like, shot, this is how you know

1630
01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:13,000
Speaker 3: I was fine and spoke to that nigga everything okay.

1631
01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:15,640
Speaker 1: He used to be in the club. I used to

1632
01:18:15,680 --> 01:18:17,439
Speaker 1: hear him over the music. Shot.

1633
01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 3: That's the type of admiration I need, though, If if

1634
01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 3: a nigga, ain't acting like that about me every time?

1635
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:32,640
Speaker 1: Every time I walked past that nigga, Yes, you need

1636
01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:35,280
Speaker 1: to act like it's the first time that is real.

1637
01:18:35,360 --> 01:18:38,880
Speaker 1: Where are the real lovers? That was so real? Yarn us?

1638
01:18:39,040 --> 01:18:43,360
Speaker 1: But he was just horny, Yeah I was. I don't know.

1639
01:18:43,840 --> 01:18:45,360
Speaker 1: I don't know if he was. I don't know if

1640
01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:46,160
Speaker 1: he was a yearner.

1641
01:18:46,280 --> 01:18:48,720
Speaker 3: He used to be horny, and it used to turn

1642
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:50,759
Speaker 3: me off to the point because remember I never even.

1643
01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:54,280
Speaker 1: Like being into me because they used to turn me off.

1644
01:18:54,360 --> 01:18:56,720
Speaker 4: I used to be like, you too, horny he was like,

1645
01:18:56,840 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 4: he was so handy.

1646
01:18:58,160 --> 01:19:03,280
Speaker 1: He was in his hands was clammy. Yes, I hate

1647
01:19:03,320 --> 01:19:07,240
Speaker 1: a clammy hand me too. Why ain't so well? It's gross.

1648
01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 1: It makes me feel like you just beat you on me.

1649
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:15,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why I always connect clammy hands with beating. Nay, really,

1650
01:19:15,160 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 1: it just felt like, why what did you just do

1651
01:19:17,240 --> 01:19:20,240
Speaker 1: to your hands? Why are they so wet? I don't know.

1652
01:19:20,400 --> 01:19:23,840
Speaker 3: That's a good question, and they probably do. They probably

1653
01:19:23,840 --> 01:19:25,679
Speaker 3: do be beating me to lot because it ain't real.

1654
01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:30,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't even need you've been working that cheft.

1655
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:35,719
Speaker 1: I don't like it. I don't like it. I don't

1656
01:19:35,840 --> 01:19:39,800
Speaker 1: like it. Oh my god, please, okay, let's move on.

1657
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:43,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I have to say Wendell Pierce did not die.

1658
01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we're taking that whole It was yeah,

1659
01:19:46,880 --> 01:19:52,320
Speaker 1: Isaiah with Junior. I'm so sorry, sorry Wendell. Oh my gosh,

1660
01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:57,280
Speaker 1: the count said he. But I think it did come

1661
01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,360
Speaker 1: up because I swear to god, I saw multiple posts

1662
01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:01,040
Speaker 1: about it. It did say when I typed it in

1663
01:20:01,400 --> 01:20:08,519
Speaker 1: he is alive and well, okay, but you said that's

1664
01:20:08,560 --> 01:20:11,200
Speaker 1: what I was thinking of. Yeah, that guy, Yes, he

1665
01:20:11,320 --> 01:20:13,560
Speaker 1: was the one to be like she my dad, she

1666
01:20:14,000 --> 01:20:16,919
Speaker 1: that's say. Okay, that's all right. But but you corrected

1667
01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:18,840
Speaker 1: it because it's in a comedy.

1668
01:20:18,960 --> 01:20:22,200
Speaker 4: I know not I ain't gonna see we corrected it though.

1669
01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:22,880
Speaker 1: It's okay.

1670
01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:26,800
Speaker 3: But more a little story is it's okay, ladies, to

1671
01:20:26,920 --> 01:20:29,880
Speaker 3: not be perfect, to not have a perfect appearance.

1672
01:20:30,920 --> 01:20:32,080
Speaker 1: Don't get caught up in.

1673
01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:34,200
Speaker 3: The hype of like, and I know, like you said,

1674
01:20:34,240 --> 01:20:36,360
Speaker 3: people will probably be like, oh well, y'all have surgery before,

1675
01:20:36,439 --> 01:20:39,320
Speaker 3: which we have. But don't get caught up in the

1676
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:41,840
Speaker 3: hype of changing so many things about yourself to where

1677
01:20:42,000 --> 01:20:44,920
Speaker 3: you start looking like, what's the word I'm looking for?

1678
01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:49,600
Speaker 3: Outdated unrecognizable and outdated because I feel like things be

1679
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:52,280
Speaker 3: trendy and then they don't be trendy, and now you

1680
01:20:52,400 --> 01:20:55,080
Speaker 3: stuck with their body or you stuck with their phase.

1681
01:20:55,240 --> 01:20:57,560
Speaker 1: But I will say too, I'm glad you said that.

1682
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 1: That's why whenever you do make the decision, if you do,

1683
01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:03,840
Speaker 1: don't do it because of a trend. You know what

1684
01:21:03,920 --> 01:21:06,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like, when I went and got my body done,

1685
01:21:06,439 --> 01:21:08,479
Speaker 1: I wasn't like, oh, I want a forty inch ass

1686
01:21:08,560 --> 01:21:10,280
Speaker 1: and a twenty inch waist because that's what was in

1687
01:21:10,439 --> 01:21:12,680
Speaker 1: at the time. When I got my body, I was like,

1688
01:21:13,080 --> 01:21:15,760
Speaker 1: I was like, no, I just want an hourglass because

1689
01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:17,720
Speaker 1: one thing about it hourglass is always gonna be like

1690
01:21:17,760 --> 01:21:20,320
Speaker 1: a nice cute I wanted people to look at me

1691
01:21:20,360 --> 01:21:22,639
Speaker 1: and be like, she has a nice body. I didn't

1692
01:21:22,680 --> 01:21:23,880
Speaker 1: want people to look at me and be like, oh

1693
01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:26,080
Speaker 1: my god, her ass is so fat and her waist

1694
01:21:26,240 --> 01:21:28,599
Speaker 1: is so small. I didn't want that. So I think

1695
01:21:29,120 --> 01:21:31,599
Speaker 1: you need to stop making decisions on your body off

1696
01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 1: of trends. One hundred percent. Yeah.

1697
01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:36,720
Speaker 3: And I said that because a lot, going back to

1698
01:21:36,800 --> 01:21:38,519
Speaker 3: what you just said, a lot of the things that

1699
01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:43,760
Speaker 3: was trendy looks wise, body wise, even like with cosmetic

1700
01:21:43,880 --> 01:21:46,840
Speaker 3: facial surgery and stuff years ago. That stuff is not

1701
01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:50,280
Speaker 3: trendy anymore, and people are going back to a more

1702
01:21:50,479 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 3: natural lug.

1703
01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:54,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're taking the things out, even the lashes and stuff.

1704
01:21:54,520 --> 01:21:55,920
Speaker 1: We was just talking about that the other day.

1705
01:21:56,320 --> 01:21:59,640
Speaker 3: How I used to wear such long, thick lashes a

1706
01:21:59,640 --> 01:22:01,720
Speaker 3: few years ago. I cannot believe I used to wear

1707
01:22:01,760 --> 01:22:04,960
Speaker 3: them last yees. I don't even wear lash extensions anymore.

1708
01:22:05,000 --> 01:22:05,200
Speaker 1: Really.

1709
01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:07,360
Speaker 3: If I do every once in a while, it'll be

1710
01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:10,920
Speaker 3: like the clusters and it's still like a natural looking lash.

1711
01:22:11,320 --> 01:22:14,439
Speaker 3: I just feel like natural lashes are just coming back

1712
01:22:14,479 --> 01:22:17,200
Speaker 3: in style. I just wear a little messcarer. That's what

1713
01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:19,080
Speaker 3: I got on shameless plug.

1714
01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:23,040
Speaker 1: I'm not you got that thigh? Why is it right there?

1715
01:22:23,240 --> 01:22:29,439
Speaker 1: Because I can't do for this reason, I was so weak.

1716
01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:38,280
Speaker 3: So yes, I do have a Music Beauty Collections Messcarra today.

1717
01:22:38,360 --> 01:22:43,479
Speaker 3: These are my real lashes and they do length, elongate volume.

1718
01:22:43,560 --> 01:22:46,520
Speaker 1: My all of the things separates.

1719
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:52,040
Speaker 3: Musbauty Collection www dot Musbauty Collection dot com. Get your

1720
01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:53,800
Speaker 3: meskar and it's super easy to take off too. I

1721
01:22:53,840 --> 01:22:55,559
Speaker 3: would consider it like two be meskul.

1722
01:22:55,640 --> 01:22:57,679
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, is it to be my skirl.

1723
01:22:58,160 --> 01:23:00,559
Speaker 1: I don't want a false advertise. Okay, that's all right,

1724
01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:03,320
Speaker 1: that's all right. What does that mean? You get it

1725
01:23:03,400 --> 01:23:05,680
Speaker 1: wet and you go like this and it just comes off,

1726
01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:09,040
Speaker 1: like in a tube off of your eye. Okay, Yeah,

1727
01:23:09,160 --> 01:23:10,160
Speaker 1: so it comes some of them, do.

1728
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:15,639
Speaker 3: A few of them, you know, But it's not hard

1729
01:23:15,760 --> 01:23:18,800
Speaker 3: to take off. It's really easy to wash off some

1730
01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:19,120
Speaker 3: of them.

