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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife,

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Speaker 1: and she couldn't.

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Speaker 2: She cleaned and cared for her children and the man

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Speaker 2: of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.

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Speaker 1: She was both obedient and soft by nature.

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Speaker 2: She was a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 3: We're good mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 4: Two single mom who said, but the patriarchy shared all

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Speaker 4: their bad choices and.

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Speaker 5: Sound out they were so bad after all, we're experts.

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Speaker 4: Overshares and your new besties.

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Speaker 5: Sit back and enjoy the ride.

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Speaker 2: I can do it.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 4: Welcome back to good Mom's bad Choices.

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Speaker 1: I'm me and I'm Erica.

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Speaker 4: And it's Wednesday, bitches, it's Wednesday.

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Speaker 3: It's September.

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Speaker 4: It's almost fall, and we're still here. We're still kicking.

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Speaker 5: We're still here.

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Speaker 1: We couldn't be and Mila, have we have You might

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Speaker 1: have not seen us in the studio in a while.

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Speaker 5: Don't worry, we'll be there soon.

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Speaker 1: It's just we're fighting for our lives, motherhood because school

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Speaker 1: has started, and this is what this is what happens

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Speaker 1: when you know. I just want to encourage the mom's

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Speaker 1: come stop trying to fit a circle into a square.

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Speaker 1: Just give up a little bit, you know, giving up?

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Speaker 3: What are we giving up?

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Speaker 1: You know, like just go get the Chick fil a,

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Speaker 1: you know, just don't. You don't have to cook dinner

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Speaker 1: all week because it's week one or week three of

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Speaker 1: fucking like schooling. Like it's okay, you are good, mom,

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Speaker 1: and you don't have to prove it, Like we're done.

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Speaker 1: I'm done proving it. I've done. I've done trying to

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Speaker 1: like drive one hour to the studio when I know

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Speaker 1: my day is jam packed because I need to prove

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Speaker 1: that I am a business owner and I'm a podcaster

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Speaker 1: and I'm just no bitch. You're tired, So sit your

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Speaker 1: ass in your house, get on the zoom and record

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Speaker 1: the goddamn episode. I'm just in a season of make

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Speaker 1: your life easier. Stop trying to make it so fucking hard.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, why it's the point of making it

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Speaker 4: hard when it could just be easy. And like Lauren

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Speaker 4: Lauren Hill said, it's just don't, yeah, don't make things

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Speaker 3: And I think that also applies to.

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Speaker 4: Like your inner thoughts, Like sometimes your thoughts will come

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Speaker 4: and ruin your fuck up your day. And it's just

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Speaker 4: like you have to say, no, I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 4: I'm not going down that route. I'm not entertaining the

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Speaker 4: things that are going to overwhelm me and piss me off.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go this other route, which is.

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Speaker 4: La la la la la la la. I'm doing just fine.

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Speaker 4: I'm breathing, and I think we all kind of forget that.

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Speaker 4: If you're breathing, if you woke up this morning, you

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Speaker 4: have roof over your head, if you got some food,

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Speaker 4: what's really wrong with you? What's wrong other than that?

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Speaker 4: These are these are the core things that we need.

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Speaker 4: If you have love, you have family, you have shelter,

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Speaker 4: you have food, everything else will figure itself out. Just

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Speaker 4: just doesn't work that way. It never works that way.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm going to succumb. I'm going to just

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Speaker 3: And that's okay, I'm.

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Speaker 5: Playing the you know what.

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Speaker 1: It's like you either there's women like that, but then

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Speaker 1: and like then you lose steam and you can't maintain.

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Speaker 1: So it's like you have to pay yourself right when

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Speaker 1: a slow burn, slow I'm letting. I'm letting this This

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Speaker 1: it's just like slowburn slow burn. Also, like I said,

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Speaker 1: starting to make her own dinners. Now, she's been making

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Speaker 1: set that goddamn alarm, Like, use it for other reasons

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Speaker 1: besides roadblocks. Please. She woke her us up at five

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Speaker 1: And then she was like, mom, it's me.

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Speaker 3: And you know, I'm like.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you do you do the adult take this season.

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Speaker 1: You cook your goddamn meals, you wake yourself up for school.

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Speaker 1: This is what fifth grade is about, this is what

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Speaker 1: this season of motherhood is about. So I'm just letting

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm tired. I'm tired, but i have like a

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Speaker 4: I think it's time to bring back old school parenting,

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Speaker 4: which is like figure it out. I'm gonna show you

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Speaker 4: And so it's like, yeah, fifth grade, ten years old,

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Speaker 4: just not realistic if we're doing everything fucking for you.

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Speaker 4: And in fact, you just reminded me I'm gonna I

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Speaker 4: the same page. We all need to be doing the same.

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Speaker 1: I've also released the expectation of me and my baby

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Speaker 4: But you know what, they trick us. I think I

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Speaker 4: think they might be more independent over there because those

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Speaker 4: But I feel like at the dad's houses, they are

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Speaker 4: and they're playing us and they're getting home like what I.

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Speaker 1: No know, Well, let's see it's a little bit of that,

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Speaker 4: No, you didn't want to wake up and take her

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Speaker 1: And you know what, maybe I need a little bit

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Speaker 5: Oh you got a sniffle?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, call it a day. Baby, we're not going You

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Speaker 1: And honestly, what did I hear someone really prolific recently

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Speaker 5: Who knows, but like it's just.

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Speaker 1: Like live in your life because the world might be ending,

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Speaker 4: But what's that type of parent? What's that type of

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Speaker 5: Self learning, self guided?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like self guided, like you didn't even have to

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Speaker 3: I want to do that.

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Speaker 1: So that guy in an organ that I met when

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Speaker 1: and so they did. But I'm like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I know your brain needs to like be nourished in

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Speaker 4: So oh, it's called the war the World. It's the World,

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Speaker 4: or the Waldorf School. That's it's a Waldorf school whatever

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Speaker 4: that school is. The Waldorf School does that method where

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Speaker 4: you self learn when it's time and you really what

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Speaker 4: you need to learn how to read the cracker jack box.

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Speaker 4: But I also think that's what.

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Speaker 1: So they're going, They're we're paying the Waldorf School to

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Speaker 3: Loo key yeah, which is also like that's a scam.

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Speaker 1: That's a scam. I can do that at home.

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Speaker 4: That's true, But I also feel like it's a white privilege,

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Speaker 4: Like God forbid, a black child doesn't know how to

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Speaker 4: read it until they're ten, Like, oh my god, are

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Speaker 4: you kidding, We're gonna I'm going to jail.

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Speaker 5: That's crazy.

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Speaker 4: We're so uneducated that there's only there's only certain privileges

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Speaker 4: we have. But I mean, you can imagine before the

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Speaker 3: I'm sure that's what everybody.

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Speaker 4: Was doing, like go farm, go fucking help, and then

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Speaker 4: everything else came after. This type of school that we've

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Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah blah. You know, you know, you

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Speaker 4: know what, I really I'm proud that she's just self.

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Speaker 4: still playing. She's like I'm good. I'm like, okay, well

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Speaker 4: No, okay, well just me? Huh.

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Speaker 1: New York Post was posting about it, and they said

435
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Speaker 1: that basically it's only been tested on animals, and that

436
00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:55,640
Speaker 1: it's like linked to fertility issues, sexual health issues, and

437
00:20:55,680 --> 00:21:01,560
Speaker 1: that it's a safety precaution because in Europe it's there's

438
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Speaker 1: free health care and the government has to pay for it,

439
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 1: so they are more diligent around like stopping any sort

440
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: of like things that they're gonna have to pay for,

441
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Speaker 1: whereas in America it pays.

442
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Speaker 3: They profit, they profit, They.

