Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
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Speaker 1: like that, we're back on the Welcome back to another
Speaker 1: Carefully Reckless episode with your girl Dresslers. Today, I got
Speaker 1: one of my good friends, Librea Shannon. I started because
Speaker 1: we call a bread but I like her Labreah Like, damn,
Speaker 1: what's up, y'all? What's your famer is line? What's going on?
Speaker 1: What's actually? I always say that you don't want to fight,
Speaker 1: but yeah, so might we'll fight? We can shut up
Speaker 1: today's topic? Today's topic is, uh, it's rather debatable, y'all
Speaker 1: know I always go against the grain to talk about
Speaker 1: the ship that will forever be debatable. It's letting go,
Speaker 1: letting go of someone, not friendship, not a family member,
Speaker 1: but guys any vice versa. You know, if you let
Speaker 1: gold female let go of a guy, it could be
Speaker 1: very hard. And I brought my hurling because she went
Speaker 1: through that recently. I've been through it plenty of times,
Speaker 1: and I just want a different person speed that other
Speaker 1: than myself and my fans. So yeah, I'm here for
Speaker 1: what's up? Man? I'm ready to tell my story. So
Speaker 1: you've been a relationship, a long term relationship. Tell me
Speaker 1: about it. How long was it? It It was some years?
Speaker 1: And then ain't in pretty well for me? It didn't
Speaker 1: end well for you. What you may, okay and tell
Speaker 1: me I was down and stopped. Okay, so he talked.
Speaker 1: He he left you? Yeah, pretty much, he left you. Okay,
Speaker 1: what did you do? You know what I'm saying? Why?
Speaker 1: Why was it? Why did we leave you? You know?
Speaker 1: I feel like I gave too much and it wasn't reciprocated,
Speaker 1: and so when it was time to like, um, when
Speaker 1: when stuff started getting shaking rocky, it was like I
Speaker 1: was that one. It was always going to be there. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I get it. So you were convenient for this man
Speaker 1: basically pretty much she used up all that you gave.
Speaker 1: As long as you were giving, he was using it up.
Speaker 1: And like I said, restiprocity wasn't in place, Like he
Speaker 1: was not giving you what you were giving him, which
Speaker 1: a lot of times is the case, you know, And
Speaker 1: that's on mad and female side, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like I've been on both ends of that stick, like
Speaker 1: where I give a guy too much and then I
Speaker 1: get almost nothing at all. And then the album gives
Speaker 1: me is everything and that's not the one I want,
Speaker 1: you know, so it's like we all go through that.
Speaker 1: Um how did it get to I feel like at
Speaker 1: the moment in my life, I was very vulnerable. You were.
Speaker 1: So my vulnerability gave in to some situations that probably
Speaker 1: wasn't for me. And so because I was vulnerable, I
Speaker 1: was I was with it. What were you vulnerable? Was
Speaker 1: it where you were coming from a previous relationship where
Speaker 1: you want drugs? Like what was going on? How how
Speaker 1: were you drugs enough? It just was like you know,
Speaker 1: like life period, like you know, there was a lot
Speaker 1: of ship going and he was there. He was your ear,
Speaker 1: your my my happy old partner, my my eating partner,
Speaker 1: and my I can just tell everything to then stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's how you fall in love. Those are all of
Speaker 1: the ingredients too. I'm falling for you, especially when you've
Speaker 1: got a happy hour. We got hell, everybody happy from
Speaker 1: the hent the you know what was next, But it
Speaker 1: was everything was like a heavy rotation, like we was
Speaker 1: just vibing and like you know, it was friends first,
Speaker 1: Like I think you didn't get the fan Like we
Speaker 1: was friends first, and then you know, things went from
Speaker 1: a to b whatever, whatever, whatever. That's another story from
Speaker 1: over day. But yeah, we didn't we didn't cover it.
Speaker 1: Next week. I'll come back. I'll come back with the street,
Speaker 1: I co juice. I gotta take a slow with stuff.
Speaker 1: You'll come back with. I'm sorry, guys, an't gonna cheese
Speaker 1: from deep deep down to Baltimore. So she said she's
Speaker 1: gonna come back with the j the team, the team.
