WEBVTT - "The Confession Expert" with Mary Beth Barone

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<v Speaker 1>Forever hate Sydney.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think we should start up top with

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we had a really heated.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, hold on, somebody's knocking on my door. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to New York.

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<v Speaker 3>This is an important and important way to make the

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<v Speaker 3>audience feel like they're in a room.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, so I'm back. What did I miss?

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, Hi guys, hello, hello, hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh. You know we're rounding We're rounding out this this

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<v Speaker 2>year with a with a bang. And I just wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to say, up top, I hated everything about this year,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm so happy that we were still able to

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<v Speaker 2>do this podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. I thought you were going to say I hated

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<v Speaker 1>everything about Marie this year, which would have been a lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Which would have been a lie. Yeah. Friend. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was interesting because we had a little period of time

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<v Speaker 1>where we were like, really wanted a little podcast today,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like no, and then every day it

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<v Speaker 1>was like no. But yeah, you know it's almost over.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we do still have two more episodes after this,

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<v Speaker 4>and really two more episodes in the year after this. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think maybe one of them actually comes out in

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<v Speaker 4>year's day. It's either I think it's Christmas and Year's

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<v Speaker 4>Day they come out. They're both on Fridays.

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<v Speaker 1>Fridays. Yeah, all right, Well, Merry Christmas and happy Holidays

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<v Speaker 1>to y'all because that Kwanza babies, that's your gift from

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<v Speaker 1>the unofficial expert, and.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all we have. That's all we have. But I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to get my expertise out the way, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was going to be I say yes too much. I

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<v Speaker 2>say yes too much, And a year that has canceled everything,

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<v Speaker 2>I still managed to can say yes. What's wrong with me?

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<v Speaker 2>I have to stop it. It's just it's getting out

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<v Speaker 2>of hand, and then I'm seating myself up while I'm

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<v Speaker 2>doing it or after the fact.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there something specific that you want to get off

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<v Speaker 1>your chest, friend, because we don't like vague here.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't like vague.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think that sometimes people get friendship fucked up, Like, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>we're friends, but we still are a business. And so

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<v Speaker 2>when you ask me to do something and it requires

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<v Speaker 2>my time, what is the money? Like I'm leaving my

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<v Speaker 2>house for a pandemic? What is the deal? More than anything,

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<v Speaker 2>you should be paying black queer people even more than

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<v Speaker 2>what you were paying them for the Raggas twenty nineteen

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<v Speaker 2>we had Okay, I'm not being specific, but I'm know

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<v Speaker 2>that people feel the need to ask me and Marie

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<v Speaker 2>to do things, And I'm like, how did you feel

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<v Speaker 2>that this makes sense? Because in my bank account it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't make sense, and that's where the sense matters the.

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<v Speaker 1>Most, the sense. Yes, if it don't make dollars, then

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<v Speaker 1>it don't make sense. Thank you, Sydney for those bars

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<v Speaker 1>this morning. So your expertise is, if we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>wrap it up a nice little bowl, what would we say?

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<v Speaker 2>It was playing myself? Oh, okay, playing myself because nobody

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<v Speaker 2>can do anything to you that you don't allow. So

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<v Speaker 2>if I say yes to something, I can't be mad.

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<v Speaker 2>I did it and now I just have to know

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<v Speaker 2>that that can't happen again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But you know what, Sidney, the cool thing about

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<v Speaker 1>saying yes to something is you can change your mind

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<v Speaker 1>after you said yes. You know what My favorite word

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<v Speaker 1>is no period. That's my favorite sentence. No period, not

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<v Speaker 1>an explanation, because no is a complete sentence sometimes and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that as women, a lot of times we

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we have to be liked and we have

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, you know, proper or whatever the hell.

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<v Speaker 1>Women think that they have to do. But that's it's

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty and that's not what it is at all anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>So even after you say yes to something, you can

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<v Speaker 1>say no now, and you can say no up until

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<v Speaker 1>you've started doing the thing. You could be in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of doing the thing that you agreed to do

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<v Speaker 1>and be like acctually no. So that's something to take

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<v Speaker 1>into the new year.

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<v Speaker 2>Friend, I think, yeah, we did something yesterday, and I

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<v Speaker 2>after I see after I was seeing everything that was

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<v Speaker 2>going down, and the time had already it was done,

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<v Speaker 2>and they were trying to overextend it. And I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I've had enough. We gotta go, we gotta go, we

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<v Speaker 2>gotta go.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta go.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't overextend right, and we gotta go. I have

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<v Speaker 2>to leave whatever amount you thought you were gonna give us.

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to time z it by five. How

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<v Speaker 2>about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, no, no. I did the math yesterday,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did I did the math on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with sitting yesterday. And if you want me to do

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<v Speaker 1>something with you, my rate is two hundred and fifty

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<v Speaker 1>dollars an hour. That's where I'm starting.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh like that?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you can multiply that by however many hours

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<v Speaker 1>you think you need me, and then I'm still gonna

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<v Speaker 1>ask you for more money. So that's where I'm at,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what it is. That's the rate for twenty twenty,

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<v Speaker 1>So in twenty twenty one, it's gonna go up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I think asking a black woman for a favor

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<v Speaker 2>right now is just problematic and you should reconsider if

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<v Speaker 2>you should be doing us favors.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to take me on a date, you

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<v Speaker 1>got to vendo me five hundred dollars and then you

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<v Speaker 1>got to take me on the date. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>bringing my bag to the date. So you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't want to waste anybody's time because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want you to waste mine. Okay, I love that

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<v Speaker 1>for us, Yes, yes, yes, yes I didn't. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really prepare an expertise for this today because I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm an expert this week of like having

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<v Speaker 1>very vivid dreams, like stuff that I think is happening,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I wake up and my heart is beating

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like and I can't breathe, and so I, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't necessarily think that's an expertise per se. But

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<v Speaker 1>I woke up and I had business on my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>and I sent my landlord a very very very stern

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<v Speaker 1>email today. And that's why she just knocked on the

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<v Speaker 1>door right before this episode started, because she she pulled up.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, let me go get in my Chevrolet.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on over here, she said, let me jump in

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<v Speaker 1>my uh my dollar vaion and show up to the house.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that when it comes to like tenant

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<v Speaker 1>laws in New York State or New York City, it's

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<v Speaker 1>most rent laws are on our side. So sis do

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<v Speaker 1>the work or I'm calling three one one on you.

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<v Speaker 1>So's that I'm not going back and forth. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to come to my house. Just three one one Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to report this this and this. Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is this, don't know what her last name is, but

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<v Speaker 1>this is what I write all my checks. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>please send a unit or whatever three one one does.

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<v Speaker 1>So from that right now, friend girl, today.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you know. We have to just keep this

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<v Speaker 2>energy going because.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Yeah, anyway, I'm very excited about this episode. Sydney

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<v Speaker 1>and I did spend the day together yesterday, but here

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<v Speaker 1>we are on the podcast. First thing in the morning again.

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<v Speaker 2>It's wow wow wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, but in California's nine am. Yeah, we are

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<v Speaker 1>on West Coast time.

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<v Speaker 2>All around the world, babe, We're all around the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, city. Do you want to introduce our guests for

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<v Speaker 1>the episode today?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, yes, yes, we brought her back. It's been

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<v Speaker 2>a long long time. She was our flirting experts on

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<v Speaker 2>our live shows when we were able to do them.

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<v Speaker 1>Gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a crowd favorite, and she's coming back to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about confessions. Give it up for Mary Beth Barone. Yah.

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<v Speaker 3>God, it feels good to be back, ladies. It feels

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<v Speaker 3>so good. Last time we recorded this, you remember we

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<v Speaker 3>were in I think Marie's apartment. You were really Yes

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<v Speaker 3>were the days. I didn't even know you vote that

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<v Speaker 3>well at that point, but I knew it was good vibes, good.

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<v Speaker 1>Energy, and I opened my home to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me into your home. You welcomed me with open arms,

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<v Speaker 3>and it was we need magic that day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, one arm was open, but yes, they're both open.

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<v Speaker 1>Now they're open.

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<v Speaker 3>I've earned the second arm. It's great to be back.

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<v Speaker 3>Al's I think you know your expertise for the week

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<v Speaker 3>are both very inspiring. I think it's a lot about

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<v Speaker 3>just like getting shit done, getting what's yours, not settling

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<v Speaker 3>for less. I think we could all do more of.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep going, girl, keep going.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything that you feel like you could do

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<v Speaker 1>more or less of? Just, you know, just whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I could probably watch less movies, but at

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<v Speaker 3>this point it's kind of all I have to talk

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<v Speaker 3>about with my friends. Call like, I'm watching movies so

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<v Speaker 3>I can continue to be interesting at this point, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm watching shows, you know. You know. I watched Industry

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<v Speaker 3>because Sydney came over and said, put the show on

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<v Speaker 3>right now, and I said, all right, I listened to

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<v Speaker 3>what I listened to what Sydney tells me.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you like Industry?

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<v Speaker 3>I have such an interesting feeling about it. It was

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<v Speaker 3>definitely entertaining. I think it was a world that we

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<v Speaker 3>don't really have a lot of access to. I think

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<v Speaker 3>it was like well done. Do I think it was

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<v Speaker 3>you know, euphoria but about the banks. Yeah, a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of ketamine, that kind of I didn't realize so many

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<v Speaker 3>people are out there doing cat.

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<v Speaker 1>But apparently that's what the kids are doing these days.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it's I am terrified of ketamine.

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<v Speaker 1>The word is scary to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, it's a horse tranquilizer.

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<v Speaker 2>So but don't tell sometimes this cat tranquilizer.

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<v Speaker 1>Geez, no, babe. They might use it to tranquilize a cat,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's definitely for horses.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a big cat. They use it to tranquilize lions.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe they use it to tranquilize jam.

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<v Speaker 3>Not like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean the way that Sydney rides hard for industry,

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<v Speaker 1>you would think it was to twenty season, twenty seasons long,

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<v Speaker 1>it's eight episodes. I'm like, I know you done, you

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<v Speaker 1>going back to rewatch every night? The fuck? The show

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<v Speaker 1>was not that good, is what I'm going to say

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<v Speaker 1>about it. But I also didn't finish it, so maybe

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that's just me two episodes in.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, they didn't interesting thing because I feel like they

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<v Speaker 3>released three episodes and then they release the rest, so

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<v Speaker 3>it was kind of like you're waiting each week for

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<v Speaker 3>the new one, and then it's like, oh, well I

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<v Speaker 3>have now I can watch five at a time, and

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<v Speaker 3>so I watched it in like two days, which is concerning,

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<v Speaker 3>but shut up, I enjoyed it. I think I appreciate

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<v Speaker 3>Sydney's dedication to getting people to watch it because I

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<v Speaker 3>think for me, when people post about things that they

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<v Speaker 3>actually care about that they're not being paid to post about,

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<v Speaker 3>it makes me feel a lot more compelled for some reason,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean, Like I find that that's

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<v Speaker 3>that's what I find trouble with with like sponsored content,

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<v Speaker 3>because it's so necessary and like we got to make

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<v Speaker 3>that coin of course, but I sometimes I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 3>wish I could just recommend things that I actually just.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, well you can, honey, but also please add sponsorships.

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<v Speaker 2>We we love it here, unofficial expert Mary Beth Barn

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<v Speaker 2>We truly we would die to, you know, have a

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<v Speaker 2>sponsor with HBO.

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<v Speaker 1>Max.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I just think Hbo'm actually be paying you,

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<v Speaker 3>is what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, absolutely absolutely. I wouldn't be surprised if they are

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<v Speaker 1>paying her. Sidney has been working this year just like one.

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<v Speaker 4>Hundred and fifty clicks on that story right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, mind you, Andrew. We used to roast people who

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<v Speaker 1>had tiny dashes in their stories. I went on Sidney

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<v Speaker 1>Stories yesterday and I almost unfriended her. I said, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>who is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Who? Industry? Industry is tearing families apart?

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<v Speaker 2>When I tell you the DMS are like cis put

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<v Speaker 2>the phone down.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh people are Oh people are saying that to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, no, no, no, the like fans, fans who are

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<v Speaker 2>like fans, they're like loving it. People who are my

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<v Speaker 2>friends are like Sydney. If you just had this much

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<v Speaker 2>energy towards a show that you need to write.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, I mean sometimes that's what you need, is

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of shade and a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>an edge towards you know, growing yourself. But Mary, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's okay to be watching stuff right now. What

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<v Speaker 1>are the other alternatives to be outside in the.

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<v Speaker 3>Cold, like, I guess reading, I don't know. People make

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<v Speaker 3>it seem like the devil on your shoulder is watching

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<v Speaker 3>movies and the angels reading books, and I just think,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, what's the difference. Really, some of the most

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<v Speaker 3>fucked up movies I've ever seen are based on books

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<v Speaker 3>I watched or I'm trying to get through all the

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<v Speaker 3>really bad rom coms, and I put that in quotes

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<v Speaker 3>of the of the nineties. So I watched Chasing Amy

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<v Speaker 3>and this movie called Beautiful Girls on They're both on

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<v Speaker 3>HBO Max. Basically, I mean, I know Sydney's plugging industry specifically,

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<v Speaker 3>but almost every single day I bring up HBO Max

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<v Speaker 3>at least once, Like, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what is going on if I'm on subliminal message

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<v Speaker 2>a sponsorship do it?

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<v Speaker 3>It's weird. I can't stop talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But also HBO Max. HBO Max has good stuff on it,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, But what's the difference with HBO Max and HBO.

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<v Speaker 3>HBO is like, I don't I don't understand the the

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<v Speaker 3>like business decision to split them, but I guess just

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<v Speaker 3>like HBO Max has more shit on it, but you

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<v Speaker 3>need to have HBO to have HBO Max. Maybe I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I really don't know, but it's definitely they've got me hooked.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm on that. I'm on that website every night. Netflix

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<v Speaker 3>is like just you know, a thing of the past

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<v Speaker 3>really for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, it's dead. Netflix can't come to the phone

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 3>They're I think they're doing a lot of like children

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<v Speaker 3>geared towards children programming, and then murder mystery stuff, which

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<v Speaker 3>is not true crime is not my bread and butter.

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<v Speaker 3>When I'm alone, I'm watching something. So it's been yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of rom comms and I can't tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think Chasing Amy is probably one of

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<v Speaker 3>the worst movies I've ever seen.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's in it. I've never even heard of this movie.

