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Speaker 1: My fiance's toxic family keeps gaslighting us. I want her

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Speaker 1: gas gassing doesn't smell good. Me male twenty four and

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Speaker 1: my soon to be fiance, female twenty three. I've been

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Speaker 1: or something like that. She is smart, beautiful, in the

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Speaker 1: Like any healthy and happy couple. We have had our

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Speaker 1: fair share of joke arguments here and there, maybe minor

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Speaker 1: serious argument. Wants every blue moon. However, when it comes

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from decaying oblivion on the

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Speaker 1: our slash Owkay storytime brought name right, especially with all

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Speaker 1: the numbers. Yeah, so some backgrounds. We met in college

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Speaker 1: and I got to meet her folks after our second date,

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Speaker 1: who seemed normal enough. She was adopted by her grandparents

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Speaker 1: for reasons that don't need to be disclosed here other

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Speaker 1: childhood because of the abuse. Now it seems because of

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Speaker 1: her grandparents. Will refer to them as parents for simplicity

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Speaker 1: hearing out she wants to go back to therapy and

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Speaker 1: I support her one hundred percent. Nice trouble started showing

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Speaker 1: during the pandemic. My fiance works in the medical field

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Speaker 1: and has a good head on her shoulders, so she

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Speaker 1: kept up with developing news about it. Her parents, however,

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Speaker 1: are Trump nuts. No other way to put it. That's

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Speaker 1: the only way we could ever say that. They think

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Speaker 1: he was and still is the smartest and greatest man

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Speaker 1: to ever live. And anyone who disagrees as just a

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Speaker 1: hater or not a real.

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Speaker 2: Christian, shout out Jesus.

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Speaker 1: Personally, I couldn't give two crapidoodle dues about anyone's opinion

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Speaker 1: on the pandemic or politics. However, the first major flag

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Speaker 1: red flag was election Day twenty twenty. Here we go political.

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Speaker 1: I was watching the news in the living room with

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Speaker 1: her mother and a couple of minorities. Sorry if this

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Speaker 1: is improper, that is a very weird way to uh

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Speaker 1: proper say that anyways, Oh sorry, and a couple of minorities,

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Speaker 1: So office is an improper come on the TV to

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Speaker 2: Still kind of weird, but we'll keep moving. I guess.

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Speaker 1: Well her mother people of color, Well, her mother proudly proclaimed.

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Speaker 2: That those people shouldn't even be allowed to vote.

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Speaker 1: We're getting a pretty clear picture of how insane the

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Speaker 2: Okay, taken aback. I asked what she meant by that,

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Speaker 2: A very reasonable.

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Speaker 1: Question, seeing that they were Trump Trump nuts and people

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Speaker 1: able to vote it or whatever. But no, she meant

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Speaker 1: because they weren't white. All right, Ah right, see you later, good.

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Speaker 2: Freaking bob.

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Speaker 1: That's to this day they constantly say those people when

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Speaker 3: Oh no, oh gosh.

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Speaker 1: Then about a year or sogo into the relationship, my

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Speaker 1: because of her parents, like how they removed her bedroom

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Speaker 1: into abusive relationship just because they had spicy sleep oooh wow.

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Speaker 1: And although it wasn't mentioned, me and my fiance both

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Speaker 1: agree it was probably more so forced because it was

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Speaker 1: a black man. More racism here we go. Then she

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Speaker 1: told me about how her mother comments about her weight

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Speaker 1: now I did. I do not want to mention here

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Speaker 1: before going any further, that her mother is dying. I

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Speaker 1: to support her in any way possible, especially for when

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Speaker 1: her mother passes. However, everything becomes a competition with her

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Speaker 1: have a broken leg? Well, didn't you know I'm dying.

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Speaker 1: That's so much worse. It's so much worse. She likes

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Speaker 2: Word in edgewise.

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Speaker 1: Essentially, talking to her is just listening to her having

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Speaker 1: feeling heard by her parents. Her mother loves telling long stories,

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Speaker 1: most of which she tells over and over again. We

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Speaker 2: You're like, hey, on.

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Speaker 1: The twenty seventh time, this somehow isn't It's not really hidden,

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Speaker 1: It's not really hidden.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw Victoria just as we danced.

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Speaker 1: Oh, here we go. I'm time to out of forty

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Speaker 1: forty eight ladies and gentlemen who get buckle the freak up.

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Speaker 2: Also, I'm so prepared for chat. Sorry just to say

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Speaker 2: everyone's big. You dance with this guy? You remember five

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Speaker 2: years ago?

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Speaker 1: Oh guys, can we can we get Victoria Justice and

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Speaker 1: be like, hey you dance with from ok story Time? Yo,

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Speaker 1: that would be dope comment. Comment, that would be dope comment.

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Speaker 2: We should do that please.

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Speaker 1: We had remember remember when there was a YouTube video

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Speaker 1: but where you and Sam were in the the dating

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Speaker 1: show Riley and Sam, We're in a dating show on

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Speaker 1: YouTube and then people were like, oh my gosh is

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Speaker 1: that John sand from Okay story Time and flooded the comments.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's amazing. It was great. It was great. Also,

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Speaker 2: apparently we did mix. We did miss vix mixes. Don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll just do it. Sorry vix mix. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: thanks for the five bucks. Riley, I am now your

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Speaker 1: auntie lunch Lenna vix Mix.

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Speaker 3: Let's go right right unlocked.

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Speaker 1: There we go. So back to the story.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Her mother loves telling long stories, much of what most

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Speaker 1: of which she tells over and over again, which normally

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Speaker 1: her she's heard the story before, her mother will flip

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Speaker 1: her lit. She will scream at her, demanding she gets

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Speaker 1: the phone. This will make my fiance very upset and

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Speaker 1: often spend long periods of time on the phone with her,

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Speaker 1: which she doesn't seem to like to do. Her mother

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Speaker 1: is less, so the problem. In fact, I would just,

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Speaker 1: in fact, I would that, In fact, I would that

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Speaker 1: she should stay close. I would say that she should

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Speaker 1: stay close to her mother despite everything I'm previously stated.

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Speaker 1: If her father is cut off, her father, however, might

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Speaker 1: be one of the worst people I have ever had

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Speaker 1: the displeasure of interacting with. Guys, if Opie is saying this,

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Speaker 3: I don't even want to I don't.

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Speaker 1: Black hole, black hole, black hole black I think we're yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think this is this is like black hole territory,

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Speaker 1: and I think we're about to find out insanity. Oh

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Speaker 1: my goodness. So again, much like her mother, red flags

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Speaker 1: didn't appear until a year into dating. But her father

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Speaker 1: was so much worse than I could have ever feared.

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Speaker 1: He would guilt, trip, gas light, use anything to his

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Speaker 1: manipulative actions, to which my fiance has just learned to

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Speaker 1: put up with it. Because of this, he has always

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Speaker 1: I come from a fairly well off family, and because

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Speaker 1: of that, I feel like he resents.

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Speaker 2: Me for it.

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Speaker 1: Bro be happy. Yeah, we're all rich now, not that

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Speaker 1: that money is yours, but like you know, just just

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: The wedding is at Buckingham Palace.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and your daughter's gonna be taken care of.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I've said it.

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Speaker 3: Come on, I know I'm not gonna get any inheritance

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Speaker 3: from op.

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Speaker 1: You're the dad, Come on, freaking grandpa, slap slap his

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Speaker 1: grandpa in the face. But he'll still live, That's right.

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Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna say it. Now he'll live. Yeah, Ago,

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Speaker 2: John's on a warterare today it's the suit he's John,

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Speaker 2: then it's John Wick.

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Speaker 1: True.

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Speaker 2: True.

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Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna say, John Bond, double.

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Speaker 2: Both, you're both so.

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Speaker 1: My breaking point was when I was still in college.

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Speaker 1: At the time, I was in the social studies education program,

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Speaker 1: on track to become a teacher. Let's go one time

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Speaker 1: when we were visiting, making a pit stop at their

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Speaker 1: makes a joke. Here we go, Hey, if you're becoming

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Speaker 3: This man has watched too much Fox News and is

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Speaker 3: out of reality. This is so sad, Oh man, this

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Speaker 1: As a person who is bisexual, this completely threw me off.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know what to say, although, can we

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Speaker 2: In a room again. I was just tired of it,

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Speaker 1: She believed me immediately, but just responded with that's just

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Speaker 3: Ah, that's it can explain behavior, it does not excuse

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Speaker 1: From that point on, I had no idea how to

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Speaker 1: They demanded she dog sit for them while they were

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Speaker 1: I helped her move into her new apartment with her father.

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Speaker 1: He stayed civil, and so did he. My fiance even

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Speaker 1: said he wanted to apologize about the joke, okay, which

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Speaker 1: of course he didn't okay, And when I brought it

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Speaker 2: He just straight uplied.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I was out of earshot, but an actual apology,

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Speaker 1: I believe you would want to at least have the

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Speaker 2: His apology was.

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Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, sorry, sorry for.

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Speaker 2: I'm what was that actually sorry?

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Speaker 1: But I'm not sorry at all Oh, I'm the worst

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Speaker 1: grandpa ever and I deserve to be slap by John.

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Speaker 1: That's it, okay, but not but live, but live much longer.

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Speaker 1: Just a little slappy. Then last November, she got an

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Speaker 1: Of course, how can investing in our education and career

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Speaker 1: Shout out to my grandma who had a little book

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Speaker 1: He can't do anything right. He's evil grandpa, evil dad.

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Speaker 2: Hole, the evil, the densest of hate and venom.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 2: Began to fester. Here we got a good idea.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about I also want to preface a few

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Speaker 3: Who what are these people?

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Speaker 1: The church they go to is a cult where the

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 1: Of course, both of my parents are religious, and both

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Speaker 1: have no issues with them. They're also Republican, but free

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Speaker 1: They have been nothing but supportive of me and my fiance,

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Speaker 1: They are aware of the situation and try to reach

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Speaker 2: But let's talk about it. Let's talk about it, dude.

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Speaker 2: This is this is this is rough op.

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Speaker 1: He brought up the low contact. Yes, absolutely, we need

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Speaker 2: Or cloud them black hole or cloud for sure, all

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Speaker 1: And I think, let me know what you think about this. Boys,

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Speaker 1: You go to to Riley's point, if you have a true,

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Speaker 3: But dude, I'm gonna be real. These people are so

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Speaker 1: And they're old as crap. I mean, there's a grand

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Speaker 3: Okay, quick Bible story, just a quick one. There was

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Speaker 3: I agree. I think like, if they're so stuck in

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Speaker 3: it's don't even try. It's you're right, it is a

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Speaker 1: Like we're moving on and move on because this is

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, only imagine like all of the things

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Speaker 1: Would I say deserves because she's been through sothing, like

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Speaker 2: Pay for life.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's the light in me to sue the

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Speaker 2: Too far gone. They're too far gone, too far gone

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Speaker 1: Yep. So I completely reverse what I was what I

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Speaker 2: It Abraham that led the people after Moses. It was

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, back to the story.

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Speaker 1: Okay, are ready to get back to the present? Are

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Speaker 2: Let's start a present. Now.

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Speaker 1: We are living in Minnesota, states away from them and caught,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is exhausting, dude, or.

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Speaker 1: I guess you don't love us enough to even care

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Speaker 3: Okay, I would be going low con if they have

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like I'll give you just enough to get

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Speaker 2: That'd be great, but.

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Speaker 3: It's a one family members love and be like, oh.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say, to stay low contact, I mean,

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Speaker 3: They will never know. They would never easy money. That

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Speaker 2: That is so funny. That is if they have.

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Speaker 3: Money, because they don't. I'm not about to subscribe for

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but hey, listen that you want to talk about

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, anyways, leave it to me and Riley to figure

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Speaker 1: brought They brought up politics in the middle of a

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00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 1: restaurant dinner with my fiance, and she said her and

445
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 1: she said her opinion on term and eating pregnancies. Her

446
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 1: mother started wailing and crying and making a scene in

447
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 1: the restaurant. Anytime she was home. They got into a

448
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 1: screaming match because they didn't like that she was forming

449
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 1: her own opinions. Oh my god, dare she Her father

450
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 1: walked out. Her mother started crying, claiming that she wanted

451
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 1: to self harm and was mentally unwell and seeing a therapist,

452
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 1: to which me and my fiance both thought was a

453
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 1: lie until we realized the only person who goes into

454
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: their house is the is their pastor. The very same

455
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 1: who wished my fiance failed at her dream job, so

456
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:40,360
Speaker 1: they considered him a therapist. Of course, the colt. Yeah,

457
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: the colt pastor is our therapist.

458
00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:43,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, dude.

459
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,679
Speaker 1: That's like, that's like the one they're like trying to

460
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 1: like learn her lingos so that way they can like, oh,

461
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,920
Speaker 1: a therapist. All all these kids love therapy. We'll say

462
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,280
Speaker 1: we have the therapist. Meanwhile, it's the pastor that's like

463
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 1: all this trash. Yeah, don't go to college just for sinners.

464
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 2: You don't go to h double hockey sticks.

465
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,680
Speaker 3: Basically, Oh, my.

466
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 1: Six sent me her father almost never leaves the house

467
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 1: unless it's getting groceries. Because of all this, all the

468
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 1: time spent taking care of her mother, I completely forgot

469
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 1: that she's like her her illness is. Yeah, I'm still raging.

470
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,440
Speaker 1: Every time she called me, she sounded miserable. She told

471
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 1: her best friend who's getting married at her bridal shower,

472
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 1: that she didn't even want to go home and see them.

473
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 2: Wow.

474
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, she didn't even want to go home to that

475
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,639
Speaker 1: wedding to have to you know, lived in to the parents.

476
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 1: To top it all off, my fiance had multiple mental

477
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 1: breakdowns in that single weekend. Now, After that weekend, I

478
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,879
Speaker 1: started bringing up the possibility of lessening the amount of

479
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 1: contact she has with them. I know I'm not a

480
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: perfect person, and I like to think of myself as

481
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 1: someone reasonable. I want her to have a good relationship

482
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 1: with her parents. But after everything they've done, and every

483
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 1: time she goes home, huh, she has a new story

484
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: to tell me about what they've done, what they've said

485
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 1: or done to see her, to see her, Oh, to her,

486
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: I see that as less and less of a possibility.

487
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 1: At first, I said, maybe don't talk to them for

488
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 1: a week and if you feel better then or they

489
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: don't improve, making a month or a year, like, just

490
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 1: keep going if it feels good. I understand since her

491
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:34,199
Speaker 1: mother is passing away, she simply she doesn't want to

492
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,880
Speaker 1: completely cut them off and regret not speaking to her

493
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: before she passes away. I would never be able to

494
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: forgive myself if that were to happen, and she would

495
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,199
Speaker 1: understandably hate me for it. It has also gotten to

496
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 1: the point where even my own mother thinks is for

497
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 1: the best and being raised as an Italian Catholic, nothing

498
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:56,199
Speaker 1: is more important than family. Before flying out for the

499
00:24:56,240 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 1: actual wedding and the bridal shower. Sorry, before flying out

500
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 1: for the actual wedding. The bridal shower was for I

501
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 1: lost sleep and started losing hair from the amount of

502
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,359
Speaker 1: stress of having to see her parents again. Honestly, dude,

503
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:14,679
Speaker 1: can't blame me. God can't blame me. I know she

504
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 1: was just as worried and did every and I did

505
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 1: everything I could to support her. I had no idea.

506
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 1: I had no idea what they would do or say

507
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 1: or possibly ruin what should be a celebratory weekend with

508
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 1: her and her best friend getting married. By the way,

509
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: if you don't want to ruin our wedding of marrying,

510
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:42,680
Speaker 1: good vibes of us and watching the stream, if you don't,

511
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 1: if you don't want to run away from the altar

512
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: of this of this wedding here, I'm dressed like a

513
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: groom right now. Guys, you just tap the profile on

514
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 1: any any weekday, just pick one at three pm PST,

515
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:54,880
Speaker 1: and then you join the live and then you're hearing

516
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: it's fun and we talked to you and it's amazing.

517
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, best time ever. I'd look forward to it every day.

518
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 3: Don't leave me at the freaking alter, dude, Darlene, mother

519
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 3: is faking sickness. Because it's their last kid that they

520
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 3: have in contact Darlene in the chat, and they're like,

521
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 3: what we have to manipulate they are though, they're losing

522
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 3: a hold on her. She's getting married. How can we

523
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 3: make sure He's saying.

524
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 1: She's getting a job, she's becoming successful, she's removing toxicity

525
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: from her life. We need to dump toxic sludge back

526
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 1: into her life. Yep.

527
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 3: These people are horrible on every single thing that you

528
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 3: could be good at.

529
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: That's correct, that's correct. It's baffling real quick before we

530
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 1: get into the end of the story.

531
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 2: Yep, it's tough.

532
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,479
Speaker 1: So Opie hasn't explicitly said this, but it seems like

533
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 1: the Opie's UH is a fiance or now wife. Yeah, It'sianya.

534
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 1: Opie's fiance is still not yet willing to UH is

535
00:26:54,880 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: still not willing to go no or low contact. And

536
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. It's a very hard thing for op

537
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: because op doesn't want to be like no, you have

538
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: to go to contact, like like kind of flip around

539
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 1: and be you know, controlling and say that one option

540
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 1: here is like hey, listen, you know I want you

541
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 1: to be empowered to make your own decisions. I don't

542
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: want to be controlling like them, you know, But that

543
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 1: doesn't mean I should have to see them.

544
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so.

545
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 1: I would, I would, you know, Hope, Hope you joined

546
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: me in in in what just what I feel is

547
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: removing the most toxic, cancerous, venomous leech from your life.

548
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 1: Maybe you say a little bit more nicely, maybe not.

549
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 2: But I do not.

550
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: Want to see them because at the end of the day,

551
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: all you control is what is what is your thoughts? Gentlemen.

552
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, at this point, it's just so like even heard Ope,

553
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 2: like I'm losing hair O for this.

554
00:27:58,280 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's not even their daughter.

555
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is so much stress that why am I

556
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 2: putting so much effort into this? There's no point, right, Yeah,

557
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,679
Speaker 2: at this point. I mean the point was made a

558
00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 2: while ago, but at this point there's there's no reason.

559
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 2: There's no maybe, like Riley said, like, oh, there's a

560
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:19,640
Speaker 2: big inheritance, I guess, but these people suck.

561
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, And if you I've been into this situation where

562
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 3: the parents of my partner did not like me at all,

563
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 3: and let's say that and we ended because she ended

564
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 3: up like not liking me or my family. But let's

565
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 3: say like I was in that same situation, and I

566
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 3: knew that my partner liked me and my parents, I'd

567
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 3: probably sit down with my partner in this situation and

568
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 3: be like, Hey, I love you. I want to be

569
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 3: with you for the rest of your life. Yes, I

570
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 3: cannot be with you and be with your parents, can't.

571
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 3: We have to cut contact. Understand that your mother's dying,

572
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 3: but you coming stressed to me all the time. They

573
00:28:56,040 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 3: are literally vampire people energy vampires worse than that. Honestly,

574
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 3: I think they're drawing more blood than a vampire would.

575
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like basically your The perspective is like, because

576
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: it's affecting our relationship, Yes, this is something that we

577
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: need to go No, no.

578
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 3: Because if he's losing hair, now, wait till they're get married,

579
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 3: Wait till they go to the same Thanksgiving, Wait till Christmas. Ever,

580
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 3: you're a Christmas You love Christmas, don't you? I love

581
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 3: christ Imagine hating it because of a family.

582
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 2: I already hate to hate Christmas. Yeah, you get anxious,

583
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 2: you get stressed out, like, oh, it's it's family time.

584
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 2: We gotta go visit her, I gotta get them gifts,

585
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 2: I gotta do all this, And then you're just one

586
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 2: big stress ball.

587
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 3: You have to absolutely go no contact after this wedding.

588
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, me personally, like yeah, honestly, now that I'm

589
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,959
Speaker 1: putting on me, like after a certain amount of time,

590
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: it's like, listen, I don't I don't know if I

591
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 1: can be not not And it's it's tough because you

592
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: don't want to say in a in a controlling or

593
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: ultimatum way, but just like trying to communicate, like I

594
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: just don't know if I have it in me to contect.

595
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: I want to be with you for the rest of

596
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: my life. I don't know if I have it in

597
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: me to not just deal with this but also see

598
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: you deal with this, Yeah, you know, for the rest

599
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 1: of my life. So would you join me in building

600
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: this new life together?

601
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 2: And if you tell them like this is going to

602
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 2: be so much more beneficial for not just mainly me,

603
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 2: but mainly mainly Oh.

604
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's tough because I'm trying to play. There's this

605
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 1: really difficult tightrope walk here where it's like, hey, I

606
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: don't want to be controlling. I don't want to tell

607
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 1: you what to do. I don't want to give it

608
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 1: an ultimatum. I want to be supportive but like.

609
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 2: If we haven't tried this, Yeah, what do we tried this? Yeah,

610
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 2: Like we'll see how beneficial or unbeneficial it is. Yeah,

611
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 2: and obviously it's going to be beneficial. Well, let's get to

612
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 2: the end of it. So I love my fiance.

613
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 1: She's the most amazing person in the world, and I'm

614
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 1: so proud of her for getting her dream job at

615
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: one of the world's best hospitals. I don't know what

616
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: I can do to help anymore. I want to help her,

617
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: and I'm hoping other people here have gone through something

618
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 1: similar can give some advice, words of encouragement, or something

619
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 1: to help her. If you read all of that insanity,

620
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: thank you edit. I forgot to mention they still want

621
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: her to move back home and are still saying moving

622
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 1: out was a mistake, which only frustrates her more as

623
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: she is a lot more happy being away from them.

624
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 2: That is it answer.

625
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: I still stand by what we deduced here.

626
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 2: They just want to control. They want to control.

627
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: They want to control, they want to.

628
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 2: They want to brainwash, They want to brainwash her, control her.

629
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 3: Even if they were upright great Christians that like you know,

630
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 3: had even mindingly thinking they would want their daughter to

631
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 3: you know, grow up in a way that she could

632
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 3: live on her own and to you know, be a

633
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 3: person as herself just flourish.

634
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, doesn't want what what uh?

635
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 1: Loving parent doesn't want to see their kids have the

636
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: best life exactly.

637
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:00,479
Speaker 3: They literally tell you you're you are the bo and your

638
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 3: kids are the arrow, and you have to make sure

639
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 3: that that arrow is gonna go in the right direction.

640
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 3: It makes Yeah, that's that's bible, though not by me.

641
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 2: But it's all you don't.

642
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 3: Like what the heck she dream job at the best

643
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 3: hospital in the nation. Perhaps this is insane. Yeah, no,

644
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 3: you've got you gotta even.

645
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 2: Start your life together. Let him go, Yeah, let him go.

646
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: That's it.

647
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 1: That's that's that's literally all we can say.

648
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 3: That that is they want to live in slave to

649
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 3: watch the dogs. They're doing dude, low key conspiracy. They're

650
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 3: doing all this so swimming can watch the Dogska.

651
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 2: Just take the dog, honestly, just take the dog, just

652
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 2: to their dogs. The dogs didn't do anything anything, you

653
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 2: know what I mean. The dogs they don't deserve the dogs.

654
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 2: Get my dogs, my dogs.

655
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: But that's it.

656
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 2: That's everyone. Hey, you know what, guys, that was a

657
00:32:56,560 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 2: really really bummy story. But we do can we can

658
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 2: make this a little bit better?

659
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 3: Shoot, oh, I got the wheel right there. If you

660
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Speaker 3: want to get that to go get out.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I know. Let's see John do it.

662
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 3: You want to do it?

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00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 2: Let you do. He looks like a game show. It's

664
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Speaker 2: like a game show host.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Okay, story time today.

666
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Speaker 2: We're spinning the wheel because you like the like and

667
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 2: we're getting it right. Are we ready to go? Whe wheel?

668
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 2: Oh my god? What did you hit? What did you hit?

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00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 2: What was that hard hit? You did? Lick that? Whoa?

670
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 3: Let's freaking go?

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00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 2: Stamily members, give them to me, give you, give them

672
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 2: room again. I have to use a little sands room.

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Speaker 2: Well you want to show your yeah, yeah, all cross streams.

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00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 2: Excuse me? How yep?

675
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: The will will spin back in time, I know. Guys.

676
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: Matt hatter Goal, thanks for the ten bucks. Good comment here.

677
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: As a person who has a toxic parent, especially when

678
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 1: he is drunk, I feel for Opie's partner. I'm always

679
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: on the fence about going low contact or no contact

680
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,879
Speaker 1: with my dad once I move out of my parents' house.

681
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 1: It's tough to make a decision on that. It is

682
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: it is tough being being in there in in real life,

683
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's it's I I

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Speaker 1: appreciate the challenge, you know. It's uh, the fiance is

685
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 1: probably so like brainwashing inundated, it's tough. There we go,

686
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Speaker 1: we uh, Josephine Mandalo, thanks for the twenty seven se

687
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Speaker 1: kuh fun fact. I nearly ended up in a Christian

688
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: cult once. What glad you made it out okay and

689
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,919
Speaker 1: didn't actually glad you actually didn't get into it. Didn't

690
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: even need to go out the other end because you

691
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 1: never never had to go in, go in and shout

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Speaker 1: out to us for gifting five memberships.

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Speaker 2: Let's freaky go oh shout out to us.

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Speaker 3: Wow. Heck yeah, dude, yeah, John. Do you have any

695
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 3: religious trauma?

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Speaker 1: Hmmm nope, I'm good to go. Wow, I think I'm

697
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: good to go. I think so.

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Speaker 3: I think once I meet a therapist, I might have

699
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Speaker 3: some Not too sure.

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00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 2: There we go.

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Speaker 4: It could be, could be, it could be, it could be.

702
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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go cross streams with ke On real quick.

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Speaker 4: There we go, uh, dne g eleven. Hey, John, just

704
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Speaker 4: learned you in drum lines. So is I which drum

705
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Speaker 4: did you play?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: I'll give you my really quick drums drum line lore.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: So freshman year made it on snare because I was

710
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Speaker 1: left handed, and then they said you can't read music

711
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: and I was like, you're right, and they kicked me out.

712
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 1: Then uh I played bass drum uh for sophomore year,

713
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Speaker 1: and then junior year made it back on snare, but

714
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 1: I kept dislocating my knee. And then shout out to

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Speaker 1: freakin John, who is my uh my drum tech who

716
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Speaker 1: changed my life and is like one of my like

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Speaker 1: o G mentors.

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Speaker 2: I thought you were shouting out yourself.

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Speaker 1: Nope, shout out to the other John. Yeah. And he

720
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:57,800
Speaker 1: was like, hey, I know you you're gonna you're gonna go

721
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Speaker 1: harden the paint. You're gonna make it happen. You're sixteen,

722
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: and I don't want you mess up your leg for life.

723
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 1: Don't march the season. So I was like, bet, I'm

724
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 1: gonna listen to you. Uh and then so I didn't

725
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Speaker 1: march then, and then finally senior year, I was snare.

726
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 1: So they go, there's my little trumpline.

727
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Speaker 2: More. Did we get all the donos?

728
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Speaker 1: I think so? Or did I think one just came in? Actually?

729
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 1: On the YouTube. Actually there might be all the some more,

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Speaker 1: just making sure read I don't.

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Speaker 3: Miranda, Yeah, we we already read that one.

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Speaker 1: I read Matt hatter glse I read I read Matt

733
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Speaker 1: had a GLA. Well, we just got one on YouTube,

734
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Speaker 1: I think, Billy Claire, thanks for being a member for

735
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: three months. Thanks for all the content, heart, thanks for

736
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Speaker 1: being awesome. Ever think about that my neurodivergent brain. Sorry,

737
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 1: my neurodivergent brain needs constant stimulation. And I don't think

738
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Speaker 1: there's any any of your content I haven't seen all

739
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 1: day every day.

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00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 2: That is what I love to hear. I love to hear, and.

741
00:36:56,719 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: No, I shouldn't what I am not. Usually I can

742
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 1: telepathically read what.

743
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 3: She said that she hasn't she's seen all of it.

744
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 3: I was gonna say something, but we'll wait. Is it true,

745
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 3: we'll see, we'll see. Joseph mean Doll, thanks for the

746
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 3: sixty five and c K. I did fight back when

747
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 3: people told me it was a cult. So they did.

748
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 3: Uh so they did brain manage to brainwash me a little.

749
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 3: But hey, listen, you're here, you're here here with the fam.

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Speaker 2: Ye to brainwash you? Oh no, no, in a good way.

751
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, Matt had a girl thanks her the ten bucks

752
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,399
Speaker 1: on the YouTube super chat. The hat to must leave

753
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,359
Speaker 1: now set up.

754
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 2: Her own stream and go down the rabbit hole and

755
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 2: help at us out.

756
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: I hope you all have an amazing week.

757
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 2: Matt.

758
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 3: Okay, actually, please don't leave. Can you just like on

759
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 3: your iPad or your phone, just put it in the background,

760
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:51,280
Speaker 3: you know, but just don't leave us, leave us family.

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00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 2: You know we love you man in the club. We're

762
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 2: all fam true.

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00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,280
Speaker 3: All right, that's a that's a something.

764
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 2: And then lindsay you want to get it chat will

765
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 2: get it.

766
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 1: And then Lindsey, thanks for the one New Zealand dollar.

767
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 3: We appreciate language New Zealand.

768
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 2: You know it's okay.

769
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 1: Riley has his own sign language. I also have to.

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Speaker 2: Take a we Wi bye. We all were we were

771
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 2: all in sync.

772
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 3: We're all in sync. We could have all crush streams.

773
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 3: We could have we could have tripled streamed triple stream.

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00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 2: Is that the timer?

775
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 3: Also, someone earlier said great analogy, Riley, thank you, and

776
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 3: hello Stiffy wi Fi hello to you on Facebook. But

777
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,800
Speaker 3: someone said great analogy Riley, and oh my gosh said

778
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Speaker 3: my day. So I like doing this. I might pull

779
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 3: some strings and come on this live stream with John again.

780
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 3: If you will allow me on Tuesdays, I might pull

781
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 3: some strings.

782
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 2: You gotta wear a suit. Okay, you haven't worn a

783
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 2: suit yet.

784
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 3: Boys, stream is great, He's I'll see if I.

785
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 2: Okay.

786
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 3: Storytime cult, No, this is just okay, storytime not a cult,

787
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 3: Harriet Spaghetti. Riley's dream is for all of you to

788
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 3: pee in the backyard together. How did you know that?

789
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 3: Holding hands?

790
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 2: He's so oh that's good, that's really bonding.

791
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 3: Yep, it's a tom.

792
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 2: Let's not do that.

793
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:17,760
Speaker 3: I love Maya, Michelle, big proteins back. Let's go, Miranda.

794
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 3: I'm down for a okay, story time cult?

795
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 2: Uh?

796
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 3: Paul uh? Colt or not?

797
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 2: Who us? Yeah?

798
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, do you guys want to join our cult or not?

799
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 2: Colt or not?

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Speaker 3: First thing I would do in a cult be the

801
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 3: leader hmm, I'd be the guy. I'd be the cook

802
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 3: the cult. Yep, that's what I would do. I'd be

803
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 3: the cook. If we all had to be in a colt,

804
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 3: I'd be the cook because I would have to see everyone,

805
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 3: and I would have to give you guys food, and

806
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 3: I love giving and I love seeing everyone, So I'd

807
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 3: be the cook. Because I have to see you three

808
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 3: times a day. Dude, that's beautiful unless you don't eat

809
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 3: breakfast and I'll see you twin today. What would you

810
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 3: be in a colt uh? And we would all eat

811
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 3: protein and caffeine. I'd put little caffeine into.

812
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,439
Speaker 2: Drinks, caffeated protein, caffeinated protein.

813
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:11,320
Speaker 3: So everyone could be productive.

814
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Speaker 2: Well, i'd be in a cult. I don't know. I

815
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 2: don't want to be in a cult.

816
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 3: No, you have to be. Who would you be?

817
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 2: I mean I'm in a one right now?

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00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: Right?

819
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, well what are you?

820
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Speaker 2: I'd be the cakes of the cult.

821
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 3: Okay, He'll be the baker.

822
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, yep, that's what I'm gonna be. Yep, he's

823
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Speaker 2: gonna bake it, bake it.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like Sam would be the

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Speaker 3: spiritual guy and John would be our leader.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 3: Sam would be the spiritual guy that like, like knows

828
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 3: that to like and John so many cult members let's go.

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00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and John would be our motivational speaker.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, pointed astrologer twenty four Yeah, five months like the stream,

831
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Speaker 3: I'm the cook at the cult. I call cook the

832
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Speaker 3: cook yep, because I like to see everyone and give

833
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Speaker 3: people stuff.

834
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:54,279
Speaker 1: So that's true. You would, you would, you would do

835
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Speaker 1: it with a smile.

836
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 2: You know what I want to like and see this

837
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Speaker 2: next story.

838
00:40:58,239 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 3: Let's go. I'm ready, are you.

839
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 2: Well? Who's reading first?

840
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,399
Speaker 3: I am going to be putting caffeine in the kool aid?

841
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 3: Can't really find it's me?

842
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:07,720
Speaker 1: That's true.

843
00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 2: I know, I know, I know. My sister in law.

844
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 2: Sister in law is what keeps us going. My wife's okay,

845
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 2: that shouldn't be the title, but the title.

846
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 1: We're gonna figure it out. I'll talk to you people

847
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,320
Speaker 1: that would be you know, Harlene, that would be very friendly.

848
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: Cult absolutely absolutely. Uh Why is John in a stream

849
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: on Keon's monitor? Because we that's we have so many

850
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: monitors and we have to be seeing what's going on. Guys,

851
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: it is a whole operation on the producer side. You

852
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:47,319
Speaker 1: don't even know. It's crazy, John. I My daughter was

853
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: in Color Guard. Just rough, but shout out to your

854
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: to your to your daughter in Color Guard. Let's let's

855
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: freaking go, dude, drunk band kids for the win.

856
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 2: Bro.

857
00:41:56,719 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm a freaking I'm a band kid for life.

858
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 1: All right, let's go, let's do it already.

859
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,800
Speaker 2: Yep, let's go. All right, you ready, Kean, I'm ready

860
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 2: if you're ready.

861
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 3: But let's do it. I told my sister in law

862
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 3: that her husband cheated on her. Now my wife wants

863
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 3: to leave me. Go get out of.

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00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 2: Here, Get out of here, Get out of here.

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Speaker 3: I've been married to my wife for three years. I

866
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 3: am twenty seven, she's twenty six. My sister in law

867
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:26,319
Speaker 3: is thirty, and my pos brother in law is thirty one.

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00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 3: I always had a close relationship. I always had a

869
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 3: close relationship with my sister in law. We are friends.

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00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 3: Also has a decent connection between my brother in law.

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00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 3: Not that close, but we often talk and get along.

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00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from traditional hour forty eight

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Speaker 3: three on the r slash Okay storytime sub reddit. Sorry

874
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 3: that was disgusting. Apologies, it's okay.

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00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 2: It happens.

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00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 3: So. My wife and her sister didn't get along as

877
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 3: much as you would expect from siblings. It wasn't just

878
00:42:56,120 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 3: normal sibling rivalry, but constant fights and arguments. Anyway, three

879
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,720
Speaker 3: weeks ago, when I was having dinner with my friends,

880
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 3: I saw my brother in law with another woman. They

881
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 3: were just eating. I didn't think much of it.

882
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 2: Eating what the rich cake.

883
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 3: I wanted to go and greet them, but I kept

884
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 3: talking to my friends. After a while, I saw that

885
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:25,439
Speaker 3: he gave a kiss to this woman and I was shot.

886
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:29,399
Speaker 1: That ain't it. That ain't it. Maybe it wasn't a kiss.

887
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 3: Maybe she had something on her cheek and he just

888
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 3: wiped it off with his lips. Yeah, well maybe something

889
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 3: on her lip. And she was like, I'll get it.

