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Speaker 1: the call just gets worse and worse. Oh It's true,
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Speaker 3: The Second Date Updated.
Speaker 4: A lot of so called dating experts will tell you
Speaker 4: that it's good to bond over things that you both love.
Speaker 1: Yeah, why did you use dating experts and quotes that
Speaker 1: is true?
Speaker 4: Well, I'm telling like the same TV shows, same sports teams, Yes,
Speaker 4: same mom. I don't know if I really trust that
Speaker 4: line of thinking, but one of our listeners says he
Speaker 4: was drawn to a woman based on what they both hate,
Speaker 4: and that actually sounds.
Speaker 3: Healthier to me.
Speaker 1: That can't bring you together.
Speaker 4: So I don't say this often, but let's spread the
Speaker 4: hate today and talk to Ethan learn about his date.
Speaker 3: Ethan, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Hey guys, thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: That slogan of the day.
Speaker 4: Okay, since we're spreading hate, everyone wants to go around
Speaker 4: the room and say who do you hate?
Speaker 2: Brook?
Speaker 3: Now, before we do that, I like that idea for
Speaker 3: that exercise.
Speaker 4: First, let's talk to Ethan about what he hates and
Speaker 4: how that bonded him to the girl that what's her
Speaker 4: name by the.
Speaker 2: Way, you go first, Well, her name is Aria, Okay,
Speaker 2: and she got me laughing over her first line, which
Speaker 2: was her biggest pet peeve is people who microwave fish.
Speaker 1: It work, Brook, I stop bringing in salmon. Okay.
Speaker 3: And where did she say that line?
Speaker 2: Oh it's on her dating profile. Okay.
Speaker 3: So you saw that and you were like, this is
Speaker 3: my type of woman.
Speaker 1: And it's probably a good opening, right, like for you
Speaker 1: to strike up a conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because there's actually a guy that does that at
Speaker 2: my work. So we kind of bonded.
Speaker 1: Talking about bad smelling food hot fish.
Speaker 4: Every office has at least one of those people. But
Speaker 4: that's cool to bond over that.
Speaker 2: It was an opening to see her personality and man,
Speaker 2: she's funny, and we just got along so well after that.
Speaker 4: It's a humor so important sure for everybody.
Speaker 3: Some people all bond over how much they hate humor. Yeah,
Speaker 3: did you tell joke? But okay, you guys end up
Speaker 3: meeting up for a date.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I wanted to pick a place like a restaurant
Speaker 2: so I could get to know her, a place that
Speaker 2: wasn't crowded. And that's important to me, just us focusing
Speaker 2: on getting to know each other.
Speaker 1: What do you, I don't know. I get worried about that.
Speaker 1: Non crowded places mean bad food to me.
Speaker 3: I think the positive though.
Speaker 4: It is quiet and you get a little bit more intimately,
Speaker 4: you can actually talk.
Speaker 1: The whole staff is probably listening to everywhere. You said,
Speaker 1: it's dead quiet. I love sitting next to a first.
Speaker 2: Day and.
Speaker 4: Okay, well, it's nice that you got exactly what you wanted.
Speaker 4: How did it go?
Speaker 2: It went well. And I'm also not a fan of cameras.
Speaker 1: Camera.
Speaker 4: Okay, we have a lot of things that you hate
Speaker 4: so far, you.
Speaker 1: See, I'm taking some sort of FBI watch list too.
Speaker 4: So far, you hate people that microwave their fish, you
Speaker 4: hate big crowds, and you hate cameras.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the cameras deal?
Speaker 2: Explain that, well, security cams like businesses and restaurants, they
Speaker 2: have so many. They capture your image and they can
Speaker 2: use it for anything.
Speaker 1: They also usually don't work.
Speaker 3: I feel you though.
Speaker 4: The people at the radio station use my image on
Speaker 4: stuff all the time, and it's really annoying.
Speaker 1: Sit talking about the promotional picture.
Speaker 3: Everyone on the cars. It's on the fly. Give me
Speaker 3: some space.
Speaker 5: I like, I'm with you bro.
Speaker 3: People daily and.
Speaker 1: Tell her the thing about how you hated security cameras.
Speaker 2: No, I like to scout that out ahead of time.
Speaker 1: You go and see before you go.
Speaker 3: He's thorough Brooke.
Speaker 4: He does his research and decides if he likes the
Speaker 4: place before he takes there.
Speaker 3: I think that's a good thing.
Speaker 1: Imagine put security cameras to look at their security cameras.
Speaker 1: So were you able to bond over more stuff you
Speaker 1: hate it?
Speaker 2: Dinner we talked about traveling in hobbies like I like
Speaker 2: to work out and run and she likes to play tennis.
Speaker 1: That's also you're both active people, but you.
