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Speaker 2: I think I think we should start up top with

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Speaker 2: you know, we had a really heated.

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Speaker 1: Wait, hold on, somebody's knocking on my door. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to New York.

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Speaker 3: This is an important and important way to make the

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Speaker 1: Sorry, so I'm back. What did I miss?

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Speaker 2: Nothing?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Hi guys, hello, hello, hello.

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Speaker 2: Uh. You know we're rounding We're rounding out this this

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Speaker 2: year with a with a bang. And I just wanted

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Speaker 2: to say, up top, I hated everything about this year,

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Speaker 2: but I'm so happy that we were still able to

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Speaker 2: do this podcast.

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Speaker 1: Wow. I thought you were going to say I hated

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Speaker 1: everything about Marie this year, which would have been a lie.

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Speaker 1: Which would have been a lie. Yeah. Friend. And it

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Speaker 1: and it was like no, and then every day it

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we do still have two more episodes after this,

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Speaker 4: and really two more episodes in the year after this. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think maybe one of them actually comes out in

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Speaker 4: year's day. It's either I think it's Christmas and Year's

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Speaker 4: Day they come out. They're both on Fridays.

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Speaker 1: Fridays. Yeah, all right, Well, Merry Christmas and happy Holidays

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Speaker 1: to y'all because that Kwanza babies, that's your gift from

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Speaker 1: the unofficial expert, and.

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Speaker 2: That's all we have. That's all we have. But I

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Speaker 2: wanted to get my expertise out the way, and it

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Speaker 2: was going to be I say yes too much. I

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Speaker 2: I still managed to can say yes. What's wrong with me?

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Speaker 2: I have to stop it. It's just it's getting out

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Speaker 1: Is there something specific that you want to get off

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Speaker 2: We don't like vague.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: I just think that sometimes people get friendship fucked up, Like, yes,

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Speaker 2: we're friends, but we still are a business. And so

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Speaker 2: when you ask me to do something and it requires

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Speaker 2: you should be paying black queer people even more than

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Speaker 2: what you were paying them for the Raggas twenty nineteen

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Speaker 1: Most, the sense. Yes, if it don't make dollars, then

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Speaker 1: it don't make sense. Thank you, Sydney for those bars

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Speaker 1: this morning. So your expertise is, if we're going to

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Speaker 2: It was playing myself? Oh, okay, playing myself because nobody

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Speaker 1: Yeah. But you know what, Sidney, the cool thing about

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Speaker 2: You can't overextend right, and we gotta go. I have

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think asking a black woman for a favor

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Speaker 2: She said, let me go get in my Chevrolet.

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Speaker 1: So from that right now, friend girl, today.

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Speaker 2: I love you know. We have to just keep this

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Speaker 1: Wow, Yeah, anyway, I'm very excited about this episode. Sydney

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, but in California's nine am. Yeah, we are

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Speaker 2: All around the world, babe, We're all around the world.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, city. Do you want to introduce our guests for

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes, we brought her back. It's been

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Speaker 2: She's a crowd favorite, and she's coming back to talk

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Speaker 2: about confessions. Give it up for Mary Beth Barone. Yah.

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Speaker 3: God, it feels good to be back, ladies. It feels

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Speaker 1: Energy, and I opened my home to you.

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Speaker 3: Let me into your home. You welcomed me with open arms,

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Speaker 3: and it was we need magic that day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, one arm was open, but yes, they're both open.

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Speaker 3: I've earned the second arm. It's great to be back.

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Speaker 3: Al's I think you know your expertise for the week

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Speaker 2: Keep going, girl, keep going.

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Speaker 1: Is there anything that you feel like you could do

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Speaker 3: I'm watching shows, you know. You know. I watched Industry

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Speaker 3: I have such an interesting feeling about it. It was

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Speaker 2: Okay, well I will I'll get into I'll watch Marie.

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Speaker 2: Why don't we watch it together?

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Speaker 4: Mariah's Christmas Special.

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Speaker 2: Where that's Apple. Don't have that.

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Speaker 1: That's something that I don't have to. I have that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, write that down to and that's a show.

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Speaker 3: We've got Jennifer Aniston, We've got Reese Wetherspoon and a wig,

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Speaker 2: Y'all have to be on board and understand and tear

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Speaker 3: I'm not watching the undoing insolidarity with Sydney.

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Speaker 2: Right, I want to. I want to switch gears. I

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Speaker 1: Anyway, yes, Marybeth, we are talking about confessions and keeping

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Speaker 3: Yes, I would say that's an accurate assessment. Yet for me,

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:30,919
Speaker 3: That's what I.

441
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:32,600
Speaker 4: Am.

442
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,160
Speaker 3: In a closet so there's no windows.

443
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 1: But you know it's twenty twenty, come on out with

444
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 1: the class.

445
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 3: I know, well, I know what I want. It's for

446
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 3: sound reasons because I just want to give the best

447
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 3: quality sound for the listeners.

448
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 2: Well that's why I moved because the music, the Calypso

449
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,160
Speaker 2: is going off.

450
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,360
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, anyway, So is there like a memorable confession.

451
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 3: That confession. I remember my first confession because you have

452
00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 3: to do that before you get the UK. So it's

453
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:02,920
Speaker 3: all part of the seven sacraments. But then you have

454
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 3: to go to confession, you know, quite frequently, especially at

455
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 3: Catholic school, because we you know, they just gave us

456
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 3: a lot of opportunities to talk about all the bad

457
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 3: things that we've ever done. I definitely confessed to like

458
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 3: because one of this, one of the ten commandments is

459
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,640
Speaker 3: that you have to like respect your father and mother.

460
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 3: So I definitely had like said to the priests that

461
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 3: i've like not I've been meaning to them before and

462
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 3: using the Lord's name in vain. You have to confess

463
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 3: to that as well. I never killed anyone that I

464
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 3: know of. I never killed anyone, So I didn't confess,

465
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 3: imagine and active I was like, wait, I did this

466
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 3: is going to be confessed here. That's what I confessed

467
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 3: is on the podcast and you you have to confess.

468
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 3: I guess I never Yeah, I never really did it

469
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 3: in high school. So it was like confessing as a

470
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 3: seven year old. It's like, what do you even have

471
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:50,400
Speaker 3: to say?

472
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 4: Right exactly? I remember that because I remember, like it

473
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 4: was like, CCD, did you have to do that or

474
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 4: were you at a Catholic school already?

475
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 3: I was at a Catholic school, but I did my

476
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 3: communion at a separate church, so I had to go

477
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 3: to as go to class.

478
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 4: Yeah. No, I went to CCD like every like Tuesday

479
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:10,360
Speaker 4: after school and then like yeah, I remember that day

480
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 4: they were like, okay, everyone needs to go to confession,

481
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 4: and I remember like I was like I can't even

482
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 4: like think of a single bad thing that I've done,

483
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 4: and so like I was like the last person. I

484
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 4: was like I don't know, and I went and there

485
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 4: I was like like guess I get in an argument

486
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 4: sometimes with my sister and they're like okay, cool, get

487
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 4: out of here.

488
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 3: Like say six tail Mary's well, it's like when you're seven,

489
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 3: you barely have object permanence. I'm like, I don't remember

490
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 3: every bad thing I've ever done. Are you crazy?

491
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 4: Exactly? It is actually like psychotic thing to ask of

492
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 4: like a seven year old.

493
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 3: Because they say that seven is the age of reason.

494
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 3: They say that that's when you know right from wrong.

495
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 3: At seven, what I was a thief?

496
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 1: At seven, I was stealing.

497
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 3: Oh my god. That actually that reminds me of something.

498
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 1: Oh you are tepto too.

499
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 3: I stole a snow globe from this girl's cubby when

500
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 3: I was in pre K, and I came home and

501
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 3: lied and I told my mom that I won it

502
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 3: at like some in Pe and then it fell on

503
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 3: the floor and shattered and broke, and I was like,

504
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 3: that was God's smiting me and I shouldn't have done that.

505
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 3: And then I'm pretty sure I confessed. I also once

506
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 3: lied about chewing gum in school because I was chewing

507
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 3: it and I said I wasn't did it aloud. I

508
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 3: ended up spitting it out, but I felt pretty bad

509
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 3: that she figured out that I was. I mean, obviously

510
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 3: she knew I was like four and I had a

511
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 3: big piece of gum in my mouth that I had

512
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 3: stolen from my sister's bedroom. So once again I was

513
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 3: taught that that is bad because you will get you know,

514
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,200
Speaker 3: something bad will come of it if you steal.