890
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 3: Maybe a spider bit her lips and he had to

891
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 3: get the venom ount.

892
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe he's French. Maybe maybe he's you know, you

893
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 2: never know, you can't never know. Maybe he's doing some

894
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 2: like posh ways posh.

895
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 3: Okay. Story time, my aunt caught my cousin kissing her

896
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 3: boyfriend and the boyfriend said, oh, she got bit by

897
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 3: a spider. I had to get the venom out.

898
00:43:59,120 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: You're joking.

899
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 3: No, that's them, he's a jokester.

900
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 2: What Yeah, I was gonna say. What was the response?

901
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:04,319
Speaker 1: Uh?

902
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 3: My aunt just laughed.

903
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 2: Oh good, that's how you get it, Like, if they laugh,

904
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:09,919
Speaker 2: you win. That's how you make him giggle.

905
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 3: I would have punched him for kissing if that was my.

906
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 1: That's crazy, that's ridiculous.

907
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 2: Right back to the story. What me and the kid no,

908
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,799
Speaker 2: the guy, oh, saying spider bite.

909
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: I'm i'm a, i'm a I'm gonna set a can

910
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:27,720
Speaker 1: of Spider's venomous spiders loosen your bed while you're sleeping.

911
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 2: Oh let me what wait what you heard me? You

912
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: heard them right back back to the story.

913
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 3: I decided not to confront him. When I got back

914
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,399
Speaker 3: to my home, I told my wife everything. I told

915
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 3: her that her sister is getting cheated on and we

916
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 3: need to tell her. My wife said, we should talk

917
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 3: to my brother in law instead of telling her sister,

918
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 3: and we should not break their marriage because her sister

919
00:44:55,680 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 3: is pregnant. Come on, brother, Statistically, that is when.

920
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 2: Most women get you doing it is statistically.

921
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 3: I was like, WGF, so what if she's pregnant her

922
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:11,959
Speaker 3: husband is a cheat. I try to convince my wife

923
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 3: multiple times that we should tell her sister the truth.

924
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 3: I told her, I know you guys don't get along,

925
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 3: but she's still your sister and it isn't right. But

926
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 3: she asked me to stay out of it. So she

927
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 3: says it because they have like a lot of they

928
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 3: fight of the time.

929
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:32,280
Speaker 2: WHOA hold on? Hannah just tipped us sixty dollars. Oh boy, Hannah,

930
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 2: Hannah banana with no words. Words. It's always no words,

931
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 2: no words.

932
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 3: It's just like, oh my gosh. Okay, but we're still

933
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 3: we're still we still got time running the guys, we

934
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 3: still got time. Well, thank you, Hannah. That was very sweet.

935
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 1: Hally goobers Huh.

936
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 3: I tried my best to convince my wife, but she

937
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 3: either ignored me or said we shouldn't break their marriage.

938
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 3: I had enough of her, and yesterday I told her

939
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 3: that I am coming clean to my sister in law.

940
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 3: She said, I have a great bond and I can't

941
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 3: and won't betray her. My wife said sorry again. Oh wow,

942
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 3: We're still not there yet.

943
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 2: Here we go.

944
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 3: We're still not there yet. Thank you. Scar will read

945
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 3: the dono in a second.

946
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 2: Wait, what did she say, Scary Sherry? You said, thanks

947
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 2: for helping me pass the time while I study. How

948
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 2: are you doing that? How are you studying with us?

949
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 2: Yelling in the background. We appreciate you, scary Sherry, but

950
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 2: we got We don't know how you guys do it.

951
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 1: But you're welcome.

952
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 3: You're welcome.

953
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 2: You're welcome, You're welcome.

954
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 3: All right, one almost out of time? Okay, I can't

955
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 3: and won't betray her. My wife said, if I tell

956
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 3: her the truth, she will not talk to me. I replied,

957
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 3: I won't talk to you either if you don't want

958
00:46:55,800 --> 00:47:03,399
Speaker 3: to do what's right. Okay, Today I told my sister

959
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 3: in law the truth. I went to replace and told

960
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 3: her everything. She was doubtful and she asked me to leave.

961
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 3: After a few After a few hours, my sister in

962
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 3: law called me and she was crying and said what

963
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 3: I said was the truth, and she would to have

964
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 3: doubted me and kicked me. She said, she's leaving, and

965
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 3: we got another thirty minutes.

966
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got it right on the dot. Guy, I'm

967
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,439
Speaker 2: not gonna lie. I had my my thumb on the time.

968
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 3: Oh wow, that's crazy. Thank you literally zero.

969
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:41,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, someone just dropped it crazy, don't know right well, people.

970
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 2: People are just going crazy now. People are just going crazy.

971
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna, we're gonna we're gonna read them the

972
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: next chance. Yeah, but we've got thirty more minutes. We got,

973
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: we got, we got, Thank you everyone who everyone talking

974
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 1: about everyone who's gonna shoot the shot?

975
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 2: And I'm going to take the.

976
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:03,879
Speaker 1: Everyone got the ball, the whole team.

977
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 3: I asked her where. I asked her where would you go.

978
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 3: Do you have money? She said she does. She said

979
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 3: she does, but not that much. I wired her a

980
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 3: bit and she said she could call me if she

981
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,280
Speaker 3: needs help. And she thanks me and said she will

982
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 3: only use the money. If only use the money, I said,

983
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 3: if it's necessary, otherwise she'll return it. My brother in

984
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,760
Speaker 3: law called my wife, and well, my wife lashed onto

985
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:35,800
Speaker 3: me and said I ruined her family and her sister's life.

986
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,720
Speaker 3: I said, I thought, the moment we got married, your

987
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 3: family is mine and my family is yours.

988
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 2: Are we just giving?

989
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 1: Are we just taking zero accountability for the dude cheating?

990
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: Is that what we're doing right here?

991
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 2: That's what we're doing. It's just like over our heads.

992
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 3: I have a conspiracy theory. Whoa, my gosh one themb

993
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:59,800
Speaker 3: millennial with seventy buckarunos.

994
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 1: Where that's crazy?

995
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 3: No no, no, no no, just got a new tattoo yesterday.

996
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,959
Speaker 3: Also wondering if you guys tried the snacks and got

997
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,400
Speaker 3: your necklaces. I have not been to the post office.

998
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:11,799
Speaker 3: I went to the post office a little bit ago,

999
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 3: and I have not tried the snacks. Wait, no, we

1000
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 3: did try the snacks.

1001
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 1: Did try the snacks? Dakota loves.

1002
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,280
Speaker 3: Okay, he probably ate all the snacks.

1003
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 2: What's he probably did?

1004
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: Actually, if you see under the table, the uh, the

1005
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: the lego set right there, that was from the millennial

1006
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 1: as well.

1007
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:33,839
Speaker 3: We should get a table here and while one person's reading,

1008
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 3: the other person's building that lego set.

1009
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 2: How are we going to pay attention?

1010
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: Uh?

1011
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 3: It's called multitask. You're doing it right now. You're multitasking

1012
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:41,839
Speaker 3: right now.

1013
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 2: Okay, I want to see us try and multitask building

1014
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 2: an actual lego set.

1015
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 3: You could do that, dude. People listen to this and study. Okay,

1016
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:54,359
Speaker 3: we could. At least they're better than talk bricks and

1017
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 3: play bricks. Like, come on, all right, we could be

1018
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 3: like our guests. We can be bricked up.

1019
00:49:57,960 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 2: You're right, yep.

1020
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 3: And injury Grove, thanks for twenty five Buck's gonna work

1021
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 3: out and need to hear more to keep me motivated.

1022
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 2: And people are working.

1023
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 1: Out when doing this, get after it.

1024
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,920
Speaker 2: Let's get those gains.

1025
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 3: Anyway, Why the f are you defending that pos so much?

1026
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 3: What about your sister? She didn't reply to me, and

1027
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 3: she's not talking to me either. I tried to talk

1028
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 3: to her and convince her that it was the right

1029
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 3: thing to do, but she wouldn't talk to me, so

1030
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 3: I said, fine, stay angry, and if you want to

1031
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 3: divorce me, go ahead. I think I've nuked my marriage

1032
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 3: and don't know if what I did was truly right.

1033
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 3: We have an update. Who what the heck?

1034
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 1: What just happened?

1035
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 2: This is like op did the right thing? Ye?

1036
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 3: Why is the wife so against us? My conspiracy theory, yes,

1037
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,720
Speaker 3: is that the brother in law she did on ope

1038
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 3: with his wife because they're not related, because the wife

1039
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 3: and the sister are biological, so the brother in law

1040
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:04,800
Speaker 3: and Opie's wife were.

1041
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, the cheater guy got with Opie's wife.

1042
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 2: That's your conspiracy theory.

1043
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:12,920
Speaker 3: Yep, all right, what do you want to do that?

1044
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 2: Oh you did the thing? Yeah? I just wanted to

1045
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 2: make sure, like are you double doubting on that? Yeah?

1046
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 3: I'm double downing on that. And I think that's why

1047
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 3: she's not willing to tell her.

1048
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: That perfectly explains o peace significant other. What about the

1049
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:29,840
Speaker 1: rest of the crazy family?

1050
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 2: Why is it?

1051
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 1: Because right to everyone in the family was like, why

1052
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: are you destroying their marriage or whatever? I'm just exposing

1053
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 1: him as a cheater, right or I think it was

1054
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: just his wife that was like, okay, it was just

1055
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: his wife, got it, got it? Okay, Yeah, dude, I

1056
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:52,879
Speaker 1: mean it's absolutely insane, like you would not like, why

1057
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 1: would you not want to tell your own sister that

1058
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:59,760
Speaker 1: her husband is cheating on her while she's pregnant.

1059
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:03,399
Speaker 2: With his baby. It makes literally zero sense.

1060
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,839
Speaker 1: And it's like Opie not only was Opie uh didn't

1061
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 1: not ruin you know, uh, their their marriage. She was

1062
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 1: the one that like helped expose the truth.

1063
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 3: I don't know, yeah, Carols Caro says the brother in

1064
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 3: law has dirt on her because I like, I think

1065
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 3: the wife and the sister they have to have some

1066
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:30,360
Speaker 3: sort of beef going on.

1067
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:30,880
Speaker 2: Their beefing.

1068
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's because she said something like I know

1069
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: you don't like her, but we still got to tell

1070
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:39,319
Speaker 1: her the truth or something. Yeah yeah, yeah, maybe yeah,

1071
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 1: maybe she just she wanted to see her suffer.

1072
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 2: But it's crazy that she imploded her own relationship.

1073
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: And honestly kind of like, if she's going to leave

1074
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: the relationship over you telling someone that was pregnant they

1075
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 1: got cheated on, maybe.

1076
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:54,240
Speaker 2: You're better off.

1077
00:52:54,800 --> 00:53:01,400
Speaker 3: Yeah right, And yeah, I agree, this is so icky.

1078
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 2: This is this is starting, This is just the beginning too. Yeah,

1079
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 2: they were asking about the necklaces. Did we ever get

1080
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 2: the necklaces? I literally just went to you. I literally

1081
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 2: went to you.

1082
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1083
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 3: You're good. You're good. Yeah, you're good.

1084
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:16,840
Speaker 2: That's so funny.

1085
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:19,760
Speaker 3: We'll have to go back to the post office.

1086
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,279
Speaker 2: Sorry, we're gonna get it.

1087
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,359
Speaker 1: We're gonna get it, but we.

1088
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 2: Got an update to get it.

1089
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,280
Speaker 3: It's been a few days since I told my wife's

1090
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 3: sister that her husband is a cheat. Just to clarify

1091
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:34,799
Speaker 3: to all the weirdos, no, I am not in love

1092
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 3: with my sister in law. I don't have inappropriate relations

1093
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 3: slash feelings for her. I respect her and she's my family.

1094
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 2: Well, I think, thank thankfully that's out there right.

1095
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 3: Yep, thanks dude. You can ignore those comments, my dude.

1096
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 3: In any case, yesterday I asked my wife why she

1097
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,919
Speaker 3: is pissed and wanted me not to reveal the truth

1098
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 3: to her sister. I know you guys hate each other,

1099
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 3: but you guys are siblings. My wife said, it's not

1100
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 3: our place to interfear. I asked, are you okay with

1101
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 3: your sister being cheated on? She said she isn't, but

1102
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:12,240
Speaker 3: it will and has ruined their marriage because of my stupidity. Dude,

1103
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:15,959
Speaker 3: she's pregnant and the child needs his father, so does

1104
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 3: the wife? Are so shocked when she said this, Like WTF.

1105
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:23,359
Speaker 3: I asked her if I were to cheat on you,

1106
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 3: would you forgive me?

1107
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:25,799
Speaker 2: She said yes.

1108
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:29,840
Speaker 3: I also asked if she ever cheats on me and

1109
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 3: she hides it from me. She also said yes to that.

1110
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 2: So she just admitted to cheating and hiding it.

1111
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:42,320
Speaker 3: In a way. In a way, yeah, can you explain

1112
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 3: that to me a little bit? She said yes. I

1113
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 3: also asked her, if she ever cheats on me, would

1114
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:51,359
Speaker 3: she hide it from me? She also said yes to that.

1115
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 1: Okay, So it's like, hypothetically, if you cheated on me,

1116
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 1: would you hide it from me?

1117
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, hypothetically.

1118
00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 1: I like how she's being honest about her hiding and

1119
00:54:59,239 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 1: lying yes.

1120
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:00,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1121
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, I would. She's like, yes, I would

1122
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 1: tell you. No, I'm not cheating with you, even though

1123
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 1: she was.

1124
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 3: While you have her on the slide, attacchor ask her

1125
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 3: if she has any relationships with the brother in law.

1126
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 3: I just go ahead and say, that's cool.

1127
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 2: Whoa mama manate?

1128
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, all right, all right, mama.

1129
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: Manate Yo, shout out to my home Counties mascot. Let's go,

1130
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 1: mama manate.

1131
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 3: Thanks for the seventy seven buckerunos so low was your

1132
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 3: birthday and I want more time? Well, guess what we're

1133
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 3: gonna make a clap for you because it's your birthday.

1134
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 2: Get out there.

1135
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:35,800
Speaker 3: God, yeah, it's give her some cake.

1136
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 2: It's her birthday. I'm wearing jeans that are really loose.

1137
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 3: Okay, so no clapt it's her birthday. She wants cake.

1138
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 2: Go she didn't she give her cake?

1139
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 3: Well, it's her birthday. That's that's the only nice thing.

1140
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,319
Speaker 2: You you want me to do. You know what to do?

1141
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 2: Do it? Do it, give it to you. No, put

1142
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 2: it on.

1143
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:58,240
Speaker 3: You, put it on you. Okay, he's coming over here.

1144
00:55:58,400 --> 00:55:59,799
Speaker 2: Give her some cake. Give her some cake.

1145
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,320
Speaker 3: Yep, yep, yep. Make it clap.

1146
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh that was just fe terrible.

1147
00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 3: Happy birthday cake. This is the only thing I could

1148
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 3: give you. Yeah, why not me? Because I did you

1149
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 3: see his cakes? I don't have cakes like that. My

1150
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:26,280
Speaker 3: brother got the jeans for the cakes.

1151
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:30,720
Speaker 2: Oh oh cow lie.

1152
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 3: God dude, Hey, don't act like you don't like it.

1153
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 3: Don't act like you don't like this, buddy, you look

1154
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 3: at that smell, look at that, and this.

1155
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 2: Is what I'm diminished to. At least I'm good at it.

1156
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 3: Right. Oh oh, I'm not ever gonna say what John's

1157
00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 3: doing over here? Man, all right, happy birthday that I

1158
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:00,360
Speaker 3: thought you'd like that, Mama Manatee. If you did like it,

1159
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,240
Speaker 3: I'm sorry and I just traumatized.

1160
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 1: Yay.

1161
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 2: Now there's more tips. Throw that virtual money at me, guys,

1162
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 2: good job, you do a great job. Thanks, guys. Let's

1163
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 2: look at John. Look at John. Give me a little

1164
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 2: flex John. Oh okay, so I can do that. I

1165
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 2: can do all of that, but you won't give me

1166
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 2: Yeah whoa, Oh my gosh, I popped me the same time.

1167
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 1: That was great.

1168
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 3: Back to the story, all right, I'm so shocked. I

1169
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 3: asked her if she knows what she's saying, and she

1170
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 3: says yes, and she's confident. Just because you had sex

1171
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 3: with someone else doesn't mean everyone else has to suffer

1172
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 3: and break the family. Dude, I had no words to say.

1173
00:57:57,160 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 3: I told her that I also sent my sister law money.

1174
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 3: She started screaming at me and said I shouldn't have

1175
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:08,280
Speaker 3: helped her, despite knowing she doesn't like her sister. What

1176
00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 3: is going on here. I said, if that's what she thinks,

1177
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 3: then it's better if we just divorce. She got angry

1178
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:19,919
Speaker 3: and screamed at and screamed fine and started packing her bag.

1179
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 3: I tried my best to stop her from leaving. I

1180
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 3: told her that I love her and I just did

1181
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 3: what felt right. Nobody has to suffer betrayal like this.

1182
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 3: She said, it is. It wasn't. She said, it is?

1183
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 3: Wasn't it is? Wasn't?

1184
00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 2: What?

1185
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 3: Sorry? Am I saying that? She said, okay, she said

1186
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 3: it is wasn't the right time eron quotes, I asked her.

1187
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 3: I asked her, so when should we tell her the

1188
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 3: truth after she gives birth because it will worsen her

1189
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 3: PPD or years after she gives birth, she will just

1190
00:58:57,080 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 3: blame us. She said we shouldn't. But she said we

1191
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 3: should have just kept quiet and left it alone. I

1192
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 3: tried so hard to stop her, but she didn't listen

1193
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 3: to me and left. I tried to contact her and

1194
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 3: her parents, her friends, but they don't know where she is,

1195
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:16,560
Speaker 3: and instead started interrogating me and saying I am her

1196
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 3: husband and I should have taken care of her and

1197
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 3: I should know where she is. I even visited my

1198
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:25,200
Speaker 3: brother in law to confirm my suspicions. But I didn't

1199
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 3: see her car or her belongings anywhere. Oh so he

1200
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 3: was on the same wavelength as my conspiracy theory. He

1201
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 3: went to the brother in law to see if she

1202
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 3: was there, but she's nowhere to be found.

1203
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: Mm and she's not there. She's not there, so okay,

1204
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:41,040
Speaker 1: so at least as if right now they're not she

1205
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 1: didn't together.

1206
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 3: But oh my god, she I hate that I am

1207
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 3: being blamed for just revealing the truth and my wife

1208
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 3: is leaving me right away without a second thought. I

1209
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:55,040
Speaker 3: was so dang pissed. So today I called my sister

1210
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:57,880
Speaker 3: in law and told her that she can stay at

1211
00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 3: my place because I'm going to my parents and my

1212
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 3: wife left and nobody knows where she is. She told

1213
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 3: me she's willing to talk. She told me she's willing

1214
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 3: to She told me she will try talking to her parents.

1215
01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 3: But after a while she called me and said that

1216
01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 3: their parents don't know where she is. I told her

1217
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 3: to think about herself and to come over and stay

1218
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:21,400
Speaker 3: here instead of blowing up her money. And you can

1219
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 3: never and you should and you can and if you

1220
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 3: Joanna saw every weekday a three PMPSD.

1221
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:33,120
Speaker 2: You had it, Come on you tap profile, do do

1222
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 2: it more time. You got this. I believe in you.

1223
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:36,440
Speaker 2: You have our full support, you have the chat support,

1224
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:36,840
Speaker 2: and you got this.

1225
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 3: Do it and blowing up her money and you can

1226
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 3: blow up every weekday at three PMPSD.

1227
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: Just do what Tapper profile.

1228
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 2: Wait, we don't want them to blow up. Ken God dude.

1229
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 3: I'm trying to work here. I'm trying to do a job, okay,

1230
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 3: And you don't have to blow up every weekday at

1231
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 3: three pmpists I give up. Oh my gosh, okay, and

1232
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:00,400
Speaker 3: you don't have to blow up. And you can come

1233
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 3: and and you can come and cool down every weekday

1234
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 3: at three pm PST. Just do what have the profile

1235
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 3: baby editor picked the best ones?

1236
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 2: Come?

1237
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, what the hell?

1238
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 2: Shut up? Shut up?

1239
01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 3: That was so bad?

1240
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 2: Shut up. Shut I shake my butt for you. And

1241
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 2: this is what you get from red to yeah do

1242
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 2: it again?

1243
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 1: Right?

1244
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 3: Oh man? What do we do here? Do we try

1245
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 3: to go after the wife? Do we just give up?

1246
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:25,919
Speaker 2: So again?

1247
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 1: Breaking it down real quick, so uh yeah, the wife

1248
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:31,960
Speaker 1: is the wife's just like skip town basically where she's at.

1249
01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 1: She was like, oh oh yeah, like if I cheated,

1250
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 1: I wouldn't tell you like all this stuff. Yeah, honestly,

1251
01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 1: it's kind of feeling like at this point, maybe the

1252
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 1: maybe the message is this, Hey, not sure where you're at,

1253
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: not sure what's going on. You've like put up a

1254
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 1: lot of red flags really that you can list them

1255
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 1: out with, like you know, you saying you would hide

1256
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: cheating and like, yeah, you you trying? You leaving over

1257
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: me telling your your sister, like in forming her that

1258
01:01:56,880 --> 01:02:02,920
Speaker 1: her husband is cheating on her, Like, I don't know

1259
01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 1: if I can continue to be in this relationship. Yeah,

1260
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:09,480
Speaker 1: if you want to try and come back and fix it,

1261
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 1: I'll sit down and talk to you. But like you

1262
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: haven't even you like literally just disappears. I don't even

1263
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: know where to find you to even say that is

1264
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:17,120
Speaker 1: so weird.

1265
01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:22,000
Speaker 3: I want to know the beef between her and her sister. Yeah, right,

1266
01:02:22,040 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 3: and then just like we should divorce if you're not

1267
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:28,080
Speaker 3: gonna budget this, She's like okay, bye, you know you

1268
01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 3: know yeah it sounds like she planted this in a

1269
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 3: way so she could get out.

1270
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 1: WHOA, that's a great point. Yeah, that's a great point.

1271
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, did anybody else get that feeling?

1272
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:46,480
Speaker 2: Yeah? She just do you do you see that key on?

1273
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I need, I need to find out little

1274
01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 2: bit more because I feel like there's there's gonna be

1275
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 2: like a confrontation where it's like, what's really going on here? Yeah?

1276
01:02:56,600 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I needed. I need to peel that on you.

1277
01:02:58,440 --> 01:02:59,439
Speaker 3: I need to see.

1278
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 2: But you missed it erily. You were looking at John's

1279
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 2: luscious eyes. So many people were loving you.

1280
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 3: Thanks guys, I appreciate it.

1281
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 2: You guys are the best. I get a.

1282
01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 3: Little my my little heart gloves every time I see

1283
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:13,840
Speaker 3: my name in.

1284
01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:15,800
Speaker 2: Chad put his name in the chat.

1285
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 3: Guys are the best, the past community ever good. You

1286
01:03:18,400 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 3: know what? To you guys, To you guys, cheers, cheers.

1287
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 3: All right, I'm gonna read this up date back at

1288
01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 3: it now. I'm at my parents and my sister in

1289
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 3: law is in our home. Maybe I was being petty,

1290
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:34,440
Speaker 3: but I hate that my wife gave up on me

1291
01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 3: and left without a second thought. I don't know whether

1292
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 3: she's cheating or cheated, or if she would truly cheat

1293
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 3: on me and her own blood sister with a family

1294
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 3: relative overfeuds it. One thing is for sure, though, I

1295
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:52,840
Speaker 3: cannot trust my wife anymore. She hurt me and that's

1296
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 3: all we have. Oh wow, that's all we got. Dude,

1297
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 3: that's that's it. Should I look for an update? If

1298
01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 3: you want to go for it, I'll check for an update,

1299
01:04:01,280 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 3: you guys. Yeah, you guys.

1300
01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 1: I think even that even more so, it doubles down

1301
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:09,920
Speaker 1: on what we just said send the message being like, listen,

1302
01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 1: this is too too much. I'm out. You can we

1303
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 1: can come down and have a conversation. But yeah, it's

1304
01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 1: kind of done though. Yeah, I think your theory is

1305
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 1: probably like, why did you just like run yeah for something?

1306
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 1: That's like, are you kidding me? He was just telling

1307
01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 1: your sister that it's just me.

1308
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Speaker 3: It's just wild that you know. I'm reading this book

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01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 3: called Inner Work about how to like work on relationships.

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01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 3: It's like four hundred pages. I'm like really excited to

1311
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:40,360
Speaker 3: that's awesome. And at the end of the chapters it

1312
01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 3: gives you questions to like answer like to reflects like

1313
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 3: fut therapy session.

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01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:48,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I got an update, guys, no way update.

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01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 2: This was five days ago, So I think I got

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01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:50,840
Speaker 2: an update.

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01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 3: Could you do you know how to make it into

1318
01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 3: a Google doc and just to do that? Do you

1319
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 3: know how to do that?

1320
01:04:57,440 --> 01:04:59,479
Speaker 2: No? I was gonna put it to the full screen

1321
01:04:59,560 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 2: right here.

1322
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: Maybe you could walk you could uh do it while

1323
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 1: he's watching, and I can talk to chat the.

1324
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,040
Speaker 2: Google doc itself, yeah, the Google doc.

1325
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 1: And yeah then yeah, yeah.

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01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 2: That real point, right, Yeah, keep talking, okay.

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01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 3: And in that book, it talks about how basically with love,

1328
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 3: you're gonna have to work for it and fight for it,

1329
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 3: and that's like the makings of a healthy relationship. A

1330
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 3: relationship isn't healthy, you make it healthy. And it's just

1331
01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 3: so weird just the way she just gave up and

1332
01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:37,440
Speaker 3: did it work or fight for it, and she just

1333
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 3: wouldn't budge on one thing.

1334
01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 1: It's it to your point, to your conspiracy theory, it's

1335
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:45,959
Speaker 1: like you wanted out and you just wanted some sort

1336
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 1: of like the worst and weirdest excuse and reason ever,

1337
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 1: like you just invented this crazy, stupid plot and just

1338
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 1: and also just like up and leaving like that, like

1339
01:05:57,520 --> 01:05:58,880
Speaker 1: skipping town basically.

1340
01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:05,040
Speaker 3: Yeah. And I was hoping he had her location and

1341
01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:07,240
Speaker 3: he could see him her going straight to the brother

1342
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 3: in laws.

1343
01:06:07,680 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 2: That's what I was hoping for.

1344
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but I mean, honestly, that would

1345
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 1: have made it even worse.

1346
01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 3: So, right, oh yeah, it would have made it so

1347
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:17,880
Speaker 3: much worse.

1348
01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 1: So at least it wasn't that that we know of

1349
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 1: that we know of.

1350
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:21,760
Speaker 3: Who knows what?

1351
01:06:21,800 --> 01:06:22,120
Speaker 2: The how?

1352
01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 3: Is an update kind of long? Which is I mean,

1353
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 3: it's good if it's long, But I mean I wonder

1354
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:30,120
Speaker 3: how how crazy things are done?

1355
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:32,200
Speaker 1: I think before.

1356
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:38,480
Speaker 3: Like Christian, dude, real quick, okay, storytelling, Me and John

1357
01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:40,400
Speaker 3: were talking outside kind of a kind of a hard

1358
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 3: to hard talk, and freaking Christian was downstairs or in

1359
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 3: the yard water or something, and he like kept watering

1360
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:50,600
Speaker 3: something and it's like splashing off of a surface and

1361
01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 3: like going up into the patio.

1362
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:54,960
Speaker 1: And our computers are like both sitting there or by

1363
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,920
Speaker 1: the way, our brand new computers we just got the

1364
01:06:57,960 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 1: company to buy us.

1365
01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 2: You know, it's like it's just.

1366
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:03,880
Speaker 3: Like watering it and splashed it. Honestly, we're like, dude,

1367
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 3: what the heck? I Ainim't that somewhere else?

1368
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:06,800
Speaker 2: Oh?

1369
01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 1: Sorry?

1370
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:11,520
Speaker 2: He's like, oh god, I love that guy. See if

1371
01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:13,960
Speaker 2: it did come up, Riley, isn't on that notion I

1372
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 2: put it on. I put it on the Google doc. Actually,

1373
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 2: so on that Google doc. Yeah, if you only put

1374
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 2: on the no, you got to put the link on

1375
01:07:20,800 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 2: the notion. I put the link on the notion. Oh

1376
01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 2: you want to do that.

1377
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 3: So then it would show up on here?

1378
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 2: Oh my fault. I thought you want me to put

1379
01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 2: it in the Google doc. So okay, I can't pull

1380
01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:28,520
Speaker 2: it up.

1381
01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:29,280
Speaker 3: It's on the Google doc.

1382
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:33,720
Speaker 2: Gotcha? Let me get that for you.

1383
01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:34,640
Speaker 3: Do you want me? Do you want me to do

1384
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 3: it real quick?

1385
01:07:35,200 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 2: No?

1386
01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:35,520
Speaker 1: I got it?

1387
01:07:35,560 --> 01:07:36,400
Speaker 2: I got it?

1388
01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:39,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, guys ws the chat for Kean I the chat

1389
01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 1: flood blooded?

1390
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:43,160
Speaker 2: Uh? You on the link? Or you want me to

1391
01:07:43,160 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 2: just put it in there?

1392
01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 3: I want you to put the link so I can

1393
01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 3: read it and it will pull up.

1394
01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 2: Like, gotcha? Gotcha?

1395
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 1: Got it?

1396
01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:51,080
Speaker 2: Awesome? Eier? Well I did. I did so much extra.

1397
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 3: Work, but thanks for the five bucks. One done. Sent

1398
01:07:57,240 --> 01:08:00,560
Speaker 3: the necklaces with everything else. So it's in that bar somewhere.

1399
01:08:00,600 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 3: Do we not look deep enough in that box? Or

1400
01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:04,400
Speaker 3: we got the box right here?

1401
01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:05,280
Speaker 2: Uh?

1402
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 3: Is this pre is this still live or pre record live?

1403
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:10,920
Speaker 3: It's Julie Beans, this is a real live. John is

1404
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:15,960
Speaker 3: opening up this box. He is looking at it. What's that.

1405
01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:17,680
Speaker 4: Is that?

1406
01:08:17,800 --> 01:08:25,479
Speaker 3: Snack LEDs? Oh? Oh what the heck? Why did we

1407
01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 3: not open that?

1408
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:29,360
Speaker 2: What the heck? See if it came up. It's in

1409
01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:31,719
Speaker 2: the link section. It's gonna be like the second link.

1410
01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:36,880
Speaker 2: Maybe see that word you see it. I don't know

1411
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 2: why I said two, but.

1412
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:42,759
Speaker 3: What second link? I only see one link here, buddy,

1413
01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 3: what can you put the link on top of the

1414
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:46,839
Speaker 3: on the top of that idle?

1415
01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:47,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1416
01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:50,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got you? Yeah, guy, Sorry, I don't know

1417
01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:54,520
Speaker 1: how we miss beautiful?

1418
01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:56,479
Speaker 3: How do we miss?

1419
01:08:56,560 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 1: That's a great question. What's what? What is wrong with

1420
01:08:59,880 --> 01:09:01,600
Speaker 1: the us that we don't know? All we know is

1421
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:03,560
Speaker 1: what's right with mun done millennial and how amazing g

1422
01:09:03,840 --> 01:09:05,599
Speaker 1: that is correct? That's all we that's all we actually

1423
01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 1: is correct. So I'm going to open this one here.

1424
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:14,439
Speaker 1: I think I know ware. So the first one, we

1425
01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 1: have a little snaky poop, sorry little snaky Oh yeah,

1426
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 1: you want to see that's all open them in a second.

1427
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 1: And then so this one is a snake. This one, yeah,

1428
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 1: opening it up now, is a dragon a dragon, And

1429
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:43,960
Speaker 1: then this one is.

1430
01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 2: You want here hold on you a like a goat.

1431
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:52,920
Speaker 1: Or a ram with the yin yang sign. And then

1432
01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:54,320
Speaker 1: this one.

1433
01:09:55,800 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 2: Is I believe.

1434
01:10:05,680 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: Possibly a rat for a year of the rat, And

1435
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:12,320
Speaker 1: all of them simplify our respective years that we were

1436
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 1: born because I think I am Year of the Rat

1437
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:17,320
Speaker 1: ninety six?

1438
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 2: Why are we rats? Bro?

1439
01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 3: Like rat's a good thing? Have you ever read about

1440
01:10:22,120 --> 01:10:25,519
Speaker 3: the rat? You're assuming that the Rat's not a good thing.

1441
01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 3: That's literally Sam's favorite movie.

1442
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:32,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear it right now in honor of one

1443
01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 1: done millennial And how awesome she is?

1444
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:34,519
Speaker 3: This the Google do?

1445
01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:39,200
Speaker 1: These are freaking amazing? Here we go?

1446
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 3: So you didn't copy that?

1447
01:10:41,720 --> 01:10:46,080
Speaker 1: It's too hold on, hold on, my my head is large.

1448
01:10:46,320 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 1: We know this, bro, my many stories? Okay, I think

1449
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 1: if I take you my glasses off and I squeeze

1450
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:56,559
Speaker 1: it over my Oh yeah, there we go, There we go, Riley,

1451
01:10:56,600 --> 01:11:00,640
Speaker 1: do you remember what what your what? Your what?

1452
01:11:00,720 --> 01:11:02,519
Speaker 2: Your year is? Uh? Yes?

1453
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:03,599
Speaker 1: The animal? Dragon?

1454
01:11:03,880 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 2: Is this the new one?

1455
01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 1: Sorry about you? All right, guys, And I'm now here

1456
01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:17,960
Speaker 1: so I'll try to show you this one is mine? No, sorry,

1457
01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:22,320
Speaker 1: we'll get a close up on that later and then.

1458
01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:28,800
Speaker 2: Oh R I P R I P.

1459
01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:31,200
Speaker 3: But we got more stories for you, guys. Don't you

1460
01:11:31,240 --> 01:11:31,880
Speaker 3: freaking worry?

1461
01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:32,599
Speaker 1: Don't you worry?

1462
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:34,759
Speaker 2: Do you remember what you're dragon?

1463
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 3: Dude? Don't you remember that one story that I called?

1464
01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:39,360
Speaker 3: Remember that one that I called that was wild? Where

1465
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:40,599
Speaker 3: she wasn't the year of the dragon.

1466
01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 2: That was?

1467
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:45,880
Speaker 3: That was probably the best, like come up I ever, that's.

1468
01:11:45,760 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 1: Best Riley conspiracy theory.

1469
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:49,240
Speaker 3: Thank you Riley's Dragon.

1470
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:52,120
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Ready, it's for you, buddy.

1471
01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 2: Oh oh shit, let's wear them watch your language, watch

1472
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:59,559
Speaker 2: it for family, dude.

1473
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:03,080
Speaker 3: Heck, my uh kid brother, one of my kid brothers

1474
01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:05,719
Speaker 3: is also the year of the dragon. So far apart

1475
01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:06,000
Speaker 3: we are.

1476
01:12:07,040 --> 01:12:12,920
Speaker 1: That's so funny. Oh shoot, Leila, bit mona, be mona.

1477
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:18,240
Speaker 1: Thanks for the five gifted memberships. Let's freaking go. And

1478
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 1: it's made out of wood and I love wood. What's fire?

1479
01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:21,280
Speaker 4: Now?

1480
01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:22,639
Speaker 3: I can use this to knock on wood?

1481
01:12:22,720 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 2: Sorry? Excuse me? You love what?

1482
01:12:26,160 --> 01:12:29,040
Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna move on to the next mega episode.