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<v Speaker 3>Ban Affleck.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, well there, yeah, me neither there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>And maybe Jane Silent Bob, but I don't. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 3>what you would expect. But Amy's gay, and so he's

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<v Speaker 3>trying kind of like turn her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh and this is a movie that came out in

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<v Speaker 1>the nineties, so I'm sure it's problematic.

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<v Speaker 3>It is actually so probably it's it's like worse than

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<v Speaker 3>you can think. Uh, in whatever you're imagining, it's worse.

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<v Speaker 3>So I wouldn't recommend and Beautiful Girls as equally as troubling.

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<v Speaker 3>There's like a thirteen year old neighbor and the guy

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<v Speaker 3>kind of has a crush on her, but he's like.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 3>It's very weird. It's very weird. I yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 3>had to finish that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called What Chasing Amy?

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<v Speaker 3>What Chasing Amy is the one about the lesbian Beautiful

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<v Speaker 3>Girls is the one about readion.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, this is terrible. Let me write the title's.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's good to see where we've come, like

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<v Speaker 3>how far we've come.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, now we have that Kristen Stewart Holiday rom Com

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<v Speaker 1>that h did you like it?

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<v Speaker 3>I did, but I know a lot of people have,

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<v Speaker 3>people whose opinion that I respect, had problems with it.

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<v Speaker 3>I've heard from both sides of the aisle on this film.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the first person, and I've heard say, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was entertaining, and like, rom coms have

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<v Speaker 3>a formula. So always in a rom com, one of

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<v Speaker 3>them is a dumb ass. Yes, And so if you're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna make a movie about lesbians and it's a rom com,

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<v Speaker 3>then one of the lesbians is gonna be a dumb ass.

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<v Speaker 4>And unfortunately, though really fucked up.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought they almost made her like un forgivably bad.

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<v Speaker 3>But I just feel like I could see execs like

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<v Speaker 3>giving feedback on the script being like, we need to

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<v Speaker 3>make her worse. Actually, unfortunately, we need to make her worse.

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<v Speaker 1>The girl Who's in the Closet or Kristen Stewart the Girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was one of Christian Stewart's best performances,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've seen a weirdly large number of her movies.

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<v Speaker 3>The Girl in the Closet was just but then, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, people struggle with sexuality and they I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I thought the family I didn't love the ending,

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<v Speaker 3>that they could have tweaked it. But a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>like hard work went into the movie and a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of like queer voices were being heard in I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>For me, it was a good movie, but I know

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people felt differently.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that was a real diplomatic answer right there.

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<v Speaker 2>It was I see, I see you're on the fence, Marybeth.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a friend who wrote on the movie at home.

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<v Speaker 3>I just love love. So that's my official statement. And

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<v Speaker 3>I think Dan Levy was great as well. Have you

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<v Speaker 3>either of you seen the movie?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I heard it was bad, But you're the first

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<v Speaker 1>person that I've heard say that they liked it.

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<v Speaker 3>So now I'm like, structurally sound form. They hit every point.

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<v Speaker 4>There were so many characters. There was like never like

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<v Speaker 4>a dull moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, yeah, yeah, interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well I will I'll get into I'll watch Marie.

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<v Speaker 2>Why don't we watch it together?

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<v Speaker 4>Mariah's Christmas Special.

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<v Speaker 2>Where that's Apple. Don't have that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something that I don't have to. I have that.

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<v Speaker 3>If you got a new laptop, you can you get

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<v Speaker 3>it for free, just a hot tip for the listeners,

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<v Speaker 3>and that.

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<v Speaker 2>Is when when when did you get a laptop? Because

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<v Speaker 2>I just got this laptop in February.

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<v Speaker 1>February is not just got it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if you can probably find out.

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<v Speaker 1>But I see Apple TV on here.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you probably have a free year. Oh yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 3>where you can watch Ted Lasso. I mean basically at

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<v Speaker 3>this point, I'm just going through a list of TV

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<v Speaker 3>shows and movies I've watched in quarantine. But Ted Lasso

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<v Speaker 3>is definitely a highlight for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, write that down to and that's a show.

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<v Speaker 3>About soccer, so you know it must be good about

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<v Speaker 3>recommending it.

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<v Speaker 1>You do you want to marry thebody on there?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you want to fuck somebody on there? Because

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<v Speaker 2>I know that's another reason for somebody to watch a show.

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<v Speaker 2>Well no, but I you know, I think I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have a friend that wrote on the show,

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<v Speaker 3>so they said I'll give it a chance, and then

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<v Speaker 3>what do you know? It's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like the name Ted Lasso for a show

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds like a man that I wouldn't like. So

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<v Speaker 1>also I never clicked on the Apple TV thing. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my laptop, I just clicked it and now I know

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<v Speaker 1>where Apple TV is.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, look at us, Thank you, Mary. You are really

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<v Speaker 2>each one teach one right here.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's that's all I aim to do every day

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<v Speaker 3>when I wake up. Is I hope I can just

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<v Speaker 3>you know, help someone today.

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<v Speaker 1>There's so much stuff on here. Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's a lot of original programming. And I would

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<v Speaker 3>say that marketing's not great because nobody knows it exists.

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<v Speaker 1>Like at all.

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<v Speaker 3>But Morning Show is particularly good if you are looking

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<v Speaker 3>for a show. Okay, that's about the me too movement? Yep, Oh, okay, Murray,

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<v Speaker 3>We've got Jennifer Aniston, We've got Reese Wetherspoon and a wig,

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<v Speaker 3>we've got Steve Carell. I mean, it's just NonStop action

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<v Speaker 3>from start to finish. And my parents liked it as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, I'm gonna write that in pencil. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I watched The Morning Show on the on a flight

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<v Speaker 2>and you would yeah, it was good. But are you

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<v Speaker 2>are you judging because I was on a flight.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm like, that's so weird they would have Apple

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<v Speaker 3>TV shows on a flight.

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<v Speaker 2>The Morning Show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I'm thinking about the contracts, those contracts I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>thinking about the paperwork, Sidney.

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<v Speaker 1>Sidney, what did you think of the morning show on

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<v Speaker 1>the flight?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm biased because the obsession with white actresses and actors

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<v Speaker 2>is just anything they do is like, oh, it's so good,

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<v Speaker 2>we have to watch it. It is amazing. And it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>not that I'm mad about them exposing the me too moment,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's also like, y'all gotta get other like perspectives.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the only perspective that matters, so and it's

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<v Speaker 2>obviously pushed.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think happens.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all have to be on board and understand and tear

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<v Speaker 2>tear that person down.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not watching the undoing insolidarity with Sydney.

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<v Speaker 1>Just how I thought Sydney already watched the Undoing I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna or now it's not zero since I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>watching it.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, I want to. I want to switch gears. I

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<v Speaker 2>really want to get into these confessions like us.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because we caught you lying about the undoing. I

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<v Speaker 1>hear you, sis.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, yes, Marybeth, we are talking about confessions and keeping

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<v Speaker 1>it real and being honest and keeping it true to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I would say that's an accurate assessment. Yet for me,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a big communication I'm really into communication. I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's very important for all types of relationships. But being

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<v Speaker 3>raised Catholic, I definitely had a lot of guilt and

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<v Speaker 3>shame instilled in me from a young age. So they

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<v Speaker 3>kind of teach you that if you confess something, it

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<v Speaker 3>will make it less bad. So why I think that

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<v Speaker 3>the religion is, especially Catholicism, is extremely toxic. It did

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<v Speaker 3>teach me to be a better communicator, so in some

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<v Speaker 3>ways it's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Do Wow, Sydney's on the move, Sydney is running. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you like I'm not Catholic, so I've never had to

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<v Speaker 1>go to confessional or anything like that. Do you remember

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<v Speaker 1>like a confession that you had to make that was

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<v Speaker 1>like bad? Is it snowy?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I.

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<v Speaker 4>Am.

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<v Speaker 3>In a closet so there's no windows.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know it's twenty twenty, come on out with

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<v Speaker 1>the class.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, well, I know what I want. It's for

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<v Speaker 3>sound reasons because I just want to give the best

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<v Speaker 3>quality sound for the listeners.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's why I moved because the music, the Calypso

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<v Speaker 2>is going off.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, anyway, So is there like a memorable confession.

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<v Speaker 3>That confession. I remember my first confession because you have

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<v Speaker 3>to do that before you get the UK. So it's

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<v Speaker 3>all part of the seven sacraments. But then you have

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<v Speaker 3>to go to confession, you know, quite frequently, especially at

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<v Speaker 3>Catholic school, because we you know, they just gave us

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of opportunities to talk about all the bad

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<v Speaker 3>things that we've ever done. I definitely confessed to like

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<v Speaker 3>because one of this, one of the ten commandments is

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<v Speaker 3>that you have to like respect your father and mother.

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<v Speaker 3>So I definitely had like said to the priests that

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<v Speaker 3>i've like not I've been meaning to them before and

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<v Speaker 3>using the Lord's name in vain. You have to confess

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<v Speaker 3>to that as well. I never killed anyone that I

0:23:28.960 --> 0:23:32.879
<v Speaker 3>know of. I never killed anyone, So I didn't confess,

0:23:33.160 --> 0:23:38.480
<v Speaker 3>imagine and active I was like, wait, I did this

0:23:38.640 --> 0:23:41.200
<v Speaker 3>is going to be confessed here. That's what I confessed

0:23:41.280 --> 0:23:44.080
<v Speaker 3>is on the podcast and you you have to confess.

0:23:44.119 --> 0:23:46.359
<v Speaker 3>I guess I never Yeah, I never really did it

0:23:46.400 --> 0:23:48.200
<v Speaker 3>in high school. So it was like confessing as a

0:23:48.280 --> 0:23:49.920
<v Speaker 3>seven year old. It's like, what do you even have

0:23:50.080 --> 0:23:50.400
<v Speaker 3>to say?

0:23:50.920 --> 0:23:53.800
<v Speaker 4>Right exactly? I remember that because I remember, like it

0:23:53.920 --> 0:23:55.879
<v Speaker 4>was like, CCD, did you have to do that or

0:23:56.000 --> 0:23:58.720
<v Speaker 4>were you at a Catholic school already?

0:23:58.880 --> 0:24:00.359
<v Speaker 3>I was at a Catholic school, but I did my

0:24:00.440 --> 0:24:02.600
<v Speaker 3>communion at a separate church, so I had to go

0:24:02.680 --> 0:24:03.800
<v Speaker 3>to as go to class.

0:24:04.520 --> 0:24:07.160
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. No, I went to CCD like every like Tuesday

0:24:07.240 --> 0:24:10.360
<v Speaker 4>after school and then like yeah, I remember that day

0:24:10.359 --> 0:24:12.760
<v Speaker 4>they were like, okay, everyone needs to go to confession,

0:24:13.320 --> 0:24:15.280
<v Speaker 4>and I remember like I was like I can't even

0:24:15.320 --> 0:24:17.320
<v Speaker 4>like think of a single bad thing that I've done,

0:24:17.400 --> 0:24:18.960
<v Speaker 4>and so like I was like the last person. I

0:24:19.040 --> 0:24:20.960
<v Speaker 4>was like I don't know, and I went and there

0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:23.040
<v Speaker 4>I was like like guess I get in an argument

0:24:23.080 --> 0:24:25.280
<v Speaker 4>sometimes with my sister and they're like okay, cool, get

0:24:25.320 --> 0:24:25.639
<v Speaker 4>out of here.

0:24:26.000 --> 0:24:28.600
<v Speaker 3>Like say six tail Mary's well, it's like when you're seven,

0:24:28.680 --> 0:24:30.920
<v Speaker 3>you barely have object permanence. I'm like, I don't remember

0:24:31.040 --> 0:24:32.840
<v Speaker 3>every bad thing I've ever done. Are you crazy?

0:24:32.920 --> 0:24:35.879
<v Speaker 4>Exactly? It is actually like psychotic thing to ask of

0:24:36.000 --> 0:24:37.040
<v Speaker 4>like a seven year old.

0:24:37.000 --> 0:24:39.240
<v Speaker 3>Because they say that seven is the age of reason.

0:24:39.320 --> 0:24:41.040
<v Speaker 3>They say that that's when you know right from wrong.

0:24:41.359 --> 0:24:44.200
<v Speaker 3>At seven, what I was a thief?

0:24:44.320 --> 0:24:46.320
<v Speaker 1>At seven, I was stealing.

0:24:46.359 --> 0:24:49.560
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god. That actually that reminds me of something.

0:24:49.760 --> 0:24:50.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh you are tepto too.

0:24:51.240 --> 0:24:54.600
<v Speaker 3>I stole a snow globe from this girl's cubby when

0:24:54.600 --> 0:24:57.320
<v Speaker 3>I was in pre K, and I came home and

0:24:57.480 --> 0:24:59.080
<v Speaker 3>lied and I told my mom that I won it

0:24:59.160 --> 0:25:02.960
<v Speaker 3>at like some in Pe and then it fell on

0:25:03.040 --> 0:25:04.879
<v Speaker 3>the floor and shattered and broke, and I was like,

0:25:05.200 --> 0:25:08.200
<v Speaker 3>that was God's smiting me and I shouldn't have done that.

0:25:08.520 --> 0:25:10.720
<v Speaker 3>And then I'm pretty sure I confessed. I also once

0:25:10.840 --> 0:25:13.240
<v Speaker 3>lied about chewing gum in school because I was chewing

0:25:13.280 --> 0:25:16.840
<v Speaker 3>it and I said I wasn't did it aloud. I

0:25:17.000 --> 0:25:18.840
<v Speaker 3>ended up spitting it out, but I felt pretty bad

0:25:18.880 --> 0:25:21.440
<v Speaker 3>that she figured out that I was. I mean, obviously

0:25:21.560 --> 0:25:23.040
<v Speaker 3>she knew I was like four and I had a

0:25:23.080 --> 0:25:24.879
<v Speaker 3>big piece of gum in my mouth that I had

0:25:24.920 --> 0:25:27.639
<v Speaker 3>stolen from my sister's bedroom. So once again I was

0:25:27.720 --> 0:25:30.399
<v Speaker 3>taught that that is bad because you will get you know,

0:25:30.520 --> 0:25:32.200
<v Speaker 3>something bad will come of it if you steal.

0:25:33.640 --> 0:25:35.520
<v Speaker 1>I hate watching little kids chew gum.