Speaker 1: You'll come back with the tea. I'm stand okay, come
Speaker 1: over with the tea. I know they want here to
Speaker 1: tea anyway. So and he left you, Okay, you use
Speaker 1: damn or whatever. Okay, did you ever try to rekindle that? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: I wanted to fight for without without love, without even
Speaker 1: though you gave, even though you were the one given everything,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like, and it was not
Speaker 1: even want to say. I mean, my heart definitely was involved.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say I gave every everything. Because he
Speaker 1: did give some expect of the friendship relationship type of situation.
Speaker 1: I was like situation ships. I say, that's a situation ship.
Speaker 1: So he did give some parts. But it was like
Speaker 1: when things got rocking and got shaky, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: went left I'm like, I thought we was in this together, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so did he ever like, let me ask you this,
Speaker 1: he ever ad he ever told you straight up we're together? No,
Speaker 1: I was going together stuff. No, yeah, definitely understand you.
Speaker 1: I asked you that because nowadays, even though this is
Speaker 1: back then, Yahn, the days, that's what you kind of
Speaker 1: gotta ask. You know what I'm saying, because gods will
Speaker 1: play that game. They would play that game even we do.
Speaker 1: You know we do too, But guys who play that game,
Speaker 1: they will do together, ship with you and then still
Speaker 1: be talking about these singles on the truths in facts,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, and that hurts. That hurts.
Speaker 1: That hurts you as a female because here you're thinking
Speaker 1: it's one thing even because some sometimes some things are
Speaker 1: better left them said, what's what's understood? They've got to
Speaker 1: be So that's what you were saying. I'm spoken, we
Speaker 1: are together. You know, we shouldn't have to still be
Speaker 1: like oh worth that short, but you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But as a shame now the days you still have
Speaker 1: to So where is he now? I ain't even talking
Speaker 1: to him? And in the last time you try to
Speaker 1: get back with him. How did you do that? Did
Speaker 1: you pop up on them? No? I checked out. I
Speaker 1: definitely chocked out. I've had my crazy days, definitely chilled though.
Speaker 1: I mean, this is this is like the this is
Speaker 1: like the low this is like the low key me,
Speaker 1: like because I'm that one, like you said, I jump
Speaker 1: out there, but it's like these plast a couple of years.
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, like let some stuff ride, but
Speaker 1: like and then it didn't hurt me inside. But I'm
Speaker 1: trying to because I'm a chowing and I'm I'm trying
Speaker 1: to do things differently and that makes an I'm thirty three.
Speaker 1: All right, Well look this situation definitely has you know,
Speaker 1: revamped you me, bro. I can tell even how you
Speaker 1: even how you speak, how you handle a certain situations,
Speaker 1: how we're out. Sometimes you tell me how to handle
Speaker 1: a certain situations. You know what I'm saying, Like you're
Speaker 1: my bigg a little friend. You know she's not. She's
Speaker 1: she's three eleven, but she no, I wish your height,
Speaker 1: you know, you fool bad. I had to give it
Speaker 1: anyone foot. She four eleven. She got a big personality,
Speaker 1: big voice. So a lot of people arender asking me
Speaker 1: her but this is one motherfucker's a five cracker when
Speaker 1: she take it to that point, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Other than that she cool cool is a motherfucking fan,
Speaker 1: real laid back. And that's why that brings me to this,
Speaker 1: did he leave you for somebody else? And that we
Speaker 1: want to rewind some stuff? And that's the case because so,
Speaker 1: so what happened was how we kind of got together
Speaker 1: with whatever situation she was dealing at the moment, because
Speaker 1: he was una vulnerable state. I was available, I was
Speaker 1: around whatever. Um it was going downhill. Okay, So when
Speaker 1: he met you, he was already on the outskirt somebody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he was telling you. He was saying yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: and he was doing it, was doing some single stuff
Speaker 1: like just like he was doing together. Yeah. So yeah,
Speaker 1: there was doing some single stuff. Got to yeah, facts
Speaker 1: got gotten. So yeah, and so I mean it was
Speaker 1: it was a thing like yeah, it was like I
Speaker 1: can tell it made you feel good fast. He felt
Speaker 1: for him. You were vulnerable. He was trying to like
Speaker 1: basically you were. I wouldn't make a decision without this man.