515
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: I hate watching little kids chew gum.

516
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 2: Well you know what. I often does that happen, But

517
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

518
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 1: They're just like, well not really anymore, but like I'd

519
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 1: be on I used to be on the train and

520
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,120
Speaker 1: i'd see them like like the stick and the tongue

521
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 1: out and it fall it.

522
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 3: Will fall out and put it back lean and they

523
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 3: cut on their finger and yeah, they're like, it's not

524
00:25:58,480 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 3: a toy.

525
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 2: The thing is is that there are a lot of

526
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:07,920
Speaker 2: kids that have a lot of issues, and so sometimes

527
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 2: you can't find out how messed up they are until

528
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 2: you know confession. And that's why I think sometimes the

529
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 2: priests that are fucked up take advantage of these little boys.

530
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you see them as like they can't do

531
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 3: anything wrong, you know, right right. Luckily I was well

532
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 3: our priest actually, so I went to Greenwich Catholic School.

533
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 3: If anyone on if anyone's listening who went to Greenwich

534
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 3: Catholic School, shout out to GCS. But our priest was

535
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 3: like not. He was like so obsessed with like aesthetics.

536
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 3: He drove a red convertible and he built a mansion

537
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 3: on the school's campus and had like golden retrievers and

538
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 3: it was all very strange. And then after I graduated,

539
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 3: it came out that he was gay, was in Besley

540
00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 3: Church money to pay for his like partner to have

541
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 3: an apartment in New York City, and he had this

542
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 3: like whole lavish lifestyle that was not in line with

543
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 3: the teachings of the church.

544
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: Oh you had a cool priest.

545
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: Wow, I would like, is he in jail now or like,

546
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 2: what's the deal.

547
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 3: The parishioners were like, it's okay.

548
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 4: Actually, yeah, Literally, the same thing happened at my high school.

549
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 4: He was like on campus, mansion. He would like be

550
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 4: at the shore constantly. Yeah, it was just like discussing.

551
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 4: The same thing came out and he's fine, He's not

552
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 4: in trouble or anything.

553
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 3: Also, I think he must just have a lot of

554
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 3: shit on the people who confess to him. That has

555
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 3: to be it. They were like, we can't have any

556
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 3: of this, any of our dirty launchry coming out, so

557
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 3: we'll just say it's fine, and that is. You know,

558
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 3: he should have just confessed. He was forced to. He

559
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 3: didn't come clean about it. And then there was an

560
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 3: article in the New York Times.

561
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 2: But how did they find him? How did they catch him?

562
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 3: I don't know. It must have been something on the

563
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 3: accounting side with like the dioceses of Bridgeport or something,

564
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 3: but they always like to cover it up. I have

565
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 3: a yearbook right here, yes, because I'm in the closet.

566
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 3: Let's see Mary two thousand three Vibes.

567
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 1: Two thousand and three. Show us your picture in the year.

568
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll find it. I don't even know what grade

569
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 3: I was in in two thousand and three.

570
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 1: If there is a quote, you know, go ahead and.

571
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 3: Well I remember the quote I used.

572
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 2: Okay, tell us.

573
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 3: I think it was a Louse Seale ball quote, and

574
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 3: it was like, I'd rather regret the things I have

575
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,679
Speaker 3: done than the things I haven't. It's like, okay, it's

576
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,880
Speaker 3: a bit deep for eighth grade, but yeah, I go off,

577
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 3: go off, this is my grade. I don't know if

578
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 3: I was in the class. You know what. I think

579
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 3: I missed the class picture this year. Work wow, because

580
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 3: that was because I was going to Florida to visit

581
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 3: my best friend.

582
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: Oh you had you had a friend across state lines.

583
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, she moved. It was like so tragic.

584
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's how you know you're doing well.

585
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 3: Oh wait, no, no, this is my year.

586
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 2: Okay, show us hurry.

587
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 3: I know, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. This is so annoying

588
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 3: for the listeners. I'll post a picture of it when no,

589
00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 3: you know what, I'm not even in it.

590
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 2: The listeners are like, well, show us, they will Yeah,

591
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 2: they will ask for it. These listeners are aggressive and

592
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: they're over and.

593
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 3: Their keyed in, they're engaged. Well I just imagine me,

594
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 3: but like a little a little bit smaller. I look

595
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 3: the exact same.

596
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 1: Your hair was the same length. You didn't have bangs.

597
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 3: I had long hair, yeah, back then, and I would

598
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 3: get side sweat bangs because I was obsessed with Elizabeth

599
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 3: Hurley and Austin Powers, and I thought she was just

600
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 3: the picture of beauty and I thought, if I get

601
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 3: side sweat bangs, I'll probably look like her.

602
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:34,719
Speaker 1: M Sydney has a little side side situation.

603
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 3: She's doing a side part and I'm here for it.

604
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 2: I have to say, but this is Aliyah, Thank you,

605
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 2: Elizabeth Hurley.

606
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 1: Who this is?

607
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 2: We don't know her. This is reminiscent of baby Girl. Okay, well,

608
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 2: I mean I think more.

609
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 1: It needs more. It needs to cover your eye more.

610
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 3: There we go, now let me go.

611
00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 2: Okay, So, Mary, as a as an adult, I feel

612
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 2: like you've had a lot going on, especially when you

613
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 2: came on for flirting. I feel like you you confessed

614
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 2: a lot because you've hooked up with an egot.

615
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 3: Emmy Grammy Oscar and a Teen Choice Award.

616
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean yes, but not all the same person.

617
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: It was all different people, which we love.

618
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 2: Oh wait, how come.

619
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: I thought it was one person because you weren't being

620
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: attention when we recorded that episode two years ago.

621
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 2: That's a fucking lie.

622
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 3: Sorry it was so long ago. I don't blame you. Yeah,

623
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 3: I've had a lot to confess for over the years.

624
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 3: I mean I think I confess a lot of stuff

625
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 3: in stand up. Like that's what's been really hard for me,

626
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 3: not being able to perform I think because usually when

627
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 3: I do something that I think is dad, my reflex

628
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 3: is to tell a bunch of people because then it

629
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 3: kind of diffuses it. It turns from this big thing

630
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 3: that only I know into this like smaller thing that

631
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 3: a bunch of people know. So that's my strategy to

632
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 3: feel less guilty about things, which doesn't always work. But

633
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 3: I think it's been hard without doing stand up because

634
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 3: I don't really have anywhere to, like, you know, air

635
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 3: it out, like air my dirty laundry. And that's not

636
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:08,479
Speaker 3: all my stand up was. But yeah, I just kind

637
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 3: of FaceTime with Sydney and then start crying. That's what

638
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 3: I've been doing.

639
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 2: I can attest that's true, and it works.

640
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 3: Guys, you just need one kind of person you can

641
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 3: dumb things on and then you'll feel better. But I definitely, yeah,

642
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 3: I got in. I was just always a confessor. I

643
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 3: remember I watched I watched a rated our movie on

644
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 3: VH one and I wrote my parents a letter and

645
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 3: I left it outside their room and I was like,

646
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 3: I am so sorry I did this myth because I

647
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 3: was young. I was like maybe twelve.

648
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 1: And a you okay, so well. Now, so you have

649
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: an older sister.

650
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 3: I have five siblings. So I have two older sisters

651
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 3: and three older brothers.

652
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: So are you're the baby?

653
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: I'm the baby?

654
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 2: No wonder you're spoiled.

655
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 3: Yes, no, it's no one surprise when I say I'm

656
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 3: the youngest. But I definitely always felt like just get

657
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 3: just riddled with girls all the time. I don't know,

658
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 3: do you guys not feel that as kids?

659
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 4: No?

660
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 2: No, I burned down my fucking house. I kept it moving,

661
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 2: like I didn't start talking about it until now as adults,

662
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 2: Like there was just years of years of me like, yeah,

663
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 2: I didn't even remember that I did it.

664
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 3: I'm obsessed with that. What I'm obsessed with that?

665
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 2: No, No, it's bad because it's like I like I've

666
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 2: I've I've like kissed a cousin. I've kind of like

667
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 2: comped a god brother like I was. You know, I've

668
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: done like why the god brother that you went to

669
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: prom with?

