WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Facebook KO

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and we've got

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<v Speaker 1>a brand new Seconday podcast and start off your week.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks so much for being here. And the guy in

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<v Speaker 1>today's second Date has Is it a hobby? Is it

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<v Speaker 1>a passion?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's both. It's a passion hobby.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know it existed. No, me either, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure how I feel about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it reminds me of a guy I follow on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all all said.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, it's very yeah, and you're going to hear

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<v Speaker 1>it in just the second. I enjoy Today's Second Date.

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<v Speaker 1>And we love to always go over the comments. We

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<v Speaker 1>had so many people flood our comments that they just

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<v Speaker 1>want longer episodes, which was so kind over the weekend

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<v Speaker 1>because we want to know what you love about Saturday

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<v Speaker 1>so much.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, that's it and yeah gosh, Tosh said, if

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<v Speaker 4>laughter is the best medicine, then Brooke and Jeffrey are

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<v Speaker 4>basically my twenty four hour pharmacy, which is great because

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<v Speaker 4>politics give me hives. And honestly, the longer the episodes,

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<v Speaker 4>the better my chances of surviving the day.

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<v Speaker 2>Now as a doctor, I am a medical doctor.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't overdose on us either you don't want to laugh

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<v Speaker 3>too much of the.

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<v Speaker 1>Side effects definitely, Yeah. And brain cell loss. Yeah. Laws,

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<v Speaker 1>it is totally a word too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's working.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know. We need to get to this

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<v Speaker 1>new episode. It's starting right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date, up date. I'm calling it right now. We're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna put one.

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<v Speaker 3>Up in the L column today, Okay, L for love. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I was excited, and then I realized it wasn't a

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<v Speaker 1>wo no L for love.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know anything about the listener who emailed us,

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<v Speaker 3>the date he went on, or the person they want

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<v Speaker 3>us to call, But I just have this feeling deep

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<v Speaker 3>down that by the end of this segment it's gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be love one crippling loneliness zero.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeff, let's go because our listener.

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<v Speaker 3>Danny definitely needs some love and Danny, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>You ready for a big L today.

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<v Speaker 5>See, I'm ready for a big w L.

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<v Speaker 2>We need to give you some L.

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<v Speaker 5>I like Danny, Thank you, I appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I will say Jeff came pretty aggressive with that

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<v Speaker 1>L Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry that I'm confident about this at all. He's

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<v Speaker 2>trying to change the ELLEN to love. It's all I

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<v Speaker 2>messed up for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Ja.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let's get back on track here, Danny. So let's

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<v Speaker 3>start at the beginning. Tell us about the person you

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<v Speaker 3>want us to call today.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, guys, I met this nice young lady by the

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<v Speaker 5>name of Jessica was at Whole Foods. I usually meet

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<v Speaker 5>most of my you know, higher class women at Whole Foods.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at that.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait, when you said Jessica was a nice lady, you

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<v Speaker 6>mean like looks why it is nice?

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<v Speaker 2>Or she was actually a nice person.

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<v Speaker 5>When you talk to it all the whole shebang?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So all the quality ladies are at Whole paycheck?

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<v Speaker 1>Huh paycheck? Do you call it that?

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<v Speaker 2>I know everybody that's really funny. Not everybody called you

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<v Speaker 2>spend your whole paycheck?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all the one at least.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I don't even chop there really once a

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<v Speaker 1>month on a box.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, So tell us how you met, Like, how

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<v Speaker 3>did this interaction in the Whole Foods go down?

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<v Speaker 2>With Jessica?

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<v Speaker 5>So I was walking through and I normally last I

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<v Speaker 5>mentioned meet a lot of nice women. I'm not scared

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<v Speaker 5>to talk to strangers sell and complimented on her style

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<v Speaker 5>and her hair. It's kept as simple, that's nice.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you say? That's some nice hair you got.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you compliment?

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<v Speaker 1>You got up there?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And after I complimented her, I asked her for

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<v Speaker 5>ig because that's.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing these days, and that feels safe, like that

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<v Speaker 1>feels like you are in tune with people's boundaries.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, So what did she say?

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<v Speaker 5>She said, no, Oh, what.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you actually go on a day with her?

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<v Speaker 5>Or? Well? I was surprised she actually ended up giving

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<v Speaker 5>me her number.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you can't have my Instagram, but you can't have

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<v Speaker 3>my phone number because I never actually answered, or it

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<v Speaker 3>gives her the option to block you quicker.

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<v Speaker 2>Or to give a fake number exactly power moves by her.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm assuming that wasn't the case.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, it was old school and I like old school.

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<v Speaker 5>So I ended up giving her a call.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you actually called? You didn't even text?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. So I invited her to a nice, fancy, high

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<v Speaker 5>end barb and I figured she was enjoying herself because

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<v Speaker 5>we were talking for a couple hours.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a great sign, like, what were you guys connecting over?