1731
01:23:19,400 --> 01:23:20,760
Speaker 1: Some of them do come off. So I have to

1732
01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:26,040
Speaker 1: let y'all know if it's tube, mesk or Nott Conques. Yeah,

1733
01:23:26,200 --> 01:23:28,920
Speaker 1: but yes, can you have to be and waterproof at

1734
01:23:28,960 --> 01:23:30,960
Speaker 1: the same time, Like are those? Can it be the

1735
01:23:31,000 --> 01:23:32,920
Speaker 1: same thing? Man? Yeah? I think so.

1736
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:35,720
Speaker 3: I think you can have waterproof tube and messkared. But

1737
01:23:36,040 --> 01:23:38,679
Speaker 3: that sounds like I do not like you knows.

1738
01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:41,240
Speaker 1: I do not like waterproof. I don't either. It's so

1739
01:23:41,479 --> 01:23:43,720
Speaker 1: hard to come off. Yeah, I don't eat. It be

1740
01:23:43,800 --> 01:23:45,519
Speaker 1: a lot on my lashes. And I be feeling like

1741
01:23:45,760 --> 01:23:49,120
Speaker 1: I just be because I've been wearing I'm back wearing

1742
01:23:49,160 --> 01:23:52,240
Speaker 1: strips now I do strip and I don't know, I

1743
01:23:52,320 --> 01:23:55,280
Speaker 1: just feel like whenever I do wear the waterproof and

1744
01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:59,200
Speaker 1: because when I put my strips on, I put mask scared. Yeah,

1745
01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:02,880
Speaker 1: And I feel like whenever I have used the Waterproof,

1746
01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:05,160
Speaker 1: it's still just stay. I feel like it be on

1747
01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:07,479
Speaker 1: my lashes for days. It don't matter how much I

1748
01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:09,920
Speaker 1: wash it, put the oil makeup remover, It's still be

1749
01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 1: on their fris. I don't know what they put a

1750
01:24:11,400 --> 01:24:14,360
Speaker 1: water move press. I do not like it. I can't.

1751
01:24:14,439 --> 01:24:17,720
Speaker 1: I can't rock with it. But any bulletproof it do

1752
01:24:19,520 --> 01:24:22,920
Speaker 1: they should be more than waterproof 'SU cry all though,

1753
01:24:23,040 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 1: what you going on for real times? It's a lot.

1754
01:24:26,479 --> 01:24:29,160
Speaker 1: It'd be hard to get all hard to get off.

1755
01:24:30,439 --> 01:24:34,360
Speaker 1: But anyways, okay, so now it's time to get into

1756
01:24:34,760 --> 01:24:41,599
Speaker 1: the bowel a bow about bo bow bow. And y'all

1757
01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:44,920
Speaker 1: know the bad is always brought to you by Salt

1758
01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:46,839
Speaker 1: egg So it's so crazy because I got a message

1759
01:24:46,840 --> 01:24:48,679
Speaker 1: the other day and this girl was like, I finally

1760
01:24:48,760 --> 01:24:50,640
Speaker 1: ordered some Salt Eggs so because of you, and I

1761
01:24:50,840 --> 01:24:54,000
Speaker 1: absolutely love it. And I'm like, I really like when

1762
01:24:54,040 --> 01:24:58,040
Speaker 1: we are backed by products that like, we actually use

1763
01:24:58,320 --> 01:25:01,240
Speaker 1: and we actually really really love. Because this is I

1764
01:25:01,360 --> 01:25:03,360
Speaker 1: love salt x O like you put me onto it.

1765
01:25:03,600 --> 01:25:06,080
Speaker 1: Shout out to everybody that saw x O. Jalisa, love

1766
01:25:06,160 --> 01:25:09,160
Speaker 1: you down. But yeah, if y'all need some good, good

1767
01:25:09,840 --> 01:25:13,759
Speaker 1: wash for this area down here. Saw XO is always

1768
01:25:13,800 --> 01:25:16,599
Speaker 1: the way to go everything. Yes, y'all know, I love

1769
01:25:16,680 --> 01:25:19,080
Speaker 1: me some salt x so. And now they also have

1770
01:25:19,320 --> 01:25:23,439
Speaker 1: travel side so you can take your favorite salt x was.

1771
01:25:23,560 --> 01:25:26,200
Speaker 1: She's on the go even if you're not traveling.

1772
01:25:26,320 --> 01:25:28,960
Speaker 4: Even if you're not traveling, sometimes you might need your

1773
01:25:29,000 --> 01:25:29,680
Speaker 4: overnight bag.

1774
01:25:29,880 --> 01:25:32,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, y'all know that little whole bath, that

1775
01:25:32,080 --> 01:25:33,960
Speaker 1: little bird bath. You gotta wash that COUCHI in the.

1776
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:36,639
Speaker 4: St are your whole bag. Remember, we need a whole bag.

1777
01:25:36,880 --> 01:25:39,360
Speaker 1: Yes, we need to do a new one. We need

1778
01:25:39,400 --> 01:25:42,639
Speaker 1: to do a new whole bag with Yes, but yes,

1779
01:25:43,240 --> 01:25:45,560
Speaker 1: because I you know what, men, let me take you

1780
01:25:45,600 --> 01:25:46,960
Speaker 1: all a conversation that me and Havel And they be

1781
01:25:47,080 --> 01:25:49,160
Speaker 1: laughing at the girls that do this. They say, I

1782
01:25:49,280 --> 01:25:51,240
Speaker 1: know when a girl went into the bathroom and washed

1783
01:25:51,280 --> 01:25:52,800
Speaker 1: her koochie, because she come back in the room and

1784
01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:54,920
Speaker 1: it's time. The fuck? Why that coochie smell like doll?

1785
01:25:55,720 --> 01:25:57,960
Speaker 1: Why does it smell like my doll hand soap? Yeah?

1786
01:25:58,120 --> 01:26:00,760
Speaker 1: Why does that kouchie smell like the qcummmelon that I

1787
01:26:00,880 --> 01:26:03,760
Speaker 1: have sitting on my counter? They know when y'all go

1788
01:26:03,960 --> 01:26:06,640
Speaker 1: in that restroom and wipe that kouchi off. Keep that

1789
01:26:06,760 --> 01:26:07,519
Speaker 1: salt x so in.

1790
01:26:07,560 --> 01:26:11,479
Speaker 3: Your bag today is cucumber million tomorrow it would be bb.

1791
01:26:11,880 --> 01:26:15,000
Speaker 1: Yes, U exactly use sawt ex so you ain't got

1792
01:26:15,040 --> 01:26:16,920
Speaker 1: to worry about that digging in your person if you

1793
01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:18,800
Speaker 1: need to take a little hole back because sometimes you know,

1794
01:26:18,960 --> 01:26:21,880
Speaker 1: maybe that twerk win a little funky, lean it up.

1795
01:26:21,960 --> 01:26:25,160
Speaker 1: It's gonna be funky if they use it, doll cucumber

1796
01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:28,640
Speaker 1: million down there tomorrow, it's gonna like onion and not

1797
01:26:28,720 --> 01:26:31,400
Speaker 1: the onions that we like. M hm, you don't like that,

1798
01:26:32,160 --> 01:26:35,719
Speaker 1: all right, get to it so, you know, and speaking

1799
01:26:35,800 --> 01:26:38,439
Speaker 1: of like, I feel like salt XO might go hand

1800
01:26:38,479 --> 01:26:39,519
Speaker 1: in hand with these topics.

1801
01:26:39,640 --> 01:26:42,040
Speaker 4: I was wondering when do all people stop fucking?

1802
01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:46,880
Speaker 3: Like I was having this conversation, I'll be having the

1803
01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:48,880
Speaker 3: most random conversations with people all the time.

1804
01:26:49,360 --> 01:26:51,439
Speaker 1: I was having this conversation with my best.

1805
01:26:51,240 --> 01:26:54,320
Speaker 3: Friend Leen the other day and we was just like,

1806
01:26:54,600 --> 01:26:57,519
Speaker 3: when do all people stop fucking? And I feel like

1807
01:26:57,560 --> 01:27:01,200
Speaker 3: if they was using salt ex so, probably forever because

1808
01:27:01,200 --> 01:27:04,640
Speaker 3: the way that she'd be making your coochie tingley and.

1809
01:27:05,000 --> 01:27:08,200
Speaker 1: All men be ready, be ready, she ready. Yeah.

1810
01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:14,000
Speaker 3: So I was wondering when do you think older people

1811
01:27:14,040 --> 01:27:17,479
Speaker 3: stop having six? Like some people say that they stop

1812
01:27:17,520 --> 01:27:19,599
Speaker 3: having six in eight seventies, and then some people say

1813
01:27:19,680 --> 01:27:22,000
Speaker 3: that they never stop having six.

1814
01:27:22,439 --> 01:27:26,080
Speaker 4: But also now as we getting older, I.

1815
01:27:26,120 --> 01:27:28,479
Speaker 3: Think it's a meat when they be saying that women

1816
01:27:28,600 --> 01:27:33,200
Speaker 3: pussy get dry when you get to like yo fifty, because.

1817
01:27:33,040 --> 01:27:37,960
Speaker 1: People kuchi be drying a tweenies. Yes, I think I

1818
01:27:38,040 --> 01:27:39,960
Speaker 1: have two sides. I don't think it's an age r.