1483
01:12:28,520 --> 01:12:30,040
Speaker 2: I'm going to do that.

1484
01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:40,639
Speaker 3: But let's read some more donos no soup, sz z soup.

1485
01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:43,640
Speaker 3: Thanks for the ten bucks. Hey guys, I'm watching you

1486
01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:47,559
Speaker 3: from my brand new grooming salon. I love you all,

1487
01:12:47,640 --> 01:12:51,200
Speaker 3: and tune in daily for my hit of Okay story

1488
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:53,439
Speaker 3: time also is pronounced.

1489
01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 2: Shoo's ez choosy cho choosies.

1490
01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:04,679
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, yeah, shooes easy soup, shoes easy soup.

1491
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:07,479
Speaker 3: I'm so glad you put salon because I would have

1492
01:13:07,479 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 3: been concern Yeah, I was like, huh huh. And then

1493
01:13:12,520 --> 01:13:15,720
Speaker 3: Zola Darling, thanks for the twenty five bucker runos. Like

1494
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:18,680
Speaker 3: the stream. If you haven't liked the stream, do you

1495
01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 3: like us?

1496
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:19,960
Speaker 1: Do it for Sola?

1497
01:13:20,520 --> 01:13:21,800
Speaker 2: Just come on, do it if you can.

1498
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 3: If you're not gonna do it for us, do it

1499
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,599
Speaker 3: for Sola, come on, and then if you can scroll

1500
01:13:25,680 --> 01:13:26,479
Speaker 3: down some more.

1501
01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:31,880
Speaker 2: We do.

1502
01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:35,000
Speaker 3: Sam E thanks for the five bucker runos. Just done

1503
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:38,720
Speaker 3: with mel and I need this time to relax. I

1504
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:41,320
Speaker 3: hope you are relaxing with these crazy, ridiculous stories.

1505
01:13:41,400 --> 01:13:42,960
Speaker 2: You guys are going wild right now.

1506
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 3: And Mama Ellie thanks for the five bucks. More time

1507
01:13:46,360 --> 01:13:50,040
Speaker 3: you got it. Anonymous, thanks for the ten bucker runos.

1508
01:13:50,080 --> 01:13:53,640
Speaker 3: And Hannah thanks for the five bucks. Keeps going.

1509
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:57,920
Speaker 2: That's that's that's it. That's refresh, Yeah, refresh. That's concerning

1510
01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 2: very well. It's only throwing in that way. Mm hmm. Real.

1511
01:14:04,080 --> 01:14:06,240
Speaker 2: I will look at that. We'll take a look. He

1512
01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:07,160
Speaker 2: had to be hitting every one.

1513
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:11,679
Speaker 3: Mama's swags for the ten bucks. You are getting away

1514
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:16,200
Speaker 3: that easy, apparently not apparently did we get m J

1515
01:14:16,320 --> 01:14:18,920
Speaker 3: grow right here and go oh yeah, we did believe?

1516
01:14:20,160 --> 01:14:21,080
Speaker 3: Did you get Mama manate?

1517
01:14:21,280 --> 01:14:23,719
Speaker 2: Yes we did. We did the cakes for that. Heidi Browning?

1518
01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:24,400
Speaker 1: Did we do? Heidi?

1519
01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:26,040
Speaker 2: One done?

1520
01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:27,160
Speaker 1: Sent the necklaces that's what.

1521
01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:30,760
Speaker 2: Okay, inspire this and then one done again. Here we go.

1522
01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:33,280
Speaker 1: Thanks the nine bucks took you long enough, Dot dot dot.

1523
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:34,599
Speaker 1: We've only been asking for months.

1524
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:39,559
Speaker 3: That has been the my fault, truly, it's literally, whoever,

1525
01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 3: what's wrong with us?

1526
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:42,720
Speaker 2: No one knows who opened the box? Who, what's what

1527
01:14:42,800 --> 01:14:43,840
Speaker 2: was in the box? Who opened the box?

1528
01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:46,040
Speaker 3: I know exactly who opened the box, and he's in

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Speaker 3: this room.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we did look at them, but then

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01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:57,080
Speaker 1: I can't remember. I feel like we did look at them,

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01:14:57,240 --> 01:15:00,559
Speaker 1: but we suck. I suck. Actually, you know, I'm the worst.

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Speaker 1: I am literally the worst person currently living. So my bad,

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Speaker 1: one dumbling, and you're the greatest, So my bad on that,

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Speaker 1: And let's read somebody's Tina m. Thanks for being a

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Speaker 1: member for five months five months already. I've been a

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01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:16,679
Speaker 1: fan since the first chaotic streams in my they were

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Speaker 1: they were chaoic, they were uh floating flowder moss like

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Speaker 1: depth fra line, fra line.

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Speaker 2: Flatty Museder Moss, Fleeter Moss, Frauline Fleeter Moss.

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Speaker 1: I think we got it. Thanks becoming a night. Let's

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01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:38,840
Speaker 1: go getting a membership. We'll see you tomorrow on the

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Speaker 1: on the members only. Josephine Madalo, I don't eat booty,

1546
01:15:42,640 --> 01:15:45,880
Speaker 1: but I'd eat yours. Kean, there you go, okay, and

1547
01:15:45,880 --> 01:15:47,400
Speaker 1: then Ley a little bit moment to shout out again

1548
01:15:47,439 --> 01:15:50,640
Speaker 1: for the five gifted memberships. Oh that was two, so

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01:15:50,720 --> 01:15:58,280
Speaker 1: that was ten ten total crazy, absolutely nuts. Let's freaking go, duchess.

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01:15:58,560 --> 01:15:59,960
Speaker 2: Huh oh so can you read this?

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01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:04,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, whoa, here we go, Nicolon, Yeah, give me

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01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:07,400
Speaker 1: one more, Bumpy Thanks thanks for.

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01:16:07,439 --> 01:16:09,920
Speaker 2: The ten bucks. More contributions to the cult.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys, hey, thanks to Colon, thanks for the

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Speaker 1: ten bucks, Ugly all Bat thanks for the five buck. Dono,

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Speaker 1: Koko ninety thanks for the ten buck. Dono Abdo thanks

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Speaker 1: for the five bucks. Let's keep the stream going, Love

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Speaker 1: you guys, love you back, Nick Hannah thanks for the

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Speaker 1: five bucks, and Kat thanks for the ten bucks. A

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01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:31,760
Speaker 1: lot of donors people don't even they're just don't don't know.

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Speaker 1: My goodness, Mama swag. Did we get uhm gro we

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01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:41,599
Speaker 1: got then we got Momma Made a Tea, Heidie Browning, Zola,

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Speaker 1: and then Heidi Browning. That's everything. If we missed it,

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Speaker 1: let us know. But we went back through deep in

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01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:49,840
Speaker 1: the back end. Just oh oh, and I think I

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01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:51,679
Speaker 1: have some left on the YouTube super chat.

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01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:54,320
Speaker 2: Yeah I believe. Yeah, Oh you're good.

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01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:56,960
Speaker 1: We're about to get it up in a second, ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, Kat says, I'm a dragon. My oldest is

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Speaker 1: a double dragon because she is a dragon of a dragon.

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01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:07,160
Speaker 1: Whoa that's double dragon is fire, said to be very

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Speaker 1: lucky in her culture. She is half Taiwanese, the half.

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01:17:12,560 --> 01:17:14,840
Speaker 1: H Could you click on the comments real quick so

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01:17:14,880 --> 01:17:18,720
Speaker 1: I can finish the half, the half that didn't come

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01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:21,080
Speaker 1: for me. Love that love that cat, all right, and

1576
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:23,560
Speaker 1: then we let's go back to the super chats. I

1577
01:17:23,680 --> 01:17:28,360
Speaker 1: read those, Amy, thanks for the five bucks, Lela Bnimoni,

1578
01:17:28,400 --> 01:17:33,400
Speaker 1: thanks for those ten gifted memberships altogether. Uh Charzade, thanks

1579
01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:36,800
Speaker 1: for the five bucks. I'm back after a true crime hiatus,

1580
01:17:36,840 --> 01:17:38,479
Speaker 1: missed all, welcome back.

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Speaker 2: Hope you enjoyed. Angie, thanks for the five bucks. What's up?

1582
01:17:43,120 --> 01:17:43,639
Speaker 2: What's up?

1583
01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:48,839
Speaker 1: Giants, Milk Milk, thanks for the one gifted membership, Amy

1584
01:17:49,320 --> 01:17:53,519
Speaker 1: Riley saw Milk Club not to be wait Riley Sawmill

1585
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Speaker 1: Club to not become a retit.

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Speaker 3: Story because she's saying the run club not to become

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Speaker 3: a redit story. So you need to join the Sawmill

1588
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Speaker 3: Club to not to not become a Reddit story.

1589
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Speaker 2: I got yep.

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Speaker 3: My my grandpa literally said, uh, to stay out of trouble,

1591
01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:09,960
Speaker 3: you gotta stay busy, so he would make me cut wood.

1592
01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:12,280
Speaker 1: There you go, Yeah, there it is, and say me

1593
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:16,880
Speaker 1: thanks for the five bucks and the heart heart hearts. Uh.

1594
01:18:17,080 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 1: And then Emra, Emra, thanks for the member being a

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01:18:20,200 --> 01:18:22,320
Speaker 1: member for two months. Thank you okay, story time for

1596
01:18:22,320 --> 01:18:25,479
Speaker 1: creating such a great YouTube community. You guys did that.

1597
01:18:25,479 --> 01:18:27,840
Speaker 1: That's literally you so we can't we can't even say anything.

1598
01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:29,959
Speaker 2: Thank yourselves. Yeah, thank yourselves.

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01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:34,040
Speaker 1: Love you guys and happy to support my only YouTube subscription.

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Speaker 3: Let's go.

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01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:38,240
Speaker 1: Maybe this is bad, Maybe this is selfish. I like

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01:18:38,280 --> 01:18:41,920
Speaker 1: it when yeah we're exclusive, me too, when one of

1603
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:43,240
Speaker 1: your only YouTube.

1604
01:18:43,840 --> 01:18:46,120
Speaker 3: The creators are just trying to get extra buck us.

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01:18:46,320 --> 01:18:49,240
Speaker 3: We actually this is family right here. Yeah the membership

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Speaker 3: you get dude, this has come up. It's insane.

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Speaker 2: Five days a week a yeah, who out here.

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01:18:54,040 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 3: An extra fifteen hours of content.

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01:18:55,840 --> 01:18:57,920
Speaker 2: And then you guys don't even know what's coming up.

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01:18:58,040 --> 01:18:59,960
Speaker 3: Oh man, don't get me a start.

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Speaker 2: You don't know, don't get it started. You don't know

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Speaker 2: what this.

1613
01:19:02,680 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 3: Man is, what this man is good?

1614
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:06,920
Speaker 2: Cooking on they're cooking?

1615
01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:08,559
Speaker 1: Ever heard of Gordon Ramsey?

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01:19:08,640 --> 01:19:11,679
Speaker 2: Yeah he's cooking? Someone cooked here? Okay?

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01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:12,400
Speaker 3: Oh man?

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01:19:12,560 --> 01:19:14,320
Speaker 2: Anyways, is that the rest of them?

1619
01:19:14,760 --> 01:19:17,920
Speaker 1: There's we get to that one, uh, pointed Astrologer twenty four.

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01:19:18,080 --> 01:19:20,840
Speaker 1: Thanks for bringing me for five months? Yeah, five months?

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01:19:21,439 --> 01:19:26,280
Speaker 2: Like the street agreed, did we get Kelsey?

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01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:26,800
Speaker 1: Kelsey?

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01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 2: Remember for two months?

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01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:30,600
Speaker 1: Hey guys, I uh, I was going to donate to

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01:19:30,640 --> 01:19:33,439
Speaker 1: you guys, but today I looked at my wallet and

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01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:35,639
Speaker 1: realized that my kids stole my money.

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Speaker 2: Kelsey off.

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01:19:37,240 --> 01:19:40,880
Speaker 1: First off, never need to donate and go get that

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Speaker 1: little rascal.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and go to a reddit, uh reddit and write

1631
01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:46,800
Speaker 3: a story. There we go, And I think there's one

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01:19:46,800 --> 01:19:48,720
Speaker 3: more on the KOFEI link right there.

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01:19:49,040 --> 01:19:49,599
Speaker 2: Oh, here we go.

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01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:53,720
Speaker 1: Tas, thanks to the five bucks. Thank you for all

1635
01:19:53,760 --> 01:19:56,960
Speaker 1: the support you all give every episode. Oh tas love

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01:19:57,120 --> 01:20:00,400
Speaker 1: for receiving our support. Yeah yeah, thanks thanks for thanks

1637
01:20:00,400 --> 01:20:01,599
Speaker 1: for love, guys.

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01:20:01,840 --> 01:20:03,040
Speaker 2: That is it?

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01:20:03,200 --> 01:20:03,640
Speaker 1: That is it.

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01:20:03,800 --> 01:20:07,040
Speaker 2: We are all caught up and it's me my in laws.

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01:20:07,240 --> 01:20:09,479
Speaker 2: It's my in law, my in laws, it's my in laws.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready?

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01:20:10,280 --> 01:20:12,599
Speaker 2: You're getting that ready? John? Let me reset the timer here? Yes, sir,

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01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:15,920
Speaker 2: and I think Josephine said to did we read your dono? Yeah?

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01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:18,400
Speaker 2: I heard the dono. Thank you, Josephine. I appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Here's a week. Here we go. All right, let's do it.

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01:20:22,640 --> 01:20:25,400
Speaker 1: My in laws are causing drama two weeks before my wedding.

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01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:29,639
Speaker 1: I can't take it anymore. Snip snip divorce whoa?

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01:20:30,280 --> 01:20:32,160
Speaker 2: Okay, everyone, whoa?

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01:20:32,280 --> 01:20:34,519
Speaker 1: This is going to be done in a timeline format

1651
01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:36,280
Speaker 1: because that is the only way I know how to

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01:20:36,320 --> 01:20:39,880
Speaker 1: explain the crazy. A little background. My fiance male twenty

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01:20:39,920 --> 01:20:42,320
Speaker 1: six and I female twenty six are getting married on

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01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:43,280
Speaker 1: June twenty ninth.

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01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:45,760
Speaker 2: Oh we met back in high school at sixteen years

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01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:47,599
Speaker 2: old and have been dating for seven years.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow.

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01:20:48,240 --> 01:20:50,439
Speaker 1: It was basically love it for sight for both of us,

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01:20:50,800 --> 01:20:53,280
Speaker 1: but being the awkward individuals we are, it took a while.

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01:20:53,120 --> 01:20:54,040
Speaker 2: For us to vocalize it.

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01:20:54,360 --> 01:20:55,200
Speaker 3: We love our.

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01:20:57,520 --> 01:20:58,519
Speaker 2: Cute awkward dorks.

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01:20:58,640 --> 01:20:59,800
Speaker 3: Yes are introverted?

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01:20:59,800 --> 01:21:03,559
Speaker 2: Door No, I'm not introverted? Yeah, Mark, Yes, introvert.

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01:21:03,640 --> 01:21:06,760
Speaker 1: No, this guy danced with Victorious. I think he's introverted.

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01:21:07,120 --> 01:21:07,960
Speaker 1: I think frickin' not.

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01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 2: Look at his smile.

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01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:12,120
Speaker 1: By the way, come from this comes from secret FOLMNGO.

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01:21:12,200 --> 01:21:14,240
Speaker 1: Fifty five seventeen on the r slash. Okay, story time

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01:21:14,280 --> 01:21:17,519
Speaker 1: separate it so we truly complete each other. I am

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01:21:17,600 --> 01:21:20,920
Speaker 1: hyper independent and assertive, and he is gentle and nurturing.

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01:21:21,960 --> 01:21:24,080
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be who I am without him. He's my

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01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:27,320
Speaker 1: best friend. My fiance's mom and stepdad have not liked me.

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01:21:28,800 --> 01:21:32,120
Speaker 1: My fiance's mom and stepdad have not liked me from

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01:21:32,200 --> 01:21:35,240
Speaker 1: day one, and I have made peace with this. Here's

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01:21:35,240 --> 01:21:37,760
Speaker 1: a highlight reel of incidents with these two.

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01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:39,200
Speaker 2: Oh boy, we had a highlight reel.

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01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:42,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, highlight reel, you know, top top ten most insane

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01:21:42,320 --> 01:21:47,960
Speaker 1: in law in law, number number ten, number ten, number one,

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01:21:48,400 --> 01:21:51,960
Speaker 1: starting with the words. Three years into dating, my fiance

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01:21:52,000 --> 01:21:53,720
Speaker 1: and I decided to go out of state, and I

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01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 1: suggested we get a room so he wasn't driving back

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01:21:56,920 --> 01:22:01,040
Speaker 1: in the dark tired naturally, Frank, I'm guessing the stepdad

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01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:05,000
Speaker 1: calls me an or yep, what a guy, which is

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01:22:05,000 --> 01:22:07,200
Speaker 1: funny because my fiance is the only man I've been

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01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:11,559
Speaker 1: with There you go. Number two, four years into dating.

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01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:14,599
Speaker 1: We go on a romantic Valentine's Night get away and

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01:22:14,880 --> 01:22:19,400
Speaker 1: I get my promise ring adorable. Uh No, Frank had

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01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:22,320
Speaker 1: spent the afternoon telling my fiance that he was going

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01:22:22,560 --> 01:22:25,680
Speaker 1: to how and how his life would be over if

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01:22:25,720 --> 01:22:26,479
Speaker 1: I got pregnant.

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Speaker 3: All right, Frank, so to the earth. Kuind of guy?

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01:22:29,680 --> 01:22:30,040
Speaker 3: Right here?

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01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:30,559
Speaker 2: Geez?

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01:22:30,800 --> 01:22:34,120
Speaker 1: Number three, five years into dating. Ago just every year,

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01:22:34,160 --> 01:22:35,960
Speaker 1: there is just something crazy. Five years in the dating,

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01:22:36,200 --> 01:22:40,000
Speaker 1: we move in with each other. Oh oh no, mindy,

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01:22:40,360 --> 01:22:43,080
Speaker 1: I guess the mom tells my mom about how she

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01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:46,400
Speaker 1: doesn't like that we're living in sin and she hopes

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01:22:46,439 --> 01:22:47,559
Speaker 1: that no one ends up pregnant.

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01:22:47,800 --> 01:22:50,640
Speaker 2: Goodness, watch out? Are these the same parents from the

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01:22:52,160 --> 01:22:54,680
Speaker 2: right least familiar?

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01:22:56,240 --> 01:23:00,920
Speaker 1: They believe in reincarnation, and they reincarnated into this story. Man,

1704
01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:06,280
Speaker 1: now Sunday. So now we're going into the timeline. Ok

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01:23:06,400 --> 01:23:08,519
Speaker 1: you righty? That was the highlight reel. Now he've entered

1706
01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:12,879
Speaker 1: the present. Oh yes, this feels like a movie. So Sunday,

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01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:18,599
Speaker 1: June seventeenth, twelve days before the wedding countdown, Well it worked.

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01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:23,280
Speaker 1: Today Sam calls me very upset because his stepdad Frank

1709
01:23:23,439 --> 01:23:26,679
Speaker 1: called and informed him that two of his siblings. Frank

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01:23:26,800 --> 01:23:29,080
Speaker 1: was adopted, so he met these people a year ago,

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01:23:29,400 --> 01:23:31,639
Speaker 1: and my fiance has never met them. So his biological

1712
01:23:31,680 --> 01:23:34,559
Speaker 1: siblings that he's just getting to know and their plus

1713
01:23:34,600 --> 01:23:38,080
Speaker 1: one are coming to the wedding. Now the final count

1714
01:23:38,160 --> 01:23:41,080
Speaker 1: is done, signs have been printed, the venue has been

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01:23:41,080 --> 01:23:45,000
Speaker 1: paid for. When my fiance reminded him that these siblings

1716
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:48,240
Speaker 1: were not invited as we already hit our limit on

1717
01:23:48,320 --> 01:23:53,479
Speaker 1: guests and everything else, Stan then yelled at my fiance

1718
01:23:54,680 --> 01:23:58,280
Speaker 1: and said that he and his mother, Mindy, will not

1719
01:23:58,320 --> 01:24:01,599
Speaker 1: be intending the wedding. And so it's a little bit confusing.

1720
01:24:01,640 --> 01:24:05,680
Speaker 1: I believe Frank is the step like Frank is the

1721
01:24:05,680 --> 01:24:08,599
Speaker 1: evil father in law, Mindy is the evil mother in law.

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01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 2: Okay, I believe who Stan? That's the question. Yeah. I

1723
01:24:13,360 --> 01:24:14,759
Speaker 2: don't like how we don't have any backgrounds.

1724
01:24:15,400 --> 01:24:18,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wish for all that great background we just got.

1725
01:24:18,000 --> 01:24:19,559
Speaker 1: I wish we got a highlight reel of who these

1726
01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:20,240
Speaker 1: people are.

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01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:23,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, anyways, maybe we'll find out.

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01:24:23,320 --> 01:24:25,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we'll keep going. So queue to my fiance

1729
01:24:26,000 --> 01:24:28,439
Speaker 1: called me, I was at work at the time and

1730
01:24:28,600 --> 01:24:32,599
Speaker 1: was distracted and that I could not be with him. Oh,

1731
01:24:32,640 --> 01:24:35,400
Speaker 1: and was oh, and I was sorry. I was distressed.

1732
01:24:35,400 --> 01:24:37,519
Speaker 1: I could not be with him to comfort him. He

1733
01:24:37,640 --> 01:24:40,360
Speaker 1: told me that his parents were putting the blame on me,

1734
01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:43,519
Speaker 1: and they would just pay for the extra seats. Okay,

1735
01:24:44,000 --> 01:24:47,800
Speaker 1: So I believe they gave away extra invites to the

1736
01:24:47,840 --> 01:24:50,360
Speaker 1: wedding after everything and already being paid for. It's like,

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01:24:50,520 --> 01:24:53,479
Speaker 1: all right, we've we've purchased, you know, thirty seats at

1738
01:24:53,479 --> 01:24:57,240
Speaker 1: the venue, thirty meals, thirty seats, you know, every everything else.

1739
01:24:58,479 --> 01:25:00,559
Speaker 1: And they're like, oh, we're gonna add a three more people,

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01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:02,720
Speaker 1: all of the siblings, like the new siblings and their

1741
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:04,880
Speaker 1: plus ones and stuff like that, three or four new people,

1742
01:25:05,120 --> 01:25:07,040
Speaker 1: just like, buy three or four more meals and three

1743
01:25:07,080 --> 01:25:08,880
Speaker 1: or four more chairs and a new table and easy,

1744
01:25:08,960 --> 01:25:11,200
Speaker 1: do all that stuff right. He told me that his

1745
01:25:11,200 --> 01:25:12,960
Speaker 1: parents were putting the blame on me, that they would

1746
01:25:13,000 --> 01:25:16,719
Speaker 1: just pay for the extra ticket, extra seats. I convinced

1747
01:25:16,760 --> 01:25:18,840
Speaker 1: my fiance to put me in the group chat with

1748
01:25:18,880 --> 01:25:22,000
Speaker 1: his parents. Why I laid down the law, Okay, I

1749
01:25:22,040 --> 01:25:24,360
Speaker 1: said that we physically did not have any more seats,

1750
01:25:24,680 --> 01:25:28,240
Speaker 1: and if someone did not receive it, and if someone

1751
01:25:28,320 --> 01:25:35,160
Speaker 1: oop oop ooop, and if someone did not receive an invite.

1752
01:25:35,640 --> 01:25:37,840
Speaker 1: They obviously weren't invited.

1753
01:25:38,320 --> 01:25:44,599
Speaker 2: Dunk boom, alley, Wait, someone tossed up someone to I'm.

1754
01:25:44,439 --> 01:25:55,040
Speaker 3: Tossing up boom and coach calling out alley.

1755
01:25:55,240 --> 01:25:58,280
Speaker 1: There we go, Here we go. So if these people

1756
01:25:58,320 --> 01:26:00,680
Speaker 1: show up, they would be as we had nord to

1757
01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:02,840
Speaker 1: see him. We gotta kick him out.

1758
01:26:03,560 --> 01:26:05,160
Speaker 3: See this the grass of there.

1759
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:07,760
Speaker 2: No, stop showing this. That's me kicking you out. I

1760
01:26:07,760 --> 01:26:15,479
Speaker 2: don't see your feet, that's kicking you out. Oh my god, bro, No, no, no,

1761
01:26:15,960 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 2: too much shit, get out? Oh lovely, here we go. Okay,

1762
01:26:25,880 --> 01:26:26,880
Speaker 2: you're gonna hurt your knees.

1763
01:26:27,280 --> 01:26:32,439
Speaker 1: No, I'm in physical training now, the physical therapy, me too.

1764
01:26:32,560 --> 01:26:35,920
Speaker 3: Brother, Yeah, he's getting stronger, getting stronger.

1765
01:26:36,000 --> 01:26:40,120
Speaker 1: Anyways, So if these people show up, uh, they'd be

1766
01:26:40,120 --> 01:26:41,880
Speaker 1: removed as we had no word to see him. After

1767
01:26:41,960 --> 01:26:44,200
Speaker 1: I put the message in the chat, Mindy called my

1768
01:26:44,280 --> 01:26:47,720
Speaker 1: fiance and she said she refused to answer my message.

1769
01:26:47,400 --> 01:26:50,000
Speaker 2: Because she knew I would not back off. That's right,

1770
01:26:50,760 --> 01:26:51,880
Speaker 2: big steppers.

1771
01:26:51,439 --> 01:26:55,760
Speaker 1: Standing on business Steposs, Frank and Mindy, evil mother and

1772
01:26:55,760 --> 01:26:58,120
Speaker 1: father in law have not contributed to the wedding at all,

1773
01:26:58,520 --> 01:27:02,519
Speaker 1: except to give me a headache on a contribution and

1774
01:27:02,600 --> 01:27:04,920
Speaker 1: to give me and my fiance food poisoning from a

1775
01:27:04,960 --> 01:27:08,000
Speaker 1: family friend's business. They wanted us to order wedding favors

1776
01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:13,559
Speaker 1: from nice my parents. My parents are happy to pay

1777
01:27:13,600 --> 01:27:15,840
Speaker 1: for the venue, and I have a limit to keep

1778
01:27:15,920 --> 01:27:19,640
Speaker 1: costs down. We had to sacrifice inviting our friends to

1779
01:27:19,760 --> 01:27:24,880
Speaker 1: invite Frank and Mindy's evil step parents, evil in law's

1780
01:27:25,240 --> 01:27:25,920
Speaker 1: church friends.

1781
01:27:27,680 --> 01:27:29,880
Speaker 2: Did we ever get who Stan is? Nope?

1782
01:27:30,000 --> 01:27:32,479
Speaker 3: I think San's are a sibling, one of the siblings.

1783
01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:34,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense, Okay, I think Stan's one of

1784
01:27:34,240 --> 01:27:36,960
Speaker 2: these things because a lot of people in the chat

1785
01:27:36,960 --> 01:27:39,720
Speaker 2: were like, maybe Op forgot to change the name from

1786
01:27:39,720 --> 01:27:42,080
Speaker 2: Stan to Frank, and maybe Stan is the real name.

1787
01:27:43,400 --> 01:27:44,920
Speaker 2: I don't know. We haven't heard that.

1788
01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:46,680
Speaker 3: I've seen that slip before. I've seen that.

1789
01:27:47,240 --> 01:27:49,960
Speaker 1: That's a good theory. I feel like if there's relevant coms,

1790
01:27:49,960 --> 01:27:50,799
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm addressing.

1791
01:27:50,800 --> 01:27:52,040
Speaker 2: But I agree, we'll see it.

1792
01:27:52,120 --> 01:27:56,800
Speaker 1: So the next day, Monday, June eighteenth, Frank called my

1793
01:27:56,880 --> 01:28:02,200
Speaker 1: venue stop it. Uh, oh, it's going to be really bad.

1794
01:28:03,000 --> 01:28:06,120
Speaker 1: So I received a call from the venue saying that

1795
01:28:06,200 --> 01:28:09,880
Speaker 1: a man had called to change the final count.

1796
01:28:10,560 --> 01:28:13,160
Speaker 2: I was in complete and utter shock that Frank would

1797
01:28:13,200 --> 01:28:13,439
Speaker 2: do this.

1798
01:28:14,040 --> 01:28:16,840
Speaker 1: He called last night around seven thirty pm to change

1799
01:28:16,880 --> 01:28:19,760
Speaker 1: the final count. He even told the venue that I

1800
01:28:19,880 --> 01:28:21,479
Speaker 1: gave permission for that change.

1801
01:28:21,760 --> 01:28:22,480
Speaker 3: Stop.

1802
01:28:24,479 --> 01:28:27,920
Speaker 1: Evil mother in law Mindy also called my fiance today

1803
01:28:28,000 --> 01:28:30,360
Speaker 1: and I sat in on the call. All she did

1804
01:28:30,439 --> 01:28:33,839
Speaker 1: was bad mouth me, called me a liar, and blamed

1805
01:28:33,880 --> 01:28:37,560
Speaker 1: me for everything. She told my fiance that I personally

1806
01:28:37,640 --> 01:28:41,320
Speaker 1: cut her invite list and that she had been treated unfairly.

1807
01:28:42,040 --> 01:28:45,439
Speaker 1: She began to demand to know who on her family

1808
01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:49,960
Speaker 1: side was invited. Then the table settings, Oh my god,

1809
01:28:50,360 --> 01:28:53,519
Speaker 1: the table settings. I guess I asked her in the

1810
01:28:53,520 --> 01:28:56,800
Speaker 1: beginning to organize her family's side of the tables. That

1811
01:28:56,960 --> 01:28:59,240
Speaker 1: was over a year ago, and I now have a

1812
01:28:59,240 --> 01:29:02,559
Speaker 1: better grasp on family dynamics. I was born one day,

1813
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:05,599
Speaker 1: so I took care of the seating chart well. While

1814
01:29:05,640 --> 01:29:08,840
Speaker 1: on the phone, she told my fiance, I assume she

1815
01:29:08,920 --> 01:29:16,160
Speaker 1: put me and Frank in the back because she hates us.

1816
01:29:16,600 --> 01:29:20,400
Speaker 1: That was what FI, That was what Finally was the

1817
01:29:20,520 --> 01:29:25,960
Speaker 1: straw that broke my fiance. Let's go. Finally, the rest

1818
01:29:26,080 --> 01:29:29,000
Speaker 1: of the night did not go well my fiance. My

1819
01:29:29,080 --> 01:29:31,880
Speaker 1: fiance had been controlled by the evil in laws Mindy

1820
01:29:31,960 --> 01:29:36,240
Speaker 1: and Frank his entire life after all. It's his parents

1821
01:29:36,760 --> 01:29:39,959
Speaker 1: anyway you look at it. They abused him. My fiance

1822
01:29:40,200 --> 01:29:42,880
Speaker 1: physically could not fight back against his mom. I was

1823
01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:45,680
Speaker 1: very upset that he did not defend me, and I

1824
01:29:45,800 --> 01:29:50,000
Speaker 1: voiced that to him. My fiance just sulked away and

1825
01:29:50,040 --> 01:29:55,280
Speaker 1: curled up in bed red flag. Oh man, so to

1826
01:29:55,360 --> 01:29:58,479
Speaker 1: me discussed later for the past For the past five

1827
01:29:58,520 --> 01:30:01,719
Speaker 1: or six laters. Sorry for the past five six hours,

1828
01:30:02,120 --> 01:30:04,840
Speaker 1: I have been holding him while he cries and we

1829
01:30:04,880 --> 01:30:11,519
Speaker 1: watch Hoarders. What that is comical? One thing I told

1830
01:30:11,600 --> 01:30:13,680
Speaker 1: him that he had to do today was stand up

1831
01:30:13,680 --> 01:30:16,919
Speaker 1: to his parents and defend not only me but himself.

1832
01:30:18,439 --> 01:30:19,519
Speaker 3: I liked this so pie.

1833
01:30:20,080 --> 01:30:22,400
Speaker 1: It took a few hours to write the paragraph, but

1834
01:30:22,479 --> 01:30:26,360
Speaker 1: he finally felt he was able to voices upset without

1835
01:30:26,760 --> 01:30:30,400
Speaker 1: resorting back to people pleasing. He was beginning to spiral

1836
01:30:30,479 --> 01:30:32,519
Speaker 1: back into his depression, so I made him do a

1837
01:30:32,560 --> 01:30:36,280
Speaker 1: voicing exercise. I had him repeat I will not apologize

1838
01:30:36,280 --> 01:30:39,840
Speaker 1: for my feelings over and over until he yelled it

1839
01:30:40,080 --> 01:30:40,800
Speaker 1: and started.

1840
01:30:40,560 --> 01:30:43,040
Speaker 2: Laughing, let's go. I kind of liked that. I kind

1841
01:30:43,040 --> 01:30:43,439
Speaker 2: of liked that.

1842
01:30:44,120 --> 01:30:48,400
Speaker 1: The next day, Tuesday, June nineteenth, Sam and I were

1843
01:30:48,439 --> 01:30:50,920
Speaker 1: about to go on a movie date. The little fiancees,

1844
01:30:51,439 --> 01:30:53,920
Speaker 1: he receives a text from evil father in law Frank.

1845
01:30:55,160 --> 01:30:56,880
Speaker 1: By the way, I love how evil father in law

1846
01:30:56,920 --> 01:30:59,760
Speaker 1: Frank and evil mother in law Mindy have alliteration.

1847
01:31:00,200 --> 01:31:00,479
Speaker 2: Yep.

1848
01:31:00,840 --> 01:31:02,280
Speaker 3: Oh that's good. That's good.

1849
01:31:02,320 --> 01:31:02,720
Speaker 2: That's good.

1850
01:31:02,840 --> 01:31:04,800
Speaker 1: So he receives a text from evil father in law Frank,

1851
01:31:05,080 --> 01:31:07,559
Speaker 1: who wants him to come over to talk about what

1852
01:31:07,640 --> 01:31:10,680
Speaker 1: was going on. My fiance asked him what the conversation

1853
01:31:10,840 --> 01:31:13,160
Speaker 1: was going to be about before I snatched the phone

1854
01:31:13,160 --> 01:31:16,000
Speaker 1: away from Before I snatched the phone away from him,

1855
01:31:16,400 --> 01:31:19,599
Speaker 1: I knew Sam was going to be obsessed on that message,

1856
01:31:19,640 --> 01:31:22,439
Speaker 1: and I was determined to keep evil father in love

1857
01:31:22,479 --> 01:31:25,519
Speaker 1: Frank from ruining our movie. He ruined our movie.

1858
01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:26,120
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

1859
01:31:26,200 --> 01:31:27,880
Speaker 2: However, when we.

1860
01:31:27,800 --> 01:31:29,759
Speaker 1: Got home, there was a message from Frank that says,

1861
01:31:30,240 --> 01:31:35,080
Speaker 1: can't have a conversation with your family anymore. Unbelievably, Sam

1862
01:31:35,120 --> 01:31:37,720
Speaker 1: answered back, saying that he just wanted to keep the

1863
01:31:37,720 --> 01:31:40,840
Speaker 1: conversation productive. I was so overjoyed and proud of him

1864
01:31:40,840 --> 01:31:43,479
Speaker 1: for standing his ground. He even told me that telling

1865
01:31:43,520 --> 01:31:45,519
Speaker 1: off Frank felt pretty good.

1866
01:31:47,280 --> 01:31:48,320
Speaker 2: Hey, that's pretty good.

1867
01:31:48,439 --> 01:31:49,280
Speaker 1: Hey Yo.

