1 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever opened for like a 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 1: celebrity who doesn't do stand up but they are making 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 1: you do like forty five minutes and then they go 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: open do like ten. It's usually how sex is for me. 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: The fat chairs, they out the station. It wasn't that 6 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: got great? I'm glad I found him and they go, yeah, 7 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: you're a genius celebrity. Who I want? Nate racist money 8 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: stuff can't tell me? Yep, yep, yep, there it is. 9 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: There it is. Ladies and gentlemen, Welcome to another sensational 10 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: episode of My Mama Told Me, the podcast where we 11 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: got deep, deep into the pockets of black conspiracy theories 12 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: and we finally work to prove that Nick Cannon is 13 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: having all of these children so that he can build 14 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: an army that takes back his America Got talented job 15 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: by force. He says, he's very upset that you all 16 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: expected him to read and be more careful with his words. 17 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 1: He's gonna trade these weird named babies to attack the 18 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 1: NBC building and bring his job back. That is the 19 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: theory that I'm spreading. I'm your host, Lankston Kerman. As always, 20 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: I'm coming in hot day it's a hot one. We're 21 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: doing it well. Oh, I'm having a good day. My 22 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: wife's mom moved into the house now and she made 23 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: salmon croquettes. In our house smells like as but my 24 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: tummy is full and I'm enjoying the company this destin. 25 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: It's a delight. I have a new kingdom that I'm building. 26 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 1: And you know what, my desterday, She's got her own kingdom, 27 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: a queendom, I dare say. She's so talented, so funny. 28 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: You know her from amazing things. You know her from 29 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: home economics, you know her from Whope, from now and 30 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: from her very very very fun, fun, fun funny, all 31 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: the fun, all the money's it's it's a great podcast 32 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: called best Friends Podcast. And she runs with the cold byer. 33 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: I love her. Please give it up. From my guest, 34 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: this Sashir Samata. Yeah, how are you good? How are you? 35 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: I'm so happy you're here. Salmon croquettes, Yeah, I don't know. 36 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: She was like, I'm a cook, and I was like 37 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: hell yeah, and then she cook. Now our house smells wild, 38 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: but you know, as part of the deal, home cooking 39 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 1: is always great. Yeah, exactly. You get over the smell 40 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 1: once it's then your your body, and then you worry 41 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: that people are gonna come over and they're gonna be like, yo, dirty, 42 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: why did you smell like this? You're like, shut up, 43 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: pull up the plate right, You're not not eat this. 44 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 1: You'll figure it out. Yeah, okay, you came today, and 45 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: I don't want to play any games. I don't want 46 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:06,359 Speaker 1: to funk around this this episode. That's an that's not 47 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: funk around. Because you came to me with a conspiracy 48 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: theory that that I have been hearing my entire life. 49 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: I think, U, maybe that's not appropriate, that I've been 50 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: hearing at my entire your entire life. Yeah, we laugh, 51 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 1: We lad. The day I came out, a man who 52 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: I did not recognize looked at me and he said, 53 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: you know, And I was like, all right, here we go. 54 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna jump the gun on this. But 55 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: you said, my mama told me women's butts get bigger 56 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: after they have sex. Yeah, tell me more. I you know, 57 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't hear it until my butt got bigger. 58 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 1: There was a definitive time period between senior in high 59 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: school and my first year of college, and my aunt 60 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 1: was the first one to be did you have a 61 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: good summer. And I was like, I was like, I guess, 62 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 1: what do you what do you think? Like you're asking fat? 63 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: I was like, I guess it changed. And then I 64 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 1: asked my mom and she was like, yeah, I went, 65 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 1: women's butts get bigger after their chair gets popped, and 66 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: which was not even the case. I was still very 67 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 1: much a virgin and not very pristine and untouched at 68 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: that point. Oh so you hadn't even had sex. I 69 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: had not had sex, but they were recognizing the shift 70 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: preemptively in your body. Yes, and you were Were you 71 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: then telling them that, like, yo, I'm actually I didn't 72 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: have sex, or yeah, no, dog we out here. I 73 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: should have I should have been like, yeah, what you said, 74 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: we're all we're all fucking because they're cool. I love 75 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: it so much. No, yeah, I mean to my mom, 76 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 1: I was like no, no, no no, no, of course not. 77 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: But you know, she always thought I did things that 78 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: I didn't do, just assumed I was doing the worst 79 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 1: when I was truly scared and doing the best. I 80 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 1: was like, you know, straight a student, like stayed at home, 81 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: did all the activities, and she would be like, still, 82 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: come find me after choir rehearsals and be like, you 83 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: were out too late. You didn't answer your You are 84 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,679 Speaker 1: poking through that that robe. I see it. I see 85 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: that big old But you've been out here. I know 86 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: what you've been doing. Yeah, that's why. So so you 87 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: hear this, they say this to you, you know for 88 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 1: a fact that this bigger butt is not the result 89 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 1: of sex. Do you then completely dismissed the conspiracy theory? 90 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: Are you like, no, it's not true, because I am 91 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: living proof of that, you know. I actually I didn't 92 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 1: dismiss the conspiracy theory, even though it didn't apply to me. 93 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 1: I remember telling my man this who was and he 94 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 1: was like what? He was like, that's a crazy theory. 95 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: And I was like, is it because I because it's 96 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: so common and people say it so much. I just 97 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: thought that everyone knew that. And he's like no, He's like, 98 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,799 Speaker 1: I've literally never heard that. And also there's no science 99 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 1: behind that. And I was like, oh, I guess yeah, sure, sure, 100 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: I will say and this this gets a little into 101 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: the research, but then it's not gonna blow anything here. 102 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 1: When I look this up, you know, you just type 103 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: the words into Google and like, Google do what it does. 104 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: But the auto feel for this when you go out 105 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 1: after women have sex, do their blankety blank blank blank, 106 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 1: And the immediate auto field is do their hips get wider? 