1819
01:27:40,160 --> 01:27:41,760
Speaker 1: I don't think it's an age range either, but I

1820
01:27:41,800 --> 01:27:44,120
Speaker 1: think maybe now I will say, I do think that

1821
01:27:44,320 --> 01:27:47,280
Speaker 1: for women it spikes when we hit our thirties, but

1822
01:27:47,320 --> 01:27:49,200
Speaker 1: I do think it kind of goes down a little

1823
01:27:49,200 --> 01:27:51,960
Speaker 1: bit whenever we go through menopause. So I think that's

1824
01:27:52,000 --> 01:27:54,800
Speaker 1: probably why jelly. Yeah, you need a little kwa jelly,

1825
01:27:54,880 --> 01:27:57,920
Speaker 1: But I think it's okay. But like I said, I

1826
01:27:57,960 --> 01:28:01,360
Speaker 1: think your sex drive does go down little bit during menopause.

1827
01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:04,280
Speaker 1: But I think once your body kind of adjusts to

1828
01:28:04,400 --> 01:28:06,240
Speaker 1: it a little bit, you kind of you know, you

1829
01:28:06,360 --> 01:28:08,640
Speaker 1: get your grooves back a little bit. Because we have

1830
01:28:08,760 --> 01:28:11,280
Speaker 1: been seeing a trend. What are you laughing at?

1831
01:28:13,880 --> 01:28:17,360
Speaker 4: I was thinking about the juvenile song what he said.

1832
01:28:17,400 --> 01:28:19,320
Speaker 1: I didn't want to have the cars nearly. So I

1833
01:28:19,400 --> 01:28:23,759
Speaker 1: fucked it in the alley, Jillie because he's a freak.

1834
01:28:24,080 --> 01:28:27,880
Speaker 1: Because the way first of all, and that's what we

1835
01:28:28,000 --> 01:28:28,760
Speaker 1: was talking about. Using that.

1836
01:28:28,920 --> 01:28:31,960
Speaker 4: She was probably using all soul for sure.

1837
01:28:32,080 --> 01:28:34,120
Speaker 1: She was because he said he didn't want to have

1838
01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:37,240
Speaker 1: the car off. Why was gonna be smelly? Because that

1839
01:28:37,520 --> 01:28:40,559
Speaker 1: coach was fun. You had to fuck her in the alley,

1840
01:28:40,720 --> 01:28:42,400
Speaker 1: you know how a bad show cooch. She's staying for

1841
01:28:42,880 --> 01:28:47,160
Speaker 1: fuck you in the alley. Even thom Cats walking about

1842
01:28:47,240 --> 01:28:57,120
Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah, that's a crazy crazy Oh my god, yo.

1843
01:28:57,120 --> 01:28:59,320
Speaker 4: Cool, she gotta be so funky, want to fuck you

1844
01:28:59,400 --> 01:28:59,880
Speaker 4: out five?

1845
01:29:00,439 --> 01:29:00,639
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1846
01:29:01,200 --> 01:29:05,000
Speaker 4: Instead of in the choir cars do be car sex,

1847
01:29:05,120 --> 01:29:06,080
Speaker 4: get real hoigh.

1848
01:29:05,920 --> 01:29:14,679
Speaker 1: And steamy, it'd be damp clammy dude.

1849
01:29:14,760 --> 01:29:17,040
Speaker 4: So imagine if you're cool, Sheie saying, yeah.

1850
01:29:16,920 --> 01:29:20,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, if you're Coochie saying why did you

1851
01:29:20,720 --> 01:29:24,439
Speaker 1: say that? Like that a story that one of my

1852
01:29:24,560 --> 01:29:27,800
Speaker 1: homegirls told me. And she was like she was about

1853
01:29:27,840 --> 01:29:30,640
Speaker 1: to have sex with this dude and she said, like

1854
01:29:30,720 --> 01:29:32,519
Speaker 1: he took her parties off. She said, ooh, I think

1855
01:29:32,560 --> 01:29:34,360
Speaker 1: I was a little tart. She was like, I think

1856
01:29:34,400 --> 01:29:35,960
Speaker 1: I had a little baby. Like it was just you know,

1857
01:29:36,120 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 1: sometimes that he's get blown off. And she was like, oh,

1858
01:29:39,040 --> 01:29:41,000
Speaker 1: I don't if. She told him, like she was honest,

1859
01:29:41,040 --> 01:29:42,479
Speaker 1: she was like, you know, we don't need a problem.

1860
01:29:42,640 --> 01:29:46,720
Speaker 1: He was like, I don't care. He said he did.

1861
01:29:46,960 --> 01:29:50,080
Speaker 1: She said he didn't care. I said, ooh, ooh, I

1862
01:29:50,160 --> 01:29:53,880
Speaker 1: cannot have sex on my couchie funky. He probably had something.

1863
01:29:54,160 --> 01:29:57,599
Speaker 1: He definitely probably because he said and she told him.

1864
01:29:57,640 --> 01:29:59,840
Speaker 1: She was like, oh, I don't think it's I need to.

1865
01:30:00,120 --> 01:30:02,800
Speaker 1: You know, sometimes you need a little you know, a

1866
01:30:02,880 --> 01:30:07,360
Speaker 1: little boring as set up there so it happens. Anything, Yes, anything,

1867
01:30:07,360 --> 01:30:11,880
Speaker 1: because I yes, bor it. Anything can throw that kouchie off.

1868
01:30:13,320 --> 01:30:15,640
Speaker 1: And she was probably like, you know, come back and

1869
01:30:15,680 --> 01:30:17,519
Speaker 1: you can get something. The mall clean it up, make

1870
01:30:17,560 --> 01:30:18,960
Speaker 1: sure it's right. That nigga did not care.

1871
01:30:20,280 --> 01:30:22,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know that rubs me the wrong way,

1872
01:30:24,080 --> 01:30:26,360
Speaker 3: but I do, Like I'm going back to what I

1873
01:30:26,439 --> 01:30:28,880
Speaker 3: was saying. I do think as you get older, y'all

1874
01:30:29,240 --> 01:30:31,400
Speaker 3: probably don't get as well. But I think if you

1875
01:30:31,479 --> 01:30:33,519
Speaker 3: with a nigga that you really like, y'all gonna be

1876
01:30:33,560 --> 01:30:38,320
Speaker 3: with forever. Just like we're grossly and rich, I'm gonna

1877
01:30:38,360 --> 01:30:38,880
Speaker 3: be up.

1878
01:30:42,479 --> 01:30:48,639
Speaker 1: Isn't that what he did? He did stay with that's

1879
01:30:48,640 --> 01:30:53,720
Speaker 1: gonna be us. But no, like seriously, I do.

1880
01:30:53,880 --> 01:30:56,479
Speaker 3: I think if you're with the right partner, you might

1881
01:30:56,600 --> 01:30:59,559
Speaker 3: need a little help you get older as you get

1882
01:30:59,640 --> 01:31:02,240
Speaker 3: all theer. But I think if you really turned on

1883
01:31:02,439 --> 01:31:05,360
Speaker 3: by your man and like enamored with him, you gonna

1884
01:31:05,400 --> 01:31:06,479
Speaker 3: always be ready.

1885
01:31:06,800 --> 01:31:09,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, And like I said, even for me, and sometimes,

1886
01:31:09,920 --> 01:31:11,720
Speaker 1: like you know, you get a little older, maybe don't

1887
01:31:11,760 --> 01:31:15,400
Speaker 1: get up. They have, you know, the little pills. They

1888
01:31:15,439 --> 01:31:19,639
Speaker 1: ain't pay for that ad no free advertisement. I mean,

1889
01:31:20,680 --> 01:31:23,160
Speaker 1: I'm trying to help them because but I'm saying, like

1890
01:31:23,960 --> 01:31:27,160
Speaker 1: I do think that the older you get, like it's

1891
01:31:27,240 --> 01:31:30,160
Speaker 1: probably a little tougher, but I think they still definitely

1892
01:31:30,200 --> 01:31:32,040
Speaker 1: have it. I think older people definitely still having sex.

1893
01:31:32,920 --> 01:31:35,640
Speaker 1: Citizens have like the highest STD rates, They do have

1894
01:31:35,720 --> 01:31:42,519
Speaker 1: the highest HIV rates. Yeah, are you serious before the

1895
01:31:42,680 --> 01:31:50,040
Speaker 1: nursing homes. But I mean, like I said, though, I

1896
01:31:50,160 --> 01:31:52,439
Speaker 1: do think there is a mix a little bit because

1897
01:31:52,560 --> 01:31:56,800
Speaker 1: what I have noticed though when older men the younger women,

1898
01:31:56,960 --> 01:31:58,519
Speaker 1: it's like the woman wants the fuck all the time

1899
01:31:58,560 --> 01:32:01,400
Speaker 1: and he doesn't. But older women when they day younger men,

1900
01:32:01,439 --> 01:32:03,760
Speaker 1: they'd be like, that's the best time because they get

1901
01:32:03,800 --> 01:32:05,720
Speaker 1: to have the sex that they want to have. It

1902
01:32:05,800 --> 01:32:08,720
Speaker 1: seems like if older couples, if there is a disconnect

1903
01:32:08,760 --> 01:32:10,840
Speaker 1: and having sex, it seems like it's more on the

1904
01:32:10,960 --> 01:32:13,160
Speaker 1: men's side, which is crazy, you know what I'm saying.