0:25:37.160 --> 0:25:40.760
<v Speaker 2>Well you know what. I often does that happen, But

0:25:40.880 --> 0:25:41.520
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean.

0:25:41.520 --> 0:25:43.840
<v Speaker 1>They're just like, well not really anymore, but like I'd

0:25:43.880 --> 0:25:45.320
<v Speaker 1>be on I used to be on the train and

0:25:45.359 --> 0:25:48.120
<v Speaker 1>i'd see them like like the stick and the tongue

0:25:48.119 --> 0:25:50.040
<v Speaker 1>out and it fall it.

0:25:50.040 --> 0:25:54.280
<v Speaker 3>Will fall out and put it back lean and they

0:25:54.400 --> 0:25:58.320
<v Speaker 3>cut on their finger and yeah, they're like, it's not

0:25:58.480 --> 0:25:58.840
<v Speaker 3>a toy.

0:26:00.000 --> 0:26:02.080
<v Speaker 2>The thing is is that there are a lot of

0:26:03.960 --> 0:26:07.920
<v Speaker 2>kids that have a lot of issues, and so sometimes

0:26:08.000 --> 0:26:10.680
<v Speaker 2>you can't find out how messed up they are until

0:26:11.080 --> 0:26:15.240
<v Speaker 2>you know confession. And that's why I think sometimes the

0:26:15.400 --> 0:26:20.520
<v Speaker 2>priests that are fucked up take advantage of these little boys.

0:26:20.480 --> 0:26:23.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because you see them as like they can't do

0:26:23.840 --> 0:26:30.280
<v Speaker 3>anything wrong, you know, right right. Luckily I was well

0:26:30.400 --> 0:26:33.440
<v Speaker 3>our priest actually, so I went to Greenwich Catholic School.

0:26:33.480 --> 0:26:35.800
<v Speaker 3>If anyone on if anyone's listening who went to Greenwich

0:26:35.840 --> 0:26:39.240
<v Speaker 3>Catholic School, shout out to GCS. But our priest was

0:26:39.640 --> 0:26:42.919
<v Speaker 3>like not. He was like so obsessed with like aesthetics.

0:26:43.359 --> 0:26:46.480
<v Speaker 3>He drove a red convertible and he built a mansion

0:26:46.600 --> 0:26:49.639
<v Speaker 3>on the school's campus and had like golden retrievers and

0:26:49.720 --> 0:26:52.639
<v Speaker 3>it was all very strange. And then after I graduated,

0:26:52.680 --> 0:26:55.800
<v Speaker 3>it came out that he was gay, was in Besley

0:26:55.920 --> 0:26:59.119
<v Speaker 3>Church money to pay for his like partner to have

0:26:59.160 --> 0:27:01.600
<v Speaker 3>an apartment in New York City, and he had this

0:27:01.760 --> 0:27:04.200
<v Speaker 3>like whole lavish lifestyle that was not in line with

0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:05.440
<v Speaker 3>the teachings of the church.

0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:07.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh you had a cool priest.

0:27:07.520 --> 0:27:11.200
<v Speaker 2>Wow, I would like, is he in jail now or like,

0:27:11.280 --> 0:27:11.800
<v Speaker 2>what's the deal.

0:27:12.040 --> 0:27:13.800
<v Speaker 3>The parishioners were like, it's okay.

0:27:13.960 --> 0:27:17.040
<v Speaker 4>Actually, yeah, Literally, the same thing happened at my high school.

0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:20.119
<v Speaker 4>He was like on campus, mansion. He would like be

0:27:20.240 --> 0:27:23.280
<v Speaker 4>at the shore constantly. Yeah, it was just like discussing.

0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:25.560
<v Speaker 4>The same thing came out and he's fine, He's not

0:27:25.640 --> 0:27:26.520
<v Speaker 4>in trouble or anything.

0:27:27.080 --> 0:27:28.920
<v Speaker 3>Also, I think he must just have a lot of

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:31.760
<v Speaker 3>shit on the people who confess to him. That has

0:27:31.880 --> 0:27:33.600
<v Speaker 3>to be it. They were like, we can't have any

0:27:33.640 --> 0:27:35.639
<v Speaker 3>of this, any of our dirty launchry coming out, so

0:27:36.160 --> 0:27:38.399
<v Speaker 3>we'll just say it's fine, and that is. You know,

0:27:38.920 --> 0:27:42.359
<v Speaker 3>he should have just confessed. He was forced to. He

0:27:42.440 --> 0:27:44.119
<v Speaker 3>didn't come clean about it. And then there was an

0:27:44.160 --> 0:27:45.200
<v Speaker 3>article in the New York Times.

0:27:45.640 --> 0:27:47.879
<v Speaker 2>But how did they find him? How did they catch him?

0:27:48.280 --> 0:27:50.080
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. It must have been something on the

0:27:50.119 --> 0:27:54.359
<v Speaker 3>accounting side with like the dioceses of Bridgeport or something,

0:27:54.600 --> 0:27:56.960
<v Speaker 3>but they always like to cover it up. I have

0:27:57.000 --> 0:27:59.960
<v Speaker 3>a yearbook right here, yes, because I'm in the closet.

0:28:00.320 --> 0:28:03.280
<v Speaker 3>Let's see Mary two thousand three Vibes.

0:28:03.320 --> 0:28:05.439
<v Speaker 1>Two thousand and three. Show us your picture in the year.

0:28:05.640 --> 0:28:07.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'll find it. I don't even know what grade

0:28:07.800 --> 0:28:08.920
<v Speaker 3>I was in in two thousand and three.

0:28:09.240 --> 0:28:11.119
<v Speaker 1>If there is a quote, you know, go ahead and.

0:28:11.520 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 3>Well I remember the quote I used.

0:28:13.640 --> 0:28:14.399
<v Speaker 2>Okay, tell us.

0:28:15.000 --> 0:28:16.600
<v Speaker 3>I think it was a Louse Seale ball quote, and

0:28:16.680 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 3>it was like, I'd rather regret the things I have

0:28:19.080 --> 0:28:21.679
<v Speaker 3>done than the things I haven't. It's like, okay, it's

0:28:21.680 --> 0:28:24.880
<v Speaker 3>a bit deep for eighth grade, but yeah, I go off,

0:28:27.200 --> 0:28:31.639
<v Speaker 3>go off, this is my grade. I don't know if

0:28:31.680 --> 0:28:33.399
<v Speaker 3>I was in the class. You know what. I think

0:28:33.440 --> 0:28:36.720
<v Speaker 3>I missed the class picture this year. Work wow, because

0:28:36.720 --> 0:28:38.280
<v Speaker 3>that was because I was going to Florida to visit

0:28:38.360 --> 0:28:38.880
<v Speaker 3>my best friend.

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:43.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh you had you had a friend across state lines.

0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:45.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she moved. It was like so tragic.

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:48.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well that's how you know you're doing well.

0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:50.960
<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, no, no, this is my year.

0:28:51.400 --> 0:28:53.160
<v Speaker 2>Okay, show us hurry.

0:28:53.920 --> 0:28:55.800
<v Speaker 3>I know, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. This is so annoying

0:28:55.840 --> 0:28:57.760
<v Speaker 3>for the listeners. I'll post a picture of it when no,

0:28:57.880 --> 0:28:58.880
<v Speaker 3>you know what, I'm not even in it.

0:29:00.280 --> 0:29:03.280
<v Speaker 2>The listeners are like, well, show us, they will Yeah,

0:29:03.320 --> 0:29:06.520
<v Speaker 2>they will ask for it. These listeners are aggressive and

0:29:06.640 --> 0:29:08.000
<v Speaker 2>they're over and.

0:29:08.000 --> 0:29:10.520
<v Speaker 3>Their keyed in, they're engaged. Well I just imagine me,

0:29:10.680 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 3>but like a little a little bit smaller. I look

0:29:12.800 --> 0:29:13.520
<v Speaker 3>the exact same.

0:29:14.120 --> 0:29:15.960
<v Speaker 1>Your hair was the same length. You didn't have bangs.

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:18.800
<v Speaker 3>I had long hair, yeah, back then, and I would

0:29:18.840 --> 0:29:21.960
<v Speaker 3>get side sweat bangs because I was obsessed with Elizabeth

0:29:22.000 --> 0:29:25.000
<v Speaker 3>Hurley and Austin Powers, and I thought she was just

0:29:25.120 --> 0:29:27.920
<v Speaker 3>the picture of beauty and I thought, if I get

0:29:27.960 --> 0:29:29.600
<v Speaker 3>side sweat bangs, I'll probably look like her.

0:29:30.400 --> 0:29:34.719
<v Speaker 1>M Sydney has a little side side situation.

0:29:34.840 --> 0:29:36.840
<v Speaker 3>She's doing a side part and I'm here for it.

0:29:36.920 --> 0:29:39.880
<v Speaker 2>I have to say, but this is Aliyah, Thank you,

0:29:40.360 --> 0:29:41.160
<v Speaker 2>Elizabeth Hurley.

0:29:41.200 --> 0:29:42.320
<v Speaker 1>Who this is?

0:29:43.240 --> 0:29:47.640
<v Speaker 2>We don't know her. This is reminiscent of baby Girl. Okay, well,

0:29:47.720 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 2>I mean I think more.

0:29:49.440 --> 0:29:52.040
<v Speaker 1>It needs more. It needs to cover your eye more.

0:29:53.800 --> 0:29:55.040
<v Speaker 3>There we go, now let me go.

0:29:56.240 --> 0:30:01.360
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So, Mary, as a as an adult, I feel

0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:04.400
<v Speaker 2>like you've had a lot going on, especially when you

0:30:04.520 --> 0:30:07.480
<v Speaker 2>came on for flirting. I feel like you you confessed

0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:10.160
<v Speaker 2>a lot because you've hooked up with an egot.

0:30:11.000 --> 0:30:13.680
<v Speaker 3>Emmy Grammy Oscar and a Teen Choice Award.

0:30:14.680 --> 0:30:17.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean yes, but not all the same person.

0:30:17.560 --> 0:30:19.840
<v Speaker 1>It was all different people, which we love.

0:30:20.720 --> 0:30:22.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, how come.

0:30:22.240 --> 0:30:24.440
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was one person because you weren't being

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:26.440
<v Speaker 1>attention when we recorded that episode two years ago.

0:30:26.840 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 2>That's a fucking lie.

0:30:29.360 --> 0:30:32.760
<v Speaker 3>Sorry it was so long ago. I don't blame you. Yeah,

0:30:32.840 --> 0:30:34.800
<v Speaker 3>I've had a lot to confess for over the years.

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:37.040
<v Speaker 3>I mean I think I confess a lot of stuff

0:30:37.080 --> 0:30:39.560
<v Speaker 3>in stand up. Like that's what's been really hard for me,

0:30:39.680 --> 0:30:42.840
<v Speaker 3>not being able to perform I think because usually when

0:30:43.000 --> 0:30:45.680
<v Speaker 3>I do something that I think is dad, my reflex

0:30:45.800 --> 0:30:47.600
<v Speaker 3>is to tell a bunch of people because then it

0:30:47.680 --> 0:30:50.160
<v Speaker 3>kind of diffuses it. It turns from this big thing

0:30:50.200 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 3>that only I know into this like smaller thing that

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:55.120
<v Speaker 3>a bunch of people know. So that's my strategy to

0:30:55.160 --> 0:30:58.080
<v Speaker 3>feel less guilty about things, which doesn't always work. But

0:30:58.400 --> 0:31:01.200
<v Speaker 3>I think it's been hard without doing stand up because

0:31:01.240 --> 0:31:04.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't really have anywhere to, like, you know, air

0:31:04.280 --> 0:31:06.560
<v Speaker 3>it out, like air my dirty laundry. And that's not

0:31:06.760 --> 0:31:08.479
<v Speaker 3>all my stand up was. But yeah, I just kind

0:31:08.520 --> 0:31:10.520
<v Speaker 3>of FaceTime with Sydney and then start crying. That's what

0:31:10.560 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 3>I've been doing.

0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:16.160
<v Speaker 2>I can attest that's true, and it works.

0:31:16.280 --> 0:31:18.360
<v Speaker 3>Guys, you just need one kind of person you can

0:31:18.440 --> 0:31:23.760
<v Speaker 3>dumb things on and then you'll feel better. But I definitely, yeah,

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:25.520
<v Speaker 3>I got in. I was just always a confessor. I

0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:28.160
<v Speaker 3>remember I watched I watched a rated our movie on

0:31:28.360 --> 0:31:31.800
<v Speaker 3>VH one and I wrote my parents a letter and

0:31:31.920 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 3>I left it outside their room and I was like,

0:31:33.800 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 3>I am so sorry I did this myth because I

0:31:39.160 --> 0:31:41.720
<v Speaker 3>was young. I was like maybe twelve.

0:31:42.920 --> 0:31:45.920
<v Speaker 1>And a you okay, so well. Now, so you have

0:31:46.040 --> 0:31:46.800
<v Speaker 1>an older sister.

0:31:47.560 --> 0:31:49.680
<v Speaker 3>I have five siblings. So I have two older sisters

0:31:49.720 --> 0:31:50.640
<v Speaker 3>and three older brothers.

0:31:51.360 --> 0:31:52.360
<v Speaker 1>So are you're the baby?

0:31:52.680 --> 0:31:53.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm the baby?

0:31:54.880 --> 0:31:56.000
<v Speaker 2>No wonder you're spoiled.

0:31:56.800 --> 0:31:59.320
<v Speaker 3>Yes, no, it's no one surprise when I say I'm

0:31:59.320 --> 0:32:03.120
<v Speaker 3>the youngest. But I definitely always felt like just get

0:32:03.440 --> 0:32:05.360
<v Speaker 3>just riddled with girls all the time. I don't know,

0:32:05.400 --> 0:32:06.800
<v Speaker 3>do you guys not feel that as kids?

0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:07.240
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:32:07.800 --> 0:32:14.040
<v Speaker 2>No, I burned down my fucking house. I kept it moving,

0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:19.480
<v Speaker 2>like I didn't start talking about it until now as adults,

0:32:19.800 --> 0:32:23.040
<v Speaker 2>Like there was just years of years of me like, yeah,

0:32:23.760 --> 0:32:25.280
<v Speaker 2>I didn't even remember that I did it.

0:32:26.840 --> 0:32:30.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm obsessed with that. What I'm obsessed with that?