Speaker 1: It was like thing. So and then they was like
Speaker 1: what SOULTI, let's say yeah, and how long did this
Speaker 1: go on for? For years? Four years? I would have
Speaker 1: thought we were married for years time, but you just
Speaker 1: thought he was your your boyfriend. I would have thought
Speaker 1: we were engaged like for nobody just situation ship for
Speaker 1: four years and so now I can't get pass and
Speaker 1: now yo damn yo. Now it just messes up my
Speaker 1: relationships with men now okay, because it is like yeah,
Speaker 1: effects like I'm I'm a good person being around people.
Speaker 1: I feel like, why do you want to be around me?
Speaker 1: Like what? Like what is it about me? And look
Speaker 1: at you still questioning yourself. You've been like better than
Speaker 1: scarred by the relationship because never are you ever supposed
Speaker 1: to question yourself why somebody gonna be around you? When
Speaker 1: I met you, I took to you like because out
Speaker 1: of all the bitches in the room and all you
Speaker 1: know whatever, Like you know what I'm saying, Like you're funny,
Speaker 1: you have a genuine spirit. And all I do is
Speaker 1: make people laugh. That's my job, that's my career, and
Speaker 1: that's my social obligation. Like you know, I make people
Speaker 1: laugh when I feel like they're saying you made me
Speaker 1: like the whole day made me like every time I
Speaker 1: am around you like you play a lot, like you're
Speaker 1: really a good friend and you just help me move.
Speaker 1: You didn't have to do that, But if you move,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna help you. So that's what you or something, baby,
Speaker 1: I bet it call somebody. In all seriousness, you're a
Speaker 1: really really good person and you're even better catch. So
Speaker 1: don't have a next that thanks. You know what I'm
Speaker 1: saying that nigga just sucked up, that's what. But I'm
Speaker 1: just saying like just like my relationships with people men
Speaker 1: more more say, like when I'm trying to date or
Speaker 1: when I'm trying to like go out, like it's just
Speaker 1: to be like little thing just ticking him. Like like
Speaker 1: every red flags, I'm red flagging it. So because you
Speaker 1: don't want you're real flagging it because you don't want
Speaker 1: the same thing that happen or red flags don't want
Speaker 1: the same thing happening again. And it's like am I ready,
Speaker 1: Like I'm just red flagging everything like yeah they did that. No, No,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I don't want to, like
Speaker 1: I don't want my insecurity to jump out of it either,
Speaker 1: like I'm trying to. You know, it was very easy
Speaker 1: for that to have let you know, because he didn't
Speaker 1: do that. He whoever you're dating now, like he he
Speaker 1: didn't do with yo, did you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: he's not him, so he can't pay for I'm saying,
Speaker 1: he didn't make you know, and and said at the
Speaker 1: same time, you never want to give a guy too much,
Speaker 1: because that's the end. So like hurt people. Hurt people,
Speaker 1: that's a thing. That's a real thing people do or people.
Speaker 1: You know, You're definitely right. That comes with only friends
Speaker 1: and whoever guys they do it, and they do it subconsciously,
Speaker 1: like he don't even know. We're so busy trying to
Speaker 1: get over the girl that he was with that he
Speaker 1: made you fall in love and then ended up going
Speaker 1: back retracking. That's what he did, so we ended up
Speaker 1: going back. Okay, they're together, Karen, to my knowledge, chance
Speaker 1: you know that. So you're still checking. I ain't checking,
Speaker 1: aver course, maybe I ain't checking out of things. To
Speaker 1: my knowledge, I don't go I don't checking about the thing. Baby.
Speaker 1: I promise you ain't checking. I promise you might have checking.
Speaker 1: I'm promise trying to check it. Let's stop the breaking.
Speaker 1: I promise you like ain't checking about it. So look
Speaker 1: when you were trying to rekindle it, when you were
Speaker 1: trying to get real quainting, just you know, how was
Speaker 1: he you know how we you know how we as
Speaker 1: women do we want that extra closure, like you know,
Speaker 1: was this what it is like? Like? But he didn't
Speaker 1: give me, Like he didn't give me what I was
Speaker 1: choking for. Just say that it's over, like, just say
Speaker 1: it's He wouldn't say he because he still wanted to
Speaker 1: have you for a reserve, just in case shorty fund
Speaker 1: up again, just the case he funked up again, because
Speaker 1: he could have sunked up and she got tired of it,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it could have been
Speaker 1: any type of situation. It could have been on her,
Speaker 1: it could have been on him. But I'm glad that
Speaker 1: he didn't because he would have kept stringing along. He
Speaker 1: would have been playing the games and not saying that
Speaker 1: he never liked you, never loved you whatever, because you
Speaker 1: too you too likable for somebody not to like you.