670
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: Yes, you humped him, but he wouldn't take a picture

671
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 1: with you at prompt?

672
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 2: Yes, when you say choked on my water, So I'm.

673
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 3: Sorry when you kiss a cousin.

674
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 2: When I was like eleven twelve.

675
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 1: Mmm, isn't how old you were a friend interesting?

676
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe younger than that. I was definitely younger, but no, Like,

677
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 2: first of all, I think people shouldn't be so hard

678
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 2: on kids hooking up with each other, not hooking up.

679
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 2: But you know, like no, Sydney, all right.

680
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 3: I think people should not be so hard on kids period.

681
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 2: Right, If you don't have your if you don't let

682
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 2: your kids hang out with other kids, they're gonna like

683
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 2: get wild with their cousins.

684
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 1: I'm just saying this is just if that's all that's available, Sydney.

685
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: I had very strict parents growing up. I wasn't allowed

686
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 1: to hang out with other kids. I've never kissed any

687
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: of my cousins.

688
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 3: I've never Wait, we shouldn't shame we shouldn't shame Sidney's

689
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 3: confessing right now, And that is one thing. One reason

690
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 3: people now confess to me. They always come to me

691
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 3: about things. They tell me things sometimes I wish I

692
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,399
Speaker 3: didn't know, But it's because I'm not going to judge them.

693
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm only judging them. Oh okay, this is why

694
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 1: people don't call me. But you know why I'm judging

695
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: Sidney's because I know the whole story about the cousin

696
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: kissing thing, and she's leading out a lot of stuff.

697
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 1: So that's why I'm going, Oh, okay, this story sounds

698
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 1: like the remix of what I heard, but okay, it

699
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 1: is what it is. So Sidney, what was the point

700
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,240
Speaker 1: that you were trying to make about kissing family members?

701
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: Why did we why did you bring that up?

702
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 2: It's not that bad, that's why. Not that bad.

703
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 1: I think that we should judge kids. Kids are not

704
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: immune from judgment. But I also think that, you know,

705
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 1: when we're kids, think about it, like we were alive

706
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 1: for seven years or eight years or however many years total,

707
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 1: and it's like you don't know anything when you're ten.

708
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 1: You don't even know anything when you're twenty four, So.

709
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 3: You know, you start knowing things when you're twenty nine,

710
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:13,479
Speaker 3: how old I am.

711
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 1: That's when you start knowing things. So I think that

712
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 1: we have to keep that in mind when you think

713
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:24,959
Speaker 1: about who knows and who's doing stupid things or smart things.

714
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 3: You know. I just can't imagine being a kid and

715
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 3: not feeling guilty about literally everything.

716
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 1: I mean, I felt guilty about stuff, but I also

717
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: had like an old like an older brother, and I

718
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: mean I would feel bad sometimes about the stuff that

719
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: I stole, but I would feel bad that what.

720
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 3: Are we talking about stealing? Wise? Like are we talking

721
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 3: like a bracelet from like a department sto.

722
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: I used to steal everything, And I'm not no, not

723
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 1: grand theft, you know, but you know, uh, definitely like

724
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 1: larceny like petit is there is there is that what

725
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: a form of larceny? Petit larceny, petty whatever, the small cars,

726
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 1: small stuff. No, But when I was little, I used

727
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: to steal from the school store. I would steal from

728
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: I would steal snacks out of people's backpacks because my

729
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: parents always gave us really healthy snacks. So I'd be like, well,

730
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 1: I want chips today and I want dunkaroos and gushers,

731
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 1: so I would steal people's food and then I would

732
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: lie about it, and then I started stealing from you know, stores,

733
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: and then I went to college and started stealing stuff

734
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: when I was in college. So wow, yeah it was you.

735
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 2: Never stolen from a friend, Marie.

736
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: Stolen from a friend. No, yeah, if I if I'm

737
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 1: friends with you, I'm not stealing from you. But if

738
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: you leave something at my house and we're friends and

739
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: we're the same size, it belongs to me.

740
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 3: Now I agree with that. Yeah, I have a few

741
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 3: items of clothing that fall into that. That's not theft,

742
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 3: that's just what is it? Something nine tenths of the law.

743
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm absorbing what you left here.

744
00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 3: It belongs to me now exactly, so that exactly possession

745
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 3: is nine tenths of the laws. So then you become

746
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 3: the owner. Thank you, because nine tenths that's ninety percent.

747
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: Nine tenths.

748
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 2: I don't like this this math. It doesn't check out.

749
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 3: Well, have you, Marie? When did you stop stealing?

750
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 4: Uh?

751
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: When I was in college. I stopped stealing last year.

752
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 2: I was like, Marie, what you're talking about?

753
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: No, what are you talking about? Sydney. I do not

754
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: steal anymore. What's the last time you saw me steal?

755
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: You can say this is a safe space exactly because.

756
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 3: I've never seen you steel, because you're good at it.

757
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,760
Speaker 1: Exactly because I'm Ocean's eight about it. Well, not Ocean's

758
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: eight oceans twelve.

759
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:48,880
Speaker 3: Twelve.

760
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 1: That was a big one, exactly. I already took it.

761
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 1: By the time you see it's missing, I've already taken it.

762
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 1: And then I you know, my memory is not good,

763
00:37:57,880 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 1: so I'll take it and then forget where I took

764
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: it from and be like, I don't remember where I

765
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: got this. I think it was a gift.

766
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 3: Classic do you think?

767
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 2: Do you think if you find something and you don't

768
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 2: turn it in, is that a form of stealing?

769
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 3: Depends where? I mean, if you find it on the sidewalk,

770
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 3: it's a bit tough, right, but maybe I guess presumably

771
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 3: the person could come back for it. But I think

772
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 3: if you find something at school and you don't, like

773
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 3: one time I lost, I used to work in an

774
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,320
Speaker 3: office and I had a picture of me as a

775
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 3: kid at my birthday party where Barney came. So it's

776
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 3: obviously very near and dear to my heart. I scanned

777
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 3: the picture. Then it fell out of my notebook and

778
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 3: then someone found it and just never gave it to me,

779
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 3: which I find so weird. What just clearly it's like

780
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 3: a memory. I mean, luckily I have the scan of it,

781
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 3: but it always just weird to me that no one

782
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 3: like turned it in.

783
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 1: Right, it's very it's very obviously you and the photo. Yeah,

784
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 1: oh damn. Maybe it was somebody at the office that

785
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: didn't like you, a hater.

786
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 3: Maybe it was a small, small office. So I'll never

787
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,919
Speaker 3: forget that. But I think if you don't turn something

788
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 3: in and it's like an office situation, then.

789
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 1: That is bad.

790
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

791
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: Yes, maybe sometimes it's not stealing.

792
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 3: Technically it's not stealing.

793
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: I don't think.

794
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 3: So.

795
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 1: Okay, So you say people people confess to you, they

796
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:23,320
Speaker 1: trust you, they're like, they open up to you.

797
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

798
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: Do you like listening to people's problems or do you

799
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: like holding people's secrets or do you share them with

800
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 1: other people? I don't like.

801
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 3: So here's the thing, and I've learned this about certain

802
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 3: people too. If you tell me not to tell anyone.

803
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 1: I won't like.

804
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 2: No, no, wait, hold on, what let's be honest. What

805
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 2: if somebody tells you don't tell anybody? You're not going

806
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 2: to tell your best friend.

807
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 3: Well here, I saw a tweet once that I thought

808
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 3: was really smart. When I say I'm not going to

809
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 3: tell anyone, I mean I'm not going to tell anyone.

810
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 3: You know. That was the tweet exactly, And I think so.

811
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 3: So if basically there's a difference, like if Sidney, if

812
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 3: you told me something, you said not to tell anyone,

813
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 3: and then I ran into like George Saveris and I

814
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 3: told him that is different than me telling a friend

815
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 3: I went to high school with because it's a good

816
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 3: story and not saying your name, you know what I mean.

817
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 3: So it's just it really is circumstantial. But if someone

818
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 3: comes there are things that I've never told anyone. If

819
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 3: someone comes to me in confidence and they say this,

820
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 3: you know this is a secret of mine and you

821
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 3: can't tell anyone, I will respect the code and I

822
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:27,240
Speaker 3: won't say anything.