0:32:30.960 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 2>No, No, it's bad because it's like I like I've

0:32:36.800 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 2>I've I've like kissed a cousin. I've kind of like

0:32:40.640 --> 0:32:44.000
<v Speaker 2>comped a god brother like I was. You know, I've

0:32:44.040 --> 0:32:47.160
<v Speaker 2>done like why the god brother that you went to

0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:47.640
<v Speaker 2>prom with?

0:32:48.440 --> 0:32:50.880
<v Speaker 1>Yes, you humped him, but he wouldn't take a picture

0:32:50.920 --> 0:32:51.680
<v Speaker 1>with you at prompt?

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:55.800
<v Speaker 2>Yes, when you say choked on my water, So I'm.

0:32:57.160 --> 0:33:01.440
<v Speaker 3>Sorry when you kiss a cousin.

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:09.120
<v Speaker 2>When I was like eleven twelve.

0:33:09.200 --> 0:33:11.480
<v Speaker 1>Mmm, isn't how old you were a friend interesting?

0:33:12.320 --> 0:33:19.240
<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe younger than that. I was definitely younger, but no, Like,

0:33:19.440 --> 0:33:22.360
<v Speaker 2>first of all, I think people shouldn't be so hard

0:33:22.480 --> 0:33:25.680
<v Speaker 2>on kids hooking up with each other, not hooking up.

0:33:25.680 --> 0:33:30.640
<v Speaker 2>But you know, like no, Sydney, all right.

0:33:30.640 --> 0:33:33.400
<v Speaker 3>I think people should not be so hard on kids period.

0:33:35.280 --> 0:33:39.400
<v Speaker 2>Right, If you don't have your if you don't let

0:33:39.520 --> 0:33:42.400
<v Speaker 2>your kids hang out with other kids, they're gonna like

0:33:43.040 --> 0:33:44.880
<v Speaker 2>get wild with their cousins.

0:33:44.920 --> 0:33:48.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying this is just if that's all that's available, Sydney.

0:33:49.200 --> 0:33:52.200
<v Speaker 1>I had very strict parents growing up. I wasn't allowed

0:33:52.200 --> 0:33:55.200
<v Speaker 1>to hang out with other kids. I've never kissed any

0:33:55.280 --> 0:33:56.000
<v Speaker 1>of my cousins.

0:33:57.640 --> 0:34:01.240
<v Speaker 3>I've never Wait, we shouldn't shame we shouldn't shame Sidney's

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:04.000
<v Speaker 3>confessing right now, And that is one thing. One reason

0:34:04.080 --> 0:34:06.240
<v Speaker 3>people now confess to me. They always come to me

0:34:06.320 --> 0:34:08.920
<v Speaker 3>about things. They tell me things sometimes I wish I

0:34:09.000 --> 0:34:11.399
<v Speaker 3>didn't know, But it's because I'm not going to judge them.

0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I'm only judging them. Oh okay, this is why

0:34:15.760 --> 0:34:19.680
<v Speaker 1>people don't call me. But you know why I'm judging

0:34:19.680 --> 0:34:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Sidney's because I know the whole story about the cousin

0:34:21.600 --> 0:34:23.520
<v Speaker 1>kissing thing, and she's leading out a lot of stuff.

0:34:23.680 --> 0:34:26.800
<v Speaker 1>So that's why I'm going, Oh, okay, this story sounds

0:34:26.920 --> 0:34:31.320
<v Speaker 1>like the remix of what I heard, but okay, it

0:34:31.520 --> 0:34:33.759
<v Speaker 1>is what it is. So Sidney, what was the point

0:34:33.760 --> 0:34:36.240
<v Speaker 1>that you were trying to make about kissing family members?

0:34:38.400 --> 0:34:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Why did we why did you bring that up?

0:34:44.200 --> 0:34:48.000
<v Speaker 2>It's not that bad, that's why. Not that bad.

0:34:49.400 --> 0:34:51.880
<v Speaker 1>I think that we should judge kids. Kids are not

0:34:53.480 --> 0:34:56.600
<v Speaker 1>immune from judgment. But I also think that, you know,

0:34:56.719 --> 0:34:59.840
<v Speaker 1>when we're kids, think about it, like we were alive

0:35:00.719 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 1>for seven years or eight years or however many years total,

0:35:04.600 --> 0:35:06.319
<v Speaker 1>and it's like you don't know anything when you're ten.

0:35:06.600 --> 0:35:08.719
<v Speaker 1>You don't even know anything when you're twenty four, So.

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:11.759
<v Speaker 3>You know, you start knowing things when you're twenty nine,

0:35:12.600 --> 0:35:13.479
<v Speaker 3>how old I am.

0:35:14.880 --> 0:35:18.200
<v Speaker 1>That's when you start knowing things. So I think that

0:35:18.360 --> 0:35:20.799
<v Speaker 1>we have to keep that in mind when you think

0:35:20.800 --> 0:35:24.959
<v Speaker 1>about who knows and who's doing stupid things or smart things.

0:35:25.160 --> 0:35:27.239
<v Speaker 3>You know. I just can't imagine being a kid and

0:35:27.320 --> 0:35:29.200
<v Speaker 3>not feeling guilty about literally everything.

0:35:31.360 --> 0:35:33.839
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I felt guilty about stuff, but I also

0:35:33.960 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 1>had like an old like an older brother, and I

0:35:37.239 --> 0:35:39.200
<v Speaker 1>mean I would feel bad sometimes about the stuff that

0:35:39.239 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 1>I stole, but I would feel bad that what.

0:35:41.600 --> 0:35:44.040
<v Speaker 3>Are we talking about stealing? Wise? Like are we talking

0:35:44.200 --> 0:35:46.839
<v Speaker 3>like a bracelet from like a department sto.

0:35:48.320 --> 0:35:50.600
<v Speaker 1>I used to steal everything, And I'm not no, not

0:35:50.840 --> 0:35:54.840
<v Speaker 1>grand theft, you know, but you know, uh, definitely like

0:35:55.280 --> 0:35:57.600
<v Speaker 1>larceny like petit is there is there is that what

0:35:57.920 --> 0:36:02.640
<v Speaker 1>a form of larceny? Petit larceny, petty whatever, the small cars,

0:36:02.840 --> 0:36:04.799
<v Speaker 1>small stuff. No, But when I was little, I used

0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:07.960
<v Speaker 1>to steal from the school store. I would steal from

0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:11.279
<v Speaker 1>I would steal snacks out of people's backpacks because my

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:14.520
<v Speaker 1>parents always gave us really healthy snacks. So I'd be like, well,

0:36:14.520 --> 0:36:18.200
<v Speaker 1>I want chips today and I want dunkaroos and gushers,

0:36:18.239 --> 0:36:21.080
<v Speaker 1>so I would steal people's food and then I would

0:36:21.160 --> 0:36:25.120
<v Speaker 1>lie about it, and then I started stealing from you know, stores,

0:36:25.719 --> 0:36:28.880
<v Speaker 1>and then I went to college and started stealing stuff

0:36:28.920 --> 0:36:32.239
<v Speaker 1>when I was in college. So wow, yeah it was you.

0:36:32.320 --> 0:36:33.759
<v Speaker 2>Never stolen from a friend, Marie.

0:36:34.520 --> 0:36:37.279
<v Speaker 1>Stolen from a friend. No, yeah, if I if I'm

0:36:37.280 --> 0:36:39.440
<v Speaker 1>friends with you, I'm not stealing from you. But if

0:36:39.480 --> 0:36:41.960
<v Speaker 1>you leave something at my house and we're friends and

0:36:42.040 --> 0:36:43.840
<v Speaker 1>we're the same size, it belongs to me.

0:36:43.960 --> 0:36:47.120
<v Speaker 3>Now I agree with that. Yeah, I have a few

0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:49.640
<v Speaker 3>items of clothing that fall into that. That's not theft,

0:36:49.760 --> 0:36:54.120
<v Speaker 3>that's just what is it? Something nine tenths of the law.

0:36:54.719 --> 0:36:56.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm absorbing what you left here.

0:36:57.040 --> 0:37:00.680
<v Speaker 3>It belongs to me now exactly, so that exactly possession

0:37:00.840 --> 0:37:02.839
<v Speaker 3>is nine tenths of the laws. So then you become

0:37:02.920 --> 0:37:06.560
<v Speaker 3>the owner. Thank you, because nine tenths that's ninety percent.

0:37:08.320 --> 0:37:08.920
<v Speaker 1>Nine tenths.

0:37:11.160 --> 0:37:14.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't like this this math. It doesn't check out.

0:37:16.000 --> 0:37:18.800
<v Speaker 3>Well, have you, Marie? When did you stop stealing?

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:19.600
<v Speaker 4>Uh?

0:37:20.480 --> 0:37:23.440
<v Speaker 1>When I was in college. I stopped stealing last year.

0:37:24.440 --> 0:37:26.080
<v Speaker 2>I was like, Marie, what you're talking about?

0:37:26.880 --> 0:37:29.120
<v Speaker 1>No, what are you talking about? Sydney. I do not

0:37:29.280 --> 0:37:33.680
<v Speaker 1>steal anymore. What's the last time you saw me steal?

0:37:36.960 --> 0:37:40.600
<v Speaker 1>You can say this is a safe space exactly because.

0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:41.960
<v Speaker 3>I've never seen you steel, because you're good at it.

0:37:42.160 --> 0:37:44.760
<v Speaker 1>Exactly because I'm Ocean's eight about it. Well, not Ocean's

0:37:44.760 --> 0:37:45.880
<v Speaker 1>eight oceans twelve.

0:37:48.600 --> 0:37:48.880
<v Speaker 3>Twelve.

0:37:48.960 --> 0:37:50.880
<v Speaker 1>That was a big one, exactly. I already took it.

0:37:51.000 --> 0:37:53.759
<v Speaker 1>By the time you see it's missing, I've already taken it.

0:37:56.160 --> 0:37:57.799
<v Speaker 1>And then I you know, my memory is not good,

0:37:57.880 --> 0:37:59.319
<v Speaker 1>so I'll take it and then forget where I took

0:37:59.360 --> 0:38:01.719
<v Speaker 1>it from and be like, I don't remember where I

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:03.600
<v Speaker 1>got this. I think it was a gift.

0:38:05.719 --> 0:38:06.680
<v Speaker 3>Classic do you think?

0:38:06.840 --> 0:38:09.520
<v Speaker 2>Do you think if you find something and you don't

0:38:09.560 --> 0:38:11.640
<v Speaker 2>turn it in, is that a form of stealing?

0:38:13.320 --> 0:38:15.640
<v Speaker 3>Depends where? I mean, if you find it on the sidewalk,

0:38:15.719 --> 0:38:18.440
<v Speaker 3>it's a bit tough, right, but maybe I guess presumably

0:38:18.480 --> 0:38:21.000
<v Speaker 3>the person could come back for it. But I think

0:38:21.200 --> 0:38:24.440
<v Speaker 3>if you find something at school and you don't, like

0:38:24.719 --> 0:38:26.440
<v Speaker 3>one time I lost, I used to work in an

0:38:26.480 --> 0:38:28.320
<v Speaker 3>office and I had a picture of me as a

0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:31.520
<v Speaker 3>kid at my birthday party where Barney came. So it's

0:38:31.520 --> 0:38:33.440
<v Speaker 3>obviously very near and dear to my heart. I scanned

0:38:33.480 --> 0:38:35.759
<v Speaker 3>the picture. Then it fell out of my notebook and

0:38:35.960 --> 0:38:37.880
<v Speaker 3>then someone found it and just never gave it to me,

0:38:37.960 --> 0:38:45.000
<v Speaker 3>which I find so weird. What just clearly it's like

0:38:45.080 --> 0:38:47.279
<v Speaker 3>a memory. I mean, luckily I have the scan of it,

0:38:47.360 --> 0:38:49.040
<v Speaker 3>but it always just weird to me that no one

0:38:49.200 --> 0:38:49.920
<v Speaker 3>like turned it in.

0:38:50.600 --> 0:38:54.359
<v Speaker 1>Right, it's very it's very obviously you and the photo. Yeah,

0:38:55.160 --> 0:38:57.320
<v Speaker 1>oh damn. Maybe it was somebody at the office that

0:38:57.400 --> 0:38:58.759
<v Speaker 1>didn't like you, a hater.

0:38:59.560 --> 0:39:02.640
<v Speaker 3>Maybe it was a small, small office. So I'll never

0:39:02.719 --> 0:39:05.919
<v Speaker 3>forget that. But I think if you don't turn something

0:39:05.960 --> 0:39:08.000
<v Speaker 3>in and it's like an office situation, then.

0:39:07.960 --> 0:39:08.520
<v Speaker 1>That is bad.

0:39:09.760 --> 0:39:09.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:39:11.160 --> 0:39:14.040
<v Speaker 1>Yes, maybe sometimes it's not stealing.

0:39:14.120 --> 0:39:15.600
<v Speaker 3>Technically it's not stealing.

0:39:15.960 --> 0:39:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't think.

0:39:16.560 --> 0:39:16.600
<v Speaker 3>So.

0:39:17.840 --> 0:39:21.359
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you say people people confess to you, they

0:39:21.440 --> 0:39:23.320
<v Speaker 1>trust you, they're like, they open up to you.

0:39:23.920 --> 0:39:24.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:27.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you like listening to people's problems or do you

0:39:27.280 --> 0:39:29.480
<v Speaker 1>like holding people's secrets or do you share them with

0:39:29.600 --> 0:39:31.560
<v Speaker 1>other people? I don't like.

0:39:31.920 --> 0:39:34.000
<v Speaker 3>So here's the thing, and I've learned this about certain

0:39:34.000 --> 0:39:36.600
<v Speaker 3>people too. If you tell me not to tell anyone.

0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:37.400
<v Speaker 1>I won't like.

0:39:37.719 --> 0:39:44.759
<v Speaker 2>No, no, wait, hold on, what let's be honest. What

0:39:46.080 --> 0:39:48.400
<v Speaker 2>if somebody tells you don't tell anybody? You're not going

0:39:48.480 --> 0:39:49.279
<v Speaker 2>to tell your best friend.

0:39:49.880 --> 0:39:51.680
<v Speaker 3>Well here, I saw a tweet once that I thought

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:53.560
<v Speaker 3>was really smart. When I say I'm not going to

0:39:53.600 --> 0:39:55.520
<v Speaker 3>tell anyone, I mean I'm not going to tell anyone.

0:39:55.719 --> 0:39:59.840
<v Speaker 3>You know. That was the tweet exactly, And I think so.