1868
01:31:51,160 --> 01:31:53,639
Speaker 2: Wednesday, June twentieth, you had to play like I feel

1869
01:31:53,680 --> 01:31:56,240
Speaker 2: like guys to play like the twenty four hour like dude,

1870
01:31:57,040 --> 01:32:00,400
Speaker 2: like the clock ticking down? Oh like, I'm like, yeah,

1871
01:32:00,520 --> 01:32:03,160
Speaker 2: you get it right, Riley gets it. I forgot to

1872
01:32:03,200 --> 01:32:09,160
Speaker 2: watch TV. I don't what's nothing or like maybe they're

1873
01:32:09,200 --> 01:32:11,120
Speaker 2: supposed to know like the Law and Order?

1874
01:32:11,640 --> 01:32:16,720
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, don dune. I've been helping with with

1875
01:32:16,880 --> 01:32:20,120
Speaker 3: uh John watching TV movies every time I get a

1876
01:32:20,160 --> 01:32:21,479
Speaker 3: chance to go to his place and we're still watching

1877
01:32:21,520 --> 01:32:23,479
Speaker 3: House of Cards. Let's go.

1878
01:32:23,720 --> 01:32:26,280
Speaker 2: Oh wow, dude, Thrones, that was.

1879
01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:28,160
Speaker 1: The big one. I refuse to watch Game of Zones

1880
01:32:28,160 --> 01:32:29,040
Speaker 1: for eight years.

1881
01:32:29,720 --> 01:32:30,519
Speaker 2: Well it's never.

1882
01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:31,200
Speaker 1: Too late anyways.

1883
01:32:31,280 --> 01:32:32,120
Speaker 2: All right, back to the story.

1884
01:32:32,120 --> 01:32:36,800
Speaker 1: Wednesday, June twentieth, hell breaks loose. Here we go, guys,

1885
01:32:36,880 --> 01:32:39,840
Speaker 1: the real story has begun. I was working the night shift.

1886
01:32:40,120 --> 01:32:42,200
Speaker 1: I was working at the night shift today ten pm

1887
01:32:42,240 --> 01:32:44,920
Speaker 1: to six am. Got leave and I was operating on

1888
01:32:45,040 --> 01:32:47,320
Speaker 1: four to five hours of sleep due to stress. My goodness,

1889
01:32:47,439 --> 01:32:49,120
Speaker 1: Sam and I head over to his parents house at

1890
01:32:49,160 --> 01:32:52,800
Speaker 1: eight pm. We sit down on the sofa and Frank

1891
01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:56,479
Speaker 1: starts the conversation with here's why we don't like your

1892
01:32:56,479 --> 01:33:02,040
Speaker 1: fiance for thirty filip in minutes. I had to sit

1893
01:33:02,080 --> 01:33:05,400
Speaker 1: there and listen to evil father in law, Frank tear

1894
01:33:05,479 --> 01:33:07,920
Speaker 1: me apart and how he and evil mother in law

1895
01:33:07,960 --> 01:33:10,439
Speaker 1: Mindy don't support me and Sam living together.

1896
01:33:10,520 --> 01:33:11,479
Speaker 2: They are very Catholic.

1897
01:33:11,479 --> 01:33:12,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1898
01:33:12,240 --> 01:33:14,800
Speaker 1: Then Frank goes off saying that they are trying to

1899
01:33:14,840 --> 01:33:19,840
Speaker 1: protect Sam because an unplanned pregnancy would ruin his life. Uh,

1900
01:33:19,960 --> 01:33:23,839
Speaker 1: they're only literally about to get married. First off. First off,

1901
01:33:24,400 --> 01:33:26,920
Speaker 1: why what's this whole thing about unplanned pregancy? Get your

1902
01:33:27,160 --> 01:33:29,240
Speaker 1: nose out of there. Who cares? Not your business?

1903
01:33:29,600 --> 01:33:31,240
Speaker 2: Second of all, even if they did.

1904
01:33:31,240 --> 01:33:35,519
Speaker 1: They're literally about to get married, literally about to get married.

1905
01:33:36,120 --> 01:33:39,040
Speaker 3: Two conspiracy theories. One they either had an unplanned pregnancy

1906
01:33:39,040 --> 01:33:41,840
Speaker 3: and that's why they got married, or two, the church

1907
01:33:42,080 --> 01:33:47,280
Speaker 3: has made them feel like beating their head about sex

1908
01:33:47,320 --> 01:33:49,320
Speaker 3: before marriage and they're trying to guilt trip them not

1909
01:33:49,400 --> 01:33:51,479
Speaker 3: to do that, not to have a kid outside of marriage,

1910
01:33:51,520 --> 01:33:53,000
Speaker 3: so that the kid's not a bastard.

1911
01:33:54,680 --> 01:33:59,040
Speaker 1: Well, well, calling it true, good one. I'm leaving a

1912
01:33:59,080 --> 01:34:01,840
Speaker 1: lot out because I blocked out Frank sn I blocked

1913
01:34:01,880 --> 01:34:02,839
Speaker 1: out Frank's nonsense.

1914
01:34:03,640 --> 01:34:06,120
Speaker 2: I would have lost IQ points.

1915
01:34:05,680 --> 01:34:09,400
Speaker 1: Listening to him. It was uncomfortable listening to both parents

1916
01:34:09,479 --> 01:34:12,559
Speaker 1: obsess over our spicy sleep, our spicy sleep life for

1917
01:34:12,600 --> 01:34:18,840
Speaker 1: thirty minutes. They're jealous, like, hey, Frank, you just ain't

1918
01:34:18,840 --> 01:34:23,760
Speaker 1: got it like that. We don't have what you do. Sorry, sorry, sorry,

1919
01:34:23,800 --> 01:34:28,280
Speaker 1: ain't gotta like you so much. Guys, a a mindy,

1920
01:34:28,080 --> 01:34:31,320
Speaker 1: Sorry your man ain't doing it. I don't know what

1921
01:34:31,360 --> 01:34:31,719
Speaker 1: to say.

1922
01:34:31,840 --> 01:34:35,560
Speaker 2: Frankie cutting it, frank A cutting it.

1923
01:34:35,560 --> 01:34:37,639
Speaker 1: It's nine pm at this point, and this is where

1924
01:34:37,640 --> 01:34:40,280
Speaker 1: the fun starts. We've only just begun, ladies and gentlemen.

1925
01:34:40,400 --> 01:34:42,880
Speaker 1: Frank brings up the topic. We were not supposed to

1926
01:34:42,920 --> 01:34:48,759
Speaker 1: talk about the extra people he invited. I again explained

1927
01:34:48,760 --> 01:34:51,800
Speaker 1: to him, it's our wedding. We decided the guest list

1928
01:34:51,840 --> 01:34:54,479
Speaker 1: and we had already reached the limit. And again they

1929
01:34:54,520 --> 01:34:58,120
Speaker 1: have contributed no financial stuff. It was Op's parents. And

1930
01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:00,920
Speaker 1: also he's he's run up the bill even more by

1931
01:35:01,160 --> 01:35:04,479
Speaker 1: adding the extra seats, and they're not paying either, and yeah, yeah,

1932
01:35:04,479 --> 01:35:07,120
Speaker 1: no one's paying. I went on to tell Frank that

1933
01:35:07,160 --> 01:35:09,559
Speaker 1: he was completely out of line calling the venue. Frank

1934
01:35:09,640 --> 01:35:12,519
Speaker 1: immediately began lying, saying he had called to ask questions

1935
01:35:12,560 --> 01:35:15,360
Speaker 1: and that he had a rights to call the venue.

1936
01:35:16,600 --> 01:35:17,120
Speaker 2: Real quick.

1937
01:35:17,240 --> 01:35:19,439
Speaker 3: If you're very traditional, then you should be paying for

1938
01:35:19,479 --> 01:35:23,040
Speaker 3: the wedding. Because the wives, the mother the parents of

1939
01:35:23,040 --> 01:35:24,760
Speaker 3: the bride pay for the wedding, so then in that

1940
01:35:24,800 --> 01:35:26,439
Speaker 3: case you can. But since you're not paying for it,

1941
01:35:26,479 --> 01:35:27,599
Speaker 3: you have no zero right.

1942
01:35:27,840 --> 01:35:31,400
Speaker 1: Literally you have negative You have negative ten rights, negative

1943
01:35:31,400 --> 01:35:33,040
Speaker 1: ten rights, and negative ten aura.

1944
01:35:34,720 --> 01:35:38,840
Speaker 2: Remember they didn't get aura, not the aura. Remember they

1945
01:35:38,880 --> 01:35:40,360
Speaker 2: didn't contribute anything to the wedding.

1946
01:35:40,680 --> 01:35:43,000
Speaker 1: After some back and forth, I stood up to leave,

1947
01:35:43,320 --> 01:35:45,880
Speaker 1: telling Frank he could at least apologize to Sam for

1948
01:35:46,000 --> 01:35:50,920
Speaker 1: upsetting him a week before the wedding. Frank flew off

1949
01:35:50,960 --> 01:35:54,040
Speaker 1: the rails. He was in my face, screaming at me,

1950
01:35:54,200 --> 01:35:57,000
Speaker 1: calling me little miss perfect and a bunch of other things.

1951
01:35:57,720 --> 01:36:00,360
Speaker 1: Sam was visibly distraught, so I pulled him off the

1952
01:36:00,360 --> 01:36:02,920
Speaker 1: sofa and literally pushed him out of the house. It's

1953
01:36:02,960 --> 01:36:05,479
Speaker 1: pretty sad. I had to protect him from his own parents,

1954
01:36:05,600 --> 01:36:08,840
Speaker 1: who didn't seem to care. Before I left, I turned.

1955
01:36:08,880 --> 01:36:10,720
Speaker 1: I turned to evil mother in law Mindy, and I

1956
01:36:10,800 --> 01:36:14,920
Speaker 1: asked if she knew her husband threatened Sam threatened Sam

1957
01:36:14,920 --> 01:36:18,120
Speaker 1: with them not coming back to the wedding. With this smirk,

1958
01:36:19,120 --> 01:36:21,799
Speaker 1: With this smirk, I wanted to smack off. With this smirk,

1959
01:36:21,800 --> 01:36:24,880
Speaker 1: I wanted to smack off her face. She said, oh, yeah,

1960
01:36:24,960 --> 01:36:26,720
Speaker 1: you know, I agree with him.

1961
01:36:26,840 --> 01:36:30,639
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, these people are the worst. What the heck?

1962
01:36:30,800 --> 01:36:32,880
Speaker 2: They deserve each other? This was this was planned?

1963
01:36:32,960 --> 01:36:36,400
Speaker 1: My god. Yeah, I never wanted I've never wanted to

1964
01:36:36,479 --> 01:36:39,080
Speaker 1: hurt someone so bad in my life. Sam is Mindy's

1965
01:36:39,160 --> 01:36:42,520
Speaker 1: only child, only son, and she chose her husband.

1966
01:36:43,000 --> 01:36:43,559
Speaker 2: How dare she?

1967
01:36:44,680 --> 01:36:47,080
Speaker 1: Later during my shift, Sam received a message from his

1968
01:36:47,160 --> 01:36:50,519
Speaker 1: mom saying, we still love you dot and we hope

1969
01:36:51,320 --> 01:36:53,719
Speaker 1: and we hope to love her too one day.

1970
01:36:53,960 --> 01:36:57,360
Speaker 3: Oh my freaking gosh, this reminds me so much of

1971
01:36:57,360 --> 01:36:58,400
Speaker 3: my ex's parents.

1972
01:36:58,720 --> 01:37:01,240
Speaker 2: I don't know, really, Yeah, you and can bring up

1973
01:37:01,320 --> 01:37:04,040
Speaker 2: a lot of parents in your life that aren't yours. Yeah,

1974
01:37:04,160 --> 01:37:07,200
Speaker 2: because people, people, Dude, how many yeah, how many problems

1975
01:37:07,200 --> 01:37:09,479
Speaker 2: have you had with other significant other parents?

1976
01:37:10,120 --> 01:37:10,800
Speaker 3: These are the same ones?

1977
01:37:11,040 --> 01:37:13,759
Speaker 2: Oh? Okay, okay, okay. There were another parents, Riley.

1978
01:37:13,840 --> 01:37:16,600
Speaker 1: It was reverse avengers. Riley was a good fatos and

1979
01:37:16,680 --> 01:37:20,160
Speaker 1: there was there was a Avengers of evil parents that

1980
01:37:20,240 --> 01:37:24,280
Speaker 1: were trying to come Friley, but incorrect didn't.

1981
01:37:24,000 --> 01:37:25,840
Speaker 2: Work, You're freaking idiots. Didn't work, So.

1982
01:37:27,560 --> 01:37:32,200
Speaker 1: You can't make this up. Thursday, June twenty first, Oh no.

1983
01:37:31,720 --> 01:37:33,400
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no no no.

1984
01:37:34,439 --> 01:37:37,120
Speaker 2: Not on summer not on the day of summer, right,

1985
01:37:37,439 --> 01:37:38,680
Speaker 2: come on the day of summer.

1986
01:37:38,439 --> 01:37:43,040
Speaker 1: We're supposed to celebrate. Yeah, no, no, the church is involved.

1987
01:37:43,120 --> 01:37:43,439
Speaker 2: Uh oh.

1988
01:37:44,120 --> 01:37:47,559
Speaker 1: Sam receives an email from our church where where Frank

1989
01:37:47,600 --> 01:37:51,200
Speaker 1: and Mindy are prominent in active members. Mindy had reached

1990
01:37:51,240 --> 01:37:53,400
Speaker 1: out to the church and asked for a meeting so

1991
01:37:53,479 --> 01:37:57,800
Speaker 1: we could move past the situation a fat chance. But

1992
01:37:57,920 --> 01:38:00,679
Speaker 1: before I could say anything, Sam told me he had

1993
01:38:00,760 --> 01:38:05,240
Speaker 1: already responded. He had told the church no, there we go,

1994
01:38:05,800 --> 01:38:08,719
Speaker 1: and what had happened. He was up front with Frank's

1995
01:38:08,760 --> 01:38:11,559
Speaker 1: attempt to intimidate me and that he didn't want us

1996
01:38:11,600 --> 01:38:14,880
Speaker 1: to share the same air. But I tackled that man

1997
01:38:14,920 --> 01:38:18,719
Speaker 1: into a bear hug in a good way. To think

1998
01:38:18,800 --> 01:38:21,080
Speaker 1: that just a few days ago it took hours to

1999
01:38:21,120 --> 01:38:24,599
Speaker 1: write a paragraph and now he's shading himself with no hesitation.

2000
01:38:25,280 --> 01:38:30,160
Speaker 1: That's just huge. To pause here really quick. I like,

2001
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:33,320
Speaker 1: and you know, sometimes it's tough because it's like you

2002
01:38:35,000 --> 01:38:37,519
Speaker 1: don't want to be controlling or push someone. You know,

2003
01:38:37,560 --> 01:38:40,160
Speaker 1: it can be kind of a delicate balancing act. But

2004
01:38:40,280 --> 01:38:45,839
Speaker 1: this is kind of a cool example of the partner

2005
01:38:46,640 --> 01:38:52,439
Speaker 1: helping their significant other to stand up for themselves. And like,

2006
01:38:52,520 --> 01:38:56,000
Speaker 1: I love like like the positive affirmations of like my feelings.

2007
01:38:55,520 --> 01:38:57,760
Speaker 2: Are are worth it? Do my feelings do matter? Like?

2008
01:38:58,120 --> 01:38:59,600
Speaker 1: Really cool? I just have to say that.

2009
01:38:59,640 --> 01:39:04,040
Speaker 3: Also a quick note, I dislike these people and how

2010
01:39:04,040 --> 01:39:07,640
Speaker 3: they are with as Christians, because as a Christian, if

2011
01:39:07,680 --> 01:39:09,599
Speaker 3: you have a problem with someone, you go to them.

2012
01:39:09,960 --> 01:39:11,559
Speaker 3: If they don't hear you out, the next step is

2013
01:39:11,560 --> 01:39:12,960
Speaker 3: you bring a couple of friends and you go to

2014
01:39:13,000 --> 01:39:13,680
Speaker 3: them and talk to them.

2015
01:39:13,720 --> 01:39:13,920
Speaker 1: Yep.

2016
01:39:13,960 --> 01:39:15,760
Speaker 3: And then the third and final step is you bring

2017
01:39:15,800 --> 01:39:18,639
Speaker 3: the church involved. The parents went straight to step three

2018
01:39:18,680 --> 01:39:20,680
Speaker 3: and did a do step two. Yeah, after yelling in

2019
01:39:20,720 --> 01:39:23,360
Speaker 3: her face, which straight to the church. That is that

2020
01:39:23,479 --> 01:39:24,439
Speaker 3: is totally out of line.

2021
01:39:24,800 --> 01:39:26,080
Speaker 1: Where's your Jesus?

2022
01:39:26,080 --> 01:39:29,280
Speaker 3: Now, come on, come on with you, come on, guys.

2023
01:39:29,080 --> 01:39:33,880
Speaker 1: Your wianers. So I am so proud of his accomplishments,

2024
01:39:33,880 --> 01:39:36,880
Speaker 1: and I know that this breakthrough will only better rest

2025
01:39:36,920 --> 01:39:39,160
Speaker 1: than the long run that we'd love to see.

2026
01:39:39,280 --> 01:39:39,920
Speaker 2: We'd love to see tho.

2027
01:39:39,920 --> 01:39:40,800
Speaker 1: Silver Linings.

2028
01:39:41,400 --> 01:39:43,800
Speaker 2: Saturday, June twenty third, It's getting close.

2029
01:39:44,760 --> 01:39:48,479
Speaker 1: Nothing notable on Friday except some heavy victim blaming from

2030
01:39:48,520 --> 01:39:51,879
Speaker 1: the church. Sam and I were driving from Cleveland to Columbus,

2031
01:39:51,880 --> 01:39:55,639
Speaker 1: which is about a two hour drive one way, sorry, Sam,

2032
01:39:55,640 --> 01:39:57,880
Speaker 1: that surprised me by buying tickets to see Linking Blake.

2033
01:39:57,920 --> 01:40:01,200
Speaker 1: Oh that's so cute, amazing. I've been wanting to see

2034
01:40:01,200 --> 01:40:05,559
Speaker 1: this play since I was eighteen years old. We were

2035
01:40:05,720 --> 01:40:08,519
Speaker 1: enjoying our drive when.

2036
01:40:08,360 --> 01:40:15,200
Speaker 2: Guess who calls no evil mother in law Mindy. Oh man,

2037
01:40:15,240 --> 01:40:17,200
Speaker 2: you're in the car listening to the.

2038
01:40:17,160 --> 01:40:25,599
Speaker 3: Soundtrack and the Maatana solo you did middle school.

2039
01:40:25,680 --> 01:40:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fire. We're gonna have to force you to

2040
01:40:28,040 --> 01:40:31,559
Speaker 1: do that sometimes. Oh no, we'll put it on the wheel.

2041
01:40:33,600 --> 01:40:36,439
Speaker 1: So wouldn't you know, evil mother in law Mindy came

2042
01:40:36,520 --> 01:40:37,839
Speaker 1: up with a solution to our problem.

2043
01:40:37,880 --> 01:40:38,759
Speaker 3: Oh that's so great.

2044
01:40:38,840 --> 01:40:39,719
Speaker 2: Oh oh, it's so great.

2045
01:40:39,840 --> 01:40:43,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, just uninvite too of our guests a week before

2046
01:40:43,880 --> 01:40:52,760
Speaker 1: the wedding. Great solution. Awesome, right, so great. Yeah, you

2047
01:40:52,800 --> 01:40:55,240
Speaker 1: know those people that you love, that you like said

2048
01:40:55,240 --> 01:40:57,360
Speaker 1: the invitation to be to pay me at your wedding,

2049
01:40:58,439 --> 01:41:00,759
Speaker 1: the people that you love so much. Yeah, just just

2050
01:41:00,760 --> 01:41:03,759
Speaker 1: just kick him to the curb for my random terrible

2051
01:41:04,160 --> 01:41:06,200
Speaker 1: like church people.

2052
01:41:06,360 --> 01:41:07,720
Speaker 3: You know you know what I would say right then

2053
01:41:07,720 --> 01:41:10,200
Speaker 3: and there talk to me? Okay, uh you and Deed.

2054
01:41:11,040 --> 01:41:11,879
Speaker 3: That's two guests.

2055
01:41:12,200 --> 01:41:17,960
Speaker 1: Oh that's bars, that's Bar.

2056
01:41:18,240 --> 01:41:20,719
Speaker 2: That I'm I pray that's what happened.

2057
01:41:21,479 --> 01:41:26,120
Speaker 1: But guys, you're always invited to tap our profile to

2058
01:41:26,200 --> 01:41:28,160
Speaker 1: join our lives every single week day at three pm

2059
01:41:28,200 --> 01:41:31,200
Speaker 1: PSC and guess what, we won't try to kick you out.

2060
01:41:31,280 --> 01:41:31,559
Speaker 3: We won't.

2061
01:41:31,680 --> 01:41:33,400
Speaker 1: We won't try to replace you. Everyone's welcome.

2062
01:41:33,560 --> 01:41:34,639
Speaker 3: Everyone is welcome.

2063
01:41:34,640 --> 01:41:35,559
Speaker 1: Everyone is welcome.

2064
01:41:38,640 --> 01:41:39,080
Speaker 3: What do we do?

2065
01:41:39,160 --> 01:41:41,280
Speaker 1: Really quick before we get into.

2066
01:41:41,120 --> 01:41:41,639
Speaker 2: This last part?

2067
01:41:42,200 --> 01:41:43,559
Speaker 1: You giggling that over there?

2068
01:41:44,200 --> 01:41:44,559
Speaker 2: What are you?

2069
01:41:45,520 --> 01:41:46,280
Speaker 1: What do you? What do you?

2070
01:41:46,280 --> 01:41:46,760
Speaker 2: What do you?

2071
01:41:46,800 --> 01:41:48,000
Speaker 1: What are you smarking?

2072
01:41:48,280 --> 01:41:52,320
Speaker 2: So I'm just the boy nothing, I'm not giggling anything.

2073
01:41:55,280 --> 01:41:59,960
Speaker 1: Let's talk about what we do here? Right to your boy?

2074
01:42:00,160 --> 01:42:01,920
Speaker 1: Do we just straight up be like you're inventive? To

2075
01:42:01,920 --> 01:42:03,320
Speaker 1: the wedding? Are we there?

2076
01:42:04,400 --> 01:42:06,880
Speaker 2: I've been there, I'm already I've been.

2077
01:42:07,800 --> 01:42:08,240
Speaker 1: For a second.

2078
01:42:08,640 --> 01:42:14,160
Speaker 2: You're like, I've been in this exact same like what engaged?

2079
01:42:15,160 --> 01:42:18,880
Speaker 3: Oh dude, ah, do we uninvite the victory?

2080
01:42:21,280 --> 01:42:27,680
Speaker 2: Yo? I would definitely take her last name Keon Justice.

2081
01:42:29,600 --> 01:42:30,880
Speaker 3: Her actual name though.

2082
01:42:30,960 --> 01:42:35,960
Speaker 2: It's not, but come on, basically, you can just legally

2083
01:42:36,040 --> 01:42:37,960
Speaker 2: change your name to that just for the fun of it. Oh,

2084
01:42:38,000 --> 01:42:40,599
Speaker 2: I will, dude, you should just do that and then

2085
01:42:40,640 --> 01:42:41,880
Speaker 2: go back to her and be like Hey, I remember

2086
01:42:41,880 --> 01:42:44,120
Speaker 2: that one night five years ago, I changed my name.

2087
01:42:44,200 --> 01:42:46,479
Speaker 2: No one bring us up to her. No one message please, guys.

2088
01:42:47,000 --> 01:42:50,160
Speaker 1: Comment, get her on the show here, just like comment,

2089
01:42:50,280 --> 01:42:51,400
Speaker 1: be like, Oh, you.

2090
01:42:51,640 --> 01:42:53,559
Speaker 2: Don't do that. That's actually be really weird.

2091
01:42:54,000 --> 01:42:56,200
Speaker 3: Don't do that, Guys like, that's so embarrassing.

2092
01:42:56,720 --> 01:42:57,640
Speaker 2: Guys stops.

2093
01:42:58,320 --> 01:42:59,160
Speaker 3: Who am I? Who am I?

2094
01:42:59,160 --> 01:42:59,360
Speaker 2: Whom?

2095
01:43:00,040 --> 01:43:02,360
Speaker 3: Guys don't message her, that'd be just so embarrassing.

2096
01:43:02,520 --> 01:43:04,320
Speaker 2: Oh you're ke on justice?

2097
01:43:06,240 --> 01:43:13,919
Speaker 1: Okay, but seriously, story, Yeah, do we do we uninvite keys? Uninvite?

2098
01:43:14,120 --> 01:43:14,600
Speaker 2: What say you?

2099
01:43:14,920 --> 01:43:18,520
Speaker 3: I have saw I've seen this wedding diagram that basically

2100
01:43:18,600 --> 01:43:21,559
Speaker 3: explains who to invite and who not to invite at

2101
01:43:21,560 --> 01:43:24,400
Speaker 3: a wedding. I like it and it breaks it up

2102
01:43:24,439 --> 01:43:27,920
Speaker 3: into friends, family, and then you go down the line

2103
01:43:28,280 --> 01:43:31,120
Speaker 3: and the first question is are the immediate family? If

2104
01:43:31,120 --> 01:43:33,000
Speaker 3: it's yes, you go down to the next line and

2105
01:43:33,040 --> 01:43:36,320
Speaker 3: the second question is are they going to cause you stress? Slash?

2106
01:43:36,360 --> 01:43:38,439
Speaker 3: Are you happy to see them at that wedding? Yes

2107
01:43:38,520 --> 01:43:41,800
Speaker 3: or no? If you say no, navium no matter if

2108
01:43:41,800 --> 01:43:44,639
Speaker 3: they're close or not, this is your day. We need

2109
01:43:44,640 --> 01:43:48,760
Speaker 3: to step away from weddings being it about the audience

2110
01:43:48,880 --> 01:43:50,240
Speaker 3: and being about the couple.

2111
01:43:50,600 --> 01:43:53,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, talk that talk that talk. Yes, talk that talk.

2112
01:43:53,640 --> 01:43:57,240
Speaker 3: It's expensive. It needs to be in celebrate celebertation of

2113
01:43:57,280 --> 01:44:00,400
Speaker 3: the couple themselves. Yes, don't don't stress your self out

2114
01:44:00,439 --> 01:44:03,200
Speaker 3: inviting these people that are just gonna berate you and stuff,

2115
01:44:03,360 --> 01:44:06,240
Speaker 3: because if you allow them to do it on that day,

2116
01:44:06,360 --> 01:44:08,320
Speaker 3: you're allowing them to do that in your marriage.

2117
01:44:08,960 --> 01:44:10,559
Speaker 2: Hot take, hot freaking take.

2118
01:44:11,880 --> 01:44:16,160
Speaker 1: You're absolutely cooking, sir. That what is marriage?

2119
01:44:16,200 --> 01:44:17,439
Speaker 2: But uh uh?

2120
01:44:17,640 --> 01:44:20,120
Speaker 1: Setting the union for the rest of your life. Therefore,

2121
01:44:21,000 --> 01:44:24,560
Speaker 1: if you allow them on this occasion, that is fundamentally

2122
01:44:24,600 --> 01:44:27,080
Speaker 1: changing and uniting these two people in their life forever.

2123
01:44:27,240 --> 01:44:32,800
Speaker 1: Reach you're going to let this nonsense be cemented in

2124
01:44:32,840 --> 01:44:34,840
Speaker 1: your life forever. No, this is the time to take

2125
01:44:34,840 --> 01:44:37,120
Speaker 1: a stand. This is the time to say, where else

2126
01:44:37,160 --> 01:44:38,800
Speaker 1: in your life do you have something where it's like,

2127
01:44:39,240 --> 01:44:42,400
Speaker 1: me and my partner want to celebrate our love with

2128
01:44:43,120 --> 01:44:46,160
Speaker 1: the people who celebrate our love with us.

2129
01:44:46,680 --> 01:44:49,640
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, Because they continue like, maybe we'll love your

2130
01:44:49,640 --> 01:44:53,160
Speaker 3: fiance one day, Yeah, right, a week before the wedding.

2131
01:44:53,200 --> 01:44:53,880
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me?

2132
01:44:54,680 --> 01:44:57,080
Speaker 3: One day? That one day should have been like three

2133
01:44:57,160 --> 01:44:58,320
Speaker 3: years ago or however long.

2134
01:44:58,280 --> 01:45:00,400
Speaker 1: They maybe it'll be a good parent one day that's

2135
01:45:00,439 --> 01:45:03,920
Speaker 1: that's that's the one day we're looking for. Jez my goodness, gracious,

2136
01:45:03,920 --> 01:45:05,920
Speaker 1: it's facts, though, Yeah, I I a.

2137
01:45:06,000 --> 01:45:09,519
Speaker 3: Thousand that we're just two men that freaking oh what

2138
01:45:09,640 --> 01:45:12,400
Speaker 3: a dap? Oh it was the greenest.

2139
01:45:12,120 --> 01:45:14,840
Speaker 2: Dap Everfully they couldn't see that because that was killing.

2140
01:45:14,920 --> 01:45:19,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, we gotta get a dapt camp. Sometimes we do

2141
01:45:19,920 --> 01:45:21,920
Speaker 1: be high fiving and fist pumping and dapping and stuff,

2142
01:45:21,920 --> 01:45:22,559
Speaker 1: but then they don't get.

2143
01:45:22,479 --> 01:45:29,559
Speaker 2: To see it and see your arms collide zero there

2144
01:45:29,600 --> 01:45:33,559
Speaker 2: we go. Mm hm hm oh wait did I go

2145
01:45:33,600 --> 01:45:36,439
Speaker 2: too far? You guys went too far? You can see it.

2146
01:45:36,479 --> 01:45:40,240
Speaker 2: My wrist is your shoulder, U t riley.

2147
01:45:40,280 --> 01:45:43,439
Speaker 3: By that plan, I left my out, my mother, oldest sibling,

2148
01:45:43,520 --> 01:45:46,759
Speaker 3: and most of my ex's family. Those people were high maintenance,

2149
01:45:46,840 --> 01:45:47,920
Speaker 3: especially my own mother.

2150
01:45:49,360 --> 01:45:50,400
Speaker 1: Again, we got we got it.

2151
01:45:50,479 --> 01:45:53,120
Speaker 2: A hard choice. It's hard. It's a hard choice.

2152
01:45:53,439 --> 01:45:55,360
Speaker 1: But the end of the day, you're gonna you're gonna

2153
01:45:55,360 --> 01:45:57,280
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I get to celebrate my love with

2154
01:45:57,320 --> 01:45:59,840
Speaker 1: the people who celebrate my love with me. I absolutely agree.

2155
01:46:00,120 --> 01:46:03,599
Speaker 1: I think though we can spell it out for them too,

2156
01:46:03,920 --> 01:46:06,000
Speaker 1: because it's like, hey, I'm uninviting you from the wedding.

2157
01:46:06,320 --> 01:46:12,400
Speaker 2: Here is why so it's like, whoa, whoa.

2158
01:46:12,160 --> 01:46:21,040
Speaker 3: Tina, dude, I was I was having a good time.

2159
01:46:21,560 --> 01:46:23,200
Speaker 3: I was having a good time. All right, What were

2160
01:46:23,240 --> 01:46:23,680
Speaker 3: we gonna say?

2161
01:46:23,720 --> 01:46:26,040
Speaker 2: John, John's broken?

2162
01:46:26,320 --> 01:46:27,960
Speaker 3: We haven't hit it yet, so you can keep.

2163
01:46:28,120 --> 01:46:32,040
Speaker 2: You're set the streams, set the stream John John's broken.

2164
01:46:32,200 --> 01:46:38,280
Speaker 1: John Tam that's crazy, that's crazy, Tina, Oh.

2165
01:46:38,000 --> 01:46:41,920
Speaker 3: Man, you should we say it? Oh are you gonna do?

2166
01:46:41,920 --> 01:46:43,320
Speaker 3: You know what your thought was? Did you lose it?

2167
01:46:43,400 --> 01:46:46,400
Speaker 2: He lost it? Lost in the sauce again?

2168
01:46:46,720 --> 01:46:49,280
Speaker 1: Nope, nope, nope, I'm gonna find it. I'm gonna find it, Kean,

2169
01:46:49,720 --> 01:46:50,160
Speaker 1: search for it.

2170
01:46:50,200 --> 01:46:51,920
Speaker 2: I'll come back to you in a second. Riley, just

2171
01:46:51,960 --> 01:46:52,559
Speaker 2: look cute.

2172
01:46:53,720 --> 01:46:58,120
Speaker 1: I got no, I got it? Okay, okay, break down

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01:46:58,160 --> 01:47:01,960
Speaker 1: all the reasons why. So that way there's the possibility

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01:47:02,000 --> 01:47:03,320
Speaker 1: and chance for them to learn and grow from it,

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01:47:03,320 --> 01:47:05,880
Speaker 1: because we still got grand children coming down the line. Listen,

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01:47:05,920 --> 01:47:07,920
Speaker 1: if you want to hope of being able to be

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01:47:08,000 --> 01:47:10,519
Speaker 1: involved in your grandchildren's life the way you would want

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01:47:10,560 --> 01:47:14,160
Speaker 1: to be, these are the things you have to change,

2179
01:47:14,400 --> 01:47:19,360
Speaker 1: have to apologize for and rebuild trust over years and

2180
01:47:19,479 --> 01:47:21,840
Speaker 1: know that that trust built in years can be broken

2181
01:47:21,920 --> 01:47:24,519
Speaker 1: in one second, one phone call, one interaction.

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01:47:24,640 --> 01:47:26,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, and they've been they've already broken it for years.

2183
01:47:26,600 --> 01:47:29,479
Speaker 3: For for years they have commented on their relationship and

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01:47:29,479 --> 01:47:31,280
Speaker 3: how they have disapproved.

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01:47:31,040 --> 01:47:33,880
Speaker 1: Called her in or when it's they've literally been each

2186
01:47:33,920 --> 01:47:40,400
Speaker 1: other's only partner, or at least op Ops was their

2187
01:47:40,560 --> 01:47:42,200
Speaker 1: only partner. That makes sense.

2188
01:47:42,280 --> 01:47:45,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, but John, we did it. We hit it, we

2189
01:47:45,600 --> 01:47:46,240
Speaker 3: passed it.

2190
01:47:46,439 --> 01:47:48,200
Speaker 2: But the tell, oh my god, the timer did go down.

2191
01:47:48,400 --> 01:47:50,000
Speaker 2: But do we just keep her set the timer? You

2192
01:47:50,200 --> 01:47:53,960
Speaker 2: said it? Okay, Yeah, we got it. Okay, we got it.

2193
01:47:54,040 --> 01:47:58,960
Speaker 1: We're running it up. We're running out guys. Everyone does it?

2194
01:47:59,400 --> 01:48:01,599
Speaker 2: What the boy? Look at it.

2195
01:48:01,720 --> 01:48:02,920
Speaker 3: Everyone's being a hero here.

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01:48:03,320 --> 01:48:04,679
Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna finish the story.

2197
01:48:04,720 --> 01:48:06,400
Speaker 2: Okay, we can finish the story while he.

2198
01:48:06,520 --> 01:48:08,519
Speaker 3: Will finish the story, and then we'll hit your Tina

2199
01:48:08,720 --> 01:48:11,280
Speaker 3: m with the twenty gifted membership. Don't knows we'll hit

2200
01:48:11,360 --> 01:48:12,599
Speaker 3: it even talk about it. But oh my.

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01:48:12,560 --> 01:48:20,320
Speaker 1: Gosh, cool, so be broken again running it back? So

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01:48:21,200 --> 01:48:23,920
Speaker 1: the mom's The mom's solution was just invite uninvite two

2203
01:48:23,920 --> 01:48:27,000
Speaker 1: of your guests a week before the wedding. Obviously, the

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01:48:27,000 --> 01:48:33,519
Speaker 1: answer was Hew, no, hell no. But Sam was the

2205
01:48:33,560 --> 01:48:37,000
Speaker 1: one to speak this time. Uh oh, put on.