1905
01:32:13,200 --> 01:32:17,040
Speaker 1: That's a brandy's always default. Yeah, like men just I

1906
01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:21,400
Speaker 1: don't know. I think men kind of reach their sexual peak,

1907
01:32:21,800 --> 01:32:24,760
Speaker 1: like in their twenties and thirties, and I think after that,

1908
01:32:24,920 --> 01:32:26,760
Speaker 1: it's just kind of like it starts going down. But

1909
01:32:26,800 --> 01:32:28,840
Speaker 1: I think whomen we kind of yeah, I think we

1910
01:32:29,000 --> 01:32:31,080
Speaker 1: keep it kind of consistent. Like I feel like even

1911
01:32:31,120 --> 01:32:33,040
Speaker 1: if a woman isn't having sex and she's older, she's

1912
01:32:33,080 --> 01:32:35,719
Speaker 1: definitely got a vibrator for sure.

1913
01:32:36,479 --> 01:32:39,240
Speaker 3: I feel like vibrators deep you'll dont even stop using it.

1914
01:32:39,360 --> 01:32:41,280
Speaker 3: Vibrators so much so because I feel like if they

1915
01:32:41,360 --> 01:32:43,960
Speaker 3: need sensitize yo kuci, I think, oh the.

1916
01:32:44,040 --> 01:32:45,840
Speaker 1: Time too much. Yeah, And then if you're putting it,

1917
01:32:45,920 --> 01:32:49,400
Speaker 1: if you using a strong one, like you just need

1918
01:32:49,479 --> 01:32:52,760
Speaker 1: something a little light, a little light, little vibration. You

1919
01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:55,880
Speaker 1: don't need that fucking blast of four thousand on that

1920
01:32:56,000 --> 01:33:00,160
Speaker 1: fucking kuchie that could fucking kill somebody with the let

1921
01:33:00,280 --> 01:33:02,000
Speaker 1: in an electric chair. If you can look your bill

1922
01:33:02,040 --> 01:33:05,080
Speaker 1: dough up to an electric chair that killed somebody. Bring

1923
01:33:05,200 --> 01:33:06,320
Speaker 1: that ship the fuck back.

1924
01:33:06,560 --> 01:33:09,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna be a little too strong.

1925
01:33:10,240 --> 01:33:11,720
Speaker 3: They be a little too strong, And I feel like

1926
01:33:11,760 --> 01:33:14,000
Speaker 3: you need to let it breathe, Let that let that

1927
01:33:14,120 --> 01:33:16,479
Speaker 3: hoochie breathe, Like give it a little time. If you

1928
01:33:16,680 --> 01:33:20,320
Speaker 3: rubbing one out every day, it ain't as exciting no more.

1929
01:33:20,439 --> 01:33:25,439
Speaker 1: But sometimes been along. It's been a long day today,

1930
01:33:25,640 --> 01:33:29,120
Speaker 1: drain and I can't have no draink I'm trying to

1931
01:33:29,200 --> 01:33:35,400
Speaker 1: pull out my heart. I got to wake that something.

1932
01:33:35,439 --> 01:33:39,559
Speaker 1: Gotta get something. They do be along yesday. You can't

1933
01:33:39,640 --> 01:33:46,000
Speaker 1: wait to get sometimes you need it. Bitching the pins

1934
01:33:46,640 --> 01:33:51,360
Speaker 1: walk give me feeling so dirty. Afterwards you just be

1935
01:33:51,479 --> 01:33:53,639
Speaker 1: laying there look like what a whore.

1936
01:33:54,680 --> 01:33:57,720
Speaker 3: I just roll over and go to sleep, because I

1937
01:33:57,800 --> 01:33:59,800
Speaker 3: do be disgusted with my stuff. I'll be having to

1938
01:33:59,840 --> 01:34:04,280
Speaker 3: take I just can't be needing one after that, and

1939
01:34:04,400 --> 01:34:06,160
Speaker 3: I'd be like put it in the drawer, like get

1940
01:34:06,200 --> 01:34:08,400
Speaker 3: away from me, you're disgusting serious.

1941
01:34:08,600 --> 01:34:09,519
Speaker 1: My cleaning ladies.

1942
01:34:09,600 --> 01:34:12,400
Speaker 3: I'd be so scared sometimes because one time I had

1943
01:34:12,439 --> 01:34:13,960
Speaker 3: forgot to put it back in my drawer and it

1944
01:34:14,040 --> 01:34:17,840
Speaker 3: was under my oh, making my bed.

1945
01:34:18,080 --> 01:34:20,320
Speaker 1: When I tell you one time. Oh my god, this

1946
01:34:20,439 --> 01:34:22,599
Speaker 1: is a crazy story. I came on the story one time.

1947
01:34:23,280 --> 01:34:24,600
Speaker 1: I was this is when I was living on the

1948
01:34:24,600 --> 01:34:26,360
Speaker 1: East Side. Remember when I had the one bedroom that

1949
01:34:26,439 --> 01:34:28,400
Speaker 1: I moved into a two bedroom because me and Jazz

1950
01:34:28,439 --> 01:34:31,599
Speaker 1: moved in together. And I remember I was I had,

1951
01:34:32,160 --> 01:34:34,040
Speaker 1: I was single. I wasn't datingybody at the time, but

1952
01:34:34,120 --> 01:34:36,280
Speaker 1: you know, I was like messing around with guys. I

1953
01:34:36,320 --> 01:34:36,600
Speaker 1: don't know.

1954
01:34:37,560 --> 01:34:39,680
Speaker 3: This sounds so crazy because I don't know where it can.

1955
01:34:39,800 --> 01:34:42,280
Speaker 3: I am so nervous about where he's about to go

1956
01:34:42,600 --> 01:34:43,120
Speaker 3: that it.

1957
01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:44,960
Speaker 1: Was a new guy that was kind of interested in

1958
01:34:45,200 --> 01:34:48,160
Speaker 1: and he came over to help me and Jazz move

1959
01:34:48,240 --> 01:34:51,080
Speaker 1: our stuff. Y'all. Why would he would like picked up

1960
01:34:51,080 --> 01:34:53,839
Speaker 1: the bed frame? It was a condom just under the bed.

1961
01:34:54,120 --> 01:34:57,200
Speaker 3: You used, Yes, it was used, and I didn't know

1962
01:34:57,360 --> 01:34:59,360
Speaker 3: because it was like deep under my bed.

1963
01:35:00,240 --> 01:35:01,960
Speaker 1: I was like, so I didn't know it was there,

1964
01:35:02,000 --> 01:35:03,680
Speaker 1: and I was just like, I'll try to hurry up.

1965
01:35:05,120 --> 01:35:08,479
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, thank you.

1966
01:35:08,640 --> 01:35:11,720
Speaker 1: Y'all want something to drink, y'all? Good. Oh, it was

1967
01:35:11,960 --> 01:35:14,880
Speaker 1: so embarrassing because who did who does that?

1968
01:35:15,160 --> 01:35:18,200
Speaker 3: Nothing troum my daddy finding it used condom on my

1969
01:35:18,360 --> 01:35:20,040
Speaker 3: laundry him like, But the.

1970
01:35:20,120 --> 01:35:24,240
Speaker 1: Thing is who put it there? When I was like fourteen?

1971
01:35:24,360 --> 01:35:28,479
Speaker 1: But fourteen at war? Pussy is hot at war. You

1972
01:35:29,040 --> 01:35:30,840
Speaker 1: definitely shocked that pussy. No.

1973
01:35:31,160 --> 01:35:32,519
Speaker 4: I said this before on the show.

1974
01:35:32,560 --> 01:35:33,519
Speaker 1: I lost my virginity.

1975
01:35:33,920 --> 01:35:36,280
Speaker 3: I lost my virginity when I was fourteen to my

1976
01:35:36,400 --> 01:35:39,560
Speaker 3: boyfriend in middle school, like the summer before I was

1977
01:35:39,640 --> 01:35:45,040
Speaker 3: going to high school. But but it was south traumatic

1978
01:35:45,320 --> 01:35:47,760
Speaker 3: like the Hall experience I done. Told the story on

1979
01:35:47,800 --> 01:35:50,320
Speaker 3: the show too, with the police coming.

1980
01:35:50,520 --> 01:35:52,880
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but how did he find the condom? On this?

1981
01:35:53,479 --> 01:35:56,439
Speaker 4: I didn't have sex again until I was sixteen.

1982
01:35:56,960 --> 01:35:59,560
Speaker 3: I had six one time when I was fourteen, and

1983
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:01,240
Speaker 3: I didn't have six again until I was sixteen.

1984
01:36:02,680 --> 01:36:06,720
Speaker 1: But who put the condomar him? The boy? Yes, and

1985
01:36:06,840 --> 01:36:09,600
Speaker 1: that's what aggravates me. Yes, he I mean he was

1986
01:36:09,720 --> 01:36:12,679
Speaker 1: fucking fourteen, I know, but I'm just saying, Ben still

1987
01:36:12,760 --> 01:36:15,000
Speaker 1: do that? Why would you throw a condom under my lead?

1988
01:36:15,320 --> 01:36:16,000
Speaker 1: He threw it.

1989
01:36:16,439 --> 01:36:19,120
Speaker 3: He threw on the laundry himple, And then my dad

1990
01:36:19,240 --> 01:36:21,320
Speaker 3: had asked me to like the next day, he was like,

1991
01:36:21,720 --> 01:36:22,479
Speaker 3: was you having six?

