1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: Am I the ahole for not attending my husband's celebration 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: dinner after I found out I couldn't eat anything at 3 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 1: the restaurant. We'll see, let's see, let's see what you got. Ope. 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:12,399 Speaker 1: My husband has been working really hard the last two 5 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: years to advance at his company, and he finally got 6 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: a promotion that he's been after. Hey, I'm really really 7 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: proud of him. His parents are too, and wanted to 8 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: take us all out to dinner to celebrate. You mean, 9 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: my husband absolutely loves prime rib and there's only one 10 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:27,639 Speaker 1: place in our area that serves it, so he picked 11 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: that restaurant. The thing is, I'm not fond of steak. 12 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,840 Speaker 1: I'll eat it, but very rarely. I prefer chicken or fish. 13 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: I looked up the menu before leaving, and right and 14 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: right now, they have a limited menu. The place had 15 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: only one fish entree and two chicken entreys, and none 16 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: of them sounded good for various reasons. I suggested he 17 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: picked someplace else so everyone can eat. He refused, citing 18 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: that we rarely go out to this place, but go 19 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: to other places in our area regularly, which is true, 20 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: but those places have lots of variety, so everyone can eat. 21 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: He suggested that I asked that they could prepare the 22 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: fish or chicken without the marina or sauces. But I 23 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: didn't want to be difficult for the kitchen staff, But 24 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:06,279 Speaker 1: you would rather be difficult for your husband. Wow, Okay. 25 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: His next suggestion was, I ordered assert while everyone else 26 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: ate entrees, and then when we were all done, he 27 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 1: could take me where I wanted and I could eat 28 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 1: dinner while he and the kids ate dessert. So I 29 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: opted to just not go because I didn't want to 30 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: sit there, not eating and not have a good time 31 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: while everyone else was. My husband asked me to go 32 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: so he could celebrate with the people most important to him. 33 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: I told him no again and that he needed to 34 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: get going before he was late. He did go, but 35 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: came back a little over an hour later with the 36 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 1: kids and they all had to go boxes. He said 37 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 1: he couldn't think of what to tell the kids about 38 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: why didn't go when they kept asking without lying or 39 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: making me sound bad, so he just got in order 40 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: for them to go, and that the kids spend some 41 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: time with their grandparents talking in the parking lot. Oh. 42 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: I told him he should have stayed, but he said 43 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: that I put him in a bad spot with the kids, 44 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: and that I knew he wanted everyone there, and that 45 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: I should have just gotten over my picky eating for 46 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 1: one night. I maintained, if you really wanted us to 47 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: eat all together as a family, he should have picked 48 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: a restaurant with a more accommodating menu. Am I the 49 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: a hole? Wow? Yes, yes, my god. And the thing is, 50 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 1: it's not like there weren't any options. There were options. 51 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 1: And she's like, oh, that doesn't sound good, she said, 52 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: for various reasons, like then, bitch, explain, explain the reason. 53 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: Explain dude, you're the biggest a hole. Yeah, this is bad. 54 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: Update some of these comments. Some of these comments were 55 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:32,679 Speaker 1: pretty harsh, but a kick in the pants. I've apologized 56 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: profusely to my husband. I'm going to take him to 57 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: that restaurant this weekend and buy him some camping gear 58 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: he's been eyeing as and start making up to him 59 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: and changing course. Thank you, jeez. At least there's some redemption.