0:40:00.000 --> 0:40:02.560
<v Speaker 3>So if basically there's a difference, like if Sidney, if

0:40:02.600 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 3>you told me something, you said not to tell anyone,

0:40:04.440 --> 0:40:07.040
<v Speaker 3>and then I ran into like George Saveris and I

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:10.279
<v Speaker 3>told him that is different than me telling a friend

0:40:10.280 --> 0:40:11.879
<v Speaker 3>I went to high school with because it's a good

0:40:11.960 --> 0:40:14.239
<v Speaker 3>story and not saying your name, you know what I mean.

0:40:15.040 --> 0:40:17.680
<v Speaker 3>So it's just it really is circumstantial. But if someone

0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:19.920
<v Speaker 3>comes there are things that I've never told anyone. If

0:40:19.960 --> 0:40:21.960
<v Speaker 3>someone comes to me in confidence and they say this,

0:40:22.200 --> 0:40:23.960
<v Speaker 3>you know this is a secret of mine and you

0:40:24.040 --> 0:40:26.400
<v Speaker 3>can't tell anyone, I will respect the code and I

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:27.240
<v Speaker 3>won't say anything.

0:40:28.120 --> 0:40:34.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Marie, what you do that? What's the question do

0:40:34.400 --> 0:40:36.120
<v Speaker 2>you when someone tells you don't tell anyone.

0:40:36.920 --> 0:40:38.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't have anybody to tell, Sydney. I feel like

0:40:38.640 --> 0:40:40.040
<v Speaker 1>you're trying to set me up for something. But I

0:40:40.040 --> 0:40:42.279
<v Speaker 1>don't have anybody to tell anything. If you tell me

0:40:42.400 --> 0:40:45.240
<v Speaker 1>not to tell nobody. I'm whispering it to my plants. Honestly,

0:40:45.480 --> 0:40:48.120
<v Speaker 1>the only person I'm telling anything to is my mom,

0:40:48.280 --> 0:40:51.760
<v Speaker 1>and she don't care about none of y'all right, She's like, ooo.

0:40:52.160 --> 0:40:55.160
<v Speaker 3>Wow, that's a good outlet. Also, sometimes these stories get

0:40:55.200 --> 0:40:58.200
<v Speaker 3>so convoluted. There's so many characters. It's like, even if

0:40:58.239 --> 0:41:00.680
<v Speaker 3>I wanted to like explain the back story here and

0:41:00.760 --> 0:41:03.719
<v Speaker 3>tell someone is just too much effort. So a lot

0:41:03.800 --> 0:41:06.400
<v Speaker 3>of times, yeah, I mean, there's definitely people that I've

0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:08.879
<v Speaker 3>said things to that I'm like, oh, that's a person

0:41:08.960 --> 0:41:10.680
<v Speaker 3>that I need to tell them not to tell anyone

0:41:11.040 --> 0:41:13.560
<v Speaker 3>because they just will and it's not malicious, but they'll

0:41:13.680 --> 0:41:16.840
<v Speaker 3>just regurgitate what you say and because it's something to

0:41:16.960 --> 0:41:19.520
<v Speaker 3>talk about. And then I've been burned before with that,

0:41:20.280 --> 0:41:24.560
<v Speaker 3>and I've definitely I've definitely told people things I sometimes

0:41:24.560 --> 0:41:26.600
<v Speaker 3>I like to get involved in I know somebody likes

0:41:26.760 --> 0:41:29.040
<v Speaker 3>someone else, and that has gotten me in trouble before.

0:41:29.480 --> 0:41:32.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've done that too, because I feel like I can.

0:41:32.040 --> 0:41:34.279
<v Speaker 3>Help and people don't trust me to be subtle, and

0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:37.400
<v Speaker 3>then I'll just kind of take matters into my own hands.

0:41:37.560 --> 0:41:39.759
<v Speaker 3>But I don't really do that anymore because I don't

0:41:39.840 --> 0:41:40.360
<v Speaker 3>get in trouble.

0:41:41.040 --> 0:41:43.320
<v Speaker 1>But also sometimes people tell you not to tell anybody,

0:41:43.719 --> 0:41:45.680
<v Speaker 1>and then they tell you their secret and you're like, girl,

0:41:45.840 --> 0:41:50.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to notice that this tea is

0:41:51.000 --> 0:41:55.560
<v Speaker 1>it's a tiny cup and it's cold. I don't nobody cares. Right,

0:41:56.960 --> 0:42:00.719
<v Speaker 1>it's a thimble, just a thimble of lip Okay, it's

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:02.120
<v Speaker 1>not even like a good seat.

0:42:02.360 --> 0:42:03.400
<v Speaker 3>So that.

0:42:05.480 --> 0:42:08.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean for me, I will, I will say on

0:42:08.560 --> 0:42:12.200
<v Speaker 2>the record, I talked to a lot of people, so too.

0:42:12.920 --> 0:42:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Sydney has more friends than anybody in the world.

0:42:16.200 --> 0:42:20.480
<v Speaker 2>People people tell me business and then because my memory

0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:24.080
<v Speaker 2>is so short, I only remember bits and pieces of stuff.

0:42:24.520 --> 0:42:27.680
<v Speaker 2>So if I do, like per se mention something to Marie,

0:42:28.200 --> 0:42:30.680
<v Speaker 2>Marie is always upset with me because she's like, well, sis,

0:42:30.800 --> 0:42:34.000
<v Speaker 2>you none of this makes sense. Where is the rest

0:42:34.080 --> 0:42:35.840
<v Speaker 2>of the information that matters?

0:42:36.400 --> 0:42:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Yes, Sidney will give you pieces of the team. You're like,

0:42:39.719 --> 0:42:41.440
<v Speaker 1>she will, where were they?

0:42:41.719 --> 0:42:41.919
<v Speaker 2>Wait?

0:42:42.000 --> 0:42:42.680
<v Speaker 1>Who were we talking?

0:42:43.080 --> 0:42:43.239
<v Speaker 2>Why?

0:42:43.320 --> 0:42:44.920
<v Speaker 3>I always have follow up questions.

0:42:45.160 --> 0:42:48.640
<v Speaker 2>I never remember names. I don't know situation like what

0:42:48.880 --> 0:42:50.680
<v Speaker 2>agency it was that I'm bad?

0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:52.920
<v Speaker 3>But also what happened to the girl? And she's like,

0:42:53.040 --> 0:42:54.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, haven't heard friend?

0:42:54.440 --> 0:42:56.800
<v Speaker 1>Yes, but also Sidney will start a story in the

0:42:56.880 --> 0:42:59.040
<v Speaker 1>middle and then go to the end and you're like, wait,

0:42:59.440 --> 0:43:02.920
<v Speaker 1>what happened? You gotta tell me the full thing, and

0:43:03.000 --> 0:43:08.839
<v Speaker 1>she's like, oh, okay, well always always you do it here.

0:43:09.120 --> 0:43:11.560
<v Speaker 1>You tell stories on the podcast and it's like, wait,

0:43:11.640 --> 0:43:13.920
<v Speaker 1>you just said the ending, but what happened before that?

0:43:14.200 --> 0:43:20.160
<v Speaker 3>And you're like, You're like, oh, it's very Christopher Nolan asked, yeah,

0:43:21.840 --> 0:43:22.719
<v Speaker 3>m night, Shyamalan.

0:43:22.880 --> 0:43:23.080
<v Speaker 4>We have.

0:43:24.360 --> 0:43:27.640
<v Speaker 3>It's non linear storytelling, Sidney, and that can make you

0:43:27.800 --> 0:43:32.440
<v Speaker 3>rich one day. What you say, nonlinear storytelling, that can

0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:36.479
<v Speaker 3>make you rich one day. People love that ship.

0:43:36.600 --> 0:43:39.520
<v Speaker 2>They drag me in my secret.

0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:44.200
<v Speaker 3>No, I'm just grateful to know because sometimes Sydney will

0:43:44.239 --> 0:43:47.680
<v Speaker 3>text me I have tea. I FaceTime her immediately. M M.

0:43:48.719 --> 0:43:50.319
<v Speaker 3>It's never disappointed, not once.

0:43:50.640 --> 0:43:54.640
<v Speaker 1>You've never been like oh okay, it's never been something

0:43:54.680 --> 0:43:59.200
<v Speaker 1>you already knew. No I have I have like you knew,

0:44:00.320 --> 0:44:02.680
<v Speaker 1>say right now, yeah, say right now space.

0:44:02.760 --> 0:44:07.360
<v Speaker 3>That was a test. I don't remember. But sometimes, you know,

0:44:07.480 --> 0:44:09.600
<v Speaker 3>sometimes when someone tells you a secret and then they

0:44:09.680 --> 0:44:11.880
<v Speaker 3>say don't tell anyone, and then the other person involved

0:44:11.920 --> 0:44:13.640
<v Speaker 3>also tells you, so you have to pretend that you

0:44:13.719 --> 0:44:14.000
<v Speaker 3>don't know.

0:44:14.600 --> 0:44:15.120
<v Speaker 1>Fake shots.

0:44:15.120 --> 0:44:15.680
<v Speaker 2>You're good at that.

0:44:15.960 --> 0:44:20.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I'm good at being like ah what, oh, oh

0:44:20.280 --> 0:44:24.399
<v Speaker 1>my god, tell me more. Okay, wait, have you ever

0:44:24.840 --> 0:44:27.480
<v Speaker 1>forgotten who told you something and then you tell them

0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:28.600
<v Speaker 1>their thing back to them?

0:44:29.040 --> 0:44:31.600
<v Speaker 3>Yes, Marie does never, Thank God, I don't think that

0:44:31.680 --> 0:44:34.279
<v Speaker 3>has ever happened. I do forget, though, especially lately, who

0:44:34.360 --> 0:44:37.880
<v Speaker 3>I forget who I've had conversations with. But I have

0:44:38.040 --> 0:44:40.160
<v Speaker 3>never repeated someone's secret back to them. I think that

0:44:40.239 --> 0:44:44.160
<v Speaker 3>would be detrimental to my reputation as a steel vault

0:44:44.360 --> 0:44:45.000
<v Speaker 3>of information.

0:44:45.719 --> 0:44:47.680
<v Speaker 1>Marie does it all done that I don't know about

0:44:47.760 --> 0:44:50.080
<v Speaker 1>all the time. But sometimes I'll repeat stuff to people

0:44:50.120 --> 0:44:52.399
<v Speaker 1>like I mean, I'll do it with Sidney, but I'll

0:44:52.440 --> 0:44:54.239
<v Speaker 1>be like, I don't know who told me this, but

0:44:54.640 --> 0:44:59.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody was saying that they're Brazilian butt lift, you know

0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:01.640
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. And Sydney's like, I told you that story,

0:45:01.760 --> 0:45:05.000
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, oh, are you sure? We weren't there together?

0:45:05.320 --> 0:45:06.520
<v Speaker 1>No in a city.

0:45:07.120 --> 0:45:10.000
<v Speaker 2>So, Mary, how do you feel about people who gossip?

0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:15.080
<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, there's not much to do these days,

0:45:15.320 --> 0:45:19.080
<v Speaker 3>and I think gossip is one thing we will always have,

0:45:19.280 --> 0:45:21.879
<v Speaker 3>no matter what m h, no matter how long we're

0:45:21.920 --> 0:45:24.080
<v Speaker 3>locked indoors, there's always gonna be people doing things that

0:45:24.120 --> 0:45:26.560
<v Speaker 3>we want to talk about. I think I would rather

0:45:26.760 --> 0:45:30.680
<v Speaker 3>be talked about than talking about other people. That's that's

0:45:30.719 --> 0:45:32.520
<v Speaker 3>a goal. It's a career goal. You know. You want

0:45:32.560 --> 0:45:35.880
<v Speaker 3>people to be like, what's she up to? But I do.

0:45:36.280 --> 0:45:38.799
<v Speaker 3>I do gossip and I talk shit, and I don't

0:45:38.800 --> 0:45:41.480
<v Speaker 3>always feel great about it, but it is a cathartic

0:45:41.680 --> 0:45:42.320
<v Speaker 3>kind of release.

0:45:43.239 --> 0:45:45.600
<v Speaker 2>Why why do we feel so good about talking shit

0:45:45.760 --> 0:45:46.240
<v Speaker 2>and gossip.

0:45:46.680 --> 0:45:48.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. It's just nice to just be like,

0:45:48.800 --> 0:45:51.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm in a situation with someone I trust, and I'm

0:45:51.239 --> 0:45:53.120
<v Speaker 3>going to just go all the way off, and then

0:45:53.680 --> 0:45:55.800
<v Speaker 3>you do, and then you hang up. What I hate

0:45:56.520 --> 0:45:58.239
<v Speaker 3>is when you want to talk shit and the person's like,

0:45:58.680 --> 0:46:05.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I kind of like that, And then

0:46:05.560 --> 0:46:10.439
<v Speaker 3>I say, click, shut the computer, because that's not fun

0:46:10.480 --> 0:46:12.359
<v Speaker 3>for anyone. Don't don't take the high road.

0:46:12.840 --> 0:46:15.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, especially if I'm talking to you and I know

0:46:15.520 --> 0:46:18.760
<v Speaker 1>you don't actually truly like that person that we're talking about.

0:46:19.160 --> 0:46:21.280
<v Speaker 1>You're just trying to act like you're like above the conversation.

0:46:21.440 --> 0:46:21.920
<v Speaker 1>And it's like.

0:46:25.719 --> 0:46:28.080
<v Speaker 2>Favorite line when she talks to me, she's like, yeah,

0:46:28.120 --> 0:46:28.799
<v Speaker 2>I know, that's your.

0:46:28.760 --> 0:46:29.319
<v Speaker 3>Girl, but.

0:46:32.480 --> 0:46:33.160
<v Speaker 1>That's your friend.

0:46:33.360 --> 0:46:38.840
<v Speaker 3>So I do say that that's really good. That's a

0:46:38.880 --> 0:46:41.279
<v Speaker 3>good way of just addressing that you kind of.

0:46:41.840 --> 0:46:43.480
<v Speaker 2>Drag them and be like, but that's your friend.

0:46:43.600 --> 0:46:47.360
<v Speaker 3>So well, it's a whole other layer two with comedy,

0:46:47.440 --> 0:46:49.879
<v Speaker 3>because there's you can't be friends with people you don't

0:46:49.880 --> 0:46:54.799
<v Speaker 3>think are funny. Yes, and that's a whole other thing.

