Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife,
Speaker 1: and she couldn't.
Speaker 2: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man
Speaker 2: of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.
Speaker 1: She was both obedient and soft by nature.
Speaker 2: She was a good woman who always made good choices.
Speaker 3: We're good mom's bad choices.
Speaker 4: Two single mom who said, but the patriarchy shared all
Speaker 4: their bad choices and.
Speaker 5: Sound out they were so bad after all, we're experts.
Speaker 4: Overshares and your new besties.
Speaker 5: Sit back and enjoy the ride.
Speaker 2: I can do it.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 4: Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices.
Speaker 1: I'm me and I'm Erica.
Speaker 4: And it's Wednesday, bitches, it's Wednesday.
Speaker 3: It's September.
Speaker 4: It's almost fall, and we're still here. We're still kicking.
Speaker 5: We're still here.
Speaker 1: We couldn't be and Mila, have we have You might
Speaker 1: have not seen us in the studio in a while.
Speaker 5: Don't worry, we'll be there soon.
Speaker 1: It's just we're fighting for our lives, motherhood because school
Speaker 1: has started, and this is what this is what happens
Speaker 1: when you know. I just want to encourage the mom's
Speaker 1: listening to parents listening, just like the come just to
Speaker 1: come stop trying to fit a circle into a square.
Speaker 1: Just give up a little bit, you know, giving up?
Speaker 3: What are we giving up?
Speaker 1: You know, like just go get the Chick fil a,
Speaker 1: you know, just don't. You don't have to cook dinner
Speaker 1: all week because it's week one or week three of
Speaker 1: fucking like schooling. Like it's okay, you are good, mom,
Speaker 1: and you don't have to prove it, Like we're done.
Speaker 1: I'm done proving it. I've done. I've done trying to
Speaker 1: like drive one hour to the studio when I know
Speaker 1: my day is jam packed because I need to prove
Speaker 1: that I am a business owner and I'm a podcaster
Speaker 1: and I'm just no bitch. You're tired, So sit your
Speaker 1: ass in your house, get on the zoom and record
Speaker 1: the goddamn episode. I'm just in a season of make
Speaker 1: your life easier. Stop trying to make it so fucking hard.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, why it's the point of making it
Speaker 4: hard when it could just be easy. And like Lauren
Speaker 4: Lauren Hill said, it's just don't, yeah, don't make things
Speaker 4: more complicated.
Speaker 3: And I think that also applies to.
Speaker 4: Like your inner thoughts, Like sometimes your thoughts will come
Speaker 4: and ruin your fuck up your day. And it's just
Speaker 4: like you have to say, no, I'm not doing that.
Speaker 4: I'm not going down that route. I'm not entertaining the
Speaker 4: things that are going to overwhelm me and piss me off.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go this other route, which is.
Speaker 4: La la la la la la la. I'm doing just fine.
Speaker 4: I'm breathing, and I think we all kind of forget that.
Speaker 4: If you're breathing, if you woke up this morning, you
Speaker 4: have roof over your head, if you got some food,
Speaker 4: what's really wrong with you? What's wrong other than that?
Speaker 4: These are these are the core things that we need.
Speaker 4: If you have love, you have family, you have shelter,
Speaker 4: you have food, everything else will figure itself out. Just
Speaker 4: stop trying to figure out everything in one time. It
Speaker 4: just doesn't work that way. It never works that way.
Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm going to succumb. I'm going to just
Speaker 4: rest and not try to do and be everything at
Speaker 4: one time and figure everything out. We have a friend
Speaker 4: who is a Capricorn and she figures everything out at
Speaker 4: the top level of all things, and I just realize, like,
Speaker 4: I'm not her, and that's okay, But I can just
Speaker 4: get I CA can just slow drip from her just
Speaker 4: being around her. I think sometimes we have like people
Speaker 4: in our circle that like you admire, but then they
Speaker 4: also piss you the fuck off because they remind you
Speaker 4: what you're not doing. But I'm like, I need a
Speaker 4: friend like that to remind me you don't have to
Speaker 4: be to that level. But also it's nice to know
Speaker 4: that there's people who are capable, and we're all capable
Speaker 4: of different things in different times.
Speaker 3: And that's okay, I'm.
Speaker 5: Playing the you know what.
Speaker 1: It's like you either there's women like that, but then
Speaker 1: there's women like that also that do that me hello,
Speaker 1: and like then you lose steam and you can't maintain.
Speaker 1: So it's like you have to pay yourself right when
Speaker 1: you're excited about something or like you're motivated about something,
Speaker 1: like you can go balls to the wall and then
Speaker 1: like halfway through your creation, you're fucking tapped out, like
Speaker 1: you're exhausted. You you don't have any more ideas because
Speaker 1: you put all of them on the table, like the
Speaker 1: week week one, and like you don't like there's nothing
Speaker 1: left to do, you know, Like so it's just it's
Speaker 1: a slow burn, slow I'm letting. I'm letting this This
Speaker 1: year of fifth grade which I can't believe my daughter's
Speaker 1: in fifth grade. Today's her first day of school, and
Speaker 1: it's just like slowburn slow burn. Also, like I said,
Speaker 1: if like during the summertime, she has more responsibilities, Like
Speaker 1: she literally has more responsibilities. I've been grooming her all
Speaker 1: summer with responsibilities, cleaning, making her bed every morning. She's
Speaker 1: starting to make her own dinners. Now, she's been making
Speaker 1: dinner for herself all week. She set her own alarm,
Speaker 1: like on her phone. Like, girl, you've got a phone
Speaker 1: set that goddamn alarm, Like, use it for other reasons
Speaker 1: besides roadblocks. Please. She woke her us up at five
Speaker 1: point thirty this morning, woke me up, scare the shit
Speaker 1: out of me, was standing over me in the bed.
Speaker 1: Almost punched her because I was like, what the fuck?
Speaker 1: And then she was like, mom, it's me.
Speaker 3: And you know, I'm like.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you do you do the adult take this season.
Speaker 1: You cook your goddamn meals, you wake yourself up for school.
Speaker 1: This is what fifth grade is about, this is what
Speaker 1: this season of motherhood is about. So I'm just letting
Speaker 1: it happen. And also, this month has been a real
Speaker 1: true act of like I just got to surrender because
Speaker 1: I'm like really not in control. So I'm just like
Speaker 1: counting my blessings and just doing what makes me feel
Speaker 1: like my nervous system can be regulated, because for the
Speaker 1: past few months it's been so up and down and
Speaker 1: I'm I'm tired. I'm tired, but i have like a
Speaker 1: lot of to be grateful for us, So I'm just like,
Speaker 1: you know, just chill, chill out.
Speaker 4: I think it's time to bring back old school parenting,
Speaker 4: which is like figure it out. I'm gonna show you
Speaker 4: one time. I feel like the kids have become like
Speaker 4: a little bit soft and nurtured, like overly nurtured, and
Speaker 4: they kind of are like less responsible, and it's it's
Speaker 4: like the norm, and I just don't agree with it.
Speaker 4: And so it's like, yeah, fifth grade, ten years old,
Speaker 4: Luna's almost eleven, like she started school. But I just yeah,
Speaker 4: like be responsible, be independent, because our goal is that
Speaker 4: we we hopefully prepare you for real life, and that's
Speaker 4: just not realistic if we're doing everything fucking for you.
Speaker 4: And in fact, you just reminded me I'm gonna I
Speaker 4: got to text my baby daddy to make sure we're
Speaker 4: all on the same page. Everybody needs to be on
Speaker 4: the same page. We all need to be doing the same.
Speaker 1: I've also released the expectation of me and my baby
Speaker 1: daddy being on the same page.
Speaker 4: But you know what, they trick us. I think I
Speaker 4: think they might be more independent over there because those
Speaker 4: they are not doing much. So I think they're tricking
Speaker 4: us to pretend like they don't really know what's going on.
Speaker 4: But I feel like at the dad's houses, they are
Speaker 4: waking them up and like making their own lunch and
Speaker 4: doing the things, because like, are they doing it? They are,
Speaker 4: and they're playing us and they're getting home like what I.
Speaker 1: No know, Well, let's see it's a little bit of that,
Speaker 1: or they're playing them too, They're like and they then
Speaker 1: they like, don't go to school because that would never
Speaker 1: happen at our house, but for some reason at their house,
Speaker 1: like they're saying, I had a sniffle, she needs to
Speaker 1: stay home. I'm like, what the fuck are you talking?
Speaker 4: No, you didn't want to wake up and take her
Speaker 4: ass is what happened.
Speaker 1: And you know what, maybe I need a little bit
Speaker 1: of that energy, you know, Maybe I need a little
Speaker 1: bit of that energy.
Speaker 5: Oh you got a sniffle?
Speaker 1: Yeah, call it a day. Baby, we're not going You
Speaker 1: got about one more this is your last year. Maybe
Speaker 1: you got one and a half more years of schooling
Speaker 1: that you can pull this shit before it actually counts.
Speaker 1: And honestly, what did I hear someone really prolific recently
Speaker 1: and we've been known this, but basically said college literally
Speaker 1: is a waste of money. You don't have to go
Speaker 1: to college anymore. At this point, am I going to
Speaker 1: tell my daughter that? Maybe not?
Speaker 5: Who knows, but like it's just.
