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Speaker 1: Letter subject this cannot be my life. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm a thirty five year old female with a cute

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Speaker 1: face and a small waist. I haven't had any trouble

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Speaker 1: meeting men, but I've had trouble keeping a man. That's

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Speaker 1: all behind me now because I'm seeing a man that

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Speaker 1: caters to me, respects me, and will do anything he

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Speaker 1: needs to do to put a smile on my face.

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Speaker 1: He thinks ahead and is a great planner. We've been

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Speaker 1: dating almost a year and he wants to go on

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Speaker 1: an anniversary trip, so I think he might be ready

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Speaker 1: to propose.

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Speaker 2: I got rid of.

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Speaker 1: All my exes and I changed my life around to

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Speaker 1: make sure my past is in the past. I stopped

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Speaker 1: hanging out and I stopped posting suggestive pictures on social

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Speaker 1: media because I wanted to have a queenlike behavior for

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Speaker 1: my king. Our first date was at his house and

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Speaker 1: we had grilled steaks, a lot of wine, and a

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Speaker 1: lot of great conversation. He told me upfront that he

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Speaker 1: wants to be married, but he wants the option to

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Speaker 1: have more than one woman in his life if it's

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Speaker 1: okay with his wife. I love women, too, so we

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Speaker 1: have that in common. Throughout our relationship, we've had six

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Speaker 1: different girls in our bed. I submit to him in

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Speaker 1: bed and do whatever he tells me to do, and

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Speaker 1: it drives him wild.

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Speaker 2: We've been.

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Speaker 3: Huh, I'm sorry, go ahead, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: We've been to counseling together because his last girlfriend got

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Speaker 1: jealous and flipped out on him, so he thought it

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Speaker 1: would help me.

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Speaker 2: Here's my problem though. My mother and I.

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Speaker 1: Are very close, so she is aware of what's going

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Speaker 1: on in my relationship. She doesn't condone it, and she

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Speaker 1: told me if my boyfriend proposals, she will be out

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Speaker 1: of my life for good. I told her, I cannot

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Speaker 1: believe this is my life with such a handsome, caring

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Speaker 1: and open man. I may never find another man that

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Speaker 1: I'm this compatible with. Why is my mother being so

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Speaker 1: judgmental and why is she forcing me to make a choice?

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't think she is.

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Speaker 1: But if your mother is forcing you to make a choice,

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Speaker 1: as you say in the letter, she wants.

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Speaker 2: You to choose you in this instance.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't want you to marry a man who wants

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Speaker 1: other women. Your mom doesn't want her beautiful daughter having

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Speaker 1: threesomes and being some man sex slave. That that's just

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Speaker 1: how her parents.

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Speaker 2: That's just a parent.

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you honestly think this is the way

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Speaker 1: to keep a man?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: Does your mom wants you to be happy and live

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Speaker 1: your life and all of that?

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Speaker 2: Of course she does, yes, But she wants you to be.

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Speaker 1: Your own woman on your own terms, not because that's

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Speaker 1: what this man wants. You say you like women too,

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Speaker 1: rite But can you spend time with them alone?

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Speaker 2: Can you?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: And not with him and all of that. I highly doubt.

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Speaker 1: It because it doesn't sound like he cares what you

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Speaker 1: want as long as you submit to him and continue

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Speaker 1: to drive him wild. Like you said in a letter,

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Speaker 1: no parent's ever going to give their blessing to this

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Speaker 1: kind of marital arrangement. It is just to one sided.

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Speaker 1: All him know you, and for that reason, your mom

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Speaker 1: will never like him. That's why she says she's out.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't want to support this. And as a mother myself,

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Speaker 1: I can tell you that there may not be anything

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Speaker 1: I can do about it, but I would never agree

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Speaker 1: to my daughter being with a guy like this either.

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Speaker 3: No. Steve very very well said being a mother young.

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Speaker 3: So I like your response.

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Speaker 4: This letter has so many ignorant statements in it throughout

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Speaker 4: the letter that I almost don't know how to respond

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Speaker 4: to this letter. But I want to go to the

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Speaker 4: very last line of the letter. And after this letter,

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Speaker 4: this girl says, why is my mother being so judgmental?

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Speaker 4: And why is she forcing me to make a decision

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Speaker 4: after this ignorant letter that I'm about to read, That's

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Speaker 4: what your takeaway was, why is my mother being so judgmental? Well,

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Speaker 4: let's read this letter out loud. Michellette, thirty five year

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Speaker 4: old female with a cute face and a small waist.

