WEBVTT - Did I Move On Wrong? 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.159 Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:04.160 and the Black Effects. 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:16.640 Oh shit, we on the air. 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:19.959 Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:20.840 Just hilarious. 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:23.400 I got Taylor Bag when she wasn't here last week 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:25.959 or whatever, but we found a way for her to read. 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:28.080 So I know y'all disappointed because y'all hate the way 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:32.840 she read. But she's gonna slow it down, right, Taylor, Yes, ma'am, 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:37.360 You're gonna slow it down and and act like she 0:00:37.520 --> 0:00:41.000 really really wants to read the story, all right, because 0:00:41.080 --> 0:00:43.880 for real, I never asked her to do this shit 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:47.120 Like I never asked her like officially. 0:00:47.400 --> 0:00:48.279 This just one day. 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:50.760 This happen because one day I told her I didn't 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:52.040 feel like reading and I was trying to eat a 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:54.560 sandwich and I was like, hey, can you read? And 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:57.240 so she probably like bitch, not even getting paid, but 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:02.080 you know it's okay. So just started off as a 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:05.240 favor one time, and now she has become the designated reader. 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:08.600 So all right, we're gonna jump straight in your. 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:11.479 Hey, Jess, I love your show and actually have left 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:14.880 voicemails and emails you helped with before I did my 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:17.120 boss for a year and he tried to killed me 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:19.680 last year when I didn't. 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:22.479 Call out excuse me, wait a minute, she. 0:01:22.520 --> 0:01:23.840 Goes in right in the fire. 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.679 Okay, and then you have to read like yo, you 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:29.560 gotta read like you on Snap you read and like 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:33.760 you on the fucking Blues Clues. Ad my boss for 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:35.199 a year and he tried to kill man. 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:39.640 So like, all right, I'm readaking mystery. 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:41.520 Okay, yes, a mystery. 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:45.080 I dated my boss for a year and he tried 0:01:45.120 --> 0:01:47.480 to kill me last year when I denied his marriage proposal. 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:50.000 So it's safe to say for a while, I say 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:53.360 to myself, I started taking a friend seriously because I 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:56.240 was afraid to meet new people. He's always been handsome 0:01:56.320 --> 0:01:58.880 and nice, but at one point he was kind of 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:01.640 an alcoholic and I didn't want to take on the project, 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:05.559 so we were just good friends. He works a lot, 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:08.520 and it was only something about his eyes that made 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:12.160 me want to cater to him and be submissive. He 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:15.080 asked me to be his girl three times, and the 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:18.000 last time I accepted it. So we've been together for 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:26.720 about three months. Yo, that's okay, that's crazy. I was like, okay, okay, 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:29.120 he works a lot and For the most part, the 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:31.840 only time we hang out is doing things like he 0:02:31.960 --> 0:02:34.880 likes to do, like the bars and shit, I'm not 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:37.880 a bar kind of bitch. We have trips planned to 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:40.200 go to LA and a cruise, but if I want 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:42.760 to chill with him on a regular Saturday, he'll say, 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:45.520 let's do something like I'll make the plans to go 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:48.079 to a restaurant or something I can dress up for, 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:51.560 but then he'll fall asleep because he's been at work 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:54.240 all day. He makes good money, so I try to 0:02:54.320 --> 0:02:56.760 be understanding. But he doesn't do shit for me either, 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.520 and that's another problem I have. I'm not the type 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:01.880 to ask, but also never been with a guy that 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:05.560 doesn't offer, not saying I want money or bills paid. 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:07.960 But one night we went to a bar and he 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:09.000 playfully choked me. 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:14.320 What what okay? He played? 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:20.160 He playfully choked me when we were kissing, and he 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:23.280 broke my earring. I told him he needed to replace them. 