Speaker 1: You're too like No, you just you're like everything type person.
Speaker 1: So it's not saying that he didn't, but he was
Speaker 1: just in something else that he thought that he could
Speaker 1: get over. So exactly, I'm glad did that happened because
Speaker 1: I taught you something and it taught him something to
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So, is there anybody in
Speaker 1: the picture now, because you said it affects your dating?
Speaker 1: Is there anybody in the picture or you just you know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but they don't know, they don't know, like I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean he's talked to some mond. You mean,
Speaker 1: I mean you're talking to some mone some guys. That
Speaker 1: means somebody. I'm just you know, I mean, it's your
Speaker 1: deep deep Baltimore, this sea thing out of you. So yeah, um,
Speaker 1: she talked to some miney, she talks to one. So
Speaker 1: you're talk going first, chess, what's going on? I mean,
Speaker 1: all you think is gonna be listening to started like
Speaker 1: you might will just come out and be like I'm sucking.
Speaker 1: So I'm talking to you, did not love to I
Speaker 1: ain't sharing this, y'all. Oh no, you got this, but
Speaker 1: I'm sharing it's going up black effect. But yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I'm talking to somebody, Okay, all right? And how
Speaker 1: is your past relationship affecting that? Because very much affected
Speaker 1: a lot that us. How let me know because like
Speaker 1: the person that gives I mean, they'll meet me when
Speaker 1: I'm at but it's like I get scared, I'll beck away,
Speaker 1: like so you'll you'll go in and then you get
Speaker 1: so sick I'm going and then not yeah, you won't
Speaker 1: jump m And I said, it's going to take to
Speaker 1: scare you forbid yourself to be hurt. You refused to
Speaker 1: get hurt against if you just it's like I'm always
Speaker 1: It's like it's like some people like you're the whole nigga.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what what like you're not like these tendencies
Speaker 1: just like men playable women or men lead women and
Speaker 1: not even noticing in the houtsight, you're kind of doing
Speaker 1: the same thing that you'll did to you you won't go.
Speaker 1: How long have you been talking to this person dating
Speaker 1: this person outside? Because talking to this trash, I mean
Speaker 1: it's been a little minute now, it's been a little minute.
Speaker 1: What's the little man? Like, what's the bottom moment? What
Speaker 1: the women? It could be anything, it's examplicandplican. It can
Speaker 1: literally be one minute, it can be a year. I'll
Speaker 1: just give it us a minute. So what a minute?
Speaker 1: A minute? Okay, so almost two minutes. Very cool, And
Speaker 1: do you feel yourself holding back? Absolutely? Okay? And what ways?
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm guard it, like my how does god? Mom?
Speaker 1: Does he feel that? Does he see that? I don't.
Speaker 1: They never put it to my attention. I just know
Speaker 1: where I'm at. See, you're selfish, You're very selfish. You've
Speaker 1: been dealing with this guy for bottomore minute and a
Speaker 1: half and you really really are doing him like Ted
Speaker 1: was doing you. I'm just gonna give him a name.
Speaker 1: I don't want him saying Yo, I'm gonna say Ted.
Speaker 1: I'm really not though, because you are. I'm not. I'm not.
Speaker 1: You're not giving him You're all and he's what's my own? What?
Speaker 1: What's what's my own? And he was like like, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm just still got it after the day, though, like
Speaker 1: give it all? Long ago? Was this? What depend the
Speaker 1: first guy that the breakup? I spent a minute to no, No,
Speaker 1: what's how long has it been? And we're not gonna
Speaker 1: keep doing that? How long? Like three minutes? So like
Speaker 1: three years? Alright? Cool, So it's been three years and
Speaker 1: you still won't get over that ship. Oh no, it ain't. No,
Speaker 1: it ain't been three years. But it feels like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it feels yeah, Okay, I get it, I get it. Well,
Speaker 1: let's put it like this, how long do you expect
Speaker 1: for him to continue to give his own and you're not.
Speaker 1: I don't even think he's giving his own. I think
Speaker 1: i'm any what you talking of? Bitches? Absolutely the DMC jumping.
Speaker 1: What does do? Should you be in his d ms?
