1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: My best friend became a lawyer, so then she dumped 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: her boyfriend. Am I the asshole for calling her an asshole? 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 2: How do the two correlate? 4 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: Because I guess she's rich and successful and a lawyer. 5 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: Now she doesn't need no hanger on. 6 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 3: Man's another independent woman's story. 7 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 2: We love it's independent, all right. 8 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: Let's see if you're on the side of this independent 9 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: woman after hear this story. So, my female thirty two 10 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: best childhood friend, female thirty two just became a lawyer 11 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: and then dumped her boyfriend. My best friend and I 12 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 1: grew up in poverty. We had not much opportunities for 13 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: an education for young women in our area. 14 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 2: Our options were. 15 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 1: Retail drug dealing, prostitution, or hoping a rich guy would 16 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: notice us. For guys, it was retail drug dealing or 17 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: finding one of the few factory jobs remaining. Not great options, 18 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 1: not great options. I got lucky and managed to date 19 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: a med student. He helped open doors for me, and 20 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 1: I have become a teacher in a school in a 21 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: lower socio economic area to provide those opportunities. My husband 22 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: is now a doctor flex So it seems like she 23 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: she kind of got it. She got it, She got 24 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: it and now she's like, she got out. She got out, 25 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: and now she's, you. 26 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 2: Know, teaching. 27 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 3: She got out and went up. 28 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: My friend tried that option but was not as lucky. 29 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 1: She was working a minimum wage retail job at twenty five. 30 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: While doing so, she got friendly with a factory worker, 31 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: mail thirty, who came by regularly and they started dating. 32 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: He knew he was not the academic type. School was 33 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: not for him, but he also saw potential in my 34 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 1: friend and. 35 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 2: Encouraged her to go to school. 36 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: She had dreams of becoming a criminal prosecutor, and he 37 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: encouraged her to not to give up. He took out 38 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: whatever loan he could find so that she could get education. 39 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: So he's supporting her and getting the education. 40 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 2: Wow. 41 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 1: He supported her through and through, did the housework, worked 42 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: extra shifts, everything so she could. 43 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 2: Get an education. 44 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. 45 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: My friend persevered, graduated and became a lawyer, and then 46 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: shortly after she broke up with her boyfriend just as 47 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: he was planning on proposing to her. 48 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 2: Yikes, yikes, that's so rough. 49 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 3: I maybe take back my comment about the independent woman. 50 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 3: I mean, good for her for finding up, becoming a 51 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 3: lawyer and figuring out what she wants and not not 52 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 3: being him, but I think she owes him at least money. 53 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, if he's taken out loans to support her, like, 54 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 1: I think he was probably thinking they're like a unit 55 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: and are going to be married, and so it's like 56 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: her money is his money, his money is her money. Yeah, 57 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: maybe that maybe that was what what what what he's thinking, 58 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 1: which you. 59 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 2: Know, like that is uh uh yeah, that's uh that's 60 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: a lot. 61 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 3: That's a lot, but it's it's also a way to 62 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 3: make her feel trapped. 63 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 2: It is it is true that that is a good 64 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 2: flip set. 65 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, I don't know if I would 66 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: pay the student loans of a girl I was dating 67 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: unless I could really afford. Yeah, like if it was 68 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: like easier for me, then yeah. But if I was 69 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: like work in a factory job, I don't know if 70 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: I'd be like taking out loans. 