107 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 1: Which feels like the whiter version of this equation. If 108 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: you yeah, yeah, I can see that then being like, oh, 109 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 1: my body's wider than usual, as opposed to my butt 110 00:06:54,800 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: is larger. Yeah. I think, especially for a certain narration 111 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 1: of women, a big butt was like the biggest taboo 112 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: that you could possibly have, And so for white women 113 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 1: it's like, no, I'm widening. Don't you dare, motherfucker, don't 114 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: you dare say that my butts getting big? Yeah, my 115 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: butt say perfectly the same. It's just the sides got 116 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: a little water. I'm just like a pancake spreading out 117 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: on the pain. You ain't got nothing doing, getting thickers, 118 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: just right, getting water. Okay. So so you don't dismiss this, 119 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: you don't, you don't go no, I don't believe you, guys, 120 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: I'm ready to you know you you at least play 121 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 1: with the idea. I do play with the idea, and 122 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: I spread that to other people, not as fact, but 123 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: I think, but I guess I've mentioned it as an 124 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: adult and then still have people be like what and I, 125 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: even though I know it's not true for me, I 126 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: guess I was like, well, I'm a special case. My 127 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: butt just game early and that's okay. Hey, listen, my 128 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 1: butt knew that eventually I was going to be ready. 129 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: Just a little preemptive growth. That's all this a little 130 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: this little early growth for a big button and then 131 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: we'll look at there. Okay, so you're you do believe 132 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: at least in the possibility of it. You are at 133 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: least throwing it around as a rumor. And then you 134 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: have this white partner who is like, I've never heard 135 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: of that. There's no science to back that. Does that 136 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: sway you in anywhere? Are you then like a damn? Okay, 137 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: you thwarted me, white man with your your science with educations. Okay, 138 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 1: you know it hasn't thwarted me, because even if there 139 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 1: aren't like scientific backings, I still think there's something to 140 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 1: that I can see because after you have sex. And again, 141 00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: I haven't looked at any of this, but I'm assuming 142 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: that that say. I love when people don't look up anything. 143 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: It's beautiful. It's my favorite part of this show. Please 144 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: go on. I guess what I was thinking of why 145 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: that would make sense is that your body starts making 146 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: a house for a baby, your body starts expanding, and 147 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: it's like, okay, we gotta rearrange stuff because you know 148 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 1: that our bodies now having sex, we're trying to procreate, 149 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: We're trying to make room for new life. So that's 150 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: why it makes sense in my brain. But I don't 151 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: know if that's right. I mean, I do think that 152 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: is essentially what puberty is, right that like it is 153 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: our bodies basically saying yo, your your ultimate function is 154 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: to be able to procreate, is to be able to 155 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: keep making more of you, And so your balls will drop, 156 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: your hips will widen, all your shoulders will get big 157 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: so that you can peacock and you know, in a 158 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 1: parking lot in front of a lady who's a little 159 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 1: drunk and just left the club, like all the things 160 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: you need to nature intended just to be a sexual 161 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: person is all it happens. So it theoretically makes sense 162 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: for sure. Mm hmmm, yeah, I think so did you 163 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:21,199 Speaker 1: did you find yourself experiencing any fear around this? Were you, 164 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: like some of these white women afraid that like, oh no, 165 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 1: me and this massive but what what would I do 166 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: when I introduced sex to the equation. I think the 167 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: only fear is that everyone thought I was having sex 168 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: mm hmmm, because I was like, I was a church 169 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,439 Speaker 1: girl and I and not that I needed everyone to 170 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 1: know that I was carrying a virginity card, but I 171 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: just I didn't want people to think that I was 172 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: having sex and that I was welcoming sex and that 173 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't want to draw attention in 174 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 1: that way and have people be like, oh, okay, time 175 00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: for me to slip on in there, because I wasn't ready. 176 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 1: I wasn't ready. I love how awful men are that 177 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: the the instinct that women have to live with is 178 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 1: that once you've had sex, everybody assumes they can have 179 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: sex with you. This is true. Yes, absolutely, Literally, you're 180 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 1: talking about no, you talk about previous sexual encounters and 181 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: people are like, oh, then well then I can do 182 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 1: that too, right, because you're just open for business. You 183 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: just take another clients. And I'm like, that's not like 184 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 1: is that I heard heard you did it once? So 185 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 1: you do it all the time? Were you at the 186 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: time logic? Were you like saving yourself for marriage? Was 187 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: that the Yeah, yeah, it was and then and then 188 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 1: that didn't end up happening, but but that was what 189 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 1: I learned and thought was right that, you know, I 190 00:11:56,040 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: gotta wait for your husband and do it, do it godly. Yeah. Fashion. 191 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 1: I didn't personally like grow up in a church, but 192 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:09,959 Speaker 1: at like thirteen, all my friends were talking about going 193 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: to church. I was like twelve thirteen, and I basically 194 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 1: like went to my mom and her husband at the time, 195 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 1: and I was like, Hey, we gotta start going to church. Church. 196 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm trying to funk with church. And then I ended 197 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:23,079 Speaker 1: up becoming one of those kids that goes to church 198 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 1: like three days a week. So I'm like, yeah, no, 199 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 1: I was a freak. I was like going to Bible 200 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 1: study independent of my family, just because I wanted to 201 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 1: learn more about religion and ship. And then I similarly 202 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: like had made a vow to myself for I was like, no, 203 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna save myself for marriage. I'm gonna be I'm 204 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:46,439 Speaker 1: gonna be a dude who doesn't have sex before marriage. Yeah. 205 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: I didn't do that. I knew not to be a 206 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 1: fucking loser out in public, but I I it was 207 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 1: a private vow. But I then went to my dad 208 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: and I and my dad's very atheist, very very much 209 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,679 Speaker 1: a person who doesn't believe in any of that ship. 210 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 1: And uh, I told my dad that, like, yo, I'm 211 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 1: thinking that I'm gonna save myself for marriage. And his 212 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: response and he's not a big guy who like talks 213 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 1: a lot, but I was like, you know, I'm saving 214 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 1: myself for marriage. And I remember we were driving a 215 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: car and he said why and I was like, well, 216 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: when you put it that way, I thought you were 217 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: going to say like a speech and it was gonna 218 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 1: like a speech or like a look, now you know, 219 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: here's no good thought, but here's logically why that wouldn't work. 220 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: It just why and then turned up a book on tape, 221 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, just left me with 222 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: that feeling for the rest of all ways, and it worked. 