0:46:55.400 --> 0:46:56.719
<v Speaker 2>Sorry, but I can't.

0:46:56.480 --> 0:46:58.440
<v Speaker 1>Really be friends with people that I don't think are funny.

0:46:59.120 --> 0:46:59.640
<v Speaker 1>Not really.

0:47:01.080 --> 0:47:04.239
<v Speaker 2>I wrote a Facebook post about that years ago, and

0:47:04.320 --> 0:47:08.040
<v Speaker 2>there were so many comedians in my in my messages

0:47:08.160 --> 0:47:12.080
<v Speaker 2>like so like, one, who are you talking about? And

0:47:12.200 --> 0:47:15.520
<v Speaker 2>two like do you think I'm not funny? And it's

0:47:15.560 --> 0:47:17.000
<v Speaker 2>like what what? Well?

0:47:17.040 --> 0:47:18.000
<v Speaker 1>What did the say?

0:47:19.080 --> 0:47:22.160
<v Speaker 2>The post said, Listen, I have so many friends outside

0:47:22.200 --> 0:47:25.480
<v Speaker 2>of comedy who aren't funny. Those are those are regular people.

0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:28.400
<v Speaker 2>If you're in comedy and you're supposed to be funny,

0:47:28.719 --> 0:47:30.239
<v Speaker 2>why the fuck would I hang out with you if

0:47:30.239 --> 0:47:33.919
<v Speaker 2>I don't think you have anything to offer comedically. That's true,

0:47:34.800 --> 0:47:36.840
<v Speaker 2>And then people were writing in the messages, but what

0:47:36.920 --> 0:47:38.600
<v Speaker 2>if that person is a good person? I was like,

0:47:39.320 --> 0:47:41.440
<v Speaker 2>then they should just stop doing comedy and just be

0:47:41.719 --> 0:47:42.879
<v Speaker 2>a good person.

0:47:43.200 --> 0:47:47.120
<v Speaker 1>Right, A good person doesn't make a good comedian. Actually,

0:47:47.640 --> 0:47:51.160
<v Speaker 1>sometimes the worst person you are the better comedian you are.

0:47:51.520 --> 0:47:54.799
<v Speaker 3>So fortunately, yeah, you know, time and time again.

0:47:55.120 --> 0:47:58.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna look for that post reposted.

0:47:58.680 --> 0:48:00.920
<v Speaker 3>Please do and send me a green shop because that

0:48:01.000 --> 0:48:05.040
<v Speaker 3>was probably before, maybe before we knew each other or

0:48:05.160 --> 0:48:07.439
<v Speaker 3>we were Facebook friends, and I would love to read it. Yeah,

0:48:08.239 --> 0:48:09.800
<v Speaker 3>it's a good take and you're not wrong.

0:48:10.400 --> 0:48:13.520
<v Speaker 2>Yes, well, well for me, it's just like one I

0:48:13.560 --> 0:48:15.040
<v Speaker 2>don't want to oh, I wrote in a post. I

0:48:15.120 --> 0:48:16.840
<v Speaker 2>was like, I don't want to have a show, and

0:48:16.960 --> 0:48:20.080
<v Speaker 2>you're my friend and I cannot put you on my show.

0:48:20.280 --> 0:48:24.040
<v Speaker 2>Now that hurts because then I gotta tell you about

0:48:24.040 --> 0:48:24.640
<v Speaker 2>the lineup and.

0:48:24.719 --> 0:48:27.800
<v Speaker 3>Be like so uh, it's so true.

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:31.600
<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be here, but you again another week not

0:48:31.800 --> 0:48:32.319
<v Speaker 2>on the show.

0:48:33.040 --> 0:48:35.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that was the cool thing about the Knitting

0:48:35.800 --> 0:48:40.800
<v Speaker 1>Factory is it was three hosts, and anytime somebody like

0:48:40.920 --> 0:48:42.960
<v Speaker 1>asked a couple of times and we didn't think that

0:48:43.000 --> 0:48:45.560
<v Speaker 1>they were the right fit for the show, I'd say,

0:48:45.600 --> 0:48:47.560
<v Speaker 1>well tell them Marie said they don't want them on

0:48:47.640 --> 0:48:51.960
<v Speaker 1>the show, Like, I'll take the say Marie said no,

0:48:52.640 --> 0:48:55.319
<v Speaker 1>And then if you want, if you if you got

0:48:55.400 --> 0:48:57.239
<v Speaker 1>the gall to come approaching me and talk about it.

0:48:57.280 --> 0:49:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say I've never seen you do well, or

0:49:01.280 --> 0:49:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you're funny or you know, but now

0:49:03.640 --> 0:49:06.280
<v Speaker 1>we don't have that anymore. So it's like, who is funny?

0:49:06.280 --> 0:49:06.880
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean?

0:49:07.400 --> 0:49:10.840
<v Speaker 3>Well, what's weird about everything happening with no shows is

0:49:10.920 --> 0:49:13.480
<v Speaker 3>like I figured there'd be less comedians as a move,

0:49:13.800 --> 0:49:16.680
<v Speaker 3>but I feel like they're just more and more. Yeah,

0:49:17.160 --> 0:49:18.000
<v Speaker 3>and they're just tweeting.

0:49:20.239 --> 0:49:23.800
<v Speaker 2>Is that a confession? Mary, You're low key drag.

0:49:23.920 --> 0:49:31.839
<v Speaker 3>They're like, everyone's got to make money. I just I'm who.

0:49:32.000 --> 0:49:32.279
<v Speaker 4>I hear it?

0:49:32.360 --> 0:49:34.840
<v Speaker 3>Mary, I'm upset with myself that I'm not compelled to

0:49:34.880 --> 0:49:37.160
<v Speaker 3>tweet more because I do feel like people get jobs

0:49:37.200 --> 0:49:39.440
<v Speaker 3>from it. It's just not my medium. I want to

0:49:39.480 --> 0:49:41.239
<v Speaker 3>do stand up and that's how I feel.

0:49:41.640 --> 0:49:44.200
<v Speaker 1>You're good on Twitter though your tweets are funny, I

0:49:44.360 --> 0:49:45.000
<v Speaker 1>just don't tweet.

0:49:45.040 --> 0:49:48.759
<v Speaker 3>I hate the website the way I've really like come,

0:49:49.000 --> 0:49:51.239
<v Speaker 3>I've had to come to terms with this in my

0:49:51.440 --> 0:49:54.319
<v Speaker 3>in my brain, when a tweet does bad, I feel bad.

0:49:54.400 --> 0:49:56.600
<v Speaker 3>When a tweet does well, I feel nothing. So it's

0:49:56.640 --> 0:50:00.760
<v Speaker 3>truly like what am I gaining from it? Viral sweets

0:50:01.200 --> 0:50:05.880
<v Speaker 3>viral tweets are so annoying. You're literally drowning and mentions

0:50:06.320 --> 0:50:09.279
<v Speaker 3>all day for two days, and then things calm down

0:50:09.400 --> 0:50:10.920
<v Speaker 3>and you're like, what am I left with?

0:50:11.920 --> 0:50:12.240
<v Speaker 2>Nothing?

0:50:12.560 --> 0:50:12.799
<v Speaker 1>Okay?

0:50:12.880 --> 0:50:16.280
<v Speaker 3>Nothing? So sometimes you have to be honest with yourself

0:50:16.320 --> 0:50:19.960
<v Speaker 3>and say, is what am I? What is this bringing me? What? Joy? Nothing? Okay?

0:50:19.960 --> 0:50:21.840
<v Speaker 3>I should stop doing it, So I'll go off of

0:50:21.880 --> 0:50:24.000
<v Speaker 3>it for a bit here and there. I just really

0:50:24.040 --> 0:50:25.960
<v Speaker 3>want to just be successful enough where I can just

0:50:26.280 --> 0:50:27.400
<v Speaker 3>never ever tweet.

0:50:27.080 --> 0:50:31.359
<v Speaker 1>Again, okay. I mean our good friend Matteo was very

0:50:31.400 --> 0:50:33.880
<v Speaker 1>popular on Twitter and he deleted his account.

0:50:34.239 --> 0:50:35.960
<v Speaker 3>He does see that is wild to me.

0:50:36.320 --> 0:50:37.759
<v Speaker 1>He was like, yeah, I don't. I got this is

0:50:37.960 --> 0:50:39.000
<v Speaker 1>it's bringing me stress.

0:50:39.480 --> 0:50:41.800
<v Speaker 3>I don't think I could delete it. That's that's my issue.

0:50:41.840 --> 0:50:44.480
<v Speaker 3>I can't. I deleted my Facebook and that felt amazing.

0:50:44.520 --> 0:50:46.919
<v Speaker 3>I didn't deactivated it. I straight up deleted it, yep.

0:50:47.000 --> 0:50:49.239
<v Speaker 3>But I just can't. I feel like Twitter has like

0:50:49.440 --> 0:50:53.120
<v Speaker 3>things that I want to keep. Yeah.

0:50:53.440 --> 0:50:55.839
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess every once in a while, I'll

0:50:55.880 --> 0:50:57.160
<v Speaker 1>delete the app from my phone.

0:50:57.680 --> 0:50:58.680
<v Speaker 2>I am, and.

0:51:00.440 --> 0:51:02.360
<v Speaker 1>You know, because I feel like I waste time on it.

0:51:02.440 --> 0:51:04.320
<v Speaker 1>But I don't tweet that often and when I do.

0:51:04.960 --> 0:51:08.440
<v Speaker 1>It's sometimes it's literally something that my high brain is

0:51:08.680 --> 0:51:11.960
<v Speaker 1>curious about that I could google, but I don't want to.

0:51:12.960 --> 0:51:14.919
<v Speaker 1>And then other times it's me just reacting to something

0:51:14.960 --> 0:51:19.400
<v Speaker 1>that I just read. So you know, Twitter is useless

0:51:19.440 --> 0:51:22.480
<v Speaker 1>for me, but people are getting jobs from it and

0:51:22.560 --> 0:51:25.360
<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah blah blah, and it's like, but I

0:51:25.400 --> 0:51:27.360
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be a writer. So there's also that,

0:51:27.719 --> 0:51:29.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, there's that I.

0:51:29.680 --> 0:51:32.040
<v Speaker 2>Mean, this is so I'll say this and this will

0:51:32.080 --> 0:51:37.439
<v Speaker 2>be the end of my social media rant. I think

0:51:38.160 --> 0:51:45.319
<v Speaker 2>that comedy really is suggested a subjective subjective and there's

0:51:45.360 --> 0:51:47.880
<v Speaker 2>a lot of times where you'll see people blow up

0:51:47.960 --> 0:51:49.440
<v Speaker 2>or things up, and you're like, I don't get it,

0:51:49.680 --> 0:51:55.400
<v Speaker 2>I don't understand it, and I feel compelled to hate

0:51:55.920 --> 0:51:59.320
<v Speaker 2>on this person, and it's like, no, I need to

0:51:59.400 --> 0:52:02.480
<v Speaker 2>focus on myself. Why am I Why do I want

0:52:02.520 --> 0:52:05.640
<v Speaker 2>to drag this person down? Yeah, because it's right, it's

0:52:05.680 --> 0:52:10.320
<v Speaker 2>the right thing, and until you feel nothing anymore, and

0:52:10.400 --> 0:52:14.160
<v Speaker 2>then you move forward. Sometimes most of the time I

0:52:14.280 --> 0:52:16.880
<v Speaker 2>think that I don't think you should publicly drag people.

0:52:16.960 --> 0:52:19.719
<v Speaker 2>I think that's tacky. I think you go in your

0:52:19.920 --> 0:52:22.879
<v Speaker 2>your group chats and you go off and you get

0:52:22.960 --> 0:52:26.080
<v Speaker 2>it off and then you move on. I think if

0:52:26.120 --> 0:52:31.200
<v Speaker 2>you're a comedian and you're and you're publicly saying someone

0:52:31.320 --> 0:52:33.719
<v Speaker 2>is not funny, who's another comedian? I don't. I think

0:52:33.800 --> 0:52:37.760
<v Speaker 2>it's it's weird. It's like we're all in the same field.

0:52:38.000 --> 0:52:40.040
<v Speaker 1>Well, that's what that's what our friend groups are for.

0:52:40.200 --> 0:52:42.000
<v Speaker 1>That's what the group chat is for. It's a safe

0:52:42.000 --> 0:52:44.200
<v Speaker 1>space to be like, did you see such and such

0:52:44.719 --> 0:52:48.600
<v Speaker 1>on such on Netflix? Did you realize them? You know

0:52:48.640 --> 0:52:52.399
<v Speaker 1>what I mean? And and it feels good to talk

0:52:52.480 --> 0:52:55.480
<v Speaker 1>to people who feel how you feel, because sometimes I

0:52:55.560 --> 0:52:58.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like like like an alien.

0:52:58.239 --> 0:53:01.640
<v Speaker 3>Or something like I'm taking crazy pills right because.

0:53:01.360 --> 0:53:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like this, this is what the people are buying,

0:53:04.080 --> 0:53:06.880
<v Speaker 1>this is what the people are reposting or whatever, whatever, whatever,

0:53:07.400 --> 0:53:11.399
<v Speaker 1>and it is what it is. But it feels good

0:53:11.440 --> 0:53:14.120
<v Speaker 1>to talk to somebody about another person and you're both

0:53:14.160 --> 0:53:14.800
<v Speaker 1>on the same page.

0:53:15.280 --> 0:53:17.560
<v Speaker 3>In a lot of ways. You're just confessing having bad

0:53:17.640 --> 0:53:20.400
<v Speaker 3>thoughts when you do that, and that way, you're releasing them,

0:53:20.680 --> 0:53:21.279
<v Speaker 3>and that's good.

0:53:21.560 --> 0:53:24.200
<v Speaker 2>Full circle love how you full circle on that bitch?

0:53:24.360 --> 0:53:25.560
<v Speaker 1>Damn that we love circle.

0:53:25.719 --> 0:53:28.160
<v Speaker 3>I have said this, I do. I think millennials are

0:53:28.200 --> 0:53:31.319
<v Speaker 3>too empowered. We can justify anything, So I'm like, talking shit,

0:53:31.800 --> 0:53:34.279
<v Speaker 3>we can put a spin on that. I mean, you

0:53:34.360 --> 0:53:37.760
<v Speaker 3>can just rebrand anything and make it positive rebranding.