Speaker 1: I don't be in them, but they'd be in them. Oh,
Speaker 1: they've be in them. You don't be in them. But
Speaker 1: it's funny how you keep knowing I met him through
Speaker 1: the d you met him in the d M. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you can't even argue I can't argue with that.
Speaker 1: But you didn't even same upset about it. You seem
Speaker 1: like you're okay with the d M business. I mean
Speaker 1: because I'm you know what you're given at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, and you know that he still has
Speaker 1: to be compensated for what you're lacking. That's a plus,
Speaker 1: It's true. Okay, So do you ever see yourself getting
Speaker 1: back with the ass like if Dennig it was to
Speaker 1: drop that bitch right now and be like, look, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm giving myself to you. Like honestly, I know I
Speaker 1: did you wrong, but I went back just to see
Speaker 1: if it were worka Sometimes it was like that um
Speaker 1: prime example. Just listen, I'm gonna bring it back. I
Speaker 1: was with Ashton's father. I was in love with one
Speaker 1: guy other than Ashton's father. In love, I didn't say
Speaker 1: I only loved when I was in love with one guy, right.
Speaker 1: That was my ax. Now he was he came right
Speaker 1: after wrong. Now. I left him to go back to
Speaker 1: Rome to see if that's what I really wanted because
Speaker 1: my baby was so young, and I didn't want Ashton
Speaker 1: to grow up without the family dynamic. And then my
Speaker 1: parents were married and then all that, like I wanted
Speaker 1: him to grow up like I grew up. And then
Speaker 1: with Rome, his mom died at ten, and then his dad,
Speaker 1: you know, being here with me and there at the
Speaker 1: same time, and stepmother's grandmother's reason that everybody I didn't
Speaker 1: want as to have that, you know, not realizing that
Speaker 1: he doesn't have to have that. It could be a
Speaker 1: healthy co parents and relationship. I went back a double back,
Speaker 1: and I tried it, and I went back to him,
Speaker 1: and the nigger cheated on me in seventy two hours,
Speaker 1: so I lost the only guy who I felt like
Speaker 1: would give me his all, but I've ever had in
Speaker 1: my life, you know, and and and then now like
Speaker 1: and there was I went back and then theyga cheated
Speaker 1: on me with somebody that he worked with Rome. So
Speaker 1: it's just like yo, when I say Rome, it's taking
Speaker 1: me through a lot, Like now he's my brother, but
Speaker 1: like he's taken me through a lot, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. But sometimes people go back just to see
Speaker 1: that last what if he was to do that? Would
Speaker 1: you believe that? Would you? Would you drop everything? I
Speaker 1: would not. I gave him way too much power the
Speaker 1: first over year, way too much. And like when when
Speaker 1: it was over, I felt the power. I didn't have
Speaker 1: no power because I gave it all. So at the rebuild,
Speaker 1: like rebuilding, like you gotta go through that stage of
Speaker 1: rebuilding by by yourself, and then you trying to date
Speaker 1: other people or trying to talk to other people, see
Speaker 1: other people. That ain't a good That's why sometimes I
Speaker 1: don't want to come out. I don't even want to
Speaker 1: go with people like you know what I'm I'm always good,
Speaker 1: You're gonna happ but it's like then, yeah, I won't
Speaker 1: go home with that, Like I don't want to really
Speaker 1: be around people like that, especially when it comes to guys,
Speaker 1: because I mean, I'm just feel like I'm walking on
Speaker 1: pins and needles, if that makes sense, And I mean
Speaker 1: nobody shouldn't be feel that kind of way, will be
Speaker 1: that kind of way, and not every guy is the saying,
Speaker 1: let's be very clear. But because I'm in my rebuilding stage,
Speaker 1: in my rebuilding process, it's gonna it takes time. I
Speaker 1: don't want to jump out of one thing and didn't
Speaker 1: jump into another thing because of the day, I'm still
Speaker 1: not gonna be satisfied because at the day, I still
Speaker 1: to love myself, and so can I checked out of
Speaker 1: one thing and getting into another thing. When am I
Speaker 1: gonna have time for me to see the things that
Speaker 1: I like. I don't like, you know, I like going
Speaker 1: on by myself. I wan't around with that. I'll go
Speaker 1: anywhere in this world by myself. I already traveled by myself.