Speaker 3: Don't you hate walking running only.
Speaker 1: From the authorities after they catch them on the security camps.
Speaker 2: I'm really a positive person. I don't know why. There's
Speaker 2: just some things that bug me, that's all, okay.
Speaker 1: Okay, And we kind of really leaned in to that
Speaker 1: with you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, how did the date end?
Speaker 2: Basically after the meal, we left and I asked her,
Speaker 2: I don't live far from here. Would you be up
Speaker 2: for coming over and having a drink and hanging out?
Speaker 1: Okay, forward night, getting your figure and you're reading the
Speaker 1: room right, you know, like she's into it.
Speaker 2: She said, yeah, sweet. Nice. She must have had second thoughts, though,
Speaker 2: because a few minutes later, as we were walking and
Speaker 2: just having a good conversation, she said, you know what,
Speaker 2: on second thought, I got to get up for work
Speaker 2: in the morning, so I gotta go. And I was like,
Speaker 2: are you sure, and she said, yeah.
Speaker 3: Really, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's fair. I think it could have
Speaker 1: been one of those moments where it's like you got
Speaker 1: the devil and the angel on your shoulder, and then
Speaker 1: the Devil's like, do it, it'll be fun. Angel's like, no,
Speaker 1: you have a meeting in the morning, don't Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: What do you think, Ethan, you think she was being
Speaker 4: honest with you that she really had to go work
Speaker 4: the next day?
Speaker 2: I'm not so sure, and it's been like eight or
Speaker 2: nine days since then, and it feels like things have shifted.
Speaker 2: So I don't know why, and I need your help
Speaker 2: to figure it out.
Speaker 1: Right, what did you do with that thirty seconds to
Speaker 1: make her change her mind?
Speaker 3: Yeah? What were you talking about?
Speaker 4: You're like, hey, I have thirteen security cameras in my
Speaker 4: house that way.
Speaker 1: Oh no, that's right. He doesn't like the security call. Oh,
Speaker 1: that's right, So.
Speaker 2: Maybe that's what he said.
Speaker 3: Hey, by the way, I have no security cameras.
Speaker 2: I mean, we didn't talk about security cameras like that
Speaker 2: at all.
Speaker 1: Oh, no care, Okay, good, that's good. That's positive.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, let's.
Speaker 4: Find out what made her change her mind and decide
Speaker 4: to turn around halfway over to your place.
Speaker 3: We'll get you your second date update with Aria. Right
Speaker 3: after this second date update.
Speaker 4: We're talking to Ethan, who we learned is not a
Speaker 4: fan of microwaved fish, large crowds, or security.
Speaker 1: Cameras things that really go together.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 4: But good news is he is a big fan of
Speaker 4: all the woman that he went out with the other night,
Speaker 4: and it went great until the very end of the evening,
Speaker 4: when she changed her mind on the walk over to
Speaker 4: his place and said, actually, never mind, I need to
Speaker 4: get home and sleep because I have to work tomorrow.
Speaker 1: He was fine with that, He just wasn't fine with
Speaker 1: her not calling.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because that was eight days ago.
Speaker 4: And I don't know what she does for work that
Speaker 4: could keep her occupied for eight straight days and nights.
Speaker 4: But it seems like something is up right a streamer
Speaker 4: like me, she.
Speaker 3: Could do one of those marathon streams.
Speaker 4: Or she doesn't get off until she has a certain
Speaker 4: amount of that seems highly likely, yes, Or she works
Speaker 4: on a submarine out in the middle of the Pacific Ocean.
Speaker 3: There's just no.
Speaker 4: Service out there. He had an astronaut of some sort.
Speaker 4: We didn't ask what.
Speaker 3: She did for a living.
Speaker 2: I know a streamer.
Speaker 1: I know a biologist who has to track like sixty
Speaker 1: miles into the wilderness to follow some Arctic foxes.
Speaker 3: Do you think we're close on any of these guesses, ethan.
Speaker 2: Ah, that's a good question. I think I think he
Speaker 2: could be.
Speaker 1: You never found out what she did, Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: you're saying, during an entire dinner date you didn't ask.
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. I think she's in marketing, Okay.
Speaker 4: Marketing submarines and marketing rocket ships, so that's totally different.
Speaker 3: But I don't know.
Speaker 1: Can I just add real quick because you sound like
Speaker 1: a really private guy. I think it's really cool that
Speaker 1: you're going out on a limb and calling us for help,
Speaker 1: and like I mean, I think it means.
Speaker 4: A lot translation if this doesn't work out, Brooke is interesting.
Speaker 2: I appreciate that.
Speaker 3: Let's call this.
Speaker 4: A lady and see if she's willing to give you
Speaker 4: another shot.
