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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update? This must be the year for dating.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems like every single email that we get in

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date update this past year has said

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<v Speaker 1>this is the best date I've ever been on my

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<v Speaker 1>entire life. So everybody's apparently having the best dates of

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<v Speaker 1>their entire life this year. Why are we getting so

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<v Speaker 1>many emails for second date updates? Stand? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But Cassie, who's on the phone right now for a

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<v Speaker 1>second day update, said that she had the best date

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<v Speaker 1>of her entire life. I used to say bold statement,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know that it is anymore. Maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>bar is just low enough. Finally, yep, So Cassie, why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you tell us about your best date of your

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<v Speaker 1>entire life? Hello? All right, how are you doing? You

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<v Speaker 1>sound like you're still smiling, Cassie, So that's good. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>I am, and I'm trying to still You're obviously not

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<v Speaker 1>getting to call back, but that's cool. Yeah, kind of sucks,

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<v Speaker 1>but um, you know, hopefully you guys can help me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see, we do help a lot of people. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't, not really, we'll try. So tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about the dude you want to call today.

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<v Speaker 1>Who'd you go on a date with? His name is Levi,

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<v Speaker 1>And we did go on a lovely dinner date. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>the best day ever. It really was, you know, until

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<v Speaker 1>he just stopped contacting me. Yeah, and that usually makes

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<v Speaker 1>it a lot worse, all right, Cassie, Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody seems to be saying they've had the best date

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<v Speaker 1>of their entire life. Why was it so special? We

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<v Speaker 1>went to a really nice restaurant. Okay, I heard that before.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be bared of their story. Listen to her. Most guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I hear. Most guys say they don't want to invest

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<v Speaker 1>too much in a first date. Though it is a

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<v Speaker 1>nice thing when it's a nice restaurant that isn't cheap.

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<v Speaker 1>Good point, it was really nice. You know. The dishes

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<v Speaker 1>were like at least thirty forty bucks per person, and

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<v Speaker 1>he did everything. But you know, like a traditional mom

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<v Speaker 1>would tell you to look for a guy, like pulling

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<v Speaker 1>out the chair for you, opening the door for you.

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<v Speaker 1>He even like was so weird. He even like stood

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<v Speaker 1>up when I came back from the bathroom, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>never experienced that before. I was like, wait, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Are we leaving? That's really funny. For I am a gentleman.

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<v Speaker 1>I stand when a woman in the room. I'm waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for you to be seated, and then I will take

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<v Speaker 1>my seat as well. Oh my god, coving. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>say that because I was like, oh wait, no, he's

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<v Speaker 1>doing that old school chivalrous thing. I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is really interesting. So he was. I mean, he

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<v Speaker 1>was really polite. Was what it sounds like, which is

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<v Speaker 1>lovely and sad that that is what makes it the

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<v Speaker 1>best date ever? Or was there something else? Now there's more.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, it's what's so weird about it? So he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't only polite. He was engaging and interesting and he

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<v Speaker 1>had a sense of humor. He asked me questions about myself.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't just go on and on about himself. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like, really like he had my interest. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds refreshing and lovely. Sounds like you went out with

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<v Speaker 1>a night of the round table who has learned to

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<v Speaker 1>travel to the future. No, yeah, maybe that's why he's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. He had to go back fight

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<v Speaker 1>some dinosaurs. Really, whatever they were fighting, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a true gentleman, Cassie. Anyway, the dinner date was awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, everything ended well, I mean, you know, big Bill,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure because we ordered everything and then we were

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<v Speaker 1>walking out and he was like, I really don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to stay to end you and I said, actually no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm having a really good time. Oh that's such a

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<v Speaker 1>nice moment. But I thought he was like. I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>is this the point where he's going to ask me

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<v Speaker 1>to go back to his place? And then that's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>like just be you know, everything downhill from there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like waiting for it. But he said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just get in my car and we'll go find

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<v Speaker 1>something fun to do. And we ended up at a mall.