443
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Speaker 1: Profit on our illness and our sickness, so they're not

444
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Speaker 1: ever going to ban certain things. And that's why like

445
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Speaker 1: a lot of countries that offer free health care, like

446
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Speaker 1: they're really diligent around making sure that whatever's causing illness

447
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:27,080
Speaker 1: or sickness is very like got we don't got time

448
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Speaker 1: for that, We're not going to pay for it. And

449
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Speaker 1: so here I am with like one broken nail. I

450
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Speaker 1: was very sad about this yesterday from my Costa Rica

451
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Speaker 1: nails that cost me thirty dollars for all this nail art,

452
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Speaker 1: and I was like, am I when you set me that?

453
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 1: I was like, maybe it's time. It's finally time. I've

454
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Speaker 1: taken breaks before, like during the pandemic, I took a

455
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Speaker 1: break and then like I think again, in like twenty

456
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Speaker 1: twenty two, why do I know this took a.

457
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Speaker 4: Break and you're crackhead for nails.

458
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Speaker 1: I was. I was looking at a video of myself

459
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Speaker 1: the other day and I didn't I had short nails,

460
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Speaker 1: and it wasn't like the pandemic anymore. So I was like,

461
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Speaker 1: what was I going through? It was what was happening,

462
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know, I think this might be

463
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Speaker 1: my last set. I think this is my last set

464
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Speaker 1: of gel nails, and I'm moving into press ons and

465
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Speaker 1: natural natural nails.

466
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Speaker 4: We need to order the press ons now, because this

467
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 4: is what happens. I say this, and then my nails

468
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Speaker 4: break and look crazy, and then I'm like, I don't

469
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Speaker 4: have I don't have time to go like order press ons.

470
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Speaker 4: I need to get these done today or else I'm

471
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Speaker 4: gonna be walking around like this.

472
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Speaker 1: If you're listening to this this episode and you know

473
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Speaker 1: the best press on nails in the game, send it

474
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Speaker 1: to us.

475
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Speaker 4: Dm US, Please email dm us please. If you are

476
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Speaker 4: the nail press on nail like Queen Bitch, send over.

477
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Speaker 4: Send them over, okay, because I and then it could

478
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Speaker 4: be like a bonding opportunity because the kids love the

479
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Speaker 4: press ons and we used to love them back in

480
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Speaker 4: the day too. When we were kids. So I'm like,

481
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Speaker 4: they have better.

482
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Speaker 1: Nail I mean, I know the press ons can't be

483
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Speaker 1: great for your nails either, but they're not causing cancer.

484
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Speaker 1: They're just ripping the top layer of your nail off, which.

485
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Speaker 3: Which we're doing anyway.

486
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Speaker 4: We're doing that day and then eventually we can use

487
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Speaker 4: like some nail teak or whatever that stuff that makes

488
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Speaker 4: your nails strong.

489
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Speaker 1: And then what are you gonna do about your toes?

490
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Speaker 4: I don't know. I just thought about that was but

491
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Speaker 4: to ask you that, Like, I used to really like

492
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Speaker 4: doing nail art, but they're probably so weak now because

493
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 4: I've been putting jail polish on them for years. And

494
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Speaker 4: then I tried to get I tried to get irregular

495
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Speaker 4: polish at fucking with Hannah, and she's like, oh no, no,

496
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Speaker 4: it's not gonna last.

497
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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, it's not It's not true.

498
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Speaker 3: She lied because she lied to me.

499
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Speaker 1: She's definitely lying because the only reason I ever started

500
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Speaker 1: getting gel on my toes was because we were going

501
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 1: to Costa Rica for extended amounts of time. Before that,

502
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Speaker 1: I never ever, ever ever got gel on my toes

503
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Speaker 1: because it wouldn't chip. It just I knew my toes

504
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Speaker 1: would last last and I should have just continued because

505
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Speaker 1: I couldn't.

506
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Speaker 5: They would have probably lasted in Costa Rica. It's a

507
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Speaker 5: little more.

508
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Speaker 1: You know, you're out there in the sand and stuff.

509
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Speaker 1: But I don't. We don't. We don't need to be

510
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Speaker 1: getting gel on our toes, like truly, we don't. It's

511
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Speaker 1: a man, It says a lie. The nail shops are corrupt.

512
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I think I'm done. I'm over it.

513
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Speaker 4: I just I really like nail art. But if I

514
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Speaker 4: can get it with a press on and I can

515
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Speaker 4: just keep a little thing a glue in my purse,

516
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Speaker 4: if one pops off, fucking.

517
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Speaker 1: And you can change, you can have fucking new nail

518
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: art like better than any and you have to sit

519
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 1: for fucking three hours putting a goddamn strawberry on your nail.

520
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Speaker 4: I'm so sick of sitting in that fucking chair. I'm

521
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Speaker 4: sick of getting my hair braided. I'm still getting my

522
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 4: nails done, like I just want to be bald and

523
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Speaker 4: bald and just I tried to not shave for like

524
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Speaker 4: three weeks, but I gave in yesterday and I shaved

525
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Speaker 4: because it's not working.

526
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Speaker 3: But this is like this is all the programming of womanhood.

527
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Speaker 4: Your hair has to be done, your nails have to

528
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,439
Speaker 4: be done, you have to shave, blah blah blah.

529
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Speaker 3: Such a bullshit.

530
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Speaker 4: I don't want to do anything as one exists like

531
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Speaker 4: the beautiful queen that I am, So then do it? Uh?

532
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Speaker 3: I hated my armpits the whole time.

533
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Speaker 5: So did you shave them yet? Are they still hairy

534
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 5: right now?

535
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Speaker 4: I shaved them yesterday because I was going to someone's house.

536
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 4: I went to I went to some when somebody's house,

537
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Speaker 4: and I was like, I'm not going to do this

538
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 4: in the daylight, even though I did at your house.

539
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Speaker 4: Those are my friends.

540
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Speaker 1: So whose friends were these that couldn't see your curly

541
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Speaker 1: armpit hairs?

542
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Speaker 4: I mean, it didn't really matter. Does does it ever

543
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Speaker 4: matter who it is? But I realized that I'm insecure

544
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,199
Speaker 4: and I can't do my full dance moves, and so

545
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 4: I just said fuck it and then land.

546
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Speaker 1: You know I think that like, first of all, my

547
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 1: armpit hair doesn't grow cute and like it's it's not

548
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Speaker 1: like a thin little cute like No, they're curly, and

549
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: they're aggressive and they're black as hal like like like

550
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Speaker 1: darker than my normal hair color like aggressively black, aggressively curly,

551
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Speaker 1: and I just don't. I'm not into it. I thought

552
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: I could be in it. I tried it for a while.

553
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Speaker 1: Kudos to those who do. In my opinion, it does.

554
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: It does. It's gonna trap smell more than I already

555
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Speaker 1: don't wordy ota, so like, I just I can't. I

556
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: have to pick my battles around, Like how natural I'm

557
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: gonna be?

558
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Speaker 4: Like I told Landa, I didn't feel confident, and he's like,

559
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Speaker 4: you're not a real witch. I was like, fuck you,

560
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Speaker 4: what the fuck is it? I don't have to be

561
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Speaker 4: a hairy witch with the hell.

562
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Speaker 1: First of all, he doesn't get to decide what a

563
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Speaker 1: real witch is as a man.

564
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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, Warlock in your Warlock lane.

565
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Speaker 4: First he was like, yeah, do it. Yeah, I don't

566
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Speaker 4: care do it. And then I was like, I don't

567
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 4: feel secure. He's like you then you started making friend

568
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,199
Speaker 4: of my insecurities. I was like, this is not the

569
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 4: point of this. He's like, you gotta be confident, and

570
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Speaker 4: I was like, I'm not so Harry, I I back,

571
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Speaker 4: it's square when but.

572
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Speaker 1: The program natural? I recently I started making my own deodorant.