Speaker 2: Here we go, Thank you, we got you.
Speaker 5: Hold on, hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Aria.
Speaker 3: It's nice to.
Speaker 4: Talk to a friendly person on this everyone. So in
Speaker 4: a while, we're a radio show. We're called Broken Jeffrey
Speaker 4: in the Morning. I don't know if you've heard of us.
Speaker 4: Oh oh, oh, don't worry, it's not We're not doing
Speaker 4: a bad thing.
Speaker 3: I don't think he's so cute.
Speaker 6: What's going on here, guys?
Speaker 4: We're doing this thing on our show called the Second
Speaker 4: Date Update, and we're trying to help out one of
Speaker 4: our listeners that you met up with about a week ago.
Speaker 4: A little bit more than that. His name's Ethan.
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, wait, actually yeah, yeah, are you sure?
Speaker 1: Are we sure? We talked to Ethan?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 6: Okay, I'm very very surprised by that, really, are you.
Speaker 1: Yes, maybe he's a hard guy to read, you know,
Speaker 1: like how he's feeling.
Speaker 3: What makes Why are you surprised?
Speaker 6: Okay, So we just he seems like a very private person.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we spoke and we got that impression too, So
Speaker 4: I guess I can understand why you're a little bit
Speaker 4: surprised that he would come through a radio show to
Speaker 4: reach you.
Speaker 1: I mean we even actually applauded him for doing it.
Speaker 1: He's going out on a limb just because he likes
Speaker 1: you so much.
Speaker 6: That's very very sweet.
Speaker 4: Okay, I feel like he maybe is a sweet guy.
Speaker 4: He's also a confused guy right now, because it's been
Speaker 4: eight days since you hung out, and he doesn't really
Speaker 4: have an explanation for why the two of you haven't.
Speaker 3: Met up again.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we were even debating in studio whether or
Speaker 1: not you really had work the next morning or you
Speaker 1: just made that up as an excuse.
Speaker 6: No, I really did, I did, Okay, Okay, it was
Speaker 6: a convenient excuse.
Speaker 1: Yeah, both things can be true. We didn't think about
Speaker 1: that party.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Wait, she actually has a job, that's the problem.
Speaker 3: So why did you need to use an excuse.
Speaker 6: You're not going to believe me. Okay a minute, it's
Speaker 6: unbelievable what you're about to say. I mean, I told
Speaker 6: a couple of my best friends this and they couldn't
Speaker 6: believe it. I kind of couldn't believe it when it happened.
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 3: We're interested? Yeah, you got to tell us.
Speaker 6: Okay, so we just had dinner. We're walking and I thought, okay,
Speaker 6: like maybe we're going to go back to his place.
Speaker 1: Huh wait, you can't laugh through it because I can't
Speaker 1: always understand.
Speaker 2: What you're saying.
Speaker 6: Sorry, I'm I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3: We don't like laughing on this.
Speaker 1: The moment what happened?
Speaker 6: He said, if we do that, you're going to have
Speaker 6: to sign an n DA.
Speaker 2: We what?
Speaker 1: Oh no, he was joking.
Speaker 4: Or no, only celebrities, you said NDA like a non
Speaker 4: disclosure agreement.
Speaker 6: Actually what I thought he said for her, because this
Speaker 6: made more sense to me, was you like the NBA.
Speaker 1: O NBA like the basketball? Yeah?
Speaker 6: No, I couldn't possibly care less. But I started to
Speaker 6: be like, oh, I don't really like sports. He's like no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 6: and then again repeated and he a and I just
Speaker 6: have never been that confused in my life?
Speaker 1: Did he explain why? Why did he want an NDA?
Speaker 6: Kind of so, I'm like, I feel so stupid for
Speaker 6: asking this, Like are you famous? I don't like that's
Speaker 6: not knowing, but are you or something? He goes, no,
Speaker 6: but my dad is.
Speaker 2: Somebody?
Speaker 3: My dad, okay?
Speaker 4: And that didn't make you want to sign the NDA
Speaker 4: even more, just to like figure that out.
Speaker 1: Why is he going to bring his dad up and
Speaker 1: tell you stuff about his dad that you have to
Speaker 1: sign an NDA for?
Speaker 2: Hey, guys, can we just stop this for a second.
Speaker 2: I don't like the way this has gone.
Speaker 4: Oh hello, when we were just getting to the good stuff,
Speaker 4: I felt like.
Speaker 6: Before, what is happening right now?
Speaker 2: Hey?
Speaker 4: Alright, we we didn't mention to you before, but that
Speaker 4: is Ethan who's been waiting on the other line wanting
Speaker 4: to talk to.
Speaker 2: You, And oh yeah, I didn't know that bothered you.