823
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, Marie, what you do that? What's the question do

824
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 2: you when someone tells you don't tell anyone.

825
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: I don't have anybody to tell, Sydney. I feel like

826
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: you're trying to set me up for something. But I

827
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 1: don't have anybody to tell anything. If you tell me

828
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,240
Speaker 1: not to tell nobody. I'm whispering it to my plants. Honestly,

829
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: the only person I'm telling anything to is my mom,

830
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 1: and she don't care about none of y'all right, She's like, ooo.

831
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 3: Wow, that's a good outlet. Also, sometimes these stories get

832
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 3: so convoluted. There's so many characters. It's like, even if

833
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 3: I wanted to like explain the back story here and

834
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 3: tell someone is just too much effort. So a lot

835
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 3: of times, yeah, I mean, there's definitely people that I've

836
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,879
Speaker 3: said things to that I'm like, oh, that's a person

837
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 3: that I need to tell them not to tell anyone

838
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 3: because they just will and it's not malicious, but they'll

839
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,840
Speaker 3: just regurgitate what you say and because it's something to

840
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 3: talk about. And then I've been burned before with that,

841
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 3: and I've definitely I've definitely told people things I sometimes

842
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 3: I like to get involved in I know somebody likes

843
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 3: someone else, and that has gotten me in trouble before.

844
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've done that too, because I feel like I can.

845
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 3: Help and people don't trust me to be subtle, and

846
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 3: then I'll just kind of take matters into my own hands.

847
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 3: But I don't really do that anymore because I don't

848
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 3: get in trouble.

849
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,320
Speaker 1: But also sometimes people tell you not to tell anybody,

850
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: and then they tell you their secret and you're like, girl,

851
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 1: I don't even want to notice that this tea is

852
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 1: it's a tiny cup and it's cold. I don't nobody cares. Right,

853
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: it's a thimble, just a thimble of lip Okay, it's

854
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: not even like a good seat.

855
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 3: So that.

856
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 2: I mean for me, I will, I will say on

857
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 2: the record, I talked to a lot of people, so too.

858
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: Sydney has more friends than anybody in the world.

859
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 2: People people tell me business and then because my memory

860
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 2: is so short, I only remember bits and pieces of stuff.

861
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 2: So if I do, like per se mention something to Marie,

862
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 2: Marie is always upset with me because she's like, well, sis,

863
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 2: you none of this makes sense. Where is the rest

864
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 2: of the information that matters?

865
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: Yes, Sidney will give you pieces of the team. You're like,

866
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 1: she will, where were they?

867
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:41,919
Speaker 2: Wait?

868
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 1: Who were we talking?

869
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 2: Why?

870
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 3: I always have follow up questions.

871
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 2: I never remember names. I don't know situation like what

872
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 2: agency it was that I'm bad?

873
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 3: But also what happened to the girl? And she's like,

874
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 3: I don't know, haven't heard friend?

875
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,800
Speaker 1: Yes, but also Sidney will start a story in the

876
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: middle and then go to the end and you're like, wait,

877
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: what happened? You gotta tell me the full thing, and

878
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 1: she's like, oh, okay, well always always you do it here.

879
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: You tell stories on the podcast and it's like, wait,

880
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 1: you just said the ending, but what happened before that?

881
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 3: And you're like, You're like, oh, it's very Christopher Nolan asked, yeah,

882
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 3: m night, Shyamalan.

883
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 4: We have.

884
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 3: It's non linear storytelling, Sidney, and that can make you

885
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 3: rich one day. What you say, nonlinear storytelling, that can

886
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:36,479
Speaker 3: make you rich one day. People love that ship.

887
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 2: They drag me in my secret.

888
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 3: No, I'm just grateful to know because sometimes Sydney will

889
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 3: text me I have tea. I FaceTime her immediately. M M.

890
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 3: It's never disappointed, not once.

891
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: You've never been like oh okay, it's never been something

892
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:59,200
Speaker 1: you already knew. No I have I have like you knew,

893
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: say right now, yeah, say right now space.

894
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 3: That was a test. I don't remember. But sometimes, you know,

895
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 3: sometimes when someone tells you a secret and then they

896
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 3: say don't tell anyone, and then the other person involved

897
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 3: also tells you, so you have to pretend that you

898
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 3: don't know.

899
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 1: Fake shots.

900
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 2: You're good at that.

901
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm good at being like ah what, oh, oh

902
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 1: my god, tell me more. Okay, wait, have you ever

903
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: forgotten who told you something and then you tell them

904
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: their thing back to them?

905
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 3: Yes, Marie does never, Thank God, I don't think that

906
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 3: has ever happened. I do forget, though, especially lately, who

907
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 3: I forget who I've had conversations with. But I have

908
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 3: never repeated someone's secret back to them. I think that

909
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 3: would be detrimental to my reputation as a steel vault

910
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 3: of information.

911
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: Marie does it all done that I don't know about

912
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: all the time. But sometimes I'll repeat stuff to people

913
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 1: like I mean, I'll do it with Sidney, but I'll

914
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 1: be like, I don't know who told me this, but

915
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: somebody was saying that they're Brazilian butt lift, you know

916
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: what I mean. And Sydney's like, I told you that story,

917
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, are you sure? We weren't there together?

918
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: No in a city.

919
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 2: So, Mary, how do you feel about people who gossip?

920
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 3: Well, you know, there's not much to do these days,

921
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 3: and I think gossip is one thing we will always have,

922
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,879
Speaker 3: no matter what m h, no matter how long we're

923
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 3: locked indoors, there's always gonna be people doing things that

924
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 3: we want to talk about. I think I would rather

925
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 3: be talked about than talking about other people. That's that's

926
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 3: a goal. It's a career goal. You know. You want

927
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 3: people to be like, what's she up to? But I do.

928
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,799
Speaker 3: I do gossip and I talk shit, and I don't

929
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 3: always feel great about it, but it is a cathartic

930
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 3: kind of release.

931
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 2: Why why do we feel so good about talking shit

932
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:46,240
Speaker 2: and gossip.

933
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 3: I don't know. It's just nice to just be like,

934
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 3: I'm in a situation with someone I trust, and I'm

935
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 3: going to just go all the way off, and then

936
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 3: you do, and then you hang up. What I hate

937
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 3: is when you want to talk shit and the person's like,

938
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 3: I don't know, I kind of like that, And then

939
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:10,439
Speaker 3: I say, click, shut the computer, because that's not fun

940
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,359
Speaker 3: for anyone. Don't don't take the high road.

941
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially if I'm talking to you and I know

942
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:18,760
Speaker 1: you don't actually truly like that person that we're talking about.

943
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,280
Speaker 1: You're just trying to act like you're like above the conversation.

944
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 1: And it's like.

945
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 2: Favorite line when she talks to me, she's like, yeah,

946
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:28,799
Speaker 2: I know, that's your.

947
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 3: Girl, but.

948
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: That's your friend.

949
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 3: So I do say that that's really good. That's a

950
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 3: good way of just addressing that you kind of.

951
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 2: Drag them and be like, but that's your friend.

952
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 3: So well, it's a whole other layer two with comedy,

953
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,879
Speaker 3: because there's you can't be friends with people you don't

954
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:54,799
Speaker 3: think are funny. Yes, and that's a whole other thing.

955
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 2: Sorry, but I can't.

956
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 1: Really be friends with people that I don't think are funny.

957
00:46:59,120 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 1: Not really.

958
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 2: I wrote a Facebook post about that years ago, and

959
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 2: there were so many comedians in my in my messages

960
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 2: like so like, one, who are you talking about? And

961
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 2: two like do you think I'm not funny? And it's

962
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 2: like what what? Well?

963
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: What did the say?

964
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 2: The post said, Listen, I have so many friends outside

965
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 2: of comedy who aren't funny. Those are those are regular people.

966
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 2: If you're in comedy and you're supposed to be funny,

967
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 2: why the fuck would I hang out with you if

968
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,919
Speaker 2: I don't think you have anything to offer comedically. That's true,

969
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:36,840
Speaker 2: And then people were writing in the messages, but what

970
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 2: if that person is a good person? I was like,

971
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 2: then they should just stop doing comedy and just be

972
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 2: a good person.