223 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: Like two years later, I was done with that idea, 224 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 1: So it definitely worked. That is very funny. That's so 225 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 1: funny that you wanted to go to church. I was 226 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: forced to and didn't want to keep point. But I 227 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: guess it's like if you're used to it, you want 228 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 1: to stop, and maybe if you're not, you're like, oh, 229 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: what was this cool new thing? Yeah? I think it's 230 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 1: it's like how you know, the Williams sisters probably were 231 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 1: tired of tennis at a certain point because it's like, yeah, 232 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: you just do this constantly, it gets old. That's why 233 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 1: Lou Williams went to that strip club. What is it 234 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: the real You know, I'm talking basketball and you don't 235 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 1: know a lot about it. Yeah, I saw your face ship. Like. 236 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 1: The point is you can be so successful at a 237 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 1: thing and or frequent a thing enough that you start 238 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: to regret being there. Do you feel like you did 239 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 1: resent church by this point where you like sitting or 240 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 1: not resent resent maybe a heavy word where you anti 241 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: church or where you just sort of like I'm over 242 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: this experience. I think like over this experience. I think 243 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 1: I was going to church like it was routine. I 244 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 1: had friends there, I liked being in the choir, but 245 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: I was I don't think I was like gathering information 246 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: or like, I don't think I was like really taking 247 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 1: in what was being said. Sometimes I was, but because 248 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: it's always general like good themes being spoken, but then 249 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 1: sometimes I did have issues with the word. So yeah, 250 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: I think I was kind of like not like I 251 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 1: hate it, but I can see why it's good and 252 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 1: why it's good for communities and people, but not that 253 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: I wasn't so far in I got you, why then 254 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: still hold on too? Like your sexual you protect your 255 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: virginity in this week. At that point, well, I grew 256 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: up in the Midwest in Indianapolis, and there's a lot 257 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 1: of team pregnancy there. Just seeing what these girls were 258 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 1: having to go through, like taking care of kids while 259 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: still going to school, I was like, I don't right, 260 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 1: I do not want that. So that kind of scared 261 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 1: me and made me a versity even one because because 262 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 1: also I was like everyone's pull out games very weak, 263 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: like if that's what, like, how is so how are 264 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 1: so many of us getting pregnant. I don't want to. 265 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: I don't want what they have to offer. All these 266 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 1: Indiana carbs have made us very slow in lethargic in 267 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: a way that we can't get out of each other. 268 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: So it's probably not worth it. It's not worth it. Yeah, 269 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: So I think I was just like I don't want 270 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 1: to risk it. Also, because I knew I wanted to 271 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 1: go to college. I want to get out of Indiana, 272 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 1: so I was that was my main focus. I was like, 273 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: I just need to like put the blind news on focus, work, work, work, work, work, 274 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 1: and get out of here. It is. It's a funny 275 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: thing that I think we unfortunately have to do. What 276 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: it means is that we have to correlate sex with 277 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: a bad thing, we like for people of a certain age, 278 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: because if you don't, they're not able to facilitate like 279 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: right and wrong clear enough in their to be able 280 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: to go like, Okay, I can have sex suntimes, but 281 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to overdo it, and if I do 282 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 1: do it, I want to be protected and I want 283 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 1: to be careful. And ideally we can teach that stuff right, 284 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 1: we can go into a school and help them understand 285 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: that this is something that you can both indulge in 286 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:18,479 Speaker 1: but be in control of. But instead we just go 287 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: don't because everything in your world will die. Yeah, we 288 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:26,119 Speaker 1: we only had scare tactics. There's no actual information on 289 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 1: like how to do it safely. It was just don't 290 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 1: and we had a baby think about it. Have you 291 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 1: heard of that? I have not, but I'm so excited 292 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:37,680 Speaker 1: to find out what that means. It's a baby doll 293 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 1: that you had to take care for a week, so 294 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 1: you can think about it, so you could think, like, 295 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: do I want them. And they were like tiny robots. 296 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: They had like a computer chip in their back to 297 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 1: monitor like how often you picked it was waited, so 298 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 1: you could you could tell how often you picked it up. 299 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 1: There was a light sensor in its mouth so you 300 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 1: can see how often you fed it. It cried. There 301 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:00,719 Speaker 1: were also some crack baby said Some of them just 302 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 1: like cried consistently, which I was like, why are you 303 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 1: doing that to kid? Whoa hold on, wait a minute, 304 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: because hold on, are you saying that they introduced these 305 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: babies to you as crack babies. I don't remember that. 306 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 1: I didn't get one of those. I don't know what 307 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 1: they said, here's your crack baby, but they but that 308 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: was a word on the street. And some of these 309 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: babies wouldn't shut up. And I was like, oh no, yeah, 310 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 1: so I had a baby, but I didn't I didn't 311 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 1: want a baby. I didn't ask for this baby. And 312 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 1: I did horribly take care of this baby. Then there 313 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 1: was one day in particular, I was late for the 314 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 1: bus and I was carrying the baby in one arm 315 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 1: and I was running to the bus and head its 316 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:51,160 Speaker 1: head was like loosen, like bouncing back a mom this yes, 317 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 1: And at the end of the week, they take the 318 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 1: computer chips out and like tally all the like you know, 319 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 1: nurturing neglect points or whatever. And I had like third 320 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 1: two abuse points or like some some some crazy number 321 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: of abuse points. And then someone from CPS Child Protective 322 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:11,239 Speaker 1: Services had to come talk to me. I mean, I'm 323 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,240 Speaker 1: assuming it was an intern or something, but they like 324 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 1: took me to a room and they're like, if this 325 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,199 Speaker 1: was a real baby, we would have to take it 326 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 1: away from you. And I was like, good, I didn't 327 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 1: ask for this. What did this life? I didn't. I 328 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 1: just wanted to go to school. I didn't want this. 329 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm saying, they're like, ace this year, we 330 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:30,680 Speaker 1: unschipped your baby and it turns out it has CT now, 331 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 1: so we're gonna have the government come down and get 332 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 1: involved in what in a thing you didn't volunteer for. 333 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:42,639 Speaker 1: Also your your fourteen, so good luck with your future? 334 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 1: What is It was crazy? But I think it also 335 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 1: may have backfire for some people to I think some 336 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 1: people were like, oh, this wasn't that hard, or like, 337 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,159 Speaker 1: you know, if this is all, which is also like, 338 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 1: it's still a robot baby, it's not an actual baby, 339 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 1: so it's still that she doesn't require all the things 340 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:00,200 Speaker 1: you need to do to take care of baby. So 341 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 1: if someone succeeded and got an a and was like, 342 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 1: oh that's all I got take a baby, I could 343 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 1: just have a baby right now. And they've also like 344 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 1: calibrated I'm sure they calibrated the children to still at 345 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 1: least be reasonable within a high school persons scheduled. Probably 346 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:21,680 Speaker 1: probably my wife is pregnant now, hell yeah, it's tight. 