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01:48:36,960 --> 01:48:38,200
Speaker 2: His big boy pants and I did it.

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01:48:38,360 --> 01:48:41,920
Speaker 3: He did it. Good job, Sammy, Sam, the screens, the

2208
01:48:42,000 --> 01:48:42,400
Speaker 3: arc is.

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01:48:42,400 --> 01:48:44,960
Speaker 1: Huge, so great for Sam. That's not the only thing.

2210
01:48:45,479 --> 01:48:45,759
Speaker 2: Uh.

2211
01:48:45,800 --> 01:48:48,960
Speaker 1: He told his mom she was ridiculous and that we

2212
01:48:48,960 --> 01:48:52,439
Speaker 1: were not uninviting someone who wanted to be there for

2213
01:48:52,560 --> 01:48:56,160
Speaker 1: this woman. Sam barely knew. Cue the water works for

2214
01:48:56,280 --> 01:49:01,120
Speaker 1: Mom and my subsequent eye roll. Sam hung up. Yeah,

2215
01:49:02,160 --> 01:49:05,360
Speaker 1: I could have kissed him if we weren't flying down

2216
01:49:05,400 --> 01:49:07,120
Speaker 1: the highway. It's seventy miles per hour.

2217
01:49:07,880 --> 01:49:10,759
Speaker 2: Do it anyways for the biscuit high speed kissing.

2218
01:49:11,640 --> 01:49:15,040
Speaker 3: The wet toast of a spine is so strong right now,

2219
01:49:15,120 --> 01:49:16,880
Speaker 3: Sam is like just beefed up.

2220
01:49:16,960 --> 01:49:19,639
Speaker 1: The wet toast went from the crypt to sour dough.

2221
01:49:21,320 --> 01:49:26,200
Speaker 2: And that has aged. We're talking rock Brend now.

2222
01:49:26,720 --> 01:49:28,920
Speaker 1: Silver lining is We got Popeyes on our way to

2223
01:49:28,920 --> 01:49:31,240
Speaker 1: Columbus and the play was just as amazing as I

2224
01:49:31,280 --> 01:49:34,559
Speaker 1: always dreamed it would be. No free sponsors. We haven't

2225
01:49:34,560 --> 01:49:37,320
Speaker 1: heard from Mindy or frankin several days. Sam and I

2226
01:49:37,400 --> 01:49:41,639
Speaker 1: both agreed to go no contact with them rehearsal night,

2227
01:49:42,520 --> 01:49:47,920
Speaker 1: which is Friday. Woo. I wholeheartedly believe this was a

2228
01:49:48,000 --> 01:49:50,639
Speaker 1: last ditch effort to drive a wedge between us. But

2229
01:49:50,720 --> 01:49:52,920
Speaker 1: Sam and I have grown up with each other. Remember

2230
01:49:52,920 --> 01:49:56,559
Speaker 1: these are high school sweethearts, ladies, gentlemen seven years deep

2231
01:49:57,040 --> 01:50:00,280
Speaker 1: in their relationship, and the parents yep, yeah, yeah, yeah,

2232
01:50:00,360 --> 01:50:04,040
Speaker 1: yeah exactly. That's that terrible. We have experienced each other's

2233
01:50:04,120 --> 01:50:06,400
Speaker 1: highest and lowest moments. And also, real quick just to comment,

2234
01:50:06,920 --> 01:50:09,240
Speaker 1: if they're doing this with a high school sweetheart, they

2235
01:50:09,280 --> 01:50:12,280
Speaker 1: spent seven years together, They've grown up together. Literally for

2236
01:50:12,400 --> 01:50:15,719
Speaker 1: a parent, the like dream setup scenario of like, wow,

2237
01:50:15,800 --> 01:50:18,599
Speaker 1: look out, what an amazing partner my person has found.

2238
01:50:19,120 --> 01:50:22,760
Speaker 1: They will never let Opie's partner live in peace. Oh hey,

2239
01:50:22,920 --> 01:50:26,599
Speaker 1: they will like this is probably the lightest they would

2240
01:50:26,600 --> 01:50:28,519
Speaker 1: go on a partner, so they would go way harder

2241
01:50:28,560 --> 01:50:30,160
Speaker 1: on someone. It's like, oh, you've only did it for

2242
01:50:30,200 --> 01:50:30,719
Speaker 1: three years.

2243
01:50:30,800 --> 01:50:32,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god, you're gonna burn it hell,

2244
01:50:32,960 --> 01:50:33,519
Speaker 2: oh my god.

2245
01:50:33,920 --> 01:50:39,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have experienced each other's highest and lowest moments.

2246
01:50:39,479 --> 01:50:42,479
Speaker 1: I'm glad to have a partner I can openly communicate with.

2247
01:50:43,080 --> 01:50:45,240
Speaker 2: I can't wait to marry him.

2248
01:50:50,200 --> 01:50:54,599
Speaker 1: Enough said. That was beautiful, going to contact big boys.

2249
01:50:56,080 --> 01:51:00,799
Speaker 1: The arc of Sam, that big old arc, round character curving,

2250
01:51:02,040 --> 01:51:03,439
Speaker 1: that was that was that was huge.

2251
01:51:03,479 --> 01:51:04,400
Speaker 3: That was so big.

2252
01:51:04,520 --> 01:51:06,120
Speaker 2: He grew, he grew, he grew.

2253
01:51:06,200 --> 01:51:09,840
Speaker 3: I would if he didn't grow at all. We're glad

2254
01:51:09,880 --> 01:51:11,400
Speaker 3: he's a grower. And he showed it.

2255
01:51:11,479 --> 01:51:13,799
Speaker 2: He showed it. He showed it, gentlemen.

2256
01:51:14,400 --> 01:51:15,880
Speaker 3: If he didn't do that, I would have been so

2257
01:51:16,040 --> 01:51:18,040
Speaker 3: scared for what their marriage was going to be coming.

2258
01:51:17,840 --> 01:51:20,040
Speaker 1: On, exactly, because you never know what could happen if

2259
01:51:20,120 --> 01:51:22,519
Speaker 1: if you don't grow like that exactly. Yeah, but he did.

2260
01:51:22,800 --> 01:51:24,160
Speaker 2: But he did. That was great.

2261
01:51:24,400 --> 01:51:27,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. Yeah, I absolutely love that.

2262
01:51:27,080 --> 01:51:27,439
Speaker 1: Awesome.

2263
01:51:28,560 --> 01:51:31,800
Speaker 3: Here we are, here, we are at another thirty Uh

2264
01:51:31,840 --> 01:51:33,720
Speaker 3: you want to read knock out these donuts? Let's do

2265
01:51:33,800 --> 01:51:36,160
Speaker 3: it and I can pull up the next sir, Amanda.

2266
01:51:35,880 --> 01:51:39,479
Speaker 1: Rose, thanks for the twenty five bucker. Rooneyes Angie, thanks

2267
01:51:39,479 --> 01:51:43,280
Speaker 1: for the twenty five bucks. I'm tired, talk till I sleep, please?

2268
01:51:44,640 --> 01:51:46,040
Speaker 2: Sure you got him?

2269
01:51:46,200 --> 01:51:48,400
Speaker 1: You got it, Amanda Rose, thanks for twenty five bucks.

2270
01:51:48,439 --> 01:51:50,120
Speaker 1: Already showed that out and I.

2271
01:51:50,080 --> 01:51:52,519
Speaker 2: Think we did. Yes, I'm going to refresh it. Just

2272
01:51:52,840 --> 01:51:56,479
Speaker 2: it really it? Yeah, yeah, nope, Okay, can you see that, John.

2273
01:51:56,520 --> 01:51:57,160
Speaker 1: Yes, I can.

2274
01:51:57,439 --> 01:51:59,400
Speaker 2: Okay, let me pull it down for you. Actually give

2275
01:51:59,439 --> 01:52:01,320
Speaker 2: me gus what that's where they all came from.

2276
01:52:01,400 --> 01:52:04,360
Speaker 1: A little. Yeah, okay, give me some. Plus he's on there.

2277
01:52:04,920 --> 01:52:06,479
Speaker 2: I can read them. Go for it.

2278
01:52:07,000 --> 01:52:11,160
Speaker 3: Uh, Amber Loggins, thanks for the twenty bucks. Wow, Amy,

2279
01:52:11,200 --> 01:52:15,080
Speaker 3: thank you for the nice cool sticker of a sheba

2280
01:52:15,280 --> 01:52:19,280
Speaker 3: sheiba with a samurai outfit, holding and hugging a trophy thing.

2281
01:52:19,439 --> 01:52:23,080
Speaker 1: Also his little samurai. He has bones on.

2282
01:52:23,080 --> 01:52:25,960
Speaker 3: It, so yeah, bones on it. It's adorable. Tina AM,

2283
01:52:26,000 --> 01:52:30,000
Speaker 3: thanks for the five and twenty gifted membership.

2284
01:52:30,040 --> 01:52:32,760
Speaker 1: That's twenty five gifted membership. Please, in gentlemen, if you are.

2285
01:52:32,640 --> 01:52:35,360
Speaker 3: A new family member, please tell Tina M thank you

2286
01:52:36,040 --> 01:52:37,600
Speaker 3: and wow, welcome.

2287
01:52:37,560 --> 01:52:41,000
Speaker 1: You remember the Douggar family. That's the Dugger family added

2288
01:52:41,000 --> 01:52:41,840
Speaker 1: to our family or just.

2289
01:52:41,760 --> 01:52:43,639
Speaker 3: Now do you know because okay, do you know about

2290
01:52:43,640 --> 01:52:44,559
Speaker 3: the Dougger family? Now?

2291
01:52:45,280 --> 01:52:48,400
Speaker 1: Oh, I know that they My mom was giving me

2292
01:52:48,439 --> 01:52:50,840
Speaker 1: the tea while they were all falling apart. I don't

2293
01:52:50,880 --> 01:52:52,960
Speaker 1: know because this is like posts aftermathadic. I don't know

2294
01:52:52,960 --> 01:52:54,920
Speaker 1: where they're at today. But like they did it. They

2295
01:52:55,000 --> 01:52:58,720
Speaker 1: dropped a documentary on it. Wow, it's actually pretty far.

2296
01:52:59,760 --> 01:53:00,800
Speaker 1: Wow it's pretty fire.

2297
01:53:00,960 --> 01:53:01,799
Speaker 2: Yeah that's crazy.

2298
01:53:01,880 --> 01:53:05,439
Speaker 3: Yeah basically yeah, it's a whole thing. It's a six

2299
01:53:05,520 --> 01:53:10,599
Speaker 3: episode phenomenal watch. So depressed thanks for the ten bucks,

2300
01:53:10,600 --> 01:53:13,280
Speaker 3: with the Shiba saying thank you, thank you, thank you,

2301
01:53:13,320 --> 01:53:16,120
Speaker 3: waving his head around. Oh cute. And then if you

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01:53:16,160 --> 01:53:17,360
Speaker 3: want to scroll, did we read that one?

2303
01:53:17,680 --> 01:53:18,080
Speaker 2: We did?

2304
01:53:18,200 --> 01:53:21,160
Speaker 3: Okay, awesome and Rosin b thanks for the ten bucks.

2305
01:53:21,240 --> 01:53:22,160
Speaker 2: Don't leave us yet.

2306
01:53:22,479 --> 01:53:25,320
Speaker 3: Well, guess what. We're here for another twenty five and

2307
01:53:25,320 --> 01:53:27,840
Speaker 3: you're getting reading rally right now. There we go, Yeah,

2308
01:53:27,960 --> 01:53:31,600
Speaker 3: reading rally. Fun. Fact. The more caffeine you feed me,

2309
01:53:31,720 --> 01:53:33,400
Speaker 3: the less dyslexic I am.

2310
01:53:33,760 --> 01:53:35,160
Speaker 1: Dude, key feeding him.

2311
01:53:35,160 --> 01:53:39,719
Speaker 2: Guys, somebody get this man one thousand milligrams stat right now. John.

2312
01:53:40,080 --> 01:53:41,839
Speaker 3: There is a way for me to get more caffeine.

2313
01:53:41,880 --> 01:53:45,240
Speaker 3: But John will not let me buy the Celsius or

2314
01:53:45,280 --> 01:53:47,080
Speaker 3: the cels with two and seventy.

2315
01:53:47,479 --> 01:53:51,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, the two seventy go go juice is it's that's go,

2316
01:53:51,800 --> 01:53:54,000
Speaker 1: go go juice. That's too much go. There's too much

2317
01:53:54,040 --> 01:53:56,200
Speaker 1: go in. There's too much going.

2318
01:53:56,640 --> 01:53:56,880
Speaker 2: Dude.

2319
01:53:56,880 --> 01:54:00,400
Speaker 1: It's two hundred is already like, was insane to me

2320
01:54:00,439 --> 01:54:03,360
Speaker 1: before I started drinking it. Now it's amazing. But two

2321
01:54:03,479 --> 01:54:06,920
Speaker 1: seventy I'm like, we can't. We can't go a molecule

2322
01:54:06,960 --> 01:54:08,000
Speaker 1: above where we're at right now.

2323
01:54:08,080 --> 01:54:10,439
Speaker 3: Dude, I used to do three hundred today around fifty.

2324
01:54:10,680 --> 01:54:13,959
Speaker 2: Brother, I was working out a lot, okay still.

2325
01:54:13,800 --> 01:54:15,360
Speaker 3: And I drink a lot of water, so it's fine.

2326
01:54:15,720 --> 01:54:20,479
Speaker 3: I'm fine, guys. Anyways, I'm right.

2327
01:54:21,720 --> 01:54:25,439
Speaker 2: I got, uh Riley, Oh wait, we got.

2328
01:54:25,560 --> 01:54:27,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fan myself with the spanks.

2329
01:54:27,720 --> 01:54:29,439
Speaker 3: Could you turn on the AC?

2330
01:54:30,280 --> 01:54:31,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, true, yeah, that would be great.

2331
01:54:31,960 --> 01:54:36,320
Speaker 3: And then Harriet Spaghetti, I request reproductive health trivia to

2332
01:54:36,480 --> 01:54:42,600
Speaker 3: test Riley reproductive health Uh trivia, yes, always raw dog.

2333
01:54:44,400 --> 01:54:47,520
Speaker 3: That's healthy for everyone, no latex involved, and it's great

2334
01:54:47,560 --> 01:54:47,960
Speaker 3: for the guy.

2335
01:54:49,960 --> 01:54:51,640
Speaker 2: And if you want kids, it's even better.

2336
01:54:51,880 --> 01:54:57,400
Speaker 1: Dude, I'm literally dead. Riley's reproductive healthy trivia just raw dog.

2337
01:54:57,480 --> 01:55:00,000
Speaker 1: That's that's always the wait till marriage in raw Dog.

2338
01:55:00,160 --> 01:55:05,400
Speaker 1: Riley's growing up. Yeah yeah, Riley, Riley just getting straight

2339
01:55:05,440 --> 01:55:08,360
Speaker 1: in verse. He went from abstinence just always raw dog.

2340
01:55:09,120 --> 01:55:11,600
Speaker 2: Look at this guy. When you're married?

2341
01:55:13,240 --> 01:55:16,680
Speaker 1: Important as important risks?

2342
01:55:17,360 --> 01:55:20,920
Speaker 2: Oh man, Riley? You did you? Did you?

2343
01:55:20,960 --> 01:55:23,240
Speaker 3: Did you? I don't hear the fan? You know's worked

2344
01:55:23,240 --> 01:55:23,560
Speaker 3: the AC.

2345
01:55:23,760 --> 01:55:25,880
Speaker 2: I just turned it, you said, pushed out down on

2346
01:55:25,880 --> 01:55:27,760
Speaker 2: the buttons. And that's that's all you do until it

2347
01:55:27,760 --> 01:55:29,879
Speaker 2: goes below, until it goes below. And I did.

2348
01:55:34,160 --> 01:55:37,000
Speaker 3: Is it do you know how to do it? Mm hmm,

2349
01:55:37,440 --> 01:55:41,280
Speaker 3: I don't know if you can show him ZIGGI no, Riley,

2350
01:55:41,520 --> 01:55:44,960
Speaker 3: Well that's that's what my people told me. Riley, I know.

2351
01:55:45,280 --> 01:55:50,440
Speaker 3: Someone Please clip them dancing and saying thank you, miss protein. Okay, wait,

2352
01:55:50,520 --> 01:55:52,880
Speaker 3: clip them dancing and saying thank you. Oh yeah, because

2353
01:55:52,920 --> 01:55:54,960
Speaker 3: we read a sticker and I love you by the way,

2354
01:55:55,360 --> 01:55:56,000
Speaker 3: miss protein.

2355
01:55:59,000 --> 01:56:01,480
Speaker 2: Uh, Cheryl, Cheryl.

2356
01:56:01,600 --> 01:56:04,160
Speaker 3: Does anyone remember the squirrel from Over the Hedge? He

2357
01:56:04,320 --> 01:56:06,400
Speaker 3: is always very fast, but when they give him a

2358
01:56:06,440 --> 01:56:09,520
Speaker 3: caffeinated drink, he enters slow motion in his mind, but

2359
01:56:09,720 --> 01:56:17,200
Speaker 3: becomes more basic spastic. Yes, that is I know that

2360
01:56:17,240 --> 01:56:19,080
Speaker 3: what you're talking about. I also played Over the Hedge

2361
01:56:19,680 --> 01:56:23,400
Speaker 3: video game whenever I experienced my first earthquake while my

2362
01:56:23,440 --> 01:56:24,200
Speaker 3: mother was not at home.

2363
01:56:25,400 --> 01:56:28,800
Speaker 2: Hammy, Hammy, let's go.

2364
01:56:29,160 --> 01:56:30,000
Speaker 3: I love you, Hammy.

2365
01:56:35,960 --> 01:56:40,400
Speaker 2: Does Riley looks like Hammy from over the Head? Look

2366
01:56:40,480 --> 01:56:43,960
Speaker 2: like that? You would make a great handy. Oh no,

2367
01:56:44,040 --> 01:56:48,800
Speaker 2: are we doing Over the Hedge next year? Allright? We

2368
01:56:48,800 --> 01:56:50,600
Speaker 2: go rather, I want to be a raccoon. We're going

2369
01:56:50,640 --> 01:56:54,520
Speaker 2: to read you are doing my boyfriend's stepmother? All right?

2370
01:56:55,440 --> 01:56:59,080
Speaker 3: My boyfriend's step mother keeps bad mouthing me, so I

2371
01:56:59,240 --> 01:56:59,720
Speaker 3: just ignore.

2372
01:57:01,160 --> 01:57:02,680
Speaker 2: Huh what was that?

2373
01:57:03,920 --> 01:57:04,600
Speaker 1: I didn't hear anything.

2374
01:57:05,760 --> 01:57:08,160
Speaker 3: Sorry if this turns out longer than intended, just need

2375
01:57:08,200 --> 01:57:10,680
Speaker 3: to get this off my chest and get some feedback.

2376
01:57:11,240 --> 01:57:14,600
Speaker 3: I twenty three female met my twenty one male BF

2377
01:57:14,640 --> 01:57:18,120
Speaker 3: in November last year, and we started dating right before Christmas.

2378
01:57:18,720 --> 01:57:21,320
Speaker 3: We had just met online on a dating app and

2379
01:57:21,360 --> 01:57:24,160
Speaker 3: we clicked and hit it off right away and went

2380
01:57:24,200 --> 01:57:26,800
Speaker 3: on our first date after about three weeks of talking.

2381
01:57:27,240 --> 01:57:29,840
Speaker 3: Needless to say, we had a great time and have

2382
01:57:29,960 --> 01:57:35,160
Speaker 3: been on multiple dates since. Oh by the way, this

2383
01:57:35,240 --> 01:57:40,440
Speaker 3: comes from Raven Bear zero on the Arslash Okay storytime subredding. So, however,

2384
01:57:40,760 --> 01:57:44,400
Speaker 3: he had come and met However, he had come and

2385
01:57:44,480 --> 01:57:47,600
Speaker 3: met pretty much my whole family. To this day, he

2386
01:57:47,680 --> 01:57:50,960
Speaker 3: has not met He has not only met three of

2387
01:57:50,960 --> 01:57:55,520
Speaker 3: my siblings because of distance. However, when we tried setting

2388
01:57:55,600 --> 01:57:59,880
Speaker 3: up to meet his family, his stepmother wanted absolutely nothing

2389
01:58:00,080 --> 01:58:03,600
Speaker 3: to do with me and started saying things like, I'm

2390
01:58:03,640 --> 01:58:07,040
Speaker 3: not meeting some random freaking person you met off the

2391
01:58:07,160 --> 01:58:12,440
Speaker 3: interwebs that you barely know. It's been two weeks. I

2392
01:58:12,440 --> 01:58:15,080
Speaker 3: don't want anything to do with your little or.

2393
01:58:20,640 --> 01:58:20,720
Speaker 2: No.

2394
01:58:21,080 --> 01:58:23,640
Speaker 3: Keep in mind, at this point we have been together

2395
01:58:23,680 --> 01:58:25,960
Speaker 3: for a little over four months now, and I had

2396
01:58:26,000 --> 01:58:29,160
Speaker 3: never spoken to her at this point. For her to

2397
01:58:29,240 --> 01:58:33,040
Speaker 3: be saying things like that about me, sometime had passed,

2398
01:58:33,400 --> 01:58:37,000
Speaker 3: and sometime had passed, And it was about a month

2399
01:58:37,040 --> 01:58:39,320
Speaker 3: before we moved in together, and I was on the

2400
01:58:39,320 --> 01:58:42,120
Speaker 3: phone with him as he just got as he just

2401
01:58:42,200 --> 01:58:44,760
Speaker 3: left my place and went back to theirs for work

2402
01:58:45,000 --> 01:58:49,280
Speaker 3: the next day, and she chuckled the biggest befit about

2403
01:58:49,360 --> 01:58:53,080
Speaker 3: what time he had gotten home. It was six pm

2404
01:58:53,400 --> 01:58:56,440
Speaker 3: he had gotten It was six pm he had got home,

2405
01:58:56,640 --> 01:58:58,920
Speaker 3: and it was a two hour drive from where I was,

2406
01:58:59,240 --> 01:59:01,920
Speaker 3: and he got stuck in traffic. He goes to bed

2407
01:59:01,960 --> 01:59:03,880
Speaker 3: at a PM to get up for work at two

2408
01:59:04,000 --> 01:59:06,960
Speaker 3: a m. So we had plenty of time before then.

2409
01:59:07,320 --> 01:59:10,800
Speaker 3: But that wasn't good enough, and she proceeded to call me.

2410
01:59:11,000 --> 01:59:13,320
Speaker 2: A crap girlfriend.

2411
01:59:16,480 --> 01:59:20,200
Speaker 3: Because I didn't make him leave sooner, fully knowing I

2412
01:59:20,320 --> 01:59:23,160
Speaker 3: was on the phone and actively saying to saying it,

2413
01:59:23,840 --> 01:59:28,120
Speaker 3: saying it to me. I'm already extremely insecure about not

2414
01:59:28,240 --> 01:59:31,000
Speaker 3: being good enough for my boyfriend at this point, so

2415
01:59:31,080 --> 01:59:33,440
Speaker 3: I made so it made me feel worse and I

2416
01:59:33,640 --> 01:59:34,960
Speaker 3: ended up crying over it.

2417
01:59:36,960 --> 01:59:41,160
Speaker 2: That's not good, You're good, op, don't listen to it.

2418
01:59:42,520 --> 01:59:46,600
Speaker 1: Dude, this mom, this mom, dude, step mom. Get to Yeah,

2419
01:59:46,680 --> 01:59:50,200
Speaker 1: step away, step away from me, step away from my boyfriend.

2420
01:59:50,320 --> 01:59:54,400
Speaker 1: Just just let's go. Let's turn it from step mom

2421
01:59:54,440 --> 01:59:57,680
Speaker 1: to run mom. You run away and never return, never

2422
01:59:58,280 --> 02:00:00,480
Speaker 1: miking futatch movies.

2423
02:00:00,760 --> 02:00:03,960
Speaker 3: Yeah you do, proud of this game. Skip to when

2424
02:00:03,960 --> 02:00:06,440
Speaker 3: we are moving in. I was in the car with

2425
02:00:06,520 --> 02:00:09,320
Speaker 3: him going to get some stuff from his dad and

2426
02:00:09,400 --> 02:00:12,160
Speaker 3: stepmother's house. His dad and brother came and talked to

2427
02:00:12,200 --> 02:00:14,360
Speaker 3: me while we put his stuff in the car. His

2428
02:00:14,440 --> 02:00:17,120
Speaker 3: dad then goes inside and tells the stepmother that we

2429
02:00:17,160 --> 02:00:21,240
Speaker 3: are there, and I hear and I hear get snapped,

2430
02:00:21,280 --> 02:00:23,520
Speaker 3: and I hear her get snappy with the dad, calling

2431
02:00:23,600 --> 02:00:29,760
Speaker 3: him a fing wiener head for not telling her sooner.

2432
02:00:29,920 --> 02:00:33,120
Speaker 3: When she came out and started talking to my boyfriend, then,

2433
02:00:33,240 --> 02:00:37,400
Speaker 3: with the fakest smile I've ever seen, introduced herself to me.

2434
02:00:38,240 --> 02:00:40,320
Speaker 3: I kind of just looked at her up and down,

2435
02:00:40,600 --> 02:00:43,680
Speaker 3: said nothing, and turned to my BF and asked what

2436
02:00:43,880 --> 02:00:46,920
Speaker 3: other stuff he needed to grab. She kept trying to

2437
02:00:46,960 --> 02:00:50,080
Speaker 3: talk to me, but about But after seven months of

2438
02:00:50,080 --> 02:00:53,240
Speaker 3: her doing nothing but talking bad about me and disrespecting

2439
02:00:53,280 --> 02:00:55,960
Speaker 3: me for no reason, I had wanted nothing to do

2440
02:00:56,040 --> 02:00:58,839
Speaker 3: with her, so I said nothing and kept packing my stuff.

2441
02:00:59,520 --> 02:01:04,919
Speaker 1: As you said, Yeah, that's very very very very dicey territory.

2442
02:01:04,960 --> 02:01:08,560
Speaker 1: I would be terrified. Yeah, I'd be terrified. I'd be crazy.

2443
02:01:08,800 --> 02:01:11,200
Speaker 3: Later, my mom told me I was being rude and

2444
02:01:11,320 --> 02:01:13,560
Speaker 3: an a hole for that. My mother has never met

2445
02:01:13,600 --> 02:01:17,040
Speaker 3: stepmother before, but seemed to like to take her side

2446
02:01:17,200 --> 02:01:21,080
Speaker 3: all the time. About a month after, boyfriend's brother came

2447
02:01:21,120 --> 02:01:23,320
Speaker 3: to the house to help me with something, and when

2448
02:01:23,360 --> 02:01:25,880
Speaker 3: he left, I told him to say hello to his

2449
02:01:25,960 --> 02:01:28,640
Speaker 3: dad for me. He did, and later I got a

2450
02:01:28,680 --> 02:01:31,200
Speaker 3: text saying that I am a rude, stuck up b

2451
02:01:31,600 --> 02:01:35,560
Speaker 3: and an a whole for how I'm treating stepmother. I'm

2452
02:01:35,600 --> 02:01:37,520
Speaker 3: not trying to be an a hole to her. I

2453
02:01:37,640 --> 02:01:39,880
Speaker 3: just don't want anything to do with her. And I

2454
02:01:39,960 --> 02:01:43,000
Speaker 3: should also note that my boyfriend and stepmother don't have

2455
02:01:43,120 --> 02:01:46,440
Speaker 3: a good relationship either. They both hate each other. So

2456
02:01:46,600 --> 02:01:49,280
Speaker 3: am I the a hole for ignoring stepmother? And if so,

2457
02:01:49,600 --> 02:01:52,760
Speaker 3: how should I go about the situation Personally? I just

2458
02:01:52,800 --> 02:01:54,800
Speaker 3: don't want to deal with anything. And I was raised

2459
02:01:54,840 --> 02:01:57,200
Speaker 3: by if you have nothing nice to say, don't say

2460
02:01:57,240 --> 02:01:59,480
Speaker 3: it at all. And I'm sure if I was going

2461
02:01:59,520 --> 02:02:01,120
Speaker 3: to say something thing I would be an a hole

2462
02:02:01,160 --> 02:02:04,800
Speaker 3: at that point. Uh. One more thing. I should also

2463
02:02:04,920 --> 02:02:07,960
Speaker 3: add that that through all of this, my boyfriend did

2464
02:02:08,000 --> 02:02:10,120
Speaker 3: stand up for me and told her not to speak

2465
02:02:10,120 --> 02:02:12,880
Speaker 3: about me in the way she was, as she didn't

2466
02:02:12,920 --> 02:02:15,880
Speaker 3: know me and so she had no right, which made

2467
02:02:15,920 --> 02:02:18,560
Speaker 3: me feel a little bit better. We have an update.

2468
02:02:18,680 --> 02:02:19,960
Speaker 2: Okay, what are we doing?

2469
02:02:20,040 --> 02:02:20,280
Speaker 3: John?

2470
02:02:20,720 --> 02:02:23,440
Speaker 2: What the heck? Why are we Why are we talking? Crap?

2471
02:02:23,680 --> 02:02:24,560
Speaker 1: I hate the step mom.

2472
02:02:24,720 --> 02:02:31,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, the fact that they have a bad relationship already. Yeah, Yeah,

2473
02:02:31,240 --> 02:02:32,160
Speaker 2: that's the question. I think.

2474
02:02:32,240 --> 02:02:35,400
Speaker 1: Maybe it's like, is it maybe like you sit down

2475
02:02:35,400 --> 02:02:37,760
Speaker 1: with the boyfriend and like, okay, just to get on

2476
02:02:37,760 --> 02:02:38,480
Speaker 1: the same page.

2477
02:02:38,680 --> 02:02:40,280
Speaker 2: You like, you have a.

2478
02:02:40,320 --> 02:02:43,240
Speaker 1: Terrible sorry for really you have a terrible relationship. You

2479
02:02:43,240 --> 02:02:45,400
Speaker 1: don't really want to like stay in a like a

2480
02:02:45,440 --> 02:02:47,920
Speaker 1: in a close relationship. Could we kind of have just

2481
02:02:47,960 --> 02:02:51,600
Speaker 1: like a low contact or just communicate or interact as

2482
02:02:51,640 --> 02:02:54,440
Speaker 1: much as barely necessary, or even go to contact if

2483
02:02:54,480 --> 02:02:55,840
Speaker 1: you want to. You know, it's up to you. It's

2484
02:02:55,840 --> 02:02:59,120
Speaker 1: your step mom, and then just move forward with it,

2485
02:02:59,200 --> 02:03:02,040
Speaker 1: like that's kind of what I'm feeling like, And then

2486
02:03:02,160 --> 02:03:09,360
Speaker 1: maybe have the boyfriend communicate like, hey, you've already terrible

2487
02:03:09,400 --> 02:03:09,560
Speaker 1: to me.

2488
02:03:09,720 --> 02:03:10,600
Speaker 2: You already suck.

2489
02:03:10,800 --> 02:03:12,880
Speaker 1: Now you're like trying to ruin this relationship which is

2490
02:03:12,920 --> 02:03:15,800
Speaker 1: going really great for me. I'm just not gonna interact

2491
02:03:15,840 --> 02:03:17,840
Speaker 1: with you. Although it seems like it leaves lives at

2492
02:03:17,840 --> 02:03:19,200
Speaker 1: home still, well he's moved.

2493
02:03:19,200 --> 02:03:21,600
Speaker 3: They're moving in together now, so soon they won't he

2494
02:03:21,640 --> 02:03:24,400
Speaker 3: won't have to live there. I I would say, go

2495
02:03:24,440 --> 02:03:27,800
Speaker 3: no contact with the mother, the stepmother. The only thing

2496
02:03:27,840 --> 02:03:30,840
Speaker 3: that I am like worried about is like the dad

2497
02:03:30,880 --> 02:03:34,920
Speaker 3: and brother making sure that's a good thing. Also, we

2498
02:03:34,920 --> 02:03:36,960
Speaker 3: weren't clear in the story if we got a text

2499
02:03:37,000 --> 02:03:39,640
Speaker 3: from the mother in law specifically being called an a whole,

2500
02:03:40,000 --> 02:03:43,440
Speaker 3: or if it was someone else calling Op the a

2501
02:03:44,080 --> 02:03:46,880
Speaker 3: from like was it the brother that texted Ope saying

2502
02:03:46,880 --> 02:03:49,320
Speaker 3: that she was a hole from the step mom right right?

2503
02:03:49,360 --> 02:03:51,120
Speaker 1: I'm not really sure, or she got it directly from ye,

2504
02:03:51,200 --> 02:03:53,200
Speaker 1: but it was something like oh everyone else is thinking

2505
02:03:53,240 --> 02:03:55,160
Speaker 1: like that I overstep my boundaries.

2506
02:03:54,800 --> 02:03:57,560
Speaker 2: Or yeah the mother, oh her mom, yeah, her own mother.

2507
02:03:57,640 --> 02:03:59,400
Speaker 3: It's like taking side with the step mom.

2508
02:04:00,480 --> 02:04:04,080
Speaker 1: What is this forget this mom to mom bond you know,

2509
02:04:06,200 --> 02:04:11,360
Speaker 1: bond yeah, like yeah, oh yeah, god? Birth.

2510
02:04:11,600 --> 02:04:12,520
Speaker 3: Can we not at least.

2511
02:04:12,480 --> 02:04:17,840
Speaker 2: Vibe we can't have vibes I birth. Do you know

2512
02:04:17,960 --> 02:04:18,560
Speaker 2: I hate you?

2513
02:04:18,800 --> 02:04:24,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you did this to me, but yeah I think Uh.

2514
02:04:27,160 --> 02:04:27,680
Speaker 3: No contact.

2515
02:04:27,840 --> 02:04:28,760
Speaker 1: Let no contact.

2516
02:04:29,520 --> 02:04:29,840
Speaker 2: Update.

2517
02:04:30,680 --> 02:04:33,240
Speaker 3: So it's been about three months since my post, and

2518
02:04:33,360 --> 02:04:34,920
Speaker 3: some things have happened.

2519
02:04:34,600 --> 02:04:36,000
Speaker 1: Oh somethings.

