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Speaker 1: What will you do? Lasik at Evergreen dot com, Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jewels second dat up day. I didn't think people

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Speaker 1: met anybody at a car wash since like the seventies,

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Speaker 1: But apparently I was wrong. It's Brook and Jewel in

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Speaker 1: the morning. Because Jake is on the phone. Apparently that's

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Speaker 1: where he met the girl that he wants to call today.

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Speaker 1: He met her at a car wash. A lot of

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Speaker 1: car wash parties in the current day. But Jake, what's up?

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Speaker 1: How are you? How are you doing? Pretty good? So

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Speaker 1: you met what's her name? Melanie? Melanie? You met Melanie

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Speaker 1: at the car wash? Yeah? How'd that happen? I'll be

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Speaker 1: honest with you. I was, I was driving and then

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Speaker 1: I saw this Trundra car washing was allowed, pretty girls

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Speaker 1: so you were just you saw a charity car washing

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Speaker 1: this isn't like a high school cheerleading squad, right, because

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Speaker 1: those are the only people I ever see doing charity. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no, No No, Leans didn't look like that. They looked, you know,

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Speaker 1: to some ladies. Okay, Well, the lady that you want

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Speaker 1: And well here's the thing, though, I went in there

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Speaker 1: I'm at Melanie. Now, was she washing cars or was

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Speaker 1: she also getting her car washed? No, she was waiting.

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Speaker 1: So I mean I'm guessing you guys went out and

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Speaker 1: completely turned around after that. What did you ask her?

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Speaker 1: We were just talking, trying to get to know each other,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, so, you know, like, what do

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Speaker 1: you make a year? What you ask asked her salary? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's like something you don't ask anybody really what That's

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Speaker 1: But we're talking about a job, and it just sow

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Speaker 1: so kind of natural to ask, you know, what do

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Speaker 1: her how much I made. I was like, okay, you

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Speaker 1: a yeah, me give you some tips I how to

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Speaker 1: make more? Like do you make a lot of money yourself?

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Speaker 1: Like when you told her your number? Is it normal?

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Speaker 1: somebody on a first date. You probably don't want to

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Speaker 1: money they make. And that's the problem that Jake made.

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Speaker 1: Who's on the phone for a second date update right now?

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Speaker 1: He went out with a girl named Melanie. They met

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Speaker 1: from that point on, the date went downhill. She left.

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Speaker 1: She did end up giving him a kiss on the cheek,

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Speaker 1: but she doesn't talk to him since. All right, Jake,

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Speaker 1: Are you good? Now? Are you gonna still make the

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello. Hi, can I speak to Melanie please?

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Speaker 1: This is she? Hey Melanie? How are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Uh. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you don't know what that is? Do you? No? No? What?

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewel in the Morning is a radio show? Well? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I figured that. Who are you? What's going on? I'm

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brooke and Jewl in the Morning and we

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Speaker 1: do a segment on our show called the second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of that before? No? Okay, well

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Speaker 1: I'll explain. A second date update is where if you

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Speaker 1: And we recently got an email about you from a

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Speaker 1: dude named Jake. Okay you know Jake? Oh yeah, yep, okay,

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Speaker 1: So Jake told us about your date and he also

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Speaker 1: he told you we met it this car wash place. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: how much money you made. Oh. He said that was

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Speaker 1: He goes into this thing like we need to be

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Speaker 1: By the way, nobody will have sex with me here.

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Speaker 1: But it wasn't even like in a cop you just

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Speaker 1: said that very casually. Okay, that's a very casual thing

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Speaker 1: he was like smarmy, gross about it. Is it? I mean,

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Speaker 1: was it the way he was talking? Was it his

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Speaker 1: body language? Could you point to one specific thing above all?

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Speaker 1: He would go into this like it was almost like

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Speaker 1: a pitch like back in my home in Spain, women

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Speaker 1: like I said, there's a way to have a conversation

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Speaker 1: I wish you could have done there. I really do,

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Speaker 1: I really do, because I've never I mean I've been

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Speaker 1: well that's good. You probably don't want to be here either, Melanie.

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Speaker 1: Because Jake is on the other line listing and wants

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Speaker 1: to talk to you. Oh my, okay, keep living right

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Speaker 1: now unless you hung up? Jake, Are you still there?

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Speaker 1: I am, ah, okay, So is it my accident? No, Jake.

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Speaker 1: I think it was the fact that you were talking

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Speaker 1: and what's wrong with that? Well, it's a date. It's

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Speaker 1: we don't talk about sleeping with other people when on

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Speaker 1: you know mother. I like his liberated like point of

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Speaker 1: I gotta say it. I was very surprised, very shot.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Spain women love all that kind of talk.

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Speaker 1: And you cross those lines immediately like I have no

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Speaker 1: So we kind of like lost in translation kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: did you hear what I just said. It doesn't work.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't work that way. You're not being a respectful

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Speaker 1: Maybe like glass of the Kila will help you calm

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Speaker 1: not gonna sell You're You're you're obstructing yourself from liberations

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Speaker 1: be fine without you. Thanks. Are you sure, Melanie, would

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Speaker 1: will pay for it. Absolutely not. Okay, I didn't see

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Speaker 1: than yourself? What now he's gonna ask to meet my friends? Ye? Well,

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Speaker 1: You have any friends that might sleep with Jake since

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Speaker 1: so Melanie, thank you every time. Jacob, Sorry, no second date.

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Speaker 1: But you know, we do have a lot of American

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Speaker 1: it's all the beautiful women out there. I mean talking

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Speaker 1: well with that Spanish, you just drop right there, Jake done,

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Speaker 1: I'll sleep with you. Yeah, it's good, we're good. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you. But if there's any woman that are interested,

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Speaker 1: we'll send them your way. Jake, take care of man,

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Speaker 1: broken jewel in the morning.