347 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 1: And so she you know, we were reading, we're listening 348 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 1: to stuff and all this other and somebody on a 349 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,120 Speaker 1: class that we were watching the other day asked how 350 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 1: many diapers do you need for like the first couple 351 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 1: of months. And the lady was basically breaking it down statistically, 352 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:39,200 Speaker 1: and she was like, when a newborn comes in, it's 353 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 1: like ten diapers a day. It's somewhere between six to 354 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:46,880 Speaker 1: ten diapers a day, and so that's you know, seventy 355 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 1: diapers a week and needing to change them constantly. They're 356 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:55,760 Speaker 1: not making y'all do that, they like twice, yeah, exactly. 357 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 1: That's fucking crazy for you to to introduce this as 358 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 1: a premise of you could be a good parent based 359 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 1: on robot behavior, because you still don't even know you have. No. 360 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: I'm just finding out and I want out of this situation. 361 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 1: I did not sign up for seventy diapers a week. 362 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 1: I thought I was signing up for about twelve, and 363 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 1: I thought, sweet, I can do that. No, seventy that's 364 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 1: way too much. How much? How many are in a pack? 365 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: I feel like that's more than what you can even 366 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 1: get at the start. You have to get um boy, 367 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 1: that's my issue with the baby is it doesn't ship impacts. 368 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Like, if you if 369 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:37,400 Speaker 1: you could get the baby to ship a pack amount 370 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,680 Speaker 1: each time, then that's reasonable. But if you're sitting in 371 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 1: some odd number that doesn't equate to what I can order, 372 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: that's what are we doing? Yeah? Yeah, get on board 373 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 1: you for days now. You gotta figure this out quick. 374 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: This is on You's on you, baby, don't okay? Last question, 375 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 1: you're sort of recognizing some of the failures, not failures, 376 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 1: but some of the the doubt. You're introducing doubt to 377 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 1: some of your religious experiences. At what point do you 378 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:13,399 Speaker 1: finally like, go fuck it, I'm I'm down to walk 379 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: away from these things that I had built in my life. 380 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 1: As long as I have. I think it was my 381 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:23,119 Speaker 1: first year of college because I tried to finding another church. 382 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 1: Like I, there was a few other black girls on 383 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: my hall, and we all grew up in the church, 384 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:28,880 Speaker 1: and we're like, we're going to find a church here 385 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 1: and go together. And we went to church shopping. None 386 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:34,359 Speaker 1: of us liked any of them. We couldn't find one 387 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 1: that we all liked. And I remember we went to 388 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 1: the Bible study at one church and the deacon was 389 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 1: highlighting all these like servitude verses, like talking about women 390 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: needing to serve their man, etcetera. And I I don't 391 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,640 Speaker 1: know if I argued with him. I was just challenging 392 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 1: this because I was like, are you really sure that 393 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 1: you're reading this correctly or like this that this would 394 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 1: apply today? And he was like, that's what the word 395 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: says and that, and yeah, I was like, oh, I 396 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:06,439 Speaker 1: don't need to be here. I don't need to do this. 397 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,200 Speaker 1: I don't need to fight with deacons about this and that. 398 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,440 Speaker 1: And I know now I actually do want to revisit 399 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 1: the Bible and like actually study it more just the 400 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,479 Speaker 1: written words as opposed to like hearing people's interpretation of it, 401 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 1: because you know, I'm learning that there are more people 402 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: who are trying to kind of update their perception of 403 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 1: what God was trying to do, which I could be 404 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 1: down with that, but I didn't really jive with what 405 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,239 Speaker 1: I was getting from church at that time. Yeah, I 406 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 1: remember having a similar experience where I was similarly, I 407 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,719 Speaker 1: was really into it. I'm going to these Bible studies. 408 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 1: And then we had a teacher one time who who 409 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:52,679 Speaker 1: showed a video of all the ways that secular music 410 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 1: is like devil worshiping, and it got to a clip 411 00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:01,199 Speaker 1: of John Lennon's Imagine, and they were playing Imagine and 412 00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:05,920 Speaker 1: basically interpreting Imagine as like, uh, he was saying that 413 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 1: he is the same as God. That like, and I 414 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 1: at that point was also writing poetry and so I knew, 415 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 1: like I could read the words and at least go like, no, 416 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: there's multiple interpretations here where he's like, no, what if 417 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:23,920 Speaker 1: we're all like God's children and we should just treat 418 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: each other the same? And the ladies like, no, he's 419 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 1: saying him and God are the same. He's going to hell, Like, 420 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: first of all, he's already dead, so he's not going anywhere. 421 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 1: He's there, and probably for beating his wife, not for this, 422 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 1: but that's I want not just made me uncomfortable to 423 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: think that a person could create so much permanence in 424 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,920 Speaker 1: terms of these words in my mind and my experience 425 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: is moving forward. Yeah, I can see that have opinions 426 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,400 Speaker 1: on that song. What if God was one of us? 427 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 1: Oh you know they did the video. Oh oh, they 428 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,880 Speaker 1: really landed. They spent a lot of time on that. 429 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: And then they spent a lot of time on that 430 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 1: the finger thing that rock and roll people do the yeah, 431 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,680 Speaker 1: and they were saying that was devil horns and anybody 432 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,719 Speaker 1: that did this is going to hell. And it's like, 433 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, man, that's I know. People in gangs 434 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 1: they do silly things with their fingers. Fingers just can't 435 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 1: be that bad. They can't be on the same level 436 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: as murdering someone. Sure, and that's how you end up 437 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,399 Speaker 1: putting them inside of somebody. I think you just go 438 00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:34,919 Speaker 1: they're just fingers and your finger banging. And that's what 439 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 1: they were warning us about. Oh I see, that's the 440 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 1: end lesson. Yes, all right, we're gonna take a break. 