1992
01:36:22,560 --> 01:36:24,400
Speaker 1: And I was like, no, anyone when I was in

1993
01:36:24,479 --> 01:36:27,360
Speaker 1: school he found it. Fourteen is so crazy to think

1994
01:36:27,360 --> 01:36:28,960
Speaker 1: about busting that thing.

1995
01:36:29,080 --> 01:36:31,680
Speaker 3: Oh but the sad, but the sadd I wasn't. But

1996
01:36:32,240 --> 01:36:34,960
Speaker 3: I was not blessing nothing open. I wasn't he I

1997
01:36:35,000 --> 01:36:35,960
Speaker 3: didn't know how to bussy.

1998
01:36:36,400 --> 01:36:42,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I'll be busting it now. I didn't

1999
01:36:42,439 --> 01:36:46,320
Speaker 1: know how to me, I was. I was new to this.

2000
01:36:46,600 --> 01:36:48,599
Speaker 1: Oh to it now?

2001
01:36:52,720 --> 01:36:55,920
Speaker 3: Well, fourteen sound crazy, but I had a homegirl like

2002
01:36:56,040 --> 01:36:58,680
Speaker 3: one of my best friends. When I was near elementary

2003
01:36:58,760 --> 01:37:01,840
Speaker 3: and middle school and stuff. She was happy six when

2004
01:37:01,880 --> 01:37:02,479
Speaker 3: we was twelve.

2005
01:37:03,040 --> 01:37:07,040
Speaker 1: That is insane. Yeah. I had a few little friends,

2006
01:37:07,080 --> 01:37:09,120
Speaker 1: and I went to private school. That is true. They

2007
01:37:09,160 --> 01:37:12,640
Speaker 1: say by private school, I was wild because I mean,

2008
01:37:12,680 --> 01:37:14,240
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to we was wild at my

2009
01:37:14,320 --> 01:37:18,640
Speaker 1: school too. I lost my Virginia at fifteen. Growl. I

2010
01:37:18,760 --> 01:37:21,880
Speaker 1: was about to turn. I was about to fight. I

2011
01:37:21,960 --> 01:37:25,080
Speaker 1: was about to turn sixteen. The way I told drive Gough,

2012
01:37:25,240 --> 01:37:27,680
Speaker 1: I had my I had my apartment, I was driving. No,

2013
01:37:28,400 --> 01:37:29,200
Speaker 1: but then my school.

2014
01:37:30,680 --> 01:37:34,000
Speaker 3: But I was in middle school. I had graduated already.

2015
01:37:34,320 --> 01:37:38,120
Speaker 3: I was yeah, I was about to go. It was

2016
01:37:38,200 --> 01:37:39,960
Speaker 3: the summer that I was getting ready to go to

2017
01:37:40,120 --> 01:37:42,600
Speaker 3: ninth grade. I was a soft so I wasn't in

2018
01:37:42,680 --> 01:37:45,479
Speaker 3: the eighth grade anymore. I was removed, Well, I was.

2019
01:37:45,479 --> 01:37:47,439
Speaker 1: A sophomore because you know, I was young in my

2020
01:37:47,600 --> 01:37:51,200
Speaker 1: age group, because the cutoff is like I am so

2021
01:37:51,600 --> 01:37:53,880
Speaker 1: oh yeah, so I was. I was a sophomore in

2022
01:37:54,000 --> 01:37:57,440
Speaker 1: high school though. Oh okay, so it's a little.

2023
01:37:57,360 --> 01:37:59,439
Speaker 3: It don't matter what grades you was in, it's the

2024
01:37:59,560 --> 01:38:01,599
Speaker 3: aid you were still the same age.

2025
01:38:01,760 --> 01:38:05,679
Speaker 1: Damn news. But I feel like I knew that already.

2026
01:38:06,400 --> 01:38:08,840
Speaker 1: But I knew that too. But I just think it's

2027
01:38:08,880 --> 01:38:11,040
Speaker 1: so crazy when men are having said why are y'all

2028
01:38:11,080 --> 01:38:13,519
Speaker 1: and not him? But even in my situation, why would

2029
01:38:13,560 --> 01:38:15,719
Speaker 1: you throw a condom under the bed, dirty ass nigga?

2030
01:38:15,920 --> 01:38:18,000
Speaker 1: So obviously I'm thinking he went to the bathroom and

2031
01:38:18,040 --> 01:38:20,280
Speaker 1: flushed it down the toilet. I didn't know that it

2032
01:38:20,400 --> 01:38:20,720
Speaker 1: was there.

2033
01:38:21,080 --> 01:38:23,040
Speaker 3: That's probably another one of them reasons we need to

2034
01:38:23,040 --> 01:38:24,680
Speaker 3: add to the least for while women don't want to

2035
01:38:24,720 --> 01:38:25,519
Speaker 3: live with these niggas.

2036
01:38:25,840 --> 01:38:27,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, add that to the least.

2037
01:38:27,280 --> 01:38:30,720
Speaker 3: They be throwing condoms everywhere, throwing condoms everywhere.

2038
01:38:31,640 --> 01:38:33,560
Speaker 1: Sometimes you got to go to your nigga house and

2039
01:38:33,640 --> 01:38:36,160
Speaker 1: check that trash can, what's been going on or under

2040
01:38:36,200 --> 01:38:39,439
Speaker 1: the bee. Yeah, I need to go do that today.

2041
01:38:39,840 --> 01:38:40,959
Speaker 1: Let's wrap this shit.

2042
01:38:43,000 --> 01:38:47,080
Speaker 3: Okay, so now it's time to get into the bout

2043
01:38:48,040 --> 01:38:52,280
Speaker 3: the about bowl, the about Bow Bow Bow Bow Bow.

2044
01:38:53,360 --> 01:38:57,160
Speaker 1: So y'all know, I love Junetober the duo, the Guy

2045
01:38:57,240 --> 01:38:59,719
Speaker 1: and the Girl. They made fantastic R and B music,

2046
01:38:59,800 --> 01:39:02,000
Speaker 1: and one thing I love about them is they drop

2047
01:39:02,200 --> 01:39:05,360
Speaker 1: music consistently. I love when it's an artist that I

2048
01:39:05,479 --> 01:39:08,800
Speaker 1: can always count on them to drop music and it's

2049
01:39:08,880 --> 01:39:12,720
Speaker 1: absolutely amazing. So they're about to drop a new EP

2050
01:39:12,960 --> 01:39:15,519
Speaker 1: or new album and some of the singles have been

2051
01:39:15,600 --> 01:39:18,280
Speaker 1: released and they have this song called Bomb that I

2052
01:39:18,439 --> 01:39:21,439
Speaker 1: absolutely love. I just love they make music for real

2053
01:39:21,600 --> 01:39:26,160
Speaker 1: lovers and I love love music like I want to

2054
01:39:26,320 --> 01:39:30,639
Speaker 1: hear happy and love music again, and that's what they make.

2055
01:39:30,800 --> 01:39:32,800
Speaker 1: So the song is called Bomb, and it's just basically

2056
01:39:32,880 --> 01:39:34,519
Speaker 1: like her love is a bomb and she rubbing it

2057
01:39:34,560 --> 01:39:36,960
Speaker 1: all over you. Period. Okay, oh yeah, shout out to

2058
01:39:37,040 --> 01:39:39,400
Speaker 1: Junsober Bomb. That's my bop of the week.

2059
01:39:39,560 --> 01:39:39,920
Speaker 2: Period.

2060
01:39:40,439 --> 01:39:43,400
Speaker 4: So my bop of the week is a Lady Lady

2061
01:39:44,000 --> 01:39:45,200
Speaker 4: by Olivia Deed.

2062
01:39:47,720 --> 01:39:50,160
Speaker 3: Yes, I really like this song and it's been going

2063
01:39:50,280 --> 01:39:54,559
Speaker 3: crazy on social media, like everybody be posting this song

2064
01:39:54,800 --> 01:39:57,960
Speaker 3: on a little reels and they pictures and stuff. But

2065
01:39:58,080 --> 01:39:59,720
Speaker 3: I really really like it. I feel like it's a

2066
01:39:59,840 --> 01:40:02,120
Speaker 3: very cute sea song and I like her boys.

2067
01:40:02,479 --> 01:40:04,599
Speaker 1: It's like Sex and the City music, like I can

2068
01:40:04,680 --> 01:40:08,000
Speaker 1: take over the world because I'm a girl and I'm strong.

2069
01:40:08,800 --> 01:40:11,080
Speaker 1: You know. That's that's the kind of vibe she gives.

2070
01:40:11,320 --> 01:40:14,680
Speaker 1: She's very cute, she is she's very pretty. Yes, so yes,

2071
01:40:14,760 --> 01:40:16,519
Speaker 1: that is my vibe. We need to get her on

2072
01:40:16,600 --> 01:40:19,200
Speaker 1: the show. We need to have another another British one

2073
01:40:19,240 --> 01:40:23,759
Speaker 1: on the show. Yeah, well, we've had a few British

2074
01:40:24,240 --> 01:40:26,320
Speaker 1: on the show. I think about it. I had to

2075
01:40:26,479 --> 01:40:29,559
Speaker 1: We only have Moved and Jane No and Marshall, Oh

2076
01:40:29,640 --> 01:40:32,200
Speaker 1: Marshall and Brush and the girls. We had that whole

2077
01:40:32,400 --> 01:40:37,439
Speaker 1: London run everybody zz No.