Speaker 1: Like live in your life because the world might be ending,
Speaker 1: so you might as well just like skip school and
Speaker 1: hang out. I've been trying to convince Iri to not
Speaker 1: go to school all summer.
Speaker 4: But what's that type of parent? What's that type of
Speaker 4: schooling that like the Hippi white people are doing, which
Speaker 4: is like.
Speaker 5: Self learning, self guided?
Speaker 4: Yeah, like self guided, like you didn't even have to
Speaker 4: learn how to read until you need it or some shit.
Speaker 3: I want to do that.
Speaker 1: So that guy in an organ that I met when
Speaker 1: I went and got put myself in a cave and
Speaker 1: he told me that his children realized they needed to
Speaker 1: learn because they didn't couldn't read like the school, so
Speaker 1: they couldn't read the signs on the street and he
Speaker 1: was like, well, maybe it's time that you learned to read,
Speaker 1: and so they did. But I'm like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I know your brain needs to like be nourished in
Speaker 1: certain things at a certain an age according to science.
Speaker 4: So oh, it's called the war the World. It's the World,
Speaker 4: the World off school, it's like the World off school,
Speaker 4: or the Waldorf School. That's it's a Waldorf school whatever
Speaker 4: that school is. The Waldorf School does that method where
Speaker 4: you self learn when it's time and you really what
Speaker 4: you need to learn how to read the cracker jack box.
Speaker 4: But I also think that's what.
Speaker 1: So they're going, They're we're paying the Waldorf School to
Speaker 1: send our kids to school and then letting them fit
Speaker 1: like self guide their education.
Speaker 3: Loo key yeah, which is also like that's a scam.
Speaker 1: That's a scam. I can do that at home.
Speaker 4: That's true, But I also feel like it's a white privilege,
Speaker 4: Like God forbid, a black child doesn't know how to
Speaker 4: read it until they're ten, Like, oh my god, are
Speaker 4: you kidding, We're gonna I'm going to jail.
Speaker 5: That's crazy.
Speaker 4: We're so uneducated that there's only there's only certain privileges
Speaker 4: we have. But I mean, you can imagine before the
Speaker 4: establishment and the system of UHED like this very rigid
Speaker 4: system of like an education system.
Speaker 3: I'm sure that's what everybody.
Speaker 4: Was doing, like go farm, go fucking help, and then
Speaker 4: everything else came after. This type of school that we've
Speaker 4: been doctrined in is really just to train us to
Speaker 4: be worker bees and go to college and waste our
Speaker 4: money and then.
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah blah. You know, you know, you
Speaker 3: know the government shit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it's true. That's why it's important that we
Speaker 1: nurture the things that our kids are actually interested in now,
Speaker 1: Like you know, like Luna loves to draw and create,
Speaker 1: and you know, I really love I really love sports.
Speaker 1: And I realized, like she's very social too, She's like
Speaker 1: very she's very pro social.
Speaker 5: So I'm like, how do I not pro social? What
Speaker 5: do I do with that? She take her to the mind.
Speaker 5: She can make a friend anywhere, like she really can.
Speaker 1: I'm that's such a relief for me as a parent,
Speaker 1: because I know that there's a lot of parents whose
Speaker 1: kids struggle with that, you know. So it's like, so
Speaker 1: I'm grateful that that's just not the struggle that I'm
Speaker 1: facing with her right now, like today, like when she
Speaker 1: she was like yesterday, she's like, I'm really excited to
Speaker 1: meet the new kids at school, like the new ones
Speaker 1: that are coming, which is you know, not that I
Speaker 1: was surprised, but usually it's like I can't wait to
Speaker 1: see my friends, like those little bitches that were harassing
Speaker 1: me last year. And she's like, I'm excited to meet
Speaker 1: the new people, and so I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: I was like, that's a really that's a really big
Speaker 1: deal for kids that are coming into a fifth grade
Speaker 1: class with a bunch of kids that have been friends
Speaker 1: for years, like that can be really intimidating for someone
Speaker 1: to come in and not know anyone, And so I
Speaker 1: was just encouraging her to I was like, well, if
Speaker 1: you're excited to meet them, make sure. Well at first,
Speaker 1: I said, do you know in the scariest part of
Speaker 1: the day is for new kids, And she's like when
Speaker 1: I was like, lunch, Like, lunch is the scariest part
Speaker 1: of the day because it's like where the fuck am
Speaker 1: I going to sit? We who do I sit with?
Speaker 1: And so I don't know, I'm crossing my fingers because
Speaker 1: I think it's like, well, it's past lunch now at school,
Speaker 1: but I'm hoping I encouraged her. I was like, at lunchtime,
Speaker 1: I really want to encourage you to like find a
Speaker 1: new person and have them sit with you, because that's
Speaker 1: going to be really even if she's not your forever
Speaker 1: friend all year, Like, that's going to be really helpful
Speaker 1: for someone.
Speaker 5: Who doesn't know anyone.
Speaker 1: And she's like, oh, yeah, of course, mom, I did
Speaker 1: that last year with my other friend. I'm like, okay, girl,
Speaker 1: get your little pro social ass out there the inn.
Speaker 4: I asked Lenna about that, like, are then any knew
Speaker 4: kids at school.
Speaker 3: She's like, no, I don't think so.
Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, well, Luna don't. Luna is like Luda
Speaker 4: is social. Luna has no problem making friends.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm not saying she's not social, but
Speaker 1: she is like she's has she's she's like me, She's like, okay,
Speaker 1: let me analyze the situation. When when we were in
Speaker 1: Costa Rica and the little girl who didn't speak Spanish
Speaker 1: wanted to hang out, Luna was like, then, I know,
Speaker 1: I know, like like five minutes later they're jumping in
Speaker 1: the pool.
Speaker 5: But before that she was like resistant, she was.
Speaker 1: Like she doesn't speak English, like I don't.
Speaker 4: Know, and then I was like, well, how are you
Speaker 4: She's like, we're such good friends. I was like, how
Speaker 4: are you guys talking? She was like google translate. I
Speaker 4: was like, oh that's smart. Yeah, Luna's Luna Is has
Speaker 4: definitely been here before, for sure, for sure, maybe more
Speaker 4: times than me. This Actually recently, she went to Minnesota
Speaker 4: this week with her dad and she's texting me and
Speaker 4: she's like, remember, don't say anything, but remember daddy's friend
Speaker 4: that I said was really nice, some girl that they're with,
Speaker 4: that there's a new girl every other month, because that's
Speaker 4: what happens when there's another fucking household. And I was like, yeah,
Speaker 4: she's like I think she's drunk.
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is how she's texting me.
Speaker 4: I'm like, Patty now, She's like she's really really loud.
Speaker 4: And someone just came by and said free wine and
Speaker 4: she said me. I was like, okay, She's like and
Speaker 4: she's talking and then she's like and she won't stop
Speaker 4: talking to me. I'm like, there's no other there. She's like,
Speaker 4: I don't know, but I'm trying to get out of
Speaker 4: this bus. It's like this is I feel like I'm
Speaker 4: talking to my homegirl, like why are you texting me that?
Speaker 4: She's like, don't tell daddy, but I think his friend
Speaker 4: is drunk. She is my homegirl. But like the amount
Speaker 4: of like awareness that you have, like why would you
Speaker 4: even know what that means? And she is she's you
Speaker 4: know what, I really I'm proud that she's just self.
Speaker 4: She's self, like she doesn't really need a lot outside
Speaker 4: of herself, like if someone's not fucking with her, if
Speaker 4: things are not what.
Speaker 3: She's like, all right, I'm out by.
Speaker 4: We had a barbecue at your house last weekend and
Speaker 4: I was like, mom's about to leave.
Speaker 3: Do you want to go?
Speaker 4: She's like, yeah'll leave with her. I'm like, but everyone's
Speaker 4: still playing. She's like I'm good. I'm like, okay, well
Speaker 4: catch you later, girl' That's what I mean.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, Like she's good on her own, Like yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that.
Speaker 5: I just see Luna.
Speaker 1: She's very independent, so like if she's in her zone
Speaker 1: and she's good, she's like why do we need to
Speaker 1: interrupt the flow? We're fine, Like why do we need
Speaker 1: a new friend? And then the friend comes and she's
Speaker 1: like Okay, she's cool, she can stay I am.
Speaker 4: I'm really proud of her having that trade because it
Speaker 4: took me a really really really really really really long time.
Speaker 3: To like not care.
Speaker 4: And she's just like, I'm fine, Like, Okay, that's that
Speaker 4: Sagittarius energy for real, because she's just very self sufficient,
Speaker 4: which I feel like, you know, like especially as girls,
Speaker 4: that's something we have to learn, you know, we always
Speaker 4: want to be included. We always want to like there's
Speaker 4: just like this, we're we're programmed to like be a
Speaker 4: certain way and like get validated outside of ourselves in ways.
Speaker 3: And it took me a long time to learn that.
