Speaker 1: A Welcome to a brand new Second Date Update podcast today.
Speaker 1: Thanks so much for being here with Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning. And yeah, you know, normally I'd like
Speaker 1: to ask a question, but this one I think is
Speaker 1: already gonna just garner.
Speaker 2: A lot of feelings, a lot of comments.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it, Jose, That's exactly it. So let's get
Speaker 2: to comments that we have had today. Alexis what are
Speaker 2: you seeing that you like? Yeah, I saw Basso.
Speaker 1: See Basso said I love the smell of Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: I don't know what that would be.
Speaker 1: You know what someone who finally appreciates my oyster cast
Speaker 1: role life.
Speaker 3: It's a losing.
Speaker 2: What you met, that's what they meant. All right, let's
Speaker 2: get this podcast started.
Speaker 3: Second Date Update. Meeting somebody that you're interested in at
Speaker 3: a friend's birthday party, Yeah sounds kind of fun to me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what a great place to meet.
Speaker 3: And that's actually our listeners story today for how they met.
Speaker 3: I've actually met somebody that same way. Really, keep in mind,
Speaker 3: I was inside the cake at the time, ready to
Speaker 3: pop out, and this party was kind of like a
Speaker 3: group birthday sort of thing.
Speaker 1: Is there another person in the cake with you, Jeff, No,
Speaker 1: but I woke up very sore the next morning from
Speaker 1: crouching inside that cake.
Speaker 2: For do you know what?
Speaker 3: Enough about me and my story. Let's talk to our listener, Paul, Paul,
Speaker 3: were you inside of a cake too? Wow?
Speaker 2: That sounds like a boring party?
Speaker 3: Was it like a flowing.
Speaker 4: We don't know.
Speaker 3: We want to know, like, what was this birthday? How
Speaker 3: did you meet this person? And let's hear the whole story.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so one to a mutual friend's birthday.
Speaker 4: That's really not important, but I.
Speaker 2: Think it is.
Speaker 5: Actually because if you're at a friend's birthday, you know
Speaker 5: a lot of people.
Speaker 3: There's mutuals there.
Speaker 2: It's different if it's a rand.
Speaker 1: And what I'm curious about is did your friends alert
Speaker 1: you that there would be a cute single that you.
Speaker 2: Were going to meet? No, okay, okay, okay. It was
Speaker 2: more of a great this is all on you.
Speaker 3: It's more of a natural meeting.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Right, So tell us what's the name of this girl
Speaker 3: that you thought was so attractive?
Speaker 6: Her name is Stacy Stacy, and I would not describe
Speaker 6: her as a conventional beauty, but she is a person
Speaker 6: who's extremely striking.
Speaker 2: I can't tell if this is a complimentary.
Speaker 3: It dabbles like almost a compliment, and then it's like
Speaker 3: a rugged face. What did you call it?
Speaker 1: I mean, why do you say, why even add that
Speaker 1: into the conversation, that it's not conventionally beautiful?
Speaker 2: Why would you even say that?
Speaker 5: It's just how I would describe her.
Speaker 3: She was not his type, but she's pretty okay.
Speaker 2: And so how did you start a conversation with her?
Speaker 5: Well, I just went up and started talking to her
Speaker 5: about her outfit, because while it wasn't risque or anything,
Speaker 5: it was stylish.
Speaker 2: Comments.
Speaker 1: Do you normally meet like models in bikinis places to go?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 5: No, no, But again, it was a friend's birthday party,
Speaker 5: So I showed up in T shirts and jeans, and
Speaker 5: there she was in this like very slim, beautiful outfit.
Speaker 5: She looked like she could be selling cigarettes in the
Speaker 5: nineteen thirty.
Speaker 3: Again, this is a compliment, you, So she's wearing something
Speaker 3: that no other woman in their right mind would wear.
Speaker 2: But it was in nineteen thirties.
Speaker 5: Guys, they're painting it in a negative light.