441 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 1: We'll be back with Morrison's years have made it and more. 442 00:25:44,359 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 1: My mama told me that people who worried Slaly wish 443 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: that they have curbside service at Applebee's. Yeah, we're back 444 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 1: here with morse. This years have made it more. My 445 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 1: mama told me, we're still talking about the big old 446 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 1: butts and if they're coming as a result of your 447 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 1: sexual activity. Did you hear that any other body parts 448 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 1: were affected by sex? M M No, I don't think 449 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 1: I did. Yeah, that seems crazy that that it would 450 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,479 Speaker 1: just go to your butt and nowhere else. I guess, 451 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:38,159 Speaker 1: I guess, I guess why. The reason I accepted it, 452 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, well, the dick penetrates so much, 453 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 1: so go straight to your ask you guys are you 454 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 1: guys can't see this at home, but this year is 455 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: doing a lot of hand motions to demonstrate this very 456 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: scientific explanation of what the dick does when it penetrates 457 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,920 Speaker 1: and goes straight to the straight to the No, I 458 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 1: don't think I did. I don't think I heard anything 459 00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 1: about like your boobs or anything. No, that's that seems 460 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 1: unfair to me. It should be like your butt gets 461 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:17,959 Speaker 1: big and your knees get loose, your ankles they they 462 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 1: get sharper at the end, you know what I mean? 463 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 1: Just something that you go to the doctor and they 464 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,959 Speaker 1: do the test, that little tap test, and you're like, ma'am, 465 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:32,880 Speaker 1: I know you've been out of here banging. These knemes 466 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: are loose, way to loose. I can't even tap them. 467 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 1: Look out loose they are. I actually did have a 468 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 1: friend who thought that she could. She wanted her but 469 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 1: to get bigger, and she thought that sleeping on her 470 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 1: stomach would help that. WHOA, because I guess I don't 471 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 1: remember asking what the logic was, but I guess maybe 472 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,920 Speaker 1: sleeping on your back would flatten your butt. So giving 473 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 1: your but space while you sleep helps it expand, maybe 474 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,919 Speaker 1: like it wants to grow, but if you're we're constricting 475 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,919 Speaker 1: it by laying on it. So in her mind, we 476 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: are just little balloons constantly being filled, and the pressure 477 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: of sleeping on your back means that your butt is 478 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 1: not able to fill to its its fullest potential. Exactly. Yeah, 479 00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 1: and it's a person you still talk to to this day. No, 480 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 1: it's not. Thank God, she's a fool. You gotta cut 481 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 1: people out of your life, and I'm glad she's gone. 482 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: Let's jump into this research. I think one of the 483 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 1: things that that I enjoyed the most in researching this 484 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 1: is that there are quite a few Reddit and Cora 485 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 1: type threads that sort of get dig into this subject right. 486 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: And one of my favorite things that I've ever read 487 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 1: was a person who was replying to a sixteen year 488 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 1: old team It's young girl goes on Cora I think 489 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 1: it was, and basically asked like, Hey, I'm sixteen, my 490 00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: best friend is seventeen. She's having sex. I am not. 491 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 1: She told me that your butt gets bigger when you 492 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 1: have sex, and I've seen her but get bigger, So 493 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 1: is this true? And a lot of people very kindly 494 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 1: respond with you know, they're they're just being tactful. They're 495 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 1: telling her lots of information about puberty and the way 496 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 1: the bodies change and all this other stuff. But then 497 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 1: this one dude, an anonymous man, replied back, yes it does, 498 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,720 Speaker 1: because in health class, my very educated health teacher even 499 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 1: confirmed it. He would not have said it to the 500 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 1: class if it were a myth. After my first time, 501 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 1: I've noticed some changes and I'm really skinny, so there's 502 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:50,240 Speaker 1: no way my buck got bigger by growing. Oh I 503 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:55,320 Speaker 1: haven't heard that for men. It That's my favorite part 504 00:29:55,560 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 1: is the dude my but God explained that you're like, 505 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 1: I'm getting dumb thick over here, and it's gotta be 506 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 1: because all the sex that I had. That's so funny. 507 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: I that's I would love that to be a thing 508 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 1: that got spread. We're just boys are showing off their 509 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: assets to each other, like, hey, look out, it is 510 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 1: juicy theyke over here. I'd love it. And that's the problem. 511 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: That's where we're at. That's how damaging patriarchy is that 512 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 1: we only allow women to think that this is something 513 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 1: happening to them, when in fact, it could be happening 514 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 1: to all of us. We gotta change things. Okay, So 515 00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 1: the real research, the actual legitimate science that that I 516 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 1: tried to find, and I say legitimate very loosely because 517 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 1: not a lot of this is legitimate. It's mostly just 518 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 1: Google searches and weird articles that I find that said, 519 00:30:56,720 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 1: there are hormone changes that happened, now truly right during sex. 520 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 1: That is a real thing. Sex does affect the hormone 521 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:09,680 Speaker 1: levels in your body, and subsequently, hormone changes in your 522 00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 1: body do affect the way that you physically appear, in 523 00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 1: the way that things you know, your body functions out 524 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 1: in the world. These are all true things now. That said. 525 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 1: One of the things that they said is like a 526 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,920 Speaker 1: big change or a potential change that happens is that 527 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: during sex there are a bunch of hormones being released. Oxytocin, 528 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: which is like a love hormone, and then there's dopamine, 529 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,480 Speaker 1: which is like the hormone that makes you happy. And 530 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:46,240 Speaker 1: then during orgasms is this thing called dehydro epian dostra tone. 531 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if I said that, right, I am 532 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 1: not a scientist, and I'll never try it again. Yeah, 533 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 1: I think that's solved the problem. That said, all of 534 00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 1: these hormones are being released, But these hormones are not 535 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 1: necessarily hormones that make your body change as much as 536 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 1: you feel different, right, these are just feel good hormones. 537 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 1: So as it is right now, there's not a ton 538 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 1: of proof that this is necessarily going to make your 539 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:22,040 Speaker 1: but gigantic just because you you had a good time 540 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 1: with a person. Yeah, so are any of these hormones 541 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 1: are not the ones that are related to feelings. But 542 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 1: just like, is there anything that changes your body after sex? 543 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 1: Great questions. So, when a man and I'm gonna use 544 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: a real important heavy words here, when a man busts 545 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:42,960 Speaker 1: a nut inside of a lady. There is this hormone 546 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 1: called prostagland didn't which can calm the uterus shedding and bleeding. 