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Speaker 1: Okay, sweety, you're doing really good. You're doing really really good.

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Speaker 2: I pussy this bitsch about to break.

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Speaker 1: You're almost there. Okay, you're at nine centimeters right now, baby,

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Speaker 1: I know you got this. You are a big, strong, powerful,

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Speaker 3: I want to put a dippers on my news, son,

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Speaker 1: Okay to this hurts, Miss Trainer. This is doctor Jsarian here.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna need you to You're doing really good. You're

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Speaker 3: I want the good stuff. I want the good stuff.

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Speaker 3: How about the good stuff with that ivy on he Hey.

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Speaker 1: You are pre approved for an epidural, as we did

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Speaker 1: that administered right now. How it was your pain level

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Speaker 3: Mama, it's a hen and I am proud to admit

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Speaker 2: Oh god, I think Riley's here.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's so beautiful. Okay, so I'm actually not seeing

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Speaker 1: a We're not seeing a baby. No, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: he's totally fine. All the vitals are fine.

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Speaker 3: Megga.

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Speaker 2: It's your niece.

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Speaker 1: I came into the room.

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Speaker 2: Oh can I got the car?

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Speaker 1: I want my sexy husband to cut Angela please please

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Speaker 1: But also, the baby's not here yet. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: my dad's coming in the room. Sorry, Meghan, you know

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Speaker 3: Eryl, I need you now make out with me because

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Speaker 3: you're so suxy. We'll calm me down.

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Speaker 1: Doctor, Is that okay? Can I can I make out

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Speaker 2: I think the baby's breaching.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Meghan, all right, we've got we've we've got

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Speaker 1: a crown here, spy kids, I want you to grab

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Speaker 1: we're gonna make this baby happen. Nurse, we're gonna meet

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Speaker 2: He's here, he's here?

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Speaker 3: Is he here yet? I'm tired? Oh my TikTok sonogram

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Speaker 1: if we could just up the medication by about eighty milligrams. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: keep upping it, keep up. All right, she's out, let's

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Speaker 1: get this baby. Who's that knocking at the door. It's

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Speaker 1: all your friends, you filthy horse. Your husband's gone and

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Speaker 1: you've got books and a bottle of wine to kill.

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Speaker 1: It's Hollywood, it's books, it's gossip. I'm shook. It's memoir.

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Speaker 1: It's Martini.

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Speaker 3: Slevely Puff Club. Read it while it's hot. Selevely Puff Club.

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Speaker 1: Tell your secrets. We won't talk books. No boys are loud,

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Speaker 1: say it loud and pound Clevetly Book Club.

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Speaker 3: Spuzz me in. I brought the queer vow.

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Speaker 1: Hey mama, how is my favorite mama doing today?

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Speaker 2: This mama?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, life of a mama.

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Speaker 3: Life is always up and down, but in the end

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Speaker 2: How are you my mama?

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Speaker 1: Ooh, honey, today has been a muccho warrior mama day. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Oh girl? And are you liking your pediatrician?

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Speaker 1: You know she's good. I didn't like my original pediatrician.

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Speaker 3: And ask for what you want.

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Speaker 2: I hate feeling rush. And his mama's were always rush.

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Speaker 1: Well editing my documentary in my dressing room.

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Speaker 3: And if you have gestational diabetes, nothing to be ashamed of.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not. We should, I guess kind of we should.

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Speaker 1: So the name of the game is that we read

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Speaker 3: And a hometown hero for us, but really especially for you.

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Speaker 1: Grammy Winner is from the island of Nantucket.

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Speaker 3: You heard it right, ding ding ding? Can you guess?

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Speaker 3: We'll give you one two three seconds.

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Speaker 2: Let's say her.

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Speaker 3: Name, Megan Trainer.

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Speaker 2: I'm all about debasse. I'm all about debase.

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Speaker 3: And we read her book.

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Speaker 1: Dear Future Mama, A TMI guide to Pregnancy, birth and

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Speaker 1: Motherhood from your Bestie.

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Speaker 3: A little play on her famous song If Future Husband

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Speaker 3: just such a psycho song, right, it's like soccer.

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Speaker 1: She fucking loves her husband, who she affectually calls spike

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Speaker 3: Their whole meeting story, which I feel like she talked

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Speaker 3: Her telling the Drew Berymore Show or telling you on

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Speaker 1: There was something about Megan where he was just like,

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Speaker 3: You meet that perfect person and they change your outlook and.

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Speaker 1: It's Nantucket native and Grammy singer songwriter Megan Trainer.

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Speaker 3: TikTok star blogger, star of Top Cheff Family Showdown.

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Speaker 1: Wait, but did she actually get that? Because she sets

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Speaker 3: she wrote this book, and I was like, I think

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Speaker 3: we would know if there was a Top Chef.

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Speaker 1: Would we there's like seventy Top Chef.

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Speaker 3: I guess I just feel like Megan Trainer hosting Top Chef,

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Speaker 3: we might know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I could one hundred and thirty percent

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Speaker 2: Of your seat is yeah.

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Speaker 3: So two years go by and Meghan is now friends

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Speaker 3: with Chloe Grace Moretz.

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Speaker 2: Where's lesbian? Ps?

