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Speaker 1: Hey, you found it the home of the Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: It is Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and thanks

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Speaker 2: Yes, you know.

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Speaker 1: I love all the comments we've been getting from all

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Speaker 1: over the world, and I think this one really sums

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Speaker 1: up what these second dates are. Nicolie Hubert in Brazil wrote,

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Speaker 1: the call just gets worse and worse. Oh It's true,

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Speaker 1: it does. It's like a guilty pleasure listening though. You know,

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Speaker 1: back and enjoy the Second Date Update. It's brand new

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Speaker 1: and it starts right now.

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Speaker 3: The Second Date Updated.

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Speaker 4: A lot of so called dating experts will tell you

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Speaker 4: that it's good to bond over things that you both love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why did you use dating experts and quotes that

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Speaker 1: is true?

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm telling like the same TV shows, same sports teams, Yes,

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Speaker 4: same mom. I don't know if I really trust that

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Speaker 4: line of thinking, but one of our listeners says he

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Speaker 4: was drawn to a woman based on what they both hate,

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Speaker 4: and that actually sounds.

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Speaker 3: Healthier to me.

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Speaker 1: That can't bring you together.

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Speaker 4: So I don't say this often, but let's spread the

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Speaker 4: hate today and talk to Ethan learn about his date.

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Speaker 3: Ethan, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: That slogan of the day.

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Speaker 4: Okay, since we're spreading hate, everyone wants to go around

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Speaker 4: the room and say who do you hate?

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Speaker 2: Brook?

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Speaker 3: Now, before we do that, I like that idea for

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Speaker 3: that exercise.

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Speaker 4: First, let's talk to Ethan about what he hates and

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Speaker 4: how that bonded him to the girl that what's her

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Speaker 4: name by the.

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Speaker 2: Way, you go first, Well, her name is Aria, Okay,

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Speaker 2: and she got me laughing over her first line, which

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Speaker 2: was her biggest pet peeve is people who microwave fish.

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Speaker 1: It work, Brook, I stop bringing in salmon. Okay.

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Speaker 3: And where did she say that line?

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Speaker 2: Oh it's on her dating profile. Okay.

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Speaker 3: So you saw that and you were like, this is

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Speaker 1: And it's probably a good opening, right, like for you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because there's actually a guy that does that at

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Speaker 1: Talking about bad smelling food hot fish.

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Speaker 4: Every office has at least one of those people. But

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Speaker 2: It was an opening to see her personality and man,

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Speaker 2: she's funny, and we just got along so well after that.

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Speaker 4: It's a humor so important sure for everybody.

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Speaker 3: Some people all bond over how much they hate humor. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: did you tell joke? But okay, you guys end up

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I wanted to pick a place like a restaurant

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Speaker 1: What do you, I don't know. I get worried about that.

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Speaker 1: Non crowded places mean bad food to me.

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Speaker 3: I think the positive though.

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Speaker 4: It is quiet and you get a little bit more intimately,

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Speaker 1: The whole staff is probably listening to everywhere. You said,

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, it's nice that you got exactly what you wanted.

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Speaker 4: How did it go?

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Speaker 2: It went well. And I'm also not a fan of cameras.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we have a lot of things that you hate

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Speaker 1: See, I'm taking some sort of FBI watch list too.

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Speaker 4: So far, you hate people that microwave their fish, you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the cameras deal?

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Speaker 2: Explain that, well, security cams like businesses and restaurants, they

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Speaker 1: They also usually don't work.

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Speaker 4: The people at the radio station use my image on

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Speaker 1: Sit talking about the promotional picture.

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Speaker 3: Everyone on the cars. It's on the fly. Give me

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Speaker 1: Tell her the thing about how you hated security cameras.

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Speaker 2: No, I like to scout that out ahead of time.

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Speaker 3: He's thorough Brooke.

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Speaker 4: He does his research and decides if he likes the

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Speaker 3: I think that's a good thing.

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Speaker 1: Imagine put security cameras to look at their security cameras.

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Speaker 1: So were you able to bond over more stuff you

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Speaker 2: Dinner we talked about traveling in hobbies like I like

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Speaker 1: That's also you're both active people, but you.

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Speaker 3: Don't you hate walking running only.

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Speaker 1: From the authorities after they catch them on the security camps.

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Speaker 2: I'm really a positive person. I don't know why. There's

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Speaker 1: Okay, And we kind of really leaned in to that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how did the date end?

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Speaker 2: Basically after the meal, we left and I asked her,

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Speaker 1: Okay, forward night, getting your figure and you're reading the

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Speaker 2: She said, yeah, sweet. Nice. She must have had second thoughts, though,

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Speaker 3: Really, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's fair. I think it could have

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Speaker 1: been one of those moments where it's like you got

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Speaker 1: the Devil's like, do it, it'll be fun. Angel's like, no,

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Speaker 1: you have a meeting in the morning, don't Yeah.