547 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 1: That basically can like control the frequency, not control. Control 548 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 1: feels like the wrong word, but can always trying to 549 00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:03,280 Speaker 1: control us from the inside out of Listen, I can't 550 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,720 Speaker 1: get away from the things that I grew up with, 551 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 1: and clearly it's never gonna uncook for my brain. But 552 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 1: it does affect the frequency and sort of consistency of 553 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 1: a woman's period, right that, like, when you are having 554 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 1: sex more frequently, you are often also having a more 555 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 1: regular cycle because your body is basically saying like, all right, 556 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 1: we know what to expect, and we're gonna hold on 557 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 1: to this uterine lining or this egg for the period 558 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 1: at which we think this is a chance for you 559 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 1: to get pregnant. Yeah, so your body's you know, it's 560 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 1: it's responding to ship. It's like learning a bunch of 561 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:49,600 Speaker 1: stuff from you. Yeah. Then there's this other stuff that 562 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 1: I read where scientists also speculate that women's estrogen levels 563 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 1: increase and subsequently your bodies change as a result of 564 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 1: those estrogen levels. They also theorize that there's a possibility 565 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 1: that the testosterone in seemen could affect all of these 566 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,160 Speaker 1: things as well, So there is there are plenty of 567 00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 1: people who have argued that the theory of butts getting 568 00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 1: bigger because of these things are not completely absurd. Right, 569 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 1: this all feels promising in terms of your argument. Okay, 570 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 1: now here's where your argument gets shifted on by a 571 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 1: bunch of scientists pretty quickly. And I wanted it to 572 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,640 Speaker 1: be true. I wanted all the big booty girls that 573 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: I knew in high school to be completely as a 574 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 1: result of the sex that they were having and not 575 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 1: they're just changes in their body. But one of the 576 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 1: things that most scientists say in response to all of 577 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,600 Speaker 1: this is that while this is true, all of these 578 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 1: hormones are being released, and all of these hormones theoretically 579 00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,760 Speaker 1: could have an effect on your body, what they also 580 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 1: say is that there's not enough of these hormones being 581 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,080 Speaker 1: released the long enough over a period of time for 582 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:07,400 Speaker 1: to actually cause real physical changes. That like, just because 583 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: you have a little bit of an estrogen released during 584 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: the fifteen minutes and I'm being generous here, like, right, 585 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,799 Speaker 1: what teenager do we know is dogging it out? Good? 586 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 1: Enough for No, you don't even know how to do 587 00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:32,880 Speaker 1: four play yet, so you're just you're just rushing into it, 588 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,399 Speaker 1: and that's most of the fifteen minutes for me, That's 589 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:43,319 Speaker 1: where I get most of that. Yeah, that's where I'm 590 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:52,359 Speaker 1: I'm playing the big ball there. Everything else is just Yeah. 591 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 1: The point is that the estrogen or testosterone or any 592 00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,360 Speaker 1: of these things that are being released at this point 593 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:03,719 Speaker 1: are not enough to actually cause real changes in your 594 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: physical form, and that anything that you're saying that is 595 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,840 Speaker 1: a change is probably the result of like other things 596 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:14,280 Speaker 1: that are happening in your body. M hmmm, that makes sense. 597 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 1: So one of the things that I started to think 598 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,919 Speaker 1: about is what other things could be affecting big old 599 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:23,520 Speaker 1: butts or even just other things that you know, your period, 600 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 1: all these things, and there are plenty of things that 601 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,319 Speaker 1: could have an effect on the way that you physically 602 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:34,920 Speaker 1: look their stress. There's successive eating, alcohol use, weight gain, infections, medications, 603 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 1: sleep cycles, smoking, and then something called polycystic ovary syndrome. 604 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 1: And so all of these things in theory at play 605 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:47,680 Speaker 1: could be making your butt bigger even while you're having sex, 606 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,399 Speaker 1: and possibly are doing it much more effectively than any 607 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 1: sex could do, even though your physical demonstration of that 608 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:59,879 Speaker 1: dick in that but did seem like solid information. I mean, 609 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:05,360 Speaker 1: was giving scientific example, get with this motion. Okay, that's so, 610 00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,320 Speaker 1: that's good for people to know. If you're a team 611 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 1: looking to get a bigger butt, you don't have to 612 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:16,520 Speaker 1: have sex. Just get stressed out, Just do your finals 613 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 1: at the last minute, get stressed, do your finals. Experience 614 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,400 Speaker 1: a divorce, perhaps at home, blame yourself for that divorce. 615 00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 1: It's your fault. Teams, you did it. Your parents. They 616 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,600 Speaker 1: weren't struggling until you came around. And then you'll have 617 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,719 Speaker 1: hot girls summer next summer, and you're gonna be thick 618 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 1: as hell, maybe in your butt and your front, but 619 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 1: that doesn't matter that but will get bigger. That's what 620 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 1: the goal is. One of the things that that I 621 00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,480 Speaker 1: started to think about, though, and I'm curious to hear 622 00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 1: your thoughts on this, is that where does all of 623 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 1: this stuff come from? Right? Ultimately, where did this theory 624 00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:00,279 Speaker 1: if it isn't true, which science is basically tell us 625 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 1: it's really not that true, where does it come from it? 626 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,879 Speaker 1: One of the things that I sort of landed on 627 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:10,879 Speaker 1: was patriarchy. That's what I was gonna say, tell me more. Yeah, 628 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,640 Speaker 1: I mean I feel like most it feels like a 629 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,600 Speaker 1: lot of things you can be like the patriarch came 630 00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:20,400 Speaker 1: from the patriarch. But I think it probably maybe originate 631 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 1: in some sort of way too slut shame women or 632 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 1: to shame them in a way to not want to 633 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:30,400 Speaker 1: have sex, or to or like you already look like 634 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,080 Speaker 1: you're having sex, so you may as well keep doing 635 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:35,839 Speaker 1: it kind of thing like it, whatever it is that 636 00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:39,880 Speaker 1: will benefit ment. Okay, you have a big ass, go 637 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 1: ahead and keep sucking because we are we are here 638 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,719 Speaker 1: and ready to receive, or some sort of churchy kind 639 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,600 Speaker 1: of thing where it's like you don't want to, you know, 640 00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,359 Speaker 1: want to suck because if you're ask is gonna get 641 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 1: big and everyone's gonna know what you've been doing and 642 00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:55,279 Speaker 1: you'll be ashamed that basically a scarlet letter will be 643 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:59,239 Speaker 1: on you. Exactly that's exactly right. This is this is 644 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:02,759 Speaker 1: a metaphor well, scarlet letter being placed on your on 645 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:10,360 Speaker 1: your butt at scarlet a for ass. Yes, where they're saying, look, 646 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 1: I want to be able to control your body. And 647 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 1: if either like you said, there are two options here. 648 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,719 Speaker 1: Either I want you to not have sex. So I 649 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,880 Speaker 1: warn you about the possibility of this being that flag 650 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 1: that's gonna be waving in the wind for all to 651 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:28,760 Speaker 1: know that you are a sexually active person, or alternatively, 652 00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,920 Speaker 1: I know you're having sex, and I want you to 653 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:35,160 Speaker 1: know that it is a clear sign for everybody that 654 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,640 Speaker 1: you're a slut, that you're a wore for the things 655 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:45,800 Speaker 1: that you're doing heartbreaking. Yeah, it's not great. It doesn't 656 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,560 Speaker 1: it doesn't inspire. And you know what we find, I 657 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:53,520 Speaker 1: think almost every week is that, uh, no, conspiracy theory 658 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 1: is fun if you really dig in. Yeah, it's usually 659 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 1: just a sad person manipulating much sadder people for their 660 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:07,080 Speaker 1: own game. At the end of this train, I guess. Yeah. 661 00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: But it is so interesting that, like that this conspiracy 662 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,520 Speaker 1: has traveled so far and wide and over so long, 663 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 1: and that people are still asking about it online and 664 