573
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Speaker 3: Actually, what's in it?

574
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: Coconut oil, baking soda. I didn't have any Some people

575
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Speaker 1: put cornstarch or arrowroot in it, but I didn't have

576
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Speaker 1: any of that, so I just stuck with those two

577
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Speaker 1: ingredients and then I put a little bit of essential

578
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 1: oils and I went to the gym ash worked.

579
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Speaker 4: I have radience.

580
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna try it.

581
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, you can make it yourself.

582
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Speaker 1: And I just put it in the fridge and they

583
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: just scrape a little bit and just rub it on.

584
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Speaker 3: And does it solidify like a deodorant.

585
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could put it in like a like a thing,

586
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: but but I'm afraid it might melt. It's very like

587
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: heat sensitive, so it might just like melt into water.

588
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: You probably to keep it in the fridge. But I

589
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Speaker 1: haven't worn deodorant in probably like three months, and it's

590
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: been rough, you know, especially like when my cycle is

591
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Speaker 1: about to approach, it's like it gets a little funky.

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Speaker 4: But well, God, God bless your man's heart, God bless him.

593
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Speaker 4: He does.

594
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Speaker 5: He says I don't smell. Iri says I smell really bad.

595
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Speaker 4: So he's a lie.

596
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 1: I don't know who to believe.

597
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 4: I can kids don't. Kids don't lie. Kids don't lie

598
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 4: though not. He says, I didn't smell, but I she

599
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 4: just a hater whatever.

600
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Speaker 5: She's mad because she's funky too, so she to be quiet.

601
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Speaker 4: You know, I'm grateful Luna hasn't come into her funk

602
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 4: like she's she's like slowly going through puberty. But I

603
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 4: don't think how long is puberty? Like do we need

604
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 4: to google this? I didn't ask chatchbt, like is it

605
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 4: a two year period?

606
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Speaker 2: Like?

607
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Speaker 3: How long does it take you to go through it?

608
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Speaker 4: Because like I see lunas like sprouting in ways, but

609
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 4: like she doesn't stink like you know, I still see.

610
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Speaker 5: Is puberty like end when you start your period? Is

611
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 5: that like that?

612
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Speaker 4: Is that? Is that like the like I we're in

613
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 4: it where it's puberty, you've gone through it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know Iri, Actually she went through a really

615
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 1: funky phase and now she's not that funky anymore. Like

616
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: so it was like hormones. Like the beginning of her

617
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,719
Speaker 1: entry in was really aggressive. I was said, what the

618
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Speaker 1: fuck is going on here? And now it's kind of calmed.

619
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Speaker 1: It's calmed down. But she's also into my national deodoran

620
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 1: she puts some mom this morning before she went to school.

621
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Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, I know we've talked about this.

622
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Speaker 4: We've been We've been if anyone's been listening to this

623
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 4: podcast for as long as it's been, going on seven

624
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 4: and a half years, almost eight. We go through a

625
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 4: lot of phases, and I feel like we've talked about

626
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 4: this before about like we're being natural, we're going all

627
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Speaker 4: the way natural, and I guess it's just like a

628
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 4: it's a journey because sometimes I forget to buy the

629
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 4: natural geoduran and now I'm back with the fucking aluminum

630
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 4: and I need to go back to the non toxic

631
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,719
Speaker 4: shit because everything is literally trying to poison us, and

632
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 4: I'm just like, we have to fight against it or

633
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 4: else we're just gonna speed up our doomsday.

634
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Speaker 1: It's true.

635
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:36,719
Speaker 4: No Joel polish, no toxic foods, no deonderant. You know.

636
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Speaker 6: Ever since my last nanny that I had, she was

637
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 6: really non toxic, and she like shamed me and my

638
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 6: household for having all these toxic ingredients even though it

639
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 6: didn't work.

640
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 3: Out with her.

641
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Speaker 4: Every time I think about the nanny, I just can't

642
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 4: stop thinking about the Bible and her trying to know it.

643
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 1: Didn't work out because she thinks I'm a devil worshiper

644
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 1: and that I need Jesus and that my altars are terrifying.

645
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: She did leave me with something. She left me with

646
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: this very clear, Like I I'm very much more aware

647
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: of all the toxic ingredients. Like I will never put

648
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: another piece of plastic in the microwave and heat up

649
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: my food. All of my tup awar is now glass.

650
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: Yeah pass like yeah like even like like I'm trying

651
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Speaker 1: my best, but a lot of like even like the

652
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Speaker 1: like the my creamer and my coffee, like the xanthem gums,

653
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: like all that stuff I'm really trying to do away

654
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: with because like, yes, America is poisoning us, but we're

655
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: also poisoning ourselves because we actually have We have the

656
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: wherewithal to educate ourselves and know what things are actually

657
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: bad in our food, but we choose to just do

658
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: the easy.

659
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 5: Thing as I fuck it, I like it. I like this.

660
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 1: I like the xanthem gum in my fucking silk, the

661
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: milk because it makes it hold together and it's not lottery. Well, bitch,

662
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: then keep drinking it and see what happens.

663
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

664
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 1: So I'm trying to get on the train of a

665
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 1: non toxic lifestyle. I'm proud of myself. I'm like nineteen

666
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: percent better, not quite twenty nineteen, Okay, I mean because

667
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: because like the household products I'm trying, I need to

668
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: like go throughout my house. I just I literally just

669
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: bought non toxic today. I bought non toxic dish soap.

670
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: I bought non toxic laundry detergent that I've read online,

671
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: this brand called Mollie or something, Mollie's SuDS or something

672
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: like that. And yeah, like all my like everything I

673
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: washed my body with. So there's things happening slowly. The

674
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 1: most important thing though, is the food. Like, yes, I

675
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: can wash my dishes with non toxic soap, is that

676
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: going to not cause cancer? No, it's probably the eggs

677
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 1: I'm eating, or the juices that I'm eating, or the

678
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 1: milk I'm putting in my coffee or the meat like

679
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: you know, So one day at a time.

680
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 3: But yeah, slow, slow progress.

681
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 4: But it's there's also all of the poly threads that

682
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 4: we're getting from Amazon and fucking what's the other cheap one,

683
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 4: you know where we get all the bathing suit sheet

684
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 4: and she and I think about my yeah, and I

685
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 4: think about my womb, and then I want to have

686
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 4: another baby.

687
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: And well that's another thing that I did see. I've

688
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,479
Speaker 1: been doing stuff behind your back, but I'm gonna tell

689
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: you and put you on game right now.

690
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 4: Oh not behind my back.

691
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: The panties. So if you're wearing pannies, like it's really

692
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: important that you buy like one hundred percent cotton panties

693
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 1: and you're not.

694
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 4: Oh, I'm wearing a hundred percent silk.

695
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 3: Okay, these are from Amazon.

696
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 4: Hoo.

697
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: I hope Amazon is not lying to us, but yeah,

698
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: like one hundred percent cotton panties, maybe that helps text

699
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: your pussy from the polyester that you're wearing. Wear like

700
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: the workout pants that are filled the polyester, because I

701
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: did try to find like non polyestered workout pants. I

702
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: even went that far because I'm like, I'm sweating and

703
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 1: all this shit is just soaking into my body.

704
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 5: But they're expensive, Like it's expensive?

705
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 4: Are they still stretchy? Like what is that?

706
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 5: Like?

707
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 1: Tech? The technologies have TECHNOLOGI and they have like good options.

708
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: It's just they're either expensive but they're ugly.

709
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 4: And then also like there was something else that I wanted. Oh,

710
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 4: my other big plan is for Black Friday. I'm going

711
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 4: to get all new pots. I went non toxic, nonstick

712
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 4: pots and pants and like utensils for the house. The

713
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 4: fact that I have to wait till Black Friday to

714
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 4: afford non non toxic pots is like and for the

715
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 4: whole family underwear, like not just you, the baby needs

716
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 4: non toxic underwear, the husband and pants, like I need

717
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 4: your balls because I need the sperm, like everything needs

718
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 4: to it's.