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<v Speaker 5>We talked about everything. I remember us talking about travel

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<v Speaker 5>and where we both wanted to go. We've never been

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<v Speaker 5>to Iceland, so we talked about going to Iceland.

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<v Speaker 3>So you guys are sharing things are going good. What

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<v Speaker 3>type of vibe are you getting from her?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm, you know, getting a good vib. I'm picking up

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<v Speaker 5>the receptive kind of vibe from her. She did at

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<v Speaker 5>one point start to talk about a trip to Mexico

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<v Speaker 5>where she got bucked off of the horse she was riding,

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<v Speaker 5>and I laughed, you laughed, man, She got.

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<v Speaker 4>A and did she's telling a serious story about of course.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe she was honestly broke my back.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that would be a funny story too.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's what I thought too. I must have read

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<v Speaker 5>her wrong, you know. I apologized and I said, I

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<v Speaker 5>thought you were joking, and we were able to get

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<v Speaker 5>past it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So that's the one moment that stood out to

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<v Speaker 1>you is like kind of being off.

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<v Speaker 5>There was one thing that I said about a weird

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<v Speaker 5>hobby that maybe might have rubbed her the wrong way.

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<v Speaker 5>I collect vintage maps.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 2>How would a vintage map rub her the wrong way?

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<v Speaker 1>She hates when countries aren't currently labeled what they're actually salling.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yes, Czechoslovakia that doesn't exist.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe it sounded more like an old person hobby to her.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, rubbed her the wrong ways and turned her off,

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<v Speaker 2>is what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 5>It turned her off.

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<v Speaker 1>People say that about stamp collecting, and I still think

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<v Speaker 1>it's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, point proven there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not far off from old maps.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're not kidding. So how long has it been

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<v Speaker 2>since that date?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's been two weeks since our day and I

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<v Speaker 5>haven't been in contact with her at all. I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>sure what transpired because I'm not a guy that normally

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<v Speaker 5>just goes on one date and not another. You know

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<v Speaker 5>what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>You usually get another name.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, well you sound I mean it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you listen and you take interest in the person like

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<v Speaker 1>that alone will usually get you another night.

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<v Speaker 5>And you guys can't even see me. I consider myself

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<v Speaker 5>a pretty good looking dude.

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<v Speaker 2>So we got to catch here.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm got to hear it through the phone, though, a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit of attractive quality is going on. The good

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<v Speaker 3>news is you had some setbacks, but you got back

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<v Speaker 3>on that metaphorical horse.

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<v Speaker 2>When it bucked you off.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't use that.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll save the horse metaphors and put them in you

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<v Speaker 2>got it.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, we'll put it back in the stable before we

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<v Speaker 3>call Jessica for you and try and get you your

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<v Speaker 3>second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, thank you guys for your help.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>We've been talking to Danny and learned Danny likes himself

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<v Speaker 3>a classy gal.

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<v Speaker 2>Because he met Jessica.

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<v Speaker 3>In a Whole Foods Hello Bougie, took her to an

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<v Speaker 3>upstale cocktail bar okay swanky, and talked about traveling the

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<v Speaker 3>world with her Hello Luxury. Oh wait, and he did

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<v Speaker 3>suffer a small setback after she shared a personal story

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<v Speaker 3>about getting thrown off a horse in Mexico, and Danny

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<v Speaker 3>laughed at that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I thought it would have been appropriate laughter time too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, anytime Brooks shares a personal story, we all burst

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<v Speaker 3>into last.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I mean people's misery is funny, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Brookstorre's like I bucked a horse off of my back.

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<v Speaker 3>Aside from that, he felt very confident that he would

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<v Speaker 3>be seeing her again, which brings us to this moment

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<v Speaker 3>two weeks later where he's hearing nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>So Danny, before we call her, how are you feeling

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<v Speaker 2>about this.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm still in shock because I'm never wanting done. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>always getting to return favors after the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>So weird, wait, but I like it. If she says no,

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<v Speaker 1>will it be the first time you've been rejected? Very

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<v Speaker 1>whoa ever welcome to the club.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a friend who was a model and I

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<v Speaker 3>was there for the first time he was ever rejected.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it hard for him?

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<v Speaker 2>It really was.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're jokingly.

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<v Speaker 5>You could see in his.

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<v Speaker 2>Eyes He's like, how is this even a possibility? So

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<v Speaker 2>I hope that doesn't happen to you today, Broke.

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<v Speaker 3>But if it does and you want to hug afterwards,

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<v Speaker 3>or exchange favors.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever you like to do after, it's like, we're there

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<v Speaker 2>for you. Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the one that brought up favors.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to speak his language. So bottom line, we're

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<v Speaker 2>there for you, Danny, and.