Speaker 4: And she's just like, I'm cool, I don't need any
Speaker 4: of that bye, which I might, thank God a lot
Speaker 4: of Yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Mean so many wife, not even it's not even just
Speaker 1: a woman thing. I think people in general have a
Speaker 1: really hard time being alone in general. And you know,
Speaker 1: if you can learn as a child, I think also
Speaker 1: when you're an only child, it becomes I was having
Speaker 1: this conversation with my friend Jared because we both like
Speaker 1: he's the youngest of his siblings by far, and I'm
Speaker 1: like the oldest of my siblings by far, so we
Speaker 1: feel we have felt like a lot in our life,
Speaker 1: like we're only children, and I think only children a
Speaker 1: lot of times have this kind of like it's either
Speaker 1: hyper independence or sometimes it's just like I'm good by
Speaker 1: myself because I've spent a lot of time alone. Not
Speaker 1: like your parents weren't around, but like you didn't have
Speaker 1: a play buddy around a lot, so you had to
Speaker 1: like kind of figure your shit out by yourself, right,
Speaker 1: and so like as an adult, I don't really have
Speaker 1: a hard time being alone. And that's good. That's can
Speaker 1: be good and it can be bad because I can
Speaker 1: isolate and be totally fine. And then but then I
Speaker 1: also like I know that I need like socialization, and like,
Speaker 1: like I see a lot of that. I see a
Speaker 1: lot of that with people that were only children, Like
Speaker 1: as I was thinking about that today and identifying the
Speaker 1: people in my life that didn't grow up with siblings
Speaker 1: or like much older or younger, I see them a
Speaker 1: lot like okay doing taking solo trips by themselves, going
Speaker 1: on solo dates, do going places alone. Like so I
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe, but you know, Ari is she's not
Speaker 1: really an only child, I guess. So I'm curious to see,
Speaker 1: like what her relationship will be like with her alone
Speaker 1: time because like even my mom when we were in
Speaker 1: Costa Rica, she was like I don't because I told her.
Speaker 1: I was like, Mom, just go to the beach, go
Speaker 1: buy go be by yourself, like go go like you
Speaker 1: know ground and she's like, Erica, I know, like I
Speaker 1: don't know why you think I like being alone.
Speaker 5: I don't like to be alone. And I was like,
Speaker 5: oh okay.
Speaker 4: I thought all adults.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm like, are we all waiting to
Speaker 1: be left the fuck alone? Like?
Speaker 4: No, okay, well just me? Huh.
Speaker 1: I was like, do you want me to come with you? Fuck?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 5: Well here I come.
Speaker 3: You know, it's so interesting.
Speaker 4: I was just reading this uh well, not article, because
Speaker 4: who does that anymore. I was reading Instagram and there's
Speaker 4: a tea there's I thought I sent it to you,
Speaker 4: but maybe I forgot. There was a teacher saying it's
Speaker 4: really really scary that like teaching kids in this in
Speaker 4: this day and age, that they really don't know how
Speaker 4: to be bored, and they're basically constantly waiting for like
Speaker 4: a dopamine drop, and like if you don't teach in
Speaker 4: fucking one minute, colorful, fucking snap reels. Then they're just
Speaker 4: like looking at you with dead eyes. Like she can
Speaker 4: literally be in front of a classroom and literally there's
Speaker 4: nothing there, nobody's home, and you know, within like three minutes,
Speaker 4: if they're not stimulated of their board, they're on their
Speaker 4: phones and like it's literally She's like, it really does
Speaker 4: resemble like teaching a bunch of drug addicts because they're
Speaker 4: like they're they're so reactive if they if someone takes
Speaker 4: away their technology, takes away their phone, And I'm like,
Speaker 4: what kind of world are we producing with the children?
Speaker 3: And we've all seen it.
Speaker 4: We've seen like all those clips online where kids fucking
Speaker 4: flip the fuck out about not having their cell phones
Speaker 4: and kicking and scratching and even people like kids shooting
Speaker 4: their parents for taking a fucking video games and shit,
Speaker 4: and it's just like, what are we, Like, what are
Speaker 4: we creating in the world that are making like little
Speaker 4: crackheads and that we're just supporting it like it's just
Speaker 4: totally normal.
Speaker 1: It's scary good.
Speaker 5: Are we creating technology crackheads?
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, we are a lot. We are coming technology crackheads,
Speaker 4: and they're little developing brains are definitely technology We're.
Speaker 1: Later in life technology crackheads, but they're like organic technology cracks.
Speaker 5: They're like they're like they're like the og crackhead.
Speaker 4: They're like in bread, they're like bread like like naturally,
Speaker 4: they've just like with their evolution, have become technology crackheads.
Speaker 4: And it's just it's wild and it's scary, and I'm like,
Speaker 4: we really, I keep saying this, like I want to
Speaker 4: do you know, a three hour period after school, like
Speaker 4: everybody put the phone in the fucking bag, is at
Speaker 4: this bitch up and let's do other stuff. And it's
Speaker 4: like it seems like I keep talking about it, it just
Speaker 4: hasn't happened because I guess school just started.
Speaker 3: But we, I mean.
Speaker 4: Start technology and I am and I'm going to text
Speaker 4: our dad too, and not that that's gonna work, but
Speaker 4: technology is ruining us, and we're just allowing it to happen,
Speaker 4: including gel nails.
Speaker 1: Nimi Less sent me this article today about how gel
Speaker 1: nails have been banned from Europe, and then I saw
Speaker 1: another post. Of course was when you sent me that,
Speaker 1: then of course more posts at coming in. So the
Speaker 1: New York Post was posting about it, and they said
Speaker 1: that basically it's only been tested on animals, and that
Speaker 1: it's like linked to fertility issues, sexual health issues, and
Speaker 1: that it's a safety precaution because in Europe it's there's
Speaker 1: free health care and the government has to pay for it,
Speaker 1: so they are more diligent around like stopping any sort
Speaker 1: of like things that they're gonna have to pay for,
Speaker 1: whereas in America it pays.
Speaker 3: They profit, they profit, They.
Speaker 1: Profit on our illness and our sickness, so they're not
Speaker 1: ever going to ban certain things. And that's why like
Speaker 1: a lot of countries that offer free health care, like
Speaker 1: they're really diligent around making sure that whatever's causing illness
Speaker 1: or sickness is very like got we don't got time
Speaker 1: for that, We're not going to pay for it. And
Speaker 1: so here I am with like one broken nail. I
Speaker 1: was very sad about this yesterday from my Costa Rica
Speaker 1: nails that cost me thirty dollars for all this nail art,
Speaker 1: and I was like, am I when you set me that?
Speaker 1: I was like, maybe it's time. It's finally time. I've
Speaker 1: taken breaks before, like during the pandemic, I took a
Speaker 1: break and then like I think again, in like twenty
Speaker 1: twenty two, why do I know this took a.
Speaker 4: Break and you're crackhead for nails.
Speaker 1: I was. I was looking at a video of myself
Speaker 1: the other day and I didn't I had short nails,
Speaker 1: and it wasn't like the pandemic anymore. So I was like,
Speaker 1: what was I going through? It was what was happening,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know, I think this might be
Speaker 1: my last set. I think this is my last set
Speaker 1: of gel nails, and I'm moving into press ons and
Speaker 1: natural natural nails.
Speaker 4: We need to order the press ons now, because this
Speaker 4: is what happens. I say this, and then my nails
Speaker 4: break and look crazy, and then I'm like, I don't
Speaker 4: have I don't have time to go like order press ons.
Speaker 4: I need to get these done today or else I'm
Speaker 4: gonna be walking around like this.
Speaker 1: If you're listening to this this episode and you know
Speaker 1: the best press on nails in the game, send it
Speaker 1: to us.
Speaker 4: Dm US, Please email dm us please. If you are
Speaker 4: the nail press on nail like Queen Bitch, send over.
Speaker 4: Send them over, okay, because I and then it could
Speaker 4: be like a bonding opportunity because the kids love the
Speaker 4: press ons and we used to love them back in
Speaker 4: the day too. When we were kids. So I'm like,
Speaker 4: they have better.
Speaker 1: Nail I mean, I know the press ons can't be
Speaker 1: great for your nails either, but they're not causing cancer.
Speaker 1: They're just ripping the top layer of your nail off, which.
Speaker 3: Which we're doing anyway.
Speaker 4: We're doing that day and then eventually we can use
Speaker 4: like some nail teak or whatever that stuff that makes
Speaker 4: your nails strong.
Speaker 1: And then what are you gonna do about your toes?
Speaker 4: I don't know. I just thought about that was but
Speaker 4: to ask you that, Like, I used to really like
Speaker 4: doing nail art, but they're probably so weak now because
Speaker 4: I've been putting jail polish on them for years. And
Speaker 4: then I tried to get I tried to get irregular
Speaker 4: polish at fucking with Hannah, and she's like, oh no, no,
Speaker 4: it's not gonna last.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, it's not It's not true.
Speaker 3: She lied because she lied to me.
Speaker 1: She's definitely lying because the only reason I ever started
Speaker 1: getting gel on my toes was because we were going
Speaker 1: to Costa Rica for extended amounts of time. Before that,
Speaker 1: I never ever, ever ever got gel on my toes
Speaker 1: because it wouldn't chip. It just I knew my toes
Speaker 1: would last last and I should have just continued because
Speaker 1: I couldn't.
Speaker 5: They would have probably lasted in Costa Rica. It's a
Speaker 5: little more.
Speaker 1: You know, you're out there in the sand and stuff.
Speaker 1: But I don't. We don't. We don't need to be
Speaker 1: getting gel on our toes, like truly, we don't. It's
Speaker 1: a man, It says a lie. The nail shops are corrupt.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I think I'm done. I'm over it.
Speaker 4: I just I really like nail art. But if I
Speaker 4: can get it with a press on and I can
Speaker 4: just keep a little thing a glue in my purse,
Speaker 4: if one pops off, fucking.
