WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Unconventional Beauty and the Feast

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<v Speaker 1>A Welcome to a brand new Second Date Update podcast today.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks so much for being here with Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. And yeah, you know, normally I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to ask a question, but this one I think is

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<v Speaker 1>already gonna just garner.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of feelings, a lot of comments.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's it, Jose, That's exactly it. So let's get

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<v Speaker 2>to comments that we have had today. Alexis what are

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<v Speaker 2>you seeing that you like? Yeah, I saw Basso.

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<v Speaker 1>See Basso said I love the smell of Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what that would be.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what someone who finally appreciates my oyster cast

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<v Speaker 1>role life.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a losing.

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<v Speaker 2>What you met, that's what they meant. All right, let's

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<v Speaker 2>get this podcast started.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date Update. Meeting somebody that you're interested in at

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<v Speaker 3>a friend's birthday party, Yeah sounds kind of fun to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what a great place to meet.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's actually our listeners story today for how they met.

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<v Speaker 3>I've actually met somebody that same way. Really, keep in mind,

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<v Speaker 3>I was inside the cake at the time, ready to

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<v Speaker 3>pop out, and this party was kind of like a

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<v Speaker 3>group birthday sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there another person in the cake with you, Jeff, No,

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<v Speaker 1>but I woke up very sore the next morning from

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<v Speaker 1>crouching inside that cake.

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<v Speaker 2>For do you know what?

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<v Speaker 3>Enough about me and my story. Let's talk to our listener, Paul, Paul,

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<v Speaker 3>were you inside of a cake too? Wow?

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds like a boring party?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it like a flowing.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>We want to know, like, what was this birthday? How

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<v Speaker 3>did you meet this person? And let's hear the whole story.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so one to a mutual friend's birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>That's really not important, but I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think it is.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually because if you're at a friend's birthday, you know

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 3>There's mutuals there.

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<v Speaker 2>It's different if it's a rand.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I'm curious about is did your friends alert

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<v Speaker 1>you that there would be a cute single that you.

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<v Speaker 2>Were going to meet? No, okay, okay, okay. It was

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<v Speaker 2>more of a great this is all on you.

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<v Speaker 3>It's more of a natural meeting.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, So tell us what's the name of this girl

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<v Speaker 3>that you thought was so attractive?

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<v Speaker 6>Her name is Stacy Stacy, and I would not describe

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<v Speaker 6>her as a conventional beauty, but she is a person

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<v Speaker 6>who's extremely striking.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't tell if this is a complimentary.

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<v Speaker 3>It dabbles like almost a compliment, and then it's like

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<v Speaker 3>a rugged face. What did you call it?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, why do you say, why even add that

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<v Speaker 1>into the conversation, that it's not conventionally beautiful?

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you even say that?

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<v Speaker 5>It's just how I would describe her.

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<v Speaker 3>She was not his type, but she's pretty okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And so how did you start a conversation with her?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I just went up and started talking to her

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<v Speaker 5>about her outfit, because while it wasn't risque or anything,

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<v Speaker 5>it was stylish.

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<v Speaker 2>Comments.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you normally meet like models in bikinis places to go?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, But again, it was a friend's birthday party,

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<v Speaker 5>So I showed up in T shirts and jeans, and

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<v Speaker 5>there she was in this like very slim, beautiful outfit.

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<v Speaker 5>She looked like she could be selling cigarettes in the

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<v Speaker 5>nineteen thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, this is a compliment, you, So she's wearing something

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<v Speaker 3>that no other woman in their right mind would wear.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was in nineteen thirties.

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<v Speaker 5>Guys, they're painting it in a negative light.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh we are, We're just teasing you.

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<v Speaker 1>She's wearing a flappers Yeah, tell us more about the hangout.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, talking to her, She's obviously a person who gets

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of male attention, and that.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it obvious to me, it really was it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but okay, is this considered your date?

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<v Speaker 4>No? No, no, no no no no, I got it.

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<v Speaker 5>I got her Instagram handle and then I slid into

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<v Speaker 5>her DMS.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you didn't ask her out just then, you

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<v Speaker 1>asked her out later exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>So tell us about the date where you guys met up.

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<v Speaker 5>The day was great, we went out for time, we

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<v Speaker 5>had good food.

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<v Speaker 6>I continue to ask.

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<v Speaker 5>Her questions about her incredible fashion sense, because again she

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<v Speaker 5>showed up in another unconventional outfit.

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<v Speaker 2>Is she a stylist or something.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm just trying to think it was like boot cut

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<v Speaker 7>jeans at this crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, I'm wearing a dress. Was she dressed?

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<v Speaker 2>Did she like you complimented her on her fashion style?

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 5>Obviously. It takes a lot of time and preparation and

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<v Speaker 5>presenting how she looks, and it's incredible. It is really

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<v Speaker 5>amazing to see.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, And you know a lot of women spend like

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of time before a day getting themselves ready,

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<v Speaker 3>making sure they look really good. So I'm sure she felt.

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<v Speaker 6>Seen well exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>She said that fashion was her passion.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like a bummer sticker, doesn't it.

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<v Speaker 7>So she talked on and on about that and that

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<v Speaker 7>was great, okay, And at one point the conversation Beard,

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<v Speaker 7>we realized that we were both conspiracy nuts, which is

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<v Speaker 7>how bizarre?

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<v Speaker 5>Is that fun?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>You believe in them? Or you just like to know

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<v Speaker 2>about that?

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<v Speaker 3>Does talk about them?

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<v Speaker 5>I would say, we'd like to talk about him? But specifically,

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<v Speaker 5>do you guys know the movie Room two thirty seven?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a horror film or it sounds like it.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it's a documentary about the shining. But there's a

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<v Speaker 5>bunch of conspiracy theories about the movie.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was a big point of conversation for you too,

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<v Speaker 1>because you'd both seen.

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<v Speaker 3>This exactly okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting topics though, you know it's not just weather. What

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<v Speaker 2>do you Guys.

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<v Speaker 5>Can watch a movie and by the end be like, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>we got the treasure map, we figured it out.

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<v Speaker 3>Really sexy, set in the mood. So how did you

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<v Speaker 3>two end the date?

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<v Speaker 2>That was me.

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<v Speaker 5>Probably the only awkward part because when the check came

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<v Speaker 5>I made a stupid joke about how she would have

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<v Speaker 5>to venmo me, and then she gave me a really

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<v Speaker 5>like dirty look, and I was like, I was kidding.

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<v Speaker 5>I was kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh no, did she actually venmo you?

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<v Speaker 6>No? No, no, no, no again.

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<v Speaker 5>I threst that I was only kidding. That was the

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<v Speaker 5>only hiccup, and we had a great meal.

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<v Speaker 3>I drove her home.

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<v Speaker 7>I kissed her on the cheek and having really gotten

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<v Speaker 7>that many Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's been some communication. Are you aiming for the

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<v Speaker 2>cheek or the lips?

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<v Speaker 5>And she turned I would have taken the lips, but

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<v Speaker 5>I wanted to play it safe first.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, So how long has it been since

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<v Speaker 3>that date happened?

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<v Speaker 6>Almost a week, right.

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<v Speaker 3>And nothing like she hasn't texted you I'm busy or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>It's very like one word answers.

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<v Speaker 3>So no, what do you always tell?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think?

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<v Speaker 5>I think she's unconventional?

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<v Speaker 4>So who knows. I'm just wanting if you guys can

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<v Speaker 4>get her to text me back.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're gonna unconventional woman. Unconventional Is it unconventional way

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<v Speaker 2>to go about getting in?

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<v Speaker 3>That's for sure. So we're going to reach out to

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<v Speaker 3>Stacy for you in just a few minutes and find

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<v Speaker 3>out does she have a reason or is some sort

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<v Speaker 3>of conspiracy of Hopefully it's the first. We're gonna do

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<v Speaker 3>it with your second date update right after this hold

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<v Speaker 3>on second date update. If you missed the first part

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<v Speaker 3>of our second date, we learned a new way to

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<v Speaker 3>compliment a woman is to call her an unconventional beauty.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really, honestly a good compliment. It was just the

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<v Speaker 1>way he was saying it felt.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, we're unconventional, like you are so sexy, unconventionally.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a little bit confusing, but we think it

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<v Speaker 3>was supposed to be a compliment from our listener, Paul,

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<v Speaker 3>who was He was enamored by Stacy and her unique

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<v Speaker 3>sense of style along with her unconventional looks that most

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<v Speaker 3>men might not gravitate towards, but one in a million

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<v Speaker 3>do find her striking, and that one is with us

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<v Speaker 3>right now, and it drove Paul to reach out to

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<v Speaker 3>a radio show, Paul, how are you feeling about us

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<v Speaker 3>calling her in a second here again? I would like

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<v Speaker 3>to stress as an attractive again, I'm just quoting you.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not feeling good after that whole recap, jeff But

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<v Speaker 1>you did say like she probably has men heading on

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<v Speaker 1>her all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, easily, totally.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good point, Jose.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that might just be it. Maybe she's too

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<v Speaker 1>busy with other dates to.

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<v Speaker 3>Like get back to She's just swimming in a sea

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<v Speaker 3>of dudes right now, God.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you jealous?