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<v Speaker 5>I appreciate thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>We appreciate you. We're going to show you after the call.

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<v Speaker 2>But let's call Jessica first.

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<v Speaker 5>Here we go you.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hey, is this Jessica. Yes, he's hey Jessica. We

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<v Speaker 2>are a radio show calling you. We're called Brooke and

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sorry if you're busy right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Why is there a radio station calling me?

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<v Speaker 3>Part of that, but mostly because we do this segment

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<v Speaker 3>on the show that's called the second Date Update where

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<v Speaker 3>we help out our listeners who've gone out with someone

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<v Speaker 3>and they're not getting a call back for a second meetup.

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<v Speaker 1>What don't you want to know? Who wrote us about you?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>A guy named Danny.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh what I heard the g.

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<v Speaker 2>Why that reaction?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, we just don't connect, So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>This is to me really, because that is so strange.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he was a really nice guy who

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<v Speaker 1>was really interest and easy to.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk to because we spoke to him before. We spoke

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<v Speaker 2>to him before calling you, and he told us about

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<v Speaker 2>the date.

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<v Speaker 3>From his description, it seems to have a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>really nice moments between you two where you vibed got

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<v Speaker 3>to know each other.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I feel like he is the kind of person

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<v Speaker 6>that would have a challenge to find any match with

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<v Speaker 6>any woman.

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<v Speaker 5>This is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, you have you have to explain why he

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<v Speaker 1>was so off putting, because I don't know if he

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<v Speaker 1>just like pulled one over on us, but he sounded fine.

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<v Speaker 5>Save almost the absolute opposite.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, it's just.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you like walk us through the date in your eyes?

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<v Speaker 2>We need something specific that gave you that impression.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I saw things were going okay, but once

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<v Speaker 6>I started to dig deeper, I found out some things

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<v Speaker 6>that just kind of turned me off.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, like things in your conversation that he revealed.

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<v Speaker 6>Or yeah, well, we were talking about hobbies and then

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<v Speaker 6>he said he was into boxing and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>that's like cool. You spar at the gym and he

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<v Speaker 6>was like, no, I spar in parking lots.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh like street boxing, maybe like fight club style?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what I mean? Did you ask more?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I did.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like with the random people, and he said

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<v Speaker 6>no over Facebook arguments, what.

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<v Speaker 1>He gets in fights with people on Facebook? And then

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<v Speaker 1>meets him in parking lots, red flags everywhere.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess.

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<v Speaker 6>So, I mean I got out of there soon he

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<v Speaker 6>like could because it was starting to freak me out.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess she was very proud of this hobby that

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<v Speaker 6>he had, and I was just like, I really hate violence,

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<v Speaker 6>and also like, what do you expect me to go

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<v Speaker 6>out with somebody who hits people and.

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook that actively? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's so, and like boxing is a sport,

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<v Speaker 1>this isn't a sport. I picture him meeting like fifty

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<v Speaker 1>plus year old people in parking lots and yeah, sure.

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<v Speaker 3>In but maybe that's just our understanding of it. Maybe

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<v Speaker 3>he has a totally different thing that he does and

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<v Speaker 3>we're just interpreting it the wrong way, the wrong Well,

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<v Speaker 3>let's ask him, because I need to tell you, Jessica,

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<v Speaker 3>he's on the other line right now, listening to this conversation,

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>He's on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, see, there he is.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't know you felt that way. You should have

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<v Speaker 5>said something, you know what, that's kind of threatening?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like you get so upset at Facebook comments that

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<v Speaker 1>you have to beat people up over them.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, hold on, that's how we're interpreting. And what do

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<v Speaker 2>you actually do?

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<v Speaker 5>Explain it, Danny, Jessica, you're getting this all wrong. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>actually doing the neighborhood a favor by dealing with these

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<v Speaker 5>Facebook trolls one at a time in person in their driveway.

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<v Speaker 1>What wait, what defines a Facebook troll?

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<v Speaker 5>Come on there and talk a bunch of crap?

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<v Speaker 1>Aren't they usually like either teenagers or really really old

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<v Speaker 1>people or paid for engagement.

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<v Speaker 2>I troll all day long. I make a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 2>Be careful. You might try to engage you in a

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<v Speaker 2>parking lot. Sometimes, Hey, man, if it's mutual, that's one thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen. I don't go looking for them. I engage them online.

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<v Speaker 5>If they want to meet up, man a man, square up,

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<v Speaker 5>I usually offer a place like a Costco parking lot,

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<v Speaker 5>and then we meet up neutral ground.

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<v Speaker 1>But also, like Jessica, Facebook trolls do kind of suck.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, now that you've heard his side of the story,

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<v Speaker 2>does it make you feel a little bit better about it?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, which part of it don't you like?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I couldn't picture my boyfriend saying, hey, I

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<v Speaker 6>gotta leave early tonight. I have to go beat someone

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<v Speaker 6>up at the home Depot parking lot.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen, Jessica, what I'm doing is a lot cheaper than therapy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's true, probably less effective.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, well therapy for you or is it for

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<v Speaker 2>therapy for the Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe, yeah, definitely for me. I'm so much more than Like,

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<v Speaker 5>after I knock someone.

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<v Speaker 3>Out, they're kind of at peace too, for a few

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<v Speaker 3>seconds till they regain consciousness.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a really good friend that struggled with depression

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<v Speaker 1>and he got into jiu jitsu. Is that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing. Are supposed to go into boxing too.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a form of physical terrify You guys are acting

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<v Speaker 5>like this is a chaotic brawl. This is a gentleman sport.

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<v Speaker 5>We take hands after sometimes we might crack a beer

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<v Speaker 5>if I have one in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how many Facebook trolls have you fought?

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good question.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually I have lost count at this point.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, or he's got brain damage.

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<v Speaker 1>Only count to ten the names from my page I

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<v Speaker 1>can send him.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'll take them on if they meet me,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Hen a full time job, not a hobby.

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<v Speaker 2>Text in se you want to find our friend?

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<v Speaker 5>Kidding?

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<v Speaker 3>So, if I'm reading the room right here, it sounds

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<v Speaker 3>like Jessica is still feeling a little bit cold on

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<v Speaker 3>this idea of Facebook parking lot brawls.

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<v Speaker 2>So, Danny, is there any last things that you want

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<v Speaker 2>to say to her? Before we asked the question.

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<v Speaker 5>I just want to let her know that I met

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<v Speaker 5>with her ex boyfriend last week and all excuse me,

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<v Speaker 5>that's a joke. It's a joke, but I would do

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<v Speaker 5>it okay, Okay, humor, that's good in all seriousness. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>a good dude. You want to hang out with me,

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<v Speaker 5>you just don't know yet, and I'll protect you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's okay. I did not like that sentence that

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<v Speaker 2>being said.

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<v Speaker 3>We would like to offer to send you on another

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<v Speaker 3>date with Danny, and we would pay for it, Jessica,

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<v Speaker 3>But it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Up to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he'll have no jealousy issues once you guys

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<v Speaker 1>start dating.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I'm not interested.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, man, we thought we had right yes, so close,

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<v Speaker 3>felt almost ready to say yes. Not this time.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a solution though, for the Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook trolls.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's oh yeah, are you available for hire?

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<v Speaker 5>Danny? Yes, I am. And Jessica, just so you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not sorry that I laughed at you've fallen off

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<v Speaker 5>with the horse.

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<v Speaker 3>Unnecessary, but he will beat up that horse in a

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<v Speaker 3>Walmart parking lot to get even for you, Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 3>the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>On the surface, fighting Randos off of Facebook seems barbaric,

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<v Speaker 3>but they're agreeing to meet up with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's my point.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not surprising them with a fighting un and according

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<v Speaker 3>to Danny. They even shake hands and sometimes grab beers

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<v Speaker 3>together afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really like wavering on this one, back and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's like to describe it as a

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<v Speaker 1>hobby is kind of the strange point.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, sure, but maybe it's face to face stuff

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<v Speaker 3>and not hiding behind computers and saying terrible things to.

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<v Speaker 2>Each other all day long. Maybe that's actually a healthy

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<v Speaker 2>thing for the entire world. You usually want to get

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<v Speaker 2>to that point. When I noticed on Facebook people just

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<v Speaker 2>block people, It's.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, where do you live?

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, man, get out of here.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact the other guy's like, sure, show up, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>show up, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, we'll just get off Facebook.

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<v Speaker 3>But then we're not resolving our issues. Alexis like if

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<v Speaker 3>it was if it was me, I would personally do

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<v Speaker 3>it a little different. I'd meet him outside of Barnes

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<v Speaker 3>and Noble and we'd do a thumb wrestle.

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<v Speaker 1>But I like that, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, but I'm even older than the Facebook.

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<v Speaker 1>What about it tip a fight?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm open for that too, But I do understand what

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<v Speaker 3>he's doing, what he's trying to accomplish. I'm a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit disappointed that Jessica wasn't able to look deeper than

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<v Speaker 3>just his fist flying through a Costco rumble. But remember

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<v Speaker 3>you can always find all of our second dates wherever

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<v Speaker 3>you get your podcasts, and be careful what you write

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<v Speaker 3>in the comments because Danny's watching, so be extra nice

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<v Speaker 3>to brook In there. You'll find it at brook and

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey