1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:01,920 Speaker 1: And then you like role play at the beginning of 2 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: the date, like you've just met and it's like hot 3 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 1: and heavy once you're into it, I love it. No, 4 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 1: is that too specific? Okay? Anyways? Great Calm Down with 5 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio? Are we okay? 6 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:21,639 Speaker 1: Are we some friends? I haven't talked to you in 7 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: like seventeen days really probably like four the n three 8 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: days I haven't talked to you. I know, tell I 9 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,159 Speaker 1: know about the panic attack text you got for me, 10 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: and I was like, Hey, is it okay? So this 11 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: is what a great this is such this is why 12 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:41,279 Speaker 1: Aaron is such a great friend. Because I didn't talk 13 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 1: to her for two days and then she text me 14 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,319 Speaker 1: in the morning, where are you? And I wasn't by 15 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 1: my phone. I had my phone on the charger and 16 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 1: like not paying attention to it. And so then a 17 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: couple hours later she's like, I have a really bad 18 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: feeling that something's wrong and it just needs you to 19 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: tell me if you're okay. And I love you for that, because, 20 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: by the way, there'd be a lot of times in 21 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 1: my life that I could have been in a ditch 22 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: and nobody would have known. So thank you for caring 23 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: about me. Well, that sounds like a Dixie chick song. 24 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: And with that, everybody, welcome to the pregame coffee. I'm 25 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,199 Speaker 1: in Nashville, so I might as well sing some country music. 26 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 1: I know I've missed you. I love you. We are 27 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,119 Speaker 1: going to miss out with that pery game. We haven't 28 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: been down for a couple of weeks because I had 29 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: a debacle like the rest of anyone that was traveling 30 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: a few weeks ago, and we've just been, you know, 31 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: trying to cram things in before the start of our season. 32 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: So let's do this. Aaron MK twelve fourteen. Favorite date 33 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: night outfit on a guy. I love a baseball hat 34 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: and a watch combo. Well, I don't do anything with 35 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 1: my hair ever, so I could be your date in 36 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: a baseball hat. Favorite date night you go first. I 37 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: was thinking this the other day about my husband. We 38 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: just went to like a casual breakfast. That's what we 39 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: do at seven thirty am. Now when you take the 40 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: macaroon with you, wow, and he just throws on a 41 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: like pair of I don't want to say slacks, but 42 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: oh god, I got to redo my neck again of 43 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 1: whatever I'm gonna pull this down because that looks crazy. 44 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: It's just like a pair of like not like a 45 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: khaki slack, but like a guy slack, a T shirt 46 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: and like a caught again and he looks great and 47 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: so h on my soccer mom outfit and I look 48 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: like he wants to try to find somebody younger and hotter. 49 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: What are right now? That's a cute shirt. For those 50 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: of you listening on the podcast, Aaron has on this denim. 51 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 1: Is it a jacket or a shirt? It's like, Oh, 52 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: they're so cute. It's cute. This brand I'd never heard 53 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: of before, not an ad, but love it to be. Uh, 54 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: I think it's girlfriend. Yeah, it's really cute. So western 55 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: out here, so western, and your hair looks great. No 56 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: it doesn't. But thank you. I need a big, big 57 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: purchase on Cowboy boots that I'm gonna have forever that 58 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: every time you come out here you will see me 59 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: in them because they were a big purchase. But they 60 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: are so Yeah, it's okay. By the way, this is 61 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: these are things that we can It's fine. No animals 62 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: were harmed in the making. It's a skin that they show. 63 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: It's fun. Everything's funny. Don't worry about it. I don't 64 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: know if that's true, but it makes me feel better. 65 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: Nake again. Sure, I was such a cheap O'm cheapo 66 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: when I bought him. The first night it was kind 67 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: of drizzling at the rodeo and I had to google 68 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: if I could get them wet, and I saw real 69 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: life cowboys and they were like, you can get any 70 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: of that wet right. In fact, you want to get 71 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: them a little rough and tough rouls that looks like 72 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: you just got them out of the box and you're 73 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,399 Speaker 1: not like a real cowgirl. Gid up. Oh my god, 74 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: I've missed you. We really we talked about the rodeo. 