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Speaker 1: Well, she plays lesbian in Clouds of Sales Maria, which

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Speaker 1: Guy, and Chloe was like, what about that guy you

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Speaker 3: Who is Chloe Grace Moretz's best friend? She goes, well,

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Speaker 2: Thank you Chloe.

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Speaker 1: So random that they are friends.

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Speaker 1: Was a mean trainer Disney No.

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Speaker 2: But she moved, so Megan Trainer, let's bring it down.

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Speaker 2: Was born on the beautiful island of Nantucket.

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Speaker 1: Her parents owned a jueliu rees store which I've been

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Speaker 1: It's on straight wharf. It's right next to like Cold

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Speaker 3: Okay, so it's like really right on like the wolf, like.

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Speaker 1: She admits too much. I think that's actually probably some

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Speaker 2: No, this was, if I may read. I honestly think

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Speaker 2: No, I wasn't going outside. Yes I was ordering.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Emma, I was making those Amazon delivery workers drive Mama, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I mean that is so true. I mean, anytime I've

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It's like if you're going on a beach vacation

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I don't think headphones. Mama's out there,

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Speaker 1: I could definitely see myself like being like, husband, I

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Speaker 1: No, and the doctors have been like, it's actually so

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Speaker 3: Yeah, outfits a razor aloofa a razor, She says. Who

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Speaker 1: I feel like you don't want stubble as the baby's

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Speaker 1: They just can't go without it, because not only is

442
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 1: she all about that base, but honey, he's all about

443
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 1: that base. Sat Nantucket home, her own dunes base.

444
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 3: So what's crazy about her upbringing? Which we should share.

445
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 3: She's from Nantucket, yet she moved to the Cape.

446
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:58,720
Speaker 1: In high school because allegedly she was allergic to something

447
00:21:58,920 --> 00:21:59,680
Speaker 1: at school.

448
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:01,880
Speaker 3: I've always imagined what it would be like to go

449
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 3: to high school in Nantucket.

450
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:04,719
Speaker 2: It seems spooky.

451
00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 1: It's definitely spooky. I mean, the island's spooky in winter.

452
00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:08,640
Speaker 1: Have you ever been.

453
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 3: I went once with your family, of course, and I remember,

454
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:14,200
Speaker 3: and it was after Christmas. So I feel like that's

455
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 3: the spookiness. It was just like really blustering. We spent

456
00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 3: the whole weekend watching Lenny Reef install films with your brother,

457
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,199
Speaker 3: and it was like hour six of your brother be like,

458
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 3: this is actually an amazing part.

459
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:30,919
Speaker 2: And that's a winter on Nantucket for you.

460
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 3: Mamas.

461
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,479
Speaker 1: Yes, Mama's okay, you've got to settle in.

462
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,199
Speaker 3: So Megan went to high school and then and he

463
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 3: kept on running Jewels of the Isle.

464
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 2: And please read the text from your mother.

465
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 1: So I asked my mother, mother, have you ever bought

466
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,560
Speaker 1: anything from Jewel of the Isle. It's now called Jewel

467
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,679
Speaker 1: of the Sea since they sold it in twenty six.

468
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,680
Speaker 3: And by the way, family run shop owned by Megan

469
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,359
Speaker 3: Trainer's mother and father, and they made all the jewelry

470
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 3: and then they sold it to two sisters.

471
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Speaker 1: It's a family affair, honey. My mom just goes, I

472
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:06,560
Speaker 1: have bought a pretty silver bracelet with a cartouche of

473
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 1: the word Nantucket on an enamel base of Nantucket red

474
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 1: sent with Siri.

475
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 3: She ran off with that description. I had to I

476
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 3: had to google what cartouche is, and it is and

477
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:26,239
Speaker 3: it is just a good it's actually hieroglyphics on a

478
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 3: base of some other color.

479
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 2: Okay, so obviously it's not Nantucket, but well.

480
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 1: Maybe it is. Maybe it's like like the A is

481
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 1: like a sailboat or something, right like Nantucket hieroglyphics. Yeah,

482
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 1: are you going to see as an oyster or something?

483
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 3: So her dad is running the shop, I mean just

484
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 3: ferry back and forth, commute a package, you get it.

485
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 3: Then they moved to Hollywood at or Nashville when she

486
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 3: was sixteen.

487
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:56,879
Speaker 1: Because she got a deal with like Big Yellow Dog

488
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 1: or something in records, and.

489
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 3: Her first song she wrote for Rascal Flats that was

490
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 3: her breakthrough songwriter. Yeah, songwriter.

491
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 1: I mean they probably were just like maybe she has

492
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: a little too much bass to be a pop singer,

493
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 1: and so like we'll have you write songs for all

494
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: And then they were like, wait a minute, this kid

495
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 1: can sing.

496
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, like hold on. It was that thing like like actually,

497
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 3: here we are in this recording studo today where it's

498
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 3: like if someone walked by and hurt us now and

499
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 3: we're like, whoa.

500
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 2: Those kids are hilarious.

501
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:25,880
Speaker 1: They got something special.

502
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 2: Have you ever thought about a late night talk show

503
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:28,640
Speaker 2: on Freebee?

