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<v Speaker 1>Need Leasic Trust the experienced team at the Leasic Center

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<v Speaker 1>What will you do? Lasik at Evergreen dot com, Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewels second dat up day. I didn't think people

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<v Speaker 1>met anybody at a car wash since like the seventies,

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<v Speaker 1>But apparently I was wrong. It's Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Because Jake is on the phone. Apparently that's

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<v Speaker 1>where he met the girl that he wants to call today.

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<v Speaker 1>He met her at a car wash. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>car wash parties in the current day. But Jake, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? How are you doing? Pretty good? So

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<v Speaker 1>you met what's her name? Melanie? Melanie? You met Melanie

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<v Speaker 1>at the car wash? Yeah? How'd that happen? I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you. I was, I was driving and then

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<v Speaker 1>I saw this Trundra car washing was allowed, pretty girls

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<v Speaker 1>out there washing their cars and I saw it. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so you were just you saw a charity car washing

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to perve out for a bit. Wait, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>this isn't like a high school cheerleading squad, right, because

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<v Speaker 1>those are the only people I ever see doing charity. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no, No No, Leans didn't look like that. They looked, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>over agent, they look legal. Oh so you figured you'd

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<v Speaker 1>pull in there and really do some detective work and

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out. Yeah, I mean I didn't really need

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<v Speaker 1>a car was was, but you know, it was like

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<v Speaker 1>a good excuse to get in there and then talk

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<v Speaker 1>to some ladies. Okay, Well, the lady that you want

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<v Speaker 1>us to call Melanie, she's legal or she's a cheerleader.

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<v Speaker 1>And well here's the thing, though, I went in there

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<v Speaker 1>and tell him I want to get my car washed.

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<v Speaker 1>So as I try to talk to the few ladies

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<v Speaker 1>that were there, they were all too basically so, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to paying attention to me. So I went

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<v Speaker 1>and sat down waiting for my car to get washed.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at Melanie. Now, was she washing cars or was

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<v Speaker 1>she also getting her car washed? No, she was waiting.

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<v Speaker 1>She was waiting for her car as well. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you just struck up a conversation with her. I sat

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<v Speaker 1>down next to her. I was kind of like bummed

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<v Speaker 1>out on my phone, and then she's like, oh, there's

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<v Speaker 1>some really nice shoes you guys. Because I turned around

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<v Speaker 1>and I looked at her like wow, this goes forgeus. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just started talking to her and uh, we

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<v Speaker 1>got off in a good star. We had a nice

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and I asked her for a Numble's dinner. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean I'm guessing you guys went out and

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<v Speaker 1>had dinner. Yeah, yeah, all right, how was it? I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was going great, but I guess I said

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<v Speaker 1>something that should have said to the vibe just like

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<v Speaker 1>completely turned around after that. What did you ask her?

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<v Speaker 1>We were just talking, trying to get to know each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, so, you know, like, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you make a year? What you ask asked her salary? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like something you don't ask anybody really what That's

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what she says. So the whole vibe just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of went like, you know, so wait, how far into

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<v Speaker 1>the date when you ask that? Half an hour? Pretty minute?

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<v Speaker 1>But we're talking about a job, and it just sow

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<v Speaker 1>so kind of natural to ask, you know, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you make a year? Well, that's never it's never natural,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's never okay to ask somebody that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like the un thing that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>you wonder but you don't ask. I mean, it's even

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable sometimes for me to ask my husband how much money,

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<v Speaker 1>and I try to make it better if I tell

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<v Speaker 1>her how much I made. I was like, okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>know mine, well what's yours? And nothing. She she wouldn't,

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<v Speaker 1>she would say anything. She was just looked at me

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<v Speaker 1>like I was crazy. Come on, it was just a question.

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<v Speaker 1>I was nervous. I didn't know what else to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to keep a conversation going. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing I talked. How are you going to

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<v Speaker 1>continue that conversation either like a good for you or

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<v Speaker 1>a yeah, me give you some tips I how to

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<v Speaker 1>make more? Like do you make a lot of money yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>Like when you told her your number? Is it normal?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it impressive? Where we're at now you're asking bro?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we're talking about it. Oh you know, it's decent, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So it's it's just an okay salary. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like you're trying to be like I'm a billionaire.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, I mean, like come on, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>need some all right. So I think that's okay then, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>because it could have put off as you being braggadocious,

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<v Speaker 1>but like you weren't able to recover of her. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying, but I don't know. It just she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't really taking anything I was saying, So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I really think I met it up. How

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<v Speaker 1>did you end things with her? Well? I paid for dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>then she gave me a kiss of her cheek. I

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<v Speaker 1>was hoping for a little bit more. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>based on my behavior, I guess I got what I deserve. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a pretty rude question, man, having calling her, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to text her, but I don't. I just nothing, no text,

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<v Speaker 1>no call. No. Maybe she doesn't make enough in her

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<v Speaker 1>cell phone bill got turned you know, have you have

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<v Speaker 1>you had a chance to apologize to her. No, But

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<v Speaker 1>if he was gonna help me out, I would definitely

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<v Speaker 1>give her my best apology. Maybe I can get a

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<v Speaker 1>second day. Okay, Well we'll play a song and then

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<v Speaker 1>come back and call her and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, thank you? All right? Hanging looking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. There are certain things you should never ask

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<v Speaker 1>somebody on a first date. You probably don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>ask about politics. You don't want to ask them if

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<v Speaker 1>they were to suddenly go missing. Would anybody look for them,

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<v Speaker 1>and you probably don't want to ask him how much

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<v Speaker 1>money they make. And that's the problem that Jake made.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's on the phone for a second date update right now?

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<v Speaker 1>He went out with a girl named Melanie. They met

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<v Speaker 1>at a car wash, had dinner together, and he thinks

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<v Speaker 1>that he screwed it all up because at a certain

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<v Speaker 1>point he asked her how much money she made, and

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<v Speaker 1>from that point on, the date went downhill. She left.

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<v Speaker 1>She did end up giving him a kiss on the cheek,

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<v Speaker 1>but she doesn't talk to him since. All right, Jake,

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to call her and find out if that

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<v Speaker 1>is the reason. Are you ready? Hemy breathing It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you're more than ready, sounds like he actually finished.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't even got into the second day update yet. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you good? Now? Are you gonna still make the

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<v Speaker 1>phone call? Yeah? No? Come, okay, I mean you sound nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I took that a little bit, A little bit, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, okay. I think that you're gonna be able

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<v Speaker 1>to apologize to her and she's gonna understand. You just

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<v Speaker 1>stick to the you made me so nervous part? Okay, okay, okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and finish up whatever you're doing before you start talking

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<v Speaker 1>to her. All right, but just put your phone on

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<v Speaker 1>mute while we talked to her, so you're not making

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<v Speaker 1>weird noise in the background. Okay, okay, all right, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello. Hi, can I speak to Melanie please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she? Hey Melanie? How are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Uh. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know what that is? Do you? No? No? What?

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jewel in the Morning is a radio show? Well? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I figured that. Who are you? What's going on? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from Brooke and Jewl in the Morning and we

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<v Speaker 1>do a segment on our show called the second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever heard of that before? No? Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>I'll explain. A second date update is where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with somebody and then end

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<v Speaker 1>up not calling them back after, they can email us

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<v Speaker 1>to get you on the phone and find out what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>And we recently got an email about you from a

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<v Speaker 1>dude named Jake. Okay you know Jake? Oh yeah, yep, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So Jake told us about your date and he also

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<v Speaker 1>told us that you're not answering his phone calls or

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<v Speaker 1>text messages or anything, and is wondering why you're blowing

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<v Speaker 1>him off. Am I supposed to tell you why? I

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<v Speaker 1>would love it if you would, so Jake, he actually

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<v Speaker 1>wants to know the answer. This is kind of weird,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's fine. I'll tell you. Okay, this is so

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<v Speaker 1>he told you we met it this car wash place. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he told us all about that. He thinks the reason

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling him back is because he asked about

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<v Speaker 1>how much money you made. Oh. He said that was

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<v Speaker 1>the like moment everything changed, like you went from being

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<v Speaker 1>interested to being totally put off. Oh okay, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it was that moment, although that was a weird

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<v Speaker 1>one as well. So what was it? So? Jake seemed

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<v Speaker 1>really nice the car washing, but he I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>He's really not my type. How So did he tell

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<v Speaker 1>you he's originally from Spain and he just moved over here. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm too long ago. We talked to him and or

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<v Speaker 1>an accident, but we didn't ask about where it was

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<v Speaker 1>from or anything. Okay, So he's originally from Spain and

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<v Speaker 1>a sounds pretty sexy to me. Um sure, yeah, except

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<v Speaker 1>he went on and on like almost immediately from the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of our date. He went on and on complaining

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<v Speaker 1>that like ever since he got here, that he has

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<v Speaker 1>been he's like not been able to hook up with

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<v Speaker 1>when in and he's so frustrated that American women are

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<v Speaker 1>so uptight and they should be more not kidding you.

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<v Speaker 1>He goes into this thing like we need to be

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<v Speaker 1>more free, we need to be more sexual. Is it

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<v Speaker 1>weird that I'm like, he kind of has a point.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Like we are kind of a prudish country.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that, but this is a first date and

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<v Speaker 1>it's the first topic of conversation he's going to bring up.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was in the creepiest way, like all the

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<v Speaker 1>red flags, all of them. I guess it's weird to

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<v Speaker 1>complain that you've moved to a country and are having

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<v Speaker 1>trouble getting laid. Yeah, when you're on a date, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not like you're hanging out with a buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, man, I can't hook up with a girl,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're like, hey, you want to go out for dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, nobody will have sex with me here.

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<v Speaker 1>But it wasn't even like in a cop you just

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<v Speaker 1>said that very casually. Okay, that's a very casual thing

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<v Speaker 1>to stay in a conversation and be mature about. But

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<v Speaker 1>he was like smarmy, gross about it. Is it? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>was it the way he was talking? Was it his

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<v Speaker 1>body language? Could you point to one specific thing above all?

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<v Speaker 1>He would go into this like it was almost like

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<v Speaker 1>a pitch like back in my home in Spain, women

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<v Speaker 1>would throw themselves at the floor to me, like he

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<v Speaker 1>was a king or something. It was so gross. I

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<v Speaker 1>just can't even you can't like chalk it up to

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<v Speaker 1>cultural differences. I'm sure part of it is that, But

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, there's a way to have a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>about that without making it creepy and weird. It was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish you could have done there. I really do,

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<v Speaker 1>I really do, because I've never I mean I've been

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<v Speaker 1>around like creepy dudes. I've never felt this uncomfortable. Really.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just, you know, you just have like this feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>this instinct. I can't really describe it. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I shouldn't be here. I gotta go Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's good. You probably don't want to be here either, Melanie.

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<v Speaker 1>Because Jake is on the other line listing and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Oh my, okay, keep living right

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<v Speaker 1>now unless you hung up? Jake, Are you still there?

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<v Speaker 1>I am, ah, okay, So is it my accident? No, Jake.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was the fact that you were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about not being able to hook up with American chicks

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<v Speaker 1>and what's wrong with that? Well, it's a date. It's

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're on a date. You know. It's just in America,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't talk about sleeping with other people when on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date. That's what I mean. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand. Why are you guys are so tight

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<v Speaker 1>about you know, sex, everything you know? In Spain is

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<v Speaker 1>very natural to talk about those things, whether in a

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<v Speaker 1>first date or your home with your mom or your grandmother,

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<v Speaker 1>you know mother. I like his liberated like point of

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<v Speaker 1>view in terms of it's natural, everyone does it. But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, are you hearing what she said about being uncomfortable? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta say it. I was very surprised, very shot.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Spain women love all that kind of talk.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a piece of my apologies. I'm a I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>very sexual person. I'm very shree when it comes to that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was, you know, I was hoping you've been in

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<v Speaker 1>the same way, and so you know antiqua you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like an antique kind of thing. You know, Listen, I

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<v Speaker 1>think most people are sexual beings. It's part of our

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<v Speaker 1>human nature. But there's a respectful way to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>And you cross those lines immediately like I have no

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<v Speaker 1>interest in seeing or I don't even know real ability.

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<v Speaker 1>So we kind of like lost in translation kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, because if I was alone with you, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I would do thanks to you that you can even

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<v Speaker 1>think of. You know, I being says, oh no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>did you hear what I just said. It doesn't work.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't work that way. You're not being a respectful

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<v Speaker 1>human being. I think you're being a little too of time.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe like glass of the Kila will help you calm

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<v Speaker 1>down a little bit and thank Okay, okay. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>if you were to give him like some tips on

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<v Speaker 1>how if he got to redo it, I mean, what

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<v Speaker 1>would you want him to do differently next time? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>be a different person. I'd be kind of tough to do.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got to free yourself up here. You're like, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna sell You're You're you're obstructing yourself from liberations

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<v Speaker 1>and freedom of sex, whether it's with men or woman

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<v Speaker 1>or both at the same time or multiple. Hope, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be fine without you. Thanks. Are you sure, Melanie, would

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<v Speaker 1>you liked about with Jake on a second date? We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for it. Absolutely not. Okay, I didn't see

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<v Speaker 1>that coming at all, Melanie. I mean fine, Look, I

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<v Speaker 1>get it. I understand you're not as as sexually liberated

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<v Speaker 1>as I am. You're not as sexually free as I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you can guide me in the right direction. Or

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<v Speaker 1>might you have some friends that are more sexually liberated

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<v Speaker 1>than yourself? What now he's gonna ask to meet my friends? Ye? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little frustrating because no one will sleep with

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<v Speaker 1>me here. Come on, Melanie, can you hook him up?

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<v Speaker 1>You have any friends that might sleep with Jake since

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<v Speaker 1>he's having I think I'm going to save all my

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<v Speaker 1>friends the headache and just say no. Well all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so Melanie, thank you every time. Jacob, Sorry, no second date.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, we do have a lot of American

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<v Speaker 1>women who listen to this show. Is there any last

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<v Speaker 1>minute please you'd like to put out to them? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all the beautiful women out there. I mean talking

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<v Speaker 1>about than at the end of this. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>look to please woman and I'm having a hard time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well with that Spanish, you just drop right there, Jake done,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll sleep with you. Yeah, it's good, we're good. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. But if there's any woman that are interested,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll send them your way. Jake, take care of man,

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<v Speaker 1>broken jewel in the morning.