Speaker 1: And you can change, you can have fucking new nail
Speaker 1: art like better than any and you have to sit
Speaker 1: for fucking three hours putting a goddamn strawberry on your nail.
Speaker 4: I'm so sick of sitting in that fucking chair. I'm
Speaker 4: sick of getting my hair braided. I'm still getting my
Speaker 4: nails done, like I just want to be bald and
Speaker 4: bald and just I tried to not shave for like
Speaker 4: three weeks, but I gave in yesterday and I shaved
Speaker 4: because it's not working.
Speaker 3: But this is like this is all the programming of womanhood.
Speaker 4: Your hair has to be done, your nails have to
Speaker 4: be done, you have to shave, blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: Such a bullshit.
Speaker 4: I don't want to do anything as one exists like
Speaker 4: the beautiful queen that I am, So then do it? Uh?
Speaker 3: I hated my armpits the whole time.
Speaker 5: So did you shave them yet? Are they still hairy
Speaker 5: right now?
Speaker 4: I shaved them yesterday because I was going to someone's house.
Speaker 4: I went to I went to some when somebody's house,
Speaker 4: and I was like, I'm not going to do this
Speaker 4: in the daylight, even though I did at your house.
Speaker 4: Those are my friends.
Speaker 1: So whose friends were these that couldn't see your curly
Speaker 1: armpit hairs?
Speaker 4: I mean, it didn't really matter. Does does it ever
Speaker 4: matter who it is? But I realized that I'm insecure
Speaker 4: and I can't do my full dance moves, and so
Speaker 4: I just said fuck it and then land.
Speaker 1: You know I think that like, first of all, my
Speaker 1: armpit hair doesn't grow cute and like it's it's not
Speaker 1: like a thin little cute like No, they're curly, and
Speaker 1: they're aggressive and they're black as hal like like like
Speaker 1: darker than my normal hair color like aggressively black, aggressively curly,
Speaker 1: and I just don't. I'm not into it. I thought
Speaker 1: I could be in it. I tried it for a while.
Speaker 1: Kudos to those who do. In my opinion, it does.
Speaker 1: It does. It's gonna trap smell more than I already
Speaker 1: don't wordy ota, so like, I just I can't. I
Speaker 1: have to pick my battles around, Like how natural I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be?
Speaker 4: Like I told Landa, I didn't feel confident, and he's like,
Speaker 4: you're not a real witch. I was like, fuck you,
Speaker 4: what the fuck is it? I don't have to be
Speaker 4: a hairy witch with the hell.
Speaker 1: First of all, he doesn't get to decide what a
Speaker 1: real witch is as a man.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, Warlock in your Warlock lane.
Speaker 4: First he was like, yeah, do it. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 4: care do it. And then I was like, I don't
Speaker 4: feel secure. He's like you then you started making friend
Speaker 4: of my insecurities. I was like, this is not the
Speaker 4: point of this. He's like, you gotta be confident, and
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm not so Harry, I I back,
Speaker 4: it's square when but.
Speaker 1: The program natural? I recently I started making my own deodorant.
Speaker 3: Actually, what's in it?
Speaker 1: Coconut oil, baking soda. I didn't have any Some people
Speaker 1: put cornstarch or arrowroot in it, but I didn't have
Speaker 1: any of that, so I just stuck with those two
Speaker 1: ingredients and then I put a little bit of essential
Speaker 1: oils and I went to the gym ash worked.
Speaker 4: I have radience.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna try it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you can make it yourself.
Speaker 1: And I just put it in the fridge and they
Speaker 1: just scrape a little bit and just rub it on.
Speaker 3: And does it solidify like a deodorant.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could put it in like a like a thing,
Speaker 1: but but I'm afraid it might melt. It's very like
Speaker 1: heat sensitive, so it might just like melt into water.
Speaker 1: You probably to keep it in the fridge. But I
Speaker 1: haven't worn deodorant in probably like three months, and it's
Speaker 1: been rough, you know, especially like when my cycle is
Speaker 1: about to approach, it's like it gets a little funky.
Speaker 4: But well, God, God bless your man's heart, God bless him.
Speaker 4: He does.
Speaker 5: He says I don't smell. Iri says I smell really bad.
Speaker 4: So he's a lie.
Speaker 1: I don't know who to believe.
Speaker 4: I can kids don't. Kids don't lie. Kids don't lie
Speaker 4: though not. He says, I didn't smell, but I she
Speaker 4: just a hater whatever.
Speaker 5: She's mad because she's funky too, so she to be quiet.
Speaker 4: You know, I'm grateful Luna hasn't come into her funk
Speaker 4: like she's she's like slowly going through puberty. But I
Speaker 4: don't think how long is puberty? Like do we need
Speaker 4: to google this? I didn't ask chatchbt, like is it
Speaker 4: a two year period?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 3: How long does it take you to go through it?
Speaker 4: Because like I see lunas like sprouting in ways, but
Speaker 4: like she doesn't stink like you know, I still see.
Speaker 5: Is puberty like end when you start your period? Is
Speaker 5: that like that?
Speaker 4: Is that? Is that like the like I we're in
Speaker 4: it where it's puberty, you've gone through it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know Iri, Actually she went through a really
Speaker 1: funky phase and now she's not that funky anymore. Like
Speaker 1: so it was like hormones. Like the beginning of her
Speaker 1: entry in was really aggressive. I was said, what the
Speaker 1: fuck is going on here? And now it's kind of calmed.
Speaker 1: It's calmed down. But she's also into my national deodoran
Speaker 1: she puts some mom this morning before she went to school.
Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, I know we've talked about this.
Speaker 4: We've been We've been if anyone's been listening to this
Speaker 4: podcast for as long as it's been, going on seven
Speaker 4: and a half years, almost eight. We go through a
Speaker 4: lot of phases, and I feel like we've talked about
Speaker 4: this before about like we're being natural, we're going all
Speaker 4: the way natural, and I guess it's just like a
Speaker 4: it's a journey because sometimes I forget to buy the
Speaker 4: natural geoduran and now I'm back with the fucking aluminum
Speaker 4: and I need to go back to the non toxic
Speaker 4: shit because everything is literally trying to poison us, and
Speaker 4: I'm just like, we have to fight against it or
Speaker 4: else we're just gonna speed up our doomsday.
Speaker 1: It's true.
Speaker 4: No Joel polish, no toxic foods, no deonderant. You know.
Speaker 6: Ever since my last nanny that I had, she was
Speaker 6: really non toxic, and she like shamed me and my
Speaker 6: household for having all these toxic ingredients even though it
Speaker 6: didn't work.
Speaker 3: Out with her.
Speaker 4: Every time I think about the nanny, I just can't
Speaker 4: stop thinking about the Bible and her trying to know it.
Speaker 1: Didn't work out because she thinks I'm a devil worshiper
Speaker 1: and that I need Jesus and that my altars are terrifying.
Speaker 1: She did leave me with something. She left me with
Speaker 1: this very clear, Like I I'm very much more aware
Speaker 1: of all the toxic ingredients. Like I will never put
Speaker 1: another piece of plastic in the microwave and heat up
Speaker 1: my food. All of my tup awar is now glass.
Speaker 1: Yeah pass like yeah like even like like I'm trying
Speaker 1: my best, but a lot of like even like the
Speaker 1: like the my creamer and my coffee, like the xanthem gums,
Speaker 1: like all that stuff I'm really trying to do away
Speaker 1: with because like, yes, America is poisoning us, but we're
Speaker 1: also poisoning ourselves because we actually have We have the
Speaker 1: wherewithal to educate ourselves and know what things are actually
Speaker 1: bad in our food, but we choose to just do
Speaker 1: the easy.
Speaker 5: Thing as I fuck it, I like it. I like this.
Speaker 1: I like the xanthem gum in my fucking silk, the
Speaker 1: milk because it makes it hold together and it's not lottery. Well, bitch,
Speaker 1: then keep drinking it and see what happens.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I'm trying to get on the train of a
Speaker 1: non toxic lifestyle. I'm proud of myself. I'm like nineteen
Speaker 1: percent better, not quite twenty nineteen, Okay, I mean because
Speaker 1: because like the household products I'm trying, I need to
Speaker 1: like go throughout my house. I just I literally just
Speaker 1: bought non toxic today. I bought non toxic dish soap.
Speaker 1: I bought non toxic laundry detergent that I've read online,
Speaker 1: this brand called Mollie or something, Mollie's SuDS or something
Speaker 1: like that. And yeah, like all my like everything I
Speaker 1: washed my body with. So there's things happening slowly. The
Speaker 1: most important thing though, is the food. Like, yes, I
Speaker 1: can wash my dishes with non toxic soap, is that
Speaker 1: going to not cause cancer? No, it's probably the eggs
Speaker 1: I'm eating, or the juices that I'm eating, or the
Speaker 1: milk I'm putting in my coffee or the meat like
Speaker 1: you know, So one day at a time.
Speaker 3: But yeah, slow, slow progress.
Speaker 4: But it's there's also all of the poly threads that
Speaker 4: we're getting from Amazon and fucking what's the other cheap one,
Speaker 4: you know where we get all the bathing suit sheet
Speaker 4: and she and I think about my yeah, and I
Speaker 4: think about my womb, and then I want to have
Speaker 4: another baby.