71 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 2: That's kind of silly. No, but then I don't know. 72 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, we got a little bit more, but I 73 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 1: want to hear your full full analysis at the end. 74 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: So okay, well this might make you think less of 75 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:23,519 Speaker 1: her now. So she said that she is a professional 76 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: and she had no interest being married to a working 77 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: class man, and that she deserves better and a real man. 78 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 2: She did not say that. 79 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: I was horrified and told her that she is betraying 80 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: a man who supported her through all of this and 81 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 1: made her what she is. She got mad and said 82 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: it is not the woman's job to pay the bills 83 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: and that I am being a hypocrite because my husband 84 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: makes a lot more money than me. She further said 85 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: that the idea of marriage as a life partnership is 86 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: a patriarchal construct, that she has the right to date 87 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: whoever she wants, and that as a feminist I should 88 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: be supporting her, which some of what. 89 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 2: She's saying is true. 90 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: Some of what she's saying is true, but there might 91 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: still be a little little bit of dick moves in there. 92 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: I told her that she is not only a major asshole, 93 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: she's giving feminists a bad name, because feminism means women 94 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 1: financially supporting their male partners as much as in the reverse. 95 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: So what do you think of this whole situation? Do 96 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 1: you think op is right in saying that this girl 97 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 1: as an a hole? And also what do you think 98 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: of like the feminist angle of this, like the arguments 99 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: around what applies and what doesn't apply as it pertains 100 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 1: to feminism. 101 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 2: I know we're gonna, right, we're diving deep. 102 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think that it honestly, the lawyer woman, 103 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 3: she doesn't know what feminism is. I mean it doesn't 104 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 3: really sound like she said that the man should be 105 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 3: the breadwinner and she's calling herself a feminist. 106 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's right, is it. I like, this's a little contradictory. 107 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 3: It's extremely it's actually exactly what feminism is not. Yeah, 108 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 3: and you know, I understand her. You know, she's like, 109 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 3: I'm a feminist and I want to you know, be 110 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:20,039 Speaker 3: with different people, and you should support that. Okay, okay, okay, no, no, no, no, no, 111 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 3: that's just an excuse. You're using feminism as an excuse 112 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 3: for your guilt. 113 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 114 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 3: I think she's a little it's shitty behavior. I think 115 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 3: she's guilty, and she's you know, trying to make it 116 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 3: seem like she's doing something that's super brave and bold. 117 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: I also feel like she may have taken advantage of 118 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 1: this guy because the fact that like she stayed with 119 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: him up until she got like got the lawyer position, 120 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't need you anymore. 121 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 2: Like that kind of rubs me the wrong way. 122 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 3: And she also equated him not him having a working 123 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 3: class job and not being a real man. I've actually 124 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 3: never heard of something. I've never heard of something more manly, 125 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 3: freaking like someone putting his own needs and you know, 126 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 3: finance potential savings aside to support a woman that he 127 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 3: believes in. Yeah, that's that's feminism what he was doing. 128 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 3: What's feminism? He's the feminist? 129 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: I also, But I do believe, like you know, just 130 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 1: because he's helping her out doesn't mean he's entitled to 131 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 1: her love or marriage for like buy her as well, 132 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: and so like, you know, help her if he wants. 133 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 1: But I think that's all. It's also a learning lesson. 134 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: It's like she she technically she doesn't owe you anything. 135 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 1: If you want to do these things, you can, but 136 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: she doesn't. It's still a dick move, But she doesn't. 137 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: She doesn't owe you yet either. So Yeah, where do 138 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: you land? Is is this lady the a hole? And 139 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: is the friend the a hole? For calling her an 140 00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: a hole? 141 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 3: I think the friend is a good friend for calling 142 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 3: her out. I think a good friend will call you 143 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 3: out and your behavior. 144 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, Yeah, and then do you think 145 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: that do you think the friend is an asshole for 146 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 1: what she did and what she said? 147 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 3: You know, I think there's a lot more context to 148 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 3: be had because we don't know if this man was 149 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 3: hanging it over her head as a way to manipulate her. 150 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 3: I think based on the wording that op you know, 151 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 3: put down there in the in the conversations, I think 152 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 3: it really sounded like she was she's the villain of 153 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 3: the story. 