2078
01:40:37,880 --> 01:40:41,760
Speaker 3: But I'm talking about coming on poor minds here, oh

2079
01:40:42,080 --> 01:40:44,320
Speaker 3: our sick like on the show.

2080
01:40:44,479 --> 01:40:46,120
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, we had recorded with some people.

2081
01:40:46,600 --> 01:40:49,439
Speaker 3: We did record some Poor Mines episodes with some London

2082
01:40:49,479 --> 01:40:51,320
Speaker 3: people while we was over there, like we recorded with

2083
01:40:51,400 --> 01:40:54,800
Speaker 3: Metal Juey. But I'm talking about them coming here being

2084
01:40:54,880 --> 01:40:59,479
Speaker 3: on our right. But yes, shout out to all the

2085
01:40:59,520 --> 01:41:03,240
Speaker 3: beauty and now it's time to get into our favorite

2086
01:41:03,280 --> 01:41:06,400
Speaker 3: SEGMENTU Yeah, the shop. Let's do it, which is pour

2087
01:41:06,479 --> 01:41:08,719
Speaker 3: your heart out, So you know, if you have any questions,

2088
01:41:08,760 --> 01:41:14,880
Speaker 3: you can send them to poor minds at gmail. Zoch asked, damn,

2089
01:41:14,960 --> 01:41:18,880
Speaker 3: we aren't recorded in a mini ask poor minds at

2090
01:41:18,960 --> 01:41:21,720
Speaker 3: gmail dot com. A skp o U R in my

2091
01:41:21,880 --> 01:41:26,000
Speaker 3: nds at gmail dot com. Sen its your questions period. Oh,

2092
01:41:26,080 --> 01:41:28,320
Speaker 3: let's get into question number one.

2093
01:41:29,320 --> 01:41:33,599
Speaker 1: Oh, I guess it's just one. Okay. Spring twenty twenty three,

2094
01:41:33,880 --> 01:41:37,439
Speaker 1: my sister, who was in a long term relationship, set

2095
01:41:37,520 --> 01:41:40,680
Speaker 1: me up with her coworker. We dated for a bit.

2096
01:41:40,760 --> 01:41:43,599
Speaker 1: He was cool, never slept together, but I did stay

2097
01:41:43,720 --> 01:41:46,560
Speaker 1: over once. Since my sister and I were close, I

2098
01:41:46,720 --> 01:41:50,520
Speaker 1: told her everything. By the end of summer, his communication

2099
01:41:50,840 --> 01:41:54,280
Speaker 1: changed and my sister started saying selick negative stuff about

2100
01:41:54,360 --> 01:41:57,720
Speaker 1: him at work. One night, I checked her location and

2101
01:41:57,840 --> 01:42:03,040
Speaker 1: she was at this house again and again and again.

2102
01:42:03,520 --> 01:42:06,200
Speaker 1: I called her while she was there. She kept it short,

2103
01:42:06,520 --> 01:42:09,880
Speaker 1: and five minutes later she turned her location off chail.

2104
01:42:10,560 --> 01:42:14,080
Speaker 1: The next morning, she admitted they liked each other, said

2105
01:42:14,320 --> 01:42:20,000
Speaker 1: it just happened. Youn't remember that, okay, claim they hadn't

2106
01:42:20,040 --> 01:42:23,880
Speaker 1: slept together, and told me men come and go. I

2107
01:42:24,000 --> 01:42:26,840
Speaker 1: cut her off. Fast forward to fall twenty twenty four.

2108
01:42:28,040 --> 01:42:34,280
Speaker 1: She's pregnant long story short, she married him and now

2109
01:42:34,360 --> 01:42:36,759
Speaker 1: he's my brother in law and they have a baby,

2110
01:42:36,920 --> 01:42:40,439
Speaker 1: a sweet, sweet baby. I added that I'm not trying

2111
01:42:40,439 --> 01:42:42,759
Speaker 1: to stay mad now that I have a niece involved,

2112
01:42:42,840 --> 01:42:46,840
Speaker 1: but I'm still piffed. Am I dragging this since we

2113
01:42:47,120 --> 01:42:51,799
Speaker 1: never slept together? Or was this actually foul? Be honest,

2114
01:42:52,240 --> 01:42:56,000
Speaker 1: be honest, that's it.

2115
01:42:56,840 --> 01:43:00,960
Speaker 4: I just I think at this point she is dragging

2116
01:43:01,040 --> 01:43:01,720
Speaker 4: it a little bit.

2117
01:43:02,360 --> 01:43:08,640
Speaker 3: However, However, however, it ain't never no reason any motherfucking

2118
01:43:08,720 --> 01:43:11,519
Speaker 3: world that I would date somebody that my sister used

2119
01:43:11,560 --> 01:43:16,639
Speaker 3: to talk to you and then put him hooked them up. Yes,

2120
01:43:16,880 --> 01:43:19,400
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck like it's too many men

2121
01:43:19,560 --> 01:43:22,200
Speaker 3: in the world for me to date somebody that my

2122
01:43:22,360 --> 01:43:24,479
Speaker 3: sister used to go eat and one of my friends

2123
01:43:24,600 --> 01:43:29,840
Speaker 3: used to go eat. I just don't play this sheet. Yes,

2124
01:43:30,640 --> 01:43:33,400
Speaker 3: and I think that your sister dead, that's wrong for

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01:43:33,479 --> 01:43:35,600
Speaker 3: this sheet, and me and her probably wouldn't ever be

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01:43:36,040 --> 01:43:39,519
Speaker 3: that close again after that. But I also do think

2127
01:43:39,800 --> 01:43:42,439
Speaker 3: at some point in time, you do gotta like, yeah,

2128
01:43:42,600 --> 01:43:45,160
Speaker 3: let her Mary, you have a niece now they're married,

2129
01:43:46,640 --> 01:43:47,880
Speaker 3: But two things can't be true.

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01:43:48,000 --> 01:43:50,240
Speaker 1: You are maybe dragging it a bit, but she also

2131
01:43:50,439 --> 01:43:53,160
Speaker 1: is a fucking WEIRDO. Yeah, she is so, and I

2132
01:43:53,240 --> 01:43:56,400
Speaker 1: think he's kind of weird too, But it's really your

2133
01:43:56,479 --> 01:43:58,519
Speaker 1: sister who the kind of weird though. Like if we

2134
01:43:58,760 --> 01:44:03,519
Speaker 1: go in and ranked she number one, I don't give

2135
01:44:03,560 --> 01:44:07,439
Speaker 1: a Like the sister was trying to put them put

2136
01:44:07,760 --> 01:44:10,880
Speaker 1: him on with the other sister, but then he was like, nah,

2137
01:44:10,920 --> 01:44:13,400
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get at you type of thing. No,

2138
01:44:13,720 --> 01:44:17,840
Speaker 1: still weird. The reason I would have said maybe not

2139
01:44:18,120 --> 01:44:20,600
Speaker 1: because if he went on maybe one date with the

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01:44:20,720 --> 01:44:22,960
Speaker 1: sister and he was like, no, you know what, I

2141
01:44:23,120 --> 01:44:25,320
Speaker 1: really like your sister. I'm gonna be honest. But she

2142
01:44:25,360 --> 01:44:29,240
Speaker 1: said they dated for a bit. He was cool, but

2143
01:44:29,320 --> 01:44:32,760
Speaker 1: they never slept together, but she stayed over them. She

2144
01:44:32,840 --> 01:44:35,920
Speaker 1: stayed at his house one time, so they stayed the night.

2145
01:44:35,960 --> 01:44:39,519
Speaker 1: So I'm pretty sure they kissed at least. Yeah, you

2146
01:44:39,600 --> 01:44:43,880
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I mean, it's weird all around that.

2147
01:44:44,040 --> 01:44:47,200
Speaker 3: To me, it's a little weird, But I do think

2148
01:44:47,280 --> 01:44:51,360
Speaker 3: that you I always say, when people be hauling gridges

2149
01:44:51,400 --> 01:44:53,840
Speaker 3: about stuff, you ain't really harming nobody, but ya su

2150
01:44:54,400 --> 01:44:57,599
Speaker 3: because everybody else then moved on and clearly they don't

2151
01:44:57,640 --> 01:45:01,080
Speaker 3: give them about the shed, and they definitely don't give

2152
01:45:01,120 --> 01:45:02,320
Speaker 3: them about how you feel about it.

2153
01:45:02,880 --> 01:45:05,960
Speaker 1: So I mean they're married, yeah, and have a baby.

2154
01:45:06,600 --> 01:45:09,560
Speaker 1: So I just and this happened fairly quickly. This was

2155
01:45:09,640 --> 01:45:12,120
Speaker 1: only in spring in twenty twenty three when she Yeah,

2156
01:45:12,760 --> 01:45:14,000
Speaker 1: it was only a few years ago.

2157
01:45:14,360 --> 01:45:16,840
Speaker 3: But again, I just think that you're blocking your own

2158
01:45:16,960 --> 01:45:21,080
Speaker 3: blessings by like holding a grudge and internalizing all of

2159
01:45:21,160 --> 01:45:21,759
Speaker 3: their anger.

2160
01:45:22,280 --> 01:45:23,120
Speaker 1: You wasting time.