Speaker 1: And well that's another thing that I did see. I've
Speaker 1: been doing stuff behind your back, but I'm gonna tell
Speaker 1: you and put you on game right now.
Speaker 4: Oh not behind my back.
Speaker 1: The panties. So if you're wearing pannies, like it's really
Speaker 1: important that you buy like one hundred percent cotton panties
Speaker 1: and you're not.
Speaker 4: Oh, I'm wearing a hundred percent silk.
Speaker 3: Okay, these are from Amazon.
Speaker 4: Hoo.
Speaker 1: I hope Amazon is not lying to us, but yeah,
Speaker 1: like one hundred percent cotton panties, maybe that helps text
Speaker 1: your pussy from the polyester that you're wearing. Wear like
Speaker 1: the workout pants that are filled the polyester, because I
Speaker 1: did try to find like non polyestered workout pants. I
Speaker 1: even went that far because I'm like, I'm sweating and
Speaker 1: all this shit is just soaking into my body.
Speaker 5: But they're expensive, Like it's expensive?
Speaker 4: Are they still stretchy? Like what is that?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 1: Tech? The technologies have TECHNOLOGI and they have like good options.
Speaker 1: It's just they're either expensive but they're ugly.
Speaker 4: And then also like there was something else that I wanted. Oh,
Speaker 4: my other big plan is for Black Friday. I'm going
Speaker 4: to get all new pots. I went non toxic, nonstick
Speaker 4: pots and pants and like utensils for the house. The
Speaker 4: fact that I have to wait till Black Friday to
Speaker 4: afford non non toxic pots is like and for the
Speaker 4: whole family underwear, like not just you, the baby needs
Speaker 4: non toxic underwear, the husband and pants, like I need
Speaker 4: your balls because I need the sperm, like everything needs
Speaker 4: to it's.
Speaker 5: Expensive and these type of things.
Speaker 4: Yeah, those things too.
Speaker 1: I was using this to fucking fill the holes in
Speaker 1: my kitchen because the ants are creeping through every hole.
Speaker 1: Are you having ant problem? Okay, I'm having a severe tiny.
Speaker 4: Little tiny I've seen those little ones.
Speaker 1: Tiny little fuckers that are coming through the hole. So
Speaker 1: I'm like using grout. Sorry, this is why this looks
Speaker 1: like this. But when I was like, I don't need
Speaker 1: to use this shit anymore. This is fucking silicone and plastic.
Speaker 1: I'm putting all microplastics in my food.
Speaker 5: Get rid of these.
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna throwing shit away and then I'm not
Speaker 4: have to buy new shit. That's the thing. I need
Speaker 4: to start throwing it away. And even the hair, the
Speaker 4: cacakalon or whatever. The hair is fucking everything fat sleigh sleigh.
Speaker 1: See that's another product that I bought. Damn, I'm actually
Speaker 1: you know what, maybe I'm gonna bumping.
Speaker 4: Up to their.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I bought this other hair my sleigh. I think
Speaker 1: it's called and.
Speaker 4: It did the hair, the nail. The hair lady like it.
Speaker 1: No, they always hate it because it's real, like your
Speaker 1: hair lady's gonna tell you it's bullshit. But then I
Speaker 1: put it in my hair and it was fine. Okay,
Speaker 1: it was just fucking fine. It's just not what they're
Speaker 1: used to, like sliding their fucking hands across microplastics all day,
Speaker 1: which also is not good for them.
Speaker 4: Did it take hair a long time longer to do
Speaker 4: your hair with it?
Speaker 1: No? No. The only thing is, like the color choices
Speaker 1: are limited, and like with my hair being red and
Speaker 1: like I want I want one. I'm actually like that's
Speaker 1: a transition out of red. But with my hair being red,
Speaker 1: it was hard to find colors that I like matched.
Speaker 1: But there's there's other hair. Blood again more expensive than cackline.
Speaker 3: Hair, you know, a lot more expensive.
Speaker 1: I mean those those packs of hair like six dollars,
Speaker 1: you know, like this one's probably like fifteen.
Speaker 5: It's like double. But it's worth it.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 5: I got this other.
Speaker 1: Hair called what the fuck is it? Shit called?
Speaker 5: It was like they were really trying it.
Speaker 1: They're like it's Japanese cakline. I'm like, what the fuck
Speaker 1: is Japanese cakline? And also they just they they pre
Speaker 1: wash it so they do an apple cider vinegar rints
Speaker 1: on the hair. But I don't really it's still it's
Speaker 1: still to it's still microplastics. Like so what I don't
Speaker 1: I don't really get it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is the year we've We've let go of microplastics,
Speaker 4: we let grow of gel nails, we let go of
Speaker 4: poly blends that caused to like goopier this groupier you
Speaker 4: going good boop. We're black goop. Goddamn going goop. I'm
Speaker 4: going got bitch and goop. And you know what the
Speaker 4: thing about goop is, it's like it's natural and it's
Speaker 4: still trendy and it's still like it's still like luxury.
Speaker 4: It's not like the natural words has to be all
Speaker 4: crunching and ugly and like, I'm going goop. You're right
Speaker 4: when you're going natural, but also high class.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm I'm high class group black. I'm boop black Okay.
Speaker 4: Are you goop? No, I'm I'm boop boop. Okay. That's
Speaker 4: that's our new that's our new band. And nobody steal it.
Speaker 4: It's it's we kind of stole it, but it doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: It's boop now, bitches black now, and.
Speaker 5: You know and and we and that's what we said.
Speaker 4: We like boop boo. Who what's the actress who does goop?
Speaker 4: Gwyneth Paltrow, Watch Out, Bitch the boop was coming back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was watching this other podcast this this girl
Speaker 1: name's Amdi What the fuck is her name? Mom INNDY
Speaker 1: She interviewed Gwyneth Paltrow last week and it was a
Speaker 1: really good interview. She was holding her ass to the
Speaker 1: fire okay about goop and was just like was she saying?
Speaker 1: She was just basically saying, like, are you in on
Speaker 1: the joke? Because you know, people make fun of Gwen
Speaker 1: Paltrow for like being so goofy and like all of oh,
Speaker 1: like eating insects and all of her weird shit and
Speaker 1: her biohacking, but she's been on this ship for like
Speaker 1: years and years, like when she was doing like the
Speaker 1: macrobiotic diet, like the first celebrity talking about that that
Speaker 1: was like probably like fifteen years ago, and like just
Speaker 1: doing all these like very expensive things that only her,
Speaker 1: a person like her could afford this level of health
Speaker 1: and and like and like just being very I guess,
Speaker 1: unrelatable in ways. People start kind of hate her but
Speaker 1: kind of love her, like the rich whites love her,
Speaker 1: the medium lights hater and so you know, and so
Speaker 1: the and this podcast she's a black woman. She was
Speaker 1: just like, are you in on the joke? Like you know,
Speaker 1: like people think like you're like like gimmicky, Like is
Speaker 1: this really your lifestyle? And she's like, no, it really
Speaker 1: is my lifestyle. And she's like so like she had
Speaker 1: like something on her website that was like three thousand
Speaker 1: dollars or like for something stupid, and she's like, well,
Speaker 1: that's my demographic, Like those are my My demographic is
Speaker 1: that rich woman who will who will.
Speaker 5: Spend that amount of money?
Speaker 4: And I don't know.
Speaker 1: The podcaster was just like really asking her all the
Speaker 1: questions that everybody else would be dying would probably be
Speaker 1: afraid to ask. It was good, but I still like,
Speaker 1: I I admired one of Paltrow. I think that she's
Speaker 1: done a really amazing job of carving out the lane,
Speaker 1: and she's never has to do a fucking movie again
Speaker 1: if she doesn't want to.
Speaker 5: I don't even remember the last Gwyneth Paltrow movie I
Speaker 5: saw that she was in.
Speaker 1: Was it like in the nineties, Like, oh, really, so
Speaker 1: Gwyneth Paltrow is not the one who did ten twelve
Speaker 1: Perfect Strangers. No, that's Nicole Kidman.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, got I get my white's mixed up?
Speaker 1: Sorry, guys, Yeah, that's a different way. Gwyneth Paltrow doesn't
Speaker 1: have a bunch of like Nicole Kidman's face is a
Speaker 1: little scary. Gwyneth Paltrow. I don't think she's done anything.
Speaker 1: She's been gooping. She's been gooping her face.
Speaker 4: Away, biohacking, biohacking.
Speaker 5: Red lighting and all types of shit.
Speaker 4: I kind of I want to I want to rewatch
Speaker 4: Love Sex and Goop because I need to revisit that
Speaker 4: because I did enjoy it. It was good.
Speaker 3: It was good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you guys haven't watched it was on Netflix.
Speaker 4: It was Love, Sex and Goop and they like went
Speaker 4: on like a deep dive into tantra into like all
Speaker 4: these different like a metaphysical like you know those things
Speaker 4: that we like Witchy Family, Constellation and things like that.
Speaker 3: Actually really good and I want to revisit it.
Speaker 1: M yeah, it was good.
Speaker 4: I was going to tell you something else.
Speaker 3: What was it?
Speaker 4: Oh, totally unrelated, But did you watch Love Island reunion?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 1: You know? I tried, you know, I tried to watch it,
Speaker 1: but then it wasn't. I realized this later. It's not
Speaker 1: on Netflix.
Speaker 4: It's on It's not it's on Oh yeah, it's on Hulu.
