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Speaker 1: Hi, and welcome back to the Carol Markowitz Show on iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 1: It's not a great time for Jews. After the slaughter

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Speaker 1: in Israel on October seventh, every Jew hater in the

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Speaker 1: world decided now is the time to let us all

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Speaker 1: know how they feel. Spare me the talk of a

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Speaker 1: free Palestine. Anyone who cares about the Palestinians would not

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Speaker 1: let them continue in their delusion that they could someday

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Speaker 1: get rid of Israel. And let's be real, all Jews,

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Speaker 1: if they just continue pushing, that's just not going to happen.

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Speaker 1: And if you're listening and you care about the Palestinian cause,

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Speaker 1: you should let them know. But look, this is not

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Speaker 1: a monologue about Israel, because this isn't a political show.

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Speaker 1: It's about being a Jew in America, because this is

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Speaker 1: a show about life, and that's my life right now.

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Speaker 1: Jews are scared. In response to being scared, there's a

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Speaker 1: trend online where Jews posts this image that says, would

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Speaker 1: you hide me, and non Jews are posting I would.

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Speaker 1: I understand why people are doing it. It's comforting to

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Speaker 1: know that people stand with you. I get it, I

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Speaker 1: really do, but I don't like it. I don't like

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Speaker 1: it because, first of all, I'm not hiding. I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying I don't have a plan B in case things

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Speaker 1: go left. We do, of course we do, but that

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Speaker 1: plan involves getting to my friend's house. Shout out to John,

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Speaker 1: who has the most guns and AMMO of anyone. I'm

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Speaker 1: not cowering in your attic. I don't want to be

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Speaker 1: in a perpetual victim state. I'm a free person in

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Speaker 1: the free world. I'm not hiding. The Jews of the

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Speaker 1: early nineteen forties in Europe were not armed, but I am.

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Speaker 1: If this moment has been an eye opener for you,

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Speaker 1: whether or not you're Jewish, get armed. If you live

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Speaker 1: somewhere you can't be armed, and you're posting memes about

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Speaker 1: people hiding you, you have to move. Living in this

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Speaker 1: kind of fear is no way to live. The truth

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Speaker 1: is that people are drawn to strength, not weakness, and

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Speaker 1: our weakness will not endear people to our cause. It

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Speaker 1: will have the opposite effect of people joining with the

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Speaker 1: strong to harm us. We're seeing that happen. Get strong

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Speaker 1: and fast. But the other reason I don't like this

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Speaker 1: campaign is not about the Jewish part. It's about the

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Speaker 1: America part. If a Jewish family is hiding in your house,

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Speaker 1: America has probably fallen. That's a bigger problem than whose

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Speaker 1: attic I'm in. I'm talking to the wider west here.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate your agreement to hide us, But how about

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Speaker 1: we join together so that nobody needs to be hid,

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Speaker 1: or do the hiding and defend what we have. How

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Speaker 1: About I will never let it reach the point where

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Speaker 1: my attic would ever even be in use. We're in

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Speaker 1: a pivotal moment right now where we can see where

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Speaker 1: these bad ideas have led us. If you're seeing college

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Speaker 1: kids marching around and chanting for genocide, supporting peopleeople who

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Speaker 1: would put their head on a pike, that didn't begin

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Speaker 1: this morning. Our schools are giant factor, but also parents

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Speaker 1: who have let their kids hate America and believe we're

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Speaker 1: just not that good. Our ideals have built civilization, but

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Speaker 1: we've surrendered so much to people who want to destroy

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Speaker 1: that civilization. We've let them take control of our schools,

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Speaker 1: and they've produced kids who have largely been lied to

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Speaker 1: about what the world is like. I mean, have you

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Speaker 1: seen the whole turkeys for Thanksgiving? I mean queers for Palestine?