504
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 1: I know that you guys are just podcast writers. But

505
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,119
Speaker 1: what if you had what if you stepped into the

506
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 1: booth yourself? Okay, wait the bar where she goes go

507
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 1: to the dentist. Apparently, all these changes affect your whole body,

508
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,679
Speaker 1: including your teeth and gums. Keep those choppers healthy, mama.

509
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 1: She also at one point when she says, if you

510
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: want to skip the part of the chapter of miscarriages,

511
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 1: because if you don't want this stuff in your headspace,

512
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: that's totally fine. I feel you, bitsh. You can always

513
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,160
Speaker 1: flip when and if you're ever ready for it. It's

514
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: a book. It's not going anywhere that classic like celebrity

515
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 1: thing where you're referencing the fact that it's a book breaking.

516
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:10,359
Speaker 3: The fourth page.

517
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 2: It's a book.

518
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 1: Bish, this be a book. And then she does say

519
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: that you have the right to post about your miscarriage

520
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: if you want to. Yeah.

521
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 3: She was like, look, Mama's you can either tell your

522
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 3: partner husband or not. But she was like, you can

523
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:31,919
Speaker 3: also like post about it and like shout it to

524
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 3: the who's if you want.

525
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. And this book is ultimately a lot about posting.

526
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 3: It's so much about posting, and it's also really about

527
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 3: her Christmas album Do the same.

528
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 1: Time because she's recording it during her pregnancy.

529
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 3: And she's like, meanwhile, mama's this bish is recording a

530
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:53,479
Speaker 3: Christmas album.

531
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, come out in September. That's weird. It's the indestry.

532
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 1: Don't ask me about it, but with my like hormonal

533
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 1: mouth acne, like I didn't know if I'm able to

534
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: do the photo shoots. Yeah, sorry, I know. My life

535
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: is crazy and I wouldn't have it on any other way.

536
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 1: And I'm so thankful for my four brothers. That's my career.

537
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 3: And then her the final ultrasound of her son was

538
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 3: the background on her phone, and it's like the most

539
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 3: actually like crazy like sculptural art.

540
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 1: Oh it looks like so melting wax. Yeah, that was

541
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: kind of cool.

542
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 2: A horror movie.

543
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: Super cool. Okay. One thing I thought was interesting is

544
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: that she does say that she does like struggle with

545
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: body image and she and she says it multiple times.

546
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: She's like, even though I am the all about that

547
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: bass girl, Yeah, like I was like worried about anyweight.

548
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,679
Speaker 1: And then she's like telling you like all the like

549
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: healthy things to do and eat, and she's trying to

550
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: not be so like I was trying to not worry

551
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: about anyway. But obviously I don't want to get some

552
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: moved away. But like, yes, I do worry about body image,

553
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 1: even though I am so body positivity and like such

554
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 1: an icon for like.

555
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 3: For being all about debate.

556
00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, for like size sort of twelve girls or no.

557
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 2: I mean, she's very much like I'll say my wait.

558
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 3: Before and if you read this book you can find

559
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 3: out what that number is. So I was kind of

560
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,880
Speaker 3: like reading the like pregnant recipes and works in here

561
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 3: being like maybe I'll hi, I.

562
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 1: Mean the way all the rest. So there's a lot

563
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: of recipes in the book, the most normal asss just

564
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 1: like cauliflower and rice. They're like the hack the Arawan salad.

565
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was the most la except for this one.

566
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 3: Actually thought was kind of fun because she wasn't being

567
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 3: so ilaria her just like Mongolian beef recipe. It was

568
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 3: being so just like it was being much more like

569
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 3: spend no pennies food blog. Like it was like make

570
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 3: your favorite Chinese takeouts healthier and at home.

571
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it will take seconds, mama.

572
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: Just as good without the gloopy sauce fish you know

573
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 1: you on it.

574
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 3: Oh and then the weird her weird. Ilaria recipe though,

575
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 3: was like, I guess it's her mama team's recipe, Lentil brushetta.

576
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: That was gross.

577
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 3: That's disgusting. Make Lentel's. Don't put brushetta in the title.

578
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 1: Doesn't need to be called bushetta.

579
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 3: Because when you try to make it sounds sexier than

580
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 3: it is. That kind of that turned me off.

581
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 1: Okay. She also says that so she names her kid Riley,

582
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: and they decide the name months before, so two things.

583
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: When she's like, we wanted a gender neutral name, which

584
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 1: I guess is like, that's such a trend now because

585
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: I feel like everyone names their kids like more. You

586
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: name your like daughter like a traditionally boys name yes,

587
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: and it's everyone names their daughter James now.

588
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 3: I mean literally when you it's like all of Reese's

589
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 3: kids are named James, all christ and Cavalier's kids are

590
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 3: named James, all of the Lively's kids are named James,

591
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 3: and then they all have businesses named after.

592
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: Their beautiful James on Common James, Riley James.

593
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 3: What's Teresa's James Raper James? Which I tried to go

594
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 3: to Ashville and it just I had gone to one

595
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 3: common and it's like there's only so many James you

596
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 3: can you.

597
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 1: Can only you can only do one at a time.