Speaker 1: It's on Hulu. It was on It was like, it
Speaker 1: wasn't Love Island on Netflix, like like the actual show,
Speaker 1: but then the reunion was on a different platform.
Speaker 4: Really no, no, they had all been the same platform, right,
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was confused because I could have sworn I started
Speaker 1: watching Love Island on Netflix, and then I tried to
Speaker 1: find the reunion and it wasn't on Netflix, and so
Speaker 1: I just gave up because I wasn't gonna retype it
Speaker 1: in my fucking thing again.
Speaker 5: And also I.
Speaker 1: Only invested my like two and a half hours of
Speaker 1: my life too, so I didn't I don't feel like
Speaker 1: I'm caught up to speed. And then I started reading
Speaker 1: comments of people that were like, I can't believe that
Speaker 1: I spent thirty eight hours investing in these teenagers. They're
Speaker 1: all stupid, and I'm like, ye are.
Speaker 5: I'm like, you guys been they were always dumb.
Speaker 1: Like, but the reunion I think really like highlighted how
Speaker 1: childish they are. It's what it seems like. I don't
Speaker 1: really know because I didn't watch it, but you did,
Speaker 1: so tell me what happened, what's going on?
Speaker 4: Watched it? I'm not even sure if I watched it
Speaker 4: in entirety, but yeah, I mean halfway through, I was like,
Speaker 4: there are teenagers, I know, like, do we really all
Speaker 4: expect these relationships to last? Because they're twelve and I
Speaker 4: had just seen some It's interesting. I've just seen like
Speaker 4: some of the aftermath, I mean of like the relationships.
Speaker 4: Huda was like, I can't talk about my current relationship
Speaker 4: because it's under contract. She's about to be on another
Speaker 4: dating show obviously, and then on that's on Netflix. Yeah, No,
Speaker 4: Love Island was on Hulu because she says that she
Speaker 4: can't talk about her current relationship because Netflix won't allow
Speaker 4: her because she's obviously about to be on a TV
Speaker 4: show that's on Netflix.
Speaker 1: The dating show for sure, for sure.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and she's like obviously trying to drop a promo
Speaker 4: and then what else there.
Speaker 3: It's just fucking stupid.
Speaker 4: I saw recently that Ace told people that Nicolandria isn't real,
Speaker 4: like there's no romantic spark of what you duh. Like,
Speaker 4: I could see that the money exactly, and if you
Speaker 4: guys are friends, shut the fuck up the think get
Speaker 4: their money.
Speaker 3: But I also saw this was interesting to me.
Speaker 4: I saw her on a show recently with him Alandria
Speaker 4: with Nick talking about people were really rooting for her
Speaker 4: because you know, the cowboy guy Taylor had like played
Speaker 4: her a little bit and was trying to get into her,
Speaker 4: but like couldn't because he wasn't attracted to her. But
Speaker 4: then when the next bitch came, who was like super
Speaker 4: fair skinned, and like then he was all into her.
Speaker 4: They're making it like a colorless thing, and like she
Speaker 4: was saying that everybody in America really liked how Nick
Speaker 4: was loving on her out loud because he's a fair
Speaker 4: skinned guy and she's a dark skinned woman and I'm like,
Speaker 4: by fairy mean white and they're just making there you know,
Speaker 4: it was just interesting. They're making it so political and
Speaker 4: it's like, you guys it's Love fucking Island, and I
Speaker 4: get it. I get I was actually really surprised when
Speaker 4: I frusht watched it. The first two women that showed
Speaker 4: up for her and Shelley, and they're dark skin, beautiful
Speaker 4: black women, and like generally on these shows there's like
Speaker 4: a sprinkle of black people in general, and there's very
Speaker 4: rarely like two chocolate women, and so I was pleasantly
Speaker 4: surprised to see that when we first started, and they
Speaker 4: were just saying, like, you know, there made it like
Speaker 4: very about why they blew up a lot Nick and
Speaker 4: a Landria and the black women were happy and know
Speaker 4: the people were happy to see her be loved on,
Speaker 4: and they were making it very deep, and I was
Speaker 4: just like, I wish that it wasn't Love Island that
Speaker 4: was like prompting society to have deep, important conversations, because
Speaker 4: it's just very immature and like there's so much other
Speaker 4: things going on in the world, but I just feel like.
Speaker 1: This conversation has been had. I just like not that
Speaker 1: it's not an important conversation. Like listen, I understand my
Speaker 1: privilege as a light skin black woman, Okay, like I'm not.
Speaker 1: I don't want to piss anybody off. But I just
Speaker 1: feel like this conversation has been had racism, like colorism exists,
Speaker 1: Like these are things that have happened over and over
Speaker 1: and over and over again. It's just a different format,
Speaker 1: a different show, a different day of the year, time
Speaker 1: of the year, like different people, different Like it's just
Speaker 1: I don't know why anyone is surprised that the two
Speaker 1: dark skinned black women were coined as the angry black women.
Speaker 1: That's what always fucking happens. I don't think it's their
Speaker 1: surprised that the dark skinned guy, like the light skin
Speaker 1: guy that should always fucking happens, like white white man.
Speaker 4: Like they were trying to write it about Taylor, and
Speaker 4: I feel like maybe he just they just weren't like vibing,
Speaker 4: like maybe there was a chemistry. I don't think Taylor's
Speaker 4: a bad guy. I don't think he was, Like I
Speaker 4: don't know Taylor personally. I don't know if he was
Speaker 4: like feeding into this coloristanism. But coloristism I just made
Speaker 4: that up. But like I just I think like sometimes yes,
Speaker 4: it's colorism, and a lot of times it's that, especially
Speaker 4: wh they're trying to make them be angry or whatever,
Speaker 4: calling them aggressive which was not true, but to bring
Speaker 4: him into it, I was just like, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I was just like, what if he just wasn't Yeah,
Speaker 5: what if it just wasn't his type?
Speaker 1: What if?
Speaker 5: Like could that possibly be? Could that possibly be?
Speaker 1: Could it not be because he only likes light skin
Speaker 1: black girls? Like this is the old Like this is
Speaker 1: such like a small little microcosm of what it's like
Speaker 1: to date these people, like you don't know who if
Speaker 1: Taylor historically has dated dark skinned black women. It's just
Speaker 1: like this is this experience. These the options he had,
Speaker 1: you know, And I'm not here to defend Taylor. I
Speaker 1: don't know the nigga at all, except that it's kind
Speaker 1: of fly though. I was looking at his Instagram and I.
Speaker 4: Liked I liked him at first sketch up.
Speaker 1: He was like Rent walking Gucci the runway.
Speaker 4: How you're doing a thing? That was before he was
Speaker 4: on the show. Yes, Oh I didn't.
Speaker 1: Already had he already had like a career as like
Speaker 1: a black cowboy.
Speaker 3: Yeah no, that's why they kicked.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they picked people that had like most of these
Speaker 1: most of these people already had an audience, like Ace
Speaker 1: already had a following, like you know, but I will
Speaker 1: say even with the Nick and the Orlandria and the
Speaker 1: Ace reveal that they're not really into each other, I
Speaker 1: also don't believe anything that I see. You don't think
Speaker 1: that Ace and Nick had a conversation. Was like, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: so you say that and make it seem like we're
Speaker 1: they're trying to prolong their minute of fame, Like I
Speaker 1: would do the same thing. Okay, well you don't prolong
Speaker 1: it by saying it's not real. You don't say like, oh,
Speaker 1: they don't really don't really into each other, because then
Speaker 1: Orlandria and Nick are can stand ten toes down and
Speaker 1: their relationship and prove everybody wrong. And like they can
Speaker 1: they both can just keep going with this momentum that
Speaker 1: they need to keep going because what are they going
Speaker 1: to do next?
Speaker 5: I mean not to say that they can't.
Speaker 1: I actually think that like Ace is like a talented
Speaker 1: and probably has a career in TV, and he's already
Speaker 1: had a career in TV. It was like heading towards somewhere.
Speaker 1: But I just feel like these these these younger like
Speaker 1: reality stars are not stupid, like they've learned they've watched
Speaker 1: how reality television people. I've had their moment and it's
Speaker 1: gone quickly, and it would be stupid if you didn't
Speaker 1: study that and realize how to keep the momentum going.
Speaker 4: You know, well, Amaya and her boyfriend have already broken up,
Speaker 4: so apparently they're not studying it well enough. But I
Speaker 4: already knew, like I love them.
Speaker 2: I knew that.
Speaker 5: I knew, I knew, I knew that wasn't going to work.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what happened with them, but I
Speaker 1: looked at them, and I said, she don't really like her,
Speaker 1: and I think.
Speaker 4: He did like her. I think they're all just fucking twelve.
Speaker 4: But now they are famous, and they got all these options,
Speaker 4: and now they're fucking distracted. This was the stupidest, fucking
Speaker 4: eight weeks of my life that I wasted investing in
Speaker 4: these twelve couples. I mean, it's not a.
Speaker 1: Real couple, they're just I'm glad. I'm glad that I've
Speaker 1: retained at least twenty four thousand brilliant cells that I can.
Speaker 4: I didn't watch it all.
Speaker 1: I don't watch it all, but I can waste my
Speaker 1: brain cells and something else like cannabis and drugs versus
Speaker 1: love isolence.