Speaker 2: Oh we are, We're just teasing you.
Speaker 1: She's wearing a flappers Yeah, tell us more about the hangout.
Speaker 5: Well, talking to her, She's obviously a person who gets
Speaker 5: a lot of male attention, and that.
Speaker 2: Was it obvious to me, it really was it.
Speaker 3: Okay, but okay, is this considered your date?
Speaker 4: No? No, no, no no no no, I got it.
Speaker 5: I got her Instagram handle and then I slid into
Speaker 5: her DMS.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you didn't ask her out just then, you
Speaker 1: asked her out later exactly.
Speaker 3: So tell us about the date where you guys met up.
Speaker 5: The day was great, we went out for time, we
Speaker 5: had good food.
Speaker 6: I continue to ask.
Speaker 5: Her questions about her incredible fashion sense, because again she
Speaker 5: showed up in another unconventional outfit.
Speaker 2: Is she a stylist or something.
Speaker 7: I'm just trying to think it was like boot cut
Speaker 7: jeans at this crazy.
Speaker 3: She's like, I'm wearing a dress. Was she dressed?
Speaker 2: Did she like you complimented her on her fashion style?
Speaker 4: Absolutely?
Speaker 5: Obviously. It takes a lot of time and preparation and
Speaker 5: presenting how she looks, and it's incredible. It is really
Speaker 5: amazing to see.
Speaker 3: Okay, And you know a lot of women spend like
Speaker 3: a lot of time before a day getting themselves ready,
Speaker 3: making sure they look really good. So I'm sure she felt.
Speaker 6: Seen well exactly.
Speaker 5: She said that fashion was her passion.
Speaker 2: It sounds like a bummer sticker, doesn't it.
Speaker 7: So she talked on and on about that and that
Speaker 7: was great, okay, And at one point the conversation Beard,
Speaker 7: we realized that we were both conspiracy nuts, which is
Speaker 7: how bizarre?
Speaker 5: Is that fun?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 2: You believe in them? Or you just like to know
Speaker 2: about that?
Speaker 3: Does talk about them?
Speaker 5: I would say, we'd like to talk about him? But specifically,
Speaker 5: do you guys know the movie Room two thirty seven?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Is it a horror film or it sounds like it.
Speaker 5: No, it's a documentary about the shining. But there's a
Speaker 5: bunch of conspiracy theories about the movie.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: So that was a big point of conversation for you too,
Speaker 1: because you'd both seen.
Speaker 3: This exactly okay, okay.
Speaker 2: Interesting topics though, you know it's not just weather. What
Speaker 2: do you Guys.
Speaker 5: Can watch a movie and by the end be like, okay,
Speaker 5: we got the treasure map, we figured it out.
Speaker 3: Really sexy, set in the mood. So how did you
Speaker 3: two end the date?
Speaker 2: That was me.
Speaker 5: Probably the only awkward part because when the check came
Speaker 5: I made a stupid joke about how she would have
Speaker 5: to venmo me, and then she gave me a really
Speaker 5: like dirty look, and I was like, I was kidding.
Speaker 5: I was kidding.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, did she actually venmo you?
Speaker 6: No? No, no, no, no again.
Speaker 5: I threst that I was only kidding. That was the
Speaker 5: only hiccup, and we had a great meal.
Speaker 3: I drove her home.
Speaker 7: I kissed her on the cheek and having really gotten
Speaker 7: that many Okay.
Speaker 2: So there's been some communication. Are you aiming for the
Speaker 2: cheek or the lips?
Speaker 5: And she turned I would have taken the lips, but
Speaker 5: I wanted to play it safe first.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, So how long has it been since
Speaker 3: that date happened?
Speaker 6: Almost a week, right.
Speaker 3: And nothing like she hasn't texted you I'm busy or anything.
Speaker 4: It's very like one word answers.
Speaker 3: So no, what do you always tell?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What do you think?