2520
02:04:36,240 --> 02:04:39,080
Speaker 3: Step mother called boyfriend and asked for us to come

2521
02:04:39,120 --> 02:04:42,160
Speaker 3: over for lunch about two weeks after my post. Apparently

2522
02:04:42,200 --> 02:04:44,480
Speaker 3: his dad was wanting everyone to try to get along,

2523
02:04:44,560 --> 02:04:47,680
Speaker 3: so Boyfriend agreed and I went along too, although I

2524
02:04:47,720 --> 02:04:51,040
Speaker 3: didn't want to. We also brought her puppy along because

2525
02:04:51,040 --> 02:04:53,040
Speaker 3: she's my therapy dog and I don't like to go

2526
02:04:53,120 --> 02:04:56,120
Speaker 3: anywhere without her. We got there and then the dad

2527
02:04:56,160 --> 02:04:58,320
Speaker 3: came out and greeted us, which was super nice, and

2528
02:04:58,360 --> 02:05:00,440
Speaker 3: he was happy to see my puppy, and we decided

2529
02:05:00,520 --> 02:05:03,640
Speaker 3: to let her offer a bit and play. It wasn't

2530
02:05:03,680 --> 02:05:07,520
Speaker 3: going too badly, even though the dad and stepmother only

2531
02:05:07,600 --> 02:05:10,160
Speaker 3: really talked to boyfriend and kind of ignored me. It

2532
02:05:10,320 --> 02:05:13,960
Speaker 3: kind of ignored the fact that I was there, even

2533
02:05:14,160 --> 02:05:17,480
Speaker 3: that I was even there, so it was a little uncomfortable. However,

2534
02:05:17,760 --> 02:05:21,320
Speaker 3: it wasn't too bad, as I usually keep to myself. Anyways,

2535
02:05:21,800 --> 02:05:24,400
Speaker 3: after lunch, stepmother asked me to help clean up, and

2536
02:05:24,440 --> 02:05:26,800
Speaker 3: I agreed, even though I didn't really want to be

2537
02:05:26,880 --> 02:05:29,760
Speaker 3: alone with her, and for good reason. As soon as

2538
02:05:29,800 --> 02:05:32,840
Speaker 3: she shut the door, she kept asking me if boyfriend

2539
02:05:32,920 --> 02:05:36,120
Speaker 3: was was doing bad things to me or even being

2540
02:05:36,120 --> 02:05:40,920
Speaker 3: aggressive towards me, because that's just how he is. But

2541
02:05:41,320 --> 02:05:44,120
Speaker 3: I was super confused and told her, no, he isn't

2542
02:05:44,200 --> 02:05:46,800
Speaker 3: like that at all. If he gets upset if he

2543
02:05:46,960 --> 02:05:49,720
Speaker 3: even steps on my toe, So I don't he gets

2544
02:05:49,760 --> 02:05:51,680
Speaker 3: upset even if he steps on my toe, So I

2545
02:05:51,720 --> 02:05:55,240
Speaker 3: don't know why you think that, And she kept trying

2546
02:05:55,280 --> 02:05:58,360
Speaker 3: to get me to say that he's not a good

2547
02:05:58,400 --> 02:06:01,840
Speaker 3: person and that I shouldn't be with someone like that.

2548
02:06:02,160 --> 02:06:04,880
Speaker 3: At this point, I was kind of getting irritated and

2549
02:06:04,920 --> 02:06:08,240
Speaker 3: told her to mind her own business and that everything

2550
02:06:08,280 --> 02:06:11,600
Speaker 3: she's saying is BS, and I don't mind. I don't

2551
02:06:11,640 --> 02:06:15,800
Speaker 3: appreciate her trying to put doubt in my mind, and

2552
02:06:15,880 --> 02:06:19,640
Speaker 3: that whatever she's doing to do, she can stop because

2553
02:06:19,800 --> 02:06:22,880
Speaker 3: I'm not buying it, and walked out of the house.

2554
02:06:23,160 --> 02:06:25,480
Speaker 3: And about ten minutes later, we think the dad and

2555
02:06:25,680 --> 02:06:29,480
Speaker 3: left think the dad for and walked out of the house.

2556
02:06:29,760 --> 02:06:32,200
Speaker 3: About ten minutes later, we thanked the dad for lunch

2557
02:06:32,440 --> 02:06:37,360
Speaker 3: and left. What the heck. I think she's just doing

2558
02:06:37,360 --> 02:06:40,200
Speaker 3: anything she can of get them to break up. She's

2559
02:06:40,280 --> 02:06:41,800
Speaker 3: trying to pull the strings behindhand.

2560
02:06:42,040 --> 02:06:45,680
Speaker 1: What hold on, I might have to cook?

2561
02:06:45,840 --> 02:06:47,560
Speaker 3: Oh oh, conspiracy, let him cook?

2562
02:06:47,600 --> 02:06:48,400
Speaker 1: Conspiracy theory.

2563
02:06:48,480 --> 02:06:50,240
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, what you got? What you got?

2564
02:06:50,400 --> 02:06:58,560
Speaker 1: We have an actual true blue step mom. She the

2565
02:06:58,600 --> 02:06:59,080
Speaker 1: step mom.

2566
02:07:00,200 --> 02:07:04,200
Speaker 2: Stay with me, Stay with me, Riley with you. We

2567
02:07:04,240 --> 02:07:05,160
Speaker 2: have a true blue.

2568
02:07:04,920 --> 02:07:10,040
Speaker 1: Step mom here right. The step mom gets stuck it

2569
02:07:10,080 --> 02:07:11,040
Speaker 1: in a washing machine.

2570
02:07:12,040 --> 02:07:15,320
Speaker 2: Wait wait, wait, wait, and you're a cooking stay with me?

2571
02:07:15,360 --> 02:07:16,920
Speaker 2: Are you with me? I thought you were a cooking brother.

2572
02:07:17,160 --> 02:07:19,800
Speaker 1: I am cooking. She gets stuck in the washing machine.

2573
02:07:20,000 --> 02:07:26,080
Speaker 1: She can't get out, okay, and then the boyfriend unfortunately

2574
02:07:26,120 --> 02:07:26,879
Speaker 1: helps her out.

2575
02:07:26,760 --> 02:07:31,120
Speaker 3: Oh like actually gets her out of the washing machine.

2576
02:07:31,760 --> 02:07:34,320
Speaker 1: The other way, the other kind of help. The other

2577
02:07:34,360 --> 02:07:39,160
Speaker 1: kind of helps her out. So she is jealous. And

2578
02:07:39,240 --> 02:07:41,880
Speaker 1: once you're in the relationship, why is she going so crazy?

2579
02:07:41,920 --> 02:07:43,640
Speaker 1: Why is she going so crazy? Let me ask you that.

2580
02:07:43,960 --> 02:07:46,640
Speaker 1: Let me ask you that. Why would she be saying

2581
02:07:46,680 --> 02:07:49,400
Speaker 1: all these crazy things about him where he's like, uh,

2582
02:07:49,720 --> 02:07:51,640
Speaker 1: why are you saying all this stuff? It's crazy, It's

2583
02:07:51,720 --> 02:07:55,720
Speaker 1: not true at all, And uh, why do you want

2584
02:07:55,720 --> 02:07:56,400
Speaker 1: me to break up so.

2585
02:07:56,360 --> 02:07:59,000
Speaker 3: Bad because she wants it, because she wants it, she

2586
02:07:59,040 --> 02:08:02,520
Speaker 3: wants it real bad. Jenny Larson on Facebook conspiracy theory.

2587
02:08:02,720 --> 02:08:06,440
Speaker 3: She was recording and trying to get op to admit something.

2588
02:08:06,880 --> 02:08:09,240
Speaker 1: Which is crazy because like Opie's like, yeah, he literally

2589
02:08:09,280 --> 02:08:11,080
Speaker 1: is not like that at all.

2590
02:08:11,200 --> 02:08:12,680
Speaker 3: But if she did admit it, she could take it

2591
02:08:12,680 --> 02:08:14,960
Speaker 3: to the police and get them broken up through the state,

2592
02:08:15,240 --> 02:08:16,000
Speaker 3: through the law.

2593
02:08:16,720 --> 02:08:18,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe she's like, can I get her to say something?

2594
02:08:19,960 --> 02:08:21,000
Speaker 1: Can I get a sound bite?

2595
02:08:21,440 --> 02:08:23,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? You know, can I clip it? Can I clip

2596
02:08:23,920 --> 02:08:26,280
Speaker 2: it real quick? Put it on dick Talk?

2597
02:08:26,640 --> 02:08:31,400
Speaker 3: Oh my god, No, that's that's wild. I don't even

2598
02:08:31,440 --> 02:08:33,280
Speaker 3: know if I can get behind that. I can say

2599
02:08:33,280 --> 02:08:35,080
Speaker 3: that she'd want him, But I don't know if if

2600
02:08:35,160 --> 02:08:36,880
Speaker 3: the boyfriend helped out in that kind of way.

2601
02:08:38,280 --> 02:08:38,880
Speaker 2: Huh.

2602
02:08:38,920 --> 02:08:40,800
Speaker 1: Our first actual true step mom story.

2603
02:08:40,800 --> 02:08:42,840
Speaker 3: We'll say John's hoping.

2604
02:08:42,560 --> 02:08:45,520
Speaker 2: On it, John, John, What is the suit doing to you? Jonathan?

2605
02:08:46,160 --> 02:08:50,879
Speaker 2: You know exactly what it's doing, Jonathan, legally? What is it?

2606
02:08:50,880 --> 02:08:51,400
Speaker 1: It's John?

2607
02:08:52,120 --> 02:08:55,320
Speaker 2: Oh wow on my birth certificate is John? There's no

2608
02:08:56,040 --> 02:09:00,240
Speaker 2: no Johnny. No, Well, I'm gonna call you Johnny. She

2609
02:09:00,360 --> 02:09:06,640
Speaker 2: doesn't like that. Gosh, all right, all right, John but yeah,

2610
02:09:06,720 --> 02:09:13,120
Speaker 2: it's the suit. It's on our drive home. I told

2611
02:09:13,160 --> 02:09:16,560
Speaker 2: my boyfriend about what had happened and what she had said.

2612
02:09:16,920 --> 02:09:19,320
Speaker 2: He just kind of laughed and said she he heard

2613
02:09:19,680 --> 02:09:22,280
Speaker 2: and thought it was funny that she even tried to

2614
02:09:22,280 --> 02:09:25,040
Speaker 2: do that, and that he was happy and proud that

2615
02:09:25,040 --> 02:09:27,920
Speaker 2: I stood up for him and told her off. But

2616
02:09:28,880 --> 02:09:30,840
Speaker 2: we can tell you a lot of crazy stories. Every

2617
02:09:30,840 --> 02:09:33,880
Speaker 2: weekday at three pm PSC just tap her profile. Tap

2618
02:09:33,920 --> 02:09:38,120
Speaker 2: it easy? Is that like? Say it?

2619
02:09:38,200 --> 02:09:39,440
Speaker 1: Like you want to say it. I know you want

2620
02:09:39,440 --> 02:09:41,240
Speaker 1: to say it. Say you already get this the boyfriend.

2621
02:09:43,560 --> 02:09:46,160
Speaker 1: All I'm saying, just read the rest of the story.

2622
02:09:46,440 --> 02:09:48,400
Speaker 2: I like, I like how you said earlier when you

2623
02:09:48,560 --> 02:09:51,000
Speaker 2: said of the step moms in the washing machine. You're like,

2624
02:09:51,080 --> 02:09:52,640
Speaker 2: don't think the way you're gonna think. I'm like, oh,

2625
02:09:52,680 --> 02:09:53,640
Speaker 2: so he's gotta help her out.

2626
02:09:54,520 --> 02:09:56,080
Speaker 1: That he helped her out the other way.

2627
02:09:56,160 --> 02:09:57,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the best the way we were thinking.

2628
02:09:58,040 --> 02:10:04,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, any other points before we close.

2629
02:10:04,440 --> 02:10:06,480
Speaker 1: Up, No, let's see what I just stand by. I

2630
02:10:06,480 --> 02:10:08,360
Speaker 1: stand by what I said. All right, all right, let's

2631
02:10:08,360 --> 02:10:09,960
Speaker 1: see what we got. That's my only point.

2632
02:10:10,400 --> 02:10:13,880
Speaker 3: We never heard anything about it from them. However, now

2633
02:10:14,320 --> 02:10:17,360
Speaker 3: she's mad because I'm taking my boyfriend away for the

2634
02:10:17,400 --> 02:10:20,040
Speaker 3: whole weekend for his birthday that's coming up. And apparently

2635
02:10:20,520 --> 02:10:23,160
Speaker 3: I plan this just so she couldn't do something for

2636
02:10:23,200 --> 02:10:25,800
Speaker 3: his birthday, not that she'd ever done anything for him

2637
02:10:25,840 --> 02:10:29,160
Speaker 3: in the past. I told, I told that weekend that

2638
02:10:29,320 --> 02:10:32,800
Speaker 3: after his birthday we'd be here and she can do

2639
02:10:32,880 --> 02:10:36,920
Speaker 3: whatever she wants. Then it's it's the only weekend before

2640
02:10:36,960 --> 02:10:40,000
Speaker 3: his birthday that we're going to be gone. And now

2641
02:10:40,360 --> 02:10:43,960
Speaker 3: she's chuckling. She's chucking a fit over that, calling me

2642
02:10:44,000 --> 02:10:46,720
Speaker 3: all sorts of name and saying I just think she's

2643
02:10:46,760 --> 02:10:49,480
Speaker 3: a see you next Tuesday, and that she hates him

2644
02:10:49,760 --> 02:10:52,800
Speaker 3: and I shouldn't take him there because he'll hate it.

2645
02:10:53,880 --> 02:10:55,720
Speaker 2: She knows him.

2646
02:10:55,960 --> 02:10:56,720
Speaker 1: She doesn't want to share.

2647
02:10:57,960 --> 02:10:59,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like sharing is not caring.

2648
02:11:00,080 --> 02:11:01,160
Speaker 3: Jerry's not caring at all.

2649
02:11:01,240 --> 02:11:01,760
Speaker 2: I'm not.

2650
02:11:04,920 --> 02:11:07,960
Speaker 3: Really sure what to do in this situation. I still

2651
02:11:08,000 --> 02:11:11,280
Speaker 3: definitely plan on taking him and she doesn't know what

2652
02:11:11,800 --> 02:11:15,360
Speaker 3: we're doing, only where we're going. I plan on continuing

2653
02:11:15,400 --> 02:11:18,600
Speaker 3: to ignore her and I've blocked her. However, she keeps

2654
02:11:18,680 --> 02:11:23,000
Speaker 3: calling and messaging my boyfriend about everything, so his dad's phone.

2655
02:11:23,440 --> 02:11:26,000
Speaker 3: Everything off his dad's phone, so he doesn't want to

2656
02:11:26,040 --> 02:11:29,400
Speaker 3: block him, So what should we do. I'm hoping she'll

2657
02:11:29,480 --> 02:11:31,560
Speaker 3: just stop eventually, but I doubt it. Why is the

2658
02:11:31,640 --> 02:11:34,080
Speaker 3: dad not stepping up? Why is the dad not doing

2659
02:11:34,080 --> 02:11:34,560
Speaker 3: anything here?

2660
02:11:34,600 --> 02:11:37,400
Speaker 1: It's very weird that the dad's like super duper weird

2661
02:11:37,880 --> 02:11:40,640
Speaker 1: the dad, the brother, Like, why is everyone not like, hey,

2662
02:11:40,760 --> 02:11:44,720
Speaker 1: this is okay. You're kind of being a raging lunatic.

2663
02:11:45,280 --> 02:11:47,920
Speaker 2: Like can we They're all for it, I guess.

2664
02:11:48,480 --> 02:11:51,000
Speaker 1: I mean, the dad did marry the step mom, so

2665
02:11:51,080 --> 02:11:52,400
Speaker 1: that to me says something there.

2666
02:11:52,600 --> 02:11:54,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was super high, and he's like, I don't

2667
02:11:54,640 --> 02:11:57,160
Speaker 3: want to upset her because we won't have spicy sleep.

2668
02:11:57,280 --> 02:12:02,080
Speaker 1: Either that, and or he's like on board with her insanity,

2669
02:12:02,560 --> 02:12:04,000
Speaker 1: Like but he's always.

2670
02:12:04,000 --> 02:12:07,720
Speaker 3: He's always super nice. Though he's always been so nice.

2671
02:12:07,920 --> 02:12:10,440
Speaker 1: Didn't say there's the point where she was like, oh uh,

2672
02:12:11,040 --> 02:12:13,560
Speaker 1: the stepmom and dad pretty much ignored me the whole time,

2673
02:12:13,560 --> 02:12:14,640
Speaker 1: but oh for.

2674
02:12:14,600 --> 02:12:16,960
Speaker 3: A little bit. I think usually he goes out and

2675
02:12:17,000 --> 02:12:18,680
Speaker 3: like says, hey, I like your dog and that, and

2676
02:12:18,720 --> 02:12:21,520
Speaker 3: he was You're right, he's probably doing that to keep

2677
02:12:21,520 --> 02:12:22,440
Speaker 3: the peace with the step mother.

2678
02:12:22,840 --> 02:12:24,840
Speaker 1: I think what you said is right. She's like way

2679
02:12:24,840 --> 02:12:27,520
Speaker 1: out of his league. He's got like this trophy wife whatever,

2680
02:12:27,920 --> 02:12:31,960
Speaker 1: and he like absolutely so when she's not like, oh yeah,

2681
02:12:32,000 --> 02:12:36,960
Speaker 1: I like your dog, but then she's read, oh, I'm sorry, wife,

2682
02:12:36,960 --> 02:12:38,320
Speaker 1: I don't like the dog. I actually hate the dog.

2683
02:12:38,320 --> 02:12:39,320
Speaker 1: The dog's ugly. I hate it dog.

2684
02:12:39,320 --> 02:12:40,560
Speaker 3: I'm actually not gonna talk to you anymore.

2685
02:12:40,680 --> 02:12:43,600
Speaker 1: So anadorable goodbye. Yeah, that's why I think I still

2686
02:12:43,600 --> 02:12:44,760
Speaker 1: think my conspiracy theory is true.

2687
02:12:44,800 --> 02:12:47,520
Speaker 3: But we'll see. I'm gonna use a bathroom.

2688
02:12:47,400 --> 02:12:49,440
Speaker 1: Get out of here, Get out of here, and we

2689
02:12:49,440 --> 02:12:51,720
Speaker 1: have any Donoh, we got some donuts from Sin.

2690
02:12:52,800 --> 02:12:54,080
Speaker 2: Thanks for the twenty five bucks.

2691
02:12:54,120 --> 02:12:56,120
Speaker 1: You definitely did not sin by giving us a dono.

2692
02:12:56,360 --> 02:12:59,240
Speaker 1: You've done a great good on this earth, if you

2693
02:12:59,280 --> 02:13:01,560
Speaker 1: ask me, the most biased opinion of all.

2694
02:13:02,200 --> 02:13:03,160
Speaker 2: Thanks for a twenty five buck.

2695
02:13:03,200 --> 02:13:06,000
Speaker 1: Don't know on the timpling, no less, absolutely credible, And

2696
02:13:06,040 --> 02:13:09,480
Speaker 1: again Hannah with another twenty five don on a templink.

2697
02:13:09,600 --> 02:13:12,640
Speaker 1: I don't do this until I didn't do this until

2698
02:13:12,640 --> 02:13:17,000
Speaker 1: it was already passed. I didn't want to keep you hostage. Hannah.

2699
02:13:17,480 --> 02:13:18,120
Speaker 2: Appreciate that.

2700
02:13:18,400 --> 02:13:20,680
Speaker 1: Appreciate that. Yeah, hit that, hit that refresh. Let's see.

2701
02:13:20,720 --> 02:13:24,000
Speaker 2: I think I think we read that by j and gently. Oh, yeah,

2702
02:13:24,040 --> 02:13:24,600
Speaker 2: we read that.

2703
02:13:24,880 --> 02:13:31,080
Speaker 1: We got you the tube on the tube, I sure can, jem.

2704
02:13:31,240 --> 02:13:34,040
Speaker 1: Thanks for being a night for one month. Let's freaking

2705
02:13:34,200 --> 02:13:38,440
Speaker 1: go our little daggers. Uh that's already spaghetti. We already

2706
02:13:38,440 --> 02:13:38,720
Speaker 1: read that.

2707
02:13:38,920 --> 02:13:43,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, awesome, Well there you go. Here you go, cool.

2708
02:13:44,600 --> 02:13:48,520
Speaker 1: Oh in olive, Olive, thanks for giving the ten bucks

2709
02:13:48,600 --> 02:13:51,480
Speaker 1: high from Korea? Uh, high from America?

2710
02:13:51,920 --> 02:13:52,120
Speaker 3: On?

2711
02:13:52,280 --> 02:13:55,080
Speaker 2: Is it? On Young? Is that what it is? Did

2712
02:13:55,080 --> 02:13:55,560
Speaker 2: I say it right?

2713
02:13:55,600 --> 02:13:55,680
Speaker 1: On?

2714
02:13:55,720 --> 02:13:56,400
Speaker 2: Young? Habio?

2715
02:13:57,520 --> 02:13:57,880
Speaker 1: On Young?

2716
02:13:58,400 --> 02:13:59,880
Speaker 2: Is that wh it is? Is that hello in Korean?

2717
02:14:00,120 --> 02:14:02,160
Speaker 1: I know you on Young?

2718
02:14:03,160 --> 02:14:05,280
Speaker 2: I think it's on Young. I know. I don't want

2719
02:14:05,280 --> 02:14:07,040
Speaker 2: to butcher it. I just that for some reason, that's

2720
02:14:07,040 --> 02:14:07,760
Speaker 2: what I remember.

2721
02:14:07,840 --> 02:14:14,720
Speaker 1: I just do that from Arrested Development on Young? Oh,

2722
02:14:14,800 --> 02:14:17,400
Speaker 1: what a great show. All right, ready to read the story.

2723
02:14:17,480 --> 02:14:19,480
Speaker 3: Yes, that's the third time I used the bathroom today.

2724
02:14:19,600 --> 02:14:21,880
Speaker 3: I'm a host. I can use the bathroom. Come on,

2725
02:14:23,480 --> 02:14:25,120
Speaker 3: Riley's abusing is new privileges?

2726
02:14:27,680 --> 02:14:31,800
Speaker 2: Ye on youseo on youngo, Hey, thanks for educating us.

2727
02:14:31,840 --> 02:14:32,200
Speaker 1: Here we go.

2728
02:14:32,240 --> 02:14:33,960
Speaker 2: All right, are you ready for this last story? You

2729
02:14:34,040 --> 02:14:35,280
Speaker 2: got my husband stepmother?

2730
02:14:35,400 --> 02:14:37,520
Speaker 1: Yes, my husband stepmother, you are good to go. My

2731
02:14:37,640 --> 02:14:40,480
Speaker 1: husband step mother loves creating drama, so I yelled at her.

2732
02:14:42,880 --> 02:14:44,840
Speaker 2: Chris Jump Scare Alert guys.

2733
02:14:46,160 --> 02:14:50,080
Speaker 1: My forty one females, husband forty three female step mom

2734
02:14:50,360 --> 02:14:54,160
Speaker 1: Mimi Uh and I have a rough relationship. So the

2735
02:14:54,200 --> 02:14:56,760
Speaker 1: husband's step mom then I have a relationship. She's the

2736
02:14:56,800 --> 02:15:00,200
Speaker 1: same sort of person who seems to enjoy drama or

2737
02:15:01,280 --> 02:15:04,760
Speaker 1: resorting to creating it when none exists. So she loves

2738
02:15:04,800 --> 02:15:07,360
Speaker 1: just creating drama out of nothing for the sake of brevity.

2739
02:15:07,400 --> 02:15:10,280
Speaker 1: I'll focus on my details of this single event alone,

2740
02:15:10,320 --> 02:15:12,360
Speaker 1: but I'll do my best to answer any questions in

2741
02:15:12,400 --> 02:15:15,080
Speaker 1: the comments regarding the history and whatnot. By the way,

2742
02:15:15,200 --> 02:15:17,240
Speaker 1: this comes from Whole Flat at ninety eight ninety one

2743
02:15:17,280 --> 02:15:20,320
Speaker 1: on the ar slash Okay story Times Soberate. So this weekend,

2744
02:15:20,360 --> 02:15:22,320
Speaker 1: my father in law is having his retirement party and

2745
02:15:22,320 --> 02:15:26,240
Speaker 1: we were invited nice as we live around five hours away.

2746
02:15:26,520 --> 02:15:29,440
Speaker 1: The plan for the plan for us was to stay

2747
02:15:29,480 --> 02:15:32,440
Speaker 1: in their downstairs, which is set up like a separate apartment,

2748
02:15:32,480 --> 02:15:35,040
Speaker 1: for the weekend. The initial plan was to pick up

2749
02:15:35,080 --> 02:15:38,480
Speaker 1: the kids seven male, five female from school, drive down,

2750
02:15:38,680 --> 02:15:40,160
Speaker 1: thus arriving at nine pm.

2751
02:15:40,600 --> 02:15:41,520
Speaker 2: The kids school was.

2752
02:15:41,440 --> 02:15:43,760
Speaker 1: Canceled, so we changed plans to leave earlier and my

2753
02:15:43,880 --> 02:15:47,440
Speaker 1: husband called them to let them know she started screaming

2754
02:15:47,480 --> 02:15:50,240
Speaker 1: at him how his father had a meeting till eight

2755
02:15:50,280 --> 02:15:52,960
Speaker 1: pm and we could not understand, and we could not,

2756
02:15:53,240 --> 02:15:57,400
Speaker 1: under any circumstances, arrived before that meeting was over, because

2757
02:15:57,440 --> 02:15:59,680
Speaker 1: it would cause too much noise and he had to

2758
02:15:59,720 --> 02:16:01,600
Speaker 1: finish his work on his lot. Then he had to

2759
02:16:01,600 --> 02:16:03,000
Speaker 1: finish his work on his last day.

2760
02:16:03,560 --> 02:16:03,800
Speaker 2: What.

2761
02:16:04,200 --> 02:16:06,680
Speaker 3: There is literally a thing called, uh, what are you?

2762
02:16:06,760 --> 02:16:11,760
Speaker 3: Noise canceling on headphones. There's also a thing called going

2763
02:16:11,800 --> 02:16:14,240
Speaker 3: into another room? John and I we're on meetings all

2764
02:16:14,240 --> 02:16:16,640
Speaker 3: the time. We communicate. We're like, we're like, we're like,

2765
02:16:16,680 --> 02:16:18,720
Speaker 3: we're like, we're like if we're on a football field,

2766
02:16:18,760 --> 02:16:19,520
Speaker 3: We're like, do do do? Do?

2767
02:16:19,520 --> 02:16:19,680
Speaker 2: Do? Do?

2768
02:16:19,720 --> 02:16:20,040
Speaker 3: Do do?

2769
02:16:20,640 --> 02:16:23,760
Speaker 2: Did? They have other rooms? We've literally been known to.

2770
02:16:24,240 --> 02:16:27,680
Speaker 1: I will be on a video call meeting. I will

2771
02:16:27,680 --> 02:16:30,560
Speaker 1: be talking with Riley, and then someone will call me

2772
02:16:30,720 --> 02:16:33,800
Speaker 1: and I'm basically we're basically talking. We're having three like

2773
02:16:33,879 --> 02:16:37,160
Speaker 1: meetings at once, essentially, and then someone is over there

2774
02:16:37,200 --> 02:16:37,879
Speaker 1: and they can't hear anything.

2775
02:16:37,879 --> 02:16:38,959
Speaker 2: They go out to they step outside.

2776
02:16:39,040 --> 02:16:40,800
Speaker 3: No, that's it, that's easy.

2777
02:16:40,920 --> 02:16:44,720
Speaker 2: What the heck? Hello, what the heck hear anything? Anyways?

2778
02:16:44,800 --> 02:16:47,560
Speaker 1: So, uh So, to keep the piece we left around

2779
02:16:47,600 --> 02:16:49,800
Speaker 1: the same time and still arrived at nine pm when

2780
02:16:49,800 --> 02:16:51,800
Speaker 1: we got there at nine pm, an hour after the

2781
02:16:51,840 --> 02:16:55,879
Speaker 1: children's usual bedtime. Just to keep the piece again, husband

2782
02:16:55,879 --> 02:16:58,840
Speaker 1: went inside with the kids while I started gathering things

2783
02:16:58,879 --> 02:17:01,560
Speaker 1: in the car to carry in. About ten minutes later,

2784
02:17:01,640 --> 02:17:04,960
Speaker 1: I walk in with my arms loaded with luggage and

2785
02:17:05,000 --> 02:17:07,600
Speaker 1: head downstairs look like this like, oh my gosh, look

2786
02:17:07,600 --> 02:17:10,880
Speaker 1: at all this the luggage. After saying hello to my father

2787
02:17:10,879 --> 02:17:14,199
Speaker 1: in law, who hasn't gotten up from the sofa, fat freakin'

2788
02:17:14,680 --> 02:17:15,240
Speaker 1: fat butt.

2789
02:17:16,560 --> 02:17:17,360
Speaker 2: My son then.

2790
02:17:17,280 --> 02:17:20,760
Speaker 1: Hollers, but I want to go downstairs, to which I

2791
02:17:20,840 --> 02:17:21,920
Speaker 1: holler from the stairwell.

2792
02:17:22,160 --> 02:17:23,080
Speaker 2: Then come down.

2793
02:17:23,440 --> 02:17:26,120
Speaker 1: Thinking nothing of it. I open the door to the

2794
02:17:26,120 --> 02:17:29,600
Speaker 1: downstairs and Mimi is immediately in my face with her

2795
02:17:29,640 --> 02:17:30,600
Speaker 1: finger wagging me.

2796
02:17:31,120 --> 02:17:36,280
Speaker 2: Because I don't want you downstairs. She pushes me, Wa

2797
02:17:36,400 --> 02:17:37,520
Speaker 2: your luggage? Why?

2798
02:17:37,520 --> 02:17:40,760
Speaker 1: I stumble a bit, whoa, whoa, whoa. I dropped the bag,

2799
02:17:40,800 --> 02:17:43,680
Speaker 1: at which point I was a bit, at which point

2800
02:17:43,680 --> 02:17:45,360
Speaker 1: I was a bit of an ahle because I raised

2801
02:17:45,360 --> 02:17:48,040
Speaker 1: my voice. Well, fine, then you figure out to do

2802
02:17:48,120 --> 02:17:51,000
Speaker 1: with all these bags. And I just stop off because

2803
02:17:51,040 --> 02:17:53,520
Speaker 1: this grown woman just put her hands on me. What

2804
02:17:53,959 --> 02:17:57,879
Speaker 1: but she followed me while slapping at me. That's some

2805
02:17:58,000 --> 02:18:00,720
Speaker 1: sort of slap fight which I was under where we

2806
02:18:00,720 --> 02:18:02,640
Speaker 1: were happy you kind.

2807
02:18:02,480 --> 02:18:06,160
Speaker 2: Of yeah, Oh my gosh, yeah, that's exactly what I pictured.

2808
02:18:06,320 --> 02:18:08,480
Speaker 1: And I just kept backing up, and at this point

2809
02:18:08,520 --> 02:18:11,879
Speaker 1: I screamed at my husband, we're going to a hotel.

2810
02:18:12,280 --> 02:18:14,720
Speaker 1: You need to back down and get go go back down,

2811
02:18:14,840 --> 02:18:17,040
Speaker 1: get your bags because I'm not speaking to her again.

2812
02:18:17,320 --> 02:18:19,560
Speaker 1: She put her hands on me. If she does it again,

2813
02:18:19,680 --> 02:18:21,279
Speaker 1: I'm not responsible for what happens.

2814
02:18:22,120 --> 02:18:23,760
Speaker 2: What she said, do it one more.

2815
02:18:23,560 --> 02:18:27,040
Speaker 1: Time, she said, excuse me, she said, granny cranny, try

2816
02:18:27,080 --> 02:18:28,480
Speaker 1: your luck one more time.

2817
02:18:28,800 --> 02:18:31,160
Speaker 3: You'll be talking to knockout.

2818
02:18:33,360 --> 02:18:36,600
Speaker 2: We're gonna be going to that funeral early, literally night.

2819
02:18:36,760 --> 02:18:41,000
Speaker 3: Now the amount of old people John has shot off

2820
02:18:41,000 --> 02:18:42,959
Speaker 3: on the street again.

2821
02:18:43,000 --> 02:18:49,760
Speaker 2: It's the suit guys. Oh boy, oh literally at the

2822
02:18:49,800 --> 02:18:53,520
Speaker 2: buzzer beater. You guys are abjucted? Are you guys? Why

2823
02:18:53,520 --> 02:18:54,879
Speaker 2: are you guys doing get the buzzer beater?

2824
02:18:55,440 --> 02:18:56,240
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

2825
02:18:56,280 --> 02:18:57,960
Speaker 1: I think I think I think that's their thing.

2826
02:18:58,200 --> 02:18:58,800
Speaker 2: I think they like.

2827
02:19:00,040 --> 02:19:02,959
Speaker 3: Wait, they like to edge us, thinking we have time,

2828
02:19:03,240 --> 02:19:04,320
Speaker 3: we we're gonna be done.

2829
02:19:04,560 --> 02:19:06,360
Speaker 1: Nope, they're goooning us with skid.

2830
02:19:07,520 --> 02:19:10,160
Speaker 2: If you think about it, well, they're they're edging us

2831
02:19:10,200 --> 02:19:16,039
Speaker 2: and won't let us goon just so scibbity edging us.

2832
02:19:16,440 --> 02:19:18,200
Speaker 2: They do it all at the same time too, so

2833
02:19:18,240 --> 02:19:21,240
Speaker 2: it's just like, thank you, thank you.

2834
02:19:21,520 --> 02:19:23,599
Speaker 3: Thank you.

2835
02:19:25,320 --> 02:19:28,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're sitting here where our butts are in the seats.

2836
02:19:29,600 --> 02:19:30,560
Speaker 3: Go ahead, blankets.

2837
02:19:30,640 --> 02:19:33,360
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're gonna read. All is done in a bit,

2838
02:19:33,440 --> 02:19:36,120
Speaker 1: but thank you. Let's get back to the thing that

2839
02:19:36,120 --> 02:19:40,120
Speaker 1: brought us all here, the story. So she then proceeds

2840
02:19:40,120 --> 02:19:43,440
Speaker 1: to yell at uh, to yell at all people. While

2841
02:19:43,440 --> 02:19:45,520
Speaker 1: I walked outside to cool off. I was sitting in

2842
02:19:45,520 --> 02:19:48,880
Speaker 1: the car with my visibly upset children, calming them when

2843
02:19:48,920 --> 02:19:51,800
Speaker 1: my husband comes out and Mimi is following, waving her

2844
02:19:51,920 --> 02:19:56,360
Speaker 1: arms o me yelling and waving arms. She then looks

2845
02:19:56,360 --> 02:19:59,119
Speaker 1: at me, points a finger as if I'm a small child,

2846
02:19:59,200 --> 02:19:59,879
Speaker 1: and says.

2847
02:20:00,160 --> 02:20:03,760
Speaker 2: Get back in that house. Your father in law's crying

2848
02:20:03,840 --> 02:20:06,440
Speaker 2: because you're leaving looking what you've done.

2849
02:20:08,440 --> 02:20:11,280
Speaker 1: I looked at my husband and I told him we

2850
02:20:11,320 --> 02:20:12,280
Speaker 1: don't need to listen to this.

2851
02:20:13,080 --> 02:20:16,119
Speaker 2: Let's go. That's right, right.

2852
02:20:17,160 --> 02:20:18,600
Speaker 1: I tried to stay it with straight face, but I

2853
02:20:18,600 --> 02:20:21,760
Speaker 1: couldn't do it. She then got in my face again,

2854
02:20:22,720 --> 02:20:25,320
Speaker 1: refuse to take her arm off the car, off of

2855
02:20:25,360 --> 02:20:29,120
Speaker 1: the car door. I asked her, what would you do

2856
02:20:29,240 --> 02:20:31,680
Speaker 1: if someone pushed you and screamed into your face, to

2857
02:20:31,720 --> 02:20:36,440
Speaker 1: which she replied, I'd ask them why and stay calm?

2858
02:20:36,480 --> 02:20:37,400
Speaker 3: Why ca?

2859
02:20:37,959 --> 02:20:40,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, right as she's grabbing her door and yelling in

2860
02:20:40,400 --> 02:20:43,280
Speaker 1: her face, Oh my god, literally doing the opposite. At

2861
02:20:43,280 --> 02:20:45,720
Speaker 1: this point, I was very much the a hole because

2862
02:20:46,440 --> 02:20:50,039
Speaker 1: again I replied, well, you better hope I never put my.

2863
02:20:50,000 --> 02:20:51,560
Speaker 2: Hands on you. You'd prove you wrong.

2864
02:20:51,680 --> 02:20:54,840
Speaker 1: Bro. You cannot be coming after granny like that. Yeah,

2865
02:20:54,879 --> 02:20:57,359
Speaker 1: we can't be coming after granny like That's that's too crazy.