Speaker 4: I'm actually preserving I can't watch the l T TV
Speaker 4: because I'm preserved it brain cells for partying and getting wasted.
Speaker 1: For Coachella twenty twenty six, I must preserve medrainzas just
Speaker 1: in case I go. I might not go because I'm
Speaker 1: actually over thirty five now, However, if I do go,
Speaker 1: then I must preserve these twenty four thousand brain cells,
Speaker 1: So I cannot watch the season finale.
Speaker 3: Sorry.
Speaker 4: I can't watch all the episodes because I have other
Speaker 4: party plans this weekend, and if I want to do both,
Speaker 4: then I gotta just do one.
Speaker 1: I'll be astually brain dead if I do both.
Speaker 4: Okay, another one and another thing in the media, Speaking
Speaker 4: of being brain dead, did you see Brittany Rennerd and
Speaker 4: her mom fighting her baby daddy on the pickup? I
Speaker 4: was like, Oh, that's your mom. Oh, it's cool, right.
Speaker 4: It was just like they were Yeah, the mom apparently
Speaker 4: beat up No, the mom apparently beat up the wife
Speaker 4: what Yeah, And she wrote about it on her Instagram
Speaker 4: like I beat that bitch em. I was like, where
Speaker 4: are they from? There's all they make whites like that
Speaker 4: in this particular place, so I needed let me. I
Speaker 4: wonder if if you but her.
Speaker 5: Baby dad, he's already married. I have questions he got married.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that baby's like three, I think, or two or three,
Speaker 4: the baby.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying they birthed the baby, they were together.
Speaker 1: He must have fucked around and found a wife the
Speaker 1: next year and got married.
Speaker 5: That's quick term around.
Speaker 3: These new niggas. They move fast.
Speaker 4: When you're rich and you're young and you got money,
Speaker 4: the hoes come flocking and you get wives pretty quickly.
Speaker 4: It's not like a hard thing.
Speaker 3: Trust me.
Speaker 4: If we were a little bit younger and groupies, we
Speaker 4: could probably.
Speaker 3: I don't know if it will work for us.
Speaker 1: I mean all I saw was the baby was crying
Speaker 1: because he was leaving with the dad, And you know,
Speaker 1: I get it, like as a mom, like that's a
Speaker 1: that's hard for you to watch.
Speaker 5: I've experienced that, and.
Speaker 1: You know, you don't want your child to have like
Speaker 1: a traumatic experience going with the parent, even though like
Speaker 1: more times than not, once they get in the car,
Speaker 1: they chill out and they're perfectly fine because kids are dramatic,
Speaker 1: but like, and you know, I don't know his relationship
Speaker 1: with his child and if he's around, I mean, according
Speaker 1: to Britney's Curse, out he's.
Speaker 3: Not, she's from my story. Okay, but yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean putting it on the internet. I don't really
Speaker 1: know what the purpose of that is besides you know,
Speaker 1: us being able to comment it comments on this podcaster.
Speaker 1: I mean, and now everyone knows your business, and so like,
Speaker 1: now what do we do with this?
Speaker 4: Like okay, but recording a pickup and then your mom
Speaker 4: cursing out the baby daddy as he's putting in the
Speaker 4: car and provoking and then cursing.
Speaker 1: You both look crazy, like you're causing a lot of
Speaker 1: trauma to this child on both sides.
Speaker 4: Like why would you fight? Like why would you even
Speaker 4: do all that in front of a three year old
Speaker 4: that's already obviously upset, Like that doesn't make a lot
Speaker 4: of sense to me, Like, you know, he has to go,
Speaker 4: that's his other half of the family's and it does.
Speaker 4: It comes off it comes off bitter, you know, like
Speaker 4: because he does have a wife, because he didn't marry you,
Speaker 4: because and I don't care what anybody says.
Speaker 3: I don't care what anybody says.
Speaker 4: And this is this is from a very like sexually
Speaker 4: liberated woman when the whole world and everybody in society
Speaker 4: and everybody in your personal life, and people have consistently
Speaker 4: consistently called you a hoe and said this about you.
Speaker 4: You're a groupie. You're a groupie. And then you think
Speaker 4: you found your person and you have a baby for them,
Speaker 4: and then it doesn't work out, and people are continuously
Speaker 4: calling you a groupie, and then they go and meet
Speaker 4: somebody else and marry them.
Speaker 3: I'm sure that shit hurts.
Speaker 4: Every woman wants to be loved and valued, even the
Speaker 4: most promiscuous, even the most sexually liberated. Like we all
Speaker 4: want to be kept and be valued and be loved correctly,
Speaker 4: and so like that, like that not like that title and.
Speaker 3: That that stigma.
Speaker 4: You know, it hurts.
Speaker 3: I'm sure it stings.
Speaker 4: And I'm sure that comes with like you know, he's
Speaker 4: picking her, picking the baby up with this bitch and
Speaker 4: all these other things. But like, for the love of God,
Speaker 4: get your ghetto ass mom back in the house, because
Speaker 4: your ghetto mom talking about I would suck y'o dick
Speaker 4: if you had one, Like, bitch, if you don't sit
Speaker 4: the fuck down and go in the house, let me
Speaker 4: handle my business. And what she said, yes, and then
Speaker 4: told the baby mama, he ain't shit, that's why you
Speaker 4: got a so and so to my money in your
Speaker 4: bank account and the baby only has eleven thousand dollars
Speaker 4: in his bank account because you ain't shit. And then
Speaker 4: then the woman pops off. The wife pops off, like
Speaker 4: who the fuck are you talking to?
Speaker 1: Bitch?
Speaker 3: Because I could she.
Speaker 4: Wasn't saying shit, and then she snapped and then apparently
Speaker 4: her and the mama got into a fight. But it's like,
Speaker 4: if your grown ass mom doesn't know how to act,
Speaker 4: she don't need to be at to drop off.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean both of this looks really bad for
Speaker 1: both parties in court if they if it goes to court.
Speaker 1: I mean, now you now you have evidence of your
Speaker 1: mom acting crazy, Brittany, and now you look like your
Speaker 1: household is unstable, even if that's not the case. And
Speaker 1: for some reason, you felt like posting this on the
Speaker 1: internet because this is your phone, so like why would
Speaker 1: you pose this because it doesn't look good for you?
Speaker 1: Like why unless you're planning, unless you're planning something else,
Speaker 1: Because we all know Brittany is a very calculated woman,
Speaker 1: and I don't really think that she does anything for
Speaker 1: just anything, you know, like there's always something behind whatever
Speaker 1: she's doing.
Speaker 4: So I thought maybe she was collecting the evidence so
Speaker 4: she could say he's always crying when he goes with them,
Speaker 4: which is a very difficult thing to prove that something's
Speaker 4: like wrong just because the baby's crying. But it's just
Speaker 4: you're a product of your environment. And if that's your.
Speaker 5: Mom, and then she should have cut she should have
Speaker 5: cut the camera there.
Speaker 1: Then she should have cut it there, not your mom
Speaker 1: talk about sucking dicks and shit like no, yeah, I
Speaker 1: saw that unfortunate mess on the internet.
Speaker 3: I did guess, Yeah, it's unfortunate.
Speaker 4: And I just I thought we should comment on it
Speaker 4: as the as the podcast Baby Mama's, I thought that
Speaker 4: it was you know, I thought, oh, this doesn't.
Speaker 3: Look very good.
Speaker 4: And as a baby mom, as as someone who has
Speaker 4: to do you know, has done child drop offs and pickups,
Speaker 4: I was just like, this is not going to Brittany.
Speaker 1: Just write the book like all of us. Okay, we
Speaker 1: don't need to do videos. Just write a book. Start
Speaker 1: talking on the podcast. We don't need to see it.
Speaker 4: And apparently she talked about her mom not being a
Speaker 4: very good mom on Basketball Wives. I might need to
Speaker 4: look at Basketball Wives, that's what, you know. What I
Speaker 4: don't I wasted my time watching Leven, watching Love Island
Speaker 4: because it's not my age range. I'd rather look at
Speaker 4: my age range. Ghetto shit. At least these bitches are
Speaker 4: old and actually getto I don't want to look at
Speaker 4: these twenty six year olds and they're fucking love their love.
Speaker 4: That's not gonna last five minutes. I'm just gonna move
Speaker 4: to the old bitches.
Speaker 1: No, no channel is it on Mila, No, No.
Speaker 4: I want to see. I want to see if she
Speaker 4: talked about her relationship with Kevin on their Their marriage
Speaker 4: cares are now.
Speaker 5: They're both fucking nuts nuts.
Speaker 4: So tell me what if she if she tells anything
Speaker 4: about their relationship.
Speaker 1: We have we have other battles to fight, like microplastics. Okay, bitch,
Speaker 1: I need you to go and put the phones in
Speaker 1: the back, and I need you to go throw away
Speaker 1: your panties. I don't need you to go fucking look at.
Speaker 4: Kevin GiB a hundred percent silk from Amazon.
Speaker 3: These are from one of our shoots.
Speaker 4: Oh, I know, it's just sometimes I want to get
Speaker 4: away and I want to get in away with other
Speaker 4: people's mess, and it's hers right now. She's the most entertaining. First,
Speaker 4: she was Muslim. Then she was married. Now her mom's
Speaker 4: fighting bitches online, Like I'm interested. Fuck, it's entertaining. Can
Speaker 4: you blame me?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 4: I me googling where are they from? Because I need
Speaker 4: to know where this white mom talking this way is from?