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<v Speaker 1>What yeah, I thought you said something fun to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Why were you at a mall? Well, it just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of ended up in our conversation. We were just yapping

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<v Speaker 1>about something and I was like, oh, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>that actually is not a bad idea. There's something I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't mind you know, stopping at Sephora pick up a

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<v Speaker 1>couple things that I know I need Okay, Cassie, now

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<v Speaker 1>we're running errands on our date. Okay, I don't know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it was an excuse to keep the day going, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>He suggested mall and I was like, sure, why not.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that you guys went and picked up some

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<v Speaker 1>dry cleaning. I'm gonna lose it, but yeah, so we

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<v Speaker 1>win them all. I stopped at Sephora. He actually goes

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<v Speaker 1>with me, which was weird. Usually like a guy would

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<v Speaker 1>just be like, i'll be out here, so I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>get my stuff, and he just like butts in in

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<v Speaker 1>front of me and puts his credit card down and

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<v Speaker 1>buys it for me. Nice whoa, yeah, fifty dollars you

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<v Speaker 1>know of like cream and foundation stuff. I'm like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>what why are you doing this? And he's just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to see smile. You're like, okay, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>come with me to the next store. Then I was bigger.

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<v Speaker 1>It does sound like the best day of your entire life.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish somebody would take me out and just buy

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<v Speaker 1>me things. Yeah. Actually it did continue. I went into

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<v Speaker 1>another store and I was like, surely he's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to keep doing this. I just saw something in the

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<v Speaker 1>window I was like, oh, that looks cool. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you know he buys that for me too. And I

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<v Speaker 1>kept trying to say stop, you don't have to do this,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like you know, and he's like, no, no, please,

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<v Speaker 1>please let me. I enjoy giving and you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>enjoying my time with you. Wow. Okay, so other than

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<v Speaker 1>credit card debt, how did the date end? Very nice?

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<v Speaker 1>He just took me back to my house and dropped

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<v Speaker 1>me off and it definitely ended with a nice kiss. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's when I told him, you know, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is probably the best date I've ever been on.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I was like, thank you very much,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, don't say that yet because we have

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<v Speaker 1>another date coming up very soon together. Oh cute way

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<v Speaker 1>to take control, sir. Obviously he was lying though, because

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't gone out again. How long ago was it

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<v Speaker 1>that he said that? That was like a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>weeks ago, And yeah, I was the last time we

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<v Speaker 1>spoke about it. I mean, he hasn't you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>haven't spoken on the phone. We've just kind of texted

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, but not made any concrete plans, so

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't really followed up with what he said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a few weeks. I would not consider very soon. No. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's frustrating because we've kind of talked about the dates,

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<v Speaker 1>but nothing's really happening, and I do want to see

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<v Speaker 1>him again. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>and then call him and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, thank you? Okay, hang on looking jubile in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Second updates if you're just joining us for

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update. Cassie is on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>she said she had the best date of her entire

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<v Speaker 1>life with the dude named Levi. They went out for

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<v Speaker 1>a very nice dinner and then at the end of dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>Levi looked her and he said, congratulations, Cassie, you just

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<v Speaker 1>won a luxurious shopping spree. You'll be whisked away to

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<v Speaker 1>the local mall. We'll head on over to Sephora and

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<v Speaker 1>buy you a bunch of perfume and other facial crap,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you get a pair of new shoes. Cassie,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what life is like when you're dating Levi.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that kind of how it went, Cassie? Pretty much? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I was pretty much it except for non

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<v Speaker 1>game show like no music, announcer. That's too bad. It

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't have been the best day of your entire left

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<v Speaker 1>because every really good date involves a game show announcer.

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<v Speaker 1>Cassie went to the mall with this dude after they

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<v Speaker 1>had dinner, and he bought her a bunch of stuff

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<v Speaker 1>and then they had a kiss. He said he had

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<v Speaker 1>another huge surprise planned for their second date. But now

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation has fizzled out. And what are you feeling

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<v Speaker 1>with him right now? Are you still liking him a lot?

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<v Speaker 1>You too frustrated? I still like him slightly frustrated, but

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<v Speaker 1>I also in thinking there could be another girl involved,

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<v Speaker 1>So I just want to get an answer. Oh, like,

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't had time because he's dating other women, possibly

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<v Speaker 1>where he has a girlfriend, and he knows if he

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<v Speaker 1>is seeing somebody else, he's spending a lot of cash

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<v Speaker 1>if that's the way he dates. Yeah, all right, Cassie,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. I'm in a Dallas on him right now? Okay, Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to LEVI? Oh? Yeah, this is him? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Man? How are you? This is jew Bil

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. From what Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Uh oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>have you listened to the show before? I have not? Okay, Hey, cool, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>don't blame you, LEVI not. I don't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>listen when I'm here, you know. No, No, I'm personal.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not a big radio guy. Yeah, but for me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's personal though. Anyway, let's not talk about that. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to you because we got an email

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<v Speaker 1>from one of our listeners about you. You got an

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<v Speaker 1>email about me? Yeah, it's from a girl named Cassie.