973
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: Right, A good person doesn't make a good comedian. Actually,

974
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:51,160
Speaker 1: sometimes the worst person you are the better comedian you are.

975
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,799
Speaker 3: So fortunately, yeah, you know, time and time again.

976
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 2: I'm gonna look for that post reposted.

977
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,920
Speaker 3: Please do and send me a green shop because that

978
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 3: was probably before, maybe before we knew each other or

979
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,439
Speaker 3: we were Facebook friends, and I would love to read it. Yeah,

980
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:09,800
Speaker 3: it's a good take and you're not wrong.

981
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 2: Yes, well, well for me, it's just like one I

982
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 2: don't want to oh, I wrote in a post. I

983
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 2: was like, I don't want to have a show, and

984
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 2: you're my friend and I cannot put you on my show.

985
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 2: Now that hurts because then I gotta tell you about

986
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 2: the lineup and.

987
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,800
Speaker 3: Be like so uh, it's so true.

988
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 2: It's gonna be here, but you again another week not

989
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 2: on the show.

990
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that was the cool thing about the Knitting

991
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:40,800
Speaker 1: Factory is it was three hosts, and anytime somebody like

992
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 1: asked a couple of times and we didn't think that

993
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 1: they were the right fit for the show, I'd say,

994
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 1: well tell them Marie said they don't want them on

995
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 1: the show, Like, I'll take the say Marie said no,

996
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: And then if you want, if you if you got

997
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 1: the gall to come approaching me and talk about it.

998
00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say I've never seen you do well, or

999
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 1: I don't think you're funny or you know, but now

1000
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,280
Speaker 1: we don't have that anymore. So it's like, who is funny?

1001
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

1002
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 3: Well, what's weird about everything happening with no shows is

1003
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 3: like I figured there'd be less comedians as a move,

1004
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 3: but I feel like they're just more and more. Yeah,

1005
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 3: and they're just tweeting.

1006
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:23,800
Speaker 2: Is that a confession? Mary, You're low key drag.

1007
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:31,839
Speaker 3: They're like, everyone's got to make money. I just I'm who.

1008
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 4: I hear it?

1009
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,840
Speaker 3: Mary, I'm upset with myself that I'm not compelled to

1010
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 3: tweet more because I do feel like people get jobs

1011
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 3: from it. It's just not my medium. I want to

1012
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 3: do stand up and that's how I feel.

1013
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: You're good on Twitter though your tweets are funny, I

1014
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 1: just don't tweet.

1015
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 3: I hate the website the way I've really like come,

1016
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 3: I've had to come to terms with this in my

1017
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 3: in my brain, when a tweet does bad, I feel bad.

1018
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 3: When a tweet does well, I feel nothing. So it's

1019
00:49:56,640 --> 00:50:00,760
Speaker 3: truly like what am I gaining from it? Viral sweets

1020
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 3: viral tweets are so annoying. You're literally drowning and mentions

1021
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 3: all day for two days, and then things calm down

1022
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 3: and you're like, what am I left with?

1023
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:12,240
Speaker 2: Nothing?

1024
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 1: Okay?

1025
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:16,280
Speaker 3: Nothing? So sometimes you have to be honest with yourself

1026
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 3: and say, is what am I? What is this bringing me? What? Joy? Nothing? Okay?

1027
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 3: I should stop doing it, So I'll go off of

1028
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 3: it for a bit here and there. I just really

1029
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 3: want to just be successful enough where I can just

1030
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 3: never ever tweet.

1031
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:31,359
Speaker 1: Again, okay. I mean our good friend Matteo was very

1032
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,880
Speaker 1: popular on Twitter and he deleted his account.

1033
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 3: He does see that is wild to me.

1034
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, I don't. I got this is

1035
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: it's bringing me stress.

1036
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:41,800
Speaker 3: I don't think I could delete it. That's that's my issue.

1037
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 3: I can't. I deleted my Facebook and that felt amazing.

1038
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:46,919
Speaker 3: I didn't deactivated it. I straight up deleted it, yep.

1039
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 3: But I just can't. I feel like Twitter has like

1040
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 3: things that I want to keep. Yeah.

1041
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:55,839
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess every once in a while, I'll

1042
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 1: delete the app from my phone.

1043
00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 2: I am, and.

1044
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,360
Speaker 1: You know, because I feel like I waste time on it.

1045
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 1: But I don't tweet that often and when I do.

1046
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 1: It's sometimes it's literally something that my high brain is

1047
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: curious about that I could google, but I don't want to.

1048
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:14,919
Speaker 1: And then other times it's me just reacting to something

1049
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 1: that I just read. So you know, Twitter is useless

1050
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: for me, but people are getting jobs from it and

1051
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah, and it's like, but I

1052
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:27,360
Speaker 1: don't want to be a writer. So there's also that,

1053
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,600
Speaker 1: you know, there's that I.

1054
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 2: Mean, this is so I'll say this and this will

1055
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:37,439
Speaker 2: be the end of my social media rant. I think

1056
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:45,319
Speaker 2: that comedy really is suggested a subjective subjective and there's

1057
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 2: a lot of times where you'll see people blow up

1058
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 2: or things up, and you're like, I don't get it,

1059
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 2: I don't understand it, and I feel compelled to hate

1060
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 2: on this person, and it's like, no, I need to

1061
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 2: focus on myself. Why am I Why do I want

1062
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 2: to drag this person down? Yeah, because it's right, it's

1063
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:10,320
Speaker 2: the right thing, and until you feel nothing anymore, and

1064
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 2: then you move forward. Sometimes most of the time I

1065
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 2: think that I don't think you should publicly drag people.

1066
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 2: I think that's tacky. I think you go in your

1067
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:22,879
Speaker 2: your group chats and you go off and you get

1068
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 2: it off and then you move on. I think if

1069
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 2: you're a comedian and you're and you're publicly saying someone

1070
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 2: is not funny, who's another comedian? I don't. I think

1071
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:37,760
Speaker 2: it's it's weird. It's like we're all in the same field.

1072
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 1: Well, that's what that's what our friend groups are for.

1073
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 1: That's what the group chat is for. It's a safe

1074
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 1: space to be like, did you see such and such

1075
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 1: on such on Netflix? Did you realize them? You know

1076
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:52,399
Speaker 1: what I mean? And and it feels good to talk

1077
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 1: to people who feel how you feel, because sometimes I

1078
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: feel like like like an alien.

1079
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 3: Or something like I'm taking crazy pills right because.

1080
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 1: I'm like this, this is what the people are buying,

1081
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 1: this is what the people are reposting or whatever, whatever, whatever,

1082
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:11,399
Speaker 1: and it is what it is. But it feels good

1083
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: to talk to somebody about another person and you're both

1084
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 1: on the same page.

1085
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 3: In a lot of ways. You're just confessing having bad

1086
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 3: thoughts when you do that, and that way, you're releasing them,

1087
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 3: and that's good.

1088
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 2: Full circle love how you full circle on that bitch?

1089
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 1: Damn that we love circle.

1090
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 3: I have said this, I do. I think millennials are

1091
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,319
Speaker 3: too empowered. We can justify anything, So I'm like, talking shit,

1092
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 3: we can put a spin on that. I mean, you

1093
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:37,760
Speaker 3: can just rebrand anything and make it positive rebranding.

1094
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, But how do you feel about this happens

1095
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 2: with feminism? Women publicly dragging other women want to open forums.

1096
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 3: I don't. I mean it's so circumstantial. Obviously, if you're

1097
00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 3: dragging like a white supremacist, that's one thing. But I

1098
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 3: think if you're just I think it's very strange. And

1099
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 3: I do see a lot of people who claim to

1100
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 3: be feminists openly shitting on other women. I mean, I

1101
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 3: think publicly talking shit is so weird to me because

1102
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:14,279
Speaker 3: especially if you're a comedian, like if you're talking shit

1103
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 3: about a celebrity for example, like what if you get

1104
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:18,360
Speaker 3: cast in a movie with them one day? It's so

1105
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 3: awkward that you have tweets like shitting on their entire existence,

1106
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 3: or you have a podcast where you talk shit about everybody,

1107
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 3: and you know, what is it going to be like

1108
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 3: when you are like at a table read with them

1109
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 3: and you know you've said all this really bad stuff.