Speaker 4: Ocean Springs, Missouri. Makes sense, lovely, they only make whites
Speaker 4: like that in certain places, real hood places Missouri, Kansas, Detroit, Philly, Baltimore,
Speaker 4: Deep Deep South Florida's Louisiana's Florida. I didn't see the
Speaker 4: mom one time, but I guarantee you she had a
Speaker 4: hoop earrings, and she probably had like a bob or
Speaker 4: like an asymmetrical or something.
Speaker 1: Bob for sure.
Speaker 4: She had on a name plate and nameplate like gold
Speaker 4: necklace and.
Speaker 5: A little shaved in the back situation.
Speaker 4: M I was like, where is her white mom from?
Speaker 4: I didn't see her mom?
Speaker 3: This is what I need to see.
Speaker 4: I don't what do we do without the Internet. I
Speaker 4: know everything I need to know just from one Google.
Speaker 4: I want to know, Oh my god, am I going
Speaker 4: to hell? Or is this just where we're at?
Speaker 5: They want us to go to hell?
Speaker 4: What do you mean they're doing?
Speaker 5: They're killing it now. I got to look up her mom.
Speaker 4: Me too. I'm trying to wait. Yeah, she doesn't have
Speaker 4: the asymmetrical not at she'd breeze.
Speaker 1: That's who.
Speaker 5: I don't see her mom any Oh, no, this is
Speaker 5: her mom.
Speaker 1: No, that's her aunt. Is that her mom blonde? Was
Speaker 1: she blonde?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I found her.
Speaker 1: Listen, that's the one I saw that was old though
Speaker 1: she might have had the asymmetrical out.
Speaker 4: I know we're facts. At one point in history. Her
Speaker 4: mom had hoop earrings and a bob Okay period anything
Speaker 4: anything else important in the news that we need to
Speaker 4: talk about.
Speaker 1: I think that covers it. I think that's I think
Speaker 1: I want to preserve the rest of my twenty four
Speaker 1: thousand brain cells, So I think that's it.
Speaker 3: Okay, Because do you.
Speaker 5: Have an affirmation for today?
Speaker 4: My dear fuck I had one recently. Did I write
Speaker 4: it down and never write shit down? To annoying? Hmmmm?
Speaker 4: This is not it? Mm, preserve your why do we think?
Speaker 4: Why do you think we have twenty four thousand brain cells?
Speaker 4: Are you just making that number up or is that
Speaker 4: specific to something?
Speaker 5: I just right it up right now.
Speaker 4: Because now I want to google how many brain cells
Speaker 4: do we have? Should be something about being holistic and
Speaker 4: eco friendly. I'm really grateful for the people listening that
Speaker 4: can come and hang out and listen to our nonsense
Speaker 4: and hopefully laugh a little and take the edge off,
Speaker 4: and also remind them to stop using non toxic, non
Speaker 4: toxic things, I mean toxic things and replace their items.
Speaker 3: I'd like to think this is a podcast of.
Speaker 1: Balance only toxic bitches use toxic household items and now
Speaker 1: be toxic only talks about toxic things.
Speaker 3: Don't be toxic, just talk about toxic things and people.
Speaker 4: Oh, we have a hundred billion neurons actually maybe more
Speaker 4: of like an eighty six billion, so we so apparently
Speaker 4: we have a few to we have a few to spare.
Speaker 1: Okay, well that's that just depends how many I've already
Speaker 1: lost from all of my treacherous years of debauchery, that's true,
Speaker 1: which started at a young age, so like, I don't
Speaker 1: even know if I got the full development of all
Speaker 1: of them.
Speaker 4: Well. I also, fun fact I've read recently too, is
Speaker 4: that like thirty six is the age where our bodies
Speaker 4: stop like bouncing back as quickly.
Speaker 3: So yeah, if you're in.
Speaker 4: The thirty six, thirty seven, thirty eight range, and you
Speaker 4: were previously indulging in a lot of debauchery.
Speaker 3: This is the age where you have to.
Speaker 4: Not maybe stop the debauchery, but also level up with
Speaker 4: anti debauchery. You have to find balance in it or
Speaker 4: else your bodies won't recover as much. And this is
Speaker 4: where your necks start looking old. And we all know
Speaker 4: how we feel about old necks. So just you know,
Speaker 4: a friendly reminder that if you're going to indulge in
Speaker 4: you're older over thirty five, that you might not bounce back.
Speaker 4: And so this is the time to consider is the
Speaker 4: debauchery really necessary? And if you go into Coachella, you
Speaker 4: got to really plan for it.
Speaker 1: Oh you know what, I have a quote that came
Speaker 1: up in our last Zoom call with our.
Speaker 5: Retreat ladies.
Speaker 1: Shout out to the Good Vibe retreat ladies, the group
Speaker 1: seventeen and eighteen, I miss you after our retreats.
Speaker 5: We always have a follow up call if you follow
Speaker 5: up calls with.
Speaker 1: Our ladies, and Rosina gave us a really good quote
Speaker 1: and I think it kind of goes hand in hand
Speaker 1: with what we were talking at the top of the episode,
Speaker 1: which was just like surrender to the mess. So today's
Speaker 1: quote is surrender to the mess without sacrificing your twenty
Speaker 1: four thousand brain cells eighty four billion nods.
Speaker 4: Surrender to the mess, Surrender to the men.
Speaker 3: Life is messy.
Speaker 4: Everything is not going to be squeaky clean, including your house,
Speaker 4: because it is lived in and so don't expect it
Speaker 4: to be. We are all human, we are human ing.
Speaker 4: We're trying to survive, We're trying to figure it the
Speaker 4: fuck out. We're trying to be happy, which is a choice,
Speaker 4: and just choose happiness and surrender every day to not battling,
Speaker 4: not fighting. The little shit just exists.
Speaker 1: Amen. Well, y'all, thank you for joining us on another
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Speaker 3: We didn't do a tarot reading.
Speaker 1: I don't have a card in front of me, do you?
Speaker 3: I will, I can one moment.
Speaker 4: Oh, and we got a nine of Pentacles, nine.
Speaker 1: Of Pentacles, nine of penticle.
Speaker 5: Let's see what the cards.
Speaker 4: Look at the shuffle.
Speaker 3: This was the shuffle.
Speaker 1: Wow, chaos, surrender to the mess. Nine of Pentacles is abundance, luxury,
Speaker 1: self sufficiency, financial independence. You have worked hard to create
Speaker 1: abundance in your life, and the nine of Pentacles says
Speaker 1: now you can finally enjoy the fruits of your labor.
Speaker 1: Thanks to your independent efforts, self confidence, and discipline, you
Speaker 1: attained a well deserved success and created a stable foundation
Speaker 1: for your material wealth and comfort. When the nine of
Speaker 1: Pentacles appears in a tarot reading, do not be scared
Speaker 1: to splurge, indulge, or pamper yourself, especially as a reward
Speaker 1: for all your hard work. Treat yourself to a special
Speaker 1: occasion or a personal gift to celebrate your journey. Here,
Speaker 1: the nine of Pinnacles also speaks of financial independence. The
Speaker 1: woman in this card has created a luxurious lifestyle by
Speaker 1: her own actions and efforts. She encourages you to do
Speaker 1: the same. While a suit of pentacles typically focuses on
Speaker 1: material wealth and gain, this card also suggests that you
Speaker 1: are in harmony with the environment around you. You appreciate
Speaker 1: the beauty and abundance found in nature, and you can
Speaker 1: harness this high vibe energy to bring pleasure into your life.
Speaker 5: You may enjoy.
Speaker 1: Gardening or flooristry, or may just like to pass your
Speaker 1: time in the beauty of nature with picnics or walks
Speaker 1: in the park. Go outside, bitch. You made it week
Speaker 1: two three one of motherhood. We're in quarter four of
Speaker 1: the twenty twenty fives. You've made it the last part
Speaker 1: of the year. Enjoy the fruits of your labor and.
Speaker 5: If the fruits feel.
Speaker 1: Scarce, go to nature because it's abundant there.
Speaker 3: Plant to seed and the day will come.
Speaker 4: Everything will come and do time. Yes, thank you for listening,
Speaker 4: Thank you for supporting two moms that you know, just
Speaker 4: trying to make shit happen. Earne every day here, Love you,
Speaker 4: bab plea.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm living so good. Can't you tell? I went
Speaker 2: through a drought. That's until I found out well maym
Speaker 2: have been known Earth? I used to be broken tail,
Speaker 2: now got the.
Speaker 7: Blues in to like Beyonce Jasell throat shot or pop
Speaker 7: in his cow wearing our voices.
Speaker 2: Patriarchy kept it in the box to exploit it.
Speaker 7: Women put the pee and powers, so it's pointless. They
Speaker 7: want me to be good, so I make bad choices.
Speaker 7: Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom.
Speaker 7: It he's in on for cannabis in their bathbon walked
Speaker 7: in Boston's cap and I blew his cat balls.
Speaker 2: Hot dog. Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie
Speaker 2: in No waisted straight to it like a dollar sign. Mother,
Speaker 2: rent the lover when too.
Speaker 7: It is like a water sign where you're rent the
Speaker 7: winter essential will when the summertime.
Speaker 2: I do it all ain't know when that needs a
Speaker 2: running B.