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<v Speaker 1>Cassie emailed you about me. Yeah, she did. We do

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<v Speaker 1>a segment on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>So Cassie says that you had a wonderful date together,

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<v Speaker 1>but you've kind of been blowing her off recently and

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<v Speaker 1>she feels like you don't want to go out again. Wait. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to clarify other people have done this, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the first guy that you've been contacted about.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that make you feel better about the situation if

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<v Speaker 1>other people have done it before you? Well, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to make sure that, like, I'm not the first, No,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're the best. Leave You're not the first. We

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<v Speaker 1>do a lot of these Okay, Um, First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say that my date with Cassie

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<v Speaker 1>was like the best date I've ever been on, and

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<v Speaker 1>I had a great time, and I really, really really

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with her again. I'm just not ready.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not Why aren't you ready? Well, to be completely honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of broke. That first date kind of tapped

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<v Speaker 1>me out, and I'm trying to save up enough money

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<v Speaker 1>to take her on a second date. O. Man, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you paid for all this expensive stuff if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have the funds to do that, like buy or

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<v Speaker 1>the makeup and the shoes. She told you about all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff. Huh yeah, yeah, we talked to her about

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<v Speaker 1>your date. She said, you, guys went to a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice dinner and then afterwards you took her to the

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<v Speaker 1>mall and you were like, throw it in the bag. Girl. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not really a big deal. Guys. I got a

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<v Speaker 1>second Um, I gotta I'm I'm driving for Uber now,

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<v Speaker 1>and so between that and my real job, I really

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<v Speaker 1>think that, you know, it's gonna be easy to take

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<v Speaker 1>her on dates like that. I just wasn't planning ahead

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<v Speaker 1>because I didn't know I was going to meet her.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you took a second job in order to

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<v Speaker 1>take Cassie out again. Yeah, oh man, that is so

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<v Speaker 1>sweet and so wrong all at the same time. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not right. I mean, look, let's be honest, what's

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<v Speaker 1>money for if not to like, spend it on people

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<v Speaker 1>you liked? Sounds like money for you should be to

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<v Speaker 1>save it. But you realize when you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date, you don't have to break the bank. Right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know Cassie, but she's definitely worth breaking the bank.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, i'd even rob a bank, not a big

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<v Speaker 1>banking but a medium size bank. If you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>the bank, don't spend it. No, no, I get that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just I think today nowadays, it's just a nice

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<v Speaker 1>concept to be able to take somebody out. And if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the one asking them out, I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>the one who can, like, you know, make it a date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with you there, I do. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>if you're the one that's asking, then you should be

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<v Speaker 1>the one that treats. But she likes you for a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of reasons, and there's a lot of other less

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<v Speaker 1>expensive date options and taking them to the mall like

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<v Speaker 1>you could go. I don't know to coffee man. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know. In the dating climate nowadays,

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<v Speaker 1>I think too many guys are content just being you know, typical.

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<v Speaker 1>And I wanted to wow her and I still want

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<v Speaker 1>to wow her on our next date. That's the point.

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<v Speaker 1>And this promotion that Uber's offering right now. If I

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<v Speaker 1>give one hundred and fifty rides in a three week period,

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<v Speaker 1>I get a bonus five hundred dollars. So I was

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<v Speaker 1>out there last night until four in the morning, giving

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<v Speaker 1>rides to a lot of drunk people, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>totally worth it. I think that is so kind. But

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<v Speaker 1>you're missing the point. That's not how you wow a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not with money. You wowed Cassie because you listened

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<v Speaker 1>to her, that you engaged her, you pulled the chair

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<v Speaker 1>out for her, you made her feel respected and important. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>regardless guys of like what we agree or disagree on,

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<v Speaker 1>can you do me a favor and just let Cassie

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<v Speaker 1>know that I am totally on board for another date

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<v Speaker 1>and if she can just wait a few more days,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to give her the best next date ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, well, I'll let her know, but you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of already did because she's actually on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening and wants to talk to you. What do you mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we have multiple phone lines and she's been

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<v Speaker 1>on one of them listening to your talk. Oh hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh look, and there she is. Modern technology. Isn't it awesome? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>I LEVI have you been listening along? Yes, I listened

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<v Speaker 1>to everything. There was no time where you stepped away

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<v Speaker 1>from the phone. No, I heard it all and it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I am. I'm really glad to you know, just like

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<v Speaker 1>hear something, because you know, I was really starting to