Speaker 1: Like I'll get on the plane any day. People like
Speaker 1: you're going, yeah, I'm going by myself. Who you girl?
Speaker 1: When he was like I want to this and I
Speaker 1: was like, who do you do out there? And so
Speaker 1: I mean that's that's a part of me getting to
Speaker 1: know who I am, what I like, what I don't like,
Speaker 1: rebuilding my style because I was never always this way.
Speaker 1: So coming out of that relationship, with that situation ship,
Speaker 1: it took something from me, like it took it took something,
Speaker 1: and so I had to pull back into myself. And
Speaker 1: I never grew up with a family like mother and
Speaker 1: father in the same house and all that stuff. So
Speaker 1: it's like I had to teach myself how to um,
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship or to deal with somebody
Speaker 1: because I had to do it with a lot of
Speaker 1: trial and error. So I feel like my last situation
Speaker 1: was a trial and it was an error to get
Speaker 1: me ready for something else, but something I'll be able
Speaker 1: to trust, not question and not you know, I don't
Speaker 1: wanted to question nobody and being secure because in fact,
Speaker 1: so I don't want to go through that. So I
Speaker 1: just take these more. I mean, like I said, I
Speaker 1: talked to somebody. At the end of the day, I'm
Speaker 1: still rebuilding Bria who Brill is like, yeah, and I
Speaker 1: can't put no time limit on that. When you know,
Speaker 1: I can't do that like when I'm whole, because I'm
Speaker 1: not whole. So when I'm whole, and I can't really
Speaker 1: like give myself to somebody, you know, completely, because I
Speaker 1: cannot give because it's gonna be half and half and half.
Speaker 1: I'm give you this piece of me, this like it's
Speaker 1: gonna be divided up, and I don't want to do
Speaker 1: that to anybody. So right now, I'm okay where I'm
Speaker 1: where I am. I like my friend were good, like
Speaker 1: nothing comes between any any of that. He respect where
Speaker 1: I am. You know, we have a little conversations here
Speaker 1: and there, like yo, you know, I say a little
Speaker 1: stuff in there, but you know, yeah, so I mean
Speaker 1: I said, I don't know, I'm not innocent, like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I love going everything, but I have
Speaker 1: some mess up and I do something, do some little
Speaker 1: stuff or whatever. But you know, I ain't never gonna
Speaker 1: be on here bursting nobody nothing like that, Like you
Speaker 1: ain't nobody wanted to tell you know nothing about me.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That's that's true that I
Speaker 1: can't say, yeah, that's true, if that makes sense. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm abouted through a little bumping the rule.
Speaker 1: But I'm picking myself up. I'm picking the pieces up
Speaker 1: and I'm just moving forward and at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, that's all you can do. Thank you, That's
Speaker 1: all you can do. And I want to come in
Speaker 1: you coming over here being so open. I had to
Speaker 1: pull some ship out of you. But you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, if you never know who else is going
Speaker 1: through this ship, that's why I do this ship. You
Speaker 1: know it's called carefree record school weets and you know
Speaker 1: you we talked about ship that women don't want to
Speaker 1: open up about two other women, you know, because you
Speaker 1: don't want to look like this, or you don't want
Speaker 1: to be judged, or you're I never do that in
Speaker 1: the same bitches that be coming on like I would
Speaker 1: never do that. When when people keep cheating, when we
Speaker 1: see these celebrities going through life as a safari and
Speaker 1: and got the America, the amount of people in the
Speaker 1: fucking comments bashing this girl and y'all going through the
Speaker 1: same ship for free at home they're getting paid for.
Speaker 1: Nobody should to go for it, y'all. Nobody should go
Speaker 1: through it. But who are you to sit behind your
Speaker 1: your act, your free act and talk about somebody that's
Speaker 1: going through the same ship that you went through or
Speaker 1: you're going through or you're gonna go through act like
Speaker 1: I feel like we're supposed to learn from these motherfucker's
Speaker 1: on the scene because they're going they like online and
Speaker 1: ship cool, learn from that. Ship. I've been through it.
Speaker 1: I didn't handle it like they're handling it. But ship,
Speaker 1: you never know. It's different shows to different books. What
Speaker 1: were you about to ask? How do you feel about
Speaker 1: the situation? You know, what's the guy named on Instagram?
Speaker 1: Just than justin Little Boys? Justin Little Boy, you don't
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