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01:45:23,160 --> 01:45:25,360
Speaker 3: It's probably spending time on that situation that you could

2162
01:45:25,360 --> 01:45:28,080
Speaker 3: be out trying to find your own men and start

2163
01:45:28,120 --> 01:45:30,880
Speaker 3: your own family and you know, find your person.

2164
01:45:31,040 --> 01:45:33,360
Speaker 1: So girl, just let it go. But I wouldn't be

2165
01:45:33,479 --> 01:45:36,000
Speaker 1: fucking with my sister like that, Like we ain't locking in.

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01:45:36,800 --> 01:45:38,559
Speaker 1: You can't come over for Thanksgiving, Beach.

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01:45:41,320 --> 01:45:42,000
Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

2168
01:45:42,200 --> 01:45:45,600
Speaker 3: I just that is a little people like family or not.

2169
01:45:45,760 --> 01:45:48,320
Speaker 3: When people do certain stuff, you don't deserve to be

2170
01:45:48,479 --> 01:45:51,280
Speaker 3: in my space like that. Agree, because you don't show

2171
01:45:51,400 --> 01:45:54,160
Speaker 3: me weird whether you're my sister or not, because who.

2172
01:45:54,080 --> 01:45:56,639
Speaker 1: Are They were probably flirting at work during that whole time,

2173
01:45:57,080 --> 01:45:58,960
Speaker 1: That's what it's like. It's just questions that's just too

2174
01:45:59,040 --> 01:46:02,439
Speaker 1: weird for me. I don't all right, y'all. Now we're

2175
01:46:02,479 --> 01:46:06,400
Speaker 1: going to do our bottled up segment of the Week,

2176
01:46:06,520 --> 01:46:09,000
Speaker 1: brought to you by Taylor Port. So you have anything

2177
01:46:09,040 --> 01:46:11,200
Speaker 1: you want to get off your chest, just send us

2178
01:46:11,200 --> 01:46:13,840
Speaker 1: a quick little voicemail so we can hear you out,

2179
01:46:14,120 --> 01:46:19,280
Speaker 1: so you can just vent to the girls. Okay, I really.

2180
01:46:19,280 --> 01:46:24,679
Speaker 5: Can't stand when people set up plans or initiate plans

2181
01:46:24,880 --> 01:46:30,200
Speaker 5: inviting you out. Then the day of themb holes go quiet,

2182
01:46:31,200 --> 01:46:35,679
Speaker 5: them hoss go silent, they disappear, and then the next

2183
01:46:35,760 --> 01:46:39,280
Speaker 5: morning they have the nerve to text you and quote

2184
01:46:39,360 --> 01:46:44,600
Speaker 5: unquote apologize or try to set up new plans and

2185
01:46:44,680 --> 01:46:47,640
Speaker 5: then get this those new plans that they set up

2186
01:46:49,240 --> 01:46:52,200
Speaker 5: while they don't come through or follow through with those

2187
01:46:52,280 --> 01:46:52,880
Speaker 5: new plans on.

2188
01:46:52,920 --> 01:46:53,360
Speaker 2: The new day.

2189
01:46:55,160 --> 01:46:57,000
Speaker 5: So you know what this actually, don't invite me no

2190
01:46:57,080 --> 01:47:00,519
Speaker 5: motherfucking where else, Like, don't set shit up, bitch, you're

2191
01:47:00,560 --> 01:47:03,240
Speaker 5: dead to me, because what is the reason for that.

2192
01:47:04,760 --> 01:47:08,639
Speaker 5: That shit grinds my gears. That's a pet peeve of minds.

2193
01:47:09,080 --> 01:47:11,320
Speaker 5: That shit angers with me because you could have just said.

2194
01:47:11,200 --> 01:47:17,400
Speaker 1: Fucking nothing, Hey, you ain't wrong, king, I agree. They

2195
01:47:17,479 --> 01:47:20,040
Speaker 1: irritate me too. Don't make no plans with me because

2196
01:47:20,080 --> 01:47:21,400
Speaker 1: I'm notorioust. I wanted to.

2197
01:47:21,400 --> 01:47:25,040
Speaker 3: Stay home anyway. You could have just not hit me

2198
01:47:25,200 --> 01:47:27,840
Speaker 3: up in the first place. Yeah, and I think God

2199
01:47:27,920 --> 01:47:28,879
Speaker 3: me getting ready.

2200
01:47:28,720 --> 01:47:30,479
Speaker 1: And she and I'm the type of person if you

2201
01:47:30,560 --> 01:47:33,080
Speaker 1: invite me somewhere and you haven't texted me all day,

2202
01:47:33,960 --> 01:47:37,160
Speaker 1: I assume we wasn't going for me. Anytime I invite

2203
01:47:37,200 --> 01:47:39,040
Speaker 1: people to do something, I always hit them up. Hey,

2204
01:47:39,120 --> 01:47:40,880
Speaker 1: good morning. Just let you know.

2205
01:47:41,080 --> 01:47:43,040
Speaker 4: We're still on for seven tonight, bookie.

2206
01:47:43,560 --> 01:47:45,479
Speaker 1: So if there's any changes, you can let me know.

2207
01:47:45,640 --> 01:47:47,160
Speaker 1: I can let you know, but I'm texting you at

2208
01:47:47,200 --> 01:47:49,240
Speaker 1: least by nine ten in the morning. Yeah, so you

2209
01:47:49,320 --> 01:47:52,519
Speaker 1: can have some time to you know, whatever is going on. Yeah,

2210
01:47:52,640 --> 01:47:54,920
Speaker 1: to let each other know. But I just think we're

2211
01:47:54,920 --> 01:47:56,920
Speaker 1: too old for that shit. I think people are so

2212
01:47:57,120 --> 01:48:00,519
Speaker 1: weird even when somebody invites me somewhere. I said this

2213
01:48:00,640 --> 01:48:02,800
Speaker 1: on Love lex P. I said, what I'm no longer

2214
01:48:02,920 --> 01:48:07,840
Speaker 1: doing is giving people excuses or anything. Hey, lex can

2215
01:48:07,880 --> 01:48:09,599
Speaker 1: you come here? Hey girl, I'm not gonna be able

2216
01:48:09,640 --> 01:48:11,799
Speaker 1: to make it. That's it. I'm not giving you no excuse.

2217
01:48:11,800 --> 01:48:13,720
Speaker 1: If I don't want to go, I just don't want

2218
01:48:13,720 --> 01:48:16,519
Speaker 1: to go, or even if I do cancel plans, I'm

2219
01:48:16,560 --> 01:48:19,320
Speaker 1: gonna either let you know the day of but earlier

2220
01:48:19,400 --> 01:48:21,840
Speaker 1: in the day. Hey, I had a change of plans.

2221
01:48:21,880 --> 01:48:24,000
Speaker 1: I can't make it tonight, and that be it. But

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01:48:24,120 --> 01:48:26,320
Speaker 1: I feel like all this being weird, not hitting people

2223
01:48:26,439 --> 01:48:28,920
Speaker 1: up and not saying nothing. Y'all are weird. Y'all make

2224
01:48:29,000 --> 01:48:31,519
Speaker 1: situations more difficult than they need to have to be.

2225
01:48:31,720 --> 01:48:34,000
Speaker 1: So I'm right along with him. You weird. And then

2226
01:48:34,000 --> 01:48:35,840
Speaker 1: you if you texted me this morning, you could have

2227
01:48:35,880 --> 01:48:39,479
Speaker 1: texted me last night. You know what I'm saying. So

2228
01:48:39,760 --> 01:48:41,720
Speaker 1: I'm with him on that one. I'm with him too.

2229
01:48:41,800 --> 01:48:43,880
Speaker 3: I one hundred percent agree. Like I said, I don't

2230
01:48:44,000 --> 01:48:45,800
Speaker 3: like it because you could have just not invited me

2231
01:48:45,920 --> 01:48:46,599
Speaker 3: in the first place.

2232
01:48:46,720 --> 01:48:50,880
Speaker 1: Ye And you know me, I'll be having to force

2233
01:48:51,000 --> 01:48:54,840
Speaker 1: myself to go anywhere. That's what I'm saying, Like, No,

2234
01:48:55,200 --> 01:48:57,160
Speaker 1: that's not right. I don't do this type of stuff.

2235
01:48:57,360 --> 01:49:00,080
Speaker 1: No one things about Drea. She gonna show up, but

2236
01:49:00,160 --> 01:49:02,760
Speaker 1: she gonna be there to the lights turn off. The

2237
01:49:02,960 --> 01:49:07,599
Speaker 1: party animal. She don't be there till the lights turned

2238
01:49:07,800 --> 01:49:11,160
Speaker 1: Oh man, not really, and she'd be like, where are

2239
01:49:11,160 --> 01:49:12,439
Speaker 1: we going there? Not really.

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Speaker 3: As I get older, no, I've been ready to go home.

2241
01:49:15,040 --> 01:49:16,880
Speaker 3: But when I was younger, I used to be bro

2242
01:49:17,840 --> 01:49:20,479
Speaker 3: Oh my god, so tired she'll.

2243
01:49:20,280 --> 01:49:21,880
Speaker 1: Be ready to go. I have been that way. I

2244
01:49:21,920 --> 01:49:23,200
Speaker 1: think it's because I worked in the club.

2245
01:49:23,760 --> 01:49:26,240
Speaker 3: Like, no, Lex, come on, let's go to the after hours, bro.

2246
01:49:26,520 --> 01:49:30,879
Speaker 3: I hate the aftes and I used to drag lecks everywhere.