154 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: We always need more context. We don't know how this 155 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: relationship works. But based on the story I'm getting at, 156 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: I'm getting asshole vibes, especially though quote that quote is 157 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 1: like I want a real man and not some working 158 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: class dude, which also I think of like the working 159 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 1: class guy in the steel mill with like that, like 160 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: like that's like freaking like transformers, like old school, like manly, 161 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: manly shit bro like I do it in the office, 162 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: typing on a freaking computer like like that's like like 163 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: I feel like that's not the classic definition of masculine. 164 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: So like I don't know, it's all, it's all walked out. 165 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: It doesn't make any sense. 166 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 3: She doesn't understand gender roles at all. 167 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 1: No way, no how, But this is not really related, 168 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: but we love reading our comments from our public subscribers. 169 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: And jam Girl K eighty four says, what's wrong with cartoons? 170 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: I'm thirty eight and I watch cartoons and animate to relax. Honestly, 171 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: after reading this blood boiling story, I might have to 172 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: watch some anime and relax. But Elina, thank you so 173 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: much for coming on. I appreciate you coming on the pod, 174 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 1: and uh hopefully we'll have you on soon. 175 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 4: Thank you for having me so today. Fed up by 176 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 4: being too open minded on a post looking for roommates. 177 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: If you need a roommate and you need to pay 178 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: for rent, like you're gonna be opened to anyone. But 179 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:06,079 Speaker 1: sometimes there are certain roommates that are not good to have. 180 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: And actually I have a story about this. After the story, 181 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: I'm excited terrible stalker roommate that I had for real. 182 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 1: Pretty much the title my post, looking for roommates in 183 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: New York City said open to four twenty plus LGBTQ 184 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: plus pets plus whatever. Just be normal and pay on time, 185 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: and pay on time. 186 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 4: I thought I was being open and accepting, pay your 187 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:33,559 Speaker 4: rent and don't be creepy. Those are my basic parameters. 188 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 4: Pretty good rules so naturally, a heroin addict moved in, 189 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 4: and shortly after a girl I had never seen before 190 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 4: odd and passed away in my apartment. 191 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that escalated so quickly. Dude, this is 192 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: why you don't go with random roommates. 193 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 2: That's bad. That's very, very very bad. 194 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:56,319 Speaker 4: Later, the roommate told me that he assumed four to 195 00:09:56,400 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 4: twenty plus meant hard drugs, good to go. 196 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 2: What does four twenty plus mean heroin? 197 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 3: Not? 198 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no no. What does four twenty 199 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: plus mean? Like like weed and trooms? 200 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:11,839 Speaker 4: I think I think he was like, Okay, I'm gonna 201 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:13,959 Speaker 4: do the LGBTQ plus, so I'll just put the plus 202 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 4: on the other things, just like I don't know any thing. Yeah, 203 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 4: but but no, he said, that's why he moved in, 204 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 4: And I did not mean for twenty plus like that. 205 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:31,319 Speaker 4: Heroin is not weed, ladies, gentlemen, Heroin is not hey kids, 206 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 4: Heroin is not weed. So you know, uh, Now, I've 207 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 4: seen a dead person, bags of needles, and a dead 208 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 4: person in a body bag, all on the same night, 209 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 4: all a nice New York for you. I guess it 210 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 4: was her second time doing heroin. She was hammered, drunk, 211 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 4: they gave her a narcand but it didn't work well enough. 212 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 4: Apparently the roommate was a surprisingly good dude and a friend. 213 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 4: He is clean and sober. Now, I have never had 214 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 4: random roommates. Again, don't do drugs, kids. 215 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 2: Don't do drugs, and don't get random roommates. Good God, 216 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 2: So what's your story. 217 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 1: So one of my ex roommates was like, I want 218 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: to randomly go to like I think it was like 219 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: Puerto Rico for a month. And he told us like 220 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 1: two weeks before he was going to leave, and like, 221 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: you know, if you're going to leave and you want 222 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: to sublet your spot, like you got to find someone 223 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: or like just like eat the cash. But he's like, no, 224 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: I want to find a sublet, and so he just 225 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: posted randomly on Facebook, right, And we found this girl 226 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 1: through Facebook and yeah, our name was actually I won't 227 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: even say yeah, yeah yeah, And the first time we 228 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: met her was she's like like, oh, like like Lena, 229 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: let's jump on a call or a zoom. She's like, actually, 230 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: could you meet me in this virtual world and meet 231 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 1: me by the campfire? 