1110
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:34,360
Speaker 3: M I think I just find it very strange. So

1111
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:37,400
Speaker 3: I just am I'm from toxic stan culture. So I

1112
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:39,320
Speaker 3: would just talk about people that I like. That's what

1113
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 3: I try to do.

1114
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 2: Toxic stand culture.

1115
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: Hmm, toxic, right, people who like follow celebrities or famous

1116
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: people that they don't actually like and they like hate

1117
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:51,880
Speaker 1: watch or they hate.

1118
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:55,279
Speaker 3: People do that I don't. That's not toxic. Toxic stan

1119
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 3: culture for me is like I'm obsessed with like a

1120
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:01,240
Speaker 3: tear of celebrity. Like there is a group of celebrities

1121
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 3: that I am fully obsessed with, and I will defend

1122
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 3: them like I'm an apologist, and I just want to

1123
00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 3: like help them, not hurt them. There are people who

1124
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 3: hate follow celebrities. I find that to be the most

1125
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:16,799
Speaker 3: bizarre use of energy, because what is the point.

1126
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,800
Speaker 1: I mean, for years, I didn't follow anybody famous, like

1127
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: any celebrities, because I was like, this is just gonna

1128
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: make me feel bad about what I have or what

1129
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 1: I don't have, So I just wouldn't follow them. Not

1130
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: to say I wouldn't end up on their pages because

1131
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 1: you know, he explore page is the devil.

1132
00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:31,399
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1133
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, I don't. Like I don't log onto

1134
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 1: social media every time I pick my phone up. I'm

1135
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:40,919
Speaker 1: not supposed to feel bad, Okay, otherwise I'm gonna stop.

1136
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:42,479
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna stop picking up my phone,

1137
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:46,839
Speaker 1: but otherwise, like, why am I logging into this app

1138
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 1: to feel worse about what?

1139
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:52,319
Speaker 3: Well, that's what Twitter does to me sometimes. So that's

1140
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 3: why I just try to limit the exposure.

1141
00:55:55,400 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a valid thing. Oh you know this is

1142
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:05,920
Speaker 2: this is another weird thing that I want to confess.

1143
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 2: Sometimes I will be friends with people that I'm like,

1144
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 2: you're a little peculiar. I don't really get you just

1145
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 2: to just to get just to see the the hype,

1146
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 2: the buzz, and then really I realized, oh this person

1147
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 2: is cool though they're just like not what I traditionally

1148
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 2: think is funny. But I get why people rock with them.

1149
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't think that is my confession, do you

1150
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 3: I mean I think that sounds very positive.

1151
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 4: No.

1152
00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:47,800
Speaker 2: No, because I will say, like you two, everybody on

1153
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:54,319
Speaker 2: this call or this podcast, I think are funny for real,

1154
00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 2: Like I know that I can read something on your Instagram,

1155
00:56:58,040 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 2: it's gonna be funny. I'm gonna talk to you on

1156
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 2: the You're gonna make me laugh. But there's some people

1157
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 2: that it's like I do not see any of it,

1158
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 2: nothing but You're probably just a cool person in general,

1159
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 2: and I'm.

1160
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 3: Friendly, comedy subjective, as you said from right from your

1161
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 3: own words, and it's well, it's okay to appreciate. It's

1162
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 3: going to appreciate if someone does, but not find them funny.

1163
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 2: I'm contradicting myself. Yes, I know, Andrew, come drag me.

1164
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 4: Yeah. What I've always observed about you, Sydney is that

1165
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 4: you I mean, like you referred earlier to like sort

1166
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 4: of like casting like a very broad net. And you

1167
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 4: have a lot of friends, almost like too much friends.

1168
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:43,520
Speaker 4: And your your ratio on Instagram does like keep me

1169
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 4: up at night, whereas like Marie's does relax me. Marie

1170
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 4: is following a lot less people than you are. I

1171
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 4: think that you're you're following too many people you're trusting.

1172
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm looking right now, Andrew. You have said this before.

1173
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 3: It's just your ratio is out of thirty two hundred people.

1174
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 2: But what should I do?

1175
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 1: That's more than some some country's friend?

1176
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 3: What? What? What?

1177
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 2: How do I do that?

1178
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 3: What should you go to the You go to the

1179
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 3: list of people you follow and you follow them?

1180
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 2: Yes, so hard, it's not hard.

1181
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:21,439
Speaker 4: I think like Marie's like following. How many are you following? Marie?

1182
00:58:21,520 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 1: Like, only like a couple hundred hundreds something.

1183
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, wait a minute, wait one second now, So Andrew,

1184
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 2: you're saying I'm keeping you up at night and Marie

1185
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 2: is calming you Yeah, I'm.

1186
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 3: A That is Andrew's confession.

1187
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:42,360
Speaker 4: That is confession. Yeah, Sydney, you're not going to drag

1188
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 4: me for that.

1189
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: Sydney. You know what you could do? You go to

1190
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:47,919
Speaker 1: your followers, okay, and then you can see the ones

1191
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:52,080
Speaker 1: that you least interact with and just unfollow those people

1192
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: if you never see them, because you're not even seeing

1193
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 1: thirty two hundred people on your feet that that's not

1194
00:58:57,280 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: what the elder.

1195
00:58:58,040 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 3: Is not possible.

1196
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:01,760
Speaker 4: Stressed me out. It must be insane.

1197
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 2: My feet stresses you out, but you be my feet.

1198
00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 4: My idea, I can get the number. Yeah, simply the contenttyes.

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00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:12,120
Speaker 1: But Andrew, if you've never seen Sydney on Instagram, she

1200
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:16,080
Speaker 1: swipes and likes every single thing that she sees. Like

1201
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 1: that's how Sydney Instagram's She's not like, you know, like

1202
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 1: I'll swipe, I'll be like what's that? Oh that's weird,

1203
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 1: and then I won't double.

1204
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 4: Tap right when I get a like it means a

1205
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 4: lot more than alike from Sydney.

1206
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say, Sydney, what they're saying is you

1207
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 3: diluted your brand on Instagram by following too many people

1208
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 3: and being too frivolous with likes, which I don't think

1209
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 3: is a bad thing. You're creating positivity in the community. Sure,

1210
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 3: I think you can take this confession that Andrew is

1211
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 3: opening up on the podcast and you can either say

1212
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 3: I don't care. I like my life and I'm going

1213
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 3: to continue living it as I happen, or you can say, Okay,

1214
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna take this feedback and put it into act.

1215
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: My god, literally, sustained.

1216
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 2: Likes don't matter. That's that. I just want to make sure.

1217
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:12,880
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that your likes don't matter. I'm just

1218
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 4: saying that Marie me and a little bit more because

1219
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 4: there I know that there are. It's it's thoughtful when

1220
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 4: when it's like, I.

1221
01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:22,680
Speaker 1: Mean it, when I like something, but Sidney like, there's

1222
01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:24,680
Speaker 1: more and no, it's more thought it's more.

1223
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 3: I just think I just think it's not liking that.

1224
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: I mean.

1225
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 4: I mean, Mary Beth also knows as well, like you're

1226
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 4: going through like we all know that you're going through

1227
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 4: your feet and you're just you're you're tapping away.

1228
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I've seen it firsthand. I'm just like, oh,

1229
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: is that how I'm supposed to be using Instagram? I'm

1230
01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 1: supposed to like everything that I see, even the ads.

1231
01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 1: It's wild, the.

1232
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 3: Funny, that's really fun.

1233
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 1: Just anyway, Sidney, I think, go see the ones that

1234
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 1: you least interact with, if ones that you haven't seen

1235
01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 1: probably since you followed them, and go. I didn't let

1236
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 1: some of them go.

1237
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 2: I love I love this confession for y'all.

1238
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 1: This all right cool. We've had this conversation with her

1239
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:12,800
Speaker 1: on the pod before. She's she's just gonna follow a thousand.

1240
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 1: It's fine, you know, it's okay, fine, it's fine, Mary,

1241
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:18,680
Speaker 1: But how many people are you following?

1242
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 3: I'm following. I try to keep it. I've always been

1243
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 3: under a thousand, which is becoming harder and harder to

1244
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 3: keep because you just meet people and it's like, I

1245
01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 3: feel bad if I don't follow back a lot of

1246
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 3: the time. Right now, I'm following nine hundred and eighty four.

1247
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: Right, I think under a thousand it feels good to

1248
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 1: me as well.