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:25.960 They were real and I don't wear a fake jewelry 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:28.519 and he hasn't, and I brought it up to him 0:03:28.520 --> 0:03:34.680 three times. This nigga buys Gucci seven thousand cuban links 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:39.120 and we retired. But can replace my five hundred dollars earrings. 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:44.040 He has really bad trust issues, but so do I. 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:46.200 I've known him for three years. I rub his feet. 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:48.720 I looked on YouTube to learn how to massage because 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:52.920 he works a lot. And wait, why do you have 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:57.480 to go on YouTube to learn how to massage? But okay, 0:03:57.840 --> 0:03:59.640 I guess learned certain like. 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:03.320 Girl, this is your friend. We don't know what is 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:07.560 going on, but so he goes. 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:10.480 I looked on YouTube to learn how to massage because 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:12.880 he works a lot and sometimes has pain. Okay, so 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:16.400 I guess like to find whatever bring him food sometimes 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:19.000 when I cook. And I'm starting to feel some type 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:22.440 of way because I don't like stingy niggas, niggas that 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:25.560 don't compromise when I am, or niggas that don't have 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:26.039 time for me. 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:28.080 A part of me. 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:30.719 Says to wait, wait it out a little bit, because 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:33.279 he's very sweet and the funniest person I know, but 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:37.080 he's not romantic and not my usual type. He's offered 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:39.760 to change jobs when I brought this to his attention, 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:42.400 so he has more time for me, but only says 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:45.320 it once and never brings it up again. Then he 0:04:45.400 --> 0:04:48.240 cancels on something I want to do last minute again. 0:04:49.160 --> 0:04:52.000 He's still stingy and still only wanting to spend time 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:55.040 with me doing the things he likes to do. Help, y'all, 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:57.960 I am doing too much? Should I wait it out? 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:01.520 Girl a little bit? 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:01.880 Yeah? 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:04.120 Fuck no? She sounded desperate and dumb. 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:08.720 First of all, I was listen now, Justin been through 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:10.120 a lot of I ain't gonna say I've been through 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:13.640 it all, but I've been through a lot of relationship problems. 0:05:13.760 --> 0:05:15.360 You know what I'm saying. I've been through a lot 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:16.480 of relationship shits. 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:18.560 Well I call them relationships, all right, So that's what 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:21.560 I would say, I've been through a lot of relationships. 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:22.120 Okay. 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:27.840 And this nigga sounded like the X before Chris, the 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:30.600 nigga that I took on TV and he embarrassed me publicly, 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:32.200 and it was like, really really fucked up. He had 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:34.960 a big ego for no reason. When the cameras turned on, 0:05:35.040 --> 0:05:37.320 he was totally somebody else. Like that's how I knew, Like, 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:39.680 oh no, baby, you are a fucking clown and you 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:42.160 will be a clown. But I mean he still accounts 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:46.120 to this day. So he struggled like in real life, 0:05:46.640 --> 0:05:52.560 all jokes aside. The niggas struggled with romanticizing and being 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:58.040 intimate and showing affection and shit like that. But he 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:02.080 was protective. He was a bit rough at times, Like 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:03.520 it just sounds like. 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:05.560 My ex. 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:07.640 You know what I'm saying, But to the tenth pole, 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:11.599 because that nigga is crazy. That nigga playfully choked you 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:13.360 broke your ear ring and it was like, I'm not 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:17.640 buying another pairn't didn't even entertain the fact that he 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:18.680 broke your ear rings. 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:19.880 That's crazy. 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:24.880 But anyway, you you sound really really desperate. No more 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:28.040 about him. You told us everything that you needed to 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:30.599 tell us about him. I hope you hearing the story 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:33.240 read back to you makes you open up your fucking 0:06:33.320 --> 0:06:37.000 eyes because you deserve better than that. And I don't 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:39.000 even know you, Like I almost want to call you 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:44.160 a clown, but I know that that will probably discourage 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:49.560 you even more, Like, but don't need to like yeah it, no, 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:53.800 it because you do. But it seemed like she feels 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:58.640 like that's her only option. Yeah, it's like, baby girl, 0:06:58.760 --> 0:06:59.960 First of all, he's your boss. 