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Speaker 1: We mock them, sure, but they're a glaring sign telling

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Speaker 1: us that there's something big we need to fix, and

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Speaker 1: there's something wrong with society that we need to make

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Speaker 1: better before it's too late. We're not going to get

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Speaker 1: there by being offered attic space. These people believe that

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Speaker 1: they'll have freedom to be themselves in Gaza, and many

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Speaker 1: people believe they don't have these freedoms in America. How

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Speaker 1: warped is that? Where did it come from to have

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Speaker 1: such insane backwards ideas that are fully entertained. Free people

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Speaker 1: need to be strong and fight for Western values, for

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Speaker 1: American values specifically, and they need to challenge those who

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Speaker 1: would crush those values in pursuit of something else. If

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Speaker 1: you're motivated to tell your Jewish friends that you stand

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Speaker 1: with them, thank you. We appreciate it. We do. It's

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Speaker 1: been horrible, and non Jews reaching out to say they

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Speaker 1: have our back really has been a bright spot. But

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Speaker 1: the actual best thing we can all do is defend

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Speaker 1: what we've built in America, the greatest country in the

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Speaker 1: history of the world, where we can all be safe

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Speaker 1: in this nation we've made. Tell your kids the truth

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Speaker 1: about how lucky they are to live in this country,

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Speaker 1: how blessed they are, and let's defend this place not

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Speaker 1: just for the Jews, but for all of us. Coming

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Speaker 1: up next an interview with Kyle Smith. Join us after

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Speaker 1: the break. Hi, and welcome back to the Carol Marcowitch Show.

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Speaker 1: I'm the Clay Travis and Buck Sexton podcast network on iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 1: My guest today is Kyle Smith, film critic for Wall

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Speaker 1: Street Journal and theater critic for New Critarion and a

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Speaker 1: longtime friend of mine. Kyle, Hi, thanks for being here, Hi, Carol,

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Speaker 1: how are you doing good?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 1: You like a lot of things that I don't like,

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Speaker 1: and that's sort of been a theme in our friendship.

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Speaker 1: You like fruity drinks, you like going to the movies.

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Speaker 1: I don't like any of that. I super rarely actually

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Speaker 1: enjoy a movie. So I wanted to ask you what

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Speaker 1: percentage of movies as a film critic would you say

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: I try to correct for that by only seeing like

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Speaker 3: top hunderds out, but even those, about forty percent of them?

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Speaker 1: I guess forty percent. Hi, I think I like like

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Speaker 3: Maybe, Yeah, I sort of feel like I'm a consumer advocate, like,

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Speaker 3: it's my job to steer you away from movies that

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Speaker 2: I'm right and right, you know. The wayst example is

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Speaker 2: this Scarcezi movie, which I think is terrible.

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Speaker 3: Killers of the Flower Moon, universally praised because it's supposedly

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Speaker 3: shows the dark side of American history. To me, three

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Speaker 3: and a half hours of brutality, it's very monotonous. It's

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Speaker 3: like the same musical score is kind of going for

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Speaker 2: It's so dispiriting to watch. I can't believe anyone actually

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Speaker 1: So would you say that, I'm like, at my low

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Speaker 1: I'm a happy, optimistic person. I go into movies being like,

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Speaker 1: I am going to love this, and I'm inevitably like,

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Speaker 1: oh that was awful, awful, awful, awful. So am I

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Speaker 1: just watching the wrong things? Or are movies generally bad?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I think most of them are bad.

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Speaker 3: The problem is that movies are kind of the top

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Speaker 3: wants to make movies. If you're a novelist, want to

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Speaker 3: you know, Daily Wire is getting into movies. But you know,

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Speaker 3: you know, too many of them are just not great ideas.

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Speaker 3: And uh, one one bad influence I think is we

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Speaker 3: have the tech companies Netflix, Apple and Amazon are just flooding,

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Speaker 3: absolutely flooding Hollywood with money to to invite filmmakers, very

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Speaker 3: often prestige filmmakers to make movies that are just not

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Speaker 3: the script isn't good, it's not gonna make any money,

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Speaker 3: it's not gonna win the Oscar. No, make sure it's this.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: I saw this Netflix movie The Killer yesterday, David Fincher,

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Speaker 2: It's just a terrible script. It shouldn't have been made.

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Speaker 2: But Netflix was like, David Fincher wants to make a

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Speaker 2: movie with us Okay, here's a check. Right.

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Speaker 1: So you're a film critic, but you've also been a

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Speaker 1: culture columnist, politics. You write about a lot of different stuff.