2866
02:20:57,640 --> 02:21:00,920
Speaker 1: That's too crazy. I mean, ground, it's crazy.

2867
02:21:00,920 --> 02:21:05,000
Speaker 2: For that's the line. That's the line that we dropped

2868
02:21:05,000 --> 02:21:05,840
Speaker 2: for you.

2869
02:21:05,879 --> 02:21:09,160
Speaker 3: So that's a line that we found John's line today.

2870
02:21:09,240 --> 02:21:12,800
Speaker 1: Ladies, Come on, man, we're talking about.

2871
02:21:13,879 --> 02:21:17,760
Speaker 2: You've tried to off so many people that were much less,

2872
02:21:19,280 --> 02:21:22,879
Speaker 2: much less? Dude, Are you caslating me?

2873
02:21:23,200 --> 02:21:24,600
Speaker 1: Huh?

2874
02:21:24,720 --> 02:21:27,240
Speaker 2: I don't even knows me. I don't even know all.

2875
02:21:27,680 --> 02:21:29,720
Speaker 2: That's what I want to Are we having a gaslight off?

2876
02:21:29,840 --> 02:21:33,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're having a gaslight off. Ours is getting.

2877
02:21:33,120 --> 02:21:37,119
Speaker 3: Gas lamp bang everyone gas lamp's gaslight story.

2878
02:21:39,080 --> 02:21:41,480
Speaker 1: We left and got a hotel room. Well, I understand

2879
02:21:41,560 --> 02:21:43,880
Speaker 1: I could have handled many aspects of the situation better.

2880
02:21:44,120 --> 02:21:46,640
Speaker 1: I know that there's a history of abuse in my life.

2881
02:21:46,640 --> 02:21:48,840
Speaker 1: And when she put her hands on me, I snapped,

2882
02:21:48,879 --> 02:21:53,040
Speaker 1: that is context. Grown woman should never get in another's

2883
02:21:53,080 --> 02:21:55,520
Speaker 1: face and push her unless she's looking for a fight,

2884
02:21:56,200 --> 02:21:59,359
Speaker 1: she said. She said, Grady, if you want to throw hands,

2885
02:21:59,760 --> 02:22:06,400
Speaker 1: then try I want to hear the bell. Literally, this

2886
02:22:06,440 --> 02:22:08,560
Speaker 1: is how I was raised, and it's hard to break.

2887
02:22:08,720 --> 02:22:13,480
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, this is real scrapes.

2888
02:22:13,640 --> 02:22:19,360
Speaker 1: And she hasn't lost all of the other than he's

2889
02:22:19,360 --> 02:22:23,520
Speaker 1: ready to knock Grannie's lights out, other than remaining call

2890
02:22:23,600 --> 02:22:27,120
Speaker 1: while being physically and verbally assaulted. I don't know what

2891
02:22:27,200 --> 02:22:30,320
Speaker 1: I might have done better. I just keep replaying it

2892
02:22:30,360 --> 02:22:33,800
Speaker 1: and regretting my every move. Today is the retirement party.

2893
02:22:34,040 --> 02:22:37,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I totally forgot. That's why they're here.

2894
02:22:38,920 --> 02:22:40,879
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this.

2895
02:22:40,879 --> 02:22:43,240
Speaker 3: Is beautiful, dude. You know what I'm getting right now?

2896
02:22:43,920 --> 02:22:48,280
Speaker 3: W W vibes like smack talking each other and they're

2897
02:22:48,320 --> 02:22:52,080
Speaker 3: about to fight at the retirement party. We've got everyone.

2898
02:22:51,840 --> 02:22:55,039
Speaker 1: Get off of me, grin Granny ready for the gre

2899
02:22:55,400 --> 02:22:57,039
Speaker 1: smack down of the century.

2900
02:22:57,959 --> 02:23:05,320
Speaker 3: Hi, Yeah, and traumatized beat her down and traumatized, ready

2901
02:23:05,360 --> 02:23:06,480
Speaker 3: to send her to God.

2902
02:23:08,160 --> 02:23:08,720
Speaker 1: Finisher.

2903
02:23:08,959 --> 02:23:09,199
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2904
02:23:09,360 --> 02:23:13,520
Speaker 1: Literally, wow, and I'm dreading it. That's the last part

2905
02:23:13,560 --> 02:23:17,160
Speaker 1: and there's an updates. Yeah dreading sure. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

2906
02:23:17,440 --> 02:23:19,840
Speaker 1: It sounds like you're pretty excited. Okay, so let's talk

2907
02:23:19,840 --> 02:23:23,000
Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, Caro says Granny versus wife.

2908
02:23:23,200 --> 02:23:26,000
Speaker 3: Do we do a roundhouse kick to the face or

2909
02:23:26,120 --> 02:23:27,520
Speaker 3: just the haymaker right hand?

2910
02:23:27,640 --> 02:23:29,400
Speaker 2: Also? Do we throw our bets in? Do we do

2911
02:23:29,480 --> 02:23:32,800
Speaker 2: we parlay this voice? Do we want to make it?

2912
02:23:33,120 --> 02:23:36,200
Speaker 2: Do we want to make a buck off of this? We?

2913
02:23:36,680 --> 02:23:40,600
Speaker 3: I have Op winning and then parlay with Grandpa saying

2914
02:23:40,760 --> 02:23:47,920
Speaker 3: oh no, Grandpa cries again. That's oh god.

2915
02:23:49,720 --> 02:23:57,400
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, what's the what's the under under over here? Granny?

2916
02:23:58,640 --> 02:24:14,959
Speaker 2: Can you imagine? Actual? God? Dude, just straight cut to

2917
02:24:15,000 --> 02:24:17,440
Speaker 2: Granny like I'm sending you aad oh man.

2918
02:24:17,640 --> 02:24:20,360
Speaker 3: Also, Op reminds me of my mom, because my mom

2919
02:24:20,400 --> 02:24:23,840
Speaker 3: would be doing stuff like that. Oh my god, no cap,

2920
02:24:24,160 --> 02:24:26,840
Speaker 3: no cap. And she's strong, she works out all the time.

2921
02:24:26,959 --> 02:24:30,200
Speaker 1: I believe it, dude, pile driver r k O. Grandma

2922
02:24:30,360 --> 02:24:34,840
Speaker 1: is a powerhouse. Shout out to your mom. Oh okay, So.

2923
02:24:36,400 --> 02:24:39,840
Speaker 2: All right, let's let's get it actually go too far.

2924
02:24:39,879 --> 02:24:41,720
Speaker 2: See if that let's see if that bell gets wrung.

2925
02:24:42,040 --> 02:24:46,360
Speaker 2: Let's do a poll. Too far or not? Yeah, I

2926
02:24:46,400 --> 02:24:48,600
Speaker 2: think it's too far, you think, so I think what

2927
02:24:48,640 --> 02:24:49,240
Speaker 2: should happen?

2928
02:24:49,920 --> 02:24:53,840
Speaker 1: Is I think op? He could say, hey, I shouldn't

2929
02:24:53,879 --> 02:24:58,400
Speaker 1: have like threatened you with like anything physical back, but

2930
02:24:58,440 --> 02:25:02,160
Speaker 1: don't push me, don't kid my face, don't say anything

2931
02:25:02,240 --> 02:25:02,960
Speaker 1: about my family.

2932
02:25:03,320 --> 02:25:03,800
Speaker 2: Why are you?

2933
02:25:03,920 --> 02:25:06,480
Speaker 1: So? Let's how about we asked father in law if

2934
02:25:06,520 --> 02:25:08,240
Speaker 1: we can come come earlier? Like I feel like this

2935
02:25:08,320 --> 02:25:10,320
Speaker 1: is not really that big of a deal. Let's like

2936
02:25:10,480 --> 02:25:12,879
Speaker 1: if anything, hey, maybe it is, let father in law

2937
02:25:13,040 --> 02:25:15,240
Speaker 1: tell us. And if you tell us, tell us in

2938
02:25:15,320 --> 02:25:18,400
Speaker 1: a calm and reasonable you know, like you could.

2939
02:25:18,240 --> 02:25:22,800
Speaker 2: Have a minute of everything will falling, boil and hell

2940
02:25:22,879 --> 02:25:23,520
Speaker 2: about dead.

2941
02:25:23,600 --> 02:25:24,720
Speaker 1: No, we could do that.

2942
02:25:25,000 --> 02:25:27,200
Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't think. I don't think it's too far

2943
02:25:28,000 --> 02:25:32,959
Speaker 3: because this person imagine she did, but she's grainy and okay,

2944
02:25:34,320 --> 02:25:38,440
Speaker 3: not saying like like like if someone's if someone's grandma

2945
02:25:38,520 --> 02:25:40,320
Speaker 3: came to push me, I'd be like whoa. But like

2946
02:25:40,440 --> 02:25:43,320
Speaker 3: if I was, like I am imagining and embodying this

2947
02:25:43,360 --> 02:25:45,959
Speaker 3: person as my mother, my mother, that is five to five.

2948
02:25:46,080 --> 02:25:50,320
Speaker 3: If I was a five to five woman and some lady,

2949
02:25:50,440 --> 02:25:53,680
Speaker 3: old lady with her old lady's strength is coming and

2950
02:25:53,720 --> 02:25:56,120
Speaker 3: like putting her finger in my mouth, grabbing me while

2951
02:25:56,160 --> 02:25:59,640
Speaker 3: I have suitcases off and I have a kid near

2952
02:25:59,680 --> 02:26:03,119
Speaker 3: me that I could fall on or hurt. Oh you

2953
02:26:03,160 --> 02:26:05,840
Speaker 3: bet I'm embodying my mother right now. Oh you bet

2954
02:26:06,240 --> 02:26:08,760
Speaker 3: I'm going to be close lining her if she touches

2955
02:26:08,800 --> 02:26:09,120
Speaker 3: me again.

2956
02:26:09,320 --> 02:26:12,760
Speaker 1: You bet you bet traumatized tin.

2957
02:26:14,680 --> 02:26:17,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I I I think so, And I guess

2958
02:26:17,400 --> 02:26:19,280
Speaker 3: guess who one hundred agrees with me?

2959
02:26:21,760 --> 02:26:25,400
Speaker 2: Wait, one are not too far? Nope?

2960
02:26:25,879 --> 02:26:27,560
Speaker 3: Everyone says, Nah, she didn't go too far.

2961
02:26:28,360 --> 02:26:33,520
Speaker 2: Not one person, not one person? Chat right now, it's

2962
02:26:33,560 --> 02:26:35,320
Speaker 2: just a fight fight.

2963
02:26:35,959 --> 02:26:38,080
Speaker 3: I've never been this united, not at all the stream.

2964
02:26:38,160 --> 02:26:39,760
Speaker 3: I don't think in a month they've been this year.

2965
02:26:41,920 --> 02:26:45,959
Speaker 2: They want Granny knocked out nights just.

2966
02:26:46,440 --> 02:26:48,120
Speaker 3: And I know Sydney without kinneys is going to be

2967
02:26:48,120 --> 02:26:50,119
Speaker 3: on my side too, and not put one because he's

2968
02:26:50,160 --> 02:26:53,560
Speaker 3: about it. He's about it. Everyone's saying to no, Yo,

2969
02:26:53,760 --> 02:26:55,640
Speaker 3: mama's mama, Mama.

2970
02:26:55,400 --> 02:26:58,000
Speaker 1: Bear came out, Mama Bear did come out, Mama there

2971
02:26:58,720 --> 02:27:01,920
Speaker 1: did come out. But shall we find out what actually happened?

2972
02:27:01,920 --> 02:27:04,480
Speaker 1: Shall we see if our party come sure, dude. Update.

2973
02:27:05,520 --> 02:27:08,039
Speaker 1: The party begins at two pm. It is now eleven

2974
02:27:08,120 --> 02:27:10,959
Speaker 1: thirty in the morning. I think okay. I dropped off

2975
02:27:10,959 --> 02:27:14,040
Speaker 1: my husband to spend some time with his father. Let's

2976
02:27:14,040 --> 02:27:14,720
Speaker 1: see where this is going.

2977
02:27:15,360 --> 02:27:15,760
Speaker 2: I like it.

2978
02:27:15,800 --> 02:27:18,240
Speaker 1: I told him. I told him the kids and I

2979
02:27:18,320 --> 02:27:20,640
Speaker 1: will be back once the others have arrived. I just

2980
02:27:20,680 --> 02:27:25,320
Speaker 1: received a call from husband that said that she's ready

2981
02:27:25,320 --> 02:27:28,080
Speaker 1: to talk. I explained to her and she seems to understand.

2982
02:27:28,560 --> 02:27:30,600
Speaker 1: None of this has me hopeful for an apology, and

2983
02:27:30,640 --> 02:27:33,640
Speaker 1: I'm wary to go before the party. I told my

2984
02:27:33,720 --> 02:27:36,000
Speaker 1: husband I'd already promised the kids they can play in

2985
02:27:36,040 --> 02:27:38,320
Speaker 1: the pool at the hotel, but I'll see what I

2986
02:27:38,320 --> 02:27:40,800
Speaker 1: can do. But honestly, I don't want to go before

2987
02:27:41,000 --> 02:27:44,720
Speaker 1: others arrive. I like that. I also don't want my

2988
02:27:44,800 --> 02:27:47,480
Speaker 1: husband anger at me for keeping the kids from their grandfather.

2989
02:27:47,959 --> 02:27:51,320
Speaker 3: Man, this sucks, Yeah, because you got the step mom

2990
02:27:51,600 --> 02:27:55,720
Speaker 3: or the grandmother like there with the father grandfather.

2991
02:27:56,840 --> 02:28:00,480
Speaker 2: Yep, but.

2992
02:28:02,280 --> 02:28:02,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it does suck.

2993
02:28:03,879 --> 02:28:04,280
Speaker 2: It sucks.

2994
02:28:04,320 --> 02:28:04,800
Speaker 3: It sucks.

2995
02:28:05,080 --> 02:28:10,280
Speaker 1: Second update, I avoided her throughout the party, uh, for

2996
02:28:10,360 --> 02:28:13,240
Speaker 1: which my husband informed me I needed to get over it.

2997
02:28:14,400 --> 02:28:15,679
Speaker 2: We've had words.

2998
02:28:16,000 --> 02:28:19,240
Speaker 1: Looks like I'll be continuing with this until he realizes

2999
02:28:19,280 --> 02:28:22,880
Speaker 1: the gravity of it all. We have a final update,

3000
02:28:23,720 --> 02:28:25,720
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of the updates here. The

3001
02:28:25,720 --> 02:28:26,320
Speaker 1: party's over.

3002
02:28:27,000 --> 02:28:29,519
Speaker 3: Oh wow, okay, okay, past party.

3003
02:28:29,240 --> 02:28:31,600
Speaker 2: Okay, they scrap. I need to know right now.

3004
02:28:33,040 --> 02:28:35,520
Speaker 1: Put your bets now. This is your last chance everyone.

3005
02:28:35,760 --> 02:28:37,760
Speaker 2: I don't think they thought physically. I think they just

3006
02:28:37,840 --> 02:28:38,560
Speaker 2: used their words.

3007
02:28:38,800 --> 02:28:40,280
Speaker 3: I think they just gave each other side eyes.

3008
02:28:40,400 --> 02:28:45,440
Speaker 2: Okay, picks Okay, dude, stop stop stop, stops off. Honestly,

3009
02:28:46,240 --> 02:28:48,400
Speaker 2: where's the hot where's the gambling hotline?

3010
02:28:48,879 --> 02:28:51,160
Speaker 3: Honestly, like we we get some gambling going on, and

3011
02:28:51,200 --> 02:28:52,920
Speaker 3: we like you predict what happens at the end of

3012
02:28:52,959 --> 02:28:53,320
Speaker 3: the story.

3013
02:28:54,200 --> 02:28:54,560
Speaker 1: Never know.

3014
02:28:55,640 --> 02:29:00,199
Speaker 3: I can't maybe tell me if you were gambling.

3015
02:29:00,760 --> 02:29:02,879
Speaker 2: Would you gamble on these stories? Let us know?

3016
02:29:03,120 --> 02:29:06,840
Speaker 1: Anyways, no final update. The party is over. The kids

3017
02:29:06,840 --> 02:29:10,080
Speaker 1: and I are at the hotel. Well, my husband spends

3018
02:29:10,120 --> 02:29:14,040
Speaker 1: the last evening with his father. She has obviously given

3019
02:29:14,080 --> 02:29:16,240
Speaker 1: a different version of the story, and he was trying

3020
02:29:16,320 --> 02:29:20,560
Speaker 1: to merge versions to find a middle truth because what

3021
02:29:20,640 --> 02:29:23,320
Speaker 1: many seemed to miss. He did not see what happened.

3022
02:29:24,040 --> 02:29:27,000
Speaker 1: He did not see it. My son only saw because

3023
02:29:27,040 --> 02:29:30,200
Speaker 1: he began to follow me downstairs. I flat out told

3024
02:29:30,280 --> 02:29:32,640
Speaker 1: husband what she was saying was a lie, and my

3025
02:29:32,720 --> 02:29:35,040
Speaker 1: son was present and told him exactly what he saw.

3026
02:29:35,080 --> 02:29:37,440
Speaker 2: Okay, so we've got we've got to corroborate his story.

3027
02:29:37,520 --> 02:29:41,680
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. My husband seemed a bit floored. He said, well,

3028
02:29:41,879 --> 02:29:44,680
Speaker 1: inform them tomorrow before leaving town that we are not

3029
02:29:44,720 --> 02:29:47,280
Speaker 1: comfortable with her being alone with the kids, and I

3030
02:29:47,320 --> 02:29:52,120
Speaker 1: am not comfortable being around her. However, I will be

3031
02:29:52,200 --> 02:29:55,480
Speaker 1: around her if and only if my husband is present,

3032
02:29:55,879 --> 02:29:58,600
Speaker 1: and that and that's only because he wants to see

3033
02:29:58,680 --> 02:29:59,800
Speaker 1: his father's That's.

3034
02:29:59,640 --> 02:30:01,039
Speaker 3: A good I think.

3035
02:30:01,440 --> 02:30:03,879
Speaker 1: By the way, if you want to see us, there's

3036
02:30:03,920 --> 02:30:06,680
Speaker 1: no barriers. You just tap our profile every weekend at

3037
02:30:06,720 --> 02:30:10,600
Speaker 1: three PMPSC while we are alive, like we are at

3038
02:30:10,600 --> 02:30:11,320
Speaker 1: this very second.

3039
02:30:11,360 --> 02:30:13,680
Speaker 2: Yep, there you go.

3040
02:30:16,400 --> 02:30:19,320
Speaker 1: So with time and behavior that changed. With time and

3041
02:30:19,360 --> 02:30:23,240
Speaker 1: behavior that changes, trust may be built deep down. I

3042
02:30:23,280 --> 02:30:27,080
Speaker 1: don't know what behavior deep down. I know that behavior

3043
02:30:27,120 --> 02:30:29,320
Speaker 1: won't change, but I think husband needs time being in

3044
02:30:29,320 --> 02:30:33,040
Speaker 1: the same room with it to understand that. I personally

3045
02:30:33,120 --> 02:30:35,680
Speaker 1: cannot ask him to give up on his father without

3046
02:30:35,760 --> 02:30:40,560
Speaker 1: him reaching the conclusion himself. Resentment builds up. Resentment builds

3047
02:30:40,600 --> 02:30:43,920
Speaker 1: that way. I've also suggested to him that we begin

3048
02:30:44,000 --> 02:30:47,600
Speaker 1: couples counseling because I think he needs to hear some

3049
02:30:47,800 --> 02:30:50,960
Speaker 1: ugly truths and a mediator, seles counselor present would help.

3050
02:30:51,400 --> 02:30:54,360
Speaker 1: Thank you for all the advice, kindness, and even slaps

3051
02:30:54,480 --> 02:31:04,119
Speaker 1: of truth I didn't want to hear. Yeah, I mean

3052
02:31:04,160 --> 02:31:05,160
Speaker 1: it seems.

3053
02:31:04,920 --> 02:31:06,560
Speaker 2: I missed my parlay.

3054
02:31:06,720 --> 02:31:07,480
Speaker 3: Yeah we all lost.

3055
02:31:07,959 --> 02:31:09,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we all we all, we all lost.

3056
02:31:09,240 --> 02:31:16,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, it seems like uh op has It seems

3057
02:31:16,480 --> 02:31:18,360
Speaker 1: like there's also maybe a problem with the father in

3058
02:31:18,400 --> 02:31:22,240
Speaker 1: law too, obviously not as strong. Yeah, but maybe just

3059
02:31:22,240 --> 02:31:24,200
Speaker 1: that he like allows these things to happen, or he's

3060
02:31:24,280 --> 02:31:26,480
Speaker 1: he's just like no like state, he's just like encouraging

3061
02:31:26,480 --> 02:31:28,440
Speaker 1: everyone to come back together. It's like hate us being

3062
02:31:28,480 --> 02:31:33,440
Speaker 1: together is what causes these issues, and the husband is

3063
02:31:33,800 --> 02:31:37,560
Speaker 1: very resistant to accept that. It's the vibe.

3064
02:31:37,800 --> 02:31:45,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have seen relationships where like people are stuck

3065
02:31:45,200 --> 02:31:47,360
Speaker 3: in marriages and they're not They're just like, ah, whatever

3066
02:31:47,400 --> 02:31:51,280
Speaker 3: she does, all we're at and they're not confrontational and

3067
02:31:51,640 --> 02:31:54,320
Speaker 3: they mind their own business and their own marriage, which

3068
02:31:54,360 --> 02:31:55,080
Speaker 3: is dangerous.

3069
02:31:57,040 --> 02:32:01,360
Speaker 1: You mind your own business, use your mind and your business,

3070
02:32:01,680 --> 02:32:02,640
Speaker 1: because you get a divorce.

3071
02:32:06,120 --> 02:32:13,160
Speaker 2: Bars Sydney with Kidney's comment, big surprise Vegas one. That's true.

3072
02:32:13,200 --> 02:32:16,160
Speaker 2: The house always, the house always wins, The house always wins.

3073
02:32:16,360 --> 02:32:18,920
Speaker 1: All right, Uh, shall we hit another story?

3074
02:32:19,160 --> 02:32:21,040
Speaker 2: Oh? Sorry, we're doing another Mega right here.

3075
02:32:22,120 --> 02:32:24,600
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna maybe hit the ac my nose.

3076
02:32:25,120 --> 02:32:32,360
Speaker 3: Oh no, are you getting cold? I'm going on Mega

3077
02:32:32,360 --> 02:32:33,000
Speaker 3: episode four.

3078
02:32:33,240 --> 02:32:35,959
Speaker 2: Yes, that's uh. My sister is trying to take over.

3079
02:32:38,000 --> 02:32:42,520
Speaker 2: And then we gotta read the donos. Uh yeah, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry,

3080
02:32:42,520 --> 02:32:44,560
Speaker 2: it's okay. Sorry everybody.

3081
02:32:46,959 --> 02:32:50,640
Speaker 3: Empty. Ava's Girl. Thanks for the twenty five bucker runos.

3082
02:32:51,120 --> 02:32:53,640
Speaker 3: And wait, we didn't read konos, did we?

3083
02:32:53,640 --> 02:32:53,959
Speaker 1: We did?

3084
02:32:54,040 --> 02:32:55,720
Speaker 2: We? We said it, we said we're gonna read it.

3085
02:32:55,840 --> 02:32:56,480
Speaker 2: Oh Kono.

3086
02:32:56,760 --> 02:32:59,520
Speaker 3: Thank you for the sixty bucks getting us to another

3087
02:32:59,720 --> 02:33:04,400
Speaker 3: freak can thirty minutes. Holy cow, that happened fourteen minutes ago.

3088
02:33:04,480 --> 02:33:06,720
Speaker 3: We appreciate it. And Scary Sherry, thanks for the twenty

3089
02:33:06,800 --> 02:33:08,160
Speaker 3: seven dollars getting that ball roll.

3090
02:33:08,280 --> 02:33:08,640
Speaker 1: Guys.

3091
02:33:08,840 --> 02:33:11,400
Speaker 2: You guys are the real MVPs here.

3092
02:33:11,879 --> 02:33:15,039
Speaker 3: You guys are crazy right now and then anything on them.

3093
02:33:15,120 --> 02:33:20,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, wait for John to sit Dune there is all right?

3094
02:33:21,160 --> 02:33:23,920
Speaker 2: Ummm we just got one. Did we read that?

3095
02:33:25,120 --> 02:33:25,240
Speaker 1: No?

3096
02:33:25,280 --> 02:33:32,040
Speaker 2: We did not? Uh yes, thanks for to that's for

3097
02:33:32,280 --> 02:33:36,840
Speaker 2: books with lemon with a lemon and limesticker. Thank you?

3098
02:33:37,080 --> 02:33:39,160
Speaker 1: Oh nice love the stickers.

3099
02:33:39,640 --> 02:33:41,920
Speaker 2: We're going to just refraish. Nope, chick oh do we

3100
02:33:41,959 --> 02:33:44,000
Speaker 2: get that? Oh we didn't get that one from Amanda

3101
02:33:44,080 --> 02:33:44,840
Speaker 2: Amanda Rose.

3102
02:33:44,879 --> 02:33:50,320
Speaker 1: Thanks at a thirty bucks more time pleasely no, no.

3103
02:33:52,920 --> 02:33:55,360
Speaker 2: Is that is it? Jim?

3104
02:33:55,400 --> 02:33:58,240
Speaker 3: Thanks for the one b being a night we get

3105
02:33:58,280 --> 02:33:58,480
Speaker 3: that's for?

3106
02:33:58,600 --> 02:34:01,640
Speaker 2: Yes, yes we did. All right, cool, let's do it?

3107
02:34:01,840 --> 02:34:07,800
Speaker 3: Uh my sister, all right, here we go? You ready, keon,

3108
02:34:08,000 --> 02:34:11,200
Speaker 3: I'm ready, all right ready. My sister is trying to

3109
02:34:11,240 --> 02:34:14,960
Speaker 3: overstep my wedding. She won't acknowledge the boundaries I set.

3110
02:34:15,160 --> 02:34:18,959
Speaker 1: Steal her husband cross the ultimate boundary cross.

3111
02:34:20,480 --> 02:34:20,640
Speaker 2: Oh.

3112
02:34:21,080 --> 02:34:23,400
Speaker 3: I think my sister is trying to get me to

3113
02:34:23,520 --> 02:34:27,200
Speaker 3: remake her wedding day. I'm struggling on what boundaries I

3114
02:34:27,200 --> 02:34:30,039
Speaker 3: should set and how to set them. Should I actually

3115
02:34:30,040 --> 02:34:32,760
Speaker 3: confront her or maybe it's just not really that deep.

3116
02:34:32,959 --> 02:34:36,600
Speaker 3: Sorry long stories of many events. By the way, this

3117
02:34:36,680 --> 02:34:40,240
Speaker 3: comes from Prejudice Yak twenty six twenty on the R size. Okay,

3118
02:34:40,240 --> 02:34:43,160
Speaker 3: storytime subrenden So I feel like I should start with

3119
02:34:43,200 --> 02:34:47,080
Speaker 3: some backstory as to why I am upset. A couple

3120
02:34:47,040 --> 02:34:49,879
Speaker 3: of years ago, my sister got married. She had the

3121
02:34:50,040 --> 02:34:54,000
Speaker 3: dream wedding she wanted. We are very much not the

3122
02:34:54,040 --> 02:34:58,080
Speaker 3: same person. She wanted a somewhat fancy wedding with all

3123
02:34:58,160 --> 02:35:01,720
Speaker 3: her friends and family. And I am happy that she

3124
02:35:02,840 --> 02:35:06,360
Speaker 3: and I am happy that is what and I'm happy

3125
02:35:06,440 --> 02:35:08,960
Speaker 3: that is Oh my goodness, what the heck is a

3126
02:35:09,600 --> 02:35:15,720
Speaker 3: need more caffeine? My gosh? And I am happy that

3127
02:35:15,840 --> 02:35:18,640
Speaker 3: is what she did for her day. I showed up

3128
02:35:18,680 --> 02:35:21,080
Speaker 3: for all of her things. She asked me to show

3129
02:35:21,320 --> 02:35:24,760
Speaker 3: as her maid of honor. We traveled to some butiques

3130
02:35:25,000 --> 02:35:28,480
Speaker 3: she wanted to go to, even stayed overnight to go

3131
02:35:28,720 --> 02:35:31,760
Speaker 3: to them. It even stayed overnight to go to it.

3132
02:35:32,040 --> 02:35:34,960
Speaker 2: I'm let me pausey Riley, sorry, Cohoco, ninety is going

3133
02:35:35,000 --> 02:35:38,119
Speaker 2: to going to bed. They say, good night, sweet princess.

3134
02:35:38,160 --> 02:35:40,280
Speaker 2: It has been fun. It's time that this lurker goes

3135
02:35:40,320 --> 02:35:41,119
Speaker 2: back into the dark.

3136
02:35:41,360 --> 02:35:43,360
Speaker 3: Oh don't believe. Can you just like keep us on

3137
02:35:43,400 --> 02:35:46,240
Speaker 3: in the background. We only have fourteen minutes, just white noise. Yeah,

3138
02:35:46,360 --> 02:35:47,240
Speaker 3: just keep us on the background.

3139
02:35:47,240 --> 02:35:48,840
Speaker 2: We'll put you to sleep. Cohoko again, thank you for

3140
02:35:48,879 --> 02:35:51,480
Speaker 2: the big donus thank huge.

3141
02:35:52,640 --> 02:35:55,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, without a doubt. Yeah, MVB, you can rest your eyes.

3142
02:35:55,040 --> 02:35:55,640
Speaker 3: Just keep us on.

3143
02:35:55,720 --> 02:35:59,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll get you. We'll get you to bed.

3144
02:36:00,879 --> 02:36:03,720
Speaker 3: We traveled to some utiques she wanted to go to,

3145
02:36:04,120 --> 02:36:06,959
Speaker 3: even stayed overnight to go to it. I took vacation

3146
02:36:07,120 --> 02:36:10,680
Speaker 3: days to go to her destination baucherette party for a

3147
02:36:10,680 --> 02:36:11,879
Speaker 3: full week and a half.

3148
02:36:13,120 --> 02:36:15,400
Speaker 2: Whoa, yep, that's a long time. Oh sorry, And Lissa

3149
02:36:15,440 --> 02:36:17,400
Speaker 2: Monday did the same thing. She tipped And sorry, but

3150
02:36:17,520 --> 02:36:19,440
Speaker 2: I didn't want to interrupt you. Riley, you're doing such

3151
02:36:19,440 --> 02:36:20,800
Speaker 2: a great job. But they're all going to bed. Do

3152
02:36:20,800 --> 02:36:22,760
Speaker 2: you want to make sure they get their rest?

3153
02:36:23,520 --> 02:36:24,879
Speaker 3: Skips on the background please.

3154
02:36:24,680 --> 02:36:26,280
Speaker 2: Ye, heading the bed. I just wanted to stop in

3155
02:36:26,320 --> 02:36:28,280
Speaker 2: and say I love you guys and have a great night.

3156
02:36:28,360 --> 02:36:31,960
Speaker 2: Thanks Alyssa Monday, thank you. Sorry Riley, go ahead, all right,

3157
02:36:32,000 --> 02:36:32,959
Speaker 2: I know I'm ruining your flow.

3158
02:36:33,920 --> 02:36:36,840
Speaker 3: Went to the cake tasting because she invited me. Planted

3159
02:36:36,879 --> 02:36:40,240
Speaker 3: her a wedding shower, basically just a party for everyone

3160
02:36:40,520 --> 02:36:43,360
Speaker 3: instead of a bridal shower. She wanted me to get

3161
02:36:43,400 --> 02:36:45,840
Speaker 3: a short speech. She wanted me to give a short

3162
02:36:45,879 --> 02:36:48,640
Speaker 3: speech at the wedding, so I did exactly that. I

3163
02:36:48,720 --> 02:36:52,080
Speaker 3: didn't tell any embarrassing stories about her, just that I

3164
02:36:52,120 --> 02:36:55,120
Speaker 3: am happy for her and her husband would say, let's

3165
02:36:55,160 --> 02:36:57,879
Speaker 3: pin that for later. Uh oh, and the family they

3166
02:36:57,879 --> 02:37:01,640
Speaker 3: are creating for themselves. You see how she said, didn't

3167
02:37:01,640 --> 02:37:03,080
Speaker 3: tell any embarrassing stories.

3168
02:37:03,640 --> 02:37:06,039
Speaker 2: Mmmmm, yep, that's a nice to you.

3169
02:37:07,600 --> 02:37:10,800
Speaker 3: Now to where I am starting to feel frustrated. My

3170
02:37:10,879 --> 02:37:13,240
Speaker 3: fiance and I have been together for quite some time

3171
02:37:13,520 --> 02:37:16,959
Speaker 3: and he finally popped the question. I am pretty I

3172
02:37:17,000 --> 02:37:19,800
Speaker 3: am a pretty decisive person. Coupled with the fact that

3173
02:37:19,840 --> 02:37:22,080
Speaker 3: my fiance and I have been talking about our dream

3174
02:37:22,120 --> 02:37:25,400
Speaker 3: wedding for three us years from now, we decided we're

3175
02:37:25,400 --> 02:37:28,320
Speaker 3: going to get married in the next eight months. So

3176
02:37:28,480 --> 02:37:32,039
Speaker 3: we started booking all of our venues immediately. So we

3177
02:37:32,080 --> 02:37:35,640
Speaker 3: started booking all of our vendors immediately. Here is where

3178
02:37:35,680 --> 02:37:38,439
Speaker 3: things started to get interesting.

3179
02:37:38,600 --> 02:37:38,880
Speaker 1: Mmm.

3180
02:37:40,040 --> 02:37:41,840
Speaker 3: All of my friends that are close to me know

3181
02:37:41,920 --> 02:37:45,040
Speaker 3: that I have always wanted a destination wedding. My fiance

3182
02:37:45,160 --> 02:37:48,440
Speaker 3: and I have bonded over our love to travel, so naturally,

3183
02:37:48,520 --> 02:37:51,280
Speaker 3: this is the first thing. We booked, a small ceremony

3184
02:37:51,320 --> 02:37:54,520
Speaker 3: with just family at our dream destination. I don't want

3185
02:37:54,520 --> 02:37:56,640
Speaker 3: to say my vows in front of a ton of people.

3186
02:37:56,720 --> 02:37:59,640
Speaker 3: We did invite to our wedding party if they want

3187
02:37:59,720 --> 02:38:03,680
Speaker 3: us to Sorry. I don't want to say my vows

3188
02:38:03,680 --> 02:38:06,080
Speaker 3: in front of a ton of people. But we didn't

3189
02:38:06,080 --> 02:38:09,640
Speaker 3: invite our wedding party. If they wanted to come, use

3190
02:38:09,959 --> 02:38:13,280
Speaker 3: it as a vacation and share that memory with us,

3191
02:38:13,400 --> 02:38:15,959
Speaker 3: and share that memory with us. I was worried my

3192
02:38:16,040 --> 02:38:18,840
Speaker 3: mom would be upset, so I was afraid to break

3193
02:38:18,840 --> 02:38:21,800
Speaker 3: the news. But when I did, she was supportive.

3194
02:38:23,520 --> 02:38:24,680
Speaker 2: W Mom okay.

3195
02:38:25,800 --> 02:38:28,480
Speaker 3: On the other hand, my sister was livid.

3196
02:38:29,840 --> 02:38:32,680
Speaker 2: I knew there was a catch. There always is guys

3197
02:38:33,400 --> 02:38:34,080
Speaker 2: while we're here.

3198
02:38:33,959 --> 02:38:38,440
Speaker 1: But it's not always keons. Unfortunately, there's always a butt,

3199
02:38:38,480 --> 02:38:39,960
Speaker 1: but it's not always.