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Speaker 4: What do you think, Ethan, you think she was being

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Speaker 2: I'm not so sure, and it's been like eight or

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Speaker 2: So I don't know why, and I need your help

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Speaker 1: Right, what did you do with that thirty seconds to

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Speaker 3: Yeah? What were you talking about?

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Speaker 4: You're like, hey, I have thirteen security cameras in my

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Speaker 1: Oh no, that's right. He doesn't like the security call. Oh,

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's what he said.

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Speaker 3: Hey, by the way, I have no security cameras.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we didn't talk about security cameras like that

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Speaker 1: Oh, no care, Okay, good, that's good. That's positive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, let's.

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Speaker 4: Find out what made her change her mind and decide

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Speaker 4: to turn around halfway over to your place.

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Speaker 3: We'll get you your second date update with Aria. Right

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Speaker 3: after this second date update.

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Speaker 4: We're talking to Ethan, who we learned is not a

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Speaker 1: Cameras things that really go together.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 4: But good news is he is a big fan of

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Speaker 4: all the woman that he went out with the other night,

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Speaker 4: and it went great until the very end of the evening,

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Speaker 4: when she changed her mind on the walk over to

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Speaker 1: He was fine with that, He just wasn't fine with

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because that was eight days ago.

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Speaker 4: And I don't know what she does for work that

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Speaker 4: But it seems like something is up right a streamer

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Speaker 3: Could do one of those marathon streams.

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Speaker 4: Or she doesn't get off until she has a certain

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Speaker 4: amount of that seems highly likely, yes, Or she works

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Speaker 3: There's just no.

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Speaker 4: Service out there. He had an astronaut of some sort.

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Speaker 4: We didn't ask what.

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Speaker 3: She did for a living.

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Speaker 2: I know a streamer.

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Speaker 1: I know a biologist who has to track like sixty

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Speaker 3: Do you think we're close on any of these guesses, ethan.

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Speaker 2: Ah, that's a good question. I think I think he

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Speaker 1: You never found out what she did, Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. I think she's in marketing, Okay.

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Speaker 4: Marketing submarines and marketing rocket ships, so that's totally different.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Can I just add real quick because you sound like

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Speaker 1: a really private guy. I think it's really cool that

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Speaker 1: and like I mean, I think it means.

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Speaker 4: A lot translation if this doesn't work out, Brooke is interesting.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that.

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Speaker 3: Let's call this.

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Speaker 4: A lady and see if she's willing to give you

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Speaker 2: Here we go, Thank you, we got you.

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Speaker 5: Hold on, hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Aria.

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Speaker 3: It's nice to.

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Speaker 4: Talk to a friendly person on this everyone. So in

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Speaker 4: a while, we're a radio show. We're called Broken Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: in the Morning. I don't know if you've heard of us.

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Speaker 4: Oh oh, oh, don't worry, it's not We're not doing

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Speaker 4: a bad thing.

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Speaker 3: I don't think he's so cute.

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Speaker 6: What's going on here, guys?

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Speaker 4: We're doing this thing on our show called the Second

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Speaker 4: Date Update, and we're trying to help out one of

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Speaker 4: our listeners that you met up with about a week ago.

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Speaker 4: A little bit more than that. His name's Ethan.

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, wait, actually yeah, yeah, are you sure?

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Speaker 1: Are we sure? We talked to Ethan?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm very very surprised by that, really, are you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, maybe he's a hard guy to read, you know,

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Speaker 1: like how he's feeling.

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Speaker 3: What makes Why are you surprised?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So we just he seems like a very private person.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we spoke and we got that impression too, So

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Speaker 4: I guess I can understand why you're a little bit

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Speaker 1: I mean we even actually applauded him for doing it.

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Speaker 6: That's very very sweet.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I feel like he maybe is a sweet guy.

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Speaker 4: He's also a confused guy right now, because it's been

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Speaker 3: Met up again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we were even debating in studio whether or

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Speaker 6: No, I really did, I did, Okay, Okay, it was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, both things can be true. We didn't think about

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Wait, she actually has a job, that's the problem.

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Speaker 3: So why did you need to use an excuse.

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Speaker 6: You're not going to believe me. Okay a minute, it's

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Speaker 6: unbelievable what you're about to say. I mean, I told

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 3: We're interested? Yeah, you got to tell us.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so we just had dinner. We're walking and I thought, okay,

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Speaker 1: Huh wait, you can't laugh through it because I can't

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Speaker 2: What you're saying.

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Speaker 6: Sorry, I'm I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 3: We don't like laughing on this.

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Speaker 1: The moment what happened?

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Speaker 6: He said, if we do that, you're going to have

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Speaker 6: to sign an n DA.

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Speaker 2: We what?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, he was joking.