1249
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 3: It's just getting really hard to maintain. And I feel

1250
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 3: like once you break a thousand, it's like, Okay, well

1251
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 3: I guess I'll keep it under two thousand. But then

1252
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 3: it's like, I'm gonna be following so many people.

1253
01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 1: I hardly know how many people does Beyonce follow She

1254
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 1: follows none zero. That's weird to me, though not not

1255
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 1: because it's her, but like anybody who has an Instagram

1256
01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 1: and is following nobody, it's like, well, what does your

1257
01:01:58,240 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: feet look like?

1258
01:01:59,800 --> 01:02:01,600
Speaker 4: The feet is simply just her post.

1259
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's weird, Like what about your family? Right? Yeah?

1260
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 4: Well, I mean like Tina Knowles has gone on Instagram

1261
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 4: Live and has talked about Beyonce's This is just a

1262
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 4: conspiracy theory that I am obsessed. Tina Knowles has gone

1263
01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 4: on Instagram Live and she's talked about like the interviewer

1264
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 4: was like, do your daughters cook? And then she said,

1265
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:31,920
Speaker 4: Beyonce posts a lot of what she cooks on her Instagram.

1266
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 4: You go through Beyonce's Instagram, there's nothing that she's prepared.

1267
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 2: Beyonce don't cook, right, So she has a.

1268
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 4: Private Instagram, which is what we're getting at. You know,

1269
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 4: the Beyonce Instagram the at Beyonce.

1270
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 3: Is not her. Yeah, that makes sense that a lot

1271
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 3: of celebrities do that. I mean, well, it's the whole

1272
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:52,080
Speaker 3: Finsta of it all. But I can't. I can't manage

1273
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 3: to account. So I have dragons ass in my own

1274
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 3: and that keeps me plenty busy.

1275
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 1: So did people go through Tina Nogle's followers to find

1276
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:04,439
Speaker 1: the Beyonce real care people?

1277
01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 4: People including me? Yeah, I've attempted finding it.

1278
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:10,240
Speaker 1: Well, obviously it's obviously it's private.

1279
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean like there's you can't really tell. But

1280
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:17,160
Speaker 4: there are like a few contenders that could potentially be

1281
01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 4: Beyonce's account.

1282
01:03:18,400 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 3: But luckily we probably got they probably got none dated

1283
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 3: with requests.

1284
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,960
Speaker 1: Yes, luckily Tina knows only follows two hundred and twenty

1285
01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 1: three people, So we could do. We could go through

1286
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 1: that in an afternoon, exactly.

1287
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 3: You could do. We could do some real quick process

1288
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 3: of elimination.

1289
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 1: Probably, But I do I think that that's cool that

1290
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: she has a page where her actual personality is on it,

1291
01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 1: you know, for the fam or whatever, So you know,

1292
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:48,440
Speaker 1: that's cute for her. But I have my Instagram and

1293
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 1: the unofficial expert Instagram, and you see what I do

1294
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 1: with both of those. It's it's hard, so you know,

1295
01:03:55,360 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 1: it's very hard.

1296
01:03:56,280 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 3: I think it's getting hard for me to think of

1297
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 3: things to post because I don't do anything.

1298
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 1: But your post are always good. You always have like

1299
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:05,680
Speaker 1: good photos.

1300
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 3: Once a month, I get I get crippled with anxiety

1301
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:11,720
Speaker 3: about it.

1302
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:13,640
Speaker 1: It's great, stressful.

1303
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 2: You have followers that follow you and they're obsessed and

1304
01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:21,760
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter. You don't have to post all the time.

1305
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 2: Marie doesn't have to post all the time. You guys

1306
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:28,640
Speaker 2: are great. I I just like maintenance and upkeeping, and

1307
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:32,040
Speaker 2: that's why I have one hundred notches.

1308
01:04:32,360 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 3: So for account, it's your account and you should use

1309
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 3: it however you want.

1310
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: The hundred notches are for maintenance and upkeep. I'm sorry,

1311
01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 1: what make it makes sense, babe, it's one notch per followers.

1312
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:47,919
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

1313
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:56,360
Speaker 2: Essentially at this point, well, guys, I have really just

1314
01:04:56,920 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 2: confessed a lot about how you feel towards me. But

1315
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 2: I think we should end with a real confession to

1316
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 2: just kick us off or take us off properly.

1317
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,360
Speaker 3: Okay, I guess I will start. I will confess that

1318
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 3: I'm very anxious and nervous about my show, that I'm

1319
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:19,920
Speaker 3: doing for my Bathtub on December nineteenth. And that's not

1320
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 3: even me trying to plug it in a cute way.

1321
01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:25,160
Speaker 3: I'm genuinely very nervous because I used to do the

1322
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 3: show on Instagram Live weekly. I haven't done it in

1323
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 3: months and it's on a new platform, and I'm just like,

1324
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:33,880
Speaker 3: are people going to understand? So that's what my confession

1325
01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 3: is that I, as you've seen me, put on a

1326
01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 3: brave face, but I am nervous. So please buy tickets. Come.

1327
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 3: It's gonna be fun everybody.

1328
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 4: The day after the day after this episode comes out.

1329
01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, Anita Scanner will be on it, Djovin will be

1330
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 3: on it, Iowa Debris and of course Alistair Green from

1331
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:57,680
Speaker 3: the UK will be calling in. So it'll be a

1332
01:05:57,720 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 3: lot of fun. And I just hope people we'll watch it.

1333
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:05,320
Speaker 1: I mean, the art for it, the visuals stunning. Big

1334
01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, I saw it and I I didn't

1335
01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:10,320
Speaker 1: even have to think about tapping it. I said, absolutely,

1336
01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 1: this is. She said, I said, this is. I don't

1337
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 1: remember what I said, but I really.

1338
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:21,920
Speaker 3: Really liked A comment for Marie is huge. Honestly, that

1339
01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 3: takes effort.

1340
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 1: It's not even that it takes effort. I just like

1341
01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 1: when I feel compelled to actually write something under somebody's post,

1342
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 1: it's like it's I don't know, it's because it brought

1343
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:35,920
Speaker 1: me some type of joy that's or it's so shocking

1344
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:37,560
Speaker 1: that I'm like, why would you put this up? You

1345
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 1: know what I mean? But yes, I know what you mean.

1346
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:43,040
Speaker 1: But I really like the post, and I hope that

1347
01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 1: the show goes well. It's on. Well, what's the date again?

1348
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 3: December nineteenth?

1349
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 1: December nineteenth, after Saturday? This episode drops.

1350
01:06:53,520 --> 01:07:00,960
Speaker 3: All right, next confession's confession Andrew, you go for it.

1351
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:04,120
Speaker 4: I don't know if I have a confession. Do I

1352
01:07:04,240 --> 01:07:07,600
Speaker 4: confess that I'm sorry for leading this charge against you?

1353
01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 4: I think that I think it was an important conversation

1354
01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:17,480
Speaker 4: to be had going into a new year. But yeah,

1355
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 4: I do feel I feel bad. I saw I saw

1356
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:22,800
Speaker 4: like your face sort of like go slack during that

1357
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:28,920
Speaker 4: that you're really affected by us calling you out. So

1358
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

1359
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:34,080
Speaker 1: No, I mean maybe the problem is Sidney. Do you

1360
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:35,760
Speaker 1: feel bad when you unfollow people?

1361
01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:38,439
Speaker 4: I don't think she does.

1362
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:39,480
Speaker 3: Have you ever done it?

1363
01:07:40,160 --> 01:07:42,160
Speaker 4: Have you ever pressed an unfollow button?

1364
01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1365
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 2: Wow?

1366
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:46,960
Speaker 3: Is that labrating?

1367
01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:50,160
Speaker 1: It feels good? Have you ever muted somebody, because that's

1368
01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 1: a that's a different kind of high. No, girl, you've

1369
01:07:56,280 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 1: never muted somebody? No, oh wow, says she ain't litter right.

1370
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:05,640
Speaker 4: No, we're falling back into it now. It's okay, Sydney.

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01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:08,240
Speaker 1: I mean it's fine, but I'm just saying that you

1372
01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 1: misronounced this. I think maybe you would squirt more if

1373
01:08:12,040 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 1: you unfollowed more people, or if you.

1374
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:16,120
Speaker 3: In your life. Sydney.