75 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: I have so much to talk to you about. Oh 76 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 1: my god, I hate the schedule of ours. Okay, next, 77 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: Megan one Hoffman, go for it, sister. Oh I love this. 78 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: What would have been EA's postgame hit questions to Taylor's 79 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: quiesdible after the concert. Well, it's not just Ea, it's 80 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: Charissa too. In fact, we have a I'm just going 81 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: to put this out there now and I'm going to 82 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: retouch this for the big show. We have a lot 83 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: of questions to ask her, which we will manifest that 84 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: we're going to ask her over dranks one night, because 85 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: we know that's going to happen. But I'm going to 86 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: tell you something else that's going to happen. I'm putting 87 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: it in the universe, and I'm putting it out there. 88 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: I want Taylor Swept to do our super Bowl, the 89 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: Fox super Bowl this year. I may or may not 90 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: have even told that to Roger Goodell fifty times the 91 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: other night with Carissa. She did. And I would like 92 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: Carissa and I to do the pregame sit down with her. 93 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 1: Need to know about her love life. I need to 94 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: know about coming off this tour. I need to know 95 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: about doing a super Bowl and what that means and 96 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: all the haters that were like, oh, she's ruining the game. Sorry, 97 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: now she's going to set the highest record of viewers 98 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: for Super Bowl halftime. What would you ask Rissa? I 99 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: mean you and I've already made a list of all 100 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 1: the things we would ask her. We want to know preparations, pey, 101 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: how long are you sleeping in the day of the concert, 102 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 1: When do you get up, When do you start getting ready? 103 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: Are we getting a massage? What's the treatment? How are 104 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: you standing in those heels? Aaron and I made a 105 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: full list of all this. We should have written it down, 106 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: but we have it in our brain to just go 107 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: through it again, like we're doing right now. Of all 108 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 1: the questions we want to ask her, if you know 109 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: Travis is going to be there, do you have mints 110 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 1: on hand to give him a kiss with fresh breath afterwards? 111 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: Like do you spray perfume? Like before? I have a 112 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: million in one questions. The costume changes? Are you just 113 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 1: closing your eyes and stepping right through it? Somebody's putting 114 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 1: your shoes in, changing your look, putting them Mike packs on? 115 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: Where is the pe break in the show? Exactly? So, 116 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: Megan one Hoffman. If you were interested in the questions 117 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 1: we had, there's a lot of them. Lisa Vanderveer favorite 118 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 1: movie snack dots for me, Lisa, my favorite movie snack Licorice. 119 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 1: I crush red licorice. I could whip through a whole 120 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: box of that Bad Boy. Also like doing the I 121 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: haven't been to a movie theater now since pre COVID, 122 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: Like I don't know even the last movie I saw, 123 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,840 Speaker 1: but I know it was before COVID. And I do 124 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 1: love a popcorn situation and throw some Eminem's in there. Ooh, 125 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: I love that too. I love a popcorn situation, and 126 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 1: I do love the buttered popcorn, but I can't have 127 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 1: too much because then I'm running out of the movie 128 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 1: theater and interesting massroom. Oh my god, because she's the 129 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,479 Speaker 1: cracking open a beer or Lacroix Anonymous. We love anonymous, 130 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: go for it always. How can you help someone close 131 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,919 Speaker 1: to you who struggles with dental hygiene? Oh my god, 132 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: I need to say something. I needed someone with horrific. 133 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: Sure did. And here's the thing. I didn't even that's 134 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: not true. I did realize it, but I would always 135 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: chalk it up that they were like always drinking coffee, 136 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: and so I was like, oh, because I have a 137 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: real you and I are like have a phobia about 138 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: this to the point where it's like the mince and 139 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 1: the gum are on hand, and look, we do love 140 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:45,720 Speaker 1: a coffee. But yeah, I didn't even realize how bad 141 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 1: that person's breath was until other people told me. What 142 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: is this always a theme with me? Anytime I end 143 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: up finally breaking up with these weirdos, everyone's like, yeah, 144 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:55,919 Speaker 1: you know, we should have told you. Why don't you 145 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 1: tell me