Speaker 5: I think she's unconventional?
Speaker 4: So who knows. I'm just wanting if you guys can
Speaker 4: get her to text me back.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna unconventional woman. Unconventional Is it unconventional way
Speaker 2: to go about getting in?
Speaker 3: That's for sure. So we're going to reach out to
Speaker 3: Stacy for you in just a few minutes and find
Speaker 3: out does she have a reason or is some sort
Speaker 3: of conspiracy of Hopefully it's the first. We're gonna do
Speaker 3: it with your second date update right after this hold
Speaker 3: on second date update. If you missed the first part
Speaker 3: of our second date, we learned a new way to
Speaker 3: compliment a woman is to call her an unconventional beauty.
Speaker 1: It's really, honestly a good compliment. It was just the
Speaker 1: way he was saying it felt.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we're unconventional, like you are so sexy, unconventionally.
Speaker 3: It was a little bit confusing, but we think it
Speaker 3: was supposed to be a compliment from our listener, Paul,
Speaker 3: who was He was enamored by Stacy and her unique
Speaker 3: sense of style along with her unconventional looks that most
Speaker 3: men might not gravitate towards, but one in a million
Speaker 3: do find her striking, and that one is with us
Speaker 3: right now, and it drove Paul to reach out to
Speaker 3: a radio show, Paul, how are you feeling about us
Speaker 3: calling her in a second here again? I would like
Speaker 3: to stress as an attractive again, I'm just quoting you.
Speaker 1: He's not feeling good after that whole recap, jeff But
Speaker 1: you did say like she probably has men heading on
Speaker 1: her all the time.
Speaker 4: Yeah, easily, totally.
Speaker 2: That's a good point, Jose.
Speaker 1: I mean that might just be it. Maybe she's too
Speaker 1: busy with other dates to.
Speaker 3: Like get back to She's just swimming in a sea
Speaker 3: of dudes right now, God.
Speaker 2: Are you jealous?
Speaker 3: Book my trip? Anyway, let's reach out to Stacy. Hopefully
Speaker 3: she picks up and can give us a little bit
Speaker 3: of insight. I'm down on her number right now.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hi is this Stacy?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Who's this?
Speaker 3: Hey, we're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 3: in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Good morning, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: What is this? Is this like a pank?
Speaker 2: We do do those, but not this time.
Speaker 3: Yeah. This is our top rated segment called Brooken. No,
Speaker 3: it's called second Date.
Speaker 2: Updates, Good sell, Jeff.
Speaker 3: I was I was reading a sign on the wall
Speaker 3: and I got distracted by broken Jeffrey. Yeah, it's actually
Speaker 3: falling in the rankings. So we'd like for you to
Speaker 3: be a part of it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I don't think so. Fun.
Speaker 2: I think you need to hear why we even have
Speaker 2: your information.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because one of our listeners says he went out
Speaker 3: on a great date with you recently and would like
Speaker 3: to see you again. He's a little confused why it's
Speaker 3: not happening though. His name's Paul.
Speaker 4: Oh no, I can't even don't even.
Speaker 1: No, wait, don't even with Paul, or you just hate
Speaker 1: us and don't want to talk to us.
Speaker 4: No, Paul, Like, I have nothing against you, guys, I
Speaker 4: just can I'm so mad at him.
Speaker 2: Okay, wow, oh man, he is in the dark.
Speaker 3: Yeah, if that's how you feel about him, that's totally valid.
Speaker 3: But he doesn't understand why.
Speaker 2: He doesn't even know you're mad.
Speaker 3: According to his recap of the date, it was actually
Speaker 3: a great night.
Speaker 4: Oh here, he has problems.
Speaker 2: Is it a problem? Wait?
Speaker 1: Is this a problem you noticed on the date or
Speaker 1: is this something you learned about him later?
Speaker 4: It was what I learned on the date. Okay. Listen.