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<v Speaker 3>Book my trip? Anyway, let's reach out to Stacy. Hopefully

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<v Speaker 3>she picks up and can give us a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>of insight. I'm down on her number right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi is this Stacy?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Who's this?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, we're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 3>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>What is this? Is this like a pank?

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<v Speaker 2>We do do those, but not this time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. This is our top rated segment called Brooken. No,

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<v Speaker 3>it's called second Date.

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<v Speaker 2>Updates, Good sell, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>I was I was reading a sign on the wall

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<v Speaker 3>and I got distracted by broken Jeffrey. Yeah, it's actually

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<v Speaker 3>falling in the rankings. So we'd like for you to

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<v Speaker 3>be a part of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, I don't think so. Fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you need to hear why we even have

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<v Speaker 2>your information.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because one of our listeners says he went out

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<v Speaker 3>on a great date with you recently and would like

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<v Speaker 3>to see you again. He's a little confused why it's

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<v Speaker 3>not happening though. His name's Paul.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, I can't even don't even.

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<v Speaker 1>No, wait, don't even with Paul, or you just hate

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<v Speaker 1>us and don't want to talk to us.

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<v Speaker 4>No, Paul, Like, I have nothing against you, guys, I

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<v Speaker 4>just can I'm so mad at him.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wow, oh man, he is in the dark.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, if that's how you feel about him, that's totally valid.

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<v Speaker 3>But he doesn't understand why.

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<v Speaker 2>He doesn't even know you're mad.

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<v Speaker 3>According to his recap of the date, it was actually

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<v Speaker 3>a great night.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh here, he has problems.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a problem? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this a problem you noticed on the date or

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<v Speaker 1>is this something you learned about him later?

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<v Speaker 4>It was what I learned on the date. Okay. Listen.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't take any pictures of me at all during

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<v Speaker 4>our date, and I look freakin incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>You wanted to take photos of you?

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I mean, the fact is I am friggin' hot,

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<v Speaker 4>like ridoculously.

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<v Speaker 3>Hot, unconventionally hot. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say that definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And you wanted him to pull out his camera

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as he complimented you and start snapping photos.

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<v Speaker 4>At some point he didn't do any and I kept

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<v Speaker 4>even giving him hints like oh my god, how many

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<v Speaker 4>more selfies, like take a freaking picture of me?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you say he took selfies? Did you take pictures

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<v Speaker 2>of himself?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I took selfie?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh he could have taken That.

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<v Speaker 2>Is funny that he didn't bring that up. That would

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<v Speaker 2>be word. So you just pictures of yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>If you saw what I look like, you'd understand.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm trying to understand by him not wanting to

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<v Speaker 3>take a photo of you on his phone.

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<v Speaker 2>No, not not wanting to not.

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<v Speaker 3>Doing not doing it to you? That was like an offense.

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<v Speaker 4>Can I be honest with you? There's a reason they

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<v Speaker 4>say actions speak louder than words. He can tell me

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<v Speaker 4>I'm beautiful, Like I know I'm beautiful, okay, but it

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<v Speaker 4>means nothing without actually taking pictures of my beauty.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>If he if he really thought that you were as

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful as he said he was, he would have been

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<v Speaker 3>taking photos to memorialize that moment for all.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, maybe he took secret candids when you were looking,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that would.

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<v Speaker 3>The did you just say that's creepy.

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<v Speaker 4>I heard her say that, Well, the creepture if he

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<v Speaker 4>did it without knowing it.

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<v Speaker 2>You do have boundaries. I am happy to hear that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I hope that this isn't too creepy to tell you,

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<v Speaker 3>but he's been taking pictures. Paul is actually on the

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<v Speaker 3>other line quietly listening, and yeah, it's how the segment

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<v Speaker 3>works as we have them listen to hear what the

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<v Speaker 3>reasoning is. So, Paul, are you there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I would just want to say that I know

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<v Speaker 5>you looked incredible on the day, and that's how I

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<v Speaker 5>was telling you how beautiful you were. And I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 5>sure I said it like multiple times.

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<v Speaker 4>Yousaul works me nothing without the actions to back it up.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I was just focused on being present with you

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<v Speaker 7>and having a good conversation and connecting with you.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought that was more important. Really, you are just

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<v Speaker 4>thinking of yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Selfish, selfish.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's trying to say that there was so

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<v Speaker 1>much more to you, you know, than just how beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you're giving him a pass he doesn't deserve.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Paul, can you admit that you were selfish that

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<v Speaker 3>night by not taking a bunch of photos of her.

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. I

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<v Speaker 5>never thought that would be an offense.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that sounds fasionizing. And I was so sad when

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<v Speaker 4>I got home that night. I only took five selfies

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<v Speaker 4>in my house.