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Speaker 4: I haven't had any trouble meeting men, but I've had

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Speaker 4: trouble keeping a man well, and after you read this letter,

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Speaker 4: we about to find out why.

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Speaker 3: Let's go here we go.

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Speaker 4: That's all behind me now, because I'm seeing a man

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Speaker 4: that caters to me and he would do anything he

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Speaker 3: He thinks ahead and is a great planner.

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Speaker 4: So let me show you how great of a planner

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Speaker 4: he is and how far he think ahead.

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Speaker 3: Let me go a skip down to this line in

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Speaker 3: the letter.

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Speaker 4: He told me off front that he wants to be married,

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Speaker 4: but he wants an option to have more than one

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Speaker 4: woman in his life, if that's okay with his wife. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's what I call playing in there. Oh yeah, he

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Speaker 4: was playing sid sound kind of like a plot, but

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Speaker 4: if you want to call it a plan, okay, lady,

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Speaker 4: he was playing in the head and he thinks ahead.

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Speaker 4: Yeah nah, he'd have told yo, stupid this piece of

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Speaker 4: information to see how it's set with you the first Okay,

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Speaker 4: Now let's go back up the letter.

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Speaker 3: He thinks ahead as a great planner.

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Speaker 4: We've been dating almost a year and he wants to

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Speaker 4: do an anniversary trip, so I think he might be

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Speaker 4: ready to propose.

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Speaker 3: Now here's what.

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Speaker 4: The line where she starts telling on herself, I got

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Speaker 4: rid of all my exes. Wait a minute, if you

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Speaker 4: have an ex, why would you have to get rid

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Speaker 4: of him? See but with dealing with somebody who keeps

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Speaker 4: all her exes in her life, so she keeps God

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Speaker 4: to get rid of all my exes. I changed my

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Speaker 4: life around to make sure my past is the past.

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Speaker 4: That means she'd have done a lot of sketchy stuff.

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Speaker 4: I stopped hanging out and stop posting suggested pictures on

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Speaker 4: social media because I wanted to have queen light behavior

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Speaker 4: from my king. We come back, I'm gonna close out on.

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Speaker 2: Yes, hang on.

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Speaker 1: We'll get part two of Steve's response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 2: Subject for today's Strawberry Letter, this.

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Speaker 1: Cannot be my life. We'll get back into it right

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter, the subject

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Speaker 1: this Cannot be My Life.

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Speaker 4: Well, let's get on with this netting letter entitled this cannot.

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Speaker 3: Be My life.

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Speaker 4: Thirty five year old female got a Q face and

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Speaker 4: small waists, has never had trouble meeting me in, but

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Speaker 4: been having trouble keeping them. And I'm about to tell

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Speaker 4: you why she met this guy. She says, that's a

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Speaker 4: great planner. We'll get into that. We've been dating almost

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Speaker 4: a year. He wants to go on anniversary trips, so

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Speaker 4: I think he might be ready to propose.

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Speaker 3: Or if she ain't.

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Speaker 4: Got the cart in front of this horse right here,

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Speaker 4: horse in front of this car, watch's IGNI mess right here.

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Speaker 4: I got rid of all my exes now, like I

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Speaker 4: said before, if they your exis, why would you have

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Speaker 4: to get rid of it? But this is a woman

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Speaker 4: that hangs on to a lot of people, and I

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Speaker 4: changed my life around to make sure.

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Speaker 3: My past is in the past.

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Speaker 4: See, you can't all of a sudden erase your past.

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Speaker 4: I can tell you that right now. So I don't

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Speaker 4: know what you think you bene done to make sure

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Speaker 4: your past is in your past. But it don't work

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Speaker 4: like that, lady. You just can't wipe the slate clean yourself.

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Speaker 4: I mean, God can forgive you for anything, but you can't.

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Speaker 4: Just too many people go. And then I stopped hanging

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Speaker 4: out and I stopped posting suggested pictures on social media

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Speaker 4: because I want to have queen like behavior from my king.

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Speaker 3: Now, let me explain something to you.

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Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure the way y'all met was on social media.

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Speaker 4: So this man that you're going out on this date with,

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Speaker 4: on your first date, that you're about to describe before

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Speaker 4: you took the pictures off and found out he was

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Speaker 4: your king.

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Speaker 3: That's how y'all hooked up.

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Speaker 4: He saw the suggestion picture, he been on your Facebook page.