719
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,719
Speaker 5: Expensive and these type of things.

720
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, those things too.

721
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: I was using this to fucking fill the holes in

722
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: my kitchen because the ants are creeping through every hole.

723
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: Are you having ant problem? Okay, I'm having a severe tiny.

724
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 4: Little tiny I've seen those little ones.

725
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 1: Tiny little fuckers that are coming through the hole. So

726
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: I'm like using grout. Sorry, this is why this looks

727
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: like this. But when I was like, I don't need

728
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: to use this shit anymore. This is fucking silicone and plastic.

729
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: I'm putting all microplastics in my food.

730
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:32,399
Speaker 5: Get rid of these.

731
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna throwing shit away and then I'm not

732
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:37,839
Speaker 4: have to buy new shit. That's the thing. I need

733
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 4: to start throwing it away. And even the hair, the

734
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 4: cacakalon or whatever. The hair is fucking everything fat sleigh sleigh.

735
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,760
Speaker 1: See that's another product that I bought. Damn, I'm actually

736
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: you know what, maybe I'm gonna bumping.

737
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 4: Up to their.

738
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I bought this other hair my sleigh. I think

739
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 1: it's called and.

740
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 4: It did the hair, the nail. The hair lady like it.

741
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 1: No, they always hate it because it's real, like your

742
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: hair lady's gonna tell you it's bullshit. But then I

743
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: put it in my hair and it was fine. Okay,

744
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,439
Speaker 1: it was just fucking fine. It's just not what they're

745
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:14,439
Speaker 1: used to, like sliding their fucking hands across microplastics all day,

746
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,280
Speaker 1: which also is not good for them.

747
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 4: Did it take hair a long time longer to do

748
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 4: your hair with it?

749
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: No? No. The only thing is, like the color choices

750
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: are limited, and like with my hair being red and

751
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 1: like I want I want one. I'm actually like that's

752
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: a transition out of red. But with my hair being red,

753
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,760
Speaker 1: it was hard to find colors that I like matched.

754
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: But there's there's other hair. Blood again more expensive than cackline.

755
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 3: Hair, you know, a lot more expensive.

756
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 1: I mean those those packs of hair like six dollars,

757
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: you know, like this one's probably like fifteen.

758
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:51,479
Speaker 5: It's like double. But it's worth it.

759
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: You know.

760
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:53,280
Speaker 5: I got this other.

761
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: Hair called what the fuck is it? Shit called?

762
00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 5: It was like they were really trying it.

763
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,359
Speaker 1: They're like it's Japanese cakline. I'm like, what the fuck

764
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: is Japanese cakline? And also they just they they pre

765
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,240
Speaker 1: wash it so they do an apple cider vinegar rints

766
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 1: on the hair. But I don't really it's still it's

767
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 1: still to it's still microplastics. Like so what I don't

768
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: I don't really get it.

769
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is the year we've We've let go of microplastics,

770
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 4: we let grow of gel nails, we let go of

771
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 4: poly blends that caused to like goopier this groupier you

772
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 4: going good boop. We're black goop. Goddamn going goop. I'm

773
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 4: going got bitch and goop. And you know what the

774
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 4: thing about goop is, it's like it's natural and it's

775
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:39,279
Speaker 4: still trendy and it's still like it's still like luxury.

776
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 4: It's not like the natural words has to be all

777
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:44,399
Speaker 4: crunching and ugly and like, I'm going goop. You're right

778
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 4: when you're going natural, but also high class.

779
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm I'm high class group black. I'm boop black Okay.

780
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 4: Are you goop? No, I'm I'm boop boop. Okay. That's

781
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 4: that's our new that's our new band. And nobody steal it.

782
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 4: It's it's we kind of stole it, but it doesn't matter.

783
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 4: It's boop now, bitches black now, and.

784
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 5: You know and and we and that's what we said.

785
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 4: We like boop boo. Who what's the actress who does goop?

786
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 4: Gwyneth Paltrow, Watch Out, Bitch the boop was coming back.

787
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was watching this other podcast this this girl

788
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: name's Amdi What the fuck is her name? Mom INNDY

789
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: She interviewed Gwyneth Paltrow last week and it was a

790
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: really good interview. She was holding her ass to the

791
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: fire okay about goop and was just like was she saying?

792
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: She was just basically saying, like, are you in on

793
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: the joke? Because you know, people make fun of Gwen

794
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 1: Paltrow for like being so goofy and like all of oh,

795
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: like eating insects and all of her weird shit and

796
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 1: her biohacking, but she's been on this ship for like

797
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: years and years, like when she was doing like the

798
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: macrobiotic diet, like the first celebrity talking about that that

799
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: was like probably like fifteen years ago, and like just

800
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 1: doing all these like very expensive things that only her,

801
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: a person like her could afford this level of health

802
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 1: and and like and like just being very I guess,

803
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: unrelatable in ways. People start kind of hate her but

804
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:12,879
Speaker 1: kind of love her, like the rich whites love her,

805
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 1: the medium lights hater and so you know, and so

806
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: the and this podcast she's a black woman. She was

807
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: just like, are you in on the joke? Like you know,

808
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: like people think like you're like like gimmicky, Like is

809
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 1: this really your lifestyle? And she's like, no, it really

810
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: is my lifestyle. And she's like so like she had

811
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: like something on her website that was like three thousand

812
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: dollars or like for something stupid, and she's like, well,

813
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: that's my demographic, Like those are my My demographic is

814
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 1: that rich woman who will who will.

815
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 5: Spend that amount of money?

816
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 4: And I don't know.

817
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 1: The podcaster was just like really asking her all the

818
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 1: questions that everybody else would be dying would probably be

819
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: afraid to ask. It was good, but I still like,

820
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: I I admired one of Paltrow. I think that she's

821
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: done a really amazing job of carving out the lane,

822
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: and she's never has to do a fucking movie again

823
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 1: if she doesn't want to.

824
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 5: I don't even remember the last Gwyneth Paltrow movie I

825
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 5: saw that she was in.

826
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 1: Was it like in the nineties, Like, oh, really, so

827
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: Gwyneth Paltrow is not the one who did ten twelve

828
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 1: Perfect Strangers. No, that's Nicole Kidman.

829
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 4: Oh okay, got I get my white's mixed up?

830
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 1: Sorry, guys, Yeah, that's a different way. Gwyneth Paltrow doesn't

831
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 1: have a bunch of like Nicole Kidman's face is a

832
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: little scary. Gwyneth Paltrow. I don't think she's done anything.

833
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 1: She's been gooping. She's been gooping her face.

834
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 4: Away, biohacking, biohacking.

835
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 5: Red lighting and all types of shit.

836
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:37,240
Speaker 4: I kind of I want to I want to rewatch

837
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 4: Love Sex and Goop because I need to revisit that

838
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,240
Speaker 4: because I did enjoy it. It was good.

839
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 3: It was good.

840
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you guys haven't watched it was on Netflix.

841
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 4: It was Love, Sex and Goop and they like went

842
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 4: on like a deep dive into tantra into like all

843
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 4: these different like a metaphysical like you know those things

844
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 4: that we like Witchy Family, Constellation and things like that.

845
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 3: Actually really good and I want to revisit it.

846
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:03,959
Speaker 1: M yeah, it was good.

847
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 4: I was going to tell you something else.

848
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 3: What was it?

849
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 4: Oh, totally unrelated, But did you watch Love Island reunion?

850
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 7: You know?

851
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: You know? I tried, you know, I tried to watch it,

852
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 1: but then it wasn't. I realized this later. It's not

853
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: on Netflix.