3200
02:38:39,400 --> 02:38:42,840
Speaker 2: But there's always a bigger butt, which is which is key?

3201
02:38:45,400 --> 02:38:47,800
Speaker 3: This My daugh on the link, well, oh we we

3202
02:38:47,840 --> 02:38:48,160
Speaker 3: read that.

3203
02:38:48,640 --> 02:38:50,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, we read it. We read it. Good night, Alyssa.

3204
02:38:52,560 --> 02:38:56,280
Speaker 3: All right. She flipped out on me. I want to

3205
02:38:56,320 --> 02:38:59,080
Speaker 3: preface this by saying she has a four year old.

3206
02:38:59,360 --> 02:39:03,200
Speaker 3: She texts me horrible things, saying I'm selfish and that

3207
02:39:03,360 --> 02:39:06,400
Speaker 3: I just don't want her there. I try to explain

3208
02:39:06,440 --> 02:39:08,560
Speaker 3: that that's not the case. It's just that this is

3209
02:39:08,600 --> 02:39:11,680
Speaker 3: what my fiance have been talking about for years. She

3210
02:39:11,800 --> 02:39:14,520
Speaker 3: told me that I should wait till her child is older,

3211
02:39:14,800 --> 02:39:17,080
Speaker 3: maybe five or six years old. So they can fly?

3212
02:39:18,879 --> 02:39:19,640
Speaker 1: What are they birds?

3213
02:39:22,879 --> 02:39:24,640
Speaker 2: What do you mean so they can fly? What are

3214
02:39:24,680 --> 02:39:27,560
Speaker 2: they freaking birds? It's a child.

3215
02:39:28,240 --> 02:39:30,039
Speaker 3: Come on, just put them on the plane easy. I

3216
02:39:30,080 --> 02:39:32,440
Speaker 3: see it all the time. I see younger kids get on.

3217
02:39:32,400 --> 02:39:36,640
Speaker 1: Planes literally every every day, every day, every day screaming.

3218
02:39:36,680 --> 02:39:41,720
Speaker 1: Babies are shoved into metal tubes, fly over with wings, yeah,

3219
02:39:41,879 --> 02:39:45,640
Speaker 1: with wings, yeah, big metal tubes. Or they have plenty

3220
02:39:45,640 --> 02:39:50,119
Speaker 1: of room and their ears pop and they start crying. Baby,

3221
02:39:50,360 --> 02:39:52,440
Speaker 1: they can't they can't help it for you can definitely hand.

3222
02:39:52,480 --> 02:39:54,600
Speaker 1: They can't even shoot gum. They don't know what to

3223
02:39:54,640 --> 02:39:57,360
Speaker 1: do they do, They have no they have no concept

3224
02:39:57,400 --> 02:39:59,040
Speaker 1: of anything.

3225
02:39:59,120 --> 02:40:00,760
Speaker 3: John, Your hatred for baby's just showing.

3226
02:40:00,920 --> 02:40:04,160
Speaker 1: No, it's not. They just I'm defending their defenselessness.

3227
02:40:04,840 --> 02:40:05,040
Speaker 3: Again.

3228
02:40:05,120 --> 02:40:09,640
Speaker 2: John's in a suit today. He's being dedious. Some suit John. Uh.

3229
02:40:09,800 --> 02:40:12,080
Speaker 3: I also know that she is trying to have another

3230
02:40:12,160 --> 02:40:14,400
Speaker 3: child at the end of this year, if not sooner.

3231
02:40:14,760 --> 02:40:16,840
Speaker 3: So I said, what if you get pregnant again? I

3232
02:40:16,879 --> 02:40:19,360
Speaker 3: can't put my life on hold for you. After that,

3233
02:40:19,440 --> 02:40:22,560
Speaker 3: she ignored me for a week, full ghost mode. But

3234
02:40:22,600 --> 02:40:26,160
Speaker 3: then she came around suddenly. Now she is all in

3235
02:40:26,240 --> 02:40:28,400
Speaker 3: and excited to go because her mother in law is

3236
02:40:28,440 --> 02:40:31,800
Speaker 3: coming to baby said, yay, wonderful.

3237
02:40:34,040 --> 02:40:35,199
Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening.

3238
02:40:36,680 --> 02:40:40,040
Speaker 3: Till your or or with you know what's happening. No,

3239
02:40:40,080 --> 02:40:45,400
Speaker 3: I don't real pretty much, I can I can explain it, please, Okay,

3240
02:40:45,760 --> 02:40:49,640
Speaker 3: So tilld are everyone, OPI is having a wedding destination wedding.

3241
02:40:49,760 --> 02:40:51,880
Speaker 3: That's what her and her fiance want and I've been

3242
02:40:51,920 --> 02:40:56,720
Speaker 3: wanting forever. Yes, sister does not like it because the

3243
02:40:56,800 --> 02:41:01,080
Speaker 3: sister is giving narcissistic tendencies, saying her kids kids, her

3244
02:41:01,160 --> 02:41:03,360
Speaker 3: kid is too young to go and that they should

3245
02:41:03,360 --> 02:41:06,000
Speaker 3: wait another year or so. So we're kids five or

3246
02:41:06,040 --> 02:41:06,920
Speaker 3: six to get on the plane.

3247
02:41:06,920 --> 02:41:08,680
Speaker 1: They can't fly because they're not birds exactly.

3248
02:41:08,760 --> 02:41:11,920
Speaker 3: Yes, and she's planning on having another kid that definitely

3249
02:41:12,120 --> 02:41:15,400
Speaker 3: is not a bird you can't fly. So she's she's

3250
02:41:15,440 --> 02:41:18,040
Speaker 3: just being very not being super difficult.

3251
02:41:18,120 --> 02:41:19,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, making everything about.

3252
02:41:19,200 --> 02:41:23,880
Speaker 3: Her exactly exactly. But now she's excited because her mother

3253
02:41:23,879 --> 02:41:27,520
Speaker 3: in law is gonna come. Babysit. Sorry this comment got

3254
02:41:27,560 --> 02:41:33,640
Speaker 3: me John kill them all come suit. John basically hit

3255
02:41:33,680 --> 02:41:38,000
Speaker 3: the nail of the heads for five gifted memberships, Oh

3256
02:41:38,040 --> 02:41:39,560
Speaker 3: my gosh, and a list of Monday. Thank you for

3257
02:41:39,600 --> 02:41:44,600
Speaker 3: the other gifted membership. Our family is growing. It doesn't

3258
02:41:44,640 --> 02:41:47,760
Speaker 3: in here though. After that was settled, my fiance and

3259
02:41:47,800 --> 02:41:50,520
Speaker 3: I started planning our reception for when we come back home.

3260
02:41:51,280 --> 02:41:54,480
Speaker 3: After selecting the reception venue with my parents, I started

3261
02:41:54,480 --> 02:41:57,199
Speaker 3: to reach out to venders on the list of recommendations.

3262
02:41:57,520 --> 02:41:59,640
Speaker 3: My sister and I talk a lot on the phone.

3263
02:42:00,080 --> 02:42:03,600
Speaker 3: I found myself having to justify the decisions I was making.

3264
02:42:04,040 --> 02:42:07,199
Speaker 3: For example, she would ask me how planning was going,

3265
02:42:07,240 --> 02:42:09,320
Speaker 3: and I would say, I talked to the floors from

3266
02:42:09,360 --> 02:42:12,760
Speaker 3: the wedding venue recommendations today. Then she would tell me

3267
02:42:12,959 --> 02:42:16,119
Speaker 3: I should use her floors from her wedding.

3268
02:42:17,040 --> 02:42:22,440
Speaker 2: Shut up, shut up, she's probably shut up on one.

3269
02:42:22,720 --> 02:42:28,800
Speaker 2: Just shut up. Oh she wants to kickback. I think so.

3270
02:42:28,840 --> 02:42:33,840
Speaker 2: She literally she literally shut up, shut up. Let me now,

3271
02:42:33,879 --> 02:42:36,200
Speaker 2: I want to I'm now I'm with John right. She

3272
02:42:36,440 --> 02:42:39,000
Speaker 2: she wants She's got like a cater of florist venue everything.

3273
02:42:39,000 --> 02:42:41,160
Speaker 1: She's like, hey, I'm gonna give you this person, but

3274
02:42:41,240 --> 02:42:43,800
Speaker 1: you're gonna give me a fat like referral fee.

3275
02:42:44,240 --> 02:42:48,400
Speaker 3: Yep, yep. I I sense that. I since that she

3276
02:42:48,520 --> 02:42:51,280
Speaker 3: didn't just do this for the floorst vendor either. She

3277
02:42:51,400 --> 02:42:53,840
Speaker 3: said the same for who I should pick for the

3278
02:42:53,879 --> 02:42:56,880
Speaker 3: hair and makeup, the food, the cake, the music, the

3279
02:42:56,920 --> 02:43:00,320
Speaker 3: photo booth, the photographers, and the most annoying one is

3280
02:43:00,320 --> 02:43:02,640
Speaker 3: that I should push my reception through the following year

3281
02:43:02,920 --> 02:43:04,760
Speaker 3: to have it at the same time of year that

3282
02:43:04,840 --> 02:43:07,760
Speaker 3: she got married many years ago at the venue she

3283
02:43:07,920 --> 02:43:11,280
Speaker 3: used because it was all cheaper, so she then looked

3284
02:43:11,280 --> 02:43:14,200
Speaker 3: into the price itself to confirm it. She literally is

3285
02:43:14,240 --> 02:43:16,280
Speaker 3: trying to get referral fees from all of these people.

3286
02:43:16,320 --> 02:43:18,680
Speaker 3: This is my conspiracy theory. Yeah, from everyone, and the

3287
02:43:18,680 --> 02:43:20,520
Speaker 3: reason why she wants her to push it is because

3288
02:43:20,560 --> 02:43:23,240
Speaker 3: they don't have like any availability until that time.

3289
02:43:25,160 --> 02:43:29,520
Speaker 2: M Oh, that's dirty. She's playing chess.

3290
02:43:29,560 --> 02:43:33,480
Speaker 3: She's trying to get money out of this, not checkers chess.

3291
02:43:34,000 --> 02:43:35,760
Speaker 2: I flooded up with a guest.

3292
02:43:35,879 --> 02:43:38,480
Speaker 3: Oh no, another Kanye song that's.

3293
02:43:40,200 --> 02:43:41,320
Speaker 2: I'm Gonna Slop you.

3294
02:43:43,440 --> 02:43:49,560
Speaker 3: Uf oh man, I'm dying No, so I stopped telling

3295
02:43:49,600 --> 02:43:52,160
Speaker 3: her what I was doing. I just started saying, yep,

3296
02:43:52,360 --> 02:43:55,040
Speaker 3: uh huh, I'll look in today, get and get off

3297
02:43:55,080 --> 02:43:57,360
Speaker 3: the phone. The only thing we booked that was the

3298
02:43:57,480 --> 02:43:59,720
Speaker 3: same was the food and the bakery because they were

3299
02:43:59,720 --> 02:44:02,879
Speaker 3: on the list of recommendations and had the menu we wanted.

3300
02:44:03,360 --> 02:44:09,039
Speaker 3: This is important info for later. I told my John

3301
02:44:09,120 --> 02:44:09,880
Speaker 3: is so over this.

3302
02:44:10,760 --> 02:44:11,120
Speaker 1: No, I'm not.

3303
02:44:12,120 --> 02:44:14,959
Speaker 3: I told my fiance I was getting frustrated because I

3304
02:44:15,000 --> 02:44:18,520
Speaker 3: feel like my sister thinks I can't plan my own wedding. Also,

3305
02:44:18,640 --> 02:44:23,480
Speaker 3: I felt like she just wanted me to recreate her day.

3306
02:44:24,240 --> 02:44:28,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, back to the narcissis narcissistic tendencies YEP talked about.

3307
02:44:28,200 --> 02:44:30,000
Speaker 3: Also, is she divorce or not?

3308
02:44:32,600 --> 02:44:37,039
Speaker 1: That's a big one. Dude. You're you're on one.

3309
02:44:37,320 --> 02:44:41,320
Speaker 2: You are on one, John, You're on two zero.

3310
02:44:41,400 --> 02:44:43,440
Speaker 3: Bro, No, you're doing great. I love that you're own

3311
02:44:43,520 --> 02:44:45,920
Speaker 3: zero because like you're just like so blunt, no filter.

3312
02:44:46,120 --> 02:44:46,520
Speaker 2: True.

3313
02:44:46,760 --> 02:44:50,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not the one, two or the three. So

3314
02:44:50,160 --> 02:44:50,760
Speaker 1: I'll play with me.

3315
02:44:51,360 --> 02:44:54,760
Speaker 2: Oh that's freaking guys to learn, is that Kanye? No?

3316
02:44:55,480 --> 02:45:01,400
Speaker 3: God, I don't don't really know if this is an

3317
02:45:01,400 --> 02:45:04,280
Speaker 3: overreaction because she may think she is just trying to

3318
02:45:04,280 --> 02:45:07,320
Speaker 3: be helpful, but really it just pushed me to book

3319
02:45:07,400 --> 02:45:10,240
Speaker 3: things that are different out of spite, just to make

3320
02:45:10,240 --> 02:45:13,400
Speaker 3: sure nothing is like hers. My fiance has been very

3321
02:45:13,400 --> 02:45:15,879
Speaker 3: supportive and a good listener when I need event. But

3322
02:45:16,120 --> 02:45:19,400
Speaker 3: this isn't the end of the drama. We're halfway right now.

3323
02:45:19,720 --> 02:45:21,560
Speaker 1: God, all right, I'm buckled in.

3324
02:45:22,080 --> 02:45:26,280
Speaker 3: After all our vendors were locked in. I was thinking, great,

3325
02:45:26,520 --> 02:45:30,440
Speaker 3: that's over. She can't tell me her opinions anymore. Well, boy,

3326
02:45:30,600 --> 02:45:33,640
Speaker 3: was I wrong. It just started to the next thing

3327
02:45:34,160 --> 02:45:36,879
Speaker 3: in crong andological order. The next thing she started to

3328
02:45:36,879 --> 02:45:40,280
Speaker 3: bring up was a speech. There is the story of

3329
02:45:40,360 --> 02:45:43,560
Speaker 3: us growing up. It's not a horrifying story, but it's

3330
02:45:43,600 --> 02:45:46,240
Speaker 3: one that she always spins to make her seem right

3331
02:45:46,280 --> 02:45:49,600
Speaker 3: in the situation. Remember how Op earlier gave her a

3332
02:45:49,720 --> 02:45:52,800
Speaker 3: nice speech. It sounds like the system wants to drop

3333
02:45:52,800 --> 02:45:54,920
Speaker 3: this on her. I knew it. I freaking called that.

3334
02:45:55,720 --> 02:45:59,080
Speaker 1: Riley is on like in the stream, gentleman, fire, but

3335
02:45:59,120 --> 02:46:00,760
Speaker 1: on this story is going cral.

3336
02:46:00,800 --> 02:46:02,000
Speaker 3: I'm calling everything.

3337
02:46:02,720 --> 02:46:05,880
Speaker 1: Everything, dude. Hit those parlays.

3338
02:46:05,959 --> 02:46:07,920
Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you, dude. I'd be I'd be up

3339
02:46:07,959 --> 02:46:13,000
Speaker 3: so much right now. John mentions a Kanye song, I get.

3340
02:46:12,879 --> 02:46:18,119
Speaker 2: Something, have three Kanye.

3341
02:46:20,280 --> 02:46:25,879
Speaker 3: Under Oh my god, oh man. Every time someone asked

3342
02:46:25,920 --> 02:46:28,560
Speaker 3: me in front of her about the wedding planning, she says,

3343
02:46:28,879 --> 02:46:31,720
Speaker 3: I'm going to tell the story at the wedding. If

3344
02:46:31,760 --> 02:46:34,160
Speaker 3: the person asked what the story is, She's eager to

3345
02:46:34,160 --> 02:46:36,480
Speaker 3: throw me right under the bus and tell her version

3346
02:46:36,520 --> 02:46:39,000
Speaker 3: of it. By the time of the wedding, everyone will

3347
02:46:39,000 --> 02:46:41,959
Speaker 3: know it anyway at this point, so it's pointless. But

3348
02:46:42,160 --> 02:46:45,039
Speaker 3: when I asked her to please not. But when I

3349
02:46:45,040 --> 02:46:48,039
Speaker 3: asked her to please not, she responds with, I have

3350
02:46:48,680 --> 02:46:51,520
Speaker 3: a trapped audience, so I can do what I want.

3351
02:46:52,080 --> 02:46:54,199
Speaker 2: A trapped audience, they can't go anywhere.

3352
02:46:54,200 --> 02:46:54,680
Speaker 1: What do you?

3353
02:46:54,720 --> 02:46:59,959
Speaker 2: What do you? I trapped you?

3354
02:47:00,080 --> 02:47:03,840
Speaker 1: I'm finalolog like I've always dropped.

3355
02:47:03,560 --> 02:47:07,760
Speaker 2: Off the evil monologueuse she always wanted. This is a pencil.

3356
02:47:09,360 --> 02:47:14,080
Speaker 3: Look at this appear. I wish I had more to

3357
02:47:14,120 --> 02:47:17,199
Speaker 3: say about the dress shopping experience. My friends heard more

3358
02:47:17,280 --> 02:47:21,160
Speaker 3: from her than I did, but I won't, but won't

3359
02:47:21,160 --> 02:47:24,000
Speaker 3: tell me as not to one more time.

3360
02:47:24,120 --> 02:47:24,640
Speaker 2: What the heck?

3361
02:47:24,879 --> 02:47:27,600
Speaker 3: My friends heard more from her than I did, but

3362
02:47:27,800 --> 02:47:31,520
Speaker 3: won't tell me to not upset me. The small things

3363
02:47:31,640 --> 02:47:34,560
Speaker 3: I did. The small things I did have to nip

3364
02:47:34,600 --> 02:47:37,080
Speaker 3: in the butt was that she kept trying to pull

3365
02:47:37,160 --> 02:47:41,400
Speaker 3: dresses that had similar features to her dress, or that

3366
02:47:41,480 --> 02:47:44,480
Speaker 3: she would pull things so far from my style that

3367
02:47:44,720 --> 02:47:47,520
Speaker 3: at one point I cried and had to have the

3368
02:47:47,520 --> 02:47:53,039
Speaker 3: shop assistant help me pull things instead to some to

3369
02:47:53,200 --> 02:47:56,440
Speaker 3: some this party is going to sound be.

3370
02:47:58,160 --> 02:47:59,760
Speaker 2: I think it's to some of this next part.

3371
02:48:00,000 --> 02:48:02,840
Speaker 3: Okay, to some, this next part is going to sound babe,

3372
02:48:03,760 --> 02:48:06,320
Speaker 3: I know, so feel free to have an opinion on that.

3373
02:48:06,879 --> 02:48:10,000
Speaker 3: I have nine people in my party. All I want

3374
02:48:10,000 --> 02:48:13,200
Speaker 3: for my bachelorette party was to go somewhere where we

3375
02:48:13,280 --> 02:48:16,760
Speaker 3: could bar crawl or have a bonfire outside when we

3376
02:48:16,800 --> 02:48:18,720
Speaker 3: would come back from going out during the day.

3377
02:48:18,879 --> 02:48:20,320
Speaker 2: Yes, there were a.

3378
02:48:20,280 --> 02:48:23,600
Speaker 3: Couple of places I gave us suggestions on where to go.

3379
02:48:24,080 --> 02:48:26,879
Speaker 3: She picked the last one on the list of four spots,

3380
02:48:27,280 --> 02:48:31,120
Speaker 3: the last resort location. Fine, it was on my list,

3381
02:48:31,160 --> 02:48:34,200
Speaker 3: so I can't be too upset. Now, Remember I went

3382
02:48:34,280 --> 02:48:36,840
Speaker 3: on a week and a half trip for her. Well,

3383
02:48:37,120 --> 02:48:41,199
Speaker 3: I got one weekend Friday night to Saturday morning because

3384
02:48:41,200 --> 02:48:44,000
Speaker 3: she didn't have the vacation days no longer.

3385
02:48:46,680 --> 02:48:47,000
Speaker 2: Dude.

3386
02:48:47,360 --> 02:48:49,080
Speaker 1: Oh oh so she was supposed to go out for

3387
02:48:49,120 --> 02:48:50,720
Speaker 1: this like whole longer thing.

3388
02:48:50,840 --> 02:48:51,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

3389
02:48:51,120 --> 02:48:52,960
Speaker 1: So it's like, oh, I can only make for a weekend, yeah,

3390
02:48:52,959 --> 02:48:54,920
Speaker 1: three days of it? Yeah, because sorry, but it's such

3391
02:48:54,920 --> 02:48:58,440
Speaker 1: a double standard because OP went to the whole vacation with.

3392
02:48:58,400 --> 02:49:01,200
Speaker 3: Her, Yeah, a whole week and a half, dude, to insanity,

3393
02:49:01,440 --> 02:49:04,160
Speaker 3: When I asked her if she cared if my other

3394
02:49:04,200 --> 02:49:07,039
Speaker 3: eight people went maybe one extra day or two before that.

3395
02:49:07,400 --> 02:49:09,800
Speaker 3: She said she could just come for that weekend. The

3396
02:49:09,879 --> 02:49:12,400
Speaker 3: location was close, about an hour away. She booked the

3397
02:49:12,440 --> 02:49:16,360
Speaker 3: house for just the weekend and that was that. Okay,

3398
02:49:16,640 --> 02:49:18,360
Speaker 3: So she only did into the days that she would

3399
02:49:18,400 --> 02:49:19,960
Speaker 3: be there, not like a day or two before.

3400
02:49:20,080 --> 02:49:20,360
Speaker 2: Yep.

3401
02:49:21,440 --> 02:49:24,800
Speaker 3: At the bachelorette party, my sister tried trying to nag

3402
02:49:24,879 --> 02:49:27,560
Speaker 3: me into to an escape room she wanted to do

3403
02:49:27,680 --> 02:49:30,840
Speaker 3: while we were there. Full disclosure, it's not that I

3404
02:49:30,879 --> 02:49:33,040
Speaker 3: hate them. I have done them and find them fun.

3405
02:49:33,120 --> 02:49:35,640
Speaker 3: It's just not something I wanted to do on my

3406
02:49:35,959 --> 02:49:40,200
Speaker 3: sort of weekend. Regardless anytime she saw one she would

3407
02:49:40,200 --> 02:49:43,240
Speaker 3: say we should do it, or my biggest sick is

3408
02:49:43,280 --> 02:49:46,760
Speaker 3: that we would say, say was this weekend isn't about

3409
02:49:46,800 --> 02:49:49,640
Speaker 3: you or anything, so let me do the escape room.

3410
02:49:50,879 --> 02:49:56,959
Speaker 1: It's literally a bachelotte okay, shut up, shut up, by

3411
02:49:57,040 --> 02:49:59,840
Speaker 1: thee oh, go ahead, grow some wings like your bird children,

3412
02:49:59,879 --> 02:50:04,280
Speaker 1: and flyaway. Yeah. Yeah.

3413
02:50:05,320 --> 02:50:07,200
Speaker 3: By the end of the weekend, I got the vibe

3414
02:50:07,240 --> 02:50:09,640
Speaker 3: she was hoping some people would agree with her and

3415
02:50:09,720 --> 02:50:12,600
Speaker 3: side with her so she could get her way and

3416
02:50:12,680 --> 02:50:15,720
Speaker 3: to flashback to one of the previous selections of the story.

3417
02:50:16,040 --> 02:50:20,000
Speaker 3: She also told the embarrassing childhood story multiple times that weekend.

3418
02:50:20,400 --> 02:50:22,600
Speaker 3: Some of my friends caught on and started to just

3419
02:50:22,640 --> 02:50:25,680
Speaker 3: walk away from her. This is the last part for

3420
02:50:26,280 --> 02:50:29,119
Speaker 3: This is the last part for This is the last

3421
02:50:29,120 --> 02:50:32,840
Speaker 3: part for cake testing. Two weekends ago, I invited her

3422
02:50:32,879 --> 02:50:36,160
Speaker 3: to cake testing since she invited me to hers. When

3423
02:50:36,240 --> 02:50:42,199
Speaker 3: looking at designs with my sister. Sorry, when looking at designs,

3424
02:50:42,400 --> 02:50:45,280
Speaker 3: my sister started pointing out that hers looked like for

3425
02:50:45,320 --> 02:50:48,480
Speaker 3: the day. When the lady started asking my fiance and

3426
02:50:48,520 --> 02:50:52,080
Speaker 3: I what our wedding colors are, my sister interrupted me

3427
02:50:52,160 --> 02:50:54,760
Speaker 3: to tell the lady we may not have the same

3428
02:50:54,800 --> 02:50:58,080
Speaker 3: tasting cake, but she did pick these same wedding colors

3429
02:50:58,120 --> 02:50:58,680
Speaker 3: as I did.

3430
02:51:00,280 --> 02:51:00,760
Speaker 1: Shut up.

3431
02:51:01,000 --> 02:51:03,400
Speaker 3: God, she's trying to win in every way.

3432
02:51:03,640 --> 02:51:06,320
Speaker 2: Literally, I would just tell her to shut up.

3433
02:51:06,440 --> 02:51:06,959
Speaker 3: What the hell.

3434
02:51:07,680 --> 02:51:14,160
Speaker 2: I'm actually really tired of this, really annoying, sucks. It's

3435
02:51:14,200 --> 02:51:14,840
Speaker 2: not your wedding.

3436
02:51:15,959 --> 02:51:19,400
Speaker 3: She's trying to make it hers dude really hot, not

3437
02:51:19,440 --> 02:51:21,840
Speaker 3: really gonna happen. Conspiracy theories. She's gonna try to steal

3438
02:51:21,879 --> 02:51:24,160
Speaker 3: the husband, just marry him. She's lining it all up.

3439
02:51:24,200 --> 02:51:25,039
Speaker 2: That's far fetched.

3440
02:51:25,200 --> 02:51:25,720
Speaker 3: That's very far.

3441
02:51:25,840 --> 02:51:29,520
Speaker 2: That's a very under that would that's very harle would

3442
02:51:29,520 --> 02:51:29,840
Speaker 2: be crazy.

3443
02:51:30,040 --> 02:51:32,560
Speaker 3: All of my conspiracy theories have come true. So I

3444
02:51:32,640 --> 02:51:33,360
Speaker 3: gotta make an act.

3445
02:51:33,720 --> 02:51:34,240
Speaker 2: We gotta cook.

3446
02:51:34,320 --> 02:51:36,080
Speaker 3: Now it's the time to cook. Like, come on, I

3447
02:51:36,240 --> 02:51:38,840
Speaker 3: like it, okay. I shook it off and told the

3448
02:51:38,920 --> 02:51:43,279
Speaker 3: lady the colors. Then we moved on and designed questions.

3449
02:51:43,480 --> 02:51:45,840
Speaker 3: Then we moved on to the design questions again. My

3450
02:51:45,959 --> 02:51:49,039
Speaker 3: sister told her flower designs she had on her cake,

3451
02:51:49,160 --> 02:51:51,400
Speaker 3: as if it was important. At this point, I think

3452
02:51:51,440 --> 02:51:53,600
Speaker 3: the lady was just as annoyed as I was, because

3453
02:51:53,640 --> 02:51:56,240
Speaker 3: we looked dead into each other's eyes, and I was

3454
02:51:56,400 --> 02:51:59,040
Speaker 3: just told that the poor woman, I just wanted a

3455
02:51:59,160 --> 02:52:01,160
Speaker 3: simple flowers on top of it.

3456
02:52:01,440 --> 02:52:01,920
Speaker 2: That was it.

3457
02:52:02,520 --> 02:52:05,440
Speaker 3: And what's simple is that we go live every weekend

3458
02:52:05,520 --> 02:52:06,440
Speaker 3: at three pm PSD.

3459
02:52:07,800 --> 02:52:08,440
Speaker 2: You said weekend.

3460
02:52:09,480 --> 02:52:11,160
Speaker 3: And what's simple to us is that we go live

3461
02:52:11,280 --> 02:52:13,000
Speaker 3: every weekday at three pm PSD.

3462
02:52:13,360 --> 02:52:13,800
Speaker 2: Just do what.

3463
02:52:15,360 --> 02:52:15,600
Speaker 1: That's it.

3464
02:52:16,840 --> 02:52:20,000
Speaker 3: That's all simple. Any thoughts?

3465
02:52:21,160 --> 02:52:23,320
Speaker 2: Uh? This sister sucks.

3466
02:52:24,200 --> 02:52:30,680
Speaker 1: This sister needs to painfully anthem anthempomorphically grow.

3467
02:52:31,320 --> 02:52:34,280
Speaker 2: I'm wings out of her skin. Yeah, I'm legit, waiting

3468
02:52:34,320 --> 02:52:35,760
Speaker 2: for so much to tell her to shut up, like

3469
02:52:35,840 --> 02:52:38,840
Speaker 2: they've been ignoring her, like whatever she starts talking, they're like,

3470
02:52:39,040 --> 02:52:41,520
Speaker 2: I'm walking away. But the fact that the cake designer

3471
02:52:41,720 --> 02:52:46,640
Speaker 2: and the opeach did the like uh like like are

3472
02:52:46,680 --> 02:52:48,320
Speaker 2: you you seeing it?

3473
02:52:48,480 --> 02:52:49,480
Speaker 1: You see what? Yeah?

3474
02:52:49,560 --> 02:52:51,280
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what you do that with somebody like

3475
02:52:51,280 --> 02:52:52,680
Speaker 2: you don't have to say anything. You just have each

3476
02:52:52,720 --> 02:52:55,080
Speaker 2: other and that speaks enough. Yeah, yeah they did that.

3477
02:52:55,600 --> 02:52:55,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

3478
02:52:56,120 --> 02:52:57,960
Speaker 2: Why isn't no one? Why is no one telling the

3479
02:52:58,040 --> 02:53:00,560
Speaker 2: sister to be quiet? That's my question.

3480
02:53:01,160 --> 02:53:04,240
Speaker 1: I guess that's hard for the wedding like venue people

3481
02:53:04,280 --> 02:53:06,400
Speaker 1: also stop taking her to all this the thing? Yeah,

3482
02:53:06,440 --> 02:53:07,000
Speaker 1: who cares? This?

3483
02:53:09,040 --> 02:53:09,720
Speaker 2: Good fire her?

3484
02:53:10,720 --> 02:53:13,720
Speaker 3: Ali says, finally made of honor. Also password protect everything.

3485
02:53:14,760 --> 02:53:19,720
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah that's pretty good. Marks like be quiet? Yeah, hush,

3486
02:53:20,600 --> 02:53:21,959
Speaker 3: all right, here's the end.

3487
02:53:22,120 --> 02:53:22,480
Speaker 1: Here we go.

3488
02:53:23,440 --> 02:53:25,560
Speaker 3: This is the most recent thing that has happened. I'm

3489
02:53:25,600 --> 02:53:28,280
Speaker 3: sorry for the longest post ever. I did run a little,

3490
02:53:28,360 --> 02:53:30,360
Speaker 3: so I'm sorry if it's messy. I have just been

3491
02:53:30,400 --> 02:53:32,840
Speaker 3: sitting on these feelings. Usually every time I try to

3492
02:53:32,879 --> 02:53:35,280
Speaker 3: set a boundary with her or tell her she has

3493
02:53:35,400 --> 02:53:37,640
Speaker 3: upset me, she takes it as an attack. Then it

3494
02:53:37,680 --> 02:53:40,680
Speaker 3: spirals into somehow I am sensitive one and I'm reading

3495
02:53:40,720 --> 02:53:43,640
Speaker 3: into what she says. Because of this, I have been

3496
02:53:43,760 --> 02:53:45,840
Speaker 3: very reluctant to saying to her anything.

3497
02:53:46,440 --> 02:53:46,560
Speaker 2: Uh.

3498
02:53:47,560 --> 02:53:49,760
Speaker 3: Because of this, I have been very reluctant to say

3499
02:53:49,840 --> 02:53:52,640
Speaker 3: anything to her. I'm looking for advice into how to

3500
02:53:52,720 --> 02:53:55,600
Speaker 3: handle the situation because it is so far of me

3501
02:53:55,879 --> 02:54:00,920
Speaker 3: not giving her any information. I'm looking for into how

3502
02:54:01,040 --> 02:54:04,600
Speaker 3: to handle this situation because so far me not giving

3503
02:54:04,640 --> 02:54:08,160
Speaker 3: her any information hasn't worked, and every step of the

3504
02:54:08,200 --> 02:54:10,360
Speaker 3: way I feel like she has gone to bring up

3505
02:54:10,440 --> 02:54:13,560
Speaker 3: her wedding or just tries to embarrass me. Thank you

3506
02:54:14,200 --> 02:54:17,240
Speaker 3: in advance for all the advice, And that is it.

3507
02:54:18,080 --> 02:54:21,400
Speaker 1: I have advice? Was that shut up, shut up, just

3508
02:54:21,560 --> 02:54:23,879
Speaker 1: shut up literally advice?

3509
02:54:24,280 --> 02:54:27,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all I got. Yeah, I think someone said

3510
02:54:27,920 --> 02:54:32,040
Speaker 2: it in the comments. Well, yeah, Harriet Spaghetti. At a

3511
02:54:32,080 --> 02:54:34,080
Speaker 2: certain point, OPI is just being an a hole to

3512
02:54:34,080 --> 02:54:36,480
Speaker 2: themselves by accepting all of this, you're kind of ruining

3513
02:54:36,640 --> 02:54:40,360
Speaker 2: your own stuff, like your own party, your own planning,

3514
02:54:40,520 --> 02:54:42,240
Speaker 2: you're bringing her to all you're bringing her to all

3515
02:54:42,320 --> 02:54:43,880
Speaker 2: of these things, and you know she's got to be

3516
02:54:44,040 --> 02:54:45,040
Speaker 2: doing it. Yeah.

3517
02:54:45,040 --> 02:54:46,640
Speaker 1: So like at a certain pat you get back, listen,

3518
02:54:46,840 --> 02:54:49,440
Speaker 1: you've overstepped your bounds. Yeah, maybe you invited me. I

3519
02:54:49,600 --> 02:54:51,640
Speaker 1: was just there to be helpful. You're overstepping your bounds

3520
02:54:51,680 --> 02:54:55,680
Speaker 1: on trying to control everything. No, honestly, I would be like,

3521
02:54:55,760 --> 02:54:58,959
Speaker 1: if you literally open your mouth about anything more, I'm

3522
02:54:59,000 --> 02:55:00,960
Speaker 1: gonna remove you a made of honor because this is

3523
02:55:01,120 --> 02:55:04,360
Speaker 1: passing out so much on my wedding. I don't deserve it.

3524
02:55:05,720 --> 02:55:10,640
Speaker 2: There we go, Shall we read some donuts? Close out words?

3525
02:55:11,200 --> 02:55:15,000
Speaker 2: Thanks for the ten dollars donation. More words, we've already

3526
02:55:15,000 --> 02:55:18,200
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3527
02:55:18,240 --> 02:55:18,840
Speaker 2: already read here.

3528
02:55:18,879 --> 02:55:24,280
Speaker 1: She's probably sound a sleepy billy Claire more John, Please

3529
02:55:24,360 --> 02:55:27,959
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3530
02:55:28,000 --> 02:55:30,600
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3531
02:55:30,640 --> 02:55:32,400
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3532
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3533
02:55:36,120 --> 02:55:37,120
Speaker 2: Anything that was it?

3534
02:55:37,280 --> 02:55:37,560
Speaker 3: That's it?

3535
02:55:37,920 --> 02:55:38,280
Speaker 1: All right?

3536
02:55:38,680 --> 02:55:39,039
Speaker 3: All right?

3537
02:55:39,360 --> 02:55:42,040
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3538
02:55:42,200 --> 02:55:44,160
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