0:53:38.000 --> 0:53:44.120
<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, But how do you feel about this happens

0:53:45.120 --> 0:53:51.560
<v Speaker 2>with feminism? Women publicly dragging other women want to open forums.

0:53:53.080 --> 0:53:56.960
<v Speaker 3>I don't. I mean it's so circumstantial. Obviously, if you're

0:53:57.000 --> 0:54:00.160
<v Speaker 3>dragging like a white supremacist, that's one thing. But I

0:54:00.239 --> 0:54:03.200
<v Speaker 3>think if you're just I think it's very strange. And

0:54:03.320 --> 0:54:05.600
<v Speaker 3>I do see a lot of people who claim to

0:54:05.680 --> 0:54:08.360
<v Speaker 3>be feminists openly shitting on other women. I mean, I

0:54:08.440 --> 0:54:11.520
<v Speaker 3>think publicly talking shit is so weird to me because

0:54:11.719 --> 0:54:14.279
<v Speaker 3>especially if you're a comedian, like if you're talking shit

0:54:14.320 --> 0:54:16.680
<v Speaker 3>about a celebrity for example, like what if you get

0:54:16.719 --> 0:54:18.360
<v Speaker 3>cast in a movie with them one day? It's so

0:54:18.480 --> 0:54:21.560
<v Speaker 3>awkward that you have tweets like shitting on their entire existence,

0:54:22.360 --> 0:54:25.000
<v Speaker 3>or you have a podcast where you talk shit about everybody,

0:54:25.160 --> 0:54:27.000
<v Speaker 3>and you know, what is it going to be like

0:54:27.040 --> 0:54:28.960
<v Speaker 3>when you are like at a table read with them

0:54:29.080 --> 0:54:30.920
<v Speaker 3>and you know you've said all this really bad stuff.

0:54:31.120 --> 0:54:34.360
<v Speaker 3>M I think I just find it very strange. So

0:54:34.560 --> 0:54:37.400
<v Speaker 3>I just am I'm from toxic stan culture. So I

0:54:37.440 --> 0:54:39.320
<v Speaker 3>would just talk about people that I like. That's what

0:54:39.400 --> 0:54:39.880
<v Speaker 3>I try to do.

0:54:41.280 --> 0:54:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Toxic stand culture.

0:54:43.480 --> 0:54:48.200
<v Speaker 1>Hmm, toxic, right, people who like follow celebrities or famous

0:54:48.200 --> 0:54:50.160
<v Speaker 1>people that they don't actually like and they like hate

0:54:50.480 --> 0:54:51.880
<v Speaker 1>watch or they hate.

0:54:52.440 --> 0:54:55.279
<v Speaker 3>People do that I don't. That's not toxic. Toxic stan

0:54:55.400 --> 0:54:58.640
<v Speaker 3>culture for me is like I'm obsessed with like a

0:54:58.800 --> 0:55:01.240
<v Speaker 3>tear of celebrity. Like there is a group of celebrities

0:55:01.239 --> 0:55:03.640
<v Speaker 3>that I am fully obsessed with, and I will defend

0:55:03.719 --> 0:55:07.040
<v Speaker 3>them like I'm an apologist, and I just want to

0:55:07.120 --> 0:55:09.880
<v Speaker 3>like help them, not hurt them. There are people who

0:55:09.960 --> 0:55:12.680
<v Speaker 3>hate follow celebrities. I find that to be the most

0:55:12.719 --> 0:55:16.799
<v Speaker 3>bizarre use of energy, because what is the point.

0:55:17.280 --> 0:55:19.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean, for years, I didn't follow anybody famous, like

0:55:19.880 --> 0:55:21.640
<v Speaker 1>any celebrities, because I was like, this is just gonna

0:55:21.680 --> 0:55:23.120
<v Speaker 1>make me feel bad about what I have or what

0:55:23.239 --> 0:55:26.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't have, So I just wouldn't follow them. Not

0:55:26.440 --> 0:55:28.239
<v Speaker 1>to say I wouldn't end up on their pages because

0:55:28.239 --> 0:55:30.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, he explore page is the devil.

0:55:30.840 --> 0:55:31.399
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

0:55:31.600 --> 0:55:35.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but yeah, I don't. Like I don't log onto

0:55:35.680 --> 0:55:37.560
<v Speaker 1>social media every time I pick my phone up. I'm

0:55:37.560 --> 0:55:40.919
<v Speaker 1>not supposed to feel bad, Okay, otherwise I'm gonna stop.

0:55:40.960 --> 0:55:42.479
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm not gonna stop picking up my phone,

0:55:42.719 --> 0:55:46.839
<v Speaker 1>but otherwise, like, why am I logging into this app

0:55:47.960 --> 0:55:49.480
<v Speaker 1>to feel worse about what?

0:55:50.239 --> 0:55:52.319
<v Speaker 3>Well, that's what Twitter does to me sometimes. So that's

0:55:52.320 --> 0:55:55.080
<v Speaker 3>why I just try to limit the exposure.

0:55:55.400 --> 0:56:01.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a valid thing. Oh you know this is

0:56:02.000 --> 0:56:05.920
<v Speaker 2>this is another weird thing that I want to confess.

0:56:07.080 --> 0:56:12.600
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I will be friends with people that I'm like,

0:56:13.239 --> 0:56:17.200
<v Speaker 2>you're a little peculiar. I don't really get you just

0:56:17.360 --> 0:56:20.319
<v Speaker 2>to just to get just to see the the hype,

0:56:20.440 --> 0:56:23.200
<v Speaker 2>the buzz, and then really I realized, oh this person

0:56:23.480 --> 0:56:27.920
<v Speaker 2>is cool though they're just like not what I traditionally

0:56:28.040 --> 0:56:33.719
<v Speaker 2>think is funny. But I get why people rock with them.

0:56:35.239 --> 0:56:38.239
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I don't think that is my confession, do you

0:56:38.520 --> 0:56:40.400
<v Speaker 3>I mean I think that sounds very positive.

0:56:41.200 --> 0:56:41.239
<v Speaker 4>No.

0:56:41.840 --> 0:56:47.800
<v Speaker 2>No, because I will say, like you two, everybody on

0:56:47.880 --> 0:56:54.319
<v Speaker 2>this call or this podcast, I think are funny for real,

0:56:54.760 --> 0:56:57.960
<v Speaker 2>Like I know that I can read something on your Instagram,

0:56:58.040 --> 0:56:59.719
<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be funny. I'm gonna talk to you on

0:56:59.760 --> 0:57:02.360
<v Speaker 2>the You're gonna make me laugh. But there's some people

0:57:02.440 --> 0:57:06.080
<v Speaker 2>that it's like I do not see any of it,

0:57:06.480 --> 0:57:10.400
<v Speaker 2>nothing but You're probably just a cool person in general,

0:57:12.480 --> 0:57:13.600
<v Speaker 2>and I'm.

0:57:13.200 --> 0:57:16.520
<v Speaker 3>Friendly, comedy subjective, as you said from right from your

0:57:16.560 --> 0:57:21.080
<v Speaker 3>own words, and it's well, it's okay to appreciate. It's

0:57:21.120 --> 0:57:23.680
<v Speaker 3>going to appreciate if someone does, but not find them funny.

0:57:24.080 --> 0:57:26.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm contradicting myself. Yes, I know, Andrew, come drag me.

0:57:27.800 --> 0:57:31.080
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. What I've always observed about you, Sydney is that

0:57:31.200 --> 0:57:33.800
<v Speaker 4>you I mean, like you referred earlier to like sort

0:57:33.800 --> 0:57:35.600
<v Speaker 4>of like casting like a very broad net. And you

0:57:35.680 --> 0:57:39.480
<v Speaker 4>have a lot of friends, almost like too much friends.

0:57:39.920 --> 0:57:43.520
<v Speaker 4>And your your ratio on Instagram does like keep me

0:57:43.600 --> 0:57:47.720
<v Speaker 4>up at night, whereas like Marie's does relax me. Marie

0:57:48.880 --> 0:57:51.880
<v Speaker 4>is following a lot less people than you are. I

0:57:52.000 --> 0:57:54.840
<v Speaker 4>think that you're you're following too many people you're trusting.

0:57:55.320 --> 0:57:59.160
<v Speaker 1>Wow, I'm looking right now, Andrew. You have said this before.

0:57:59.480 --> 0:58:03.600
<v Speaker 3>It's just your ratio is out of thirty two hundred people.

0:58:03.920 --> 0:58:04.640
<v Speaker 2>But what should I do?

0:58:05.600 --> 0:58:07.560
<v Speaker 1>That's more than some some country's friend?

0:58:08.040 --> 0:58:08.840
<v Speaker 3>What? What? What?

0:58:09.080 --> 0:58:09.800
<v Speaker 2>How do I do that?

0:58:09.960 --> 0:58:12.440
<v Speaker 3>What should you go to the You go to the

0:58:12.480 --> 0:58:14.760
<v Speaker 3>list of people you follow and you follow them?

0:58:15.280 --> 0:58:18.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes, so hard, it's not hard.

0:58:18.800 --> 0:58:21.439
<v Speaker 4>I think like Marie's like following. How many are you following? Marie?

0:58:21.520 --> 0:58:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Like, only like a couple hundred hundreds something.

0:58:24.280 --> 0:58:30.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, wait a minute, wait one second now, So Andrew,

0:58:30.480 --> 0:58:33.440
<v Speaker 2>you're saying I'm keeping you up at night and Marie

0:58:33.560 --> 0:58:35.400
<v Speaker 2>is calming you Yeah, I'm.

0:58:35.720 --> 0:58:39.280
<v Speaker 3>A That is Andrew's confession.

0:58:39.320 --> 0:58:42.360
<v Speaker 4>That is confession. Yeah, Sydney, you're not going to drag

0:58:42.440 --> 0:58:42.680
<v Speaker 4>me for that.

0:58:42.800 --> 0:58:44.680
<v Speaker 1>Sydney. You know what you could do? You go to

0:58:44.760 --> 0:58:47.919
<v Speaker 1>your followers, okay, and then you can see the ones

0:58:47.960 --> 0:58:52.080
<v Speaker 1>that you least interact with and just unfollow those people

0:58:52.520 --> 0:58:54.640
<v Speaker 1>if you never see them, because you're not even seeing

0:58:55.120 --> 0:58:57.160
<v Speaker 1>thirty two hundred people on your feet that that's not

0:58:57.280 --> 0:58:58.000
<v Speaker 1>what the elder.

0:58:58.040 --> 0:58:58.800
<v Speaker 3>Is not possible.

0:58:59.680 --> 0:59:01.760
<v Speaker 4>Stressed me out. It must be insane.

0:59:01.920 --> 0:59:05.040
<v Speaker 2>My feet stresses you out, but you be my feet.

0:59:05.680 --> 0:59:09.000
<v Speaker 4>My idea, I can get the number. Yeah, simply the contenttyes.

0:59:09.080 --> 0:59:12.120
<v Speaker 1>But Andrew, if you've never seen Sydney on Instagram, she

0:59:12.320 --> 0:59:16.080
<v Speaker 1>swipes and likes every single thing that she sees. Like

0:59:16.320 --> 0:59:18.920
<v Speaker 1>that's how Sydney Instagram's She's not like, you know, like

0:59:19.040 --> 0:59:21.640
<v Speaker 1>I'll swipe, I'll be like what's that? Oh that's weird,

0:59:21.800 --> 0:59:23.240
<v Speaker 1>and then I won't double.

0:59:23.040 --> 0:59:25.880
<v Speaker 4>Tap right when I get a like it means a

0:59:25.960 --> 0:59:28.160
<v Speaker 4>lot more than alike from Sydney.

0:59:29.120 --> 0:59:31.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna say, Sydney, what they're saying is you

0:59:31.720 --> 0:59:35.360
<v Speaker 3>diluted your brand on Instagram by following too many people

0:59:36.000 --> 0:59:41.120
<v Speaker 3>and being too frivolous with likes, which I don't think

0:59:41.240 --> 0:59:44.320
<v Speaker 3>is a bad thing. You're creating positivity in the community. Sure,

0:59:44.600 --> 0:59:47.760
<v Speaker 3>I think you can take this confession that Andrew is

0:59:47.840 --> 0:59:50.880
<v Speaker 3>opening up on the podcast and you can either say

0:59:51.240 --> 0:59:53.240
<v Speaker 3>I don't care. I like my life and I'm going

0:59:53.280 --> 0:59:56.280
<v Speaker 3>to continue living it as I happen, or you can say, Okay,

0:59:56.320 --> 0:59:58.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna take this feedback and put it into act.

0:59:58.720 --> 1:00:03.600
<v Speaker 1>My god, literally, sustained.

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<v Speaker 2>Likes don't matter. That's that. I just want to make sure.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not saying that your likes don't matter. I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>saying that Marie me and a little bit more because

1:00:15.680 --> 1:00:19.000
<v Speaker 4>there I know that there are. It's it's thoughtful when

1:00:19.240 --> 1:00:19.920
<v Speaker 4>when it's like, I.

1:00:19.920 --> 1:00:22.680
<v Speaker 1>Mean it, when I like something, but Sidney like, there's

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<v Speaker 1>more and no, it's more thought it's more.

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<v Speaker 3>I just think I just think it's not liking that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, Mary Beth also knows as well, like you're

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<v Speaker 4>going through like we all know that you're going through

1:00:34.280 --> 1:00:36.560
<v Speaker 4>your feet and you're just you're you're tapping away.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, I've seen it firsthand. I'm just like, oh,

1:00:39.280 --> 1:00:41.000
<v Speaker 1>is that how I'm supposed to be using Instagram? I'm

1:00:41.000 --> 1:00:43.400
<v Speaker 1>supposed to like everything that I see, even the ads.

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<v Speaker 1>It's wild, the.

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<v Speaker 3>Funny, that's really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Just anyway, Sidney, I think, go see the ones that

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<v Speaker 1>you least interact with, if ones that you haven't seen

1:00:58.200 --> 1:01:00.960
<v Speaker 1>probably since you followed them, and go. I didn't let

1:01:01.000 --> 1:01:01.440
<v Speaker 1>some of them go.

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<v Speaker 2>I love I love this confession for y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>This all right cool. We've had this conversation with her

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<v Speaker 1>on the pod before. She's she's just gonna follow a thousand.