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<v Speaker 1>wonder and just think that, um, okay, maybe there was

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<v Speaker 1>another girl. Let No, sorry I did something. No, no

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<v Speaker 1>other girls. You are the only girl I want to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with. I just really wanted to show you

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<v Speaker 1>a great date. And I get that. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that's amazing. I really really like after hearing your story now,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm so amazed that you would go to that extent,

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<v Speaker 1>but you really, like, you know, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>go that that crazy. I mean, especially we're just getting

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<v Speaker 1>to know each other, like, you know, we should focus

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<v Speaker 1>on getting to know each other, not just about the money.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're really awesome. I want to spend time

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Well, let's say on our next date, I

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<v Speaker 1>got you two pairs of shoes instead of one. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you're not going to turn that down, right? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that is not necessary? You know I eventually I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to run out of places to put things if you

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<v Speaker 1>keep it up like that. Well, we could get slippers.

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<v Speaker 1>They they're more space efficient yet where you could take

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<v Speaker 1>a third job and build your new closet. Believe, it's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like insulting to her. She she's more than just

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<v Speaker 1>wanting shoes, man, she wants you. She wants your personality.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants how you make her feel. Not only do

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<v Speaker 1>I want to listen to Cassie and hear and respond

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<v Speaker 1>with her, but I also want to be able to, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, buyer things because that's the total package and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what that's what women dig, and that's awesome. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited about it. I can't wait to me to

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<v Speaker 1>do like that. You're enough, That's what I'm saying. You're enough.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need the other stuff. You are the total

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<v Speaker 1>package without the shoes. Yes, exactly, you don't. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be detriment, Like if we were in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and you were just busy working all the time

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<v Speaker 1>to make the money and then just give me gifts.

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<v Speaker 1>If I don't have a connection with you because you're gone,

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<v Speaker 1>then that's not the total package. That's like a lopsided package.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. When we were at the door after we kissed,

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<v Speaker 1>you told me that that was the best date you'd

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<v Speaker 1>ever been on. Right, Yes, and that was because I

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<v Speaker 1>got you this stuff at Sephora and I got you

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<v Speaker 1>the shoes you are. No, it's not because of that.

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<v Speaker 1>That was just like an extra, like icing on the cake.

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<v Speaker 1>Totally unexpected. But I was already interested in you from

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<v Speaker 1>our conversation at dinner and how polite you are. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you were rude and awful and then you said

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<v Speaker 1>you want to hit me shopping, it would have been weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I probably would have said, no, I'm good. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to pen any more time with you. So it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the money, Okay, I hear you. It wasn't the money.

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<v Speaker 1>But just so you know, I've been saving up a

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<v Speaker 1>lot for our next day, driving until four in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>carting around drunk people, just trying to make some cash

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<v Speaker 1>so he can take you out again. Cassie, totally not necessary.

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<v Speaker 1>Have about we just go to dinner somewhere that's inexpensive,

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<v Speaker 1>and we just take a walk somewhere where there's no

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<v Speaker 1>money involved, no shopping, like something simple on a beach

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. Oh I could rin a pair of sale

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<v Speaker 1>and we could fly around on that. No, don't spend

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<v Speaker 1>any money. I mean literally, the only red flag with

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<v Speaker 1>you right now at this point is your money management skills,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you need to stop. Man. How about this? Would

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on a second date with Cassie. We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for it, and you're you can't spend any

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<v Speaker 1>money on it? Though, I gotta respectfully decline, guys, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna pay for it and you guys can't pay

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<v Speaker 1>for anything. This is my date. Oh my gosh. Just

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<v Speaker 1>the principle of the matter. You're arguing whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>we pay for your date that you can't afford. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to be paying for stuff, and that's how it is. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine, you can pay for stuff, but let's not

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<v Speaker 1>like be spending the whole time paying for stuff. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>just pay for a dinner and then a little dessert

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<v Speaker 1>and then that's fine. That's it. No shopping, how about that?

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<v Speaker 1>That's probably a good idea, because I should be driving

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<v Speaker 1>over by ten thirty. That's when you get the biggest bonus. Okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're gonna agreement. Then you guys are going to

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<v Speaker 1>go out one more time. Yes, Cassie, I'm really excited

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<v Speaker 1>for an estate. I don't want to give away too much,

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<v Speaker 1>but it does involve a limousine and endangered animals. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. Wow. Yeah, I don't care what I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go on this day. It sounds interesting and the

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<v Speaker 1>morning