598
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 2: This is a different neighborhood. It was hard to fit.

599
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: But it's like it is kind of crazy that all

600
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: mamas now are just like I need to have this

601
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: kind of like it's only like a little bit retro anglow, but.

602
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 3: Like I feel like that is kind of I feel

603
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 3: like the direction I would want to go in. Let's

604
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 3: do baby names. This is fun our top five what

605
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 3: we would name our babies.

606
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: Well, I've always wanted to name my kid. Paris is

607
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: also gender neutral, I guess in this way, I feel

608
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: like what's interesting about the genitial trend. I don't think

609
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: it's like necessarily that you're like guarding against your kid

610
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 1: being non binary.

611
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 2: I think it's trying to make your kids sexty.

612
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: Yes, it's trying to make your kids sexy, and it's

613
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 1: actually sexual you know, it's very sexualizing your child because

614
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 1: you're just like, what's like sexier than like a woman

615
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: in laurn, Men's bear very that And it's also trying

616
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: to make your kid thin. I think no, there's a.

617
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 3: Like when you think about like a girl named like

618
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 3: Frankie with an eye, you're like or.

619
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: Something like that, rank with an I or no E,

620
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 1: or like she.

621
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 2: Goes just by like Frankie or like for I E. Okay,

622
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 2: I think that's what I mean.

623
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: For Frankie with an eye. She sounds like she has

624
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 1: some problems.

625
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, let's it's a movie, okay, And like someone's like, oh, my.

626
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 2: Kid, Frankie will fix your car.

627
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 3: And then just like a hot blonde girl appears named

628
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 3: Frankie I E and is in like a big mechanics chirp.

629
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like a yeah, she's thin and blonde, and

630
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: she's in this like kind of flight suit that's like

631
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 1: just suit. Yeah.

632
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 2: She's like it's very Sidney Sweeney for Ford.

633
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 1: So Sidney Spinney for Ford. What if I name my

634
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: kid Horst scary? Actually it's really quite scary.

635
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 3: Course seems like he's every.

636
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: Time I say that. I was on the phone with

637
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: the United State's Passport Agency today and I was won't.

638
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 3: Get to Stephen's journey with that in the VI beat.

639
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: Loud, and I was spelling my last name, and and

640
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 1: she does that thing where they rattle off all the letters,

641
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 1: so you know, whe they're always just like yeah, Pis

642
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: and Peter, H's and Haunts and Harry and oh, and

643
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 1: then you try to do it and you're just like

644
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: I think of anything, and you can think of anything,

645
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: and you're like Ithaca and then she's like what You're like,

646
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, and then then she knows all them.

647
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: But I said like Phillips horse, and then she was

648
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: just like horse, like the animal, and I'm just like

649
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: people always hear horse and it's kind of just like

650
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: you really you don't actually think my last name is horse?

651
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 1: Do you do? You really think that's Steve? Like I

652
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 1: got that it kind of sounds like that over the phone,

653
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 1: but like just it.

654
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 3: Sounds like a lot of that horse horse, I mean,

655
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 3: passport agency. Can you imagine how.

656
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 2: Many names they hear?

657
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 3: Bitch?

658
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: Well, if anyone should be good at it, it should

659
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: be her bitch. Okay, wait, so I'm maybe my kid.

660
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: But then it's like I don't want want to do

661
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 1: that like forties ship and be so like I'm naming

662
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: it Hobbes, I'm naming it Rousseau like I don't want to.

663
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 3: Who can't really like Calvin Hobbs, Russo Colombo.

664
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I kind of want to actually name it

665
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: Sidney Bristow.

666
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: I could see you with the Sydney or what about this.

667
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 1: Just Bristow, Well, that would be very on trap I.

668
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 2: Would be, wouldn't it This is Sydney and Bristow.

669
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,719
Speaker 1: Boy boy Sydney girl Bristow.

670
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 2: Bristow will be a model, like no doubt.

671
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 1: For sure, like Bristow Harlow, still Harlow, James Bristol, Harlow,

672
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: James Horst. Okay, what's your kid's name? Also? Would you

673
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 1: do an eper dural?

674
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 2: Would do an eper dural? That's just like the drugs, right.

675
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, paying mama give it to me, My mama, give.

676
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 3: It to me. I mean, I know, but maybe when

677
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 3: I get in there, I would be so I want

678
00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 3: to feel it, but I feel like I would be like,

679
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 3: give me all the dru mama. Yeah yeah. Names Okay,

680
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 3: I feel like so family like I would love to

681
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 3: like name after my grandmother and my nonah. Do like

682
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 3: an Angelina or a Sarafina and Carmine dominic se maybe Salvatore.

683
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 2: I feel like that's too far, really crazy. I feel

684
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 2: like a Vincent dominic.

685
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: Okay, a girl named Vincent that is hot. Sorry, Vincent

686
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: st Vincent.

687
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,719
Speaker 3: But then well this I thought was funny, not that

688
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 3: we're planning, but Maya was like, Maya's dad is a

689
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 3: third and so I was like, I thought it would

690
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 3: be so funny. Just keep that going, and.

691
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: Charles Charles just it just skips your dad somehow.

692
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, her dad. So it's like it would

693
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 3: then we would we would have Ralph the fourth.