854
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 4: It's on It's not it's on Oh yeah, it's on Hulu.

855
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 1: It's on Hulu. It was on It was like, it

856
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 1: wasn't Love Island on Netflix, like like the actual show,

857
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 1: but then the reunion was on a different platform.

858
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,399
Speaker 4: Really no, no, they had all been the same platform, right,

859
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 4: I don't know.

860
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 1: I was confused because I could have sworn I started

861
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 1: watching Love Island on Netflix, and then I tried to

862
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: find the reunion and it wasn't on Netflix, and so

863
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 1: I just gave up because I wasn't gonna retype it

864
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:54,279
Speaker 1: in my fucking thing again.

865
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 5: And also I.

866
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 1: Only invested my like two and a half hours of

867
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: my life too, so I didn't I don't feel like

868
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 1: I'm caught up to speed. And then I started reading

869
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: comments of people that were like, I can't believe that

870
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: I spent thirty eight hours investing in these teenagers. They're

871
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: all stupid, and I'm like, ye are.

872
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 5: I'm like, you guys been they were always dumb.

873
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: Like, but the reunion I think really like highlighted how

874
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: childish they are. It's what it seems like. I don't

875
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,359
Speaker 1: really know because I didn't watch it, but you did,

876
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: so tell me what happened, what's going on?

877
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 4: Watched it? I'm not even sure if I watched it

878
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 4: in entirety, but yeah, I mean halfway through, I was like,

879
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 4: there are teenagers, I know, like, do we really all

880
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 4: expect these relationships to last? Because they're twelve and I

881
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 4: had just seen some It's interesting. I've just seen like

882
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 4: some of the aftermath, I mean of like the relationships.

883
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 4: Huda was like, I can't talk about my current relationship

884
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 4: because it's under contract. She's about to be on another

885
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 4: dating show obviously, and then on that's on Netflix. Yeah, No,

886
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 4: Love Island was on Hulu because she says that she

887
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 4: can't talk about her current relationship because Netflix won't allow

888
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 4: her because she's obviously about to be on a TV

889
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 4: show that's on Netflix.

890
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 1: The dating show for sure, for sure.

891
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, and she's like obviously trying to drop a promo

892
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 4: and then what else there.

893
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 3: It's just fucking stupid.

894
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 4: I saw recently that Ace told people that Nicolandria isn't real,

895
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 4: like there's no romantic spark of what you duh. Like,

896
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 4: I could see that the money exactly, and if you

897
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 4: guys are friends, shut the fuck up the think get

898
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:26,919
Speaker 4: their money.

899
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 3: But I also saw this was interesting to me.

900
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 4: I saw her on a show recently with him Alandria

901
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 4: with Nick talking about people were really rooting for her

902
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 4: because you know, the cowboy guy Taylor had like played

903
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 4: her a little bit and was trying to get into her,

904
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 4: but like couldn't because he wasn't attracted to her. But

905
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 4: then when the next bitch came, who was like super

906
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 4: fair skinned, and like then he was all into her.

907
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 4: They're making it like a colorless thing, and like she

908
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:55,479
Speaker 4: was saying that everybody in America really liked how Nick

909
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 4: was loving on her out loud because he's a fair

910
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 4: skinned guy and she's a dark skinned woman and I'm like,

911
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 4: by fairy mean white and they're just making there you know,

912
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 4: it was just interesting. They're making it so political and

913
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 4: it's like, you guys it's Love fucking Island, and I

914
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 4: get it. I get I was actually really surprised when

915
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 4: I frusht watched it. The first two women that showed

916
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 4: up for her and Shelley, and they're dark skin, beautiful

917
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 4: black women, and like generally on these shows there's like

918
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 4: a sprinkle of black people in general, and there's very

919
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 4: rarely like two chocolate women, and so I was pleasantly

920
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 4: surprised to see that when we first started, and they

921
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 4: were just saying, like, you know, there made it like

922
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 4: very about why they blew up a lot Nick and

923
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 4: a Landria and the black women were happy and know

924
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 4: the people were happy to see her be loved on,

925
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 4: and they were making it very deep, and I was

926
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 4: just like, I wish that it wasn't Love Island that

927
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 4: was like prompting society to have deep, important conversations, because

928
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 4: it's just very immature and like there's so much other

929
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 4: things going on in the world, but I just feel like.

930
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: This conversation has been had. I just like not that

931
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 1: it's not an important conversation. Like listen, I understand my

932
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 1: privilege as a light skin black woman, Okay, like I'm not.

933
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to piss anybody off. But I just

934
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 1: feel like this conversation has been had racism, like colorism exists,

935
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 1: Like these are things that have happened over and over

936
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 1: and over and over again. It's just a different format,

937
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:16,479
Speaker 1: a different show, a different day of the year, time

938
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 1: of the year, like different people, different Like it's just

939
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: I don't know why anyone is surprised that the two

940
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 1: dark skinned black women were coined as the angry black women.

941
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: That's what always fucking happens. I don't think it's their

942
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 1: surprised that the dark skinned guy, like the light skin

943
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:35,839
Speaker 1: guy that should always fucking happens, like white white man.

944
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 4: Like they were trying to write it about Taylor, and

945
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 4: I feel like maybe he just they just weren't like vibing,

946
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 4: like maybe there was a chemistry. I don't think Taylor's

947
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 4: a bad guy. I don't think he was, Like I

948
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 4: don't know Taylor personally. I don't know if he was

949
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 4: like feeding into this coloristanism. But coloristism I just made

950
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,839
Speaker 4: that up. But like I just I think like sometimes yes,

951
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 4: it's colorism, and a lot of times it's that, especially

952
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 4: wh they're trying to make them be angry or whatever,

953
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 4: calling them aggressive which was not true, but to bring

954
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 4: him into it, I was just like, I don't know.

955
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 5: I was just like, what if he just wasn't Yeah,

956
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 5: what if it just wasn't his type?

957
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 1: What if?

958
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 5: Like could that possibly be? Could that possibly be?

959
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:12,799
Speaker 1: Could it not be because he only likes light skin

960
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 1: black girls? Like this is the old Like this is

961
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: such like a small little microcosm of what it's like

962
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: to date these people, like you don't know who if

963
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 1: Taylor historically has dated dark skinned black women. It's just

964
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,760
Speaker 1: like this is this experience. These the options he had,

965
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: you know, And I'm not here to defend Taylor. I

966
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 1: don't know the nigga at all, except that it's kind

967
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:32,239
Speaker 1: of fly though. I was looking at his Instagram and I.

968
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 4: Liked I liked him at first sketch up.

969
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 1: He was like Rent walking Gucci the runway.

970
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 4: How you're doing a thing? That was before he was

971
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:44,760
Speaker 4: on the show. Yes, Oh I didn't.

972
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: Already had he already had like a career as like

973
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: a black cowboy.

974
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 3: Yeah no, that's why they kicked.

975
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:52,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, they picked people that had like most of these

976
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,439
Speaker 1: most of these people already had an audience, like Ace

977
00:45:55,520 --> 00:46:00,839
Speaker 1: already had a following, like you know, but I will

978
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 1: say even with the Nick and the Orlandria and the

979
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: Ace reveal that they're not really into each other, I

980
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: also don't believe anything that I see. You don't think

981
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: that Ace and Nick had a conversation. Was like, okay, yeah,

982
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 1: so you say that and make it seem like we're

983
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 1: they're trying to prolong their minute of fame, Like I

984
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 1: would do the same thing. Okay, well you don't prolong

985
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: it by saying it's not real. You don't say like, oh,

986
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,359
Speaker 1: they don't really don't really into each other, because then

987
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: Orlandria and Nick are can stand ten toes down and

988
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: their relationship and prove everybody wrong. And like they can

989
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 1: they both can just keep going with this momentum that

990
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 1: they need to keep going because what are they going

991
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 1: to do next?