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:02.360 Never get into it what. 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:03.839 I think she was saying. 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:07.000 She just opened up saying, I dated my boss for 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:08.920 a year and he tried to kill me and then 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:11.000 goes into like, I guess she's stating someone new. 0:07:11.120 --> 0:07:14.400 So oh, I thought this was the nigga that tried 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:15.200 to kill you. 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:22.120 No, I was okay, so this's a whole number. Okay, 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:25.080 So then yo, we need to look at her. 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:30.960 Yeah, because you attracted somebody. This man was your boss. 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:32.760 He wanted to get what do you do to make 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:34.560 people do these things to you? 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:37.200 This is crazy? What the hell? I want to know 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:38.520 why the nigga try to kill her? 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:40.320 And I want to hear that story. 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:45.080 Yeah, that was talking to us about fucking clowney. We know. 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:49.960 I need to know why a man was really ready 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:52.040 to kill you after a year and he was your boss. 0:07:52.280 --> 0:07:53.880 He would have certainly went to jail for it, cause 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:56.320 niggas know that y'all was working together and all of that. 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:58.520 He probably was like I don't give a fuck this 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:01.320 which is crazy. Come here, like, I don't know, I 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:03.680 just need I need more contacts on that first story. 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:06.280 But you want problem with this person at hand? 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:08.360 Leave them. It is what it is. 0:08:08.400 --> 0:08:10.600 But you you don't need to get into a relationship. 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:13.000 You need to figure out yourself. You need to work 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:15.400 on yourself. You need to love yourself. I know you 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:17.160 said you don't wear fake jewelry. 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:17.360 Noll. 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:19.960 It may sound like you got it all together, but nah, 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:23.560 you don't. You don't really know what self love is 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:26.000 because you're still asking should you wait to shut out? 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:27.560 Wait out for what? What you're gonna be waiting for? 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:28.480 What you think he gonna do? 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:34.880 Change one day just suddenly become romantic, like what you 0:08:35.080 --> 0:08:36.960 going on YouTube trying to figure out how to massage 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:38.720 a nigga who work all the time and all of that. 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.080 And you know you said do I'll do things like 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:43.600 trips and cruises, but if it comes to something simple, 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:47.400 it can't get done. Now, I'm not discrediting this man 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:49.400 for work, and I'm not saying he's not ever tired 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:51.560 like men work. Men do need rest, and you know 0:08:51.679 --> 0:08:54.920 men they feed her after being on them all day, 0:08:55.000 --> 0:08:55.600 just like ours. 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:56.720 Do you know what I'm saying? 0:08:56.760 --> 0:09:01.160 But he doesn't sound like he's good for you to 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:03.000 be in a relationship with. Sound like somebody you can 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:06.800 be cool with, But you can't be in a relationship 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:12.520 with this man. If a relationship lacks romance, intimacy, affection 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:15.960 nine times out of ten unless both of y'all lack 0:09:16.040 --> 0:09:18.440 that very same thing. That shit is not going to work. 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:21.319 You want more, you feel like you're giving more than 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:25.520 you're getting. You know, it's the one side of relationship. 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:28.800 It seems like, leave and sit down and tell him that, 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:30.280 like it is what it is like. 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:34.560 Tell him that, especially because they were friends and he 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:36.480 asked her like three times to be his girl, and 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:38.400 then on the third one she's like, okay, I got 0:09:38.520 --> 0:09:40.959 like it don't seem like she. 