Speaker 4: He didn't take any pictures of me at all during
Speaker 4: our date, and I look freakin incredible.
Speaker 2: You wanted to take photos of you?
Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean, the fact is I am friggin' hot,
Speaker 4: like ridoculously.
Speaker 3: Hot, unconventionally hot. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: I would say that definitely.
Speaker 1: Okay, And you wanted him to pull out his camera
Speaker 1: as soon as he complimented you and start snapping photos.
Speaker 4: At some point he didn't do any and I kept
Speaker 4: even giving him hints like oh my god, how many
Speaker 4: more selfies, like take a freaking picture of me?
Speaker 2: Did you say he took selfies? Did you take pictures
Speaker 2: of himself?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 4: I took selfie?
Speaker 3: Oh he could have taken That.
Speaker 2: Is funny that he didn't bring that up. That would
Speaker 2: be word. So you just pictures of yourself.
Speaker 4: If you saw what I look like, you'd understand.
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm trying to understand by him not wanting to
Speaker 3: take a photo of you on his phone.
Speaker 2: No, not not wanting to not.
Speaker 3: Doing not doing it to you? That was like an offense.
Speaker 4: Can I be honest with you? There's a reason they
Speaker 4: say actions speak louder than words. He can tell me
Speaker 4: I'm beautiful, Like I know I'm beautiful, okay, but it
Speaker 4: means nothing without actually taking pictures of my beauty.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 3: If he if he really thought that you were as
Speaker 3: beautiful as he said he was, he would have been
Speaker 3: taking photos to memorialize that moment for all.
Speaker 1: Hey, maybe he took secret candids when you were looking,
Speaker 1: you know, that would.
Speaker 3: The did you just say that's creepy.
Speaker 4: I heard her say that, Well, the creepture if he
Speaker 4: did it without knowing it.
Speaker 2: You do have boundaries. I am happy to hear that.
Speaker 3: Well, I hope that this isn't too creepy to tell you,
Speaker 3: but he's been taking pictures. Paul is actually on the
Speaker 3: other line quietly listening, and yeah, it's how the segment
Speaker 3: works as we have them listen to hear what the
Speaker 3: reasoning is. So, Paul, are you there?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I would just want to say that I know
Speaker 5: you looked incredible on the day, and that's how I
Speaker 5: was telling you how beautiful you were. And I'm pretty
Speaker 5: sure I said it like multiple times.
Speaker 4: Yousaul works me nothing without the actions to back it up.
Speaker 7: Well, I was just focused on being present with you
Speaker 7: and having a good conversation and connecting with you.
Speaker 4: I thought that was more important. Really, you are just
Speaker 4: thinking of yourself.
Speaker 2: Selfish, selfish.
Speaker 1: I think he's trying to say that there was so
Speaker 1: much more to you, you know, than just how beautiful.
Speaker 4: I think you're giving him a pass he doesn't deserve.
Speaker 3: Okay, Paul, can you admit that you were selfish that
Speaker 3: night by not taking a bunch of photos of her.
Speaker 5: Look, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. I
Speaker 5: never thought that would be an offense.
Speaker 4: Well, that sounds fasionizing. And I was so sad when
Speaker 4: I got home that night. I only took five selfies
Speaker 4: in my house.
Speaker 3: Only five.
Speaker 4: I'd take a lot more. Hello.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, if you only take five photos of yourself,
Speaker 3: you know that's a bad.
Speaker 4: Yeah. What do you have to say about it, Paul?
Speaker 5: You know, out of the millions of different things that
Speaker 5: could have gone wrong on the date, I didn't think
Speaker 5: of this.
Speaker 6: I should have.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I wish.
Speaker 6: I wish i'd taken more photos.
Speaker 5: I really I wish I had, And.
Speaker 4: I wish that the apology could have come a long
Speaker 4: time ago. Home.
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, are you saying it's too late?