694
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 2: That's fun, which is fun.

695
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, wait, would you want a boy or girl

696
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 1: or twins?

697
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 3: It's so hard because on one hand, I'm like, oh,

698
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 3: I want a boy so I can play like catch

699
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 3: with him, right, and I'm being so gendered.

700
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: And you can have the sort of moment that you

701
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: never had with your dad.

702
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:18,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, well he played he did play cats with me sometimes.

703
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 2: But then also you're like sometimes you see like little

704
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 2: boys and.

705
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: You're like rambunctious.

706
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 3: And they're like hidding, and you have to be like

707
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 3: you do have to be like Douglas right stop, mommy

708
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 3: is having fits your phone dime, and then you're just

709
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 3: like okay, like girls will be like.

710
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: Maturing, mama's recording her podcast.

711
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 2: Okay, boy or girl.

712
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: Again, It's so tough because it's just like you're like, oh, well,

713
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 1: like okay, here's I actually do.

714
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 3: Because by the way, Meghan was disappointed when she did

715
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 3: find out it was a boy.

716
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 1: She was definitely because she had like thought it was

717
00:34:57,719 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: gonna for that. She got her head around her new

718
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 1: reality and it was totally cool.

719
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 2: And she's like, yes, I can't wait to wipe your boutet.

720
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 1: I guess I'm a little nervous for how I would

721
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 1: raise a girl in there.

722
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 2: I think we're all nervous just because like.

723
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: You know how like gay men and girls and it's

724
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: just like, am I going to be so like yas

725
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: queen about my daughter.

726
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 3: Or like will you be so like telling her like

727
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 3: she's had enough goldfish?

728
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 1: Oh, and I'm giving her an eating Yeah, I was.

729
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 2: More like eating short her.

730
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 3: And you're being like, bish, that's enough goldfish? Yeah, Like

731
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 3: how about some more lentil brushetta.

732
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I agree. I just if there's a lot

733
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 1: of problems arising, right, and if.

734
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 3: Like you could be just a little more like plainmobile set, yeah,

735
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 3: and like maybe like raise.

736
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 2: A boy like right, I know.

737
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 1: But then like our boys with gay dads are, they're

738
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 1: always just like so sad and broken in this.

739
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:10,399
Speaker 3: Way right, and they're like, well, but then like I'm

740
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 3: coming over to play catch and I'm giving him the

741
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 3: father he doesn't have.

742
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 1: Oh it takes a queer village.

743
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 2: It's soker village. Yeah, welcome to it.

744
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 3: A few more things on her diet, but yeah, but

745
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 3: to the body image on her diet journey, her husband

746
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 3: honestly does seem really sweet, and he calls the doctor

747
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 3: to make sure that she can have pizza on her

748
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 3: birthday and she says.

749
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:35,240
Speaker 1: You guys have gestational diabetes.

750
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,919
Speaker 3: Yes, and she has the thinness of Crest which Kim

751
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 3: had gestational diabetes.

752
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 2: It can happen to anyone.

753
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, And she was being really healthy and like walking,

754
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: although she does say like walking is boring at one point,

755
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: which is like, yeah, if you live in just like

756
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: whatever the fucking gator right, Like, yeah, it is fucking

757
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: boring a rio community.

758
00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 3: And again try walking out and seeing bods and random stores,

759
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 3: tattoo shops.

760
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 1: Okay, before we were side once, I would just like

761
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: to read the epilogue. Dear new Mama, I see you,

762
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:12,879
Speaker 1: the messy bun, the leggings that have just a little

763
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,840
Speaker 1: puke on them, that's our shoulders. The full heart that

764
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: sometimes feels like a good break from all the love

765
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: it's holding. I see you on the sleepless nights and

766
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: the slow, perfect mornings. I see you on the days

767
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 1: when you think, wait, I'm a mom. Are you sure

768
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,839
Speaker 1: I can do this? You can? You are? You are

769
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 1: doing it and doing it like only you can. And

770
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: if you ever feel yourself slipping down a rabbit hole

771
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 1: of comparison while you're on Instagram, stop and come back

772
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: to this page. Nobody has the perfect life. A lot

773
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: of people are cropping out the real ship and filtering

774
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 1: it out.

775
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 3: Amen, Amen's sister.

776
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: And again, this book is all about posting.

777
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 3: This all about posting, and we have like so many copies.

778
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 3: So if you're a new mama or expecting or thinking

779
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 3: about it, reach out to us. And this book is

780
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,360
Speaker 3: nothing but positive, truly.

781
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 1: Future segments Did she eat? What does she wear?

782
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 2: How does she live?

783
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 3: Yes, Mama, Mama. I just watched also the music video

784
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 3: for her song Mother. It's something that she's so like

785
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 3: a mama, not like mother.

786
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like it's that thing where her label

787
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:28,919
Speaker 1: was like, you need to make a song called mother

788
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: because then gays will post about it being mother and.

789
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 3: Like in the song there's a clip of a gay

790
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 3: guy going Megan Trainer is literally mother, and I was like,

791
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 3: not really.

792
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,479
Speaker 1: But she's just absolutely not mother.

793
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, what does she eat?