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Speaker 4: He know how many friends you got, He know you why,

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Speaker 4: that's why y'all.

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Speaker 3: Out on this date.

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Speaker 4: So now on our first day was at his house

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Speaker 4: and we had grill steaks and a lot of ones.

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Speaker 3: It'll kill me.

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Speaker 4: When women go over a manhouse and they get a

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Speaker 4: steak and they think that's high end. It's just food,

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Speaker 4: that's all it is. It's just that he's of meat.

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Speaker 4: We had grill steaks. What you the only person that

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Speaker 4: balls a steak in the crock party, Shirley Strawberry. The

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Speaker 4: rest of us grillized steaks, So that ain't nothing new.

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Speaker 4: I don't know when you had a lot of wine

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Speaker 4: and a lot of great conversations. He told me off

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Speaker 4: front he wants to be married, but he wants an

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Speaker 4: option to have more than one woman in his life.

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Speaker 4: This is okay with me. Then here's the line that

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Speaker 4: sets it off. I love women too, So we had

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Speaker 4: that in common. That ain't nothing to have in coming.

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Speaker 4: Throughout our relationship, we have had six different girls in

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Speaker 4: our bed. I submit to him in bed and do

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Speaker 4: whatever he tells me to do, and it drives him wild.

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Speaker 3: Drive anybody while Hell.

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Speaker 4: If you do everything I tell you to do? Hell,

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Speaker 4: who ain't finna go wild for that? I can't even

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Speaker 4: get my wife to watch the same TV show I

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Speaker 4: want to watch. Hell, Yeah, that'll drive me wild.

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Speaker 3: Try that on him. We been to Now here's the

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Speaker 3: other part.

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Speaker 4: We been to counseling together because his last girlfriend got

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Speaker 3: Here's my problem though, What Wait a minute, y'all.

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Speaker 4: Went to counseling because his last girlfriend flipped out on

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Speaker 3: Y'all get through this?

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Speaker 4: Right here, here's the other part. My mother and I

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Speaker 4: are very close, so she's aware of what's going on

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Speaker 4: in my relationship. Wait, man, hold on, you told your

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Speaker 4: mama Di. You told your mama Din. She doesn't condone it.

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Speaker 4: And she told me that if my boyfriend proposes, she

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Speaker 4: would be out of my life for good. I told her,

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Speaker 4: I can't believe this is my life with such a

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Speaker 4: handsome man carrying an open man. I may never find

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Speaker 4: another man that I'm this compatible with. Why is my

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Speaker 4: mother being so judgmentally? Why is she forcing me to

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Speaker 4: make such a choice? Wait, man, hold on, lady, all

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Speaker 4: this crazy messing this letter and you worried about why

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Speaker 4: your mama being judgmential?

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Speaker 3: You don't see the craziness in this letter.

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Speaker 4: The six girls in y'all's bed, This anniversey a trip

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Speaker 4: y'all going on? Where you think he fitting and proposed

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Speaker 4: proposed to you for what?

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Speaker 3: Let me ask you a.

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Speaker 4: Question, why would he marry you? When he get in

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Speaker 4: everything he want from you? What's to marry? He'd had

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Speaker 4: six different girls in y'all's bed. He told you the

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Speaker 4: beginning he wants to get married. He loved to get

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Speaker 4: married one day, but he wants a woman in his life.

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Speaker 4: That's okay with him having other women. He didn't say

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Speaker 4: he wanted to marry you. Once again, here's a woman

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Speaker 4: plugging herself into the equation. He did not say he

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Speaker 4: wanted to marry you.

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Speaker 3: And even if you do.

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Speaker 4: Get married, what are y'all's vows for? Yeah, to cleave

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Speaker 4: only unto her? Which one of these vials y'all want

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Speaker 4: to break first to love and honor? Which one you

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Speaker 4: want to break first?

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Speaker 1: For?

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Speaker 3: Better off of worse?

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Speaker 4: Y'all already in the way worst relationship you can be in.

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Speaker 4: So all you can do is get married and hope

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Speaker 4: it get better. Marry him for what? What is the

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Speaker 4: what do you need? A holy mattrimum a ceremony for

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Speaker 4: to bless?

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Speaker 3: What? Married?

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Speaker 1: For? What?

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Speaker 3: Girl? You're crazy? For real?

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Speaker 4: Your mama don't want to talk to you no more,

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Speaker 4: and don't write us no more either.

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Speaker 2: We don't want to talk to you anymore? All right?

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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