00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:21,359 Speaker 1: then none of us were like, now, wait a minute, 665 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,600 Speaker 1: why are we saying this? Are we spreading this to 666 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:28,399 Speaker 1: our children? What are we telling our kids this? Yeah, 667 00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:31,759 Speaker 1: and it's such a to even go further into sort 668 00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: of the patriarchal control of the whole thing. Is it's 669 00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:39,560 Speaker 1: men obviously spreading it with intention, because this is a 670 00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: level of like there has a level of benefit for us. 671 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 1: And then subsequently it's a bunch of women who are 672 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 1: being trained to not question things, or maybe they are 673 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:51,520 Speaker 1: questioning things and then being told to shut the funk 674 00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:55,160 Speaker 1: up because they're questioning things instead of being allowed to 675 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 1: be like, no, that's not true, my butt's fine. I 676 00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 1: didn't literally saw no change at all. M hmm yeah, 677 00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,600 Speaker 1: or it did change, but it's none of your business. Yes, 678 00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 1: that's nice. It's none of your business why my butt 679 00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:13,160 Speaker 1: got bigger. And that is why I do believe that 680 00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:16,279 Speaker 1: the dude who said his but got bigger might be 681 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:21,120 Speaker 1: the greatest feminist of all time because he didn't make 682 00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,840 Speaker 1: this a gendered argument. He didn't make this about anything 683 00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 1: other than his own experience having sex and getting thicker. 684 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,719 Speaker 1: And that's really what we That's a true ally right there, 685 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:35,200 Speaker 1: you know, like, yes, we're all going through this, not 686 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:39,799 Speaker 1: you women fucking and getting your butts bigger. I fucked too. 687 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 1: I'm standing in solidarity and my asses right there with you. 688 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,680 Speaker 1: Look at me, Look at this juicy thing I'm sitting on. 689 00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 1: I'm with you, ladies. I do like that that nothing 690 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,719 Speaker 1: in his mind ever like it never crossed his mind 691 00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,239 Speaker 1: to be like, well, maybe it would affect any other party, 692 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,960 Speaker 1: Like as a man, I would think, Oh I had sex, 693 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:08,080 Speaker 1: my dick got bigger, right, my ball's got dropped more. Yeah, 694 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:11,799 Speaker 1: I'm sitting on there's like a hefty stack underneath me now. 695 00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,360 Speaker 1: Also though he like, has he noticed any other guys 696 00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:20,560 Speaker 1: but get bigger looking at other people's as like they 697 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,719 Speaker 1: were too, or was he like I'm the only one 698 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:25,880 Speaker 1: fucking no one else's best getting bigger mine is so 699 00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,839 Speaker 1: I'm I'm the alpha male. I'm the one sucking all 700 00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 1: these girls. I'll be honest. I like both alternatives equally 701 00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 1: because there's something really fun about him, him being in 702 00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:40,360 Speaker 1: the locker room after like football practice and being like, oh, Tyreek, 703 00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:43,799 Speaker 1: I uh, I noticed you've been banging quite a bit 704 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,719 Speaker 1: because that things look at juicy here. But then there's 705 00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 1: another fun version of him, like Michael J. Fox walking 706 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:53,560 Speaker 1: through a highway high school hallway, pointing at people because 707 00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 1: he's like, yeah, I'm the only one doing it out here. 708 00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:02,240 Speaker 1: He's like, Josh, you'll get there one day. Believe in yourself, 709 00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:07,400 Speaker 1: young man, You'll finally get some Oh that's fun, all right, 710 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 1: We're gonna take one more break, We'll be back remorse 711 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,040 Speaker 1: this year. It's a meta and more, my mama told me, 712 00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 1: and we all back gay, Yeah, we're back here. Remorse 713 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:43,680 Speaker 1: this year is a meta more. My mama told me. 714 00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,160 Speaker 1: We're still talking about them big old butts and how 715 00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,719 Speaker 1: the real heroes out in the world are the ones 716 00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,880 Speaker 1: who accept that butts can grow on both sides. It 717 00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:55,440 Speaker 1: ain't just ladies. We can all get thicker from sex. 718 00:43:56,960 --> 00:44:00,040 Speaker 1: I mean, we can't, but you know we can't. I 719 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:03,880 Speaker 1: ins tells us it's completely untrue. But if you believe, 720 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:08,680 Speaker 1: you can't achieve. One of the things that I failed 721 00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,360 Speaker 1: to mention in the research, and I'm just realizing it now, 722 00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 1: is that they did talk a little bit about perception 723 00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,399 Speaker 1: and all of this stuff and the way that that 724 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:22,399 Speaker 1: actually does affect a woman's body. And it isn't that 725 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:25,760 Speaker 1: physically you're going to see these changes, but that frequent 726 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 1: sex is usually the result of somebody feeling joy and 727 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 1: feeling sexy, and subsequently, while your butt may not be 728 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:37,040 Speaker 1: getting bigger, you might feel like your butt is getting bigger, 729 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:41,319 Speaker 1: and that's just as important. M M. I like that. 730 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,600 Speaker 1: That makes sense to me. It's kind of nice taking 731 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:48,000 Speaker 1: it until you make it. That is exactly. I just 732 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,200 Speaker 1: feel like on the inside. Mm hmmm. It's like a 733 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,920 Speaker 1: nice thing where it's like after some good sex you 734 00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:56,880 Speaker 1: feel a little buff and like a little you know, 735 00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:01,919 Speaker 1: you feel like I did a thing. And so they're 736 00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:03,880 Speaker 1: saying that, like, if you do that often enough, you 737 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,480 Speaker 1: could just feel like that all the time. WHOA. Now 738 00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 1: I'm wondering if it was like if my butt was 739 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:12,920 Speaker 1: the same size. But I was just more confident, h 740 00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:18,440 Speaker 1: Like I wasn't wearing like baggy cants anymore, right, I 741 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:22,520 Speaker 1: was wearing more like bell bottom jeans. Yeah, you stopped 742 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,680 Speaker 1: dressing like nineties TLC and started dressing like two thousands TLC. 743 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:30,160 Speaker 1: Yeah exactly. And they're like, what where did this come from? 744 00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:32,759 Speaker 1: And maybe it was always there. It was always there. 745 00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,479 Speaker 1: It was the butt was in your heart the entire time. 746 00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:39,120 Speaker 1: You just had to look. I just had to clap 747 00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:48,280 Speaker 1: my cheeks three times. I could always go home. Okay, 748 00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:50,839 Speaker 1: let's play a game. I have a very fun game. 749 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,240 Speaker 1: It's it's, as I mentioned to you before, our most 750 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,360 Speaker 1: classic game on this show. It's a fun game called 751 00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 1: white Ugly. You're disgusting, I'm gonna kill you. White lines 752 00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 1: that the fun game where I will introduce to you 753 00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:11,319 Speaker 1: a conspiracy theory currently spreading in the white community, one 754 00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,279 Speaker 1: that white people seem to believe in quite a bit. 755 00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 1: And what I would love for you to do is 756 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,440 Speaker 1: to impact why you think that is. Where do you 757 00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:24,080 Speaker 1: think this conspiracy comes from? Why are these sneaky motherfucker's 758 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:29,240 Speaker 1: holding onto this conspiracy theory so much? Makes sense? Hell yeah, Okay, 759 00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,920 Speaker 1: this is a fun one that I actually enjoyed reading 760 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 1: about quite a bit. But there are some people who 761 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:38,919 Speaker 1: believe that Earth has already been sucked into a black hole. 762 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:44,359 Speaker 1: That apparently, in two thousand twelve, a bunch of scientists 763 00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:49,040 Speaker 1: discovered the Higgs bosen, which is this particle that Stephen 764 00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:53,480 Speaker 1: Hawking talked about that if it was discovered, would basically 765 00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,680 Speaker 1: create a black hole and be the end of our universe. Right, 766 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,120 Speaker 1: that if they find this particle, it's gonna sunk up 767 00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,680 Speaker 1: everything and then we're going to go and be sucked 768 00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:04,879 Speaker 1: into a black hole and you know, ruined the world. Right. 