992
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 5: I mean not to say that they can't.

993
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 1: I actually think that like Ace is like a talented

994
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: and probably has a career in TV, and he's already

995
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: had a career in TV. It was like heading towards somewhere.

996
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 1: But I just feel like these these these younger like

997
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:56,440
Speaker 1: reality stars are not stupid, like they've learned they've watched

998
00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:01,399
Speaker 1: how reality television people. I've had their moment and it's

999
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: gone quickly, and it would be stupid if you didn't

1000
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: study that and realize how to keep the momentum going.

1001
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 4: You know, well, Amaya and her boyfriend have already broken up,

1002
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 4: so apparently they're not studying it well enough. But I

1003
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 4: already knew, like I love them.

1004
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:14,800
Speaker 2: I knew that.

1005
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 5: I knew, I knew, I knew that wasn't going to work.

1006
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:18,719
Speaker 1: I don't even know what happened with them, but I

1007
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:21,399
Speaker 1: looked at them, and I said, she don't really like her,

1008
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: and I think.

1009
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 4: He did like her. I think they're all just fucking twelve.

1010
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 4: But now they are famous, and they got all these options,

1011
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 4: and now they're fucking distracted. This was the stupidest, fucking

1012
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 4: eight weeks of my life that I wasted investing in

1013
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 4: these twelve couples. I mean, it's not a.

1014
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 1: Real couple, they're just I'm glad. I'm glad that I've

1015
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: retained at least twenty four thousand brilliant cells that I can.

1016
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 4: I didn't watch it all.

1017
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: I don't watch it all, but I can waste my

1018
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:53,280
Speaker 1: brain cells and something else like cannabis and drugs versus

1019
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:54,280
Speaker 1: love isolence.

1020
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 4: I'm actually preserving I can't watch the l T TV

1021
00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:00,840
Speaker 4: because I'm preserved it brain cells for partying and getting wasted.

1022
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: For Coachella twenty twenty six, I must preserve medrainzas just

1023
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:07,799
Speaker 1: in case I go. I might not go because I'm

1024
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:10,879
Speaker 1: actually over thirty five now, However, if I do go,

1025
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: then I must preserve these twenty four thousand brain cells,

1026
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 1: So I cannot watch the season finale.

1027
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 3: Sorry.

1028
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 4: I can't watch all the episodes because I have other

1029
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 4: party plans this weekend, and if I want to do both,

1030
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 4: then I gotta just do one.

1031
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 1: I'll be astually brain dead if I do both.

1032
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 4: Okay, another one and another thing in the media, Speaking

1033
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 4: of being brain dead, did you see Brittany Rennerd and

1034
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 4: her mom fighting her baby daddy on the pickup? I

1035
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 4: was like, Oh, that's your mom. Oh, it's cool, right.

1036
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 4: It was just like they were Yeah, the mom apparently

1037
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 4: beat up No, the mom apparently beat up the wife

1038
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 4: what Yeah, And she wrote about it on her Instagram

1039
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 4: like I beat that bitch em. I was like, where

1040
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 4: are they from? There's all they make whites like that

1041
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 4: in this particular place, so I needed let me. I

1042
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 4: wonder if if you but her.

1043
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:06,320
Speaker 5: Baby dad, he's already married. I have questions he got married.

1044
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, that baby's like three, I think, or two or three,

1045
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 4: the baby.

1046
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 1: But I'm saying they birthed the baby, they were together.

1047
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: He must have fucked around and found a wife the

1048
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 1: next year and got married.

1049
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 5: That's quick term around.

1050
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 3: These new niggas. They move fast.

1051
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 4: When you're rich and you're young and you got money,

1052
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 4: the hoes come flocking and you get wives pretty quickly.

1053
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 4: It's not like a hard thing.

1054
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 3: Trust me.

1055
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 4: If we were a little bit younger and groupies, we

1056
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:29,720
Speaker 4: could probably.

1057
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 3: I don't know if it will work for us.

1058
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 1: I mean all I saw was the baby was crying

1059
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 1: because he was leaving with the dad, And you know,

1060
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: I get it, like as a mom, like that's a

1061
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 1: that's hard for you to watch.

1062
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:41,360
Speaker 5: I've experienced that, and.

1063
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: You know, you don't want your child to have like

1064
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 1: a traumatic experience going with the parent, even though like

1065
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: more times than not, once they get in the car,

1066
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 1: they chill out and they're perfectly fine because kids are dramatic,

1067
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 1: but like, and you know, I don't know his relationship

1068
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 1: with his child and if he's around, I mean, according

1069
00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,240
Speaker 1: to Britney's Curse, out he's.

1070
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 3: Not, she's from my story. Okay, but yeah.

1071
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 1: I mean putting it on the internet. I don't really

1072
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: know what the purpose of that is besides you know,

1073
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: us being able to comment it comments on this podcaster.

1074
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: I mean, and now everyone knows your business, and so like,

1075
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 1: now what do we do with this?

1076
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 4: Like okay, but recording a pickup and then your mom

1077
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 4: cursing out the baby daddy as he's putting in the

1078
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 4: car and provoking and then cursing.

1079
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 1: You both look crazy, like you're causing a lot of

1080
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: trauma to this child on both sides.

1081
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 4: Like why would you fight? Like why would you even

1082
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 4: do all that in front of a three year old

1083
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 4: that's already obviously upset, Like that doesn't make a lot

1084
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 4: of sense to me, Like, you know, he has to go,

1085
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 4: that's his other half of the family's and it does.

1086
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 4: It comes off it comes off bitter, you know, like

1087
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 4: because he does have a wife, because he didn't marry you,

1088
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 4: because and I don't care what anybody says.

1089
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:51,839
Speaker 3: I don't care what anybody says.

1090
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:55,760
Speaker 4: And this is this is from a very like sexually

1091
00:50:55,800 --> 00:51:01,280
Speaker 4: liberated woman when the whole world and everybody in society

1092
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 4: and everybody in your personal life, and people have consistently

1093
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 4: consistently called you a hoe and said this about you.

1094
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 4: You're a groupie. You're a groupie. And then you think

1095
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 4: you found your person and you have a baby for them,

1096
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 4: and then it doesn't work out, and people are continuously

1097
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 4: calling you a groupie, and then they go and meet

1098
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 4: somebody else and marry them.

1099
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:18,280
Speaker 3: I'm sure that shit hurts.

1100
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 4: Every woman wants to be loved and valued, even the

1101
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 4: most promiscuous, even the most sexually liberated. Like we all

1102
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:28,240
Speaker 4: want to be kept and be valued and be loved correctly,

1103
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 4: and so like that, like that not like that title and.

1104
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 3: That that stigma.

1105
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:34,280
Speaker 4: You know, it hurts.

1106
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:35,280
Speaker 3: I'm sure it stings.

1107
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 4: And I'm sure that comes with like you know, he's

1108
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 4: picking her, picking the baby up with this bitch and

1109
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 4: all these other things. But like, for the love of God,

1110
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 4: get your ghetto ass mom back in the house, because

1111
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 4: your ghetto mom talking about I would suck y'o dick

1112
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 4: if you had one, Like, bitch, if you don't sit

1113
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 4: the fuck down and go in the house, let me

1114
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 4: handle my business. And what she said, yes, and then

1115
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 4: told the baby mama, he ain't shit, that's why you

1116
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 4: got a so and so to my money in your

1117
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:05,439
Speaker 4: bank account and the baby only has eleven thousand dollars

1118
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 4: in his bank account because you ain't shit. And then

1119
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 4: then the woman pops off. The wife pops off, like

1120
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 4: who the fuck are you talking to?

1121
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 1: Bitch?

1122
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 3: Because I could she.

1123
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 4: Wasn't saying shit, and then she snapped and then apparently

1124
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 4: her and the mama got into a fight. But it's like,

1125
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 4: if your grown ass mom doesn't know how to act,

1126
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 4: she don't need to be at to drop off.

1127
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean both of this looks really bad for

1128
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 1: both parties in court if they if it goes to court.

1129
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,439
Speaker 1: I mean, now you now you have evidence of your

1130
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:34,439
Speaker 1: mom acting crazy, Brittany, and now you look like your

1131
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: household is unstable, even if that's not the case. And

1132
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: for some reason, you felt like posting this on the

1133
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:42,800
Speaker 1: internet because this is your phone, so like why would

1134
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 1: you pose this because it doesn't look good for you?

1135
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:52,400
Speaker 1: Like why unless you're planning, unless you're planning something else,

1136
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 1: Because we all know Brittany is a very calculated woman,

1137
00:52:56,280 --> 00:53:00,360
Speaker 1: and I don't really think that she does anything for

1138
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 1: just anything, you know, like there's always something behind whatever

1139
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: she's doing.

1140
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 4: So I thought maybe she was collecting the evidence so

1141
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 4: she could say he's always crying when he goes with them,

1142
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 4: which is a very difficult thing to prove that something's

1143
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 4: like wrong just because the baby's crying. But it's just

1144
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 4: you're a product of your environment. And if that's your.

1145
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 5: Mom, and then she should have cut she should have

1146
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 5: cut the camera there.

1147
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,479
Speaker 1: Then she should have cut it there, not your mom

1148
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:31,440
Speaker 1: talk about sucking dicks and shit like no, yeah, I

1149
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 1: saw that unfortunate mess on the internet.

1150
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 3: I did guess, Yeah, it's unfortunate.

1151
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 4: And I just I thought we should comment on it

1152
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 4: as the as the podcast Baby Mama's, I thought that

1153
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 4: it was you know, I thought, oh, this doesn't.

1154
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:46,439
Speaker 3: Look very good.

1155
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 4: And as a baby mom, as as someone who has

1156
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 4: to do you know, has done child drop offs and pickups,

1157
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,280
Speaker 4: I was just like, this is not going to Brittany.

1158
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: Just write the book like all of us. Okay, we

1159
00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 1: don't need to do videos. Just write a book. Start

1160
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 1: talking on the podcast. We don't need to see it.

1161
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 4: And apparently she talked about her mom not being a

1162
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 4: very good mom on Basketball Wives. I might need to

1163
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 4: look at Basketball Wives, that's what, you know. What I

1164
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 4: don't I wasted my time watching Leven, watching Love Island

1165
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 4: because it's not my age range. I'd rather look at

1166
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 4: my age range. Ghetto shit. At least these bitches are

1167
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 4: old and actually getto I don't want to look at

1168
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 4: these twenty six year olds and they're fucking love their love.

1169
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 4: That's not gonna last five minutes. I'm just gonna move

1170
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 4: to the old bitches.

1171
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:31,240
Speaker 1: No, no channel is it on Mila, No, No.

1172
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 4: I want to see. I want to see if she

1173
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 4: talked about her relationship with Kevin on their Their marriage

1174
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 4: cares are now.

1175
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 5: They're both fucking nuts nuts.

1176
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 4: So tell me what if she if she tells anything

1177
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 4: about their relationship.

1178
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:49,919
Speaker 1: We have we have other battles to fight, like microplastics. Okay, bitch,

1179
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: I need you to go and put the phones in

1180
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: the back, and I need you to go throw away

1181
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 1: your panties. I don't need you to go fucking look at.

1182
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 4: Kevin GiB a hundred percent silk from Amazon.

1183
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 3: These are from one of our shoots.

1184
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 4: Oh, I know, it's just sometimes I want to get

1185
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 4: away and I want to get in away with other

1186
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:12,839
Speaker 4: people's mess, and it's hers right now. She's the most entertaining. First,

1187
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 4: she was Muslim. Then she was married. Now her mom's

1188
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 4: fighting bitches online, Like I'm interested. Fuck, it's entertaining. Can

1189
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 4: you blame me?

1190
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 1: No?

1191
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 4: I me googling where are they from? Because I need

1192
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:31,799
Speaker 4: to know where this white mom talking this way is from?

1193
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:36,800
Speaker 4: Ocean Springs, Missouri. Makes sense, lovely, they only make whites

1194
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:44,320
Speaker 4: like that in certain places, real hood places Missouri, Kansas, Detroit, Philly, Baltimore,

1195
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 4: Deep Deep South Florida's Louisiana's Florida. I didn't see the

1196
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 4: mom one time, but I guarantee you she had a

1197
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 4: hoop earrings, and she probably had like a bob or

1198
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 4: like an asymmetrical or something.

1199
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:57,439
Speaker 1: Bob for sure.

1200
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:01,680
Speaker 4: She had on a name plate and nameplate like gold

1201
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 4: necklace and.

1202
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:05,320
Speaker 5: A little shaved in the back situation.

1203
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 4: M I was like, where is her white mom from?

1204
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 4: I didn't see her mom?

1205
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:11,879
Speaker 3: This is what I need to see.

1206
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 4: I don't what do we do without the Internet. I

1207
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 4: know everything I need to know just from one Google.

1208
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,839
Speaker 4: I want to know, Oh my god, am I going

1209
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,360
Speaker 4: to hell? Or is this just where we're at?

1210
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:24,839
Speaker 5: They want us to go to hell?

1211
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 4: What do you mean they're doing?

1212
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 5: They're killing it now. I got to look up her mom.

1213
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:37,880
Speaker 4: Me too. I'm trying to wait. Yeah, she doesn't have

1214
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:42,280
Speaker 4: the asymmetrical not at she'd breeze.

1215
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: That's who.

1216
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 5: I don't see her mom any Oh, no, this is

1217
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:46,399
Speaker 5: her mom.

1218
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:49,920
Speaker 1: No, that's her aunt. Is that her mom blonde? Was

1219
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: she blonde?

1220
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 4: Yeah? I found her.

1221
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 1: Listen, that's the one I saw that was old though

1222
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: she might have had the asymmetrical out.

1223
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:05,439
Speaker 4: I know we're facts. At one point in history. Her

1224
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 4: mom had hoop earrings and a bob Okay period anything

1225
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 4: anything else important in the news that we need to

1226
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 4: talk about.

1227
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:21,240
Speaker 1: I think that covers it. I think that's I think

1228
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,120
Speaker 1: I want to preserve the rest of my twenty four

1229
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:25,920
Speaker 1: thousand brain cells, So I think that's it.

1230
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 3: Okay, Because do you.

1231
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 5: Have an affirmation for today?

1232
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 4: My dear fuck I had one recently. Did I write

1233
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 4: it down and never write shit down? To annoying? Hmmmm?

1234
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 4: This is not it? Mm, preserve your why do we think?

1235
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 4: Why do you think we have twenty four thousand brain cells?

1236
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 4: Are you just making that number up or is that

1237
00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 4: specific to something?

1238
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 5: I just right it up right now.

1239
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:04,800
Speaker 4: Because now I want to google how many brain cells

1240
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 4: do we have? Should be something about being holistic and

1241
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 4: eco friendly. I'm really grateful for the people listening that

1242
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 4: can come and hang out and listen to our nonsense

1243
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 4: and hopefully laugh a little and take the edge off,

1244
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 4: and also remind them to stop using non toxic, non

1245
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 4: toxic things, I mean toxic things and replace their items.

1246
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 3: I'd like to think this is a podcast of.

1247
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:44,960
Speaker 1: Balance only toxic bitches use toxic household items and now

1248
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 1: be toxic only talks about toxic things.

1249
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 3: Don't be toxic, just talk about toxic things and people.