794
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 1: I mean?

795
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 2: So now she says that like her habits. Oh wait,

796
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 2: this was her big tip for when you're pregnant.

797
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:57,760
Speaker 3: Always like never eat out of the bag, like always

798
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 3: puts even if it's just chips, like never snaw mindless,

799
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 3: it's always put it in a bowl.

800
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, always try to sit at the table

801
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 1: and don't be so mindless and TV eating. I will

802
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,439
Speaker 1: say that I do do like TV eating a lot.

803
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: I would say like fifty percent of the time we're

804
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 1: so like making dinner for two and a half hours

805
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 1: and then we're like park in front of the TV

806
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 1: and watch one of our shows, and like the other

807
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 1: half the time we're like sitting at the table with

808
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 1: place mats.

809
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 3: I think more what she's talking about is having the

810
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,240
Speaker 3: bag if you're plating and then bring it to the tables.

811
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 2: Now it's more about the mindless in a bag. So

812
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 2: you don't know how much.

813
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: Exactly, because even when we're eating in front of the TV,

814
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: it's not mindless. It's played, and it's well played. It's

815
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 1: very thoughtful. We're putting napkins in silver wan on the bench,

816
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:41,280
Speaker 1: We're pouring lemon seltzers. We're squeezing fresh lemon into the seltzer.

817
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 2: I'm straight up making wine up my coffe.

818
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: But she is so like cauliflower pizza and like random

819
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 1: frozen stuff, but then also having like like one of

820
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: her many brothers is making her a bison salad, and

821
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 1: then she's going to Arawan obviously all the time and

822
00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:00,360
Speaker 1: buying like a many like lemon beans, smoothies.

823
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 3: So much door dash. Honestly, yeah, she sushi grab hub

824
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:09,839
Speaker 3: but ti, but I think she it's a lot of

825
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 3: like salads and like making sure like mama feels good,

826
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 3: so baby feels good.

827
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 2: And she's eating these like sweet potato pishas.

828
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:23,280
Speaker 1: And like maybe Spy Kids is like having like some

829
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:26,800
Speaker 1: sort of like medium naughty snack out of a bag

830
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: and she's just being like spy kids, don't let me

831
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:29,399
Speaker 1: see that.

832
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 3: I feel like they have tons of those puffed snap

833
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 3: peas that are like flame harvest peas. They are harvest, yeah,

834
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 3: And are they like being so home at it and

835
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 3: putting them into a container.

836
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: Oh yes, and there's like fake script written on the

837
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:51,280
Speaker 1: and she has like and there's like eleven individually wrapped

838
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: bags of harvest peace. She's like, wait, babe, graby grabby harvest.

839
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,280
Speaker 2: I want buffalo harvest, want buffalo harvest.

840
00:40:58,280 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to hungry. I'm the way of my

841
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 1: doctor's man.

842
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 3: I want Lentil brushetta and then a little buffalo harvest.

843
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: What does she wear?

844
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 3: Okay, this whole book is her being like, yes, at

845
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 3: this point, you know, I'm wearing my husband's studies.

846
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 2: You know, I like cute outfits, goodbye.

847
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 1: But I'm like, what are her cute outfits? Right? It's

848
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 1: almost like one of the least like styled celebrities where

849
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 1: you're just like, what is what does she ever wear?

850
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:31,360
Speaker 2: Literally is just like a shirt, Like I'm like.

851
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 1: A pink she's just so for over twenty one, and

852
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:35,800
Speaker 1: I just imagine her in like a blazer with a

853
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: built in shirt on it. But I'm just also like I.

854
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 2: Feel like I imagine more like a dress with a sash.

855
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,720
Speaker 1: I guess she's probably getting styled and like.

856
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 3: For like the ACMs, and it's kind of like and

857
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 3: like there's probably really poofy sleeves or something, and I

858
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 3: think it really shows off the taws and the bass

859
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 3: and then a little forgiving in the book.

860
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:58,879
Speaker 1: Is she like Nantucket girl and being so like.

861
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 3: Some sweatshirts that we saw like last time that are

862
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 3: so like, yes, I missed the fairy.

863
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:07,919
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like the girl who missed the fairy and

864
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 1: then like there's always another fairy.

865
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 2: I should send her one of my t shirts.

866
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe she does have it. There's always another

867
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 1: fairy tea. She probably has a big Nantucket sweatshirt.

868
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 3: I think one big Nantuck sweat.

869
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: Is one big like Nauset High sweatshirt.

870
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 3: That's like faux vintage, but it's also like that so

871
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 3: long ago because she moved it.

872
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:29,239
Speaker 1: I guess still like celebrating nast High.

873
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:30,839
Speaker 3: I don't think there's a nast High.

874
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: Maybe she has like a Columbia Records.

875
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 3: She has a Spike Kids promo hoodie she's wearing.

876
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 1: Like, okay, she would be so like one of her

877
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 1: brothers said high hoodie, yes, but then he's getting her

878
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: a Spike Kids promotional like half zip just be like,

879
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: isn't it hysterical? Mega? And she's been like, ah, I

880
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 1: love this.

881
00:42:55,520 --> 00:43:01,400
Speaker 3: A freak out of my head Spike Kids promo Quartership.