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:42.640 Didn't even want to fuck with him at first, right, 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:48.560 and she said that that's not her usual type. So right, 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:50.760 you were just trying some shit because that was your 0:09:50.760 --> 0:09:55.679 friend and also despiration, Like what the fuck? If you 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:57.760 know that's not your type and that's not usually your type, 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:00.280 why would you think to step out the box with 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:02.920 a friend who you already know as a friend and 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:06.120 who you're not even attracted to. Maybe it just wasn't 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:07.839 working for her, or you could say I wanted to 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:11.760 try something different, but try a stranger, not a motherfucking 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:14.240 person that you already know, because you know how your 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:14.800 friend is. 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:16.360 You know what I'm saying. 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:20.160 She was saying she gave him a chance because of 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:22.640 the she has trusted she's because of her boss. I 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:24.720 guess I don't know that's how it seems like she 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:25.280 framed it. 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:28.840 But okay, I mean I have trust issues too, after 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:31.319 being in a relationship with a guy who tried to 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:33.920 kill me. Yeah, so let me just dg somebody who 0:10:33.960 --> 0:10:36.200 I know. Okay, let me date somebody who I know 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:41.600 is my friend that's gonna eventually choke me at a bar, 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:46.640 like the fuck it's crazy on me. Okay, So just 0:10:46.720 --> 0:10:48.160 get back with us. I don't even know what to 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:51.360 tell her, is lord, just get back with us. Tell 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:54.480 us about the man that wanted to kill you, because 0:10:54.520 --> 0:10:56.520 we want to know that. We want to know how 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:59.880 that ended up. Have you seen him? How did each 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:02.600 to kill you? We need to know the details, what 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:04.800 happened on, what night? 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:05.280 Was it? 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:08.200 Like we we really would love to know, all right, 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:11.400 So get back at us. Hold up, Hold up, I 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:13.400 know this shit getting good, But listen to just a 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:15.960 couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:20.319 Next story, Taylor, this is crazy. That is definitely one 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:22.040 of your people. I don't care what you said. You 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:26.040 see Taylor, your listen because people know she'd be reading 0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:29.840 for the can'tfley rectors now, so they'd be like all 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:32.439 her friends, these people would tell a friends. 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:34.360 Yeah, I did not know this. 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:37.079 And Taylor is a really good person, you know, but 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:43.160 she attracts the craziest most oh my gosh, the craziest friends. 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:45.960 And I'm like, oh my gosh. And she come up like, 0:11:46.400 --> 0:11:49.120 so my friend wants to know we can like feature 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:52.520 their story on the next I'm like, lord, baby, your 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:58.280 friend's got some fucking id TV stories, all right. 0:11:58.080 --> 0:11:59.040 But it is what it is. 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:01.160 But as long as you'll tailor is a good person, 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:05.480 all right. 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:09.319 Ready, Hey, Jess, So I have a friend. 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:11.600 She's actually been one of my best friends for eight 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:15.600 years now, but lately we have not been getting along. 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:19.560 Our communication has been off. So to give a little 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:21.959 back to Brown story, she just ended things with her 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:25.720 now x Finally it's been a year because she was 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:29.040 being real dumb when it came to that relationship. I mean, 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.920 missing all the red flags, like to the point where 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:34.480 I wanted her to stop telling me about their arguments 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.600 because I knew she wasn't going to leave him, and 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:38.720 it was getting frustrating that she would ask for advice 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:39.559 but not take it. 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:41.880 But fast forward they broke up. 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:44.239 And has been trying to heal from mis cheating ass 0:12:44.679 --> 0:12:47.600 But with her healing journey, she became a little erratic. 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:50.800 She found this new passion of hers to basically help 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:54.280 her community, which is amazing. I'm happy she found a 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:57.480 new focus. Me, on the other hand, has always supported 0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:00.400 her and been there for her as a friendship. But 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:02.760 she thinks that I haven't supported her because I'm not 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:06.400 as passionate as she is to help with her passionate project. 