1250
00:58:51,520 --> 00:59:02,720
Speaker 4: Oh, we have a hundred billion neurons actually maybe more

1251
00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 4: of like an eighty six billion, so we so apparently

1252
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:07,920
Speaker 4: we have a few to we have a few to spare.

1253
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 1: Okay, well that's that just depends how many I've already

1254
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:18,880
Speaker 1: lost from all of my treacherous years of debauchery, that's true,

1255
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: which started at a young age, so like, I don't

1256
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:23,760
Speaker 1: even know if I got the full development of all

1257
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 1: of them.

1258
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 4: Well. I also, fun fact I've read recently too, is

1259
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 4: that like thirty six is the age where our bodies

1260
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 4: stop like bouncing back as quickly.

1261
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 3: So yeah, if you're in.

1262
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 4: The thirty six, thirty seven, thirty eight range, and you

1263
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 4: were previously indulging in a lot of debauchery.

1264
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 3: This is the age where you have to.

1265
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 4: Not maybe stop the debauchery, but also level up with

1266
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:53,440
Speaker 4: anti debauchery. You have to find balance in it or

1267
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 4: else your bodies won't recover as much. And this is

1268
00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 4: where your necks start looking old. And we all know

1269
00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 4: how we feel about old necks. So just you know,

1270
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 4: a friendly reminder that if you're going to indulge in

1271
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 4: you're older over thirty five, that you might not bounce back.

1272
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 4: And so this is the time to consider is the

1273
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 4: debauchery really necessary? And if you go into Coachella, you

1274
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:13,640
Speaker 4: got to really plan for it.

1275
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 1: Oh you know what, I have a quote that came

1276
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:19,120
Speaker 1: up in our last Zoom call with our.

1277
01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:21,440
Speaker 5: Retreat ladies.

1278
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,959
Speaker 1: Shout out to the Good Vibe retreat ladies, the group

1279
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 1: seventeen and eighteen, I miss you after our retreats.

1280
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:30,479
Speaker 5: We always have a follow up call if you follow

1281
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:30,960
Speaker 5: up calls with.

1282
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 1: Our ladies, and Rosina gave us a really good quote

1283
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 1: and I think it kind of goes hand in hand

1284
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 1: with what we were talking at the top of the episode,

1285
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: which was just like surrender to the mess. So today's

1286
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 1: quote is surrender to the mess without sacrificing your twenty

1287
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: four thousand brain cells eighty four billion nods.

1288
01:00:56,600 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 4: Surrender to the mess, Surrender to the men.

1289
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 3: Life is messy.

1290
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 4: Everything is not going to be squeaky clean, including your house,

1291
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:08,320
Speaker 4: because it is lived in and so don't expect it

1292
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 4: to be. We are all human, we are human ing.

1293
01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 4: We're trying to survive, We're trying to figure it the

1294
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 4: fuck out. We're trying to be happy, which is a choice,

1295
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:23,000
Speaker 4: and just choose happiness and surrender every day to not battling,

1296
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 4: not fighting. The little shit just exists.

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Speaker 1: Amen. Well, y'all, thank you for joining us on another

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Speaker 1: episode of Good Mom's Bad Joy this podcast. If you

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Speaker 1: have yet to leave us a review, please do so.

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Speaker 5: It would really mean the.

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Speaker 1: World to us if you just took a little moment

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Speaker 1: out of your day to leave us a review. If

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Speaker 1: you're a former Good Vibe retreat, I want you to

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Speaker 1: leave us a review on we Travel because we've had

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Speaker 1: over three hundred of youew hos come and we don't

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Speaker 1: got enough reviews. So I'm gonna need you to go

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Speaker 1: and also join our newsletter because we are announcing our

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty six. Retreat locations and dates soon, so you

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Speaker 1: want to be the first to know. We always release

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Speaker 1: to our newsletter and often we sell out in our

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Speaker 1: newsletter first. So if you're trying to get the fuck

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Speaker 1: out of here and meet your tribe and have new

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Speaker 1: experiences and surrender to the mess and the beauty of life,

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Speaker 1: make sure you follow the Good Vibe Retreat. You can

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Speaker 1: follow me my personal instagram at watch Erica and Mela.

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Speaker 4: You can follow my personal instagram at Mela with an

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Speaker 4: age underscore map with two p's.

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Speaker 3: We didn't do a tarot reading.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a card in front of me, do you?

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Speaker 3: I will, I can one moment.

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Speaker 4: Oh, and we got a nine of Pentacles, nine.

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Speaker 1: Of Pentacles, nine of penticle.

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Speaker 5: Let's see what the cards.

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Speaker 4: Look at the shuffle.

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Speaker 3: This was the shuffle.

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Speaker 1: Wow, chaos, surrender to the mess. Nine of Pentacles is abundance, luxury,

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Speaker 1: self sufficiency, financial independence. You have worked hard to create

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Speaker 1: abundance in your life, and the nine of Pentacles says

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Speaker 1: now you can finally enjoy the fruits of your labor.

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Speaker 1: Thanks to your independent efforts, self confidence, and discipline, you

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Speaker 1: attained a well deserved success and created a stable foundation

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Speaker 1: for your material wealth and comfort. When the nine of

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Speaker 1: Pentacles appears in a tarot reading, do not be scared

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Speaker 1: to splurge, indulge, or pamper yourself, especially as a reward

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Speaker 1: for all your hard work. Treat yourself to a special

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Speaker 1: occasion or a personal gift to celebrate your journey. Here,

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Speaker 1: the nine of Pinnacles also speaks of financial independence. The

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Speaker 1: woman in this card has created a luxurious lifestyle by

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Speaker 1: her own actions and efforts. She encourages you to do

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Speaker 1: the same. While a suit of pentacles typically focuses on

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Speaker 1: material wealth and gain, this card also suggests that you

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Speaker 1: are in harmony with the environment around you. You appreciate

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Speaker 1: the beauty and abundance found in nature, and you can

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Speaker 1: harness this high vibe energy to bring pleasure into your life.

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Speaker 5: You may enjoy.

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Speaker 1: Gardening or flooristry, or may just like to pass your

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Speaker 1: time in the beauty of nature with picnics or walks

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Speaker 1: in the park. Go outside, bitch. You made it week

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Speaker 1: two three one of motherhood. We're in quarter four of

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Speaker 1: the twenty twenty fives. You've made it the last part

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Speaker 1: of the year. Enjoy the fruits of your labor and.

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Speaker 5: If the fruits feel.

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Speaker 1: Scarce, go to nature because it's abundant there.

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Speaker 3: Plant to seed and the day will come.

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Speaker 4: Everything will come and do time. Yes, thank you for listening,

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Speaker 4: Thank you for supporting two moms that you know, just

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Speaker 4: trying to make shit happen. Earne every day here, Love you,

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Speaker 4: bab plea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm living so good. Can't you tell? I went

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Speaker 2: through a drought. That's until I found out well maym

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Speaker 2: have been known Earth? I used to be broken tail,

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Speaker 2: now got the.

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Speaker 7: Blues in to like Beyonce Jasell throat shot or pop

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Speaker 7: in his cow wearing our voices.

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Speaker 2: Patriarchy kept it in the box to exploit it.

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Speaker 7: Women put the pee and powers, so it's pointless. They

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Speaker 7: want me to be good, so I make bad choices.

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Speaker 7: Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

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Speaker 7: It he's in on for cannabis in their bathbon walked

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Speaker 7: in Boston's cap and I blew his cat balls.

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Speaker 2: Hot dog. Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie

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Speaker 2: in No waisted straight to it like a dollar sign. Mother,

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Speaker 2: rent the lover when too.

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Speaker 7: It is like a water sign where you're rent the

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Speaker 7: winter essential will when the summertime.

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Speaker 2: I do it all ain't know when that needs a

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Speaker 2: running B.