769 00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,600 Speaker 1: There are some people who believe it was discovered in 770 00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,880 Speaker 1: two thousand twelve, it did create a black hole. Earth 771 00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 1: was sucked in and we just haven't realized it yet. Whoa, Yeah, 772 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,359 Speaker 1: I missed all of that. And so my question for 773 00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:22,759 Speaker 1: you is, why do you think these people believe so 774 00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:26,120 Speaker 1: much in the possibility of us already being in a 775 00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:31,520 Speaker 1: black hole? I feel like white people might really want 776 00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:34,719 Speaker 1: us to be in some extra version of what we 777 00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:37,400 Speaker 1: already are in, Like we're in the matrix, We're in 778 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:40,160 Speaker 1: a black hole. This is an alternate reality. This is 779 00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:48,400 Speaker 1: a simulation. Because you know, when there's nothing challenging or like, um, 780 00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 1: no obstacles are like is this it? You know, like 781 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,640 Speaker 1: when you're just like playing the video game, you're like, 782 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 1: there's nothing. I just beat every level, Like what else 783 00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,080 Speaker 1: am I supposed to do? So they're just like, there 784 00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:00,520 Speaker 1: must be something else that I can't see. There must 785 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:03,479 Speaker 1: be a secret passageway or secret door haven't tapped into 786 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,040 Speaker 1: yet that and then no one else knows about where 787 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,680 Speaker 1: everybody else on earth is like, no, it's this and 788 00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:13,440 Speaker 1: it's hard. Yeah, we see all the obstacles, we're bumping 789 00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,439 Speaker 1: into them. They keep knock gonna stown, we keep going 790 00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:19,399 Speaker 1: back to the start of the game and not fun game. 791 00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:24,600 Speaker 1: This game fucking sucks and I don't like it. Y'all 792 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,640 Speaker 1: have all the cheat codes, then no one will give 793 00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:28,919 Speaker 1: a test. I used to get so annoyed. I don't 794 00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,439 Speaker 1: know if you've ever experienced this, but when you play 795 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,040 Speaker 1: Mario with people, and there's always that person who like 796 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,319 Speaker 1: knows how to like run him real fast and jump 797 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,960 Speaker 1: him up to that secret level in the clouds that 798 00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:42,840 Speaker 1: you didn't know fucking existed, and it's a level you 799 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:46,240 Speaker 1: can't beat if you walk real slow and try your hardest, 800 00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,279 Speaker 1: and it's like, fuck you dog, what do you really 801 00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:51,960 Speaker 1: don't gotta do that? Just beat the level? Help me, 802 00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 1: help me get to the end of this game. Yeah, 803 00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:57,680 Speaker 1: it's annoying, Like when when did you learn that? Who 804 00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:03,400 Speaker 1: told you that? Don't you knew was a cloud level? Yeah? Yeah, 805 00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:07,440 Speaker 1: And that's essentially what this Higgs Boson group is arguing, 806 00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,680 Speaker 1: is that like there is a cloud level that that 807 00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,479 Speaker 1: we're not even aware of, and it's like, I don't 808 00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,120 Speaker 1: know what their goal is on the back of this, 809 00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,719 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like, if we're in 810 00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:20,880 Speaker 1: a black hole, let's say you're right, Let's say we 811 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,719 Speaker 1: got sucked into this black hole because scientists found this 812 00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 1: weird particle. What now, Like, are you helping me figure 813 00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,120 Speaker 1: it out? Or are you just showing off? That you 814 00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:32,120 Speaker 1: made it to the this other level. I mean, yeah, 815 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,600 Speaker 1: I think it's probably showing off. Like also people love 816 00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,000 Speaker 1: having um the upper hand or like I know ship 817 00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,239 Speaker 1: that you don't. My blinders are off, my eyes are open, 818 00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,600 Speaker 1: I can see what's going on, and you little pleaves 819 00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,160 Speaker 1: have no idea. But yeah, it's also like if we 820 00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,759 Speaker 1: got stuck in a black hole, this is it? Like, 821 00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:51,160 Speaker 1: it's this, it's this is the It's just the same ship. 822 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,640 Speaker 1: What there was no difference between two US and eleven 823 00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,520 Speaker 1: and twos and twelve to thirteen. It was all the 824 00:49:56,560 --> 00:50:01,359 Speaker 1: same ship. What Like that's that's what well. I would 825 00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 1: argue that maybe that the second Obama run might have 826 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,400 Speaker 1: been the moment where they were like, oh no, we 827 00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,840 Speaker 1: found the particle. This is this is the thing that 828 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 1: destroyed the planet. It's like, no, dude, you just didn't 829 00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:15,719 Speaker 1: think the black dude could pull it off twice and 830 00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,719 Speaker 1: now you don't know how to handle that. That's the 831 00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:23,160 Speaker 1: black hole. He's the black You're just in Obama's thick 832 00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:32,960 Speaker 1: aims forever and always because you're unhappy with political choices. Yeah. Yeah, 833 00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,200 Speaker 1: people will like think of all kinds of like, you know, 834 00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:40,680 Speaker 1: he's a lizard he's a anti christ like instead of 835 00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:44,120 Speaker 1: just like more people like him. Yeah, it's just people 836 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:46,560 Speaker 1: kind of thought he was cool. So we voted for 837 00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:50,919 Speaker 1: him and that's yeah. I don't know. He cries when 838 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:55,200 Speaker 1: when it seems appropriate. Yes, you feelings he's a good 839 00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,480 Speaker 1: guy or not. He's probably murdered plenty of people. But 840 00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:01,760 Speaker 1: it seems like a nice Yeah, better than the other options. 841 00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:04,840 Speaker 1: We have a lot better than the other options. Well, 842 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,480 Speaker 1: we did it this year. I think we did the 843 00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,400 Speaker 1: thing that we needed to do. Could you tell the 844 00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:12,680 Speaker 1: folks at home where they can find you, what cool 845 00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,520 Speaker 1: stuff you have going on. Yeah, my social media stuff 846 00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:19,320 Speaker 1: is at the Sheer Truth to h e Sheer Truth, 847 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,000 Speaker 1: and you can see me on Woke. I'm shooting in 848 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,319 Speaker 1: the second season right now. The first seasons out on 849 00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:30,440 Speaker 1: Hulu and Home Economics is on ABC, but all the 850 00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,880 Speaker 1: episodes after the air are on Hulu. Uh, listen to 851 00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:38,480 Speaker 1: my podcasts with Nicole Buyer called best Friends and you know, 852 00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:41,800 Speaker 1: just just just be kind to each other. Yeah, be 853 00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:44,880 Speaker 1: kind and follow us this year and watch all of 854 00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 1: her television shows. She has more shows then technically should 855 00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:53,640 Speaker 1: be allowed in Hollywood. There are real rules about this stuff, 856 00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,360 Speaker 1: and some house this year finds a way to skirt 857 00:51:56,400 --> 00:52:01,080 Speaker 1: those rules constantly. It's very impressive. She's so and please 858 00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,239 Speaker 1: follow her. And as always, you can follow me at 859 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 1: Langston Kerman and you can send us drops, you can 860 00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,719 Speaker 1: send us ideas, you can send us your own conspiracy 861 00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:13,759 Speaker 1: theories at my Mama pod at gmail dot com. That's it, 862 00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:24,080 Speaker 1: we did the whole thing. Bye bye. Chips in your 863 00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:37,960 Speaker 1: qualibas are racists mostly money Mary stuff. I can't tell 864 00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:38,160 Speaker 1: me