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:09.040 It's crazy because I have supported her, Like I said, 0:13:09.320 --> 0:13:11.920 I've connected her with people to build a team that 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:15.480 she needs to help the cause. And let me emphasize, 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:19.440 when I say she's passionate about it, I'm really saying erratic. 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:22.400 I almost want to compare her to Kanye going off 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:25.640 on his rants in episodes. And it can be a lot, 0:13:25.800 --> 0:13:28.400 especially when I have so many things going on in 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:30.840 my personal and work life. So whenever I try to 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:33.400 speak on what's going on with me, she cuts me 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:36.120 off to talk about herself or act like she doesn't 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:40.880 have the time or emotionally or not emotionally available to 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:43.280 listen to me. Like what the fuck you can come 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:46.240 emotionally dump on me but I can't tell you about 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:46.760 my life. 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:49.160 She will end up apologizing. 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:51.920 For how she acted, but a real apology is changed behavior, right, 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:54.880 So basically, I'm asking how do I explain to her 0:13:54.920 --> 0:13:57.840 that I don't need to be fully passionate as she 0:13:58.000 --> 0:14:00.440 is and still support her on her healing your name. 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:03.679 I also need how finding worse explain she's having an 0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:06.839 unnormal emotional episodes without offending her. 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:08.040 See, that's the thing. 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:10.559 We'd be so caught up in trying not to offend 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:12.800 people that we kind of been the truth that we're 0:14:12.840 --> 0:14:16.480 not allowing ourselves to keep it real. A lot of times, 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:19.560 motherfuckers need the real. That's just what it is, being honest. 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:21.520 Like you know how they say the truth hurts, Like 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:24.920 that's real shit. That's not just a cliche saying. I mean, 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:26.880 you may feel that it's cliche a lot of people 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:31.640 because it's used so much, but no, the truth actually hurts, 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:35.240 and it's honestly sometimes meant to fucking her because sometimes 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:37.480 that's the only way that you can open somebody's eyes, 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:42.360 letting them like letting them know, yo, you're fucking up, 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:45.480 or listen, this is what it is. You're having an 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:48.360 emotional crisis right now. I don't know what's going on. 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:51.320 Maybe you need to go see a therapist, maybe you 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:53.640 need to stop drinking, whatever it is. I'm not saying 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:56.920 that that's her problem, but you know, just whatever her 0:14:57.000 --> 0:14:59.840 issues are, if you're a really if you're really her, 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:02.680 y'all really friends, keep that shit a hunted with a show. 0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:06.520 Only appreciate you if not now later. You know what 0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:11.440 I'm saying, Like, stop worrying about offending her, because that 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:15.200 in itself is low key enabling somebody, like when you 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:18.120 sugarcoat shit or when you're beating around a bush like, nah, 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:20.600 you gotta you gotta tell that person. 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:21.560 Yo. 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:24.880 You you be unloading on me all the time, like 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:27.160 I feel like we're in a one sided friendship. That's 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:30.040 not cool. I'm always available to be a listening ear, 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:33.960 a shoulder for you to cry on, and a fucking diary, 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:36.640 your journal. You tell me all of this shit, and 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:40.560 then when I'm going through something, you're not really there 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:43.160 because you so knee deep in your shit. You know, 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:48.000 it's like everything is about you when life is way 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:50.840 way bigger than just you. 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:52.720 You know what I'm saying, Your life is about you. 