882
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 3: I think she also buys so much stuff off Instagram

883
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 3: and TikTok, so she's like TikTok leggings, Instagram shirts.

884
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and this bleeds into how does she live where?

885
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 1: I do think that she's buying so many lamps off Instagram.

886
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 3: It's like a burrow couch, like.

887
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 1: A rental couch.

888
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:21,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

889
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: No, I mean, but she also had some like probably

890
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 1: just like not even a gay guy, just like a

891
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 1: respectable woman named Meredith, like come over and like my stuff,

892
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: my stuff for her at like all at once, and

893
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,200
Speaker 1: she just has like a big eighteen person brown pouch.

894
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: And at the end of the.

895
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 3: Book, she's being so like contractors being like, h yes,

896
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 3: my house.

897
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 2: Is still being worked on.

898
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like can you believe I moved in a

899
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 3: pandemic and while being a mama.

900
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 1: And I'm sure she has the most like lightwood floor

901
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 1: and that's like probably some gray and like and like

902
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:56,320
Speaker 1: gross and probably like that fake wood that's like treated

903
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 1: or whatever, so that like Cranbradgers can bounce right off.

904
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: I mean, she's so a bounty commercial whe there's always Cranbridge.

905
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: It was like Spilly and then like a big bounty.

906
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 3: Is coming down and being like I would be dead

907
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:14,479
Speaker 3: if it wasn't. I think she's really costco. I think, yeah,

908
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 3: the the backup supplies Yoli's honestly dream, it would be

909
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 3: Yoli's dream.

910
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 2: I think there's toilet paper for days.

911
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 3: You would never get down to the single ply backups.

912
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: Okay, who are you?

913
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 3: In the book?

914
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 1: The book?

915
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 3: I also love in this book how she like right

916
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 3: puts her lyrics to her dumbass songs like poems. In

917
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 3: the middle, it's like, I'm lost, I'm not myself. I

918
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 3: wouldn't mind being anybody else. Sometimes it's hard being covered

919
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 3: in scars. I've run out of shooting stars. It did

920
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:49,839
Speaker 3: make me think of the show The Idyl where it's

921
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 3: like when she wrote like some song about giving birth

922
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 3: and she was like, the labels were never going to go.

923
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: For it, would never go for truth like this, and.

924
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 2: It's like I think they did.

925
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 1: I mean I do. Think That's on Me Too is

926
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: like one of my favorite songs.

927
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 3: No, That's on me too. If I was you, I'd

928
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:08,479
Speaker 3: wanna be me too. Wanna be me too? You turned

929
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 3: me onto that song and I was like, whoa, I've

930
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 3: never heard a better song.

931
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 2: If there's not a better stomping down the street.

932
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: No, okay, am I her evil obdu an at first?

933
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: Who when she's taking her antidepressants, He's like, yeah, stop

934
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 1: taking those candies. And that's why I like.

935
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 3: You could be that which is hash. But you're saying

936
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:29,359
Speaker 3: that is your fear as a.

937
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 1: Father, right. I mean personally, I don't want to be

938
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 1: putting Logan in Paris. I'm putting Wilson and Phillips, Like.

939
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 2: Wilson and Phillips, Sydney and Bristow.

940
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 1: I'm like Ciperlocks or whatever. At age four, that's not

941
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 1: my goal. So I feel like I would be like,

942
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 1: so don't take the candies.

943
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you're that doctor or.

944
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: And you're Rebecca Stanton personal trainer.

945
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, who's just like, look, let's just try like five

946
00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 3: pound weights.

947
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 1: Or am I her four brothers and her advice was

948
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: just like if you don't have a box, you can

949
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 1: use a stool or something, just like her at home

950
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 1: workout advice.

951
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 3: You're gonna okay, okay, yeah, you're like, yeah, so grab

952
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 3: wade to do a lunch and not so yeah, okay,

953
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 3: so they'll be five thousand dollars. Yeah, or we just

954
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:26,840
Speaker 3: are her parents and we own Jewel of thee O dream.

955
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, Bish.

956
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 1: I don't know how to like respond to this book

957
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 1: in a way.

958
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 3: In a way, I'm just like I'm so glad it's

959
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 3: out there.

960
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was nothing in this book. At the same time,

961
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 1: if I were a pregnant mama, I would feel maybe

962
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 1: I would actually feel better having read this. I'd be like, Okay,

963
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: like I don't feel so scared of this and everything

964
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 1: is normal. And I kind of like her idea that

965
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,879
Speaker 1: just like all advice is good and like every all

966
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: information is valid.

967
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 3: I think her advice is just like turn it off

968
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 3: when you don't want it, and turn it on when

969
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 3: you do. I think for like mama's out there, who

970
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 3: are fans of Megan Trainer. There's a lot of like

971
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 3: serious mama books out there. Yeah, and like you can

972
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 3: read this in an hour.

973
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 1: No, I mean this book is not to be like

974
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: wait a minute, is the measurement of a like globula

975
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,799
Speaker 1: like accurate or whatever, And you're like worried about like

976
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:27,800
Speaker 1: them like don't get this for that, But if you're pregnant,

977
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: you're being like what's going on, desh like try and

978
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:30,959
Speaker 1: be like.