Speaker 3: We're having constructive communication here, So maybe this is a
Speaker 3: good opportunity to ask. Would both of you consider going
Speaker 3: out with each other another time with many, many photos
Speaker 3: taken of Stacey? And if you're willing to do that,
Speaker 3: then we would pay for it.
Speaker 7: Photographer.
Speaker 2: No, No, we don't have that much.
Speaker 4: I think you should buck us a trip.
Speaker 2: We don't have that at all.
Speaker 3: We said, we don't money. Do you want to pall
Speaker 3: the boocket.
Speaker 4: Didn't I just say that? I feel like I just
Speaker 4: said that.
Speaker 3: Okay, want to check with them.
Speaker 2: You weren't even going to call him back.
Speaker 3: How great she's going to look on vacation, bro.
Speaker 4: I'm thinking, like our class, what Paul coach wherever? That is?
Speaker 4: That's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 3: You're a road trip.
Speaker 1: That's so that's how you apologize to you?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, listen, he can sit and coach.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's going to save him some money though.
Speaker 3: Ye, this is very very reasonable woman on the phone
Speaker 3: who clearly thank you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're welcome, Stacy sarcasm.
Speaker 3: Fortunately, due to our radio budget, we're not going to
Speaker 3: be able to pay for plane tickets, but maybe we
Speaker 3: can fund the in flight meal at least the coach one.
Speaker 3: We could probably afford that one for Paul.
Speaker 2: It's usually an eight dollars sack box.
Speaker 3: Paul, would you be open to this idea?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 5: What choice do I have? I mean, is that the
Speaker 5: only way I can spend time with her?
Speaker 6: Then that's what I have to do, right.
Speaker 3: Wow, the length that he's willing to go to for you, Stacy,
Speaker 3: would you agree to a date with.
Speaker 4: Him as long as he's in coach except the times
Speaker 4: that I'm in first class. Wow, and he does.
Speaker 3: First class tickets. Honestly, you're next to him.
Speaker 2: Is they are not equals? Okay, he needs.
Speaker 3: To remember he's going to be punished for a few
Speaker 3: weeks before he's allowed to sit next time. But look
Speaker 3: at that, Paul, you asked us for another date. You
Speaker 3: started off with a little bit of miscommunication, not enough
Speaker 3: photos taken, and ended with the most unconventional, beautiful romance
Speaker 3: in all of history.
Speaker 2: Wow, I have a tear in my eye.
Speaker 3: I must feel good.
Speaker 5: It doesn't feel bad.
Speaker 2: It will when you check your bank account.
Speaker 3: She doesn't care.
Speaker 2: About that freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: When you're a man and you see a sliver of
Speaker 3: an opening to hang out with an unconventional woman, and
Speaker 3: she says, buy me a first class plane trip to
Speaker 3: somewhere nice while you sit and coach. You can't let
Speaker 3: an opportunity like that slip away. Yes, that's right, it's
Speaker 3: not an opportunity.
Speaker 4: Cheff.
Speaker 2: Sounds like such a good, healthy relationship.
Speaker 4: Yup.
Speaker 3: Paul is no fool and jumped right on top of it.
Speaker 3: That's why he's on Travelocity right now, booking a seven
Speaker 3: thousand dollars first class ticket to Turks and Caicos like
Speaker 3: a real gentleman. I always wanted to go there.
Speaker 2: Well, he flies in the luggage compartment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, if he's lucky. But hey, good on you, Paul.
Speaker 3: You came here for a date and you're left with one.
Speaker 1: Do you think that we're going to get an update
Speaker 1: from them, like five years from now, where they're happily
Speaker 1: married with a couple babies on the way.
Speaker 3: She's like, he bought me my house and he stays
Speaker 3: over at his house. Yeah. Love does work in mysterious ways,
Speaker 3: and sometimes it takes us to give it a little
Speaker 3: bit of a nudge. So email the show. We'll call
Speaker 3: that person who's not calling you back, and go check
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