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:55.920 But if you're going to have a friendship and we're 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:59.160 gonna confide, and you're gonna confide to me. I want 0:15:59.160 --> 0:16:01.360 to feel like I can come fighting you too. Even 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:04.080 if you have no advice for me, still listen, Because 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:06.520 how I listen to you and and you I give 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:09.640 you advice and you don't take that ship. I still 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:12.920 listen to you, and you feel better after that because 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:16.040 you got somebody to hear you out and it's not 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:19.600 just bottled up frustration. I want to feel that too, like, 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:22.000 and you're my friend, So you know what I'm saying, 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:24.840 I think you should just keep that ship a honted 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:27.560 what you think, Taylor, If you love me, you'll listen 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:29.640 to this commercial and then we'll be right back. 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:38.600 I want to know what she's saying, like he's saying, 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:40.440 she goes on Kanye rants. 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:48.480 So I wonder, like, oh, who told Kanye, Like, was 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:50.840 anyone they're telling Kanye how he is? 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:52.800 Because I don't think Kanye would take it while either. 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:57.840 Yeah, but that's the problem. I think numerous people would 0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:00.840 have told Kanye how he feels. Don't give a fuck. 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:03.480 But you you also see over the years how many 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:06.600 people fell back from him too. You get what I'm 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:10.440 saying like he was everybody's favorite. I'm not talking about fandom. 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:13.600 I'm talking about like people in industry, Like remember him and 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:14.359 Jay jay. 0:17:14.320 --> 0:17:15.800 Z was really really close with each other. 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:18.040 And then you know from what they showed us and 0:17:18.080 --> 0:17:22.159 shit and Beyonce and and you know even let's take example, 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:24.359 look at his fucking marriage. You get what I'm saying, Like, 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:26.840 how that that I'm not gonna say failed? I mean 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:29.400 because people go through things and life is always trying. 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:31.560 You know, some things work out, some things don't. 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:33.679 But we've seen. 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:36.879 People come and go in Kanye's life and yeah, he is. 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:39.800 He's a radical and he's passionate about his beliefs. I'm 0:17:39.800 --> 0:17:41.639 not saying he goes off the deep end all the 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:44.120 time because a lot of times, shit did that man 0:17:44.200 --> 0:17:44.600 be saying? 0:17:44.960 --> 0:17:46.760 Be having me thinking? You get what I'm saying. 0:17:46.760 --> 0:17:49.600 But then he has some things that he say because 0:17:49.600 --> 0:17:53.520 he also is promotion king, promotional king, He'll say shit 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:55.480 that he know is going to have the world in 0:17:55.520 --> 0:17:58.439 an uproar just to sell a new album or to 0:17:58.680 --> 0:18:01.600 sell a pair of fucking shoes or whatever, you know, 0:18:01.840 --> 0:18:04.680 dropping them dropping a new project. Yeah, to get the 0:18:04.760 --> 0:18:07.320 number one album I'm gonna say this shit a week 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:08.280 before I drop it. 0:18:08.520 --> 0:18:10.080 Have everybody, you know. 0:18:11.080 --> 0:18:13.639 So I think he's more calculated than people give him 0:18:14.720 --> 0:18:15.240 credit for. 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:18.560 However, he still has a radical way. 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:22.760 Of thinking when it comes to certain things. But as 0:18:22.800 --> 0:18:27.439 her friend, if she don't take to like the conversation 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:29.960 that I think she should have with her, then you 0:18:30.080 --> 0:18:32.840 just got to fall back. You know, friends go separate 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:35.600 ways each and every day all the time. I've lost 0:18:35.800 --> 0:18:38.360 many of friends. I've lost a lot of friends just 0:18:38.480 --> 0:18:39.960 telling people business on a radio. 0:18:40.200 --> 0:18:42.960 You know what I'm saying. So it is what it is, 0:18:43.400 --> 0:18:44.959 you know, and I get it. 0:18:45.000 --> 0:18:49.240 But friends break up all the time, and not that 0:18:49.320 --> 0:18:52.400 it's a good thing, but sometimes you need to outgrow 0:18:52.440 --> 0:18:55.520 a person. She seems a little selfish that the other 0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:58.159 friends seems just a little selfish. You know. She always 0:18:58.240 --> 0:19:01.520 want to be heard and shit, but she don't want 0:19:01.520 --> 0:19:04.399 to hear nobody. I know, somebody like that I'm close with. 0:19:04.600 --> 0:19:07.080 You know what I'm saying, Yeah, like, don't nobody. That's 0:19:07.160 --> 0:19:11.680 that's crazy. That's crazy. So check back in, Mama, yep, 0:19:11.720 --> 0:19:13.600 had that? Oh my god, I sound like envy. What 0:19:13.640 --> 0:19:17.320 the fuck is mama? Oh my god, did you just 0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:23.320 hear that said hold up, hold, I sound like y'all 0:19:23.320 --> 0:19:26.920 said check back in, mama. First of all, Josh, that's 0:19:27.040 --> 0:19:30.959 not you don't even call nobody, no fucking mama. 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:33.520 Girl. 0:19:34.680 --> 0:19:39.120 Fucking breakfast club was crazy, but yeah, check back and sweetie, 0:19:39.400 --> 0:19:44.200 and yeah. 0:19:44.160 --> 0:19:46.000 Like I almost want to be like check back in, bitch, 0:19:46.320 --> 0:19:51.720