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Speaker 4: Or no, only celebrities, you said NDA like a non

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Speaker 6: Actually what I thought he said for her, because this

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Speaker 1: O NBA like the basketball? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: No, I couldn't possibly care less. But I started to

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Speaker 6: be like, oh, I don't really like sports. He's like no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Did he explain why? Why did he want an NDA?

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Speaker 6: Kind of so, I'm like, I feel so stupid for

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Speaker 6: asking this, Like are you famous? I don't like that's

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Speaker 6: not knowing, but are you or something? He goes, no,

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Speaker 2: Somebody?

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Speaker 3: My dad, okay?

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Speaker 4: And that didn't make you want to sign the NDA

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Speaker 1: Why is he going to bring his dad up and

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Speaker 1: sign an NDA for?

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Speaker 2: Hey, guys, can we just stop this for a second.

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Speaker 2: I don't like the way this has gone.

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Speaker 4: Oh hello, when we were just getting to the good stuff,

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Speaker 4: I felt like.

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Speaker 6: Before, what is happening right now?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 4: Alright, we we didn't mention to you before, but that

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Speaker 2: You, And oh yeah, I didn't know that bothered you.

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Speaker 2: And I think I told you I don't go on

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Speaker 2: but the ones that I do, all the women that

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Speaker 2: come back to my place have no problem signing the NDA.

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Speaker 1: That's not a good start. All the other women I

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Speaker 1: bring back I love dishonest.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's being honest, and he's clearly a wanted man

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Speaker 2: Z have always.

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Speaker 6: I don't like that at all.

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Speaker 1: I mean, let's let's reword that a little bit ethan.

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Speaker 2: Sure, it's just whoever I hang out with, I have

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Speaker 6: Well, well, first of all, I did not plan on

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Speaker 6: being on the radio. Second, I really liked you, and

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Speaker 6: I really wanted to hang out again. But you must

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Speaker 6: understand that nobody does that. I promise you, maybe like

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Speaker 3: I don't think the criminals really do that.

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Speaker 6: It's not it's not a normal thing.

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Speaker 4: Well, I think you're kind of selling it to yourself there,

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Speaker 4: because all of the best parties and events that I've

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Speaker 1: The criminal ones.

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Speaker 4: Well I would tell you more, but I'm technically not

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Speaker 1: So wait, aren't you dying of curiosity of who his

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Speaker 1: dad is? I have to feel like i'd sign it

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Speaker 6: Honestly, it just seems fake to.

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Speaker 4: Me, believe believe that he's really like as a famous dad.

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Speaker 2: You don't believe me that I'm rich and famous. Come on, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean, then I'm Spresby went to that restaurant.

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Speaker 2: But okay, okay, exactly.

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Speaker 4: No, it fits the profile. He doesn't like to be

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Speaker 1: And all the rich and famous people need our help

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Speaker 1: getting another date. It's true, everybody in Hollywood knows.

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Speaker 2: Aria.

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Speaker 4: You should really rethink your decision here. I would like

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Speaker 4: to offer to send you out on another date with

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Speaker 2: Hey, before she answers, I need to let you know

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Speaker 2: I think I'm out. She just doesn't value privacy as

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Speaker 2: much as I do. Why yes, Yeah, I think I'm

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Speaker 6: Chance to say it.

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Speaker 2: Great, that's it.

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding?

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Speaker 2: We're done? Dude?

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Speaker 1: This is going to kill me. Alexis sign anything, But

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Speaker 1: then you can't tell anyone. She can tell me? Can

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Speaker 1: I text it?

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Speaker 2: Say?

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Speaker 3: There's always loopholes in these guys.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for trying. I appreciate it, but I've got to go.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, oh god, he hung up.

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Speaker 2: What happened.

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Speaker 1: What has happened is we didn't get any answers.

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Speaker 4: What has happened as you lost your chance with Ben

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Speaker 4: Stiller's son is what happens.

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Speaker 3: Right, Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to get mad at people for saying no.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's totally their right, But sometimes you need

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Speaker 4: to pull a Brook and drop your morals and just

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Speaker 4: say yes to someone that you don't even like just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you do it for the plot. I mean I

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Speaker 1: feel like I was the originator of that slogan, doing

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Speaker 4: How many basement boys and homeless folks did you go

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Speaker 1: But they're such good stories, and they were good people sort.

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Speaker 2: Of pot.

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Speaker 1: It's fun and I got I want closure on this

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Speaker 1: so bad.

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Speaker 4: Now we're never going to know who the NDA guy

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Speaker 1: It is kind of a baller move if it's just

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Speaker 1: a lie to say that you have to sign an NDA. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is like I can't tell you, is it baller?

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Speaker 2: If you can't get a date though.

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Speaker 4: If you can't get a date NDA or not, you

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Speaker 4: can always reach out to us. We'll call that person

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Speaker 4: who's not calling you back, and if you want to

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Speaker 4: go check out all of our second date updates. They're

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Speaker 4: available on podcasts wherever you get yours at Brook and

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey