WEBVTT - Hey, I'm Only Talking to The Man

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, I'm only talking to demand. It's One more Thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm strong and are a rare.

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<v Speaker 3>Michaelangelo hosted One More Thing podcast, very exciting the man.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder does he mean like answering to the man

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<v Speaker 2>or the mail?

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<v Speaker 3>Who knows person who identifies this man?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh lord?

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<v Speaker 3>So Michael was gone for several days celebrating his wedding anniversary,

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<v Speaker 3>which is how many years?

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<v Speaker 1>Four years.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't believe we were at your wedding for.

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<v Speaker 1>Four years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, so we had a good time. We went to

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<v Speaker 1>the coast and saw, you know, the ocean just relaxed.

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<v Speaker 2>It was great.

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<v Speaker 1>But unfortunately we got a dead battery along the way,

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<v Speaker 1>which really sucked. And so way there, uh no, we

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<v Speaker 1>actually stopped at a store to get some supplies and

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<v Speaker 1>then went out to the car and dead battery just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't start, so we had to get Yeah, so we

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<v Speaker 1>called a tow truck and they showed up luckily five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes away. So he was really easy, not a big

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<v Speaker 1>deal at all.

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<v Speaker 2>The last time I needed a tow truck five hours whoa, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it was ridiculous. Anyway, long story go ahead. So it

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<v Speaker 2>was great.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy was super you know, super friendly. They turns out

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<v Speaker 1>we do need a new battery. The battery had been

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<v Speaker 1>going low, so we finally just said, okay, go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and replace it. So he put it in no problem.

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<v Speaker 1>But as he's explaining what's you know, what's happening with

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<v Speaker 1>his battery, my wife was talking to him and she

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<v Speaker 1>had actually made the call and she was handling the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, and so he shows up and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's talking to him and everything like that. Also he

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<v Speaker 1>says to her, excuse me, but I need to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to the man, and she goes, he goes, I usually

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<v Speaker 1>talk to the husband.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And so how old was this guy?

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<v Speaker 1>He was younger. I'd say he was like twenty five,

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<v Speaker 1>which surprised me.

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<v Speaker 3>And so did she smack him?

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<v Speaker 2>No, but she gave lift him right off his feet.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I went over there and I, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to defend her on her but at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, I'm figure out what's going on with the situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Took off your glove and slapped him on the face.

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<v Speaker 3>How dare you I challenge you to a duel?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow? That's just so tone deaf.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just who even who even thinks like that at all? Ever?

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<v Speaker 1>But it was funny because he says, well, you can

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<v Speaker 1>listen in. He says, that's my wife, thank you, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you can listen in.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll have to take a break from making cookies over

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<v Speaker 3>here to listen a little bit. Yeah, let me put

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<v Speaker 3>down the vacuum cleaner.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be right there. It's the clicking of my knitting

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<v Speaker 2>needles interferes with you men talking. Do let me know?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, I make you a sandwich.

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<v Speaker 2>Did your bride respond in any way to that or.

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<v Speaker 1>Just she kind of said, no, I'm capable. I can listen,

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<v Speaker 1>sort of like what Katie did. Oh good, I can

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<v Speaker 1>listen in.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh, what a funny thing to say. An odd thing

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<v Speaker 3>to say.

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<v Speaker 4>I might say, I would like anticipate that from like

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<v Speaker 4>an eighty five year old.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, men, I just didn't. I don't know people that

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<v Speaker 3>talk like that.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a shocking thing to say.

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<v Speaker 3>Excuse me, the men are talking.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was funny because he wanted to explain the

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<v Speaker 1>battery to me and what was wrong and stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was just like, I needed to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>the man. I need Usually I explained the stuff to

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<v Speaker 1>the man, and I'm thinking, you know, okay, so it

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<v Speaker 1>it went fine, but it was just I had to

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<v Speaker 1>defend my wife's honor and you know kind of say,

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<v Speaker 1>look she can you know, she can listen, and it's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's really it's good.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, what are you wearing when you walk

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<v Speaker 3>along the beach?

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<v Speaker 1>I just walk on jeans and tennis shoes.

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<v Speaker 2>Gotcha jeans?

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's it's cold. Well yeah, that's the only reason, yeah, tishoes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well I can.

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<v Speaker 3>Would you be barefooted, Katie? Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Usually barefoot well beaches, uh or flip flops something that's

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<v Speaker 4>easy to clear or clean off.

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<v Speaker 3>It depends on the California beach. You don't want hyperdue

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<v Speaker 3>mic needles sticking out of your toes.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we were in fog. I mean, so it was freezing.

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<v Speaker 3>You might stecond step in human pooh.

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say, if you're like like more central coast, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>this time of year, it can be foggy and like

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<v Speaker 2>thirty five degrees colder than it is inland.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's the crazy thing about being to the beach

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<v Speaker 3>pretty much always in California's how freaking cold it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>The other thing we ran into though, was a public

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<v Speaker 1>wedding you're there along the coast, and so people they

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<v Speaker 1>set up chairs and they get married in front of

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<v Speaker 1>trees and along the ocean. And I wasn't sure quite

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<v Speaker 1>what to do. I the wedding was literally going on,

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<v Speaker 1>and so my wife wanted to go. Non't know it

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<v Speaker 1>and the cake was right there.

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<v Speaker 3>You just walk right through the middle. Excuse me, pardon me,

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<v Speaker 3>excuse me, nice dressed, excuse me?

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<v Speaker 4>Make a piece of the cakes?

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty good?

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<v Speaker 2>Should I?

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<v Speaker 1>After you know, they kissed and they did the whole thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Should I go up as they congratulations? I noticed you

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<v Speaker 1>have quite a bit of cake, but it'd be okay

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<v Speaker 1>if my wife and I have a slice.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you overcatered this thing. Is all right

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<v Speaker 3>if I have a little bit of that.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to have to haul this stuff home.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me help you out with My battery died and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm hungry, to.

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<v Speaker 4>Be honest, I heard when I thought you said public

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<v Speaker 4>wedding like wets themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Too.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a public wedding, but not for quite some time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's yeah, the old uh yeah, you know. I I oh, boy,

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<v Speaker 2>I shouldn't even I should not even stick my toe in.

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<v Speaker 2>I was walking by a wedding that was about to

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<v Speaker 2>happen with a friend, and he who is married, said

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<v Speaker 2>something so profoundly disturbing about what a mistake the young

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<v Speaker 2>man was making.

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<v Speaker 3>No like to be funny. Really no.

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<v Speaker 2>Originally I thought, is this a joke? And I'm reasonably

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<v Speaker 2>good at plying to find that out, and uh, it

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<v Speaker 2>became clear that it was not.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, did he know said couple getting married?

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<v Speaker 3>So it was just a comment on marriage and he's unhappy,

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<v Speaker 3>is what that was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I left it alone. Yeah, but it was unmistakable

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<v Speaker 2>in its tone.

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<v Speaker 4>Whoa, I'm picturing Joe being like that gift of Homer.

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<v Speaker 4>Homer Simpson backing into.

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<v Speaker 2>The bush exactly with my eyes wide.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because exactly I'm divorced and I don't have that

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<v Speaker 3>attitude about marriage at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's too bad. Yeah it is, oh man, And

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<v Speaker 2>it's these are people with whom I am have an

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<v Speaker 2>ongoing relationship, and it's just odd because it kind of

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<v Speaker 2>sits there in the back of my mind, like again

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<v Speaker 2>to the Simpsons, the clapping monkey in the back of Homer.

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<v Speaker 3>I remember one time I stand with this guy. He

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<v Speaker 3>was older, he's probably sixty years old and been married

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<v Speaker 3>forever everything like that. But anyway, we're standing outside and

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<v Speaker 3>a car went by, like with the tin cans tied

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<v Speaker 3>to it and said, just married on it and drive

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<v Speaker 3>bite everything like that, and he said it happens. What

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<v Speaker 3>an odd comment on right, Well, that's it happens.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right up there with I'd prefer to talk to

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<v Speaker 2>the male with I don't know how to react to that. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>in the power imbalance, when you're counting on the tow

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<v Speaker 2>truck driver, you gotta be nice to them. I think

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<v Speaker 2>everybody knows that you treat the tow truck driver like

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<v Speaker 2>you treat your doctor, because you want to make sure

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<v Speaker 2>you know this goes well. Because I need you, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't need me.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever been to a wedding where you thought

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<v Speaker 3>it was a terrible idea for them to get married?

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<v Speaker 1>Me?

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<v Speaker 3>No, never once in your.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot that I recall you, Katie, let me scan my

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<v Speaker 2>memory banks.

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<v Speaker 4>But no, not that I can know.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I've been to two and I was right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I think frequently people who believe that at

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<v Speaker 2>a wedding are right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I worked at a bar and there's a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of a lot of relationships that came together in the

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<v Speaker 3>bar world that were pretty obviously. The one wedding, the

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<v Speaker 3>sister punched the maid of honor in the stomach and

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<v Speaker 3>it started a brawl and they went ahead and finished it.

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<v Speaker 3>But it did not last very long.

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<v Speaker 2>Gut punching the maid of honor. That is uh, that's

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<v Speaker 2>a rough day.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I worked with a guy I knew him

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<v Speaker 3>very well, and everybody hated his girlfriend, then fiance, then wife.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody hated her. She was an awful human being and

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<v Speaker 3>she treated him horribly, and he came to work every

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<v Speaker 3>day and complained about how awful she was. It was

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<v Speaker 3>one of those deals. I mean, everybody knew what a

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<v Speaker 3>horrible domineering ruined his life sort of person, and everybody

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<v Speaker 3>felt bad for him as wishing he wasn't getting married.

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<v Speaker 3>It was weird to go to a wedding like that

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<v Speaker 3>because I mean all of us were sitting there with like,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't believe he's doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I speaking of people I have at least a

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<v Speaker 2>slight ongoing relationship with. I know a couple that she

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<v Speaker 2>is that regularly humiliates the guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, that's what this was, like takes it. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god, I got a story about this too. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll let you finish that part. Oh no, no, that's

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<v Speaker 3>that's she humiliates him like in front of people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh yeah, it doesn't hesitate to just reduce him

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<v Speaker 2>to rubble and it's it's it's hard to take the uh.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll get back to the because it'll be a good

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<v Speaker 3>ending story for this podcast. I'll get to that one

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<v Speaker 3>a second. But the fanciest wedding I think I've ever

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<v Speaker 3>been to, and the hottest wedding I've ever been to,

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<v Speaker 3>where the people were the hottest, Like everybody was good looking.

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<v Speaker 3>They were both models, and all their friends were mo

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<v Speaker 3>and everything like that. I mean, it was really an

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<v Speaker 3>impressive wedding. They were young too, they're in their twenties.

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<v Speaker 2>Boy, so when he was single. I'm at that reception

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<v Speaker 2>till the last person leaves, just like you. No, I've

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<v Speaker 2>heard this is a good fishing. Great.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe if they get drunk enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah look, maybe maybe they won't have their contacts in

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<v Speaker 2>the whites a little and I've got a chance.

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<v Speaker 3>And anyway, it was really impressive, like super nice on

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<v Speaker 3>the ocean, well catered, everybody was dressed up, everybody was

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<v Speaker 3>so good looking, and it didn't last I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>it was weeks. It was not months. Oh she found

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<v Speaker 3>out of something about him or I don't remember what

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<v Speaker 3>the deal was, but I mean it fell apart so quickly,

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<v Speaker 3>and I thought, wow, that was the That was like

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<v Speaker 3>the most looked like something on TV wedding I've ever

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<v Speaker 3>been to it. It didn't even last weeks, which I

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<v Speaker 3>thought was interesting. Back to the guy I worked with

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<v Speaker 3>who everybody hated his girlfriend, who was in his fiance

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<v Speaker 3>who became his wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Is he comfortable with you talking about this because I've

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<v Speaker 2>heard him bring it up before.

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<v Speaker 3>Does he know he didn't know who I am? He

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know anything?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, I thought it was somebody else.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, guy, I mean, if he knows who I am,

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<v Speaker 3>you should reach out to me. Dude, I haven't talked

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<v Speaker 3>to you in forty years. Thirty years, so that's funny.

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<v Speaker 3>I had the wrong person in mind. But anyway, going

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<v Speaker 3>been very very long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I hope he's not listening because this is kind of hurtful.

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<v Speaker 3>Company Christmas Party, Gladys, do you still play the harp?

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<v Speaker 3>Lattice Company Christmas Party?

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<v Speaker 2>He gets one hundred bucks for playing the harp during

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast. You realize back.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>Contract just says.

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<v Speaker 3>The overtime double time exactly. Company Christmas party back when

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<v Speaker 3>companies had Christmas parties, and back when companies, if they

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<v Speaker 3>did have a Christmas party, were like nice. Like he

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<v Speaker 3>got dressed up and we were at a holiday in which,

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<v Speaker 3>in this particular time was like the nicest place you

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<v Speaker 3>could be. And we're all around the pool and there

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<v Speaker 3>was food and drink and everything like that, and people

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<v Speaker 3>are dressed up, and for some reason she got mad

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<v Speaker 3>at our boss, his boss, my boss, everybody's boss. She

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<v Speaker 3>got mad at the boss okay, and started yelling at him,

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<v Speaker 3>and she was kind of drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>Good idea, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Started So yeah, that's a good start, right, isn't This

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<v Speaker 3>is your buddy's girlfriend. Yeah. Yeah. They weren't married yet,

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<v Speaker 3>possibly engaged, but anyway, Yeah, you're at the company Christmas

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<v Speaker 3>party and your girlfriend's yelling at your boss and to

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<v Speaker 3>show how mad she was, you know, Jerry Springer, they

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<v Speaker 3>get mad and like take off their shirts like to

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<v Speaker 3>show how mad they are. I've never quite understood what's good.

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<v Speaker 3>I've seen guys do that at bars before they get

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<v Speaker 3>mad and they take their shirt off like that of class.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't understand. She showed how mad she was by

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<v Speaker 3>jumping in the pool. She jumped in the pool in

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<v Speaker 3>her dress, I'll show you, and because she was of

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<v Speaker 3>larger carriage, she floated, and she floated in their water

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<v Speaker 3>with her arms crossed like huh oh. She just was floating,

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<v Speaker 3>bobbing there in the water in her dress, with a

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<v Speaker 3>look on her face like now, what huh are you

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<v Speaker 3>gonna say to that trump that?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I'm I'm sorry. The symbolism here escapes me.

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<v Speaker 3>I do not You seem to feel like you have

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<v Speaker 3>the upper hand, and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Understand that you are trying to communicate something, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not clear on what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Those of us were dry looking down at you. Feel

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<v Speaker 3>like perhaps you do not have the upper hand in

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<v Speaker 3>this argument. It was such an odd thing. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 3>you've made the point you intended to. I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 3>this is coming off the way you think it is. God,

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<v Speaker 3>that was something we talked about that for a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'll bet and he went ahead and got hitched.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, poor son of a gun.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, this is another terrible thing that shows you

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<v Speaker 3>what my boss was like. He was a bad guy.

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<v Speaker 3>She was of larger carriage, as I said, Oh, oh

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<v Speaker 3>when she when they walked down the aisle past all

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<v Speaker 3>the people, he mooed. No, I'm not kidding. Wow her

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<v Speaker 3>to hear, but for all of us who were sitting

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<v Speaker 3>there to hear. Oh, that's just so awful, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 3>He was my boss, meaning oh in so many ways.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, oh, to reduce a human being like that

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<v Speaker 2>to that's well. And then is he alive? I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>he's alive, I'm gonna punch him in the face. If

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<v Speaker 2>he's dead, I'm gonna dig him up and kick his bones.

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<v Speaker 3>She was a horrible person, which, oh, there's that. She

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<v Speaker 3>was a horrible person, like a horrible person, and he

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<v Speaker 3>was horrible to She was horrible to him, and we

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<v Speaker 3>all liked him. So there was that. But he's marrying her,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean to me, that was the harsh part. Hey,

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<v Speaker 3>it's my wedding day. I'm marrying her. I've made the decision,

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<v Speaker 3>for whatever reasons, to do this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, not cool. No, good, lord man, you worked with

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<v Speaker 2>some rotten so.

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<v Speaker 3>He did, I really did well.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's it.