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Speaker 1: I think you've written on some really controversial stuff over

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Speaker 1: the years, like I remember the anti waiter column that

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Speaker 1: got you banned from New York City restaurants, and then

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Speaker 1: the women don't Understand Goodfella's column, which you know I

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Speaker 1: personally took offense to. But I still like you. Any regrets,

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Speaker 1: any thing that you would not write again?

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Speaker 3: No, to me, everything I write is obviously true, and

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Speaker 3: everything is obviously wrong. You have to have a lot

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Speaker 3: of confidence in being a writer. You almost have to

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Speaker 3: be arrogant, don't you think to be a writer?

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Speaker 1: Almost? Almost?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: And you must have listened to me.

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Speaker 3: And I'm the one who's on the page five of

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Speaker 3: this newspaper and you're not. So my opinion matter is

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Speaker 3: more than yours does. So I guess I'm sufficiently arrogant

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Speaker 1: So you you stand by it all. It's yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: that's bold. I mean, are you back in New York

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Speaker 2: I was never banned. I've never stopped going to restaurants.

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Speaker 3: All I needed was make fun of unctuous waiters who

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Speaker 3: you know, you know how they are, it's particularly true,

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Speaker 3: and you're like, they get down on their haunches and like, Hi,

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking I'm pretty sure I ordered food and you

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Speaker 3: have some you know, minimum wage person to bring it

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Speaker 3: time to pay a check. Yeah, I know how this

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Speaker 2: But you know I wrote this comment.

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Speaker 3: Every waiter waitress in the world wrote in to tell

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Speaker 3: things that problem was. One of the big things they

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Speaker 3: had a problem with was I referred to them as servants,

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Speaker 3: and he said, no, we're not servants with servers, big

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Speaker 3: I see you, I mean, I will let you die

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Speaker 1: I'm sure she's got you know, a very healthy life

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Speaker 3: Various body uh uh things into my food if they saw.

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Speaker 1: Me coming, right, So you, I mean, and so you

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Speaker 1: got some pushback, but you're you kind of shrugged it off.

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Speaker 1: Anything worse than that.

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Speaker 2: Well, you must get pushed back all the time.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but I don't. But I'm a nice person

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Speaker 1: who does not criticize waiters. So I was just I

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Speaker 1: was wondering, how well, but they deserve it.

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Speaker 2: They deserve I think Jason is not very dangerous. That

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Speaker 1: I have a friend actually who had this line where

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Speaker 1: she said, when the waiter comes over and says like,

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Speaker 1: have you been to this restaurant before? And starts explaining

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Speaker 1: the menu, She's like, no, but I have been two

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Speaker 1: you know similar, right?

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Speaker 2: Is that what you do here?

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Speaker 1: But like the top is usually smaller plates, and as

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Speaker 1: So you once had a column. I actually couldn't find

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Speaker 2: Both?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, both is great. Yeah, So end here with your

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Speaker 1: best tip for my listeners on how they can improve

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Speaker 3: Okay, my idea I've always wanted to tell married people

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Speaker 3: this or people who are thinking about getting married, is uh,

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Speaker 3: It's it's a good job. Maybe it's the best job

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Speaker 2: Like every day you should be thinking of a way

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Speaker 2: to please your partner. Do something over in above what's

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Speaker 2: a normal? Uh? Just the way you try to you know,

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Speaker 3: Right, You're you're always sucking up the boss, right if

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Speaker 2: Underlying thing, and you go, oh wow, well that kind

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Speaker 3: To me, you should just cut the blame chain when

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Speaker 3: something goes wrong, you should just acknowledge. Okay, we both

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Speaker 3: do we do. I'm not going to say, yeah, no,

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Speaker 3: And right, don't worry about whose fault it is. Just

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Speaker 3: if you don't blame your partner, you make a habit

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Speaker 3: don't have a much more solid relationship.

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Speaker 1: Kyla, I love that so much. That's like, really not

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Speaker 1: where I was expecting you to go. I thought you

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Speaker 1: were going to like lay a lashing on people and

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Speaker 1: you know, tell them all the ways that they need

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Speaker 1: to improve their lives like otherwise. But I love that

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Speaker 1: you did a relationship that's really really awesome. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for being on. You were amazing and I

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Speaker 1: can't wait to see you over fruity drinks and you know,

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Speaker 1: not movies very soon. Okay, thanks so much for joining

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