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<v Speaker 3>Only five.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd take a lot more. Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, if you only take five photos of yourself,

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<v Speaker 3>you know that's a bad.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. What do you have to say about it, Paul?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, out of the millions of different things that

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<v Speaker 5>could have gone wrong on the date, I didn't think

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<v Speaker 5>of this.

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<v Speaker 6>I should have.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I wish.

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<v Speaker 6>I wish i'd taken more photos.

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<v Speaker 5>I really I wish I had, And.

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<v Speaker 4>I wish that the apology could have come a long

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<v Speaker 4>time ago. Home.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay, are you saying it's too late?

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<v Speaker 3>We're having constructive communication here, So maybe this is a

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<v Speaker 3>good opportunity to ask. Would both of you consider going

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<v Speaker 3>out with each other another time with many, many photos

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<v Speaker 3>taken of Stacey? And if you're willing to do that,

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<v Speaker 3>then we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 7>Photographer.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, we don't have that much.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you should buck us a trip.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't have that at all.

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<v Speaker 3>We said, we don't money. Do you want to pall

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<v Speaker 3>the boocket.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't I just say that? I feel like I just

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<v Speaker 4>said that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, want to check with them.

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<v Speaker 2>You weren't even going to call him back.

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<v Speaker 3>How great she's going to look on vacation, bro.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm thinking, like our class, what Paul coach wherever? That is?

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I'm thinking.

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<v Speaker 3>You're a road trip.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so that's how you apologize to you?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, listen, he can sit and coach.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's going to save him some money though.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye, this is very very reasonable woman on the phone

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<v Speaker 3>who clearly thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're welcome, Stacy sarcasm.

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<v Speaker 3>Fortunately, due to our radio budget, we're not going to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to pay for plane tickets, but maybe we

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<v Speaker 3>can fund the in flight meal at least the coach one.

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<v Speaker 3>We could probably afford that one for Paul.

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<v Speaker 2>It's usually an eight dollars sack box.

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<v Speaker 3>Paul, would you be open to this idea?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>What choice do I have? I mean, is that the

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<v Speaker 5>only way I can spend time with her?

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<v Speaker 6>Then that's what I have to do, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, the length that he's willing to go to for you, Stacy,

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<v Speaker 3>would you agree to a date with.

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<v Speaker 4>Him as long as he's in coach except the times

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<v Speaker 4>that I'm in first class. Wow, and he does.

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<v Speaker 3>First class tickets. Honestly, you're next to him.

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<v Speaker 2>Is they are not equals? Okay, he needs.

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<v Speaker 3>To remember he's going to be punished for a few

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<v Speaker 3>weeks before he's allowed to sit next time. But look

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<v Speaker 3>at that, Paul, you asked us for another date. You

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<v Speaker 3>started off with a little bit of miscommunication, not enough

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<v Speaker 3>photos taken, and ended with the most unconventional, beautiful romance

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<v Speaker 3>in all of history.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, I have a tear in my eye.

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<v Speaker 3>I must feel good.

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<v Speaker 5>It doesn't feel bad.

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<v Speaker 2>It will when you check your bank account.

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<v Speaker 3>She doesn't care.

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<v Speaker 2>About that freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>When you're a man and you see a sliver of

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<v Speaker 3>an opening to hang out with an unconventional woman, and

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<v Speaker 3>she says, buy me a first class plane trip to

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<v Speaker 3>somewhere nice while you sit and coach. You can't let

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<v Speaker 3>an opportunity like that slip away. Yes, that's right, it's

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<v Speaker 3>not an opportunity.

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<v Speaker 4>Cheff.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like such a good, healthy relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>Yup.

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<v Speaker 3>Paul is no fool and jumped right on top of it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why he's on Travelocity right now, booking a seven

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<v Speaker 3>thousand dollars first class ticket to Turks and Caicos like

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<v Speaker 3>a real gentleman. I always wanted to go there.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he flies in the luggage compartment.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, if he's lucky. But hey, good on you, Paul.

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<v Speaker 3>You came here for a date and you're left with one.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that we're going to get an update

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<v Speaker 1>from them, like five years from now, where they're happily

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<v Speaker 1>married with a couple babies on the way.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, he bought me my house and he stays

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<v Speaker 3>over at his house. Yeah. Love does work in mysterious ways,

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<v Speaker 3>and sometimes it takes us to give it a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit of a nudge. So email the show. We'll call

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<v Speaker 3>that person who's not calling you back, and go check

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<v Speaker 3>out all of our second dates, see our whole resume

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<v Speaker 3>wherever you get your podcasts. They're up at Broken Jeffery

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<v Speaker 2>Broken Jeffrey in the morning.