232 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 2: Like what? 233 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 1: And so she like sends us this link to walk 234 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 1: to like like walk to this campfire and you end 235 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:01,719 Speaker 1: up being this little person and I'm like, oh, I 236 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: guess that's kind of cute. Yeah, And then as we're walking, 237 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 1: Marcel's like this is fucking weird. And as we're walking 238 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 1: towards the campfire, she like appears on screen slowly and 239 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: or like, oh shit, did she hear? And it was 240 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: like she was definitely weird but whatever, and she comes 241 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 1: in and she is literally the weirdest person ever. Like 242 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 1: she's like she says she's allergic to sun so she 243 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: can't like go out during the night or go out 244 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 1: during the day. She can only go out during night. 245 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: She has like the weirdest friends come over that she 246 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: doesn't It doesn't seem like she actually knows. It seems 247 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,680 Speaker 1: like she just like picks them up off the streets 248 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 1: and just like brings them into the house. Oh shit, 249 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: how what how did this happen? Because I remember she 250 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 1: was like banging on pots and stuff. Oh I remember 251 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: she would like like Christian and I were sleeping and 252 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: she came into her room and just like knocked on 253 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: our door incessantly until we woke up, and we're like, dude, 254 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: what's up. And she's like, oh, I just I just 255 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 1: I just want to let you know that I'm home, Like, dude, 256 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: we're sleeping. It was like really creepy and weird. Right, 257 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: it was just like late at night. Yeah, it was 258 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: like it was like midnight, like what are you doing? 259 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 2: Right? 260 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 1: And then we're like, hey, you know, if you know, 261 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: we kind of have to respect her boundaries, like don't 262 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 1: go in a room if you not invited in there, right, yeah, 263 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: And then she was so mad. The next day she 264 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 1: started blasting you know, like you know, like you know, 265 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:30,839 Speaker 1: the the movie like when You're a Jet, You're a 266 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: jet all the way, like, uh, you know West Side Story, 267 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, or the play. She was blasting West 268 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 1: Side Story on a record player the next day, but 269 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: it wasn't West Side Story. It was like the Looney 270 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: Tunes West Side Story, And so it was super annoying. 271 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 1: And she was banging on the pots and pans like 272 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: like cooking, but food was flying everywhere, and I'm like, 273 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: is something wrong and she's like, no, not something, and 274 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 1: nothing's wrong. And when I went to the kitchen, she 275 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 1: ran to the other corner of the room because she 276 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: was like taking my little space very seriously. Apparently again 277 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: it just gets weirder and weirder. Eventually she leaves and 278 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: she won't stop calling us and texting us. She'll show 279 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: up at our apartment randomly. She'll, like a year and 280 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 1: a half after, she would call Christian and be like, hey, 281 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: I think I joined a cult. Can you come get me? 282 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: And like random text of that nature. 283 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 2: Dude. It was so so bad. 284 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 1: And it was only after like a year and a 285 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: half that she stopped contacting us. 286 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 4: Watch she she watches every episode of this and then 287 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 4: she's gonna. 288 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 2: See this and she asked me for podcast advice. 289 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 4: Oh man, dude, that that's that's maybe the greatest thing. 290 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 4: She literally asked you for podcast advice. I aditionally I 291 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 4: felt bad. This is probably like this was I think 292 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 4: deeper into when she was there, when I met her, 293 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh man, like she's just here like dad. 294 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 4: But that's that's that's crazy. It was a lot, dude, 295 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 4: That's it was a lot. Absolutely insane. 296 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 2: She hit us up. 297 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 1: Actually, she hit Christian up like a month ago and 298 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 1: it's like, hey, my friend from Canada is visiting. Can 299 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: he stay at your place? And I'm like, bro, what no, Wow, Yeah, 300 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 1: that's insane. Well, random roommates, Dude, it's it's a it's 301 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: really a crap shoot. Dangerous game, dangerous game.