1375
01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:20,880
Speaker 2: Three, confess my confession.

1376
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 1: Okay, does it have to be? I guess it'll be

1377
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:28,040
Speaker 1: social media related, since that's what we're talking about now.

1378
01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: My confession is I never prepare, Like I don't have

1379
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 1: a script for the videos that I upload. I kind

1380
01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:40,479
Speaker 1: of just talk, but I shoot numerous versions of the

1381
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 1: video until I think it's perfect, and then I post it.

1382
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:48,280
Speaker 1: If I don't think that the video is hilarious, I'm

1383
01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 1: not posting it. And when I first post a video,

1384
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 1: I'll watch it over and over and over again until

1385
01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 1: I make myself sick and I can never watch the

1386
01:08:57,360 --> 01:08:59,280
Speaker 1: video ever again. Like I'll hit a point where like,

1387
01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:03,599
Speaker 1: watch it I don't know fifty times however many times

1388
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 1: and be like I am a genius, and then a

1389
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:10,880
Speaker 1: switch will go off and then I can't, like, I

1390
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:15,360
Speaker 1: can't watch it anymore. So that's my confession about social media.

1391
01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:19,800
Speaker 1: It's hard and it's weird, but and it does give

1392
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 1: me anxiety. But I'm still gonna post stuff if I

1393
01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:26,799
Speaker 1: like it, you know, yeah.

1394
01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:31,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, dropping a bomb right here. I confess that sometimes

1395
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:35,479
Speaker 2: I am jealous of Marie because like, oh wow, people

1396
01:09:36,000 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 2: love you so much and you're so cool and so funny,

1397
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 2: and I feel like I'm the nerd next to.

1398
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 1: You, and sit you're like a crazy person right now.

1399
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:50,759
Speaker 2: I don't, I don't. I'm like, Marie is so cool.

1400
01:09:51,200 --> 01:09:54,240
Speaker 2: That's why we became friends because you were cool, and

1401
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:56,720
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm obsessed with how cool she is

1402
01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:57,080
Speaker 2: in Pritton.

1403
01:09:57,120 --> 01:09:58,759
Speaker 1: I thought we became friends because you thought I was pretty.

1404
01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:03,080
Speaker 1: But okay, cool works too. That's really interesting friend.

1405
01:10:03,840 --> 01:10:05,760
Speaker 2: But not jealous in a not jealous in a way

1406
01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:07,800
Speaker 2: that like I don't want any good to happen to

1407
01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 2: this bitch.

1408
01:10:08,439 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 1: Fuck her.

1409
01:10:09,360 --> 01:10:13,519
Speaker 2: I'm gonna single white female you like, not just it's

1410
01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:16,800
Speaker 2: like jealous in a sisterly way, like oh man, she's

1411
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 2: just like every time you post something or sometimes I

1412
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 2: see you in real life and I'm like, wow, I

1413
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:22,519
Speaker 2: can't believe we're friends.

1414
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 1: She's so like perfect, Oh wow, well, Sidney, if it

1415
01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:27,360
Speaker 1: makes you feel any better, Sometimes I'm jealous of you too,

1416
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:32,000
Speaker 1: in a very sister little way. Yeah, I'm like, look

1417
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 1: at this sexy bitch with the big booty who don't

1418
01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:40,080
Speaker 1: work out. Look how likable she is. So if that

1419
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:41,800
Speaker 1: makes you feel any better, and I hope it does

1420
01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:43,519
Speaker 1: because I see your face, I can see all of

1421
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 1: your teeth. I feel like that too. So and you

1422
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:49,559
Speaker 1: have more followers than me, so don't worry about people

1423
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: liking me more than you. There's more of them in

1424
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:55,040
Speaker 1: your If you don't, you should see my dms. They're

1425
01:10:55,120 --> 01:10:59,439
Speaker 1: like I just wanted to say that I enjoy Marie's

1426
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:00,559
Speaker 1: videos so much.

1427
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 3: They're in your day that psychopathic.

1428
01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:08,920
Speaker 1: People love you. People are weirdos, don't.

1429
01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:12,080
Speaker 2: Friends that I used to work with that are like, wow,

1430
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:15,880
Speaker 2: Maria is really funny. She's she's taking off on social media.

1431
01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:17,280
Speaker 1: That's hilarious.

1432
01:11:17,439 --> 01:11:19,639
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I know, I wrote some of her jokes.

1433
01:11:21,360 --> 01:11:23,080
Speaker 3: I love that absolutely.

1434
01:11:25,479 --> 01:11:27,880
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, that was a very nice exercise.

1435
01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:30,800
Speaker 2: Mary. Can you tell people where to find you on

1436
01:11:30,880 --> 01:11:34,400
Speaker 2: social media? And again, where you can where they can

1437
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:36,040
Speaker 2: find this show that you're going to be on.

1438
01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:38,639
Speaker 3: Yes, you can find me on social media at mary

1439
01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 3: Beth Barone on Twitter and Instagram, and then Cadenza dot

1440
01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:45,400
Speaker 3: tv is where you can get tickets to the show.

1441
01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 3: But also you could just go to my Instagram and

1442
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:50,800
Speaker 3: then it's in the bio obviously and my Twitter as well.

1443
01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 2: And Marybeth is an ally. She is one of the

1444
01:11:57,120 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 2: many but few white women that I'm like, she does

1445
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:02,800
Speaker 2: do the work and you please make sure you go

1446
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 2: on her comments and support her. I know we trash

1447
01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:11,080
Speaker 2: the beige people, but Mary is one of us. Well no,

1448
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 2: but she is a part of the family.

1449
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:15,000
Speaker 1: Well, if you're beige and you're listening to this, then

1450
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 1: she's one of y'all because well no, because the beige

1451
01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 1: listeners that listen, you know, their allies to us. You know,

1452
01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:24,040
Speaker 1: Bill slide in my DMS and be like, I'm a

1453
01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:26,479
Speaker 1: beige listener and I love you guys, and I love

1454
01:12:26,479 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 1: it when y'all do that.

1455
01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:28,479
Speaker 3: So nice.

1456
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:31,240
Speaker 1: Yes, So, Mary Beth, before we go, just real light,

1457
01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 1: if you could get anything in the world for Christmas,

1458
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:35,960
Speaker 1: what would that be?

1459
01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:41,479
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, well Trump already got COVID, so that was

1460
01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 3: kind of like an early Christmas present. But maybe a plane,

1461
01:12:47,640 --> 01:12:50,880
Speaker 3: A plane, like a like a big ass plane. Yeah,

1462
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:54,000
Speaker 3: just like a Boeing seven forty seven. Oh my god,

1463
01:12:54,880 --> 01:12:56,040
Speaker 3: she's a big plane.

1464
01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:59,400
Speaker 1: So you can go to seven different countries like Rihanna

1465
01:12:59,439 --> 01:13:00,679
Speaker 1: did for seven weeks.

1466
01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:04,920
Speaker 3: I just want to be able to travel and be

1467
01:13:05,240 --> 01:13:07,240
Speaker 3: not worried, you know about okay safe.

1468
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:09,080
Speaker 1: I hope somebody gives you that for Christmas.

1469
01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:12,439
Speaker 3: Thank you a michel out in a couple of weeks.

1470
01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you came back. This was so cute.

1471
01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:17,759
Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. It's always a pleasure, gals,

1472
01:13:17,800 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 3: And I hope gals is obviously gender and neutral because

1473
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:24,719
Speaker 3: gender construct. But thank you so much, and I hope

1474
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:27,240
Speaker 3: everyone has a very lovely holiday season.

1475
01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 2: I just one more time. I really do love you

1476
01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:39,360
Speaker 2: guys so much, and this year I've cried more than

1477
01:13:39,920 --> 01:13:43,080
Speaker 2: any other year. But talking to you guys on the

1478
01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 2: phone and facetiming and annoying you guys seven times a

1479
01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:51,719
Speaker 2: day has really been my therapy. And I'm very lucky

1480
01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 2: to have such wonderful people in my life.

1481
01:13:55,680 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 1: Sydney. Anyway, thanks bye, Forever Dog. This has been a

1482
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:09,120
Speaker 1: Forever Dog production.

1483
01:14:09,960 --> 01:14:14,599
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1484
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:16,000
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1485
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:21,519
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1486
01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:24,160
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1487
01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:28,320
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