Speaker 2: And I think I told you I don't go on
Speaker 2: dates a lot, like maybe once or twice a year,
Speaker 2: but the ones that I do, all the women that
Speaker 2: come back to my place have no problem signing the NDA.
Speaker 1: That's not a good start. All the other women I
Speaker 1: bring back I love dishonest.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's being honest, and he's clearly a wanted man
Speaker 4: subject a through.
Speaker 2: Z have always.
Speaker 6: I don't like that at all.
Speaker 1: I mean, let's let's reword that a little bit ethan.
Speaker 2: Sure, it's just whoever I hang out with, I have
Speaker 2: them do that. And I'm surprised he was bringing up
Speaker 2: on the radio.
Speaker 6: Well, well, first of all, I did not plan on
Speaker 6: being on the radio. Second, I really liked you, and
Speaker 6: I really wanted to hang out again. But you must
Speaker 6: understand that nobody does that. I promise you, maybe like
Speaker 6: a like a super famous person or like a criminal
Speaker 6: or something.
Speaker 3: I don't think the criminals really do that.
Speaker 6: It's not it's not a normal thing.
Speaker 4: Well, I think you're kind of selling it to yourself there,
Speaker 4: because all of the best parties and events that I've
Speaker 4: ever been to made me sign in das, especially.
Speaker 1: The criminal ones.
Speaker 4: Well I would tell you more, but I'm technically not
Speaker 4: allowed to speak on that.
Speaker 1: So wait, aren't you dying of curiosity of who his
Speaker 1: dad is? I have to feel like i'd sign it
Speaker 1: just to find out.
Speaker 6: Honestly, it just seems fake to.
Speaker 4: Me, believe believe that he's really like as a famous dad.
Speaker 2: You don't believe me that I'm rich and famous. Come on, I.
Speaker 6: Mean, then I'm Spresby went to that restaurant.
Speaker 2: But okay, okay, exactly.
Speaker 4: No, it fits the profile. He doesn't like to be
Speaker 4: caught on camera. He doesn't like to be seen big crowd.
Speaker 4: He wants to go to places that are under the
Speaker 4: radar so that nobody knows who he is.
Speaker 1: And all the rich and famous people need our help
Speaker 1: getting another date. It's true, everybody in Hollywood knows.
Speaker 2: Aria.
Speaker 4: You should really rethink your decision here. I would like
Speaker 4: to offer to send you out on another date with
Speaker 4: mysterious Ethan to find out.
Speaker 2: Hey, before she answers, I need to let you know
Speaker 2: I think I'm out. She just doesn't value privacy as
Speaker 2: much as I do. Why yes, Yeah, I think I'm
Speaker 2: done before I have the.
Speaker 6: Chance to say it.
Speaker 2: Great, that's it.
Speaker 3: Are you kidding?
Speaker 2: We're done? Dude?
Speaker 1: This is going to kill me. Alexis sign anything, But
Speaker 1: then you can't tell anyone. She can tell me? Can
Speaker 1: I text it?
Speaker 2: Say?
Speaker 3: There's always loopholes in these guys.
Speaker 2: Thanks for trying. I appreciate it, but I've got to go.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, oh god, he hung up.
Speaker 2: What happened.
Speaker 1: What has happened is we didn't get any answers.
Speaker 4: What has happened as you lost your chance with Ben
Speaker 4: Stiller's son is what happens.
Speaker 3: Right, Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: I don't want to get mad at people for saying no.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's totally their right, But sometimes you need
Speaker 4: to pull a Brook and drop your morals and just
Speaker 4: say yes to someone that you don't even like just
Speaker 4: for the story.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you do it for the plot. I mean I
Speaker 1: feel like I was the originator of that slogan, doing
Speaker 1: that for decades just for the plot.
Speaker 4: How many basement boys and homeless folks did you go
Speaker 4: out with just to come into the radio and tell
Speaker 4: that story?
Speaker 1: But they're such good stories, and they were good people sort.
Speaker 2: Of pot.
Speaker 1: It's fun and I got I want closure on this
Speaker 1: so bad.
Speaker 4: Now we're never going to know who the NDA guy
Speaker 4: really is and that is going to haunt all of
Speaker 4: us for the rest of our year and probably the
Speaker 4: rest of our lives.
Speaker 1: It is kind of a baller move if it's just
Speaker 1: a lie to say that you have to sign an NDA. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is like I can't tell you, is it baller?
Speaker 2: If you can't get a date though.
Speaker 4: If you can't get a date NDA or not, you
Speaker 4: can always reach out to us. We'll call that person
Speaker 4: who's not calling you back, and if you want to
Speaker 4: go check out all of our second date updates. They're
Speaker 4: available on podcasts wherever you get yours at Brook and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey