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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 2: It's time for a little question and answer from the

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Speaker 2: listeners in our audience. We always appreciate hearing from you.

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Speaker 2: We have kind of one relational question Ashley, and then

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Speaker 2: we have a few that are a little lighthearted, more

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Speaker 2: bachelorette Bachelor focused. Let's start with a few bachelor focused

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Speaker 2: ones and then we'll end with the relationship question that

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Speaker 2: was sent to me via Instagram. Okay, we'll start with

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Speaker 2: this one. It's from Benny Ashley. If you had to

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Speaker 2: pick your favorite Bachelorette season and your favorite bachelor season,

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Speaker 2: who would it be? And it can't be the one

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Speaker 2: you were on?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, my favorite Bachelorette season would be probably Caitlin's

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Speaker 3: because I was fresh off becoming friends with Caitlin, so

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Speaker 3: it was like watching a friend date all these guys. Obviously,

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Speaker 3: my husband and one of my best friends came from

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Speaker 3: that season, so you know, so many friends are from

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Speaker 3: that season, and so it's just that it's just that's it.

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Speaker 3: I thought that not just was the cast great, but

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Speaker 3: it just was constantly interesting, entertaining, and you guys, just

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Speaker 3: you all rocked it.

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Speaker 4: I loved it.

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Speaker 3: And then one that I didn't see from a personal

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Speaker 3: angle was Emily Maynard season. I just lived for that

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Speaker 3: season every single week as a fan.

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Speaker 4: Just I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just loved Emily and I love the way she

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Speaker 3: handled herself. She was just badass. Barbie love her Bachelor.

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Speaker 4: Season and that was not my own.

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Speaker 3: Ben, I'm not going to choose yours because I'm not

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Speaker 3: going to suck up for that. I'm gonna say the

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Speaker 3: one that is the most monumental to me was the

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Speaker 3: first season that I ever watched, and that was Brad

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Speaker 3: Wollmack's second season. A lot of that has to do

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Speaker 3: with Emily because I just loved her and I was

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Speaker 3: just so intrigued by the show. It's just something about

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Speaker 3: watching the whole sequence of it through fresh eyes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fair.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know if it was Brad or like

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Speaker 3: anything from that, or if it was just the first

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Speaker 2: Favorite bachelorette season would go back to Andy Dorfmann. I

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Speaker 2: don't know why, but that season stood out to me

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Speaker 2: in so many ways, and I had so many big

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Speaker 2: characters and so many twists and turns leading up to

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Speaker 2: even the finale.

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Speaker 4: You watched it before you were on it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah you did, Okay, Yeah, but like really hardcore,

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Speaker 3: like actually watch week to week.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know why. I think I was home

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Speaker 2: with my mom. I don't know if it was when

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Speaker 2: I had Mono in college or what, but I remember

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Speaker 2: watching it consistently and being intrigued, like invested into the show.

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Speaker 2: And I don't get that invested. I mean, I guess

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Speaker 2: since I've been on it very often. So my favorite

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Speaker 2: Bachelor season that it's tough. I haven't watched many. I

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Speaker 4: The sides of what we're working it.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's what I was going to say. I didn't

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Speaker 2: watch many before my time on the show, so I

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Speaker 2: hadn't seen many. I mean I watched Souls' season because

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Speaker 2: that was really good. However, I would say my favorite

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Speaker 2: season would maybe be like everybody else's right Now and

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Speaker 2: a little recency bias would be Joey's. I just think

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Speaker 2: So it's kind of hard for me to say. And

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Speaker 2: I just think, for whatever reason, the Bachelor seasons in

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Speaker 3: Honestly, Okay, I got a question from Kendall, which contestant

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Speaker 4: I think she was just a fan there.

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Speaker 3: She was a local sports reporter and I was like,

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Speaker 2: So who would you pick them?

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Speaker 4: Who would I pick now?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 4: On the market.

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Speaker 2: No, it's hard for me to even think of many

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Speaker 2: The market now, so Peter Krause. And then who would

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Speaker 2: be the bachelorette choice for you? Oh?

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Speaker 4: The bachelorette choice?

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Speaker 2: This one's easy for me. I would love to see

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Speaker 2: Caitlin Bristow running back.

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Speaker 4: Okay, fine, there you know, there you am.

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Speaker 3: I wish I could be interesting and unique and pick

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Speaker 3: up somebody who you didn't just say, but that is that?

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Speaker 4: It would be it.

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Speaker 2: I would love to, especially with her sitting where she's at,

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Speaker 4: She's a little taken, I think, too.

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Speaker 2: Well, true, good point, I even think about that she is.

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Speaker 2: I also think that secretly there's been some recent seasons

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Speaker 2: I think Victoria Fuller would bring a really funny season.

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Speaker 2: I think it would be pretty wild. She kind of

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Speaker 2: had the Caitlin Bristow mentality, and I think that could

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Speaker 2: be it could be fun. As far as MINGO.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm very curious to hear this.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he's married and been married for a long time.

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Speaker 2: I always thought Wells or Dean would have been great leads.

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Speaker 4: Neither one of them would have taken it seriously.

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Speaker 2: No, and it would have been great.

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Speaker 4: Probably why they both weren't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it would have been awesome.

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Speaker 2: All right, hey, Ashley, we only have time for one

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Speaker 2: more question here, and this is switching gears to a

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Speaker 2: Michael and it was sent to me. He wanted us

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Speaker 2: to talk about it, and so Michael, I am answering

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Speaker 2: eastern Canada called Frederic Fredericton, very clickie town. Everyone knows everyone.

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Speaker 2: I grew up without any social skills until university and

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Speaker 2: gain skills and confidence and friends when he was at university.

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Speaker 2: I was not diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, so in

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Speaker 2: small towns you get labeled. That's an important sentence. Been

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Speaker 2: single on and off since mid twenties. I use dating apps, However,

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Speaker 2: I get bored usually any recommendations on how to meet

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Speaker 3: I don't know how you get over it. I think

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Speaker 3: You probably, like you know, join some community things, You

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Speaker 3: find more friends, and then the word is spread that

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Speaker 3: you know, this guy's actually really cool, we were wrong

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Speaker 3: about him all that, and then perhaps ladies or gentlemen,

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Speaker 3: then you can start hanging out with bigger groups. And

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Speaker 3: that's probably the best way of dating anyway, is meeting

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Speaker 3: through groups and through friends.

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Speaker 2: I did see recent statistic now that eighty percent of

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Speaker 2: people do meet online, and friends and family used to

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Speaker 4: So that's why he brings it up. Yeah, dating apps

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Speaker 4: aren't the best for him.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that Michael sent us this message. It means

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Speaker 2: I'm guaranteeing he's listening with a hopeful ear of what

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Speaker 2: can he do. And I think actually touched on some

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Speaker 2: really important things. Here's what I've learned in my you know,

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Speaker 2: and there's really no way to quantify pain. There's different

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Speaker 2: You got to own this difference, can be ashamed of it.

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Speaker 2: And so I think the more you advocate for people

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Speaker 2: ask you questions about it, they can be curious about it.

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Speaker 2: That's half of what dating is anyways, right, is asking

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Speaker 2: questions and getting to learn and understand somebody for who

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Speaker 2: they actually are. I think the other way to your

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Speaker 2: a few things that you're really passionate about, and I

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Speaker 2: think this goes It can be done in a lot

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Speaker 2: that really gets you excited, and as Ashley said, you

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Speaker 2: start to join volunteer groups. You start to join community

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Speaker 2: like you. So you get there because you're going to

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Speaker 2: meet people with similar interests, You're going to be able

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Speaker 2: to talk to them about the things that you're working on,

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Speaker 2: and you're going to become a vital part of that

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Speaker 2: community where people know you and they say, yeah, that

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Speaker 2: in this small town that we live in. I understand

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Speaker 2: the social skills aspect. But here's the point. Here's the

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Speaker 2: once they get to hear you know why sometimes you

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Speaker 2: to you. They're gonna be like that just makes Michael Michael, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Michael needs a break. That's okay. That to me is

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Speaker 2: as a person this. I know it feels daunting, and

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Speaker 2: Why can't I react the way they are? The truth is,

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Speaker 3: Cool, beautiful. Answer, So good luck to you. I think

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Speaker 3: I think he's going to do I think he's going

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Speaker 2: Yes, it doesn't.

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Speaker 3: It will be easy, right, It's always well because like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, then it's then it's like high flying. I mean

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Speaker 2: it's kind of like you said when it comes to university.

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Speaker 2: so scared, so nervous. Everything you can do, it's amazing everything. Yeah, weekend,

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Speaker 2: you're like, I know all my favorite places, I know

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Speaker 2: It's just life and own it. Own the differences. Hey,

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Speaker 2: that's been another episode of the Almost Famous podcast. This

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Speaker 2: then one from Michael. The one from Michael is very

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Speaker 2: special to all of us. If you're out there and

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Speaker 2: you have some questions that you would love Ashley and

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Speaker 2: I to talk through in the very you know, carrying

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Speaker 2: way that we try, then please submit those questions to us.

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Speaker 2: Until next time, I've been Ben, I've been Ashley.

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Speaker 4: See you.

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