and be a real friend In the moment 146 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: your boyfriend's breath was terrible. Oh, I've had a guy 147 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: friend say that to me. Why didn't you tell me 148 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: she was crazy? Why didn't you tell me this? Because 149 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:10,559 Speaker 1: you can't. You can't really talk sense to somebody who's 150 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: trying to make it work, or I mean, maybe you 151 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: throw out a little bit and then if they're thinking 152 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: about it, they're like, oh, yeah, okay, but I love 153 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: okay when people are like, why didn't you tell me? 154 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: Not that I'm blasting you, but I'm blasting no, no, no, 155 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: I know what you're saying. Said that to me, No, 156 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: I know you're the only one that did tell me. 157 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: On some situations. Now, for the dental hygiene, I would 158 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: say you just always Dominique, and I talk about this 159 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: sweet Dominique because when she's doing makeup, like I'm cognizant, 160 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: like give me mints. I don't want to breathe in 161 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: your face. And there was a situation the boys were 162 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: getting their makeup done the other day and then they 163 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 1: were talking about someone who didn't have great hygiene, and 164 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, offer them a mint 165 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 1: or something. Yeah. So I would say, just be very 166 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: overt about who wants a mint, who wants a gum? 167 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: And then talk about it about somebody else and then 168 00:07:58,160 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: maybe they'll get the hint, be like, oh my god, 169 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: I had someone had the worst breast the other day, 170 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: but yeah, or I bring it up about myself, I'm like, 171 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: oh my god, my breathday is so horrific. You do that, 172 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: you're wanting to stick a gum? You shove it in 173 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: their mouth? Oh okay, coffee Sarah from Mallion whatever favorite 174 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 1: city in the US for a girl's trip? We are 175 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: early thirties. That's a great question. I mean people do Vegas. 176 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 1: New York is great if you go, great hotels, great restaurants, 177 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: great bars. What else? C I just came. I just 178 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: landed in Nashville and the airport tells you that the bachelorette. 179 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sweet, think the trips are still alive and 180 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:41,559 Speaker 1: well in this city. This is a fun city. Though. 181 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:43,839 Speaker 1: To do a girl's trip, you can walk around a 182 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: lot of places. Obviously you can do the Broadway thing. 183 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 1: Because early thirties, you guys can still handle that. Aaron 184 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 1: and I are what our version of like a girl's 185 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: night out as being in our Jami by ten o'clock 186 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: on that couch with red wine. But yeah, Vegas, New York, 187 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: New York, like do a Broadway play strong show and 188 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,440 Speaker 1: then go out at night. Yeah, NAPA is great. Also, 189 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:08,839 Speaker 1: I want to do Martha's Vineyard and get it. Well. Yeah, 190 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: but I'm also that's like a that's like a fifty fifty. 191 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: We're in the other bracket of this, sure are. How 192 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:18,439 Speaker 1: about when I had to fill out forms the other 193 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: day for a thing we were doing, and it still 194 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: is so antiquated. It says single, married, divorced, and I'm like, well, 195 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: wonder if you're in between one of those. I'm not single, 196 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 1: I'm not married. I mean I am divorced, but like, 197 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: why do I have to check a divorce box? Where's 198 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:37,079 Speaker 1: the like in the relationship box? Oh my god? Yeah, anyways, 199 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: good point. I digress. Leila uh Ria. Fun date night 200 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: ideas that are better than just going out to eat? 201 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: You and Jarrett cuties. You guys had one the other day. 202 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: You sent us a video a fun date night. You 203 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 1: guys went bulling. Oh yeah, I kicked his ass. It 204 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 1: was awesome. So full disclosure. We did a Vegas trip 205 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,319 Speaker 1: a couple of years ago with Fox and they did 206 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 1: a great time with Chris. I actually set it up. 207 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: It was it was a great time. We had our 208 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: boss's phone. We were doing the playliffs. Awesome, such a 209 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 1: great time. Kevin Burkhart great at bowling. Wow. And so 210 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: was Tom Rinaldi. Yeah, everybody so enough. So I had 211 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 1: a PTSD moment because when we were bowling with Fox, 212 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: I was so bad that I threw the ball backwards 213 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: like it was just a thing. I wasn't really feeling myself. 214 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 1: It wasn't great. I did heat up late, but it 215 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: was too late. When you go up against like Gronk 216 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: and Stray and all those guys, I fucking came out 217 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 1: hot against you. And I mean there was a moment 218 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 1: I was down by thirty and came back to tie 219 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: it up, and I was to go next to win 220 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 1: the whole thing, and I was like literally taking a 221 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: minute and breathing, and I'm like, what am I doing. 222 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: I'm going up against a two times Stanley Cup champion. 223 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 1: I don't have the confidence for this. And I was like, yes, 224 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 1: you do, you do. I'd beat his axe and it 225 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: was great. Right. Hey, by the way, how did the 226 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 1: golf turn turn out? We haven't even talked about it 227 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: about Yeah, he lost by four strokes. Oh, I think 228 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:08,719 Speaker 1: is that what they say? That's what they say for 229 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 1: his putting game was horrible. He said, he's all in 230 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: his head. And yeah. The reason I ask is because 231 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:17,679 Speaker 1: Aaron's so funny. The last time we did catch up 232 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: was her telling me that she was telling her child 233 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 1: of one years old, your dad needs to get it together. 234 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 1: We do not like losers in this Famly he better 235 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 1: win that tournament. Yeah, the family of very competitive individuals. 236 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: So yes, that is a very fun date night. Other 237 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 1: date night ideas, I just think like surprising the other person, 238 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 1: and like, you know, I love a theme, like just 239 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 1: anything that is just different than you would normally do. 240 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: So like even pack a picnic, but don't tell him 241 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 1: you're packing a picnic. Just be like, meet me at 242 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 1: this place at this time, cure. I also like to 243 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: do this is like fun and just to spice things 244 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 1: up for ten Like you guys haven't ever met and 245 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: you're going on a first date, but it's a block date, 246 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: and say meet me at this bar at this time. 247 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 1: I'll be wearing this outfit. And then you like role 248 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: play at the beginning of the date, like you've just 249 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: met and it's like hot and heavy once you're into it, 250 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,959 Speaker 1: I love it. No, is that too specific? Okay? Right? 251 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: And then it's hot heavy. Wasn't hot and heavy at 252 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: the bowling alley? Let me tell you, because that was 253 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:22,439 Speaker 1: beating his ass hot and heavy. You know what I mean, 254 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 1: Papa Boo one two three. Your secret to happiness? Oh, 255 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 1: let me know when you find it. No, I'm so happy. 256 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: I think one of the biggest things we're trying to 257 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 1: do with our life is just the communication. I'll say this, ready, 258 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: you want to you want to talk finding perspective in 259 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 1: your life. I sent this to Carissa and to my 260 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 1: manager and one of my closest girlfriends, Constance Schwartz Marini. 261 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 1: There was amazing video, uh, the bills owner and his 262 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: wife Terry and Kim Bugula going out to practice the 263 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 1: other day, and I'll be honest, it just shook me up. 264 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 1: She yeah, Josh Allen grabbing her arms. She had suffered 265 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 1: a heart attack and now is obviously trying to come back. 266 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 1: And God love that woman. So I think secret to 267 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 1: happiness for me is really trying to find perspective. I 268 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:12,319 Speaker 1: want a lot of things in my life. I want 269 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:14,199 Speaker 1: them done right, and I want to please a lot 270 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: of people. But when you see things like that to 271 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: a beautiful, successful, lovely woman, man very well said. And 272 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: I think that goes back to health doesn't matter. You 273 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 1: know what text bracket you're in is that if you 274 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: don't have your health, you don't have anything else. And 275 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 1: so having those people around you when things don't always 276 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: go your way in that department and I know that 277 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: you know, as my great grandmother would always say, count 278 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: your blessings, not your troubles. I think it's important to 279 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: have that so very well said. And with that, thank 280 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 1: you guys for joining us on the pre game. We 281 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: are going to be happy because we have our health, 282 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: and we have each other, and we have you guys. 283 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: So we got a full podcast. We are back and 284 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: we are ready see I'm the Big show, folks. Calm 285 00:13:57,240 --> 00:14:00,320 Speaker 1: Down with Aaron and Carissa is a production of iHeart Radio. 286 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 287 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:10,079 Speaker 1: or wherever you get your podcasts.