979
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 3: Oh bitch, my son is like upside down, like wait

980
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 3: did I buy this right?

981
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah? Like slam through and like some of the shopping

982
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,399
Speaker 1: advice is real. Yeah.

983
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 2: Her best advice is like she shocked too much and

984
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 2: she's being vulnerable.

985
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 1: Again of the day, like win a half like enamel

986
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:48,399
Speaker 1: coded cartusie Nantucket bracelets. Out of five, I.

987
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 3: Give this, I guess yeah, two point six Nantucket based

988
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 3: brothers who have moved out of five, the point one

989
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 3: is just for like how much she says, like, girlfriend,

990
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:06,439
Speaker 3: I'm drinking rose and now I'm not anymore. So yeah,

991
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,240
Speaker 3: and again we have copies.

992
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 1: I will say when that reminds me. She does say

993
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,800
Speaker 1: like no drinking mama, And I feel like the latest

994
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 1: advice I've heard from a lot of momas I know

995
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: is kind of like, you know, you can drink here

996
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: and there?

997
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 3: Who goes yeah, like you It's very like you can

998
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 3: have a beer, it doesn't matter, yeah, or a siege

999
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 3: ray stella sieg dra Absolutely it's a white wine.

1000
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 2: But Daryl went sober for her, beautiful.

1001
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 1: He's really dreaming on he.

1002
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:33,240
Speaker 3: Was helpo being TikTok.

1003
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 2: I know this is over.

1004
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 3: But it's like he's like I saw a TikTok where

1005
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 3: a guy brought a police station to the delivery room

1006
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 3: and made his whole thing being like, bro, don't do that,

1007
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 3: and it's like, obviously that's just like.

1008
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:46,440
Speaker 1: And he like was hooked up a PS two and

1009
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 1: was just like playing in that.

1010
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he was shaming this guy that did that.

1011
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 2: This guy did that to like go viral.

1012
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:55,720
Speaker 1: Oh right on our TikTok of course.

1013
00:48:56,239 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, Hello, yeah, wake up Daryl God, I guess wait

1014
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 3: that's who. Wait, that's literally who You are bringing your

1015
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 3: PS two to the delivery.

1016
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 2: Room, but you would be giving birth.

1017
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:12,840
Speaker 1: I would be giving birthplane PS two goals, break chonder,

1018
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: all right, all right, Mama's bess bus.

1019
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 3: This epic episode of Slevety book Club with Stephen Lily

1020
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:32,280
Speaker 3: was produced by none other than Epic Mama Darby Masters

1021
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:37,320
Speaker 3: hell Yeah Bish executive produced by a girl who got

1022
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:40,239
Speaker 3: me through my first second, third Trimster with all of

1023
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 3: her advice are rose walks with our strollers, Christina Era.

1024
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:49,239
Speaker 1: Literally I would never leave home without her. She is

1025
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 1: my nine one one call, She is my poison control,

1026
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: She is everything. Mama. Trust this woman with your life.

1027
00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 3: And obviously I couldn't have done this without our shared

1028
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 3: husband and.

1029
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:02,720
Speaker 2: Father of our children.

1030
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 1: Supervising producer Abusafar literally dream man, I'm sorry, Who is

1031
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 1: gonna be there to rub all the spots? You know

1032
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about? Elbows needs and toes.

1033
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:18,280
Speaker 3: Anyone watch bad TV and get me as much califlower

1034
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 3: zaw as I want cravings, You got them?

1035
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: Uh yeah? Did you know cauliflower ice crime was a thing?

1036
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,360
Speaker 1: Because it is And now I'm addicted.

1037
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 3: And we had our first child with promo projects and

1038
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:34,240
Speaker 3: we have a shirt custody agreement.

1039
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:37,840
Speaker 1: And I will always love him for being an amazing

1040
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: daddy who always shows up and remembers every birthday.

1041
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 3: Birthdays, even half birthdays. It's so awesome, Papa.

1042
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,919
Speaker 1: Our original theme song was done by Ooh, I don't

1043
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 1: know the og mama.

1044
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:56,720
Speaker 2: Mother Stephen Phillips hores Ah.

1045
00:50:56,920 --> 00:51:00,040
Speaker 3: I put headphones around my big old belly and I

1046
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 3: play the Slappa Club theme.

1047
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:04,840
Speaker 2: Song for my little baby all the time.

1048
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 1: Graphic design was done by I don't know one of

1049
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: this sliginess dads in the whole abys nass. Yes, honey,

1050
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 1: if you want him to do some work, you're gonna

1051
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 1: have to get in line because he has a waiting list.

1052
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 1: He's that good. His name Teddy Blanks, but honey, he's

1053
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: not shooting blanks if you know what I mean.

1054
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 2: So yeah, while.

1055
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 3: The baby snapping, why don't you head over to iTunes

1056
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:31,879
Speaker 3: dot com and give us a big old mama.

1057
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: Rating because mamas need to support each other and lift

1058
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,240
Speaker 1: each other up, honey, because I ain't no one gonna

1059
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:39,800
Speaker 1: do it but other mama's Mama power.