1:01:14.040 --> 1:01:17.400
<v Speaker 1>It's fine, you know, it's okay, fine, it's fine, Mary,

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<v Speaker 1>But how many people are you following?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm following. I try to keep it. I've always been

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<v Speaker 3>under a thousand, which is becoming harder and harder to

1:01:27.160 --> 1:01:29.360
<v Speaker 3>keep because you just meet people and it's like, I

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<v Speaker 3>feel bad if I don't follow back a lot of

1:01:31.000 --> 1:01:33.640
<v Speaker 3>the time. Right now, I'm following nine hundred and eighty four.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I think under a thousand it feels good to

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<v Speaker 1>me as well.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just getting really hard to maintain. And I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like once you break a thousand, it's like, Okay, well

1:01:40.920 --> 1:01:42.880
<v Speaker 3>I guess I'll keep it under two thousand. But then

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<v Speaker 3>it's like, I'm gonna be following so many people.

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<v Speaker 1>I hardly know how many people does Beyonce follow She

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<v Speaker 1>follows none zero. That's weird to me, though not not

1:01:53.040 --> 1:01:56.280
<v Speaker 1>because it's her, but like anybody who has an Instagram

1:01:56.360 --> 1:01:58.160
<v Speaker 1>and is following nobody, it's like, well, what does your

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<v Speaker 1>feet look like?

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<v Speaker 4>The feet is simply just her post.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think it's weird, Like what about your family? Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean like Tina Knowles has gone on Instagram

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<v Speaker 4>Live and has talked about Beyonce's This is just a

1:02:15.840 --> 1:02:20.600
<v Speaker 4>conspiracy theory that I am obsessed. Tina Knowles has gone

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<v Speaker 4>on Instagram Live and she's talked about like the interviewer

1:02:25.000 --> 1:02:28.680
<v Speaker 4>was like, do your daughters cook? And then she said,

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<v Speaker 4>Beyonce posts a lot of what she cooks on her Instagram.

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<v Speaker 4>You go through Beyonce's Instagram, there's nothing that she's prepared.

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<v Speaker 2>Beyonce don't cook, right, So she has a.

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<v Speaker 4>Private Instagram, which is what we're getting at. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>the Beyonce Instagram the at Beyonce.

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<v Speaker 3>Is not her. Yeah, that makes sense that a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of celebrities do that. I mean, well, it's the whole

1:02:48.800 --> 1:02:52.080
<v Speaker 3>Finsta of it all. But I can't. I can't manage

1:02:52.160 --> 1:02:55.600
<v Speaker 3>to account. So I have dragons ass in my own

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<v Speaker 3>and that keeps me plenty busy.

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<v Speaker 1>So did people go through Tina Nogle's followers to find

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<v Speaker 1>the Beyonce real care people?

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<v Speaker 4>People including me? Yeah, I've attempted finding it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, obviously it's obviously it's private.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean like there's you can't really tell. But

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<v Speaker 4>there are like a few contenders that could potentially be

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<v Speaker 4>Beyonce's account.

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<v Speaker 3>But luckily we probably got they probably got none dated

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<v Speaker 3>with requests.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, luckily Tina knows only follows two hundred and twenty

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<v Speaker 1>three people, So we could do. We could go through

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<v Speaker 1>that in an afternoon, exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>You could do. We could do some real quick process

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<v Speaker 3>of elimination.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably, But I do I think that that's cool that

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<v Speaker 1>she has a page where her actual personality is on it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for the fam or whatever, So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's cute for her. But I have my Instagram and

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<v Speaker 1>the unofficial expert Instagram, and you see what I do

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<v Speaker 1>with both of those. It's it's hard, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very hard.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's getting hard for me to think of

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<v Speaker 3>things to post because I don't do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>But your post are always good. You always have like

1:04:05.000 --> 1:04:05.680
<v Speaker 1>good photos.

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<v Speaker 3>Once a month, I get I get crippled with anxiety

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<v Speaker 3>about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's great, stressful.

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<v Speaker 2>You have followers that follow you and they're obsessed and

1:04:19.800 --> 1:04:21.760
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't matter. You don't have to post all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Marie doesn't have to post all the time. You guys

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<v Speaker 2>are great. I I just like maintenance and upkeeping, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's why I have one hundred notches.

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<v Speaker 3>So for account, it's your account and you should use

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<v Speaker 3>it however you want.

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<v Speaker 1>The hundred notches are for maintenance and upkeep. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>what make it makes sense, babe, it's one notch per followers.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Essentially at this point, well, guys, I have really just

1:04:56.920 --> 1:05:00.760
<v Speaker 2>confessed a lot about how you feel towards me. But

1:05:00.920 --> 1:05:05.240
<v Speaker 2>I think we should end with a real confession to

1:05:05.480 --> 1:05:08.040
<v Speaker 2>just kick us off or take us off properly.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I guess I will start. I will confess that

1:05:12.440 --> 1:05:16.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm very anxious and nervous about my show, that I'm

1:05:16.080 --> 1:05:19.920
<v Speaker 3>doing for my Bathtub on December nineteenth. And that's not

1:05:20.040 --> 1:05:21.880
<v Speaker 3>even me trying to plug it in a cute way.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm genuinely very nervous because I used to do the

1:05:25.200 --> 1:05:27.120
<v Speaker 3>show on Instagram Live weekly. I haven't done it in

1:05:27.240 --> 1:05:29.680
<v Speaker 3>months and it's on a new platform, and I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 3>are people going to understand? So that's what my confession

1:05:33.960 --> 1:05:36.400
<v Speaker 3>is that I, as you've seen me, put on a

1:05:36.440 --> 1:05:40.880
<v Speaker 3>brave face, but I am nervous. So please buy tickets. Come.

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<v Speaker 3>It's gonna be fun everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>The day after the day after this episode comes out.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Anita Scanner will be on it, Djovin will be

1:05:51.000 --> 1:05:54.960
<v Speaker 3>on it, Iowa Debris and of course Alistair Green from

1:05:55.000 --> 1:05:57.680
<v Speaker 3>the UK will be calling in. So it'll be a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of fun. And I just hope people we'll watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the art for it, the visuals stunning. Big

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Yeah, I saw it and I I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even have to think about tapping it. I said, absolutely,

1:06:10.520 --> 1:06:13.640
<v Speaker 1>this is. She said, I said, this is. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>remember what I said, but I really.

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<v Speaker 3>Really liked A comment for Marie is huge. Honestly, that

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<v Speaker 3>takes effort.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not even that it takes effort. I just like

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<v Speaker 1>when I feel compelled to actually write something under somebody's post,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it's I don't know, it's because it brought

1:06:33.000 --> 1:06:35.920
<v Speaker 1>me some type of joy that's or it's so shocking

1:06:36.000 --> 1:06:37.560
<v Speaker 1>that I'm like, why would you put this up? You

1:06:37.600 --> 1:06:40.560
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? But yes, I know what you mean.

1:06:41.200 --> 1:06:43.040
<v Speaker 1>But I really like the post, and I hope that

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<v Speaker 1>the show goes well. It's on. Well, what's the date again?

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<v Speaker 3>December nineteenth?

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<v Speaker 1>December nineteenth, after Saturday? This episode drops.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, next confession's confession Andrew, you go for it.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if I have a confession. Do I

1:07:04.240 --> 1:07:07.600
<v Speaker 4>confess that I'm sorry for leading this charge against you?

1:07:08.240 --> 1:07:11.480
<v Speaker 4>I think that I think it was an important conversation

1:07:11.640 --> 1:07:17.480
<v Speaker 4>to be had going into a new year. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I do feel I feel bad. I saw I saw

1:07:20.400 --> 1:07:22.800
<v Speaker 4>like your face sort of like go slack during that

1:07:24.360 --> 1:07:28.920
<v Speaker 4>that you're really affected by us calling you out. So

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I mean maybe the problem is Sidney. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad when you unfollow people?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think she does.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever done it?

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<v Speaker 4>Have you ever pressed an unfollow button?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that labrating?

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<v Speaker 1>It feels good? Have you ever muted somebody, because that's

1:07:50.200 --> 1:07:56.200
<v Speaker 1>a that's a different kind of high. No, girl, you've

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<v Speaker 1>never muted somebody? No, oh wow, says she ain't litter right.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we're falling back into it now. It's okay, Sydney.

1:08:06.240 --> 1:08:08.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's fine, but I'm just saying that you

1:08:08.520 --> 1:08:11.960
<v Speaker 1>misronounced this. I think maybe you would squirt more if

1:08:12.040 --> 1:08:14.320
<v Speaker 1>you unfollowed more people, or if you.

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<v Speaker 3>In your life. Sydney.

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<v Speaker 2>Three, confess my confession.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, does it have to be? I guess it'll be

1:08:25.040 --> 1:08:28.040
<v Speaker 1>social media related, since that's what we're talking about now.

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<v Speaker 1>My confession is I never prepare, Like I don't have

1:08:32.360 --> 1:08:34.400
<v Speaker 1>a script for the videos that I upload. I kind

1:08:34.400 --> 1:08:40.479
<v Speaker 1>of just talk, but I shoot numerous versions of the

1:08:40.600 --> 1:08:43.439
<v Speaker 1>video until I think it's perfect, and then I post it.

1:08:43.920 --> 1:08:48.280
<v Speaker 1>If I don't think that the video is hilarious, I'm

1:08:48.360 --> 1:08:51.000
<v Speaker 1>not posting it. And when I first post a video,

1:08:51.080 --> 1:08:53.960
<v Speaker 1>I'll watch it over and over and over again until

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<v Speaker 1>I make myself sick and I can never watch the

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<v Speaker 1>video ever again. Like I'll hit a point where like,

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<v Speaker 1>watch it I don't know fifty times however many times

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<v Speaker 1>and be like I am a genius, and then a

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<v Speaker 1>switch will go off and then I can't, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't watch it anymore. So that's my confession about social media.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard and it's weird, but and it does give

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<v Speaker 1>me anxiety. But I'm still gonna post stuff if I

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<v Speaker 1>like it, you know, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, dropping a bomb right here. I confess that sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>I am jealous of Marie because like, oh wow, people

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<v Speaker 2>love you so much and you're so cool and so funny,

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<v Speaker 2>and I feel like I'm the nerd next to.

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<v Speaker 1>You, and sit you're like a crazy person right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't, I don't. I'm like, Marie is so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why we became friends because you were cool, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm obsessed with how cool she is

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<v Speaker 2>in Pritton.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we became friends because you thought I was pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, cool works too. That's really interesting friend.

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<v Speaker 2>But not jealous in a not jealous in a way

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<v Speaker 2>that like I don't want any good to happen to

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<v Speaker 2>this bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck her.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna single white female you like, not just it's

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<v Speaker 2>like jealous in a sisterly way, like oh man, she's

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<v Speaker 2>just like every time you post something or sometimes I

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<v Speaker 2>see you in real life and I'm like, wow, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't believe we're friends.

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<v Speaker 1>She's so like perfect, Oh wow, well, Sidney, if it

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<v Speaker 1>makes you feel any better, Sometimes I'm jealous of you too,

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<v Speaker 1>in a very sister little way. Yeah, I'm like, look

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<v Speaker 1>at this sexy bitch with the big booty who don't

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<v Speaker 1>work out. Look how likable she is. So if that

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<v Speaker 1>makes you feel any better, and I hope it does

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<v Speaker 1>because I see your face, I can see all of

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<v Speaker 1>your teeth. I feel like that too. So and you

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<v Speaker 1>have more followers than me, so don't worry about people

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<v Speaker 1>liking me more than you. There's more of them in

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<v Speaker 1>your If you don't, you should see my dms. They're

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<v Speaker 1>like I just wanted to say that I enjoy Marie's

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<v Speaker 1>videos so much.

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<v Speaker 3>They're in your day that psychopathic.

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<v Speaker 1>People love you. People are weirdos, don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Friends that I used to work with that are like, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>Maria is really funny. She's she's taking off on social media.

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<v Speaker 1>That's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yeah, I know, I wrote some of her jokes.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, yes, that was a very nice exercise.

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<v Speaker 2>Mary. Can you tell people where to find you on

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<v Speaker 2>social media? And again, where you can where they can

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<v Speaker 2>find this show that you're going to be on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you can find me on social media at mary

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<v Speaker 3>Beth Barone on Twitter and Instagram, and then Cadenza dot

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<v Speaker 3>tv is where you can get tickets to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>But also you could just go to my Instagram and

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<v Speaker 3>then it's in the bio obviously and my Twitter as well.

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<v Speaker 2>And Marybeth is an ally. She is one of the

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<v Speaker 2>many but few white women that I'm like, she does

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<v Speaker 2>do the work and you please make sure you go

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<v Speaker 2>on her comments and support her. I know we trash

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<v Speaker 2>the beige people, but Mary is one of us. Well no,

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<v Speaker 2>but she is a part of the family.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if you're beige and you're listening to this, then

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<v Speaker 1>she's one of y'all because well no, because the beige

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<v Speaker 1>listeners that listen, you know, their allies to us. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>Bill slide in my DMS and be like, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>beige listener and I love you guys, and I love

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<v Speaker 1>it when y'all do that.

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<v Speaker 3>So nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So, Mary Beth, before we go, just real light,

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<v Speaker 1>if you could get anything in the world for Christmas,

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<v Speaker 1>what would that be?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, well Trump already got COVID, so that was

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like an early Christmas present. But maybe a plane,

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<v Speaker 3>A plane, like a like a big ass plane. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>just like a Boeing seven forty seven. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>she's a big plane.

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<v Speaker 1>So you can go to seven different countries like Rihanna

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<v Speaker 1>did for seven weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to be able to travel and be

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<v Speaker 3>not worried, you know about okay safe.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope somebody gives you that for Christmas.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you a michel out in a couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad that you came back. This was so cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for having me. It's always a pleasure, gals,

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<v Speaker 3>And I hope gals is obviously gender and neutral because

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<v Speaker 3>gender construct. But thank you so much, and I hope

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<v Speaker 3>everyone has a very lovely holiday season.

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<v Speaker 2>I just one more time. I really do love you

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<v Speaker 2>guys so much, and this year I've cried more than

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<v Speaker 2>any other year. But talking to you guys on the

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<v Speaker 2>phone and facetiming and annoying you guys seven times a

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<v Speaker 2>day has really been my therapy. And I'm very lucky

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<v Speaker 2>to have such wonderful people in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Sydney. Anyway, thanks bye, Forever Dog. This has been a

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