2247
01:49:31,600 --> 01:49:34,679
Speaker 3: But good time your birthday last year? I did good,

2248
01:49:35,400 --> 01:49:35,800
Speaker 3: you did.

2249
01:49:36,160 --> 01:49:38,400
Speaker 1: I stayed up and I was partying too. But that

2250
01:49:38,520 --> 01:49:39,880
Speaker 1: do be me too. I'll be like I don't want

2251
01:49:39,880 --> 01:49:41,320
Speaker 1: to go, and then I get there, and then she

2252
01:49:41,439 --> 01:49:45,120
Speaker 1: be having a fucking ball. You look over the times,

2253
01:49:45,240 --> 01:49:46,920
Speaker 1: les be the one who we wanting to go to

2254
01:49:47,000 --> 01:49:48,920
Speaker 1: the after hours when she gets when she gets to

2255
01:49:49,040 --> 01:49:51,240
Speaker 1: having a really good time. Yeah, when I get that

2256
01:49:51,360 --> 01:49:53,880
Speaker 1: teeto swowing at me. Yeah, we need to keep the

2257
01:49:55,080 --> 01:49:58,000
Speaker 1: keep going since she when we be home, it was

2258
01:49:58,040 --> 01:50:00,880
Speaker 1: that Area twenty nine at night till like five am.

2259
01:50:01,439 --> 01:50:03,519
Speaker 1: That was my third night in the row there. Yeah,

2260
01:50:04,080 --> 01:50:06,080
Speaker 1: I went to the Area twenty nine. I was party

2261
01:50:06,160 --> 01:50:08,680
Speaker 1: until five o'clock in the morning for three nights in

2262
01:50:08,720 --> 01:50:11,000
Speaker 1: a row. And mind y'all, this was like six months ago.

2263
01:50:11,160 --> 01:50:12,280
Speaker 1: This wasn't there long ago?

2264
01:50:12,600 --> 01:50:20,240
Speaker 4: And wait till I come back, I'll see, yes, But yes,

2265
01:50:20,360 --> 01:50:21,599
Speaker 4: I mean it's certain settings.

2266
01:50:21,680 --> 01:50:24,680
Speaker 3: I do still like to like prolong the party, but

2267
01:50:24,800 --> 01:50:27,080
Speaker 3: for the most part, I'd be trying to go home.

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01:50:27,240 --> 01:50:29,840
Speaker 1: We was doing that when it reminds me though of.

2269
01:50:29,840 --> 01:50:31,600
Speaker 3: When you first moved to Atlanta. We used to be

2270
01:50:31,720 --> 01:50:34,080
Speaker 3: I used to have you outside side. I seen you

2271
01:50:34,439 --> 01:50:37,960
Speaker 3: speaking of I got to tell you video off we're

2272
01:50:38,000 --> 01:50:40,400
Speaker 3: going and men started choking on the chicken wings.

2273
01:50:43,240 --> 01:50:46,280
Speaker 1: It's not funny. I thought he was gonna die. I

2274
01:50:46,520 --> 01:50:48,760
Speaker 1: found the video the other day. I have to show

2275
01:50:48,840 --> 01:50:50,800
Speaker 1: it to you. And why the chicken wings was on

2276
01:50:50,960 --> 01:50:59,400
Speaker 1: his left left you going to hell? Bro? Did you

2277
01:50:59,439 --> 01:51:02,960
Speaker 1: see the Drew? No, because it was before Oh my

2278
01:51:03,200 --> 01:51:05,559
Speaker 1: damn ship was all good and it was all good,

2279
01:51:05,680 --> 01:51:08,439
Speaker 1: and then it wasn't y'all. That man started choking on

2280
01:51:08,479 --> 01:51:10,840
Speaker 1: the chicken wing and he was like and it was

2281
01:51:10,920 --> 01:51:12,600
Speaker 1: just a long thing of Drew. I was like, I

2282
01:51:12,720 --> 01:51:13,599
Speaker 1: think he's choking.

2283
01:51:14,600 --> 01:51:20,000
Speaker 4: You remember I was smoking by She was like, oh

2284
01:51:20,040 --> 01:51:21,160
Speaker 4: my god, and it was my day.

2285
01:51:21,560 --> 01:51:25,720
Speaker 1: Oh yes, that's what bad works. I was like, I

2286
01:51:25,840 --> 01:51:30,000
Speaker 1: think something is wrong because he was like what and

2287
01:51:30,080 --> 01:51:32,120
Speaker 1: it was like, I think somebody had like pad him on.

2288
01:51:33,120 --> 01:51:34,000
Speaker 1: We were in the Sake.

2289
01:51:34,120 --> 01:51:36,160
Speaker 3: We were in a six ship first always in the club.

2290
01:51:36,640 --> 01:51:38,200
Speaker 3: It was a lot going and we was in a

2291
01:51:38,280 --> 01:51:39,960
Speaker 3: sex she and it was a lot going on and

2292
01:51:40,080 --> 01:51:42,920
Speaker 3: his friend was sitting next to him, and his friend

2293
01:51:43,080 --> 01:51:46,160
Speaker 3: was like, you're good, You're good. And I was looking

2294
01:51:46,360 --> 01:51:47,519
Speaker 3: while I was smoking my hook.

2295
01:51:47,600 --> 01:51:49,080
Speaker 1: I was like, you like hit him on the back,

2296
01:51:49,120 --> 01:51:50,519
Speaker 1: and I think he kind of like just coughed and

2297
01:51:50,640 --> 01:51:52,479
Speaker 1: he was I don't know what was going on. It

2298
01:51:52,560 --> 01:51:54,599
Speaker 1: was okay, Yeah, he was okay, but it was real.

2299
01:51:54,720 --> 01:51:57,519
Speaker 1: It was weird. Afterwards, I was like, I'm glad you're okay.

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01:51:58,520 --> 01:52:07,000
Speaker 1: Can you give me a refuse? Right? Oh, this is

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01:52:07,080 --> 01:52:12,439
Speaker 1: like when Len first moved Ago with them Atlanta, them

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Speaker 1: early Atlanta days. I stay in the sanctuary and okay,

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01:53:01,520 --> 01:53:05,400
Speaker 1: By y'all, I was so high I did not recognize

2317
01:53:05,960 --> 01:53:09,960
Speaker 1: the fire burning in her eyes, the chaos that controlled

2318
01:53:10,080 --> 01:53:16,400
Speaker 1: my mind. Whispered goodbye. She got on a plane, never

2319
01:53:16,600 --> 01:53:22,040
Speaker 1: to return the game, but always in my heart. Up.

2320
01:53:23,120 --> 01:53:28,120
Speaker 1: This love has taken it tol on me. She said

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01:53:28,439 --> 01:53:35,479
Speaker 1: goodbye too many times before, and her heart is breaking

2322
01:53:35,720 --> 01:53:40,120
Speaker 1: in front of me, and I have no choice because

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01:53:40,200 --> 01:53:42,520
Speaker 1: I won't say goodbye anymore.

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Speaker 2: Woa row.

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Speaker 1: Whoa. I tried my best to feed her out of

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01:53:55,360 --> 01:53:59,439
Speaker 1: the time, keep her coming every night, so I had

2327
01:53:59,520 --> 01:54:05,960
Speaker 1: to keep her satisfied, like it was just a game,

2328
01:54:06,320 --> 01:54:11,080
Speaker 1: pretending to feel the same, to turn around and nim again.

2329
01:54:11,960 --> 01:54:17,439
Speaker 1: But oh, this love has taken this toll on me.

2330
01:54:17,960 --> 01:54:24,599
Speaker 1: She said goodbye too many times before, and her heart

2331
01:54:25,080 --> 01:54:29,040
Speaker 1: is breaking in front of me, and I have no

2332
01:54:29,400 --> 01:54:40,080
Speaker 1: choice cause I won't say goodbye anymore. Whoa, whoa, whoa.

2333
01:54:43,440 --> 01:54:49,240
Speaker 1: I'll fix these broken wings, repair your broken wings, and make.

2334
01:54:49,120 --> 01:54:54,000
Speaker 6: Sure everything's long, It's all right, it's all right, pre

2335
01:54:54,160 --> 01:54:59,600
Speaker 6: sure on your hends, singing my fingertips every inch of you,

2336
01:55:00,160 --> 01:55:01,360
Speaker 6: because I know I s.

2337
01:55:01,400 --> 01:55:05,640
Speaker 1: Left she want me to do, and this love can't

2338
01:55:05,960 --> 01:55:11,360
Speaker 1: taken it soul on me. She said goodbye too many

2339
01:55:11,640 --> 01:55:18,040
Speaker 1: times before. Her heart is breaking it from up me,

2340
01:55:18,440 --> 01:55:23,520
Speaker 1: and I had no choice because I won't say goodbye anymore.

2341
01:55:24,320 --> 01:55:26,920
Speaker 1: This love half taken.

2342
01:55:26,840 --> 01:55:28,120
Speaker 2: This tol on me.

2343
01:55:28,680 --> 01:55:35,280
Speaker 1: She said goodbye too many times before, and my heart

2344
01:55:35,800 --> 01:55:41,200
Speaker 1: is breaking in front of me. She said goodbye too

2345
01:55:41,360 --> 01:55:52,640
Speaker 1: many hobbefore her her, hey, please leerve her haigh.

2346
01:56:00,200 --> 01:56:04,960
Speaker 2: It is then, it is the